Stefan: "I’ll always love her... but she’s not supposed to be this person, I don’t want her to be" Damon: "I'm Fine with her either way Brother" Can you see the difference here guys? 💝This is true love
Exactly my point Damon’s in love with her either way when she becomes a vampire is when Stefan starts to fall out of love with her trying desperately to fix someone into how he likes them Damon lives her either way big difference
Joshua Lilleker Stefan literally never stoped loving Elena. She’s crying all the time that she doesn’t want to be a vampire and Stefan can’t see her like that. Y’all are delusional
@@susannadzm138 Elena literally said that she doesn't mind being a vampire because that means she gets to be with Damon forever. 😂 Did she say anything about forever with stefan?... Nope
@@jasonmoukala8909 In different ways, Damon loves Elena anyway, whether she is a vampire or a human. He loves everything about her . And that kind of love, in my opinion, is much stronger than the love that Stefan feels for Elena
jason moukala stefan loves elena, but damon is IN love with her. stefan is constantly trying to change and control who she is. damon doesn't. i respect stelena, they're definitely good together, but there is a very vast difference between them and delena
cai um no that’s not true at all. Elena spent the first 3 seasons saying and complaining that she didn’t wanna be a vampire. So when they found out there was a cure, Stefan did everything he could to get it so Elena could have the life she’s always wanted
Stefan loved Elena no matter what. ❤ He just couldn't love the *idea* of her being a vampire. He didn't think she'd ever be able to live with herself as one. And even though she didn't like what vampirism was doing to her, once Stefan knew about a possible cure, he became hellbent on finding it. It became more than just her not wanting to be a vampire. It also became about him feeling like she had to be cured in order to be (human) herself again. He believed, in the long run, being a vampire would ruin her. Where Damon didn't believe that. He believed that she could handle everything about vampirism without completely losing herself. He loved *and* was able to accept her for whoever/whatever she was. Human or vampire. Good sides and bad. ❤
Damon wanted her to be a vampire, because he could be with her all the time, no matter if she liked that or not. Stefan on the other hand wanted her to make her own choices and respected her no matter how much he loves her
@@iamtheonewjoknocks Stefan respected her chooses, out of guilt, because he forced his brother to turn and the consequences of that were what we know, also because he didn't wanted to loose her. That is not respect, that is fear. When you are in an adult relationship you don't do everything your partner tells you to do, like a puppy dog, you voice your concerns because they are coming from a loving place, like Damon does. Just imagine in reality you husband is drowning with his best friend, and you save the friend and let you husband die? That is not respect, that is insanity.
Stefan underestimated Elena this entire season. She changed so much in S3, he no longer knows her as well as he used to. He expected Elena to flip her switch, but she's writing in her journal. He has no idea the emotional strength she has. The point of Damon changing her as much as she changes him. And she does change him. That's why he's actually annoyed when Elena flips her switch. She acts like S1 Damon, and he's no longer S1 Damon. There's a need to look closer at their scenes to see how he really changes Elena because it's not just his words, it's his actions. Because he loves her, he will not ruin her the way Katherine ruined him. He will give her the cure. He hands her the cure in 4x23, even when he's not ready to take it himself.
I knw right... Then there are Elena lovers to defend her crying. Earlier she was all wonder Woman to save Jeremy then she cries for killing a hunter cz it was needed to "stay away from his brother" N then during the burial she's upset at stefan for changing the plan and then she's crying again for killing someone. And before she wanted to go N defend his bro..damon and stefan both warned her about the consequences she will have to suffer if shekills someone..n there we have her crying that I killed someone..Her character sometimes is confused and irritating to me.
@@chikisingh3144 Not sure if I remember this correctly but didn't Damon accidentally invoke the sire bond when he told Elena (how) to kill the hunter? So isn't it kinda his fault she killed Connor? Aside from that, I think that it's not too far-fetched to believe that one might be able to forgive/overlook someone else murdering someone but not themselves. Some people are just harsher to themselves than they are to others...
Looking back at this makes it sounds really stupid I mean damon & stefan killed dozens of people already for her in front of her & she was okay with , but killing someone herself and she feels guilty!!!!!!!! Seriously😳
And she has a reaction every time someone is killed. It’s one thing to watch someone kill someone than it is for you to take someone else’s life with your own hands.
Setting aside everything she does that is annoying, I hate listening to her speak. She ALWAYS sounds like she is in the beginning stages of an asthma attack whenever she holds a conversation.
It was a kill or be killed situation. That guy wouldn't have ever stopped trying to kill them, so pesonally I would feel zero remorse if I was her. If they wanted to make her reaction more believable, they should have had her kill someone out of spite. Her reaction would be more justified then, but here it was meh. The guy was a dick, he had it coming.
I dont know why but I dont feel bad for her here. Like sure, the guilt of killing someone is sad. But at the same time Stefan told her to stay there and trust him. And she insisted that she was this dangerous vampire now that could knock some heads and do some real damage. And then she willingly puts herself in a position where she will hurt someone, and she did, she killed him to protect her brother. Then she gets hysterical when she actually realizes what she did, like what did you expect? She keeps switching from this excessively violent side to this excessively weepy guilt ridden side. Yes, it's a vampire thing but at the end of the day she's breaking down before she's settled into her new body. She's making everyone feel like they have no choice but to change her or save her because she wont suck it up and accept herself as she is. Becoming a vampire takes time and patience. It's like because she knows she has Stefan and Damon so constantly uses it as an excuse to complain all the freaking time. Guess what, Caroline had no one she could complain about to. She saw the guilt in her murders and shut the fuck up and put in the work to control herself. Unlike Elena who tries once then reverts back to being coddled, violent and pathetic. She doesn't wanna change or get better, she doesn't want to put in the work, she expects other people to do the work for her. Hence, why Stefan felt like he needed to find a cure. Yes, it wasn't right to not accept her as she was but she gives him no choice when she keeps acting like someone needs to fix her situation for her.
Hmmmm I wonder why? I guess it’s because she’s lost almost everyone she’s ever lost (aka all her parents) and then she turned into a vampire (wasn’t her choice)
It may appear annoying on the surface but if anyone went through the severe trauma and loss she has been through, multiple times over, they would not just be moving along in life with their chin up. She should, in all reality, be WAY MORE fucked up than they portray her to be. Just the loss of both her parents alone, at such a young age....
@@donalddaley8088 No need to be rude, I was just curious as to why you think that she's the worst. Though I gotta say that the fact that you can't provide reasons for your opinion and jump straight to insults tells me all I need to know about you.
Stefan: "I’ll always love her... but she’s not supposed to be this person, I don’t want her to be"
Damon: "I'm Fine with her either way Brother"
Can you see the difference here guys? 💝This is true love
Exactly my point Damon’s in love with her either way when she becomes a vampire is when Stefan starts to fall out of love with her trying desperately to fix someone into how he likes them Damon lives her either way big difference
Joshua Lilleker Stefan literally never stoped loving Elena. She’s crying all the time that she doesn’t want to be a vampire and Stefan can’t see her like that. Y’all are delusional
Idk but everyone want to make their bf/ gf happy again so
@@susannadzm138 Elena literally said that she doesn't mind being a vampire because that means she gets to be with Damon forever. 😂 Did she say anything about forever with stefan?... Nope
@@katherine142 preach😙👏
Good question, Damon. He loves her either way...that's the huge difference.
James Grey Stefan does too.
@@jasonmoukala8909 In different ways, Damon loves Elena anyway, whether she is a vampire or a human. He loves everything about her . And that kind of love, in my opinion, is much stronger than the love that Stefan feels for Elena
Safira Salvatore Stefan loves her either way too
jason moukala stefan loves elena, but damon is IN love with her. stefan is constantly trying to change and control who she is. damon doesn't. i respect stelena, they're definitely good together, but there is a very vast difference between them and delena
cai um no that’s not true at all. Elena spent the first 3 seasons saying and complaining that she didn’t wanna be a vampire. So when they found out there was a cure, Stefan did everything he could to get it so Elena could have the life she’s always wanted
He’s fine with her either way, I think that’s why they were better for one another.
‘I’m fine with her either way brother’
I love this line .
Its probably the most selfish thing Stefans ever said “i dont want her to be”
the second time it hits different and I am happy that Delena was the endgame.... I wish someone would tell me ''I'm Fine with her either way Brother''
Its like he can't watch her cry
Damon or Stefan?
@@Schemingtheo I think, Damon
Elena cries a lot and is always the damsel in distress since the pilot
Stefan loved Elena no matter what. ❤
He just couldn't love the *idea* of her being a vampire. He didn't think she'd ever be able to live with herself as one.
And even though she didn't like what vampirism was doing to her, once Stefan knew about a possible cure, he became hellbent on finding it. It became more than just her not wanting to be a vampire. It also became about him feeling like she had to be cured in order to be (human) herself again. He believed, in the long run, being a vampire would ruin her.
Where Damon didn't believe that. He believed that she could handle everything about vampirism without completely losing herself. He loved *and* was able to accept her for whoever/whatever she was. Human or vampire. Good sides and bad. ❤
I LOVE DELL A
I love delena
Delena
Damon wanted her to be a vampire, because he could be with her all the time, no matter if she liked that or not. Stefan on the other hand wanted her to make her own choices and respected her no matter how much he loves her
@@iamtheonewjoknocks Stefan respected her chooses, out of guilt, because he forced his brother to turn and the consequences of that were what we know, also because he didn't wanted to loose her. That is not respect, that is fear. When you are in an adult relationship you don't do everything your partner tells you to do, like a puppy dog, you voice your concerns because they are coming from a loving place, like Damon does. Just imagine in reality you husband is drowning with his best friend, and you save the friend and let you husband die? That is not respect, that is insanity.
This is the moment I Knew Damon was the better person because he loves Elena as a human or a vampire while Stefan Can’t!
maybe it's just me but i don't think id feel that bad for killing the guy trying to kill everyone i love after he just stabbed me
Same here
Watching it all over again, it just hits different
Love it when elena cries none of the brothers look at her or comfort her
Aww, look at your poor jealous miserable a$$
Do you also hate it when one of the guys comforts one of the other girls (e.g. Bonnie, Care,...) or just Elena?
They were trying to comfort her
Stefan underestimated Elena this entire season. She changed so much in S3, he no longer knows her as well as he used to. He expected Elena to flip her switch, but she's writing in her journal. He has no idea the emotional strength she has. The point of Damon changing her as much as she changes him. And she does change him. That's why he's actually annoyed when Elena flips her switch. She acts like S1 Damon, and he's no longer S1 Damon. There's a need to look closer at their scenes to see how he really changes Elena because it's not just his words, it's his actions. Because he loves her, he will not ruin her the way Katherine ruined him. He will give her the cure. He hands her the cure in 4x23, even when he's not ready to take it himself.
I can't stand watching Elena suffering 😭😞😖💔 my babygirl ;-;
Same. I don't get why people hate her so much. Most people are team stefan or team damon. Well I'm team elena!
fuck elena
@@ia4773 bitch WTF?
@@biafofaanjos the king has spoken
@@ia4773 pffff 😂😂😂
You killed someone who was about to kill you or your brother 🤷🏻♀️
I knw right... Then there are Elena lovers to defend her crying. Earlier she was all wonder Woman to save Jeremy then she cries for killing a hunter cz it was needed to "stay away from his brother" N then during the burial she's upset at stefan for changing the plan and then she's crying again for killing someone. And before she wanted to go N defend his bro..damon and stefan both warned her about the consequences she will have to suffer if shekills someone..n there we have her crying that I killed someone..Her character sometimes is confused and irritating to me.
@@chikisingh3144 Not sure if I remember this correctly but didn't Damon accidentally invoke the sire bond when he told Elena (how) to kill the hunter? So isn't it kinda his fault she killed Connor? Aside from that, I think that it's not too far-fetched to believe that one might be able to forgive/overlook someone else murdering someone but not themselves. Some people are just harsher to themselves than they are to others...
Looking back at this makes it sounds really stupid
I mean damon & stefan killed dozens of people already for her in front of her & she was okay with , but killing someone herself and she feels guilty!!!!!!!! Seriously😳
Because it’s different when u kill someone yourself, now u have blood on your hands
But don't you think she already has blood on her hands
She was the reason of death of alot of people she witnessed the kill and she approved it
AlShaimaa Saeed Tht makes sense
And she has a reaction every time someone is killed. It’s one thing to watch someone kill someone than it is for you to take someone else’s life with your own hands.
Team Delena
Wipe your mouth much?
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Right lol
It sounds like Stephan means "She's not supposed to be this person, B E C A U S E I don't want her to be"
This song is used in Scandal with Olivia and Fitz
Diamond Williams I knew I heard it somewhere! Thanks
I ain’t gone lie elena get on my damn nerves 😒
Thank god someone said it.
Setting aside everything she does that is annoying, I hate listening to her speak. She ALWAYS sounds like she is in the beginning stages of an asthma attack whenever she holds a conversation.
It was a kill or be killed situation. That guy wouldn't have ever stopped trying to kill them, so pesonally I would feel zero remorse if I was her. If they wanted to make her reaction more believable, they should have had her kill someone out of spite. Her reaction would be more justified then, but here it was meh. The guy was a dick, he had it coming.
💔😢
I hear this tune and think Fitz and Olivia
I dont know why but I dont feel bad for her here. Like sure, the guilt of killing someone is sad. But at the same time Stefan told her to stay there and trust him. And she insisted that she was this dangerous vampire now that could knock some heads and do some real damage. And then she willingly puts herself in a position where she will hurt someone, and she did, she killed him to protect her brother. Then she gets hysterical when she actually realizes what she did, like what did you expect? She keeps switching from this excessively violent side to this excessively weepy guilt ridden side.
Yes, it's a vampire thing but at the end of the day she's breaking down before she's settled into her new body. She's making everyone feel like they have no choice but to change her or save her because she wont suck it up and accept herself as she is. Becoming a vampire takes time and patience. It's like because she knows she has Stefan and Damon so constantly uses it as an excuse to complain all the freaking time. Guess what, Caroline had no one she could complain about to. She saw the guilt in her murders and shut the fuck up and put in the work to control herself. Unlike Elena who tries once then reverts back to being coddled, violent and pathetic. She doesn't wanna change or get better, she doesn't want to put in the work, she expects other people to do the work for her. Hence, why Stefan felt like he needed to find a cure. Yes, it wasn't right to not accept her as she was but she gives him no choice when she keeps acting like someone needs to fix her situation for her.
umm one question. . Why the fuck is Stefen coming out of the shower with freakin boots on??? Anyone?
Like for Stelena, Coment for Delena, let's see
Definitely Delena
Delena ofc
Delena
Delena is the bestttt
Delena
Who is it she killed?
the hunter, connor
Scandal song
Sexy met hemt aan is stefaan Stefaan lieg elena weg persoon voor hem
Bro why is she always crying and whining. Goodness she can be very annoying.
She went through so much pain and suffering. If crying is the way she vents it all out, then so be it.
If you went through half of what she went through you would be too. And crying that you murdered someone is actually a good thing.
Hmmmm I wonder why? I guess it’s because she’s lost almost everyone she’s ever lost (aka all her parents) and then she turned into a vampire (wasn’t her choice)
It may appear annoying on the surface but if anyone went through the severe trauma and loss she has been through, multiple times over, they would not just be moving along in life with their chin up. She should, in all reality, be WAY MORE fucked up than they portray her to be. Just the loss of both her parents alone, at such a young age....
bruh she just murdered someone
Elena is the worst vampire ever 😑💯
Why?
@@samsampleman2439 if u have to ask then ur stupid asf
@@donalddaley8088 No need to be rude, I was just curious as to why you think that she's the worst. Though I gotta say that the fact that you can't provide reasons for your opinion and jump straight to insults tells me all I need to know about you.
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