90 Day Fiancè: Emily's ICY Reaction to Kobe Wanting to Move to Africa (Exclusive)
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- Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024
- In ET's exclusive sneak peek at '90 Day Fiancè: Happily Ever After?,' Emily has an icy reaction to Kobe suggesting they move to Africa. '90 Day Fiancè: Happily Ever After?' airs Sundays at 8 p.m. ET/PT on TLC.
He has a right to be close to his family too! She runs everything with her family and sometimes it doesn’t seem fair to Kobe and his family!
Maybe that's one thing his friend was referring to
Those are conversations to be had before marriage. They’ve haven’t even set roots for the family in the US yet. One thing at a time Kobe!
Maybe so…but he chose to marry an American and come to America. 🤷♂️ A little too late for him to want to be back in his own country.🤷♂️
@@carolhenny2790Exactly!
@@stellag4301does it mean if one marries an American, one cannot go back to one's country?
He's right it easier for kids to get used things when they are little and not in school...
Too young to remember it
@@maggicurry-williams8440i seem to go back to the things I experienced when I was really young. Even without the clear memory of it, everything still comes out. It’s like you just get wired at that age
@@maggicurry-williams8440Absolutely what I am thinking. I am with Emily here, the kids are far too young to remember stuff like that.
Yeah it is easy for kids to adapt to things when they are little and not in school but when they come back to America after 2yrs and begin school they will hardly remember anything abt living in another country.
@@topeo4710 You are right especially when they are not school age
everyone saying she should just give in and move over there would def not do it themselves 🤣
Then again she should’ve married an American 😂
Idk in a marriage, you should both compromise
I would!
And he should have married a woman from his own country…works both ways.
and why not?
She like living with her parents for free, having her and her mom control everything!!
Hes trying to make it about the kids it's really about him wanting to stay there 💯😂😂😂
Of course! He has all his childhood friends there as well as his ex-lovers. Local "foods" are juicy and good.
Kobe knew he couldn't win this battle, and couldn't convince her he just gave up 🤣
Sadly , he will never be heard or seen by Emily and her mom and dad ( she’s going to mooch off them forever ) ! 🙄
That was a sneaky move by Kobe! I'm glad that Emily said NO!!!!!
@@pierrojules not entirely sneaky he has a right to live in his home country with his family and friends. He clearly loves and misses home
@@keigreencap9192
Of course, he has the right to live in his home country with his family. But, he MUST talk about it with his wife and convince her. What we saw in this episode is Kobe, out of the blue, telling Emily that they should stay in South-West Cameroon for at least two years to allow their kids to learn about the culture. ... That was sneaky! Otherwise, he would have talked about that to her well before they went to Cameroon. ... Usually, such a change required serious discussions and planning. Kobe has no plan in that regard. It seems like he is improvising as he goes.
"He misses home"! So what? He is a grown-up with a family here in the US to take care of. He could go back "home" on vacation from time to time because a round trip from Kansas to Cameroon is expensive.
I don’t wrong These kids really not gonna remember living there for two years.
WTH I DONT WRONG?
@janehyden1652 😂
Your very wrong on this
She'll never go .. she loves how its 3 against kobe in america ..
Would you go? Do you know anyone who did?
She is absolutely right to stick to her decision. Otherwise, she would find herself alone in 3 to 5 years😊😊. Clearly, Kobe still loves eating that juicy local food.
I like how understanding and gentle he is , give him the 2 years!!!
Come on, nothing he says makes any sense. He can be as sweet as cake, but what he wants is unreasonable.
1 - Have you ever moved to another country? There is a lot of paperwork and visas/permits involved. That can take YEARS to approve before they can move there legally.... to stay there only 2 years? Not worth it for me.
2 - What Emily says is true, the kids are too young and they might not remember ANYTHING. If you are lucky maybe they will remember 1 or 2 days out of those 2 years at that age.
3 - I do not know what they do for a living, but leaving a job and trying to "get it back" after 2 years is not easy. Also, maybe it will take them a year to find a job in their new country. Moving is a huge career risk for the majority of people.
4 - Kobe mentions that it makes financial sense. I am sorry, but it doesn't. How building a house where you are going to live for 2 years that later you are not going to use at all will work out to a better financial position? What are they going to do with all their stuff once they leave USA? (Will they repurchase everything back once they return?). Moving to a new country with a family, unless is for a long term, is never financially smart.
5 - Moving kids is HARD. Besides the legal paperwork and the schools (which are a headache), placing them in a new environment with different people and friends can be detrimental to their development. You don't make those decisions on a whim.
I am sorry, but Kobe doesn't give any better reason to live in Africa besides "I want to" and "it will be an 'experience' for the kids." It's a nice thought, a nice desire, and a really cute vision, but it is so unrealistic with respect to their current life.
I'm not too fond of how Emily communicates with Kobe, but I am on her side on this one.
Kobe will only need less than one year to get several local lovers and abandon Emily. I've seen it in the past. Kobe clearly loves local food.
How is her white self going to be safe, she’ll be stuck in the house having babies.He wants to live A single life while married with his friends. They aren’t married.
@@pierrojules, right! He’s a player, opportunist!
@@pierrojules You sound like a damn fool or one of those jilted lovers you keep talking about.
I think Emily made a good point! If koby actually wants to move temporarily! to Cameroon for the childrens benefit it would make more sense to make a move like that when the children are a little bit older 6 or 7 years of age like Emily said makes more sense, personally I think koby doesn't want to leave Cameroon because it feels good being back home & hes using the children needing to learn about their culture by living in their culture as a good excuse to get Emily to approve of his idea.
See, and this is why it’s so hard to date an American. What he says makes sense. Save cash, the kids small can be with their dads family for the first 2-3 years. And stop it, when they turn 5 they’re coming back to America to get the better education. And when that happens, the chances of those kids seeing their family in Cameroon will be a handle full of times in their life. It’s the “American Way” to just ignore your partners culture. This proves it right here with this clip.
She will never leave her mommy and daddy’s basement! I really feel bad for Kobe !
He should have married a woman of his own culture and race
No when he is older it will be more difficult what children are exposed to the first 5 years of life shape them forever after 5 not as much
@@Vannigranni Thank you! Even the children having pictures when they’re babies with their grandparents will shape them forever. When they grow up and look back at it, that will stay with them even if they don’t remember that moment.
Lol Kobe is funny. What was he expecting 😂?
This one’s tough, both points are valid. I can’t side with either one, they may have to compromise on the timing.
She doesn’t realize how blessed she is. I’m African American, it would be a blessing to have a house in his home country as well.
You are fantasizing! The reality is different.
She feels "blessed" enough living in America, she not trying to live around that many niccas! 😂
It would be nice if he had a house in his Country that the family could stay while they are there. Maybe he should build one and when it’s finished the family can spend some time there.
Yes he wants to live in his country that’s fair thing to ask and it wouldn’t be permanent
It’s a perfect idea, he can provide for his family and be an example to his children and family in Cameroon.
Shes not going anywhere she cant control everything over there! She feels comfort with her parents bc she can do nd say and be however wants and have her parents back her he doesnt feel like a man in control and he misses the love his family loves him and has his best interest at heart
Exactly!!!!🎯
"... she cant control everything over there ..."
If Kobe is weak, he will be controlled by Emily. Why does he need to be in Cameroon to escape from "control"? Moreover, why are they staying in the house of Emily's parents and raising their children there? WTH!!!
@@pierrojulesYou're a Hypocrite!
I think a good compromise is to move there for a bit once the kids are a few years older.
Them kids are not gonna fit in at all if they stay in America a few years more
Of course, they have a great life in America, still living in her parents' home. I think they can compromise. Once the kids start school, no way she is taking them out to move to his country. Marriage is about compromises. IMO, while they are little is best, and then they can come back once they become school ago and spend the summers in his country. The kids get the best of both worlds. One of my best friends married a Nigerian. They made it work, and now their kids speak and write in three different languages and also know their dads extended family. They spend the summers in his country.
Emily wants her kids to learn the language but doesn’t want them to live in Cameroon typical 🙄🙄
Don't blame her 😮
I can see where she’s coming from but this is what her life is now. Beautiful as a diverse relationship is, it comes with challenges also, like the idea of living in Cameroon
@@user-en1zc5vd6y yes I understand both sides but marriage is compromise hopefully they work it out good for their family
@@rosalynbethea6421 because you see it only from her perspective so hush 🙄🙄
And by the way he didn’t say permanent so please people chill out
Start with moving within the US away from the maternal grandparents. Find a city with plenty of Cameroonian and other African expats 50/50 deal. What Kobe wanted in the beginning.
This is similar to Loren and Alexei wanting to move to Israel.
She obviously wants to have the new baby with her own doctor and her mom around. When the youngest is 3 or so it would make more sense.
i think they should build a house in cameroon and keep going for vacations every now and then. the kids are young certainly they wont remember anything now. vacationing in cameroon will help kobe get time with family too.
But then Emily knows she can’t control Kobe and everything in Cameroon, his family and friends wouldn’t allow it … she CAN and has controlled him and everything since he arrived in the US and live in the basement of her parents home ! It’s ridiculous!!! Get off you butt Emily and move out … 3 kids and still in the basement and your mom and dad do everything for you ! She’s insufferable, so spoiled , poor poor Kobe … he will never get his way ever .
@@pattykochenower4222
If they moved to Cameroon, their relationship would be over in less than 5 years from the time they moved there and Emily would find herself alone, Kobe is not a deadbeat dad (he would take the kids with him). Kobe would seriously cheat on her with several of those juicy local women.
Emily would be a fool to give in to Kobe's sneaky suggestion. I witnessed how such relationships ended.
A year or two???? Not bad AT ALL. It's doable but boss Emily would never agree to that
I think he wants to move so he can have his own home and not live under the father in laws house. I remember earlier they said for Kobe to live under the father in law was not respected.
He just wants to build a house here in Cameron ..He know Emily will never move to Cameron .
I agree with him.
America is not what it's cut up to be. No life work balance. You have make your own.
I agree with both of them being that I am Nigerian. However, she’s right they’re not going to remember anything at the ages that they are. A year indeed can change everything and the memories that I do have are from when I was 7. They can agree and regroup on this topic.
I can see both sides
This is a discussion they should have had before getting married.
He's sooo sweet heart,
Summers in Cameroon.
Yeah, for now until they're the age Emily suggested. Then relocate until they are in their teens. Move back to America as late teens/young adults. They will become grounded adults.
Traveling there is expensive. That money could be saved over time for them to buy a house in Kansas and get out of Emily's parents' house.
I believe that Kibe is right. He will ultimately want to live there full time.
OMG HIS NAME IS KOBE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@@janehyden1652honestly it probably was a type error , no big deal , we understand the comment, we all do it , and sometimes our phone or other devices will change letter and word ,,,It’s Ok 😃
Not icy, just reasonable. And Kobe has the right idea too, it's just a timing issue. They should revisit this in ~5 years.
Check out the security situation in Cameroon. It is NOT safe place to live. Visit is one thing. Living full time there is quite another.
🤔
Like America is so safe 🙄.
America is more dangerous my friend. Have you even been there ? Americans, always clueless but so loud,
@@TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548 africa is so dangerous that most of the things that happen to people over there we can t even write it on youtube. Please just google "cameroon" and "safety" to make yourself an idea.
Not for anything they have the economy of middle age europe..
Cameroon isnt safe??? How then Emily found him safe and sound
I have to take Emily's side here. She is not saying no to Kobe. She is just saying to go when the kids will remember. That's a very valid point because I moved from my home country when I was 2 years old and my memory of my native culture is very weak compared to my older sister who moved at 9 years old. When kids are around 6 - 8 years old, they appreciate and remember things more. The trip would be way more impactful for them when they are more cognitively aware of their experiences especially when there is change in their normal routine, it's more exciting at that time.
Awww I think that's kind of cute! Do it before the kids have to start school!!!❤❤
Everything that happens until the age of 7 makes a big impact on a child. We think they don’t remember but research says otherwise.
I'd honestly love to see a spin off show with these two living in cameroon. Would be way better than "the family chantel" 😅
Yup! Living in Cameroon, where Emily will find herself alone, barely 2 years after moving there, because Kobe had repeatedly cheated on her with several of those juicy locals😊😊.
I'm so sick of people always attacking Emily. She has been more supportive than anyone else on this show of learning someone's culture, her and her family. He's an idiot. If you want your kids to grow app and live there to marry someone from there, obviously, no one in America is going to go want to live in that country. That's just a fact it's going to be hard on her. The kids are really little. She's right. They're not going to remember. Go marry someone from your country easy solution
😂😂
She's annoying but she's a good wife to him and a good mom. The bashing is getting old. He loves his annoying ass wife
Exactly… Agreed 💯 💯
Wow dude
She’s a good wife and mother. No matter what she does, haters will be haters. Emily has valid concerns.
The novelty of living in the USA runs its course
as an american that would be a major cultural shock for me
Imagine how he felt when he moved away too . Idk why Americans love to marry into other cultures and then want the other person to forget about where they come from
He has a good point but I don’t think it has to be instant.
Kobe doesn't get it your asking Emily to move from the house to the shack 😂
You are definitely wrong they have money saved towards a house he replied, he said he could by a home in his country I sure it will be nice and much cheaper in cost
That’s a tough answer - time to think before answering and a huge sit down convo with a PowerPoint presentation lol maybe dual citizenship
Erg She Gets on my nerves just speaking . Way to Immature
So why are you following and watching her??? You clearly JEALOUS of her because you have NO ONE to love you the way Emily and her husband love each other 😂😂😂😂. Jealousy and envy is a very serious medical situation. Please seek medical attention very fast. And also the Bible calls it A DEMON. 😈😈
Same !!! Poor Kobe !
Same ! Poor Kobe
I am with her on this!
She’s right
She should compromise and move. He did! 1-2 yrs. Is just fine.
No! It would be a terrible mistake that would result in her finding herself alone in South-West Cameroon in a matter of 2 to 5 years.
@@pierrojules …ok
Plus Kobe just wants to be the man in the household for once. It has to be emasculating being trippled teamed by his wife and his family every time they have a disagreement about something.
What do you mean by "the man in the household"? This should be a team effort. After all, we live in the 21s century, not in the 19th, even in Kansas. Kobe and Emily should start by moving out of the House of her parents and getting their own.
@@pierrojules And she needs to get off her ass and get a job instead of laying around and having babies in her parents house
He just dont know how wht people think and the sad thing is he wont figure it out until a few years later and head to divorce court
I can't blame here 😮
CAN U BLAME THERE?
Kobe shouldn’t have had a family with a white American woman who isn’t going to understand where he’s coming from about the value of saving money and living in his home country of Africa. Like she isn’t going to get it
Thank you!!
I don’t think it’s completely a bad idea they can def invest in making a house and atleast have it for vacation or in the case of an emergency they always have a home And back up in Cameroon even for retirement
Love this couple
Hope she never does have a feeling hes not going yo wanna move back.
I agree with Emily
I agree cause I got rob from my culture not knowing how to write it or speak it.
Making a move to another country is a big deal I agree. But they could start off by spending summers there and eventually giving full time living a try. Its not like she'll be in a country where English is rarely spoken. And it'll be great for the kids to learn about their culture and the French language.
Could care less where they are living
He wants to be able to manage the cost of living. I wouldn’t do it, but it’s perfectly reasonable to request it.
yea they live good in America, with her parents.support and living with them. still selfish Emily.
I absolutely cannot stand her 😅
I agree with Emily this time the kids are too young to remember
Can Kobe live closer to people from his home country in America? Then the children can learn more about their father’s culture.
They talked about it in their first season. Kobe wanted to move to a bigger city with an African community. Emily wanted to keep on living in her parents basement.
@@notsureiL well, we can pray for them. They both have to agree on a solution.
I'm sorry but hell no!
He is right the American life is expensive
I don't think its going to be as easy as kobe thinks, they were already married with a child and it took like 2years for his visa.
Also when you're still living with your inlaws 3 kids later maybe a house should take priority over culture and let them spend the summer whilst they're off school. Especially since till now its been emily trying to teach then french and not the native..
I think it would be great for the kids to live there for a year or two so they can learn more about their culture. Emily doesn't seem to be working anyways. Their money would go further in Cameroon so why not?
Cameroonian women, like all women, are the keepers of a culture so if culture was so important to him, he should’ve married someone from his country. He should just embrace his white Cameroonian children for who they are!
He didn’t plan to marry her….. it was bc she got pregnant from one night stand they had and they decided to get married for their son
Maybe he should have brought this up in America- in her safety zone- not in Cameroon.
He misses his family and friends but how much money will they earn in Cameroon? He has to say, let's stay here for 3 months or lets work harder and move here for a year or 2 . Life in Cameroon is hard, better for kids but the US has better hospitals, let's agree on this one. Cameroon has 100% natural food, better air, more freedom...kids have to be at least 7 or 8, she has right but I understand him too
He survived and turned out alright, so his kids will be alright.
If they already decent savings, they can afford to rent a decent place for a year and still be okay. The cost of living is low. I'm sure Koby had already done the maths and is comfortable that the numbers add up.
You paint Cameroon like a disney movie 😂. Natural food? Fresh Air? You think is Greece or Portugal?
In Central Africa you get garbage and pollution, misery, corruption, ignorance, tribalism, crime and lots of terr.. actually I can t even write what you get over there. Oh, and there s a bunch of malaria too, lost a friend years ago.
Girl come on go on an adventure with your kids and husband. Id be like heck yeah let's go. Opening up the kids to their culture. I'd be so down. Stop being so closed minded girl. You're fear will trickle down into your kids and will also become fearful. You want them to be fearless and open minded.
emily's right tho. she's not saying no. does anybody remember anything before 4? like she's just saying wait til they're older so they actually remember it.
She makes a good point tho. Why when they are babies. There's no point. They won't learn anything if that's his point to move there.
You are so wrong when they are babies , toddler , small kids is when we start teach them thing and that’s when they start to and what to learn
I know Emily wants to be like , bro, I’ve been drinking bottled water for two weeks because your water system is sub par. No way lol
Maybe they can try going back more for offen for a vacation, or conopisine something 😊
But why you dont tell this early, when you are not married and having kids!!!
No say no
I unironically think the kids would be better off being raised there over America with it's rubbish education system.
That’s why I am such a believer to marry your own kind. Laugh out loud. 😹
They can move to a neutral area where both families can VISIT. There's no need to live with either family, they are a family and should focus on their roots as a family ❤
Hell. No
Women like Emily, although loving, are controlling because they see their moms controlling their fathers. If she really loved him she would do it, even for a short time. These kinds of folk don’t know unconditional love.
If you wanted to be in Cameroon, you should’ve chosen a Cameroonian woman. Period. You chose what you chose so you got what you got.
Trust and believe they will be with her parents FOREVER. The only way is if her parents buy them a house.
Thats a big negative Kobe
She didn’t deny him of the idea she’s just saying like right now it’s not the time they’re young. They’re not gonna remember that which is true memory doesn’t begin until the age of five for most children unless you have some type of crazy ass brain where you can absorb memory from the time that you come out your mama wound, but realistically has memory until the age of five and up
When do we start teaching kids at and before Korean & Skylar age .. THRY are teaching them now as THRY live in America so what’s the difference
People attack Emily but the fact remains that she knows what she want and most people don't like when a woman knows and get what they want...,
It’s NOT ALL ABOUT EMILY HER HUSBAND KNOW WHAT HE WANT TOO ,AND ITS BOTH OF THEM KIDS, NOT EMILY KIDS
I don't think she would be happy there
She won’t be happy anywhere except her parents basement, they do everything for her !! Poor Kobe , he’ll never get his way ever!
@@pattykochenower4222Well Kobe sure scarified a lot to live in a small town call Salina Kansas of a dry nothing much in the city , opposite of his Vibrate county Cameroon , Africa , he is probably just lost but do have some joy in his kids,wife and Emma family
too many hwoopings
Emily shouldn’t have said anything because honestly it’s only a wish let him have it ,it won’t happen 😂
I think it will, and you are right , she should kept her mouth closed, it was for her and Kobe to discuss more once home and later mentioned to her parents , it was just beginning mean spirit from Emily, she knew her Dad wasn’t going to like that , and they are trying to make it home , and she drop a bomb shell ,Very immature on her part ..it’s a time and place for all things
Why do people crawl over to America so many Africans in New York why because they want a better life. clean water more money......what the He’s not thinking of the civil war there either.they were lucky to get out safe.He can go back, and stay there. Not a fair life for his baby daughter.
Typically west African 😂😂 want to go home 😂
If Cameron was good will you travel, kobe you can go alone, nonsense talk
I think they should stay in Africa for a few years.
Bad idea! Emily would find herself alone within 2 to 5 years of living there. Kobe would be with another woman, a juicy local, with their kids (if he is not a deadbeat dad)😊😊.
The third world is here in America bow too. So ...........
American women allways the boss
No!
😮😂😢
I can't stand Emily. She is so bossy
You seem nice