How Africa Invented Psychotherapy

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  • Опубликовано: 9 фев 2025
  • Ghosts of the past haunting your present? Explore the psychology of ancestors and traditional healing from Africa. Discover how ancient wisdom can unlock modern well-being. #Ancestors #Therapy #Psychology #Africa #Healing #Spirituality
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    “We may feel that it is a uniquely Western neurosis, especially one afflicting people who have spent too long in psychotherapy, to go on about one’s relatives and their contribution to one’s unhappiness - to be twenty-five or sixty-two and still turning over in one’s mind how mum or grandpa have been responsible for spoiling one’s relationships or ruined one’s life…”
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Комментарии • 85

  • @cloggedaorta
    @cloggedaorta 5 дней назад +103

    I applaud the humility displayed here that acknowledges that humans are humans everywhere, with the same emotional needs, and that there's no superior way to address them. In fact, many traditional cultures show great success in helping their community simply by keeping strong societal bonds. Psychotropics are an amazing development that should be praised and de-stigmatized, but they can't replace the personal and collective work that needs to be done.

    • @Fulphilment
      @Fulphilment 5 дней назад +1

      Indeed, they can't. I've had many encounters with psychotropics and they have helped me, but I wonder if I wouldn't be better off with psychotherapy or a talk with a Babalawo...

    • @JoseRamirez-xs5lq
      @JoseRamirez-xs5lq 4 дня назад

      I agree.. I took meds for depression, then I went back home to my roots for the first time and it was beautiful to get the school of life from my grandparents we would talk for hours , we would go to the ranch and take care of the

  • @L0rdstorm
    @L0rdstorm 5 дней назад +128

    I am pleasantly suprised to see this channel recognising African traditions, thank you

    • @G.G_
      @G.G_ 4 дня назад

      The emancipation of the empire 😂😂😂😂

    • @benjaminlance8831
      @benjaminlance8831 4 дня назад +1

      Yeah, I agree. Kinda refreshing.
      A proof of inclusion through all of Human Culture.

  • @margo3367
    @margo3367 5 дней назад +39

    Fascinating. I am of an age where I can now put things in perspective, meaning, I recognize that my mother and father and aunts and uncles and sisters have one thing in common: they’re all deeply flawed human beings (as we all are). No forgiveness is involved. Who am I to forgive someone for being human? It gives me peace to not have to go over and over incidents or hurtful things said to me by them and just focus on the present and the future. ❤✌️

  • @ultimobile
    @ultimobile 3 дня назад +8

    during COVID lockdown I researched my family history and found my patrilineal 2nd Great-Grandfather and his wife left England after losing their first 5 children in infancy during the Cholera Epidemic of the 1850s - burying 3 infant children within 11 days. Their children born after arriving in Australia all lived much longer lives. I am grateful for all my ancestors' arduous struggles which gave me the opportunities I was born into.

  • @carlosr8359
    @carlosr8359 5 дней назад +23

    I do love when Alain de Botton takes different cultures to give another perspective at the same thing. It definitely gives another and maybe more fiteable way to endure or deal with some struggles that we have in life.
    Not only that, but surely we feel less lonely in acknowledging that most of the experiences that we have in life is not only ours, but it's present with humanity since to when we can date.

  • @Krissy_888
    @Krissy_888 5 дней назад +29

    This is very interesting! Goes to show that science always reaches the same conclusion, even when it's called spirituality in other cultures.

  • @Fulphilment
    @Fulphilment 5 дней назад +11

    No matter who I follow, they all get very spiritual. Be it Jason Silva or The School of Life. I need more of this, but not as a product to consume, but as a remedy.

  • @michademiavanpren5898
    @michademiavanpren5898 4 дня назад +2

    Knowing their stories allows me to walk a mile in their shoes - and forgiveness sneaks through

  • @moefromyt369
    @moefromyt369 3 дня назад +2

    this was beautiful to learn about this tradition. thanking you for opening my diaspora

  • @Freud_Sigmund
    @Freud_Sigmund 5 дней назад +19

    Its like we are still haunted by their ghosts

  • @boogs939
    @boogs939 5 дней назад +5

    Yet again, so onpoint & so refreshing 2 acknowledge Trauma awareness, therapy is an Ancient, & archetypal, part of growth that predates Western Psychology. Nuff respect 👊🏻Same process 4 inner healing, just varying semantics...much of what Freud, Jung, Bion, Winnicott, Bowlby, Ainsworth, Rogers, Hermann to Van Kolk is all reflected in Ancient Buddhist practices. Gratitude 4 ur creative, inclusive & meaningful communication in the Art Of Living❤

  • @MichaelYugo
    @MichaelYugo 4 дня назад +6

    "You don’t’ have to believe in the supernatural to recognize that the family is a hunted structure, an Overlook Hotel full of presentiments and uncanny repetitions, something that speaks ahead of us, instead of us." - Mark Fisher, Ghosts Of My Life

  • @MovementsWithMeaning
    @MovementsWithMeaning 5 дней назад +4

    This is fascinating and reminds me of empty chair work in western therapy.

  • @ZanzibarKumquat
    @ZanzibarKumquat 21 час назад

    Wonderfully made, thank you so much for this video and for sharing African traditions.

  • @weston.weston
    @weston.weston 5 дней назад +14

    Thank you for referencing non European cultures.

  • @maturesoul0109
    @maturesoul0109 5 дней назад +30

    You can be miserable, regretful, or it can be motivating for you!

    • @raymondtendau2749
      @raymondtendau2749 5 дней назад +1

      Solid point right there. Very relatable in my case.😊

    • @maturesoul0109
      @maturesoul0109 5 дней назад

      @@raymondtendau2749 Bless for you 😇

  • @AdityaMehendale
    @AdityaMehendale 3 дня назад

    Western medicine is too preoccupied with labelling such practices as "unscientific" to realize the underlying value. Thanks, TSoL, for this short deep-dive.

  • @LucasRodmo
    @LucasRodmo 5 дней назад +3

    I am from an afro Brazilian religious tradition called "Candomblé", that share the same cosmology from Bantu, Yoruba, Jeje, Fon, Mina and Keto people. And we have some of the same principles. There are some minor mistakes here, but I think this is good enough 😂

    • @jckbns
      @jckbns 4 дня назад +2

      if you mind explaining what his mistakes are i would be grateful, i'm really curious to learn more about those traditions!

  • @Fact.master1985
    @Fact.master1985 День назад

    Very very great 👏👏👏👏

  • @imene1999
    @imene1999 3 дня назад

    There is definitely similarities with the systemic constellations we have know ! Amazing!

  • @PandoricaLost
    @PandoricaLost 5 дней назад +13

    I wish mine was a ghost already. 👀🤣

    • @GrannySmith00
      @GrannySmith00 5 дней назад +1

      😂😂😂 Me too

    • @helensid6670
      @helensid6670 4 дня назад +1

      😂😂 I'm going to figure out a ritual for transforming them in ghosts in my life (not for real eh just to my mind 😅)

  • @gailaltschwager7377
    @gailaltschwager7377 5 дней назад +5

    Thank you!

  • @AbdallahBotan
    @AbdallahBotan 4 дня назад

    I am watching this after my brother-inlaw passed away

  • @mikl2345
    @mikl2345 3 дня назад

    Alan, this was wonderful!

  • @anchoudhary1906
    @anchoudhary1906 4 дня назад

    We always miss the one we can't have 😭😭😭😭
    Crying over you

  • @FuerzadelEstoicismo
    @FuerzadelEstoicismo 5 дней назад +2

    thank you

  • @לומדיםלחיות111
    @לומדיםלחיות111 17 часов назад

    Love it

  • @nias3202
    @nias3202 5 дней назад +2

    Thank you, a very beautiful animation, too:)

  • @imatthewryan4076
    @imatthewryan4076 5 дней назад +3

    the human experience is shared

  • @FunkedUpKids
    @FunkedUpKids 5 дней назад

    Wow, very thought provoking indeed.

  • @keithdmaust1854
    @keithdmaust1854 7 часов назад

    M. Scott Peck identified the healing component of therapy. It has nothing to do with the therapist's skills or training. Healing can only take place when the client trusts the therapist to walk with them through the journey as a committed partner.

  • @Therealfolkblues-1
    @Therealfolkblues-1 5 дней назад

    Greatly surprised you guys managed to get the Babalawo right

  • @YOUareallofUS
    @YOUareallofUS 11 часов назад

    nice video

  • @abhijayskumar1
    @abhijayskumar1 День назад

    If they invented that then Thanks ! Africa 😃😊♥️

  • @BiancaJones-b7k
    @BiancaJones-b7k 3 дня назад

    A am personally experiencing communication thru technology is there any videos U could recommend thankyou ❤

  • @MattCurney
    @MattCurney 5 дней назад

    Amazing! 👏

  • @ashishc.s4353
    @ashishc.s4353 4 дня назад

    Those who are dead are not dead
    Living rent free in head 😢😢
    And killing me slowly 😑😑

  • @martinburrows6844
    @martinburrows6844 4 дня назад

    Sounds a bit like 'empty chair' method in Gestalt.

  • @markmonaghan2309
    @markmonaghan2309 5 дней назад

    Fantastic

  • @freeagent8225
    @freeagent8225 5 дней назад +2

    The SOL enters the ' Twilight Zone '.

  • @lightprint348
    @lightprint348 4 дня назад +1

    similar structure in the "everywhen" that is part of aborigional australian thought processes, ways of knowing and being. Conversations with ancestors are real ongoing sometimes site specific and ever present. When i return to my "country," a place of ownership for my mob. my relationship with place, land and the present ancestors is an obligation of mutual healing and listening. Thats 60000 - 100000 years of continous culture. it sounds delusional to a western mind set, yet is more than metaphoric in experience. Some nations have boundrys of convesating and discussion, you cannot directly talk to your mother in law or talk to her through your wife. You have convesations via and culturally designated intermediary. Same skin group or spiritiual relationship as you motherinlaw. ( thats not my mobs practice but interesting structure for small groups to prevent falling outs and reinforce right way relationships)

  • @onemorechris
    @onemorechris 5 дней назад +1

    it’s the parents fault, even when they are dead.

  • @Contrel
    @Contrel 5 дней назад

    Eso explica porque mi terapeuta me previno acerca de vivir con fantasmas 👻 en la cabeza

  • @tamikash
    @tamikash 5 дней назад +3

    😂😂 When you put it that way, it seems cultures are all A little bit mad.

  • @lyndamordi642
    @lyndamordi642 5 дней назад +1

    Perhaps a deeper research into the African and Nigerian ancestral spirit beliefs. The video isn't exactly correct (or complete). But, a good attempt into understanding Africa and Nigeria spirit beliefs

  • @Leo-mr1qz
    @Leo-mr1qz 5 дней назад

    Nepotism is real. It can destroy family dynamics. 😢

  • @srishtikhanna7099
    @srishtikhanna7099 4 дня назад

    What about live ones?

  • @yetibluedog
    @yetibluedog 2 дня назад

    I find it frustrating in the west, that the deceased transcend to some ideological entity in (most) peoples minds. Its absurd and delusional to 'not talk ill of the dead'. If the living refuse to acknowledge the good and bad traits of the deceased, what is the point of a life lived? Why indeed think of them at all. An ideological memory has no benefit. There are some things a Babalao cant fix. Yet, I like the concept, and see its benefits of acknowledging the truth of the human spirit and the impact they left on others. Be it, fear of the dead, I personally see as unnecessary, as its the living that cause harm.

  • @Anuanu-uc5bq
    @Anuanu-uc5bq 5 дней назад +1

    In Hinduism it's clearly stated...

  • @LuisAFlorit
    @LuisAFlorit 4 дня назад +1

    I wonder if the Babalawo keeps charging the clients for them to ruminate for decades over a couch without going anywhere......

  • @jerobarraco
    @jerobarraco 4 дня назад

    Sounds similar to pesso boyden

  • @jameskulevich8907
    @jameskulevich8907 5 дней назад +2

    • @aliceqt6710
      @aliceqt6710 5 дней назад +1

      Could you please give us the correct information, then?

    • @Oracles958
      @Oracles958 5 дней назад +1

      And I'm Yoruba, but i can neither confirm nor deny your claim

  • @jameslarson3355
    @jameslarson3355 5 дней назад

    Why not?

  • @MsDestinydiva
    @MsDestinydiva 3 часа назад

    2:30 my life

  • @Damiaen.
    @Damiaen. 2 дня назад

    Nice video but I gotta be nitpicky :
    Africa is a continent, don't you mean Africans? Or african cultures?

  • @TheDraco175
    @TheDraco175 5 дней назад +9

    Video should be titled "How delusions of ghost parents shape some people's decisions".

    • @Naledii
      @Naledii 5 дней назад +4

      Respect other people’s beliefs

    • @DandyHippo
      @DandyHippo 5 дней назад +3

      @@Naledii respect the commenters belief.

    • @chrisgale5634
      @chrisgale5634 4 дня назад +1

      ​@Naledii Why? A belief is just a belief. I could say I believe there are fairies living on the moon, or that Elvis is alive and well and working in Costco. More seriously, many beliefs are downright dangerous. Belief without evidence is just that, a belief.

    • @Patowtow
      @Patowtow День назад +1

      This is more about the treatment of mental affliction. Also, using the word 'delusion' would feel too dismissive for The School of Life 😂

  • @DREB92
    @DREB92 5 дней назад +6

    Babalawo ask the dead why there's no clean water in my village? Can you please harness this ancient power to conjure less poverty? Some decent roads would be nice too. Such a blossoming culture, wow!

  • @Edwardbanks1
    @Edwardbanks1 3 дня назад

    They are both wrong. The Buddha taught that all life is suffering. What is the root of this suffering? The thoughts that the mind automatically generates and then you believe in. There are no spirits, just consciousness that is mismanaged by you.... the seer. Step back from your thoughts and watch them without involvement and you will begin to see clearly again.

  • @stevesaeki532
    @stevesaeki532 5 дней назад

    why am I pinned?

  • @nemanjat1096
    @nemanjat1096 2 дня назад

    How friends can flirt with each other wifes?

  • @pyeitme508
    @pyeitme508 5 дней назад +1

    Oof 😅

  • @dakota-sessions
    @dakota-sessions 5 дней назад +2

    Silly Freudian psychoanalytical nonsense. Stop looking for trauma, and start looking at GENETICS.

  • @Unknown-w1k6q
    @Unknown-w1k6q 5 дней назад +1

    First

  • @RinduSpd
    @RinduSpd 4 дня назад

    Thank you

  • @HarshDadwalYT
    @HarshDadwalYT 5 дней назад

    First