It took me 2 full years to completely heal from my 7 year relationship. 3 years later I am with a man that loves me so much even I cannot believe it. Find comfort in prayer and in knowing that you are not the problem, it will always hurt losing someone you care about but trust me it gets better and you WILL heal. I am so happy you chose yourself!!!
My ex husband tarnished my name during divorce and I lived my life.......he came back to apologize and confessed all he said to people......I met him last December after 11 years and I cried....God saved me but I didn't expect him to end up where he is.....my dear this will pass....and you will talk about it without pain....Divorce is hard..it is like death without anyone dying
I can relate to your pain💔, I just went/going through the same and divorce dragged for 8 painful years 😪 coupled with humiliation, trauma, fear 😨... everything just got stagnant
Hi Owamie be strong sisi I struggled for 7 years to get a date so you're not alone my dear and on the 22nd March this year I'm going to court and worse on my side I've got 3 kids with him so be strong cc God is there for us.
Strongs to you my sister...the pain, the hurt, the anger and frustrations, may 22 March bring you the closure. May the scars left by this relationship not prevent you from living your life.
Hugs to you sis Owamie🤍 it’s difficult now, but there will come a day when you’ll look back and be grateful that you went through all this. 💕 it shall be well!
Owamie, sending you love and strength!! You have said a mouthful * a toxic relationship is not about fighting and screaming, it can be without violence but still toxic * Money is important in a relationship, they say finances are the 2nd contributing factor towards divorce. It comes after communication. As people we love to ignore finances in relationships. Yes we don't marry or get into relationship for money and all but still money is needed. Money is important. *Financial transparency is also important, it's good to know your partners credit profile and how they manage debt, because it will have an impact on your overall finances. You will struggle to even buy a house because of bad credit profiles From you Owamie I've learnt that I must never settle for less in marriage, I must still live my dreams and do things for myself. I must never dim my light just so my man can feel man enough. I'm sorry you have to go through the most just to be separated from your ex. All the best on the day, cheers to your freedom🥂🥂!!
U have been strong Owami. Not. Only for yourself but also for the many women out there who do not have the courage to walk away. So many women are in unhappy and unhealthy marriages because they are afraid of what society will say. You are waaaaaay too young to surrender your sanity health and joy just to put on a face for society and to build a man who needs rehab not marriage. Cause that ex hubby is clearly not okay judging from the things u have shared about his Conduct. We are happy for u and proud of u shbubu. 👏👏👏👏👏👏
I was angry at myself because I stayed longer then I should. I had a breakdown and landed in a psychiatric hospital. He painted me in such a bad light everyone believed it was me. Yet he was cheating and toxic. He would gaslight me and as soon as I react he would record me. A d threaten to show everyone. The day I left I had 0.34 cents in my name and
Hugs to you mama... Ive never been married but learned through you sharing your journey pre and post divorce and it gave such a realistic perspective. Thank you for sharing as hard as it may have been. Wishing you love and light as you prepare to step into the next chapter of your life
The evilness is so very shocking! When people were saying to me “don’t let the devil break your marriage” I told them I was married to the devil himself! (Of course I don’t actually think so but I saw the devil directly through my ex. Whaaaattt!!!? Yoh 👏🏾).
You did everything out of love! Don’t regret anything you did. Loving is noble. You were a great wife. So pat yourself on the side. Keep your head up queen ninja!
I'm happy for you Owamie, I also went through emotional abuse and I stayed because didn't even see it, I only left when he threatened to kill me, I ran🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️, my divorce proceedings haven't even begun yet but I'm already so happy on my own.
Oh! Lord woman we are going through a lot askies love for what you're going through but I thank God that you're ok and the biggest thing is to love ourselves / put ourselves first why I'm saying so us as woman we love soo much to our partners and forget about love ourselves too
Yoh baby girl! Crying with you. Wish I could just hug you! You have done so well! Thank you so much for being so brave and vulnerable. So many of us have gathered strength from you. You are doing The Lord’s work! May The Lord bless you and keep you. May He make His face shine upon you and give you peace!
Im so happy for Owamie. I hope everything goes well and the devorce is finally granted. We have learnt so much from you even as single women who were even sacrificing a lot before marriage. Your story open so may eyes.
That feeling of letting go finally,all the hurt,humiliation etc....letting all that go finally. You are brave, long term breakups or marriages are never easy. Proud of u sister❤
So happy for you sis. Just don't be too hard on yourself. Don't stop talking about money bcz u make us realize how important to have our own money as women
Weeping may come at night, but joy comes in the morning. There's life after marriage sis. May the Lord strengthen. Please feel free to mourn your marriage in whichever way you choose. The fact that you can cry in front of the whole world means you are strong. Thanks for being a good example to all abused women. May the good Lord be with you. I love you sis.
All is well cc. The best is still to come. Never regret what you went through and sacrifices you made. You made the right decision based on the information you had at that time. Now you have more information which you did not have at that time. You are crying because you have lost a life gone by.
The sad part of divorce is that no one wins but the enemy, unless if one party had wrong motives when going in the marriage which I doubt on yours, you both loved each other but life happened, I don't support infedelity at all as it destroys the mind, emotions and questions/affects one's worthyness a thousand times even after a while. Wish you strength on this. ❤️❤️❤️ You are young Owamie and can still pick up the pieces and rebuild your life.
One thing I am taking away from this is to show empathy. There are many nasty comments and questions people could throw your way; but people are empathising with you, as we should as humans.. As much as you have an entertainment channel, please sometimes try empathise with the women you throw shade on when it comes to their lives and relationships. You tend to be condenscending at times... People empathise with you, maybe try the same as well
@@jenniferngobese9929 I don't see what difference it makes saying it later. I am not throwing jabs at her at all. I am merely appealing to her to show the same compassion to others as is being shown to her. Nowhere in my comment am i being shady or derogatory, I am using a real time situation to show the importance of compassion towards each other as women
She's just entertaining, that doesn't mean she doesn't show emotions, at the end of the day she's on a social media platform, so her personal situations are more attached to emotions, than doing gossip. Relax please. Be considerate as well.
You’re crying for your time, energy and financial investment sisi. And it’s okay, the 1st step to healing is acknowledging that you’re hurt. Allowing yourself to go through the emotions of all stages of grief is the best gift you’re giving yourself right now. ♥️♥️♥️
Yuh I've been crying throughout 🙆🙆 I don't think I'm strong enough to help anyone going through a the darkest 😭😭😭 I'm glad you are now healing, I hope all women out there who are going through the same will eventually get better ❤️❤️
Ninja please don't be too hard on yourself. You have to keep your head up. It's painful but thank God for taking care of you. But also it's good to cry coz you must let out all that's in there sending you love and light
You were open to all of us about your life ninja and that was a choice you made and nothing wrong about that sadly the person that you were with was not the one. It's OK not to be OK, the tears that you cried all this time so as the blessings that are coming your way written in your name by the Almighty. The best is yet to come just believe.❤❤❤
Owamie young girls needs to see this..to hear this...just like we need financial education....we need marriage education. Girl must know the importance of having your own money. the importance of putting yourself first. I am married and I am not getting a divorce. But...I see the truth in what you are saying. sending lots and lots of hughs
Hi Ninja I know exactly how you must be feeling. I also my court date last week...believe I cried, cried and cried. Il be going to court in 2 months. I am so excited. The guy put me through hell emotional abuse is smthn else. Today he's still wants me back and unfortunelety its too late. Im happy for you Ninja. ❤😊🙏
From someone who went through the same thing a couple of years back I just want to let you that it gets better. It gets so so much better. Cheers to your new life. Kusazoba mnandi ❤️❤️
We do that we sacrifice our happiness for theirs only to get a kick up the ass. you are right Owamie we marry for long term not to be divorced. I have learned to be straight forward and tell men exactly how I feel and if they like it good if they don’t I don’t even care
Strength to you Owamie u re now in the finishing line.Real things are about to happen,deals will be sealed,your work is about to bloom even more.Get into this new stage of your life with your head up high and your eyes wide open.God gave you wisdom,use it to become even more successful than u already are🥰💞
That is so so true people dont want you to talk about the real them because they did so well being a chameleon. I really felt that. Reminded of my daughter's father... he really traumatized me. I cant stop crying as im watching this.
Sending so much love to you babe. I’m so sorry 😞 everything is definitely going to go well Wishing you only the best you come so far you such a strong women and I look up to you so many ways babe I’m 24 and you showed me so much I never miss any of your videos we got you and I got you!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂 We here all the way baba Ninja for life 🙌💥👌
Thank you for opening up Owami. I'm grateful and u don't know how much I have learned from ur stories. Ur sharing ses 👏🏾did👏🏾not👏🏾go👏🏾to👏🏾waste👏🏾. I appreciate you and definitely sharing! Sending Sooo much love
Hugs and kisses all the way from Eswatini sis owami i feel i know you on a personal level from your videos thanks mtase for all the imfundiso yakho you are one strong lady sending blessings to you
You are going to mourn your marriage...the man you thought your ex would be ..the plans you had with him. Take your time Wamie. Cry , scream...whatever you need to do to heal. The best days of your life are ahead of you.
I’m also married to a bread winner guys it’s very painful because almost everyone hates me 🙄 and hey I do not care because if they are not adding anything in my life they are not worth my energy 🤷🏻♀️
We are happy that this will be coming to an end. Money is very important in life, it makes thing easy even in difficult situations. Thank God you have a friend like Lebo ❤️❤️
I can imagine this is how sithelo feels after the pain and humiliation she has faced and false narratives by the media, kindness goes a long way, love and light.
I never got so emotional listening to someone’s life experience, Owamie you did it babe👏 you’re here now, God is truly amazing. This is just the beginning, God will restore and multiply everything you lost throughout this very painful process👏 sending you so much love and light ♥️🌸
I'm happy to hear that you're working on forgiving yourself because that's the beginning of your healing journey, talking from my experience. Devorce it's very difficult 😢😢with or without drama. I discovered your channel last year early when I was going through the most, your story helped me💕🌷. I'm proud of you and happy that your helping alot of women especially the young ones💖🌹. Can't wait for the D party💃
I’m so happy for you , you have fought a good fight ,now it’s time to be free and start over. Take your time to love yourself again. I’m so glad you don’t have kids with him that would have been too tough.
Thank you Owami for going through this painful journey, and being brave enough to share it with us, and for being strong enough for the judgement society has shown you. Thank you for your strength and wisdom 💛 FREEDOM!!!!
I'm soo sorry Owamie, it is well the Lord is with you, he will be with you every step of the way and he will surely see you through. Always be rest assured that God is your source. Been watching the process and i can tell you are a strong yet vulnerable woman. May the set date brings this season to an end and finally set you free. Hang in there sis,
😭😭 I cried with you 😭 I'm so sorry my love, God loves you so much ❤️😘 you will shine after all this God will open big doors in front of your enemies trust me 😘❤️
It's a painful process Owamie, but I promise you one day it will be all over, God is busy healing you and your testimony will certainly free many women out there. Sending lots of hugs💞
Iva learned so much from your journey. I would like to just hug you but I'm praying for you. Im sorry Owamie. Thank you for sharing your experience with us. I'm in my 30s and have never been married but I almost got married to a very dangerous man and I'm happy I didn't. The debt thing which you mentioned ,it almost happened to me. I will have prenuptial contract when the time comes and will never forget myself in the process of marriage. Thank you again. Hugs and kisses 😘😘😘😘🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Sending you a warm hug and so much Agape love sisi.. U very very strong.. God has held u down.. U did the right thing, u deserve to be happy.. Watch this year is gonna be the year of healing and great health and wealth🙏🏾🎉
Even though I have never divorced but I know how it is cause I also had to be a friend or a Lebo to a friend of mine who once experienced the very same things n worse of what Owami experienced with her Ex husband, through that divorce of a friend I honestly started moving differently even in my own marriage and I got wiser because I was like Kanti Amadoda Anjani 🙆🏽♀️, n I started to save a lot and got more independent rather then depending fully on my husband because Chiiiilllleee Woooo hhayiii men are SELFISH HONESTLY, Men are narcissistic, we need to learn men for what they are then to be blinded by good vitamin D because Indoda izokugila for real!!
Hugs Owami I admire yo strength dadewthu. The more I listen n watch you I cn totally relate. But sibonga uThixo ngawe kuthi asibonise kuyenzeka kuyadluleka. I love you
Life is the exam that everybody has to write . You still writing your question paper and I am sure that you got this question right. And be aware my Queen that before we see light it has to be dark. That's why someone wrote the hymn AMAZING GRACE .IT IS WELL WITH GOD . YOU ALWAYS LIKE TO USE THE WORD " ITS OKAY" AND YES ITS OK WITH GOD. Everything happens for a reason. RISE MY QUEEN AND YES WE GOING TO CONQUER . 💕💕💕🌹🌹🌹
I love when you teach us about life & story time but one thing that Hurt me is when u breakdown n tears flows in eyes. I love you mama. This drama will pass. Be strong 💐💐💐💐💐❤️💓
No one will ever understand what you had to deal with, but if anything you are coming out of this stronger. There’s so much good that is coming your way ninja 🌼🌺🌸
Ohh yini Owami wethu. I'm crying with you yazi. Thanks soo much for sharing your story and for keeping us updated. All the best sisi. You've done it💯❤️
Askies my Ninja. It's going to be okay. It's so sad that even growing up it's usually a girl child who goes through the most. She is taught how to be a good wife. Things like waking up early, doing house chores and so on and so forth, yet nobody says such to a boy child. So basically most men grow up with a sense of entitlement just because "he is a man, he is a king, men are like that, blah- blah- blah" and that makes them feel so entitled and forget that they also have a role to play. It takes two to tango.
I'm so happy for you my daughter, please don't cry just thank God, just know that we love you so much, ur such a powerful and strong woman I admire you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
It took me 2 full years to completely heal from my 7 year relationship. 3 years later I am with a man that loves me so much even I cannot believe it. Find comfort in prayer and in knowing that you are not the problem, it will always hurt losing someone you care about but trust me it gets better and you WILL heal. I am so happy you chose yourself!!!
Key!!! There is always someone out there to love..
Ahhh Kagi 🥺🥺❤️❤️
My ex husband tarnished my name during divorce and I lived my life.......he came back to apologize and confessed all he said to people......I met him last December after 11 years and I cried....God saved me but I didn't expect him to end up where he is.....my dear this will pass....and you will talk about it without pain....Divorce is hard..it is like death without anyone dying
I can relate 😪☹
I can relate as well, divorce is draining, it's been 8 years now
One of the hardest thing after death...then you realize breaking that union it is unholy but keeee circumstances
I can relate too
Yall are scaring me💔 I want to divorce my husband, I'm just not sure if I'm ready to go through all of the emotional pain it goes with.
I can relate to your pain💔, I just went/going through the same and divorce dragged for 8 painful years 😪 coupled with humiliation, trauma, fear 😨... everything just got stagnant
Hi Owamie be strong sisi I struggled for 7 years to get a date so you're not alone my dear and on the 22nd March this year I'm going to court and worse on my side I've got 3 kids with him so be strong cc God is there for us.
Sending hugs to you Ndumi be strong my sister God is in control
Strongs to you my sister...the pain, the hurt, the anger and frustrations, may 22 March bring you the closure. May the scars left by this relationship not prevent you from living your life.
Hugs to you sis Owamie🤍 it’s difficult now, but there will come a day when you’ll look back and be grateful that you went through all this. 💕 it shall be well!
Owamie, sending you love and strength!! You have said a mouthful
* a toxic relationship is not about fighting and screaming, it can be without violence but still toxic
* Money is important in a relationship, they say finances are the 2nd contributing factor towards divorce. It comes after communication. As people we love to ignore finances in relationships. Yes we don't marry or get into relationship for money and all but still money is needed. Money is important.
*Financial transparency is also important, it's good to know your partners credit profile and how they manage debt, because it will have an impact on your overall finances. You will struggle to even buy a house because of bad credit profiles
From you Owamie I've learnt that I must never settle for less in marriage, I must still live my dreams and do things for myself. I must never dim my light just so my man can feel man enough.
I'm sorry you have to go through the most just to be separated from your ex. All the best on the day, cheers to your freedom🥂🥂!!
U have been strong Owami. Not. Only for yourself but also for the many women out there who do not have the courage to walk away. So many women are in unhappy and unhealthy marriages because they are afraid of what society will say. You are waaaaaay too young to surrender your sanity health and joy just to put on a face for society and to build a man who needs rehab not marriage. Cause that ex hubby is clearly not okay judging from the things u have shared about his Conduct. We are happy for u and proud of u shbubu. 👏👏👏👏👏👏
I was angry at myself because I stayed longer then I should. I had a breakdown and landed in a psychiatric hospital. He painted me in such a bad light everyone believed it was me. Yet he was cheating and toxic. He would gaslight me and as soon as I react he would record me. A d threaten to show everyone. The day I left I had 0.34 cents in my name and
Love and light ninja ♥️
Eish oWamie,,ngavele ngakhala joo😭💞 but move on my Gal
That’s a pure narcissist .
Hugs to you mama... Ive never been married but learned through you sharing your journey pre and post divorce and it gave such a realistic perspective. Thank you for sharing as hard as it may have been.
Wishing you love and light as you prepare to step into the next chapter of your life
The evilness is so very shocking! When people were saying to me “don’t let the devil break your marriage” I told them I was married to the devil himself! (Of course I don’t actually think so but I saw the devil directly through my ex. Whaaaattt!!!? Yoh 👏🏾).
I know exactly what you're talking, Chile!
You did everything out of love! Don’t regret anything you did. Loving is noble. You were a great wife. So pat yourself on the side. Keep your head up queen ninja!
I cried with you Wamie!! And i know nothing about divorce. I just needed to cry this week, for my own struggles 😭😭😭
I'm happy for you Owamie, I also went through emotional abuse and I stayed because didn't even see it, I only left when he threatened to kill me, I ran🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️, my divorce proceedings haven't even begun yet but I'm already so happy on my own.
Oh! Lord woman we are going through a lot askies love for what you're going through but I thank God that you're ok and the biggest thing is to love ourselves / put ourselves first why I'm saying so us as woman we love soo much to our partners and forget about love ourselves too
Yoh baby girl! Crying with you. Wish I could just hug you! You have done so well! Thank you so much for being so brave and vulnerable. So many of us have gathered strength from you. You are doing The Lord’s work! May The Lord bless you and keep you. May He make His face shine upon you and give you peace!
Yho!!!! was crying with her too 😭😭😭😭
Im so happy for Owamie. I hope everything goes well and the devorce is finally granted. We have learnt so much from you even as single women who were even sacrificing a lot before marriage. Your story open so may eyes.
Don't be too hard on your self. Everything will be in the past one day
That feeling of letting go finally,all the hurt,humiliation etc....letting all that go finally. You are brave, long term breakups or marriages are never easy. Proud of u sister❤
This is the relationship school of lessons. We learning alot from you queen ninja. ❤️❤️
🤗🤗🤗 hugs mama. You're almost there. Be strong
You just inspire me. Thank you for being the big sister I always prayed for.
So happy for you sis. Just don't be too hard on yourself. Don't stop talking about money bcz u make us realize how important to have our own money as women
Weeping may come at night, but joy comes in the morning.
There's life after marriage sis.
May the Lord strengthen.
Please feel free to mourn your marriage in whichever way you choose. The fact that you can cry in front of the whole world means you are strong.
Thanks for being a good example to all abused women.
May the good Lord be with you.
I love you sis.
Amen.
Sending you love and light Queen Ninja!
All is well cc. The best is still to come. Never regret what you went through and sacrifices you made. You made the right decision based on the information you had at that time. Now you have more information which you did not have at that time. You are crying because you have lost a life gone by.
The sad part of divorce is that no one wins but the enemy, unless if one party had wrong motives when going in the marriage which I doubt on yours, you both loved each other but life happened, I don't support infedelity at all as it destroys the mind, emotions and questions/affects one's worthyness a thousand times even after a while. Wish you strength on this. ❤️❤️❤️ You are young Owamie and can still pick up the pieces and rebuild your life.
Your a very strong, powerful and smart women. You have come a long way and this is only the beginning for you
One thing I am taking away from this is to show empathy. There are many nasty comments and questions people could throw your way; but people are empathising with you, as we should as humans.. As much as you have an entertainment channel, please sometimes try empathise with the women you throw shade on when it comes to their lives and relationships. You tend to be condenscending at times... People empathise with you, maybe try the same as well
Very very true.....but did you have to say it now?
@@jenniferngobese9929 I don't see what difference it makes saying it later. I am not throwing jabs at her at all. I am merely appealing to her to show the same compassion to others as is being shown to her. Nowhere in my comment am i being shady or derogatory, I am using a real time situation to show the importance of compassion towards each other as women
@@pamelamahada5379 Owk cc ......
She's just entertaining, that doesn't mean she doesn't show emotions, at the end of the day she's on a social media platform, so her personal situations are more attached to emotions, than doing gossip. Relax please. Be considerate as well.
@@luciatsotetsi7630 Well said Pam👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
You’re crying for your time, energy and financial investment sisi. And it’s okay, the 1st step to healing is acknowledging that you’re hurt. Allowing yourself to go through the emotions of all stages of grief is the best gift you’re giving yourself right now. ♥️♥️♥️
I found myself crying however I'm definitely happy for you little Sister..... God is good 🙏🙏🙏
Owame Sesotho sere senkganang se nthola morwalo this guy he was not for you don’t cry baby girl wagago he is waiting for you be strong and happy 👌
It’s easier said than done.
I understand you girl,cry as much as you feel
Nana batho! Well said in Sesotho.
Re a leboha! 😘😘😘
It over Queen ninjah it over .I'm so happy for you Queen 🙏🙏
Closure is painful, cry as much as your heart lets you. Oneday you will heal 100% for sure. Keep reading Phil 4:6.
Yuh I've been crying throughout 🙆🙆 I don't think I'm strong enough to help anyone going through a the darkest 😭😭😭 I'm glad you are now healing, I hope all women out there who are going through the same will eventually get better ❤️❤️
Ninja please don't be too hard on yourself. You have to keep your head up. It's painful but thank God for taking care of you. But also it's good to cry coz you must let out all that's in there sending you love and light
You were open to all of us about your life ninja and that was a choice you made and nothing wrong about that sadly the person that you were with was not the one.
It's OK not to be OK, the tears that you cried all this time so as the blessings that are coming your way written in your name by the Almighty. The best is yet to come just believe.❤❤❤
Thank you for this video Queen Ninja we sympathize with you..and this is also a lesson to all of us we can learn something.
Iyoh🇸🇿💙❤️sending more love and strength Owamie
Love and light Ninja ❤️, I shared some tears with you but hopefully this goes well.
Owamie young girls needs to see this..to hear this...just like we need financial education....we need marriage education. Girl must know the importance of having your own money. the importance of putting yourself first.
I am married and I am not getting a divorce. But...I see the truth in what you are saying. sending lots and lots of hughs
Hi Ninja I know exactly how you must be feeling. I also my court date last week...believe I cried, cried and cried. Il be going to court in 2 months. I am so excited. The guy put me through hell emotional abuse is smthn else. Today he's still wants me back and unfortunelety its too late. Im happy for you Ninja. ❤😊🙏
From someone who went through the same thing a couple of years back I just want to let you that it gets better. It gets so so much better. Cheers to your new life. Kusazoba mnandi ❤️❤️
Sending you warm hugs, you did it it wasn't easy but you made it through the most.
We do that we sacrifice our happiness for theirs only to get a kick up the ass. you are right Owamie we marry for long term not to be divorced. I have learned to be straight forward and tell men exactly how I feel and if they like it good if they don’t I don’t even care
Strength to you Owamie u re now in the finishing line.Real things are about to happen,deals will be sealed,your work is about to bloom even more.Get into this new stage of your life with your head up high and your eyes wide open.God gave you wisdom,use it to become even more successful than u already are🥰💞
That is so so true people dont want you to talk about the real them because they did so well being a chameleon. I really felt that. Reminded of my daughter's father... he really traumatized me. I cant stop crying as im watching this.
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Sending hugs❤️❤️be strong Ninja😍
So sorry you going thru this.av been there.its so painfull but there is life after divorce sis believe me.
It's all going to be ohkay sis, don't cry, it really hurts to see you like this💔
Sending so much love to you babe. I’m so sorry 😞 everything is definitely going to go well
Wishing you only the best you come so far you such a strong women and I look up to you so many ways babe I’m 24 and you showed me so much I never miss any of your videos we got you and I got you!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂
We here all the way baba
Ninja for life 🙌💥👌
Thank you for opening up Owami. I'm grateful and u don't know how much I have learned from ur stories. Ur sharing ses 👏🏾did👏🏾not👏🏾go👏🏾to👏🏾waste👏🏾. I appreciate you and definitely sharing! Sending Sooo much love
I hate that I missed this! You got this beautiful!!!
Hugs and kisses all the way from Eswatini sis owami i feel i know you on a personal level from your videos thanks mtase for all the imfundiso yakho you are one strong lady sending blessings to you
You are going to mourn your marriage...the man you thought your ex would be ..the plans you had with him.
Take your time Wamie. Cry , scream...whatever you need to do to heal.
The best days of your life are ahead of you.
I’m also married to a bread winner guys it’s very painful because almost everyone hates me 🙄 and hey I do not care because if they are not adding anything in my life they are not worth my energy 🤷🏻♀️
Hugs babe.I think I enjoy personal videos more.😍
We are happy that this will be coming to an end. Money is very important in life, it makes thing easy even in difficult situations. Thank God you have a friend like Lebo ❤️❤️
Ooh sisi😭😭 .... i know that pain.. uzoba right.. hugs....❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You breaking my heart darling💔💔💔 may God heal you🥰
Yooh the most important thing is to have your own money. You not boasting, that is so important.
I can imagine this is how sithelo feels after the pain and humiliation she has faced and false narratives by the media, kindness goes a long way, love and light.
Queen Ninja, may the Holy Spirit be with you throughout this journey to comfort and lead you ❤️🤗.
I never got so emotional listening to someone’s life experience, Owamie you did it babe👏 you’re here now, God is truly amazing. This is just the beginning, God will restore and multiply everything you lost throughout this very painful process👏 sending you so much love and light ♥️🌸
I'm happy to hear that you're working on forgiving yourself because that's the beginning of your healing journey, talking from my experience. Devorce it's very difficult 😢😢with or without drama. I discovered your channel last year early when I was going through the most, your story helped me💕🌷. I'm proud of you and happy that your helping alot of women especially the young ones💖🌹. Can't wait for the D party💃
I may not be going through what you are going through but I feel the statement of allowing someone to put you second!..
I’m so happy for you , you have fought a good fight ,now it’s time to be free and start over. Take your time to love yourself again. I’m so glad you don’t have kids with him that would have been too tough.
Thank you Owami for going through this painful journey, and being brave enough to share it with us, and for being strong enough for the judgement society has shown you. Thank you for your strength and wisdom 💛 FREEDOM!!!!
Sending hugs 💌 you've got this. You chose you.
I'm soo sorry Owamie, it is well the Lord is with you, he will be with you every step of the way and he will surely see you through. Always be rest assured that God is your source. Been watching the process and i can tell you are a strong yet vulnerable woman. May the set date brings this season to an end and finally set you free. Hang in there sis,
😭😭 I cried with you 😭 I'm so sorry my love, God loves you so much ❤️😘 you will shine after all this God will open big doors in front of your enemies trust me 😘❤️
Lots and lots of hugs Queen Ninja. Love😘😍🥰
It's a painful process Owamie, but I promise you one day it will be all over, God is busy healing you and your testimony will certainly free many women out there. Sending lots of hugs💞
Iva learned so much from your journey. I would like to just hug you but I'm praying for you. Im sorry Owamie. Thank you for sharing your experience with us. I'm in my 30s and have never been married but I almost got married to a very dangerous man and I'm happy I didn't. The debt thing which you mentioned ,it almost happened to me. I will have prenuptial contract when the time comes and will never forget myself in the process of marriage. Thank you again. Hugs and kisses 😘😘😘😘🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
We love you ninja a lot 😘😘😍😍 you've got this cry it out my love
Sending you a warm hug and so much Agape love sisi.. U very very strong.. God has held u down.. U did the right thing, u deserve to be happy.. Watch this year is gonna be the year of healing and great health and wealth🙏🏾🎉
You are a very strong 💪 lady keep it up
Cry it out Sis am sending my Spirit filled tight hugs and I ❤️ you.God is on your side
Hugs and all love to you Quuen ❤❤ i hope all goes well for you my love ❤❤❤
May God be with u Owami. This is nt easy bt it will be over one day. Time heals cc. Be strong 💪 ✨ ❤ 🙏 💖
We understand dear, pls stay strong ❤️
Be strong my Queen hotla loka i wish nka kopana le wena keo jwetse saka story.Hotla loka my Ninja
Even though I have never divorced but I know how it is cause I also had to be a friend or a Lebo to a friend of mine who once experienced the very same things n worse of what Owami experienced with her Ex husband, through that divorce of a friend I honestly started moving differently even in my own marriage and I got wiser because I was like Kanti Amadoda Anjani 🙆🏽♀️, n I started to save a lot and got more independent rather then depending fully on my husband because Chiiiilllleee Woooo hhayiii men are SELFISH HONESTLY, Men are narcissistic, we need to learn men for what they are then to be blinded by good vitamin D because Indoda izokugila for real!!
Hugs Owami I admire yo strength dadewthu. The more I listen n watch you I cn totally relate. But sibonga uThixo ngawe kuthi asibonise kuyenzeka kuyadluleka. I love you
I’m now crying with you ous owami’ 💔💔 I’m very sorry.
Sending hugs and prayers 😭😭😭 May the almighty God shine his face upon you 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Sending love ausi Owamie ❤❤❤❤🤗🤗🤗🥰🥰🥰
Oh owamie the remote part broke my heart 💔🥺
Life is the exam that everybody has to write . You still writing your question paper and I am sure that you got this question right. And be aware my Queen that before we see light it has to be dark. That's why someone wrote the hymn AMAZING GRACE .IT IS WELL WITH GOD . YOU ALWAYS LIKE TO USE THE WORD " ITS OKAY" AND YES ITS OK WITH GOD. Everything happens for a reason. RISE MY QUEEN AND YES WE GOING TO CONQUER . 💕💕💕🌹🌹🌹
I love when you teach us about life & story time but one thing that Hurt me is when u breakdown n tears flows in eyes. I love you mama. This drama will pass. Be strong 💐💐💐💐💐❤️💓
Stay strong,its okay to cry,it's OK to be sad as well.This too shall eventually pass,and then you will make a post reminiscing about this period.
This man was so petty. Why take the remote? I am sorry you had to go through all this Owamie. I understand why you left him.
Sending my hugs to you Ninja ..this shall pass ..you taught us so much and we here for you💕
I'm so sorry about all this. Be strong shbubu♥️sending you lots of love,hugs n kisses😘🥰May God bless you tons moratiwa🙏🏻
No one will ever understand what you had to deal with, but if anything you are coming out of this stronger. There’s so much good that is coming your way ninja 🌼🌺🌸
Ohh yini Owami wethu. I'm crying with you yazi. Thanks soo much for sharing your story and for keeping us updated. All the best sisi. You've done it💯❤️
No need to apologies Queen Ninja ... we all the ninjas here understand shibubuu and Yes we need them book honey. I can even see the TiTLE
Happy for you mama💓. New chapter loading ❤️🔥💁🏾♀️!
Askies my Ninja. It's going to be okay.
It's so sad that even growing up it's usually a girl child who goes through the most. She is taught how to be a good wife. Things like waking up early, doing house chores and so on and so forth, yet nobody says such to a boy child. So basically most men grow up with a sense of entitlement just because "he is a man, he is a king, men are like that, blah- blah- blah" and that makes them feel so entitled and forget that they also have a role to play. It takes two to tango.
You promise not to cry owamie but it's okay ,cry scream get it it out,it's part of your healing journey mama ,😘 love you from Namibia
Be strong Cc i feel that u really loved that guy.but he fail to c it.u will reach when u will forget all this.
I'm so happy for you my daughter, please don't cry just thank God, just know that we love you so much, ur such a powerful and strong woman I admire you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm so sorry that you're going through all of this. I hope it passes soon