Mike Garry on Grief, Poetry, and Celebrating Life

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  • Опубликовано: 1 янв 2025

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  • @utawkinterme9428
    @utawkinterme9428 20 часов назад +1

    Totally fed from this video on so many levels.
    Totally agree with visitations you experienced.
    I had an experience when I visited my older brother/best friend in the chapel of rest. I leaned over to kiss his forehead. My hair fell onto his face.
    I said, "Sorry, my hairs all in your face!
    I knelt down at the side of the coffin and bowed my head in prayer.
    My hair again fell forward. As I prayed, I felt my hair at the front gently brushed back off my face as if it was swept back so lightly with a long soft feather or something. I jumped back so much I nearly went backwards.
    I knew if it was my brothers spirit he would've felt bad if he'd made me afraid.
    I regained my balance, caught my breathe and said, "I'm so sorry! You just took me by surprise.
    I chatted with him really feeling like he was there for sure.
    There was no-one else there, just me and my brother layn in the coffin.

    • @PaulBSceneStories
      @PaulBSceneStories  18 часов назад +1

      Wow , thanks so much and thanks for sharing this powerful story . I’ve just been say reading it over and over x

    • @utawkinterme9428
      @utawkinterme9428 18 часов назад

      ​@@PaulBSceneStories That's so kind. You, Mike and my brother would have got on so well. He was wise, kind and very witty and funny.
      A real family support to us all, like that big tent pole in the middle, that holds everything else up. We were like the pegs that held the cover down individually. We could survive if a few pegs came out now and again as long as that middle pole was still firmly in place!
      I have seen/met with my brother in dreams too. So real. These dreams always end up were we are at a front door and as he's going he says, "Anyway kidda, I'd better shoot off! Love ya very much!
      He gives me a big but gentle bear hug and continues, "Love ya! Bye kidda, Bye! and he's gone out the door. This was exactly the same as he did in reality in the old days.
      The hug and farewell always ends the dream and I wake up really feeling it was real for a few seconds. I could feel his coat near my neck as he hugs me. Loads of small details. He was a Fire Fighter in Lancashire for twenty five years and died of Lung Cancer.
      I think of these scenes not as dreams but more as visits. I believe that in our dream journeys we and our loved ones are on level pegging because we we are not relying on our physical bodies at that time same as them.
      Thanks for caring enough to answer.
      Watching your video made my day. Sending love x

    • @utawkinterme9428
      @utawkinterme9428 17 часов назад +1

      @@PaulBSceneStories Thanks very much for letting me share, Sending lovexx

  • @jamesbridgewood3519
    @jamesbridgewood3519 5 месяцев назад +2

    Superb

  • @yvettev.warburton3585
    @yvettev.warburton3585 5 месяцев назад +2

    Fantastic video from both of you.

  • @pabloablono
    @pabloablono 3 месяца назад +2

    Only just discovered your channel Paul, must say it’s very good.

    • @PaulBSceneStories
      @PaulBSceneStories  3 месяца назад +2

      Thanks Paul. I’ve been plodding on doing stuff on grief and mental health, trying to use my experience of PTSD to help others . I’ve been getting low views but since I did one with Jeff on the Hacienda era I’m getting good views and people are discovering my older stuff 😀

    • @pabloablono
      @pabloablono 3 месяца назад +2

      @@PaulBSceneStories yeah that’s where I first discovered your channel. Really great content. I was only 19 when the hac shut but partied in Manchester throughout the nineties and beyond. I’m sober these days for my mental health, so that side resonates too. Keep up the good work.

    • @PaulBSceneStories
      @PaulBSceneStories  3 месяца назад +2

      @@pabloablono thanks , now I’m finally getting views I was debating on not doing mental health ones for a while. Good to read people would still watch them 😀

    • @pabloablono
      @pabloablono 3 месяца назад +2

      @@PaulBSceneStories I think the Manchester scene and many of those who lived through it will resonate with the mental health stuff too 👍

    • @PaulBSceneStories
      @PaulBSceneStories  3 месяца назад +2

      @@pabloablono I’m doing a mental health and spiritual one Saturday 😀