Matthew. As a mother who raised a daughter with a very infrequently participating father, in my opinion the fact that you are heavily invested in Brooklyn's life is much more important than where you're living while you show her how much you love and care for her.
Brooklyn will never forget the adventures she has with you and Penny and Lucky and Grace. She will regale her own kids with all the stories. She is a fortunate little girl to have such a dad.
Matthew, your wee girlie is learning some valuable life lessons right now, from both you AND her mom.. SHE doesn't realize it, but she'll appreciate it all when she's older. You're doing right by her and no matter what you choose to do, it'll be exciting times for you both! You know what you're giving her right now?? These pieces of video history, that she will watch as she grows, and see JUST HOW VERY LOVED SHE IS.. every girl hopes to have such a loving attentive daddy. I will continue to enjoy VanlifePLUS..You're a good old Canadian boy, how could I NOT love this?!?!
VanLifePLUS, Matthew, as a Father of 4 (now fully grown) children, there is absolutely no reason to explain yourself with regards to your little girl. You're a dad first and YT'er second, and that is absolutely the way it should be. You need to do what is best for you and your daughter above all else. Your truly, loyal, subscriber-base will be here no matter what.
Matt, there's no reason why you can't have a house, and take us on camping adventures. You are evolving, and as such your YT channel will evolve. It's all good. You're a blast, you are a natural born entertainer. Chin up. Thanks for the chat. You do you....and we'll follow. Cheers from Ontario 🫶✨🎄🍻
In a van, in sticks and bricks, a hollywood mansion, or on top of Mt. Everest, I'd watch your videos because I love your spirit and your story telling. You have a gift of entertainment that comes with a balance of humor, and real life. That my dear is tricky to do when you are sharing your life with thousands of people. Much love 💜
You won't lose many subs mate. Your content is always going to be of interest, because you are a great personality & story teller. You make the channel, Lucky, Grace, Penny, Amber & your family are a beautiful bonus. Much Love from Aus xx
Don't worry Matthew. We don't just watch you because of van life. I see you owning a bit of land someday. Maybe even building a tiny home. I can see your little one enjoying her own loft bedroom lol. Or maybe you want a big house. I'm not sure. What ever you do we will be along for the journey cheering you on. Onward and upward Matthew!
Bone doesn’t fuse overnight, or in 2 months. Give yourself time, easy with the heavy lifting, and avoid twisting movements. Basically follow the Dr’s orders! I’m not a Dr, but an OR nurse who’s done hundreds of fusions. Listen to your body and your Dr ! Enjoy you so much! Thank you for all your hard work even when you’re hurting or under the weather! I appreciate you!
You're doing everything right Matt. As a father of 4, I can tell you that you're not having any different doubts most fathers have. You're a good man and a good father. Trust yourself.
I too raised a daughter on my own. If i would have had the dad around like you are for Brooklyn... We all see how you interact with her. Please don't ever doubt anything you do! Lol I'm crying just typing this. Ive said it before, you are a GREAT dad! There are so many "dads" out there that could take notes. ❤❤❤ Mama Ree
Your daughter is at the age that she wants to be connected 24/7. I grew up with my mom having a daycare & at around 3 the kids started doing the same thing. Don't worry, she will be fine. There might come a time where you want to do something different & that is totally normal. Do what you feel in your heart is best for you.
Matthew. thank you for thanking us. Your welcome. You put out good videos for most of us. We are not all the same so it is hard to please everyone all the time. I for one will be here watching your channel whenever you bring out a video. Have a good day. ❤
Having a "home base" is what it sounds like you're thinking of for the future and that sounds awesome! As your daughter gets older, maybe you'll be able to travel some with her. Take her along to explore. This way you get a homebase as well as still being able to be remote. I totally get the desires. You gotta do what's best for you. Those who support you, will continue to do so as long as you're true to yourself.
This sounds "spot on" -- or something ĺike it -- home base makes sense. As for making parting more easy? Nope. A separate stick-and-brick won't change her, or your, separation feelings.
Live life that is best for you and your daughter and Penny. You can have adventures any place any time in a van or in a sticks and bricks. I will always watch your adventures!
Thank you for our talk today. Happy you are recovering, although slowly (but surely). You are successful because you are very entertaining and give us "quality content" 🙂 And, Thank you Matthew!
I don’t usually comment on things like this but felt the need, lol!! You should do what makes you happy!!! Many RUclipsrs that began as Van lifers have moved on to other projects. Either tiny home living or moving to another country, etc. Do what’s best for you and your little girl! 💕💕
Look, I had back surgery as will in 1997 there is a big difference between before and after. The only thing I have is when the weather changes from winter to spring and fall to winter for 1 week each time I have problems walking the pain is so bad. But I broke my back and that was a difficult learning experience for me. Your right only you know your body and what is best for you. Now saying all of that, wife and I have been married 40yrs and at this point in our life our kids are grown and it's just us so what we are doing is we have a 29' camper and we are buying property and that is where we will be living. Rent and home payment free.
I WISH YOUR LIFE TO GO THE WAY THAT IS HAPPIEST FOR YOU AND BROOKLYN........ I also hope that Amber will be a major part of both your lives .......in the future....! ❤ know your heart.
Old nurse wishing your back progressive healing as for your 27:18 life being much older than you I would expect you loving your little girl and being the dad you are that you will crave stability for yourself and her. I have to say I afore that you protect her as patents really should . God bless you always. TFS and honestly you should be on radio telling stories. Stay safe Merry Christmas
This might be one of my favourite videos you’ve made, simply because of your authenticity. Nothing gives you a better sense of how quickly time passes than watching your child grow before your eyes. That time…those memories you share are priceless . It is wise of you to recognize this, and there’s no saying that you can’t have both. There’s a world of possibilities out there. ❤
Part of the fun of the adventure is not knowing exactly where it’s going to lead you, and you can never say never because we just don’t know what the future holds. I know there’s a lot of us, myself included, that continue to follow your story because it is a story. It’s not just you and the van or the van life necessarily that holds us here, it’s the story you’re telling and the way that you tell it. So no matter what your future holds if you continue to post videos of it I’m sure you’ll be able to keep our interest. I’m glad I found your channel, it helps take my mind in a different direction even if it’s just for a little while. Thanks for what you’re doing and keep doing it. ✌🏼
As a father myself i tottaly understand you. I just think it's great that you are yourself on your channel Matt. Thank you for who you are. You are great! Grtz🇧🇪
I really enjoy your videos, short or long form. And they are always "Quality content!" 😁 We will look forward to whatever you choose to do in the future because it's not the van life or jeep life we want to see it's you and your journey through life. Thank you so much for sharing it with us!
There are many van dwellers that have a home base. Be it just a parcel of land I think that's a good idea to have a homebase. You could have your van there and build a small place for yourself. Just a thought. You take care. Take to the Lord, he will help you make that decision 🙏 😊
This video really hits home for you! Brooklyn is always #1. You’ve got 1 person here along with my wife of ALWAYS being here, and watching every minute of it. You are a tremendous person. With a heart the size of the world! I hope all is well, thank you for all that you do for us. I hope one day to meet you. I’m in Texas your in Canada. But I’ll make it happen somehow! Matthew Stay safe, Stay Warm, keep being you!😀❤️🙏
Oh Matthew...you did it again. Another fabulous video. I love how you change things up. And I love how you don't take anything for granted. Yet I also want you to please relax and breathe. There will always be someone who is an expert in your life...who will be upset about heaven knows what. There's nothing you can do about that. Be true to yourself. Continue raising Brooklyn to be a confident independent woman. Be the best father and son and brother and uncle you can be. Which is all on it's own, pretty amazing! So, ya, thanks!
your a great dad maybe time to think about small plot of land with a tiny house and still be able to be off grid surely there are places around there that can be off grid cabin
Brooklynn has the most amazing dad and mom. The life lessons will be so valuable to her when she is older. You are one of the most attentive fathers. There are lots of little kids that don’t have that connection with their dad like she does with you. It’s natural that you would want to think about the future of having a place of your own like a sticks and bricks home for you and her. No matter where or what you live in, the time you spend with your precious little girl is what is most important. ❤❤❤❤
Surgery - You hit it on the nail Matthew. Everyone knows their own body and what they can/can't tolerate. I was hopeful and yet scared for you when we all had learned about your surgery but I chose to keep my own personal thoughts to the whole situation to myself because you didn't need that. The Future - Anything is possible in anything you put your mind to. I'm one of those ones who will be here for the long haul as I enjoy you and your channel. I have seen other RUclipsrs whom I also follow, who along the way have changed the scope of their channel. I haven't left them either. Sometimes deviating from the regular path can be good. But ultimately that will be your choice. I honestly don't think you would loose many of us. Brooklyn - She is definitely Daddy's lil girl ;) But again, I'm so proud of how you keep her protected in your video's and still allow her to express her wee mind with us all. I think all that Brooklyn wants is her time with her Dad! You will share with us what you are comfortable with and some stuff remains in the background, personal & protected. And that is perfectly fine!
Hey U, thanks for the indepth update on your back surgery & recovery ...I must say your really doing AMAZING for 2 months in now!🙌. I do also APPRECIATE your candid share on your current thoughts and future endeavors ...we do all change as we age, and I can DEFINITELY feel your hearts concern about your daughter 🧡👧. As I said before, I'd watch U watch paint dry ...my vote is that if possible, you purchase some land in the future!👍🤗💖😇.
Can't believe you manage a video every day. Two or three a week would still be awesome. You are so good with you daughter and she will never forget the Van time!
I think you are a great dad and what I have watched you do and say and interact with your daughter has been wonderful. I don't necessarily think it will really matters to her whether you live in a van or you get a bigger motor home and you like the style of living that you have and want to move forward with, as long as there's a place for her, A little house is nice as well. And to tell you the truth don't worry about it. You are doing a fantastic job and when it's time to do something else, you'll know, And you want to do it for the right reasons. She's gonna have fun with you because she always does, There's quite a number of families 3 and 4 kids living in their motor homes and traveling the world and they love it. And the kids grow up loving it. So no worries, You're a great dad. You're doing a great job and as the decisions come to be made you will make the right ones for you and for your precious daughter.❤
The creative juices that flow through you Matthew, can not be contained to Vanlife vlogs. I’m very excited about any new direction you decide to go because, as you say, you are a story teller and your wonderful gift can only grow to new heights as you share with us your adventures, your stories, your life, from new vistas , new projects, good times and bad we are with you. …..and loving it.
Matthew as we get older things sometimes change and that’s ok ! I always say go with your heart! You will know what to do in the right time 😊 Thanks for sharing ❤❤
Your clearly a very good Dad to your wee girl,and the memories she will have growing up with her dad will be stories to tell in her future Matthew, your doing a great job pal .
You are a nice person, genuine. Whatever you do is the right thing to do. Life changes. What is forever? Our children grow up and sometimes they are not close ,some are. God Bless what ever you choose to do.
Just keep showing up for your daughter. Time with her is what matters not where you are living. ❤. Many people live in a house but not in a home. Love your channel... viewer for life regardless of what you do ❤.
Over the years I have been watching on RUclips these two Canadian doctors talking with docs, and they give great tips and information. What I really like is the end every video saying you are in charge of your own health. Like you said everybody is different and everybody responds differently. I hope you feel better soon.
I totally understand why you would want a homestead ❤ especially for you and your daughter. It would just be a new chapter to turning the page of life.
I'm glad the surgery has improved your quality of life. It's so freeing when you aren't being held back by the pain all the time and especially when you live in a van. Healing takes ages. I think many of us forget how invasive it is. You just need to remember that your body is doing its best to patch you up. Patience will be rewarded. Be nice to yourself. :)
You’ll know what’s best for you & B👧🏼 when the time comes. Whether you’re in a van (full time or camping), cabin in the woods or whatever. Right now it’s just a big adventure for her. Maybe later on she’ll want something different, or she may think of Lucky as absolutely normal and the most fun ever - showing off her cool Daddy 🤩to the other kids. Whichever, I’ll be here - so you’re stuck with me🥰💞😘🍀🏴☠️
Matt I’m sure most of your followers will stick with you whatever u decide to do down the road… We love you and it’s not just because of your van life… 🥰🙏🎄🤗
You could consider land and a small cabin or something and keep a van for weekends and trips ect. Save up and buy so you don't have rent. My husband and I are going to travel together as he is a trucker driver and save up to buy land. Then save again to but a home on it. That being said with grown kids we don't need anything really big so we want something small. Under 1000 sq feet in total likely in the 800 square foot range. Tiny but not to tiny. Gotta have a bedroom for my new grandbaby after all. Trying to stay as debt free as possible. There is many opportunities for you I'm sure whatever you decide in the future.
Very brave to be honest to your vlog fam. I’m impressed by your way of telling your story that might happen in the future. We are part of that future but it is yours and nobody else’s. Thanks Catman🫶🏼
Glad your back is better. Nothing wrong with a house! YT won't be around forever, and you don't owe anything to anyone out here. Great content - live moves on, often unpredictably.
I for one don't watch your videos because you currently live in a van. I watch you because of your creativity, comedic talent, story telling and overall ability to entertain me. So I watch your channel because of you Matthew and that will transfer to any setting you're living in. I'll still go from giggling to having a good belly laugh at some of your facial expressions, voices, double entendres and overall silliness. I really don't see how it would make any difference to my enjoyment in watching your daily life, and actually might be a change of pace. You make the show and your surroundings are purely secondary to the fun of watching you and your incredible wit play out.
We’re behind you 110% my friend and anyone who thinks of you as a friend gained, albeit, remotely and existentially we want nothing but the best for you. You mentioned “tiny home” many times and once during this video. Why NOT? Tiny houses are incredible and you can own one for a lot less. Anyway, you are not the only one who can “ramble on”. Love your content as I have since discovering your channel. Keep it simple, keep it real. You are loved Matthew! ❤
Hello Matthew, those of us that are here watching, rewatching your vlogs. Are here for who you are as a man, a father & a dear friend. We all feel a connection to YOU no matter the distance 100s of miles, 1000s of miles or the other side of our earth. The one thing we do All share. As a Father, many could learn from you how to be just that. Your parents taught you well. We love you because of these things and in some cases in spite of them (some people maybe, not me) in a very minut way. You only have so many breaths, heartbeats and windows to view, feel, taste, touch & smell in this lifetime. Make them yours and those you love and care for. I personally promise you, I will be here until my time is no more. From an old gal and your friend, CNC
Mathew, maybe an off grid tiny home. That would give you lots of content and then maybe camping adventures as well. Your little girl will be happy wherever you are as long as she can spend time with you. She has the best of both worlds with you and her Mom. Co-parenting can be hard at times but in the end your daughter will have many experiences and adventures to help her with healthy intrinsic learning. Whatever you decide to do, you are a good role model for her with your thoughtfulness, adventures and humour. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and tentative plans with your community. ❤
I can say doing full time RV life back when my daughter was 10, worked. After 2 years, I realized having a home (sticks and bricks) for her friends to come over to, have holidays at, etc. was important. So I moved out if the RV. But after she turned 18 and moved out from me, I returned to full time RV life. And here I am.
Matthew I cannot top the last 6 or 7 replys. DITTO We watch you and look forward to sharing your life's adventures, ups, and downs because we Lovvvvve who you are. 😘💖💖💖
Hey Matt, I do know one thing you can never please everybody and you are a great dad, and take one day at a time. That’s what I do. It’s hard to think you are funny as hell you rock🍀👍
That is mild for such a high desert. Thanks for the back surgery update. Good to hear that you are alble to be more active with your kiddo.Your creative mind and witt and family and friends are what attracts me to your channel , sticks and bricks or van lifeing doesn't matter to moi. You do you Matthew.
There are as many reasons for watching your videos as there are audience members. For me it's because you are genuine as well as entertaining. Not like some van dwellers who try way too hard to be "weird".
Do what is comfortable for you. You will always have those who need to share what they think you should do . But they do not have live your life. Your doing great Matthew. ❤😊
You are a good father to your little girl. I do enjoy what you share and all the beautiful scenery too. Amber, Penny, your cousins and family, all blessings to you.
Matthew, I’ll follow you always. House, van or whatever. I’m sad your marriage didn’t work out. However, you will find the love of your life. She is out there. Much love ❤️
I had surgery in August to fuse L3 - L5. I had sciatic nerve pain in both legs and my feet were numb. Mine supposedly was “minimally invasive” with two 3” incisions on either side of my spine, whereas yours looked to be one loooong scar right in the middle. No real pain from the surgery and pinched nerve pain is completely gone, but man-o-man those muscle spasms are brutal. They have finally eased up as long as I don’t over do or veg too long on the couch. At least titanium doesn’t appear as yet to attract cold air!
You have to take care of you so that you can give your little girl more of you for years to come. You are a good father thinking of your daughter - she has great memories with you and you will have many opportunities to traveling / camping, etc with her. 😊
Thank you for opening up, and I think most of us and many new in the future would watch your videos ( if you keep filming ) either in the van or in sticks and bricks 😊
Hey Matthew , there is one thing that is constant and this is change. Priorities change especially when you are a parent. I don’t have children but I’m a caregiver to my spouse who’s recovering from a stroke and been diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease. It’s not a situation that either of us would have seen coming but it’s changed my perspective on life and change. The most important thing to remember is that you are planning for you and your child. And your narrative will change she gets older. Great vlog as always keeping it real and I appreciate this ❤
As a dad of two teenage daughters they need four walls and home base not just from their mother, but from you as well. As they get older truth is they will NOT visit or have a desire to be around you in a van or hotel. Thats just the reality. Thats not being mean spirited its the truth. Especially as teenagers. You're doing the right thing Matt. Your daughter needs that structure when shes with you. Get yourself an apartment or small house and a place to call a home for you and your daughter and then just travel and go camping with your adventures and a home base to go home to. Most of us aren't going anywhere bro. You're a good man. 👍
I have a fuse on my neck, many years ago. I had carpal tunnel surgery at the same time. Wouldn’t recommend but, have arthritis now. And now I have pain like yours and don’t want to have another surgery 😢 I have a twisted pelvis and I fell I the snow last winter and have pain going down my left leg. I’m glad you are feeling better.And I always click on your videos 💕
Matthew, you won’t lose me whatever you do in the future. It’s your creativity and content that primarily captured my attention. Vanlife is interesting and makes for good story telling but I believe you can do that regardless of your immediate environment. Please make good choices for you and your daughter…not necessarily for subs.
My Matthew I think your heart is always in the right place. If you feel a sticks and bricks is what you want eventually, go for it. I have watched several van lifers transition to home life. I still watch them. As a parent, I can see how a sticks and brinks would give you and Brooklyn a sense of stability. Might be the wrong word… anyway, I still see you having a lot of adventures camping and such with her. Stick with your heart you won’t go wrong!! We will follow:)
I find your honesty refreshing. There are youtubers who claim to be living the van life and in reality are using the van as a prop. This is an income stream for you Matthew, transitioning to a different format will definitely upset that ideal. As a selfish viewer, I watch your videos and videos from others as a source of info when I built out my Ford van. And your camping, travel and day to day life reminds me of when in 1998 I moved out of a house in Seattle into a travel trailer and spent six years living the nomadic RV lifestyle. To be candid, I don't know of a youtuber who successfully bridged a format change. One reverted back and is doing very well, one tried reverting back and didn't do well and another is self destructing by pretending to be living the lifestyle but in reality is faking it these days. Be true to yourself, that is my advice... and flow with it. Once I left the normal world behind I ended up starting a mobile business and ran that for 32 years. And have enjoyed camping and living in a home and now van camping. Fear is the enemy. good luck
Matthew, I’m going into van life so I can save money to get myself out of my horrible HOA situation and get my own “home base” (and have a camper van). It’s what I have always wanted to do. Knowing a way to achieve it was something I had to learn. Watching you with Brooklyn is so amazing. Another great video, always learning from you. Stay warm ~ Bev
And I appreciate you too! It cannot be easy to put yourself out there but you do it with grace (see what I did there!?). Thanks for all you share; keeps me coming back! You have charisma which is rare and I feel like no matter what you decide as far as future content, people will watch and keep coming back for more! Can’t wait to see where life takes you!
No worries at all. VanLifePLUS Normal Life. Use van for overlanding, camping, product reviews, etc. If I were your daughter, I would prefer spending my time with you because it would seem more exciting to me. Love your Molle panels! Will be interested to see how much crap you can get on them- traction boards, Rotopax, shovel, axe, etc. 😊✌️
I really like that flower pillow that you had sent to you a while back...so cheery...I know others with back issues...hope things resolve and no more worries
Mathew your a great Father your doing great.. don’t worry yourself about how good your doing…. Healing always takes time…I find waking and then later at night time tends to be the hardest part of the day… body getting use to the day…then days fine or better…your love for Brooklyn shines bright.. your always thinking of her…please always know.. that just being with you makes her day no matter what you do or don’t do…
You are living life with purpose and good intentions. You are so adulting 😂 had to throw it up there, you are rocking it Matthew. I know you, you'll forever be a Kiddo just a wise one. Very well spoken. I'm in for the long haul, it's been an honour to fallow your journey. Never stop believing in your dreams, you can and will accomplish many great things as you have. Much love 🤗🤗
Hello from Wales. I have just come across your videos and to be honest I think you are an amazing father. Van or sticks and bricks, I'm sure your daughter just appreciates having you in her life. As a single mother with two teenagers and who was abandoned by my husband who has no involvement with his kids (his decision) you are doing better than most.
Life would be incredibly boring without ever-changing dreams, goals, aspirations! And I would bet that a large majority of us aren't just here for the van life. I know that I like to tune in every day to see what my "good friend" Matthew is up to, as that's what you've become to so many of us. Your story-telling, incredible sense of humour, and positive, down-to-earth personality is what keeps most of us tuning in, no matter where you live or what you're doing. Please just keep being you and everything else will fall into place.
Matthew. As a mother who raised a daughter with a very infrequently participating father, in my opinion the fact that you are heavily invested in Brooklyn's life is much more important than where you're living while you show her how much you love and care for her.
Brooklyn will never forget the adventures she has with you and Penny and Lucky and Grace. She will regale her own kids with all the stories. She is a fortunate little girl to have such a dad.
Thank you for the kind words, they brought a tear to my eye
Matthew, your wee girlie is learning some valuable life lessons right now, from both you AND her mom.. SHE doesn't realize it, but she'll appreciate it all when she's older. You're doing right by her and no matter what you choose to do, it'll be exciting times for you both! You know what you're giving her right now?? These pieces of video history, that she will watch as she grows, and see JUST HOW VERY LOVED SHE IS.. every girl hopes to have such a loving attentive daddy. I will continue to enjoy VanlifePLUS..You're a good old Canadian boy, how could I NOT love this?!?!
VanLifePLUS, Matthew, as a Father of 4 (now fully grown) children, there is absolutely no reason to explain yourself with regards to your little girl. You're a dad first and YT'er second, and that is absolutely the way it should be. You need to do what is best for you and your daughter above all else.
Your truly, loyal, subscriber-base will be here no matter what.
Matt, there's no reason why you can't have a house, and take us on camping adventures. You are evolving, and as such your YT channel will evolve. It's all good. You're a blast, you are a natural born entertainer. Chin up. Thanks for the chat. You do you....and we'll follow. Cheers from Ontario 🫶✨🎄🍻
In a van, in sticks and bricks, a hollywood mansion, or on top of Mt. Everest, I'd watch your videos because I love your spirit and your story telling. You have a gift of entertainment that comes with a balance of humor, and real life. That my dear is tricky to do when you are sharing your life with thousands of people. Much love 💜
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You won't lose many subs mate. Your content is always going to be of interest, because you are a great personality & story teller. You make the channel, Lucky, Grace, Penny, Amber & your family are a beautiful bonus. Much Love from Aus xx
Don't worry Matthew. We don't just watch you because of van life. I see you owning a bit of land someday. Maybe even building a tiny home. I can see your little one enjoying her own loft bedroom lol. Or maybe you want a big house. I'm not sure. What ever you do we will be along for the journey cheering you on. Onward and upward Matthew!
Bone doesn’t fuse overnight, or in 2 months. Give yourself time, easy with the heavy lifting, and avoid twisting movements. Basically follow the Dr’s orders! I’m not a Dr, but an OR nurse who’s done hundreds of fusions. Listen to your body and your Dr ! Enjoy you so much! Thank you for all your hard work even when you’re hurting or under the weather! I appreciate you!
You're doing everything right Matt. As a father of 4, I can tell you that you're not having any different doubts most fathers have. You're a good man and a good father. Trust yourself.
Now Amber needs help her whole window cracked in her Van not much longer it will all GO, i am surprised its holding on
I too raised a daughter on my own. If i would have had the dad around like you are for Brooklyn...
We all see how you interact with her. Please don't ever doubt anything you do! Lol I'm crying just typing this. Ive said it before, you are a GREAT dad! There are so many "dads" out there that could take notes. ❤❤❤ Mama Ree
Life takes many turns, and folks grow in a number of directions. That's just life! We appreciate you sharing yours and your storytelling.
Your daughter is at the age that she wants to be connected 24/7. I grew up with my mom having a daycare & at around 3 the kids started doing the same thing. Don't worry, she will be fine. There might come a time where you want to do something different & that is totally normal. Do what you feel in your heart is best for you.
Matthew. thank you for thanking us. Your welcome. You put out good videos for most of us. We are not all the same so it is hard to please everyone all the time. I for one will be here watching your channel whenever you bring out a video. Have a good day. ❤
Thank you again for the continued support
Having a "home base" is what it sounds like you're thinking of for the future and that sounds awesome!
As your daughter gets older, maybe you'll be able to travel some with her. Take her along to explore. This way you get a homebase as well as still being able to be remote.
I totally get the desires.
You gotta do what's best for you.
Those who support you, will continue to do so as long as you're true to yourself.
This sounds "spot on" -- or something ĺike it -- home base makes sense.
As for making parting more easy? Nope. A separate stick-and-brick won't change her, or your, separation feelings.
Live life that is best for you and your daughter and Penny. You can have adventures any place any time in a van or in a sticks and bricks. I will always watch your adventures!
Thank you for our talk today. Happy you are recovering, although slowly (but surely). You are successful because you are very entertaining and give us "quality content" 🙂 And, Thank you Matthew!
I don’t usually comment on things like this but felt the need, lol!! You should do what makes you happy!!! Many RUclipsrs that began as Van lifers have moved on to other projects. Either tiny home living or moving to another country, etc. Do what’s best for you and your little girl! 💕💕
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Look, I had back surgery as will in 1997 there is a big difference between before and after.
The only thing I have is when the weather changes from winter to spring and fall to winter for 1 week each time I have problems walking the pain is so bad. But I broke my back and that was a difficult learning experience for me.
Your right only you know your body and what is best for you.
Now saying all of that, wife and I have been married 40yrs and at this point in our life our kids are grown and it's just us so what we are doing is we have a 29' camper and we are buying property and that is where we will be living. Rent and home payment free.
I WISH YOUR LIFE TO GO THE WAY THAT IS HAPPIEST FOR YOU AND BROOKLYN........
I also hope that Amber will be a major part of both your lives .......in the future....! ❤ know your heart.
Do what's BEST for you, Matthew ... I'll be here!👍🤗💖😇 ... LET'S DO IT!
I really do ENJOY your serious discussions, Matthew ...they are very intriguing & heartfelt. I'm CERTAIN you'll be just fine!👍🤗💖😇
I came because of the van and stayed because of you. I will stay regardless of what life you choose to live.
LUV that, James!👍🤗💖😇
Thank you James 🙏
Old nurse wishing your back progressive healing as for your 27:18 life being much older than you I would expect you loving your little girl and being the dad you are that you will crave stability for yourself and her. I have to say I afore that you protect her as patents really should . God bless you always. TFS and honestly you should be on radio telling stories. Stay safe Merry Christmas
This might be one of my favourite videos you’ve made, simply because of your authenticity. Nothing gives you a better sense of how quickly time passes than watching your child grow before your eyes. That time…those memories you share are priceless . It is wise of you to recognize this, and there’s no saying that you can’t have both. There’s a world of possibilities out there. ❤
Matthew, I'll watch what ever you put out,whether in a van or house! You do what you want to do! Brooklyn is your number 1 concern! Keep smiling!
Part of the fun of the adventure is not knowing exactly where it’s going to lead you, and you can never say never because we just don’t know what the future holds. I know there’s a lot of us, myself included, that continue to follow your story because it is a story. It’s not just you and the van or the van life necessarily that holds us here, it’s the story you’re telling and the way that you tell it. So no matter what your future holds if you continue to post videos of it I’m sure you’ll be able to keep our interest. I’m glad I found your channel, it helps take my mind in a different direction even if it’s just for a little while. Thanks for what you’re doing and keep doing it. ✌🏼
As a father myself i tottaly understand you. I just think it's great that you are yourself on your channel Matt. Thank you for who you are. You are great! Grtz🇧🇪
I really enjoy your videos, short or long form. And they are always "Quality content!" 😁 We will look forward to whatever you choose to do in the future because it's not the van life or jeep life we want to see it's you and your journey through life. Thank you so much for sharing it with us!
Thank you for your kind words 🙏
Honesty, always the way to go. Courageous, as the soldier you are. Building a 'lil soldier. Forethought, is not over thinkin'.
There are many van dwellers that have a home base. Be it just a parcel of land
I think that's a good idea to have a homebase. You could have your van there and build a small place for yourself. Just a thought. You take care. Take to the Lord, he will help you make that decision 🙏 😊
This video really hits home for you! Brooklyn is always #1. You’ve got 1 person here along with my wife of ALWAYS being here, and watching every minute of it. You are a tremendous person. With a heart the size of the world! I hope all is well, thank you for all that you do for us. I hope one day to meet you. I’m in Texas your in Canada. But I’ll make it happen somehow! Matthew Stay safe, Stay Warm, keep being you!😀❤️🙏
Thank you for the chat Matthew. We're here for ya (well, I am). Stay awesome.
Thanx Cam, we all know you!
Oh Matthew...you did it again. Another fabulous video. I love how you change things up. And I love how you don't take anything for granted. Yet I also want you to please relax and breathe. There will always be someone who is an expert in your life...who will be upset about heaven knows what. There's nothing you can do about that. Be true to yourself. Continue raising Brooklyn to be a confident independent woman. Be the best father and son and brother and uncle you can be. Which is all on it's own, pretty amazing! So, ya, thanks!
your a great dad maybe time to think about small plot of land with a tiny house and still be able to be off grid surely there are places around there that can be off grid cabin
Brooklynn has the most amazing dad and mom. The life lessons will be so valuable to her when she is older. You are one of the most attentive fathers. There are lots of little kids that don’t have that connection with their dad like she does with you. It’s natural that you would want to think about the future of having a place of your own like a sticks and bricks home for you and her. No matter where or what you live in, the time you spend with your precious little girl is what is most important. ❤❤❤❤
Appreciate your heart -felt conversation this episode.
I appreciate you taking the time to listen 🙏
Surgery - You hit it on the nail Matthew. Everyone knows their own body and what they can/can't tolerate. I was hopeful and yet scared for you when we all had learned about your surgery but I chose to keep my own personal thoughts to the whole situation to myself because you didn't need that.
The Future - Anything is possible in anything you put your mind to. I'm one of those ones who will be here for the long haul as I enjoy you and your channel. I have seen other RUclipsrs whom I also follow, who along the way have changed the scope of their channel. I haven't left them either. Sometimes deviating from the regular path can be good. But ultimately that will be your choice. I honestly don't think you would loose many of us.
Brooklyn - She is definitely Daddy's lil girl ;) But again, I'm so proud of how you keep her protected in your video's and still allow her to express her wee mind with us all. I think all that Brooklyn wants is her time with her Dad!
You will share with us what you are comfortable with and some stuff remains in the background, personal & protected. And that is perfectly fine!
Hey U, thanks for the indepth update on your back surgery & recovery ...I must say your really doing AMAZING for 2 months in now!🙌. I do also APPRECIATE your candid share on your current thoughts and future endeavors ...we do all change as we age, and I can DEFINITELY feel your hearts concern about your daughter 🧡👧. As I said before, I'd watch U watch paint dry ...my vote is that if possible, you purchase some land in the future!👍🤗💖😇.
Heyyyyyy PRETTY Penny!👍🤗💖🐱
Can't believe you manage a video every day. Two or three a week would still be awesome. You are so good with you daughter and she will never forget the Van time!
I think you are a great dad and what I have watched you do and say and interact with your daughter has been wonderful. I don't necessarily think it will really matters to her whether you live in a van or you get a bigger motor home and you like the style of living that you have and want to move forward with, as long as there's a place for her, A little house is nice as well. And to tell you the truth don't worry about it. You are doing a fantastic job and when it's time to do something else, you'll know, And you want to do it for the right reasons. She's gonna have fun with you because she always does, There's quite a number of families 3 and 4 kids living in their motor homes and traveling the world and they love it. And the kids grow up loving it. So no worries, You're a great dad. You're doing a great job and as the decisions come to be made you will make the right ones for you and for your precious daughter.❤
The creative juices that flow through you Matthew, can not be contained to Vanlife vlogs. I’m very excited about any new direction you decide to go because, as you say, you are a story teller and your wonderful gift can only grow to new heights as you share with us your adventures, your stories, your life, from new vistas , new projects, good times and bad we are with you. …..and loving it.
Matthew as we get older things sometimes change and that’s ok ! I always say go with your heart! You will know what to do in the right time 😊 Thanks for sharing ❤❤
Life's a journey with ongoing adventures. I continue to watch and enjoy your videos.
Your clearly a very good Dad to your wee girl,and the memories she will have growing up with her dad will be stories to tell in her future Matthew, your doing a great job pal .
I can see you buying a nice little cabin and going on trips in Lucky your house on wheels. That would be a great next adventure in Vanlife plus
I have disc problems with L4 L5 & S1. Surgery sounds scary! Good evening to you and Penny!
We're here for you dude. It's your life you must lead. I'd still watch every episode no matter where you are living.
You are a nice person, genuine. Whatever you do is the right thing to do. Life changes. What is forever? Our children grow up and sometimes they are not close ,some are. God Bless what ever you choose to do.
Just keep showing up for your daughter. Time with her is what matters not where you are living. ❤. Many people live in a house but not in a home. Love your channel... viewer for life regardless of what you do ❤.
Over the years I have been watching on RUclips these two Canadian doctors talking with docs, and they give great tips and information. What I really like is the end every video saying you are in charge of your own health. Like you said everybody is different and everybody responds differently. I hope you feel better soon.
Enjoy your sense of humor and journey. Merry Christmas to you and those you love. Looking forward to your 2024 vanlife updates
I totally understand why you would want a homestead ❤ especially for you and your daughter. It would just be a new chapter to turning the page of life.
I'm glad the surgery has improved your quality of life. It's so freeing when you aren't being held back by the pain all the time and especially when you live in a van. Healing takes ages. I think many of us forget how invasive it is. You just need to remember that your body is doing its best to patch you up. Patience will be rewarded. Be nice to yourself. :)
Matthew,
You do you about your health. At the end of the day, you are the one in your body and will live with it.
You’ll know what’s best for you & B👧🏼 when the time comes. Whether you’re in a van (full time or camping), cabin in the woods or whatever. Right now it’s just a big adventure for her. Maybe later on she’ll want something different, or she may think of Lucky as absolutely normal and the most fun ever - showing off her cool Daddy 🤩to the other kids. Whichever, I’ll be here - so you’re stuck with me🥰💞😘🍀🏴☠️
Thank you Jackie 🙏
@@VanlifePLUS💞
Matthew, you are amazing father! Never doubt that. Your daughter will see that as she gets older! Take care of you both!😊
Matt I’m sure most of your followers will stick with you whatever u decide to do down the road…
We love you and it’s not just because of your van life… 🥰🙏🎄🤗
You can always do van life part-time. Modest apt. and take van out on weekends or days off.
I just don’t want to rent so an apartment is most likely out
You could consider land and a small cabin or something and keep a van for weekends and trips ect. Save up and buy so you don't have rent. My husband and I are going to travel together as he is a trucker driver and save up to buy land. Then save again to but a home on it. That being said with grown kids we don't need anything really big so we want something small. Under 1000 sq feet in total likely in the 800 square foot range. Tiny but not to tiny. Gotta have a bedroom for my new grandbaby after all. Trying to stay as debt free as possible. There is many opportunities for you I'm sure whatever you decide in the future.
Very brave to be honest to your vlog fam. I’m impressed by your way of telling your story that might happen in the future. We are part of that future but it is yours and nobody else’s. Thanks Catman🫶🏼
Thank you
Glad your back is better. Nothing wrong with a house! YT won't be around forever, and you don't owe anything to anyone out here. Great content - live moves on, often unpredictably.
I for one don't watch your videos because you currently live in a van. I watch you because of your creativity, comedic talent, story telling and overall ability to entertain me. So I watch your channel because of you Matthew and that will transfer to any setting you're living in. I'll still go from giggling to having a good belly laugh at some of your facial expressions, voices, double entendres and overall silliness. I really don't see how it would make any difference to my enjoyment in watching your daily life, and actually might be a change of pace. You make the show and your surroundings are purely secondary to the fun of watching you and your incredible wit play out.
We’re behind you 110% my friend and anyone who thinks of you as a friend gained, albeit, remotely and existentially we want nothing but the best for you. You mentioned “tiny home” many times and once during this video. Why NOT? Tiny houses are incredible and you can own one for a lot less. Anyway, you are not the only one who can “ramble on”. Love your content as I have since discovering your channel. Keep it simple, keep it real. You are loved Matthew! ❤
You are such a caring, thoughtful and present dad. That is all that really matters. ❤❤❤
Hello Matthew, those of us that are here watching, rewatching your vlogs. Are here for who you are as a man, a father & a dear friend. We all feel a connection to YOU no matter the distance 100s of miles, 1000s of miles or the other side of our earth. The one thing we do All share. As a Father, many could learn from you how to be just that. Your parents taught you well. We love you because of these things and in some cases in spite of them (some people maybe, not me) in a very minut way. You only have so many breaths, heartbeats and windows to view, feel, taste, touch & smell in this lifetime. Make them yours and those you love and care for. I personally promise you, I will be here until my time is no more. From an old gal and your friend, CNC
Mathew, maybe an off grid tiny home. That would give you lots of content and then maybe camping adventures as well. Your little girl will be happy wherever you are as long as she can spend time with you. She has the best of both worlds with you and her Mom. Co-parenting can be hard at times but in the end your daughter will have many experiences and adventures to help her with healthy intrinsic learning. Whatever you decide to do, you are a good role model for her with your thoughtfulness, adventures and humour.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and tentative plans with your community. ❤
I can say doing full time RV life back when my daughter was 10, worked. After 2 years, I realized having a home (sticks and bricks) for her friends to come over to, have holidays at, etc. was important. So I moved out if the RV.
But after she turned 18 and moved out from me, I returned to full time RV life. And here I am.
Matthew
I cannot top the last 6 or 7 replys. DITTO
We watch you and look forward to sharing your life's adventures, ups, and downs because we Lovvvvve who you are.
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You have to do what's right for you and being a loving father for your daughter is the most important....regardless of where you live.
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Hey Matt, I do know one thing you can never please everybody and you are a great dad, and take one day at a time. That’s what I do. It’s hard to think you are funny as hell you rock🍀👍
That is mild for such a high desert. Thanks for the back surgery update. Good to hear that you are alble to be more active with your kiddo.Your creative mind and witt and family and friends are what attracts me to your channel , sticks and bricks or van lifeing doesn't matter to moi. You do you Matthew.
There are as many reasons for watching your videos as there are audience members. For me it's because you are genuine as well as entertaining. Not like some van dwellers who try way too hard to be "weird".
I'm glad you're recovering, even if it's slower than anticipated. 🙏
Thinking that "Normal" is the only way or right way to think and do, kills the expiratory and learning mind. You are doing great!
Do what is comfortable for you.
You will always have those who need to share what they think you should do .
But they do not have live your life.
Your doing great Matthew.
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You are a good father to your little girl. I do enjoy what you share and all the beautiful scenery too. Amber, Penny, your cousins and family, all blessings to you.
Matthew, I’ll follow you always. House, van or whatever. I’m sad your marriage didn’t work out. However, you will find the love of your life. She is out there. Much love ❤️
I had surgery in August to fuse L3 - L5. I had sciatic nerve pain in both legs and my feet were numb. Mine supposedly was “minimally invasive” with two 3” incisions on either side of my spine, whereas yours looked to be one loooong scar right in the middle. No real pain from the surgery and pinched nerve pain is completely gone, but man-o-man those muscle spasms are brutal. They have finally eased up as long as I don’t over do or veg too long on the couch. At least titanium doesn’t appear as yet to attract cold air!
I will be here no matter what you decide to do…. One life….live it the best way you can and the way you want to ❤❤
You have to take care of you so that you can give your little girl more of you for years to come. You are a good father thinking of your daughter - she has great memories with you and you will have many opportunities to traveling / camping, etc with her. 😊
You are multitasking by talking and filming. Thank you for sharing so honestly. Whatever you do will be interesting!
Thank you for opening up, and I think most of us and many new in the future would watch your videos ( if you keep filming ) either in the van or in sticks and bricks 😊
Hey Matthew , there is one thing that is constant and this is change. Priorities change especially when you are a parent. I don’t have children but I’m a caregiver to my spouse who’s recovering from a stroke and been diagnosed with Parkinson’s disease. It’s not a situation that either of us would have seen coming but it’s changed my perspective on life and change.
The most important thing to remember is that you are planning for you and your child. And your narrative will change she gets older. Great vlog as always keeping it real and I appreciate this ❤
As a dad of two teenage daughters they need four walls and home base not just from their mother, but from you as well. As they get older truth is they will NOT visit or have a desire to be around you in a van or hotel. Thats just the reality. Thats not being mean spirited its the truth. Especially as teenagers. You're doing the right thing Matt. Your daughter needs that structure when shes with you. Get yourself an apartment or small house and a place to call a home for you and your daughter and then just travel and go camping with your adventures and a home base to go home to. Most of us aren't going anywhere bro. You're a good man. 👍
I have a fuse on my neck, many years ago. I had carpal tunnel surgery at the same time. Wouldn’t recommend but, have arthritis now. And now I have pain like yours and don’t want to have another surgery 😢 I have a twisted pelvis and I fell I the snow last winter and have pain going down my left leg. I’m glad you are feeling better.And I always click on your videos 💕
Matthew, you won’t lose me whatever you do in the future. It’s your creativity and content that primarily captured my attention. Vanlife is interesting and makes for good story telling but I believe you can do that regardless of your immediate environment. Please make good choices for you and your daughter…not necessarily for subs.
My Matthew I think your heart is always in the right place. If you feel a sticks and bricks is what you want eventually, go for it. I have watched several van lifers transition to home life. I still watch them. As a parent, I can see how a sticks and brinks would give you and Brooklyn a sense of stability. Might be the wrong word… anyway, I still see you having a lot of adventures camping and such with her. Stick with your heart you won’t go wrong!! We will follow:)
I find your honesty refreshing. There are youtubers who claim to be living the van life and in reality are using the van as a prop. This is an income stream for you Matthew, transitioning to a different format will definitely upset that ideal. As a selfish viewer, I watch your videos and videos from others as a source of info when I built out my Ford van. And your camping, travel and day to day life reminds me of when in 1998 I moved out of a house in Seattle into a travel trailer and spent six years living the nomadic RV lifestyle. To be candid, I don't know of a youtuber who successfully bridged a format change. One reverted back and is doing very well, one tried reverting back and didn't do well and another is self destructing by pretending to be living the lifestyle but in reality is faking it these days. Be true to yourself, that is my advice... and flow with it. Once I left the normal world behind I ended up starting a mobile business and ran that for 32 years. And have enjoyed camping and living in a home and now van camping. Fear is the enemy. good luck
Matthew,
I’m going into van life so I can save money to get myself out of my horrible HOA situation and get my own “home base” (and have a camper van). It’s what I have always wanted to do. Knowing a way to achieve it was something I had to learn.
Watching you with Brooklyn is so amazing. Another great video, always learning from you. Stay warm ~ Bev
It’s just nice to know that you are doing better and taking care of yourself. We’re all cheering for you 👍
And I appreciate you too! It cannot be easy to put yourself out there but you do it with grace (see what I did there!?). Thanks for all you share; keeps me coming back! You have charisma which is rare and I feel like no matter what you decide as far as future content, people will watch and keep coming back for more! Can’t wait to see where life takes you!
It’s all going to be ok! 👍❤
Find a piece of land, build an off-grid homestead.
Glad you're doing well from the surgery.
Always enjoy the videos 🎉🎉🎉
I don't care where you are Matthew I will always watch you you are brilliant and penny xx
No worries at all. VanLifePLUS Normal Life. Use van for overlanding, camping, product reviews, etc. If I were your daughter, I would prefer spending my time with you because it would seem more exciting to me. Love your Molle panels! Will be interested to see how much crap you can get on them- traction boards, Rotopax, shovel, axe, etc. 😊✌️
I really like that flower pillow that you had sent to you a while back...so cheery...I know others with back issues...hope things resolve and no more worries
Mathew your a great Father your doing great.. don’t worry yourself about how good your doing….
Healing always takes time…I find waking and then later at night time tends to be the hardest part of the day… body getting use to the day…then days fine or better…your love for Brooklyn shines bright.. your always thinking of her…please always know.. that just being with you makes her day no matter what you do or don’t do…
You are living life with purpose and good intentions. You are so adulting 😂 had to throw it up there, you are rocking it Matthew. I know you, you'll forever be a Kiddo just a wise one. Very well spoken. I'm in for the long haul, it's been an honour to fallow your journey. Never stop believing in your dreams, you can and will accomplish many great things as you have.
Much love 🤗🤗
Hello from Wales. I have just come across your videos and to be honest I think you are an amazing father. Van or sticks and bricks, I'm sure your daughter just appreciates having you in her life. As a single mother with two teenagers and who was abandoned by my husband who has no involvement with his kids (his decision) you are doing better than most.
Life would be incredibly boring without ever-changing dreams, goals, aspirations! And I would bet that a large majority of us aren't just here for the van life. I know that I like to tune in every day to see what my "good friend" Matthew is up to, as that's what you've become to so many of us. Your story-telling, incredible sense of humour, and positive, down-to-earth personality is what keeps most of us tuning in, no matter where you live or what you're doing. Please just keep being you and everything else will fall into place.
Nothing wrong with a Lucky camper or Lucky home❤