JK killed me with this debate, he is sooo cute! Him and Tae have clearly been watching too many kdramas 🤣 And I love how Hobi says that he would trust his partner then just goes back to doodling while the chaos continues around him!!!
The virgo and capricorn had me dying on the perilla leaf debate🤣🤣🤣🤣 Jk and Tae had me dying! I love Jk's answer on the other questions...it's really HIM💜
Pls Jungkook was so cute during that debate lol. Also his replies on this MBTI test videos are another proof of how empath, how caring he is. He’s so thoughtful and honest. I love him.
The debate was so adorable because first Namjoon said he was fine with it but st the end of the debate he was angry. And Jungkook was adorable,he was totally against it lol he definitely watches to much kdrama😂😂💜
Omg I was in tears laughing at JK, V.. then listening to Yoongi, Jin and RM lol then we have Hobi’s maturity as always and Jimin’s chair saga absolutely the best debate!!!
OMGGG! Finally this is the most spoken abt debate😭😂🤣 Jk is literally sucha cutie! The way he was so straightforward is so endearing! 😭💜 PARK JIMIN AND CHAIRS AGAIN HERE😭😂 Thanks for the vid shiki! 💜💜
Omg jungkook is killing me ..he is so cute..but the way he stick with his decision it's impressed me...how genuine and pure and honest person he is .... Make me more love him ... 💜💜💜💜💜💜
I love JK's firm stance on this, seeming distracted but actually paying full attention. It's like he is saying why is this even up for debate, the answer is obvious! He knows his own mind and will NEVER be swayed. He is a fierce friend/boyfriend.💜
After debating nd arguing final conclusion is :- Jin: "Everybody has their own unique personality, that's what life is" Absolutely true Jin 👏👏👏 he's straight nd forward, relatable. Jin nd Jk quarreling over peeling off perilla leaf nd shrimp. Jin: Couldn't they help their friend Jk: No Jin: What about soup Jk: Soup is ok but no peeling off shrimp 😂 Meanwhile Jin's answer practical, matured, kind hearted nd ready to help others. Love u wwh ❤️❤️❤️
I have full tears running down my face laughing so hard. Of course Hobi reaffirms the reason why he's my bias. Yoongi is the voice of reason. And JK and Tae are literally warning every future partner what they won't stand for. This is why I stan so hard for BTS. OMG........
The best saved for last! 🤣🤣🤣not sure what it's really about, perhaps perilla leaves have a special meaning in Korean culture. Or maybe the intimacy involved in the action of peeling, heck, no idea but it was fun! Thanks Shiki. 👍😁
Just looked up ‘saju.’ It’s the Korean word for astrology. In the Chinese/Korean system, there are 5 elements-earth, fire, water, metal, and wood…and 12 animals. 1997 (JK) is a fire ox year, while 1995 (Tae & Jimin) is a wood pig year. Both JK & Tae probably got more extensive readings based on birth date & planetary positions when they visited the specialist.
I definitely trust my partner on being courteous & thoughtful to guests & friends but I don’t necessarily trust others outside my partner. Because it is my just personality, I have had plenty of friends boyfriends or husbands flirt with me on the side. I never took the bait but have forced myself to be more mindful in group settings. I am on the side of JK.
It depends on the agreements and boundaries you have as a couple. It kind of would be weird if a friend started helping me separate the leaves (they’re kind of clumped together when they are cooked). I can see JKs point, but lost it when the Kdrama kicked in with the marriage…LOL
it reminds me of him saying mine is mine, and yours is mine😂😂i cant with him advnace thingking peeling a perilla will lead to mariage,😂jk is sooooo funny🤣
I'm like Yoongi, and Jin. I don't care. I'll be more worried if he wouldn't want to help or be helpful. also jhope had the most mature answer. but jk and v had the most cute and funny answers. rm I think was in between. jimin here just wondering when the managers will end this or keep them arguing 😆 then he laughs so hard and breaks his chair.
I truly enjoyed this episode,laugh time about their personal sentiment re the perilla leaf...I luv how kookie defend his "NO"...all in all I appreciate their honest opinion on a silly matter which made the show unforgettable to watch...pls have more episodes like this...
Taekook so funny when they are explaining their opinions, i really know taehyung must be unique, but jungkook is really something new....so i know what kind of personality jk is, but they are all very funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣💜
I think the thing with the perilla leaf is the fact my 'significant other' noticed that 'my friend' was struggling with peeling off one leaf from the stack and decided to hold the others down to help. It's like why are you paying attention to someone else when i'm there. I honestly don't know if i would care though. I think it would be a case by case thing.
Actually the one question with the freind fighting I had a fight with a friend once( an old friend 7 years together)and I just waited to calm and organized my thoughts but its ended up by losing him its like with time passing through its being so awkward to talk to each other so now I prefer to talk about the problem in the spot rather than waiting (sorry for my English)
lol this was endearing lo… i think for me it depends on what the situation is. whether if I asked first my significant other to help my friend , or if my significant other asked if my friend needs help. i think a precedent act would justify my reaction first. But JK and Tae were just answering bade on what they are feeling at that time.
You know this controversy started when a couple, both well known singers in Korea, mentioned this in a talk show? The wife told a story about a fight she had with her husband over an incident at dinner with friends. Her friend was struggling to peel a perilla leaf (pickled side dish) when her husband reach over to help her. I think most of the women would side with the wife. The MC at the time asked if that friend was pretty. Haha
Just saying..... in reality, as a 69 yrs old married woman, I would say, Jungkook and Taehyung are correct. Trust is not an issue, its the respect and good manners on both of persons involved. If you are in a relationship, you have to be careful in everything you do, respect your significant other, what or which ever it might be, so to preserve/prolong your good relationship with your love one. The best debate I have watched! They are all intelligent and have good sense of humor. Wish they have more of these! Love them all!
I liked your contribution to the discussion and hearing your thought on the topics. Thanks for the reaction 🙏 11:08 Exactly, you can still appreciate it and be grateful that one person cooked something for you, but I couldn‘t choke something down, if I don‘t like it and rather be honest about it. Like JK said, I would also feel worse, if the other person has to eat my dish, even if they don‘t like it. On top of that, if all people would give fake reactions or no comments on mistakes, how can someone improve? Of course, you don‘t have to bash or make fun of the other person, but you could give a honest but tactful and sensitive opinion. Maybe that’s my german roots. Many Germans are very critical and honest and are sometimes even considered as rude from international people 😅 It‘s interesting to hear their different opinions on various topics in such discussions and to learn more about them or sometimes even from them.
Jungkook is right, it's obvious just imagine you,your husband and your friend sitting on dinner table and your friend is helping your husband peeling perilla leaves or your husband asking help from your friend when you were there isn't it awkward and not right ..? It is totally wrong I am agree with jungkook and teahyung in this case i also get mad on partner 🤨 But jungkook is cutie 💜♾️
CHRISTMAS SHIKI !! 🍿 WAIT I didn't expect to be name dropped in this video omg 😂 But yes MBTI is pop psychology & is a huge problem in the field because people start judging as Jimin said but I had faith that BTS would be reasonable here & I am very proud & happy that they getting this message across to millions that it is a fad ! I did have fun watching these though :)
My heart flutters of how territorial and possessive Jungkook is. This is a typical alpha male attitude. The girlfriend should be sensitive to her boyfriend’s feelings. Peeling of perilla leaves, shrimps, crab legs etc definitely a no no!
I'm with JK and Tae on this. it would seem awkward. And indeed they should experience it to know if it would really be ok. But JK already said they wont be ok. hahaha!
Shrimp with the shell on it looks like a giant gross bug. I'm not peeling it. I don't care who peels it, as long as I don't have to eat it while it's looking like a sea spider.
Personally I would mind if my partner does that for my friend when I am right there. In Korea it is seen in sexual way so Taekook's reaction were understandable. Actually you peel leaves with chopsticks... You eating with chopsticks and then peeling leaves would mean indirect kiss in a way (Tae was referring to this.) Its same as sharing same straw or glass while drinking. So I would definitely mind... But the point is if i notice, I mean who notice these things when you are having delicious food in front of you lol.
I'm not the jealous type but the perilla-leaf issue is kinda awkward. I'll be irritated because, first of all, my friend is not disabled. They have hands and capable of peeling the leaves themselves. Why would my partner help them? If they ask for help, then it would be okay. I could help them myself or if I'm busy with my own food, I could ask my partner to do it for them.
just Jungkook being jealous and protective boyfriend, but all of them Will be a great boyfriend/ husband. They definitely the best from their personalities and characteristics. I love them 😍💜
This was so hilarious - the way they debate, and embellish the scenarios…And Jungkook, just “no!” 😂😂 “next thing you know, they are holding hands…” 😂😂 And Tae, “the chopsticks have been in their mouth…”, he really gave it a lot of thought, imagined it happening 😂😂. Then Hobi, so wise “if we trust each other, it’s fine”, then drifts away again…Jimin, talking about the shrimp, “I’m your boyfriend, why are you peeling it and giving it to my friend?”… It’s so funny, the whole discussion is epic BTS Thanks Shiki 💜💜
JK and Tae were funny in this debate. However, a thought towards their instinctive responses. IF (big IF) they truly view situations like this from a possessive and controlling mindset, those are NOT good qualities to have a healthy relationship. In general, possessive and controlling behaviour is another form of abusive behaviour because in my view they spawn a continuous storyline of lack of trust and undermining a person's worth. If a significant other is always subjected to these types of behaviours (even if a JK/Tae are overly abundant in giving in other ways) that person may either (1) believe they're individuality in the relationship is insignificant, worthless as a person, and become a ghost partner which is terrible to change someone into a puppet (especially if you espouse "love yourself" ideals to others) or (2) they'll say Fk U and leave. So no one "wins" with those types of behaviours. Personally, imo, the healthiest response was from J-Hope: If there's trust between the partners in the relationship, why would this matter? And to extend J-Hope's view further, wouldn't your partner's active trait of selfless giving to assist another human be a characteristic that you admire? Also, I loved Yoongi's responses - if a grown ass adult (who is NOT physically disabled) can't even eat without assistance, then they don't deserve the food. However, I will also say this: this type of scenario is an opportunity for the female partner to act in a manner that respects the relationship. What do I mean? Why is the friend asking for help from the female who's in a partnership if they are not disabled? Why are they not asking their own male friend - since they need the help that much? It's a question for the female partner to ask in her mind - what's the motivation here? Is it to stir up sh%t between me and my partner? and if so, why should I act to help them achieve what they want? But her male partner should trust her enough to deduce the situation and make the right decision for herself and even if she chooses to help, to view it as an innocent benevolent act since it's not a repeated scenario. Personally, if my male partner started the whole accusatory/possessive BS of "why did you help my friend with his food?" I would tell him to go fix his brain before talking to me again -- and leave them both at the restaurant.
Great thoughts expressed here, however VTS4LIFE in the comments explains from the Korean perspective which I think we have to take into consideration. Interesting how different cultures deal/see things. Makes for interesting debates! 😂
Theoretically: if we trust each other then there is no problem with helping. Practically: Everyone will be like jk in that situation. Everybody feels jealous if their partner helps their friend instead of bf/gf. And the situation looks a bit awkward.
Yup, One already served perilla leaves in all ppl's seperate dish/plates, now that frnd ain't disabled/dummy to don't peel it themself to eat. Cooked perilla leaves r use to clump/stick together..& U can trust ur significant other but what abt that frnd and his intentions..Also in SK culture it's seen intimacy way & as one use chopsticks they eating with to peel leaves for their partner's frnd, can mean indirect kiss in a way (similar as sharing same straw or glass)..especially when the partner is present right there and can help the frnd themself. & the significant other coming from same culture would be most possibly aware of stuff too. Practically anyone would feel the situation bit akward. But Ideally/Theoretically it's easy to say than done that if we trust each other, there's absolutely no problem & nothing clicking in (as trust issue ain't problem in first place here) Btw lmao, some Ppl in comments saying that theoretical one as practical/realistic answer While actual practical one as immature. Like let's be honest, If we truely luv, care smone/smthing the most, give our everything for them & they mean so much to us..we get lil possesive for it.We as human beings even get possessive for our parents & feel lil jealous when they give more attention to ur sibling infront of u Or over our best frnd when he/she give more attention to new frnd of their infront of u.
@@trusfratedbunny2215 yaa, Every one will feel jealous if they are in that type of situation. If someone won't feel jealous that means he/she don't love their bf/gf that much. Practically, If me & my bf agreed to eat together but unexpectedly my friend joined and my bf helping her to eat. In that situation I will become a third person. Even if I trust my bf also, I would definitely feel jealous. We are all human beings and we have feelings. Our actions will be completely different from the words.
Your room is clean because you clean it regularly without thinking about it... if you see something off you fix it so you clean your room more regurarly than others sorry for my english...i have red waves bellow most words 🤭
Ya it's obvious just imagine you ,your husband and your friend sitting on dinner table and your friend is helping your husband peeling perilla leaves or your husband asking help from your friend when you were there isn't it awkward and not right ..? It is totally wrong I am agree with jungkook and teahyung in this case
i understand the whole perilla leaf debate. i actually doesn't really care about this type of interaction. i am the one who will do anything without much thought, a friend's husband like my cooking, i'll cook for them. But some people saw this as awkward interaction, therefore i learn to become more sensitive for interaction like this
I agree with hobi yoongi jin here. it's not like they are flirting with perilla leaves. your partner is just being kind and helpful without flirting. just think about this: is your "relationship" that fragile to be over just because of perilla leaves? a healthy relationship should be based on trust
I agree with everything you just said your exactly right . I'm so glad my bias Suga his answer was he doesn't care . He's not the jealous type of man , Hobi's answer I loved it's all about trust and Jins answer also .
Yes... I also proud of my bias Jin... Suga and Hobi also... Jin, Suga, Jhope's answer are so matured and it should be this.. Too much possessiveness is not right in relationship
i swear bts debates are one of the funniest debates...wow..who can imagine marriage out of a perilla leaf..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣jk was hilarious here, the way he was getting hyped up even when he was doing other stuff...but i didnt get when jk n rm even were okay with noodles but not with perilla leaf or shrimp..its the same thing
It's not same thing, Scoop noodles out of pot to put/serve in their bowl is same as pouring drink..u do it for urself, guests & everyone as culture. U have to understand how things r perceived acc. to different cultures, how & which actions r seen in what way in other cultures and take that in consideration first. One already served perilla leaves in all ppl's seperate dish/plates, now that frnd ain't disabled/dummy to don't peel it themself to eat. Cooked perilla leaves use to clump/stick together..& U can trust ur significant other but what abt that frnd and his intentions..Also in SK culture it's seen intimacy way & as one use chopsticks they eating with to peel leaves for their partner's frnd, can mean indirect kiss in a way (similar as sharing same straw, glass)..especially when the partner is present right there and can help the frnd themself. & significant other coming from same culture would be most possibly aware of stuff too. Practically anyone would feel the situation bit akward. But Ideally/Theoretically it's easy to say than done that if we trust each other, there's absolutely no problem & nothing clicking in (as trust issue ain't problem in first place here) Like let's be honest, If we truely luv, care smone/smthing the most, give our everything for them & they mean so much to us..we get lil possesive for it. We as human beings even get possessive for our parents & feel lil jealous when they give more attention to ur sibling infront of u Or over our best frnd when he/she give more attention to their new frnd infront of u.
No clue what those leaves are, but don't care if I have a significant other that helps out a friend with them. If there is some sort of culture thing that says you will officially be married upon the peeling of the leaves of your friends food, then I would hope he doesn't want to, would seem pointless for him to be dating me then. Personally I think they probably just watch too many K Dramas. I also stay away from guys like that, no into controlling guys, and I dont want to be in any sort of relationship that has those sort of trust issues, it may be okay for some girls, but just not for me. I think the MBTI is a good way to understand how people view the world differently and how to understand a person that thinks differently than you. Knowing this can help improve your relationship with others and create better environments, such as at work, school, committees or anything that involves a group of people.
jungkook is cute when he's jealous! I think he is right. It is better that a friend is the one who helps him, not a life partner There is nothing to do with watching a lot of Korean drama here, it is his original jealousy, as he is the author of the saying, “What is yours is mine, and what is mine is mine.”
Hello Shiki,, I respect all the way they answered but about the salty food if accidentally poured more salt should tell it honestly in advance to someone with you and make a remedy on it if there's still a way😁👍✌️✌️🙋but the perilla leaf? Shrimp is involved 😏🤔I want to help especially family group eating with children' wants to eat shrimp but with a couple can't help but to just advice what to do first 😁✌️Jin is aware through physical sansation💜
JK killed me with this debate, he is sooo cute! Him and Tae have clearly been watching too many kdramas 🤣 And I love how Hobi says that he would trust his partner then just goes back to doodling while the chaos continues around him!!!
Chaotic tannies is always entertaining 😂 i wholeheartedly agree with you about Hobi.
Such a sweet ball of sunshine our Hobi ☀️💜
Agree!!
The pout and shaking legs 😭 He got so cutely grumpy LOL
Agree
jungkook is the sweetest and most endearing person ever
pouty Jungkook is too endearing 🥺
JK is the jealous type he was very adamant about the perilla leaf 🤣 he is so freakin cute 💜
Jimin almost passed out laughing because of JK 😂🤌🏼
Jungkook is so adorable and funny fighting against the helping with perilla leaf😂😂 poor jimin laughing so hard he broke the chair 😂
Jk and Tae are worried Jin would get married over a leaf. They tried to warn him this situation. It’s so hilarious
Jk and tae are so possessive they are so cute😂😭💜
The virgo and capricorn had me dying on the perilla leaf debate🤣🤣🤣🤣
Jk and Tae had me dying! I love Jk's answer on the other questions...it's really HIM💜
Jungkook is so cute omg i love him
Kook and Tae were not having it... Lol and JK pouting is so cutw
Pls Jungkook was so cute during that debate lol. Also his replies on this MBTI test videos are another proof of how empath, how caring he is. He’s so thoughtful and honest. I love him.
THIS! I love how empathic and honest he is.
This
Yup I truely luv how practically genuine, compassionate & empathic he is.
The debate was so adorable because first Namjoon said he was fine with it but st the end of the debate he was angry. And Jungkook was adorable,he was totally against it lol he definitely watches to much kdrama😂😂💜
This is really gold, I absolutely love jungkook sticking to his opinions 😂😂💜💜
Omg I was in tears laughing at JK, V.. then listening to Yoongi, Jin and RM lol then we have Hobi’s maturity as always and Jimin’s chair saga absolutely the best debate!!!
OMGGG! Finally this is the most spoken abt debate😭😂🤣 Jk is literally sucha cutie! The way he was so straightforward is so endearing! 😭💜
PARK JIMIN AND CHAIRS AGAIN HERE😭😂 Thanks for the vid shiki! 💜💜
Omg jungkook is killing me ..he is so cute..but the way he stick with his decision it's impressed me...how genuine and pure and honest person he is .... Make me more love him ... 💜💜💜💜💜💜
I love JK's firm stance on this, seeming distracted but actually paying full attention. It's like he is saying why is this even up for debate, the answer is obvious! He knows his own mind and will NEVER be swayed. He is a fierce friend/boyfriend.💜
Jimin saying "do it for me too" Is the cutest thing ever💜💜💜
I'm just asked my husband about this..and his answer is exactly same with JK 😂😂😂
JIN is as usual the funniest!! And the great DUO JIN and JK gives us 100% fun!!
This is so hilarious 😂😂
Jungkook debate 😂😂
the perilla leaf debate had me dying laughing
After debating nd arguing final conclusion is :-
Jin: "Everybody has their own unique personality, that's what life is"
Absolutely true Jin 👏👏👏 he's straight nd forward, relatable.
Jin nd Jk quarreling over peeling off perilla leaf nd shrimp.
Jin: Couldn't they help their friend
Jk: No
Jin: What about soup
Jk: Soup is ok but no peeling off shrimp 😂
Meanwhile Jin's answer practical, matured, kind hearted nd ready to help others. Love u wwh ❤️❤️❤️
I agree. I love how mature and helpful Jin is. But JK looking so possessive and jealous is soooo cute. I love it.
I agree with you.
I agree.. Jin is so matured... I personally agree with Jin... But the way JK said it was too funny 🤣 JK is so possessive
JK really got me here..😂This really is gold, I love all their reactions..💜
Jk and tae's answer to this perilla leaf debate is so cute
This was so funny..Jungkook very firm.Jimin & chairs, still not on good terms😀
I have full tears running down my face laughing so hard. Of course Hobi reaffirms the reason why he's my bias. Yoongi is the voice of reason. And JK and Tae are literally warning every future partner what they won't stand for. This is why I stan so hard for BTS. OMG........
I think Jungkook was drawing when he was looking down. That's my guess and he was so funny I couldn't stop laughing at him 😂😅
The best saved for last! 🤣🤣🤣not sure what it's really about, perhaps perilla leaves have a special meaning in Korean culture. Or maybe the intimacy involved in the action of peeling, heck, no idea but it was fun! Thanks Shiki. 👍😁
Just looked up ‘saju.’ It’s the Korean word for astrology. In the Chinese/Korean system, there are 5 elements-earth, fire, water, metal, and wood…and 12 animals. 1997 (JK) is a fire ox year, while 1995 (Tae & Jimin) is a wood pig year. Both JK & Tae probably got more extensive readings based on birth date & planetary positions when they visited the specialist.
정국이 느므 귀엽다 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 이런 토론 자주 보여줘 🤣🤣🤣🤣💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
jm breaking his chair over laughing AHAHAHA jk and tae so endearing and hilarious the whole time esp the perilla leaves debate LMAOOO ENTERTAINING
I definitely trust my partner on being courteous & thoughtful to guests & friends but I don’t necessarily trust others outside my partner. Because it is my just personality, I have had plenty of friends boyfriends or husbands flirt with me on the side. I never took the bait but have forced myself to be more mindful in group settings. I am on the side of JK.
It depends on the agreements and boundaries you have as a couple. It kind of would be weird if a friend started helping me separate the leaves (they’re kind of clumped together when they are cooked). I can see JKs point, but lost it when the Kdrama kicked in with the marriage…LOL
it reminds me of him saying mine is mine, and yours is mine😂😂i cant with him advnace thingking peeling a perilla will lead to mariage,😂jk is sooooo funny🤣
I'm like Yoongi, and Jin. I don't care. I'll be more worried if he wouldn't want to help or be helpful.
also jhope had the most mature answer.
but jk and v had the most cute and funny answers.
rm I think was in between.
jimin here just wondering when the managers will end this or keep them arguing 😆 then he laughs so hard and breaks his chair.
I truly enjoyed this episode,laugh time about their personal sentiment re the perilla leaf...I luv how kookie defend his "NO"...all in all I appreciate their honest opinion on a silly matter which made the show unforgettable to watch...pls have more episodes like this...
i'll be completely ok, as long as you trust each other it doesn't matter, it wont even cross my mind lol
Taekook so funny when they are explaining their opinions, i really know taehyung must be unique, but jungkook is really something new....so i know what kind of personality jk is, but they are all very funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣💜
I think the thing with the perilla leaf is the fact my 'significant other' noticed that 'my friend' was struggling with peeling off one leaf from the stack and decided to hold the others down to help. It's like why are you paying attention to someone else when i'm there. I honestly don't know if i would care though. I think it would be a case by case thing.
Actually the one question with the freind fighting I had a fight with a friend once( an old friend 7 years together)and I just waited to calm and organized my thoughts but its ended up by losing him its like with time passing through its being so awkward to talk to each other so now I prefer to talk about the problem in the spot rather than waiting (sorry for my English)
lol this was endearing lo… i think for me it depends on what the situation is. whether if I asked first my significant other to help my friend , or if my significant other asked if my friend needs help. i think a precedent act would justify my reaction first. But JK and Tae were just answering bade on what they are feeling at that time.
This was crazy. Loved every bit of it.
You know this controversy started when a couple, both well known singers in Korea, mentioned this in a talk show?
The wife told a story about a fight she had with her husband over an incident at dinner with friends.
Her friend was struggling to peel a perilla leaf (pickled side dish) when her husband reach over to help her.
I think most of the women would side with the wife. The MC at the time asked if that friend was pretty. Haha
Just saying..... in reality, as a 69 yrs old married woman, I would say, Jungkook and Taehyung are correct. Trust is not an issue, its the respect and good manners on both of persons involved. If you are in a relationship, you have to be careful in everything you do, respect your significant other, what or which ever it might be, so to preserve/prolong your good relationship with your love one.
The best debate I have watched! They are all intelligent and have good sense of humor. Wish they have more of these! Love them all!
im more like hobi, its fine as long as we trust each other!!! but the maknae line was gold 😂😂
I'm with jungkook and tae for that perila and shrimp thing I'd be mad too
Ok but JK and tae being the jealous type omg i cantt 😂😂 i think I would be fine with this, but i dont know anymore lol
I liked your contribution to the discussion and hearing your thought on the topics. Thanks for the reaction 🙏
11:08 Exactly, you can still appreciate it and be grateful that one person cooked something for you, but I couldn‘t choke something down, if I don‘t like it and rather be honest about it. Like JK said, I would also feel worse, if the other person has to eat my dish, even if they don‘t like it. On top of that, if all people would give fake reactions or no comments on mistakes, how can someone improve? Of course, you don‘t have to bash or make fun of the other person, but you could give a honest but tactful and sensitive opinion. Maybe that’s my german roots. Many Germans are very critical and honest and are sometimes even considered as rude from international people 😅
It‘s interesting to hear their different opinions on various topics in such discussions and to learn more about them or sometimes even from them.
I love the "Christmas in summer" vibes Shiki 😁 if this debate got you rollin, look forward to RUN ep 155. Much love to you 💜
Jungkook is right, it's obvious just imagine you,your husband and your friend sitting on dinner table and your friend is helping your husband peeling perilla leaves or your husband asking help from your friend when you were there isn't it awkward and not right ..? It is totally wrong I am agree with jungkook and teahyung in this case i also get mad on partner 🤨
But jungkook is cutie 💜♾️
CHRISTMAS SHIKI !! 🍿 WAIT I didn't expect to be name dropped in this video omg 😂 But yes MBTI is pop psychology & is a huge problem in the field because people start judging as Jimin said but I had faith that BTS would be reasonable here & I am very proud & happy that they getting this message across to millions that it is a fad ! I did have fun watching these though :)
That food tasting part was hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣💜
Jk’s reaction is like so close to home… so funny😂😂😂. But if it was me, i would mind also😅😅that is a bit awkward ☺️💜😅
My heart flutters of how territorial and possessive Jungkook is. This is a typical alpha male attitude. The girlfriend should be sensitive to her boyfriend’s feelings. Peeling of perilla leaves, shrimps, crab legs etc definitely a no no!
Nope for helping a friend by my significant other.. 😂 😂 I will be the one to assist my friend if she needs it.
I'm with JK and Tae on this. it would seem awkward. And indeed they should experience it to know if it would really be ok. But JK already said they wont be ok. hahaha!
Shrimp with the shell on it looks like a giant gross bug. I'm not peeling it. I don't care who peels it, as long as I don't have to eat it while it's looking like a sea spider.
Cute but firm JK, eventhough he's the youngest, they cannot get him to change his point of view.
Personally I would mind if my partner does that for my friend when I am right there. In Korea it is seen in sexual way so Taekook's reaction were understandable. Actually you peel leaves with chopsticks... You eating with chopsticks and then peeling leaves would mean indirect kiss in a way (Tae was referring to this.) Its same as sharing same straw or glass while drinking. So I would definitely mind... But the point is if i notice, I mean who notice these things when you are having delicious food in front of you lol.
I'm not the jealous type but the perilla-leaf issue is kinda awkward. I'll be irritated because, first of all, my friend is not disabled. They have hands and capable of peeling the leaves themselves. Why would my partner help them? If they ask for help, then it would be okay. I could help them myself or if I'm busy with my own food, I could ask my partner to do it for them.
Thats what hv bn talking abt why my partner when am around
Yes that's what I am also saying if I was there way would I let my friend to help my husband 😌
Perilla leaf controversy is going down in the history OMG 🤣🤣💜💜
just Jungkook being jealous and protective boyfriend, but all of them Will be a great boyfriend/ husband. They definitely the best from their personalities and characteristics.
I love them 😍💜
I love Jungkookie s response 🤣🤣🤣
This was so hilarious - the way they debate, and embellish the scenarios…And Jungkook, just “no!” 😂😂 “next thing you know, they are holding hands…” 😂😂 And Tae, “the chopsticks have been in their mouth…”, he really gave it a lot of thought, imagined it happening 😂😂. Then Hobi, so wise “if we trust each other, it’s fine”, then drifts away again…Jimin, talking about the shrimp, “I’m your boyfriend, why are you peeling it and giving it to my friend?”… It’s so funny, the whole discussion is epic BTS
Thanks Shiki 💜💜
JK and Tae were funny in this debate. However, a thought towards their instinctive responses. IF (big IF) they truly view situations like this from a possessive and controlling mindset, those are NOT good qualities to have a healthy relationship. In general, possessive and controlling behaviour is another form of abusive behaviour because in my view they spawn a continuous storyline of lack of trust and undermining a person's worth. If a significant other is always subjected to these types of behaviours (even if a JK/Tae are overly abundant in giving in other ways) that person may either (1) believe they're individuality in the relationship is insignificant, worthless as a person, and become a ghost partner which is terrible to change someone into a puppet (especially if you espouse "love yourself" ideals to others) or (2) they'll say Fk U and leave. So no one "wins" with those types of behaviours. Personally, imo, the healthiest response was from J-Hope: If there's trust between the partners in the relationship, why would this matter? And to extend J-Hope's view further, wouldn't your partner's active trait of selfless giving to assist another human be a characteristic that you admire? Also, I loved Yoongi's responses - if a grown ass adult (who is NOT physically disabled) can't even eat without assistance, then they don't deserve the food. However, I will also say this: this type of scenario is an opportunity for the female partner to act in a manner that respects the relationship. What do I mean? Why is the friend asking for help from the female who's in a partnership if they are not disabled? Why are they not asking their own male friend - since they need the help that much? It's a question for the female partner to ask in her mind - what's the motivation here? Is it to stir up sh%t between me and my partner? and if so, why should I act to help them achieve what they want? But her male partner should trust her enough to deduce the situation and make the right decision for herself and even if she chooses to help, to view it as an innocent benevolent act since it's not a repeated scenario. Personally, if my male partner started the whole accusatory/possessive BS of "why did you help my friend with his food?" I would tell him to go fix his brain before talking to me again -- and leave them both at the restaurant.
Great thoughts expressed here, however VTS4LIFE in the comments explains from the Korean perspective which I think we have to take into consideration. Interesting how different cultures deal/see things. Makes for interesting debates! 😂
Jk so cuuuuuuuute 😭😭
Theoretically: if we trust each other then there is no problem with helping.
Practically: Everyone will be like jk in that situation. Everybody feels jealous if their partner helps their friend instead of bf/gf. And the situation looks a bit awkward.
Yup, One already served perilla leaves in all ppl's seperate dish/plates, now that frnd ain't disabled/dummy to don't peel it themself to eat. Cooked perilla leaves r use to clump/stick together..& U can trust ur significant other but what abt that frnd and his intentions..Also in SK culture it's seen intimacy way & as one use chopsticks they eating with to peel leaves for their partner's frnd, can mean indirect kiss in a way (similar as sharing same straw or glass)..especially when the partner is present right there and can help the frnd themself. & the significant other coming from same culture would be most possibly aware of stuff too.
Practically anyone would feel the situation bit akward. But Ideally/Theoretically it's easy to say than done that if we trust each other, there's absolutely no problem & nothing clicking in (as trust issue ain't problem in first place here) Btw lmao, some Ppl in comments saying that theoretical one as practical/realistic answer While actual practical one as immature.
Like let's be honest, If we truely luv, care smone/smthing the most, give our everything for them & they mean so much to us..we get lil possesive for it.We as human beings even get possessive for our parents & feel lil jealous when they give more attention to ur sibling infront of u Or over our best frnd when he/she give more attention to new frnd of their infront of u.
@@trusfratedbunny2215 yaa, Every one will feel jealous if they are in that type of situation. If someone won't feel jealous that means he/she don't love their bf/gf that much. Practically, If me & my bf agreed to eat together but unexpectedly my friend joined and my bf helping her to eat. In that situation I will become a third person. Even if I trust my bf also, I would definitely feel jealous.
We are all human beings and we have feelings. Our actions will be completely different from the words.
Your room is clean because you clean it regularly without thinking about it... if you see something off you fix it so you clean your room more regurarly than others sorry for my english...i have red waves bellow most words 🤭
To Jungkook's future lover: If you're out with Jungkook and his friend. Don't ask the friend for help. It will trigger JK just ask him 😂
Ya it's obvious just imagine you ,your husband and your friend sitting on dinner table and your friend is helping your husband peeling perilla leaves or your husband asking help from your friend when you were there isn't it awkward and not right ..? It is totally wrong I am agree with jungkook and teahyung in this case
I agree with them too
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this was so fun ! its interesting listening to their reasons. yes, one of the best BTS content for me.
i understand the whole perilla leaf debate. i actually doesn't really care about this type of interaction. i am the one who will do anything without much thought, a friend's husband like my cooking, i'll cook for them. But some people saw this as awkward interaction, therefore i learn to become more sensitive for interaction like this
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Ame este video Shiki 💜💜💜
I agree with hobi yoongi jin here. it's not like they are flirting with perilla leaves. your partner is just being kind and helpful without flirting. just think about this: is your "relationship" that fragile to be over just because of perilla leaves? a healthy relationship should be based on trust
I agree with everything you just said your exactly right . I'm so glad my bias Suga his answer was he doesn't care . He's not the jealous type of man , Hobi's answer I loved it's all about trust and Jins answer also .
Yes... I also proud of my bias Jin... Suga and Hobi also... Jin, Suga, Jhope's answer are so matured and it should be this.. Too much possessiveness is not right in relationship
OMG...Park Jimin needs to stay away from chairs. Lol In conclusion they're all unique yet the same...💜
I always watch your video as usual!!
Shiki !! Thank you as always
i swear bts debates are one of the funniest debates...wow..who can imagine marriage out of a perilla leaf..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣jk was hilarious here, the way he was getting hyped up even when he was doing other stuff...but i didnt get when jk n rm even were okay with noodles but not with perilla leaf or shrimp..its the same thing
It's not same thing, Scoop noodles out of pot to put/serve in their bowl is same as pouring drink..u do it for urself, guests & everyone as culture. U have to understand how things r perceived acc. to different cultures, how & which actions r seen in what way in other cultures and take that in consideration first.
One already served perilla leaves in all ppl's seperate dish/plates, now that frnd ain't disabled/dummy to don't peel it themself to eat. Cooked perilla leaves use to clump/stick together..& U can trust ur significant other but what abt that frnd and his intentions..Also in SK culture it's seen intimacy way & as one use chopsticks they eating with to peel leaves for their partner's frnd, can mean indirect kiss in a way (similar as sharing same straw, glass)..especially when the partner is present right there and can help the frnd themself. & significant other coming from same culture would be most possibly aware of stuff too.
Practically anyone would feel the situation bit akward. But Ideally/Theoretically it's easy to say than done that if we trust each other, there's absolutely no problem & nothing clicking in (as trust issue ain't problem in first place here)
Like let's be honest, If we truely luv, care smone/smthing the most, give our everything for them & they mean so much to us..we get lil possesive for it. We as human beings even get possessive for our parents & feel lil jealous when they give more attention to ur sibling infront of u Or over our best frnd when he/she give more attention to their new frnd infront of u.
No clue what those leaves are, but don't care if I have a significant other that helps out a friend with them. If there is some sort of culture thing that says you will officially be married upon the peeling of the leaves of your friends food, then I would hope he doesn't want to, would seem pointless for him to be dating me then.
Personally I think they probably just watch too many K Dramas. I also stay away from guys like that, no into controlling guys, and I dont want to be in any sort of relationship that has those sort of trust issues, it may be okay for some girls, but just not for me.
I think the MBTI is a good way to understand how people view the world differently and how to understand a person that thinks differently than you. Knowing this can help improve your relationship with others and create better environments, such as at work, school, committees or anything that involves a group of people.
Im waiting for this episode to see your reaction shiki. I laugh so hard like you.
JK and V the cute toxic buahahahahahaha love them !
Jungkook post butter era is something else 😂😂
Me : JK please stop watching k-drama 🤣🤣
Perilla leaf drama is now showing🤣🤣🤣🤣
I think I will be okay with that unless it's more than just peeling
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Jk and V was not having it, tbh i have the same thought with them though 😭😭😭🥲🥲🥲🥲
My JK is so possessive😍😍😂💜💜💜💜
The Perilla leaf debate haha🤣🤣
I watch this debate many time n still LOL 😆 BTW are u OK shiki? Please take a good care of your self 💜 have a nice weekend shiki
jungkook is cute when he's jealous!
I think he is right. It is better that a friend is the one who helps him, not a life partner
There is nothing to do with watching a lot of Korean drama here, it is his original jealousy, as he is the author of the saying, “What is yours is mine, and what is mine is mine.”
I like V and JK, jealous type, yeah sure.. why not.
Hi shiki
Hello Shiki,, I respect all the way they answered but about the salty food if accidentally poured more salt should tell it honestly in advance to someone with you and make a remedy on it if there's still a way😁👍✌️✌️🙋but the perilla leaf? Shrimp is involved 😏🤔I want to help especially family group eating with children' wants to eat shrimp but with a couple can't help but to just advice what to do first 😁✌️Jin is aware through physical sansation💜
FYI hobi 4 times change phone in a month 😂
V and jk lmaoo😂😂😂💜💜
V is my spirit animal