RAMADAN VLOG Ep. 001: Finally Addressing The Move…

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  • Опубликовано: 22 окт 2024

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  • @itwasatuesday7441
    @itwasatuesday7441 Год назад +134

    This hit me hard. I’m 33 and now divorced, now a single mom who’s living back home with my parents along with my 1 year old and I’ve been sooo hard on myself for the marriage not working and not being “on my feet” yet. I found comfort in this vlog. Alhamdulillah for everything.

    • @denisebishi5212
      @denisebishi5212 Год назад +5

      Keep pushing and God will do the rest. Wishing you peace and blessings in this new phase of your life. All will be well💕🙏🏾

    • @EmiDaghe
      @EmiDaghe Год назад +1

      Wow ❤

    • @itwasatuesday7441
      @itwasatuesday7441 Год назад +1

      @@denisebishi5212 thank you so much, sis ♥️

  • @Africanbeautyy93
    @Africanbeautyy93 Год назад +66

    I’m non Muslim (Nigerian) but I am loving these Ramadan vlogs! I’ve been loving Ayesha’s vlogs and yours as well! I’m also fasting with you guys this Ramadan❤

  • @chimdichime
    @chimdichime Год назад +53

    since I just said this to my boifriend sitting across from me i'll say it here " This Tomiwa girl is actually someone I love to watch , she is just such a breath of fresh air, she is just so lovely to watch" i love you babes

  • @UniquelyCreated721
    @UniquelyCreated721 Год назад +49

    I’m often a “silent watcher” but I felt the need to comment on this video, you discussing your parents separation really hit home & really put everything into perspective with you saying in your previous vlogs how last year was a hard year for you. I’m happy to see that you have been able to take your time to heal & be able to share it with us in your own time. From watching your previous vlogs to now, your growth is amazing ! You have such a bright future ahead & I can’t wait to see what’s in store ! 💕

  • @abbeysnails
    @abbeysnails Год назад +14

    Same in the Haitian culture, stay home until the child is ready. I’m 27, but I’m getting married next year so I’ll be out the house soon. It’s still hard to think about it cause I’m a mommy’s girl lol (I’ll miss step dad too lol).
    And much love sent to you. My parents divorced when I was 14. And I remember finally breaking down to my mom at age 16. I held it for so long. It is very hard on kids even if you see it coming. Please cry it out and talk about it. Prayers to you and your family during this process. ❤

  • @mphuki
    @mphuki Год назад +44

    Definitely understand why you took your time to share the reason behind the move! It’s an unfortunate development but happy to hear you’re doing well and have made peace with it! A day at a time. You’re beautiful & strong Tomiwa! Sending you loads of love, light and excited for the new chapter!💕💕💕

  • @ninanegedu
    @ninanegedu Год назад +18

    Tomiwa, you're so strong being open and vulnerable with your subscribers. I'm sending you so much love, hugs and prayers for you and your family as you navigate this new phase of life. Happy Ramadan❤

  • @ShapingSarah
    @ShapingSarah Год назад +35

    Wow I was not expecting this. Thank you for your vulnerability & im sorry for your family. Keep being you Tomiwa ❤

  • @Tyeebs
    @Tyeebs Год назад +2

    You’re so strong, I’m so sorry about what happened

  • @MsYemisi
    @MsYemisi Год назад +25

    Awww Tomiwa. So sorry to hear about the reason for the move. Thank you for being vulnerable with us.🤍 and I’m happy to hear that you’re better now. Sending hugs and love to you and your family.

  • @Keesha
    @Keesha Год назад +1

    It’s okay to cry… divorce is huge. Many people who go through a divorce can tell you that it can feel like someone passed away plus the sense of failure and disappointment can be overwhelming… even if they no longer like the person they were married to. But what many don’t realize is that their children experienced everything they went through as well, but they process things differently. Yet the trauma is just as real. As a former divorcee I can say that I don’t use the term “failed marriage”, especially not to describe a union that produced children. I prefer to say that the season ended…. And just be grateful for the lessons taught. ❤

  • @Sunflower_01
    @Sunflower_01 Год назад +10

    My parent’s divorce got finalised this January and when I tell you the entire process literally destabilises the entire family💔I’m 21 years old and I’m the eldest, sis no one saw it coming. 24 years of my parents marriage gone just like that, sold our home, EVERYTHING is different now and I sometimes cry about it because we were a close family unit but I know God knows why it had to happen the way it did. So I’m wishing you and yours all the best in your new season ❤️❤️

  • @_foworolaa
    @_foworolaa Год назад +16

    umar suleiman and the digital sisterhood are my fav media to listen to during ramadan
    they always hit my heart in the right places❤️

  • @habeebahdawodu
    @habeebahdawodu Год назад +1

    finally catching up on all your ramadan vlogss , I took a break for Ramadan. Not me crying with you. i love you and love this vlog

  • @WendyLiving
    @WendyLiving Год назад +5

    Aww your parents separation touched me, Lord strengthen you! And love watching you even as a non-Muslim, I love how authentic you are and your channel is 🫶🏽✨

  • @itsamina
    @itsamina Год назад +9

    Tomiwa Tuesdays 🤎 Praying for this new chapter of yours. Ramadan Mubarak sister

  • @precioustheedon
    @precioustheedon Год назад +8

    Sending you so much love and prayers. I’m really sorry for the reason why you had to move. Praying for God’s healing for you and your family❤️‍🩹 it must’ve taken a lot to open up and be this vulnerable….I really resonated with your words and ended up crying with you.🥺🥺it is well Tomiwa

  • @PositiveWomenTV
    @PositiveWomenTV Год назад +4

    "Success is getting what you want, happiness is wanting what you get."

  • @DaBubblesGirl10
    @DaBubblesGirl10 Год назад +4

    I know this is off topic from the other comments but I just want you to know that you truly deserve to be on the Sephora Squad ❤ ps if you ever decide to drop some merch in the future I’m definitely supporting

  • @mandy_mbonambi
    @mandy_mbonambi Год назад +8

    Tell why I got up at 2am to watch this vlog ! 😅😅 I love you and nobody can argue with me at this point !😅❤
    On a more serious note, thank you for sharing such sensitive information with us . My mom and her siblings are in their 40s and 50s but they still haven't fully healed from their parents' divorce. So I hope your mom and sister are okay too. And I pray that everything goes well for each of yall this year !❤😊

  • @safiyazubairu7505
    @safiyazubairu7505 Год назад +6

    Tomiwa 🥺🥺,why did I start crying with you.May Allah continue to heal your beautiful heart ❤️

  • @brionnamerritt
    @brionnamerritt Год назад

    I am 27 years old and yes I’m ready to get up out of here lol but honestly I still look at it as a blessing because my time to be on my own is not here yet and I have a place that I can still stay at until that time is here and I’m so thankful for that because I’m not out there struggling on my own. So to the people that’s still with there parents our time is coming, stack your bread, and be grateful 🤍🤍

  • @kafwembekunda6206
    @kafwembekunda6206 Год назад +1

    Ramadan Kareem Tomiwa, wishing you all the best and thank you for your transparency you seem like such a beautiful soul and I enjoy watching your vlogs.

  • @miss_gono
    @miss_gono Год назад +4

    Awww Tomiwa. ❤❤❤I’m so sorry about the reason for your move. Sending you so much love ❤️ you’re doing amazing

  • @beingkoko
    @beingkoko Год назад +2

    I didn’t think I’d be crying and breaking fast at the same time! You’re so beautiful inside and out.

  • @_vyola
    @_vyola Год назад +1

    Sending you lots of love hun ❤

  • @amyobi1207
    @amyobi1207 Год назад +1

    Ok just discovered you and have gone on a total binge on all your videos my new obsession. Love every bit of it it’s crisp clear. Editing is top notch and love your hijab journey too. New fan new subbie ❤❤

  • @Saint.AnneTQ
    @Saint.AnneTQ Год назад

    Thank you for sharing the reason even though you didn’t owe it to us. Immediately when you shared you were moving I felt sad and wanted to know why. Sad because you play a big part in me keeping myself sane to stay at home lol it weird. Now that you’re sharing the reason for the move I’m so sorry. I hope with this change there will be a tremendous amount of growth for you and the whole family. Everything happens for a reason ❤

  • @uchechiekumankama7575
    @uchechiekumankama7575 Год назад +1

    I love this Ramadan vlog 🥺❤️ I’m always happy watching this channel cause your so free spirited and realistic and I just needed a reminder that this world is temporary

  • @e.scrochet
    @e.scrochet Год назад +5

    Divorce has such a bad contention but sometimes it’s the best thing a couple can do for both themselves and their children or family (coming from a child from divorced parents )

    • @womenstriving8960
      @womenstriving8960 Год назад +2

      Honestly same, i was very young when i realized my parents union was a mistake, they couldn’t stay a couple of hours without drama, it was exhausting and I’d literally reject it when people will make jokes about them coming back together. Would have been hell and I’m grateful for it, I’m 26 and at my engagement ( we call it introduction) they still quarreled

    • @e.scrochet
      @e.scrochet Год назад

      @@womenstriving8960 same people still ask me if I want my parents to come back together and am like no thanks

  • @bokamosomalahlela2879
    @bokamosomalahlela2879 Год назад +3

    ❤ i just hope you didn’t feel like there was pressure with having to share something so vulnerable with us, but shoutout to you for doing so. 🥹

  • @shazeda
    @shazeda Год назад +2

    this is my first time watching your videos and I just wanted to say I think you have such a beautiful energy it made me smile and may Allah grant you shiffah through the hard times xo

  • @melanyyyh4857
    @melanyyyh4857 Год назад +3

    A whole 1 hour vlog for us.😩 thank you.🥰

  • @jessicafianko
    @jessicafianko Год назад +4

    An hour vlog, You're the best Tomiwa 😊😊😊 How's Ramadan going so far? Sending loads of love 🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎

  • @nadia3736
    @nadia3736 Год назад

    Hey tomiwa sending my well wishes to you as well as your family during this transitional period 💜 I hope you’re doing okay ! I did want to suggest letting the soil of your aloe completely dry out before watering it, it is a succulent so it stores water in its leaves and over watering can lead to your plant dying, a terracotta pot for your aloe would be beneficial because it’s porous, so it allows the soil to dry out between watering. I think your plant was going through it because of the stress of the move like you said. going from a stable environment to a not so stable not temp controlled state might be the reasons it was going through it. I definitely think you did the right thing getting rid of the dead leaves but I’m not sure it needed to be repotted honestly also I think you should have added a bit more soil the plant kind of looks like it’s drowning in the pot. I would definitely keep your pots and just get terracotta pots with drainage holes that fit in the pots you chose so the plant gets a good pot and you get nice aesthetics! I would also suggest doing a bit more research on your aloe, care may very depending on where you are, the grow zone, sunlight humidity ect. A few TikTok’s or yt shorts will do you good ! I would also recommend putting water in a bowl then dunking your plant so it only takes the water it needs, as well as making sure your tap water doesn’t have any harmful minerals aloe can be very sensitive to the ph and mineral content of tap water maybe try filtered water. These are all just suggestions and some quick things I looked up on aloe I didn’t see any comments about your plant yet so I wanted to help ! Good luck on your journey of being a plant mom! Wishing for your happiness and growth always ! 🫶🏾💜

  • @favyade
    @favyade Год назад

    Your strength is so unmatched
    You are so motivating and one f the reasons I took a chance on myself
    I love you

  • @lovedaci
    @lovedaci Год назад +1

    i just love your vlogs🤍 it truly feels like a facetime call! i’m so so sorry to hear the reason for your move🥺 thank you so much for being vulnerable and sharing that! may God continue to bless you. Ramadan Mubarak🌙🤍

  • @stacybanda5205
    @stacybanda5205 Год назад

    Thank you so much for sharing this with us even when you did not need to all. Really appreciate you!
    So sorry you had to go through this.

  • @Nizirehema98
    @Nizirehema98 Год назад +1

    Oh no I’m so sorry 😢😢😢. I’m also glad that you made peace with it . I Pray God guides you guys through it all . Divorce is very hard . May this new space bring joy and happiness to you all . 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🥲

  • @thandokajobe
    @thandokajobe Год назад +1

    Tomiwa 🥺 I am so sorry. I am so glad you are coping with all this in a healthy way. We love you and hope you keeping drawing all the strength that you need in this season. ♥

  • @debbzzzehinmidu5701
    @debbzzzehinmidu5701 Год назад +1

    Hey Tomiwa, Ramadan Kareem 🌙. I’m so sorry to hear about the situation at home. It takes time, but you’re doing so well 🤍 I experienced that same situation when I was 12. God bless ❤️😊

  • @zainabo.7940
    @zainabo.7940 Год назад +2

    Tomiwa Tuesday 🤩! Ramadan with Rodia 🤩!

  • @shontayharrell4850
    @shontayharrell4850 Год назад

    Hi Tomiwa! It's been a little while since I have been able to watch, but I'm here now catching up on some of your videos. I enjoyed watching, and thank you for sharing such a personal moment in your life as well as your family life❤❤

  • @mustbe_helen
    @mustbe_helen Год назад +1

    It’s okay to cry Tomiwa 😢I was even crying watching yet I don’t personally know u. This is hard! And u are doing great ❤

  • @LexclusiveTV
    @LexclusiveTV Год назад +5

    Lovee me a good Tomiwa Vlog❤️

  • @womenstriving8960
    @womenstriving8960 Год назад +1

    Well that came as a shock 😢 because you just seem to have so much love. Well we moveee! 🥰

  • @thatgirlsaina177
    @thatgirlsaina177 Год назад +3

    I’m so sorry this happened but Allah has better plans for ya in sha allah… I’m praying for you and the fam… I’m 31 and I’m back home living with my mom, my brother passed away and my mom was a single mother living with him so it’s been a lot with my mom so I’m back with her.. I’m still with my husband but he was very understanding with me living back with my mom until my mom feels comfortable.. ❤

  • @_foworolaa
    @_foworolaa Год назад +2

    i’m so sorry about your reason for moving🥺
    may Allah grant you and your family peace ❤

  • @Jasboud
    @Jasboud Год назад +1

    Thank you for being your authentic self and giving us quality content each and every time. May Allah grant you Barakah in your family, health and your work ❤

  • @layahlayah5951
    @layahlayah5951 Год назад +1

    The pots for your plant look to be too big. If it’s too big the soil will retain water for too long and can cause root rot, like how you pulled that one aloe Vera out that had no roots. Root rot can also leave fungus in your dirt so it shouldn’t be reused and you left the old dirt on your roots when repotting. Do NOT be afraid to run your roots under water to get rid of old dirt, roots are very strong 💪🏽 and by rinsing all the old dirt off you can look at your roots better to know that they are okay. Or take a bowl of water and dip the roots in it and the dirt will start to fall off. And if you do suspect root rot their is stuff you can do to help rid the possible fungus and bacteria. I used a succulent soil for mine, so I don’t know if using a cactus mix makes a difference, that part may or may not matter, wish I knew to help you lol. Good luck with your plant baby!!! 💚

  • @rahmatadepoju
    @rahmatadepoju Год назад +1

    this was so emotional to watch🥹 thank you for sharing this with us ❤️, I’m glad you’ve made peace with the move and may Allah continue to be with you and your family Aameen💗

  • @fredousg5213
    @fredousg5213 Год назад

    Praying for strength Towiwa. Hoping this new space brings you more happiness and peace. 💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @PrincessDlamini
    @PrincessDlamini Год назад

    I love watching you so much because after every vlog, there's just this sudden urge of either bettering my space or my life in general. Thank you for being you❤

  • @13SM
    @13SM Год назад

    girl! his espisode 3 of the jannah series had me cryyyyiiiing

  • @habibaabubakar2240
    @habibaabubakar2240 Год назад +2

    Tomiwa my sister, I pray Allah grants you and your family happiness and peace , may ease come your way and may Allah answer all your duas that will benefit you. Stay strong, stay happy and continue to grow in your journey to Jannah .

  • @jannahudah1509
    @jannahudah1509 Год назад +2

    Can you make a video on you micro locs installment, the size you went for, do you have plans of combing it out in future 😊

  • @Mscheekarrr
    @Mscheekarrr Год назад +1

    I’m so sorry about your parents tomiwa
    All things work together for good eventually and I wish you all the best ❤❤❤

  • @taliapink8047
    @taliapink8047 Год назад +2

    To be honest this move early thing is an American thing. In the Caribbean you move when you are ready period. And honestly those who left home early probably wish they could be at home

  • @zainabsirajdeen1693
    @zainabsirajdeen1693 Год назад

    excited for this Ramadan series inshallah😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @authenticallyaisha
    @authenticallyaisha Год назад +1

    Both of the unique hijab colors look absolutely beautiful on you mashaAllah!

  • @authenticallyaisha
    @authenticallyaisha Год назад

    I really admire your strength and faith, Tomiwa ❤️ thank you for being so vulnerable with us. Everything you share has only inspired me or bring me closer to my faith as well. May Allah continue to put barakah in all of your affairs 🤲🏾 Ameen

  • @violetmakhafola
    @violetmakhafola Год назад +1

    Sorry for the reason why you guys moved sending love,me am a mom of 2 stil staying at my parents home but am ready to move out

  • @r.m.1802
    @r.m.1802 Год назад

    I just love your videos. You helped me get closer to Allah (SWT) and wanting to become a hijabi and since there aren’t really much black content creators that I know who are Muslim, I really enjoy watching your videos and being able to relate to them💕
    I hope I didn’t say anything that sounds offending, I’m really just trying to let you know how much I appreciate you and our fellow CCs out there!❤
    Much much love
    ~One of your biggest supporters

  • @Rafiat24
    @Rafiat24 Год назад

    Reclaim your heart is such a good good read. Love it ! I personally recommend too.

  • @LindaMary
    @LindaMary Год назад

    I'm so sorry about your parent's separation. Sending you hugs ❤

  • @angelicaaltaf
    @angelicaaltaf Год назад +2

    Omair Suleiman is the Ramadan Vibe 💕🤲🏼

  • @praisewonder
    @praisewonder Год назад +1

    I love you so much ❤❤
    Better days ahead for sure❤
    I’m a huge fan❤

  • @_foworolaa
    @_foworolaa Год назад

    adding a volumizing scrunchie to my cart immediately
    i’m so here for all these hijab gems i’m about to be getting from youuu🤭🤭

  • @mariamsheriff6289
    @mariamsheriff6289 Год назад

    You are amazing Allahuma Barik. May Allah continue to bless you!🤍

  • @a.aimuan
    @a.aimuan Год назад

    OMG …. Tomiwa how are you? Not me tearing up cuz you were crying 😢 thank you for sharing, sending you virtual hugs 🫂

  • @olaleganposii
    @olaleganposii Год назад +3

    Sending so much love to you Tomiwa and I wish you the best❤

  • @Sha_rol
    @Sha_rol Год назад

    My fav realest A loooooong Vlog 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🥳🥳🥰🥰🥰. I’m so excited 😊

  • @GodxTracy
    @GodxTracy Год назад

    Came here from today's video and I just want to send you many hugs
    🤗🤗🤗🤗
    God bless you all

  • @Hayatii23
    @Hayatii23 Год назад

    love love your content lately !

  • @Kosiso-by1mc
    @Kosiso-by1mc Год назад

    Omg I’m so sorry about what happened last year, may God comfort you and your family❤

  • @khanyisile458
    @khanyisile458 Год назад

    When you started cleaning and unpacking, was that a taste test of the cereal? 🤣 Ramadan Mubarak, Tomiwa. We will always support you and send love and peace your way. 💕

  • @randomfunwithtimiee8334
    @randomfunwithtimiee8334 Год назад +1

    I am very sorry for your parents separation, I pray that God be more than enough for you❤❤

  • @maisokay
    @maisokay Год назад

    Love you so much Tomiwa. Great Blessings are coming your way!!!!!!

  • @nyivamuyanga
    @nyivamuyanga Год назад +1

    Manifested that our good sis Tomiwa was gonna upload today 😭❤️

  • @precioustheedon
    @precioustheedon Год назад +1

    Been waiting for this update🤩✨👏🏽🍿🍿🍿

  • @noxoloprecious4893
    @noxoloprecious4893 Год назад +2

    Awww!!!! My baby ❤❤❤

  • @t-solol-l8709
    @t-solol-l8709 Год назад +1

    I love the volg. Thank you for sharing and your raw emotions. ❤😊

  • @Oyinmamacita
    @Oyinmamacita Год назад

    Watching you is so refreshing ♥️ sending you and your family lots of love and prayers from 🇳🇬

  • @_foworolaa
    @_foworolaa Год назад

    oouuu let me get comfortable for this vlog💃🏽
    it’s been so long i watched your video this early🥰

  • @pelumiadelaja
    @pelumiadelaja Год назад

    I wish you more blessings and peace Tomiwa. We(I) love youu.May God continue to keep you. And thanks for the hour long vlog❤️❤️

  • @EmiDaghe
    @EmiDaghe Год назад

    🎉 😂 not me smiling from side to side and screamingggg yesssss she did us the honor to make it an hour plus 😂🎉🤸🏻‍♀️🥂

  • @mals5617
    @mals5617 Год назад

    part of the muslim culture is staying with our parents for as long as whether that's when we get married or simply want to live on our own and like you said it's gives us time to save for the future alhamdulillah.
    divorce is hard for everyone involved, sending love your way

  • @WidaadOlu
    @WidaadOlu Год назад

    Oh trust me, if I did that much errands & arranging, especially repotting a plant & my watch says I’ve not done any exercise? I’ll be mad too😂😂😭😭

  • @Saby422
    @Saby422 Год назад +5

    I love you from Algeria 🇩🇿💜💜💜 and Ramadan Mubarak 🤍❤️

  • @Nimi.on.YouTube
    @Nimi.on.YouTube Год назад

    I pray things continue to get better for you and your family❤❤

  • @simiisimple
    @simiisimple Год назад

    I feel like one of them eucalyptus hanging plants over the shower head would look so cuteeeee😊❤

  • @Buteba.w
    @Buteba.w Год назад

    Watching this on a cloudy day drinking my matcha❤❤❤

  • @Ovokeroh
    @Ovokeroh Год назад +1

    So excited 🥰🥰

  • @PamelaO
    @PamelaO Год назад

    Divorce is not easy on anyone and it’s very difficult to come to terms with even separation

  • @asmahilali6062
    @asmahilali6062 Год назад +1

    I'm so sorry for your moving i know it's hard seeing your parents getting divorced because mine were divorced when I was only 12 and you're even luckier that you didn't have to deal with a stepmother like me

  • @zainabo.7940
    @zainabo.7940 Год назад

    Alhamdulillah you're in a better place 🫶🏾. Allah SWT does not burden a soul more than it can handle. I pray for love and healing for you and your family InshAllah 🥰

  • @ashiasaad2762
    @ashiasaad2762 Год назад

    SENDING YOU LOTS OF LOVE T❤❤

  • @adunnisspace
    @adunnisspace Год назад

    You are really strong babe. I am glad you are doing well

  • @syubiased6854
    @syubiased6854 Год назад

    I am SOOOO happy I found you this ramadan while I was looking for muslim youtubers alhamdulillah

  • @mariamousillah
    @mariamousillah Год назад

    Ramadan Mubarak enjoyed your vlog didn’t feel like it was one hour Mashallah 🙏🏾