Tokyo Street Interview: Will Gay Marriage Happen in 2022?

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  • Опубликовано: 18 ноя 2024

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  • @Hazlius
    @Hazlius 2 года назад +52

    “I modeled for this camera!” 😂😂😂

    • @TokyoBTM
      @TokyoBTM  2 года назад +7

      haha he was very excited. i mean it is a very popular vlog camera tho

    • @justy93
      @justy93 2 года назад +9

      @@TokyoBTM I modeled for this camera…… for GAY MARRIAGE 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Samsok013
      @Samsok013 2 года назад +1

      Seems like a very annoying entitled individual who thinks he should be in the spotlight and the interview being held doesn't matter at all.

  • @adlz518
    @adlz518 2 года назад +44

    I love how at 9:14 the friend was like "I ain't getting cancelled with you honey." Then proceeded to flash her ally card.
    I understand the initial woman's take though. It doesn't affect her, she doesn't travel in those circles I assume so it's sort of a ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ But it's important to look out there and have empathy for those not like you that may be facing hardships.

    • @Gr95dc
      @Gr95dc 2 года назад +2

      she was so cute!

  • @michaelw1
    @michaelw1 2 года назад +52

    I can’t get over how chaotic yet informative this video is 😂 Clearly edited by Meng - all the random inserts of people before they ask questions are amazing 💀

    • @TokyoBTM
      @TokyoBTM  2 года назад +4

      Haha 🤭 it's a secret that we won't tell

  • @TokyoBTM
    @TokyoBTM  2 года назад +51

    Happy Lunar New Year Guys! We just want to say thank you to so many of you guys who were open to letting us interview. 😘 hopefully the partnership system will be implemented soon.

    • @Sayhoun
      @Sayhoun 2 года назад

      Indeed, that would be nice step forward. btw really liked your animation, very cute :3

  • @Peaceboneification
    @Peaceboneification 2 года назад +65

    I am suprised to see how indifferent a lot of people in the video were about it. Maybe it is an age thing (30s) or lesbian thing but most of the lesbians couples I know in Tokyo all want partnership to recognized and eventually want marriage as well. I am personally hopeful for the future in Japan and believe it will change.

    • @TokyoBTM
      @TokyoBTM  2 года назад +24

      I think there are many gay people still prefer to not be seen, that may be the reason

    • @DiamondFlame45
      @DiamondFlame45 2 года назад +1

      @@TokyoBTM I always wondered this. Why doesn’t Meng or Andrew go back to their home countries to get married? I bet it is significantly easier to get married as a gay man for Andrew since he is Canadian.

    • @Gr95dc
      @Gr95dc 2 года назад +1

      @@DiamondFlame45 doesn't matter if it's not recognized in Japan

  • @theafterglowavenger
    @theafterglowavenger 2 года назад +37

    You two are the cutest and best ambassadors for the LGBTQIA+ community over there! Love you both!

  • @cheezarose
    @cheezarose 2 года назад +30

    I wish you had asked some lesbians too about this issue,I feel like as a "female" their outlook would different on the issue because of already existing societal issue for them that "males"don't have to face in society.

  • @bradleyf3224
    @bradleyf3224 2 года назад +28

    There appears to be some confusion on this topic. "Marriage Equality" for the most part is not about THE gay relationship, IT IS ABOUT how all government agencies provide EQUAL ACCESS to the law for the members of the LGBT community. IT IS about ECONOMIC equality, LEGAL equality, ETHIC equality, EQUALITY of due process & FINANCIAL equality. We will have our relationships regardless of government intervention BUT in order for our relationships to have an increased chance to succeed & flourish, the LGBT community MUST have access to MARRIAGE EQUALITY!

  • @lamma746
    @lamma746 2 года назад +6

    I'm so glad you guys are here to educate us about serious topics like this. It's super informative, but entertaining as well. Great Job 😇

  • @ChasMusic
    @ChasMusic 2 года назад +2

    ¡This channel is so eclectic! Never heard about this. Thank you for being on the spot and informing both your international audience as well as the people who surround you in Tokyo.

  • @jamesmccue6685
    @jamesmccue6685 2 года назад +1

    OK Tokyo BTM, mixing hard-hitting content with hard-bodied interviews. Love the variety!

  • @manny1456
    @manny1456 2 года назад +4

    I have no intention to get married or anything but I am happy for the people who have the desire or need to at least get this system in place which will make the fight easier in the long run I think.
    Ps: I finally met Meng senpai in person last week and he is a sweetie. Hope to see you again!

  • @ravasolix
    @ravasolix 2 года назад +1

    Legislation is always the last thing to move. It takes baby steps to get there and adopting the partnership system across Tokyo is a good step. It’s awesome to hear you guys exploring those serious topics :3

  • @animeprince7866
    @animeprince7866 2 года назад +1

    I see this as a step in the right direction. I should hope that it goes to full fledged marriage. Y'all found some very lively folks to interview lol. Thanks as always for all your hard work on these videos! おもしろいですよ。ビデオをありがとうございました。

  • @Cla_Disney
    @Cla_Disney 2 года назад +2

    It's actually a big step forward for LGBTQ people in Tokyo, to be honest, I was not even expecting any kind of legislation recognizing same-sex couples from a country that does not even anknowledge the existence of LGBTQ people. So yes, I'm very happy this is happening! Way to go Tokyo! ♥

  • @Harmonia96
    @Harmonia96 2 года назад +4

    "It's all grandpas at the top."
    Some things are just the same everywhere else in the world, huh? Really makes you wonder

  • @mrsparkle9048
    @mrsparkle9048 2 года назад +3

    I was highly irritated by the intrusive English speaking "model", you guys were total pros in how you handled that. I have to say I probably would have been rude to him.

  • @justmike1753
    @justmike1753 2 года назад +4

    I love the street interviews because you get to hear the perspectives of multiple people in one video. Keep up the great work😊

  • @mr.nuttapatnoiwibon8227
    @mr.nuttapatnoiwibon8227 2 года назад +2

    First of all, thank you indeed for making this fun yet informative video. After I watched it, there are 2 things that come in my mind.
    1.Some people still think that marriage should come along with love (in a romantic/sexual way I guess). That way of thinking gives me a frown many times, even you guys were trying to emphasize them regarding the rights of LGBTQA+ (which I appreciate you so much). Please correct me if I am wrong, because there are many reasons the get married, people should be allowed to do so even they are friends.
    2. Some say they do not really care, it does not matter that much for them, even they are gay. This part shatters my heart a little but it gets better after they say they would support this law if it helped others.
    But seems like all the interviewees have no thoughts against the imminent implementation of partnership system or same-sex marriage. It is a good sign in my point of view, everything takes time. This is a great step to go as you said.
    Looking for your next wonderful videos.

  • @carloscarvalhar9129
    @carloscarvalhar9129 2 года назад +2

    As I live in Brazil, where gay marriage is possible since 2011/2013, I'd like to say that it's just a first step, necessary indeed, but a small conquer yet.

  • @Love_TheArtist
    @Love_TheArtist 2 года назад

    The issue is the same everywhere...old men in power are part of the issue of why logistical and judicial progress is happening so slowly.
    Great topic for a new video.

  • @udon6743
    @udon6743 2 года назад

    You should really make a skin care routine video, Meng skin is sooo good

  • @c7261
    @c7261 Год назад

    Mr BicCamera and the British guy seemed like tools. The Japanese people were super-sweet (especially the pro adoption one on the left, she was a star). By far the stand-out person was the bearish guy "DiD YooUuU HAaAvE Aa GoOoOoD TiImMeE?!?!" 😛😛😛 gotta love that manic energy 💖

  • @justy93
    @justy93 2 года назад

    Street interviews! Yes! Lol’d at the scene stealers! Great great episode!

    • @TokyoBTM
      @TokyoBTM  2 года назад +1

      thank you. So glad that you enjoyed

  • @sugar_shohei
    @sugar_shohei 2 года назад

    Great video! It was interesting to hear what people think about same-sex marriage and partnerships :)
    Japan's position on same-sex marriage has been distorted, and I hope that the partnership system will be the start of a solution!

  • @jevanojulies732
    @jevanojulies732 2 года назад +1

    OMG when the guy with the yellow jacket just jumped in 😂😂😂😂 he is finnneee though!!! Can we please get a link to his intsa haha Jk. 🤭 Loved this video guys. Was cool to hear so many different opinions.

  • @Michael_robertson
    @Michael_robertson 2 года назад

    Thank you for helping our “community”.

  • @MrYasserMohamed
    @MrYasserMohamed 2 года назад +1

    Great topic. Love it.
    I think if it was ever possible to do a (street) interview to ask a Japanese gay/ lesbian couple, Japanese & non- Japanese (but long term resident) gay/ lesbian couple, Japanese & non- Japanese (non visa holder) gay/ lesbian couple, and throw in a few of straight couple and general straight crowd could give a great depth to the topic.
    It could be interesting to understand the psyche of the suggested group who has a stake on the outcome of a marriage equality in Japan.
    Oh, 新年快乐 万事如意 Meng

  • @danielintheantipodes6741
    @danielintheantipodes6741 2 года назад

    Thank you for the video!

  • @johnnyvo1710
    @johnnyvo1710 2 года назад

    Thanks for the great content!

  • @michaeljohnevangelista9158
    @michaeljohnevangelista9158 2 года назад

    Yehey new upload ❤

  • @_Just.diamond_
    @_Just.diamond_ 2 года назад

    I always love that kind of videos! It‘s always interesting to see how japan changes😆💜

  • @lee_akira
    @lee_akira 2 года назад

    long way to go but definitely happening someday!

  • @michaelwojcieszek6902
    @michaelwojcieszek6902 2 года назад

    Thanks very much for this!

  • @nicholasjagger6557
    @nicholasjagger6557 2 года назад

    In the UK, equalisation began with Civil Partnership, that was only available to same-sex couples. The leaders of the then government felt compromised, so when the opportunity came for full civil marriage, they paid to have the Civil Partnerships changed to marriage certificates, and back-dated them to the date of the original Civil Partnership. We had to have marriage banns published just as would any couple. Since then, heterosexual couples have fought to have Civil Partnerships, and from 2019 have been able to take advantage of the scheme. It was a long journey.

  • @mariloutaurines-rispal4129
    @mariloutaurines-rispal4129 2 года назад +1

    I hope one day everybody will have the same rights and the possibility to choose to live their life without permission or judgement. Being able to choose what type of relationship they want to have is really important (mariage, single, open relationship or whatever). We should have same possibilities and the same rights. Mariage gives so much more rights than partership (oficial recognition as "family", property, visa or heritage... Etc....). 💜💜💜✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼✌🏼
    Love you guys ! Happy lunar new year !🌜🐯

    • @TokyoBTM
      @TokyoBTM  2 года назад +1

      We wish the same❤️❤️❤️

  • @DesgameReaction
    @DesgameReaction 2 года назад

    The world is changing to a better place for everyone to live. ❤️

  • @Love_TheArtist
    @Love_TheArtist 2 года назад

    Already, the first two guys reveal the needed prequel question...Would you like to be in a relationship?

  • @topogigio95y
    @topogigio95y 2 года назад

    Very informative yet light video, great job as always guys :) Happy lunar year! I hope you're having as much fun making these videos as we have watching them! And, also... your videos always cheer me up when I'm having a bad day :)

  • @bradleyf3224
    @bradleyf3224 2 года назад

    Happy Lunar New Year!

    • @TokyoBTM
      @TokyoBTM  2 года назад

      Happy new year!😊😊😊

  • @gianne185
    @gianne185 2 года назад

    I'd say it's not enough but it's a significant step in the right direction.

    • @TokyoBTM
      @TokyoBTM  2 года назад

      absolutely, its good to celebrate small victories

  • @Jowyerv
    @Jowyerv 2 года назад

    "Did you have a GoOd tIME ~~~~ "
    lol XD that's so random! I'm dead!

  • @allansevilla5640
    @allansevilla5640 2 года назад

    Happy year of the tiger!
    Happy for japan, i mean its a small step forwars but still it means that its another feather on the cap for the lgbtq community. Even if its a small step as long as it goes forward

  • @anjerowalker9566
    @anjerowalker9566 2 года назад

    I love the fact Japanese people answered positively on the issue. However, the foreign residents had a little understanding on the importance of same-sex marriage in Japan.

  • @lljunglefever
    @lljunglefever 2 года назад

    Good variation of opinions. Goes to show young folks are not so in tune, and even if they are gay (assuming they are more in the loop) and they still have opinions about how the country is being run, it doesn't translate on the action front (attending rallies, grassroots participation).

  • @tc2334
    @tc2334 2 года назад +1

    Ok, the one guy totally shouldn't have jumped into the interview, but I I found him very handsome, so I can't be mad. LOL

    • @TokyoBTM
      @TokyoBTM  2 года назад

      He was very funny and random 😂

  • @Iliveinamonsterverse
    @Iliveinamonsterverse 2 года назад

    I believe that a small but same time huge step to the right direction

    • @TokyoBTM
      @TokyoBTM  2 года назад +3

      absolutely, as long as we are moving toward the right direction

  • @rickgarms7656
    @rickgarms7656 2 года назад

    I like to believe that little steps are as important as big moves. However, even if greater Tokyo adopts the "Partnership System", it's a far cry from National Legal Gay Marriage as law. It's difficult to adopt any cultural changes (into law) for a society that includes very conservative thinking policy makers. I also agree with other previous commentors about the rather non-committal attitude expressed by such a young demographic. It's a bit saddening. PS Happy Lunar New Year Guys.

  • @mousykatka
    @mousykatka 2 года назад

    I'm keeping fingers crossed that it will pass and hope for future change of legislation!

  • @Aldrius
    @Aldrius 2 года назад

    Happy new year, Meng!! Also what are the odds of some random English-speaking person video bombing you guys.

  • @jeffvillanueva5660
    @jeffvillanueva5660 2 года назад

    I love that Japan is considering this law! There are many same sex relationship going on and it should be visible also. But I think it is also what a LGBTQIA person like me wants...I want a marriage if I am to find my equal. More Power to all of you! Godbless from Philippines

  • @Thefontanayears
    @Thefontanayears 2 года назад

    Im so lucky I live in the country with the most acceptance towards gay and other queer people it would be hell not having the same rights as straight people

  • @brandoncold1027
    @brandoncold1027 2 года назад

    Please do a video what japenese think of LGBT+

  • @berthulf
    @berthulf 2 года назад

    I'm a pessimist and cynic at heart, so I am cynical that it will happen, or that it will really change anything if it does come into effect. Maybe on a long-term basis, as it will open the way for a slower consolidation of rights, but I'm worried it's little more than lip service.
    As for most people seeming indifferent, this is often the case, that the people in the society are happy, in principal, but they're not in direct control of setting legislation, and as pointed out, most of the politicians are older, conservative men. It's the same problem in most countries, but a government needs to represent their people physically and idealogically as well as the more ephemeral, legal governorship, and if they don't have that scope, the rules of the society will not represent the people in it with that scope.

  • @olafzmit
    @olafzmit 2 года назад

    Nowadays I live in London. But I come from Poland. I ued to fight for this shit. I havent been on a pride for 3-4 years (pandemic but also fel complacent a bit).And even since I moved to the UK where I have same sex marriage and (most) sh** that pertains to me (but not for example to trans people), I stopped fighting. Because I fought for many years in Poland for the right to have a pride march, for the right to express ourselves, for the right to be in the media for all of the you know basic sh**
    And it hurt me in poland that after so many years of putting my blood and lifelforce into fighting it led nowhere to Poland.
    I moved to the UK for various reasons but one of them was that I want the right to being able to build my own happiness. And feel safe. And I am feeling safe.
    But it's not heaven. it's better.
    But I do not regret any day of my fight against the world to equalize marriage. It can become true. Not everywhere. Not always. Most of the time very slowly. But every little win counts. Now Tokyowith civil partnerships and then it will be a snowball effect. It always goes in snowballs.

  • @wanderingjoanna9336
    @wanderingjoanna9336 2 года назад +1

    I like this video and hope this will happen to my country too which is a very conservative one.

  • @t.p.mckenna
    @t.p.mckenna 2 года назад +1

    The guys that was talking about not being able to leave 'condo, money' to a same-sex partner ... I presume he meant that in the sense of automatic rights of inheritance eg. Presumably, if one has the time and foresight to make a will one can leave one's estate to whoever one wants? Correct??

    • @bloodwire7152
      @bloodwire7152 2 года назад

      don't know if it's everywhere, but half of your inheritance goes to close family members when writing a will (they were called necessary heirs, last time I checked). So there's the problem of half of someone's belonging going to a family they are stranded from instead of going fully to their partners

    • @t.p.mckenna
      @t.p.mckenna 2 года назад

      @@bloodwire7152 In the UK before CPs (civil partnerships) that was definitely the case where a gay partner could only inherit what had been specifically left to him.

  • @外山裕己
    @外山裕己 2 года назад

    中野区で申請しようと思ったのですが、思ってた程大した内容では無くて止めちゃいました。東京都全体で同じ制度ならまだいいかもですね。

  • @Gr95dc
    @Gr95dc 2 года назад

    Great video! And it makes me happy to hear that Japan is at least making some steps in the right direction on LGBT+ issues. It's a very slow progress, but something is better than nothing.
    And I have to say it, th guy with the yellow vest was sooooo rude and annoying. Typical foreigner everyone would hate if he visited their country.

    • @TokyoBTM
      @TokyoBTM  2 года назад +1

      haha he was sweet at the end, so it's ok 😜

    • @Gr95dc
      @Gr95dc 2 года назад

      @@TokyoBTM good to know guys ❤️

  • @USCanthony
    @USCanthony 2 года назад

    The U.S. initially tried to give gays the same civil rights as straight couples (it is known as civil unions) but that was not enough. In the U.S. gay couples were given the same civil rights that straight couples were given and since marriage is a religious construct and is not a government one, that meant that all of the same rights that straight people were afforded were also given to gay couples. There is something about the word marriage though. Even if they had the exact same rights, it was not good enough just being known as a civil union. The word marriage had to be involved even if the couple was not being joined in matrimony by a priest but was rather getting married by a city government functionary at city hall. I believe that the "old grandpa's" that primarily make up the government in Japan will learn that in the end, giving the same rights will not be enough. It will need to involve the word marriage. After all, if you are going to go as far as giving same sex couples all the same rights as straight couples, what is it really going to hurt if you call it gay marriage? This might be an easier sell in Japan simply because the influence of the Catholic church is not as strong as it is elsewhere in the world and it is the Catholic church that is trying to hold onto the word "marriage" as a religious construct that they own. While it may be surprising to some people to see so many people having positive feedback, this is Shinjuku Nichome and if you are hanging out there, you probably have a more positive attitude towards LGBTQ issues than others.

  • @kp-gbuniqueinterest
    @kp-gbuniqueinterest 2 года назад +1

    I would think Just like Korea, Japan will take a lot longer to even get close to Western standards on gay rights. At least its not really it illegal and i dont think people really care anymore if you are gay or not, as long you are in big cities. But rights will take a long time. Both countries have such a long line of conservatism and that is going to move very slowly. The one thing though in East Asia, I think China needs to allow gays a lot more. The population is overly crowed and not all are going to marry a women anyway. I want Season two of Shangyin.

  • @japayuking7664
    @japayuking7664 2 года назад

    One of my dream is to get married with the gay or guy I love. Hoping they will approve same sex marriage in Japan.
    Single here and searching😛

    • @TokyoBTM
      @TokyoBTM  2 года назад

      We will. Let's be hopeful

  • @midknighthowlitzer9915
    @midknighthowlitzer9915 2 года назад

    Did you use music from persona or am I imagining it

  • @KJ-js7pi
    @KJ-js7pi 2 года назад

    that black dude in the yellow just radiates himbo energy lmaooo
    nothing up there, but at least he likes to talk 😂

  • @hotasian9205
    @hotasian9205 2 года назад

    What I'm more curious about is why Japan, as a developed country for so many years, has not widely accepted homosexuality. I used to think that people's acceptance of lgbt is related to the development level of the country and society, but I see that Japan has not recognized gay marriage so far, which is a bit disappointing. This may be caused by Confucian culture and more patriarchal thinking in East Asian society.

    • @TokyoBTM
      @TokyoBTM  2 года назад

      I think you are right. There are many factors other than how economically "developed" they are. I think in places like Japan, Singapore, Korea, Hongkong etc, although people are in general getting paid better, there are so many restrictions from traditional values or religions.

  • @whushaw
    @whushaw 2 года назад

    ty

  • @JimFeig
    @JimFeig 2 года назад

    Having only parts of the city recognize it seems a bit confusing.

  • @djcrumrine2150
    @djcrumrine2150 2 года назад

    Bi queen representation

  • @deplynx4746
    @deplynx4746 2 года назад

    Hey guys! I was wondering about one thing. Do you find that people are more open to participating in street interviews when they are wearing a mask?

    • @TokyoBTM
      @TokyoBTM  2 года назад +1

      Maybe to some people yes, but usually people decline. A lot of people don't want to be on camera 🎥

  • @DED_Search
    @DED_Search 2 года назад

    新年快乐 心想事成 🐯❤️

    • @TokyoBTM
      @TokyoBTM  2 года назад

      谢谢 新年快乐!发大财!

    • @DED_Search
      @DED_Search 2 года назад

      @@TokyoBTM 我差点给我狗子改名叫大包裹 每天喊她大包裹快来 😂 希望今年跳槽去大厂拿大包裹 也祝你发发发 ❤️

  • @azv343
    @azv343 2 года назад

    It's kinda sad to see so many gay people internalize the second class citizen mentality. Marriage goes beyond the relationship as it's a guaranteed protection from the government and also a concerted proactive political statement from the couple, either straight or gay: We are the pillar of society and we're both working hard to contribute to the country.

  • @Loganersatz
    @Loganersatz 2 года назад

    “Cool, why not?” Lol

  • @bakurachan
    @bakurachan 2 года назад +1

    6:08 笑笑

  • @若月裕二-e1j
    @若月裕二-e1j 2 года назад

    For the record, the partnership and same sex marriage are different things right ? I hope in Tokyo in Japan, same sex marriage gets legal. Don't you think so ? We got nothing to lose anyway.

    • @TokyoBTM
      @TokyoBTM  2 года назад

      Yes they are different as we mentioned in the intro. I hope we will have more visibility

  • @ppj845
    @ppj845 2 года назад

    An impactful change would be to allow Japanese person’s same sex foreign partner applying for a spouse visa.

  • @nigelbond4056
    @nigelbond4056 2 года назад

    A great video on a really important topic. I feel very lucky to live in a part of the world where same sex relationships are equal on every level to straight relationships. Just a shame the video was hijacked by a rude, self-obsessed American 😡

  • @naychi3609
    @naychi3609 2 года назад

    Hi

  • @soju81
    @soju81 2 года назад

    Interesting. Most ppl had positive opinions. Just curious but are LGBT ever victims of violence in Japan? Do you have to worry about your physical safety?

    • @TokyoBTM
      @TokyoBTM  2 года назад +1

      I think Japan is in general very safe, not much violence, at least for me and people around me

  • @naychi3609
    @naychi3609 2 года назад

    Can we be friend

  • @naychi3609
    @naychi3609 2 года назад +1

    Excuse me

  • @hendrickstead182
    @hendrickstead182 2 года назад

    😄 P-R-O-M-O-S-M!

  • @changchadchanamdong2668
    @changchadchanamdong2668 2 года назад

    Low chance it well happen.

  • @rjkore5229
    @rjkore5229 2 года назад

    Inheritance rights & ability to have & adopt children is priority to protect in gay marriage as it is with heterosexual marriages...

  • @naychi3609
    @naychi3609 2 года назад

    Hi