My eyes are wellin up here. Thanks for sharing your story, man. It helped me cope with some of the difficult experiences I've had in my own sexual life.
THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS MUCH NEEDED STORY. I WILL SAY THIS TO YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART AND SOUL, EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE ALRIGHT. STAY SAFE & MUCH LOVE*
I'm currently being stalked and harrassed by gay men in power I'm a straight Male, it seems this is a trend in gay culture, as much as I know this doesn't apply to everyone I can see that these stories have a lot of weight I'm sorry your own people failed you at such a crucial time, regardless of orientation this level of evil shouldn't be championed by either side due to the experience I've been reading articles and I see that this is common, it seems that their own are easier targets since they are less likely to speak out as rape victims, is this hate, or self hate, or just abuse?
This might be a bit rude but i dont think the kiss thing was that big of a deal. I understand that he said he felt wierd about it but it was just a kiss lol. If anything it probably just creeped him out.
I’ve said this from the get go to all my gay friends and lost some of them because of it. I said before actually deciding if you’re gay or lesbian go get some mental help with the trauma you went through as a child. After getting mentally right then make the choice of being gay or lesbian. Regardless I’ll always love and accept you. I just want you to be able to make the choice when you’re at your best mentally :) but they end up getting mad at me. Saying I didn’t accept them being gay or lesbian, when all I wanted was them to take a step back from ALL relationships then get mentally right from the Trauma they told me about.
@@void8274 lol if you think what I said was condescending then I’m sorry to tell you but your definition needs revised. It legit comes from a place of caring, and even if they get upset it’s a seed implanted in their thoughts-cape. They might (when they get older and live through some more trauma) get help and revisit what I said to them. If you look into the idea of homosexuality is a side effect instead of the underline mental illness you find a lot of positive research. I’m not saying what they choose to find attractive is wrong. I’m saying how about getting mentally right before making that decision :) I’m straight and and did this before I decided to get in any type of relationship.
I think it’s a bit prejudice to assume that they were abused just because they are gay. Not all lgbt people have gone through trauma like that. And to immediately assume they might have been been abused like that just because they are gay is very presumptuous and condescending. So yeah. They got angry for a reason.
@@viridianacortes9642 never said they got abused because they are gay. I said being abused at a young age by the same sex that they are might cause some of the attractions to the same sex. Lol but ok Guy
@@ihitalick607 shut up. Your comment is still condescending and rude. Like the comment before not all gay or bi men were abused. Being gay/bi is not a choice. And if it somehow was that is none of your damn business
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Good for you Nicholas. I hope your family comes to realize that their son is a person of good character and courage.
My eyes are wellin up here. Thanks for sharing your story, man. It helped me cope with some of the difficult experiences I've had in my own sexual life.
What a brave man.
I love how transparent you are. Thank you so much for being who you are. What an affirmation.
Thank you, Nicholas, for sharing your experience about boundary violations. It will help many others....love you, bro...
Ray
THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS MUCH NEEDED STORY. I WILL SAY THIS TO YOU FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART AND SOUL, EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE ALRIGHT. STAY SAFE & MUCH LOVE*
Thank You for sharing your experiences ❤️ These are situations others can relate to and learn from.
A flaming homosexual. I finally have a name for me.
(Sorry. I had to add a funny comment.)
Are you being a jerk? Why make that choice? It’s wrong,
Adolf Hitler
Imagine being homophobic in a video about gay people, funny edgy.
@@13_cmi is it fun tho?
Manipulative predators are a huge problem.
Insight and integrity.
Very brave for sharing. So happy you got help
If I ever meet this guy I will bow to him out of respect. Such bravery.
I wish you all the best for the future, take care🤗🤗🤗💗💗💗🌈🏳️🌈☮️🌠
Thank you for your story.
Thank you. People will learn from your experience. 👍🏽
All the love and respect to you Nicholas x
I tested up. Your story helped me, thank you.
Now THATs courage...
Much respect to him.
I'm currently being stalked and harrassed by gay men in power I'm a straight Male, it seems this is a trend in gay culture, as much as I know this doesn't apply to everyone I can see that these stories have a lot of weight I'm sorry your own people failed you at such a crucial time, regardless of orientation this level of evil shouldn't be championed by either side due to the experience I've been reading articles and I see that this is common, it seems that their own are easier targets since they are less likely to speak out as rape victims, is this hate, or self hate, or just abuse?
You're a good an honest man!
You're an amazing person
God bless you
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This might be a bit rude but i dont think the kiss thing was that big of a deal. I understand that he said he felt wierd about it but it was just a kiss lol. If anything it probably just creeped him out.
Yeah, he's being hard on himself; just trying to kiss someone is not even in the same category as what he experienced.
Yeah he just tried to kiss how is that a traumatic event for someone? Rejecting a kiss is not a traumatic event. My goodness.
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Sorry but I really can’t this is way too over the top
Congrats the therapist scammed you for couple hundred bucks to listen to your “traumatic” stories
I’ve said this from the get go to all my gay friends and lost some of them because of it. I said before actually deciding if you’re gay or lesbian go get some mental help with the trauma you went through as a child. After getting mentally right then make the choice of being gay or lesbian. Regardless I’ll always love and accept you. I just want you to be able to make the choice when you’re at your best mentally :) but they end up getting mad at me. Saying I didn’t accept them being gay or lesbian, when all I wanted was them to take a step back from ALL relationships then get mentally right from the Trauma they told me about.
It comes off as condescending. That’s why they didn’t take it well.
@@void8274 lol if you think what I said was condescending then I’m sorry to tell you but your definition needs revised. It legit comes from a place of caring, and even if they get upset it’s a seed implanted in their thoughts-cape. They might (when they get older and live through some more trauma) get help and revisit what I said to them. If you look into the idea of homosexuality is a side effect instead of the underline mental illness you find a lot of positive research. I’m not saying what they choose to find attractive is wrong. I’m saying how about getting mentally right before making that decision :) I’m straight and and did this before I decided to get in any type of relationship.
I think it’s a bit prejudice to assume that they were abused just because they are gay. Not all lgbt people have gone through trauma like that. And to immediately assume they might have been been abused like that just because they are gay is very presumptuous and condescending. So yeah. They got angry for a reason.
@@viridianacortes9642 never said they got abused because they are gay. I said being abused at a young age by the same sex that they are might cause some of the attractions to the same sex. Lol but ok
Guy
@@ihitalick607 shut up. Your comment is still condescending and rude. Like the comment before not all gay or bi men were abused. Being gay/bi is not a choice. And if it somehow was that is none of your damn business