LEO | The Power Of Goodbye, The Power Of Hello ❤️🔥 | Intimate Tarot | April 2024
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Intimate Tarot (sexual energy readings) are like any other tarot readings in that Intimate Tarot provides another layer of knowledge of the self, specifically our more intimate selves. Our sexual selves contain energy that influences who we are (like any other energy) and I operate from the philosophy of the more you know. I believe it is important to understand all energies, more so those energies that are historically undervalued, and largely misunderstood, as they stand the greatest chance to cause miscommunication and discord within our most intimate relationships if they remain misunderstood. Understanding our sexual energy means we understand ourselves and partners a little more. Through sexual energy, we can discover another avenue in answering critical questions about ourselves and our relationships as they may unfold in any given reading:
Do I understand my own sexual needs and experiences, and how am I expressing them to someone else?
Are my sexual needs being understood by my partner?
Do I understand my partners sexual needs and expressions?
Are sexual experiences important to my partner?
Are sexual experiences important to me?
Are we sexually compatible and is that important?
Does love exist in our sexual experience?
Is this a sexually based connection only?
How does my sexual energy relate to my outer (material) world and is that important?
Just like the general love readings, I will see a wide variety of energies; connections that are just forming to a range of well established couples. Also, Intimate Tarot readings can often reflect:
celibacy
sexual healing (active and non-active sexual expression)
actively searching for intimacy
sexual exploration while connecting
developing a stronger sense of sexual identity for the self
specific impressions of the collective or their person
As you can see, Intimate Tarot provides a great deal of depth. It's never a flat reading, there's always something to learn of one's self and others. I hope this helps you.
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this quote - “I was chasing after someone who was running away from me and looking back to make sure I was still there” what a low life am i right??
This reading is exactly what i was going through. The red flags were in my face once we were at the point where we were able to move to next level. I finally realized on my own it was a dead end. He then showed me a side of him that made it clear. Ive started a new relationship and he is livid! He thought i was just going to be there at his convience. Im happy things are out in the open now. I have found availability with another!
Leo moon and Venus here. Yep Taurus has done this to me for the past 4 years. I moved on recently and I am free. I’m not sure what is next for me, all I know is I am focused on myself, making me happy, loving myself and forgiving what he put me through. Whatever is next is got to be better than what I had with him.
Same here. Taurus past 3 years.
That's crazy...I've dealt with a Taurus past 4 years also and I'm done!! I'll never date a Taurus again!
Same 😂
Same here for past 5 years, we are Leo’s taking our power back ❤
Omg Leo Sun here. Been with my Taurus for 8 years. It’s happening to me as well.
100% went through this with a Taurus. So glad I’m moving in a new direction and emotionally healing.
They told me the other day that they viewed our connection as a contract instead of a relationship. They told me that the only time they actually wanted me there was in the moments they were down and needed support and healing. It was a heartbreaking truth bomb- but it also soldified everything I needed, all wrapped up in one statement: "contract instead of relationship"...Every intuition confirmed. I thanked him for his honesty, wished him healing, but I am not going to sit here and be a prop, I won't stick around to fill the emotional void in their life at the detriment, no, sacrifice of my own emotional wellbeing. He gave me nothing, but I gave him everything, and I know that it's not the love I have to offer thats the problem, it's this person's inability to reciprocate. I am moving forward, this love is meant for me and those who freely reciprocate that energy. I wish them well, but I am SO gone. I deserve the star, because I am one too. xx Thank you for this beautiful confirmation and THANK you for validating the injustice and heartbreak we are all feeling for those who resonate with the reading.
“I know that it’s not the love I have to offer that’s the problem, it’s this persons inability to reciprocate”…You just shifted my whole perception of my self worth after going through a similar situation 🥺 I could cry. Thank you for sharing your experience, I can’t wait for the genuine love that we will one day recieve 🌷
Exactly! I gave all and received nothing in return.
Wow you literally couldn't be more on the money. I told him this morning im not doing it any more. If he wants to make effort then he knows where i am but im getting on with my life. Thankyou x
Omg. The bell part! My love passed away on 1-11. This is our reading I swear! I have his bell from his Harley. That’s all I wanted from him! He’s telling me to get over him! Thank you for the reading!
Thank YOU so much Christina! I have had a pattern of chasing unavailable people, and not understanding or seeing CLEARLY that this is, a childhood thing. I have woken up to it, and I FEEL so Fresh, Free and am also working through the unexpressed emotions - bit by bit. This Reading was a strong confirmation for me, that I am doing right by me, and that is what matters.
Thank you for that reading.
Putting the chase me/ not available / not giving back dynamic into words really helped me understand what the heck was going on.
Light bulb moment! Bless.
I love this song “Power of Goodbye” as always this read was on point. I can see how this person just lives off validation and that’s what I was to them. I’m no longer entertaining them but now I’m working on myself to stop this BS pattern. I’m proud I stopped when I did and I am on a sound search quest and I love it!!!! ❤
the leos losing the guy who wants to have coffee with me because he knows i want wedding bells. im a leo too. he said she knows full well there wont be wedding bells but she stayed. idk if he was wrong. i’m on the fence about him because hes my twin and he is self involved at the moment. he said timing not right. i said im not waiting but he needs to do the work on himself to get over the ex that is still causing him issues and other trauma. hes not that bad but hes in pain so not fully caring for others feelings as he should. i said i know you care about me but thats about all there is to it. we gotta be tough dont we? eventually ill be with the right one.
i’ve never felt so validated for my feelings. there were so many times when dealing with him that i thought i was the one who was in the wrong, going crazy…i was constantly always the one who was causing the issues and “disappointing him”. god i was so afraid of just being myself. so glad i finally ended things and had the courage to not go back again…
there is now someone in my life who makes loving me feel easy.
thank you christina ❤
Aries Moon, couple Leo placements and Libra Sun. I tuned in to this reading bc it called to me. I have to say this was my full 13.5 yrs relationship and exactly how it ended. Wasn't expecting to resonate the way I did with this. Bitter sweet, I hold no hard feelings bc I also gained a lot of wisdom in 13.5 yrs, but yes, they knew they didn't love me. Thank you, Christina ❤
I could literally cry this was so spot on i always gave the moments and never got any in return he wants to get back together but there's NOTHING to go back to so thankful I set myself free 🕊️
Yes I must admitt he was a smooth operator. But its never to late to learn. Also I love your style and your clothes.
You are on point 100%. Walked away two years ago after being broken hearted… all true about this person. Free and working in my own happiness 😊
I’ve worked in coffee for over a decade. Two traditional latte art patterns are “tulips” and “rosettas”. Thank you for sharing your talent.
Yup had me chasing for nothing, so I decided to write a closure message, and send it on April 8th the solar eclipse to release this. To close out the unrequited love cycles, and decide I’m done with getting less than what I deserve. I’m an Aries sun and Leo moon. Thank you for the message ❣️
Spot on. I finally said get therapy and don't contact me until you've done the work. I don't expect to hear from him as I'm pretty sure he has no intention of doing the work. It's much easier to upset everyone without remorse because it feels like power. I'm done making excuses for him and want a real grown up in my life.
WOW. I listen to you often, but today my mind, body, and soul has been broken open - THANK YOU 🙏🏽 The latte and ding ding ding made perfect sense to me. Everything else: sad but true. Thank you for so BLUNTLY speaking it!!!
Taurus has done this to me for 10 years I'm done recently a week ago. I'm moving on.all you said exactly what's going on third party after third party with her. Now I'm done
Because relationships like this “ring a bell” with bad foundational relationships from childhood that have perpetuated a pattern of accepting being treated like this - a pattern that I think I finally broke after this.
Thank you for this - so accurate it’s not even funny- the whole thing. That Madonna song literally popped into my head out of nowhere yesterday too!
Wow...this was unbelievable reading...I'm so shocked...so accurate...thank u for the confirmation ❤
Christina. This was so spot on, like to the T. And I couldn’t tell if it was me making the situation worse but you clarified exactly what was going on that my intuition could sense but my mind couldn’t fully process since I was getting mixed signals and lots of push and pull.
You are an incredible reader!
It's the "ding ding ding" the car door makes when you leave your key in the ignition or the lights on. How could you possibly have known that?You are amazing. ❤
The truth revealed, but it’s been long time I’ve used only for them feel good. It’s hell with him! Christina, you’re on point..thank you .❤❤❤
I broke up with her back in June she immediately got into a new relationship she blocked me but will watch my stories and recently liked my post just to unlike it, and she's posting all the adventures that we used to go on but she's living with her new boyfriend. I blocked her last night. You hit it spot on!! 🙏🏼
Indeed, it did help. I had that final give up, don't want feeling this past week. Your diagnosis of this person was so true, and I match your anger in regards to that selfish and immature behavior. He must do his own shadow work to evolve. I'm freeing myself up and preparing the lair for new and positive energy.
Thank you for confirming the reality of it all.
I'm an Aries and I watch mostly all your videos cuz I always find some words of wisdom in your reading. This resonates strongly with me. It's reversed in my case. Aries walking away with a friendship with a Leo. Bells, coffee, the color green and the number 28. It all resonated. I feel bad for walking away from the Leo but, I can't deal with the games.
Oh my I have never seen you this passed. I have a friend who believes she loves him and because his Mom supports her he stays. When he wakes up I'll have my work to help him heal. Cuz I know he'll come straight here
Exactly what I’ve been experiencing with this guy, so toxic and hurtful especially since I have freely given so much. Thank you for this confirmation. I gave him queen of swords energy this week when he tried to play the same games to rope me back in again after saying he just wanted to be friends last week. He doesn’t know me well enough to know I’ll cut any toxic person right off once I become indifferent about you. He’s finding this out the hard way😉
We deserve better♥️
Sag crosswatcher here, energies are completely reversed and this is uploaded on the day I have FINALLY gotten the clarity this is over with my Leo ex. I may have shed the final tears on this.
You are right on. I have tried to tell him goodbye for 6 yrs and he wouldn't have it. I just didn't want to hurt his feelings, finally I just had to ghost him. I'm sorry, I do wish him well.
at 25 min mark you were asking about a bell.... i too was curious until just a moment after my door bell chimed.... it just went off for no reason. just the one time.
it was 4am in the morning. that made me really sit up and pay attention. i pretty much resonated with everything you were saying and my situation is exactly as you described it.
just want you to know you were spot on....thankyou. something big shifted in me at that moment....
Yeah. Proposed to me after 6 months, rushed a wedding, and then when the chase was over & I was his wife he sought the chase and attention everywhere else but with me. I left before our 1 year anniversary. Divorced in January. My heart still hurts.
Much love to u, girl🤗
I’m sorry for your pain.
Make it count, for yourself. Hugs
Leo with a Cappie, you are 100% correct. WOW…
Like she was talking directly to me but good luck indeed. I am so going to need it after this reading 😢
Thank you i was doubt my desission but now i know it for sure! Free after 4 years feeling gulty
This was painful. Necessary, almost mandatory but very painful. Though almost everything was so spot on that it didn't even surprised me and I knew it already, it still hurts like hell. Especially from 10.15 forward I kinda froze and sit still and listen and felt how sadness creep from my toes all the way to my heart.
Not sure do I have enough strength to fight my demons once again, and yet knowing that I have no choice but to fight. Just so very,very tired.
I have never believed in the concept of "the more you suffer, the better prize will be waiting" and that you should somehow earn to be loved. Everyone is deserving love since the day they are born, it shouldn't be any kind of game of chasing the prize to be happy & loved.
And it seems that these days,that is what it's all about. I think I'm done with that kind of "love".
I rather be no-one than just someone.
Thank you again Christina - you are so kind and gentle and humane
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Yes. I greet both the sunrise and sunset always.
Good Morning Christina, Thank You 🌹❣️
What you have said is true. I have been dealing with 2 different people ( Sagittarius and Libra ) that would not return the love I " Had " for them in my recent past. Which has brought clarification to the pattern that has been prevalent in my life, which stems from abandonment issues from my very early childhood. Now that I acknowledge the problem I can now work for resolution.
Again Thank You So Very Much 🌹❤️❣️☺️
I reserve these readings of yours for my special coffee time. Single Leo AC and just started to get it goin' again ☀️👌
I'm SO glad I found you, it was actually during this "relationship". This is exactly what happened and to think we were "friends" before lovers. I gave up last Summer after 2 years of trying. I saw the real him and I accept my role in this, No more trying to love a broken man. I pray he gets help and my healing allows me to receive the love I deserve. We often drank coffee together and Madonna is a Leo! Lol For me the bells is a symbol of fighting to love someone who doesn't even love themselves, like a boxig match.
Felt like your were speaking exactly to my 5 year situation ❤😂😮😅
24:19 "ding ding ding" and I 😳 for the entire pause! One of the last things this man said to me was "the reason a woman is unmarried at 30 is because she is ugly, fat, or has mental problems. Ding ding ding!"
It stuck with me before this reading because it hurt so much to hear.
I had an a-hole Taurus telling me shit like that after playing with me for three years.
dang woman, you went off 🤭 my Aries perked up 😂 Love you mama, thank you! 🤍🙏🏼
When I talk to that person, and having coffee talking to each other, the church bells ring in the background.
Funny, you described my situation as I was on my front porch watching the sunset in the aftermath of a spring snowstorm.
Lol yes night person. For the see the dawn but greet the sunset. Sunset I am usually high energy like my mid day.
Thanks!
Thank you!
Brilliant reading . Self gratification of Cancer.
Thankyou Beautiful Sassy For The Reading, Your Time & Guidance ❤❤ 14:55 I’m done with this too baby it was a huge lesson of self worth 😇❤️
Damn...boy do I feel seen and understood. I tried explaining this to someone and I was treated like I was the bad guy and giving up on a good situation. They drink cappuccinos with foam and the pattern of the foam is usually a leaf. And I have been really putting it off.
U have nailed my reading again
In two minds about this. I did fight so hard for this connection and he kept telling me he is not sure. Invested just on the surface level. I just want more and now I just do not want it anymore. He says he is in love but I now feel like the villain here that keeps rejecting his efforts.
That lattes with the leaf is for me. I drink lattes and lived in Canadá for 28 years which the symbol is the leaf.
It’s been 18 years with this person. 😢 Ty for the reading 🙏
Whaha, we had a bell from the tower of my hometown ,i use to bell that bell when he had to come down for coffee. I took it because my grandfather worked at that tower and I like to keep the bell to my own tower as a scorpio moon lei rising I'm a libra
I’m a Leo, Scorpio man did to me exactly what you said , for 9 months, I was the one chasing him and he was playing games with me all entire time I am hurting right now, but I will be okay, we are disconnected right now I block him, I am done. Thank you so much for your help.
Absolutely love your readings and the way you always get me 💖🌼💜✨Happy Easter 🐣so on point
Thank you for your intuitive insight as you were right on describing a situation I have just come to terms with !!!
We used to go have coffee then to church the bells would always ring. Crazy i do see sun rise and say good morning beautiful and night i say good night beautiful to the moon also 4 placements of aries
Ding ding ding. Maybe boxing bell at end of a round. Or ...after someone gets knocked da fuck out!
❤ 6 years I gave to hime to become a better version of himself. I invested.. he didn't.
I freaking appreciate you !!
The fish is self success ❤
The angst babes 😅 yup nailed it!!!! All of it 1111
Cancer crosswatcher... Leo held out for almost 5 years.. being cruel, emotionally manipulative, only there to boost their ego, using my heartstrings to get the sex they wanted and then would leave to go be with their husband.. all the while telling me they were through. Liar, cheater, manipulator, cold, and heartless. And they actually think that I'll still be waiting in the wings if/when they file for a divorce. Fucked. Up.
Never. Again.
Thank you, Christina ❤ I had him in the summer and he was not ready. He's in recovery. March was the 8th month... So close. And still can't see the outcome. I could switch cups.
I was with a Pisces for 1 1/2 years, I thought we were hopelessly in love and he had said he wanted to marry me, then six months ago his family started openly rejecting me as his partner because of an age gap.
He acted like he wasn’t deterred and I still meant the world to him but shortly after I caught him doing multi-day extended chats and selfie swapping sessions online with an ex. I nearly walked, he begged me to stay but instead of things improving endless games of hot and cold ensued and I was slowly devalued, finding myself jumping through hoops to try and get back the initial connection we felt. More and more evidence of other dalliances started to show and my self-esteem continued to drop. I was gaslighted into believing it was me, my insecurities ruining what we had.
About a month ago he caused petty non-sensical fights and left and came back twice in a week. I was finally forced to voice the question why did you bother to come back, what’s the point of me continuing to invest here if you are going to treat me like this?
He instantly left and never came back (even sent others to clear out his possessions). He was back online dating others within a week 😔!
Ding ding ding wake up smell the coffee
I’m glad you said you was done. I’m aware of others holding onto me. But I’m done. I don’t care. I’m not holding on to anything who doesn’t benefit my life or happiness. I just don’t care. This weird twisted toxicity isn’t got me. If someone cares, I’d know it. They would be here, not spying and hoped still chase them. No thanks Tom hanks lol
I told a friend I played the bells as a kid. He said ding ding ding. 😂 my birthday is next Wednesday. April 10th. I can’t function without my coffee. Neither can my friend who said ding ding ding. Oh well. He’s in a different country. But it’s nice to have someone who thinks similar to me. Even if it’s just on TikTok.
Good Job, Christine! Good reading.
Thank you! This was my story but I’ve moved on.
Cross watcher. My Leo and I have been in and out. He has just disconnected from a year long relationship. He called only days after....I am in love with this man. He is too straight out of this old energy. Not walking away but not holding my breath. I have a daughter who is called Bell. We were both drinking coffee. She is 9. High energy (coffe helps) and is a challenge for any person who wants to be in a relationship with me. He and I met after a year of not seeing each other on a sunny snowy day. My personal leo is in the 7th house with Mars. 34:12
Thank you Christina!!! ❤
Just walked past a window full of paper bells after enjoying a mushroom Thai tea.
You are absolutely correct. I literally told him .. Scorpio that I was exhausted by the way he treats me just because i like him… Leo finally outta here .. 3 years… Karma is a b****.
This is so accurate 😮
Bellls and coffee sounds like an invit . Lol😊
Good Morning Christina ❤❤❤
Nailed it!
Thank you ❤
preach it sister 🙌
Bells & coffee… maybe the sound of a bell as you walk into a cafe ? 🤷🏾♀️
Damn babe thank you 😊
Yup - I pulled the plug on the arrogant Aries on Saturday. No explanation- just ghosted him - which he's done to me in the past. He def likes me in his life but won't give anything sexual to me - and only rejects me. Despite teasing me and sending me sexy texts - and telling me what a deep sexual attraction he has to me. Go figure....
I gave him a bell for his motorcycle…he hates coffee😹
Yep 4 year and I keep trying to walk away and my heart keeps stopping at the door. I have even tried to provoke an ending and he still pulls me back in.
100% accurate. 2 days ago I decided to go ghost on the Aries fearful avoidant who has been dallying with me since 4 years ago. The first dance lasted 2 dates in 2019, the next dance lasted 5 weeks in 2020. Then in Sep last year he come back wanting my work services (a job I do) and he gets friendly then drops my job services when he thinks he’s got me as a friend and then - bam - I drop him out of the blue 2 days ago without a word. He’s ghosted me in the past so I have no qualms about this. He’s also suddenly switched up on me so again - no qualms doing the same. I have never had an apology for his appalling treatment of me in April 2020 when he was wooing me for 5 weeks then dropped me suddenly for a dirty hoe and became arrogant (which is when I walked away from him). He’s just had 6 months of work relationship / friendship to apologise and - nothing. And you’re right - despite having told me how physically attracted he is to me and what a beautiful face and body I have, he has always rejected me physically. I have never even kissed him properly. What a waste. And 6 months is long enough. And yes, I don’t think he has any other options. He puts all his efforts into looking after his cat..
This was for me
marriage...bells are chiming
Nailed it😢
That is true AMEN and I am done.
Absolutely 💯
Gemini my love…. I have to have back surgery….i pray he waits for me but I think it’s impossible 🥲
She’s really blunt and on but I think she does love me it’s just there’s a lot of hurdles and there’s a lot of obstacles in her life that she’s trying to deal with it. She’s trying to take on too much and she’s one of those kind of people that she’s in, so she likes to take out a lot and give a lot, but at the same time she doesn’t wanna seek out other peoples opinion even if they want it or not you know she only wants to learn what she thinks is right so the only thing is that home you know I try to console her and everything with things that I’m doing and everything and trying to be it you know a soulmate tour of You plus one a friend or whatever she is you know to me and on but I do see that sparkling her eye though when she looks at me though because if she didn’t really care she would look back at me so so she just trying to be like you want to download everything about it about how she feels about me but you know that I just wanna share that, so maybe that can help out with my You know future of the way things are and how they are but if she didn’t wanna hear from me then she wouldn’t shut me out a long time ago but I think you are correct about some things and I just wanted to share that though that she is my flame and I’ve known her for 20 years so it’s a lot to know take on so I just wanted to let you know about that
Ouch they could have told me. Not destroy me😢😢
...🙏choose me...💕
We always know when Christina pinpoints an asshole. I've watched this dynamic play out as the lover in the whole situation. Low blow is right. Our lovers dynamic was strong but this idiot took up time, emotion and caused such a giant distraction that we couldn't even take off. This was unfortunate in that it lasted longer than it should of, because of the emotional abuse and control even post seperation. She gradually deteriorated to such a low extent after attempting to sabotage our relationship multiple times and then turning around only to say it was a game to her and she didn't want him- it was sickening, and i don't often say i hate a person, but this person was truly awful. She would start fights with hurtful triggering words to pull him back into feeling worthless and vulnerable because she knew his wounds from childhood to press on.
What's happened is he finally woke up and realised what he had right in front of him and how he had wasted energy, emotion and exposed himself repeatedly to pain and disrespect for a selfish person who quite frankly is deteriorting in front of his eyes as a parent and as a person.
As his lover and friend, i walked away emotionally from this but i supported him on his healing journey until he saw the truth about this person, finally, and to be honest after way too long. Now we are trying to start with a workable construct and hope we can repair the damages done, but also rekindle our lovers feelings which took a lot of damage.