Becoming a mom at 16 to being a single mom of 3 at 23 // the full truth and missing pieces

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  • @betsybabf748
    @betsybabf748 7 месяцев назад +629

    Logan better realize as a girl dad that how he treats women is how his daughters will expect to be treated. He has a great deal of growing up to do.

    • @SandraG-e7f
      @SandraG-e7f 24 дня назад

      I have to disagree with that from my personal experience. My father was nothing but an affectionate, loving dad. So much so people come up to me and say how extraordinary it is how much my dad loves me and treats me right and I agree with them.... didn't safe me being sucked into a relationship with an unaffective, cold, mistreating, often mysoginic narcissist who used me and alienated me from everyone I know to the point where I only had him - fully dependent, fully controlled. If you are an empath and naiv , this world will EFF YOU😢

  • @AshleaPhenicie
    @AshleaPhenicie 7 месяцев назад +1543

    So many adults failed you. Leaving a pregnant teen to live with friends? Having an 18 year old taking care of two babies and 2 siblings? You deserved so much better from the adults in your life.

    • @BetteDavis19
      @BetteDavis19 7 месяцев назад +45

      this is real.

    • @amaamzat9913
      @amaamzat9913 7 месяцев назад +20

      I’m so confused about that part of the story. Why didn’t she go with them? I’m sure they all did the best they could. Glad everything worked out in the end! 🤍

    • @bigafrogirl5509
      @bigafrogirl5509 7 месяцев назад +3

      So true ❤

    • @KatyKent
      @KatyKent 7 месяцев назад +22

      ​@amaamzat9913 you obviously didn't listen to her properly. They didn't fail her. She took her siblings because she didn't want her Grandma looking after such young children. She didn't move when her family did as she said she had her life where she was!

    • @jennifercate8996
      @jennifercate8996 7 месяцев назад +10

      Hmm, I can kinda see your point. & she was definitely failed by her mother due to her being in active addiction, and for that I truly feel for her and her siblings and grandmother. However, her grandmother and aunt sound amazing and like they’ve supported her every step of the way. Her aunt was so supportive - mentally, physically and I’m sure financially when she got pregnant with Layla - that was not her aunts, “responsibility” technically, and such a beautiful, stable environment she provided for Yasmyn and her child. You have to remember she had two children right around the age of 18… she wasn’t the average 18yo, she was responsible and it sounded like the friends she had in her first place on her own were helpful and helped her create a beautiful environment for her and her kids. Imagine being 18, having 2 kids and living in your own apartment with your bf, being financially capable and responsible yet then moving away to go live back with your aunt and/or cousins … most 18yos wouldn’t do that - in fact that doesn’t even really sound like the best idea to uproot because family was. Taking on her sisters when she already had 2 under 2, sounds like a lot, but she also said they only stayed for the summer, and she wanted that. I could see me having done the same thing if put in similar circumstances.
      This woman’s come a long way, and I get your thought process, Becuase being 40 myself, and thinning about someone I love at that age taking on so much responsibility makes me quite literally panic… BUT she’s thriving and did great things for herself. She’s broken and is continuing to break the generational curse and could have gone down and entirely different path.
      I don’t think all the adults in her life failed her, in fact I think it’s quite the opposite. In black and white it does sound crazy, but knowing all the details I think they did all they could and were blessed that she was so strong willed and determined to have a beautiful life for herself and her kiddos. So k guess all in all, I don’t think this message is entirely fair.

  • @nancydineen6797
    @nancydineen6797 7 месяцев назад +229

    Your grandma is a trooper. She has never stopped raising kids. Ind hope she gets some years where she can be more free.

  • @rhiannad7252
    @rhiannad7252 7 месяцев назад +1465

    Me: has been around since before Logan
    Also me: watching the whole story

    • @ambzer98
      @ambzer98 7 месяцев назад +15

      Literally 😂❤

    • @sofialima00
      @sofialima00 7 месяцев назад +12

      Me too 😂😂❤❤

    • @Rosiegrahamm
      @Rosiegrahamm 7 месяцев назад +8

      Same sis ❤

    • @nkirchne
      @nkirchne 7 месяцев назад +4

      Same😂😂

    • @graciekolb
      @graciekolb 7 месяцев назад +1

      me too girl aww

  • @Haydi.8
    @Haydi.8 7 месяцев назад +949

    2 years? That boy wanted a baby and got you pregnant willing while he was cheating on you? Wow, that is disturbing. I’m so sorry he did that to you. He had plenty of time to change his mind and to the right thing and he choose not to. Insane. You don’t treat the mother of your children that way.

    • @smokindragn1
      @smokindragn1 7 месяцев назад +60

      you made a good point, there is no excuse for cheating

    • @margarethe3677
      @margarethe3677 7 месяцев назад +92

      I completely agree. She’s giving him grace because he’s a good friend and a good father… yet clearly, he’s a terrible partner. It’s unfortunate how both of those things can be true at once.

    • @potato1084
      @potato1084 7 месяцев назад +13

      He didn’t want to get her pregnant. Neither of them expected their third.

    • @vickyCA1643
      @vickyCA1643 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@potato1084Were they using birth control?

    • @iamnotsakurah
      @iamnotsakurah 6 месяцев назад +3

      @@vickyCA1643not everyone wants to ruin their bodies w birth control. there are other methods of pregnancy prevention

  • @amandamarinox
    @amandamarinox 6 месяцев назад +66

    i have no clue how this popped up on my feed but i watched the entire video and i just wanted to say i am so proud of you and thank you for sharing

  • @KaileBrogan1025
    @KaileBrogan1025 7 месяцев назад +715

    I never would have guessed he was cheating for 2 years

    • @kellylyncottrell6191
      @kellylyncottrell6191 7 месяцев назад +34

      Same!! Wtffff

    • @Jlb2233
      @Jlb2233 7 месяцев назад +16

      So wild

    • @ctree3
      @ctree3 7 месяцев назад +20

      Whooo wassss itt. Definitely a friend of theirs both meaning we probably met her.

    • @jendowden
      @jendowden 7 месяцев назад +9

      @@ctree3Well I know it definitely can’t be Gabbie since she lived in Hawaii at the time and barely went to Delaware to visit them

    • @minatozaki3039
      @minatozaki3039 7 месяцев назад +5

      @@jendowden and she's still friends with gabbie

  • @marianacervone346
    @marianacervone346 7 месяцев назад +171

    i am appalled by logan, ew...
    you are so incredible yasmyn, been here since feb 2019! lots of love

  • @gabmasterson5360
    @gabmasterson5360 7 месяцев назад +129

    I’ve been a silent follower since your very first video & have to say despite being a year older than you I look up to you so much. You’re truly an incredible human I really admire your strength & love for your family. Been amazing watching you grow up to be such a beautiful person!

  • @rachelfain3576
    @rachelfain3576 7 месяцев назад +252

    Now I want to understand how a girl didn’t message Yasmin and reveal what Logan was doing. His face and relationship is all over the internet.

    • @melloncollieinfinitesadness
      @melloncollieinfinitesadness 7 месяцев назад +19

      because women are shady

    • @ashleyknecht8280
      @ashleyknecht8280 7 месяцев назад +17

      Probably because she has a boyfriend or husband too

    • @ne2883
      @ne2883 6 месяцев назад +5

      By the sounds it was someone she knew

  • @WinterHamie
    @WinterHamie 7 месяцев назад +61

    I’m 22 and relate to almost nothing you’ve been through, I admire you so much and find you incredibly strong, how you have shaped your life is inspiring, you should be beyond proud of yourself x

  • @Adentalgrl
    @Adentalgrl 7 месяцев назад +68

    I was pregnant at 16. Had her 6 days after I turned 17. She’s 26 now. It was hard but she’s one of my favorite people in the world.

  • @brianachovancek8362
    @brianachovancek8362 7 месяцев назад +83

    I remember watching your vlogs religiously when Laela was a baby, and watched vlogs on and off since. You’re an extremely strong women, and mother and I am so proud of you!!! You’ve come so far and accomplished so much despite all the people in your life who have let you down. Truly remarkable and inspiring!

  • @sofieb1474
    @sofieb1474 7 месяцев назад +160

    The new intro is adorable 🥺

  • @Nic_P85
    @Nic_P85 7 месяцев назад +330

    Damn cheated on for 2 years is crazy! He should've just broke up with you if he wanted to be with that person. I know he probably wanted to be around his daughters but I've found out you can't do it just for the kids, you have to do it for yourselves or it won't work. Stay strong, your beautiful with a great personality and I'm sure you will eventually find that guy. Great story!

    • @amyrivers4093
      @amyrivers4093 7 месяцев назад +30

      I agree. I don't understand why people cheat, especially if it is continuous. If you want to be with someone else or many other people, the respectful thing to do is break up with the person you are with before you act. If people don't do that, it suggests that they want to have their cake and eat it too, or they don't care about your relationship. No one wants to be with someone like that. It's so sad that others are so selfish these days. ❤😊

    • @stefaniea222
      @stefaniea222 7 месяцев назад

      Apparently she has said on her pateron they were having 3sums/ in a thruple with this girl, he just slept with her without her knowledge

    • @potato1084
      @potato1084 7 месяцев назад +4

      Virgo men ✨

    • @jendowden
      @jendowden 7 месяцев назад +4

      People probably think cheating is the easy way out, but I honestly think they’re just being cowards. If they don’t love their partner anymore, they should do the right thing and break up with them. Whoever cheats is just wasting someone else’s time. It’ll also cause trust issues, which no one deserves to deal with.

  • @v.47
    @v.47 7 месяцев назад +157

    Her talking about more kids with more men in the future is stressing me out

    • @erinhutson4
      @erinhutson4 7 месяцев назад +19

      Why? Her kids are well taken care of n she's still young .

    • @Cheesecakespancake
      @Cheesecakespancake 6 месяцев назад +62

      She’s just repeating the cycle? She’s putting the story out here and setting her daughters up for failure as well to be Honest? Because their partners or creepy men will have information about their messy upbringing and it’s easier to manipulate them??

    • @dearbrave4183
      @dearbrave4183 5 месяцев назад

      ​@Cheesecakespancake absolutely. Boy crazy single mums with daughters are predators ' favourites. I can't believe she won't learn her lesson, those kids will keep seeing men in and out of the house or will have no choice but to be stuck with a dysfnctnal one because mum needs men to patch the lack of self esteem

    • @dearbrave4183
      @dearbrave4183 5 месяцев назад

      How do you define being taken care of? ​@@erinhutson4 we have half of the population with insecure attachment style and one's attachment is created in childhood between the child and the mother. What adults do you Think they'll be if mum is boy crzy? Especially knowing the stats of pdphilia in single mothers household.
      She has all the criteria to attract those people. She exposes the faces of her children, shares her vulnerability and situation and mentions her weakness for men.
      Any random person on RUclips can try to get in touch and win her over for God knows what.
      She has huge responsibilities to remain this naive and needy.

    • @Dontrolling
      @Dontrolling 4 месяца назад +3

      @@erinhutson4being fed and having a place to sleep is only one part of the equation of being a good mom. Her relationships will be a reflection of her stability to her kids as well and will affect how her children approach relationships and how they emotionally respond to hardship. This also applies to the father and how her daughters will pick or allow themselves to be treated by men. If you’ve never been through it you wouldn’t understand.

  • @trinanharps
    @trinanharps 7 месяцев назад +94

    I’m 23 and a mama of 2, I’m proud of you for overcoming every single obstacle you’ve faced, I have only watched a little of this video so far since you just posted it but I’ve been subbed since 2018 when I was pregnant with my daughter! You’re an amazing woman & mama and I hope you know this❤️❤️❤️

    • @smokindragn1
      @smokindragn1 7 месяцев назад +3

      Hi Trina I watched your 17 & pregnant video, I enjoyed it's quirkiness, I was wondering how you and Harper are doing, plus what happened to your yt channel?

  • @kaylaabbott5478
    @kaylaabbott5478 7 месяцев назад +33

    It’s crazy that so much has happened to you, but I love how you are trying to the break the cycle in your family and raise a loving household. You are never alone, your content is important! Keep going, and be the person you want your girls can be inspired by!
    Also I have lived in Delaware my whole life and I love all our beaches😊

  • @TeddyPalf
    @TeddyPalf 7 месяцев назад +303

    Going outside with my joint for this one. Been here since the beginning and so happy to see you where you're at now. Blessings to all Yasmyn. ❤
    Edit after finishing: This is a life YOU have built for yourself. I hope you feel so proud of yourself. And I hope you feel brave. I am 24 and just had my first baby 2 years ago. Experiencing the small amount of motherhood I have, and knowing what you have been through. Yasmyn, I'm just so proud of you.

  • @phialadrake4126
    @phialadrake4126 7 месяцев назад +66

    I started watching you from pretty much the beginning, and I can't believe it's already been six years!

  • @rutherke41
    @rutherke41 7 месяцев назад +25

    I CANNOT BELIEVE YOUR MOM IS STILL IN THAT HOUSE! Gosh that makes me so upset for y’all. I loved this deep dive. You didn’t have to do it, but it did fill in some gaps everyone has always felt and sensed through the years. I’m surprised how much of your story I remember! I have been following you for years now. You look so peaceful and determined. You sound so confident and calm. You will continue to do great things. You and your family is in my prayers ❤

  • @clairesnelson9961
    @clairesnelson9961 7 месяцев назад +28

    Yasmn ive been follwing since Laela was a baby and I have to say im so so proud of you! I know that may not mean much from a random person on the internet but you are such a bada** ! You are so strong and a wonderful example tonyour daughters of breaking the cycle. They will always know they can turn to you and never question your love for them. You were made to be a mama! Your girls are so blessed to have youbas theirs ❤

  • @abbysmith2976
    @abbysmith2976 7 месяцев назад +35

    Crazy to think I’ve been watching you for 6 years!! Love your girl fam. Keep being amazing Yaz!

  • @daelclapperton8990
    @daelclapperton8990 7 месяцев назад +37

    Odd he just moves away to “re-establish” his life…even if the relationship is over, he still has two daughters.

  • @OfficalMaryScott
    @OfficalMaryScott 7 месяцев назад +35

    I’m late but this is the longest video that you ever posted on RUclips ever but I’m glad you posted this I love longer content

  • @beki9807
    @beki9807 7 месяцев назад +16

    I'm so happy for you! It was hard to watch some of the older videos. Please know that some of us who have trauma knew.. I prayed for you a lot when I saw the pain and felt the underlying reasons. You're wonderful mum and an amazing soul!
    I know she is proud of who you've become

  • @kyryyy
    @kyryyy 7 месяцев назад +146

    Been here since the beginning. So gross Logan did that to you. I can’t believe it he seemed so normal. Wishing you love for your bright future

    • @kyryyy
      @kyryyy 7 месяцев назад +15

      Also it’s not your fault for him cheating on you. So gross- a man that cheats is a liar and a narcissist. Sad. Not your fault

    • @smokindragn1
      @smokindragn1 7 месяцев назад +4

      like she said we didn't get to see behind the camera

  • @cheeselord6969
    @cheeselord6969 7 месяцев назад +35

    You never owed us an explanation but i am so proud of how you handled this all❤

  • @aligerischer806
    @aligerischer806 6 месяцев назад +4

    Feeling for you beautiful girl. You are sooo strong and level headed despite everyone that has failed you. Be proud of the way you are raising your three girls. They need a brave mumma like you ❤❤

  • @konichiwaUT
    @konichiwaUT 7 месяцев назад +31

    You are so strong ♡ I’m sorry you’ve had to be so strong and been through so much. You didn’t deserve to be cheated on, and I hope you’re able to heal.

  • @siennakay3922
    @siennakay3922 7 месяцев назад +36

    literally the best video you’ve made!! loved it (:

  • @ninaaxsmith
    @ninaaxsmith 7 месяцев назад +39

    love these types of videos!!! more long content plsss 🙌🏼

  • @jillianhope8957
    @jillianhope8957 6 месяцев назад +3

    I have been following you for awhile and hearing everything you talk about your life reminds me so much of myself and my life. I’m 22 and my life started not great kinda like yours my parents got divorced, I almost died from a head injury, my mom and brother got into drugs, my dad and I didn’t have a great relationship, nor with my brother, my mom and brother died, I got pregnant unexpectedly at 18, and a bunch of other crazy life things happened. And today struggling financially and finally taking college classes to get a career to hopefully get on our feet! You inspire so many ppl eveyday with telling your story. ❤

  • @brooklin_bernek
    @brooklin_bernek 7 месяцев назад +13

    Your aunt is amazing. ❤ the way you speak of her , she should be so proud of you❤

  • @anajuarez7942
    @anajuarez7942 7 месяцев назад +13

    Love the intro.. glad you and your girls are doing well. Glad you felt ready to share your full story with us. Can’t wait for more content!!

  • @isabellegiraud9008
    @isabellegiraud9008 7 месяцев назад +12

    Thank you so much for telling your story. You did not have to but I am glad you did. I have been watching you guys from the beginning and was shocked when the break up happened . I am so glad you are happier and excited for future plans.

  • @lissioida
    @lissioida 7 месяцев назад +10

    Yasmyn you are so strong and such a great person, defying all odds, your family is so lucky to have you in their lifes and I'm so proud of you really stepping up for your family and how you managed everything, despite having such a hard story. You truly are a brave beautiful mama and a great role model to everyone looking up to you. You're breaking the cycle! ❤❤

  • @Melanie-xx1fc
    @Melanie-xx1fc 7 месяцев назад +85

    Logan cheated on you for 2 yrs? 😮 daymn, I didn't see that info coming

  • @jacquealvarez8601
    @jacquealvarez8601 4 месяца назад +1

    You are such a strong woman. You haven’t had it easy. So cool of you to overcome your upbringing and not raising your kids as you got brought up. You are your family’s light in the dark. Keep up the good work momma

  • @SQUIDELIZA
    @SQUIDELIZA 7 месяцев назад +5

    Despite everything you’ve been through, the one thing I am truly so happy about is that all 3 of your births were wonderful bc damn, you really are seemingly holding it together so much better than many of us would in your situation. Long time watcher, first time commenter (unless it was literally like when you first got on YT), but I have missed a few parts over the years so it was interesting hearing it all in order. I never would’ve guessed he was cheating that whole time. CRAZY! Hope things get even better in the future for you & your girls, you all deserve a beautiful life.

  • @katedaborowski2130
    @katedaborowski2130 7 месяцев назад +37

    Cheating on your pregnant fiancé. All time douche bag move. Just leave if you don’t want to be there.

    • @alexandria65
      @alexandria65 7 месяцев назад +8

      And yet she stayed lmao

    • @user-kg5lq6nd7q
      @user-kg5lq6nd7q 6 месяцев назад +2

      You’d think she’d learn the first time. Going off birth control with your teenage boyfriend, like really?

  • @julesott12
    @julesott12 7 месяцев назад +10

    Literally have watched every single video of yours and have enjoyed and loved every second

  • @stephanie-fh5qv
    @stephanie-fh5qv 7 месяцев назад +5

    My ex cheated on me for 2 years, while living with me and my mum. I went to work to support us all, while he was supposed to be studying at university. (Where he “studied” late=cheated.)
    When he was supposed to start working and it was my time to study, he moved directly in with the girl he had cheated on me with.
    I was 26, planning wedding and hopeful for kids.
    Had buried both my siblings to cancer before that.
    Life can be really dark.
    I’m happy you have your kids, they will bring you light.
    I hope I still will have the chance for a child.

  • @karmensmith
    @karmensmith 7 месяцев назад +6

    Not all the way done yet and I’m usually a silent watcher but I just wanted to say how proud all of us are of you! I’ve been here since the beginning and watching you be so strong not only for you but for your girls as well is so inspiring! I love how you keep going with a smile on your face ❤

  • @LunaandStrolch
    @LunaandStrolch 7 месяцев назад +17

    The new intro is so cute🥹 Send you so much love ❤

  • @tubetop123
    @tubetop123 7 месяцев назад +15

    It's a blessing in disguise. You go girl !!

  • @chillingout2690
    @chillingout2690 6 месяцев назад +1

    You're such an amazing, strong young lady. Your strength and positivity is such an inspiration! Beautiful soul

  • @sonjassims
    @sonjassims 7 месяцев назад +2

    I am 25 (about to be 26) and I have been watching since the beginning. I have learned so so much from you and have always looked up to you. Not only are you a great mother, but you are a great inspiration and role model for your viewers. Continue being you, cause you are amazing. I can't wait to watch you grow more! lots of loveeee

  • @juliannehannes11
    @juliannehannes11 5 месяцев назад +4

    My Grandma was a single mom of three girls at age 23 in 1961 (my grandpa married 9 times and my mom and aunts had 9 different stepmothers)
    All three of her daughters graduated college, the eldest went to Berkeley and became a sucessful copyright lawyer.

  • @quagmira
    @quagmira 7 месяцев назад +2

    hey, ive been following your journey on and off for 5ish years now, i just wanted to say i think you are a really good speaker and storyteller, very compelling

  • @katherinemorris3797
    @katherinemorris3797 6 месяцев назад +3

    Wow, you have done a great deal of living in a short period of time! You are an Amazing woman, you're strong, confident, beautiful and intelligent. My wish for you is that you're able to accomplish all of your hopes, dreams and goals! ❤❤❤

  • @lauraladhams5328
    @lauraladhams5328 7 месяцев назад +4

    Yasmin you are amazing. I’ve been watching your videos since your first one with Layla and I cannot believe how much you have grown and dealt with everything that has gone on in your life. I’m so proud of you. Sending love from Australia xx

  • @annietwombly845
    @annietwombly845 2 месяца назад

    Been watching you since Laela was a few months old just know people are proud of you and where you’ve come from sometimes we lose things to make room for better ❤️

  • @saaabrinaa23
    @saaabrinaa23 7 месяцев назад +4

    Wow, your strength and resilience are truly inspiring. It's disgusting that someone could treat you so badly, especially when he has daughters himself. His actions speak volumes about his character. You deserve so much better. Wishing you and your girls all the best as you move forward. I AM YOUR GUYS CHEERLEADER FOREVER!!! 🫶

    • @saaabrinaa23
      @saaabrinaa23 7 месяцев назад +1

      cheating for two years WHILE YOU BARE HIS CHILDREN and then lying to your face… God what a disgusting “man”. The fact that he did this while having daughters of his own makes it even worse. What kind of example is he setting for them? I hope it was worth it for him because he’s lost something priceless as well as taking away something from your children. YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER

  • @simplyboppingK
    @simplyboppingK 7 месяцев назад +56

    I love that you share your journey because I know you could help so many young girls that might get pregnant . Your growth is incredible. I'm not a mom, but the way you go through life is very inspiring to me.
    Cheated on for TWO YEARS? Imagine being that much of a loser. Idc how good of a "dad" he is.

    • @smokindragn1
      @smokindragn1 7 месяцев назад +8

      WOW, good point, he not only broke Yasmyn's heart he broke those little girls heart.

  • @brooklin_bernek
    @brooklin_bernek 7 месяцев назад +13

    First time seeing you, listened to this story, you played no victim role even through all that pain and trauma! SUBSCRIBED RIGHT AWAY ❤

  • @emmanuelagoratsios7523
    @emmanuelagoratsios7523 7 месяцев назад +5

    Yasmyn don't ever forget you are a strong and powerful and brave young lady who has gone through a lot and your inspiration to your daughters and your grandma and sisters.We all go through things in life as a adult it's how we navigate through it no matter how hard/tough etc..Thankyou for sharing your story and your beautiful girls❤😊anx remember to be always be strong and hope something good happens for your brothers.😊🥰

  • @AntwanicSherell
    @AntwanicSherell 5 месяцев назад

    Girl you have been through so much! I’ve been watching since you lived in the beach house with your aunt. Thank you for sharing your story it’s very admirable 💖

  • @darthbooks2005
    @darthbooks2005 7 месяцев назад +4

    I love how honest you are thats why i love your channel so much because you are a amazing person you can tell and a amazing mummy to your beautiful girls ❤

  • @hannahcombs11
    @hannahcombs11 7 месяцев назад +7

    Absolutely loved this video, and will forever support you yas. You have a heart of gold 💛

  • @simplymaddie8871
    @simplymaddie8871 7 месяцев назад +7

    You are seriously such an inspiration to me. My childhood was very similar growing up. I have two baby girls at 22 and you inspire me to keep going and that it does get better ❤

  • @mayrarubio9311
    @mayrarubio9311 6 месяцев назад +9

    Young ladies need to understand if you’re already in a bad family situation you don’t have a stable home plse do not start having children . I’m sorry but this girl just keeps making so many bad choices period

    • @alwayshopeful7587
      @alwayshopeful7587 6 месяцев назад

      True true true ,why glamorize teen pregnancy .it is the dumbest thing teens can do wtf is wrong with this generation

  • @sillygoosegoose
    @sillygoosegoose 7 месяцев назад +16

    cheating on you for two years while you were pregnant?! hell no

  • @katerinatrpkovska384
    @katerinatrpkovska384 6 месяцев назад

    i know this is your life story, but for me on a random wednesday night it was the craziest story i've ever heard. we are the same age and I am just in awe of how strong you are - it makes my problems sound a bit dramatic. sending lots of love to you and your girls 🩷

  • @iamjennyg
    @iamjennyg 7 месяцев назад +6

    Yasmin, you are amazing. Your story has some parallels to mine. I was a single parent at 24 (so had a little more life experience), but I experienced childhood trauma. I gave up finding someone as a life partner, but then just as I stopped looking, my now husband appeared. We’ve had 30 wonderful years together and he’s the love of my life. We have three more beautiful boys together, but life is never that straight forward is it? My advice to you as a nearly 60yr old woman is, if you want to avoid a midlife crisis, slow down a little and take time for yourself, doing nothing more than sitting with all of this experience and allowing yourself to feel. I would hate you to burn out like I did. I was lucky as my husband was there to catch me and weather the storm with me. As I said at the start you are amazing, strong and a wonderful mother, but please take time for you. Jen 🇬🇧

  • @unwana-o1x
    @unwana-o1x 5 месяцев назад

    i'm so proud of u ,everything youve gone through ur still strong

  • @alisonmurrell6068
    @alisonmurrell6068 7 месяцев назад +3

    U are strong and a great mom learning and growing as a young mom and adult! Thank you for sharing ur life ❤❤❤

  • @natashamw
    @natashamw 6 месяцев назад +1

    You have been through so much and you should be proud of all you have accomplished ❤️

  • @debbiecolquhoun1753
    @debbiecolquhoun1753 6 месяцев назад

    It’s sad to see you had so many adults fail you. You are a remarkable person. Very mature and level headed. You should be proud of how far you have come in life. Your daughters are gorgeous and are very lucky to have you as their mummy. I wish you nothing but happiness for your future. I have subscribed to your channel. 🥰💕

  • @ilymiyah
    @ilymiyah 7 месяцев назад +15

    The fact he cheated on a beautiful person like u & while u had his babies and he looks like he snuck onto earth is crazy

    • @Bond_MrsBond
      @Bond_MrsBond 7 месяцев назад +1

      Snuck onto earth! Stop! 😂😂😂

  • @tiffanysobrevilla4051
    @tiffanysobrevilla4051 7 месяцев назад +9

    You are amazing chicka don’t ever forget 🙏🏼

  • @averypowell9247
    @averypowell9247 7 месяцев назад +45

    All I can think about is her kids watching this when they get older…

    • @EricaFenstermacher-jl5wz
      @EricaFenstermacher-jl5wz 7 месяцев назад +13

      literally. her essentially saying she had her daughter because she feared she’d regret it. sounding extremely pro life. don’t have a baby out of selfishness/fear

    • @Yagiselys
      @Yagiselys 7 месяцев назад +29

      @@EricaFenstermacher-jl5wzshe is not prolife she is pro choice and has stated that countless times , i am pro choice but if i get pregnant maybe i won’t feel like having an abortion is the right choice for *ME* that doesn’t mean I won’t support other people who think its their right choice

    • @betsybabf748
      @betsybabf748 7 месяцев назад +6

      @@EricaFenstermacher-jl5wz It was a better choice than killing her daughter. As she has said, now she knows she couldn't imagine life without that beautiful little girl so she made the right call.🤦🏻‍♀🤦🏻‍♀Before you personally have children though, please learn how to correctly use the word "literally" and how to write like a literate adult does so you can adequately educate them.

  • @itskaraelizabeth
    @itskaraelizabeth 7 месяцев назад +22

    36:23 nahhhh you don’t cheat on people you actually love

  • @Peas286
    @Peas286 7 месяцев назад +4

    Girl you are amazing ❤ I am so sorry all of that happened to you

  • @taylorkaufman4574
    @taylorkaufman4574 7 месяцев назад +3

    I have a 4,3 & 1 year old and I had all my births unmedicated and I wouldn't of had it any other way. Women are so strong! My first birth was 7 hours so pretty fast for my first and my second was 5 hours and my third was about 6 hours so I had fast births but I also walked SO much during all of my pregnancies. I'm so proud of you. I've been watching you for years and you've been through so much and you are so wise and smart and such a great mom for being such a young mom. I hope you find the love of your life and loves your kids ❤

  • @hildy0068
    @hildy0068 5 месяцев назад +7

    Please take care of your 3 daughters with so many predators that will pretend to love you, so they have access to kids.

  • @annmolly8244
    @annmolly8244 6 месяцев назад +1

    30:41 , you mentioned about a bunch of drama occurring. Friends = drama! So many people need to learn this. And if your a young mom, don't focus on FRIENDS so much, anyone who has young children needs to not focus too much on friends

  • @Kas6157duh
    @Kas6157duh 7 месяцев назад +25

    I wish the government could do something to stop addicts from having kids that’s heartbreaking to hear. Yasmyn you’re so strong

  • @norabarnes9235
    @norabarnes9235 7 месяцев назад +40

    I still Miss your Hawaii era. I got to live my Hawaii dreams through you lmao

    • @wildflower345
      @wildflower345 7 месяцев назад

      Yep, me too

    • @smokindragn1
      @smokindragn1 7 месяцев назад +9

      I do not like the Hawaii experiment, something happened there that started the beginning of the end of their relationship

    • @wildflower345
      @wildflower345 7 месяцев назад +6

      @@smokindragn1 although I love the Hawaii era.. Yeah, U are right abt something that could have happened there. You have a point.

  • @ardenhamiton7297
    @ardenhamiton7297 7 месяцев назад +18

    You NEED to write a memoir

  • @nataliealonso7332
    @nataliealonso7332 5 месяцев назад

    I’m so sorry all of this has happened to you since you were little. You’re an amazing mama to those girls! ❤

  • @nolabeats2015
    @nolabeats2015 7 месяцев назад +8

    Would you consider doing a video with your grandma? So many adults in your life failed you but she seems wonderful.

  • @destinyjones3993
    @destinyjones3993 7 месяцев назад +4

    Been around since her first video! Ahh the Christmas of your senior years nostalgia ♥️💗

  • @kathreineabigail8413
    @kathreineabigail8413 7 месяцев назад +59

    The spider on the wall at 9 minutes lol

  • @MaddieEye-n2h
    @MaddieEye-n2h 7 месяцев назад +6

    This video just popped up randomly on my page. Worth the watch. This is crazyyy. You have been through more than a 23 year old should.

  • @oliviahaley5791
    @oliviahaley5791 7 месяцев назад +8

    I hope to be half as strong as you when I’m a mama! Those girls are lucky to have you and your family is lucky to have you. You’re amazing and have overcome so much and I hope you never forget that!

  • @pookieadw
    @pookieadw 7 месяцев назад +1

    You're beautiful Yazmyn and so are your girls. You have been through a lot and doing your best

  • @alexalynn5952
    @alexalynn5952 5 месяцев назад

    I suppose this comes with being a parent young, but I really admire how self-aware or mature you come off telling your story. I'm not sure how to explain it, but this stranger on the internet is proud of you!

  • @MaureenHackenburg
    @MaureenHackenburg 4 месяца назад

    You are so matured for your age and a great mum hope everything is going to work out for you and your family take care ❤❤❤❤

  • @briana8721
    @briana8721 6 месяцев назад +3

    It’s crazy Logan can literally destroy his family and cause so much trauma but then feels like he can just move away and “re-establish” himself. Like he is still a father first. Men always get to take the easy route because the assumption is always there that women will obviously stay and raise their children without being able to chase their own dreams. If men have anything it’s the nerve!!

  • @vickyCA1643
    @vickyCA1643 6 месяцев назад +4

    PLEASE, use more than one form of birth control. There is a reason they are not 100 percent effective. Also, being raised by a mom who had me 10 months after the marriage, the husband leaving except to return to make my sister who is 1 years and 11 days younger, my mom marrying four times trying to make a family, you don’t need a man to be complete. It only will make your daughter’s lives sad having many step dads. You are enough. You have a responsibility to your daughters until they are complete and grown. I do find it amazing that you have been able to break the drug cycle of your mom. Your grandmother must be an amazing person!!

  • @soilgrasswaterair
    @soilgrasswaterair 6 месяцев назад +1

    It was besutiful but at the same time sad to hear that your mom put you in a good school when she inhereted money. It’s like she knew what you needed but couldn’t provide it to you due to her addiction. It was nice to hear that she put lots of that money towards your education, Yasmyn.
    I hope you comtinue to heal from those tough experiences and please know it was never your fault any of it❤

    • @maclaycampbell2042
      @maclaycampbell2042 5 месяцев назад +1

      What a about the part were she intentionally went off birth control and then decided to not use a condom

  • @annmolly8244
    @annmolly8244 6 месяцев назад

    "I had no clue i was going to love being a mom so much" i felt that exact same way🩷 had my first at 19 years old, I graduated high school 1 month & a half pregnant with my son

  • @brett76544
    @brett76544 4 месяца назад

    I can remember just before Logan, but it is more binge watching 3 or 4 times a year. This is better than the other summaries. I can remember in HS during the late 80's and 90, I cannot forget just how many girls in my class wanted to talk to me. Each time it was I think I am, and I would just listen give them questions. Then I went to one of my councilors that I had since middle school and told her what I was experiencing. That was in the beginning of my sophomore year, and I had been talking to 12 girls then and a few were older just in the first month. I was in over my head, but I was a good listener. So, there was a meeting with the school district staff, principals and the councilors and me and my parents. I would get training from councilors, the school nurse and went for some other training. Back then it was those girls disappeared from normal classes, remember different time and it was changing back then. Figure listening to all this it was no wonder I did not want to get involved with anyone until after HS. So many girls were just terrified when they learned. the funny part was I went into the Army and meet a widow the day after I got back from Desert Storm in Germany, she had no idea I was an American for about 5 months thanks to also learning German when I was little and that I was only 19 and she was 27. So, a few days before my 20th birthday I got engaged. Yep, the guy that swore off girls at 15 decided he would get married at 19. Little did I know by the time I was 21 and 2 months I would have lost a son and wife. I have taken women to a shelter in central TX for 4 years and up here in NE PA for almost the last 20. Then I help the local school districts in my county with counseling the girls that are having kids. The one woman that I can remember that reminds me of you, talked to me and my now ex wife while in the army and even baby sat while 17 in the army for me and my wife to go out. She got kicked out by a drug addicted mom at 14 in Seatle talked to the Army recruiter just before turning 16, he helped her with social services and the day turned 17 had the judge sign the paperwork and she joined the army that day to be a medic. She got out on her 21st birthday drove up to where I was from to live, and I got out maybe 4 months later. I called up a few of the party members and told them her story and she started out as an aid at the local hospital and within a few years was a nurse. She is 41 now, I have walked her down the isle twice and watched her go through divorce twice. Even took her to the hospital for delivery of her last 3 kids. Just remember, even as you get older there are still guys out there that will cheat. Then there are some wonderful guys, but most of the time they have been snatched up by very protective wives. Some get divorced from time to time or others never bother to marry.
    I have to comment whoever you have been listening or talking to they have done a great job, be it your grandmother, aunt or anyone else. I can see some questioning of yourself in the video, but with what you are going through I can see that happening. There is a drive in you that I have seen in a very few younger women, and it most resembles that 14 year old homeless girl that survived over 1.5 years on the streets of Seatle in the mid 90's and over a year in shelters. Then living in the barracks for 4 years with combat engineers. (one of the highest IQ army jobs out there.) She has two masters, one in the nursing field and the other in Business admin. She has been a single mom now of four, for most of her adult life except for two marriages that ended in divorce in less than a year. At 23 She found out that her mom died of overdose when she was 16 and was about to get married and had no idea who her father was since no one was on the birth certificate. Since I have known her since she was 17 my ex had called her my daughter since I only have two sons. She even calls me dad and that was awkward for me back when she was 21 and I was just 32.

  • @jadencairnes8697
    @jadencairnes8697 6 месяцев назад +1

    I have the upmost respect for how you dealt with the breakup and Logan cheating on you after getting you pregnant twice. I am so proud of you and your journey has been so beautiful to watch.

  • @natalielawrence8809
    @natalielawrence8809 7 месяцев назад +5

    You are an incredible Mum and I hope you know that 💛

  • @ioanarosca6985
    @ioanarosca6985 5 месяцев назад

    I discovered you on Facebook about 2 years ago, but I don't have an account any more and I didn't knew that you split with Logan. Recently RUclips gave me a suggestion for one of your shorts and I am glad to see you again. You are so mature for your age. I hope otherwise you are doing well.

  • @cathy2142
    @cathy2142 5 месяцев назад +1

    Bless you for choosing life❤❤❤

  • @maelyn9243
    @maelyn9243 4 месяца назад

    I know things have been difficult for you, I have been following you for years, but it seems like you are really talented at being a mum and raising your beautiful girls! It's like when Kylie Jenner became a mum people criticised her for being too young for it, but I think there are just girls like you guys who are really talented at it!

  • @amyv4026
    @amyv4026 7 месяцев назад +28

    Was he cheated when you were engaged? Like why even propose. I liked Logan too. Ugh. Wonder if he’s with the girl still.

    • @lisashannon866
      @lisashannon866 7 месяцев назад +7

      I actually liked him, too. I had no idea! I wonder if he cheated the whole 2 years with the same girl and if she was a friend of theirs?

    • @tiannacuevas
      @tiannacuevas 7 месяцев назад +6

      @@lisashannon866i’m almost for certain in another video she did mention that it was with a friend of theirs

    • @lisashannon866
      @lisashannon866 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@tiannacuevas That is so sad and wrong. 🥺

    • @cherub9622
      @cherub9622 7 месяцев назад +2

      The proposal was sponsored.