Its the bike meme. They thrive on the attention from being a victim so much that they will put a stick in the spokes and curse someone else for hurting them.
You know what infuriates me more than the actual betrayal ? The fact that they romanticize the whole thing and make it about themselves by playing the sole victim of actions THEY did. They turn the husband and all his emotions, his committment, his sacrifice and his effort into a side character in her play, and the audience is random people on social media who don't care at all about her!
Totally saving this to reuse in future arguments. Succinctly put. Bravo. Also keep in mind. Women's top 10 most popular "favorite movies" are ALL centered around infidelity & her cheating.
SPOT ON! Not only does she make him a character on her play, she makes him the evil character whose existence is solely devoted to keeping her locked in a cage. This is the story that most wives keep telling themselves that ends so badly for so many of them and that most neutral by standards end up believing. Meanwhile she's been making bad decision after bad decision... all on feels. They truly and genuinely need psychological help. 95% of them.
@@asparrow9876 Very true, i remember even as a young man, whenever i watched any romantic drama or even a romcom with my girl, the female protagonist or love interest's infidelity was always potrayed as some sort of victimhood dilemma or nothing but a funny joke. Heck even after they cheat and come back to their husband or boyfriend, it's always portrayed like she did something brave and is loyal for leaving Chad to come back to the 'good guy'. Meanwhile, in the same movie, if the guy even dares to glance at another female for too long, it's an argument. If he flirts with another girl, he is a toxic manipulating scambag. But for the female, it's just self expression.
Repeatedly she said her ex-husband was her best friend, did nothing wrong, the man you were in love with, etc. Now when she gets criticized she now says that her husband was toxic. I think he is better off w/o her.
British "people" but especially british women have the most ridiculous accent. They just sound so goofy. Imagine sex "ORR YAH PUT YER COCK IN ME MINGE" just absurd
Honestly no offense but her voice and accent I can't do. I can do most accents and voices but even if she was a great woman I could never fully desire her day in day out cause of thst accent. It's one of my least favorite. It would always throw a wrench into my interest level fully.
See what happened was is that she started dating the new dude and got comfortable to finally tell him about her 17 year relationship marriage that she ended for no reason and he understood then went forward with a break-up.
If you are a man who has started your relationship via ending someone else’s .. yours ain’t gonna last long bub.. make better choices out there fellas !!
They always call their ex toxic. It’s just a trend they hop on in order to justify their betrayal. Nobody changes much during their life, so to call somebody toxic while staying with them for 17 years is absurd.
If the dad is a living and present part of his kid's life, you ARE NOT a single parent, and you ARE NOT doing it alone. What you are is a Divorced Co-Parent, point-blank, period. Women throw that single mother title around as if it's an honour instead of what it is, and it is USUALLY a lie. They are single women, but the kids have 2 parents, so no, you're not doing it alone. 9 times out of 10, Dad had to fight a bitter ex to have a good relationship with his children because even if it's her fault, she has to win, so she works to turn his kids against him. She will exaggerate, twist stories, and outright lie to get back at her ex.
It's prob the first time in history where we don't NNED anymore human beings... so procreation has taken a backseat to nonsense drama. A woman defines the amount of meaning in their lives with the amount of turmoil in it.
Relationships are dead nowadays. No one is safe. No matter how good you think you are, you're not special, all Relationships get boring eventually and temptation is only a second away.
You know what, guys? Let's normalize if a woman gets a divorce for no reason she as well gives up the full custody of the children to a father. No moma, no drama.
No one cares. That's why the laws won't change - unless and until the societal situation becomes unpleasant to women. Everything is structured to benefit women.
This is some silly nonsense. Its some bullshit that hurts men youre not superior or tougher for not crying. Almost as silly as these bitches in this video tbh
Anyone else notice that now her ex-husband / "best friend" (her words) is now "abusive" (her words). Funny how her perception and memories changed to fit HER narrative. I wish ex-husband would do a response video.
That's the beauty of letting them talk. If you listen, they eventually expose themselves. Also, comparing their actions (behavior/friends) with what they "claim", will also reveal the truth.
They know damn well what they are doing. They can turn on the waterworks and win any argument in their minds. They know even if their man no longer falls for their tears, everyone else will. Cops will arrest a man who is actually the victim of her sociopathy just because when they arrived, she was crying. They know that shit. Never mind, his eye was hanging out, and his leg had been cut off above his knee. They will comfort the crying woman and cuff the man as he bleeds out on the floor. And don't let it be a woman cop. She cut his other leg off for mistreating the poor psycho. Then she will get away with it because he male counterparts will see her crying and swear the victim did it himself to frame the poor, helpless female cop.
Spiritually bankrupt people fall into dilutional patterns. Their ego, and defiance has them fighting un winnable life long battles. They really need help. This mass mental illness is destroying our children.
And why do courts give custody of children to women by default? You think someone this emotionally unstable should be around children, let alone are the best choice for children? What if they see this stuff online? What if her friends and family do? How can she teach her children what a proper marriage/relationship is if she can't face to truth? Do they even know she cheated? Was this guy around them? Not once in this is there any acceptance that she's harmed her children or obvious ways to reduce that harm. I'll also never get the logic of women. You are in your forties with three young children. Why would you ever thing you'll get a guy as good as your husband when you aren't twenty-something anymore. Would your husband (if he were single) marry a single mother with three kids who cheated and left her husband? No. In fact, watch your husband find a younger girlfriend in a year or so.
Don’t let them move into your house either. My ex filed false DV charges against me and I had to go to court just to be able to get back into my own house that I paid for.
I love with all of these women, when they get criticized, it always ends up with them saying the relationship was toxic. But this happens after time has passed, and they already have all these clips saying the man was good and did nothing wrong, he was the best man ever.
Only let them vote if they opt in to selective services military draft. Women must not be allowed to vote us into wars they are exempt from fighting in
@@SuperGrimupnorth debatable. how about going outside without familial male supervision? what women have done...the idea isnt out of the question to me.
Women think passion and romance are supposed to burn eternally in a relationship because it's fuel for love. Obviously, as relationships grow older, passion and romance tends to burn lower. After seventeen years, you have kids, careers, plenty of bills, and the plans of your future to consider. All of these things are a drain on romance and passion. Every romance novel, film, or TV show is based on teaching women that passion and romance equals love. It's used to market products to them, and they often base their self-worth on it. So, when a man is dedicating the bulk of his work life to providing, and taking care of the future, having much less time and energy for that romance and passion, women see it as if they are being shorted something they deserve. He believes the time for romance and passion are either over, or on the back burner because they are married. He thinks they can rekindle that romance and passion later in life when everything is taken care of, and he has the time to enjoy it. She thinks it's burnt out, or that he's giving it to everyone but her, and that the love she feels is platonic now, and she would be happier if she found passion and romance somewhere else.
This one is particularly insightful. She's gaslighting herself. Two. Theories: 1) Hubby was best friend eva because she had no real close female friend. So he was the surrogate in that aspect. 2) She left for the dopamine hit of Tinder/Hinge/Bumble notifications and the hope-filled rush that comes with a ChadMatch. Run Forest Run!
This woman has a masters, I had a woman that was a friend with benefits that left her husband that made 300,000 a year and like why do you leave him? He just wasn’t paying enough attention to me. Well that’s cause he had to work 12 hours a day to make 300,000 a year
Nate, you called her out on "making dinner...on her own" (09:40), but let her slide when she followed up with: "I got a new coloring book." I could understand a 4 year old being excited about a coloring book, but pretty pathetic adult behavior.
A single mom is a woman who has a baby out of wedlock. We need to stop normalizing calling these divorced women single moms. These women are actually called divorced mothers.
LOL, I was thinking the exact same thing...lots of crying sounds, but NO TEARS. This is performance art; divorce becomes subject matter for her social media, just a way to garner views.
Another thing that is sad about this is RETIREMENT- women are notoriously bad about saving for it and her ex probably had to give up 1/2 of his, so now both of their post-retirement lives will be diminished (suck).
My wife not only ended our 25 years marriage to a committed very successful man, me, she went out of her way to destroy me and her entire family and destitute me and take all of the retirement savings when I was 65 years old.
10:12 "I want to reflect on this moment and realize how far I have come." Really? if you made a timeline, I'm pretty sure that she has circled back to "my first place" (about the age of a high school or college graduate). She's excited about living on her own, cooking herself a meal, and dating - sounds like a YOUNG single woman in her 20s. Problem is that she is CLEARLY in her 40s.
She said (to defend her selfish actions) that she didnt want the children to see a toxic relationship... yet in earlier videos, she said he did nothing wrong.. so where is this toxicity coming from? If it’s strictly her, and now the kids see her alone more often, that may be more toxic for the kids. Food for Thought
The hard truth is if he was cheating and or beating them most of the time the women would stay much longer than they do with the nice guy who is their "best friend." I just hate these sort of women.
A woman will forsake her family for her own happiness whereas a man will forego his happiness for the sake of his family. This is the saying Nate was trying to remember - and it’s true 🤷🏻♂️
Marriage isnt always about feeling lovey dovey every moment of the day, honestly, there will be hard times, low times, times you struggle with things and may even feel just not in the mood, but its about working together, fighting for what you have and building the foundations that will last in those moments. Communication and support even when you are both not feeling sexy. One day sex and romance might be the last thing the two of you are thinking about, but you know you will support each other, care what happens to each other, and be there no matter what happens. Its about working through the hard times and the poor times, the sick times and grabbing the bright times and riding those highs. Not seeking it elsewhere. You stick it out unless its toxic. Toxic doesnt mean dull, doesnt mean slow, doesnt mean humdrum, it means damaging to each other. Put each other and your children first and you will have everything. Of course be selfish by looking after yourself, but for the sake of being able to be there for others, not because you are wanting likes, not because you want to whore around with chad.. yes whore around.
After 17 years, NOW she "realizes" he just wasn't right for her?? It took you 17 years to come to that realization. Sounds like her ex husband got the better end of the deal. I hope he finds someone who deserves him (if he wants this). This makes no sense to me. She was with a great guy, wasn't cheated on, not abused, not hurt, still in love, etc. WTF. My ex began drinking and became highly abusive to our sons and myself. So I divorced him and got therapy while I stayed single so I wouldn't inadvertently treat any future bf as a possible abuser. My bf is an amazing guy. Hard worker, kind, nerdy, no drinking, funny, etc, and I can't imagine just leaving him. I wouldn't be proud of myself for divorcing a great guy. Edit: wtf. He was a great guy, THEN she's like "he was abusive" no. I hate that these women who do this crap are being used as representative of all women. They literally make it hard for women (and men) who were in real abusive relationships to be believed.
Hey Nate, you think wives friendzone their husbands? You must be single to be so ignorant, even after watching all these TikToks. Friendzoned men have it so much better than husbands. Imagine being totally responsible for everything in a marriage and family and being treated as a domestic servant. You can't walk away like a friendzoned orbiter. You are in marriage jail, life sentence, no chance of parole. You dream about being friendzoned.
No doubt there are but more than 70 per cent of divorces are initiated by women in most Western countries (only 30% male) so there are far more women in this position. And they deserve to be called out.
8:05 …what does that mean “they weren’t right for you”? He was the love of your life and your Best friend. Never lied or cheated. What part didn’t do it for you that was worth divorce your husband of 17 years and break up your children’s family?
When she's goes on to defend herself she then starts to throw the marriage under the bus. Now it's toxic, mistreatment, and abuse she wasn't saying that before, she said the husband did everything right there was no lying or cheating. All the dudes can't be narcissists.
So she says in her own words that her husband was a great guy, didn't do anything wrong. Didn't lie, didn't cheat. Then she gets shit for leaving him and suddenly the relationship was toxic, abusive and unhappy lmfao
I really hate women like this. There are so many that claim they’re abused because just a man even keeping boundaries is seen in that light. I had to leave my marriage of 10 years because my husband halfway through our marriage had began to develop a very scary mental illness who refused to get a mental evaluation. I did whatever I could to get him help and all it did was make him hate me, I was seen as his enemy no matter how I tried to explain my concern, he just got angrier. All I wanted was him be able to get an evaluation and just be nice to me. It got so bad that the only thing I was jealous of was seeing men being sweet to the women they were with. It makes my heart hurt to hear women jump so quick to saying stuff like this to men who are just being a normal person, I cannot express how badly I wished I had a typical boring marriage or a simple life. I did whatever I could for a good 5 years until I was in fear for my life. It was the scariest thing I had ever been through. These women have no clue what toxic really is. Any woman who claims abuse would NEVER put a video out for everyone to see that would put him in a bad light because it could trigger him. In the marriage my husband never let me register my car because I lo I left I’d have to go out of state because I had no one where we were. My registration was almost $1,000. When I left and was out of state, I couldn’t leave my home for a good 4 months and he wasn’t even in the same state as I was, i couldn’t because I had such bad anxiety. When I left I had to leave everything behind, I took my dog and whatever I could grab and left. These women have no idea how this could ruin a man’s life, THE MAN SHE DECIDED TO MARRY IN THE FIRST PLACE, or maybe they do and they are just evil. My husband cleared my bank account, he pocketed my financial aid and student loans, to finish my degree I now have to pay out of pocket, he has threatened to ruin my career if I was to ever leave. These women have no clue. Sorry for the rant, I just can’t stand it, it’s the same thing when it comes to sexual assault.
This dude makes the same mistakes the broads are making. You work at relationships. Not every day is happy clappy. As a man you want to find a broad that will dig deep and work at it, just as you will have to dig deep and work at it. If you don't understand that relationships are hard work you have no business being in one. That goes for men and women.
Women who leave their family because of their “happiness” act like the emotions of sad or angry will just evaporate in the air all of sudden. These chicks need God and therapy not divorce
15:00 good speculation, I've got a decent amount of experience with women and I would bet my ass that dude was around while she was still married, in some capacity even if there wasn't an affair.
Women now think with the genitalia really, we have lost our human nature and mother instincts, I mean, as a woman and a mother of two teenage girls i constantly talk to them about the importance of a family , because that’s what matters at the end of the day, men come and go but the family it’s always important, it’s not easy to have the same man everyday but men should think the same way about us too, so let’s make it easy for everyone and stop thinking with the genitalia…
They file for the divorce and then play victim. The disconnect is unbelievable.
Its the bike meme. They thrive on the attention from being a victim so much that they will put a stick in the spokes and curse someone else for hurting them.
But he made them do it...when he gave her the ick by being a good father and husband. Chaddius Maximus beckons... .... ... 🤣
Women play the victim in every situation they have throughout their entire lives
You know what infuriates me more than the actual betrayal ? The fact that they romanticize the whole thing and make it about themselves by playing the sole victim of actions THEY did. They turn the husband and all his emotions, his committment, his sacrifice and his effort into a side character in her play, and the audience is random people on social media who don't care at all about her!
100%
Totally saving this to reuse in future arguments. Succinctly put. Bravo.
Also keep in mind. Women's top 10 most popular "favorite movies" are ALL centered around infidelity & her cheating.
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SPOT ON!
Not only does she make him a character on her play, she makes him the evil character whose existence is solely devoted to keeping her locked in a cage. This is the story that most wives keep telling themselves that ends so badly for so many of them and that most neutral by standards end up believing. Meanwhile she's been making bad decision after bad decision... all on feels. They truly and genuinely need psychological help. 95% of them.
@@asparrow9876 Very true, i remember even as a young man, whenever i watched any romantic drama or even a romcom with my girl, the female protagonist or love interest's infidelity was always potrayed as some sort of victimhood dilemma or nothing but a funny joke. Heck even after they cheat and come back to their husband or boyfriend, it's always portrayed like she did something brave and is loyal for leaving Chad to come back to the 'good guy'.
Meanwhile, in the same movie, if the guy even dares to glance at another female for too long, it's an argument. If he flirts with another girl, he is a toxic manipulating scambag. But for the female, it's just self expression.
"You know what makes women happy? Nothing." -Bill Burr
He should know. Look what he married.
Exactly!@@Falconlibrary
😂😂😂
Women don't like Happiness. They only like pleasure followed by pleasure followed by pleasure...
She needs to ask for a refund from that acting school 😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Nah, bro, her Cartman crying impersonation is spot on 😂
@@macavalli2619😂
It gets weirder and more cringe, the longer it goes. The fakeness is evil.
Repeatedly she said her ex-husband was her best friend, did nothing wrong, the man you were in love with, etc. Now when she gets criticized she now says that her husband was toxic. I think he is better off w/o her.
She is a content creator and is willing to end her marriage for content.
Fake tears... Check
Sad music.. check
Content creator... Check
Constant victim... Check
Your Typical modern woman
Zero tears. It never ends
The fake crying is always my favorite part
Their words are those of children,their oaths are written on water....
...or on air.
That voice…
17 years?
That man was a saint!
I’m a Brit and that would make me feel wound up! But I’m a Brummie so I can’t really say anything 😂
British "people" but especially british women have the most ridiculous accent. They just sound so goofy. Imagine sex "ORR YAH PUT YER COCK IN ME MINGE" just absurd
Honestly no offense but her voice and accent I can't do. I can do most accents and voices but even if she was a great woman I could never fully desire her day in day out cause of thst accent. It's one of my least favorite. It would always throw a wrench into my interest level fully.
British women sound downright ridiculous. Even more than the rest of them. Imagine sex "ORR YAH MATE PUT IT IN ME MINGE" just absurd
@@freddiefackelmayer5267
See what happened was is that she started dating the new dude and got comfortable to finally tell him about her 17 year relationship marriage that she ended for no reason and he understood then went forward with a break-up.
Exactly. The new guy was like, "Oh shit this broad is a piece of trash. I'm out."
If you are a man who has started your relationship via ending someone else’s .. yours ain’t gonna last long bub..
make better choices out there fellas !!
They always call their ex toxic. It’s just a trend they hop on in order to justify their betrayal. Nobody changes much during their life, so to call somebody toxic while staying with them for 17 years is absurd.
The ex-husband is the luckiest man on the face of the planet. This woman is cray-cray.
If the dad is a living and present part of his kid's life, you ARE NOT a single parent, and you ARE NOT doing it alone. What you are is a Divorced Co-Parent, point-blank, period. Women throw that single mother title around as if it's an honour instead of what it is, and it is USUALLY a lie. They are single women, but the kids have 2 parents, so no, you're not doing it alone. 9 times out of 10, Dad had to fight a bitter ex to have a good relationship with his children because even if it's her fault, she has to win, so she works to turn his kids against him. She will exaggerate, twist stories, and outright lie to get back at her ex.
It's prob the first time in history where we don't NNED anymore human beings... so procreation has taken a backseat to nonsense drama. A woman defines the amount of meaning in their lives with the amount of turmoil in it.
Relationships are dead nowadays. No one is safe. No matter how good you think you are, you're not special, all Relationships get boring eventually and temptation is only a second away.
You know what, guys? Let's normalize if a woman gets a divorce for no reason she as well gives up the full custody of the children to a father. No moma, no drama.
No one cares. That's why the laws won't change - unless and until the societal situation becomes unpleasant to women. Everything is structured to benefit women.
If they don't have a reason, they'll just make one up.
Making the cry noises no tears = crazy.
17 Year Marriage vs Coloring Book
Coloring Book wins everytime
Colouring book can’t work TikTok 👍
How do you feel about paint by numbers...
The last time I cried was 14 years ago when a pet died. Look at these "equals" of ours crying over some of the dumbest shit you could ever imagine.
This is some silly nonsense. Its some bullshit that hurts men youre not superior or tougher for not crying. Almost as silly as these bitches in this video tbh
They are emotionally intelligent. 😂😂😂
It’s because of all that emotional intelligence that they have. 😂🤣🤡
* emotionally incontinent
Shit for brains?
drama is their drug of choice. for there to be drama, there must be problems.
Anyone else notice that now her ex-husband / "best friend" (her words) is now "abusive" (her words). Funny how her perception and memories changed to fit HER narrative. I wish ex-husband would do a response video.
She said he did nothing wrong, and now it was toxic? She doesn't even see that she's admitting SHE is toxic.
They think they can say and do anything because they’ve never been held to account.
That's the beauty of letting them talk. If you listen, they eventually expose themselves. Also, comparing their actions (behavior/friends) with what they "claim", will also reveal the truth.
He probably just told her no on something...
Yall are all correct, methinks!
It's like watching someone falling on their own sword and then blaming the sword.
More like the sword maker
Tears are a weapon. Even is they don't think they are
They are very good and getting others to do their dirty work.
They know damn well what they are doing. They can turn on the waterworks and win any argument in their minds. They know even if their man no longer falls for their tears, everyone else will. Cops will arrest a man who is actually the victim of her sociopathy just because when they arrived, she was crying. They know that shit. Never mind, his eye was hanging out, and his leg had been cut off above his knee. They will comfort the crying woman and cuff the man as he bleeds out on the floor. And don't let it be a woman cop. She cut his other leg off for mistreating the poor psycho. Then she will get away with it because he male counterparts will see her crying and swear the victim did it himself to frame the poor, helpless female cop.
It’s really hard to imagine having to deal with these stupid narcissists.
Spiritually bankrupt people fall into dilutional patterns. Their ego, and defiance has them fighting un winnable life long battles. They really need help. This mass mental illness is destroying our children.
omg that guy is now living happy without a manipulative telenovela actress around the house 😂
Emotional immature people. I mean w0men.
And why do courts give custody of children to women by default? You think someone this emotionally unstable should be around children, let alone are the best choice for children? What if they see this stuff online? What if her friends and family do? How can she teach her children what a proper marriage/relationship is if she can't face to truth? Do they even know she cheated? Was this guy around them? Not once in this is there any acceptance that she's harmed her children or obvious ways to reduce that harm.
I'll also never get the logic of women. You are in your forties with three young children. Why would you ever thing you'll get a guy as good as your husband when you aren't twenty-something anymore. Would your husband (if he were single) marry a single mother with three kids who cheated and left her husband? No. In fact, watch your husband find a younger girlfriend in a year or so.
Because the elites know this destroys a society that’s why they keep doing it.
‘I am cooking dinner all by myself and then doing colouring in - I am such a big girl!’ Pathetic
That would be a flex if she were 8 years old.
DON'T GET MARRIED GUYS!
Don’t let them move into your house either. My ex filed false DV charges against me and I had to go to court just to be able to get back into my own house that I paid for.
EVER
I'm a woman and listening to this woman, and plenty more like her, I don't blame you one bit.
Amen!
6:28 - A man will sacrifice his happiness for his family. A woman will sacrifice her family for her happiness.
Fake crying… I can’t even watch
Allow me to explain Dear Ace. There never are any tears because tears would ruin the mascara and the makeup. 🤗
Unless she wants to show how good the make up is and you can get it on her website?
I love with all of these women, when they get criticized, it always ends up with them saying the relationship was toxic. But this happens after time has passed, and they already have all these clips saying the man was good and did nothing wrong, he was the best man ever.
I remember I quit the best job I ever had because, uh, reasons.
@@Falconlibrary it was toxic, but don't ask for any examples because they went to a different school, you wouldn't know them
STOP
LETTING
THEM
VOTE
Only let them vote if they opt in to selective services military draft. Women must not be allowed to vote us into wars they are exempt from fighting in
They’re too easily emotionally manipulated
& driving
@@SuperGrimupnorth debatable. how about going outside without familial male supervision? what women have done...the idea isnt out of the question to me.
What a clown 🤡🤦
‘I am cooking dinner all by myself and then doing colouring in - I am such a big girl!’. Pathetic
It is so weird that this woman, who is average at best, would leave her husband because she thought she could do better.
Women think passion and romance are supposed to burn eternally in a relationship because it's fuel for love.
Obviously, as relationships grow older, passion and romance tends to burn lower. After seventeen years, you have kids, careers, plenty of bills, and the plans of your future to consider. All of these things are a drain on romance and passion.
Every romance novel, film, or TV show is based on teaching women that passion and romance equals love. It's used to market products to them, and they often base their self-worth on it. So, when a man is dedicating the bulk of his work life to providing, and taking care of the future, having much less time and energy for that romance and passion, women see it as if they are being shorted something they deserve.
He believes the time for romance and passion are either over, or on the back burner because they are married. He thinks they can rekindle that romance and passion later in life when everything is taken care of, and he has the time to enjoy it. She thinks it's burnt out, or that he's giving it to everyone but her, and that the love she feels is platonic now, and she would be happier if she found passion and romance somewhere else.
5:02 - the face of strength and independence. Good thing she don’t need no man. 😂😂😂
The biggest turn-off as a man with a woman is sniverling, crying over nothing. The biggest turn off for me..
She wanted closure for herself.
She didn't care about how it affected him, she is only interested in her healing.
This one is particularly insightful. She's gaslighting herself. Two. Theories: 1) Hubby was best friend eva because she had no real close female friend. So he was the surrogate in that aspect. 2) She left for the dopamine hit of Tinder/Hinge/Bumble notifications and the hope-filled rush that comes with a ChadMatch.
Run Forest Run!
And yet again it's the kids who have to suffer. 😢
This woman has a masters, I had a woman that was a friend with benefits that left her husband that made 300,000 a year and like why do you leave him? He just wasn’t paying enough attention to me. Well that’s cause he had to work 12 hours a day to make 300,000 a year
If I was that woman I would not like my own company either
Hey, Siri, play Justin Timberlake "Cry me a river"
Nate, you called her out on "making dinner...on her own" (09:40), but let her slide when she followed up with: "I got a new coloring book." I could understand a 4 year old being excited about a coloring book, but pretty pathetic adult behavior.
She cries just like Cartman 😂
This is sickening
A single mom is a woman who has a baby out of wedlock. We need to stop normalizing calling these divorced women single moms.
These women are actually called divorced mothers.
Divorcing your good husband and painting yourself as the victim and broadcasting online is borderline evil
LOL, I was thinking the exact same thing...lots of crying sounds, but NO TEARS. This is performance art; divorce becomes subject matter for her social media, just a way to garner views.
_" ... with someone you still love, who hasn't hurt you ... "_
But whom *You* have hurt deeply. No sympathy from this corner.
The first woman is supposedly crying and not one tear is coming out of her eyes. What a legendary performance. She could win the Oscars.
Does this trick have the hiccups or sumthin?? Cause she damn sure ain’t crying 😒
It’s all a facade.
Another thing that is sad about this is RETIREMENT- women are notoriously bad about saving for it and her ex probably had to give up 1/2 of his, so now both of their post-retirement lives will be diminished (suck).
people who are actually grieving dont make videos to show the internet. shes a fraud.
My wife not only ended our 25 years marriage to a committed very successful man, me, she went out of her way to destroy me and her entire family and destitute me and take all of the retirement savings when I was 65 years old.
Filming themselves crying is ridiculous. Attention seeking at its finest
She had so much strength to leave a good man and a stable marriage. Those things are just destroyer of lives.
Imagine taking a long drive towards the sunset only to crash out 60% of the way there.
Is there any bigger red flag than “I’m working on myself “
She begged for pity, but was called out for her horrific actions.
Her acting turned into real emotions... Fast
Pathetic.
TikTok & Tears ... That's a Life Goal Worth Pursuing !
You Go Girl - You Got This - You Know Your Worth !
10:12 "I want to reflect on this moment and realize how far I have come." Really? if you made a timeline, I'm pretty sure that she has circled back to "my first place" (about the age of a high school or college graduate). She's excited about living on her own, cooking herself a meal, and dating - sounds like a YOUNG single woman in her 20s. Problem is that she is CLEARLY in her 40s.
She said (to defend her selfish actions) that she didnt want the children to see a toxic relationship... yet in earlier videos, she said he did nothing wrong.. so where is this toxicity coming from? If it’s strictly her, and now the kids see her alone more often, that may be more toxic for the kids.
Food for Thought
The struggle that I have in my marriage for so long but I could never fathom to post something like this.
Her eye lashes look so wired....
HOW IS THIS LADY A "SINGLE PARENT" IF SHE IS CO-PARENTING WITH THE DAD!!!????? THE FK!
Crying without tears lmao this is theatre
I love my dogs🐕🐕❤
As a little boy I didn’t care about my moms happiness but I did want my dad the whole time smh
The hard truth is if he was cheating and or beating them most of the time the women would stay much longer than they do with the nice guy who is their "best friend." I just hate these sort of women.
That is a really interesting observation.
15mins of crying - I’ve yet to see ONE TEAR!
Threw away a 17 year marriage (to a "great guy") for a fling. Zero sympathy.
They do this self destruction for attention. Happens all the time. They think their man will chase them like in the movies. Haha
"Men sacrifice their happiness for their families - women sacrifice their families for their happiness."
A woman will forsake her family for her own happiness whereas a man will forego his happiness for the sake of his family.
This is the saying Nate was trying to remember - and it’s true 🤷🏻♂️
Soooo, her "best friend" was "toxic"?!
Marriage isnt always about feeling lovey dovey every moment of the day, honestly, there will be hard times, low times, times you struggle with things and may even feel just not in the mood, but its about working together, fighting for what you have and building the foundations that will last in those moments. Communication and support even when you are both not feeling sexy. One day sex and romance might be the last thing the two of you are thinking about, but you know you will support each other, care what happens to each other, and be there no matter what happens. Its about working through the hard times and the poor times, the sick times and grabbing the bright times and riding those highs. Not seeking it elsewhere. You stick it out unless its toxic. Toxic doesnt mean dull, doesnt mean slow, doesnt mean humdrum, it means damaging to each other. Put each other and your children first and you will have everything. Of course be selfish by looking after yourself, but for the sake of being able to be there for others, not because you are wanting likes, not because you want to whore around with chad.. yes whore around.
After 17 years, NOW she "realizes" he just wasn't right for her?? It took you 17 years to come to that realization. Sounds like her ex husband got the better end of the deal. I hope he finds someone who deserves him (if he wants this).
This makes no sense to me. She was with a great guy, wasn't cheated on, not abused, not hurt, still in love, etc. WTF.
My ex began drinking and became highly abusive to our sons and myself. So I divorced him and got therapy while I stayed single so I wouldn't inadvertently treat any future bf as a possible abuser.
My bf is an amazing guy. Hard worker, kind, nerdy, no drinking, funny, etc, and I can't imagine just leaving him.
I wouldn't be proud of myself for divorcing a great guy.
Edit: wtf. He was a great guy, THEN she's like "he was abusive" no. I hate that these women who do this crap are being used as representative of all women. They literally make it hard for women (and men) who were in real abusive relationships to be believed.
Hey Nate, you think wives friendzone their husbands? You must be single to be so ignorant, even after watching all these TikToks. Friendzoned men have it so much better than husbands. Imagine being totally responsible for everything in a marriage and family and being treated as a domestic servant. You can't walk away like a friendzoned orbiter. You are in marriage jail, life sentence, no chance of parole. You dream about being friendzoned.
So there are no men who ditch their families for younger women and then regret in a same way as those ladies?
No doubt there are but more than 70 per cent of divorces are initiated by women in most Western countries (only 30% male) so there are far more women in this position. And they deserve to be called out.
8:05 …what does that mean “they weren’t right for you”? He was the love of your life and your Best friend. Never lied or cheated. What part didn’t do it for you that was worth divorce your husband of 17 years and break up your children’s family?
When she's goes on to defend herself she then starts to throw the marriage under the bus. Now it's toxic, mistreatment, and abuse she wasn't saying that before, she said the husband did everything right there was no lying or cheating. All the dudes can't be narcissists.
So she says in her own words that her husband was a great guy, didn't do anything wrong. Didn't lie, didn't cheat. Then she gets shit for leaving him and suddenly the relationship was toxic, abusive and unhappy lmfao
I really hate women like this. There are so many that claim they’re abused because just a man even keeping boundaries is seen in that light. I had to leave my marriage of 10 years because my husband halfway through our marriage had began to develop a very scary mental illness who refused to get a mental evaluation. I did whatever I could to get him help and all it did was make him hate me, I was seen as his enemy no matter how I tried to explain my concern, he just got angrier. All I wanted was him be able to get an evaluation and just be nice to me. It got so bad that the only thing I was jealous of was seeing men being sweet to the women they were with. It makes my heart hurt to hear women jump so quick to saying stuff like this to men who are just being a normal person, I cannot express how badly I wished I had a typical boring marriage or a simple life. I did whatever I could for a good 5 years until I was in fear for my life. It was the scariest thing I had ever been through. These women have no clue what toxic really is. Any woman who claims abuse would NEVER put a video out for everyone to see that would put him in a bad light because it could trigger him. In the marriage my husband never let me register my car because I lo I left I’d have to go out of state because I had no one where we were. My registration was almost $1,000. When I left and was out of state, I couldn’t leave my home for a good 4 months and he wasn’t even in the same state as I was, i couldn’t because I had such bad anxiety. When I left I had to leave everything behind, I took my dog and whatever I could grab and left. These women have no idea how this could ruin a man’s life, THE MAN SHE DECIDED TO MARRY IN THE FIRST PLACE, or maybe they do and they are just evil. My husband cleared my bank account, he pocketed my financial aid and student loans, to finish my degree I now have to pay out of pocket, he has threatened to ruin my career if I was to ever leave. These women have no clue. Sorry for the rant, I just can’t stand it, it’s the same thing when it comes to sexual assault.
Single parents put a stigma on single parents.
And let's be honest. It's single mothers. Not single parents. Single fathers tend to do really well.
1:55 I love how they all have sappy music
Starting to hate the Internet.
Mf too old for this shyte .
You made your bed, lay in it!
Why not? They get all the money, the house, the kids regardless.
This dude makes the same mistakes the broads are making.
You work at relationships. Not every day is happy clappy. As a man you want to find a broad that will dig deep and work at it, just as you will have to dig deep and work at it. If you don't understand that relationships are hard work you have no business being in one. That goes for men and women.
Women who leave their family because of their “happiness” act like the emotions of sad or angry will just evaporate in the air all of sudden. These chicks need God and therapy not divorce
Even the happy tears are invisible just like her accountability.
15:00 good speculation, I've got a decent amount of experience with women and I would bet my ass that dude was around while she was still married, in some capacity even if there wasn't an affair.
What so first he did nothing wrong , and now it was a “toxic relationship “ ?! Huh?!
Women begging for attention on social media calling their exes narcissistic is hilarious!
Women now think with the genitalia really, we have lost our human nature and mother instincts, I mean, as a woman and a mother of two teenage girls i constantly talk to them about the importance of a family , because that’s what matters at the end of the day, men come and go but the family it’s always important, it’s not easy to have the same man everyday but men should think the same way about us too, so let’s make it easy for everyone and stop thinking with the genitalia…
** I find your lack of devotion disturbing