No it doesn’t bro what the heck are you saying? Lack of trauma naturally creates healthy habits because we believe we deserve to feel loved so we treat ourselves with respect if we do not feel like it’s healthy then we do not do it so no need to force ourselves to
Sorry it just bothers me there is no such thing as good or bad behaviour . This is the stuff that causes complex trauma. We desire to do things we desire to do as a way to communicate with us if it aligns or not with us. There is no need to force ourselves to do anything which we do not feel the desire to do because it does not align with us at this time so yeah it irritates me to see how this mentality exists how I see it with trauma or complex trauma it hurts it really really really hurts to see it really does cheers all the best here Cheers
@@georgiakritikos4955 what a croc of rubbish- you mean *enforced compliance to incessant cultural demands* , yes? The fact that ‘compliant’ individuals are now struggling to feed and home their families because *corporations* are making it impossible to survive on below poverty wages… the sheer level of delusion in some of the comments on these pages.
I should probably be paying you for therapy. Your videos have been more helpful to me than any therapist, psychiatrist, aprn or self help guru has ever been in the past 30 years. Thank you!
It’s natural law, self preservation. ODD is when this instinct to protect the self has gone into overdrive and become dysfunctional and ends up hurting the self! I was on my way to ODD, but I am now starting to find healthy people to connect to and ditching the ones with patterns of abuse.
Thank God in America, 18_21❤your an Adult, GIVES ROOM TO HELP OUR CITIZEN'S WITH CORRECTION TO BE BETTER ADULTS ❤DON'T LET THAT CHANGE, help the children
Oh man...perfect example-- One of my dad's go-to phrases-- "Do as I say not as I do" 😒 .. and then when I was hit/ "spanked"...it just made me lose all respect for them...They thought I had a problen with authority as a kid...were shocked when i joined the military...10yrs of honorable service...but...I was VERY angry for a long time...gave that up a few years ago...but now suffer with other issues and relationship issues...that's why I'm here!! ❤
Oh yes, heard that phrase-“Do, as I say, not as I do”-many times from my controlling mother, who studied early childhood education in college. She smoked heavily in the presence of her children, but freaked out when she discovered me smoking; I was summarily dragged into the presence of my father while SHE administered the requisite shaming, ridicule and punishment.
Thank you Tim. Never...ever in my entire life have I learnt about ODD. Never. And I have been in therapy most of my life. I am 51. What I am trying to say is that this information you provide is GOLD It could save lifes of millions of people. I wish all of your videos were translated in Spanish. There are many narcisostic trais within latino families. I have mentioned it before but I insist ALL your videos should be translated into spanish. I offer to help. I am bilingual. Thanks again. Thanks you saved my life!!!
That’s so weird. It’s almost as though the authorities who were instated to protect us from horrible parents abused their power and allowed our parents to abuse their power and our bosses to abuse their power so now we’re being coached not to abuse ours when actually no one else is going to stop abusing theirs.
You're being dishonest with yourself. You know that most people don't abuse their power, and those that do are going through their own trauma. You're trying to gaslight yourself so you have an excuse as to why everything is going wrong.
@AncientIntegrations, it's a valid point you make. But may I point out your use of "we're being coached." Society is one generation away from a total makeover based on what one generation believes to be true. It's possible our generation will be the cycle breakers, especially if it's widespread enough to use words like "we" instead of "I'm." On the flip side, if you're convinced that it's impossible to break the cycle in yourself because of what everyone else is doing, all personal agency within you will die and be replaced by blame shifting and bitterness.
Now I understand why I have had such a problem with authority figures, especially when they meted out unjust criticism or discipline. May the Lord bless you abundantly, Tim Fletcher, for generously sharing your gifts and skills for the betterment of your damaged, hurting brothers and sisters.
Listening 3 years after original posting... The waves of emotions as I recognize my self in these videos ... 😔 ... understanding of how I came to "this place", recognizing family dynamics, history, and how it all came together... and why I'm 'different why I'm perceived the way I am. I don't want to feel more shame - but I do; I feel a sense of sadness, loss. No worries - I will "be okay" ... I've healed enough and am strong enough, it's just a lot. Bittersweet... I'm grateful you've shared, and grateful I found the series. 🙏🕊✌️
Resisting the over control...to become an over controller. Addictions, brain health issues, and physically I got away. Emotionally, I'm a wreck. Still no contact. I had no idea about any of this. Thank you for this🕊️
I am sobbing right now. I was diagnosed with ODD as a kid and my mother always threw that in my face and I had no idea what it meant. Thank you so much for this video. This is me to a T. These are the missing pieces to my puzzles.
Your mother was covering her tracks (of her responsibility for your disorder) by repeatedly bringing it to your attention and blaming you. My elderly borderline narc mother still never tires of trash-talking my father (from whom she has been divorced for 40 years), in order to divert attention from the consequences of her poor parenting, and the bad temper and controlling nature that should have disqualified her from marriage.
I identify with all the authority issues, hurting ppl by verbally, not able to keep my relations and everything but I am not a bully. Actually I am very scared n timid kinda person, I don’t want to be picked or talked about. I have always isolated myself .
Find a community of like minded people ,I started volunteering where there is no authority and be kind to yourself, get out in nature too. I hope things change for the best!
Wow! You are SO understandable. It's a gift. You explain these concepts in a way that is immediately 'learnable'. Thank you so much! Glad I found your site. God bless. 😇
Wow, thank u sooo much for helping me understand my exes ODD and why he is dissmissive avoidant/emotionally unavailable. I can now forgive him because his parents were toxic. I can only pray to Jesus that he will figure this out on his own so he can have peace and love someday and not seek drugs and himself as his higher. power.
Where was Tim when I was 15.I could have had a very different life with this knowledge. I have had years of therapy labeled Bipolar and Borderline and Abondemnet disorder and therapists never told me any of these things and or helpful ways to treat it.. But the drugs they gave me were great. (sarcasm)
Great video When my children went through their rebellious decisions I would say to them “you are better than this decision”. That addressed the behavior without wounding the heart.
So much to learn remains for every heart we have not yet attained the goal we can't keep blaming our parents or our children or even our friends we need to look inside ourselves love the spiritual portion I wish I had this information 50 years ago thank you God bless you all
I still haven't watched the video. But when I read the title the question that pop up in my mind was... "How did I use my personal authority in my life." Authority as daughter, sister, wife and mother. This days when we say "authority" we straight away think about outside "authority" and by that we give away OURS without knowing. Today, as well the system is set up to antagonise people. When you are in "rage" you don't have space/time to think and create for yourself and the people that you love and respect. Everything that outside authority wish for. So... don't rage... revenge... by being your best self and protecting yourself and the one that you love.
I haven't watched the whole video yet, but I hope you'll be mentioning PDA and the similarities to ODD. It might look the sama as the conduct disorder too, but isn't same from the inside.
This is a #blueprint for survival issues of trauma...I am a student of the #controlling toxic people who are #unable to accept accountability and responsibility 🙄
The person who hurt me the most is a christian. Using all.sort of verses from the bible to tell me whats "wrong" with me, every single time she trying to cross my boundary.
The authority issue is based on people's experiences with authorities in family, community or state system. The authoritarian system creates tacticts and policy to get rid of vulnerable people and makes their situation worse. That is why in a human history you will find stories about authorities killing, stigmatising people via agendas to gain more power, money from. It is still going on in a hidden way even in the so-called democratic countries. Antisocial behaviour is typical not only for the person ( personality disorder) but also for an authoritarian system, mafia state led or operated by narcissistic leaders, politicians and groups of certain interests creating policies based on inequality, breaking human rights, criminal activities and one way power.
Yes, but they don’t like to talk about THAT part, they just want individuals to submit no matter what. Back in the day they used lobotomies to shut individuals up, *especially* ‘unruly’ (eg so-called ODD) women and individuals from the BIPOC and LGBTQI+ communities, nowadays it’s ‘new’ diagnoses and pharma chemical lobotomies…
Just a comment on forgiveness. It is mainly for the injured person, rather than the perpetrator. By releasing the one who did harm from any desire for revenge, and wishing him well, the injured person frees himself from the toxic burden of vengeance, with all its destructive physical, mental and emotional effects.
However, there is increasing amounts of research that show ‘forgiveness’ as a concept can actually do more harm to the victim than good- letting go is a better way to describe the process, releasing self, SELF forgiveness, but leave the abusers and perpetrators with the results of their actions.
I listened to part two in regards to forgiveness. How do you forgive someone who never asked for forgiveness and, in all probability, you will never see again but you are left so hurt?
The relationship between humans and authority is complex and multifaceted, influenced by various factors such as culture, societal norms, historical context, and individual experiences. Generally, authority refers to the power or influence wielded by individuals, institutions, or systems to command obedience, enforce rules, and make decisions that affect others. Humans' relationship to authority can vary widely depending on their roles, experiences, and perceptions. Some individuals may view authority figures, such as government leaders, law enforcement officers, or religious leaders, as legitimate sources of guidance and protection. They may willingly comply with rules and regulations established by authority figures, perceiving them as necessary for maintaining order and stability in society. On the other hand, others may question or challenge authority, particularly when they perceive it as unjust, oppressive, or illegitimate. This skepticism or resistance to authority can stem from a variety of factors, including past experiences of abuse of power, perceived inequalities, or ideological differences. Overall, the human relationship to authority is dynamic and shaped by a complex interplay of factors, including trust, legitimacy, accountability, and individual autonomy. It reflects the ongoing negotiation between individuals and the institutions or systems that wield power and influence in society.
My brother passed during Covid . He possessed 60.000 books ...no computer. 3 bed trailer on a wind blown cattle prarie ...no insurance . Im the only relarive . The place is not handicap equipped and Im in a chair so others are telling me what they foind . First there was no insurance . Trying to recover the books went to the buyers ....who bought a dumpster and it started raining in february when everybody dies .. they chose about 10% . So half million dollars went on the dumpster. We coukdnt find moms ashes and they werent where i told him she wanted So moms in the dump. And our family fortune is in the dump and a member of the Lodge came along and paid for the funeral and burial . Their was a Covid fund for this and someone stole it before incould repay his old friend .. this was all on mother ... MK Ultra nurse... Masonic Lodge ruled our lives . If i told tou what i know you would jump out a fucking wondow . I know ive given it some thought . Oh and then tjeres the whole God thing... Billy Carson Channel...yeah i had to get delivered from jesus ...and his minions ... Then i discovered who killed Kennedy and the narcissist channels and the alien channels and yours makes.more sense ... Cant donshot for the governor... The President is not on the phone for my advice ... No ones calling for dinner tonite.. and whatever i was trying wasnt working ro well anyone ... So before i bail out tje basement window im going to finish this series and point others tondo tje same .... Or els inwill beat the shit out of them .... Right ?
Gramps was a 32° Rail Lawyer golfed with Ike . My brother and I sat on the arm chair when he announced I would be Jack and he would be Bobby...Or vice versa ...gee gramps me...president ? His cigar came out and he pointed it right at me .... If you play ball... A few hours later that white boy was dead
I see my interpretation of this video as applying, in large swathes, to the relations between 'people' and 'government'. (Please keep in mind that 'government' is really just people... don't get it twisted.)
dude it happens in my body like adrenaline is released and i have no choice i either fight or get out and so i get out its the safest thing for everyone-lonely life but i am not in jail so could be a whole lot worse.
Ahhh, but you see, once they decide it’s a *disorder* they can now demonise the individual, force them into taking ‘prescriptions’ to enforce certain behaviour ‘modifications’ and abusive, controlling parents can also do a lot more to their offspring because they have the *sanctions* of a ‘professional’ diagnosis. Read into the history of ‘psychiatry’ and research how many bogus ‘diagnoses’ the industry has spawned in the past- they even created a diagnosis for slaves that *wanted their freedom*…. Wonderful tool for societal control.
THIS WHOLE CHANNEL SHOULD BE IN HIGH SCHOOLS AND COLLEGES...GOD SEND ....
Good behavior ❤gets better results, it takes discipline & training ❤
No it doesn’t bro what the heck are you saying? Lack of trauma naturally creates healthy habits because we believe we deserve to feel loved so we treat ourselves with respect if we do not feel like it’s healthy then we do not do it so no need to force ourselves to
Sorry it just bothers me there is no such thing as good or bad behaviour . This is the stuff that causes complex trauma. We desire to do things we desire to do as a way to communicate with us if it aligns or not with us. There is no need to force ourselves to do anything which we do not feel the desire to do because it does not align with us at this time so yeah it irritates me to see how this mentality exists how I see it with trauma or complex trauma it hurts it really really really hurts to see it really does cheers all the best here Cheers
exactly！
@@georgiakritikos4955 what a croc of rubbish- you mean *enforced compliance to incessant cultural demands* , yes? The fact that ‘compliant’ individuals are now struggling to feed and home their families because *corporations* are making it impossible to survive on below poverty wages… the sheer level of delusion in some of the comments on these pages.
What's amazing is that we've finally found someone who's thought about this more than ourselves and connects the dots.
I should probably be paying you for therapy. Your videos have been more helpful to me than any therapist, psychiatrist, aprn or self help guru has ever been in the past 30 years. Thank you!
You can definitely donate to him. He uses donations to reach and teach more people.
30 years??? Bro!!!
It is natural to rebel against authority that does not have your welfare in mind.
It’s natural law, self preservation. ODD is when this instinct to protect the self has gone into overdrive and become dysfunctional and ends up hurting the self! I was on my way to ODD, but I am now starting to find healthy people to connect to and ditching the ones with patterns of abuse.
Spill the beans on shut the mouthe❤❤❤1st Amendment, very American, a PENAL SYSTEM IS F0R CORRECTION
Thank God in America, 18_21❤your an Adult, GIVES ROOM TO HELP OUR CITIZEN'S WITH CORRECTION TO BE BETTER ADULTS ❤DON'T LET THAT CHANGE, help the children
@@georgiakritikos4955 recidivsm is real. some people are broken, and can't be fixed.
Amen!!!!!
Every time I see your thumbnails I’m like that’s exactly one of the things I’m dealing with. This guy is reading my mind
Oh man...perfect example-- One of my dad's go-to phrases-- "Do as I say not as I do" 😒 .. and then when I was hit/ "spanked"...it just made me lose all respect for them...They thought I had a problen with authority as a kid...were shocked when i joined the military...10yrs of honorable service...but...I was VERY angry for a long time...gave that up a few years ago...but now suffer with other issues and relationship issues...that's why I'm here!! ❤
We got this
Think about taking the Lift Program with Tim…so healing ❤️🩹
Oh yes, heard that phrase-“Do, as I say, not as I do”-many times from my controlling mother, who studied early childhood education in college. She smoked heavily in the presence of her children, but freaked out when she discovered me smoking; I was summarily dragged into the presence of my father while SHE administered the requisite shaming, ridicule and punishment.
@deborahmartin5410 I have def thought about it, no doubt it could help.. but I'm not in CA... but I did go to a program in the states
Thank you Tim. Never...ever in my entire life have I learnt about ODD. Never. And I have been in therapy most of my life. I am 51. What I am trying to say is that this information you provide is GOLD
It could save lifes of millions of people. I wish all of your videos were translated in Spanish. There are many narcisostic trais within latino families. I have mentioned it before but I insist ALL your videos should be translated into spanish. I offer to help. I am bilingual. Thanks again. Thanks you saved my life!!!
These videos have helped me more than 2 decades of on and off therapy have. Thanks much!
me too😊
Tim is just the BEST, isnt he?
That’s so weird. It’s almost as though the authorities who were instated to protect us from horrible parents abused their power and allowed our parents to abuse their power and our bosses to abuse their power so now we’re being coached not to abuse ours when actually no one else is going to stop abusing theirs.
You're being dishonest with yourself. You know that most people don't abuse their power, and those that do are going through their own trauma. You're trying to gaslight yourself so you have an excuse as to why everything is going wrong.
@@Socrates526 what? I know no such thing. Men routinely abuse their patriarchal power.
Honestly... I dont think your learning anything from this video.
Your ODD is triggering.
@@Socrates526 'You' statements, back to back to back. I see the intention, but it's only going to get the original guy's defenses up.
@AncientIntegrations, it's a valid point you make. But may I point out your use of "we're being coached."
Society is one generation away from a total makeover based on what one generation believes to be true. It's possible our generation will be the cycle breakers, especially if it's widespread enough to use words like "we" instead of "I'm."
On the flip side, if you're convinced that it's impossible to break the cycle in yourself because of what everyone else is doing, all personal agency within you will die and be replaced by blame shifting and bitterness.
15:37 "look at the sky, look how blue it is"
"what do you want from me you passive-aggressive weasel"
Now I understand why I have had such a problem with authority figures, especially when they meted out unjust criticism or discipline. May the Lord bless you abundantly, Tim Fletcher, for generously sharing your gifts and skills for the betterment of your damaged, hurting brothers and sisters.
Listening 3 years after original posting...
The waves of emotions as I recognize my self in these videos ... 😔 ... understanding of how I came to "this place", recognizing family dynamics, history, and how it all came together... and why I'm 'different why I'm perceived the way I am.
I don't want to feel more shame - but I do; I feel a sense of sadness, loss.
No worries - I will "be okay" ... I've healed enough and am strong enough, it's just a lot.
Bittersweet... I'm grateful you've shared, and grateful I found the series. 🙏🕊✌️
Resisting the over control...to become an over controller. Addictions, brain health issues, and physically I got away. Emotionally, I'm a wreck. Still no contact. I had no idea about any of this. Thank you for this🕊️
I am sobbing right now. I was diagnosed with ODD as a kid and my mother always threw that in my face and I had no idea what it meant. Thank you so much for this video. This is me to a T. These are the missing pieces to my puzzles.
Your mother was covering her tracks (of her responsibility for your disorder) by repeatedly bringing it to your attention and blaming you. My elderly borderline narc mother still never tires of trash-talking my father (from whom she has been divorced for 40 years), in order to divert attention from the consequences of her poor parenting, and the bad temper and controlling nature that should have disqualified her from marriage.
I wish I had found Fletcher years ago. What a gift! 🙏🏻
We found him though...
🕊✌️
This content is a life saver on a massive scale. All blessings are to you and those who contribute to the work you do 🙏
Oh how I owe a world of gratitude to Tim Fletcher. ❤🙏🏼
Tim is an amazing teacher, therapist, person and Christian. I'm so glad to have found your videos, thank you for sharing.
Anxiety, Fear they feel acts as learnt protection, survival and no safety. Anger is the underlying emotion. They don't know safety, love etc..
I identify with all the authority issues, hurting ppl by verbally, not able to keep my relations and everything but I am not a bully. Actually I am very scared n timid kinda person, I don’t want to be picked or talked about.
I have always isolated myself .
Find a community of like minded people ,I started volunteering where there is no authority and be kind to yourself, get out in nature too. I hope things change for the best!
Wow! You are SO understandable. It's a gift. You explain these concepts in a way that is immediately 'learnable'. Thank you so much! Glad I found your site. God bless. 😇
Thank you so much, Tim
Wow, thank u sooo much for helping me understand my exes ODD and why he is dissmissive avoidant/emotionally unavailable. I can now forgive him because his parents were toxic. I can only pray to Jesus that he will figure this out on his own so he can have peace and love someday and not seek drugs and himself as his higher. power.
My life..I’m crying here
Where was Tim when I was 15.I could have had a very different life with this knowledge. I have had years of therapy labeled Bipolar and Borderline and Abondemnet disorder and therapists never told me any of these things and or helpful ways to treat it.. But the drugs they gave me were great. (sarcasm)
Wooooow, I, m blown away but this is so powerful!
Great video
When my children went through their rebellious decisions I would say to them “you are better than this decision”. That addressed the behavior without wounding the heart.
I'm sorry but that's a sharp arrowhead dipped in shame straight through the heart, carelessly shot off.
13:24 Hello. Being honest has almost never served me well.
Thank you, thank you, thank you
Thanks very much Tim. God bless you and your family.
So much to learn remains for every heart we have not yet attained the goal we can't keep blaming our parents or our children or even our friends we need to look inside ourselves love the spiritual portion I wish I had this information 50 years ago thank you God bless you all
32:20 - Types of Authority. We chose authorities as well. Choose wisdom.
Literally felt rage just reading the title if that answers your question.
I still haven't watched the video.
But when I read the title the question that pop up in my mind was... "How did I use my personal authority in my life."
Authority as daughter, sister, wife and mother.
This days when we say "authority" we straight away think about outside "authority" and by that we give away OURS without knowing.
Today, as well the system is set up to antagonise people.
When you are in "rage" you don't have space/time to think and create for yourself and the people that you love and respect. Everything that outside authority wish for.
So... don't rage... revenge... by being your best self and protecting yourself and the one that you love.
I haven't watched the whole video yet, but I hope you'll be mentioning PDA and the similarities to ODD. It might look the sama as the conduct disorder too, but isn't same from the inside.
This is a #blueprint for survival issues of trauma...I am a student of the #controlling toxic people who are #unable to accept accountability and responsibility 🙄
thankful for you
thank you very much for sharing
The person who hurt me the most is a christian. Using all.sort of verses from the bible to tell me whats "wrong" with me, every single time she trying to cross my boundary.
This was wonderful
The authority issue is based on people's experiences with authorities in family, community or state system. The authoritarian system creates tacticts and policy to get rid of vulnerable people and makes their situation worse. That is why in a human history you will find stories about authorities killing, stigmatising people via agendas to gain more power, money from. It is still going on in a hidden way even in the so-called democratic countries. Antisocial behaviour is typical not only for the person ( personality disorder) but also for an authoritarian system, mafia state led or operated by narcissistic leaders, politicians and groups of certain interests creating policies based on inequality, breaking human rights, criminal activities and one way power.
Yes, but they don’t like to talk about THAT part, they just want individuals to submit no matter what. Back in the day they used lobotomies to shut individuals up, *especially* ‘unruly’ (eg so-called ODD) women and individuals from the BIPOC and LGBTQI+ communities, nowadays it’s ‘new’ diagnoses and pharma chemical lobotomies…
If they're the only ones being honest, then why are THEY the ones labeled with a "disorder"???
Funny how that works, isn’t it- you’d almost think the diagnosis was there to protect the PERPETRATORS rather than the victim 🙄
@@Ninsidhe funny how that works. Rebellion is necessary when injustice is present. 🙏
Can not having boundaries or one parent enforcing the boundaries and the other one not enforcing them lead to ODD too?
Thank you so very much!😊
29:45 - Healthy Authority.
Just a comment on forgiveness. It is mainly for the injured person, rather than the perpetrator. By releasing the one who did harm from any desire for revenge, and wishing him well, the injured person frees himself from the toxic burden of vengeance, with all its destructive physical, mental and emotional effects.
The movie... Nothing gold can stay... show exactly this dynamic of emotions over 30 years of different actions and decisions making.
However, there is increasing amounts of research that show ‘forgiveness’ as a concept can actually do more harm to the victim than good- letting go is a better way to describe the process, releasing self, SELF forgiveness, but leave the abusers and perpetrators with the results of their actions.
45:00 - Forgiveness.
Excellent thank you
I listened to part two in regards to forgiveness. How do you forgive someone who never asked for forgiveness and, in all probability, you will never see again but you are left so hurt?
Thank you so much 🙏🏻
Thank you ❤
Thank you Jesus
Damn I wish my dad can watch this. He really fucked me up. Thanks for this information.
Wow! Thank you!!! :)
One out of our five children is ODD. Why would that be? My fear was if a family member SA her as a toddler 😢
You are as interesting as Jordan Peterson.Your big fan from Russia.
The relationship between humans and authority is complex and multifaceted, influenced by various factors such as culture, societal norms, historical context, and individual experiences. Generally, authority refers to the power or influence wielded by individuals, institutions, or systems to command obedience, enforce rules, and make decisions that affect others.
Humans' relationship to authority can vary widely depending on their roles, experiences, and perceptions. Some individuals may view authority figures, such as government leaders, law enforcement officers, or religious leaders, as legitimate sources of guidance and protection. They may willingly comply with rules and regulations established by authority figures, perceiving them as necessary for maintaining order and stability in society.
On the other hand, others may question or challenge authority, particularly when they perceive it as unjust, oppressive, or illegitimate. This skepticism or resistance to authority can stem from a variety of factors, including past experiences of abuse of power, perceived inequalities, or ideological differences.
Overall, the human relationship to authority is dynamic and shaped by a complex interplay of factors, including trust, legitimacy, accountability, and individual autonomy. It reflects the ongoing negotiation between individuals and the institutions or systems that wield power and influence in society.
My brother passed during Covid . He possessed 60.000 books ...no computer. 3 bed trailer on a wind blown cattle prarie ...no insurance . Im the only relarive . The place is not handicap equipped and Im in a chair so others are telling me what they foind . First there was no insurance . Trying to recover the books went to the buyers ....who bought a dumpster and it started raining in february when everybody dies .. they chose about 10% . So half million dollars went on the dumpster. We coukdnt find moms ashes and they werent where i told him she wanted So moms in the dump. And our family fortune is in the dump and a member of the Lodge came along and paid for the funeral and burial . Their was a Covid fund for this and someone stole it before incould repay his old friend .. this was all on mother ... MK Ultra nurse... Masonic Lodge ruled our lives . If i told tou what i know you would jump out a fucking wondow . I know ive given it some thought . Oh and then tjeres the whole God thing... Billy Carson Channel...yeah i had to get delivered from jesus ...and his minions ... Then i discovered who killed Kennedy and the narcissist channels and the alien channels and yours makes.more sense ... Cant donshot for the governor... The President is not on the phone for my advice ... No ones calling for dinner tonite.. and whatever i was trying wasnt working ro well anyone ... So before i bail out tje basement window im going to finish this series and point others tondo tje same .... Or els inwill beat the shit out of them .... Right ?
What tools would you suggest for teachers who have students with ODD or students who are defiant?
Inmho, one should always distrust authority that one can not hold accountable. There have to be checks and balances. Otherwise, it simply is tyranny.
Gramps was a 32° Rail Lawyer golfed with Ike . My brother and I sat on the arm chair when he announced I would be Jack and he would be Bobby...Or vice versa ...gee gramps me...president ? His cigar came out and he pointed it right at me .... If you play ball... A few hours later that white boy was dead
You can see this playing out on the world stage now with citizens' relationship with governments.
man i've got EVERY SINGLE ONE of these 😂
I used to be OK with it up until about 10 - 15 years ago, when the supposed authorities became uneducated children.
I really like your videos but you really need to keep those slides up longer.
I dont believe any other adult has any authority over me so my relationship with any external authority is non existent
Let's see. Stop paying your taxes.
Omgg....this is y i had problems at work with my manager ...first time ever realising this ....cos i dont trust authority 😅😅
I have a daughter like this. I also think that she had a tendency to rebellion from the time she was a toddler.
Tim seemed to point out that defiant children react to factors in their environment, specifically the behaviors and attitudes of their parents?
So what was it about *you* that she was trying to push against? What did you learn from the mirror she was showing you?
I see my interpretation of this video as applying, in large swathes, to the relations between 'people' and 'government'. (Please keep in mind that 'government' is really just people... don't get it twisted.)
dude it happens in my body like adrenaline is released and i have no choice i either fight or get out and so i get out its the safest thing for everyone-lonely life but i am not in jail so could be a whole lot worse.
Have you found any peace?
Not really 😞
@@noturbo I'm sorry to hear that stranger. I am rooting for you, and I do care about you.
@@BH-qs7vo Thanks thats so kool
Imagine being around a controller who doesn’t acknowledge my disability.
Could you clarify please, do you not object to discipline that causes physical pain?
That's punishment
Om God 🙏🏻 thanks for this valuable information 🤍🤍. In Spanish please
31:58 Romania in a nutshell
No kidding. Trist.
Right denial
Stamping and anger yes!
Strict parents create sneaky kids.
Why would any one think they can do anything by them self
You need a team to throw questions to so that u can have a better understanding
ROMANS 13:1❤❤❤RESPECT & LOVE
this seem to be the root of criminal behavior
Law and bool and sign
I dont aee it
Healthy without my city.
Show me one child or adolescent who didnt rebel against authority....You invent fake sindroms
Its just a symptom
Oppositional defiance disorder.
Ahhh, but you see, once they decide it’s a *disorder* they can now demonise the individual, force them into taking ‘prescriptions’ to enforce certain behaviour ‘modifications’ and abusive, controlling parents can also do a lot more to their offspring because they have the *sanctions* of a ‘professional’ diagnosis. Read into the history of ‘psychiatry’ and research how many bogus ‘diagnoses’ the industry has spawned in the past- they even created a diagnosis for slaves that *wanted their freedom*…. Wonderful tool for societal control.
Complete BS.
I’m anti authority
huh... Antifa and anarchist falls into these catagory
ODD is fake
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You have no idea how much I wish I saw your viseo earlier in my life. Maybe I wouldn't hate myself so much now. 🥲
Thank you Tim ❤️🩹❤️🩹