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Комментарии • 177

  • @daysliveon
    @daysliveon 4 месяца назад +773

    Everybody is imagining a hot chick that is doing the propositioning. I'm not getting that vibe.

    • @anthonyphillips7642
      @anthonyphillips7642 4 месяца назад

      Yea, less Paris Hilton more strung out sex addict

    • @Praisethesunson
      @Praisethesunson 4 месяца назад +83

      I was picturing the female version of the Chucky doll.

    • @stuartjackson3449
      @stuartjackson3449 4 месяца назад +3

      😂

    • @nope8637
      @nope8637 4 месяца назад +16

      Fe fi fo no

    • @stuartjackson3449
      @stuartjackson3449 4 месяца назад

      @@daysliveon it’s hard because his accent is horrendous but it doesn’t mean she ain’t a baddie

  • @komrademoses
    @komrademoses 4 месяца назад +278

    This isn't just your wedding, but your fiance's too! Why would you invite someone that sexually harassed her for months and ruin the wedding?

    • @rics9941
      @rics9941 3 месяца назад +24

      This OUT LOUD please

    • @will201084
      @will201084 3 месяца назад +9

      He has no friends and doesn't want to look bad himself.. big weddings are ridiculous anyway.

    • @travelsahead
      @travelsahead 3 месяца назад +5

      People like this guy love the attention.. They just play BS games and claim they don't want it. It's easy to just block and ignore ppl that you don't like. This is a pointless call.

    • @severalwolves
      @severalwolves 2 месяца назад +2

      maybe he’s just a devious little prankster, and he’s just doing the classic “invite a sex pest to come ruin your wedding” bit

  • @hobbitninja
    @hobbitninja 4 месяца назад +390

    of the four people involved, three of them are not into it at all which really says something

    • @liammoodyfilms
      @liammoodyfilms 4 месяца назад +57

      Yeah the wife has gotta be gross.

    • @DookieMan69
      @DookieMan69 4 месяца назад +33

      Bro right! If it was a guy proposing that everybody in the friend group would drop him right away

    • @fernandorosario4901
      @fernandorosario4901 4 месяца назад

      💯 would pay money to see what she looks like

  • @thebigdaddy797
    @thebigdaddy797 4 месяца назад +336

    A UFC event is exactly where I would expect a suggestion like this to come up

    • @willvr4
      @willvr4 4 месяца назад

      So much bedroom grappling.

    • @MB-zz5re
      @MB-zz5re 3 месяца назад +2

      Hahahaha my thoughts exactly as well. It’s the Trash de la Trash. 😂

  • @ourtube4266
    @ourtube4266 4 месяца назад +149

    Men will do anything but make friends as adults.

    • @evanwheeler7687
      @evanwheeler7687 3 месяца назад +13

      Only guys with no social skills. Making new friends is fun, but you have the freedom to be more picky as an adult.

    • @jordank566
      @jordank566 2 месяца назад +1

      @@evanwheeler7687as a man with 0 social skills I can concur

  • @lovebus00
    @lovebus00 4 месяца назад +36

    The impersonator as a groomsman is a great idea. I actually do have some men who would EXPECT to be groomsmen, but I may demote them in favor of having Elvis as my best man.

  • @sumner4596
    @sumner4596 4 месяца назад +73

    I love eps with legit advice lol. Get these people out yo life player 😂

  • @jlshel42
    @jlshel42 4 месяца назад +99

    Lesbian sleeper agent

    • @sleepyheadbeats4352
      @sleepyheadbeats4352 4 месяца назад +12

      Fought the urge to play softball the whole entire relationship

  • @therockbottom5
    @therockbottom5 4 месяца назад +46

    Listening to this while my kid watched Paul Scheer make dad jokes on Yo Gabba Gabba is crazy

    • @jasonotto9126
      @jasonotto9126 4 месяца назад +2

      Was he in fresh of the boat too?

  • @casuallyenlightenedtv
    @casuallyenlightenedtv 3 месяца назад +9

    No one is hot in this situation

  • @pattybaselines
    @pattybaselines 4 месяца назад +96

    Would not be surprised if his friend was in on it too

  • @yoinkisplonki260
    @yoinkisplonki260 4 месяца назад +31

    I love the idea that this came out a day after the wedding

  • @Pimpjit85
    @Pimpjit85 4 месяца назад +77

    Imagine it was a guy trying to sleep with your wife multiple times. Would you invite him to your wedding???? 😂😂😂😊

    • @StunBuns
      @StunBuns 4 месяца назад +7

      It's more if a guy was trying to sleep with your husband

    • @Pimpjit85
      @Pimpjit85 4 месяца назад +6

      @ActionAlligator well yes, but the point underneath the point is that he doesn't realize it's extremely inappropriate. If it was more traditional, like a guy trying to bang his wife, he wouldn't be asking for advice. But it's literally the same thing.

    • @StunBuns
      @StunBuns 4 месяца назад +3

      @@Pimpjit85 It's the same in terms of being inappropriate. It's not the same in terms of being threatening or emasculating.

    • @Pimpjit85
      @Pimpjit85 4 месяца назад

      @ActionAlligator agree to disagree. The threat is subjective. It's completely based on your assessment of the situation. But the facts are clear. Another human asked to bang his wife bro, lol.

    • @MsNatiBug
      @MsNatiBug 4 месяца назад +4

      @@Pimpjit85 imagine if a guy was sexually harassing the bride to be. And then her moron fiancé INVITES HIM TO THE WEDDING.

  • @notchback93
    @notchback93 4 месяца назад +33

    I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again the crap 💩 people call in this show with makes me really appreciate my simple life

  • @Croot_Music
    @Croot_Music 4 месяца назад +21

    He should just hire all Jack Nicholson impersonators for all the groomsmen

    • @LyftraS
      @LyftraS 4 месяца назад

      Would be a better wedding

  • @iceybud9003
    @iceybud9003 4 месяца назад +54

    wow is that dr andre nowzick?

    • @Lonelywookiee
      @Lonelywookiee 4 месяца назад

      That's Dr. Andre Nose-Dick to you!

  • @CMike44
    @CMike44 4 месяца назад +24

    I agree with the comment saying this woman may not be hot. Everyone is assuming that's the case but it seems no lol

    • @MsNatiBug
      @MsNatiBug 4 месяца назад +3

      @@CMike44 this is classic big uggo girl behavior. And NO ONE stops them. It’s so digusting

  • @ashleyglass3346
    @ashleyglass3346 4 месяца назад +5

    she can’t keep getting away with this!!!!

  • @jakebiebel8609
    @jakebiebel8609 4 месяца назад +20

    I know a Canadian when I hear one

    • @Lonelywookiee
      @Lonelywookiee 4 месяца назад +4

      The overt tell is when he says, "My girlfriend was creeped out about it" 😂

    • @ompog7644
      @ompog7644 Месяц назад

      @@Lonelywookiee Creeped oot.

  • @jasonvan3887
    @jasonvan3887 4 месяца назад +40

    Im convinced this guys the problem 😂 him and his girl both have issues with setting boundaries and sending appropriate signals when those lines are crossed, multiple text messages just faining flattery and leading her on... "so do i make him my best man or what?"

    • @AndrewBarsky
      @AndrewBarsky 4 месяца назад +3

      100%
      This would immediately be a no contact scenario for anyone.

    • @StaceyJayne-pe7ww
      @StaceyJayne-pe7ww 3 месяца назад +1

      I got the opposite vibe. I think the friend's wife has a problem respecting boundaries.

  • @zyfoxmaster1
    @zyfoxmaster1 Месяц назад +3

    @10:30 def some homophobia and misogyny lotta people minimize f2f relationships as 'nothing' including a lot of women who think that way.

  • @cargopilotguy305
    @cargopilotguy305 4 месяца назад +74

    If she wants to behave like a man, I’d treat her like one. Trying to violate my relationship isn’t cute.

    • @DonJosesito
      @DonJosesito 4 месяца назад +1

      Relax P Diddy beating up someone half your size isn't the flex you think it is.

    • @ichirosuzuki2252
      @ichirosuzuki2252 4 месяца назад

      Are you suggesting that he sensually kiss the nape of her neck and grope her?

    • @philbert.trongle
      @philbert.trongle 4 месяца назад +7

      What do you mean by that?🤨

    • @japaneseproctolgist
      @japaneseproctolgist 4 месяца назад +2

      @@philbert.trongle I agree this is worded weirdly, but I think what they're trying to say is that if this was a man doing this, it would be viewed more as predatory behavior/harassment, and not just an awkward situation.

    • @MsNatiBug
      @MsNatiBug 4 месяца назад

      She’s not acting like a man. She’s acting like a rapey woman. They’re awful people and super common.

  • @Croot_Music
    @Croot_Music 4 месяца назад +9

    Paul gives good advice

    • @BeSweet2MeBaby
      @BeSweet2MeBaby 3 месяца назад

      i know right? It feels odd because the characters he regularly plays are fairly silly but homeboy is actually dropping knowledge.

  • @tobereed
    @tobereed 2 месяца назад +3

    They both were trying to swing with both of you. Classic tactics

  • @swhite6
    @swhite6 4 месяца назад +6

    This is my call! 😂

    • @Lonelywookiee
      @Lonelywookiee 4 месяца назад +2

      So what was the final verdict then?

    • @MaskOfMetal94
      @MaskOfMetal94 4 месяца назад

      If it is, we need updates.

    • @swhite6
      @swhite6 4 месяца назад +1

      @@Lonelywookiee I showed the call to my wife and it was the first time she’s thought about the situation since it happened 3-4 years ago. She laughed her ass off and said she doesn’t give a fuck what I choose. Someone in the comments was acting like I was handing my wife to a predator 😂 My girl is thick skinned she’s not going to play victim like some want her to

    • @Lonelywookiee
      @Lonelywookiee 4 месяца назад +1

      @swhite6 Fair enough, I'll take your word for it. So, a follow-up on everyone else's comments in here, was your friends wife pretty or ugly? And did you end up inviting him and her to the wedding and was he your best man?

    • @swhite6
      @swhite6 4 месяца назад

      @@Lonelywookiee We haven’t even sent invites yet because we don’t plan on getting married until 2026 after she’s done school.
      Friend’s wife is like a 5/10, mostly bad features with great boobs

  • @GusanoQuiltro
    @GusanoQuiltro 3 месяца назад

    man paul scheer is probably the realest mfer ever stav you should have him on all the time

  • @willvr4
    @willvr4 4 месяца назад +5

    I mean, he doesn't need to get a +1...invite him, not the wife.

  • @nomoresunforever3695
    @nomoresunforever3695 3 месяца назад

    Shout-out to the friend's wife for going after her dreams. ❤

  • @sleepy-peepy
    @sleepy-peepy 4 месяца назад +4

    of all the times to play with that fire, their wedding feels like the time?

  • @Dirtyjoe_13
    @Dirtyjoe_13 4 месяца назад +3

    It’s wild how girls can get away with being sexual predators if it was a dude doing the same thing he’d be going to jail 🤦🏻‍♂️😂

  • @magicknight13
    @magicknight13 4 месяца назад +2

    Paul Scheer is fucking awesome

  • @navrotron22
    @navrotron22 3 месяца назад +1

    Love Paul lmao

  • @Praisethesunson
    @Praisethesunson 4 месяца назад +28

    So this woman is just flagrantly trying to cheat and the husband is too ©u©ked to put a stop to it.

    • @Evan-i4e
      @Evan-i4e 4 месяца назад +1

      You don't know it doesn't count if its two straight women?
      Honestly, it's just some innocent fun and you're a cel if think it cheating or have a problem with it.
      This is unironically what I have seen hundreds of women admit and say lol.

    • @LyftraS
      @LyftraS 4 месяца назад +10

      @@Evan-i4ethis is a weird ass hill to die on brother.

    • @MsNatiBug
      @MsNatiBug 4 месяца назад

      @@Evan-i4eyeah rapey women are insane

    • @myhatelect
      @myhatelect 2 месяца назад

      Its not two straight women clearly, dumbass ​@Evan-i4e

  • @senorsuave
    @senorsuave 4 месяца назад

    Really love paul here.

  • @iggypop2026
    @iggypop2026 4 месяца назад +5

    The husband was in on it and he probably suggested it

    • @swhite6
      @swhite6 4 месяца назад +6

      This is my call, and no he was definitely not in on it 😂

    • @MsNatiBug
      @MsNatiBug 4 месяца назад

      That’s not the sense I get, I get gross uggo rapey girl vibe

    • @MsNatiBug
      @MsNatiBug 4 месяца назад +1

      @@swhite6 if this is your call, may I ask why the possibility of inviting your wife’s sexual harasser and that harasser’s enabler to your wedding was even on the table?

    • @swhite6
      @swhite6 4 месяца назад

      @@MsNatiBug Relax, it isn’t that serious. Things were awkward and we stopped hanging out for a bit, then we moved away and lost our mutual hobbies. My wife already expects them to be invited, she’s made no mention of any desire not to and definitely doesn’t think she was “harassed” lmao

  • @brandensandberg6668
    @brandensandberg6668 4 месяца назад +1

    I've been invited twice to be a bridesman and I'm pumped. This guy could do that, invite a girl who he might be tight with to be one of his groomsgirls 😂

  • @travelsahead
    @travelsahead 3 месяца назад +2

    This isn't a question or a problem. You simply stop associating / block people if you don't like being around them. This is just a man that acts like a woman and enjoys attention.

  • @will201084
    @will201084 3 месяца назад +1

    Just go to Vegas and get married be Elvis 😆

  • @samthecowboy
    @samthecowboy 14 дней назад

    stavvy is the guy that imagines this lmao (the actual situation is insane tho)

  • @zenfer
    @zenfer 22 дня назад +1

    Just invite the guy and not his wife????

  • @Eoin_D
    @Eoin_D 2 месяца назад

    The saddest part is that he has no friends

  • @Rosskles
    @Rosskles 4 месяца назад

    Hahaha Had the same undercover idea just as the other guy mentioned hiring some cool chicks 😂

  • @xrphoenix7194
    @xrphoenix7194 2 месяца назад

    Just invite the dude and say she isnt invited. Pretty simple

  • @adamsaldana5462
    @adamsaldana5462 4 месяца назад +15

    How would you react to a man trying to sleep with your wife. Youd probably have stronger choice words

    • @nomoresunforever3695
      @nomoresunforever3695 3 месяца назад

      Yeah. But she's not a man. Why do people keep bringing up this stupid comparison.

  • @pyroaquatic8999
    @pyroaquatic8999 4 месяца назад +2

    Doesn’t the guest have some chipmunks to get a record deal for

  • @jennifergrove2368
    @jennifergrove2368 3 месяца назад

    Don't forget that this wedding is in 2026 so, things could change in that long of a time. Maybe he'll come around and apologize to this guy and they can slowly start to hang out again before then.

  • @mothb.8174
    @mothb.8174 4 месяца назад +1

    Man, find out if your fiance is cool with it first for one

  • @markenriquez625
    @markenriquez625 2 месяца назад

    if this was a guy trying to fuck someones wife / partner, and texting them naughty shit for months lmfao. It would have been shutdown by the police in like a week.

  • @SleepyReaper75
    @SleepyReaper75 22 дня назад

    Is that the “IM NOT A PERVERT BUT…” guy?

  • @anthonyphillips7642
    @anthonyphillips7642 4 месяца назад +3

    No way debauchery stavros calls the line here 😂

  • @kylotwisto7721
    @kylotwisto7721 4 месяца назад +2

    This is fake as it is gay

  • @stevewhite791
    @stevewhite791 7 дней назад

    Yuck...good advice. No need to RSVP this couple.

  • @atcqmm5916
    @atcqmm5916 4 месяца назад +3

    Sounds like they’re perfect for each other
    They both let everyone walk all over them

  • @superdoopercooper1962
    @superdoopercooper1962 4 месяца назад +1

    Ew

  • @MytrekFleetwood
    @MytrekFleetwood 2 месяца назад +1

    Lol paul is so scandalized

  • @usedoxygen5690
    @usedoxygen5690 4 месяца назад

    I’m picturing Justin beaber wannabe

  • @haholaer4058
    @haholaer4058 4 месяца назад +5

    How the fck is that homophobia lol 10:06

    • @Pregatz_
      @Pregatz_ 4 месяца назад +7

      Stavvy try not to mistake homophobia with sexism challenge (impossible)

    • @scottmorrisonshathimself
      @scottmorrisonshathimself 4 месяца назад +18

      it is homophobia because it’s men not taking lesbian relationships seriously, you see this all the time with guys who allow there girlfriends to make out with women but would never for a guy, stav is right

    • @haholaer4058
      @haholaer4058 4 месяца назад +3

      @@scottmorrisonshathimself i'd call it sexism if anything, like person above states

    • @scottmorrisonshathimself
      @scottmorrisonshathimself 4 месяца назад +1

      @@haholaer4058 and i wouldn’t

    • @haholaer4058
      @haholaer4058 4 месяца назад +2

      @@scottmorrisonshathimself sure, but you'd be objectively wrong, since this issue isn't exclusive to lesbian relationships lol

  • @constantravens4800
    @constantravens4800 4 месяца назад

    Wowwe

  • @collectivecommentary123
    @collectivecommentary123 2 месяца назад

    I feel like this lady should just admit she's a lesbian, break up with the guy's friend, and move on. Everyone would be happier.

  • @DDGenes
    @DDGenes 4 месяца назад

    WTF is Stav talking about at the end? Isn't this the opposite of homophobia?

    • @MsNatiBug
      @MsNatiBug 4 месяца назад

      @@DDGenes no. This is definitely yet another cliched example or the homophobic tendency to dismiss lesbian sexual behavior as lesser and not “real” and not “as serious” as heterosexual sex.
      If a man were sexually harassing the bride to be, how tf could inviting him to the wedding even be an option?

  • @mc5967
    @mc5967 4 месяца назад +6

    Oh come on guy lighten up

    • @SaltyCado
      @SaltyCado 4 месяца назад

      Bro get help😂 if you're married you wouldn't wanna see your girl have sex with a damn person unless you're just that moral less and freaky lmao

  • @hermesmcclintok
    @hermesmcclintok 4 месяца назад +3

    A straight guy in his 30s should not be calling his female fiancé his 'partner'

  • @samuellblake
    @samuellblake 4 месяца назад

    invite the guy just dont invite the crazy gf why are they making it such a big deal that the guy had a crazy gf

  • @Braden_Sky
    @Braden_Sky 4 месяца назад +1

    Why wasn’t that me. I want to do this 🥲