She is sharing her story so others can learn from her mistakes. Please stop judging and asking why this why that. She is a new person in Christ. Thank you for your courage in sharing. We love you ❤. Keep shining.
People share their stories to encourage others and make others strong. People with vain minds won’t understand what’s she’s doing and will judge her. Hypocrites! Who made you a judge over another? God bless you for the courage to share you journey with us and God bless your husband the more for holding you up Ma
@theUcheNick interesting, people actually learn from people's mistakes ...it doesn't matter how may times they made the mistake before they learnt...the aim is for people who are about to make same mistake to redirect their steps.....are you supposed to learn from people who never had the experience Yeah, your model should be people who have good records all through, but we are humans , as much as we strive to be good, we still fall out on the way
@@obymary-ann6418 1, 2 abortions is a mistake... But 15 is peak fooling and serial killer vibes. She killed 15 babies. 15... Could you let that sink in? Okay... and now she is claiming to be a life coach. You women easily fall into the hands of bad people because you forgive people with unforgettable pasts. Now imagine your brother marrying a woman with this past, will you be happy with it? Well, enjoy the clownery.
@@maryjean-vb8bm we are all sinners, no sin is greater than the other. But in the blood of Jesus, we get to be forgiven. Never judge anybody, you are not Holy.
@@maryjean-vb8bmPlease don't be so judgemental. At least she is not hiding her life like most people do. Has your life been squeaky clean? Do you have children or grandchildren? Even if you don't have any yet, you have no idea where their paths will lead them. She was just an unfortunate victim who was looking for love in a man. She was like a lot of women, who never feel whole unless a man is by their side. The majority of men just want to get in a woman's pants, and women just have to learn this.
This is just my story. I am excited I stumbled on this. Thank you so much ma'am for sharing this. I had my first seed via rape at 19 and my whole world shattered after then. I started looking for validation and had approval addiction and it led me into getting into several attachments with people. I had an issue healing and started bleeding on people who didn't cut me. Then I knew there were issues I need to deal with. I hope that someday very soon I would meet the man of my dream and live happily ever after fulfilling purpose. God bless you abundantly ma.
I come into agreement with you. The Lord Jesus Christ, our maker and our Creator is our first love. Our Maker is our Husband. Only Jesus Christ can give the right husband who understands this situations. Let's keep worshipping him until then.
@@maryjean-vb8bmThere you go judging again. Wake up to reality of the world woman, and stop being an unintelligent fool. You have no idea what the people around you are doing. Maybe there are other people who you know who did worst in their lives.
Her story is the story of so many, but she's different because she is bold and courageous to share. Others have done worse but walk around in silence like angels. You are a sweet soul. Well done.
I cried while watching this video because I can relate to most of what you went through only that I never had a baby out of wedlock, you see men to think I dated just one animal for three years plus, I knew the relationship was over long time but I was in denial , thanks to God I broke up with him October and boom December I met my hubby the sweetest man on earth 2021, got married n gave birth to my sweet baby girl, currently pregnant again with my baby boy🎉🎉🎉my life is a testimony all glory be to God 🙏🏻🥰🥰
I'm glad I stumbled on this video. I left my marriage two years ago and within these two years I've been jumping from one relationship to the other and getting heartbroken. Now I'm tired and after watching this video I realize I'm addicted to relationships. So now I've decided that I need to stay single and heal. Thank you so much Coach Lara
This is so healing on so many levels. I got pregnant for the first time in my life from my first boyfriend at 19, but didn’t have the courage to keep it, even though I was in the university. I was too afraid of my mother to even consider it an option, this is about 33 years ago, two divorces after and no biological children of my own, I salute your courage and the grace upon your life. My take from this is truly that it’s never too late to start over❤❤❤❤❤
Sending you hugs sister!! You need to seek God of restoration and that abortion was sin it could have been a hinderance in your marriage and failure to get biological children but we believe in God of restoration and second chance of we repent .please seek God and deliverance from your church too. You need to engage is a spiritual warfare.if you keep calling upon him you will get all the answers.and through that you will get your healing and deliverance.God bless you
I am encouraged. I am 32 with 1 child,never been married before. I know,defilement , i know Rejection,I know depression,i know disappointments,i know broken engagement and this caused me to have fear of commitment. I am really quick at starting over but i run out of relationships. I pray God can see me through
you have no idea how your story is healing to my bones. There are things as women we go through that we can't even open up to people due to judgement. May God bless you for this ❤
What an amazing testimony! The Bible says in Isaiah 48:10 - "Behold, I have refined you, but not with silver; I have tested you in the furnace of affliction". Often, we are so engaged in stealing the pen and trying to do things forcibly that we forget who the author is!
Waooooo, What A story, Mennnnnnnn, I listened, I paused and played again, again and again, You are supper strong and courageous, You are a healer, You are a star, You are a blessing, You are blessed. It is that point for me where you said Lara you re a woman learn to follow, A man need to lead. I give it to you, i dont know how i stumbled into this video, is life saving. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.
I woke this morning, feeling very lazy, so I picked up my phone and headed to youtube. The first video that popped up was of a beautiful woman, and caption about abortions and heartbreaks. Out of curiosity, I clicked and spent the next 1 hour of my morning on a roller coaster of emotions. Lara, I have never seen you before, never heard you before, but Madam, you are a darm good speaker, and you made my morning. Asides, your story is a motivation for every human being who is going through a low in their life, that with faith and determination, you can still be who God made you to be. Thanks for telling your story.
Me too! I’m like what? LOL I’m so glad I was never “boy crazy” I use to feel bad being celibate for 8 years and felt “awkward” I was not dating heavy..BUT GOD it’s saved me from these evil toxic men..I can’t relate but her testimony is amazing and courageous
Thank you my sister God Bless you. I have 8 kids and im the black sheep of the family of course. All they can say is i have too many kids....but everyone comes to me for money cos I'm good in business. Im not worried God is not done with me yetttttttt!!
God’s Mercy was upon you. No sexually transmitted disease and with numerous abortions had more babies. Sister Lara what a testimony. Small heartbreak some of us are crying. Oh God forgive me.
You know many people are afraid to share their own story. This a woman who went through her healing and is now empowered to share her store. She is healed from her trauma. There are many who are trying to heal and many don’t even know they need healing. Her story can inspire
This video has been showing on my RUclips home for like two months and I never paid attention to it, it never disappeared even when I refresh my page until today when I decided to watch this video and I must say I was so touched. I really held back my tears. God bless you ma. I pray for a forever union between you and your husband . No more pains
Same here. I had even saved it for watch later but never went back to it. It just keeps showing. THANK GOD i finally did click on it. So much lessons to be learnt. GOD BLESS you Coach Lara for sharing❤
You said something important, I think i have this same calling..but I swear I don't have the courage to share my story. It's One horrible story..Am born again now. But still fighting with myself whether to share my story or not. May God give me clarity.
Lord!! I have cried so much while listening to this story... Couch Lara, Thank-you very much for sharing your story. I felt I am too messy and not good enough for any man. I have been living in self condemnation and been contemplating suicide for some time. Your video just gave me hope to live. I pray God heals my broken heart and helps me find purpose in life. 😓
God is your strength. Do not ever underestimate yourself dear. There is someone out there that God specifically designed for you. Keep the faith and God will heal you 🙏🙏
It’s okay to be vulnerable. We will be a vulnerable generation. Vulnerability leads to healing. Secrecy and pride harboured rape, abuse, struggle and pain. Vulnerability takes off all that pressure because if you’ve already been forgiven by God, what can any man say? They have no authority above God. Be like Jesus, imagine if he condemned you the way man condemn, but no he accepts us all and our great mistakes. Remember that God is LOVE and not hate. He will forgive you and redeem you, he accepts the mess that mortal man would reject. Remember to be kind, give grace and extend compassion. “For judgment is without mercy to the one who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment.” James 2:13.
Thankss for understanding you deserve a big hug,I just quited my relationship three months back imagine married man of 32years lieing that is not married,I stood for him,I cried when he cried, smiled when he smiled,just to find out is a happily married man of 2yrs in marriage,I ended it immediately,broke him, friends,and his family cause they are all fake and snake, though my heart block but am very strong and moved on and I must say am a very single happy lady,men are really wicked
mmh there has to be accountability on both ends. I believe God forgives but killing 15 people has got to have consequences. By the way, she was choosing these men. Christianity really removes people's ability to think and be accountable for their behavior and cast it on "Christ." No wonder some of the most wicked people are in church.
@@alltruth881 Yes what she did was wrong and she is imperfect, had her reasons she will account to God for, but she is met by a perfect God able to cleanse and forgive her. 1 is no better than 15, 15 no better than 30, we can’t weigh sin. A white lie is still sin, or that small theft. Generations of secrecy and pride harboured rape, abuse, struggle and pain. Vulnerability takes off all that pressure because if you’ve already been forgiven by God, what can any man say? They have no authority above God. You have no authority above God who forgives liberally. Be like Jesus, imagine if he condemned you the way man condemn, but no he accepts us all and our great mistakes. Remember that God is LOVE and not hate. He will forgive you and redeem you, he accepts the mess that mortal man would reject. Remember to be kind, give grace and extend compassion, the same way you would want to receive from God. “For judgment is without mercy to the one who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment.” James 2:13.
Females don’t have to suffer alone. Nigerian government need to do something about this. Baby daddies should be forced to take up their responsibilities. Another lesson I learnt is that parents should love their children unconditionally without judgement. If parents are the backbone, many of this hurts would have been avoided. I am sure your parents did all they could based on their understanding. Thanks for sharing your story, I bless God for your life.
Sweety the government in both the United States and Africa are mostly men.....so yeah good luck.....woman should stop giving birth just abort. We don't want to but sometimes it's for the best.....noone ever faults these guy and then they have sex with multiple womannnn
The best comment ever @charmyni8847 - Another lesson I learnt is that parents should love their children unconditionally without judgement. If parents are the backbone, many of this hurts would have been avoided. I am sure your parents did all they could based on their understanding. Thanks for sharing your story, I bless God for your life. I'm 52 now and i suffered from this but have been hidding that feelings like forever now not married and no kids and to make it worse am a Men.
Thank you so much coach Lara. This is so helpful. I can now move on without condemning myself and the is precious gift that God has given me. I'm 14 weeks pregnant since when i noticed i was pregnant, I have been a shadow of myself, Worrying about what people will say. But now I know I can still become who I want even with this baby in my womb. Am glad this link was shared with me. Thanks for giving me courage to stand up for me and my unborn child. May God bless you and your home❤😘
I had my son at 19 too, with a man 16 years older than me.. he will be 7 soon , God is good and his grace is so sufficient.. There are no condemnation to those who are in Christ. Cling to the Most High, and congratulations sis xx
I went through embarrassment at 25 single and pregnant. I’m here today to tell you my son is a doctor. Find the strength to enjoy your pregame and love your child. You got this❤
Having à Child is a grace even if your are not maried. Don't let anything discourage you. Love your baby and pray for him/her. Keep doing your best to follow Jesus. I'll pray for your baby and you. Am thankful to God that you decide to keep the pregnancy. May God strengthen you and protect you both in Jesus Name ❤
This is sad, what childhood trauma can blind us in adult relationships. We literally end up making unsound decisions that have dire consequences. Thank you for sharing.
I can relate to your story, being a single mother, trying to remarry, the pain and rejection, when you got to the part of going back to God, during the 40 days fast, I just couldn’t help it I started crying, I’m sure I’m part of the people God told you to share your story, it will be as a template so as to place God above all, Thank God you were able to survive all this, ur story will surely save a lot of lives, preventing them from going down the dark path, thank you and thank you, God bless🙏🏽🙏🏽❤❤
Infact...... I don't even know where to start.... This story is a whole lot in one.... So many layers.... So many facets.... So many lessons to glean from this story.... I celebrate you.... Woman of grace, courage and tenacity.... Thank you so much for bringing hope to some one like me by sharing your story.... GOD bless you so much Coach Lara.... 😊
This story is really talking to me when I thought it has finish in me I'm nothing anymore depressed, low self esteem, getting angry with myself always having a sad face 😢 But after watching this I'm very excited and ready to rise again.thanks alot
I’m soo soo inspired by your story, im 19 years and one thing am very passionate about is finding my purpose and this just made soo much sense. When you said God can put together broken pieces and make it whole I shed some tears and that’s the word I’m going to always remember as I start my adulthood journey. God bless you coach Lara 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️
I imagine you've had to forgive so many times: yourself, your father, the men who hurt you. How did you navigate that? I find it so intense that you remained in that church & watched the man you were previously engaged to, get married & pregnant, I feel you should have found a different church home but it seems you are more mentally strong than most people. Maybe a future video on forgiving & moving on ❤
When you learn to love yourself, you make better decisions and choices. You are teaching others what not to do. You went through this so some others don’t have to.
I am 65 years old and am glad to have watched and listened throughput. The key here to her success was that she never gave up on God that is the lesson here. For change to happen rely not on your own understanding, allow God. Things happen to us so others can be inspired to change and find peace, so share your story, not necessarily online asking God to give you your own platform. God bless you coach and to those going through similar traumas.
you are a strong woman, i had a child when i was in school ,till date am scared of another relationship,my daughter now 14th, am enjoying my single life , i focus on my career and her i dont like stress these story heal me right now i cry😢😢
I woke up this midnight restless with the thoughts of not being able to break free from my present toxic relationship, the feeling of not wanting to let go even though I know that there’s no good in it, the feeling of not being good enough to begin a new relationship. Right in the middle of these thoughts I opened my RUclips app and this video came up. I don’t know why I clicked on it, maybe it was because the title was catch. But I’m glad o did… thank you for sharing your story.
Wow. This is my first time seeing Lara. And this is my first time hearing that someone had 15 abortions. At first ,yes, i was like "what a wayward life", but i listened to her story and realized she is a strong , strongwill woman. She is a good woman with a heart of gold. Who only wants something out in life. She is adorable sharing for others to learn from her. I too learnt from her . I pray that God protect, make her marriage work,cos she deserves it. Such a hardworking lady. Your story is so touching. God bless you real good. Xoxo
Thats why its good to date before getting married. Im in almost same situation, 37, about to divorce bc my husband lives with another woman and their child, never tried getting married. Currently im in a bad place, trying to change my life both physically and financially. Lord help me as i want someone who divorced and learned from their mistakes as i have done.
Just feeling so low after being dumped yesterday with the man saying I loved him too much and made me look desperate,I never thought the guy would do this to me and we had a lot of plans,now feeling lost but after coming across you Lara, I'm just 21 and I have a Future❤ You're so inspiring, thanks Lara and for anyone going through something , you're a brave girl and we'll figure this out
Break yourself loose from this rejection. The loss is his not yours. You are precious in God's sight and he is saving you for the right partner. Do not rush just work on yourself to become the best to the one God has in store for you ! Don't be anxious for anything, but give God the glory with thanks giving. I don't know you,but I am here to tell you it will be well with you !
This story line is exactly what am going through right now,even as am dropping dis comment.two children from two different men and two different marriages.After listening to her ,am again strengthen.thanks very much Lara for your courage and boldness.
I just heard your testimony on Dear Lady Ann platform and then YT recommended this, wow. What a powerful testimony. Thank you for sharing your story, glory be to God for redeeming your story for his name sake.
😂😂 wooooow! I heard her testimony from Lady Ann as well, after hearing her testimony I had planned to search for her on Instagram but I forgot. Yesterday when I opened my RUclips App this video was the first one, then I saved it to Watch later. I went on with my day, only today 20 minutes ago I remembered that I saved this video. Here I am now watching it and I came across your comment 😂
I've learnt alot today. I'm 30 yrs old and I've been through this since I gave birth to my daughter at the age of 22 aborted 3 pregnancies,and had so many heartbreaks. But one thing that kept me going is my faith in God. Now I've watched this video and I know my life will change for the better. So many things you said of which I've written down. By God's grace I will work on myself and allow God to do the rest Thank you coach,this means alot for me. God bless you
Abba Father God is sooooo good. Im so glad i listened to your story. Im 30 yrs old and i can related to alot of what u went through. Even tho i dont have any children, i understand the pain of abortion pressure from the guy who wanted to be engaged to me. The next guy took advantage of me yet he was the musician in the church and part of the Pastoral Prayer ministry Team. I founding he was married with 5 kids, and the wife was INSIDE the same church! That church pastor kicked me out, and he was seen as the victim. Its crazyyyyy! Im encouraged and inspired by your story, because Ive always had a strong deire to help younger women to do the inner work and self-mastery before these relationship/marriages because u will only attract narcissistic men if u dont. These things are not taught in Churches either and thats why many of us church girls and guys are so naive. One day I will share my story, and spread the power of counselling and life coaching what it can do for a person's life.....( even more help than these churches) God bless you more and more Lara❤❤❤w
I honestly have not seen so much honesty on the internet before, she didn't try to make it pretty or make anyone feel comfortable, this is really commendable...there are a lot of people that can relate to her story right now and I'm sure if they are patient enough to listen to the end they'll learn something
😭😭😭😭you dared to live life like this😭😭YOU LIVED!!!OH YOU LIVED😭😭😭YOU ARE POWERFUL!!!😭❤️YOU ARE A LIVING TESTIMONY.I TOOK IN EVERY WORD DEEP DOWN MY SPIRIT AND THANKS ALOT.
I'm 11 weeks thinking about obortion because I don't want to bring a kid in this life. nothing is going well for me. What's your advice for abortion I'm scared of doing it, but at the same time, I want to keep it even tho life is not treating me well right now 😩this would be my third the second one didn't make by 9 months at 6 months he passed in belly 😢right now things are not going well for me but pregnant 😩I just happen to see this after I just made an appointment 🤔
@@marisefigaro1038hello dear. I hope I'm not late in responding this. But I would advice you to not move forward with your plan. Abortion will cost you so much than keeping that baby. Do not do it. I have and it destroyed me. Find a support system, it's just a phase but you can do this. Someday you'll be happy you kept your pregnancy.
Omy😪 Had my child when I was 18, she'll be 8 by next next weekend... No successful relationship yet, its never ease but God is faithful... Thank you so much ma👏🏽
@@FavouritesHubas long you walk with God he will give you a testimony .You are not your mistake you are still valuable ,worthy of love ,don't settle .invest in your self & believe that you deserve the best then watch how you will attract high quality men into your life ❤
Oh my God. I had my baby at 21 and I was in year one semester one. Same story,I was rejected and I can really relate to your story and your Dad is my Dad's type. Am finishing this year but Sweetheart you're my role model
I am so grateful this video popped up and I clicked on it. You may not understand but this single video has taught me so much about myself. I will be sharing because this can help so many as it is helping me. ❤ All I can hear is strength, courage and faith.
What a touching story... We all have gone through a lot as young ladies but your courage to speak up gives me the faith that God is a restorer of a broken person. God bless you Lara and more grace to touch lives.
I know many may have said this, but your story is identical to mine in many ways. However, I haven't yet had my happy ending, but you've given me a lot to think about. Thanks for sharing your story
Mmmmh, words can't really express how I feel right now about this video. But this is so so inspiring to many out there. God will surely heal all those that went through or going through this! Everyone has a story, in the end, they will be alright.
Wow i am glad someone shared this with me. I am a widowed mom of 2.... After watching this video I now see myself In a different way. I now believe I can actually get a father for my 2 little kids. Thanks for sharing your story and
Lara, You are a strong woman. Your story has come in timely. I'm a woman has gone through alot. Your story is greatly ministering to me and I feel my heart is healing right now. God bless you.
My goodness!! You are a great example of courageous and strength. I pray everyone that is suffering in silence draw strength and courage from your testimony. Thanks for being an encouragement. You are rare
What a life experience to pull a lot of women out there, discover yourself, know your worth, pray about it, and with patience and perseverance, you will surely testify. Thank you, Lara, for sharing your life experience.....
It really does, Goòoooood sometimes these learning processes 😢😢😢 not easy oooo I don't want to imagine the pains in the heart...Lara the mission is great hence eish God continue to guide and bless you
Aside her strength and resilience, her mother's strong will is commended. Her father should have done better by pulling her closer to himself, and she shouldn't have been finding that love with other men, her father should have been that 'lover' to her. Her father made her self esteem more low than it already was. All the same Kudos to you coach Lara 💯
Haven't seen a more touching story on the internet. I cried! You have been through so much and I'm so happy with what God has made out of your life. No matter how broken, God can bring back the pieces together and make something beautiful out of it. Thank you so much for sharing, Coach Lara! learned a lottttt!
I am not even sure how I got to listening to this story but I was moved to tears and so so encouraged, and thank you, Lord thank you sister for sharing your story of hope.
I'm still wondering how I ended up spending 1hr on your video, I came to RUclips to check for something else but I got hooked from the first sentence up unto the last. Such a touching and inspiring story. Wishing you all the best and more joy and fulfilment in your marriage. God bless you...
This is my story...church is a great phase for young girls and boyz. Validation as a first born can ruin ones esteem. Dear parents, learn to tell your kids affirming words 😢to boost their moral and ego. So proud of you gal...for coming out bold and straight to help others heal from things that borders them.
I have learned one thing that when you fear God and walk in His ways, so many un necessary pains are avoided. I have walked a path of pain but behind it has been disobedience. Like the psalmist said. "Before I was afflicted, i went astray" My desire is to know Him.
I love that you never gave up on marriage and the purpose of God for your life. Your story has put me to tears and added another layer of healing. God bless you❤️
Very courageous and brave girl for sharing your life story, the moral of the lesson is that girls please love yourself, if you know and love yourself your self esteem will be so high, you will not allow any man to rub nonsense on you..And lastly marriage is not by force… you don’t have to sleep with any man just because u want him to validate u.
Wow am 29 yr old single mama of a son,7abortions,about 22 heartbreaks,full of childhood traumas😢😢,,,,You give me a reason to keep trying....May your Lord appear to me and teach me how to humble myself and follow the man of my dream.
You have shared almost all about my life. I hope someday i can get the courage to do this. I had been instructed to do this same thing you're doing but i am still a work in progress and someday i will share my story. I had attempted to write a book but lost control and i didn't
Omg!😭😭thank you Lara for sharing this testimony, your story is very touching, I experience the same before Jesus came and rescued me. You are a hero 🤗🤗🤗 God bless you.🙏🙏🙏🙏
I thank you for sharing, I was just here feeling so sick and tired of being sick and tired, I cried while listening, I have been through so much but I know God will see me through I won't give up, thanks for sharing. God bless you
It’s really sad how some these so called church brothers take advantage of ladies that look up to them in church. You’re indeed a strong woman and I’m glad to have come across this video!
I stumbled upon this video, and it is so relevant because I have been prompted by the Holy Spirit to share my story. Thank you Coach Lara for your obedience. Much love to you.
I ran through this today. And with my heavy heart, depression, mockery and the dream of making it big which is draining me. I am so glad to watch this. God have Mercy On me for wanting more
God bless you, Coach Lara. I just randomly saw this and I am so blessed. I am a student writing exams currently so to dedicate an hour to listen to you, you should know that you are doing great right there. You are an overcomer. Don't care about those who will judge you. I mean, who has ever been perfect in the eyes of men? I have learned so much from this message to be thankful for. God bless you. To me, you have fought a great fight and I hope even though I might be young, these lessons will be with me through this journey of mine too. We don't only learn from those who had easy ways through life. We learn also from those who have failed because they are the ones who have overcome. I love you for this ❤
Thank you for sharing your story.Even when humans consider you a failure by human standards,God sees a General in his army. God bless you and all that is yours.
She is sharing her story so others can learn from her mistakes. Please stop judging and asking why this why that. She is a new person in Christ. Thank you for your courage in sharing. We love you ❤. Keep shining.
There’s nothing wrong with asking questions
People share their stories to encourage others and make others strong. People with vain minds won’t understand what’s she’s doing and will judge her. Hypocrites! Who made you a judge over another?
God bless you for the courage to share you journey with us and God bless your husband the more for holding you up Ma
@theUcheNick interesting, people actually learn from people's mistakes ...it doesn't matter how may times they made the mistake before they learnt...the aim is for people who are about to make same mistake to redirect their steps.....are you supposed to learn from people who never had the experience
Yeah, your model should be people who have good records all through, but we are humans , as much as we strive to be good, we still fall out on the way
@@obymary-ann6418 1, 2 abortions is a mistake... But 15 is peak fooling and serial killer vibes.
She killed 15 babies.
15...
Could you let that sink in?
Okay... and now she is claiming to be a life coach. You women easily fall into the hands of bad people because you forgive people with unforgettable pasts.
Now imagine your brother marrying a woman with this past, will you be happy with it?
Well, enjoy the clownery.
Righteous people let her be please
She was never afraid of starting again over and over again... ladies and gentlemen, I present to you Courage!!!!
And resilience 🙌
More like the strongest woman ever. Me with just two heart breaks, am still in my cocoon
I can relate all through. Thank you so much for sharing. It's inspiring ❤
You are indeed a strong woman,I admire you alot ma'am.More grace❤❤
honestly. some of us fear to start over.
The woman is a strong woman.
Girl, you have no idea how many people you are healing with this story ❤️
HalleluYah ahmein ❤
She's trying to heal herself by confessing 15 abortions... she has to live with her conscious and all that
f!lthy memories... can't escape it.
@@maryjean-vb8bm we are all sinners, no sin is greater than the other. But in the blood of Jesus, we get to be forgiven.
Never judge anybody, you are not Holy.
Exactly 💯
@@maryjean-vb8bmPlease don't be so judgemental. At least she is not hiding her life like most people do. Has your life been squeaky clean? Do you have children or grandchildren? Even if you don't have any yet, you have no idea where their paths will lead them. She was just an unfortunate victim who was looking for love in a man. She was like a lot of women, who never feel whole unless a man is by their side. The majority of men just want to get in a woman's pants, and women just have to learn this.
This is just my story. I am excited I stumbled on this. Thank you so much ma'am for sharing this. I had my first seed via rape at 19 and my whole world shattered after then. I started looking for validation and had approval addiction and it led me into getting into several attachments with people.
I had an issue healing and started bleeding on people who didn't cut me. Then I knew there were issues I need to deal with. I hope that someday very soon I would meet the man of my dream and live happily ever after fulfilling purpose.
God bless you abundantly ma.
I pray that your prayers and desires will come true soon🙏
I come into agreement with you. The Lord Jesus Christ, our maker and our Creator is our first love. Our Maker is our Husband. Only Jesus Christ can give the right husband who understands this situations. Let's keep worshipping him until then.
I listened, I cried, I connect, I smiled. Thank you Lara for sharing your story. Thank you! Thank you!
Be the first to cast a stone if you have no sin!
Thank you for this testimony sister❤
I'm not supporting 15 abortions. People need to read the Bible and respect their bodies.
@maryjean-vb8bm All the 15 children are in heaven waiting for her if she get there. They will come to great her 😅
@@maryjean-vb8bmThere you go judging again. Wake up to reality of the world woman, and stop being an unintelligent fool. You have no idea what the people around you are doing. Maybe there are other people who you know who did worst in their lives.
Read your Bible and see that you shouldn't judge... who are you to judge 😒
Christians judging other Christians for sinning differently..... and if their mistakes are put out in public they'd want to be understood...
Her story is the story of so many, but she's different because she is bold and courageous to share. Others have done worse but walk around in silence like angels. You are a sweet soul. Well done.
They are even here judging just imagine that
Ah! There is hope oooo
Bam!!!
Exactly 😢
Thanks for sharing ur story. I gained a lot from it. I hope one day, I will have the courage to share mine.❤
I cried while watching this video because I can relate to most of what you went through only that I never had a baby out of wedlock, you see men to think I dated just one animal for three years plus, I knew the relationship was over long time but I was in denial , thanks to God I broke up with him October and boom December I met my hubby the sweetest man on earth 2021, got married n gave birth to my sweet baby girl, currently pregnant again with my baby boy🎉🎉🎉my life is a testimony all glory be to God 🙏🏻🥰🥰
I pray for the same restoration.God please change my story 😢
God will Cheng my story like this lady
@@LorineOmondi amen God will change your story, just keep praying and have faith in him 🙏🏻
@@betricemainoya4176 amen 🙏🏻
How about abortions ?...
Stumbling on the video was never an accident ❤Thank you Holy spirit ❤
This is strongest woman have ever listened to. Am a man though but healed something in me ds morning. Remain blessed always madam.
I'm glad I stumbled on this video. I left my marriage two years ago and within these two years I've been jumping from one relationship to the other and getting heartbroken. Now I'm tired and after watching this video I realize I'm addicted to relationships. So now I've decided that I need to stay single and heal. Thank you so much Coach Lara
You’re welcome 🙏
My darling the HolySpirit led you to it her story is beautiful it brings hope restoration and healing .With God all things are possible ❤️😍🙏🏽
@@alicecharles1163 indeed it was the Holy Spirit who led me to her story
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.. I pray for you beautiful woman. This YOU WILL do it right in Jesus name Amen
just stay single you wiil have your own peace aman cannot make you look strong
This is so healing on so many levels. I got pregnant for the first time in my life from my first boyfriend at 19, but didn’t have the courage to keep it, even though I was in the university. I was too afraid of my mother to even consider it an option, this is about 33 years ago, two divorces after and no biological children of my own, I salute your courage and the grace upon your life. My take from this is truly that it’s never too late to start over❤❤❤❤❤
God has GREAT plans for you
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God will come through for you
Sending you love sister...Wish you well.
Sending you hugs sister!!
You need to seek God of restoration and that abortion was sin it could have been a hinderance in your marriage and failure to get biological children but we believe in God of restoration and second chance of we repent .please seek God and deliverance from your church too. You need to engage is a spiritual warfare.if you keep calling upon him you will get all the answers.and through that you will get your healing and deliverance.God bless you
Some of us don't have the courage to tell such a story. And i can say WHAT a brave woman.
I am encouraged. I am 32 with 1 child,never been married before. I know,defilement , i know Rejection,I know depression,i know disappointments,i know broken engagement and this caused me to have fear of commitment. I am really quick at starting over but i run out of relationships. I pray God can see me through
Every church person must listen to this. Great story.... God continue to be with you ma'am.
By the time you find who you are you will find who matches your life. WORD 🙌🏾
This part reminds me of the wisdom of God’s word when it advises to marry when you are past the bloom of youth.(1 Corinthians 7:6)
COULDN'T agree more
you have no idea how your story is healing to my bones. There are things as women we go through that we can't even open up to people due to judgement. May God bless you for this ❤
Amen
So true
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True
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What an amazing testimony! The Bible says in Isaiah 48:10 - "Behold, I have refined you, but not with silver; I have tested you in the furnace of affliction". Often, we are so engaged in stealing the pen and trying to do things forcibly that we forget who the author is!
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Waooooo, What A story, Mennnnnnnn, I listened, I paused and played again, again and again, You are supper strong and courageous, You are a healer, You are a star, You are a blessing, You are blessed. It is that point for me where you said Lara you re a woman learn to follow, A man need to lead. I give it to you, i dont know how i stumbled into this video, is life saving. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you.
CHURCH BROTHERS HAVE HURT ME!!! I’m trying to heal, I’m trying to move on. I don’t deserve this, I’m a good person😪
They’re not the one for you. God will surely bring the one that’s meant for you.
Don't worry things gonna get better, u get someone right for u
Oops! Me too😌💔💔
God is a restorer😭 thank you for the encouragement and the timing is just everything ❤️
I woke this morning, feeling very lazy, so I picked up my phone and headed to youtube. The first video that popped up was of a beautiful woman, and caption about abortions and heartbreaks. Out of curiosity, I clicked and spent the next 1 hour of my morning on a roller coaster of emotions.
Lara, I have never seen you before, never heard you before, but Madam, you are a darm good speaker, and you made my morning. Asides, your story is a motivation for every human being who is going through a low in their life, that with faith and determination, you can still be who God made you to be.
Thanks for telling your story.
Exactly!😂. I woke up this morning and stumbled on this too. Wowww, Lara, you are amazing!
Me too! I’m like what? LOL I’m so glad I was never “boy crazy” I use to feel bad being celibate for 8 years and felt “awkward” I was not dating heavy..BUT GOD it’s saved me from these evil toxic men..I can’t relate but her testimony is amazing and courageous
Same here 😊😊
Thank you my sister God Bless you. I have 8 kids and im the black sheep of the family of course. All they can say is i have too many kids....but everyone comes to me for money cos I'm good in business. Im not worried God is not done with me yetttttttt!!
God bless you sis ❤
@@ndahafahappyjuju Amennnn in Him alone we trust💯
God be with you. Just keep strongest
Don’t feel bad I have 2 kids, I’m also the black sheep of my family as well. They going to talk even if u only have 1 kid or even no kid!
With all the church hurt, you still trusted God!
Your story is amazing and i have shared with all teens in my page.
Omg, you went through so much. I’m so sorry. Jesus please heal anyone who went through this.
God’s Mercy was upon you. No sexually transmitted disease and with numerous abortions had more babies. Sister Lara what a testimony. Small heartbreak some of us are crying. Oh God forgive me.
You know many people are afraid to share their own story. This a woman who went through her healing and is now empowered to share her store. She is healed from her trauma. There are many who are trying to heal and many don’t even know they need healing. Her story can inspire
This video has been showing on my RUclips home for like two months and I never paid attention to it, it never disappeared even when I refresh my page until today when I decided to watch this video and I must say I was so touched. I really held back my tears. God bless you ma. I pray for a forever union between you and your husband . No more pains
Same here. I had even saved it for watch later but never went back to it. It just keeps showing. THANK GOD i finally did click on it. So much lessons to be learnt. GOD BLESS you Coach Lara for sharing❤
Same here. Decided to watch it today and I am happy I did
You said something important, I think i have this same calling..but I swear I don't have the courage to share my story. It's One horrible story..Am born again now. But still fighting with myself whether to share my story or not. May God give me clarity.
@@tumisiokonyo1028 AMEN 🙏🏽
Lord!! I have cried so much while listening to this story... Couch Lara, Thank-you very much for sharing your story. I felt I am too messy and not good enough for any man. I have been living in self condemnation and been contemplating suicide for some time. Your video just gave me hope to live. I pray God heals my broken heart and helps me find purpose in life. 😓
God is your strength. Do not ever underestimate yourself dear. There is someone out there that God specifically designed for you. Keep the faith and God will heal you 🙏🙏
If only you can hear mine. I wish I have the guts open up
It’s okay to be vulnerable. We will be a vulnerable generation. Vulnerability leads to healing. Secrecy and pride harboured rape, abuse, struggle and pain. Vulnerability takes off all that pressure because if you’ve already been forgiven by God, what can any man say? They have no authority above God.
Be like Jesus, imagine if he condemned you the way man condemn, but no he accepts us all and our great mistakes. Remember that God is LOVE and not hate. He will forgive you and redeem you, he accepts the mess that mortal man would reject.
Remember to be kind, give grace and extend compassion.
“For judgment is without mercy to the one who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment.” James 2:13.
I am a man but honestly men are wicked...wickedly wicked...almost cried hearing this ...
is good uk your gender can be very wicked
Thankss for understanding you deserve a big hug,I just quited my relationship three months back imagine married man of 32years lieing that is not married,I stood for him,I cried when he cried, smiled when he smiled,just to find out is a happily married man of 2yrs in marriage,I ended it immediately,broke him, friends,and his family cause they are all fake and snake, though my heart block but am very strong and moved on and I must say am a very single happy lady,men are really wicked
mmh there has to be accountability on both ends. I believe God forgives but killing 15 people has got to have consequences. By the way, she was choosing these men. Christianity really removes people's ability to think and be accountable for their behavior and cast it on "Christ." No wonder some of the most wicked people are in church.
@@alltruth881 Yes what she did was wrong and she is imperfect, had her reasons she will account to God for, but she is met by a perfect God able to cleanse and forgive her. 1 is no better than 15, 15 no better than 30, we can’t weigh sin. A white lie is still sin, or that small theft. Generations of secrecy and pride harboured rape, abuse, struggle and pain. Vulnerability takes off all that pressure because if you’ve already been forgiven by God, what can any man say? They have no authority above God. You have no authority above God who forgives liberally.
Be like Jesus, imagine if he condemned you the way man condemn, but no he accepts us all and our great mistakes. Remember that God is LOVE and not hate. He will forgive you and redeem you, he accepts the mess that mortal man would reject.
Remember to be kind, give grace and extend compassion, the same way you would want to receive from God.
“For judgment is without mercy to the one who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment.” James 2:13.
Every young lady must hear this message. Thank you sister, we struggle so much in silence.Thank you for sharing you story.
Females don’t have to suffer alone. Nigerian government need to do something about this. Baby daddies should be forced to take up their responsibilities. Another lesson I learnt is that parents should love their children unconditionally without judgement. If parents are the backbone, many of this hurts would have been avoided. I am sure your parents did all they could based on their understanding. Thanks for sharing your story, I bless God for your life.
Sweety the government in both the United States and Africa are mostly men.....so yeah good luck.....woman should stop giving birth just abort. We don't want to but sometimes it's for the best.....noone ever faults these guy and then they have sex with multiple womannnn
The best comment ever @charmyni8847 - Another lesson I learnt is that parents should love their children unconditionally without judgement. If parents are the backbone, many of this hurts would have been avoided. I am sure your parents did all they could based on their understanding. Thanks for sharing your story, I bless God for your life. I'm 52 now and i suffered from this but have been hidding that feelings like forever now not married and no kids and to make it worse am a Men.
Thank you so much coach Lara. This is so helpful. I can now move on without condemning myself and the is precious gift that God has given me. I'm 14 weeks pregnant since when i noticed i was pregnant, I have been a shadow of myself, Worrying about what people will say. But now I know I can still become who I want even with this baby in my womb. Am glad this link was shared with me. Thanks for giving me courage to stand up for me and my unborn child. May God bless you and your home❤😘
I had my son at 19 too, with a man 16 years older than me.. he will be 7 soon , God is good and his grace is so sufficient.. There are no condemnation to those who are in Christ. Cling to the Most High, and congratulations sis xx
I went through embarrassment at 25 single and pregnant. I’m here today to tell you my son is a doctor. Find the strength to enjoy your pregame and love your child. You got this❤
Having à Child is a grace even if your are not maried. Don't let anything discourage you. Love your baby and pray for him/her. Keep doing your best to follow Jesus. I'll pray for your baby and you. Am thankful to God that you decide to keep the pregnancy. May God strengthen you and protect you both in Jesus Name ❤
I love babies so much
This is sad, what childhood trauma can blind us in adult relationships. We literally end up making unsound decisions that have dire consequences. Thank you for sharing.
True..I didn't see childhood trauma in this video though
You're a strong woman for coming out to share your stories for the world to hear which others are afraid of doing 🎉🎉 I'm proud of you ❤
I can relate to your story, being a single mother, trying to remarry, the pain and rejection, when you got to the part of going back to God, during the 40 days fast, I just couldn’t help it I started crying, I’m sure I’m part of the people God told you to share your story, it will be as a template so as to place God above all, Thank God you were able to survive all this, ur story will surely save a lot of lives, preventing them from going down the dark path, thank you and thank you, God bless🙏🏽🙏🏽❤❤
Sis, can we be friends
@@_Obaa_Afia yes o
Infact......
I don't even know where to start....
This story is a whole lot in one....
So many layers....
So many facets....
So many lessons to glean from this story....
I celebrate you....
Woman of grace, courage and tenacity....
Thank you so much for bringing hope to some one like me by sharing your story....
GOD bless you so much
Coach Lara....
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This story is really talking to me when I thought it has finish in me I'm nothing anymore depressed, low self esteem, getting angry with myself always having a sad face 😢
But after watching this I'm very excited and ready to rise again.thanks alot
I’m soo soo inspired by your story, im 19 years and one thing am very passionate about is finding my purpose and this just made soo much sense. When you said God can put together broken pieces and make it whole I shed some tears and that’s the word I’m going to always remember as I start my adulthood journey. God bless you coach Lara 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️
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And we wish you best of luck Naomi 😊, Age of 19,20 and go on has alot to pass through 😊, But what most important don't leave GOD❤
Hallelujah 🙌
Despite the abortions God still bless her with pregnancy she gave birth a child. God u are too faithful. Thank you Lord.
You’re so strong girl! I know heartbreak, I know depression, I know rejection so I understand your story and pain.
I imagine you've had to forgive so many times: yourself, your father, the men who hurt you. How did you navigate that? I find it so intense that you remained in that church & watched the man you were previously engaged to, get married & pregnant, I feel you should have found a different church home but it seems you are more mentally strong than most people. Maybe a future video on forgiving & moving on ❤
When you learn to love yourself, you make better decisions and choices. You are teaching others what not to do. You went through this so some others don’t have to.
How do you learn to love yourself
I am 65 years old and am glad to have watched and listened throughput. The key here to her success was that she never gave up on God that is the lesson here. For change to happen rely not on your own understanding, allow God. Things happen to us so others can be inspired to change and find peace, so share your story, not necessarily online asking God to give you your own platform. God bless you coach and to those going through similar traumas.
you are a strong woman, i had a child when i was in school ,till date am scared of another relationship,my daughter now 14th, am enjoying my single life , i focus on my career and her i dont like stress these story heal me right now i cry😢😢
I woke up this midnight restless with the thoughts of not being able to break free from my present toxic relationship, the feeling of not wanting to let go even though I know that there’s no good in it, the feeling of not being good enough to begin a new relationship. Right in the middle of these thoughts I opened my RUclips app and this video came up. I don’t know why I clicked on it, maybe it was because the title was catch. But I’m glad o did… thank you for sharing your story.
Same I here
Wow. This is my first time seeing Lara. And this is my first time hearing that someone had 15 abortions. At first ,yes, i was like "what a wayward life", but i listened to her story and realized she is a strong , strongwill woman. She is a good woman with a heart of gold. Who only wants something out in life. She is adorable sharing for others to learn from her. I too learnt from her . I pray that God protect, make her marriage work,cos she deserves it. Such a hardworking lady. Your story is so touching. God bless you real good. Xoxo
Thats why its good to date before getting married. Im in almost same situation, 37, about to divorce bc my husband lives with another woman and their child, never tried getting married. Currently im in a bad place, trying to change my life both physically and financially. Lord help me as i want someone who divorced and learned from their mistakes as i have done.
Just feeling so low after being dumped yesterday with the man saying I loved him too much and made me look desperate,I never thought the guy would do this to me and we had a lot of plans,now feeling lost but after coming across you Lara, I'm just 21 and I have a Future❤ You're so inspiring, thanks Lara and for anyone going through something , you're a brave girl and we'll figure this out
Your best days are ahead sweetheart ,ive been there too.put god first and he will give you the desires of your heart.
Break yourself loose from this rejection. The loss is his not yours. You are precious in God's sight and he is saving you for the right partner. Do not rush just work on yourself to become the best to the one God has in store for you ! Don't be anxious for anything, but give God the glory with thanks giving. I don't know you,but I am here to tell you it will be well with you !
This story line is exactly what am going through right now,even as am dropping dis comment.two children from two different men and two different marriages.After listening to her ,am again strengthen.thanks very much Lara for your courage and boldness.
I just heard your testimony on Dear Lady Ann platform and then YT recommended this, wow. What a powerful testimony. Thank you for sharing your story, glory be to God for redeeming your story for his name sake.
Thank you for watching
Same! It literally popped up in my YT. I knew it was not a coincidence
Me as well😂. I heard her story on dearladyAnn platform. Purposed to look for her but forgot the name. Then boom YT recommend her channel. Coincidence?
Yeah same here. Heard about her testimony on the DearLady RUclips Channel.
😂😂 wooooow! I heard her testimony from Lady Ann as well, after hearing her testimony I had planned to search for her on Instagram but I forgot. Yesterday when I opened my RUclips App this video was the first one, then I saved it to Watch later. I went on with my day, only today 20 minutes ago I remembered that I saved this video. Here I am now watching it and I came across your comment 😂
I've learnt alot today.
I'm 30 yrs old and I've been through this since I gave birth to my daughter at the age of 22 aborted 3 pregnancies,and had so many heartbreaks.
But one thing that kept me going is my faith in God.
Now I've watched this video and I know my life will change for the better.
So many things you said of which I've written down.
By God's grace I will work on myself and allow God to do the rest
Thank you coach,this means alot for me.
God bless you
Abba Father God is sooooo good. Im so glad i listened to your story. Im 30 yrs old and i can related to alot of what u went through. Even tho i dont have any children, i understand the pain of abortion pressure from the guy who wanted to be engaged to me. The next guy took advantage of me yet he was the musician in the church and part of the Pastoral Prayer ministry Team. I founding he was married with 5 kids, and the wife was INSIDE the same church! That church pastor kicked me out, and he was seen as the victim. Its crazyyyyy! Im encouraged and inspired by your story, because Ive always had a strong deire to help younger women to do the inner work and self-mastery before these relationship/marriages because u will only attract narcissistic men if u dont. These things are not taught in Churches either and thats why many of us church girls and guys are so naive. One day I will share my story, and spread the power of counselling and life coaching what it can do for a person's life.....( even more help than these churches) God bless you more and more Lara❤❤❤w
God Thank You For Making Me Come Across This Video 😢. Am Really Blessed
I honestly have not seen so much honesty on the internet before, she didn't try to make it pretty or make anyone feel comfortable, this is really commendable...there are a lot of people that can relate to her story right now and I'm sure if they are patient enough to listen to the end they'll learn something
😭😭😭😭you dared to live life like this😭😭YOU LIVED!!!OH YOU LIVED😭😭😭YOU ARE POWERFUL!!!😭❤️YOU ARE A LIVING TESTIMONY.I TOOK IN EVERY WORD DEEP DOWN MY SPIRIT AND THANKS ALOT.
Love your story. I had 9 abortions in California. Thank you for your truth
I'm 11 weeks thinking about obortion because I don't want to bring a kid in this life. nothing is going well for me. What's your advice for abortion I'm scared of doing it, but at the same time, I want to keep it even tho life is not treating me well right now 😩this would be my third the second one didn't make by 9 months at 6 months he passed in belly 😢right now things are not going well for me but pregnant 😩I just happen to see this after I just made an appointment 🤔
@@marisefigaro1038hello dear. I hope I'm not late in responding this. But I would advice you to not move forward with your plan. Abortion will cost you so much than keeping that baby. Do not do it. I have and it destroyed me. Find a support system, it's just a phase but you can do this. Someday you'll be happy you kept your pregnancy.
@@marisefigaro1038 I hope you didn't go ahead with it. 😢
@blueblood5045 No, I didn't. I couldn't. I don't have the heart for it, and I was actually 14 weeks
@@marisefigaro1038 I'm happy for you! Wish you well on this journey 💞🙏🏾
The real definition of God's love for you, it's patient,kind, genuine, non-judgemental, Am glad you found peace and testimony.
Omy😪
Had my child when I was 18, she'll be 8 by next next weekend...
No successful relationship yet, its never ease but God is faithful... Thank you so much ma👏🏽
My self esteem went down to zero, but I'm better....
@@FavouritesHubas long you walk with God he will give you a testimony .You are not your mistake you are still valuable ,worthy of love ,don't settle .invest in your self & believe that you deserve the best then watch how you will attract high quality men into your life ❤
@@MercyAbiNuhu thank you so much
Oh my God. I had my baby at 21 and I was in year one semester one. Same story,I was rejected and I can really relate to your story and your Dad is my Dad's type. Am finishing this year but Sweetheart you're my role model
I am so grateful this video popped up and I clicked on it. You may not understand but this single video has taught me so much about myself. I will be sharing because this can help so many as it is helping me. ❤ All I can hear is strength, courage and faith.
What a touching story... We all have gone through a lot as young ladies but your courage to speak up gives me the faith that God is a restorer of a broken person. God bless you Lara and more grace to touch lives.
" we all . " 🙄 Some of us suffer for Jesus and call upon Jesus when temptations come...
I know many may have said this, but your story is identical to mine in many ways. However, I haven't yet had my happy ending, but you've given me a lot to think about. Thanks for sharing your story
Mmmmh, words can't really express how I feel right now about this video. But this is so so inspiring to many out there. God will surely heal all those that went through or going through this! Everyone has a story, in the end, they will be alright.
Wow i am glad someone shared this with me. I am a widowed mom of 2.... After watching this video I now see myself In a different way. I now believe I can actually get a father for my 2 little kids. Thanks for sharing your story and
Lara, You are a strong woman. Your story has come in timely. I'm a woman has gone through alot. Your story is greatly ministering to me and I feel my heart is healing right now. God bless you.
You were so hardworking regardless of the struggles ma'am. That's the lesson I picked. Thank you for sharing.
Acceptance is the beginning of healing . Thanks for sharing your story! lots of leasons indeed.
Thank you for watching 🙏
My goodness!! You are a great example of courageous and strength. I pray everyone that is suffering in silence draw strength and courage from your testimony. Thanks for being an encouragement. You are rare
Thank you 🙏
Incidentally, you are not just a good seller or marketer but great story teller....A healing journey
What a life experience to pull a lot of women out there, discover yourself, know your worth, pray about it, and with patience and perseverance, you will surely testify. Thank you, Lara, for sharing your life experience.....
I’m so sorry for all you went through, OMG your story deserves it’s own movie, but I’m glad you came out of it victoriously ❤️👏
Thank you so much 🙏🙏
I agree this story deserves a movie. Wow.
Ma'am Lara whenever you feel to put this story in a movie, I'm ready to be part of your cast.
can i be part of your cast too as a single mum with a bit different similar story
It really does, Goòoooood sometimes these learning processes 😢😢😢 not easy oooo I don't want to imagine the pains in the heart...Lara the mission is great hence eish God continue to guide and bless you
@@GraceTone As
Aside her strength and resilience, her mother's strong will is commended. Her father should have done better by pulling her closer to himself, and she shouldn't have been finding that love with other men, her father should have been that 'lover' to her. Her father made her self esteem more low than it already was. All the same Kudos to you coach Lara 💯
Haven't seen a more touching story on the internet. I cried! You have been through so much and I'm so happy with what God has made out of your life.
No matter how broken, God can bring back the pieces together and make something beautiful out of it.
Thank you so much for sharing, Coach Lara! learned a lottttt!
I am not even sure how I got to listening to this story but I was moved to tears and so so encouraged, and thank you, Lord thank you sister for sharing your story of hope.
My goodness! This woman is courageous. I look forward to sharing mine someday. Sharing brings some kind of healing.
A beautiful, engaging story
I can’t believe I watched this until the end. Enjoyed every part of it.
You’re a remarkable storyteller, ma’am
I'm still wondering how I ended up spending 1hr on your video, I came to RUclips to check for something else but I got hooked from the first sentence up unto the last. Such a touching and inspiring story. Wishing you all the best and more joy and fulfilment in your marriage. God bless you...
I celebrate God's mercy, grace & love in your life. Sweeter & sweet wine I pray for you always Amen
Dear Coach Lara, You are an inspiration to me. There is definitely a difference between secret and private relationships.
Dear Coach Lara you didn't explain the difference between secret and private relationships. Or maybe I did not get it right. Kindly elaborate
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I cried watching this.she must have gone through alot. Shes such a strong woman, im glad you are where you are today.God bless your for sharing
This is my story...church is a great phase for young girls and boyz. Validation as a first born can ruin ones esteem. Dear parents, learn to tell your kids affirming words 😢to boost their moral and ego. So proud of you gal...for coming out bold and straight to help others heal from things that borders them.
I have learned one thing that when you fear God and walk in His ways, so many un necessary pains are avoided. I have walked a path of pain but behind it has been disobedience. Like the psalmist said. "Before I was afflicted, i went astray" My desire is to know Him.
Wow this is sooooo timely 👏 👌
I see the enemy uses our insecurities to try to bring us down 😢
I could relate to some parts of your story...honestly.
😢This is so touching. You're really strong. I pray this video uplifts every lady out there watching this and has been through similar situation
Amen. Thank you 🙏
@@DearCoachLara God bless you
I went to bed last night, completely discouraged. I stumbled on this video today. And I have been so inspired. Thank you coach Lara
If courage was a person 👌👌🤩 God bless you ma. I’m grateful I stumbled into this
I love that you never gave up on marriage and the purpose of God for your life. Your story has put me to tears and added another layer of healing. God bless you❤️
Very courageous and brave girl for sharing your life story, the moral of the lesson is that girls please love yourself, if you know and love yourself your self esteem will be so high, you will not allow any man to rub nonsense on you..And lastly marriage is not by force… you don’t have to sleep with any man just because u want him to validate u.
Whew....quite a story. Very inspiring! I pray we can all share such a testimony. 🙌
Wow am 29 yr old single mama of a son,7abortions,about 22 heartbreaks,full of childhood traumas😢😢,,,,You give me a reason to keep trying....May your Lord appear to me and teach me how to humble myself and follow the man of my dream.
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Babe... You're too much. Sharing this has saved many lives! I love you so much. You're so realllll! Thanks for giving your life to humanity! ❤
You have shared almost all about my life. I hope someday i can get the courage to do this. I had been instructed to do this same thing you're doing but i am still a work in progress and someday i will share my story. I had attempted to write a book but lost control and i didn't
Are blessed.
Take your time to grow your relationship with God.
The time will come and you will know when it is time.
I can relate to this story so much from teen pregnancy to more. I’m on the other side as a saved woman. God is able.
Omg!😭😭thank you Lara for sharing this testimony, your story is very touching, I experience the same before Jesus came and rescued me. You are a hero 🤗🤗🤗
God bless you.🙏🙏🙏🙏
I thank you for sharing, I was just here feeling so sick and tired of being sick and tired, I cried while listening, I have been through so much but I know God will see me through I won't give up, thanks for sharing. God bless you
I jus realized I'm starting my journey of genuine healing...thanks lara
Wow. BOLD.....that you can show your scars in this way,you are healed!
Yes I am and I am now a therapist who is helping other people heal too. Thank you 🙏
It’s really sad how some these so called church brothers take advantage of ladies that look up to them in church. You’re indeed a strong woman and I’m glad to have come across this video!
Yh go ahead and blame the men in church😂 instead of holding people accountable!
Can't blame the brothers alone, she is also to be blame. God's redemption
I stumbled upon this video, and it is so relevant because I have been prompted by the Holy Spirit to share my story. Thank you Coach Lara for your obedience. Much love to you.
I ran through this today. And with my heavy heart, depression, mockery and the dream of making it big which is draining me. I am so glad to watch this. God have Mercy On me for wanting more
Trust God with all your plans and he will direct you .
God bless you, Coach Lara. I just randomly saw this and I am so blessed. I am a student writing exams currently so to dedicate an hour to listen to you, you should know that you are doing great right there. You are an overcomer. Don't care about those who will judge you. I mean, who has ever been perfect in the eyes of men? I have learned so much from this message to be thankful for. God bless you. To me, you have fought a great fight and I hope even though I might be young, these lessons will be with me through this journey of mine too. We don't only learn from those who had easy ways through life. We learn also from those who have failed because they are the ones who have overcome. I love you for this ❤
Thank you for sharing your story.Even when humans consider you a failure by human standards,God sees a General in his army. God bless you and all that is yours.