@Pizza pie it's Omori actually, we are selfish. But thats when you need to ask yourself something. Who should be selfish. You or them?! Suffer life and live miserably so they are content(them being selfish, they do benefit from you) or be selfish and relieve your pain. (Thats selfish of you). Till this day i struggle which 1 i should do.
@@matthewfernandez5057 Humans are selfish by nature, ( by birth ) . I am selfish by nature, that's why I seek forgiveness through Jesus Christ and found few answers. But, I am going to give up on my life when I turn 60 when old age problems kicks in . I am 44 now , bit tired, but motivate myself to travel and see ,as many places as I can. And have no regrets when I turn 60.
Also people are not looking for attention my life is not for your entertainment everyone loves to make fun of people so they dont have to deal with their own issues. And to use people. People say it is for attention because they want a reason not to care for other and to not have compassionand love because they want to stay in a low vibration and contine their misrable lifes.
Yes, because its hard having people who care ab us i remember my friend commited su*cide bc other would completly ignore her no one would talk to her exept me..when we made class goups students would talk ab it at class and she would be confused cause they wont add her, her father stays with her but her father also ignores her like she wanted sm body to take care ab her... We have talked ab this she said she does not wanna live then i said what about me, she said she wanna get this pain off of her,the last time i saw her was at her birthday.. :(
Exactly! I have attempted suicide a few times and just recently because of intense distress about recurring family conflict. The thing is sometimes i just wanna end the suffering on my part. What holds me back is the fear that someone might blame themselves because of it and I have been living with this my entire life that i do not want anyone to suffer like that. So all my life i have been waiting for that perfect moment where everyone’s or every member of my family is happy and settled and maybe then they would let me go. So yeah most of the times we do not decide to end our life for attention but to escape the suffering.
The system only cares about your psychological state because of how it may effect others. The system actually likes that people who are psychologically hurt remove themselves, just don't include anyone with themselves
Having your life ripped away from you at 9 years old and then living tne next 45 years depressed as hell is a good reason to end it i mean it's hardly going to get any better now.
I hear you. Same I bought the line it’llGet better. Never did. Just got worse. Then I had a Family, lived for Them for 27 years. It’s my Time Now at age 60 to say I tried. I tried hard I’m exhausted in so much physical and emotional Pain. Woke Up two years ago to all the trauma in my Childhood that I dissociated away I tried to work thru it but there’s so much. I tried I counseled I talked I listened and it’s my time now. I’ll chose from here. I lived for everyone else but me and now I’m gonna take care of me and get myself out of all this pain. Somehow
Intense psychological distress is a good analogy; intense= over powering, constant, black cloud, pressing, heavy. Psychological= in my mind, can't control ,lost, unable to function. Distress= crying, frustrated, blank, remote, unaware, painful, help me, lost,lost,lost . no that's what exactly is happening to me anyway
I seriously wanna sleep right now, and never wake up ever again But first, I might wanna disappear without a trace so that I cannot hurt the people that love me
For me the reason to why I'm so suicidal is because I hate EVERYTHING ABOUT MYSELF,I'm my own worst enemy so I think that I have to end the problem which is me
But i’m sure so many people love everything about you they don’t think your a problem the only problem in there life would be if you leave them bc they care so much about you please don’t leave bc nothing would be the same without you
The same goes for me i am a burden man fearing god anger is the only thing that stops me am muslim and they say in islam its a sin but i wish if i know the truth if there is an afterlife or no
@@divyayadav6748 maybe we can help each other through this sad time, if your willing to chat with me, there can still be light at the end of the tunnel.
I wish people would stay away from the "God won't give you more than you can handle" cliche. Regardless of anyone's religious beliefs, a reason of suicide (though not the only one) is because someone isn't handling what their circumstances are. It is too much. And people need to stop with the suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. This is not always true. And when someone says either of these things to someone contemplating suicide, it makes it worse. Trust me. I lost a family member who appropriately sought help but being constantly dismissed by his wife and told he failed God pushed him over the edge.
Facts. Facts. Facts. 👍 seriously, you are spot on. Technically, if we want to get scholarly here the quote “ God will give you more than you can handle” is incredibly unbiblical any. When did you say this it’s very clear to me they’ve never read the Bible in its entirety because all you have to do is read the book of Job. Job is waaaaaaaaaaay over his head in handling things and Gods like. “Whatever dude”
You are a clown. Miserable people make others miserable and happy people make others happy. You are miserable and call for misery. There have come people who have been tested so severely in the past yet they remained firm, firm upon Islam, worshipping God and remaining patient upon the trials n difficulties which afflicted them, this life is but a few days, soon it will pass, we will leave this life, we were created for a true purpose which is to worship Allah and that is the true happiness in this life and the next. I'm a Muslim Alhamdulilah despite the trials, difficulties I face, like everyone else, I'm happy and content. My greatest hope is to attain God's forgiveness on day which will cause the hair of children to turn grey which is the day of Judgement
One of my close buddies committed suicide this past weekend and hours before he put a message on Facebook about how much of a failure he was to his family and himself. I’ve been crying for the past two days. He left his wife and three kids behind who are just starting high school. I can not explain the pain and grief I am going through just thinking if there was any way or anything I could’ve done to help prevent him from doing it. Suicide is a very serious thing to deal with. If you are ever thinking about doing it just know you are loved and how many peoples life’s you will affect and impact.
Thanks man. Am in Campus. I suffered so much trauma as a kid nothing you can imagine. I battle psychological effects of it every day. I've been contemplating suicide now. With how people behave and say things just adds onto it
@@IsHekielI just lost my family, my wife cheated on me. My health is in decline. Im gonna do it. So bye 👋🏻 random person online. PS Please don’t hurt yourself. You are young. I am old. My life’s been lived you have yours ahead. You are loved. I truly have no one. You have someone who cares. Don’t give up. Please. I don’t want to see you on the other side with me. Stay here. 🙏
Failures aren't reason for suicides it's the feeling of loneliness and worthlessness and when that feeling takes over someone's mind that person commits suicide 😢 In today's world people don't give a damn about others and sensitive and emotional people tend to get distressed coz of utter loneliness and then feelings of worthlessness takes a toll over their mind Always stay in touch with your family, do things which you enjoy like your hobbies, go to a park talk to elderly people (believe me talking to elderly people really relieves your stress and you can learn about life more from their experiences) never let others behavior make your feel worthless you're special don't let people tell you otherwise Be like a kid children are never depressed they enjoy in their own little world they know how to enjoy the life completely ❤ Keep Smiling 🙂
I would come home from daycare saying life was not worth living. I’m over 30 now and regret not killing myself as a child every day. My kid self was wise enough to know that I am worthless and that as long as I live I would be worthless. Kids can be depressed. What they can’t be is deluded by psychologists who lie about “things getting better.”
I've wanted to leave this world since I was like...8. I even planned to when I turned 18. I'm 29 now & regret not doing it back then. But apparently they're going to allow assisted suicide for people with mental illness next year...So maybe
Am sorry to hear, i hope that’s not true, i have suicidal ideation as well , am suffering from it but i remember people in my life and it would pain me if one of them did so and i back off each time 😅 I advise you to seek help from someone you trust , try to reconnect with good people and see where it gets you And remember the option is always there so try to see more until one day you’re done but always remind yourself that there is a more and the exit option is always there so why not experiment more
Im just severly overwhelmed. I have nothing and a terrible starting point in life. I see people happy and successful and it makes me hate myself. Ill always hate myself.
We, today's generation is soo weak.. Go in the past see the warriors who fought with their hardest time.. Read Translation of Qur'an if u r Muslim or not.. This book always saved me from ending my life.. I'm still struggling each and every moment.. I'm still alive bcoz fo faith in Allah. I know my time will come.. I'll try my best untill i di*e... I, sometimes get thinking of su**ci*de, But I'll never try to do it. I know its not a solution at all. I need to change myself little bit more, everyday.. That I'm not doing.. Thats why this is happening with me.. Get up, start working.. No matter how many times u hv failed.. We hv to try again.. An again.. An again...
My son was like this. He went to counseling and seemed to be doing better. Then one day I went to go get us some what burger. And he decided to off himself. I came home and saw him in our pool. He has drowned himself. This was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to deal with. After this I was spiraling into depression myself. Until I discovered hifi music. My buddy dragged me to some hifi music speaker building competition. Over there. There was tons of people into this hifi music. I myself listened to some expensive amplifier and fell in love. I ended up buying a $70,000 audio system. It’s brought me out of depression. I want to live now because I have a reason. To listen to music
Sorry this had to happen. Glad you found something to comfort you. I will try this hifi music. I hope i can find online. I ALWAYS feel my mother would be better off without me as a burden. I hope I don't but the thoughts are so tempting because anything is better than the lonely pain.
@@artistrevolution1016Please guy. I’m just a guy on the Internet. I don’t know you. But I care about you! I believe that you will be ok. Trust me. I’m here for you if u need to talk about what your going thru
@@purplerider2362Hello, I am in Ukraine in terrible and dangerous conditions. I really need financial help so that I can leave Ukraine this spring and start a life in peace and security. I am very scared to live in Ukraine, despite the fact that I have poor health, I am still threatened by illegal mobilization with further death. I will be glad to receive any support, including moral support. My contracts is in the channel description. Sincerely: Mikhail Kuznetsov
I thought that once my baby was born I would never face this thoughts again, tonight is one of those moments when I can’t find a reason to keep moving, I don’t want to kill myself but I don’t want to live neither.
people don't know what to do...or say. I have reached out so many times and no one does anything. I am alone. I have no friends. I have no love. I am lonely. But it's just too late now. Just a question of time now...
Suicide is never the answer. I lost my dad to suicide when I was 7 which caused my mother to drink herself to death, she passed when I was 12. I lost a friend of mine to suicide a few years later and it shatters the entire community. You are loved, never underestimate the positive impact you have on people, potentially people you don’t even know admire you. Stay in the fight, stay in the fight long enough to get a foothold because it will get better
Why it Always about family even if someone is in the state of dying still peole don't give a fuck to that man instead they care about what will happen with the family after the suicide . Its depressing enough to die.
how can you be sure about that? tons of people cry over suicide victims because they didn't realize they were suicidal? that's why people are watching this video. Besides you shouldn't value your life on what people think should you?
I disagree. Not everyone shows sign. My cousin hanged himself a day before his bday but months and weeks prior to that he was absolutely fine. No signs at all. He was someone that most feared because he's a confident man. So no, i totally disagree with this doctor at all.
I don’t ever feel like this. I just don’t care what people think. I fell depressed some days sure. But then I know there is tomorrow and just move on. I’ll read book, watch a movie, pray. Some days are good some days fell like sh+t. You don’t like me fine. I’m bad ok. So what I’m probably good at other things. Too much in my own head ok time to get out. Sitting on my all day, ok take a walk. I guess you just gotta keep moving, that’s just life. Down days just laugh at it. Good days appreciate it. By the way I’m Muslim so I think believing in purpose helps.
I don't have family my parents left me, I've been rejected all the times. And now the love of my life decided to broke up with me. Suicide it's not a selfish act it's the only way out. But don't do it if you have a people that loves you. I have nobody I'm qualified to do suicide.
I understand how you feel friend, but don’t give up. I don’t know you, but I Love you. Stay strong and know that Jesus Truly Loves you. If you ever need to talk come to this comment and I’ll encourage you. 💜
suicidal people act ok. but when you least expect it, they’re gone. ive tried once and many times but i just cant leave my friends in pain. my family and school caused me to gain such poor mental health. please someone tell me how to fix this
My dear friend I really truly wish I could tell you how to fix it, however, at the end of the day, you have to choose what is right for yourself, it’s not selfish, myself, having lost my brother through suicide and my sister through suicide. My sister took her life the day before my birthday three years later I had a suicide attempt myself, I have always said that my brother and sister chose suicide to take away the pain and I accept the decision. I have learnt to live with suicide thoughts. I’ve accepted that they are part of me and I have to live with them every single fking day and yes it’s a struggle although for some reason I just keep plodding on and putting up with the crap that goes on in my mind, I guess you must be like me still fighting and plodding on, life is cruel however, we must carry on my friend, why you may ask??? I don’t know the answer to that myself, we just must 🙌 you stay safe mate, keep your head above water every single day get up in the morning. Put your boxing gloves on and say let’s fucking have it. I wish you all the best and progress in your life my friend sending you virtual hugs, peace, love and strength from the UK 🇬🇧 always here friend 👍
Today, my father's boss attempted suicide by taking 200 sleeping pills. He is declared clinically dead, and his brain stopped working completely but heart is working fine, doctors gave him 72 hours. He was in debt of 350 million dollars still after selling all his assets he would have at least 800 million dollars in hand. He didn't care about his 14 years old one and only daughter and his wife. He was in a great hurry to just leave all the things behind.
Don't ask "what's wrong" or "are you ok?"... instead, say "I can tell something is bothering you. When you're ready to talk about I would like to know."
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I don't undrstand why anyone would kill itself for whatever others think. Reason for me was what i thought about myself. This was the reason for depression, still is sometimes. When I see cowards and idiots it doesn't bother me. I recognize them instantly, and move on. When I realize that I act as one it does bother me. I wanted to off myself at one time, the last thing I wanted was attention. To do it in isolation was the plan. In case of body recovery accident should be assumed, so that relatives wouldn't know what happened. I come to think death is not the worst thing. The score has to be right thou. It never dies, and you won't be able to fix it, ever. It's all nothing against eternity, I know. That's why I didn't bother. I still respect people who do it. It's free will, cutting through bs. I would want them to be my friends. It can't happen is the irony.
My family itself feels I am worthless, I am 26 yr old wanted to be an entrepreneur but failed society makes me feel that I am useless and good for nothing, ending my life seems the only way out of this rabbit hole
Why it Always about family even if someone is in the state of dying still peole don't give a fuck to that man instead they care about what will happen with the family after the suicide . Its depressing enough to die.
suffering is an aspect of life that we'll just have to accept, I don't think it'll ever end tbh. But I do think that the grass is always greener on the other side. What you may be experiencing rn will eventually lead to you being stronger and at a better pace. You just have to push through, I know you can do it!
I really wanted to end everything...because I am a very biggest disappointment of the people I love..I wish I could do better, I could do more. Their happiness are my happiness..I am not happy thats not why they are ,,we all are not happy...why is it so hard for me to be happy...
"Theyre seeking attention" Why would they want attention when they're already isolating themselves from everyone? Now that they're actually able to let their feelings out, people are just gonna say that?
If it means anything to anyone I understand, and I struggle with the thoughts too not that it means I can help it’s just like I know what’s it’s like man. For people high and low for people who got nothing and maybe I can’t speak for people worse off than me but I just don’t judge anyone man I want my stomach to stop hurting I want to put down these bad habits and cycles I.. I’m sorry I shouldn’t have hurt anyone I’m not gonna quit but sometimes I can’t just “be happy” I’m grateful I really am but let me get through this once my stomach feels better I won’t be such a party pooper
Suicide happens when someone dies that you have been friends with a long time It Aldo happens when you are constantly getting sad whispers or even when you look at yourself with bloody eyes or a bloody smile whi changurro causes most of us to kill our selfs And it happens with music too when you dont like it its creepy sad this will get it stuck in your head For last people can Get suicide when not sleeping not eating even when not talking so if you have these problems i recomend telling a doctor or a grown up.
I am a waste of space. Everyone I know will be better off without me around anymore. I have no hope for the future. I am nothing. I am nobody. I am tired.
I'm not watching this Not without reason, I'm watching this because I've been told that life is useless, so I'm planning it, what else is there to do with life if you've been told that it's useless?😊
Think bout it everyday then found out someone I know well just committed suicide and I wish I could swap places with him. All I hear from people is you have kids you can't do that but I am the one suffering here. Like my babies mum says the kids don't need you and want you so 🤷♂️
Yep. Getting rid of possessions and sorting out so nothing is left to deal with is the hardest. Removingmpeople and distance was the easy. So people have no clue.
when i heard "there's no hope for my future" i definitely hit myself several timess in the to not think that but god damn if i don't find anything it's true i would rather kill myself than to keep living
I remember giving out signs of me wanting to kill myself to some people i trusted in. I remember when 6th grade started they walked by and ask how my summer vacation was and i told them in a joking tone oh nothing much just tried to kill myself 5 times this summer, and yeah rest is history so if there is someone you know whos not okay maybe talk to them if its one of your siblings or cousins or friends please help them out.
@@mangotango01 life is endless suffering then death no reward, having free will and choosing to suffer till death is hilariously unimaginable miserably stupid. Choosing to end the suffering makes sense. At least it's lesser evil then the 2 options
Don’t understand that notion doing it for attention - the dice with death is self explanatory and powerful. Meaning they are aware of that risk , still try. Common sense , it’s not attention based, who ever came up with it decades ago is disgusting creating stigma.
I have autism and I’ve been having thoughts about committing suicide like lost some family members and other thoughts are like trying to get my future life planned and figured out but with finding jobs and how the economy is it’s tough and just found out I’m about to lose my job by getting my position eliminated and I’ve been panicking on getting my life figured out and that might ruin my future plans but even though it’s short term also even though I did well in school and graduated by being honored as a salutatorian but struggling during how the economy is going especially looking to find jobs and I just feel like I’m done
@@unknownuser6757who said anything about that honestly the one who was to blame for that is God where was he when your life was going to shit he will only judge you or dislike you that's his job
@@BEACHDUDE71you only he hear home when he is dead and all the other bullshit people like say it's a over used word to try and think they give a damn about it's all bullshit
After watching this I feel very attacked, because one time I did make a suicide note... And put it on my dresser at the top... I then committed suicide with a blade that I found from across the room... And after trying to cut my wrist and realizing it's too blunt, I then lost all the adrenaline that put me in that moment.
I absolutely hate living. All my life it has been poverty, oppression, rejection, anger, and loneliness. Unfortunately Jesus Christ defeated death so there is no such thing as death, hence the reason why I can't kill myself, frustrating.....✝
When he said "clues"...I heard "Clothes"...and I was like that's okay, I will give my clothes...but to whom, I havent talked to anyone in months🤣🤣🤣Guess I will have to just leave my clothes around when I leave😏 Also I am too small and my clothes won't fit anyone. Plus they are old and cheap too. Guess people will have to do without my clothes.
I care I love you all so much I gave my Son to die for all of you place your last trust in me search your heart. For I know you Peter took his eyes off of me and begin to sink into the water Save me Lord ! He cried out. And I reached down and pulled him up as I will do for you.. ‘God’
Quit telling suicidal people that "think about the pain you leave behind, your family and loved ones", .....uhm, they are the reason
LITERALLY!!!!
@Pizza pie it's Omori actually, we are selfish. But thats when you need to ask yourself something. Who should be selfish. You or them?! Suffer life and live miserably so they are content(them being selfish, they do benefit from you) or be selfish and relieve your pain. (Thats selfish of you). Till this day i struggle which 1 i should do.
@@matthewfernandez5057 Humans are selfish by nature, ( by birth ) . I am selfish by nature, that's why I seek forgiveness through Jesus Christ and found few answers. But, I am going to give up on my life when I turn 60 when old age problems kicks in . I am 44 now , bit tired, but motivate myself to travel and see ,as many places as I can. And have no regrets when I turn 60.
Damn right
So true bro
Even if someone were to do it for attention, that only means they need help too.
Bingo!
Also people are not looking for attention my life is not for your entertainment everyone loves to make fun of people so they dont have to deal with their own issues. And to use people. People say it is for attention because they want a reason not to care for other and to not have compassionand love because they want to stay in a low vibration and contine their misrable lifes.
Yes, because its hard having people who care ab us i remember my friend commited su*cide bc other would completly ignore her no one would talk to her exept me..when we made class goups students would talk ab it at class and she would be confused cause they wont add her, her father stays with her but her father also ignores her like she wanted sm body to take care ab her... We have talked ab this she said she does not wanna live then i said what about me, she said she wanna get this pain off of her,the last time i saw her was at her birthday.. :(
Exactly! I have attempted suicide a few times and just recently because of intense distress about recurring family conflict. The thing is sometimes i just wanna end the suffering on my part. What holds me back is the fear that someone might blame themselves because of it and I have been living with this my entire life that i do not want anyone to suffer like that. So all my life i have been waiting for that perfect moment where everyone’s or every member of my family is happy and settled and maybe then they would let me go. So yeah most of the times we do not decide to end our life for attention but to escape the suffering.
Some of us just have nothing left to give...
Yup
Definitely
True fucking story..
My family will be ok
Better that I'm gone
Spot on there fella 🙌
You still alive? @@danhughes3626
The system only cares about your psychological state because of how it may effect others. The system actually likes that people who are psychologically hurt remove themselves, just don't include anyone with themselves
Amen 🙏 That’s why I’m leaving permanently. Really I should be looked at as a hero. Soon my carbon foot 🦶 print will be zero.
This is true
Your most loved one not understand ing you means wt u do
this is so fucking true thats the kind of motivation i need
Unfortunately suicides can include homicides! 😁
This is why we lie about how we feel so that those that will interfere won't know.
That is so true
We?
please don't kill yourself
@@kvngsly2x186 yes. We
Or lie by omission. It's not like people cared before I felt this way
Having your life ripped away from you at 9 years old and then living tne next 45 years depressed as hell is a good reason to end it i mean it's hardly going to get any better now.
That's true
I love toy dont do it
@@eunchae.s Thank you.♥️
Spot on 🙌
I hear you. Same I bought the line it’llGet better. Never did. Just got worse. Then I had a
Family, lived for Them for 27 years. It’s my Time Now at age
60 to say I tried. I tried hard I’m exhausted in so much physical and emotional Pain. Woke
Up two years ago to all the trauma in my Childhood that I dissociated away I tried to work thru it but there’s so much. I tried I counseled I talked I listened and it’s my time now. I’ll chose from here. I lived for everyone else but me and now I’m gonna take care of me and get myself out of all this pain. Somehow
"Intense psychological distress" lol that's a complete water down of what's actually happening
😂😂 you not lying
Living hell
Intense psychological distress is a good analogy; intense= over powering, constant, black cloud, pressing, heavy. Psychological= in my mind, can't control ,lost, unable to function. Distress= crying, frustrated, blank, remote, unaware, painful, help me, lost,lost,lost . no that's what exactly is happening to me anyway
@@geotj58are you feeling better at the moment? Right now? I hope you'll be okay
I seriously wanna sleep right now, and never wake up ever again
But first, I might wanna disappear without a trace so that I cannot hurt the people that love me
Same here brother
Yes brother
Heeeeey me too 🙌
Me too, 😢
Same. Never waking up from sleep forever is the best way to die because it's painless.
For me the reason to why I'm so suicidal is because I hate EVERYTHING ABOUT MYSELF,I'm my own worst enemy so I think that I have to end the problem which is me
@Nenbro Yeah I feel u man😔😔
Well every comment I read on here I have to agree with 😂I’m with you 🙌
@@user-ly6bt7mm4wI can feel ya dude!! I feel the same way you do, I wish I was never born and now I just wanna die as soon as possible.
But i’m sure so many people love everything about you they don’t think your a problem the only problem in there life would be if you leave them bc they care so much about you please don’t leave bc nothing would be the same without you
I suffer from depression I'm lonely and worthless, I feel like life would be better if I wasn't here anymore.
The same goes for me i am a burden man fearing god anger is the only thing that stops me am muslim and they say in islam its a sin but i wish if i know the truth if there is an afterlife or no
@@Co-nm8ntdamn it felt like i wrote this comment😐
Same 🥺....
@@divyayadav6748 maybe we help each other through this difficult time, there can still be light at the end of the tunnel.
@@divyayadav6748 maybe we can help each other through this sad time, if your willing to chat with me, there can still be light at the end of the tunnel.
I wish people would stay away from the "God won't give you more than you can handle" cliche. Regardless of anyone's religious beliefs, a reason of suicide (though not the only one) is because someone isn't handling what their circumstances are. It is too much. And people need to stop with the suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. This is not always true. And when someone says either of these things to someone contemplating suicide, it makes it worse. Trust me. I lost a family member who appropriately sought help but being constantly dismissed by his wife and told he failed God pushed him over the edge.
Facts. Facts. Facts. 👍 seriously, you are spot on. Technically, if we want to get scholarly here the quote “ God will give you more than you can handle” is incredibly unbiblical any. When did you say this it’s very clear to me they’ve never read the Bible in its entirety because all you have to do is read the book of Job. Job is waaaaaaaaaaay over his head in handling things and Gods like. “Whatever dude”
You are a clown. Miserable people make others miserable and happy people make others happy. You are miserable and call for misery. There have come people who have been tested so severely in the past yet they remained firm, firm upon Islam, worshipping God and remaining patient upon the trials n difficulties which afflicted them, this life is but a few days, soon it will pass, we will leave this life, we were created for a true purpose which is to worship Allah and that is the true happiness in this life and the next. I'm a Muslim Alhamdulilah despite the trials, difficulties I face, like everyone else, I'm happy and content. My greatest hope is to attain God's forgiveness on day which will cause the hair of children to turn grey which is the day of Judgement
One of my close buddies committed suicide this past weekend and hours before he put a message on Facebook about how much of a failure he was to his family and himself. I’ve been crying for the past two days. He left his wife and three kids behind who are just starting high school. I can not explain the pain and grief I am going through just thinking if there was any way or anything I could’ve done to help prevent him from doing it. Suicide is a very serious thing to deal with. If you are ever thinking about doing it just know you are loved and how many peoples life’s you will affect and impact.
This is your friend and not me. They will be happy as soon as I leave this world.
Thanks man.
Am in Campus. I suffered so much trauma as a kid nothing you can imagine.
I battle psychological effects of it every day.
I've been contemplating suicide now.
With how people behave and say things just adds onto it
@@IsHekielI just lost my family, my wife cheated on me. My health is in decline. Im gonna do it. So bye 👋🏻 random person online.
PS Please don’t hurt yourself. You are young. I am old. My life’s been lived you have yours ahead. You are loved. I truly have no one. You have someone who cares. Don’t give up. Please. I don’t want to see you on the other side with me. Stay here. 🙏
@@beautruex7012hello are you still here i hope you are
Dude, that’s really hard! I’m sorry for your loss🙏
Only if the world can just be a bit more simple, and people would understand.
Failures aren't reason for suicides it's the feeling of loneliness and worthlessness and when that feeling takes over someone's mind that person commits suicide 😢 In today's world people don't give a damn about others and sensitive and emotional people tend to get distressed coz of utter loneliness and then feelings of worthlessness takes a toll over their mind
Always stay in touch with your family, do things which you enjoy like your hobbies, go to a park talk to elderly people (believe me talking to elderly people really relieves your stress and you can learn about life more from their experiences)
never let others behavior make your feel worthless you're special don't let people tell you otherwise
Be like a kid children are never depressed they enjoy in their own little world they know how to enjoy the life completely ❤
Keep Smiling 🙂
I would come home from daycare saying life was not worth living. I’m over 30 now and regret not killing myself as a child every day. My kid self was wise enough to know that I am worthless and that as long as I live I would be worthless.
Kids can be depressed. What they can’t be is deluded by psychologists who lie about “things getting better.”
Yes lonekliness and worthliness i have it now. If i had a gun id be gone. I cant think of other ppl anymore. This pain is no longer for me0
Lol 😂you in denial. F**K this world. Death is preferable.
I just lost my nephew to suicide couples weeks ago, and its been very hard.😢
I've wanted to leave this world since I was like...8. I even planned to when I turned 18. I'm 29 now & regret not doing it back then. But apparently they're going to allow assisted suicide for people with mental illness next year...So maybe
I feel hopelessness, guilt, isolation and depression alot i just think the world would be better without me when i didn't even do anything
Am sorry to hear, i hope that’s not true, i have suicidal ideation as well , am suffering from it but i remember people in my life and it would pain me if one of them did so and i back off each time 😅
I advise you to seek help from someone you trust , try to reconnect with good people and see where it gets you
And remember the option is always there so try to see more until one day you’re done but always remind yourself that there is a more and the exit option is always there so why not experiment more
@@ariewan7938 i really don't know what to do with my life
I have a plan for me if it doesn't get better
I hope you find a support system. If not you can talk with me, I’d be happy to listen & help anyway I can
Im just severly overwhelmed. I have nothing and a terrible starting point in life. I see people happy and successful and it makes me hate myself. Ill always hate myself.
We, today's generation is soo weak.. Go in the past see the warriors who fought with their hardest time.. Read Translation of Qur'an if u r Muslim or not.. This book always saved me from ending my life.. I'm still struggling each and every moment.. I'm still alive bcoz fo faith in Allah. I know my time will come.. I'll try my best untill i di*e... I, sometimes get thinking of su**ci*de, But I'll never try to do it. I know its not a solution at all. I need to change myself little bit more, everyday.. That I'm not doing.. Thats why this is happening with me.. Get up, start working.. No matter how many times u hv failed.. We hv to try again.. An again.. An again...
My son was like this. He went to counseling and seemed to be doing better.
Then one day I went to go get us some what burger. And he decided to off himself. I came home and saw him in our pool. He has drowned himself. This was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to deal with. After this I was spiraling into depression myself. Until I discovered hifi music. My buddy dragged me to some hifi music speaker building competition. Over there. There was tons of people into this hifi music. I myself listened to some expensive amplifier and fell in love. I ended up buying a $70,000 audio system. It’s brought me out of depression. I want to live now because I have a reason. To listen to music
Sorry this had to happen. Glad you found something to comfort you. I will try this hifi music. I hope i can find online. I ALWAYS feel my mother would be better off without me as a burden. I hope I don't but the thoughts are so tempting because anything is better than the lonely pain.
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Soon. I'm still waiting for the sign to end my life. All i need is the final nail in the coffin. I'm tired.
What
I thought that once my baby was born I would never face this thoughts again, tonight is one of those moments when I can’t find a reason to keep moving, I don’t want to kill myself but I don’t want to live neither.
Turn to Jesus ❤
Pray for those living in pain & sadness🙏
people don't know what to do...or say. I have reached out so many times and no one does anything. I am alone. I have no friends. I have no love. I am lonely. But it's just too late now. Just a question of time now...
helo ? are u ok ?
Suicide is never the answer. I lost my dad to suicide when I was 7 which caused my mother to drink herself to death, she passed when I was 12. I lost a friend of mine to suicide a few years later and it shatters the entire community. You are loved, never underestimate the positive impact you have on people, potentially people you don’t even know admire you. Stay in the fight, stay in the fight long enough to get a foothold because it will get better
Why it Always about family even if someone is in the state of dying still peole don't give a fuck to that man instead they care about what will happen with the family after the suicide . Its depressing enough to die.
I am so sorry
It doesn't "get better"
But I don't know how long I'll be able to stay in the fight.
Nobody cares thats it..
how can you be sure about that? tons of people cry over suicide victims because they didn't realize they were suicidal? that's why people are watching this video. Besides you shouldn't value your life on what people think should you?
Not true
I agree. No one cares. If people feel sad afterwards, it's much too late.
agree. Everyone thinks youre just sad
Very true
I disagree. Not everyone shows sign. My cousin hanged himself a day before his bday but months and weeks prior to that he was absolutely fine. No signs at all. He was someone that most feared because he's a confident man. So no, i totally disagree with this doctor at all.
I don’t ever feel like this. I just don’t care what people think. I fell depressed some days sure. But then I know there is tomorrow and just move on. I’ll read book, watch a movie, pray. Some days are good some days fell like sh+t. You don’t like me fine. I’m bad ok. So what I’m probably good at other things. Too much in my own head ok time to get out. Sitting on my all day, ok take a walk. I guess you just gotta keep moving, that’s just life. Down days just laugh at it. Good days appreciate it. By the way I’m Muslim so I think believing in purpose helps.
I don't have family my parents left me, I've been rejected all the times. And now the love of my life decided to broke up with me. Suicide it's not a selfish act it's the only way out. But don't do it if you have a people that loves you. I have nobody I'm qualified to do suicide.
If I killed myself. Nobody would know. I'm only hanging around because I'm hoping that one day soon, god helps me but he's got enough on his plate.
Wish I would come there and give u a hug Pauline from South Africa
I have no family or friends and I don't Wana live any more .. I'm a failure
Nuh uh, you’re not a failure
I understand how you feel friend, but don’t give up. I don’t know you, but I Love you. Stay strong and know that Jesus Truly Loves you. If you ever need to talk come to this comment and I’ll encourage you. 💜
suicidal people act ok. but when you least expect it, they’re gone. ive tried once and many times but i just cant leave my friends in pain. my family and school caused me to gain such poor mental health. please someone tell me how to fix this
My dear friend I really truly wish I could tell you how to fix it, however, at the end of the day, you have to choose what is right for yourself, it’s not selfish, myself, having lost my brother through suicide and my sister through suicide. My sister took her life the day before my birthday three years later I had a suicide attempt myself, I have always said that my brother and sister chose suicide to take away the pain and I accept the decision.
I have learnt to live with suicide thoughts. I’ve accepted that they are part of me and I have to live with them every single fking day and yes it’s a struggle although for some reason I just keep plodding on and putting up with the crap that goes on in my mind, I guess you must be like me still fighting and plodding on, life is cruel however, we must carry on my friend, why you may ask??? I don’t know the answer to that myself, we just must 🙌 you stay safe mate, keep your head above water every single day get up in the morning. Put your boxing gloves on and say let’s fucking have it. I wish you all the best and progress in your life my friend sending you virtual hugs, peace, love and strength from the UK 🇬🇧 always here friend 👍
@@thestrengthwithin4249 thank you
Today, my father's boss attempted suicide by taking 200 sleeping pills. He is declared clinically dead, and his brain stopped working completely but heart is working fine, doctors gave him 72 hours. He was in debt of 350 million dollars still after selling all his assets he would have at least 800 million dollars in hand. He didn't care about his 14 years old one and only daughter and his wife. He was in a great hurry to just leave all the things behind.
my life is going well now and I still think about ending it all the time
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I lost my brother he took his life and now a fighting and now one cares😢
Sucks having no one to turn to or anything
Don't ask "what's wrong" or "are you ok?"... instead, say "I can tell something is bothering you. When you're ready to talk about I would like to know."
I’m so very sad about the passing of someone dear and dear to everyoneomg he will be forever missed he was loved by everyone where I live were all heart broken loved and cherished forever gone before his time love you forever S you were the best you made a difference in our lifes❤❤❤❤❤❤
No one really believes or care, it's your choice,I have a plan
I don't undrstand why anyone would kill itself for whatever others think. Reason for me was what i thought about myself. This was the reason for depression, still is sometimes. When I see cowards and idiots it doesn't bother me. I recognize them instantly, and move on. When I realize that I act as one it does bother me. I wanted to off myself at one time, the last thing I wanted was attention. To do it in isolation was the plan. In case of body recovery accident should be assumed, so that relatives wouldn't know what happened. I come to think death is not the worst thing. The score has to be right thou. It never dies, and you won't be able to fix it, ever. It's all nothing against eternity, I know. That's why I didn't bother. I still respect people who do it. It's free will, cutting through bs. I would want them to be my friends. It can't happen is the irony.
@@AlwayysBeKindIam sorry for you
Look up determinism
Do it
this is the kind of encouragement I need ty
My family itself feels I am worthless, I am 26 yr old wanted to be an entrepreneur but failed society makes me feel that I am useless and good for nothing, ending my life seems the only way out of this rabbit hole
I can’t stay in touch with my family because they are other are the reason for a lot of pain in my life
Why it Always about family even if someone is in the state of dying still peole don't give a fuck to that man instead they care about what will happen with the family after the suicide . Its depressing enough to die.
You are Loved.
I feel relaxed and relief.
but what if i want to die. there’s so much pain. and there will be more. but i want one pain that would end all these pains.
suffering is an aspect of life that we'll just have to accept, I don't think it'll ever end tbh. But I do think that the grass is always greener on the other side. What you may be experiencing rn will eventually lead to you being stronger and at a better pace. You just have to push through, I know you can do it!
In reality there is no help.
Because no one cares
@BEACHDUDE71 some people do care truly but no one is powerful enough to help
I really wanted to end everything...because I am a very biggest disappointment of the people I love..I wish I could do better, I could do more. Their happiness are my happiness..I am not happy thats not why they are ,,we all are not happy...why is it so hard for me to be happy...
Warning sign is no women cares
"Theyre seeking attention"
Why would they want attention when they're already isolating themselves from everyone? Now that they're actually able to let their feelings out, people are just gonna say that?
Learn about mental health
Learn about mental health
I give no warnings
I almost committed suicide over low grades at school.
If it means anything to anyone I understand, and I struggle with the thoughts too not that it means I can help it’s just like I know what’s it’s like man. For people high and low for people who got nothing and maybe I can’t speak for people worse off than me but I just don’t judge anyone man I want my stomach to stop hurting I want to put down these bad habits and cycles I.. I’m sorry I shouldn’t have hurt anyone I’m not gonna quit but sometimes I can’t just “be happy” I’m grateful I really am but let me get through this once my stomach feels better I won’t be such a party pooper
Sometimes if someone says they going to do it. It’ll build up until they do commit suicide. Sometimes the pain is to much
I’m pathetic, stupid and weak.
What about my family even them no one can see what I feel.im so tired I'm so tired I'm just 22 years old and so many failed in my life I'm so tired
Suicide happens when someone dies that you have been friends with a long time
It Aldo happens when you are constantly getting sad whispers or even when you look at yourself with bloody eyes or a bloody smile whi changurro causes most of us to kill our selfs
And it happens with music too when you dont like it its creepy sad this will get it stuck in your head
For last people can Get suicide when not sleeping not eating even when not talking so if you have these problems i recomend telling a doctor or a grown up.
Well, if you try to commit suicide for attention it means you are crying out for help!
for me I just cant see my self in the future.
No one can.
I have a genetic disorder and I wanna die bc of it cause it's just not fair so many people given the healthy body and here I m constantly suffering
mom, I'm scared...
Wht hap
SOMEONE LOVES YOU. REMEMBER THAT.❤
That's not true
@@veronice_ronnie If no one loves you at least you could love someone.
I am a waste of space. Everyone I know will be better off without me around anymore. I have no hope for the future. I am nothing. I am nobody. I am tired.
I'm not watching this Not without reason, I'm watching this because I've been told that life is useless, so I'm planning it, what else is there to do with life if you've been told that it's useless?😊
Think bout it everyday then found out someone I know well just committed suicide and I wish I could swap places with him. All I hear from people is you have kids you can't do that but I am the one suffering here. Like my babies mum says the kids don't need you and want you so 🤷♂️
Big bro just push through! And focus on a positive end not a sad one! Don't let anyone tell your life story
@@GoatTalkUnlimitedInc. means a lot bro thank you! Finally getting therapy now and the right support and finally opened up and it’s helped so much!
Keep going bro!
When you have nothing or no one it's easy
I guess life just got me here at 23
Yep. Getting rid of possessions and sorting out so nothing is left to deal with is the hardest. Removingmpeople and distance was the easy. So people have no clue.
Sometimes there’s just nothing there! Nothing………
Some of us dont show any signs at all
when i heard "there's no hope for my future" i definitely hit myself several timess in the to not think that but god damn if i don't find anything it's true i would rather kill myself than to keep living
Thank you i needed goodbye 😢
I remember giving out signs of me wanting to kill myself to some people i trusted in. I remember when 6th grade started they walked by and ask how my summer vacation was and i told them in a joking tone oh nothing much just tried to kill myself 5 times this summer, and yeah rest is history so if there is someone you know whos not okay maybe talk to them if its one of your siblings or cousins or friends please help them out.
I'm 100% all in. All signs go.
I will
Please don't, professional help can help anyone, it just doesn't feel like it until you get into it
you will what?
hey you still here ? please don't, it will get better !
@@yodaguy6956Not all of us are financially able to seek profesional help
Sad thing i dont have family or friends
My family doesn't care
when i found out i was nothing then i was done
Learn about mental health
Many of us don’t have loved ones
I can't take it anymore 😭😭 only feel bad for my mum
Me: Raises hand, Sup.
Everyone: LMFAO
Me: blinks
Nothing will change I will be a number soon
Don't be silly. Virtual hugs friend ❤
@@mangotango01 life is endless suffering then death no reward, having free will and choosing to suffer till death is hilariously unimaginable miserably stupid. Choosing to end the suffering makes sense. At least it's lesser evil then the 2 options
@@sujitbhattacharjee435how are you gonna do it i need to do the same
You are a number lol
That's extremely brutal but actually true. Our lives are meaningless.
What is your loved ones are narcissists
Don’t understand that notion doing it for attention - the dice with death is self explanatory and powerful. Meaning they are aware of that risk , still try. Common sense , it’s not attention based, who ever came up with it decades ago is disgusting creating stigma.
Nobody care if I alive or die except my mom & she already dead
Keep living for her ❤
I have autism and I’ve been having thoughts about committing suicide like lost some family members and other thoughts are like trying to get my future life planned and figured out but with finding jobs and how the economy is it’s tough and just found out I’m about to lose my job by getting my position eliminated and I’ve been panicking on getting my life figured out and that might ruin my future plans but even though it’s short term also even though I did well in school and graduated by being honored as a salutatorian but struggling during how the economy is going especially looking to find jobs and I just feel like I’m done
Indian parents doesn't get it , telling from my experience
Same here
True
Mmm, I’m no longer married…and I don’t feel like that anymore.
Literally me
Yep…
I’m feeling this way now
im sorry to hear that. i know whats thats like too right now
Yall chill
I hope I won’t go to Hell for ending myself
@@unknownuser6757who said anything about that honestly the one who was to blame for that is God where was he when your life was going to shit he will only judge you or dislike you that's his job
I watched this video for no recent
Aku nonton ini karna gapunya harapan hidup dan punya hutang 10 juta
Im giving off all those signs right now. Welp, death just an escape
Yup I hear you
@@BEACHDUDE71you only he hear home when he is dead and all the other bullshit people like say it's a over used word to try and think they give a damn about it's all bullshit
@@vladimirmakarov334 it is
After watching this I feel very attacked, because one time I did make a suicide note... And put it on my dresser at the top... I then committed suicide with a blade that I found from across the room... And after trying to cut my wrist and realizing it's too blunt, I then lost all the adrenaline that put me in that moment.
I absolutely hate living. All my life it has been poverty, oppression, rejection, anger, and loneliness. Unfortunately Jesus Christ defeated death so there is no such thing as death, hence the reason why I can't kill myself, frustrating.....✝
When he said "clues"...I heard "Clothes"...and I was like that's okay, I will give my clothes...but to whom, I havent talked to anyone in months🤣🤣🤣Guess I will have to just leave my clothes around when I leave😏
Also I am too small and my clothes won't fit anyone. Plus they are old and cheap too. Guess people will have to do without my clothes.
I care I love you all so much I gave my Son to die for all of you place your last trust in me search your heart. For I know you Peter took his eyes off of me and begin to sink into the water Save me Lord ! He cried out. And I reached down and pulled him up as I will do for you.. ‘God’
People don't care
I have nothing left to live lol. But I still do so bc taxes when dying.
me watching this so I know what not to do:
im a fucking warning sign
I am thinking of ending my life what is the use of living my life in order to make fun of me Hahaha curse on me when I come to this miserable life
Wow
@@GoatTalkUnlimitedInc.Shut up