@@SharkAcademy Yeah personality is the most important thing to keep someone, looks are just the gateway. I cant believe people shape their views on those “pills”. Theyre all here tryna bang someone and Im like fuck no I will build healthy relationships based on trust , not temporary attractiveness and money.
@@diegoyanesholtz212 that’s just proof of how much social economic status matters to women. Those women likely picked up on the fact you were a foreigner/ westerner.
Spot on…. The Video misses the redpill point… you don’t do it for her, you do it for you… make money for you, boost your fitness for you, work on your confidence for you…. Chase excellence for yourself… not for her.
@@Traumatised311 That's a bizarre accusation. Also, it's totally not true that if you treat women a certain way you get relationships. That's only partly true if you're attractive, and even then not really all that accurate.
@@someonesomeone25 ikr some women like bad boys and stay in abusive toxic relationships These women make it's hard for us other women who like chivalrous gentlemen I would take a guy who's 5.7 something ok looking but treats me right Over toxic narcissistic guys But fucked up women liking toxic guys is yikes and bad for nice guys and for nice girl's That way bad boys will fuck around with 45 girls and marry us nice girl's Nooooooooo I will become cat lady
@Charles Huang how about just letting go of thinking of women as a priority or emergency and just focus on yourself? self-knowledge, self-improvement and look to have fun alone? We don't really need to categorize those trains of thought as pills every time. For example, where would you fit stoicism in? Or christian teachings of a couple? For reference, "the man should give his life for the wife while the wife should respect him above any other man (literally only below God himself) and submit to him, and both should cater to each other's needs above their own for their whole life." Some bring reality, some bring hope, I don't think you should be fixed in any of these all the time because none of them apply 100% everytime everywhere(I doubt you can believe you will find a girl willing to be a christian wife in Vegas. Or three girls willing to have a foursome in a church, its at least highly unlikely)
@@lukewood2662 you are fooling yourself, you can’t be complete without filling essential needs such as getting laid. Only few men can achieve that, too much black pill leads to become a monk suicidal or a hermit
I say, unless you lack in all 3 areas at the same time: looks, personality and money/status, you have a chance. But if you are too unatractive, too poor or have too bad of a personality, other traits will not save you forever. There has to be a minimum requirement for all three categories and its essential to meet those requirements for a relationship to occur.
Where I disagree with all the pills comes from the fact that they prioritise some and disregard some other traits and its unhealthy. While they do analise the impact of good qualities, they fail to show when some bad qualities end up making good qualities meaningless in the long run.
@@gameonyolo1 I think it’s a reference to some sort of written work, “when you stare into the void, the void stares back” but it’s actually misquoted I think. It essentially means something like when you look long enough into the darkness, you yourself become the darkness eventually. Or that’s the general understanding of it.
Guys: don’t label yourself. The best piece of advise I can give is just treat them and hold them accountable for how the woman you’re dealing with acts, at the same time just be as cool as a cucumber and have some self respect for yourself with healthy boundaries, it’s that simple. Got stood up? Call her out on it in a humorous way. Showing you signs she’s trouble? Cut her off. Stay healthy, maintain upkeep on yourself, focus on making more money each year. Don’t be lazy. And when you think about it, these are like basic requirements for you not just as a man but a human being
thats cute and all, but I still feel this red pill/MGTOW thing is important because it means more men get to see it and share their opinion. Before it men would just have to learn the hard way. If you are agree or disagree with it, or have your nuanced opinion, thats fine too.
Red pill is mostly on personality. I read a book and researched on the topic. Physical improvement even like exercise for a better physique, I didn't even see.
Something also to note is this: in war, the fighting is always easier than the reconstruction. In the same way, keeping a relationship alive and maintaining it at optimal levels will certainly be more difficult than finding the woman. If you’re not equipped to do with what comes after making the catch, then you’re set up for failure right from the get go.
Bluepill = You believe lies, you live the lies Redpill = you know the truth, and remain optimistic Blackpill = you know the truth, but believe all is lost “There’s no sadder sight than a young pessimist (except an old optimist)” -Mark Twain
@@SuperAnimecity Plastic surgery is not a good idea. People will see you have had work done sooner or later, and the payments to maintain your perfect body will stack up. Unless you have sever facial deformities. And having a big nose or weak jaw do not count as facial deformities.
Not sure why the OP has so many Likes and is a "Top Comment." He's asserting that both Red Pill and Black Pill are "beliefs" and that either one of them could be equally true. That's a bunch of bull crap though. And you guys who endorsed his post have fell for it.
We need all 3 pills in the right doses. I've had enough blue pill growing up so now I just need enough to have hope and stay motivated. Red pill is what I'm mostly eating now, I'm focused on self-improvement. The black pill is needed when dealing with failure. You can blame externalities when you fail.
Aditya 4 things matter in life: intelligence (98% heritable according to studies on identical twins living separately since birth), athletic talent (strength, speed, agility, about 75% heritable minus steroid abuse which can make up for shit genes in terms of strength), looks (height, skull shape, skin quality, hairline - 80% heritable), health (80% heritable). You can blame any of your successes or failures on genetics and you will probably be right. Especially in case of successes, you don't beat 8 billions of people without being a freak of nature.
@@nihilism6226 why worry about things you can't control. Focus on what you can influence. Do your best and that's all anyone can do. If you feel you were born with a bad set of cards, that even if you work on your 20% you can't achieve what you want then reevaluate your expectations from life. Tone down your desires, move to a third world country, appreciate what you have compared to the millions suffering.
@@AdityaPrasad007 What you can control is relatively unimportant. Because anyone can control those things. So by law of supply and demand (8 billions of people can do this activity, compare say ~300millions of people who are actually attractive), it is worthless.
@@nihilism6226 most people who are born with looks don't need to work that 20% they get away with not having to work on personality, skills, knowledge, experience. Complacency is a real thing.
@@Altashheth08 Quite the contrary. If you ask me, Red pill is best compared to the Bargaining stage of Grief. It’s a overcompensation due to an inability to face reality.
Black pill is the truth, red pill will teach you to move your ass and improve on those things that you can. There's nothing much you can do about your genetics, which is a tough challenge for a short man like me. All I can do is to improve my status by grinding on my career and to improve my fitness and health.
I think there is no such a thing as "Game" or its just realy easy if you alredy looking good and tall. Women just laugh on your shitty jokes, and they dont even know what you talking about. Women also glamourise your depression, insecurities etc. Great video btw
@@amanawake5202 I agree with you until "always been this way". I opine LMS has only become the dominant factor in the turn of the 21st century, namely because of advances in technology/online dating/social media. I have a new video released today going In-depth on exactly this subject; How the Blackpill is becoming more and more relevant for dating in 2021. Check it out see if you agree.. Link: ruclips.net/video/KiYrp_4Chmo/видео.html
@Keloketto I would argue game has different levels of importance based on your own looks. For Sub-5's game won't matter because he will get rejected anyway, likewise it won't matter for 8+ men because he's been pre-selected, as you stated women will "laugh on your shitty jokes". For 5-7 (normie tier) men however game can make a difference because it will set you apart from the majority of men. This is a huge generalization obviously but you get the idea..
@@WheatWaffles will definitely check it out LMS has always been true it's just that nowadays importance of looks has increased earlier money and status used to be dominant factor because women were not present in the workplace as often as men
I'm a mix between the Black Pill and the Red Pill, so that makes me a Dark Red Pill. I know that working on yourself is important, but there's only so much that you can do. Eventually, a woman will get bored with you anyway.
Black Pill also serves as an excuse to not better yourself for some people, which turns into a self fulfilling prophecy as you now act according to how you feel 'undateable' for instance.
@@Aratrok1 I swear this is the number one reason why I cant get behind the black pill. Even if you have been dealt the worst possible hand in life you wont get any good results at all without effort. Using other peoples superior genetics as an excuse wont help.
@@dejanstojkovic8757 This is true for sports, fitness etc as well. Yes people will have better genetics than you, but will all of these people even compete? Will they try as hard as you and fully utilize their potential? There's so many more factors to this, the mentality of a man that's not even trying is already baseline unattractive and - that - has nothing to do with the geometry of their face
@@Aratrok1 bro I just started doing Muay Thai/MMA after years of being obsessed with these sports. The fact that I can give 100% and dedicate myself to a craft that I am passionate about makes me more excited than going on dates with girls. Life is about balance and each of us has to find theirs.
Short term: 1. Face and height 2. Body 3. Game 4. Money/status 5. Personality For long term: 1. Money/status 2. Face and height 3. Personality 4. Body 5. Game (manipulation don't work in long term)
@A Man Awake I did touch on this in the final chapter of the video although I should have elaborated further. I do agree it is different short term Vs. long term. Namely factors such as personality become more relevant, however the main point I was trying to convey is most men WON'T REACH the latter stages as they have already been rejected in the initial interaction, the primary reason for this being face and height. I'm glad we agree the Blackpill hierarchy is correct for short term, however can you please explain why you have chosen money/status as top for long term?
@@WheatWaffles face and height as minimum requirement will always be there in long term too but money and status becomes more important in LTR (marriage or live in) because money symbolises power and women are attracted to power ever since the hunter gathering days Many women who had 6'2 as minimum height requirements eventually settle with a 5'10 guy with money once she hits the wall and this happens a lot. But I can't predict for current zoomer generation as in this generation looks above everything is true because of rampant social media. Your presentation was good and you had researched the matter very well. No matter what looks money status always remain the big three from what I've observed. Game and personality can be easily developed ones you have a decent social circle
@@kevinwilson3337 most couples are equally good looking and research backs it up. The difference is money because women have their own but they want more Obviously looks are level 0 always but looks matter more in short term encounters more where it's like 90-10 that's why most blackpill guys are below 25 Zoomer generation may not marry and break the trend but till now this was the trend.
Game is definitely important to attract women. but only after you've achieved either looks, status and resources. Remember women are stimulated initially by a man's looks, resources or status. Game then maintains that woman's interest and attraction. Having game without looks or status to a woman is like chips without ketchup. It's not the complete package. Game by itself to a woman is not enough, a woman will see you just as a friend or a brother from another mother, that hard shoulder to cry on. That friend that makes them laugh, that entertains them. You're basically a poor salesman to a woman, if you have just game and nothing else.
This is also spot on. I've realized that Wheat waffles places looks at 75% and game at 25%. Personally I would have that ration to be 70% to 30% respectively, adding to 100% in terms of attractiveness. In order to be attractive to get laid, you need to be at 70% or higher. That means, by just looking good enough (max 70%), a guy can get laid. But a 40% guy in looks (still above average attractiveness), can still get laid if he has near perfect game (maxxed 30%). But if the guy is under 40% looks, then even being gamemaxxed cannot help him reach that threshold.
@@justdaniel8239 The analogy would work better if he said having game without looks is like trying to eat ketchup without chips (Americans call them fries). Nobody wants to hear game from someone without good looks. It's disturbing. Likewise nobody wants to eat ketchup alone. It's disturbing.
You must be above 5’6” and above a 5 on the attractive scale to be considered for the poon train. 6’ to 6’6” and 8’s and up will have vip access. Requirements will fluctuate but you can improve your chances with exercise, diet, status and equity. The lower you are in the key qualifiers, the more you’ll have to compensate. Note that the highest end poon will require you to have all points maxed out, including bonus points.
IMO, the info is correct, but one can move up the attractiveness scale in some cases. I have gone from a 5 to an 8. Always have had a lot of muscle from powerlifting, but was too fat, and it showed in my body, and my face (my face has increased attractiveness significantly by losing 30 lbs, and my body now is banging, I look like a slightly more muscular wider shoulder underwear model). I also grew some tasteful facial hair, and grew my hair out (surfer look). I wasn't short, but not tall (a bit over 5'10"). I buy taller shoes (Nike airmax are a good option). The interactions with women are much different. I usually get lots of looks going out. Talking with women is completely different. They are giggling, playing with their hair, standing closer, and directly facing me and looking at me. My confidence is much better, but that isn't because I willed myself to be more confidence, it is because of positive interactions. Game is a by product of looks IMO, unless you are autistic. Not every guy falls into this category. Height is hard to change, and so are terrible genetics. I have pretty good genetics (aside from height which is about average).
Hey I'm Autistic, and I call bullshit. I too have positive interactions with women, just got to work on yourself. I have more often enjoyed sexy young women approaching me happily, the more I improve myself. I'm 5ft 11in and 250lbs(113kg), have some belly fat, but not a balloon. Losing it of course. My chest, shoulders,, and glutes are my best friends in body looks. I have a good jawline and apparently "nice dimples". Whatever that is. (And no, they often to absolutely don't know my process to progress, at least not at first)
Fuck buying shoes to make me taller. Im not short even (5'11), but im not going to regress to being in middle school again trying to look taller. Yuck.
... of course one may self-grow, for own sake. but is it justified beyond latter, in view of current xx.s ?! rather than dodging bullets | avoiding booby traps down the trajectory of rel.sht.s ?!
Also what a lot of people seem to miss is that you older you get the wiser you become, I bet in 10 years from now on we will be laughing about game, alpha, beta, pills etc. because once you figure out life and your own path you dont really care about this stuff anymore. Also the older you get the more responsibility you have to take and that alone will get you forward. I always talk to the older successful guys and most of them dont even know this whole game, pills, millennial stuff, and they always tell me the older I will get the better and more knowledgeable I will become so basically redpill stuff but having no clue about the red pill.
Recently there's been a huge rise of incels/virgins or single dudes that are 40+ yrs old so idk about this when it specifically comes to women, but overall yeah experience and wisdom is invaluable
Not entirely true. I'm currently in a long term stable relationship, have a stable job/income. Have a social circle etc. Im 6'2. By no means a chad but definitely not in the group needing this guys aid. I just love the content and I think guys don't deserve this. But maybe im just an outlier.
From a shorter guy, I'd say in terms of height it's more ideal to her if you're 5'5 if she's 5'2 or shorter, she'll consider wearing heels. There's also a near 100% chance she's dated a really tall guy and found it weird so it's still a move with her comfortability in mind. Overall I might suggest in real life I'd say the the values bounce between red and black pill for the most part with a blue pill girl(Meaning she follows the chart) being a unicorn, it could exist but it's unlikely you're going to find it.
As toxic and strange I want to view this as, as a guy who is 6ft3 with an attractive face, I'll admit that I had zero game and still attracted above average (sometimes very attractive) women. I also still had a British accent then (Status). This was working at Pizza Hut and being slim. The Black Pill view is to an extent viable. However, the red pill seems more realistic and familiar from experience (thank God). It is night and day the comfort I have now in my own skin versus then in terms of my social experience through college, serving jobs, gains through the gym, and earning career-related credentials. Don't forget that a lot of rich good-looking people would be average if they were blue-collar - they had to improve environmental factors first.
I'm in a similar position as the guy that just commented. The thing is, looks aren't the end all be all either. If I was a woman, then undoubtedly that is true. As a dude, you rarely can get by on just looks alone. And while getting laid is far easier when your tall and handsome, chicks still reject you when they find out you don't have a great career or have the ability to provide them a certain lifestyle. My point is, all of us get rejected in the end. Maybe 1% of men have it all, but even then. At some point Hypergamy creeps back in and chad is no longer good enough. Once a richer Chad comes into frame.
@@brocklanders3616 yup. I’m a woman. For a one night stand, I’d fuck a good looking guy. However, if he has nothing else going for him, I won’t date him. In a relationship I value intelligence above looks. E.g. I’d date Stephen hawking. In a relationship, a good looking guy means nothing to me if he has below average Intelligence.
I graduated high school at 5'4" and grew up to 5'7" in college. I had and still have a personality that makes women comfortable / relaxed around me and had lots of friends who were girls (but NOT girl friends). I have always been comfortable / confident in who I am so confidence really wasn't an issue. But looks wise I was not an 8-9-10 and being 5'7" (rounding up) pretty well doomed me for anything beyond dating. A lot of my dates came from girls calling me when they didn't have a date because they liked hanging out with me, but it was pretty obvious when we interacted that I was not on their list of possible mates. I probably went from blue pill to black pill without going through the red pill stage. I was devastated when I was in my 20s and wanting to form a family and have kids, but by the time over half my married friends had gone through bitter divorces where the guy was essentially r - p - d in Family Court, I pretty well figured I was the lucky one by the time I was 30.
2% body fat is beyond low, it’s pretty much how have you not died of starvation level. The most attractive body fat percentage I would presume is at around 10-15%.
@@lilumut63 it’s different for everyone but at 14% I was looking the best I ever have in my entire life,in my experience,which includes observing other peoples as well…10-11 is that supermodel,jacked look,any lower than that and you just look like someone who’s on an absurd amount of enhancers and lives in the gym…no issue with me if that is the case but I’ve found that other people are disgusted by
@@lilumut63 Maybe if you have really weak abs, I’m talking either skinny or fucked ab genetics, but 15 is kind of the softer not quite ripped but close look with abs in good lighting and moderately high definition, like the picture that shows when you search up Geoffrey Verity Schofield (13-15% imo), 10% is Kinobody level or close to it.
My type of pill (White) 1. Acknowledging the negative and the positive result. (You cannot control or change what has happened. But learn and understand from it). 2. Improve yourself and be kind to others (Just because you went to the gym, doesn't mean it gives you a green card to be an asshole). 3. View Money as a form of survival. Not for glamorous or status. (Throw away that branded mentality). 4. Be mentally healthy and physical healthy (Self explanatory). 5. Game doesn't exist. Only speak less than it should. (Okay this is like a Sigma vibe but you only have to speak less and let the girl speak more. Be an attentive listener then respond with a few words). This is my own way of living. Everyone has their own pill. Make your own.
Colored Pill: >Unhealthy views >Forced narrow thoughts True Pill: >Life is complex. >All these traits have value >Their value differs from person to person >Enjoy what you have, try to improve what you can
It's always problematic to put things into categories. Rigid thinking that has no real usefulness in the real world, outside of statistics and figures.
This is the closest description to "actuality"(true reality), complexity and simplicity coexist in all facets of existence, everything is paradoxical in nature.
@@Deathspell66 Everyone's reality is unique to them, so there is no "actuality" anyway. What is true for one person may not be true for someone else but they're both correct.
@@Opethfeldt actuality is factual observable phenomena in nature and the universe and is fundamentally objectively real regardless of any human beings perception of reality, that is the true state of existence. When it comes to the individual humans perception of the world I agree that they can believe that certain things may be true or false according to their point of view but in turn it does not disprove observable and fundamental realities of life and existence. This is why this OPs comment is the closest to actuality, because actuality is a complex tapestry built in with simplicity together with various mental and physical states of thinking, being and viewing life outside the observable and testable phenomena.
The truth lies in a mix between a mix of the red and black. *Looks* and *External* are the determining factors. *Behavioral* only comes into play if you're competing with others who have similar *Looks* and *External* or trying to maintain relationships . Regardless, good vid.
I think there are some merits to all 3 philosophies, but they apply to different people in different situations. For example: - Blue Pill advice works best for chads. (just smile and be nice, you don't need to do much work to win) - Red Pill advice works best for normies. (learn game, get fit, earn money) - Black Pill advice works best for sub5 (either looksmaxing, or MGTOW in that case) However I do think there's a generational difference as well. Looking at the statistical trends: - Blue Pill philosophy may have been more successful in the past when Christian morals and conservative culture shaped society. Most people got married and divorce rates were low. (Silent Generation, Baby Boomers, etc.) - Red Pill philosophy was developed and worked considerably well during the liberal cultural society, post-religious but still had some Christian moral roots. Most people still wanted families and marriage, though half of them failed for various reasons. (Gen X, Older Millennials) - Black Pill philosophy fits the current social media influenced world, with progressive politics, extreme promiscuity, encouragement of vices over virtues, basically anything goes, post-god society. A people of mass depression, doomer mentality, physical illness and loneliness. (Gen Z, Gen Alpha) Of course this is coming from a Western perspective.
Ive been blue, red, and black...all have there truths. The one thing I would say that I agree with (in a way) bluepillers is "Be yourself". Now when I say "Be yourself" I actually mean be comfortable with yourself. Be as comfortable with yourself as going to the fridge for a sandwich. This concept can easily fall into all pills (my opinion). You can't fulfill all the desires that will attract a woman/women (so why even try), and if you try to use one pill over the others, you will always stumble in and out of other pills. Now if you are completely comfortable with who you are (whether talking to women or men) you have complete freedom. This is extremely hard to do (especially young), and everything/everyone in the world will be against you. If you can get to that stage in life (maybe god's way of making you idk) you will be what everyone wants to strive for. You will have everything you possibly need in life. This is a very simple way of looking at it. If you have any questions please let me know.
just came across the channel and want to write some encouraging thoughts - first, pretty interesting video. I also believe black pill is closest to the truth but not 100% - take some portions of every pill... e.g. there are studies that show that personality and game can highly affect attractiveness i.e. the way you move, walk and dress...also how you eat and how often you do sports. -> highly affects your skin and if you look tired. So there is more within ones control than the black pill suggests - of course this corridor is limited but within you can actually do a lot. Dress like a superstar and work out daily in the gym if you like. Shoes which make you taller are cool, which make you look too tall look weird. Clothes and haircut can make a huge difference today. Lastly, game is important because its a numbers game - when you got only 5% of women generally attracted to you gotta find them by going out and being social. ..just my 2cents
If you are corny or awkward , even as a 8 or 9 in face and height , eventually she will leave. Black Pill falls short cause it only deals with getting a girl and banging and not necessarily maintaining a relationship almost like PUA. Red Pill is superior in that instance and is the foundation where Black Pill stems from
Even blue pill has a place here. In the long run personality is by far the most important trait. Once you find a partner and marry, you two are going to go through hell together. By the end you'll both look like shriveled prunes and any purely physical attraction will no longer exist. Even just after the honeymoon phase, if your personalities are incompatible, you will most definitely break up sooner or later. Taking the black pill doesn't do anything except ruin the personality you had. It makes you bitter and somewhat incapable of real romantic connection.
@@cicadaboi101 Atrraction does help with getting foot in door though. if your resume isn't good , then you won't get an interview , but keeping that job is about performance more than relying on your resume or profile
I believe in Red pill because it worked for me. The first 30 years of my life I was not getting anything. Then I worked on myself and my game and had an over abundance. I'm an average looking guy. I think the black pill can be relevant if you are unwilling to get yourself in ok shape and figure out who you are as a person.
@@eannane8712 Well, if you can implement such and such changes in X amount of time and get Y results, that sounds like a strategy to me. Gotta fill in the blanks is all.
The black pill pulls a girl into a conversation, the red pill ensures she enjoys the conversation, the blue pill makes sure she doesnt regret anything you did together.
The biggest issue i have with the black pill thing... is my own story. My father is a skinny fat short guy with a dad bod and an a non pleasant face at all. My mother is taller than he is and looks like a beatiful russian or ukranian woman. Now me, i am not necessary tall but i don't consider myself short neither (i am 5'8). I have a quite good physique (v shape body, rounded and broad shoulders, decent arms for my height, visible abs, defined legs and a face that gets quite a lot of compliment from older women). Now, I've never being called ugly in my life by any girl and I never got rejected because of my physique...BUT something i've learned is that the connection between a man and a woman CAN overcome any physique attributes almost always 100% of the time (unless we talk about drunk girls at the club, or online dating). And the reason i say this, is because i've being rejected by beatiful girls for conventionnaly uglier guys than me multiple times in my life... the reason : personality.
Likes times 10000000!!! You said the truth in this one comment better than he said anything in this whole looooong, repetetive, boooring video! 👍👍👍👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
I'm really glad that I have found this channel. Everything I was worried about and experiencing is confirmed. I was trying as hard as I could but nothing works and still thought I'm not good enough and reality is that reality is shitty and I'm really not good enough and never will. Just let go, if its brings so much pain. Just focus on yourself and let this world burn
Based, my philosophy is that this world is extremely cold and cruel by default. Think of all the suffering animals heading for slaughter, they were castrated at birth but no one hears their screams because they never mattered. Billions of organisms suffer whether it’s a human getting fired or a fly slowly getting consumed by a plant. In such a world, the only thing you can do is to struggle your way to the top as hard as you can and everything else can go fuck itself.
For BlackPill, I would have put game in the "B" category. It has a minor impact, but females will predominantly be selecting for genetic things that are largely unchangeable for the benefit of future members of the species.
yea tbh game rlly plays a huge role there is that guy that live streams on tiktok trying to pick up women while being a 9/10 you know jawline hunter eyes babyface fuckboi hair but he ends up instead getting roasted by his chat AND women because of his complete lack of game check this shit out its rlly fucking hillarious ruclips.net/video/v7nYZQJskmI/видео.html
Baby humans have very slow growth and require support for a very long time. Otherwise they died. That's why the feeling of love appeared in our species. Females sought caring males, who shared food with them, and were loyal. The good face/body reflected all of this in the man's family. Because good looking just means healthy, well fed, well raised, by caring parents. The male is then supposed to instinctively mimic his parent's behaviour. it's all connected. As a proof, look at studies on vegan children. They have bad teeth, no facial dev and are 3 inches shorter than average. With the same GENES ! It says it all.
In most cases interest in someone initially comes from you thinking they are attractive. Your not going to look at someone and be able to tell they have a good personality just based on their looks. You will however tell if their attractive based on how they look this is how almost every woman judges a man if they think he is attractive they will give him a chance if they don't he won't get a chance.
Stage 1 facial looks and height Stage 2 personality and game Stage 3 status and money Looks and height matter the most during stage 1 because that's the first thing anyone will see because they don't know what other person is like it's like judging book by it's cover.Stage 2 personality getting to know the person is good/bad suitable or not game is also important in stage 2 as two people are getting to know each other communication skills come into play.Stage 3 status and money this final stage because everyone wants to live luxurious comfortable life ensure stability
I've date quite a few girls and let me tell you, always stick with the ones that shows high interest from the beginning. 'Cause you don't wanna be dancing like a monke just to keep a girl interested.
Blue pill sounds like the way things SHOULD be. Red pill is the way things REALLY ARE. Black pill is right that every guy has certain limitations beyond their control to improve. But the red pill teaches us there are many factors, and we can make up in other areas for things we can't change.
I am an older man and in my experience Height, Money and status, face are all important, in that order. everything else is just window dressing. Even personality because if a woman is hot for you then she will invent a personality for you in her mind even if you are not like that.
Actual you can change your height and your face , but to change the height it can cost your money and health and to change your face is the same/ get lucky to change a lot after you lower your body fat percentage I recommend going to gym as a teenager because of that , that's what I'm trying to do
The primary point of working out in the red pill isn't working your body, which would be be ranked A, below game. It's psychological. It helps you manage your anxiety and mute your empathetic response (i.e., supports game and undercuts needy BP personality traits). So lifting would be S tier. But body would be A at best.
Have a look at Elite Model Look castings. i was surprised to see young men that dont do any particular physical activities. But they have incredible face, tall, and large shoulders (i mean the bone structure). Of course there are pageants around there with body builders. But only elite agencies castings are reliable. That's the same for women, there are subpar castings, and the elite ones... And you wont find any "fitness" girls in these castings.
The notion that confidence purely comes from within is quite hard to grasp. Most people aren’t going to be confident if there’s been no reinforcement for them to be confident.
Mammals, reptiles, even crustaceans have their brain chemistry react to their social interactions with others. Chronic negative and you'll end up neurotic. Chronic positive and you'll end up with an abundance mentality. Even though humans are self-aware animals, I think we severely overestimate how much we can shrug off.
In my opinion it's a projection of internal intellectual and emotional strength. There's a lot of us that haven't figured out how to project it. I'm definitely lacking in that department.
Very well explained! I think in the end it doesn’t really matter what pill you take as we all have to go through this life and experience its ups and downs. Its always has been this way, i am just glad we live in peaceful times or at least here in europe. If i would take a pill than definitely the Red pill for sure as I believe most of us have taken the blue one from start and the black one is just depression really.
I use the whitepill: The black one speeks the true, so i just ignore the world and focus in what i can do to be happy whitout a partner. Spoiler: it's a lot easyer than most people think
You really should add the purple pill in this. Because most guys who're on the journey to red pill but don't actually get the whole picture or can and want to are actually purple pill. It's I understand red pill things but I'm still looking for marriage and that traditional relationship. Which I would argue is very common.
This was such an intelligent and well-done video. I've realized these things throughout my 20s but have never been able to organize them into actual categories. The way you finished the video tied it all together perfectly, with how different environments will slightly change the priority of the categories. It's like you read my thoughts, neatly organized it and made a video 🤣
There's an element of truth to all of them. But the world is so large and varied that all are viable. I've seen super nice guys with no game, shy, and skinny/chubby attract pretty or cute girls same for geeky or quirky individuals. I've seen girls absolutely reject "chads" and "alphas" claiming to be disgusted at them (there are those who do find them attractive but are also ashamed of the fact). It's all down to personal preference and who you meet, circumstances and experiences. When you somehow manage to be happy with who you are, wanting what's best for you including self care and improvement, and stop holding relationships and sex in high regard, things come more naturally. Also you know....get out more to places that reflect your interests. Speaking from experience, i'm still trying to improve on this, but don't hyper-fixate on just getting a girl(or guy) because then you'll settle for most anyone and find yourself jumping from one to the other in short term unfulfilling relationships. Imo, i've always hated the notion that the guy HAS to be the one to impress the girl. For my kings who may be struggling out there, become the man that girls have to line up and impress YOU for attention. We gotta even the playing field, we're better than this. 💪
there may be an element of truth the all of them, but they're all wrong for the same fundamental reason. they all imply that every woman is attracted by the same thing and/or wants the same thing out of a relationship, which is just ridiculous when you think about it. I've had girls reject/break up with me simply because of a lack common interests, something that's completely understandable (I'd reject a girl for the same reason) that this video doesn't even bother to mention. I basically agree with all your advice here, don't go out with the specific intent of picking up chicks, just go to places you'll like, and if you find someone, you find someone. It's not about getting *a* girl, it's about getting *THE* girl, the one that you're right for and is right for you.
Black Pill covers "the general trends" of what females are looking for in men, which makes the probability of you attracting a female high. But don't forget that each girl are their own human being and complicated, thus they can easily not follow the general trends. I would say guy are generally attracted to fit, curvy body, but I know plenty of guys who are only attracted to chubby girls or even only super skinny girls. Girls are the same way. I have a female friend that are basically only attracted to dadbods. A good example is an girls that have higher education. For those girls "intelligence" would be in S tier since they could not stay with a guy that they cannot have an intellectual conversation no matter how hot they are. Do most girl care about height? Yes. Is there some girl that do not care about height? Also yes.
I feel like you forget that a woman who doesn’t care about height therefore has a much larger dating pool to pick from. Making the other aspects far more important that you are superior to every other competitor. Truth is these concepts only really exist in the dating world, and they’re not the only ways you meet somebody. There’s truth in them all the problem is the method i guess
@@Beamboy555 I think the problem with all these “pills” is that a lot people think it’s the end all be all, but in reality the girl in front of you may not give a shit about your shredded abs. Now these people are super confused why they couldn’t attract the girl they wanted to and find the next “pill”. Also I find it hypocritical that guys criticize female for only focusing on looks, when they themselves would not be okay with dating a subpar looking female. In reality, not great looking female does not focus on the look that much because they know they can’t attract 9/10 guys so they would much rather find someone with 9/10 personalities. Yes 9/10 looking girls would look for 9/10 guys because they can and both parties would be happier that way. Why not use their privileges.
@@haruhidaso it’s as simple as if you’re playing dating games based upon initial attraction you’re going to get those results. It’s much harder for women to have the same initial attraction from men because of the biological/social risks involved. Which obviously creates the disproportionate levels of attraction we see in studies. The problem is social media so when guys who aren’t going to succeed that way spend 12 hours a day behind a screen they’re going to get the results they expect. I do believe that there are some people who are absolutely screwed though a 4’11 bald fat man is going to receive the “sub human” treatment but a lot of people get caught up on these ideas because they’ve spent their childhoods becoming social online rather than in person.
@@haruhidaso I agree with the hypocrisy but the fact a man will sleep with anyone while a woman sleeps with who they want is a factor that all of this is based on. Which is entirely inherent to hookup culture on social media
Blue Pill is honestly kinda hard. How many people around you can you truly say that they have genuine “great” personality. I can probably name 2-3, but I can name way more people that has a great face or body
@@assumingninja9407 But improving a personality is a lifetime journey and much harder than you make it sound. I think that’s why a lot of “nice guy” fails because they aren’t really changing their personality but only faking them. I think it’s much easier to get fashionable, get a good body by working out, or even become smarter because all these stuff you just have to do it. You can follow a specific diet and regimen to get some abs, but you can’t really do that for the personality. You can change your behavior and act nice, but if your personality haven’t truly changed, you can’t be who you aren’t 24/7. You can change and improve over time, but I personally think it’s a much harder task than improving other aspect of you. That’s why I said I cannot name too many people that I can really say they have a “great” personality.
Blue is for dating/marrying a colleague, someone you actually spend time on regular basis anyway and it's more important how she feels with you. Red is for clubs, pickup artists etc. basically meeting someone new and your success is dependent on the moment. Black is for social media, tinder etc. where your personality & game don't mean much if she swipes left. They are all true and valid, depending on the situation.
Problem is even in warm environments and cold environments, you might be approaching a woman who prefers dating apps. I really hope feminist movements begins to coach women into making warm approaches more but that won't be happening anytime soon. Basically the feminist movement as a whole want to create a culture of blue pilled Chads. The thing is Chads generally don't become Chads by believing the blue pill most of the time. You don't fail upwards as a man, you don't gain self improvement by "living your best life."
@@BenTomlinson1994 I wouldn't count on dating apps becoming less popular ;) For me the only thing you can do is work on all pills. Take care of your looks/photos, take care of your game/being emotionally attractive and take care of you humanity so you're kind to yourself and others in a long run. And if she's looking for someone else then find. You did all you could have and move on.
You've got it all wrong. I am blackpilled EXACTLY because I have always been amongst people, in church, at work, in a band, in scouts etc. There I learned that the face and height is everything.
I’ve taken the ultimate black pill, which is, after success with women, mostly on account of face, height, status/money, and a naturally confident personality, (never worked out too much LoL), I’ve still chosen, on account of religion, to abandon sin and to embrace voluntary celibacy and become a priest. Also, got fed up with the female nature, specially seeing who they are through being successful with them.
Life is too complicated to have one solution. There is no real pill that works. There is no one sole factor that dictates your love life. It's everything. Even if you are perfect you can still lack satisfaction
In reality, it's like this: A Tier: Face, Height, Status, Money, Game, Body (in that order). B tier: Personality. NONE of the A-Tiers are non-negotiable, but you do need to be strong in all of them overall. If you have an extreme level of any A-Tier quality (model face, basketball height, very famous, billionaire, master manipulator, Steve Reeves physique), you can pull girls even if you lack all the others. Personality helps IF you already have some strong A-Tiers traits, but it's nearly useless otherwise.
You forgot the "Purple Pill", which means: 1. Confident ("Know your limits") 2. Cautious ("Trust, but verify") 3. Canny ("Be keen on the nature of women") Usually, you get inspired by a Dad, Uncle, Grandfather, who will lay down the nature of women, especially how to avoid toxic women, or know the signs of toxic women DURING a relationship.
One comment I might add here is that your bodyfat percentage has a big impact on how your face looks. If you've never been lean that could be a thing to focus on if you don't like your face because you will look different with less body fat.
God...its a tough pill to swallow but at the same time...peaceful. Everything just makes sense, personality, commonality, all that shit about "be yourself" and "just get some confidence"...is just that...shit. you finally realize you arnt crazy and it's just something you can't really change....sure you can MAX, but only so much....there's a certain serenity in knowing you can't really do anything about it.
You should add ''frame'' to non-negotiable/requirement in the black pill, it's another thing that men can't control and determined by gene. Even if you have a good looking face/height but you have small shoulder/wrist/rib cage etc you will get rejected.
One pill I think is neglected is the celpill. Suppose you tap out on love and accept that you're unworthy of any woman. The pain doesn't stop there. You will be bullied and seen as second class because of that. This was my experience
Look I'm 5'3 and I found that my life is almost revolving around those pills theory, and interestingly those involved around almost every aspect of life. You know I have that experience going from blue pills to red pills and to black pills when I hit the rock bottom. But remember why you started motivated me back to the process like coming back to the blue pill. And it's like the life circle
If she's below average height, the more height she will demand. So if she's 5'0", she will want you to be 6'0". Only if it's an average height female(5'7" is generally avg female height in the west), that all you need to be is at least 2 inches taller.
My theory is because short women want best genetic for his son, so he's choose taller guy. Tall women don't bother about it because she's already taller
@@abraham8565 This. is it. Taller women on average tend to be uglier (more testosterone), so they select for better looking men rather than height. I've seen multiple taller women shorter man couples (and generally they seemed really happy, as in the woman still gushed over the dude) and IN EVERY SINGLE CASE, the guy mogged the girl facially to heaven and beyond. No one is stopping tom cruise from slaying, but tom holland on the other hand... not even his girlfriend could stay loyal to him lo.
face you can't change, unfortunately it probably factors 40%; you CAN slightly alter it with lifestyle and mood; body (workout) opens the way, confidence (game) takes the next few steps; your trajectory is SET pretty much there
Advice on height. I topped out at 17 at 5'7". At age 19, I was mentored by older men how to properly work out at the gym. Still 5'7" at 20, 21, then boom. I grew 4.5 inches in less than a year & stopped growing shortly after my 22nd birthday. I credit the gym work for stimulating my hormones sufficient enough to cause vertical growth. None of my peers had grown at all since arriving at university. People were shocked by my height growth so late & rapidly. I was not taking any supplements beyond amino acids. If you are still at the age where growth is possible, your long bones haven't capped, gym work might give you growth. The body, imo, responds to increasing muscle mass & the repair of those muscles by releasing elevated hormones. Those hormones I believe are what gave me a growth spurt.
Honestly, RealityPill is the way. The reality is all those factors matter. If you have all 6 in the top tier then you are a top tier male with basically limitless dating options. If you have none then you are screwed. Most men fall in that middle ground. Black Pill should be your foundation in understanding your baseline in the dating market and really the world in general. Red Pill is your motivation to change and improve. Blue Pill is how you treat others and your overall humanity towards people. You need them all.
@@Traumatised311 I mean, not to seem gay, (I hate that I have to qualify that), but Logan Paul looks like a male model. Lol He got all his status and money from his good looks. That’s how he is able to act anyway he wants. Chads get away with a lot!
@@benbenben123ben I would agree Like he's handsome any girl from any country would say he is handsome But his personality is 🤮🤮🤮🤮 His brother is a mistake in evry way But Logan is smart enough to network grow business I've watched his podcasts he's not that dumb
i kinda just see blue and black pill as overly optimistic and overly pessimistic respectively (both definitely based off some truth) but I think red pill is both more true and more helpful as a mindset
Being a guy who’s 5’6 and having a relatively attractive face I have had no issues in the dating game particularly with attractive women who were my height and even slightly taller. Sure, height matters but not as much as people think.
it truly is subjective it's totally dependent on what the woman is looking for marriage=blue, short term/one night stand/hookup=red, boyfriend/LTR=black
Height always matters, I am 1,92m and I cannot recall how often woman just look at me because they see me standing out in the crowd, for most of them, it does matter a lot. even still today as I am 50.
Skip choice based on colors. Just take a good antidepressant and you won't care about girls, happiness, sadness, love, hate or anything else. Emotions are just chemicals in the brain and a good antidepressant will neutral them. Antidepressants take all the bumps out of the road of life. You slide along without being affected by all the BS in life. Almost nothing will make you mad or upset because you won't care less. It may sound boring, but it's actually the greatest thing ever. Imagine your life when nothing upsets you, nothing bothers you, no stress and truly carefree.
@@ClaudiaGarcia-td3kl Heck NO! Comfortably Numb is the greatest thing ever. Truely not caring about anything or anyone but yourself is the most liberating thing ever. It gives you the confidence to face anything every day.
It's all genetics. Even your ability to stick to a task is genetics. Your IQ is genetics and IQ is crucial to get and maintain status to read situations and remember what worked before. Also impulse control is another huge factor. If your short and low IQ low impulse control you will be fat and unemployed or in a low quality job. If your short and high IQ good impulse control you won't be fat and you will have a good job. All genetics.
If you have terrible genetics, the juice might not be worth the squeeze in the dating world, but you might still find fulfillment in other areas of life, thereby making peace with life as whole in the end.
Red pill is the way to go. Seriously guys work on yourself like you have never worked on it before. Whether its your physique, your hobbies, skills or your personality. Please do this for YOURSELF not because you want to attract some garden tools. Sure this will take some time, a few years maybe but at least you will be in a much better place physically, mentally, emotionally and maybe even spiritually. You will LOVE YOURSELF so much, you will be oozing of confidence, great fun personality, "relationship type" just make sure she isn't some modern day feminist that is iNdEpEnDeNt eMpOwErEd. If you want a lasting and successful relationship perhaps marriage then PLEASE go for a girl that is traditional, you might have to go overseas but its worth it because westernized whamen are not marriage material noawadays.
Depends on which country honestly. Here in the western world height is becoming a higher and higher standard. 178cm which is my height i can safely say was ok possibly 20 years ago with like 178cm being a pretty decent height but its increased until that's borderline subhuman. now the standard is 184-190cm to be acceptable height. but in majority of the third world countries a acceptable height is roughly 168-178cm for a man. Face in the other hand is tough to say which is more important. Ive literally had girls 168+cm complain that im too short but 160cm girls think im a keeper. depends on the standards but i can defiantly say that the height standards have gone up and up. But im not complaining my bloodline has literally been cursed my great grandfather was 6'10 on my fathers side he married a 4'10 woman and also my mum is 5'0 and all the males on her side are 5'10 or shorter. so the Hight gene was servilely diluted. I reckon its great natural selection is occurring in some way or another. and we will continue to see myself and others height being eradicated. Indian might take awhile though due the arrange marriages.
@@BlunderCity Is that in 1st world countries? Makes sense average NZ female height is 165cm so that would make a man 182cm adopting that standard. Roughly 6ft
@@Artofwarthebookof5rings I believe the study was in America. They calculated it by asking women what their ideal range was. So the women gave anything from wide ranges like 5'7 to 6'3 or narrow ones like 5'11 to 6'1. They then took the midrange (so in the second example it would be 6ft) and averaged all the midranges. They did that for short women, average height women and taller women. Short and average women were asking for heights of around 7 inches taller. So the most common average is 5'4 (164cm) meaning girls had an "ideal average" of 5'11 (180cm or 2 inches taller than the male average). A 5'1 girl would want a 5'8 guy (172cm of 1 inch shorter than the average). But what was interesting was the tall women: their had way lower differentials. The lack of very tall guy probably meant they were OK settling for someone just a little taller than them. So I think if you're short, you should try very short girls. If you're tall, you should try tall girls because they have a reduced dating pool. But of course the problem for me is that I love short girls. I'm 6ft tall and would do better if I targeted taller girls but I find them less cute than the shorties.
@@BlunderCity That's interesting. That conensides to my life experience my current gf is 5'4 which is pretty close to my 5'10 height if you apply the 7inch standard from the study. Before that was 5'1 and 5'6. Regarding the taller weman I can assume they have lower differentials were due to accessibility like yourself being 6'0 and a lot of other men we usually like shorter weman so there for weman of tall stature would have a smaller pool to choose from. Whilst forceing them to be less selective.
Height has almost nothing to do with it in your case because your face is already more attractive than 90% of males. Height helps a lot if you don't have a good looking face.
Black Pill is for Tinder, Red Pill is for the club and Blue Pill is for church.
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Hahahah well summarized
Lmao
😂😂😂😂
Based
Step 1: be attractive
Step 2: don't be unattractive
Step 1: Get laid with another man
Step 2: Profit
That’s only to sleep with a woman, you can’t keep a good woman if that’s all you have, trust me
@@SharkAcademy Yeah personality is the most important thing to keep someone, looks are just the gateway. I cant believe people shape their views on those “pills”. Theyre all here tryna bang someone and Im like fuck no I will build healthy relationships based on trust , not temporary attractiveness and money.
@@SharkAcademy Good woman in 2021? Where? Maybe in the Amish community, even there it's doubtful really.
@@mainlander3920 do good men exist? If a good man can exist, a good woman can exist. Are they the 1%? yes, but we both exist
Treat yourself the redpill way, treat your love life the blackpill way
Underrated comment.
In my search for truth, I feel this comment resonating with my beliefs
Pretty much me. Red or everything but black relationship/love life. No chance so I am off doing other things I enjoy.
@@diegoyanesholtz212 that’s just proof of how much social economic status matters to women. Those women likely picked up on the fact you were a foreigner/ westerner.
Spot on…. The Video misses the redpill point… you don’t do it for her, you do it for you… make money for you, boost your fitness for you, work on your confidence for you…. Chase excellence for yourself… not for her.
Blue pill trait most people ignore is that childlike feeling of genuinely feeling loved. I miss that
Chad gets that.
I get that with tulpas. Humans aren't required. Dreams can also do that.
U guys don't treat women kindly
If you respect women and love them
They will date u or even marry u
@@Traumatised311 That's a bizarre accusation. Also, it's totally not true that if you treat women a certain way you get relationships. That's only partly true if you're attractive, and even then not really all that accurate.
@@someonesomeone25 ikr some women like bad boys and stay in abusive toxic relationships
These women make it's hard for us other women who like chivalrous gentlemen
I would take a guy who's 5.7 something ok looking but treats me right
Over toxic narcissistic guys
But fucked up women liking toxic guys is yikes and bad for nice guys and for nice girl's
That way bad boys will fuck around with 45 girls and marry us nice girl's
Nooooooooo
I will become cat lady
i think nomatter which is true you should still focus on improving yourself to the max, because thats the only thing you can do
Agree....At this point. Your comment is the only thing that make sense
Yep, that the philosophy of stoicism, don't get hung up on things you can't change.
So… redpill
@@rollie8101 Whitepill.
@@BlunderCity agree, don't think too much about something that outside of your control, just focus to improve things you can control
out of all three, red pill is by far the best medicine for treating yourself (dating excluded)
Between delusion, hopelessness and hopefulness, it's pretty clear which of the 3 is the healthy mindset.
@Charles Huang Speak for yourself. The red pill got me laid. A lot. Not that it really matters in the scheme of things.
@Charles Huang how about just letting go of thinking of women as a priority or emergency and just focus on yourself? self-knowledge, self-improvement and look to have fun alone? We don't really need to categorize those trains of thought as pills every time. For example, where would you fit stoicism in? Or christian teachings of a couple? For reference, "the man should give his life for the wife while the wife should respect him above any other man (literally only below God himself) and submit to him, and both should cater to each other's needs above their own for their whole life." Some bring reality, some bring hope, I don't think you should be fixed in any of these all the time because none of them apply 100% everytime everywhere(I doubt you can believe you will find a girl willing to be a christian wife in Vegas. Or three girls willing to have a foursome in a church, its at least highly unlikely)
@@lukewood2662 you are fooling yourself, you can’t be complete without filling essential needs such as getting laid. Only few men can achieve that, too much black pill leads to become a monk suicidal or a hermit
@@whysoseriousiamnot9772 "can't be complete"? Can you elaborate on this?
I say, unless you lack in all 3 areas at the same time: looks, personality and money/status, you have a chance. But if you are too unatractive, too poor or have too bad of a personality, other traits will not save you forever.
There has to be a minimum requirement for all three categories and its essential to meet those requirements for a relationship to occur.
Where I disagree with all the pills comes from the fact that they prioritise some and disregard some other traits and its unhealthy. While they do analise the impact of good qualities, they fail to show when some bad qualities end up making good qualities meaningless in the long run.
I only have the personality
I am also successful in love
I agree, as a general statement aside from the 3 pills, if you are too extremely below average in any category you'll get no bitches
This! 100% percent.
The Black Pill is comparable to the void. When you look at it, it looks back. It will either break you or make you stronger.
is the void a reference to something or are you just talking about space
@@gameonyolo1 I would say it's the lack of hope
The void will always tell you the truth, even when it lies.
#Nietzsche
@@gameonyolo1 I think it’s a reference to some sort of written work, “when you stare into the void, the void stares back” but it’s actually misquoted I think. It essentially means something like when you look long enough into the darkness, you yourself become the darkness eventually. Or that’s the general understanding of it.
Guys: don’t label yourself. The best piece of advise I can give is just treat them and hold them accountable for how the woman you’re dealing with acts, at the same time just be as cool as a cucumber and have some self respect for yourself with healthy boundaries, it’s that simple.
Got stood up? Call her out on it in a humorous way. Showing you signs she’s trouble? Cut her off. Stay healthy, maintain upkeep on yourself, focus on making more money each year. Don’t be lazy.
And when you think about it, these are like basic requirements for you not just as a man but a human being
HARD FAX
You deserve a medal for this take.
Why you being so logical?😎
thats cute and all, but I still feel this red pill/MGTOW thing is important because it means more men get to see it and share their opinion. Before it men would just have to learn the hard way. If you are agree or disagree with it, or have your nuanced opinion, thats fine too.
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Blue pill: "Just be yourself!"
Red pill: "Be yourself when you become best version of yourself."
Black pill:"Well life is shit and move on."
Red pill is mostly on personality. I read a book and researched on the topic. Physical improvement even like exercise for a better physique, I didn't even see.
@@FPSmaster291 who researched the author of that book?
Black pill:"Well life is shit and don't become best version of yourself."
@@plethondimos576 I agree
Wise pill:"You'll be yourself, when you become fitter and more powerful"
Something also to note is this: in war, the fighting is always easier than the reconstruction. In the same way, keeping a relationship alive and maintaining it at optimal levels will certainly be more difficult than finding the woman. If you’re not equipped to do with what comes after making the catch, then you’re set up for failure right from the get go.
Red pill is biology. Blue is lies. That’s it
Bluepill = You believe lies, you live the lies
Redpill = you know the truth, and remain optimistic
Blackpill = you know the truth, but believe all is lost
“There’s no sadder sight than a young pessimist (except an old optimist)” -Mark Twain
@@SuperAnimecity
Plastic surgery is not a good idea. People will see you have had work done sooner or later, and the payments to maintain your perfect body will stack up. Unless you have sever facial deformities. And having a big nose or weak jaw do not count as facial deformities.
@@cicadaboi101 if you become rich you can fix all your subfive categories as long you don't look THAT bad.
Not sure why the OP has so many Likes and is a "Top Comment." He's asserting that both Red Pill and Black Pill are "beliefs" and that either one of them could be equally true.
That's a bunch of bull crap though.
And you guys who endorsed his post have fell for it.
@@True_Christian
They are beliefs. Anything claimed to be true is a belief.
@@cicadaboi101 It is true that if you spend 10 minutes in a vaccum, you die. Now go prove my belief wrong, champ.
We need all 3 pills in the right doses. I've had enough blue pill growing up so now I just need enough to have hope and stay motivated. Red pill is what I'm mostly eating now, I'm focused on self-improvement. The black pill is needed when dealing with failure. You can blame externalities when you fail.
Aditya 4 things matter in life: intelligence (98% heritable according to studies on identical twins living separately since birth), athletic talent (strength, speed, agility, about 75% heritable minus steroid abuse which can make up for shit genes in terms of strength), looks (height, skull shape, skin quality, hairline - 80% heritable), health (80% heritable).
You can blame any of your successes or failures on genetics and you will probably be right. Especially in case of successes, you don't beat 8 billions of people without being a freak of nature.
@@nihilism6226 why worry about things you can't control. Focus on what you can influence. Do your best and that's all anyone can do.
If you feel you were born with a bad set of cards, that even if you work on your 20% you can't achieve what you want then reevaluate your expectations from life. Tone down your desires, move to a third world country, appreciate what you have compared to the millions suffering.
@@AdityaPrasad007 What you can control is relatively unimportant. Because anyone can control those things. So by law of supply and demand (8 billions of people can do this activity, compare say ~300millions of people who are actually attractive), it is worthless.
@@nihilism6226 most people who are born with looks don't need to work that 20% they get away with not having to work on personality, skills, knowledge, experience. Complacency is a real thing.
@@AdityaPrasad007 stop the doomer shit just get shredded big up the father of zyzz
Blue pill : Comforting Lie
Black pill: Hard truth
Red pill: Fighting for a comforting truth
Both Black and Blue are excuses for taking no responsibility
More like black pill: very young nihilistic lads
@@Altashheth08 Quite the contrary. If you ask me, Red pill is best compared to the Bargaining stage of Grief. It’s a overcompensation due to an inability to face reality.
Black pill is the truth, red pill will teach you to move your ass and improve on those things that you can. There's nothing much you can do about your genetics, which is a tough challenge for a short man like me. All I can do is to improve my status by grinding on my career and to improve my fitness and health.
This channel deserves more subs. Your videos are so high quality and high IQ.
I think there is no such a thing as "Game" or its just realy easy if you alredy looking good and tall. Women just laugh on your shitty jokes, and they dont even know what you talking about. Women also glamourise your depression, insecurities etc. Great video btw
This is the true .
Game don't matter
If you know how to talk to women normally without stammering you're good
LMS is 80% of all attraction and it's always been this way
@@amanawake5202 I agree with you until "always been this way". I opine LMS has only become the dominant factor in the turn of the 21st century, namely because of advances in technology/online dating/social media.
I have a new video released today going In-depth on exactly this subject; How the Blackpill is becoming more and more relevant for dating in 2021. Check it out see if you agree..
Link: ruclips.net/video/KiYrp_4Chmo/видео.html
@Keloketto I would argue game has different levels of importance based on your own looks. For Sub-5's game won't matter because he will get rejected anyway, likewise it won't matter for 8+ men because he's been pre-selected, as you stated women will "laugh on your shitty jokes". For 5-7 (normie tier) men however game can make a difference because it will set you apart from the majority of men. This is a huge generalization obviously but you get the idea..
@@WheatWaffles will definitely check it out
LMS has always been true it's just that nowadays importance of looks has increased earlier money and status used to be dominant factor because women were not present in the workplace as often as men
I'm a mix between the Black Pill and the Red Pill, so that makes me a Dark Red Pill. I know that working on yourself is important, but there's only so much that you can do. Eventually, a woman will get bored with you anyway.
Black pill is just a brutal reality check of your situation, which in turn helps you decide whether or not to pursue the red pill or accept defeat
Black Pill also serves as an excuse to not better yourself for some people, which turns into a self fulfilling prophecy as you now act according to how you feel 'undateable' for instance.
@@Aratrok1 I swear this is the number one reason why I cant get behind the black pill. Even if you have been dealt the worst possible hand in life you wont get any good results at all without effort. Using other peoples superior genetics as an excuse wont help.
@@dejanstojkovic8757 This is true for sports, fitness etc as well.
Yes people will have better genetics than you, but will all of these people even compete? Will they try as hard as you and fully utilize their potential? There's so many more factors to this, the mentality of a man that's not even trying is already baseline unattractive and - that - has nothing to do with the geometry of their face
@@Aratrok1 bro I just started doing Muay Thai/MMA after years of being obsessed with these sports. The fact that I can give 100% and dedicate myself to a craft that I am passionate about makes me more excited than going on dates with girls. Life is about balance and each of us has to find theirs.
I prefer the words "embrace" defeat.
Short term:
1. Face and height
2. Body
3. Game
4. Money/status
5. Personality
For long term:
1. Money/status
2. Face and height
3. Personality
4. Body
5. Game (manipulation don't work in long term)
@A Man Awake I did touch on this in the final chapter of the video although I should have elaborated further. I do agree it is different short term Vs. long term. Namely factors such as personality become more relevant, however the main point I was trying to convey is most men WON'T REACH the latter stages as they have already been rejected in the initial interaction, the primary reason for this being face and height. I'm glad we agree the Blackpill hierarchy is correct for short term, however can you please explain why you have chosen money/status as top for long term?
@@WheatWaffles face and height as minimum requirement will always be there in long term too but money and status becomes more important in LTR (marriage or live in) because money symbolises power and women are attracted to power ever since the hunter gathering days
Many women who had 6'2 as minimum height requirements eventually settle with a 5'10 guy with money once she hits the wall and this happens a lot.
But I can't predict for current zoomer generation as in this generation looks above everything is true because of rampant social media.
Your presentation was good and you had researched the matter very well.
No matter what looks money status always remain the big three from what I've observed. Game and personality can be easily developed ones you have a decent social circle
@@amanawake5202 women of today have their own money . So now they choose the attractive men
@@kevinwilson3337 most couples are equally good looking and research backs it up. The difference is money because women have their own but they want more
Obviously looks are level 0 always but looks matter more in short term encounters more where it's like 90-10 that's why most blackpill guys are below 25
Zoomer generation may not marry and break the trend but till now this was the trend.
@Jeremie Mazza I agree with you partially but sexual market value and relationship Market value are different things
Game is definitely important to attract women. but only after you've achieved either looks, status and resources. Remember women are stimulated initially by a man's looks, resources or status. Game then maintains that woman's interest and attraction. Having game without looks or status to a woman is like chips without ketchup. It's not the complete package. Game by itself to a woman is not enough, a woman will see you just as a friend or a brother from another mother, that hard shoulder to cry on. That friend that makes them laugh, that entertains them. You're basically a poor salesman to a woman, if you have just game and nothing else.
This is also spot on. I've realized that Wheat waffles places looks at 75% and game at 25%. Personally I would have that ration to be 70% to 30% respectively, adding to 100% in terms of attractiveness. In order to be attractive to get laid, you need to be at 70% or higher. That means, by just looking good enough (max 70%), a guy can get laid. But a 40% guy in looks (still above average attractiveness), can still get laid if he has near perfect game (maxxed 30%). But if the guy is under 40% looks, then even being gamemaxxed cannot help him reach that threshold.
Very good breakdown
Nice breakdown
Excu me who the fuck eats chips with ketchup and who the fuck doesnt doesnt just eat chips on their own? Is this some american thing?
@@justdaniel8239 The analogy would work better if he said having game without looks is like trying to eat ketchup without chips (Americans call them fries). Nobody wants to hear game from someone without good looks. It's disturbing. Likewise nobody wants to eat ketchup alone. It's disturbing.
You must be above 5’6” and above a 5 on the attractive scale to be considered for the poon train. 6’ to 6’6” and 8’s and up will have vip access. Requirements will fluctuate but you can improve your chances with exercise, diet, status and equity. The lower you are in the key qualifiers, the more you’ll have to compensate. Note that the highest end poon will require you to have all points maxed out, including bonus points.
LOL
@@richardlyman2961 men below 6' are invisible
@@syc6598 disagree
Try 5"8 lol
@@syc6598 tell that to prime Alain Delon
I've been in the sphere around 3 years. Never heard a breakdown quite as clear and direct as this. Kudos.
Red pill is biology. Blue is lies. That’s it
IMO, the info is correct, but one can move up the attractiveness scale in some cases. I have gone from a 5 to an 8. Always have had a lot of muscle from powerlifting, but was too fat, and it showed in my body, and my face (my face has increased attractiveness significantly by losing 30 lbs, and my body now is banging, I look like a slightly more muscular wider shoulder underwear model). I also grew some tasteful facial hair, and grew my hair out (surfer look). I wasn't short, but not tall (a bit over 5'10"). I buy taller shoes (Nike airmax are a good option).
The interactions with women are much different. I usually get lots of looks going out. Talking with women is completely different. They are giggling, playing with their hair, standing closer, and directly facing me and looking at me. My confidence is much better, but that isn't because I willed myself to be more confidence, it is because of positive interactions. Game is a by product of looks IMO, unless you are autistic.
Not every guy falls into this category. Height is hard to change, and so are terrible genetics. I have pretty good genetics (aside from height which is about average).
That’s great man im proud of ya and that’s definitely true you can pretty easily change either your body and/or hair at least most people
Hey I'm Autistic, and I call bullshit. I too have positive interactions with women, just got to work on yourself.
I have more often enjoyed sexy young women approaching me happily, the more I improve myself.
I'm 5ft 11in and 250lbs(113kg), have some belly fat, but not a balloon. Losing it of course. My chest, shoulders,, and glutes are my best friends in body looks. I have a good jawline and apparently "nice dimples". Whatever that is.
(And no, they often to absolutely don't know my process to progress, at least not at first)
Fuck buying shoes to make me taller. Im not short even (5'11), but im not going to regress to being in middle school again trying to look taller. Yuck.
If you think you're an 8, women see you as 5
... of course one may self-grow, for own sake. but is it justified beyond latter, in view of current xx.s ?! rather than dodging bullets | avoiding booby traps down the trajectory of rel.sht.s ?!
Also what a lot of people seem to miss is that you older you get the wiser you become, I bet in 10 years from now on we will be laughing about game, alpha, beta, pills etc. because once you figure out life and your own path you dont really care about this stuff anymore. Also the older you get the more responsibility you have to take and that alone will get you forward. I always talk to the older successful guys and most of them dont even know this whole game, pills, millennial stuff, and they always tell me the older I will get the better and more knowledgeable I will become so basically redpill stuff but having no clue about the red pill.
one word: experience.
Recently there's been a huge rise of incels/virgins or single dudes that are 40+ yrs old so idk about this when it specifically comes to women, but overall yeah experience and wisdom is invaluable
@@Bawks_FEET I don't think its a coincidence that this surge in the number of such men goes hand in hand with record low testosterone.
@@introverteddawg9805 hard to say what the exact cause is, my money is on mostly due to social media but testosterone is also a big one for sure.
Not entirely true. I'm currently in a long term stable relationship, have a stable job/income. Have a social circle etc. Im 6'2. By no means a chad but definitely not in the group needing this guys aid. I just love the content and I think guys don't deserve this. But maybe im just an outlier.
From a shorter guy, I'd say in terms of height it's more ideal to her if you're 5'5 if she's 5'2 or shorter, she'll consider wearing heels. There's also a near 100% chance she's dated a really tall guy and found it weird so it's still a move with her comfortability in mind.
Overall I might suggest in real life I'd say the the values bounce between red and black pill for the most part with a blue pill girl(Meaning she follows the chart) being a unicorn, it could exist but it's unlikely you're going to find it.
As toxic and strange I want to view this as, as a guy who is 6ft3 with an attractive face, I'll admit that I had zero game and still attracted above average (sometimes very attractive) women. I also still had a British accent then (Status). This was working at Pizza Hut and being slim. The Black Pill view is to an extent viable. However, the red pill seems more realistic and familiar from experience (thank God). It is night and day the comfort I have now in my own skin versus then in terms of my social experience through college, serving jobs, gains through the gym, and earning career-related credentials. Don't forget that a lot of rich good-looking people would be average if they were blue-collar - they had to improve environmental factors first.
“I don’t want to believe this”
*im 6’3 and attractive*
Well no shit bud. Imagine being born a 5’7 6/10. I might as well be a 4’9 2/10.
I'm in a similar position as the guy that just commented. The thing is, looks aren't the end all be all either. If I was a woman, then undoubtedly that is true. As a dude, you rarely can get by on just looks alone. And while getting laid is far easier when your tall and handsome, chicks still reject you when they find out you don't have a great career or have the ability to provide them a certain lifestyle. My point is, all of us get rejected in the end. Maybe 1% of men have it all, but even then. At some point Hypergamy creeps back in and chad is no longer good enough. Once a richer Chad comes into frame.
@@brocklanders3616 yup. I’m a woman. For a one night stand, I’d fuck a good looking guy. However, if he has nothing else going for him, I won’t date him.
In a relationship I value intelligence above looks. E.g. I’d date Stephen hawking. In a relationship, a good looking guy means nothing to me if he has below average Intelligence.
I graduated high school at 5'4" and grew up to 5'7" in college. I had and still have a personality that makes women comfortable / relaxed around me and had lots of friends who were girls (but NOT girl friends). I have always been comfortable / confident in who I am so confidence really wasn't an issue. But looks wise I was not an 8-9-10 and being 5'7" (rounding up) pretty well doomed me for anything beyond dating. A lot of my dates came from girls calling me when they didn't have a date because they liked hanging out with me, but it was pretty obvious when we interacted that I was not on their list of possible mates. I probably went from blue pill to black pill without going through the red pill stage. I was devastated when I was in my 20s and wanting to form a family and have kids, but by the time over half my married friends had gone through bitter divorces where the guy was essentially r - p - d in Family Court, I pretty well figured I was the lucky one by the time I was 30.
@@NegativeAccelerate but you still want chad, you still want a good looking guy but smart... men have 0 options
I heard once that the femcel subreddit got privatized after incels started flirting in their DMs lol
this feels like political ideologies except its about how to get women
Honestly its even more sickening than that.
All of this just to attract some 5/10 chubby chick..No thanks, I have better things to do with my life lol.
@@rudy1999 Exactly, I dont know why these people are so obsessed with women. 1 word- get a life, u would automatically stop thinking about women
@@rudy1999 nobody forces you xd
2% body fat is beyond low, it’s pretty much how have you not died of starvation level. The most attractive body fat percentage I would presume is at around 10-15%.
You have to be under 10 Percent to see your sixpack. So 15% is a little bit too high.
@@lilumut63 you're crazy/unaware if you think you have to be under 10% body fat to see your six pack
@@lilumut63 15% is fine, if you have 10% it will be really defined and anything under that is unnecessary and undesirable to stay at
@@lilumut63 it’s different for everyone but at 14% I was looking the best I ever have in my entire life,in my experience,which includes observing other peoples as well…10-11 is that supermodel,jacked look,any lower than that and you just look like someone who’s on an absurd amount of enhancers and lives in the gym…no issue with me if that is the case but I’ve found that other people are disgusted by
@@lilumut63 Maybe if you have really weak abs, I’m talking either skinny or fucked ab genetics, but 15 is kind of the softer not quite ripped but close look with abs in good lighting and moderately high definition, like the picture that shows when you search up Geoffrey Verity Schofield (13-15% imo), 10% is Kinobody level or close to it.
My type of pill (White)
1. Acknowledging the negative and the positive result. (You cannot control or change what has happened. But learn and understand from it).
2. Improve yourself and be kind to others (Just because you went to the gym, doesn't mean it gives you a green card to be an asshole).
3. View Money as a form of survival. Not for glamorous or status. (Throw away that branded mentality).
4. Be mentally healthy and physical healthy (Self explanatory).
5. Game doesn't exist. Only speak less than it should. (Okay this is like a Sigma vibe but you only have to speak less and let the girl speak more. Be an attentive listener then respond with a few words).
This is my own way of living. Everyone has their own pill. Make your own.
Damn dude I had an idea of a “white pill” and it was sort of like this. A jack of all trades mentality that just can’t let you down no matter what.
Interesting take. I like it.
Colored Pill:
>Unhealthy views
>Forced narrow thoughts
True Pill:
>Life is complex.
>All these traits have value
>Their value differs from person to person
>Enjoy what you have, try to improve what you can
It's always problematic to put things into categories. Rigid thinking that has no real usefulness in the real world, outside of statistics and figures.
This man has achieved the white pill
This is the closest description to "actuality"(true reality), complexity and simplicity coexist in all facets of existence, everything is paradoxical in nature.
@@Deathspell66 Everyone's reality is unique to them, so there is no "actuality" anyway. What is true for one person may not be true for someone else but they're both correct.
@@Opethfeldt actuality is factual observable phenomena in nature and the universe and is fundamentally objectively real regardless of any human beings perception of reality, that is the true state of existence. When it comes to the individual humans perception of the world I agree that they can believe that certain things may be true or false according to their point of view but in turn it does not disprove observable and fundamental realities of life and existence. This is why this OPs comment is the closest to actuality, because actuality is a complex tapestry built in with simplicity together with various mental and physical states of thinking, being and viewing life outside the observable and testable phenomena.
The truth lies in a mix between a mix of the red and black.
*Looks* and *External* are the determining factors. *Behavioral* only comes into play if you're competing with others who have similar *Looks* and *External* or trying to maintain relationships .
Regardless, good vid.
Blue Pill: There's no problem
Red Pill: You're the problem
Black Pill: They're the problem
Thats not entirely true lol
Literally everything on this comment is wrong.
@@zxylo786 ?
I agree with this comment.
All of these are toxic.
I think there are some merits to all 3 philosophies, but they apply to different people in different situations. For example:
- Blue Pill advice works best for chads. (just smile and be nice, you don't need to do much work to win)
- Red Pill advice works best for normies. (learn game, get fit, earn money)
- Black Pill advice works best for sub5 (either looksmaxing, or MGTOW in that case)
However I do think there's a generational difference as well. Looking at the statistical trends:
- Blue Pill philosophy may have been more successful in the past when Christian morals and conservative culture shaped society. Most people got married and divorce rates were low. (Silent Generation, Baby Boomers, etc.)
- Red Pill philosophy was developed and worked considerably well during the liberal cultural society, post-religious but still had some Christian moral roots. Most people still wanted families and marriage, though half of them failed for various reasons. (Gen X, Older Millennials)
- Black Pill philosophy fits the current social media influenced world, with progressive politics, extreme promiscuity, encouragement of vices over virtues, basically anything goes, post-god society. A people of mass depression, doomer mentality, physical illness and loneliness. (Gen Z, Gen Alpha)
Of course this is coming from a Western perspective.
Ive been blue, red, and black...all have there truths. The one thing I would say that I agree with (in a way) bluepillers is "Be yourself". Now when I say "Be yourself" I actually mean be comfortable with yourself. Be as comfortable with yourself as going to the fridge for a sandwich. This concept can easily fall into all pills (my opinion). You can't fulfill all the desires that will attract a woman/women (so why even try), and if you try to use one pill over the others, you will always stumble in and out of other pills. Now if you are completely comfortable with who you are (whether talking to women or men) you have complete freedom. This is extremely hard to do (especially young), and everything/everyone in the world will be against you. If you can get to that stage in life (maybe god's way of making you idk) you will be what everyone wants to strive for. You will have everything you possibly need in life.
This is a very simple way of looking at it. If you have any questions please let me know.
Gray pill.
When people say "be yourself" they mean "appear extremely comfortable in whatever environment you're in" which is part of game
"when I say "Be yourself" I actually mean be comfortable with yourself"
Then don't say "be yourself". Say what you mean
just came across the channel and want to write some encouraging thoughts - first, pretty interesting video. I also believe black pill is closest to the truth but not 100% - take some portions of every pill... e.g. there are studies that show that personality and game can highly affect attractiveness i.e. the way you move, walk and dress...also how you eat and how often you do sports. -> highly affects your skin and if you look tired.
So there is more within ones control than the black pill suggests - of course this corridor is limited but within you can actually do a lot. Dress like a superstar and work out daily in the gym if you like. Shoes which make you taller are cool, which make you look too tall look weird. Clothes and haircut can make a huge difference today.
Lastly, game is important because its a numbers game - when you got only 5% of women generally attracted to you gotta find them by going out and being social. ..just my 2cents
Red pill is biology. Blue is lies. That’s it
If you are corny or awkward , even as a 8 or 9 in face and height , eventually she will leave. Black Pill falls short cause it only deals with getting a girl and banging and not necessarily maintaining a relationship almost like PUA. Red Pill is superior in that instance and is the foundation where Black Pill stems from
Even blue pill has a place here. In the long run personality is by far the most important trait. Once you find a partner and marry, you two are going to go through hell together. By the end you'll both look like shriveled prunes and any purely physical attraction will no longer exist. Even just after the honeymoon phase, if your personalities are incompatible, you will most definitely break up sooner or later. Taking the black pill doesn't do anything except ruin the personality you had. It makes you bitter and somewhat incapable of real romantic connection.
@@cicadaboi101 Atrraction does help with getting foot in door though. if your resume isn't good , then you won't get an interview , but keeping that job is about performance more than relying on your resume or profile
@@malimal4972
Plus being promoted in that job has close to nothing to do with resume. It's about character and work ethic.
@@cicadaboi101 I agree
@@malimal4972 cope
Black Pill forever. Perfect video, even in the order of priorities. Excellent.
You are brilliant, Wheat!
I believe in Red pill because it worked for me. The first 30 years of my life I was not getting anything. Then I worked on myself and my game and had an over abundance. I'm an average looking guy. I think the black pill can be relevant if you are unwilling to get yourself in ok shape and figure out who you are as a person.
Thats a coping mechanism. Its not a strategy.
@@eannane8712 Well, if you can implement such and such changes in X amount of time and get Y results, that sounds like a strategy to me. Gotta fill in the blanks is all.
How tall are you?
Red pill is biology. Blue is lies. That’s it
do you have children
The black pill pulls a girl into a conversation, the red pill ensures she enjoys the conversation, the blue pill makes sure she doesnt regret anything you did together.
The biggest issue i have with the black pill thing... is my own story. My father is a skinny fat short guy with a dad bod and an a non pleasant face at all. My mother is taller than he is and looks like a beatiful russian or ukranian woman. Now me, i am not necessary tall but i don't consider myself short neither (i am 5'8). I have a quite good physique (v shape body, rounded and broad shoulders, decent arms for my height, visible abs, defined legs and a face that gets quite a lot of compliment from older women). Now, I've never being called ugly in my life by any girl and I never got rejected because of my physique...BUT something i've learned is that the connection between a man and a woman CAN overcome any physique attributes almost always 100% of the time (unless we talk about drunk girls at the club, or online dating). And the reason i say this, is because i've being rejected by beatiful girls for conventionnaly uglier guys than me multiple times in my life... the reason : personality.
Likes times 10000000!!! You said the truth in this one comment better than he said anything in this whole looooong, repetetive, boooring video! 👍👍👍👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
10 months later this video is recommended to me and i cracked up lmao at blue pill top tier personality. So true.
Finally a true objective analysis of the dynamics and the factors Kudos to you mate.
The only thing I use from the blue pill is “be yourself” because I’m not changing shit for any chick
I'm really glad that I have found this channel. Everything I was worried about and experiencing is confirmed. I was trying as hard as I could but nothing works and still thought I'm not good enough and reality is that reality is shitty and I'm really not good enough and never will. Just let go, if its brings so much pain. Just focus on yourself and let this world burn
Based, my philosophy is that this world is extremely cold and cruel by default. Think of all the suffering animals heading for slaughter, they were castrated at birth but no one hears their screams because they never mattered. Billions of organisms suffer whether it’s a human getting fired or a fly slowly getting consumed by a plant. In such a world, the only thing you can do is to struggle your way to the top as hard as you can and everything else can go fuck itself.
For BlackPill, I would have put game in the "B" category.
It has a minor impact, but females will predominantly be selecting for genetic things that are largely unchangeable for the benefit of future members of the species.
yea tbh game rlly plays a huge role
there is that guy that live streams on tiktok trying to pick up women while being a 9/10 you know jawline hunter eyes babyface fuckboi hair
but he ends up instead getting roasted by his chat AND women because of his complete lack of game
check this shit out its rlly fucking hillarious
ruclips.net/video/v7nYZQJskmI/видео.html
Baby humans have very slow growth and require support for a very long time. Otherwise they died. That's why the feeling of love appeared in our species.
Females sought caring males, who shared food with them, and were loyal.
The good face/body reflected all of this in the man's family. Because good looking just means healthy, well fed, well raised, by caring parents. The male is then supposed to instinctively mimic his parent's behaviour. it's all connected.
As a proof, look at studies on vegan children. They have bad teeth, no facial dev and are 3 inches shorter than average. With the same GENES ! It says it all.
In most cases interest in someone initially comes from you thinking they are attractive. Your not going to look at someone and be able to tell they have a good personality just based on their looks. You will however tell if their attractive based on how they look this is how almost every woman judges a man if they think he is attractive they will give him a chance if they don't he won't get a chance.
Stage 1 facial looks and height
Stage 2 personality and game
Stage 3 status and money
Looks and height matter the most during stage 1 because that's the first thing anyone will see because they don't know what other person is like it's like judging book by it's cover.Stage 2 personality getting to know the person is good/bad suitable or not game is also important in stage 2 as two people are getting to know each other communication skills come into play.Stage 3 status and money this final stage because everyone wants to live luxurious comfortable life ensure stability
Nah I just wanna work on myself and becoming better and if I can't get woman I would just buy one
I've date quite a few girls and let me tell you, always stick with the ones that shows high interest from the beginning.
'Cause you don't wanna be dancing like a monke just to keep a girl interested.
That makes sense
For sure, basically don't even try if they aren't sending signals and don't keep it going if those signals wane.
for some dudes it's a constant battle to keep any girl interested, either that or they genuinely can't read social cues
Blue pill sounds like the way things SHOULD be.
Red pill is the way things REALLY ARE.
Black pill is right that every guy has certain limitations beyond their control to improve. But the red pill teaches us there are many factors, and we can make up in other areas for things we can't change.
I am an older man and in my experience Height, Money and status, face are all important, in that order. everything else is just window dressing. Even personality because if a woman is hot for you then she will invent a personality for you in her mind even if you are not like that.
Hight-face-status-body- money
Actual you can change your height and your face , but to change the height it can cost your money and health and to change your face is the same/ get lucky to change a lot after you lower your body fat percentage I recommend going to gym as a teenager because of that , that's what I'm trying to do
The primary point of working out in the red pill isn't working your body, which would be be ranked A, below game. It's psychological. It helps you manage your anxiety and mute your empathetic response (i.e., supports game and undercuts needy BP personality traits). So lifting would be S tier. But body would be A at best.
Have a look at Elite Model Look castings. i was surprised to see young men that dont do any particular physical activities. But they have incredible face, tall, and large shoulders (i mean the bone structure).
Of course there are pageants around there with body builders. But only elite agencies castings are reliable. That's the same for women, there are subpar castings, and the elite ones... And you wont find any "fitness" girls in these castings.
#1 Looks/Body/Dress #2 How you carry yourself #3 Personality is your game
Confidence always comes from within. It's important that your source of confidence isn't something that can be easily undermined by someone else.
The notion that confidence purely comes from within is quite hard to grasp. Most people aren’t going to be confident if there’s been no reinforcement for them to be confident.
Mammals, reptiles, even crustaceans have their brain chemistry react to their social interactions with others. Chronic negative and you'll end up neurotic. Chronic positive and you'll end up with an abundance mentality. Even though humans are self-aware animals, I think we severely overestimate how much we can shrug off.
@@doggo6517 precisely!!!
In my opinion it's a projection of internal intellectual and emotional strength.
There's a lot of us that haven't figured out how to project it. I'm definitely lacking in that department.
@@maybachjack3050 If you base your self worth on what others think, you'll never be truly confident, even if people are validating you.
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This is so true. I am one of the few (or some may even say mythical) ppl in this community who actually knows wise amount of ‘game’/pua
Very well explained! I think in the end it doesn’t really matter what pill you take as we all have to go through this life and experience its ups and downs. Its always has been this way, i am just glad we live in peaceful times or at least here in europe. If i would take a pill than definitely the Red pill for sure as I believe most of us have taken the blue one from start and the black one is just depression really.
"Peaceful times" not anymore 😥
I use the whitepill:
The black one speeks the true, so i just ignore the world and focus in what i can do to be happy whitout a partner.
Spoiler: it's a lot easyer than most people think
You really should add the purple pill in this. Because most guys who're on the journey to red pill but don't actually get the whole picture or can and want to are actually purple pill. It's I understand red pill things but I'm still looking for marriage and that traditional relationship. Which I would argue is very common.
This was such an intelligent and well-done video. I've realized these things throughout my 20s but have never been able to organize them into actual categories. The way you finished the video tied it all together perfectly, with how different environments will slightly change the priority of the categories. It's like you read my thoughts, neatly organized it and made a video 🤣
There's an element of truth to all of them. But the world is so large and varied that all are viable. I've seen super nice guys with no game, shy, and skinny/chubby attract pretty or cute girls same for geeky or quirky individuals. I've seen girls absolutely reject "chads" and "alphas" claiming to be disgusted at them (there are those who do find them attractive but are also ashamed of the fact). It's all down to personal preference and who you meet, circumstances and experiences. When you somehow manage to be happy with who you are, wanting what's best for you including self care and improvement, and stop holding relationships and sex in high regard, things come more naturally. Also you know....get out more to places that reflect your interests.
Speaking from experience, i'm still trying to improve on this, but don't hyper-fixate on just getting a girl(or guy) because then you'll settle for most anyone and find yourself jumping from one to the other in short term unfulfilling relationships.
Imo, i've always hated the notion that the guy HAS to be the one to impress the girl. For my kings who may be struggling out there, become the man that girls have to line up and impress YOU for attention. We gotta even the playing field, we're better than this. 💪
there may be an element of truth the all of them, but they're all wrong for the same fundamental reason. they all imply that every woman is attracted by the same thing and/or wants the same thing out of a relationship, which is just ridiculous when you think about it. I've had girls reject/break up with me simply because of a lack common interests, something that's completely understandable (I'd reject a girl for the same reason) that this video doesn't even bother to mention.
I basically agree with all your advice here, don't go out with the specific intent of picking up chicks, just go to places you'll like, and if you find someone, you find someone. It's not about getting *a* girl, it's about getting *THE* girl, the one that you're right for and is right for you.
Black Pill covers "the general trends" of what females are looking for in men, which makes the probability of you attracting a female high. But don't forget that each girl are their own human being and complicated, thus they can easily not follow the general trends.
I would say guy are generally attracted to fit, curvy body, but I know plenty of guys who are only attracted to chubby girls or even only super skinny girls. Girls are the same way. I have a female friend that are basically only attracted to dadbods.
A good example is an girls that have higher education. For those girls "intelligence" would be in S tier since they could not stay with a guy that they cannot have an intellectual conversation no matter how hot they are.
Do most girl care about height? Yes. Is there some girl that do not care about height? Also yes.
I feel like you forget that a woman who doesn’t care about height therefore has a much larger dating pool to pick from. Making the other aspects far more important that you are superior to every other competitor. Truth is these concepts only really exist in the dating world, and they’re not the only ways you meet somebody. There’s truth in them all the problem is the method i guess
@@Beamboy555 I think the problem with all these “pills” is that a lot people think it’s the end all be all, but in reality the girl in front of you may not give a shit about your shredded abs.
Now these people are super confused why they couldn’t attract the girl they wanted to and find the next “pill”.
Also I find it hypocritical that guys criticize female for only focusing on looks, when they themselves would not be okay with dating a subpar looking female.
In reality, not great looking female does not focus on the look that much because they know they can’t attract 9/10 guys so they would much rather find someone with 9/10 personalities. Yes 9/10 looking girls would look for 9/10 guys because they can and both parties would be happier that way. Why not use their privileges.
@@haruhidaso it’s as simple as if you’re playing dating games based upon initial attraction you’re going to get those results. It’s much harder for women to have the same initial attraction from men because of the biological/social risks involved. Which obviously creates the disproportionate levels of attraction we see in studies. The problem is social media so when guys who aren’t going to succeed that way spend 12 hours a day behind a screen they’re going to get the results they expect. I do believe that there are some people who are absolutely screwed though a 4’11 bald fat man is going to receive the “sub human” treatment but a lot of people get caught up on these ideas because they’ve spent their childhoods becoming social online rather than in person.
@@haruhidaso I agree with the hypocrisy but the fact a man will sleep with anyone while a woman sleeps with who they want is a factor that all of this is based on. Which is entirely inherent to hookup culture on social media
Genetics isn't only about looks, intelligence is concluded aswell! That's what the blackpill is standing for= Genetic determinism
Blue Pill is honestly kinda hard. How many people around you can you truly say that they have genuine “great” personality. I can probably name 2-3, but I can name way more people that has a great face or body
Ye but u can get a better personality u cant get a better face or get taller
@@assumingninja9407 But improving a personality is a lifetime journey and much harder than you make it sound.
I think that’s why a lot of “nice guy” fails because they aren’t really changing their personality but only faking them.
I think it’s much easier to get fashionable, get a good body by working out, or even become smarter because all these stuff you just have to do it.
You can follow a specific diet and regimen to get some abs, but you can’t really do that for the personality. You can change your behavior and act nice, but if your personality haven’t truly changed, you can’t be who you aren’t 24/7. You can change and improve over time, but I personally think it’s a much harder task than improving other aspect of you.
That’s why I said I cannot name too many people that I can really say they have a “great” personality.
Blue is for dating/marrying a colleague, someone you actually spend time on regular basis anyway and it's more important how she feels with you.
Red is for clubs, pickup artists etc. basically meeting someone new and your success is dependent on the moment.
Black is for social media, tinder etc. where your personality & game don't mean much if she swipes left.
They are all true and valid, depending on the situation.
Problem is even in warm environments and cold environments, you might be approaching a woman who prefers dating apps.
I really hope feminist movements begins to coach women into making warm approaches more but that won't be happening anytime soon. Basically the feminist movement as a whole want to create a culture of blue pilled Chads. The thing is Chads generally don't become Chads by believing the blue pill most of the time.
You don't fail upwards as a man, you don't gain self improvement by "living your best life."
@@BenTomlinson1994 I wouldn't count on dating apps becoming less popular ;)
For me the only thing you can do is work on all pills. Take care of your looks/photos, take care of your game/being emotionally attractive and take care of you humanity so you're kind to yourself and others in a long run.
And if she's looking for someone else then find. You did all you could have and move on.
You've got it all wrong. I am blackpilled EXACTLY because I have always been amongst people, in church, at work, in a band, in scouts etc. There I learned that the face and height is everything.
I’ve taken the ultimate black pill, which is, after success with women, mostly on account of face, height, status/money, and a naturally confident personality, (never worked out too much LoL), I’ve still chosen, on account of religion, to abandon sin and to embrace voluntary celibacy and become a priest. Also, got fed up with the female nature, specially seeing who they are through being successful with them.
Blackpill liberated me (idk if I'm going to regret writing this comment, hopefully not)
Life is too complicated to have one solution. There is no real pill that works. There is no one sole factor that dictates your love life. It's everything. Even if you are perfect you can still lack satisfaction
In reality, it's like this:
A Tier: Face, Height, Status, Money, Game, Body (in that order).
B tier: Personality.
NONE of the A-Tiers are non-negotiable, but you do need to be strong in all of them overall. If you have an extreme level of any A-Tier quality (model face, basketball height, very famous, billionaire, master manipulator, Steve Reeves physique), you can pull girls even if you lack all the others.
Personality helps IF you already have some strong A-Tiers traits, but it's nearly useless otherwise.
I agree bro, your game is the poster child of your personality
You forgot the "Purple Pill", which means:
1. Confident ("Know your limits")
2. Cautious ("Trust, but verify")
3. Canny ("Be keen on the nature of women")
Usually, you get inspired by a Dad, Uncle, Grandfather, who will lay down the nature of women, especially how to avoid toxic women, or know the signs of toxic women DURING a relationship.
I love all the top comments’ own version of their breakdowns/analogies/metaphors, in regards to these semi-broad schools of thought
One comment I might add here is that your bodyfat percentage has a big impact on how your face looks. If you've never been lean that could be a thing to focus on if you don't like your face because you will look different with less body fat.
Not just different, better
God...its a tough pill to swallow but at the same time...peaceful. Everything just makes sense, personality, commonality, all that shit about "be yourself" and "just get some confidence"...is just that...shit. you finally realize you arnt crazy and it's just something you can't really change....sure you can MAX, but only so much....there's a certain serenity in knowing you can't really do anything about it.
I honestly believe that people don't speak about d size! It brings all types of interest from women, threesomes, friends betrayal and stuff
Ca fait tout la taille de ta D c'est incroyable
You should add ''frame'' to non-negotiable/requirement in the black pill, it's another thing that men can't control and determined by gene.
Even if you have a good looking face/height but you have small shoulder/wrist/rib cage etc you will get rejected.
8-12% body fat mentioned at 8:28 is insanely low. 15 to 20% is more maintainable and looks fine if you have enough muscle development.
One pill I think is neglected is the celpill. Suppose you tap out on love and accept that you're unworthy of any woman. The pain doesn't stop there. You will be bullied and seen as second class because of that. This was my experience
truth is somewhere halfway between red and black..
Look I'm 5'3 and I found that my life is almost revolving around those pills theory, and interestingly those involved around almost every aspect of life. You know I have that experience going from blue pills to red pills and to black pills when I hit the rock bottom. But remember why you started motivated me back to the process like coming back to the blue pill. And it's like the life circle
If she's below average height, the more height she will demand. So if she's 5'0", she will want you to be 6'0". Only if it's an average height female(5'7" is generally avg female height in the west), that all you need to be is at least 2 inches taller.
No two feet taller
I dunno where you're gettin your info from or if it's true, but I do recall reading average height for woman in USA is 5'4.
@@airplayrule probably closer to 5ft 6, for relevant women, 18-39
My theory is because short women want best genetic for his son, so he's choose taller guy. Tall women don't bother about it because she's already taller
@@abraham8565 This. is it. Taller women on average tend to be uglier (more testosterone), so they select for better looking men rather than height. I've seen multiple taller women shorter man couples (and generally they seemed really happy, as in the woman still gushed over the dude) and IN EVERY SINGLE CASE, the guy mogged the girl facially to heaven and beyond. No one is stopping tom cruise from slaying, but tom holland on the other hand... not even his girlfriend could stay loyal to him lo.
face you can't change, unfortunately it probably factors 40%; you CAN slightly alter it with lifestyle and mood; body (workout) opens the way, confidence (game) takes the next few steps; your trajectory is SET pretty much there
Red pill basically
Advice on height. I topped out at 17 at 5'7". At age 19, I was mentored by older men how to properly work out at the gym. Still 5'7" at 20, 21, then boom. I grew 4.5 inches in less than a year & stopped growing shortly after my 22nd birthday. I credit the gym work for stimulating my hormones sufficient enough to cause vertical growth. None of my peers had grown at all since arriving at university. People were shocked by my height growth so late & rapidly. I was not taking any supplements beyond amino acids. If you are still at the age where growth is possible, your long bones haven't capped, gym work might give you growth. The body, imo, responds to increasing muscle mass & the repair of those muscles by releasing elevated hormones. Those hormones I believe are what gave me a growth spurt.
amazing bro
Welp im fuxed, im 32
Honestly, RealityPill is the way. The reality is all those factors matter. If you have all 6 in the top tier then you are a top tier male with basically limitless dating options. If you have none then you are screwed. Most men fall in that middle ground.
Black Pill should be your foundation in understanding your baseline in the dating market and really the world in general. Red Pill is your motivation to change and improve. Blue Pill is how you treat others and your overall humanity towards people.
You need them all.
the 2nd paragraph is actually so true
We do all this to get a woman and what’s crazy is that in my experience once you have the woman she actually isn’t that great.
you've come a long way since this video, saying um every two seconds but now then I watch everything is way more clear concise
I think all pills are true depending on how good you look. 😂
Yeah blue pill is right you got to be yourself no matter what. But good looks are just as important
definitely, it's not binary
@@Traumatised311
I mean, not to seem gay, (I hate that I have to qualify that), but Logan Paul looks like a male model. Lol
He got all his status and money from his good looks.
That’s how he is able to act anyway he wants. Chads get away with a lot!
@@benbenben123ben I would agree
Like he's handsome any girl from any country would say he is handsome
But his personality is 🤮🤮🤮🤮
His brother is a mistake in evry way
But Logan is smart enough to network grow business
I've watched his podcasts he's not that dumb
@@benbenben123ben yeah you don't have to be gay to tell whether someone is attractive
Your speech consistency has vastly improved since this video.
i kinda just see blue and black pill as overly optimistic and overly pessimistic respectively (both definitely based off some truth) but I think red pill is both more true and more helpful as a mindset
Being a guy who’s 5’6 and having a relatively attractive face I have had no issues in the dating game particularly with attractive women who were my height and even slightly taller. Sure, height matters but not as much as people think.
Then I’m maroon pill because I think red and black need to be combined. There’s truth to both.
Yup
Same
Honestly wheat waffles is that perfect blend imo,when you think about it
it truly is subjective
it's totally dependent on what the woman is looking for
marriage=blue, short term/one night stand/hookup=red, boyfriend/LTR=black
And you have Nicolas Cruz who believed in full metal jacket pill.
Blue pill is very good for shy Chad with behaviour or self confidence issues.
Height always matters, I am 1,92m and I cannot recall how often woman just look at me because they see me standing out in the crowd, for most of them, it does matter a lot. even still today as I am 50.
Skip choice based on colors. Just take a good antidepressant and you won't care about girls, happiness, sadness, love, hate or anything else. Emotions are just chemicals in the brain and a good antidepressant will neutral them. Antidepressants take all the bumps out of the road of life. You slide along without being affected by all the BS in life. Almost nothing will make you mad or upset because you won't care less. It may sound boring, but it's actually the greatest thing ever. Imagine your life when nothing upsets you, nothing bothers you, no stress and truly carefree.
Umm... i don’t think this is good advice.. antidepressants are good on the short term but not for the long term... hope this was a joke
@@ClaudiaGarcia-td3kl Heck NO! Comfortably Numb is the greatest thing ever. Truely not caring about anything or anyone but yourself is the most liberating thing ever. It gives you the confidence to face anything every day.
The Red Pill is easily the best option. See the truth but remain STRONG!
This channal is great
It's all genetics. Even your ability to stick to a task is genetics. Your IQ is genetics and IQ is crucial to get and maintain status to read situations and remember what worked before. Also impulse control is another huge factor.
If your short and low IQ low impulse control you will be fat and unemployed or in a low quality job.
If your short and high IQ good impulse control you won't be fat and you will have a good job. All genetics.
Nurture plays a factor. You’re massively oversimplifying.
If you have a victim mentality in life you will never achieve anything.
If you have terrible genetics, the juice might not be worth the squeeze in the dating world, but you might still find fulfillment in other areas of life, thereby making peace with life as whole in the end.
Red pill is the way to go. Seriously guys work on yourself like you have never worked on it before. Whether its your physique, your hobbies, skills or your personality. Please do this for YOURSELF not because you want to attract some garden tools. Sure this will take some time, a few years maybe but at least you will be in a much better place physically, mentally, emotionally and maybe even spiritually. You will LOVE YOURSELF so much, you will be oozing of confidence, great fun personality, "relationship type" just make sure she isn't some modern day feminist that is iNdEpEnDeNt eMpOwErEd. If you want a lasting and successful relationship perhaps marriage then PLEASE go for a girl that is traditional, you might have to go overseas but its worth it because westernized whamen are not marriage material noawadays.
Depends on which country honestly. Here in the western world height is becoming a higher and higher standard. 178cm which is my height i can safely say was ok possibly 20 years ago with like 178cm being a pretty decent height but its increased until that's borderline subhuman. now the standard is 184-190cm to be acceptable height. but in majority of the third world countries a acceptable height is roughly 168-178cm for a man. Face in the other hand is tough to say which is more important. Ive literally had girls 168+cm complain that im too short but 160cm girls think im a keeper. depends on the standards but i can defiantly say that the height standards have gone up and up. But im not complaining my bloodline has literally been cursed my great grandfather was 6'10 on my fathers side he married a 4'10 woman and also my mum is 5'0 and all the males on her side are 5'10 or shorter. so the Hight gene was servilely diluted. I reckon its great natural selection is occurring in some way or another. and we will continue to see myself and others height being eradicated. Indian might take awhile though due the arrange marriages.
There was a study showing that women wanted men roughly 7 inches (17cm) taller than them.
@@BlunderCity Is that in 1st world countries? Makes sense average NZ female height is 165cm so that would make a man 182cm adopting that standard. Roughly 6ft
@@Artofwarthebookof5rings
I believe the study was in America. They calculated it by asking women what their ideal range was. So the women gave anything from wide ranges like 5'7 to 6'3 or narrow ones like 5'11 to 6'1. They then took the midrange (so in the second example it would be 6ft) and averaged all the midranges. They did that for short women, average height women and taller women.
Short and average women were asking for heights of around 7 inches taller. So the most common average is 5'4 (164cm) meaning girls had an "ideal average" of 5'11 (180cm or 2 inches taller than the male average). A 5'1 girl would want a 5'8 guy (172cm of 1 inch shorter than the average).
But what was interesting was the tall women: their had way lower differentials. The lack of very tall guy probably meant they were OK settling for someone just a little taller than them.
So I think if you're short, you should try very short girls. If you're tall, you should try tall girls because they have a reduced dating pool. But of course the problem for me is that I love short girls. I'm 6ft tall and would do better if I targeted taller girls but I find them less cute than the shorties.
@@BlunderCity That's interesting. That conensides to my life experience my current gf is 5'4 which is pretty close to my 5'10 height if you apply the 7inch standard from the study. Before that was 5'1 and 5'6. Regarding the taller weman I can assume they have lower differentials were due to accessibility like yourself being 6'0 and a lot of other men we usually like shorter weman so there for weman of tall stature would have a smaller pool to choose from. Whilst forceing them to be less selective.
Height has almost nothing to do with it in your case because your face is already more attractive than 90% of males. Height helps a lot if you don't have a good looking face.