Err expecting a man to "have something going for himself" is NOT a high standard. Every man and woman should be setting that standard for themselves NOT for the purpose of being eligible for a woman or man.
Life Through Media you didn't even listen to her, she said that SHE will approach, not the other way around. Why are so many of you guys commenting with your hurt feelings? get it together lol
Dang, do we live in a world where a woman seeking a man with a steady form of income, doesn't have kids all over the place, isn't getting high all the time, has good hygiene and isn't overly aggressive is considered having high standards?
Melissa Grandison black women u want a good man a dude like me single drive no kids looking for a wife don't b like this please this is not what we want
+relentless212 Yeah this is pretty much what I fear when I here a women say they want a shy dude or thinks a shy dude is cute and claims to want to date them. You rarely hear bitches say that shit and many bitches don't thoroughly explain what exactly it is they subconsciously find attractive in a partner. Some things I've heard women say will make others think they are the perfect mating option for her only to find out that is not the case at all.
They say the quiet ones are the ones you have to worry about. All these loud mouths that tell everyone what they are doing or about to do, she doesn't want that. She probably had a quiet dude, she thought was a nerd, then he was a undercover maniac sociopath. She just doesn't know how to explain it. The guy probably booted her because she got boring and couldn't keep her mouth shut. Real bad boys move in silence, surprise people in business and in life.
Justice Butler where did you get your facts? Also who you are generalizing all black men from the ones who tarnish the race. If your talking about african Americans say it but I'm black and from Jamaica and not all of us are like that.
Wait.....so most romantic shit she ever experienced was when her ex boyfriend witnessed her receiving a shit ton of flowers? 😂 bitch got hella red flags
as soon as she said she has to be the dominant one in her relationship i lost interest... what guy wants to date a girl who tells you what to do? i mean seriously i don't mind pleasing a woman, but if i have to be submissive to you to be with you then i'll just keep it moving because that is backwards
I was feeling everything she was saying and was about to say women like her actually exist but then she blew it when she said she wants to be the dominant of the relationship..smh I'm sorry I can't let no female control the relationship at all in no way shape or form she's feminine looking but has a masculine personality big red flag.
Hi Fendi Red! Was a pleasure watching your interview on your clip. Do appreciate it a lot & you pleased my heart 100%. Kudous & kisses to you for a job well done. Would be a pleasure having more of you & hearing you speak. Your're so photogenic, admireable & straightup. Love you baby! You're my type of girl.
BklynJayL Y'all act like y'all never had girlfriends before lmao be different take a bitch skydiving, give her gifts, make her feel special make her happy surprise her with new things and think outside the box. Lol
Whats fucked up is she got a sweet demeanor and she talks a great game, but the way she looks and knowing what she is into...the type of men she talking about should be running from her.
I like her point about liking shy, nerdy, observant dudes. I think OBSERVANT is the key word. Not extra. Not easy to figure out. I get why that turns women on... because they're used to be sweated HARD by so many lame ass dudes... when she comes across a guy that ain't coming at her like that, it leaves room for her to wonder. Women like challenges. Anything of substance won't be EASY to get. There's a level of effort / pursuit involved.
When I first saw this I didn't know who she was I just knew she was pretty cute but she has good intellect good eyesight for what she wants she understands things a different way and she's been through a lot and has learned from them so I respect what she said because that's what everyone should look and strife for she wants something different than what she usually gets and for her to want a shy person is you can say to dominate but most of those who are quiet and shy they don't allow a lot of people to get in and if so they can tell if your intentions are good so good luck to her
There's absolutely nothing wrong with having standards sister, it means you know what you want,and more importantly yourself. I don't think you're stuck up or boojee.
I don't know either to be honest, though I been hearing this alot lately in my life. I guess alot of women feel like a guy being short is considered feminine, and thinks a short guy can't be dominant in a relationship. I'm a short male and hears stuff like this all the time.
Titanium50 yeah I mean personally I don't like guys shorter than me either because I'm 5'9. I always thought it was wierd to look down at my guy. But its alot of short guys out there in nice relationships.
I think it doesn't make a difference what height someone is. Its silly. If the person has an A1 personality, its silly for that to be a dealbreaker. You're missing out on great people over something so trivial. I respect your preferences but its still stupid to me.
Ke Racks lol you are right, though...I've seen short cut down'em...I saw 4'11 man & he knocked out a 5'9 man...funny to see ole got dust up that day lol
Fendi Red: "I like unpredictable shit." Also Fendi Red: "I like nerds (because I just predicted them to be shy and quiet)." Because this woman and consistency aren't on speaking terms.
All of these comments are hilarious, Where may I add, are her woman defenders, who love to call men who talk shit about her either gay, or sellouts for being less harsh of white/latina women if they look like this.
tmat2016 Why bring race into this though? Not every black woman looks like this. That's like saying all men are the same. I never bash black men because I was raised by an amazing single father. I love black men but when black men say things like this it's truly heartbreaking.
I agree. Him and his comment are pathetic. He subscribes to Tommy Sotomayor so it all makes sense. Everything is the black woman's fault according to guys like him LMAO...
Brittany Love That is truly sad. It makes me wonder what type of black women has he come into contact with and was his mother awful. There has to be a deeper reason. Smh!
I think it's cool she likes geeks with a good credit score, but...she's a model, exotic dancer, boutique and spa owner. Those things would have been a lot more interesting to hear about.
I love FENDI RED❤ YOU ARE THAT QUEEN! I LOVE YOU. YOURE BEAUTIFUL FINE SEXY AND ALL THAT! YOU ARE MY GIRL. YOU CAN BE BOUJEE AND KEEP YOUR HIGH STANDARDS! YOU'RE AMAZING!
This is Raven Symone's older sister Crow.
Adrianjson Renzokuken hahahah
haha
Savage AF 😂
LOL! But more like Vulture.
Adrian JSon chilllll 😭
Who's mama is this?
lmfao
lol
😂😂😂
the original judgeshrimp 2 lmao this nigga said Ravens mom 😂😂😂
😂😂👏
you should never ask a chick what she like cuz that shit will change tomorrow
Turned this shit off as soon as she said something about dominating the relationship.
+Omega Blaze right she want a beta
+karezmatik77 you a beta
w
me too Bruh Lmao
CocainaBlaze same lol
Err expecting a man to "have something going for himself" is NOT a high standard. Every man and woman should be setting that standard for themselves NOT for the purpose of being eligible for a woman or man.
Lousy bitches dont deserve a good man
illmatic826 Wtf.
guccigucci456 Hey its true
true story
Life Through Media you didn't even listen to her, she said that SHE will approach, not the other way around. Why are so many of you guys commenting with your hurt feelings? get it together lol
i love how soft spoken she is
she speaks soft but she takes it hard
david thomas lmao are you okay? Calm down.
Watch her other video where she is arguing... Very loud spoken
Red flags for days. find a geek...and dominate him and his wallet. no thx.
Arvelle Whitaker I agree save your love for a woman like you
Its funny because being shy actually has protected me from women like her XD..
me too
***** It sad that women only see us for what we have in our wallets rather than what we have in our hearts and minds :(
Arvelle Whitaker true this shit depressing
Dang, do we live in a world where a woman seeking a man with a steady form of income, doesn't have kids all over the place, isn't getting high all the time, has good hygiene and isn't overly aggressive is considered having high standards?
@@jojocapone4861 Ong 💯🎯
I left once I heard dominating a man in relationship. 😒😒😒
But that's loads of women but just don't say it. I actually respect the fact she told the truth now you know where you at with her.
Melissa Grandison black women u want a good man a dude like me single drive no kids looking for a wife don't b like this please this is not what we want
+relentless212 Yeah this is pretty much what I fear when I here a women say they want a shy dude or thinks a shy dude is cute and claims to want to date them. You rarely hear bitches say that shit and many bitches don't thoroughly explain what exactly it is they subconsciously find attractive in a partner. Some things I've heard women say will make others think they are the perfect mating option for her only to find out that is not the case at all.
Same here. For me, it was "A-1 credit" "dominating her relationship" and "high standards"
That was it for me. I was like, I'm done....
They say the quiet ones are the ones you have to worry about. All these loud mouths that tell everyone what they are doing or about to do, she doesn't want that. She probably had a quiet dude, she thought was a nerd, then he was a undercover maniac sociopath. She just doesn't know how to explain it. The guy probably booted her because she got boring and couldn't keep her mouth shut. Real bad boys move in silence, surprise people in business and in life.
I don't trust quite people lol This is so true but she boring af only the nerdy and shy type are going to go for her
Real question: Is a black guy non-hood, educated, no kids, with a job, no prison record, forward thinking, and nice. Really that rare?
That also wants to date a stripper... yes.
Justice Butler where did you get your facts? Also who you are generalizing all black men from the ones who tarnish the race. If your talking about african Americans say it but I'm black and from Jamaica and not all of us are like that.
Justice Butler LOL GTFO
triad6425 just like a black woman , no kids. , tattoos, face piercings , colored hair , non makeup overkill , this chick gon be single 4eva
it sad how most of yall think every black guy is hood uneducated with felony and got bunch of baby mamas drama shit real sad with the world
Wait.....so most romantic shit she ever experienced was when her ex boyfriend witnessed her receiving a shit ton of flowers? 😂 bitch got hella red flags
Yo Kel yep swipe left and all the way away lol
Yo Kel I thought she was joking 😂
this world coming to a end where thot chicks screaming standards got dammmmm
Michael Mitchell lol
So true. The fact he's asking a high-maintenance THOT for her version on "STANDARDS".
Who is Fendi red?
+k s 😂
anit it.
Xavier Alexander she remind me of Craig's hoochie momma girlfriend from Friday
+k s haa. lol
Another weave dealer. Weave is the knew crack.
No weed smokers? Bitch, I'm gone
"I don't want my child to have step-kids." What?!?!
lamar newton 😂
King A.P.E. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 bitches man smh
Lamar Newton, Yeah, I was wondering what she meant by that.
@Zulu Fight Channel Right!, I thought that was what she meant too.
as soon as she said she has to be the dominant one in her relationship i lost interest... what guy wants to date a girl who tells you what to do? i mean seriously i don't mind pleasing a woman, but if i have to be submissive to you to be with you then i'll just keep it moving because that is backwards
You gotta be a shy man that keeps eye contact and have a1 credit because she isn't worried about your money
I like her but I can't date people who make up words like 'observative'
tmotivate RIGHT..I SWORE THE WORD WAS OBSERVANT. LOL
tmotivate 😂😂😂😂
So she wants a college educated white dude.
*asian
Zamasu 💀💀💀💀
Kuro yoooo I'm weak 😭😭😭⚡️⚡️
Ian Smith 😯....😂🤣😂
I was feeling everything she was saying and was about to say women like her actually exist but then she blew it when she said she wants to be the dominant of the relationship..smh I'm sorry I can't let no female control the relationship at all in no way shape or form she's feminine looking but has a masculine personality big red flag.
I agree💯
I feel dat
Hi Fendi Red! Was a pleasure watching your interview on your clip. Do appreciate it a lot & you pleased my heart 100%. Kudous & kisses to you for a job well done. Would be a pleasure having more of you & hearing you speak. Your're so photogenic, admireable & straightup. Love you baby! You're my type of girl.
she's 5'2 and she wants guys her height or shorter? lol
flyassbj she wanna date Prince
She gonna date lil Wayne.
@@badddd 💀💀
Wait a minute! You like Shy and Nerdy Men, or Unpredictable Men?? They're not the same!
BklynJayL A shy nerdy men that would do unpredictable things. You have to wow a bitch 😂😂😂
moon mane 😂😂😂
Don't know what the heck she wants! lol.!
What kind of unpredictable things a shy man can do?? lol..
BklynJayL Y'all act like y'all never had girlfriends before lmao be different take a bitch skydiving, give her gifts, make her feel special make her happy surprise her with new things and think outside the box. Lol
She says everything a pass around would say!
lol
at least she actually gives a shit about the way a dude's mind work's and how we prioritize things in our lives. respect.
Nick Pearson she obviously is lying smh
Lee S he’s a simp
Damn I was cool until she said a weed smoker 😂😂😂 Damn!
lmao hell yea
That statement alone pretty much excluded all eligible candidates
+Tboy Stile I was cool until she said tall.
😂 y'all crazy
Lol same
Whats fucked up is she got a sweet demeanor and she talks a great game, but the way she looks and knowing what she is into...the type of men she talking about should be running from her.
I like her point about liking shy, nerdy, observant dudes. I think OBSERVANT is the key word. Not extra. Not easy to figure out. I get why that turns women on... because they're used to be sweated HARD by so many lame ass dudes... when she comes across a guy that ain't coming at her like that, it leaves room for her to wonder. Women like challenges. Anything of substance won't be EASY to get. There's a level of effort / pursuit involved.
I'm so shy i couldn't finish this
She never dated geeks and nerds in her prime
She seems mean but nice at the same time her personality makes me love her fr
Women are unique, meant to be appreciated and more than anything directed...ya heard dont judge um
Brandon Jones Lol. Simps complain and judge but I Direct and appreciate. Rt
+T.J Matthews on god both of yall lame ass fuck.....
+T.J Matthews my bad fam
Brandon Jones lol
***** lol. Clown. No one cares about your opinion
This chick is awesome! I love how she thinks she's a gold digger but what she's looking for is honestly a future
There's something deeply wrong with this Biiiii
She actually made a lot of sense.
Kerry Jackson shraggy😒😒😒
carlos ortiz More like POOOSIE😆😆😆
RtistiqSkubie Dj akademiks voice wtf is wrong with yalll😂😂
Kerry Jackson. She live in the hood she drive a 2010 charger on god
fellas she's got standards lmao
This is what I call a "BUSS DOWN"
illmatic826 ehhh😓😓
illmatic826 WTF is that
***** CHURCH
illmatic826 bro I thought I was the only one thinking that lol smh
A Souls Redemption ahahhahah ha yall Killin her
she look like a chubby Anthony Davis in the face.
LMAO!
Karl Slaggerfeld lol
Karl Slaggerfeld bwhahahhahhaa
Karl Slaggerfeld she don't have a uni brow though
3 words : I WON'T SMASH😷
lmao word
2pac's Spirit comment of the week 😂😂
Carlos Rossi lmao
facts my shit would be covered in 🌈 wondering if i got a std lmao.
2pac's Spirit i can't even lie I would risk it, rip to my dick tho
As a guy, I'll pass
im with ya bro. not my type.
yea same
Never ask a woman what she wants, she has no idea... no offense. But id date..
She looks like an auntie here but she was really cool here. Y'all talking so much shit though...
Chicks like this is the reason why people like Tommy Sotomayer exist...
Marce' Pierre I agree maybe he should talk about Thug Hunters.com
Amal Somali lmao
I don't recognize a single person in these interviews
she just wanna cheat on those type of men
When I first saw this I didn't know who she was I just knew she was pretty cute but she has good intellect good eyesight for what she wants she understands things a different way and she's been through a lot and has learned from them so I respect what she said because that's what everyone should look and strife for she wants something different than what she usually gets and for her to want a shy person is you can say to dominate but most of those who are quiet and shy they don't allow a lot of people to get in and if so they can tell if your intentions are good so good luck to her
I don't see why people are bashing on her in the comments. Her vulgar language grabs your attention and gets the point across, I like it.
this shows u what a lot of black women are like right now
Preach! ...When the real black women got replaced by THOTS.
Uhmmmmmmmmmmmm maybe in America only
My Answer To The Question If I Would Date Her....
Yes, She Has An Awesome Personality And Has A Good Heart
How are you gonna use her to represent an entire race of women ? People in the comment section are really ignorant
There's absolutely nothing wrong with having standards sister, it means you know what you want,and more importantly yourself. I don't think you're stuck up or boojee.
1. I'm a nerd
2. I'm unpredictable
3. I have no kids...
Now let's you, me and my girlfriend have a 3some.
fellas don't bash her.. Everybody has their own preferences and it's our God given right. I'm sure there's a king perfect for this queen
wtf does height have to do with dominating a relationship? #tragic
Not if they fight like Tyson and Bruce Lee combined mixed with some Ali and Sugar Ray Robinson.
I don't know either to be honest, though I been hearing this alot lately in my life. I guess alot of women feel like a guy being short is considered feminine, and thinks a short guy can't be dominant in a relationship. I'm a short male and hears stuff like this all the time.
Titanium50 yeah I mean personally I don't like guys shorter than me either because I'm 5'9.
I always thought it was wierd to look down at my guy. But its alot of short guys out there in nice relationships.
I think it doesn't make a difference what height someone is. Its silly. If the person has an A1 personality, its silly for that to be a dealbreaker. You're missing out on great people over something so trivial. I respect your preferences but its still stupid to me.
Ke Racks lol you are right, though...I've seen short cut down'em...I saw 4'11 man & he knocked out a 5'9 man...funny to see ole got dust up that day lol
my high standards: i want a woman who dosen't curse like a sailor. maybe it's just me
I'm glad she worked on that unibrow.
As a shy guy and nerd I wouldn't give her time of the day.
She's talking about Smallz
ion mean no harm but who are ANY of these people on here, real talk ion know any of the people being interviewed not just this video but others
Everything she says want is the opposite of what she says.....
Nerds and shy guy's never clicked faster
Who is this? Never heard of her.
I like her don't know who she is but she really made some good comments she's much smarter than a lot of people think she is
She contradicted herself tons of times.
She looks 10x better without the makeup she's naturally beautiful
when she said no weed that X'd out 85% of the men she looking for lol
She think us shy men and nerds are dumb and gullible. Didn't you just say we're quiet and very observative?
Nah, she valid to me.
Blvck simp
Not a simp to random bitches, only "my" bitch.
Basically what she’s looking for is dexter from dexters laboratory
The hood version of Storm from X-men
Sounds like she is in love with "Simps" to me! 😂😂😂
She's smart and cool. I like her. We have a lot n common
I wouldn't say that I'm a nerd, but most definitely a geek...a language geek. I wish I could date this beauty.
*Umm. .yea you won't be meeting these type of guys, your appearance will attract rappers,athletes and C & D list entertainers*
Pro tip: Stay the hell away from her
well she lost me can't smoke no weed
..
Word,Like Who Raised Her??
Fendi Red:
"I like unpredictable shit."
Also Fendi Red:
"I like nerds (because I just predicted them to be shy and quiet)."
Because this woman and consistency aren't on speaking terms.
She a got damn Gemini bro what you expect 😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@mr.t-rose9796 damn my shorty a Gemini...she def got 2 sides 💯 😂😂😂
All of these comments are hilarious, Where may I add, are her woman defenders, who love to call men who talk shit about her either gay, or sellouts for being less harsh of white/latina women if they look like this.
tmat2016 Why bring race into this though? Not every black woman looks like this. That's like saying all men are the same. I never bash black men because I was raised by an amazing single father. I love black men but when black men say things like this it's truly heartbreaking.
I agree. Him and his comment are pathetic. He subscribes to Tommy Sotomayor so it all makes sense. Everything is the black woman's fault according to guys like him LMAO...
I love it! Checkin out my profile. Do I have a fan now? :)
Brittany Love That is truly sad. It makes me wonder what type of black women has he come into contact with and was his mother awful. There has to be a deeper reason. Smh!
I think it's cool she likes geeks with a good credit score, but...she's a model, exotic dancer, boutique and spa owner. Those things would have been a lot more interesting to hear about.
Shy men probably won't walk up to you because maybe they're shy lol
She sound alright.
She's so interesting
I like it
I love FENDI RED❤ YOU ARE THAT QUEEN! I LOVE YOU. YOURE BEAUTIFUL FINE SEXY AND ALL THAT! YOU ARE MY GIRL. YOU CAN BE BOUJEE AND KEEP YOUR HIGH STANDARDS! YOU'RE AMAZING!
im a nerd and in am shy
short, shy, nerds, sounds legit
oh she droppin sum jewels
😒
JOVON TOOMBS some counterfeit jewels, most likely.
😀😁😂😭
She's a beautiful woman
If it was up to me shit i would date her bruh No Cap
she's wants a weak man basically lol not saying geeks n shy guys are weak I know some n they are not weak
Shy men and nerds everywhere!!! RUN!
"Observative"
Darren Anderson well, it used to be a commonly used word in the 1600's...
Despite all the tattoos and piercings she still looks good
This dude love interviews with strippers and wack rappers. #BORING
This woman seems smart like she be thinking a lot . Real smart with a little street in her
she wants to dominate!
low-key most women want to be dominated! I guess she's the exception
I'm not going to lie I'm a weed head but it's shocking I actually saw her in person
Man we used to smoke weed in high school together and when she first started dancing but I guess times has change... I'm smoking weed everyday💨
what does she do
GregB gregb lay on her back
She's keeping it real can't hate on her, i agree with her on kids, it's not like she sugar coating shit for likes
Shes cute
This is one of the better interviews I must say