1:10 thinking about a person we met years ago 4:46 We're not tapping into our own potential 6:45 hiding your true self 10:48 feeling disconnected 14:16 feeling misunderstood 17:30 if they don't get it, it's on them. If you don't bring it, it's on you.
My Roman Empire is misunderstanding. So many of the points Wenzes makes about INFJ’s feeling misunderstood I deeply relate to. But that obsession for me goes way beyond just how I am in the world, but rather how I see humanity- I see misinterpretations of people’s intent and motivations constantly. I am obsessed with looking at where miscommunication turns to misunderstanding and then real division- divisions far greater if the miscommunication didn’t occur because how people interpret words differently. While I see the and need for the self giving up on being fully understood, the pursuit of better understanding is actually what it is I am wanting to share with the world.
That makes two of us, i went further though. Some people just dont give a crap to be 100% meaning they dont care, period. Even if they understood in and out 200%, they still dont care.
The Present world even the best people of today seems to be stuck in shallow and secondary matters of life, no one has strength to go against the flow when the flow is not good , no one has time to think of deep values that need to be nurtured, the golden rules of our good wise ancestors are no longer respected only a few people are privileged to enjoy true joy, and true joy is the fruit of understanding and embracing with love the suffering that accompanies us when we fight for what is good like being sincere and honest and upright, without compromising with moral values . I believe that good people of the past actually did not know that they were doing good I mean they did not know the importance of giving instructions to future generations to never compromise with moral values even if it might be less exciting, I also believe that in the future there will be a generation who will start doing good again and that time they will understand the value of always holding on to true values.
I definitely feel like I've hidden my true self over most of my life. Now that I've opened up more in the past five or six years, I feel like I am more honest with my opinions and not everyone likes that.
I spent most of my life thinking I had a mental disorder, was typed in my 40s, and discovered this community several years ago. Nice to know you exist in this abrasive world.
Another fabulous video. The whole piece resonated with me, but at the point you mentioned "if they don’t get it it’s on them, but if i don’t bring it, that’s on me" hit me the most. This is exactly the time of my life that i find myself in, on the brink of getting out there and sharing what’s been dwelling inside of me for ages now. Thank you Wenzes.
@@mariagordanier3404 Very true. Im very much a loner and find so much solace with myself and myself. Being around folks is very stressful for me. I dont show it though and no one would know this about me. Thanks for your reply
Am a male,INFJ and I thank.America is falling the same way Roman did.There last 250 years.am Fixated on it.I have so many examples Why,But that's not the hole point of this video.
I think about monetary policy all the time and how in the 70's we went to Keynesian economics and it has clearly been a disaster. LOL, I am the furthest thing from an economist BTW
I get fixated on a person, going they don't waver. But they usually do. I've faced my advancement issues, so it's not so painful, just some disappointment. I would like to fulfill my potential, but I don't want to go deep into debt. Lately, I do what I can on the cheap. Which is limiting. I don't hide myself too much these days. I'm at that age where IDGAF. Definitely looking for a connection. Looking for my people. I certain some people see me and think they've got me figured out. And I'm pretty certain they're wrong. I'm poor, so I can't express myself by style, forced to wear frumpy clothes. I think I look intimidating to some people, and it doesn't help if I don't feel good or secure. I probably look angry. I try to have an approachable persona, but I'm pretty certain they still get me wrong. One thing that I think very often about is the destruction of the patriarchy. Maybe that is like thinking about the Roman empire in an indirect way.
I have a similar situation. This world needs to crash in order for humans to stop defining themselves with how much money they have in the bank account. This would already be an improvement. We are not the problem, they are and they are losers. (while they think they are winners lol)
Have two INFJ's ever dated each other, or do we get turned off from our own type? I think I'd love it, to finally have someone who not only understand me, but has gone thru the same as me.
Point 3 touched me most. I'm currently in this kind of situation. I'm 29, my colleague next to me is 45 years old woman mother of 8 years old boy and I'm constantly feeling that she compares me to him and she generally sees me as a naive boy in elementary school. I know that this is because of my Fe and that's why I love to be with open-minded people who don't judge me for how I represent myself on the surface and make me be my brightest side. The problem comes when you are with people who's character is to consciously, most of all subconsciously, put everyone and everything around them in some box and by that they are becoming the most harsh judges of all because they can't accept in any way anything different then the label they had put and it's so hard to break the label that you have in their eyes without harming them and your own empathic self in that process and this is especially tough when you have something to lose. Sure we can make and a lot of times we had made people regret for the labels they had put on us, but to lose your job because of someone like that is not an equal price. You have to make that person change his label of you in a different way and before that you have to go through the state of being unable to be your true self. It's not just a fixation, is something that really happens. Now I'm working on at least three part series of why we dimming our light and how to prevent it and for sure I will mention this comment. Thank you so much for the inspiration again Wenzes.
First time someone asked me this i couldnt quite understand why he is adking me this. Then i got to know its another trend i missed. Well, sometimes when i watch Asterix and Obelix i said
@@muma6559 I feel too much that I go numb for a few days or weeks but I'll always revert back to being altruistic. Sounding and actually being an infj are two different things, my base nature is all the good things these channels like to promote but we're still human with contradictory states of being
I’m fixated on Russian prodigy- DIANA ANKUDINOVA, but nobody around me wants to know or share the interest , I’ve been fixated for two years eeeehhhhh, I’ll hide back under my rock,
I like if you look at the Roman language and learn it you will get gifts if you understand from 1776 to today 2024 2024 none of that is correct 300 years we are in 2076 we lost 80 years don't ask me how I'm waiting soon to go wherever I got to go all I'm saying is by but I don't know when good night is
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1:10 thinking about a person we met years ago
4:46 We're not tapping into our own potential
6:45 hiding your true self
10:48 feeling disconnected
14:16 feeling misunderstood
17:30 if they don't get it, it's on them. If you don't bring it, it's on you.
Yep, all boxes check
1. And that person can be a random person we saw on the street or on the bus one day…
Chose yourself
Connect with yourself
Prioritize yourself
Provide value . thanks Wenzes
Philosophy, The Tao, Miyamoto Musashi Dokkodo (the way of walking alone)
My Roman Empire is misunderstanding.
So many of the points Wenzes makes about INFJ’s feeling misunderstood I deeply relate to. But that obsession for me goes way beyond just how I am in the world, but rather how I see humanity- I see misinterpretations of people’s intent and motivations constantly. I am obsessed with looking at where miscommunication turns to misunderstanding and then real division- divisions far greater if the miscommunication didn’t occur because how people interpret words differently.
While I see the and need for the self giving up on being fully understood, the pursuit of better understanding is actually what it is I am wanting to share with the world.
That makes two of us, i went further though. Some people just dont give a crap to be 100% meaning they dont care, period. Even if they understood in and out 200%, they still dont care.
The Present world even the best people of today seems to be stuck in shallow and secondary matters of life, no one has strength to go against the flow when the flow is not good , no one has time to think of deep values that need to be nurtured, the golden rules of our good wise ancestors are no longer respected only a few people are privileged to enjoy true joy, and true joy is the fruit of understanding and embracing with love the suffering that accompanies us when we fight for what is good like being sincere and honest and upright, without compromising with moral values .
I believe that good people of the past actually did not know that they were doing good I mean they did not know the importance of giving instructions to future generations to never compromise with moral values even if it might be less exciting, I also believe that in the future there will be a generation who will start doing good again and that time they will understand the value of always holding on to true values.
I definitely feel like I've hidden my true self over most of my life. Now that I've opened up more in the past five or six years, I feel like I am more honest with my opinions and not everyone likes that.
#4 "feeling disconnected" and #5 "feeling misunderstood" make 5 days out of the week absolutely miserable.
Oh, Wenzes! I just can’t begin to express how much of blessing Wenzes has been in my life!
What would we do without her hey
I spent most of my life thinking I had a mental disorder, was typed in my 40s, and discovered this community several years ago. Nice to know you exist in this abrasive world.
Who am I? Why am I here? Whats the purpose of life? What is the truth? Whos behind the worlds problems?
Been asking this forever in the comments section 😢
@@FakaziMatsenjwa So what have you concluded?
It baffles me that most people do not think like this. They live in a superficial world. Not me, I like and seek the truth.
@@Treekneeeet seems only the infj can see the light huh?
@@FakaziMatsenjwa hello! Yes, and truth seekers! 💫
Another fabulous video. The whole piece resonated with me, but at the point you mentioned "if they don’t get it it’s on them, but if i don’t bring it, that’s on me" hit me the most. This is exactly the time of my life that i find myself in, on the brink of getting out there and sharing what’s been dwelling inside of me for ages now. Thank you Wenzes.
Ive resigned myself to the fact that no one is ever going to be interested in me and the depth of my being. As sad as that sounds😂
It's okay. You are your own reward. They must live with themselves.
@@mariagordanier3404 Very true. Im very much a loner and find so much solace with myself and myself. Being around folks is very stressful for me. I dont show it though and no one would know this about me. Thanks for your reply
Happiness is true to yourself, and then find someone share that unique world-version of yours.
Am a male,INFJ and I thank.America is falling the same way Roman did.There last 250 years.am Fixated on it.I have so many examples Why,But that's not the hole point of this video.
Can you tell me why? I’m genuinely curious
My life’s purpose, and my “being” in general. Thanks Wenzes. 🙏
The Empire Never Ended - Philip K Dick
Now that is interesting! I think about the Roman Empire daily
I appreciate you’re analysis of INFJ s.
I think about monetary policy all the time and how in the 70's we went to Keynesian economics and it has clearly been a disaster. LOL, I am the furthest thing from an economist BTW
I get fixated on a person, going they don't waver. But they usually do. I've faced my advancement issues, so it's not so painful, just some disappointment.
I would like to fulfill my potential, but I don't want to go deep into debt. Lately, I do what I can on the cheap. Which is limiting.
I don't hide myself too much these days. I'm at that age where IDGAF.
Definitely looking for a connection. Looking for my people.
I certain some people see me and think they've got me figured out. And I'm pretty certain they're wrong. I'm poor, so I can't express myself by style, forced to wear frumpy clothes. I think I look intimidating to some people, and it doesn't help if I don't feel good or secure. I probably look angry. I try to have an approachable persona, but I'm pretty certain they still get me wrong.
One thing that I think very often about is the destruction of the patriarchy. Maybe that is like thinking about the Roman empire in an indirect way.
I have a similar situation. This world needs to crash in order for humans to stop defining themselves with how much money they have in the bank account. This would already be an improvement. We are not the problem, they are and they are losers. (while they think they are winners lol)
Romam Empire is my life dreams
What i thought i was the only one with it. Nah helps my poetry creativity
Oppressors
Have two INFJ's ever dated each other, or do we get turned off from our own type? I think I'd love it, to finally have someone who not only understand me, but has gone thru the same as me.
Yes the closer similar they are to you the way way way better it goes.
@@braxtonmills1235 I love that, have you had that experience yourself?
Point 3 touched me most. I'm currently in this kind of situation. I'm 29, my colleague next to me is 45 years old woman mother of 8 years old boy and I'm constantly feeling that she compares me to him and she generally sees me as a naive boy in elementary school. I know that this is because of my Fe and that's why I love to be with open-minded people who don't judge me for how I represent myself on the surface and make me be my brightest side. The problem comes when you are with people who's character is to consciously, most of all subconsciously, put everyone and everything around them in some box and by that they are becoming the most harsh judges of all because they can't accept in any way anything different then the label they had put and it's so hard to break the label that you have in their eyes without harming them and your own empathic self in that process and this is especially tough when you have something to lose. Sure we can make and a lot of times we had made people regret for the labels they had put on us, but to lose your job because of someone like that is not an equal price. You have to make that person change his label of you in a different way and before that you have to go through the state of being unable to be your true self. It's not just a fixation, is something that really happens. Now I'm working on at least three part series of why we dimming our light and how to prevent it and for sure I will mention this comment. Thank you so much for the inspiration again Wenzes.
First time someone asked me this i couldnt quite understand why he is adking me this. Then i got to know its another trend i missed. Well, sometimes when i watch Asterix and Obelix i said
Accept not going to be understood. Interesting!
@Wenzes,this video title is catchy.Inspired !
What is your "INFJ ROMAN EMPIRE"?
for you id answer that, and it would be the internet.
The next new hiking destination ❤ I love being alone in nature.
Financial growth....100k dollars per yr.
Thankyou wenzes
pls put timestamps in ur vids
For me as an infj it's Nihilism 😂
@@muma6559 I feel too much that I go numb for a few days or weeks but I'll always revert back to being altruistic. Sounding and actually being an infj are two different things, my base nature is all the good things these channels like to promote but we're still human with contradictory states of being
Wow
link not working
It's hard to stop being people pleaser..
Specially when you’re so insecure and wanna feel accepted ..
It’s related to being rejected in the past, be aware of it and try to work on that by appreciating your self
our cultural makeup in western european, north american arena is still based on the Roman Empire
Yes. It's so depressing.
Oppressors of Europeans
Humm...my Roman empire?. Accounting and physics. Lol
I’m fixated on Russian prodigy- DIANA ANKUDINOVA, but nobody around me wants to know or share the interest , I’ve been fixated for two years eeeehhhhh, I’ll hide back under my rock,
Inwant to be able to work in the entertainment business
Undergo self healing
I despise it
In the voice of Jake from StateFarm: Well, I'm a dude so... of course I'm thinking about the Roman empire...
Well, I’m a broad and also think about the Roman Empire daily.
@@ancoraimparo4996 if nothing else.... the new testament ought to get the brain going.
I like if you look at the Roman language and learn it you will get gifts if you understand from 1776 to today 2024 2024 none of that is correct 300 years we are in 2076 we lost 80 years don't ask me how I'm waiting soon to go wherever I got to go all I'm saying is by but I don't know when good night is