I'm don't think Terrell is at all saying it was ok. If this is the only part you heard of this.. what part of what he said made you think anyone was enabling it?
Yeah they act like penetration with fingers isn't rape. Penetration is rape, period. It doesn't matter which orifices are penetrated or with what. If you force your tongue into my mouth without my consent, you have raped me.
@@Timmybabim I think they're talking about the whole family knowing that the only way for an 11-year-old in her condition to have a baby is that she was raped and no one in the family (not Terrell) did nothing
@@Timmybabim He said that the family "split" over it. That was and still is quite normal. People want to keep it a secret (shame) and protect the perpetrator ("but he seems like such a nice guy") and back then there was no DNA testing ("maybe it was someone who just looks like him") and on and on. Anything but admitting that there is a man in their family capable of raping a disabled child and getting her pregnant. People still have a very hard time stepping up and saying, "The rapist in OUR family is going to prison for a very, VERY, long time and we're turning him in to start the process." Terrible but true. Many families are dangerous to their own children.
@@timharris1675 lol. No, a 5 year old being smarter than his 11 year old, special needs mother who was violated and impregnated is NOT common in ANY community. You just made that up.
Important that he said “…11 year old baby girl, had this baby” 11 is without a doubt, a child. Thank you for using proper wording in this sensitive, but important conversation.
You are congratulating a man on how he talked about his mother being raped and him being the offspring from that rape? Dude can talk however he wants, its his story!! WTF is with you people this is creepy!
@@patrickbertlein4626 What is wrong with you??? They were saying they were happy he called the obvious little girl a little girl. I'm sure he did so out of respect to his mother and because it's true. Other men refer to little girls who have been r*ped as young women so the crime doesn't sound as bad.
@@patrickbertlein4626that is incorrect. The original commenter was recognizing how important it is that he used accurate language about what happened. Too often, even if the child is disabled, young Black girls are accused of being "fast" and "knowing what they were doing" when they were being sexually assualted and groomed. By clearly saying that his mother was a child that gave birth to a child, he not only used accurate language, but he also expressed something that is not has commonly been expressed within the Black community.
@@thesmileyeffect Again, NO, you are not even getting what I am saying here. This man is speaking from trauma, no matter what he says, its for him to say. Making this a Black thing is just dumb, shutup. I got no problem with someone saying they appreciate another's words, but terms like proper or improper are just bullshit. He said the thing the person liked, great. And if he didn't, would he be tarnished? The OP essentially went "you said things how I think you should have said it so I approve". This is the same exact thing as the MULTIPLE posts saying "you didn't say this" or interrogating people's language. Frankly I think you're too stupid to get it.
she was a child w the mind of a baby who was raped, im so devastated for her. people are so mean to young moms, i hope people didnt call her “fast” and make her do everything herself w little to no help. she didnt even get the chance to live her best life despite her misfortunes, the pedophile thought being horny was harder for him than what she was already going through and more important than her future and body.
Well some young moms weren’t rape and were fast. Like my sister. And then they give birth to a baby that their parents and the rest of the family have to help raise. That’s unfair to the family.
@@cressapellom4205 if your sister was dealing with someone older, than she was r@ped as young children and teens cannot consent. If a grown man fathered you niece/nephew than he's a pedo, creep! If not, then i don't even know why you got on here and made that comment...apples and oranges dear ...even still, this is about an 11 yr old disabled child... your comment is simply out of pocket
@@stephaniehall8179nope. I read his book. his story has a lot of holes in it. he was supposedly born at in a hospital. as a state reporter the doctors at the hospital would have reported this to the authorities.
I hate to admit that this was just another family secret that was typical of black families in the past. I really want to read the book about this self-made man.
@daynasafranek7807 NO she was incarnated to take her out of the condition she was born in. She incarnated in him that was the purpose of the so called raping her.
My thoughts exactly. The fact that he at such a young age figured out that he needed to be kinder to her because of her disabilities - that's a real man right there.
Why you adding those emojis to make you comment seen more aesthetic is kinda weird, considering the context of this video and all, like you you doing that?
Well that’s true but also look at him when he was 5 years old, realizing he was smarter/more self aware than her and concluding he should be kind. That’s some innate empathy of his personality.
Sometimes children realise that the only way that they are going to feel more of the emotional connection with the people who raise them, is by tuning into them with empathy. That's what I consciously did when I was 5, too. I was raised in a completely different situation, but was emotionally neglected also.
@@daniellamcgee4251 I would take it a step farther and say that the child parentifies themselves emotionally. I was 5 when I realized something wasn't right with my autistic/low iq mother, that was the day I became both my mother and hers.
Special Needs children/adults are the most vulnerable at being abused since many of them can't explain what's happening to them and none of them can give consent since some people think they can. My friend made it a point that no male nurses could tend to her non-verbal, mind of a 3yr old sister who was a fully developed woman. She was in an institution. Families of special needs individuals need to be vigilant in limiting who can be around the special needs children/adult. It's okay to be rude and say, "No, you can't babysit. No, you can't take them for ice cream. No, they can't go to a birthday unless a trusted individual is there to supervise the special needs children/adult personally." "No, no lap sitting allowed". "No" is never rude when it comes to safety. There's this documentary about this school for the deaf and mute and maybe blind (in Japan I think) where the institution routinely allowed men to come and molest/SA the children. I think many of the perps were govt officials or businessmen. They were the perfect victim. No one could hear their screams.(that may have been the title)
A female was institutionalized . She couldn't take care of herself. I forget what was wrong with her. I think it was something with her brain. She couldn't walk, talk, or communicate in any way. Her family said no males can attend to her. She had a male doctor but that was it. Long story short she became pregnant and nobody knew until she went into labor. They had every male worker take a DNA test and found that a worker was the father. He got locked up, and the doctor was fired because the fact that he didn't know she was pregnant indicated he wasn't looking after her at all. So sad. God only knows how long that man was molesting her.
I worked with adults with intellectual disabilities for many years and many of them had been abused in this way, at some point. One very sweet woman had had a child from rape and the baby was given away and she always missed that baby... very sad.
this is extremely haunting. i understand Terrell has moved past it but i onno but no therapy could ever save my soul from that horror. i would spend my conscious existence trying to unalive myself.
@@PHlophe I understand your stance, but I tell myself that as long as Jesus reigns as King, there is nothing that can happen to me that He can’t heal me from. I was sexually assaulted twice, first when I was 14, then at 39. I’m now 40 and have forgiven both of my abusers. It was not easy but I didn’t want bitterness to take root.
@@PHlophe That is absurd. Why in the hell would you "spend my conscious existence trying to unalive myself." You would and might need deep counseling. He is NOT the circumstances of his birth, and he is not his parents. Why would you ruin the rest of your left due to a traumatic start? If that is the case, more than half the world would feel like that. You work with what you have left and make the best of it. He should be grateful he is healthy, fine, gifted, and smart, in my opinion. He is blessed in spite of the storm that he blew in on.
This is why I’m so protective of my autistic son. People with disabilities are more vulnerable and statistically more likely to be abused sexually… it’s my biggest fear for him.
@ wish I could give you a hug! I relate heavily. My son is non vocal and needs aid in most every area of his life. I am homeschooling him and keeping a close eye because I don’t trust anybody to care for him. I’ve seen too many news headlines!! Good for you for keeping your baby close and protecting her 💕 that’s beautiful, and she’s lucky to have you !
Mine hasn’t been back to school in 2 years now. Definitely trust your gut with your child and who he is around and don’t let anyone tell you it’s “normal” for your autistic child to suddenly become terrified of a place and certain people. It is not and they are lying.
@@julesjules5439 I worked in a school where they used PCMA on the autistic kids and that’s why I’m homeschooling!! It’s crazy the way they treat non speaking children
For those who want to pick apart the way Terrell Carter tell his story, it's HIS story. He is shedding light on something that is so difficult to say, but he's willing to be open about it. Maybe he doesn't say it the way you would, but it's kind of amazing that he is able to talk about it at all. God bless him!
What race has to do with it. So white females don't get raped and molested by white men. There are very messed up families of all races and nationalities. I sympathize with the brother but it was ignorant statement. This would have been bad for any family.
I know how he feels I feel like white trash sometimes things were so cliche. It's just self perception and takes a lot of healing to not feel like a stereotype. ❤
I wish everyone would stop saying she was m*lested when she was obviously r* ped. It kind of softens the whole trauma and true evil of what was done to an innocent 11 year old girl with special needs.
M* means they sexually assaulted or abused of a child. The definitions can be synonymous too. Also they may not of been physical force but manipulation or coercion that led to the assault. His distinction may have been an indication of the specific crime that had occurred.
How the person was able to rape her has nothing to do with it. Because she is a minor and even more so because she is mentally disabled she cannot give consent in any way so this is flat out classified as RAPE.@@Zom13y
It really is all the same. As a person who has overcome this, there is no significant difference in words. It's not like the person comes to you slapping you around and whatnot. Usually, they talk nice and coerce you into it. Suck but it's true. Usually you're very young and don't know what to do.
So would it have been better if she had 2 legs?! Wow… The things that some of you are shocked by. The fact that a grown man violated a little girl Period should disgust you!
@@FairEbonyI think they meant on top of the fact this is a child, he preyed on a child that honestly, could not even run away from him. It just adds an additional layer of cruelty and evil to it all. The whole thing is wickedness regardless though.
@@FairEbony No it's the fact that a man takes advantage of a child that requires THAT much protection. Which is proof that people will go to hell for this
I don’t won’t to take anything from the young man because he is here. I was a pregnant 18 yr old because I didn’t think it was important enough to listen to my mother. I stayed at Catholic Charities which was a home for unwed mothers. The majority would give their baby up for adoption. The majority of the girls were 16yrs to 18 years old. The youngest was a ten yr old that was pregnant by her natural dad. She didn’t join us in group counseling. She didn’t interact with the older girls. She barely had breast, I can’t imagine her having childbirth vaginally, so if she had the baby by a C-section she would not only have an permanent emotional scare but she will have a physical scar that will always be a visible reminder. When I read you saying to Terrell you were meant to be born. I don’t believe this is what you are saying, but I can’t help but hear you say to his 11 yrs young mother You were meant to be raped by the father so Terrell could be born. I can’t believe in bad things happen to people for a reason. Terrell could have very well been born into a loving family, and have become a productive man.
@@imaginelovepeaceandhappine3281 he was saying that something good came out of something so horrible. No one thinks it’s a good thing that his mother was raped! BTW females also rape girls, they just can’t get them pregnant. The child still has to live with the trauma
@@imaginelovepeaceandhappine3281so are you saying or do you believe he should have been aborted because he was conceived as a result of rape? This is always a sensitive topic (conception by rape and the effect on the mother and child), so I don't mean to diminish the experience in any way because God forbid I should ever have to be involved in such a decision. But should a child be killed before or after birth because he is a special needs child or born with a birth defect that will be a challenge for the rest of his life and his mother's?
Wow, you just described my family! I distanced myself from them in Elementary school because they were so damn embarrassing...like dropping me off at school and stealing the teachers purse as they left, breaking into my classmates house, using kids to rob pharmacies, using kids to steal Christmas presents, denying molestation when it occurred, showing up to my Jr. high for a Scarred Straight presentation by the sheriff's department to share how they F'd up their lives...infront of all of my classmates and teachers... I could go on, but I won't. If I didn't decide to Not be Like Them, I would probably be dead.
@weewhorobin8202 It is up to a woman or child's guardian to decide. I'm glad this man is here, but it's an awful, disgusting situation and the man should have been sent to jail for life. Nobody should have to have their ra p. Is ts baby unless they want to. That little girl was not just physically disabled but also mentally.
@@corishabrown685 I can guarantee you white families have plenty of incest too, unfortunately. Supposedly its more common for white dudes but that could possible be due to under reporting in black communities.
@@patrickbertlein4626I don’t think people of any race are going to be jumping for joy to tell stories like this so I think it would be incredibly difficult to get an accurate assessment of something like that. It’s like how they say that 5% of people are lgbtq but who’s to know how accurate that is cuz there’s millions of people who have engaged in some lgbtq activity that would rather die than admit to it.
At 5 years old, I think he should have been raised as her little brother. That’s too much pressure on a child and both of them were children. There were some major disfunction in that family. They all failed that poor baby.
My special needs cousins was raped and became pregnant. She couldn't sit up, walk or be able to comprehend what happened to her. She could barely talk. When it came time for her to give birth she was able to mutter to my aunt that she was scared. They were never able to determine who the father was. My aunt however did put her daughter up for adoption. It's very discussed to take advantage of the special needs.
@@malcriadamedina5358true. DNA could have been taken from the baby. However, the database would need DNA from the father, or a close biological relative of his to figure out who he is. Plus, such DNA data would have to be in the system.
This is the stuff people still hide when it needs to be talked about because those kind of people who do these kind of needs to be put prison for life and not celebrated
I mean, for a perpetrator it's a lot easier to do it to a special needs 10 y/o girl than to someone who can actually fight back and/or get you into real trouble, isn't it? For people so inclined, it does make sense from a self-preserving point of view. There's also very clearly a satisfactory aspect involved.
I can’t. No. To even CALL an 11 year-old with special needs ‘mother’ is offensive to my soul. No. The poor, innocent, sweet little baby. My heart breaks for her and the trauma she endured.
should he erase himself from existence then? like a terrible crime took place and that poor girl was failed horribly by the adults around her, but terrell was not one of them. he was a baby and she is the only mother he has ever known
@@malcriadamedina5358I don’t understand why nobody suspected anything. I believe the whole family suffered from mental illness. They didn’t know that the child was pregnant until she was ready to give birth. Sometimes family members do know and does nothing about it or blame the child.
It's scary to think people protected a predator more than a child and she never got swift justice. An ounce of it only came with him airing their story. And extra scary that there is a huge chunk of the world that would defend what happened to her as okay or "gods will" just because a good guy came out of it. That child deserved a better family. Im glad he is honest and has empathy for her. There are so many ways that could have gone or how he coulda turned out. They were both failed for too long. I hope she found a safer place to be eventually. No little girl should be raped or forced to carry a baby and give birth due to intent or ignorance. Let alone a disabled child. Dark azz world.😔
I was reading a Reddit post I think, I can’t remember the context, but a lot of comments were from children born to low IQ parent(s) and the children realizing they were smarter than their parent(s) at a young age. And they were sad comments. It’s difficult to go through. Imagine having to be the adult as a minor. Imagine that you’re the one that’s supposed to be guided, to make mistakes, but you can’t.
Thank you for acknowledging this, I was born to a special needs mom with the intellectual capacity of a 6-7 yr old and I knew I had surpassed her at 6yrs old. I remember reading to her one day then wondering in that moment why couldn't she read. She's not like other adults, something is wrong. The having to be the adult as a minor and not make any mistakes Is REAL! I'm blessed for people like Terrell Carter, that can tell their story to inspire the rest of us to tell ours.
@@BiracialTanika Oh, she's doing good. She's 72 now with no change in her intellect and a small touch of dementia but she is one of the sweetest people you could ever meet. Thank you for asking luv 😊
The Black Family & our secrets. 😑 I appreciate this level of candid transparency. I love that he chose to triumph over what could have been a permanently debilitating story. I want to buy his book.
wtf? imagine not respecting a woman, actually a CHILD all her life who went through a life like that…If you think you’re above her you don’t have my respect.
The poor mother molested as an eleven year old, that makes me so sad for her. The guy who did that is terrible. Want to read that book. He preserved. Good for him.
@misscleo378 its a catch all term but its specifically used for child sexual assault, it doesnt mean what happened wasnt serious, it means that it was pedophilia
I found this due to the RUclips algorithm. I have no idea who this guy is, but the fact that he could see through the faults of his family and become an outstanding person is incredible. I really wish him the best.
My mum has always had a lower IQ and I have always wanted to protect her. During this time in my life, when I am so alone, I relate so much to what Terrell says here. I feel ashamed that I have not been able to do more to protect my mother given my own difficulties. Still, it was healing to hear someone else talk about having come from a broken background but to've flourished in spite of that.
My grandma had her first baby at 13, it was her dad’s. She got pregnant at 12. We were raised thinking she was my grandmas sister, I didn’t know the truth until a couple years ago. She’s been gone for years now. She had two more kids while living with her father then was married off to a man that was 20 plus years older than her. Not sure if he was my father and uncles dad also but it explained the monkey on my dad’s back his whole life.. we all paid for it 6 kids and my mother… we all paid.
It’s important for you to put your story out there! It’s amazing you became the man you are today and other young black boys could be inspired for success! Your mission!
Other black BOYS? What about black girls and black women?! They're the ones getting raped, beaten, living in these garbage families. Getting cancer being born deformed, disabled....all of life's misery. But.....poor black boys! THEY have it so hard.
I have a special needs great aunt. I remember a COP saying that she NEEDS to be "serviced" and he was "willing" to do us this FAVOR. And that there were OTHERS also tellinh him they were willing to HELP us with this......she is 65 with the mind of a 11/15 y/o
Some of the people with the strongest morals I know had the worst start in life. They grew up and swore that they would never be like the adults who failed them, their homes would be safe and clean, their children will be well fed and given everything they weren’t including unconditional love and a protector. This man’s poor mother couldn’t have done that for him perfectly because she is intellectually and physically disabled, but he grew up and got out and he is living a better life now.
I am very sorry for your mum that that happened to her. These men should be locked up and that’s that. I have a cousin who was also 11 years old and she had a baby. She did not even know what was going on with her body. The father was her stepfather
Thank you, Mr. Carter, for being open and vulnerable. We need to have more conversations like these to remove the stigma in black families and we need to stop keeping secrets like this because it hurts all of us. Our children grow up with this trauma and sometimes they don't turn out like Terrell Carter. Some children can't work through it or rise above it, they stay stuck in their trauma and lash out on the next generation.
Mr Terrell Carter I can only say praise God you still here, and you thank him too. Your life and story is profound and will impact many in a great way. Know this, u belong to God.
Thank you for sharing, the abuse within families are horrifying and sad. Many families go through this and it really feels good to hear someone finally speak on the family abuse on our children. Thank you from someone coming from a insisted family.
Paula, yeah he a miracle but they wouldn't be wrong for terminating it. whew chile ! when you think you've heard it all. i seen him once , he is about 6ft6 and built like a stury fortress . he has an impressive physical presence.
@@PHlopheTell him to his face that his family wouldn't be wrong for killing him. It would've been wrong to kill him. What was wrong was the allowance of a 11 year old to be molested. More than likely the family knew and turned a blind eye.
@ quit trying to justify getting rid of your own baby. Mothers who have their children who are products of that are happy they made the right choice. And I agree.
@@60Airflyte Doubt his mother was happy giving birth as a little child and having to raise one when she didn’t have the mental capacity to. My aunt was forced to give birth and she offed herself due to the trauma 6 months later when she was 13. Maybe let women themselves decide. (Shocking concept I know 🙄)
I’m inspired by your gallantry, subtle but very well executed. You are the truth within this mother whom had no voice … in such. You are her voice and voice of many others unseen . Grateful🙏🏽☝🏽💕
Man, God can put blessings is ANY situation. What a well spoken, self-aware young man. God Bless you, and I’m sorry for the horrible experience your mother had to endure but what a blessing you are to the world. Thank you for sharing your story.
Thank you for sharing your story. Not the first time hearing a story like this but these stories need to be heard. The more they are told the more they will reveal. Especially when children are so young having these types of experiences. You're here for a reason.
My first introduction to this man. What a wild story! Im really impressed by how he carries himself given how he came to be and what his family was like. Very beautiful man, inside and out. Im definitely going to check out his book.
It takes strength to talk about this topic but this also proves that even tragedy can lead to blessing and Terrell Carter is surely one with his personality, talent, and sincerity...
My mom and her OLDER sister didn’t want a trial.. ended up back in the house with him because no one wanted her at 18 and she had health issues as a 4’ 9” young women…. Left because the entire family put pressure on her to write the parole board that he wasnt a danger and deserved his hunting weapons back…. one of the few reasons the cops took the girls seriously….. circa the late 80s
TCarter could not control the circumstances on how he got here. Nobody can. But what TCarter could control was NOT to allow his environment to dictate his destiny of becoming the person he became. I applaud him.
Terrell, I am sorry your start in life was so rough. You have taken a very bad situation and have risen above it to be the most you can be. Your words are very inspiring!
You are incredable. So so sorry.fornyour mother. She deserved more for thos world. You made the pain worth it sir. In all the awful. You gave her life.too.
All I can think of is how brave and strong your mother must have been to go through all of that with the cards she was dealt. May the lord bless and keep her 🙏
How brave and intuitive this man is from a young age to know he is himself and not just the culture he was born into. Without guilt or shame or disrespect he talks his own truth.
😢. He 's so awesome to share this. So many families are experiencing this and are afraid to tell their story. You are brave. This will inspire so many. May God continue blessing you!
This is heartbreaking. Please don't use Terrel's story to justify forced-birth and child-r@p3. He managed to succeed despite this, not because of it. Blessings on all others in such situations.
Wow, your story is very motivating during a time I really needed to hear words of encouragement to keep going. And to hear you say with everything you were born into, you are not a product of your environment. Perseverance is a must.
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Wow. It's disgusting to hear a grown add 26 yo messing with an 11 year old child he should have been bury under the prison.
its one o those stories that is so crazy no one would believe.
Raping is what you meant to say … that’s not messing with …that’s statutory rape .
Yes, under the jail!
@@ryanamari2233THANK YOU!!!🙏🏾Words mean things. How are we supposed to hold predators accountable if ppl wont use the REAL term?!😡
Sick person need held accountable
He was RAPING her. I just can’t deal with all these people enabling pedophiles in their families. I’m SO SICK OF IT!!!!🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
I'm don't think Terrell is at all saying it was ok. If this is the only part you heard of this.. what part of what he said made you think anyone was enabling it?
Yeah they act like penetration with fingers isn't rape.
Penetration is rape, period.
It doesn't matter which orifices are penetrated or with what.
If you force your tongue into my mouth without my consent, you have raped me.
Black people are too complacent with these kinds of things.
@@Timmybabim I think they're talking about the whole family knowing that the only way for an 11-year-old in her condition to have a baby is that she was raped and no one in the family (not Terrell) did nothing
@@Timmybabim He said that the family "split" over it. That was and still is quite normal. People want to keep it a secret (shame) and protect the perpetrator ("but he seems like such a nice guy") and back then there was no DNA testing ("maybe it was someone who just looks like him") and on and on. Anything but admitting that there is a man in their family capable of raping a disabled child and getting her pregnant. People still have a very hard time stepping up and saying, "The rapist in OUR family is going to prison for a very, VERY, long time and we're turning him in to start the process." Terrible but true. Many families are dangerous to their own children.
To hear him say at 5 he realized he was smarter than his mother 😢.
Well, she had special needs
@neiya8862 Having special needs doesn't automatically mean a 5yr old is smarter than that person !!!
@@neiya8862 some kids are smarter than their parents who are not special needs. And some special needs people are very intelligent.
Unfortunately this is common in his broken community
@@timharris1675 lol. No, a 5 year old being smarter than his 11 year old, special needs mother who was violated and impregnated is NOT common in ANY community. You just made that up.
Important that he said “…11 year old baby girl, had this baby” 11 is without a doubt, a child. Thank you for using proper wording in this sensitive, but important conversation.
You are congratulating a man on how he talked about his mother being raped and him being the offspring from that rape? Dude can talk however he wants, its his story!! WTF is with you people this is creepy!
@@patrickbertlein4626 What is wrong with you??? They were saying they were happy he called the obvious little girl a little girl. I'm sure he did so out of respect to his mother and because it's true. Other men refer to little girls who have been r*ped as young women so the crime doesn't sound as bad.
@@patrickbertlein4626 shut up the fuck you complaining about
@@patrickbertlein4626that is incorrect. The original commenter was recognizing how important it is that he used accurate language about what happened. Too often, even if the child is disabled, young Black girls are accused of being "fast" and "knowing what they were doing" when they were being sexually assualted and groomed. By clearly saying that his mother was a child that gave birth to a child, he not only used accurate language, but he also expressed something that is not has commonly been expressed within the Black community.
@@thesmileyeffect Again, NO, you are not even getting what I am saying here. This man is speaking from trauma, no matter what he says, its for him to say. Making this a Black thing is just dumb, shutup. I got no problem with someone saying they appreciate another's words, but terms like proper or improper are just bullshit. He said the thing the person liked, great. And if he didn't, would he be tarnished?
The OP essentially went "you said things how I think you should have said it so I approve". This is the same exact thing as the MULTIPLE posts saying "you didn't say this" or interrogating people's language. Frankly I think you're too stupid to get it.
she was a child w the mind of a baby who was raped, im so devastated for her. people are so mean to young moms, i hope people didnt call her “fast” and make her do everything herself w little to no help. she didnt even get the chance to live her best life despite her misfortunes, the pedophile thought being horny was harder for him than what she was already going through and more important than her future and body.
Well some young moms weren’t rape and were fast. Like my sister. And then they give birth to a baby that their parents and the rest of the family have to help raise. That’s unfair to the family.
@@cressapellom4205 bet you a dollar that she has her own traumatic story that happened well before she became a mom.
@@cressapellom4205Well, we’re not talking about your sister. We’re talking about his mom. I wish your family healing but that answer is pointless.
It was her dad. She was special needs and had a physical disability. I’m pretty sure everyone knew she was a victim.
@@cressapellom4205 if your sister was dealing with someone older, than she was r@ped as young children and teens cannot consent. If a grown man fathered you niece/nephew than he's a pedo, creep! If not, then i don't even know why you got on here and made that comment...apples and oranges dear
...even still, this is about an 11 yr old disabled child... your comment is simply out of pocket
Why didn’t the man go to jail? Family split where is the jail time in this story?? He should still be rotting in jail right now!!!
I’m guessing his mother probably gave birth at home so they could keep this a secret.
@@stephaniehall8179nope. I read his book. his story has a lot of holes in it. he was supposedly born at in a hospital. as a state reporter the doctors at the hospital would have reported this to the authorities.
Probably protecting him.
Or un-alived!!! Messing with me or mine!!🤬🤬🤬
I hate to admit that this was just another family secret that was typical of black families in the past. I really want to read the book about this self-made man.
“At 5 I was smarter than she was.” That made me want to cry. That he was so kind and loving towards her is a testament to who he is…
@@paisleyprincess7996 he was the incarnate of her. That's why.
@@Option1666you mean to say he’s special needs or that he’s kind?
It was incredibly sad.
@daynasafranek7807 NO she was incarnated to take her out of the condition she was born in. She incarnated in him that was the purpose of the so called raping her.
My thoughts exactly. The fact that he at such a young age figured out that he needed to be kinder to her because of her disabilities - that's a real man right there.
🎀To have such insight at 5 years old. Then the fact that he told himself."I need to be kinder to her." 🎀
Right? what a pure child he was despite his origin
Well said. Blessed! Wow💝
Why you adding those emojis to make you comment seen more aesthetic is kinda weird, considering the context of this video and all, like you you doing that?
Beautiful
@@Lunette-v9ipolicing how people write comments now? Stfu lunaticette
You can tell from how emotionally intelligent this man is that he’s dealt with a great deal of trauma.
Well that’s true but also look at him when he was 5 years old, realizing he was smarter/more self aware than her and concluding he should be kind. That’s some innate empathy of his personality.
It's both. This man developed the awareness he had as a child to help himself deal with his ongoing childhood trauma.
Sometimes children realise that the only way that they are going to feel more of the emotional connection with the people who raise them, is by tuning into them with empathy. That's what I consciously did when I was 5, too. I was raised in a completely different situation, but was emotionally neglected also.
@@daniellamcgee4251 I would take it a step farther and say that the child parentifies themselves emotionally.
I was 5 when I realized something wasn't right with my autistic/low iq mother, that was the day I became both my mother and hers.
Special Needs children/adults are the most vulnerable at being abused since many of them can't explain what's happening to them and none of them can give consent since some people think they can. My friend made it a point that no male nurses could tend to her non-verbal, mind of a 3yr old sister who was a fully developed woman. She was in an institution. Families of special needs individuals need to be vigilant in limiting who can be around the special needs children/adult. It's okay to be rude and say, "No, you can't babysit. No, you can't take them for ice cream. No, they can't go to a birthday unless a trusted individual is there to supervise the special needs children/adult personally." "No, no lap sitting allowed". "No" is never rude when it comes to safety.
There's this documentary about this school for the deaf and mute and maybe blind (in Japan I think) where the institution routinely allowed men to come and molest/SA the children. I think many of the perps were govt officials or businessmen. They were the perfect victim. No one could hear their screams.(that may have been the title)
Movie is called "Silenced." Terrible story.
A female was institutionalized . She couldn't take care of herself. I forget what was wrong with her. I think it was something with her brain. She couldn't walk, talk, or communicate in any way. Her family said no males can attend to her. She had a male doctor but that was it. Long story short she became pregnant and nobody knew until she went into labor. They had every male worker take a DNA test and found that a worker was the father. He got locked up, and the doctor was fired because the fact that he didn't know she was pregnant indicated he wasn't looking after her at all. So sad. God only knows how long that man was molesting her.
I worked with adults with intellectual disabilities for many years and many of them had been abused in this way, at some point. One very sweet woman had had a child from rape and the baby was given away and she always missed that baby... very sad.
@@thrshwll1526 I Remember That It Was Shocking!
This is so heartbreaking. For ten seconds of release, a man will destroy a person’s entire life. What monsters.
I have a ten year old daughter and to hear this devastates me. Why would a grown man want an undeveloped child?
this is extremely haunting. i understand Terrell has moved past it but i onno but no therapy could ever save my soul from that horror. i would spend my conscious existence trying to unalive myself.
Just so sad.
@@PHlophe I understand your stance, but I tell myself that as long as Jesus reigns as King, there is nothing that can happen to me that He can’t heal me from. I was sexually assaulted twice, first when I was 14, then at 39. I’m now 40 and have forgiven both of my abusers. It was not easy but I didn’t want bitterness to take root.
@@PHlophe That is absurd. Why in the hell would you "spend my conscious existence trying to unalive myself." You would and might need deep counseling. He is NOT the circumstances of his birth, and he is not his parents. Why would you ruin the rest of your left due to a traumatic start? If that is the case, more than half the world would feel like that. You work with what you have left and make the best of it. He should be grateful he is healthy, fine, gifted, and smart, in my opinion. He is blessed in spite of the storm that he blew in on.
Pervert.
This is why I’m so protective of my autistic son. People with disabilities are more vulnerable and statistically more likely to be abused sexually… it’s my biggest fear for him.
Same! My daughter is 6 and is severely autistic, I’m so scared for her future, I’m never letting her out my sight!
@ wish I could give you a hug! I relate heavily. My son is non vocal and needs aid in most every area of his life. I am homeschooling him and keeping a close eye because I don’t trust anybody to care for him. I’ve seen too many news headlines!!
Good for you for keeping your baby close and protecting her 💕 that’s beautiful, and she’s lucky to have you !
Mine hasn’t been back to school in 2 years now. Definitely trust your gut with your child and who he is around and don’t let anyone tell you it’s “normal” for your autistic child to suddenly become terrified of a place and certain people. It is not and they are lying.
My son is non speaking and I had to pull him out of Kindergarten because of seclusion and restraint. It pisses me off, our kids deserve better
@@julesjules5439 I worked in a school where they used PCMA on the autistic kids and that’s why I’m homeschooling!! It’s crazy the way they treat non speaking children
For those who want to pick apart the way Terrell Carter tell his story, it's HIS story. He is shedding light on something that is so difficult to say, but he's willing to be open about it. Maybe he doesn't say it the way you would, but it's kind of amazing that he is able to talk about it at all. God bless him!
Amen!!!
"The most derogatory things you can think about a black family - that was my family" 😮 What a story!
Right 💯, mine also this was uplifting
And from that statement everyone should know off bat the story he said his family told him about the tumor in the beginning is a 1ie.
They knew
MINE TOO….
What race has to do with it. So white females don't get raped and molested by white men. There are very messed up families of all races and nationalities. I sympathize with the brother but it was ignorant statement. This would have been bad for any family.
I know how he feels I feel like white trash sometimes things were so cliche. It's just self perception and takes a lot of healing to not feel like a stereotype. ❤
I wish everyone would stop saying she was m*lested when she was obviously r* ped. It kind of softens the whole trauma and true evil of what was done to an innocent 11 year old girl with special needs.
I think the use of word is for RUclipss policies.
M* means they sexually assaulted or abused of a child. The definitions can be synonymous too. Also they may not of been physical force but manipulation or coercion that led to the assault. His distinction may have been an indication of the specific crime that had occurred.
How the person was able to rape her has nothing to do with it. Because she is a minor and even more so because she is mentally disabled she cannot give consent in any way so this is flat out classified as RAPE.@@Zom13y
Using the M word is an insult to the victim. Thank you for saying what I've been thinking for years.
It really is all the same. As a person who has overcome this, there is no significant difference in words. It's not like the person comes to you slapping you around and whatnot. Usually, they talk nice and coerce you into it. Suck but it's true. Usually you're very young and don't know what to do.
The fact that the daddy violated a ONE LEG girl is INSANE!! Lord bless this family
So would it have been better if she had 2 legs?! Wow… The things that some of you are shocked by.
The fact that a grown man violated a little girl Period should disgust you!
Not ont one legged but disabled and a child as well. That man is evil. Terrel is an exceptional man to make his own cards in life
@@FairEbonyI think they meant on top of the fact this is a child, he preyed on a child that honestly, could not even run away from him. It just adds an additional layer of cruelty and evil to it all. The whole thing is wickedness regardless though.
@@FairEbony No it's the fact that a man takes advantage of a child that requires THAT much protection. Which is proof that people will go to hell for this
@@FairEbonyexactly ignorance at its finest. 💯👊🏽
Terrell Carter, you may never read this but you truly became a wonderful young Man. You were meant to be born, and I wish you many Blessings.
I don’t won’t to take anything from the young man because he is here. I was a pregnant 18 yr old because I didn’t think it was important enough to listen to my mother. I stayed at Catholic Charities which was a home for unwed mothers. The majority would give their baby up for adoption. The majority of the girls were 16yrs to 18 years old. The youngest was a ten yr old that was pregnant by her natural dad. She didn’t join us in group counseling. She didn’t interact with the older girls. She barely had breast, I can’t imagine her having childbirth vaginally, so if she had the baby by a C-section she would not only have an permanent emotional scare but she will have a physical scar that will always be a visible reminder. When I read you saying to Terrell you were meant to be born. I don’t believe this is what you are saying, but I can’t help but hear you say to his 11 yrs young mother You were meant to be raped by the father so Terrell could be born. I can’t believe in bad things happen to people for a reason. Terrell could have very well been born into a loving family, and have become a productive man.
@@imaginelovepeaceandhappine3281 he was saying that something good came out of something so horrible. No one thinks it’s a good thing that his mother was raped!
BTW females also rape girls, they just can’t get them pregnant. The child still has to live with the trauma
@@imaginelovepeaceandhappine3281so are you saying or do you believe he should have been aborted because he was conceived as a result of rape? This is always a sensitive topic (conception by rape and the effect on the mother and child), so I don't mean to diminish the experience in any way because God forbid I should ever have to be involved in such a decision. But should a child be killed before or after birth because he is a special needs child or born with a birth defect that will be a challenge for the rest of his life and his mother's?
Meant to be means it was fate for her to be raped so that he could be born into this world @@Jan-A
@@janerivera9816 , God is always in the midst of even the worst things that happen on this earth.
As i get older, i figure that I've heard everything and to still hear things so shocking is just....
Sadly to think I have some stories in common with this man is heartbreaking!😢
No for real 😮this story is sickening man
I could tell you my stuff that would give you nightmares for life!
Wow, you just described my family! I distanced myself from them in Elementary school because they were so damn embarrassing...like dropping me off at school and stealing the teachers purse as they left, breaking into my classmates house, using kids to rob pharmacies, using kids to steal Christmas presents, denying molestation when it occurred, showing up to my Jr. high for a Scarred Straight presentation by the sheriff's department to share how they F'd up their lives...infront of all of my classmates and teachers... I could go on, but I won't. If I didn't decide to Not be Like Them, I would probably be dead.
Wow. I hope you’ve had a good life. You deserve it. You are not where you come from.
Sorry to hear that.
Man, you & me could trade some stories! Glad you got away, I did too.
My God, you are a miracle. I’m praying for you.
Jeeeeeeeeezuuuuus
I'm so glad you chose to be opposite of that and hope that you have built a peaceful and happy life ❤
I never hear from the children of these situations. Horrible that this happened. But a beautiful human being emerged from the situation.
It’s why every child should have a chance at life
@@weewhorobin8202
Would you say the same if he came out the opposite: like say, a serial killer?
@weewhorobin8202 It is up to a woman or child's guardian to decide. I'm glad this man is here, but it's an awful, disgusting situation and the man should have been sent to jail for life. Nobody should have to have their ra p. Is ts baby unless they want to. That little girl was not just physically disabled but also mentally.
@@clairevariandeacon6906 Thank you. This is what I was afraid of. That people use Terrel's story to justify forced-birth and child-r@p3.
@@weewhorobin8202 Interesting that you said nothing about the poor child that was traumatized repeatedly by this situation.
To overcome this type of generational trauma is astonishing. God bless him ❤
To be honest about it, public…. that takes strength
Thank for having the guts to discuss this. Many black families don't.
I commonly hear that incest is more common among white families, do you think this is a bit of a lie?
So true this is why so many black families are messed up to this day because of incest and family telling you to get over it😢
@@corishabrown685 I can guarantee you white families have plenty of incest too, unfortunately. Supposedly its more common for white dudes but that could possible be due to under reporting in black communities.
@@corishabrown685That is so not true! Maybe it happen to you but this is no more of the norm than in white families!
@@patrickbertlein4626I don’t think people of any race are going to be jumping for joy to tell stories like this so I think it would be incredibly difficult to get an accurate assessment of something like that. It’s like how they say that 5% of people are lgbtq but who’s to know how accurate that is cuz there’s millions of people who have engaged in some lgbtq activity that would rather die than admit to it.
Oh my goodness his story is amazing. He knew he needed to be nice to his mother. My heart.
That part. All that positive emotinal awareness at such a young age. She taught him that, if nothing else.
At 5 years old, I think he should have been raised as her little brother. That’s too much pressure on a child and both of them were children. There were some major disfunction in that family. They all failed that poor baby.
He rose above the situation
My special needs cousins was raped and became pregnant. She couldn't sit up, walk or be able to comprehend what happened to her. She could barely talk. When it came time for her to give birth she was able to mutter to my aunt that she was scared. They were never able to determine who the father was. My aunt however did put her daughter up for adoption. It's very discussed to take advantage of the special needs.
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That’s so horrible
They can still find out with DNA test.
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@@malcriadamedina5358true. DNA could have been taken from the baby. However, the database would need DNA from the father, or a close biological relative of his to figure out who he is. Plus, such DNA data would have to be in the system.
I am speechless! How could a person do this! God bless the mother and Terrell. God will take care of you both.
This is the stuff people still hide when it needs to be talked about because those kind of people who do these kind of needs to be put prison for life and not celebrated
@@veronicawatson2525👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
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I mean, for a perpetrator it's a lot easier to do it to a special needs 10 y/o girl than to someone who can actually fight back and/or get you into real trouble, isn't it?
For people so inclined, it does make sense from a self-preserving point of view. There's also very clearly a satisfactory aspect involved.
I can’t. No. To even CALL an 11 year-old with special needs ‘mother’ is offensive to my soul. No. The poor, innocent, sweet little baby. My heart breaks for her and the trauma she endured.
should he erase himself from existence then? like a terrible crime took place and that poor girl was failed horribly by the adults around her, but terrell was not one of them. he was a baby and she is the only mother he has ever known
Then they had the predator around until he was 5, still around her
@@malcriadamedina5358I don’t understand why nobody suspected anything. I believe the whole family suffered from mental illness. They didn’t know that the child was pregnant until she was ready to give birth. Sometimes family members do know and does nothing about it or blame the child.
@@TeeTee-2016I can guarantee you that they knew. The tumor talk reeks of a lie you tell yourself so you don't have to confront the truth.
That’s weird. She probably loves being called mother by her innocent child. It’s the one relationship in her life that hasn’t failed her.
Please believe me. Your story is one in a thousand, and you are stronger than most. 😢
What in the hell?! I saw the title but was still unprepared for the actual video. I don't even know what to say about this.
It's scary to think people protected a predator more than a child and she never got swift justice. An ounce of it only came with him airing their story. And extra scary that there is a huge chunk of the world that would defend what happened to her as okay or "gods will" just because a good guy came out of it. That child deserved a better family. Im glad he is honest and has empathy for her. There are so many ways that could have gone or how he coulda turned out. They were both failed for too long. I hope she found a safer place to be eventually. No little girl should be raped or forced to carry a baby and give birth due to intent or ignorance. Let alone a disabled child. Dark azz world.😔
It's a lot of us reality
Sadly it has happened that way in a lot of families.
This guy is an incredibly talented and wonderful man. We've worked with him and we are friends. He's like a walking ray of sunshine.
I was reading a Reddit post I think, I can’t remember the context, but a lot of comments were from children born to low IQ parent(s) and the children realizing they were smarter than their parent(s) at a young age. And they were sad comments. It’s difficult to go through. Imagine having to be the adult as a minor. Imagine that you’re the one that’s supposed to be guided, to make mistakes, but you can’t.
Thank you for acknowledging this, I was born to a special needs mom with the intellectual capacity of a 6-7 yr old and I knew I had surpassed her at 6yrs old. I remember reading to her one day then wondering in that moment why couldn't she read. She's not like other adults, something is wrong. The having to be the adult as a minor and not make any mistakes Is REAL! I'm blessed for people like Terrell Carter, that can tell their story to inspire the rest of us to tell ours.
I don't think he was raised by the child, grandparents raised him
@@lyramarie8How is your mom doing now?
@@BiracialTanika Oh, she's doing good. She's 72 now with no change in her intellect and a small touch of dementia but she is one of the sweetest people you could ever meet. Thank you for asking luv 😊
@@lyramarie8 Glad to hear 😊.
The Black Family & our secrets. 😑 I appreciate this level of candid transparency. I love that he chose to triumph over what could have been a permanently debilitating story. I want to buy his book.
So SA is a "black family" thing? Never heard that before.
It happens in ALL races, don't think it is just the black race.
The fact that he has respect for his mother speaks volumes of him..what an upstanding young man.!
Why would he not have respect for his mother? She didn't do anything.
If he truly respected his mother, he would have his father put in jail.
the expectations these people have are so low it is comical it is pitiful
@@NamasteInYourLaneExactly! She was a child!
wtf? imagine not respecting a woman, actually a CHILD all her life who went through a life like that…If you think you’re above her you don’t have my respect.
The poor mother molested as an eleven year old, that makes me so sad for her. The guy who did that is terrible. Want to read that book. He preserved. Good for him.
Molestation is a catch-all term for any sexual abuse. That poor child was raped.
@misscleo378 its a catch all term but its specifically used for child sexual assault, it doesnt mean what happened wasnt serious, it means that it was pedophilia
I'm sure it started years before. 11 was the age she gave birth
R@ped not molested
@@malcriadamedina5358 exactly! 9mths of pregnancy. Terrell says 'he thought she couldn't get pregnant'.
Ruffled every feather on my little bird body!! No words! Much Respect!!!
I had to pause at 2:05 to say God bless this GORGEOUS, intelligent, aware man. So glad the world was blessed with him.
I found this due to the RUclips algorithm. I have no idea who this guy is, but the fact that he could see through the faults of his family and become an outstanding person is incredible. I really wish him the best.
I don't know who this beautiful young man is, but I love him. What a sweet, kind, gentle spirit. Bless you young man.
It's oddly refreshing to hear two men talking about a woman with so much respect ❤ thank you so much for your maturity
My mum has always had a lower IQ and I have always wanted to protect her. During this time in my life, when I am so alone, I relate so much to what Terrell says here. I feel ashamed that I have not been able to do more to protect my mother given my own difficulties. Still, it was healing to hear someone else talk about having come from a broken background but to've flourished in spite of that.
What a beautiful young man - inside and out.
This is crazy and unfortunate for his mom. Thankfully her son knew he had to protect his mom.
My grandma had her first baby at 13, it was her dad’s. She got pregnant at 12. We were raised thinking she was my grandmas sister, I didn’t know the truth until a couple years ago. She’s been gone for years now. She had two more kids while living with her father then was married off to a man that was 20 plus years older than her. Not sure if he was my father and uncles dad also but it explained the monkey on my dad’s back his whole life.. we all paid for it 6 kids and my mother… we all paid.
I'm so sorry, that's such a sad tale. I hope you've overcome all this and have made a good life for yourself
We had a situation like this in our neighborhood. It happens more than you know!!
Same.
It’s important for you to put your story out there! It’s amazing you became the man you are today and other young black boys could be inspired for success! Your mission!
Other black BOYS? What about black girls and black women?! They're the ones getting raped, beaten, living in these garbage families. Getting cancer being born deformed, disabled....all of life's misery.
But.....poor black boys! THEY have it so hard.
I have a special needs great aunt. I remember a COP saying that she NEEDS to be "serviced" and he was "willing" to do us this FAVOR. And that there were OTHERS also tellinh him they were willing to HELP us with this......she is 65 with the mind of a 11/15 y/o
No words.
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wtf. if she had the mind of a teenager then she doesn't need anyone's assistance. she can service herself.
Five years old and he already was a better man then his biological father could ever be.
Some of the people with the strongest morals I know had the worst start in life. They grew up and swore that they would never be like the adults who failed them, their homes would be safe and clean, their children will be well fed and given everything they weren’t including unconditional love and a protector. This man’s poor mother couldn’t have done that for him perfectly because she is intellectually and physically disabled, but he grew up and got out and he is living a better life now.
I am very sorry for your mum that that happened to her. These men should be locked up and that’s that. I have a cousin who was also 11 years old and she had a baby. She did not even know what was going on with her body. The father was her stepfather
😮 did he get locked up
don't know anything about this guy but it's great to see someone beating the odds and still managing to develop into a kind and thoughtful person
My mother was molested when she was 14 and I was born 9 months later when she was 15. Her stepdad did it.
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😢 How did your life turn out? ❤
I'm so sorry that happened to your mother.🥺 Many blessings to you. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@sandiegorilla 😞🙏🏽
His grandmother FAILED his mother. They let that nasty ass man rape her. They all should have been put in jail.
Oh Love, being brought up like this …. What an impact on who he has become. He bears it with grace. Well done.
What a brave young man. He knew even at 5 that he should be nice to his young mom. He also is not letting his past define him!
Thank you, Mr. Carter, for being open and vulnerable. We need to have more conversations like these to remove the stigma in black families and we need to stop keeping secrets like this because it hurts all of us. Our children grow up with this trauma and sometimes they don't turn out like Terrell Carter. Some children can't work through it or rise above it, they stay stuck in their trauma and lash out on the next generation.
What a heartbreaking story. So tragic for the girl.
Mr Terrell Carter I can only say praise God you still here, and you thank him too. Your life and story is profound and will impact many in a great way. Know this, u belong to God.
Overcoming THAT kind of generational trauma and finding purpose in life owning your identity wow. may god bless him foreverr
I'm traumatized just hearing this story, my life will never be the same
Overdramatic much?
1:37 Powerful... broke me.😮😢😮😞😞😞
Thank you for sharing, the abuse within families are horrifying and sad. Many families go through this and it really feels good to hear someone finally speak on the family abuse on our children. Thank you from someone coming from a insisted family.
Wow.. he is a miracle cause if the family had found out about the pregnancy sooner he may not be here today. God Bless His Journey to Greatness 🙏🏾
Paula, yeah he a miracle but they wouldn't be wrong for terminating it. whew chile ! when you think you've heard it all. i seen him once , he is about 6ft6 and built like a stury fortress . he has an impressive physical presence.
@@PHlopheTell him to his face that his family wouldn't be wrong for killing him. It would've been wrong to kill him. What was wrong was the allowance of a 11 year old to be molested. More than likely the family knew and turned a blind eye.
I would tell him to his face and he'd probably agree @@shanellakers7303i
@@shanellakers7303❤💯💯💯💯
Who is to say they did not find out sooner? Maybe that's the story he was told. Some families simply are pro life regardless.
He’s a brave man for sharing his story. I wish him the best in life.
This took the wind out of my sail.
So many would say Terrell and I shouldn’t be here. I’m so glad we are.
I'm glad you are too! 🙏
Heck most children of grape would rather not be alive if it would save their child mothers such trauma, and I agree.
@ quit trying to justify getting rid of your own baby. Mothers who have their children who are products of that are happy they made the right choice. And I agree.
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Doubt his mother was happy giving birth as a little child and having to raise one when she didn’t have the mental capacity to. My aunt was forced to give birth and she offed herself due to the trauma 6 months later when she was 13.
Maybe let women themselves decide. (Shocking concept I know 🙄)
@@Area-eu4kg anything is possible when you lie. Like I said, quit trying to justify your one of convenience by hiding behind victims of grape.
I’m inspired by your gallantry, subtle but very well executed. You are the truth within this mother whom had no voice … in such. You are her voice and voice of many others unseen . Grateful🙏🏽☝🏽💕
Wow! So sad but he has worked to overcome his beginnings. He should be an inspiration to others.
What a wonderful son. God bless him.
Man, God can put blessings is ANY situation. What a well spoken, self-aware young man. God Bless you, and I’m sorry for the horrible experience your mother had to endure but what a blessing you are to the world. Thank you for sharing your story.
Thank you for sharing your story. Not the first time hearing a story like this but these stories need to be heard. The more they are told the more they will reveal. Especially when children are so young having these types of experiences. You're here for a reason.
People that are born under special circumstances as this are some spiritually special children.... He has a calling on his life❤❤❤❤
Wow!! God bless 💞
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Thanks for sharing.
My first introduction to this man. What a wild story! Im really impressed by how he carries himself given how he came to be and what his family was like. Very beautiful man, inside and out. Im definitely going to check out his book.
It takes strength to talk about this topic but this also proves that even tragedy can lead to blessing and Terrell Carter is surely one with his personality, talent, and sincerity...
There are laws to protect these horrible pedophiles, and laws to allow child marriages are still going on today
Of course men make the laws to protect themselves they are by far the most likely to be pedophiles it’s in their dna.
My mom and her OLDER sister didn’t want a trial.. ended up back in the house with him because no one wanted her at 18 and she had health issues as a 4’ 9” young women…. Left because the entire family put pressure on her to write the parole board that he wasnt a danger and deserved his hunting weapons back…. one of the few reasons the cops took the girls seriously….. circa the late 80s
You are so right. Iran just lowered the age of consent to 9.
@@terrylyle8302 WHAT ?!
@@terrylyle8302 iraq
Thanks for sharing this and exposing the evil that is executed against people of special needs; especially vulnerable children 😢
This was so sad and ridiculous to hear. God bless his mother for being who she is and bringing forth a light.
What a fantastic bloke and you just know. That he has and will ❤ and take care of his mum. GOD BLESS THEM .
Thank you for sharing your story. And for being a sensitive, caring son and human being.
TCarter could not control the circumstances on how he got here. Nobody can. But what TCarter could control was NOT to allow his environment to dictate his destiny of becoming the person he became. I applaud him.
And I'm so so sorry for what happened to his mother
Speechless! 😟
Terrell, I am sorry your start in life was so rough. You have taken a very bad situation and have risen above it to be the most you can be. Your words are very inspiring!
You are incredable. So so sorry.fornyour mother. She deserved more for thos world. You made the pain worth it sir. In all the awful. You gave her life.too.
How do you grape a one legged 11 y/o?…I can’t even fathom the level of pain…
She was 10, she gave birth at 11.
@@missb2182 just SICKENING!!
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Absolutely and heart breaking to hear that his mother was r*ped by an in-law and impregnated at 10 years old.
52 weeks in a year, 38 to 42 weeks to deliver a baby full term. She could have been 11@@missb2182
And unfortunately, there are more victims we may never know about.
This is one put together man, I just want to send him the best.
This man is a miracle and a testimony that where you come from is not where you have to end up.
All I can think of is how brave and strong your mother must have been to go through all of that with the cards she was dealt.
May the lord bless and keep her 🙏
How brave and intuitive this man is from a young age to know he is himself and not just the culture he was born into. Without guilt or shame or disrespect he talks his own truth.
GOD Bless You Terrell Carter 🙏🏾❤️
Oh my goodness, bless that child. She went through so much but she had her baby and look at him now! ❤
This was sad but inspirational because look at him❤
I don't know this man, but after watching this video, I wish nothing but the best in his life. God bless you brother.
😢. He 's so awesome to share this. So many families are experiencing this and are afraid to tell their story. You are brave. This will inspire so many. May God continue blessing you!
This is heartbreaking. Please don't use Terrel's story to justify forced-birth and child-r@p3. He managed to succeed despite this, not because of it. Blessings on all others in such situations.
This is completely heartbreaking.
Bless your mama, and you for what you endured. My heart is aching for you both.
Wow, your story is very motivating during a time I really needed to hear words of encouragement to keep going. And to hear you say with everything you were born into, you are not a product of your environment. Perseverance is a must.
Molested and rape are TWO different things folks! She was being RAPED