A women disobedient to her Husband, Question and Answer, Assim Al Hakeem

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  • Опубликовано: 5 фев 2025
  • A women disobedient to her Husband, Question and Answer, Assim Al Hakeem
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  • @shyro1316
    @shyro1316 3 года назад +5

    Subhanallah, may Allah guide us to be a righteous spouses, ameen.

  • @Bananas-Burgees
    @Bananas-Burgees 8 месяцев назад +4

    ALL OF YOU , the disobedience is only meant for the things that are permissible and halal!!!! NOT IN HARAM THINGS!!! If he wants you to do Haram things then there is no obedience towards him in those matters. The Obedience towards Allah swt and our Prophet Muhammad Sallahu aleihy Wa Salam is the biggest and the most important one.

  • @mfaizandar
    @mfaizandar 6 месяцев назад

    A- what if its difficult for man to sleep separately
    B- what if he doesn't even hit just pretend to hit and she gets angry instead of learning lesson and you have to say sorry again

  • @aishahshaikh8463
    @aishahshaikh8463 2 года назад +5

    He has oppressed me for the longest time n I wl not let him harm me n my kids anymore.

    • @Catisananimal
      @Catisananimal Год назад +3

      Yes!! Stand up for urself. You are a human being.

    • @misterbk1791
      @misterbk1791 Год назад +7

      @@Catisananimalstop giving rulings when you aren’t a scholar.

    • @Catisananimal
      @Catisananimal Год назад

      @@misterbk1791 Shame on urself. I am not saying her to revenge him but if he oppresses her, abuses her then she has the god given right to speak for herself. Men like u have ruined our society by telling women to shut up when they can speak up.

    • @MINTRADEINVEST
      @MINTRADEINVEST Год назад +1

      leave islam, islam gave no equal rights, islam doesn't respect feminism.

    • @Chibalikeshibas
      @Chibalikeshibas 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@misterbk1791 it doesn't take to be a scholar to have basic human morals. She mentionned she was being oppressed. Which is obviously Haram on the behalf of the husband. She should leave! Her life IS in danger

  • @aqsarafi7453
    @aqsarafi7453 2 года назад +1

    Is it compulsory for an old lady who is menopausal ill or depressed to fulfill her husband's desires ? Plz guide

    • @rykson161
      @rykson161 Год назад +5

      Yes she should! If she can not she needs to bring another woman to the bed to fulfill her husband’s needs

    • @amaanansari2130
      @amaanansari2130 Год назад +2

      @@rykson161wheres the source of this

    • @sandhikneaj7029
      @sandhikneaj7029 Год назад +5

      She should try her level best to fullfil her husband desires and the husband should also understand her situation. But still if the husband still feels strong sexual desires he should marry another woman who can fullfil her obligations towards him. He should meanwhile stay away from Haraam.

    • @kjy05
      @kjy05 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@amaanansari2130exactly especially the 2nd part

  • @aishahshaikh8463
    @aishahshaikh8463 2 года назад +5

    Is standing for my rights disobedience? Is not responding to arogent husband who looks down upon me not being a good father to my kids disobedience?

    • @stealthassulter
      @stealthassulter Год назад

      Are you good with him or you have a bitch face that makes him behave this way.

    • @Orca____
      @Orca____ 9 месяцев назад

      No it doesn’t mean that. Obedience in what is permissible. A husband cant use that ayah to dictate his wife around like he wants to

    • @deltaechomusicnh555
      @deltaechomusicnh555 Месяц назад

      What rights are you talking about? Give context?

  • @aishahshaikh8463
    @aishahshaikh8463 2 года назад +2

    I need an answer pls...u don't want to b responsible for some thing which wl spoil me n my kids lives

    • @Chibalikeshibas
      @Chibalikeshibas 6 месяцев назад

      If your mental health or just health is in danger then leave him!!! Nothing wrong with that. And do not fear for what Comes next once you leave him,allah will plan things smoothly for you ان شاء الله

  • @aishahshaikh8463
    @aishahshaikh8463 2 года назад

    Is that all written in Quran about disobedience ...husband is not responsible for his wrong doings ?

    • @maddybbboy
      @maddybbboy 2 года назад +4

      Why would you say about Quran like this? Calm down sister. Your husband may be wrong also and you can be wrong aswell, no one knows your particular situation so calm down a little bit.
      This topic here is for disobedient wives. If you are not, then this video is not talking about you.
      IF your husband is misusing this video then Allah is seeing this and any mis treatement from him will be addressed by Allah. HAve trust in Allah and calm down.

    • @gerrand90
      @gerrand90 2 года назад

      @@maddybbboy the Religion is so fucked up, i left it last week inshallaha. Muhammed was a Pädophile.and.warlod. enslaved and killed a whole tribe of jews this morron💩

    • @bilqissheik5962
      @bilqissheik5962 Год назад +1

      I don't understand you reply sister. If a man uses his position to mistreat a women then how do u justify disobedience. What the sister is merely asking is give a chapter or verse that speaks of disobedience and how to deal with oppression. How can a women obey a man who does not honour his wife

    • @sobiya825
      @sobiya825 Год назад +3

      ​@@maddybbboy I wanna ask a question if a woman do cheat or anything wrong Allah made law that man can punish but if a men do usually men cheat more than female why didn't Allah give any punishment to give him by women...I m just curious sorry my English is not that much good hope u can understand what am saying

    • @stealthassulter
      @stealthassulter Год назад

      You have any what your duty is as a female? Or you wanna play the victim card even after being a disobedient clown to her husband?

  • @aishahshaikh8463
    @aishahshaikh8463 2 года назад

    Over here wat kind of disobedience r we talking about?

    • @aishahshaikh8463
      @aishahshaikh8463 2 года назад +1

      Is standing for my rights disobedience? Is not responding to arogent husband who looks down upon u disobedience?

    • @gerrand90
      @gerrand90 2 года назад

      @@aishahshaikh8463 yes exactly... inshallaha..in court you as woman count only half compared to your husband. What a beautiful fucked up religion 🙈💩

    • @Catisananimal
      @Catisananimal Год назад +2

      ​@@aishahshaikh8463 This is talking about rebelliousness. The word used in the Quran is rebellious. It means if she is constantly yelling, slamming doors and just doing whatever she wants etc. But this only works if the husband is giving rights to the wife. He has to fully provide for u and his children. He has to give u a separate accommodation (apart from joint family) if u want and he has to treat u with kindness. After all these things then, he has the right to stop his wife if she is rebellious. You have the full right to demand ur rights from him and if he doesn't listen then, tell him that u will file a divorce. If he still doesn't listen then, go to the court and take divorce. A wife is not a slave to her husband. If u need any other help then,u can ask.

  • @aishahshaikh8463
    @aishahshaikh8463 2 года назад +2

    He can do prohibited things n I m blamed for being disobedient

    • @jackryder6732
      @jackryder6732 Год назад +3

      No, he can't do that. Buy a book and give it to him. It's called the rights of husband over wife and vise versa.
      We need to fear Allah.
      Also, make sure there is no black magic or jinns interter fearing

  • @aishahshaikh8463
    @aishahshaikh8463 2 года назад +1

    My husband is using ur video to give me a divorce...is it right?

    • @Catisananimal
      @Catisananimal Год назад +1

      No, it is not right. Can u further explain the situation.

    • @sandhikneaj7029
      @sandhikneaj7029 Год назад +2

      What has your husband done? Explain from your side as well. Is he a practicing Muslim? Is he providing for you accommodation and putting food on the table? Is he staying away from Haraam things? If yes and then if he finds you disobedient then yes he has the right to divorce you. If he is not a practicing Muslim and if you are not a practicing Muslim either then you two need a couple therapy from Sheikh Assim Al Hakeem.

    • @Catisananimal
      @Catisananimal Год назад

      @@sandhikneaj7029 he can't directly divorce her for being disobedient first he has to try to resolve the situation and he has to make sure he was a respectful man from his side. And he has to make sure it is rebelliousness not like I won't do this cuz of this and just u r divorced now.

    • @kjy05
      @kjy05 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@sandhikneaj7029exactly

    • @MNoorMirza
      @MNoorMirza 8 месяцев назад

      Pls , consult a scholar

  • @rykson161
    @rykson161 Год назад +1

    What if she has another man ? Hahahahaha