🙏🏾Wow. Right before bed, I REALLY needed to hear this. I was so negative towards my ex wife. I was like “ You deserve your Karma. How could you cheat with my now ex friend grrrrrrr. Anything Karma delivers you earned “ How do we handle hate, anger, love, logic. This is exhausting. I’m on the east coast she’s in LA
The escape is the same. The understanding behind it is different. It's easier to understand someone's "escape" if they had an addiction from childhood that they brought into the marriage/relationship as opposed to an "escape" occurring out of nowhere thirteen years after marriage. Neither are excuses, just one is a little more palatable/understandable and helps the betrayed in the area of self-blame.
@@mrjayrelationshipcoach8044 by addicts are you referring to any type of addiction but more specifically someone that is addicted to the endorphins of an emotional affair?. Thank you again.
@@bittehiereinfugen7723 I could have worded that a little better. In many ways they are both an escape, coping mechanism etc however there are some differences between addiction and non-addiction behavior. An example would be a person acting out in an affair usually wouldn’t do it as a punishment but some/many addicts behave in ways that are punishing to them.
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🙏🏾Wow. Right before bed, I REALLY needed to hear this. I was so negative towards my ex wife. I was like “ You deserve your Karma. How could you cheat with my now ex friend grrrrrrr. Anything Karma delivers you earned “
How do we handle hate, anger, love, logic. This is exhausting. I’m on the east coast she’s in LA
Healing from betrayal trauma is exhausting. Thank you for watching/listening. - Mr. Jay
Hello, what is it you mean by "affairs are escapes" except for addicts? What kind of addicts? This isn't clear. Thank you for the video.
The escape is the same. The understanding behind it is different. It's easier to understand someone's "escape" if they had an addiction from childhood that they brought into the marriage/relationship as opposed to an "escape" occurring out of nowhere thirteen years after marriage. Neither are excuses, just one is a little more palatable/understandable and helps the betrayed in the area of self-blame.
@@mrjayrelationshipcoach8044 by addicts are you referring to any type of addiction but more specifically someone that is addicted to the endorphins of an emotional affair?. Thank you again.
Certainly that or a sexual addiction etc.
I don't quite understand, how is this not true for addicts? Where is the difference?
@@bittehiereinfugen7723 I could have worded that a little better. In many ways they are both an escape, coping mechanism etc however there are some differences between addiction and non-addiction behavior. An example would be a person acting out in an affair usually wouldn’t do it as a punishment but some/many addicts behave in ways that are punishing to them.
But as he said "i have Jesus"... After leaving me for an 18 year old after 25 year marriage....😮
@@aking3624 he’s going to really need Jesus if that’s what he did.
Wrong