Tulisa On Choosing CONTENTMENT over ANGER!

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  • @fearnecotton
    @fearnecotton  2 месяца назад +114

    So many thought provoking moments in this episode. One that sticks out for me is having the courage to be disliked. Does this resonate with you?

    • @coralrose6068
      @coralrose6068 2 месяца назад +2

      Yes Totally, many priceless gems and affirmations🌟

    • @SVTCARATSTAR1
      @SVTCARATSTAR1 2 месяца назад +1

      A very shallow train of thought ​@@davep2323

    • @ThatBranB
      @ThatBranB 2 месяца назад +6

      I don't want to be disliked, but people are different and sometimes it equates to just not being on the same wavelength.
      The key is just to know yourself and whether you do things with genuine intentions or not.
      Simple thing as saying no can make you disliked, even when for tangible reasons. Does it reflect your character? Of course not

    • @rebkaro4437
      @rebkaro4437 2 месяца назад +2

      ​@@davep2323 sounds like someone wasn't listening to me.

    • @Kourtneywoods1
      @Kourtneywoods1 2 месяца назад +2

      Yep I'm totally the same and have struggled with being disliked, once you let go it opens many more great encounters I life

  • @AM-dz2sh
    @AM-dz2sh Месяц назад +45

    This was BRILLIANT. I cannot believe how well she came across - I feel proud of her and I don't even know the girl.

    • @matthewthomson980
      @matthewthomson980 Месяц назад +1

      This is awesome considering the places she's been and how famous this is where I understand the British press just goes for the throat Tulisa suffered most.
      Great to see her.

  • @_brianc
    @_brianc 2 месяца назад +262

    I've always loved Tulisa. She comes across so well in this podcast, I'm glad Fearne gave her the platform to come on and show us how beautiful and strong she is.

  • @rachaelmcintosh9260
    @rachaelmcintosh9260 Месяц назад +19

    I'm not even embarrassed to say tulisa has always been an idol to me. She's an absolute queen and I wish her all the happiness in the world ❤

  • @user-ti7zv4kk8j
    @user-ti7zv4kk8j 2 месяца назад +103

    You can tell she’s come out the other end stronger and wiser. A lot of respect for her 🫶

  • @teaacustardcream2868
    @teaacustardcream2868 Месяц назад +44

    Always liked Tulisa. She had genuine warmth that cannot be faked.

  • @Kim-vt8yr
    @Kim-vt8yr 2 месяца назад +101

    I adore how unbothered she is about things in her past because she’s done so much healing! Yes she might still go through things but she’s truly at peace it’s so refreshing in a world of celebs who are constantly getting in drama and causing problems it shows a lot about who they are! I relate a lot to her saying she’s let go of resentment and anger because she likes the quiet life that is me now! ❤

  • @Britishvisitor
    @Britishvisitor 2 месяца назад +40

    I've always thought Tulisa is a prime example of how the media and particularly tabloid press in the UK love to build up and then savagely tear down successful women (particularly from working class backgrounds). So glad that she weathered the storm has found some peace.

    • @badda_boom8017
      @badda_boom8017 Месяц назад

      Its not a woman thing. There are many such people.

    • @Moony_Xp
      @Moony_Xp Месяц назад

      @@badda_boom8017it’s a woman thing

    • @badda_boom8017
      @badda_boom8017 Месяц назад +1

      @@Moony_Xp it seems you are ill informed. If you believe this is solely a women thing.

    • @BennyMcGibbon
      @BennyMcGibbon 26 дней назад

      I guess it's like prison whatever is deep inside will be wrenched out of you by being put under the microscope. I don't think Tulisa has been treated badly at all. The fake sheikh targeted her for a story but that's not the entirety of the press is it?

  • @user-bs5pj5zo2v
    @user-bs5pj5zo2v 2 месяца назад +32

    I can really relate to Tulisa, she’s had such a hard life and growing up with a lot of struggle, glad she’s finally at peace and can relax a little 🫶

    • @trans4mat1on
      @trans4mat1on 2 месяца назад +2

      Im so happy for her too it is truly admirable to see what a strong soul she is, she really had it harrd!

  • @yasminm.1801
    @yasminm.1801 Месяц назад +2

    as someone whose dealt with mental health issues, seeing her strength & positivity is truly commendable , especially after enduring so much. what an inspirational soul x

  • @Mollyt111
    @Mollyt111 2 месяца назад +36

    What a refreshing balanced lady!
    I’m grateful for clicking on this today I needed this great advice 💛✨🙏

  • @FashP-wh5ui
    @FashP-wh5ui 2 месяца назад +31

    She is really inspiring, loved the fact you have given her space to be authentic here. Really loved her in it.

    • @sratus
      @sratus Месяц назад

      Yes it's great that she has space to be authentic here & that you loved her in that space. Have you ever considered that you talk absolute gibberish?

    • @FashP-wh5ui
      @FashP-wh5ui Месяц назад

      @@sratus Ever considered you're a c**t who is a keyboard warrior who might ruin peoples days?

  • @Laura-Dahlia
    @Laura-Dahlia 12 дней назад +1

    Theres always been something so special about Tulisa. We share alot of the same spiritual beliefs and its so lovely hearing the calm in her voice ❤

  • @Sarah123.-.1
    @Sarah123.-.1 2 месяца назад +21

    This is so positive. It is so real, and human and helping people know that we all have our struggles. Thank you ladies for helping me. I am glad you are both fighting back, and choosing to discuss your experiences in a way to help others. Stay strong 💪. X

  • @elliemayx333
    @elliemayx333 2 месяца назад +74

    You can see how much respect fearne has for tulisa in this 🥹 one of my favourite episodes fearne has done

  • @missblackman88
    @missblackman88 2 месяца назад +56

    You can tell she has done that self self work for real she speaking facts on a internal level

  • @msmg88
    @msmg88 Месяц назад +1

    I'm the same age as you Tulisa and your documentary about your mum changed my life all of those years ago. As a young carer, which no one talked about back then, I was isolated and misunderstood. Thank you for pretty much saving my life ❤

  • @Riewer79
    @Riewer79 2 месяца назад +12

    Such an inspirational chat , I am totally feeling everything she says and I also understand through trauma you can find this peaceful place !

  • @inquiringminds6633
    @inquiringminds6633 2 месяца назад +23

    I love her. I remember watching her documentary describing everything that happened to her and bawling my eyes out. It was heartbreaking what was done to her.

    • @charitygoldart
      @charitygoldart 2 месяца назад +3

      What was it called please? I'd like to see it.

    • @BarryBobbins
      @BarryBobbins Месяц назад

      @@charitygoldartI don’t mean this nastily but you’re on your phone or laptop or tablet right?
      Just google it?

    • @inquiringminds6633
      @inquiringminds6633 Месяц назад

      @@charitygoldart it is called Tulisa: The Price Of Fame. I think it was BBC

    • @Stand663
      @Stand663 Месяц назад

      You’re not wrong. Such a shame what bad people did to her.

  • @sihamdidi2300
    @sihamdidi2300 2 месяца назад +43

    The one & only Female Boss ❤️
    I'm soo glad she found peace & hapiness after all she been through she deserves the best 🙏

    • @K.Loves.You8
      @K.Loves.You8 2 месяца назад

      I dont understand how people can believe this. Look at her face, there's so much plastic surgery that totally screams out her insecurities. Her positivity is fake

  • @Sera-Marie
    @Sera-Marie Месяц назад +2

    Love to see a strong minded woman! Tulisa still rocking her high pony with long curled mid-split fringe! Much love ❤️🖖🏼

  • @Kim-vt8yr
    @Kim-vt8yr 2 месяца назад +11

    I agree so much too with the manifestation part Tulisa talks about! Manifesting is trusting the universe will bring you everything you desire! And being grateful for what you have now the little things in life whilst dreaming about the future I find manifesting has made me so more grateful for life ❤

  • @georgetaylor1151
    @georgetaylor1151 2 месяца назад +3

    I really enjoyed this conversation. Tulisa is an intelligent, street-wise woman, and I agree with everything she said. This was a great watch. Thank you.

  • @kellyyyyy1993
    @kellyyyyy1993 2 месяца назад +24

    the female boss smashing life, proud of her always will be x

  • @yogawithoutagenda
    @yogawithoutagenda 2 месяца назад +38

    Adore Tulisa and now I can stop worrying about her. 😂 she was treated badly by the press and trolls. She has totally bossed it. 100% tattoo was meant for her ❤

  • @SeannaeS1981
    @SeannaeS1981 Месяц назад +7

    Tulisa’s always been real and down to earth and that’s a problem in the entertainment industry.

  • @mellmoi7571
    @mellmoi7571 2 месяца назад +7

    What a great spirit she is. Her mental health, like her career, is beautifully managed on her terms.💚👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @rainbowkiss100
    @rainbowkiss100 2 месяца назад +15

    Thank you for being vulnerable Tulisa- it really helps someone with a platform discuss similar issues. Wishing lots of success and healing ❤

  • @charlie-wu6ph
    @charlie-wu6ph 2 месяца назад +18

    Yes Tulisa and Ferne. So relatable. The spiritual bit Tulisa... You know!!

  • @torimai1950
    @torimai1950 2 месяца назад +18

    Always liked Tulisa, I look up to her, her strength throughout her life experiences, I'm really pleased that she got through her obstacles, she is so strong & her voice is sensational. Big up Tulisa ❤🙂✨️🎶

  • @allthingsmumlifeUK
    @allthingsmumlifeUK Месяц назад +2

    Found this very helpful for me going through bad times right now as Tulisa shared pearls of wisdom .. she’s an intelligent lady and I hate how people have put her down, she’s a down to earth lady and wish her all the best ❤ 🙏 🤲

  • @rebkaro4437
    @rebkaro4437 2 месяца назад +2

    Such a great interview. It felt to me that both Fearne & Tula were coming from a place of great authenticity and vulnerability and well able to disect and articulate their experiences (or at least their net takeaway from said experiences). Thank you for sharing so deeply. Love to you both. 🪷🤍🪷

  • @sugarsundae3400
    @sugarsundae3400 Месяц назад +3

    Tulisa is fabulous she's articulate, mature and gives some great advice she's also very likeable.

  • @aws6591
    @aws6591 2 месяца назад +7

    41:15 Goosebumps. I've got a whole new respect for Tulisa.

  • @sues165
    @sues165 2 месяца назад +7

    Loved this interview, I really needed to hear a lot of these view points! Glad to see Tulisa in a lovely place in her life ❤

  • @absta100
    @absta100 Месяц назад +2

    Great interview thanks both ❤ love Tulisa . Everyone do one !! 🎉

  • @yasminm.1801
    @yasminm.1801 Месяц назад +2

    41:15 ahh so many gems in this podcast ✨😭👏🏽

  • @Emzy15289
    @Emzy15289 2 месяца назад +7

    This was a fantastic interview and so many words of wisdom from Tulisa, which I needed to hear today! Thank you both ❤

  • @emsmckenzie
    @emsmckenzie Месяц назад +1

    I love you Fearne. You have always been so raw and authentic. I’m so sad you’ve had the feeling people think otherwise❤

  • @fiercegifs
    @fiercegifs 2 месяца назад +2

    It’s such a cool moment remembering seeing both of these amazing ladies on TOTP and TV back in the day, to then watch this INSPIRING chat and see how they have both flourished, grown and survived the entertainment industry, and still bless us with their amazing presence in a completely new way. This entire interview moved me so much. Tulisa is such a beautiful soul and a true soldier and inspiration. I’m so happy for her and I’m grateful for Fearne to creating this space that helps us all grow on our own journeys. Thank you ladies ❤

  • @surrenderinfaith
    @surrenderinfaith 2 месяца назад +4

    I love this interview, really resonate with what’s being discussed. Tulisa is really self aware ❤
    I think it’s really important the conversation at 42:00 - you can definitely get stuck in a healing journey and it ends up in ruminative energy feeling like you have to fix yourself. But we never know how much of life we have left, so I do think Tulisa’s approach of letting it go is valuable once you’ve looked inside.

  • @rachelmarsh9833
    @rachelmarsh9833 2 месяца назад +11

    I love Tulisas idea for themed propertys ,fantastic creative idea..you go girl,what a lovley strong woman!❤🙏🌿🧚‍♂️

  • @nodster82
    @nodster82 2 месяца назад +3

    Great interview! We can all learn so much from this conversation. Great to hear Tulisa is in such an amazing place.

  • @laremabella
    @laremabella 2 месяца назад +33

    I've always liked Tulisa and find she's genuine. Im saddened tho that her natural beauty has been ruined by Botox/filler. I think women don't realise how much they change themselves and get stuck in the habit of getting fillers. If she would get those lips dissolved she would look sooo much better. She's such a natural beauty. I hope she can see that.

  • @andrewyoungman-gz9ks
    @andrewyoungman-gz9ks 15 дней назад

    Am so clad she has found peace and happiness after all she has been through and she definitely deserves the best all you need is faith

  • @TM-xo9ps
    @TM-xo9ps 2 месяца назад +7

    I love how much she's grown. I am almost there myself! Really inspiring podcast ❤

  • @ShakirahIbaad
    @ShakirahIbaad Месяц назад +1

    Channel 4 needs to make a series about Tulisa’s high fantasy cabins in the woods! The whole process of finding the land all the way to finishing the cabins and hosting guests!

  • @theyellowhouse3569
    @theyellowhouse3569 Месяц назад

    I love this. It’s exactly how I am. A spiritual path is the path to peace. I am the most content I’ve ever been. Delighted Tulisia for you.

  • @SamanthaHartnett-s9y
    @SamanthaHartnett-s9y 2 месяца назад +1

    Well done Fern and Tulisa! This is one of the most helpful, mindful, positive and uplifting podcasts I've ever listened to. You are definitely helping the world to make their world a more Happy Place. Don't stop, listen to the voice inside that tells you and knows that you are BRILLIANT! 🤩

  • @693810
    @693810 2 месяца назад +5

    Great interview! I love the relaxed vibe, I felt totally chilled out listening away and then I got excited about the fantasy properties project :D

  • @rebeccamcauley4547
    @rebeccamcauley4547 2 месяца назад +4

    Amazing the transformation and personal journey that Tulisa has been on! Its sensational to have witnessed. I really do love that she had chance to share about being a judge on the X factor. That was a sureal moment for me growing up seeing her perform with N-dubz. Also sensational to hear about how she and the group have changed and matured. The sound is quite different. Cheers Ferne for having Tulisa on the podcast I learnt a lot about self preservation 🧡✨️🎙🎧

  • @AliG-do4jj
    @AliG-do4jj Месяц назад

    Great interview. It seemed such a natural conversation. So happy Tulisa is happy. Always loved her ❤❤❤

  • @englandlad831
    @englandlad831 2 месяца назад +10

    Tulisas time on X factor might have been brief, but she created some amazing artists. Little mix, Ella Henderson. A great judge. And she seems like a great person

    • @usera1113
      @usera1113 2 месяца назад +1

      Lucy Spraggan too

    • @englandlad831
      @englandlad831 2 месяца назад +1

      @@usera1113you’re right. Another great artist

    • @BarryBobbins
      @BarryBobbins Месяц назад

      She didn’t ‘create’ them.

  • @wsrye249
    @wsrye249 2 месяца назад +7

    Lovely to see Tulisa happy, she is so wise and balanced., it’s a shame she got so much bad press in the past. Defo misinterpreted, she seems lovely x

  • @FHousebunny
    @FHousebunny 2 месяца назад +3

    So much respect and she's clearly very talented. I relate to much of her character and understand that inner strength. I hope this helps others that are in her position, mostly her childhood.

  • @mrbusterful
    @mrbusterful 2 месяца назад +5

    This made me smile so much! Love Tulisa

  • @preciousbeach2502
    @preciousbeach2502 19 дней назад

    I love tulisa sooo much ❤❤❤ what an amazing human being she is !

  • @Ghs--173
    @Ghs--173 Месяц назад

    Tulisa is so honest open and articulate. She is a gem

  • @Takeoverwithalex
    @Takeoverwithalex 2 месяца назад +4

    This is absolute gold!! A beautiful interview with a simple but profound explanation of the law of attraction. If you know you know 🙏🙏❤️❤️

  • @courtneycole5052
    @courtneycole5052 Месяц назад +1

    She's so down to earth, I'm sad that she went through so much!! ❤

  • @HollyMatthewsHappyMeTV
    @HollyMatthewsHappyMeTV 2 месяца назад +2

    I really resonate with Tullissa and her perspective. Love her saying this. I choose joy. X

  • @Mrs_Kirky
    @Mrs_Kirky 2 месяца назад +12

    I had no idea she was spirtitual! I LOVE it. What an amazing lady she is 🥰

  • @Zodiac1981-i4f
    @Zodiac1981-i4f 2 месяца назад +5

    Tulisa seems so much more at peace with herself. Great interview 😊

  • @samhunsley
    @samhunsley 2 месяца назад +8

    What a tough woman! Great interview!

  • @d_teex09x44
    @d_teex09x44 Месяц назад +1

    Off topic but I love how Fearne bonds with her guests she interviews.

  • @andrewsteel650
    @andrewsteel650 2 месяца назад +1

    I am all here for Tulisa and her Story. What a great episode I’m so glad i watched today. The themed rentals sound amazing! I want to get involved in some capacity!

  • @Tyyyyyyyz
    @Tyyyyyyyz 23 дня назад

    Love, peace and joy are literally choices

  • @jaymielynnfraser4243
    @jaymielynnfraser4243 2 месяца назад +2

    I loved this episode. Tulisa you are an amazingly strong and beautiful woman, I’m proud of you. 🩷

  • @ryanemreid
    @ryanemreid 2 месяца назад +6

    Such an incredible and inspiring woman, forever and always the female boss ❤

  • @Samantha-iq6pv
    @Samantha-iq6pv 2 месяца назад +6

    Aww, I’ve missed Tulisa! An amazing woman, I hope she continues to enjoy all the peace and joy she deserves. 🤍

  • @TinaLouise73
    @TinaLouise73 Месяц назад +2

    got so much respect for tulisa shame she didn't get the recognition she deserved!

  • @Caketastic-w5y
    @Caketastic-w5y Месяц назад

    Love that she has found peace and support x

  • @jannamcintosh8830
    @jannamcintosh8830 29 дней назад

    I certainly understand being a young carer. I was for my dad, but when I was young, there was zero support. I did it till the day he died nearly 20 years later.

  • @KimberleyGriffiths-xy6hd
    @KimberleyGriffiths-xy6hd 2 месяца назад +5

    Thank you for being so inspiring 🩷🩷🩷

  • @yusuf_aleem
    @yusuf_aleem 2 месяца назад +7

    Love how real, transparent and relatable Tulisa is 🎉

  • @crs587
    @crs587 2 месяца назад

    Really enjoyed this, love Tulisa and Fearne. Such a wholesome episode❤

  • @Tahra.xoxoxo
    @Tahra.xoxoxo 2 месяца назад +2

    Great to see Tulisa looking strong 💪

  • @Readingcornervibes
    @Readingcornervibes Месяц назад

    Absolutely loved this. What a woman.

  • @demiclarke95
    @demiclarke95 2 месяца назад +8

    Protect this icon at all costs ✨

  • @franvaress
    @franvaress 2 месяца назад +1

    Amazing podcast! Thanks Ferne! Tulisa I have grown with you through N dubs, I love, I respect you, thank you for sharing! Huge respect!!!

  • @linze69
    @linze69 2 месяца назад +1

    Brilliant interview!! Learned a lot x

  • @toomylight2311
    @toomylight2311 Месяц назад +1

    Manifesting the new word for planning ahead

  • @chanelle8905
    @chanelle8905 2 месяца назад +6

    Such a positive episode. Tulisa has come along way, great interview ❤

  • @katiepaterson1713
    @katiepaterson1713 2 месяца назад +8

    She’s a lovely girl. Bring her back to X factor. She was a caring judge and mentor. So genuine and talented girl 🩵💜 stay strong tulisa. Inspiration to many 🥰

  • @razworthers_3601
    @razworthers_3601 2 месяца назад +1

    Tulsa was my biggest crush growing up . Beautiful lady 😊❤

  • @cecybellard1
    @cecybellard1 Месяц назад +1

    Love this, thank you girls X

  • @memzforever3263
    @memzforever3263 Месяц назад

    We love you Fearne ❤

  • @Quartzone6145
    @Quartzone6145 2 месяца назад +1

    Love this.tulisa and fern are both so lovely

  • @lassallyscorpiotruthseeker1770
    @lassallyscorpiotruthseeker1770 Месяц назад

    Empowered this is deep n helpful for everyone to grow

  • @my_wikkle_pony
    @my_wikkle_pony 2 месяца назад +5

    When she hit super fame it seemed people still wanted her to be this urban girl that was relateable. I feel her team tried to make her like cheryl (a lady like ballerina). cheryls fame was what alot of the solo celebs were trying to achieve at the time.

  • @s.g2344
    @s.g2344 10 дней назад

    Thank goodness for her and Kelly Roland otherwise Little Mix.may never have been born 😊. Tulisa did a great job mentoring them.
    Great interview 🙂

  • @DarWren
    @DarWren Месяц назад +1

    I needed this. I forgot to use my toolbox ❤

  • @Kourtneywoods1
    @Kourtneywoods1 2 месяца назад +1

    I love that tulisa is spiritual like me she must be a Sagittarius at heart. Tulisa is my sort of person thats so hard to find to relate too .

  • @coralrose6068
    @coralrose6068 2 месяца назад

    Thank you Tulisa 💖 everything you said clicked, resonated, your amaaaaaaazing ✨ really inspiring. If you created self development podcast's, you would definitely be helping thousands or more people, through your lived experience. I wish more people could of heard this, life changing 🌞 huuuuuge! Much love & light 💫 blessings .🛖 brilliant creative idea

  • @obiwann785
    @obiwann785 Месяц назад

    37:58 - I love how authentic Fearn'e reaction is 🩷

  • @katherinecollins4685
    @katherinecollins4685 2 месяца назад +2

    Brilliant episode

  • @trudyvalentino4936
    @trudyvalentino4936 5 дней назад

    What a strong lovely woman 💚

  • @alishahussain6860
    @alishahussain6860 2 месяца назад

    Love this and love tulisa, such a strong woman

  • @phoebs50
    @phoebs50 2 месяца назад +2

    Fern: I haven't seen you for years.
    Fern: still looking

  • @its_ebs
    @its_ebs Месяц назад

    Tulisa has such a beauitful heart❤❤❤