Thanks God. I am sick of those tiktoks with the inspirational audios and only doing exercise at the gym and waking up early. I mean, yeah, it is cool and amazing. But what else? What are we doing to improve our economy and our mental health. Thanks for the video
Summary: Instead of getting a blueprint of habits of millionaires, knowing about their mindset to be able to do the things vital for their success is way more helpful. Doing the thing is the only mindset common in all successful people. The only thing that is going to make you successful is who you become and the ability to do the things required for your success. 5 Mindset Habits: 1. Self-talk You need to become obsessed with monitoring how you talk with yourself. Just change the bad story about yourself. Write a beautiful story that's no more a story but it becomes a part of you. At first, it'll require a lot of discipline but after sometime, thqt narrative is going to be the real you, your identity. 2. Identify and investigate self-sabbotage You really have to be able to identify the instances where your brain is drawing you away from the person you want to and be able to curb that thought towards positive. A really easy way to do it is to stop and reflect every day and ask where you were distracted in the day. 3. Mental rehersal ( Similar to visualisation) Take scenarios that you want to happen and rehearse them in your minds fully. Make the scenario as positive as possible. Do not fall for your brain's negativity bias. 4. Two path decision making Method When you're making decision, it is either do that thing or not do the thing. A lot of life decisions are based on emotions. Every time you are faced with a decision you need to pause and visualise two paths, one decision would lead to one path and the other one other path. Just visualise everything that'll happen along that path. 5. Daily belief expansion You have to belief that the thing you're doing is definitely going to get you where you want to go. Sorround yourself with things that inspire you towards your goals.
I really didn't know what I was doing wrong until I watched this video, God knows how I found it still don't know but so glad It, A few seconds ago I was a victim of negative self talk while listening I STOPPED the video, took out my phone cause my notebook was very far and started writing down all the negative talks and changed them to positive after awhile I got this feeling I cant explain but it felt like victory there was a shift, I caught myself smiling as I was writing it was just flowing felt as if something inside me was helping me, Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.
I'm from a third world country with limited access to life in general I was living a life I believed was not mine and I wanted to change that and the only way was to move to a first world country. The only reason why I'm writing this comment now as a resident of Germany is that I adopted one mindset : Germany was my only option ! I didn't allow myself another option if not Germany than nothing at all and it worked I found myself working 10 times harder I had motivation to work all day I knew what it would take to get a job in Germany and I subconsciously let go of everything else I didn't even apply to any jobs in my country.. it took around 6 months of continuous hard work but one day I got that offer. So the only takeaway from this is your mindset is the key to anything you want to achieve or be.
Thanks sis for sharing awesome tips sis! I’m financially free and currently growing a solid retirement plan. It takes a positive and consistency to learn new things, unlearn the old habits ms Important to get a mentor/coach to lead you all the way. It’s great to start young too!
@@eiraantoinette6793 personally I think 1m is the goal to overcome inflation and having them in an inv estment p ortfolio is a perfect plan. I'm half way to my goal 😊
yeah. Fees and commissions are factors to look at in search for financial advisers. There’s financial experts out there who do not look at their fees but the impact and intrinsic value they bring along to you no matter how little you want to start. I’m glad I had one guide me start my financial journey
Sisss, this was amazing advice, especially the self sabotage thing which I realised recently , where my life is going good but I keep making a big deal out of one negative thing cause it’s the only negative happening
listening to the fifth habit, belief expansion, I realize this isn't something I'm doing currently. I have a hard time connecting the work that I need to get done in the moment with the outcome I want to achieve in the long-term. All of the advice in the video is great, and I will especially be working on this, both by imagining the path that connects my current action to the future outcome, and by building a playlist with people who are an inspiration to me. Thank you for all of the great advice!!
Thank you so much for this. I got into a huge fight with my s/o yesterday and have been feeling so incredibly lost with life. I'm planning on using these steps to get myself back on track and more self-sustaining. Thanks again!
UPDATE: These habits truly work!!! A few weeks after implementing these and I won a music award 🤩! Literally I remember reflecting on what I did differently and this was it!! Absolutely phenomenal I was just thinking about how I can evolve my identity to match my desires and then I watched this video ⭐️. Thank you soo much. Already started applying the concepts as I watched the video🌻
The two path decision has helped me so much! Often, we let how we feel in that moment dictate what we do. When I don’t feel like doing something I ask myself and also visualize, how am I going to feel after this? Am I respecting myself by doing this? I even tell myself that If I can go to work when I don’t feel like it, I should also show up for myself when I don’t feel like it.
ERIN OMGGG THIS IS THE BEST VIDEO I HAVE WATCHED IN ALL OF MY LIFE! THANK U A MILLION! YOUR FREAKINGGGG AMAZING! YOU HAVE TOUCHED MY SOUL AND THIS IS LIFE CHANGING! I LOVE U SO MUCH!!! Idk what to say I’m crying of joy and happiness that I have found this video!🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🙏🙌💓💓💓💓💓💓in this one short life I WANAN say thank u! Ur super inspiring! Ur energy ur everything is MY WALKING JOURNEY THAT I WANT TO MANIFEST!❤️🙌
I went down a rabbit hole with your two step decision method. It started with simple questions to really getting down to why I get up in the morning. That is personal and very necessary. You want to go to with the scenario that makes you feel more fulfilled. I resonate with this so much, I've been focusing on how my brain works and why I do the things that I do (my habits). This year really did push me out my comfort zone. This video came in divine timing for me. I am going to use your video as reference in my blog if that is okay, what you do is inspiring(:
Wow. Fantastic. Brutal truths but no bs. It’s a lot of inner work. Thank you for a great video. I was wondering do you still vision board and journal? If so I’d love an updated video on how you journal/ vision board and manifest. Are these still tools that serve you?
I love when people take different views of expanding ourselves. It totally makes sense the way you think and ill be applying it into my day to day life! For me, I always hated when ppl said to invest in stocks or look for financial opportunities bc I'm a kid... but it led me to feel that I cant be successful bc I can't get a job. Now I'll be academically successful and aim to be an apprentice for something related to biology to set myself up for later in life! Thank you
This video was GOLD and just what I needed! Definitely gonna need to watch it a few more times to really take it in and take notes too so that I can reference it often. Thank you for creating this video and sharing your insights!
Good stuff! My first time here and I truly enjoyed. Especially loved the truth bombs at the beginnings! Stuff like people saying wake up at 5 am to be successful is way too generalized. I’m so productive at midnight. So it would make no sense for me to go to bed at 9 am to wake at 5 am. Thank you for this video.
Great video, Erin! I wanted to ask you if you have any advice on how to choose the career/passion to follow? I would love to see a video with realistic points about this topic
Jumping straight into the steps without the content is like trying to follow the methods of a recipe that without knowing the ingredients… people often cannot follow advice when they don’t have the context, so actually the video starts at 0.00
I’m still listening to the video but so far you’re inaccurate. There are habits that successful people implement. Reading is still important even for a lacrosse player. The concept of continuous learning is the point of reading. So the habits you’re referring to like waking up early and reading are general. The underlying habit is waking up around a consistent time and developing a routine that sets you up for a focused day. Not just getting up early… but let’s see what the rest of the video reveals 🧐
I’m demonstrating that nor reading or waking up early are absolutely necessary for success. A lacrosse player can become a world champion without ever reading a book in their life. I didn’t say that reading was bad, it’s just not a habit that Everyone MUST adopt to reach their goals as many other habit videos prescribe.
Allah created you and He is the only One worthy of worship.He is the most merciful and wants the best for His creation He wants you to worship Him so that you can enter paradise and be with Him. Find out more about islam♡
He is also severe in punishment for those who disbelieve and for them is eternal in hellfire. So please save yourself and your family from it by believing and worshipping Allah(swt)
I usually just scroll past shitty comments like this bc it’s none of my business and whatever response I have will 99.99% of the time fall on deaf ears, but here I go anyway. This is a lazy and limiting comment, and such a common dismissal for women who are passionate about their knowledge and skill set (ie: “shrill”, “hysterical”, “bossy”, etc) Do better.
I think you misunderstood, I never said she is hysterical or bossy, I really love the video and the content, and of course she is super passionate about the topic, but I belong to the audience with hyper sound sensitivity, I have to use ear plugs protection while in concerts or crowded places because so much noice drain me, for me is like flashing lights, maybe I should had explain that
Somethings need context… the impatience to always get straight to the point is why some people miss the whole intention behind the the habits and without intention have no pull to actually do them.
Thanks God. I am sick of those tiktoks with the inspirational audios and only doing exercise at the gym and waking up early. I mean, yeah, it is cool and amazing. But what else? What are we doing to improve our economy and our mental health. Thanks for the video
Summary:
Instead of getting a blueprint of habits of millionaires, knowing about their mindset to be able to do the things vital for their success is way more helpful.
Doing the thing is the only mindset common in all successful people.
The only thing that is going to make you successful is who you become and the ability to do the things required for your success.
5 Mindset Habits:
1. Self-talk
You need to become obsessed with monitoring how you talk with yourself. Just change the bad story about yourself. Write a beautiful story that's no more a story but it becomes a part of you. At first, it'll require a lot of discipline but after sometime, thqt narrative is going to be the real you, your identity.
2. Identify and investigate self-sabbotage
You really have to be able to identify the instances where your brain is drawing you away from the person you want to and be able to curb that thought towards positive. A really easy way to do it is to stop and reflect every day and ask where you were distracted in the day.
3. Mental rehersal ( Similar to visualisation)
Take scenarios that you want to happen and rehearse them in your minds fully. Make the scenario as positive as possible. Do not fall for your brain's negativity bias.
4. Two path decision making Method
When you're making decision, it is either do that thing or not do the thing. A lot of life decisions are based on emotions. Every time you are faced with a decision you need to pause and visualise two paths, one decision would lead to one path and the other one other path. Just visualise everything that'll happen along that path.
5. Daily belief expansion
You have to belief that the thing you're doing is definitely going to get you where you want to go.
Sorround yourself with things that inspire you towards your goals.
Thank you so much for this. ❤
Thank you!! A summary was absolutely needed!❤
I love when people do this! Love a good recap. I screenshot and it's easier to remember!🙌
@@theresag.4188 ( ◜‿◝ )♡
What an amazing summary! ♥️♥️
Mindset
Identification
Least resistance
Self talk , talk to yourself as if you were your highest self
Aura ,charisma
Mental rehearsal
I really didn't know what I was doing wrong until I watched this video, God knows how I found it still don't know but so glad It, A few seconds ago I was a victim of negative self talk while listening I STOPPED the video, took out my phone cause my notebook was very far and started writing down all the negative talks and changed them to positive after awhile I got this feeling I cant explain but it felt like victory there was a shift, I caught myself smiling as I was writing it was just flowing felt as if something inside me was helping me, Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.
I'm from a third world country with limited access to life in general I was living a life I believed was not mine and I wanted to change that and the only way was to move to a first world country.
The only reason why I'm writing this comment now as a resident of Germany is that I adopted one mindset : Germany was my only option !
I didn't allow myself another option if not Germany than nothing at all and it worked I found myself working 10 times harder I had motivation to work all day I knew what it would take to get a job in Germany and I subconsciously let go of everything else I didn't even apply to any jobs in my country.. it took around 6 months of continuous hard work but one day I got that offer.
So the only takeaway from this is your mindset is the key to anything you want to achieve or be.
Thanks sis for sharing awesome tips sis! I’m financially free and currently growing a solid retirement plan. It takes a positive and consistency to learn new things, unlearn the old habits ms Important to get a mentor/coach to lead you all the way. It’s great to start young too!
Hello I'm 43 working on my retirement fund too. What do you think is the best target for retirement?
A lot of people find having a couch /financial advisor a luxury
@@eiraantoinette6793 personally I think 1m is the goal to overcome inflation and having them in an inv estment p ortfolio is a perfect plan. I'm half way to my goal 😊
yeah. Fees and commissions are factors to look at in search for financial advisers. There’s financial experts out there who do not look at their fees but the impact and intrinsic value they bring along to you no matter how little you want to start. I’m glad I had one guide me start my financial journey
I'm trying to read books about finance, budgeting and saving. Looking at having a good financial advisor. Can you recommend?
Sisss, this was amazing advice, especially the self sabotage thing which I realised recently , where my life is going good but I keep making a big deal out of one negative thing cause it’s the only negative happening
listening to the fifth habit, belief expansion, I realize this isn't something I'm doing currently. I have a hard time connecting the work that I need to get done in the moment with the outcome I want to achieve in the long-term. All of the advice in the video is great, and I will especially be working on this, both by imagining the path that connects my current action to the future outcome, and by building a playlist with people who are an inspiration to me. Thank you for all of the great advice!!
Thank you so much for this. I got into a huge fight with my s/o yesterday and have been feeling so incredibly lost with life. I'm planning on using these steps to get myself back on track and more self-sustaining. Thanks again!
UPDATE: These habits truly work!!! A few weeks after implementing these and I won a music award 🤩! Literally I remember reflecting on what I did differently and this was it!!
Absolutely phenomenal I was just thinking about how I can evolve my identity to match my desires and then I watched this video ⭐️. Thank you soo much. Already started applying the concepts as I watched the video🌻
WTF
This is exactly what I wanteddddddd!!!!!!
Thank u sooo much ❤😂
The two path decision has helped me so much! Often, we let how we feel in that moment dictate what we do. When I don’t feel like doing something I ask myself and also visualize, how am I going to feel after this? Am I respecting myself by doing this? I even tell myself that If I can go to work when I don’t feel like it, I should also show up for myself when I don’t feel like it.
i love your videos, thank you so much. i finally found the right youtuber to listen to ❤
Great video! And you look fabulous! Nice hair and dress, Erin.👌
ERIN OMGGG THIS IS THE BEST VIDEO I HAVE WATCHED IN ALL OF MY LIFE! THANK U A MILLION! YOUR FREAKINGGGG AMAZING! YOU HAVE TOUCHED MY SOUL AND THIS IS LIFE CHANGING! I LOVE U SO MUCH!!! Idk what to say I’m crying of joy and happiness that I have found this video!🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🙏🙌💓💓💓💓💓💓in this one short life I WANAN say thank u! Ur super inspiring! Ur energy ur everything is MY WALKING JOURNEY THAT I WANT TO MANIFEST!❤️🙌
I went down a rabbit hole with your two step decision method. It started with simple questions to really getting down to why I get up in the morning. That is personal and very necessary. You want to go to with the scenario that makes you feel more fulfilled. I resonate with this so much, I've been focusing on how my brain works and why I do the things that I do (my habits). This year really did push me out my comfort zone. This video came in divine timing for me. I am going to use your video as reference in my blog if that is okay, what you do is inspiring(:
Wow. Fantastic. Brutal truths but no bs. It’s a lot of inner work. Thank you for a great video. I was wondering do you still vision board and journal? If so I’d love an updated video on how you journal/ vision board and manifest. Are these still tools that serve you?
I have been binging your content for the past few weeks and love everything! Just signed up for your membership ❤️
Omg welcome beautiful! Best timing to sign up as 2023 we are getting some MAJOR upgrades!
@@Erinmayhenry so excited!
I love when people take different views of expanding ourselves. It totally makes sense the way you think and ill be applying it into my day to day life!
For me, I always hated when ppl said to invest in stocks or look for financial opportunities bc I'm a kid... but it led me to feel that I cant be successful bc I can't get a job.
Now I'll be academically successful and aim to be an apprentice for something related to biology to set myself up for later in life! Thank you
Honestly this blew my mind a bit - you are so right! I love that you give examples to make it easy to understand:)
Wow, something different and actually makes sense 🎉❤
This video was GOLD and just what I needed! Definitely gonna need to watch it a few more times to really take it in and take notes too so that I can reference it often. Thank you for creating this video and sharing your insights!
My absolute pleasure ♥️♥️
LOVE this!!! Exactly what I needed!
So glad it was helpful beautiful 🤩
Such a good video, thank you ❤️ indeed, it's so easy to self sabotaging sometimes but doing my best to work through it 🥰
The first step is awareness!
Thank you, thank you! This was exactly what I was searching for when looking for videos about habits for success. Love it! ❤️❤️❤️
I love your videos! You are such a inspiration ❤ I can’t wait to take your tips and use them towards 2023❤
This is a totally game changer
I so needed to hear all of these today!
Love to you!! X
Just…THANK YOU
Good stuff! My first time here and I truly enjoyed. Especially loved the truth bombs at the beginnings! Stuff like people saying wake up at 5 am to be successful is way too generalized. I’m so productive at midnight. So it would make no sense for me to go to bed at 9 am to wake at 5 am. Thank you for this video.
I was shocked when I found out you're in a relationship with a Namibian! Love from Namibia ❤️
Thank you so much for this video.. I am expanding my knowledge though these videos so much
Thank you so so so much 😊❤
Soooo good! I’m so happy I signed up for the Chillpreneur Accelerator! You are 🔥
I really like this vid Erin! The last one is amazing. And just doing them 💛 thank you for the reminders 🎉
My pleasure beauty queen x
I love the effort you’re putting in the video 💪🏼💪🏼💜 thankyouuu
Erin you have my fired up!!!
❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥🤩🤩
thank you so much ❤️
Love this and your energy in this video!
Great video, Erin! I wanted to ask you if you have any advice on how to choose the career/passion to follow? I would love to see a video with realistic points about this topic
That’s a great idea! Perfect for this time of year too!
First time watching you and I subscribed to your channel 30seconds into the video. Intro matters.
Love the video and I can highly recommend the membership!!! Been a member for a few years now and I've learned so much!
Wowowow what a very inspiring message thanks for all the info ❤
This is one of the best videos on this subject that I've ever seen. Excellent advice.
I am so glad you enjoyed it!! ❤️🔥
Awesome 👌.. 😊
me watching on the last day of December looool
Thanks needed it ❤️
I needed this 💖
🥰🥰
wonderful inspiring video
thank you Erin 💜
My pleasure x
Thank you for this ❤
My pleasure x
Great video! I would love to know where your outfit is from please? Looks gratin you x
It’s from Sandro x
Great tips
4 mins in and all I’m hearing is not this not that complaining, let’s get to it or give us times for each of the 5 habits
I felt the same 😔. Additionally, the loud and fast talk is making me feel like am being scolded. I really wanted to watch this at first....
Well… meditation and journaling are habits 😅 Whoever thinks meditation isn’t going to change their life might have not practiced enough 🙁
The exact video starts at 5:00 .... Thank me later💫
Jumping straight into the steps without the content is like trying to follow the methods of a recipe that without knowing the ingredients… people often cannot follow advice when they don’t have the context, so actually the video starts at 0.00
@@Erinmayhenry no🙄
I’m still listening to the video but so far you’re inaccurate. There are habits that successful people implement. Reading is still important even for a lacrosse player. The concept of continuous learning is the point of reading. So the habits you’re referring to like waking up early and reading are general. The underlying habit is waking up around a consistent time and developing a routine that sets you up for a focused day. Not just getting up early… but let’s see what the rest of the video reveals 🧐
I’m demonstrating that nor reading or waking up early are absolutely necessary for success. A lacrosse player can become a world champion without ever reading a book in their life. I didn’t say that reading was bad, it’s just not a habit that Everyone MUST adopt to reach their goals as many other habit videos prescribe.
Allah created you and He is the only One worthy of worship.He is the most merciful and wants the best for His creation He wants you to worship Him so that you can enter paradise and be with Him. Find out more about islam♡
He is also severe in punishment for those who disbelieve and for them is eternal in hellfire. So please save yourself and your family from it by believing and worshipping Allah(swt)
great video, but you are kind of screaming 😂
I usually just scroll past shitty comments like this bc it’s none of my business and whatever response I have will 99.99% of the time fall on deaf ears, but here I go anyway.
This is a lazy and limiting comment, and such a common dismissal for women who are passionate about their knowledge and skill set (ie: “shrill”, “hysterical”, “bossy”, etc)
Do better.
I think you misunderstood, I never said she is hysterical or bossy, I really love the video and the content, and of course she is super passionate about the topic, but I belong to the audience with hyper sound sensitivity, I have to use ear plugs protection while in concerts or crowded places because so much noice drain me, for me is like flashing lights, maybe I should had explain that
🥰🥰🥰
Why did it take 5 minutes to actually get into the habits....
Somethings need context… the impatience to always get straight to the point is why some people miss the whole intention behind the the habits and without intention have no pull to actually do them.
Lol I was thinking the same 😅
i've never been on this channel before...does she always SHOUT at her audience?
☺️👍🏻
❤️🔥❤️🔥
Why are you screaming so much ? Please speak normal
Im not deaf