Let's keep it real. It was anger and bitterness that drove most of us men to discovering the Red Pill truth. Since then, I can honestly say that I'm now happier than I have ever been in my life.
Yes this is very true, but he is caution against being stuck in anger. Hurt and pain can be excellent catalysts for change, but it won't help you complete the journey.
Walking on a tight rope to cross the endless pit that is anger and bitterness, that, imo, is the mgtow journey. Don't look down gents, keep balancing yourselves and your lives.
damn right, one of my best friends told me out of nowhere "you know, you changed" and I was like "lmao how" "it's kinda like you've found inner peace or something"
You can either understand them or hate them. It’s better to understand their nature & use it to your advantage. It’s not good to live with anger & resentment in your heart. Continue fighting this fought fight gentlemen 🤜🤛
Yea it's actually not cool when they intend on destroying your life and this goes for any relationship, friendship, enemies. I have more than a few enemies that intend on destroying my life just because. THAT IS BITTERNESS Edit: I dont know this guy for long but hes 40yo hating on a 27yo..dude is a little child
Yes. We as men have to stop victimizing ourselves. Getting hurt is most often the byproduct of her choosing herself. It's up to us to get on with our lives. Continue being our best selves. If she did something shitty? Cheating, lying etc.? That's her lack of character. Not yours. Just concentrate on you....chase excellence!!! Get too busy crushing that you don't care anymore. Get on with it!!!
@Weevil yes. That's why I concentrate on me. Protect my close circle and worry about myself. There will always be snakes in the grass. Just learn how to navigate and have the best time you can. Life is too short for constant negativity.
Had to clean a 19 year dudes brains and meat off a truck today after a motorcycle wreck and it really got me thinking... Your relationship problems suck but you have bigger fish to fry. There’s more to life than worrying about women. Move on and do the work, life is too short
Man, I can't imagine how that felt... I'd have thrown out and passed out at that sight, you definitely got a stronger gut. Hope all of our lives turn out better.
Your best friend is time. When my ex and I broke up I went from feeling shocked, sad and angry. I left my city just so I can change the scenery. I came back having a different perspective and not as angry lol
No. That is a lazy mentality. You are not accepting the world as it is, you are simply turning a blind cheek to it...There is very real darkness in the world. Child Molestors, Pedophiles, Rapists, Human Trafficking, Genocide...Actual Evil and human suffering.....NEVER ACCEPT THE WORLD AS IT IS. Of course we are all limited to how much we can change... Remain Calm, Chase excellence....But you should always want to make this place better if you can and if you can YOU SHOULD.
I was bitter and hurt for many years because I didn’t understand why I wasn’t getting out what I was putting in. Things were taken and I didn’t understand. I didn’t know until about a month ago about all of this. I feel complete release of the resentment from just knowing why now. Feels great but now I’m almost 40 with many years wasted. What you think you’ve given is not what the world receives often times. Such wisdom here.
39 is a good age to turn things around. Your on top of the food chain now. Lots of women will be looking your way of you got tour life together. Now you can use your red pill knowledge to your advantage
Forgiveness is letting go of the demand for a better past. Forgive yourself. People that wrong you do not appologise so let go of the demand of wanting a sorry and move forward. Don't let them see you drown in self pity
My problem is that I want to kill these stupid people so bad to the point where i fee very angry about the fact that I cant kill them because of law I have to let go, but their time will come for sure
@@lordescanor8232 you need to just look at what you can do in your life to make yourself happy. Focus on you and making yourself the Hero of your story. These people are not fuckworthy, spend your fucks and make them count. If you need some help, the get some help. Invest your energy into you.
Everything is natural. Mostly what these guys are telling you is that you should also feel guilty about your anger. You should let go of your anger. I say your anger is the only gift they've truly given you. Your hatred is the only kind thing they did. Your anger and hatred is your natural God given response to destroy injustice. Hold on to you anger until justice is served and only let it go on that day. Anger is your weapon, Anger is your 1100cc superbike. Your anger is Born of your love, your hatred shows that you are a good person and that you truly care. Learn how to love, learn how to hate. Learn how to shoot with out killing yourself, learn how to drive a super car without wrecking it. You can use a hammer to build a house or smash a skull. Smashing the right skull could be worth more than building a million houses.
This type of content is so much more refreshing. And l hope men hear more of this, the day l start accepting women as they are and not what l was taught or imagined them to be. My relationship with my self improved 10 fold, my relationship with them improved 10 fold.
Resentment is dangerous as hell, I had a buddy that after a few bad relationships he started stealing money from women for shits and giggles , it will take you to a dark place
I actually started enjoying listening to this guy, he has gone a long way from being a shameless salesmen parroting other people's ideas to a wise and sensible individual whose views I find easy to share!
Emotions have opportunity cost. During fear you wont feel happy. Life is short do you really want to go through it fueled by hate and fear? Not mention the destruction it does on ur physical health
Haha, that's funny video. Never considered myself a victim, but was a nice guy for a long time, too long, and "now it's my turn to do the damage" and that's not about women, it's about everyone. I have become the void I was always so afraid of, so I can do everything from lying and cheating to loving and caring, and I choose to make people suffer. The day I accepted the idea that "I am the villain" was the day when I woke up and finally felt at peace with myself.
I can understand u brother and I will probably go the same path I am just 20 and I just dont care anymore these society is lost and shouldnt be safed anymore, but killed or ruled
@@Sam-t7b4w certainly makes sense the older one gets. However, I think it's more important to harness the power of not caring if your perceived as the villain than seeking to become the villain. In other words, a strong will is always going to be perceived as the enemy by someone. It should be irrelevant if that person is in my way because the goal shouldn't be victimizing others for it's own sake. Only doing what's best for me. If they don't get out of the way, that's their fault.
You have distilled it to it's essence. I ultimately have the control, I have failed in the past by capitulation.....if I fail moving forward it will not be by not putting in the work. Ever forward!
I'll admit it. I still have moments when I miss her and feel shitty. The difference now? I've changed and now focus on bettering myself through reading and APPLYING what is being taught. APPLICATION is everything. Get to you! Work on you! People do what they do. Work on becoming stronger and more resilient! It really isn't all about you! Let them live and move the fxck on!!!
Thank you Rich,..this is a really good video. Goin thru some crap and this really helped me along with your other videos! Gonna dive in your book here shortly too! Thanks brotha!!
Hey man. Thanks for all the good you're doing for us blokes. Great roll model. Great teacher. Great help and advice. No sugar coating, telling it how it is. Thanks again.
First time comment on your channel or RUclips at all. Found your materials 3 years ago when I was splitting with my son mother. Taught me alot. Opened my eyes to so much and I am a much better version of myself for doing so. This may be your best video yet, I am sure it resonated with many viewers and rang true I am still embroidered in a legal case for more time with my son. Quoted this video a few times in it, not for me but for her to let got of the anger. Bought your book and Rollo's too. Haven't had the chance to read them yet BC I have been killing it at my business. Keep up the quality material. Hands down the best shit on RUclips Ottawa, Canada
Wow, you dropped a Graham Hancock reference, love that stuff 👌 Lots of common sense good advice in the book of yours I d/l’ed to listen to at work when it’s slow. Anger/bitterness dissipated in inverse proportion to the amount of good things happening in my life. Really it was about shunting that energy I was pissing away on unimportant things & people and routing it into my life and my objectives. Been in the money before- good career, good hourly wage, and got cleaned out in ‘08. Coming back has been the toughest thing in my life, but very worth it. Keep on, everyone.
I feel like I have almost accepted the fact that no woman will actually want me. The key to not becoming bitter about this, I think, might be to deconstruct the reason you think you want a woman to want you. It is all vanity and outside validation. Ultimately, it's to prove to the world they're wrong and in fact you aren't "too weird" and maybe someone would want you. You have to get yourself to a point where you truly no longer care what people think of you, and then you will realize you do not need the approval of women to exist. Bitterness will melt away. Either spend your time being bitter of no one wanting you, or spend your time doing whatever you want. Either way nobody wants you anyway, so what exactly are you missing out on?
Often they do intend to do it. Read " healing from hidden abuse " and educate yourself on a word thrown around and not understood. Narcissism. You really need to learn about this. That being said , you still need to get past thw bitterness
If it wasn't for getting ghosted & used for dinner dates I would of never found the red-pill mentality. I literally was walkin around sad as fck. Now I know what to look out for, how to carry myself, how to not focus on just 1 girl, focus on that $. stay up fellas!
1) Specific anger means that I need to spin more plates. Anger over one particular chick means that I'm too invested. If I had a soft harem of like, 4-10 other girls then I don't care if one of them does something hurtful because they get "next-ed". 2) Generalized anger or existential anger means that I need to hit the gym (or dojo). If I think my life sucks, other people are doing better than me, or that whammen ain's shit, then I will hit my max rep if I'm willing to channel that discomfort into my next workout. 3) Eckhart Tolle's books are a positivity grift. Don't waste your time!
Abd-al-Rahman III was one of the most powerful men in his time and he had two harems. Towards the end of his life he decided to count the number of days he had actually felt happy, only 14 days.
A good question to ask someone who you feel is projecting onto you is "What hurts you so much that you feel you need to hurt me in order to heal it?" It's also a good question to ask yourself whenever you're the one "attacking" another. I also assist men in dealing with their emotional "stuff".
29yo man with an 8yo daughter. I’ve been in and out of the courts her entire life as her mom and I got married young and we were not the right match at all. I’ve gotten much better over the years but I can tell you the bitterness comes every once and a while knowing that I’m forced to subsidize her living via child support while being denied every attempt for joint custody. I know that she never truly loved me. In my early 20’s I was a super simp to her. I think that’s why she kept me around and wanted to marry asap when she got pregnant. She knew she could get away with anything and I’d always be the one groveling. I’ve yet to have another serious relationship in my life, only intermittent fun.
Speaking of Idiocracy being a documentary, another Mike Judge film, Office Space, ended up being a documentary for me. I ended up in IT, corporate offices, with a bunch of real life movie characters, fighting burn out, banging waitresses after work happy hours, and trying to find the meaning of it all.
Got back to boxing because Rich pushing ability to fight 😅 was top 1% in the gym but very average at speed so needed to acknowledge that and get to improving it
Idiocracy was amazing, and you are probably right about it turning into a documentary. Just remember how many people do not understand Sugar the Bitter Truth by Robert Lustig.
I was angry about a woman but I lost her through to lockdown. I have now been working hard on my career and purpose. I feel great but it has been a lot of work, now I am not angry, I am free and a changed man.
In the last year my wife has left me, cheated, absolved herself of all our debt, used the kids as pawns, made false allegations and had restraining orders on me and charges which were thankfully dropped due to no evidence. She is now taking 70% of the asset pool. I am obviously beyond hurt that she could do all this, do I forgive forget and move on?
DId they go out of their way to wreck your life? Yes, if she came to you, and most of them do exactly that. Deter them by leaning towards hostility, rather than tollerance.
No,it starts with hurt then goes anger..hence the saying "behind anger is hurt and behind hurt is love"..brother im just a humble mechanic but you gotta be accurate on this shit.
I dont know how to get passed the anger of my ex wife cheating on me and disappearing. Now we share custody and all i can think about is final solution
Better to lean towards hostility than tolerance when it comes to the weak and parasitic (W* and weak M*). If you don't, you'll have to spot the strays individually, and chase them off your lawn one-by-one, and your lawn will become a cesspit of sh!t that you didn't ask for. Lean towards hostility, and the strays will for the most part, stay off your lawn, and certainly isn't going to make your life any less pleasant. That isn't hate or bitterness. That's common sense. That's knowledge, understanding, and setting boundaries whilst minimizing the effort and risk. Too often W* and Weak M*, struggle to distinguish between a M* who are bitter and hateful, and M* who are merely doing what is best for themselves. (They don't like it when M* aren't susceptible to facilitating their P*)
Ahhhhhh.... I'm a Big fan. But, the 2000 bug in the computers was a big deal. They just were so worried about it that they worked hard to patch vital systems and then (because of their hard work in preventing problems) there were no (Edit:few) problems. But overall, it wasn't just unfounded fear.
My ex left me for a guy who makes more money and that’s when I found out about hypergamy and red pill. At first I was so angry and bitter at her and women but that’s doesn’t lead to anywhere. It’s so much more freeing to just forgive and accept their nature. Use it to your advantage rather than being mad at them for it. Life is too short to carry that much resentment or anger because at the end of the day you’re not gonna be happy
Why we are so Narcissistic this days? Family is not only about you, is about children...just because we have impulses to do something doesn't mean we have to act on it, we are loosing all this Values and it's sad i think.
For real! I had to unsubscribe from 21 Studios. There’s no good content anymore, just “roast videos.” Him & that John Anthony dude are just predictable & boring now.
No, it isn't that the other person intended to hurt me. It's the idea of her being so callous as to have USED me for her selfish reasons. Of having hit the wall and having selected me to meet that one & only need of having kids. Because her biological clock was ticking loudly. Being used is what ticks me & other men off of having lost years of time, money, & struggle. If that accounts for nothing, well then, I can't explain it to you. Now should we men move on. Of course, we should move & not become bitter. But, in no way do I agree with you that being used isn't a minor thing or loss. I am committed to never seeing my ex again. I found MGTOW & Red Pill in my quest to heal & understand "what happened!" As a man, you need to protect yourself. Anger and bitterness are a part of the grieving process. Just don't let them control you and take you down the dark path. Please don't give her the satisfaction of crashing & burning. Work on yourself, healing, moving on, working on your career, losing weight, looking better, etc. It's all temporary, and as they say, "This too will pass." Yes, a cliche. But it's a relevant one and full of truth.
A, man you're kickass brother. That's when you say fuckit... When All the shit goes down hill... And when I say fuckit I. No I'm not kavin... Another chick....
Let's keep it real. It was anger and bitterness that drove most of us men to discovering the Red Pill truth. Since then, I can honestly say that I'm now happier than I have ever been in my life.
Yep, understanding & accepting reality is the key
Yes this is very true, but he is caution against being stuck in anger. Hurt and pain can be excellent catalysts for change, but it won't help you complete the journey.
Walking on a tight rope to cross the endless pit that is anger and bitterness, that, imo, is the mgtow journey.
Don't look down gents, keep balancing yourselves and your lives.
damn right, one of my best friends told me out of nowhere "you know, you changed" and I was like "lmao how" "it's kinda like you've found inner peace or something"
Its also anger and bitterness that keeps them there.
You can either understand them or hate them. It’s better to understand their nature & use it to your advantage. It’s not good to live with anger & resentment in your heart. Continue fighting this fought fight gentlemen 🤜🤛
Again, accepting things as they are instead of how we would wish them to be...good point.
Reality is reality whether you accept it or not.
Yea it's actually not cool when they intend on destroying your life and this goes for any relationship, friendship, enemies. I have more than a few enemies that intend on destroying my life just because. THAT IS BITTERNESS
Edit: I dont know this guy for long but hes 40yo hating on a 27yo..dude is a little child
the cheek slaying pastor has spoken!
" Men love to complicate their lives and justify why "
Damnnn
"...Don't become bitter. Become better..." - Rich Cooper
That's a PERFECT quote. It puts things into a nutshell. Thank you very much.
Yes! This is gold
Yes. We as men have to stop victimizing ourselves. Getting hurt is most often the byproduct of her choosing herself. It's up to us to get on with our lives. Continue being our best selves. If she did something shitty? Cheating, lying etc.? That's her lack of character. Not yours. Just concentrate on you....chase excellence!!! Get too busy crushing that you don't care anymore. Get on with it!!!
Well said
@Weevil yes. That's why I concentrate on me. Protect my close circle and worry about myself. There will always be snakes in the grass. Just learn how to navigate and have the best time you can. Life is too short for constant negativity.
FACTS!!
Had to clean a 19 year dudes brains and meat off a truck today after a motorcycle wreck and it really got me thinking... Your relationship problems suck but you have bigger fish to fry. There’s more to life than worrying about women. Move on and do the work, life is too short
hey man hope your ok!
Man, I can't imagine how that felt... I'd have thrown out and passed out at that sight, you definitely got a stronger gut.
Hope all of our lives turn out better.
Damn that's real. Your job must be a constant reminder of this
@@Pakkerotten I’m good, thankfully it doesn’t gross me out but it really made me think hard about life
@@beardedsawyer6322 yeah, I’m lucky stuff like that doesn’t bother me. Just a reminder that you never know when your time is
Your best friend is time. When my ex and I broke up I went from feeling shocked, sad and angry. I left my city just so I can change the scenery. I came back having a different perspective and not as angry lol
Good on you
Forgiveness is the most powerful force to bestow upon yourself and others. It’s so liberating to accept the world as it is.
No. That is a lazy mentality. You are not accepting the world as it is, you are simply turning a blind cheek to it...There is very real darkness in the world. Child Molestors, Pedophiles, Rapists, Human Trafficking, Genocide...Actual Evil and human suffering.....NEVER ACCEPT THE WORLD AS IT IS. Of course we are all limited to how much we can change...
Remain Calm, Chase excellence....But you should always want to make this place better if you can and if you can YOU SHOULD.
I was bitter and hurt for many years because I didn’t understand why I wasn’t getting out what I was putting in. Things were taken and I didn’t understand. I didn’t know until about a month ago about all of this. I feel complete release of the resentment from just knowing why now. Feels great but now I’m almost 40 with many years wasted. What you think you’ve given is not what the world receives often times. Such wisdom here.
39 is a good age to turn things around. Your on top of the food chain now. Lots of women will be looking your way of you got tour life together. Now you can use your red pill knowledge to your advantage
Forgiveness is letting go of the demand for a better past.
Forgive yourself. People that wrong you do not appologise so let go of the demand of wanting a sorry and move forward. Don't let them see you drown in self pity
My problem is that I want to kill these stupid people so bad to the point where i fee very angry about the fact that I cant kill them because of law
I have to let go, but their time will come for sure
@@lordescanor8232 you need to just look at what you can do in your life to make yourself happy.
Focus on you and making yourself the Hero of your story.
These people are not fuckworthy, spend your fucks and make them count.
If you need some help, the get some help. Invest your energy into you.
@@smoffitt4289 right
This man changed my life !
Me too!
"Dont become bitter , get better".
These are literally life saving gems for so many young men.
" Men like to complicate their lives & justify why" 🔥🔥🔥
My second favorite besides the YODA quote. "An action committed in Anger is an action doomed to failure." Genghis Khan
So was he happy when he raped and pillaged all those innocents?
Or maybe they had it coming..
Anger is a legitimate response in the face of injustice, it is what it is. 💯
Everything is natural. Mostly what these guys are telling you is that you should also feel guilty about your anger. You should let go of your anger. I say your anger is the only gift they've truly given you. Your hatred is the only kind thing they did. Your anger and hatred is your natural God given response to destroy injustice. Hold on to you anger until justice is served and only let it go on that day. Anger is your weapon, Anger is your 1100cc superbike. Your anger is Born of your love, your hatred shows that you are a good person and that you truly care. Learn how to love, learn how to hate. Learn how to shoot with out killing yourself, learn how to drive a super car without wrecking it. You can use a hammer to build a house or smash a skull. Smashing the right skull could be worth more than building a million houses.
No girl is worth rotting in jail for.
Thank you. I see my failure more clearly now. I haven’t chased excellence as I should have.
Sometimes we can’t control ourselves either.. .. Emotions and feelings as well as conditioning get in the way.
This type of content is so much more refreshing. And l hope men hear more of this, the day l start accepting women as they are and not what l was taught or imagined them to be. My relationship with my self improved 10 fold, my relationship with them improved 10 fold.
Resentment is dangerous as hell, I had a buddy that after a few bad relationships he started stealing money from women for shits and giggles , it will take you to a dark place
Yeah, why punish the innocent for the sins of specific individual
@@wolfwhistlewoowoo6297 - they are all guilty to some guy.
it's like youtube knows im going thru some shit
I've got huge anger and bitterness from the past but one thing someone taught me is acceptance and focus....
My anger and bitterness are the fuel that feeds my insight on true female nature. I can't exclude it from my life as it makes me very happy.
From the moment I saw Idiocracy, I thought the same thing as far as being a documentary goes.
I actually started enjoying listening to this guy, he has gone a long way from being a shameless salesmen parroting other people's ideas to a wise and sensible individual whose views I find easy to share!
He started off really good through
I have been bitter and carried resentment for 25 years. Doubt I will ever change and will forever be alone. It is what it is.
"Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to Anger. Anger leads to Hate. Hate leads to suffering." YODA
Fear is an emotion. Anger is a gift. Hate is a fuel. Suffering is a matter of choice.
@@maryankitsenko9694 Well Said! Worth Remembering. Much Appreciated.
"I can feel your anger. It gives you focus, makes you stronger."
Emotions have opportunity cost. During fear you wont feel happy. Life is short do you really want to go through it fueled by hate and fear? Not mention the destruction it does on ur physical health
Anger is a powerful ally. Control is the key.
Controversial take. Anger helped me. It drove me forward.
Maybe you were too attached, but she will always be unworthy of loyalty or respect.
I was having a moment, and definitely needed this. Thanks.
Happy to be moving forward, as I was.
Continue, gentlemen.
thank you brother
needed this for today wish i had enough money to book a 1 on 1 with you or had more people in my life with your experience
Haha, that's funny video. Never considered myself a victim, but was a nice guy for a long time, too long, and "now it's my turn to do the damage" and that's not about women, it's about everyone. I have become the void I was always so afraid of, so I can do everything from lying and cheating to loving and caring, and I choose to make people suffer. The day I accepted the idea that "I am the villain" was the day when I woke up and finally felt at peace with myself.
You don’t have to become the villain, just avoid being the victim, especially since you allowed yourself to become the victim.
You either die a hero, or you live long enough to see yourself become the villain
I can understand u brother and I will probably go the same path
I am just 20 and I just dont care anymore these society is lost and shouldnt be safed anymore, but killed or ruled
@@Sam-t7b4w certainly makes sense the older one gets. However, I think it's more important to harness the power of not caring if your perceived as the villain than seeking to become the villain. In other words, a strong will is always going to be perceived as the enemy by someone. It should be irrelevant if that person is in my way because the goal shouldn't be victimizing others for it's own sake. Only doing what's best for me. If they don't get out of the way, that's their fault.
@@stevenwilliams1805 Very good wisdom sir. Damn I love being part of this community of gents getting wise to the real world and chasing excellence 👍
You have distilled it to it's essence. I ultimately have the control, I have failed in the past by capitulation.....if I fail moving forward it will not be by not putting in the work. Ever forward!
I'll admit it. I still have moments when I miss her and feel shitty. The difference now? I've changed and now focus on bettering myself through reading and APPLYING what is being taught. APPLICATION is everything. Get to you! Work on you! People do what they do. Work on becoming stronger and more resilient! It really isn't all about you! Let them live and move the fxck on!!!
Same here, 100% Well said.
To me, this is the most useful and obviously wise vid/post I've stumbled on trawling through your back catalogue. Thanks buddy.
Thank you Rich,..this is a really good video.
Goin thru some crap and this really helped me along with your other videos!
Gonna dive in your book here shortly too!
Thanks brotha!!
Hey man. Thanks for all the good you're doing for us blokes. Great roll model. Great teacher. Great help and advice. No sugar coating, telling it how it is.
Thanks again.
this is probably one of the best videos from Rich.
going to add some of these books to audible if they are available
First time comment on your channel or RUclips at all.
Found your materials 3 years ago when I was splitting with my son mother. Taught me alot. Opened my eyes to so much and I am a much better version of myself for doing so.
This may be your best video yet, I am sure it resonated with many viewers and rang true
I am still embroidered in a legal case for more time with my son. Quoted this video a few times in it, not for me but for her to let got of the anger.
Bought your book and Rollo's too. Haven't had the chance to read them yet BC I have been killing it at my business.
Keep up the quality material. Hands down the best shit on RUclips
Ottawa, Canada
How do you stay so calm, your voice sounds relaxed, my throat keeps crashing and getting stuck.
Thanks Rich. You motivate me to be strong and fight.
This the most spiritual ive seen rich cooper
Wow, you dropped a Graham Hancock reference, love that stuff 👌
Lots of common sense good advice in the book of yours I d/l’ed to listen to at work when it’s slow.
Anger/bitterness dissipated in inverse proportion to the amount of good things happening in my life. Really it was about shunting that energy I was pissing away on unimportant things & people and routing it into my life and my objectives.
Been in the money before- good career, good hourly wage, and got cleaned out in ‘08. Coming back has been the toughest thing in my life, but very worth it. Keep on, everyone.
I feel like I have almost accepted the fact that no woman will actually want me. The key to not becoming bitter about this, I think, might be to deconstruct the reason you think you want a woman to want you. It is all vanity and outside validation. Ultimately, it's to prove to the world they're wrong and in fact you aren't "too weird" and maybe someone would want you.
You have to get yourself to a point where you truly no longer care what people think of you, and then you will realize you do not need the approval of women to exist. Bitterness will melt away. Either spend your time being bitter of no one wanting you, or spend your time doing whatever you want. Either way nobody wants you anyway, so what exactly are you missing out on?
Often they do intend to do it. Read " healing from hidden abuse " and educate yourself on a word thrown around and not understood. Narcissism. You really need to learn about this. That being said , you still need to get past thw bitterness
Thanks for this I’m really going through it and really needed the help . God bless you
I needed this Rich! Love ur clips big bro huge fan! Bitterness & anger was 2021 for me a new year 2022 & I’m guna boss up 💪
1m 38 and my current partner who is 24 drove me too the red pill these modern women are on another level
One of his best clips for sure
I swear to God I said the same thing about Idiocracy 🤣😂could not agree more!
If it wasn't for getting ghosted & used for dinner dates I would of never found the red-pill mentality. I literally was walkin around sad as fck. Now I know what to look out for, how to carry myself, how to not focus on just 1 girl, focus on that $. stay up fellas!
“Anger is Energy”
John Lydon
There is nothing wrong with being angry. It’s about how you use it. If you channel it correctly it’s extremely useful.
Correct, but I used anger for 24 years and now I am bitter.
1) Specific anger means that I need to spin more plates. Anger over one particular chick means that I'm too invested. If I had a soft harem of like, 4-10 other girls then I don't care if one of them does something hurtful because they get "next-ed".
2) Generalized anger or existential anger means that I need to hit the gym (or dojo). If I think my life sucks, other people are doing better than me, or that whammen ain's shit, then I will hit my max rep if I'm willing to channel that discomfort into my next workout.
3) Eckhart Tolle's books are a positivity grift. Don't waste your time!
Abd-al-Rahman III was one of the most powerful men in his time and he had two harems. Towards the end of his life he decided to count the number of days he had actually felt happy, only 14 days.
@@marybell2002 Just goes to show.. men can’t be pleased...
@@marybell2002 Let me try it. I'll be sure to let you know how it goes, Honey.
@@matthewmagda4971 Lol! Thanks for the laugh
A good question to ask someone who you feel is projecting onto you is "What hurts you so much that you feel you need to hurt me in order to heal it?" It's also a good question to ask yourself whenever you're the one "attacking" another. I also assist men in dealing with their emotional "stuff".
Needed to hear this thanks.
One of the BEST Topics you have addressed in a long time ! Keep em, coming Rich.
29yo man with an 8yo daughter. I’ve been in and out of the courts her entire life as her mom and I got married young and we were not the right match at all. I’ve gotten much better over the years but I can tell you the bitterness comes every once and a while knowing that I’m forced to subsidize her living via child support while being denied every attempt for joint custody. I know that she never truly loved me. In my early 20’s I was a super simp to her. I think that’s why she kept me around and wanted to marry asap when she got pregnant. She knew she could get away with anything and I’d always be the one groveling. I’ve yet to have another serious relationship in my life, only intermittent fun.
Speaking of Idiocracy being a documentary, another Mike Judge film, Office Space, ended up being a documentary for me. I ended up in IT, corporate offices, with a bunch of real life movie characters, fighting burn out, banging waitresses after work happy hours, and trying to find the meaning of it all.
Full of great points! Especially (sadly) about Idiocracy.
So far the book is great I barely started reading it
I've been saying that about "Idiocracy" for years now. I'm watching it unfold now and it's ridiculous...
2:05 yessssssss they diiiiiid
Got back to boxing because Rich pushing ability to fight 😅 was top 1% in the gym but very average at speed so needed to acknowledge that and get to improving it
Thank you. Super bitter… never felt this way before.
Needed this
Had a terrible night
Thanks for this video Rich.
Don't get angry and bitter. Get even.
Idiocracy was amazing, and you are probably right about it turning into a documentary. Just remember how many people do not understand Sugar the Bitter Truth by Robert Lustig.
thank you for clearing my head
I was angry about a woman but I lost her through to lockdown. I have now been working hard on my career and purpose. I feel great but it has been a lot of work, now I am not angry, I am free and a changed man.
Be angry, write it out.Write it out again, but different. Write about again and again, until you don't care anymore.
I love rehabala ,rehabala , rehabilitation.... it’s gonna be so sad😥
Good discussion
Indeed, you can never tear the earth apart, nor can you surpass the mountains in height.” Quran 17:37
Gold.
My ex's were absolutely malicious...
Preach!!!!🙌🏼
thanks rich
In the last year my wife has left me, cheated, absolved herself of all our debt, used the kids as pawns, made false allegations and had restraining orders on me and charges which were thankfully dropped due to no evidence. She is now taking 70% of the asset pool. I am obviously beyond hurt that she could do all this, do I forgive forget and move on?
DId they go out of their way to wreck your life? Yes, if she came to you, and most of them do exactly that. Deter them by leaning towards hostility, rather than tollerance.
i LOVE THIS FUCKING CHANNEL. SAVED MY LIFE. YEP, ALL CAPS!
I’m sitting here awake in bed after 45 mins sleep for the 4th day running. I hope this video helps.
Facts!!!
Wake up calls all over the place Rich, profoundly grateful for your content. What is your perspective on lust?
We're already living in "Idiocracy" lol. Maybe just to a slightly lesser degree. Slightly.
No,it starts with hurt then goes anger..hence the saying "behind anger is hurt and behind hurt is love"..brother im just a humble mechanic but you gotta be accurate on this shit.
I dont know how to get passed the anger of my ex wife cheating on me and disappearing. Now we share custody and all i can think about is final solution
Better to lean towards hostility than tolerance when it comes to the weak and parasitic (W* and weak M*). If you don't, you'll have to spot the strays individually, and chase them off your lawn one-by-one, and your lawn will become a cesspit of sh!t that you didn't ask for.
Lean towards hostility, and the strays will for the most part, stay off your lawn, and certainly isn't going to make your life any less pleasant.
That isn't hate or bitterness. That's common sense. That's knowledge, understanding, and setting boundaries whilst minimizing the effort and risk.
Too often W* and Weak M*, struggle to distinguish between a M* who are bitter and hateful, and M* who are merely doing what is best for themselves. (They don't like it when M* aren't susceptible to facilitating their P*)
Ahhhhhh.... I'm a Big fan. But, the 2000 bug in the computers was a big deal. They just were so worried about it that they worked hard to patch vital systems and then (because of their hard work in preventing problems) there were no (Edit:few) problems. But overall, it wasn't just unfounded fear.
My ex left me for a guy who makes more money and that’s when I found out about hypergamy and red pill. At first I was so angry and bitter at her and women but that’s doesn’t lead to anywhere. It’s so much more freeing to just forgive and accept their nature. Use it to your advantage rather than being mad at them for it. Life is too short to carry that much resentment or anger because at the end of the day you’re not gonna be happy
Women should watch this video.
You’d probably like “Sperm Wars,” “The Red Queen,” and “The Moral Animal” if you’re into evolutionary psychology.
If you don't love yourself, you can't expect anyone else to.
The quality of attitude will dictate the quality of life, as I've been listening to some Earl Nightingale videos.
Why we are so Narcissistic this days? Family is not only about you, is about children...just because we have impulses to do something doesn't mean we have to act on it, we are loosing all this Values and it's sad i think.
Bardzo ważne.
You should share this with 21 Studios
For real! I had to unsubscribe from 21 Studios. There’s no good content anymore, just “roast videos.” Him & that John Anthony dude are just predictable & boring now.
@@HADENOUGH918 Did you see that Grandpa George is critiquing Rollo and Rian? ...hilarious!
No, it isn't that the other person intended to hurt me.
It's the idea of her being so callous as to have USED me for her selfish reasons. Of having hit the wall and having selected me to meet that one & only need of having kids. Because her biological clock was ticking loudly.
Being used is what ticks me & other men off of having lost years of time, money, & struggle. If that accounts for nothing, well then, I can't explain it to you.
Now should we men move on. Of course, we should move & not become bitter.
But, in no way do I agree with you that being used isn't a minor thing or loss.
I am committed to never seeing my ex again. I found MGTOW & Red Pill in my quest to heal & understand "what happened!"
As a man, you need to protect yourself.
Anger and bitterness are a part of the grieving process. Just don't let them control you and take you down the dark path. Please don't give her the satisfaction of crashing & burning.
Work on yourself, healing, moving on, working on your career, losing weight, looking better, etc.
It's all temporary, and as they say, "This too will pass."
Yes, a cliche. But it's a relevant one and full of truth.
A, man you're kickass brother.
That's when you say fuckit... When All the shit goes down hill... And when I say fuckit I. No I'm not kavin... Another chick....
Idiocracy is already happening