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My cat is fighting Cancer right now and gets very uncomfortable after her treatments, so I stay up all night with her to pet her and talk to her - and seeing a hefty three hour video drop from Leo is a blessing to help get through another night! Thank you!
Most of Europe countries dubbs like this. I hate it I wanted to watch something in german what was originaly english and I my brain was always catching english instead of german😂
I always have that shock when I watch european dubbed movies, in Brasil there's no background voice, it's so weird my brain doesn't know where to focus 😂
As shallow as he is he's self-aware and consciously recognizes that his shallow behavior is wrong. He's a better man than most of these shallow idiots.
I'm Swedish, and I just wanted to clear a few things up about the culture discussion. Meira was unsure about whether a Swedish guy would be right for her as she has Middle Eastern heritage - two wildly different cultures. The "typical" Swedish culture can easily be seen as rather stiff and reserved (to be honest, even joining a show like this is a very un-Swedish thing to do...which is a bit of a paradox I guess). This is why a lot of things said in the show will sound weird to people from other places, as they lack the context of the situation. Also, yes, the show is called Love is Blind Sweden, but we have a lot of different cultures and ethnicities living here so it's not that strange to never have dated a Swedish person, despite living or growing up here. At least if you live in one of the bigger cities.
yeah thats what i figured. whenever i watch things from different countries, i always know its a different culture, and never forget it, so i even tho i dont understand why they care for certain things, i just apply to my head, ok for whatever reason they care, and therefor this is how its played out.
Meira knew most of the men on the show were going to be Swedish, she knew what she was getting herself into, if she had said no, then this would have been all a publicity stunt
@@saeefaThat's like saying people shouldn't go on the american version expecting to meet a black partner because most of them are white. Like the OP said, there are a lot of people from other ethnicities, and clearly she wanted to try with him. That doesn't mean the concerns just disappear.
@@vanyadolly terrible comparison, 1/4 of each season on the American show are black. Afghans on a Swedish show is mega rare. She knew there was rarely gonna be anyone from her own background, and the Swedish version is nowhere near as diverse as the American show
After season 6 ive come the realization that they named it "Love is Blind" NOT because they date and fall in love without seeing each other. But because they BLINDLY stay in these relationships after seeing a plethora of red flags!!! Like if you agree 😏
It's not love is blind I will call it Every Animals mating ritual , can't humans actually be like humans we ain't just Build for eat , sleep , reproduce , care n the end there is a specific purpose each individual should atleast know atleast have thought or meditation or self inspection not to come in this world for every other living organism does, I wish people would be more people like not some herd of intelligent yet duds roaming on this planet.
I have never in my life seen a person this afraid of Estonians! 😂 You'd think Estonia would be on the other side of the world. You could get there in a rowboat!
I’m less than 20 minutes in, but I just wanted to say thank you for mentioning normalizing finding yourself in your 30s. I’m about to turn 36 and I’m very single, it’s something I’m REALLY struggling with. It’s just nice to hear that I’m not some “old head” doddering my way to the grave lol
I completely know what you mean. I’m 31 and have been single for 5 years while my friends have found their partners, got married, had babies etc. To say it’s been depressing and disheartening at times is an understatement, especially while continuously putting myself out there and going from one bad date and red flags to the other. I’d like to think there is still a chance to find love.
It’s so worth it to wait until you are ready and know yourself. I have a friend who got married for the first time at 72! (Not saying it will take that long but it’s never too late to find love)
I hope this doesn't sound creepy, but this makes me want to give you a hug. I'm the same age as you. I didn't meet my spouse until I was 32, and was at the point where I figured it was done for me. My mom and dad didn't get married until she was in her mid-30s and he was 40. When all my friend's parents were all getting divorced, my parents were solid. There's nothing wrong with not finding your person or yourself until you're over 30 (or over 40, for that matter). Most of the longest-lasting relationships I know of (where the people involved not only love each other, but like each other enough to weather the really rough patches) didn't begin until the couple were in their 30s. Hang in there, okay? I'm sorry you're having a tough time with where you are in life right now. I hope you'll be in a better place soon.
The expectations placed on people in their 20s are NUTS. You know who you are in your 30s, and most importantly, you know your worth and won't put up with BS. You WILL find your person. I wish you so much love and happiness❤
29 here and never been in a relationship, I can make connections with people quite easily but it never lasts more than a night or a few dates. And when so many people around me are coupled up and moving in together. It can be sad sometimes when confronted with that fact. Also when I say I've never been in a relationship the people on the other end of the date get scared and it's a problem for them, the problem becomes bigger the more I get older. But most of the time I live a very happy single life.
I agreeeeeeee!!! Japan was the best one!! I love the Asian dating shows, the cultures I've watched always interact with each other so respectfully and there are so many touching and cute moments always 😄 did anyone watch change days or love after divorce also?
While I see what you mean about Rasmus' and Serigo's shallowness, I think there is quite a difference between being scared you won't be psysically attracted to someone and saying you're turned off by the fact they where bullied for a disability. I think one is something you really can't control the other means you value people very differently based on social hierarchy and disability.
That’s what I think too, I feel like the part that bothered him the most was the bullying. If she said “oh yeah I had a corset for my scoliosis” he wouldn’t understand the implications of any of that, however at the notice OTHER PEOPLE had a negative view towards it, THATS what made him reconsider. Notice she never used the words ‘disability’ or anything similar. It was the fact she told him other people previously used it against her. So… he uses it against her?
The problem I had with Lucas was that you could tell he genuinely seemed to care about the person Emilia is yet he knew in his heart the whole time that he couldn’t be physically attracted to her So he essentially strung her along the whole time just to break her heart And even then, they still tried to date for a few weeks after the show Emilia just deserved so much better and it really was heartbreaking to watch her basically beg to be loved
He thought she would break up because saying to her he is not attracted to her but she didn’t. he is this kind of guy who never take the initiative of a breakup. He did everything to make the girl take the responsibility of the breakup because to pass as a good guy. So he can say it’s her who breaks up with me and play the victim when actually it’s him. But she wants him to much and she was so kind. He couldn’t ruin his image so He continued to faint all the time he was ok. He did later after the camera were of . But as a woman if a man says to me I don’t feel u attractive it’s the end how could I stay? Emilia Have no self esteem? When you someone doesn’t feel attraction for u this means he doesn’t find you beautiful so no need to try.
The thought of someone wanting to break up with me because I was bullied for my disability (hearing loss) made me feel really sad. I'm only an hour in, so I hope Sergio learns to grow and change! also you look great in pink Leo!
Deaf and mute are not the same thing. I am mute from a throat cancer. Nothing wrong with my hearing. Two totally different things. Regardless, Oskar is extremely HM and more than likely was helicopter parented where every sound he emitted from every hole was immediately dissected and resolved.
51:00 That's actually kyphosis, not scoliosis. For the record, scoliosis is a sideways curve to the spine, typically one curve, sometimes two (called double or S-curve scoliosis), and rarely three. It's typically congenital and usually not a huge issue, unless the degree of curve is over 30° or causing pain. Forward or backwards curves of the spine, which cause the shoulders to hunch or the hips to tilt, are a bit different. They can often be caused by posture while growing, or have congenital causes. It can also happen as a result of another disease, like osteoporosis. Other front/back spinal conditions include lordosis, flat back, and sway back. .... Sorry, I have a wonky spine and like to share what I've learned over the years. (◡‿◡✿)
My sons was in the 30s and they wanted to put him in a full body cast at 2 years old and I refused. He wasn’t in pain. The drs said he would walk otherwise and I said if he’s not walking by 3 then I’ll do it. He started walking 2 months later. He also is on the spectrum so it wasn’t all his back that he wasn’t walking yet.
2:17:44 Why is Leo so simp for Sergio? The guy just deflects the whole situation. An honest person, if he trully didn't know about it, would either "ok, I'm gonna get in touch with the woman I was with at the time" or "There's absolutely no way this is true" but no, he just deflects, deflects, deflects and turns out in the reunion he does have a child! (not in barcelona though lol)
yes Sergio is one of the biggest D-bags in love is blind. I think its possible to appreciate that he is good TV while also making clear he is a walking red flag
That’s the thing that bothered me the most! He never even acknowledged the fact that it was a possibility for another woman to be carrying his child he was just like « whatttt that’s crazy » and let every other willing contest make excuses for him
Middle age is no longer 30 because we no longer die at 60. Middle age is like 50 now. The longer we can live as a species, the more the old standards don't apply for these instances.
@@limner123 Depends on the country, average span here in aussie is 84. And well got multiple relatives 85 - 90+ There's average ages but still millions that live over that average if their life is healthy enough.
Not true. Lifespans are the same as theyve always been. It's historical infant mortality rates that skew the statistic. We've gotten better at keeping babies alive is all.
im swedish and i love your perspective on this!! however i definitely think some things get lost in translation for Meira and Oscar it’s not really about wether he’s attractive or not but more about their cultural differences she verbalizes her worry that she wouldn’t “fit into his world” considering she’s not native to sweden while he is, there’s definitely a lot of systemic racism in sweden especially towards middle-eastern people so i understand she’s worried about how that will come up later in their relationship especially when it comes to him not really seeing his privilege being a white swede from a rich background. in a perfect world there wouldn’t be any issues but i understand her worry, especially since he’s a little defensive whenever she brings up her worries about this i do love how they eventually communicate and come out stronger though! EDIT: just wanted to clarify all of this is kinda said between the lines and not super clear so it’s understandable to miss especially since it’s dubbed
The child wasn’t a roumor, it was a fact. And if something like this is happening it is more important for the potential partner to know that the person they will marry is a liar. That innocent until proven guilty thing should only be applied in court. Marrying someone who has a really bad reputation without even investigating would just be stupid. Now Amanda has a child from this man and is trapped to be in some type of relationship with him for the rest of her life.
I also have scoliosis and the kids at school were absolutely ruthless about my back brace. I also got chubby because it was really hard to even stand up, let alone be remotely active. I also had a permed mullet style haircut and glasses. I was pretty much Bully Bingo. I ended up being really tall with great posture and a cool haircut, I wouldn't trade it for peaking in school and what didn't kill me just made me funny AF. Sergio is a turd.
I gotta ask you since you are from Sweden. What was with the Estonian comment from the guy? There's no way he is so ignorant to think that Estonia is an infliction, not an ethnicity. I expect that from Americans, as an American speaking from experience. Is there some kind of rivalry with Estonia and Sweden?
@RozettaVyper I reacted the same way! I cant imagine a swede or a finn NOT knowing about Estonia. It was ridiculous. No, absolutely no issues between Sweden and Estonia. Loads of Swedes visit Tallinn and some have bachelor parties over there. There are also day cruises to Estonia 7 days a week. So I have no clue what he was on about 😂
I love that you pointed out the cups...I always notice that, since Jessica in season 1 or 2 they implemented it since every time you saw her her glass was at varying levels of wine haha
@@___Matilda___Even more insane that she fell for it every time! She put all her stats into being understanding and level-headed and had a zero in perception.
@@___Matilda___i think that is why purity culture is so problematic !! i don't think she even understood how insane sergio was 😭 christian girls usually are kind of naive (i was raised as one) so i wasn't surprised by her behaviour
You're giving Sergio waaayyyy too much leeway my dude 😭Did you watch the reunion? The child "rumour" did in fact turn out to be true. If I found out the guy my friend is dating (who's been giving me bad vibes from the beginning) has a potential child somewhere and doesn't tell her bc he pretends not to know about it (come on), I'd be up in their business, too tbh
"Sergio said that he was not a father to a baby in Barcelona, but he found out that he was the father to a newborn baby in Sweden. He received the papers confirming this information shortly after his wedding to Amanda, even though the baby was born before they tied the knot."
He does know where Estonia is .I watched the show fully . She talks about her time there and her family life there before she moved . The commentator just said he doesn’t know because his jokes lands better if we believe that and he knows some people haven’t watched the season .
Lol that’s what I’m saying. you know what they say about Americans and geography, but I’ve had a lot more conversations with different people over the years about Estonia than I think Rasmus has ever had and he is supposed to be well traveled?
The thing with Sergio that made it different is the fact that she confined with him and shared her past experiences of bullying, which was hard on her, only for him to use her past trauma as a way to make her seem unattractive. For that to be one of your first thoughts when someone tells you about their hardships is messed up. Of course it’s okay to discuss these feelings and be honest but I do think you’re bound to get different reactions to this.
16L losing progressively losing his mind over Christopher (along w the rest of us) is hilarious 😂 Christopher is the epitome of being super annoying & un-self aware and then being like “wahhh nice guys always finish last 😡”
Yes. 😂 I was really attracted to him at first, but halfway through the video I was ready to stab him or myself. I don't know how Catja got through the day without putting her hands over her ears every time he opened his mouth.
Honestly totally understand where Katie is coming from. My ex was like this an it annoyed the fuck out of me. He was so sweet but he agreed with EVERYTHING I said, praised me constantly, never left me alone, had no life outside of me…. It was exhausting
Leo let me tell you. I have a dog, and I also have a young baby (9months old) and they are SUUUUURPRISINGLY similar in a lot of ways! 😂 Except my baby is going to evolve at some point and the dog won't
Lol “evolve”, like the slowest pokemon transformation. Imagine you see a shining flashing light under your baby’s door and when you open it they’re suddenly a teenager.
I had a (non-romamtic) apartment mate who was like the "perfect" dude, constantly cleaning and doing everything. I had to like fend her off of my dishes. It sounds fine because she "loved to clean!" until about every month she started yelling at me for not cleaning. She had ICD and was deep cleaning the bathroom 3 times a week with Clorox, and she yelled at me "When are you going to clean the bathroom! I clean it ALL of the time!" and I realized she wanted me to clean the bathroom as much as she did (which would've been deep cleaning 6 times a week!) The result was that I lived less and less in that apartmemt so she couldn't accuse me of being disgusting. I spent the weekends and summer at my parents. When I was with my parents I showered there. I was almost never in the living room or kitchen area of our apartment and peed in public bathrooms as much as possible. She would still try to guilt me for not cleaning, but I did my own dishes and swept and mopped the living room, and she would blame me for everything, for microscopic spaghetti sauce dots, for water marks left on clean dishes. People who are "perfect" often get more and more controlling and bitter as time moves on, because they can't express themselves and ask for what they need in a relationship and their idea of a good relationship is unrealistic and kinda scary.
I felt sergio as a hispanic myself in spanish culture you are judged so so heavily on everything. Not just the physical but how you talk, walk, eat, how much you do or don’t sleep, academics just everything. You can’t be upset or depressed because it doesn’t exist it’s just “you acting this way because ‘insert flaws’ “ Family openly tells you your flaws and they view it as “jokingly showing love” when is just toxic when you actually look at it. Even your nicknames are based on your attributes like “flaca” which means very skinny and your family will probably point out your body 50 times a day it’s actually a really difficult part of our culture I think alot of millennials and gen z are finally talking about and talking about how that cycle needs to end. I feel like mentally he has been in that cycle so long it’s just hard to break free. Side note: you’ll probably never see my comment but the bracelet is actually very common in hispanic culture They tend to have meanings or represent different things the most common one being the “evil eye” bracelet that is meant to protect you from negative intentions from others or life itself. I have one as well and when they break or come off it can be seen as a bad sign or that the bracelet worked and has prevented a negative reaction from coming into your life. Just a quick explanation that it’s actually normal for adults to have them in our culture.
Yeah, that sounds tough. I am white-white-whitebread from the midwest and (at least in my family) the consensus among us is it’s considered extremely dehumanizing and rude to give someone a nickname based on physical attributes or perceived flaws. I remember when my baby sister was born she was a bit husky, and we called her “Chubs” (from ‘chubby’) out of affection, but my grandmother caught wind of this and immediately shut it down because she didn’t want my sister to grow up with a negative view of her body. My grandma made a good call, because even though my sister grew up to be as thin as a blade of grass, I can’t imagine the effect the nickname would have had on her self-image. Further to your point, it is a difficult discussion to have because there are cultural differences in how people raise their families and the dynamics therein, but at some point culture fails to be a sufficient excuse. Just because it is passed down the generations and is normalized and acceptable among society doesn’t mean it’s not harmful. For example, no matter what people say, beating your kids is wrong, no two ways about it. Many POC to this day can recall growing up in households where corporal punishment was the norm, and there is the running joke that white families don’t beat their kids (they do, but it’s become a very controversial subject with many public detractors) but the science has shown that corporal punishment pretty much has zero benefits for the child. But it’s considered acceptable and even encouraged simply because it’s “what’s done” regardless of evidence that perpetuating it is creating unseen problems. This is the case with Hispanic “name calling as forms of affection”. People are calling out the thorns in their culture and heritage and upbringing and I’m happy they are.
Being Hispanic, I was hoping I’d see a comment here to add more context to Sergio. It doesn’t excuse his behavior but it definitely explains it. And bracelets and other similar men’s jewelry are very common and fashionable for Spanish.
This sounds no different than black households. Latinos and Black people have a lot more in common than any other racial group. Even down to the toxicity in the community and households. I'm half-black and Portuguese Before anyone say it, no Portuguese aren't hispanic/latino. They are European. Just like with Spain, the Portuguese helped colonized South America too. However, they did major colonizing in Africa. Spain and Portugal have a history together.
I befriended two gay Colombian men recently. They both keep everything inside and seemed to have struggled with their community judging them. It’s quite sad. But after reading this, it makes sense. That’s sad in that case. Not judging Hispanic culture by the way. It’s just very different from what I am used to culturally.
@@HitsugiHime Yeah understandable it is very intense in the culture we really arent allowed to have feelings I know you were just giving your own experience I get it I don’t blame you for noticing it.
Historical, Estonia is Sweden's ex- girlfriend. And Estonia wants to to be part of the Nordic/Scandinavian countries again, because their current boyfriend Russia is very abusive, but Sweden won't or can't take her back.
@eelinamYeah, I don't think she was that bad. Some people are really nitpicky, but they could talk about their issues openly and constructively. That's much more important, because no one is perfect.
Samme i Norge! Jeg syns det er så merkelig, det virker som om resten av verden gjør som oss, det er bare amerikanerne som går inn med sko på og synes vi er the weird ones, mens det er det de som er!
@@o3MTA3o I ve been traveling a lot in Europe and never have I seen a country where you wear your outside shoes inside. Some friends of mine confirm its the same in Australia. In Asia,... wow, you'll get disowned for forgetting to remove your shoes. Which pretty much leaves the Americans. They are, as far as I know, the only ones who waltz inside with dirty trainers even when resting in bed and.... Its SO gross! I'd got spanked so hard by my mum if I did that living here in Norway. Here even police were careful to remove their shoes when visiting one night. It's just something we learn from we're old enough to even wear shoes. It's all routine and muscle memory.
@@danayang7712it depends on the ethnic/cultural background of the American! In Latin-American households, it’s typically also a big no-no to wear outside shoes inside the house. We wear our house-only chanclas instead 🩴😊
At first I sympathized with Sergio. I would have brought his ring to the first meeting because that is part of the show, and later on I would say, "Let's do this again with a traditional ceremony because I always wanted the traditional ceremony." And I would have shown up wearing his bracelet even if it was loose, and offered him my hand and asked him to help me fasten it. So I kind of understood him. But he lost with me with the three strikes speech. Three strikes is fine for dating. For marriage you gotta accept a LOT of strikes. Not cheating and stuff, but little things. Marriage is for a looooong time. So, Sergio... Since you like keeping score, strike one is you were a liar to her before you even met because you were talking to others the whole time, strike two was when she tried to confront you about it in the pods and you changed the subject instead of taking accountability, and strike three can be your little strike system.
Thing is a "traditional" ceremony in Sweden has both getting rings. She is the one that wants to have an American ceremony since that is where her religion comes from.
Coming from a Swede…this dubbing isn’t too absurd but FUCK does it sound robotic 💀💀 Also, it made me so excited seeing you cover something from my country! This was a fun watch, keep up the great job Leo!
DUDE. I have CRPS and am in a sh* ton of pain today. Not being dramatic at all, I'm seriously grateful that this video dropped into my life right now! Thank you for the much needed distraction, my guy. 🙏
Yeah, I’m Finnish-Danish and can confirm this lol. Nordics are the most equal countries in the world, girls aren’t taught to sit back like princesses but that they’re on equal footing with men.
OH MY GOD, VAFAN?! I didn't expect this, I don't think I actually knew it had spread its way all the way over here. And as a Swedish big baby.. I'M SO PUMPED FOR THIS!
I go to yt and listen to comfy sounding people to help me sleep. Found you months ago and you're definitely one of the very few who I can sleep soundly to. Helps that your videos are super long. Wanna thank you for helping me on so many nights. Idk please take it as a compliment. 😆
@@nbdjz1058 oh of course! They’re like family and we hurt when they hurt 😢 stay strong! Adopting another dog in need of a home is what really saved me and helped me cope. no dog could replace yours, but it’s a great distraction and you can pass that love onto another dog who needs it
I went from being attracted to Christoffer to rolling my eyes every time he opened his mouth. Is there anything more annoying that a guy simping over you every time he opens his mouth? He's not even giving her any personal compliments or engaging in conversation, it's just "you're so beautiful!" on repeat 24/7. He's just talking AT her about whatever fantasy he has growing in his head.
Am I the only one who thought Christopher/Kristoffer (?) was the best looking guy there? He’s like a Swedish Jason Momoa and seems super sweet (at least one hour in). Edit: Okay, just saw Oskar and might have slightly changed my mind 🥵 Don’t understand what these women are complaining about…
Christofer is extremely handsome! The first time I saw him I was like WOW. Honestly one of the most attractive guys I’ve ever seen. And then to have such a sweet personality too! Oskar is very cute too. I don’t understand these women at all.
Perfect timing! I was just looking for an extra long video to watch while I do absolutely nothing 😅 Also, I just read that there will be a LIB UK coming later this year
Nobody on the US show has ever called anyone too old…because they aren’t. They’re all like 37, max. Most people I know in San Francisco are in their early to mid 30’s and not married and are in no rush because they have tons of options still,
Thank you for watching these shows that I would never take time out of the day to think about watching. I would 100% rather watch you break it down in almost 4 hours and then watch your video on a regular basis. You are just that good Leo. Thank you for putting in the time and effort to release great content.
Loved the video, thanks so much. I just recently found this channel and have been watching them all. You're a lovely, very funny person. All the best. x
I really wanted to say, the part where the guy said he felt like he was in a social situation being with his wife, that is exactly how I feel dating, and exactly why I’ve chosen not to for the last couple years, and going forward. Even if you’re with the person you love most in the world, you cannot guarantee that no matter what you do, they won’t judge you or be mean to you. I ~can~ guarantee, though, that ~I~ won’t do that to myself. If I'm around another person, there will always be a thin veil of separation between us. I cannot fully relax and be myself around anyone but myself. And maybe it’s just me, but I’m way happier alone than feeling like I’m in a social context 24/7.
Yes! ❤️Thanks for doing this one so I can catch up on regular LiB seasons without spoilers. I considered watching this one but I have a few seasons of the original to watch. I love your long videos.
Honestly the most heartbreaking part of watching this show was hearing Christopher say how the reason why he was smothering Catja was because he was afraid to lose her And then at the end he changed who he was because that’s what she wanted him to be and yet still in the end he apologised for everything
Let's just call a spade a spade: Catja was a bitch. She needed to just be honest from the get go and say she was not attracted to him instead of sitting there looking dead inside for 3 weeks while this poor man tries everything in his power to make her happy. Just rip off the bandaid and say you're not interested, instead of stringing him along like that... 🤨
@@selenesotelo8151why is he a good man? Because he so badly wants to be with Katja? Being obsessed with a woman doesn’t make you a good man, it makes you emotionally unstable.
I think Chistofer has an anxious attachment and is a little bit too much for her because she can feel he is insecure and dont have confidence in himself.
Swedish person here! I haven't even watched this show yet... But I clicked this video in like 1 millisecond. I rather watch Leo review it than the actual show... LOVE FROM SWEDEN LEO! LOVE YOUR CONTENT! 💕
I mean of course pets and babies aren't the same, but a pet is about the closest some people ever want to a kid to be fair, lol. I can understand calling them basically your kid as long as you don't have like, an actual baby too.
just looked up Sergio and Amanda. looking good so far, they genuinely look so happy together and it looks like they're about to have a baby Update: they had the baby!!!!!!! 💫💞💕
@@TheSupernick13 oh yeah definitely...from what we've seen. it's been almost a year since they've gotten together and we have no idea what happened behind the scenes, so maybe sergio has improved even if just a little bit. she seems happy so i hope he's improved
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Cool version of the show. Im surprised to see that the women are a little fuller than on US shows. There alot more candid
I explained the bracelet thing in my comment if you’re curious
Ur hilarious 😂😂
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This man said “you can get private internet for just $2.03 a month and you’ll also get 4 extra months completely free” on me!! And we just skipped right past that shit.. thank God i came back to this message.. i’m paying $87 for internet from Optimum right now and that shit drops and lags .. THANK GOD i came back to this comment!! Thank you sirr!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼
Looks like I'm not going to bed for another 3 hours and 40 minutes.
🤣🤣🤣 my first thought was "😲 by the time I get done watching this it'll be bed time!! 😏 Perfect Night Ahead." 💯🤣🤣🤣
Same😂
I also had to reschedule my sleepy time 🤣
Same
Uve almost made it lol I still have like 3 hours 😹
"Some of the contestants didn't make it." Sweden's version has a squid game twist.
Vi är brutal här! (just kidding, I'm from the neighborhood)
I'm amazed Katja didn't end up stabbing Christoffer just for a moment's peace from the love bombing. 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@ThatWeirdFinn jag med och ännu värre för jag är skåning. I think skånska is even harder fore someone not Swedish 😂
My cat is fighting Cancer right now and gets very uncomfortable after her treatments, so I stay up all night with her to pet her and talk to her - and seeing a hefty three hour video drop from Leo is a blessing to help get through another night! Thank you!
Sending love to you and your kitty! ❤
Lots of love to you both!! ❤️ Hope chemo does it's thing and that your cat will soon be cancer free!! 🍀
I’m so sorry, sending prayers your way! Get well, kitty 💗
I’m so sorry about your cat. 😭❤ Bless her little heart.
God bless your for loving your kitty so much! I hope the little gets through it ❤
i wasn’t expecting it to be dubbed like an anime lol
Most of Europe countries dubbs like this. I hate it I wanted to watch something in german what was originaly english and I my brain was always catching english instead of german😂
I always have that shock when I watch european dubbed movies, in Brasil there's no background voice, it's so weird my brain doesn't know where to focus 😂
better to watch with subs
Fr. It caught me off guard
English anime dubs don't do this. I've been told Russian dubs to it, though?
Krisse-Ly: _starts straight up bawling when she hears Rasmus is speaking to other girls on a literal dating show_
Catja: 👁️👄👁️
Sergio: Not in a million years did I think I could overcome my Shallowness
Also Sergio: OmG! ShE iS NoT wEaRiNg mY BrAceLeT !
How tf did Sergio of all people end up with the nicest girl on the show? At least she mellows him out
He is good too, he doesn't wear a msak
As shallow as he is he's self-aware and consciously recognizes that his shallow behavior is wrong. He's a better man than most of these shallow idiots.
I'm Swedish, and I just wanted to clear a few things up about the culture discussion. Meira was unsure about whether a Swedish guy would be right for her as she has Middle Eastern heritage - two wildly different cultures. The "typical" Swedish culture can easily be seen as rather stiff and reserved (to be honest, even joining a show like this is a very un-Swedish thing to do...which is a bit of a paradox I guess). This is why a lot of things said in the show will sound weird to people from other places, as they lack the context of the situation.
Also, yes, the show is called Love is Blind Sweden, but we have a lot of different cultures and ethnicities living here so it's not that strange to never have dated a Swedish person, despite living or growing up here. At least if you live in one of the bigger cities.
yeah thats what i figured. whenever i watch things from different countries, i always know its a different culture, and never forget it, so i even tho i dont understand why they care for certain things, i just apply to my head, ok for whatever reason they care, and therefor this is how its played out.
Meira knew most of the men on the show were going to be Swedish, she knew what she was getting herself into, if she had said no, then this would have been all a publicity stunt
@@saeefaThat's like saying people shouldn't go on the american version expecting to meet a black partner because most of them are white. Like the OP said, there are a lot of people from other ethnicities, and clearly she wanted to try with him. That doesn't mean the concerns just disappear.
@@vanyadolly terrible comparison, 1/4 of each season on the American show are black. Afghans on a Swedish show is mega rare. She knew there was rarely gonna be anyone from her own background, and the Swedish version is nowhere near as diverse as the American show
Why are Swedish people so fixated on dating within the same race?
After season 6 ive come the realization that they named it "Love is Blind" NOT because they date and fall in love without seeing each other. But because they BLINDLY stay in these relationships after seeing a plethora of red flags!!! Like if you agree 😏
i was just thinking it should be “love is blinded” because of what some of them stay through
Imagine begging for likes
Totally.
@spacewardtossah it's not begging for likes, ITS LIKE IF YOU AGREE 😏
It's not love is blind I will call it Every Animals mating ritual , can't humans actually be like humans we ain't just Build for eat , sleep , reproduce , care n the end there is a specific purpose each individual should atleast know atleast have thought or meditation or self inspection not to come in this world for every other living organism does, I wish people would be more people like not some herd of intelligent yet duds roaming on this planet.
As a person who speaks Swedish, the AI dub is INSANE
asså hur fan blir sundbyberg till sudingburg
my brain can't focus on one thing, especially when the sentence starts in Swedish and then the dubbed part starts 5 seconds later 😂
Is it that bad?
Explain lol
Skrattar på golvet rn
"Love is blind"
*Rasmus literally only talking about looks the whole time even though he has 5 year old child teeth*
😮aaaaaghhh! 😂😂😂
Child teeth 😭
And he eats a lot of baby food
Omg😂😂
As an estonian I can confirm that being one absolutely is a condition
❤ admitting you have a problem is the first step to fixing it. Move. Get naturalized in a different country
I have never in my life seen a person this afraid of Estonians! 😂 You'd think Estonia would be on the other side of the world. You could get there in a rowboat!
😂😂😂
@@vanyadolly
❤
@@vanyadolly I’d rather have a wank in the winf
I’m less than 20 minutes in, but I just wanted to say thank you for mentioning normalizing finding yourself in your 30s. I’m about to turn 36 and I’m very single, it’s something I’m REALLY struggling with. It’s just nice to hear that I’m not some “old head” doddering my way to the grave lol
I completely know what you mean. I’m 31 and have been single for 5 years while my friends have found their partners, got married, had babies etc. To say it’s been depressing and disheartening at times is an understatement, especially while continuously putting myself out there and going from one bad date and red flags to the other. I’d like to think there is still a chance to find love.
It’s so worth it to wait until you are ready and know yourself. I have a friend who got married for the first time at 72! (Not saying it will take that long but it’s never too late to find love)
I hope this doesn't sound creepy, but this makes me want to give you a hug.
I'm the same age as you. I didn't meet my spouse until I was 32, and was at the point where I figured it was done for me.
My mom and dad didn't get married until she was in her mid-30s and he was 40. When all my friend's parents were all getting divorced, my parents were solid. There's nothing wrong with not finding your person or yourself until you're over 30 (or over 40, for that matter).
Most of the longest-lasting relationships I know of (where the people involved not only love each other, but like each other enough to weather the really rough patches) didn't begin until the couple were in their 30s.
Hang in there, okay? I'm sorry you're having a tough time with where you are in life right now. I hope you'll be in a better place soon.
The expectations placed on people in their 20s are NUTS. You know who you are in your 30s, and most importantly, you know your worth and won't put up with BS. You WILL find your person. I wish you so much love and happiness❤
29 here and never been in a relationship, I can make connections with people quite easily but it never lasts more than a night or a few dates.
And when so many people around me are coupled up and moving in together. It can be sad sometimes when confronted with that fact. Also when I say I've never been in a relationship the people on the other end of the date get scared and it's a problem for them, the problem becomes bigger the more I get older. But most of the time I live a very happy single life.
I think this show has revealed that love is not blind. Love has 20/20 vision...except with it comes to seeing 👀 through someone's BS 😅
PLEASE do japan when you can! It’s so refreshing and I loved that one the most out of the international ones!
Agree!
Saaaame!
Yes! Love is Blind Japan seemed so pure ❤
A lot more pure in a homogenous country for sure
I agreeeeeeee!!! Japan was the best one!! I love the Asian dating shows, the cultures I've watched always interact with each other so respectfully and there are so many touching and cute moments always 😄 did anyone watch change days or love after divorce also?
While I see what you mean about Rasmus' and Serigo's shallowness, I think there is quite a difference between being scared you won't be psysically attracted to someone and saying you're turned off by the fact they where bullied for a disability. I think one is something you really can't control the other means you value people very differently based on social hierarchy and disability.
That’s what I think too, I feel like the part that bothered him the most was the bullying. If she said “oh yeah I had a corset for my scoliosis” he wouldn’t understand the implications of any of that, however at the notice OTHER PEOPLE had a negative view towards it, THATS what made him reconsider. Notice she never used the words ‘disability’ or anything similar. It was the fact she told him other people previously used it against her. So… he uses it against her?
The problem I had with Lucas was that you could tell he genuinely seemed to care about the person Emilia is yet he knew in his heart the whole time that he couldn’t be physically attracted to her
So he essentially strung her along the whole time just to break her heart
And even then, they still tried to date for a few weeks after the show
Emilia just deserved so much better and it really was heartbreaking to watch her basically beg to be loved
He thought she would break up because saying to her he is not attracted to her but she didn’t. he is this kind of guy who never take the initiative of a breakup. He did everything to make the girl take the responsibility of the breakup because to pass as a good guy. So he can say it’s her who breaks up with me and play the victim when actually it’s him. But she wants him to much and she was so kind. He couldn’t ruin his image so He continued to faint all the time he was ok. He did later after the camera were of . But as a woman if a man says to me I don’t feel u attractive it’s the end how could I stay? Emilia Have no self esteem? When you someone doesn’t feel attraction for u this means he doesn’t find you beautiful so no need to try.
he judt wasn't that into her. he should have chosen the blonde petite woman or nobody and just go home
Sergio talking about looks when he looks like that is hilarious
he is genuinely insane
Omg the voice over they do for each person sounds like the online audio web novels they have 😅
The thought of someone wanting to break up with me because I was bullied for my disability (hearing loss) made me feel really sad. I'm only an hour in, so I hope Sergio learns to grow and change!
also you look great in pink Leo!
If a person did feel that way, they’re already on a lower tier of person compared to you. You deserve the world! ❤
@@noodlebanana7512 Thank you, that's so sweet of you to say! You also deserve the world 😁
i just realized that this video is 3 hours….
Deaf and mute are not the same thing. I am mute from a throat cancer. Nothing wrong with my hearing. Two totally different things. Regardless, Oskar is extremely HM and more than likely was helicopter parented where every sound he emitted from every hole was immediately dissected and resolved.
OMG! I love that men humbled Sergio so fast! that Sergio isn't good looking enough to be so shallow lol
Rasmuss is not attractive enough for the ego in my opinion
his arrogance makes him even less attractive, especially pulling out the height card 😒
Bruh 😂
IKR?🤔😒
Sometimes the ego (as long as it’s not a gross ego) or you could say “confidence”, can make a less attractive person look more attractive
Yes! He’s overweight with mini-chicklet teeth. He would have rejected a comparable female version of himself
3 hours and 40 minutes!? LET'S GOOOOOOOO! The long form videos are my FAVORITE
Me too, love it! 👍😁Settling in to watch it now!
51:00 That's actually kyphosis, not scoliosis. For the record, scoliosis is a sideways curve to the spine, typically one curve, sometimes two (called double or S-curve scoliosis), and rarely three. It's typically congenital and usually not a huge issue, unless the degree of curve is over 30° or causing pain.
Forward or backwards curves of the spine, which cause the shoulders to hunch or the hips to tilt, are a bit different. They can often be caused by posture while growing, or have congenital causes. It can also happen as a result of another disease, like osteoporosis. Other front/back spinal conditions include lordosis, flat back, and sway back.
.... Sorry, I have a wonky spine and like to share what I've learned over the years. (◡‿◡✿)
My sons was in the 30s and they wanted to put him in a full body cast at 2 years old and I refused. He wasn’t in pain. The drs said he would walk otherwise and I said if he’s not walking by 3 then I’ll do it. He started walking 2 months later. He also is on the spectrum so it wasn’t all his back that he wasn’t walking yet.
As someone with scoliosis, I appreciate this comment!!! 🥹 Wonky back crew unite!!!
I have lumbar lordosis so my ass sticks out like a duck.
I don't have any spinal issues or physical conditions however this was very informative and enlightening. Thanks for sharing 😊
I had this, but with pilates and deep core strengthening I corrected it
2:17:44 Why is Leo so simp for Sergio? The guy just deflects the whole situation. An honest person, if he trully didn't know about it, would either "ok, I'm gonna get in touch with the woman I was with at the time" or "There's absolutely no way this is true"
but no, he just deflects, deflects, deflects
and turns out in the reunion he does have a child! (not in barcelona though lol)
THIS,yup....dude never even tried to deny it.
That’s what I’m sayin
Omg! How does amanda feel about that???
yes Sergio is one of the biggest D-bags in love is blind. I think its possible to appreciate that he is good TV while also making clear he is a walking red flag
That’s the thing that bothered me the most! He never even acknowledged the fact that it was a possibility for another woman to be carrying his child he was just like « whatttt that’s crazy » and let every other willing contest make excuses for him
I missed you hitting 600k. I'm so happy to see it! You deserve all the followers, you are a beautiful soul
Middle age is no longer 30 because we no longer die at 60. Middle age is like 50 now. The longer we can live as a species, the more the old standards don't apply for these instances.
Average lifespan is 73 to 80. So middle age is 37 to 40. I think we think of middle age now as late 40s, which is accurate to generous.
@@limner123 I will be 37 in a couple of weeks and never considered myself to be middle aged before I read this comment 😂😂😂
@@limner123 Depends on the country, average span here in aussie is 84. And well got multiple relatives 85 - 90+ There's average ages but still millions that live over that average if their life is healthy enough.
My grandma lived to be 102 so I refuse to consider anything other than 51 middle age for myself 😂
Not true. Lifespans are the same as theyve always been. It's historical infant mortality rates that skew the statistic. We've gotten better at keeping babies alive is all.
im swedish and i love your perspective on this!!
however i definitely think some things get lost in translation for Meira and Oscar
it’s not really about wether he’s attractive or not but more about their cultural differences
she verbalizes her worry that she wouldn’t “fit into his world” considering she’s not native to sweden while he is, there’s definitely a lot of systemic racism in sweden especially towards middle-eastern people so i understand she’s worried about how that will come up later in their relationship
especially when it comes to him not really seeing his privilege being a white swede from a rich background.
in a perfect world there wouldn’t be any issues but i understand her worry, especially since he’s a little defensive whenever she brings up her worries about this
i do love how they eventually communicate and come out stronger though!
EDIT: just wanted to clarify all of this is kinda said between the lines and not super clear so it’s understandable to miss especially since it’s dubbed
thank u !! i always understood meira
I'd never bother watching ten minutes of the show but I'll still watch nearly four hours of Leo talking about it.
He makes it tolerable
He makes it entertainment without him this would be absolute torture
It's actually astonishing how poorly Catja and Cristofer "communicated"
Like if I read that in a story I would've called it too ridiculous
Yeah. He was off in his own fantasy world, but she should have just told him she wasn't into it.
these long videos analyzing compassionate communication and healthy relationship standards help me improve my own relationships. thank you leo
The child wasn’t a roumor, it was a fact. And if something like this is happening it is more important for the potential partner to know that the person they will marry is a liar. That innocent until proven guilty thing should only be applied in court. Marrying someone who has a really bad reputation without even investigating would just be stupid.
Now Amanda has a child from this man and is trapped to be in some type of relationship with him for the rest of her life.
I need to know more!
Well said!
exactly :/ i feel so bad for amanda
Liar? He didn’t know about the pregnancy in Spain. What is he supposed to do?
I also have scoliosis and the kids at school were absolutely ruthless about my back brace. I also got chubby because it was really hard to even stand up, let alone be remotely active. I also had a permed mullet style haircut and glasses. I was pretty much Bully Bingo. I ended up being really tall with great posture and a cool haircut, I wouldn't trade it for peaking in school and what didn't kill me just made me funny AF. Sergio is a turd.
Yeahh, must be something he doesn't know much about, but I appreciate how open and honest and vulnerable he was about his prejudice
:/
Im born and raised in Sweden and gotta say it was so good. Going to fall asleep to this ❤ thank yoooooou!!
I also love falling asleep with leo’s videos 😭 and cleaning the house and everything xD
I gotta ask you since you are from Sweden. What was with the Estonian comment from the guy? There's no way he is so ignorant to think that Estonia is an infliction, not an ethnicity. I expect that from Americans, as an American speaking from experience. Is there some kind of rivalry with Estonia and Sweden?
@RozettaVyper I reacted the same way! I cant imagine a swede or a finn NOT knowing about Estonia. It was ridiculous. No, absolutely no issues between Sweden and Estonia. Loads of Swedes visit Tallinn and some have bachelor parties over there. There are also day cruises to Estonia 7 days a week. So I have no clue what he was on about 😂
@elvaliveren7792 he is sooo cozy to listen to and funny!! 😊☺️
@@RozettaVyper when i watched the show I interpreted that he didn’t know how Estonians “looked” and how they are culture wise.
Leo you know I love you when I’ve been actively avoiding every other RUclipsrs love is blind videos waiting for this very moment
I love that you pointed out the cups...I always notice that, since Jessica in season 1 or 2 they implemented it since every time you saw her her glass was at varying levels of wine haha
"Hey, it's really concerning that you lied about being with other girls,"
"Wanna be my girlfriend?"
"Yes!"
Fr the word salad is insane with him
@@___Matilda___Even more insane that she fell for it every time! She put all her stats into being understanding and level-headed and had a zero in perception.
@@vanyadolly ikr😭 I was rooting for her at first, but then she seemed to willingly be a part of the problem, at which point I’m showing myself out 👋🏼🚪
LIKE GIRL ??
@@___Matilda___i think that is why purity culture is so problematic !! i don't think she even understood how insane sergio was 😭 christian girls usually are kind of naive (i was raised as one) so i wasn't surprised by her behaviour
You're giving Sergio waaayyyy too much leeway my dude 😭Did you watch the reunion? The child "rumour" did in fact turn out to be true. If I found out the guy my friend is dating (who's been giving me bad vibes from the beginning) has a potential child somewhere and doesn't tell her bc he pretends not to know about it (come on), I'd be up in their business, too tbh
"Sergio said that he was not a father to a baby in Barcelona, but he found out that he was the father to a newborn baby in Sweden. He received the papers confirming this information shortly after his wedding to Amanda, even though the baby was born before they tied the knot."
😮😮😮 omg!
I'm feeling offended that Rasmus didn't know Estonia..we, Baltic states, are literally across the sea!!
Yeah it's literally next door to Scandinavia!!
My thoughts exactly 😂 Most Estonians look just like Scandinavians anyway.
He does know where Estonia is .I watched the show fully . She talks about her time there and her family life there before she moved . The commentator just said he doesn’t know because his jokes lands better if we believe that and he knows some people haven’t watched the season .
Lol that’s what I’m saying. you know what they say about Americans and geography, but I’ve had a lot more conversations with different people over the years about Estonia than I think Rasmus has ever had and he is supposed to be well traveled?
Ramus isn’t the sharpest tool in the box
"there's plenty of fish in the sea but the one that's beached on land is mine, Sergio" 😂😂
There is a Sergio child from before LiB, they confirmed it in the reunion 😅. Only incorrect detail is that the child is in Sweden not Spain
The thing with Sergio that made it different is the fact that she confined with him and shared her past experiences of bullying, which was hard on her, only for him to use her past trauma as a way to make her seem unattractive. For that to be one of your first thoughts when someone tells you about their hardships is messed up. Of course it’s okay to discuss these feelings and be honest but I do think you’re bound to get different reactions to this.
16L losing progressively losing his mind over Christopher (along w the rest of us) is hilarious 😂 Christopher is the epitome of being super annoying & un-self aware and then being like “wahhh nice guys always finish last 😡”
Yes. 😂 I was really attracted to him at first, but halfway through the video I was ready to stab him or myself. I don't know how Catja got through the day without putting her hands over her ears every time he opened his mouth.
Honestly totally understand where Katie is coming from. My ex was like this an it annoyed the fuck out of me. He was so sweet but he agreed with EVERYTHING I said, praised me constantly, never left me alone, had no life outside of me…. It was exhausting
It feels like love bombing
Got out of a relationship like that. And it was suffocating. Still is
Yeah that’s also just manipulative
"What mystery are you solving? The mystery of where your fashion sense went?!"
I'm dead! 🤣🤣🤣
Leo let me tell you. I have a dog, and I also have a young baby (9months old) and they are SUUUUURPRISINGLY similar in a lot of ways! 😂 Except my baby is going to evolve at some point and the dog won't
Lol “evolve”, like the slowest pokemon transformation. Imagine you see a shining flashing light under your baby’s door and when you open it they’re suddenly a teenager.
I agree. There are a lot of similarities but you can leave the dog at home in a crate while you go out 😂
@@FinanciallyfreeauthorNot if you care about the dog
@@Financiallyfreeauthoryou could do that with a kid too. Doesn’t make it right in either circumstance
I'm surprised you didn't bring up the reunion. We found out that Sergio does have a baby with a woman in Barcelona, and that Amanda's pregnant.
Watch Too Hot To Handle Germany, trust me bro, the drama is wild
I had a (non-romamtic) apartment mate who was like the "perfect" dude, constantly cleaning and doing everything. I had to like fend her off of my dishes. It sounds fine because she "loved to clean!" until about every month she started yelling at me for not cleaning. She had ICD and was deep cleaning the bathroom 3 times a week with Clorox, and she yelled at me "When are you going to clean the bathroom! I clean it ALL of the time!" and I realized she wanted me to clean the bathroom as much as she did (which would've been deep cleaning 6 times a week!) The result was that I lived less and less in that apartmemt so she couldn't accuse me of being disgusting. I spent the weekends and summer at my parents. When I was with my parents I showered there. I was almost never in the living room or kitchen area of our apartment and peed in public bathrooms as much as possible. She would still try to guilt me for not cleaning, but I did my own dishes and swept and mopped the living room, and she would blame me for everything, for microscopic spaghetti sauce dots, for water marks left on clean dishes. People who are "perfect" often get more and more controlling and bitter as time moves on, because they can't express themselves and ask for what they need in a relationship and their idea of a good relationship is unrealistic and kinda scary.
I felt sergio as a hispanic myself in spanish culture you are judged so so heavily on everything. Not just the physical but how you talk, walk, eat, how much you do or don’t sleep, academics just everything. You can’t be upset or depressed because it doesn’t exist it’s just “you acting this way because ‘insert flaws’ “ Family openly tells you your flaws and they view it as “jokingly showing love” when is just toxic when you actually look at it. Even your nicknames are based on your attributes like “flaca” which means very skinny and your family will probably point out your body 50 times a day it’s actually a really difficult part of our culture I think alot of millennials and gen z are finally talking about and talking about how that cycle needs to end. I feel like mentally he has been in that cycle so long it’s just hard to break free.
Side note: you’ll probably never see my comment but the bracelet is actually very common in hispanic culture They tend to have meanings or represent different things the most common one being the “evil eye” bracelet that is meant to protect you from negative intentions from others or life itself. I have one as well and when they break or come off it can be seen as a bad sign or that the bracelet worked and has prevented a negative reaction from coming into your life. Just a quick explanation that it’s actually normal for adults to have them in our culture.
Yeah, that sounds tough. I am white-white-whitebread from the midwest and (at least in my family) the consensus among us is it’s considered extremely dehumanizing and rude to give someone a nickname based on physical attributes or perceived flaws. I remember when my baby sister was born she was a bit husky, and we called her “Chubs” (from ‘chubby’) out of affection, but my grandmother caught wind of this and immediately shut it down because she didn’t want my sister to grow up with a negative view of her body. My grandma made a good call, because even though my sister grew up to be as thin as a blade of grass, I can’t imagine the effect the nickname would have had on her self-image.
Further to your point, it is a difficult discussion to have because there are cultural differences in how people raise their families and the dynamics therein, but at some point culture fails to be a sufficient excuse. Just because it is passed down the generations and is normalized and acceptable among society doesn’t mean it’s not harmful. For example, no matter what people say, beating your kids is wrong, no two ways about it. Many POC to this day can recall growing up in households where corporal punishment was the norm, and there is the running joke that white families don’t beat their kids (they do, but it’s become a very controversial subject with many public detractors) but the science has shown that corporal punishment pretty much has zero benefits for the child. But it’s considered acceptable and even encouraged simply because it’s “what’s done” regardless of evidence that perpetuating it is creating unseen problems. This is the case with Hispanic “name calling as forms of affection”. People are calling out the thorns in their culture and heritage and upbringing and I’m happy they are.
Being Hispanic, I was hoping I’d see a comment here to add more context to Sergio. It doesn’t excuse his behavior but it definitely explains it. And bracelets and other similar men’s jewelry are very common and fashionable for Spanish.
This sounds no different than black households. Latinos and Black people have a lot more in common than any other racial group. Even down to the toxicity in the community and households. I'm half-black and Portuguese Before anyone say it, no Portuguese aren't hispanic/latino. They are European. Just like with Spain, the Portuguese helped colonized South America too. However, they did major colonizing in Africa. Spain and Portugal have a history together.
I befriended two gay Colombian men recently. They both keep everything inside and seemed to have struggled with their community judging them. It’s quite sad. But after reading this, it makes sense. That’s sad in that case. Not judging Hispanic culture by the way. It’s just very different from what I am used to culturally.
@@HitsugiHime Yeah understandable it is very intense in the culture we really arent allowed to have feelings I know you were just giving your own experience I get it I don’t blame you for noticing it.
they're not respectful, they're just too selfimage-conscious to look silly on tv
My wife is Estonian and is like “WTF how does a Swedish person not know what Estonia is? We are basically neighbors”
It IS really strange that he did not know that. Europeans usually know geography well, specially around their own country.
Historical, Estonia is Sweden's ex- girlfriend. And Estonia wants to to be part of the Nordic/Scandinavian countries again, because their current boyfriend Russia is very abusive, but Sweden won't or can't take her back.
Oscar & Amanda would've been the perfect match - both good and nice people. Instead, they ended-up with their toxic partners. 😬
agreeeeeeed
@eelinamYeah, I don't think she was that bad. Some people are really nitpicky, but they could talk about their issues openly and constructively. That's much more important, because no one is perfect.
Meira was not toxic at all
you are the only youtuber that makes me get genuinely excited when i see a new upload 👏🏻
As a swede that couldnt get past the second episode cause of Sergio, THANK YOU FOR COVERING THIS!!!!!!!!!
I have my evening set out for me now ♡
In Sweden we don’t wear shoes inside and it very common to go barefoot as well 😁
Samme i Norge! Jeg syns det er så merkelig, det virker som om resten av verden gjør som oss, det er bare amerikanerne som går inn med sko på og synes vi er the weird ones, mens det er det de som er!
Same in Finland 😄
Any place with weather, really.
@@o3MTA3o I ve been traveling a lot in Europe and never have I seen a country where you wear your outside shoes inside. Some friends of mine confirm its the same in Australia. In Asia,... wow, you'll get disowned for forgetting to remove your shoes. Which pretty much leaves the Americans. They are, as far as I know, the only ones who waltz inside with dirty trainers even when resting in bed and.... Its SO gross! I'd got spanked so hard by my mum if I did that living here in Norway. Here even police were careful to remove their shoes when visiting one night. It's just something we learn from we're old enough to even wear shoes. It's all routine and muscle memory.
@@danayang7712it depends on the ethnic/cultural background of the American! In Latin-American households, it’s typically also a big no-no to wear outside shoes inside the house. We wear our house-only chanclas instead 🩴😊
that sergio dude was the last person who should be SO outspokenly shallow.. woof.
At first I sympathized with Sergio. I would have brought his ring to the first meeting because that is part of the show, and later on I would say, "Let's do this again with a traditional ceremony because I always wanted the traditional ceremony." And I would have shown up wearing his bracelet even if it was loose, and offered him my hand and asked him to help me fasten it. So I kind of understood him. But he lost with me with the three strikes speech. Three strikes is fine for dating. For marriage you gotta accept a LOT of strikes. Not cheating and stuff, but little things. Marriage is for a looooong time. So, Sergio... Since you like keeping score, strike one is you were a liar to her before you even met because you were talking to others the whole time, strike two was when she tried to confront you about it in the pods and you changed the subject instead of taking accountability, and strike three can be your little strike system.
Period
Pfft Sergio's strike system doesn't apply to himself. He's one of **those guys**.
"Rule for thee but not for me" - Sergio
Thing is a "traditional" ceremony in Sweden has both getting rings. She is the one that wants to have an American ceremony since that is where her religion comes from.
when i went to sweden at the start of the year i kept getting ads for this, so glad you're doing a deep dive into it
Coming from a Swede…this dubbing isn’t too absurd but FUCK does it sound robotic 💀💀
Also, it made me so excited seeing you cover something from my country! This was a fun watch, keep up the great job Leo!
DUDE. I have CRPS and am in a sh* ton of pain today. Not being dramatic at all, I'm seriously grateful that this video dropped into my life right now! Thank you for the much needed distraction, my guy. 🙏
From one CRPS haver to another- i hope your flare up goes away soon :( stay strong 💜
Fun fact: It's normal in Sweden for the woman to make the first move 🤯
Seems common in Scandinavia as a whole, men are more shy
Yeah, I’m Finnish-Danish and can confirm this lol. Nordics are the most equal countries in the world, girls aren’t taught to sit back like princesses but that they’re on equal footing with men.
Whaaaaat? 😮
that’s fascinating!
I'm moving tomorrow!
@@carolitoffana These Swedish men probably don't realize how freaking lucky they are! 😅
Thank you Leo for keeping me entertained while I'm cleaning ✨️
OH MY GOD, VAFAN?!
I didn't expect this, I don't think I actually knew it had spread its way all the way over here.
And as a Swedish big baby.. I'M SO PUMPED FOR THIS!
Leo, I have been a fan for years but never ever have I pissed myself of laughter in the airport lounge, thank you
Sergio acts like Big Ed lol
Btw, standing on her feet means that she has a stable life, fending for herself in life. Its a saying in Sweden :)
it's a saying in many countries
Um anyone else think Leo is looking really good!? Is it the beard? Something!
He wears pink super well
He’s just a beautiful man
all the jokes about him being single and shit I’m like bruhhhhhh whatt
Yes he is… I hope he sees that in the mirror.
For real! No idea how he's single
I love how the men voice overs feel like they have some emotion but the womens voice overs sound like text to speech lmao
I go to yt and listen to comfy sounding people to help me sleep. Found you months ago and you're definitely one of the very few who I can sleep soundly to. Helps that your videos are super long.
Wanna thank you for helping me on so many nights.
Idk please take it as a compliment. 😆
Just wanted to say that I Ioved the video Leo. It really helped me calm down from the anxiety attack I was having. Please keep up the amazing work.
i'm currently grieving the loss of my dog and this video is the perfect distraction thank you so much
*hug*
I’m so sorry 😞 you’ll see him again one day- I truly believe that. Take care of yourself ❤️ sending a hug
@@Peanut_taco_muffin thank you so much. i know i'll be able to cope with it some day but it's still hard right now❤️
@@nbdjz1058 oh of course! They’re like family and we hurt when they hurt 😢 stay strong! Adopting another dog in need of a home is what really saved me and helped me cope. no dog could replace yours, but it’s a great distraction and you can pass that love onto another dog who needs it
May your dog rest in peace 🪷
This is my first video of yours and I don't know what it is, but your commentary and sense of humor is EXACTLY my flavor- so new subscriber here.
I went from being attracted to Christoffer to rolling my eyes every time he opened his mouth. Is there anything more annoying that a guy simping over you every time he opens his mouth? He's not even giving her any personal compliments or engaging in conversation, it's just "you're so beautiful!" on repeat 24/7. He's just talking AT her about whatever fantasy he has growing in his head.
Lmao I like that might be crazy tho lol
Am I the only one who thought Christopher/Kristoffer (?) was the best looking guy there? He’s like a Swedish Jason Momoa and seems super sweet (at least one hour in).
Edit: Okay, just saw Oskar and might have slightly changed my mind 🥵 Don’t understand what these women are complaining about…
Christofer is extremely handsome! The first time I saw him I was like WOW. Honestly one of the most attractive guys I’ve ever seen. And then to have such a sweet personality too! Oskar is very cute too. I don’t understand these women at all.
I thought he was quite handsome but had weird style like the pearl necklace, purple hair and the weird bandanas
If he cut his hair and groomed his facial hair it would do wonders
I'm a kiwi living in the US. I always love your vids, Leo. It's comforting to hear a familiar voice.
Cheers! Peace and love.
I would watch every episode if Leo was on love is blind ❤
1:16:00 Chirstofer seems to be so cool 😭And why purple? Purple is a dope haircolor! Him suggesting a hair dyeing session is damn cute in my opinion
I agree! Christofer is so sweet and attractive! I don’t get Katja at all.
LOVE FOR THE SHORTER GUYS
My first boyfriend was an inch taller than me. My ex husband was only maybe 5 inches taller. Love comes in all sizes (except they were both assholes).
what if you were the one 5 inches taller though
Nah, I’ve got one shallow trait and that’s only going for tall guys (above 6ft) 😂
We stan short kings❤
my preference is 170-180 cm. while i see the appeal for other straight women, i’m not attracted to tall guys. tall women, on the other hand... 🤤🥵💗💘
Perfect timing! I was just looking for an extra long video to watch while I do absolutely nothing 😅 Also, I just read that there will be a LIB UK coming later this year
Omg yessss. I’m so down for LiB Brit version 😂
Nobody on the US show has ever called anyone too old…because they aren’t. They’re all like 37, max. Most people I know in San Francisco are in their early to mid 30’s and not married and are in no rush because they have tons of options still,
Exactly, he's giving LIB Swedan more credit simply because its Europeanand not American, when they're both pretty similar and just as shallow.
@@tististisk8753agreed! It’s like the same exact behaviors and types of personalities, just speaking different languages
I think once you don’t find someone attractive (whether look wise or personality) you will find anything they do, say or wear as annoying/obnoxious🤔
Thank you for watching these shows that I would never take time out of the day to think about watching. I would 100% rather watch you break it down in almost 4 hours and then watch your video on a regular basis. You are just that good Leo. Thank you for putting in the time and effort to release great content.
Loved the video, thanks so much. I just recently found this channel and have been watching them all. You're a lovely, very funny person. All the best. x
My Swedish SIL said I HAD TO WATCH THIS! It's perfect cause I'm trying to learn more swedish for my fiance. This is perfect timing, thank you Leo!
I really wanted to say, the part where the guy said he felt like he was in a social situation being with his wife, that is exactly how I feel dating, and exactly why I’ve chosen not to for the last couple years, and going forward. Even if you’re with the person you love most in the world, you cannot guarantee that no matter what you do, they won’t judge you or be mean to you. I ~can~ guarantee, though, that ~I~ won’t do that to myself. If I'm around another person, there will always be a thin veil of separation between us. I cannot fully relax and be myself around anyone but myself. And maybe it’s just me, but I’m way happier alone than feeling like I’m in a social context 24/7.
Yes! ❤️Thanks for doing this one so I can catch up on regular LiB seasons without spoilers. I considered watching this one but I have a few seasons of the original to watch. I love your long videos.
I met this guy named Romeo who was such a flirt cause 'I gotta live up to my name," reminds me of Sergio
Honestly the most heartbreaking part of watching this show was hearing Christopher say how the reason why he was smothering Catja was because he was afraid to lose her
And then at the end he changed who he was because that’s what she wanted him to be and yet still in the end he apologised for everything
Between us, I cried for him, because the bad guys win… why women do this discard the good men. I hope karma gets Catja too.
Let's just call a spade a spade: Catja was a bitch. She needed to just be honest from the get go and say she was not attracted to him instead of sitting there looking dead inside for 3 weeks while this poor man tries everything in his power to make her happy. Just rip off the bandaid and say you're not interested, instead of stringing him along like that... 🤨
Idk.. i loved his character at first and she was def. Cold but he became a "textbook nice guy", it was scary how badly things turned after that
@@selenesotelo8151he’s not necessarily a nice guy 😅 he came across as a dependant, clingy guy. Which seems like a red flag
@@selenesotelo8151why is he a good man? Because he so badly wants to be with Katja? Being obsessed with a woman doesn’t make you a good man, it makes you emotionally unstable.
I think Chistofer has an anxious attachment and is a little bit too much for her because she can feel he is insecure and dont have confidence in himself.
Bingo
I love these condensed show deep dives, but I need to save them for road trips. If only I had self control! 🤣
Swedish person here! I haven't even watched this show yet... But I clicked this video in like 1 millisecond. I rather watch Leo review it than the actual show... LOVE FROM SWEDEN LEO! LOVE YOUR CONTENT! 💕
Leo, you def have the "sprinkles". The way you deliver these lines is simply impeccable!
I mean of course pets and babies aren't the same, but a pet is about the closest some people ever want to a kid to be fair, lol. I can understand calling them basically your kid as long as you don't have like, an actual baby too.
I think it’s fine either way
just looked up Sergio and Amanda. looking good so far, they genuinely look so happy together and it looks like they're about to have a baby
Update: they had the baby!!!!!!! 💫💞💕
noooooooo 😲
Amanda deserves so much better
@@TheSupernick13 oh yeah definitely...from what we've seen. it's been almost a year since they've gotten together and we have no idea what happened behind the scenes, so maybe sergio has improved even if just a little bit. she seems happy so i hope he's improved
@@kiriminou yeah let's hope he just got a bad edit, cuz otherwise he's a walking red flag from what we can see on the show
This is gonna be good! So excited when Leo blesses us with a 3hr+ video 🙌🏽
I love how for english speakers subtitles are no go
I LOVE your deep dives on LIB. Still waiting for the other one to drop though. 👀