My people, when we watch videos like these, is good we pay attention. She did not say all ghana men are like these. She spoke of her experience with more than three person. Their will always be a Judas in every country, including Nigeria. My formal ex-girl, will tell you, that nigeria men are evil. When she say so, she's talking about me. She was all, i wanted, my first female friend for that matter. She was a rolling stone, greatest lier of all time. Even the devil, is ashamed of himself, when she lies. Because the devil, met someone who is a perfect liar. I am not perfect but i am caring, faithful and fun loving person. Life will present you different apple, chose what you can manage and bear the pain.
After talking to people from different cultures and nationalities . I have concluded that the issue is more around socioeconomic status, education and level of exposure.
Yes i support this conclusion, however, how would this men feels its happened to their OWN sister? I preach to these young women NEVER allowed a man to move in with you if - he is homeless or struggling to live ALONE, or and living off his parents/families or on social benefits🔥. No job, Not in trade not in education and always on the phone and watching TV and they CONTROL your life. BIG RED FLAG🚨. The day you ask him to move out will be the end of your Free life. Sad But True. Research have shown that most crimes committed against women are by such men because they have lost their🛑 FREE CASH COW🙏 So they are biter🥊 and are consumed with revenge. 🗣
Ashia my sister, am also a Cameroonian who was married to a Cameroonian but did all those things to me. Left me with 3 kids and Went home and impregnate a girl, came back and was homeless. Am saying this to say that, the heart of man is dangerous regardless. Just pray for God to guide you to the right one. Good luck
I am sorry you met the wrong and uncultured Ghanaian man, Ghana guys are actually sweet and respectful. I am dating a Ghanaian man and he is actually the best thing to ever happen to me, we are together for 2 years and not a single day will I choose any other person over him. I know we are all not perfect but he is my sweet problem and I am his little headache🤣🤣
Great. As long he is not potentially going be homeless, and got a job, and he is FOCUS person then he is one of the few great Ghanaian men around. As a Ghanaian any man who want to move in with a woman is a RED FLAG. Suggest to the man to RENT /Buy a house together then you can live together. Any RESPONSIBLE man will agree if they want long term commitment relationship.
Kwesi but 92% of the average Ghanaian man living in Ghana always always and always have a story to scum you - they only see you as ATM. And use their private organ as the ONLY thing they can offer a woman. Sad but true.
I agree as a Belgian woman the ghanian man was probably the most beautifully sculptured and featured man i had ever met in my life. After 5mths of him begging for money every month i cut clean off. I never seen a man cry. I loved him but i loved myself a whole lot more and eventually a Yoruba King asked me for his hand in marriage. I couldn't be HAPPIER!!!
I thought it was only me. I’m a Canadian in Ghana and boy is it draining. All these Ghanian men are looking help not love. I was so surprised as I was told they are great providers but so far I am traumatized and taking a break from dating. I love your story and how you expressed your experience. Glad you were wise and didn’t ruin your credit as it’s so important.
He will drain you because you because you liked the way he behaved and did his things but still went to date him. You must see yourself lucky being with a Gh man
I am really happy and excited watching this lovely video and for been a Nigerian man, although living in South Africa but relocating to Canada this year to further my studies in Montreal. Once again your content is insightful and funny at the same time but there are a lot of lessons there😍
Very common with our men. unfortunately. Even some pretend to be gay and scumming some of my friends. When these white friends tells me they are so in love with a Ghanaian gay man on line, and planning to and visit- i scream and SAY NO WAY. because i know No Ghanaian man would openly claim to be gay in Ghana. One even spent over £10,000.00 (ten thousand pounds before he told me) for a supposed gay man`s mother hospital bill and accommodation bills in Tema.. The funny thing was that this Ghana man refused to speak with me on the phone and when we visited Ghana he didn't show up either. Big Scam
I had the same experience. The guy used me as an opportunity. What she says about Ghanaian men is true. Please be careful out there. Ghana men know how to turn on the charm to get what they want from you.
I have a Ghanian colleague and keeps asking me to link him up to a Cameroonian lady. So I told him about someone and the first thing he asked me was if the lady has money. Ummmm I was amazed to here that coming from a grown up man so I told him never to try dating Outside Ghana
This was so spot on the GH guy I was with almost cost me my life. What you are describing sounds like a narcissist. I'm now with a Nigerian Igbo guy and have no intentions of looking back.
This is why i like Nigerian men!with all the bad bad things people say about Nigerian men Nigerian men have pride they have swag when it comes to dating,relationship and marriages Nigeria will work hard to takecare of their women be it girlfriend,wife and kids sister,mother .In this aspect Nigerian men are number one ..I think its part of their culture to takecare of their women ....
I’m Ghanaian but I always Nigerian men are far better than Ghanaian men. Nigerian men take care of women not even relationship. I remember I was sick in the diaspora, a Nigerian man cooked and took care of me but the Ghanaian men didn’t care.
I am from Igbo tribe in nigeria, taking care of our wife and children, is our culture and also an instruction given to man by God in the bible, where he said that Jesus is the head of the church, while man is the head of his family, for that reason a man duty is to take the responsibility of his family.
This was entertaining 🤣🤣I am dating one but atleast mine is different and cares for me, but the bedroom part is true, he doesn’t even do foreplay, he just wants to enter.They really need to learn more about the bedroom
Sepo Mushaukwa, type of your comment is what I hate. You said, “I am dating one but at least mine is different and cares for me, but the bedroom part is true, he doesn’t even do foreplay, he just wants to enter”. You are talking about one man, and you said, they really need to learn more about the bedroom. Can you use “they” to represent one man? is that how you were thought when you were in school? How many Ghanaian men have you dated? I need your reply.
@@davidoseiamponsah-antwi5963 I made my comment based on what the lady in the video said as she had dated a few of them and they were bad in bed, plus I know several other ladies who complained about the same issue with Ghana men plus my own experience that’s why I said “THEY” cause many ladies can relate. Anyways why are you so bothered if it has nothing to do with you lol🤣🤣🤣
Hi dear. I’m not a Ghanaian but 2 things I'd say is that 1st, a guy from any country can do all that you mentioned, let's not make it look like all Ghanaian men are like what you said here because of your bad experience with the minority. Second, any guy who acts just like that guy should be discarded without giving him a second chance of coming back to your life. Okay, lastly, when you stay long where you are being treated poorly, your subconscious mind will likely start making you believe that that's how all human beings are and eventually you start convincing yourself that you should manage the person hence you start saying ‘ all men or women are like this. Please, don't generalize it, there are good Ghanaian men and there are bad ones it's just unfortunate you met the bad ones but pls, generalizing it does not sound wise at all. Love and Light.
Well, what a sad experience and you just met the wrong guy. I think many of the well educated ones will not behave as such. I also think that you gave in too much and you could have pushed him out after the dinner date. He found your kindness as your weak spot and abused you by preying on that. Best of luck next time, my dear. We all learn everyday and must also be careful daily.🌻
Here in Maryland, Nigerian men are known for living women with pregnancy. They do that mostly to Cameroonian, Liberian, black American, and Sierra Leone girls. You have a better change of seeing marriage and a peaceful union with a Ghanaian man….plus they have more respect for women. And don’t have wandering eyes.
So right! Not all Ghanaian men are like the ones she unfortunately met. I hope you find a better African man out there! N ohh when u started talking I knew you were Cameroonian and sending u love from Zimbabwe
A real down to earth story. Thanks for sensitization and information. I hope that you found the right one now. And By the way my best friend is cameroonian so big up to the 237 and Cameroon ladies!!!!
Alot has been said about we Nigerians, but definitely not seeking financial benefits from ladies. We've been trained to pamper women all the days of our lives
I visited Ghana 2007. I didn’t even introduce myself and boom! He’s Nigerian. All the girls in my street then we’re just very nice to me. They wanted to help me at all cost. They liked talking to me. I didn’t really bother because I had a date in Nigeria that I loved so much. But as soon as I started getting some negative vibes from the guys around that vicinity I returned to Nigeria. I don’t wanna die!
Thanx kindly. I lived and schooled in Ontario b4 moving to BC. You appear very relaxed, more charming and more pleasant in this video. Keep it up, my dear. Happy Thanxgiving Day, Val. Good Luck and Be Blessed.👏
@linda Val. It’s true you said the truth. I’m Nigerian and an Igbo guy. It’s true our Nigerian guys are so caring, romantic and love good women that respect them from any part of the world. This has been the most attractive feature of the Nigerian man. This was one of the fuel of the xenophobic attack in South Africa that Nigerians are taking their jobs, businesses, women etc. No hate to the Ghanaian guys but I think 🤔 Nigerian guy is loved by women everywhere they go. They have the boldness the charisma and vibes or swag.
Yes. Noticed this too in the city I live at here in Canada. As soon as they get in contact(no matter how little) with Nigerian men they go gaga and fight for their attention. Anywhere Nigerian men are wahalur. Their charisma👌
I love the way you told your story it made me laugh so much. I have recently started to see my very first Ghanaian man and by the 1st week he told me he loves me by the 2nd week of us dating he has already asked me for money 💰. The sex is amazing but his sex drive is very very high . He can't get enough sex and if you say no he begs until you give in. I am watching his pattern. Thanks for posting this vid it really made me lol 😆
Aw thank you☺️. But jokes apart girl no longer give him money...u see that high sex drive its just to blazer you n cloud your brain. Maybe he noticed good sex is your weakness. As soon as he notices you no longer giving him what he needs watch that D*** will no longer stand as usual and unless you give money there will be no energy for even a peck. All the very best but honestly watch out😉.
The number one mistake most women make. Sex. A guy can pretend he is into you just for the coochie. And, he will keep smashing until he finds a replacement. Second, most women don't ask guys the difficult questions. Examples: 1. What is your deepest regret? 2. How do you handle failure? 3. Have you failed in life before? ( if he says no, pls, run. That is a narcissistic territory. If he says yes, you follow up should be what would you do differently?) 4. What is your greatest fear? If he says he is not afraid of anything, pls run. 5. Tell me about your Childhood. If he says some and cant day some, pls, run ( you may be dealing with someone with childhood trauma.) 6. What are your financial goals and how do you plan to achieve them? Those were some of the questions I asked my current wife before accepting her. Marriage is our biggest commitment in life but yet we don't do the right interviews. Treat it like how you will interview someone for a job before saying yes to a man. Ask the man questions and your value will increase in his eyes.
Your video made me laugh so hard, but as a Ghanaian woman, I've also experienced the pain that is Ghanaian men. It's so sad bc they don't have to be so mean like that. Like it's so easy to be kind, loving and supportive, but they don't have it in them. My own father and his brothers are leaders in the toxic society. My dad kidnapped me and my 2 brothers away from our mom, left her in Ghana and cut off all connection. I met my mom again in Ghana after 21 yrs., back in Nov. 2022. I have no relationship with my mom bc of my dad. My mom also told me long ago in Ghana, she went to visit my aunt (my dad's older brother's wife). My uncle walked in the house with another woman, in front of my mom and aunt and slept in the house with the other woman. I've had a Ghanaian boyfriend marry behind my back for a greencard while still in a relationship with me for 2 yrs. He then contacted me 4+yrs later at 2 different jobs to invite me on a trip to Ghana, while he was still married and I still had no knowledge of it. I found out the girl whose mail showed up at his apartment, whom he claimed he was "holding mail for a friend," was the same girl he married behind my back with for a greencard. I found out 10yrs after his disappearance a baby registry with them two. That's when I started my investigation. Another Ghanaian guy I recently dated, PhD, Data Scientist working from home, valedictorian at KNUST. He was cheap. He told me I finessed him for shoes when I asked him to buy me $65 crocs. Even though just 2 weeks prior I spent $300 on him for his birthday, $100 for 2 pairs of shoes. This guy makes over $200k/yr. He also told me he loved me 2nd week of seeing each other. He never cooked. I would wake up 1.3hr before work at 5:30am, cook him breakfast and lunch before work, go work for 12hrs saving human lives, come home and cook for him for another 2hrs. Do you know what he did after eating dinner? He took a shower and went to bed. He didn't even help me clean up or even offered, and I had a lot to clean up. I asked him to help me take out the trash and he'd complain that it was too heavy and that he had to carry it in the cold. It was insane! Ghanaian men scare men fr.
Awww baby gurl🥹. I am sorry for all you went through. Unfortunately we don’t have that luxury of choosing who is to birth us because some parents… honestly hum🙄. It is more than well with you. Forget about all those goats you unfortunately gave a chance too. We all are to make mistakes before finding the rite one. I think it’s best you give other countries a try because at times we want our own but it doesn’t favour us. You will fall on a Gem some time soon and when you will look back you shall laugh 🤭😂so much wondering if you were on crack dating them. I wish you all the very best with your mama and want you to know God loves you that’s why he kept her alive all these years to give you a chance getting to know her on your own and hearing her own version of what happened . Bless you hunny 💐 💚😘 and keep blooming.
@lindaval2367 Thanks! I was with a Caucasian after the first Ghanaian guy and he was great. African men need to take some lessons from White men bc they outperform them in every area of life.
That's why words as most/some were used in my narration But i guess english ain't everyones forte. Predominately Ghanaian men exhibit these nasty traits.
My experience as a wife to Nigerian man was never easy ,work cook wash clothes iron press children clothes do home work have 5 kids with different types of food preferences. Give him his food with water and no thank you clean kitchen wash bath tub with no complain Never take me any place.he work and I have a full time.bed 12 am .clean kids up by 7 am drop 2 kids .my husband never assist with any chores .my fellow women any becareful of whom you chose as a life partner.too late for changes. I understand What the lady went through. Thanks for sharing your experience with us.
Jeez don’t know how you keep up but u surely very strong hummm. My prayer for u is that your kids become great tomorrow and for God to grant you enough years to witness and enjoy his deeds in them. Don’t worry you will be greatly compensated in other ways someday😚
I am a Ghanaian and not "even" most of them are like that. Those in Canada are just hustlers and are looking for sponsors. They can't do that to a Ghanaian lady, because we are raised to be responsible.
You are very right siz! I have dated one and now I am just counting losses. Two months into the relationship he was asking for money and he kept asking and when I stopped sending he ended the relationship
Some nigerian men are worst Many of them are caring I married one.i am more of slave to him.i cook every day with no thanks.I take care of the round the clock. never give me gifts than name calling I understand where you coming from.some of them are user. Why many of them are great My niece is married to a Ghanaian and they treat them like princes One in Germany and one in England with kids.some Africa men treat women as property and slaves.thanks for sharing your experience He was only around to use you.I glad you finally outsmart him at the end
My African sense will not let me be played😉. concerning your significant order😞that’s quite unfortunate for you. Didn’t you see those selfish traits from the onset? Cuz I know a lot are very good at concealing but still You should have noticed something or just taught it shall pass or you will be able to change him?
The men you described sound like opportunists. I'm African but not from West Africa. I had a Ghanaian Science teacher in my childhood. A very caring, respectable family man.
🎯💯💯💯. She’s saying no lies. I’m married to a Ghanaian now what I know is a textbook narcissist. So selfish, liar and a serial cheater. At the beginning it was so fast, now I know he was love bombing me. Calling me baby, wife etc after only one month🙄. 20 yrs later I see all the 🚩 I should’ve notice but didn’t. He was waste of my time.
My sister tell them😒Appreciate you sharing your experience with me N Hopefully u found a healthy way to survive through that. It is well with you. The person that wants to listen will listen and if they also want to go taste to determine that’s their business o.💋
In Ghana we don't know cheat because it part of the tradition and culture for the man to have more woman if he wishes to do so. Christianity tried to stop it by these so called western lifestyle wedding "Till death do us apart" just for the church. However, these people will never stay with one woman especially after having children with the woman and the woman become so busy with looking after the children and the home. That is when he get the opportunity to go fishing for next side chick and spending the family funds on her. In short, its normal for a Ghanaian man to cheat.
@danielwitse3381 They are stupid. The truth will be on their eyeballs and the will still lie and deny it's validity. Useless men and this is coming from a Ghanaian woman.
There is lessons to learn in whatever happens to us, to be honest Linda you cant date any kind of man , you are a mature lady, very experimented on things of life.
Yes Jerry in choosing a life partner I will need a man that is very fast and sharp in thinking/reasoning. Because if you are slow up there I will feel sorry for you🫠😂.
These bad men that you met from Ghana, had they being in Ghana, what do you think they'll be doing? They'd be scammers so becareful. It appears you're meeting more wrong ones than the right ones. Good luck to you Sister. Blessings. 😇
Those born in the Western world have empathy and relate to how best to treat a woman. But those born and brought up in Ghana have different perception. They are the scammers.
Please MA'AM I'm in a marriage with one Ghanaian and he doesn't honor me as his wife.... He treats me bad, its almost time to bounce 👀. I won't say don't date I will just say don't get caught vulnerable. If he ask for money tell him no. Just see how he treats you for a lllllllllong while. If you aren't happy RRRRUN FAST PLEASE.
I’m embarking on a Ghanaian man he’s new to the Country I’m from works and seems genuine. I’m such a jerk cause I don’t TRUST him or friends or anything he says . He gets upset cause he says I should trust him eventually but can’t he’s very sweet and caring but i QUESTION everything he says.
Lmaooo I told him NEVER ask me for shit I’m a queen and will be treated like such. I’m mean and block him every now and again cause I told him I will not be played with!!
So far you are using the best approach with him. The key with them it’s to let them know rite away I am not your mother so won’t be buying you stuff or borrowing any form of cash ever and stick to it. Trust me he will run if he came to you for something else.
Let those Ghanaians who run their mouths all the time labeling Nigerians as criminal feel how bad it's to label a whole population as criminals. Hm! Ghanaian men are so bad, please be aware ladies.
stop generalizing, you know better, so you should do better, I'm a Nigerian. we human beings Africans Asian, Europeans and the whole wide world we all have our flaws, nobody is perfect it's not about race or ethnicity. it's about the human heart, the bible says the human heart is desperately wickedly man, woman, boy, girl, Africans Asians, Nigerians, ghanaians, you, me. we all have our flaws some (humans) worse than others. so please let's just stop generalizing. I know your experience is very much valid, but maybe you should say "the Ghanaian men I met......, the Nigerian men I met.... the dash dash people I HAVE MET...." please o bi ko🙏
@@nataliesparks4829 the wisest person I've seen on this channel so far. We sometimes forget that we can meet horrible people irrespective of countries. It's about the individual's attitude and not a country!
Has a Nigerian lady our eyes our so widely open that i can never date anyman apart from Nigerian men, leavening in diaspora made me to realize Nigerian men our the best😊❤❤❤
Sorry about your experience. But it's kinda wierd you couldn't find any one better among those 20 people you claim. Most Ghanaian men react to how you treat them so I think you should check yourself too
A lot of young Ghanaian men abroad are mummy’s boys. Putting you in a state of competition but from what she described She was obviously dating old men who were seeking papers
I am a Nigerian and I tell you this is really disgusting and I am ashamed over here as a man even if I am broke I tell you I will still do the needful at all times and I bet you may not even know I am broke for the rest of that relationship
I am a Ghanaian, I find your blog interesting. I find you so pretty and authentic. You have my subscription. I am so shocked to learn about your experience because you were talking about someone other than a Ghanaian because in our culture it is the man who takes care of everything. I would be ashamed allow a woman to take care of me. You must have met the wrong type. From your description, I presumed you were talking about "francofou" Cameroonian men because we are not parting type or " sappeurs" On the contrary, lots of cameroonian women, from experience, admittedly, all " francofolles" have a terrible reputation or being gold diggers who prey on elderly "blange" and fit your description of the Ghanaian men you describe
Awn thanks. Looooool I could also say all u elaborated on Camers ain't a thing too 😆 but won't do so cuz I'm clearly aware we got some pretty sweet/sweet/semi sweet/sour/very sour peaches etc🙃
You know yourselves. You Ghanaian men have a thing of making it to be all about you. I am a 100% Ghanaian. Come to Ghana now and most of our ladies are married or dating a Nigeria man. Those who can stand the Nigerian men are fighting them and claiming and acting violently to let them go. Some of them pretended to be friends with them and brain washing our Nigerian husband and boyfriends to mistreat us. That is how useless our Ghanaian men have become my sister.
Long ago Nigerian men also behaved like u r saying Ghanians do but through travelling Naijas hv become mire polite nd smooth talkers especially those who have nd are making money. Seriously now which Mumu women be to be conned like thatxwho meets a guy nd in 2 minutes he tells u his problems starts spundging off u. Women wake up stop being too disperate.
I think some Ghanaian men need to go to Nigeria for internships. Common men, pick up your slacks. I wonder if Ghanaian women are similar. Any feedback?
Most Ghanaian men born and brought up in Ghana are always finding ways to emotionally and financially abusive to women in the western world irrespective of race or colour. Only about 8% have the knowledge of how to make a queen happy.
Lol this can't mean all Ghanaian men are cheap. I'm a proud Ghanaian and a raving fan of my nationality. I've and will never be interested in taking anything from a woman and l know my Ghanaian cycle of males won't. We have our pride. My advise to my fellow Ghanaian men let's hold our side strong.
@Odopa_Network , we still holding strong the Ghanaian men flag, strong and straight like a flag in the wind. 😂 We are never interested in a woman's money.
I am a Ghanaian, and I am surprised about your narrative. This attitude shall be 1 in 100. Bcoz, this is not common to our culture..May be, you have met a Ghanaian typical villager
A typical Ghanaian man is even shy to ask a lady for money or help. I found this story to be an unfortunate experience youve hard. Most Ghanaian men are not like that. Of course if you went for a broke Ghanaian, definitely he may depend on you but thats not the representation of the entire country. I even know a Nigerian married to a Ghanaian in Ghana and they are doing well.
@adubimpong4095 The title of the video says some Ghanaian men and not all. There will always be good and bad in every country and i have seen Ghanaians getting married to Nigerians over her as well.
There is good and bad in everything. Either Ghanaian, Nigerians, Cameroon, Kenyan, white , blue or green all Africa countries .That doesnt mean you put all Ghanaian man in the same shoes . Why is that the man need to pay for the food for you. Is it That you want to be with them or what you want them to give to you. Your speech tells everything. That why they did to you. In Europe is woman who married the man and pay everything. That sound so rude and nasty. In life no one is perfect. I met most Cameroonianers married to ghanaians. Which love it
😂u are pained I see. Most of Ghana men do this but they hide it and pretend to the public. We know ur pretense and ready to expose them. Go watch a lady called Lily Mutamz from Zambia what she also talked about Ghanaian men
As a Ghanaian Man I'm very disappointed to hear about your awful experience with Us. My sincere apologiesto You. But are not all the same . I can tell You this , Some of Us take pride in taking care of Our Woman. I
That’s your experience with the Ghanaians you have dated and that’s unfortunate you had to go through that. But dont generalizing it. Stop speaking like you have dated all Ghanaian men
The only problem I had with your statement is the hasty generalization! I don't know how many Ghanaian men you've met, but you've definitely not met everyone. Secondly, any man from any country can make you go through this experience and more so it's not about the country. It's the individual, others have equally had wonderful marriages with Ghanaian men and they're not aliens, they're also ladies from other countries so generalization isn't the best.
My dear Ghanaian men are one of de nicest, humble, caring and respectful men u could ever date. U dating few of dem with bad behaviour doesn’t mean they are all like dat. Do u mean there’s no men with such bad behaviour in your country? It all depends on de men you are lucky to meet. Its quite unfortunate u met de wrong ones. I have friends who have dated Nigerian men and they had bad experience. A friend of mine dated a Nigerian , dis guy deceived her and used mind games to take back all de money he had given her as gift and my friend ended up taking care of him,she later found out he was even cheating. With this, my Cameroonian sister should I also conclude all Nigerian men are bad and they lure women into taking care of them? @Linda Val
@lanibaby8502 Every country has the good and the bad ones, that is why the title of the video says some and not all of them. I also believe that my comment section should tell you all you need to know. Stay blessed Sis.
My people, when we watch videos like these, is good we pay attention. She did not say all ghana men are like these. She spoke of her experience with more than three person. Their will always be a Judas in every country, including Nigeria.
My formal ex-girl, will tell you, that nigeria men are evil. When she say so, she's talking about me. She was all, i wanted, my first female friend for that matter. She was a rolling stone, greatest lier of all time. Even the devil, is ashamed of himself, when she lies. Because the devil, met someone who is a perfect liar. I am not perfect but i am caring, faithful and fun loving person. Life will present you different apple, chose what you can manage and bear the pain.
Thank you for your unbiased opinion on this video as it is greatly appreciated. Off-course there will always be good and bad in every country
you are on point
After talking to people from different cultures and nationalities . I have concluded that the issue is more around socioeconomic status, education and level of exposure.
Yes i support this conclusion, however, how would this men feels its happened to their OWN sister? I preach to these young women NEVER allowed a man to move in with you if - he is homeless or struggling to live ALONE, or and living off his parents/families or on social benefits🔥. No job, Not in trade not in education and always on the phone and watching TV and they CONTROL your life. BIG RED FLAG🚨. The day you ask him to move out will be the end of your Free life. Sad But True. Research have shown that most crimes committed against women are by such men because they have lost their🛑 FREE CASH COW🙏 So they are biter🥊 and are consumed with revenge. 🗣
Ashia my sister, am also a Cameroonian who was married to a Cameroonian but did all those things to me. Left me with 3 kids and Went home and impregnate a girl, came back and was homeless. Am saying this to say that, the heart of man is dangerous regardless. Just pray for God to guide you to the right one. Good luck
🙏🏾Amen. Thank you! Sorry for all those misfortunes😙
I am sorry you met the wrong and uncultured Ghanaian man, Ghana guys are actually sweet and respectful. I am dating a Ghanaian man and he is actually the best thing to ever happen to me, we are together for 2 years and not a single day will I choose any other person over him. I know we are all not perfect but he is my sweet problem and I am his little headache🤣🤣
Great. As long he is not potentially going be homeless, and got a job, and he is FOCUS person then he is one of the few great Ghanaian men around. As a Ghanaian any man who want to move in with a woman is a RED FLAG. Suggest to the man to RENT /Buy a house together then you can live together. Any RESPONSIBLE man will agree if they want long term commitment relationship.
Oh my goodness NOT ALL Ghanaian men are like that. Very very SORRY for your experiences but believe me we all not like that. Take care and GOD bless!!
Is true
But y’all generalize all Nigerian men?😂
Kwesi but 92% of the average Ghanaian man living in Ghana always always and always have a story to scum you - they only see you as ATM. And use their private organ as the ONLY thing they can offer a woman. Sad but true.
Abi my brother Ghanians are stupid set of people@@danielwitse3381
I agree as a Belgian woman the ghanian man was probably the most beautifully sculptured and featured man i had ever met in my life. After 5mths of him begging for money every month i cut clean off. I never seen a man cry. I loved him but i loved myself a whole lot more and eventually a Yoruba King asked me for his hand in marriage. I couldn't be HAPPIER!!!
They can be drama 👸 when they don’t get what they want. Thank God u where able to see past emotions 👏🏿 👏🏿 👏🏿
I don't blame you I experienced amen 🙏
Ok I see
Because he knew he had lost his ATM machine🤣. Good for you girl.
My dear you are right, I'm Ghanaian and I thought I was the only one who see that. They always want to say thank you
My dear thank you so much for speaking the truth and shaming the devil not just being emotional/unnecessarily sensitive😌#RESPECT
I have no empathy for some of our people. Now they do know - i know them by their actions so they dear not ask favours from my friends.
I thought it was only me. I’m a Canadian in Ghana and boy is it draining. All these Ghanian men are looking help not love. I was so surprised as I was told they are great providers but so far I am traumatized and taking a break from dating. I love your story and how you expressed your experience. Glad you were wise and didn’t ruin your credit as it’s so important.
Yes it's best to take a few steps 🚶♀️backward n regroup, be more observant and remember it's all about actions not words😉 u got this
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He will drain you because you because you liked the way he behaved and did his things but still went to date him. You must see yourself lucky being with a Gh man
@@kofiprince9029 eii KOFI🙆♀️😂. COLD WATER SHOULD HELP😉
@@kofiprince9029 So you are not ashamed of the begging part of the story lol
I am really happy and excited watching this lovely video and for been a Nigerian man, although living in South Africa but relocating to Canada this year to further my studies in Montreal. Once again your content is insightful and funny at the same time but there are a lot of lessons there😍
Thanks so much for watching and good luck on your future endeavours here in Canada.
I'm a Ghanaian man and really hurt by your words.
Sorry for your bad experiences sis, it's a shame.
Thanks dear. It's all in the past now.
Very common with our men. unfortunately. Even some pretend to be gay and scumming some of my friends. When these white friends tells me they are so in love with a Ghanaian gay man on line, and planning to and visit- i scream and SAY NO WAY. because i know No Ghanaian man would openly claim to be gay in Ghana. One even spent over £10,000.00 (ten thousand pounds before he told me) for a supposed gay man`s mother hospital bill and accommodation bills in Tema.. The funny thing was that this Ghana man refused to speak with me on the phone and when we visited Ghana he didn't show up either. Big Scam
Hello don't say all ghanaian men. You met uneducated hustler and you have concluded that all ghanaian men. Thats not fair
They horrible and evail 😢
@jamiejames6858 yes they are Evander users 😢
2 yrs ago,seriously am rolling on the floor with laughter😂😂😂, you be real kolo,and down to earth.
Even trying to speak like dem.
Chale pral.
Ahh chale, this your comment wan finish me with laughter.🤣🤣🤣
I had the same experience. The guy used me as an opportunity. What she says about Ghanaian men is true. Please be careful out there. Ghana men know how to turn on the charm to get what they want from you.
Thank you so much dear for speaking up and saying the truth. I am very happy you got yourself out of that mess. Stay strong and God bless you sis.
Fake love like to manipulate but as one of the comments said depending on their class
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Socio economic status
I have a Ghanian colleague and keeps asking me to link him up to a Cameroonian lady. So I told him about someone and the first thing he asked me was if the lady has money. Ummmm I was amazed to here that coming from a grown up man so I told him never to try dating Outside Ghana
You are lieing sis
@@kofiprince9029Are u pained 😂
@@kofiprince9029 something is really wrong with these ppl and using Ghana name for clout
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@@julianaansah6367 What is in Ghana that people will use it for clout chasing 😂😂
Girl you've Made My Day!😂😂😂I Can relate ohhhh...i love the way you have narrated. Nigerian Men win by far!!!!Even Zambian Men are wayyy better gosh.
I don’t think whatever u saying is true
@@africaeye2746 you're fucking pained. All your women in Ghana are single moms. Be hyping nonsense behavior
Nigerian men can care for their women ooo they are one ooo with true love.
@@africaeye2746It’s not true cos it didn’t favor u
This was so spot on the GH guy I was with almost cost me my life. What you are describing sounds like a narcissist. I'm now with a Nigerian Igbo guy and have no intentions of looking back.
My dear stick to him o. Igbotic men too sweet
This is why i like Nigerian men!with all the bad bad things people say about Nigerian men Nigerian men have pride they have swag when it comes to dating,relationship and marriages Nigeria will work hard to takecare of their women be it girlfriend,wife and kids sister,mother .In this aspect Nigerian men are number one ..I think its part of their culture to takecare of their women ....
I CONCUR 💯
I’m Ghanaian but I always Nigerian men are far better than Ghanaian men. Nigerian men take care of women not even relationship. I remember I was sick in the diaspora, a Nigerian man cooked and took care of me but the Ghanaian men didn’t care.
I am from Igbo tribe in nigeria, taking care of our wife and children, is our culture and also an instruction given to man by God in the bible, where he said that Jesus is the head of the church, while man is the head of his family, for that reason a man duty is to take the responsibility of his family.
@@AkosuaBigglesoh really
@@richardrobin395 hmmmmmmm.which sun again?where i am here in finland no sun o we in Winter..
This was entertaining 🤣🤣I am dating one but atleast mine is different and cares for me, but the bedroom part is true, he doesn’t even do foreplay, he just wants to enter.They really need to learn more about the bedroom
That is how we were brought up, to put food on the table. What is romance if you are already ready
Sepo Mushaukwa, type of your comment is what I hate. You said, “I am dating one but at least mine is different and cares for me, but the bedroom part is true, he doesn’t even do foreplay, he just wants to enter”. You are talking about one man, and you said, they really need to learn more about the bedroom. Can you use “they” to represent one man? is that how you were thought when you were in school? How many Ghanaian men have you dated? I need your reply.
@@davidoseiamponsah-antwi5963 I made my comment based on what the lady in the video said as she had dated a few of them and they were bad in bed, plus I know several other ladies who complained about the same issue with Ghana men plus my own experience that’s why I said “THEY” cause many ladies can relate. Anyways why are you so bothered if it has nothing to do with you lol🤣🤣🤣
🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯💯 I dated a few and married to one. There is zero intimacy, just hit it and done. It’s like any hole will do🙄
@@beautyinthedark7406 I swear 🤦🏽♀️and they are so stubborn, they are not even willing to learn that’s the annoying part.
Hi dear. I’m not a Ghanaian but 2 things I'd say is that 1st, a guy from any country can do all that you mentioned, let's not make it look like all Ghanaian men are like what you said here because of your bad experience with the minority. Second, any guy who acts just like that guy should be discarded without giving him a second chance of coming back to your life.
Okay, lastly, when you stay long where you are being treated poorly, your subconscious mind will likely start making you believe that that's how all human beings are and eventually you start convincing yourself that you should manage the person hence you start saying ‘ all men or women are like this.
Please, don't generalize it, there are good Ghanaian men and there are bad ones it's just unfortunate you met the bad ones but pls, generalizing it does not sound wise at all. Love and Light.
Did you listen to her initial comment??? I bet you didn't..
@Neson.Service the most reasonable comment I've read on this channel so far. God bless you
This babe get mouth sha. You've really cracked me up this afternoon.
Well, what a sad experience and you just met the wrong guy. I think many of the well educated ones will not behave as such. I also think that you gave in too much and you could have pushed him out after the dinner date. He found your kindness as your weak spot and abused you by preying on that. Best of luck next time, my dear. We all learn everyday and must also be careful daily.🌻
It's all in the past now Frank. Just wiser and less naive in my dealings with men now.
Here in Maryland, Nigerian men are known for living women with pregnancy. They do that mostly to Cameroonian, Liberian, black American, and Sierra Leone girls. You have a better change of seeing marriage and a peaceful union with a Ghanaian man….plus they have more respect for women. And don’t have wandering eyes.
This is not true, I am married to a Ghanaian man and he treats me bad...I have done everything to be sweet to him, but it's almost time to BOUNCE
Oga they are not talking about Nigerians here, as matter of fect you cnt compere ghana men to Nigerian men is incomparable.
My dear I still prefer my 🇳🇬 men in short….a trillion times hummmm. They are just too👌🏾
@@lindaval2367okay girl. just make sure you get wifed up and not end up a baby mama….
So right! Not all Ghanaian men are like the ones she unfortunately met. I hope you find a better African man out there! N ohh when u started talking I knew you were Cameroonian and sending u love from Zimbabwe
Hello Linda Val , sorry for your experience ,hope you are out of this bad mess ,thank you for opening our eyes and helpful content .love you .
🤌Eiii that one is in historic times😅
A real down to earth story. Thanks for sensitization and information. I hope that you found the right one now. And By the way my best friend is cameroonian so big up to the 237 and Cameroon ladies!!!!
I know God n the universe will surely bless me with a good one 😌where u from by the way?
@@lindaval2367 from Ivory coast the central part.
@@lindaval2367 I know God will definitely bless you . Don't worry God never forgets everybody has his own blessing
Alot has been said about we Nigerians, but definitely not seeking financial benefits from ladies. We've been trained to pamper women all the days of our lives
For this one I concur✊. Nigerian men are mad providers.
I visited Ghana 2007. I didn’t even introduce myself and boom! He’s Nigerian. All the girls in my street then we’re just very nice to me. They wanted to help me at all cost. They liked talking to me. I didn’t really bother because I had a date in Nigeria that I loved so much. But as soon as I started getting some negative vibes from the guys around that vicinity I returned to Nigeria. I don’t wanna die!
Shame
🤣🤣🤣"stop calling me, just stop looking for me" I'm weak
Thanx kindly. I lived and schooled in Ontario b4 moving to BC. You appear very relaxed, more charming and more pleasant in this video. Keep it up, my dear. Happy Thanxgiving Day, Val. Good Luck and Be Blessed.👏
Thank you! You too be blessed Frank.
hi How do you find the black culture out in BC or west coast canada in general
@linda Val. It’s true you said the truth. I’m Nigerian and an Igbo guy. It’s true our Nigerian guys are so caring, romantic and love good women that respect them from any part of the world. This has been the most attractive feature of the Nigerian man. This was one of the fuel of the xenophobic attack in South Africa that Nigerians are taking their jobs, businesses, women etc. No hate to the Ghanaian guys but I think 🤔 Nigerian guy is loved by women everywhere they go. They have the boldness the charisma and vibes or swag.
Yes. Noticed this too in the city I live at here in Canada. As soon as they get in contact(no matter how little) with Nigerian men they go gaga and fight for their attention. Anywhere Nigerian men are wahalur. Their charisma👌
@@lindaval2367 wow. Please go for a Nigerian man. Just be loyal to him (especially the right one) he’d worship you like a queen
.🤣🤣looks can be deceiving. I laughed so hard. you're a great story teller
Thank you 😁. Looks can surely be very deceiving . In short I am even beginning to believe the uglier the packages, the better the content.
Not all Ghanaian men are like that. You happen to get the wrong ones😜😂😂😂
It's good to know cuz bruh 😒😄
I love the way you told your story it made me laugh so much. I have recently started to see my very first Ghanaian man and by the 1st week he told me he loves me by the 2nd week of us dating he has already asked me for money 💰. The sex is amazing but his sex drive is very very high . He can't get enough sex and if you say no he begs until you give in. I am watching his pattern. Thanks for posting this vid it really made me lol 😆
Aw thank you☺️. But jokes apart girl no longer give him money...u see that high sex drive its just to blazer you n cloud your brain. Maybe he noticed good sex is your weakness. As soon as he notices you no longer giving him what he needs watch that D*** will no longer stand as usual and unless you give money there will be no energy for even a peck. All the very best but honestly watch out😉.
@@lindaval2367 lol
Please he is using drugs to enhance his sexual drive. Drugs for sex drives is common
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The number one mistake most women make.
Sex.
A guy can pretend he is into you just for the coochie. And, he will keep smashing until he finds a replacement.
Second, most women don't ask guys the difficult questions.
Examples:
1. What is your deepest regret?
2. How do you handle failure?
3. Have you failed in life before? ( if he says no, pls, run. That is a narcissistic territory. If he says yes, you follow up should be what would you do differently?)
4. What is your greatest fear? If he says he is not afraid of anything, pls run.
5. Tell me about your Childhood. If he says some and cant day some, pls, run ( you may be dealing with someone with childhood trauma.)
6. What are your financial goals and how do you plan to achieve them?
Those were some of the questions I asked my current wife before accepting her.
Marriage is our biggest commitment in life but yet we don't do the right interviews. Treat it like how you will interview someone for a job before saying yes to a man. Ask the man questions and your value will increase in his eyes.
Your video made me laugh so hard, but as a Ghanaian woman, I've also experienced the pain that is Ghanaian men. It's so sad bc they don't have to be so mean like that. Like it's so easy to be kind, loving and supportive, but they don't have it in them. My own father and his brothers are leaders in the toxic society. My dad kidnapped me and my 2 brothers away from our mom, left her in Ghana and cut off all connection. I met my mom again in Ghana after 21 yrs., back in Nov. 2022. I have no relationship with my mom bc of my dad. My mom also told me long ago in Ghana, she went to visit my aunt (my dad's older brother's wife). My uncle walked in the house with another woman, in front of my mom and aunt and slept in the house with the other woman.
I've had a Ghanaian boyfriend marry behind my back for a greencard while still in a relationship with me for 2 yrs. He then contacted me 4+yrs later at 2 different jobs to invite me on a trip to Ghana, while he was still married and I still had no knowledge of it. I found out the girl whose mail showed up at his apartment, whom he claimed he was "holding mail for a friend," was the same girl he married behind my back with for a greencard. I found out 10yrs after his disappearance a baby registry with them two. That's when I started my investigation.
Another Ghanaian guy I recently dated, PhD, Data Scientist working from home, valedictorian at KNUST. He was cheap. He told me I finessed him for shoes when I asked him to buy me $65 crocs. Even though just 2 weeks prior I spent $300 on him for his birthday, $100 for 2 pairs of shoes. This guy makes over $200k/yr. He also told me he loved me 2nd week of seeing each other. He never cooked. I would wake up 1.3hr before work at 5:30am, cook him breakfast and lunch before work, go work for 12hrs saving human lives, come home and cook for him for another 2hrs. Do you know what he did after eating dinner? He took a shower and went to bed. He didn't even help me clean up or even offered, and I had a lot to clean up. I asked him to help me take out the trash and he'd complain that it was too heavy and that he had to carry it in the cold. It was insane! Ghanaian men scare men fr.
Awww baby gurl🥹. I am sorry for all you went through. Unfortunately we don’t have that luxury of choosing who is to birth us because some parents… honestly hum🙄. It is more than well with you. Forget about all those goats you unfortunately gave a chance too. We all are to make mistakes before finding the rite one. I think it’s best you give other countries a try because at times we want our own but it doesn’t favour us. You will fall on a Gem some time soon and when you will look back you shall laugh 🤭😂so much wondering if you were on crack dating them. I wish you all the very best with your mama and want you to know God loves you that’s why he kept her alive all these years to give you a chance getting to know her on your own and hearing her own version of what happened . Bless you hunny 💐 💚😘 and keep blooming.
@@lindaval2367 Thanks! 🩷
@lindaval2367 Thanks! I was with a Caucasian after the first Ghanaian guy and he was great. African men need to take some lessons from White men bc they outperform them in every area of life.
This is very SAD. They always always have someone else back home or hiding someone else where and just abusing the REAL gold who loves them.
@@OdopaFoods It's pathetic and cowardice.
How many Ghanaian men have you (and probably your friends) dated?
I think it's not all ghanaian men,there is a percentage,and I agree with you sister 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
That's why words as most/some were used in my narration But i guess english ain't everyones forte. Predominately Ghanaian men exhibit these nasty traits.
This is funny cause in Ghana it's the women always asking for money LOL i do think the guy was just broke, unfortunately.
My experience as a wife to Nigerian man was never easy ,work cook wash clothes iron press children clothes do home work have 5 kids with different types of food preferences. Give him his food with water and no thank you clean kitchen wash bath tub with no complain
Never take me any place.he work and I have a full time.bed 12 am .clean kids up by 7 am drop 2 kids .my husband never assist with any chores .my fellow women any becareful of whom you chose as a life partner.too late for changes. I understand What the lady went through. Thanks for sharing your experience with us.
Jeez don’t know how you keep up but u surely very strong hummm. My prayer for u is that your kids become great tomorrow and for God to grant you enough years to witness and enjoy his deeds in them. Don’t worry you will be greatly compensated in other ways someday😚
Keep collecting his money and be happy .
She so right..He was talking all this sweet talk and wanted to marry within 1 week.
Hummm lol 😂 hope u dodged that bullet?
Oh yes I did quickly lol
You are funny. This is very serious indeed. I hope not all of them are like that.
I hope so too
I am a Ghanaian and not "even" most of them are like that. Those in Canada are just hustlers and are looking for sponsors. They can't do that to a Ghanaian lady, because we are raised to be responsible.
You are very right siz! I have dated one and now I am just counting losses. Two months into the relationship he was asking for money and he kept asking and when I stopped sending he ended the relationship
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Continue to count, if you go in for the club street guy, he will drain you
@@kofiprince9029 shut up! That's what you are doing! F**ked up peeps
Did he get the "cookie" during that time? You probably met a Kwahu man. They are stingy as fuck. Lol.
Some nigerian men are worst
Many of them are caring
I married one.i am more of slave to him.i cook every day with no thanks.I take care of the round the clock. never give me gifts than name calling
I understand where you coming from.some of them are user.
Why many of them are great
My niece is married to a Ghanaian and they treat them like princes
One in Germany and one in England with kids.some Africa men treat women as property and slaves.thanks for sharing your experience
He was only around to use you.I glad you finally outsmart him at the end
My African sense will not let me be played😉. concerning your significant order😞that’s quite unfortunate for you. Didn’t you see those selfish traits from the onset? Cuz I know a lot are very good at concealing but still You should have noticed something or just taught it shall pass or you will be able to change him?
Li, thank you for your honesty
Always dear!
The men you described sound like opportunists. I'm African but not from West Africa. I had a Ghanaian Science teacher in my childhood. A very caring, respectable family man.
Any Ghanaian guy who act exactly what you said is simply not interested in the date. And you should know instant
Welllllllllllll . Hmmm
🎯💯💯💯. She’s saying no lies. I’m married to a Ghanaian now what I know is a textbook narcissist. So selfish, liar and a serial cheater. At the beginning it was so fast, now I know he was love bombing me. Calling me baby, wife etc after only one month🙄. 20 yrs later I see all the 🚩 I should’ve notice but didn’t. He was waste of my time.
My sister tell them😒Appreciate you sharing your experience with me N Hopefully u found a healthy way to survive through that. It is well with you. The person that wants to listen will listen and if they also want to go taste to determine that’s their business o.💋
So sad.
In Ghana we don't know cheat because it part of the tradition and culture for the man to have more woman if he wishes to do so. Christianity tried to stop it by these so called western lifestyle wedding "Till death do us apart" just for the church. However, these people will never stay with one woman especially after having children with the woman and the woman become so busy with looking after the children and the home. That is when he get the opportunity to go fishing for next side chick and spending the family funds on her. In short, its normal for a Ghanaian man to cheat.
🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭There is three side to every story .1your side of the story 2 His side of the story 3 And The truth. So make we tink better thing
Y’all will always wanted to defend yourself 😂 but always go with the one way story if it’s another African country men
@danielwitse3381 They are stupid. The truth will be on their eyeballs and the will still lie and deny it's validity. Useless men and this is coming from a Ghanaian woman.
Nice, nice and nice. Good news and stay firm.
Thank you!
There is lessons to learn in whatever happens to us, to be honest Linda you cant date any kind of man , you are a mature lady, very experimented on things of life.
Yes Jerry in choosing a life partner I will need a man that is very fast and sharp in thinking/reasoning. Because if you are slow up there I will feel sorry for you🫠😂.
So you simply messed yourself up with the wrong Ghanaian dude ✊🏿✊🏿
You have a sweetheart from your tone, you deserve the best. 😂😊you are a good storyteller, do you know you can be a good movie star?
O ya you think so?🫠 Hopefully someday will give acting a try😉. Thanks for the love broski.
@@lindaval2367 my pleasure!
I’m serious give acting a thought.
@Conqueror736 will see to it.
These bad men that you met from Ghana, had they being in Ghana, what do you think they'll be doing? They'd be scammers so becareful.
It appears you're meeting more wrong ones than the right ones. Good luck to you Sister. Blessings.
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Thanks for the advice Frank and stay blessed.
Those born in the Western world have empathy and relate to how best to treat a woman. But those born and brought up in Ghana have different perception. They are the scammers.
Love your channel, but I'm Nigerian Samoan..so I'll move onto the next clip :)
Una 2 just knack una self..but u speaking fact..one love sist ❤
You’re gorgeous my dear!
LoI but to be honest I know some Nigeria are players but Nigeria are very caring I love you Page ❤️🇳🇬
😂😂😂😂 my friend just sent this to me warning me about Ghanaian men. Now I’m scared .
My dear its never too late to🏃♀️😉
Please MA'AM I'm in a marriage with one Ghanaian and he doesn't honor me as his wife.... He treats me bad, its almost time to bounce 👀. I won't say don't date I will just say don't get caught vulnerable. If he ask for money tell him no. Just see how he treats you for a lllllllllong while. If you aren't happy RRRRUN FAST PLEASE.
Let me know how it goes !!
I love my cameroon brothers, we are real men and we are very serious, hard working and we give our preferred women good treat in and out of bed
Good job ma. Ma please my question is in Canada too are they cheating or not?
Yes dear there is cheating in Canada.
“It’s like drinking water” 😂😂😂😂
Yes nah😂. My queen and I love you everywhere.
@@lindaval2367 😂😂
I’m embarking on a Ghanaian man he’s new to the Country I’m from works and seems genuine. I’m such a jerk cause I don’t TRUST him or friends or anything he says . He gets upset cause he says I should trust him eventually but can’t he’s very sweet and caring but i QUESTION everything he says.
Lmaooo I told him NEVER ask me for shit I’m a queen and will be treated like such. I’m mean and block him every now and again cause I told him I will not be played with!!
So far you are using the best approach with him. The key with them it’s to let them know rite away I am not your mother so won’t be buying you stuff or borrowing any form of cash ever and stick to it. Trust me he will run if he came to you for something else.
Let those Ghanaians who run their mouths all the time labeling Nigerians as criminal feel how bad it's to label a whole population as criminals. Hm! Ghanaian men are so bad, please be aware ladies.
lol
Come to Ghana to see what your men and women are doing here. Talk well
stop generalizing, you know better, so you should do better, I'm a Nigerian. we human beings Africans Asian, Europeans and the whole wide world we all have our flaws, nobody is perfect it's not about race or ethnicity. it's about the human heart, the bible says the human heart is desperately wickedly man, woman, boy, girl, Africans Asians, Nigerians, ghanaians, you, me. we all have our flaws some (humans) worse than others. so please let's just stop generalizing. I know your experience is very much valid, but maybe you should say "the Ghanaian men I met......, the Nigerian men I met.... the dash dash people I HAVE MET...." please o bi ko🙏
You see how funny you are
@@nataliesparks4829 the wisest person I've seen on this channel so far.
We sometimes forget that we can meet horrible people irrespective of countries. It's about the individual's attitude and not a country!
Has a Nigerian lady our eyes our so widely open that i can never date anyman apart from Nigerian men, leavening in diaspora made me to realize Nigerian men our the best😊❤❤❤
🤣😅My dear i don't blame you at all...
@@lindaval2367 yh
U love this guy deep down in your heart, u missed out and don’t blame me cos am Ghanaian lol
Pls, if I may, i what city did you meet these bad men? Thanx Always and Good Luck, Sister.
Ontario, Canada.
🤣🤣 so straight to the point and funny
Thank you Dennis!
I understand your feelings Linda,but trust me you fell in the wrong hands sorry!
Sorry about that! :)
Sorry about your experience. But it's kinda wierd you couldn't find any one better among those 20 people you claim. Most Ghanaian men react to how you treat them so I think you should check yourself too
I Would Never Treat You Like That. I Enjoyed Your Video.
Girl,😍😍 thanks for the info
You are too funny 😂!! A story teller ! Hmmm some Ghanaian men ! Smh
🤭thanks luv. Appreciate you watching.
A lot of young Ghanaian men abroad are mummy’s boys. Putting you in a state of competition but from what she described She was obviously dating old men who were seeking papers
NOPE weren't old men and not in need of papers.
I am a Nigerian and I tell you this is really disgusting and I am ashamed over here as a man even if I am broke I tell you I will still do the needful at all times and I bet you may not even know I am broke for the rest of that relationship
My brother hum🫢
Very true my sis
The content is very funny
In fact you really came for Ghanaian men 😅😅
And the men who are genuine struggle the most with the women while the men you describe have it easy. This world is very backwards.
I swear😂. E no balance at all…
I am a Ghanaian, I find your blog interesting. I find you so pretty and authentic. You have my subscription. I am so shocked to learn about your experience because you were talking about someone other than a Ghanaian because in our culture it is the man who takes care of everything. I would be ashamed allow a woman to take care of me. You must have met the wrong type. From your description, I presumed you were talking about "francofou" Cameroonian men because we are not parting type or " sappeurs"
On the contrary, lots of cameroonian women, from experience, admittedly, all " francofolles" have a terrible reputation or being gold diggers who prey on elderly "blange" and fit your description of the Ghanaian men you describe
Awn thanks. Looooool I could also say all u elaborated on Camers ain't a thing too 😆 but won't do so cuz I'm clearly aware we got some pretty sweet/sweet/semi sweet/sour/very sour peaches etc🙃
My dear you guys are terrible wai Enko yie I’ll choose and uphold a Nigerian over a Ghanaian man.
@@lindaval2367 👍🏽👍🏽😅😅
You know yourselves. You Ghanaian men have a thing of making it to be all about you. I am a 100% Ghanaian. Come to Ghana now and most of our ladies are married or dating a Nigeria man. Those who can stand the Nigerian men are fighting them and claiming and acting violently to let them go. Some of them pretended to be friends with them and brain washing our Nigerian husband and boyfriends to mistreat us. That is how useless our Ghanaian men have become my sister.
Even in bed😂😂😂 This guy has destroyed my hard earned reputation 😢
Wow, u just made my day 😂😅
O you very welcome Akin😉
My sister you're right, Ghanaian men have red eyes
😁😂😂😂😁
Long ago Nigerian men also behaved like u r saying Ghanians do but through travelling Naijas hv become mire polite nd smooth talkers especially those who have nd are making money. Seriously now which Mumu women be to be conned like thatxwho meets a guy nd in 2 minutes he tells u his problems starts spundging off u. Women wake up stop being too disperate.
You are the best !!
I think some Ghanaian men need to go to Nigeria for internships. Common men, pick up your slacks.
I wonder if Ghanaian women are similar.
Any feedback?
Send your bf or husband he needs those lessons
Most Ghanaian men born and brought up in Ghana are always finding ways to emotionally and financially abusive to women in the western world irrespective of race or colour. Only about 8% have the knowledge of how to make a queen happy.
Not all Ghanaian, just the ones you met. Same across the globe…
Do u say that when it comes to other men especially Nigerian?
Thy were good men. Thy just didnt want to marry a foreigner, so they kept playing. Thank God for your smartness
Good men play no games!!
You are speaking facts
Thanks dear for acknowledging the truth.
@@lindaval2367 helped and got cut off after the shipment was being transported for delivery.
So sorry you had to go through that, but i'm glad you got over it and definitely in a better place now.
@@lindaval2367 thanks. I'm happy I learned quickly.
@@lindaval2367 stop generalizing cos not all of us are like that 😤.
Lol this can't mean all Ghanaian men are cheap. I'm a proud Ghanaian and a raving fan of my nationality. I've and will never be interested in taking anything from a woman and l know my Ghanaian cycle of males won't. We have our pride. My advise to my fellow Ghanaian men let's hold our side strong.
Good on you and your mates. 🙏
@Odopa_Network , we still holding strong the Ghanaian men flag, strong and straight like a flag in the wind. 😂
We are never interested in a woman's money.
I am a Ghanaian, and I am surprised about your narrative. This attitude shall be 1 in 100. Bcoz, this is not common to our culture..May be, you have met a Ghanaian typical villager
Pls they are so shy and their performance is poor just fine for nothing
A typical Ghanaian man is even shy to ask a lady for money or help. I found this story to be an unfortunate experience youve hard. Most Ghanaian men are not like that. Of course if you went for a broke Ghanaian, definitely he may depend on you but thats not the representation of the entire country. I even know a Nigerian married to a Ghanaian in Ghana and they are doing well.
@adubimpong4095 The title of the video says some Ghanaian men and not all. There will always be good and bad in every country and i have seen Ghanaians getting married to Nigerians over her as well.
I'm very happy you meet a wrong wrong Ghanaian guy 😂😂😂.
I like your accent, your vibes expecially the way you talk as if you dont want someone else to you
There is good and bad in everything. Either Ghanaian, Nigerians, Cameroon, Kenyan, white , blue or green all Africa countries .That doesnt mean you put all Ghanaian man in the same shoes . Why is that the man need to pay for the food for you. Is it That you want to be with them or what you want them to give to you. Your speech tells everything. That why they did to you. In Europe is woman who married the man and pay everything. That sound so rude and nasty. In life no one is perfect. I met most Cameroonianers married to ghanaians. Which love it
Lady. When a man asks you to pay for anything you say NO. Repeat you say NO. Thats it. Who are you. A shop???
lol that's exactly the way it is now.
The way u say 'ayein' its so similr to north indians saying 'hein' 😆
Is that so😁.Good to know.
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😂u are pained I see. Most of Ghana men do this but they hide it and pretend to the public. We know ur pretense and ready to expose them. Go watch a lady called Lily Mutamz from Zambia what she also talked about Ghanaian men
You nailed it😅😂
lol thank you!
As a Ghanaian Man I'm very disappointed to hear about your awful experience with Us. My sincere apologiesto You. But are not all the same . I can tell You this , Some of Us take pride in taking care of Our Woman. I
Duly noted. Thank you.
That’s your experience with the Ghanaians you have dated and that’s unfortunate you had to go through that. But dont generalizing it. Stop speaking like you have dated all Ghanaian men
Women like her are all over the internet, telling the same story...THEY CAN'T ALL BE LYING!!! I BELIEVE HER😊
greetings my Cameroonian sister
🙂Hello there!
The only problem I had with your statement is the hasty generalization! I don't know how many Ghanaian men you've met, but you've definitely not met everyone.
Secondly, any man from any country can make you go through this experience and more so it's not about the country. It's the individual, others have equally had wonderful marriages with Ghanaian men and they're not aliens, they're also ladies from other countries so generalization isn't the best.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Linda my sister
Yes brother are you calling me…🫠😂😊?
🤣🤣🤣🤣You are very funny my sister,I always enjoy watching your videos
@@nanisteveobeleagu2940 🤭Aw thank you broski. Appreciate you.
My dear Ghanaian men are one of de nicest, humble, caring and respectful men u could ever date. U dating few of dem with bad behaviour doesn’t mean they are all like dat. Do u mean there’s no men with such bad behaviour in your country? It all depends on de men you are lucky to meet. Its quite unfortunate u met de wrong ones. I have friends who have dated Nigerian men and they had bad experience. A friend of mine dated a Nigerian , dis guy deceived her and used mind games to take back all de money he had given her as gift and my friend ended up taking care of him,she later found out he was even cheating. With this, my Cameroonian sister should I also conclude all Nigerian men are bad and they lure women into taking care of them? @Linda Val
@lanibaby8502 Every country has the good and the bad ones, that is why the title of the video says some and not all of them. I also believe that my comment section should tell you all you need to know. Stay blessed Sis.