How to Get a Girl Obsessed With You: Stealth Seduction Game

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  4 года назад +82

    Attract and Keep the WOMEN you want using MBT Below!🔥
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    • @davoskrilla5330
      @davoskrilla5330 4 года назад +2

      I'm looking for an mentor

    • @fukkyooyoutube5654
      @fukkyooyoutube5654 4 года назад +3

      I can't get your ads to stop and it's driving me crazy. They even pop up when I watch your videos......not fun when I'm your target audience, if that makes any sense. I don't have a PC or laptop to watch your actual seminars or whatever. RUclips is a place I usually go to NOT to think about this stuff.

    • @noone-yf2xt
      @noone-yf2xt 4 года назад +3

      bro i'm the oposite of a tough guy when it comes to emotions, i cry so easily when it comes to women, i just care too much about having someone else to talk to or feel comfort, i've been single all my life, i don't have much friends but i've been told im handsome and a cool dude when people get to know me, but i'm always depressed, i feel alone in life, and everytime i care about a woman i lose her because i have to be what i'm not, i have to not care about her but i can't do that. What can i do to stop being like that? I don't want random women to chase me, i want the woman i love, and for what i see year after year thats not how it works, i feel like i'm doomed to never be happy in love because i have to fake who i am or how i feel for someone else..

    • @patrickhennessy8040
      @patrickhennessy8040 4 года назад +1

      This is true. All true

    • @militarygecko78
      @militarygecko78 4 года назад +1

      How to brainwash women into love, you have to be joking. This concept of love and life is not about brainwashing, as what I see it's about consensual honesty

  • @javiers9590
    @javiers9590 3 года назад +313

    "If a 105 pound little girl can hurt your feelings and make you that sad and make you cry, then we've got issues" - That is fucking genius.

    • @psycho-logical3756
      @psycho-logical3756 2 года назад +2

      oh and actually a little girl did hurt my feelings but i didnt cry and also she wasnt little she was just thin but yea said she was 22 it was in a bar i didnt cry til i left

    • @Greatagain2030
      @Greatagain2030 6 месяцев назад +2

      I still ask myself how we get here in this situation. Why do good men get treated like shit?

    • @oscargonza2748
      @oscargonza2748 5 месяцев назад +1

      The answer is in your own question, read it carefully, bruh

    • @colinandrew89
      @colinandrew89 4 месяца назад +1

      My little 100 pounder is finally wrangled in after a year of bs and lots of uncle c vids 🤣🤣🤣👍🫡

    • @miked9112
      @miked9112 2 месяца назад

      The only time I cry is when they mace me in the face

  • @eq55
    @eq55 4 года назад +1189

    My relationship began to fail as soon as I started loving her; the guy's totally right about lack of emotional competence.

    • @dontreadmyname4396
      @dontreadmyname4396 4 года назад +196

      so how the fuck can we be happy in a relationship if once we show love they go away?

    • @loverboimarko1405
      @loverboimarko1405 4 года назад +17

      Don't read my name - tuff love

    • @annax3349
      @annax3349 4 года назад +88

      maybe you just weren't right for each other? My boyfriend shows me a lot of affection and care and we have a great and healthy relationship.

    • @dontreadmyname4396
      @dontreadmyname4396 4 года назад +54

      @@annax3349 everytime i show affection and love, the girl starts treating me like "you are pushing it too far"

    • @eq55
      @eq55 4 года назад +44

      @@annax3349 I don't believe in "right for each other" or "destined to be" bullshit. We could've worked it out. We still could've been together if both parties worked more on themselves.

  • @randalhighben586
    @randalhighben586 4 года назад +1220

    My dude has HIS ads within his videos, talk about independence.

  • @BayOrca
    @BayOrca 4 года назад +324

    Best advices:
    -She can't hurt you
    -Iron purpose
    -Be completely insensitive/unemotional
    In order to do these:
    -You have nothing to lose

    • @ericyoumans2670
      @ericyoumans2670 3 года назад +12

      Be insensitive/unemotional? Are you a robot?

    • @cipryan96
      @cipryan96 3 года назад +9

      @@ericyoumans2670 only a real man can do it

    • @rakshakhingawe2851
      @rakshakhingawe2851 3 года назад +10

      @@ericyoumans2670 he's a man , kids are emotional ⚡

    • @christopherpeter9274
      @christopherpeter9274 2 года назад +1

      Or you have a lot to gain in other aspects of life.

    • @danielpaine6714
      @danielpaine6714 2 года назад

      # I am iron man! lol

  • @dustinlynne2697
    @dustinlynne2697 4 года назад +269

    Don’t be a slave to phone notifications

    • @rowdycowboy85
      @rowdycowboy85 3 года назад +6

      @@AlexAlcyone Unfortunately for some of us that means checking our phones all day. Emails, other messages, etc. It takes a lot to run a business and you gotta be accessible.

    • @africanwarlord5946
      @africanwarlord5946 3 года назад

      @@AlexAlcyone preach brother.

    • @EriPages
      @EriPages 4 месяца назад

      ​@@rowdycowboy85just have mental discipline

  • @lascaux4497
    @lascaux4497 4 года назад +459

    The world lacks sincere and genuine feelings anymore... It all becomes games and rules

    • @that_one_guy6243
      @that_one_guy6243 4 года назад +45

      Yeah sadly

    • @williamardell5077
      @williamardell5077 3 года назад +36

      We didn't start the fire, feminazis did!

    • @dairotimilehin3493
      @dairotimilehin3493 3 года назад +30

      it's always been like this

    • @koranflashy1
      @koranflashy1 3 года назад +15

      Abhishek Nayak yup.. but it all comes back
      On them.. hence why the divorce rate is at 50%... ridiculous

    • @Noah-qy5qx
      @Noah-qy5qx 3 года назад +5

      I think its more like emotion management

  • @lasfinezt
    @lasfinezt 4 года назад +492

    You’re absolutely right when you said that we have to get things back to the way they were in the past with women. We men are a huge part of why they act the way they do. I see so many guys rewarding women who did nothing to deserve being rewarded. All these dudes giving constant likes on photos to the women that pay them no mind. She’s looking at her phone while you are talking to her and you continue to talk and talk as if you have no respect for yourself. Some of you guys go out to bars/clubs and let the girl LEAD the whole interaction smh. Stop over validating and simping. I’m not saying you should be redpill but respect women and most of all respect yourself. I wish guys would stop fucking up the game for everyone lol

    • @serogapeterson8648
      @serogapeterson8648 4 года назад +6

      teach me

    • @victoriagoldnfoundvictoria9289
      @victoriagoldnfoundvictoria9289 4 года назад +8

      Yup I agree. Women are taught something amongst other women. It’s what they call the “use and abuse” tactic. You need to know which women are the ones who do this.

    • @wc3362
      @wc3362 4 года назад +16

      Nothing wrong with redpill. Such a movement will save many men, and teach them to better themselves, and learn female nature which most don't understand.

    • @coyharlingen
      @coyharlingen 4 года назад +9

      You’re absolutely right when you said that we have to get things back to the way they were in the past with men. We women are a huge part of why they act the way they do. I see so many women rewarding men who did nothing to deserve being rewarded. All these chicks giving constant likes on photos to the men that pay them no mind. He’s looking at his phone while you are talking to him and you continue to talk and talk as if you have no respect for yourself. Some of you women go out to bars/clubs and let the men LEAD the whole interaction smh. Stop over validating and simping. I’m not saying you should be redpill but respect men and most of all respect yourself. I wish women would stop fucking up the game for everyone lol
      Holy crap, the way this make sense even when the genders are swapped. Im blown away.

    • @onuohaudeagha1255
      @onuohaudeagha1255 3 года назад +2

      You're so right

  • @DarkBrotherhoodMurderer
    @DarkBrotherhoodMurderer 4 года назад +451

    Two words to sum up this long video:
    stop caring

    • @leviporter480
      @leviporter480 4 года назад +65

      No. Focus on your purpose, and the woman instantly becomes number #2 in your life. Now she is fighting for your attention.

    • @H808Beats
      @H808Beats 3 года назад +5

      @@leviporter480 Actually that was exactly the reason she broke up with me.. (at least thats what she said)

    • @leviporter480
      @leviporter480 3 года назад +40

      @@H808Beats a woman that leaves you because she can’t let you work on your purpose is usually vacillating, or is overly needy. You don’t want that.

    • @8man3
      @8man3 3 года назад +27

      @@leviporter480 facts 💯 High value women will supports you, not leave u.

    • @V4ultr3mTV
      @V4ultr3mTV 3 года назад +7

      @@leviporter480 FACTS FACTS AND FACTS!!!!

  • @dong5097
    @dong5097 4 года назад +451

    My biggest problem is being anxious and emotional. Now i Am starting my habits: more cold showers, more books, more exercises💪

    • @S18-i6g
      @S18-i6g 4 года назад +12

      Keep at it! 💪 💯

    • @dong5097
      @dong5097 4 года назад +9

      @@S18-i6g Yes sir. We gotta dominate this lockdown !

    • @S18-i6g
      @S18-i6g 4 года назад +14

      @@dong5097 when the Lockdown over we're gonna be a whole different brewed man!

    • @madmonster3812
      @madmonster3812 4 года назад +2

      @@S18-i6g LETS GO!!

    • @creepy_assassin6234
      @creepy_assassin6234 4 года назад

      Any of you got any social groups?

  • @meme-zv7kw
    @meme-zv7kw Год назад +17

    This just happened to me I learned a valuable lesson.
    1. Never tolerate disrespect even little fuckery
    2. Never get too attached
    3. Set the boundaries in the beginning and walk away without going back and forth
    4. If you are getting emotional walk away for a couple days
    5. Create competition anxiety make always compete let her know you have options

    • @Sayed-du9px
      @Sayed-du9px Год назад

      How the f u make her compete . Its not just easy for any man to get other womans follow him 😂😂😂😂

    • @Imran01123
      @Imran01123 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@Sayed-du9px Create an illusion that you have options beside her

  • @teonkaylonjarvis6374
    @teonkaylonjarvis6374 4 года назад +82

    "Makes you feel higher value when you actually are higher value"🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 words of an alpha male.

  • @plammenn888
    @plammenn888 4 года назад +372

    "Your job as a man is to become rational and dominant 24/7!"

    • @victoriagoldnfoundvictoria9289
      @victoriagoldnfoundvictoria9289 4 года назад +5

      WRONG WRONG WRONG. Latinos already did this one. It’s called the Machismo tactic. Now Latin women have rebelled. There are so many cultures who have already done all of these tactics. Observe and learn so you don’t repeat the same mistakes. SMH.

    • @breatheeasily4013
      @breatheeasily4013 4 года назад +12

      @@victoriagoldnfoundvictoria9289 Seems like you want to be dominated 😎

    • @victoriagoldnfoundvictoria9289
      @victoriagoldnfoundvictoria9289 4 года назад +6

      Breathe Easily I can already tell that you’re not single by choice. 🤐

    • @breatheeasily4013
      @breatheeasily4013 4 года назад +3

      @@victoriagoldnfoundvictoria9289 I have been wanted by attractive women before, I just decided not to go with it. I'm single by choice, baby.

    • @plammenn888
      @plammenn888 4 года назад +2

      ​@@victoriagoldnfoundvictoria9289 I get a feeling that you are seeing this as some type of ''cocky'' or narcissistic type of demeanor. What Casey is referring to here is the basic nature of the male which is ultimately consisting of being highly focused on his purpose and leaving all the emotions to his female companion.
      And the case of matter discussed here is beyond techniques and tactics, of course, plenty of them are shared in his videos but only as guidelines to tapping into a man's true nature.
      It is beyond thought and beyond perception it just is that is what we should be as men, not to harm but to build longlasting - relationships, businesses, communities and so on.
      It is not an easy job, considering all of the responsibilities coming with it- rational and dominant- is the only choice a successful man has!

  • @harooncaptures9826
    @harooncaptures9826 4 года назад +245

    Dude you have a god given ability to explain and breakdown. I can’t imagine what kind of essay writing abilities you have

    • @NikkiBudders
      @NikkiBudders 4 года назад +9

      please for the love of god dont trust this guy's advice if you ever want a healthy relationship

    • @payple2222
      @payple2222 4 года назад +28

      @@NikkiBudders this is just a piece of the puzzle. From how I see it is that this is how to act masculine and keep the interest. Understanding a bit of game and female nature is good or not? Of course don't act as someone you're not. Get your own shit together before considering getting a partner. This video is how to hold the interest. That's how I see it

    • @elastronaute1198
      @elastronaute1198 4 года назад +3

      @@NikkiBudders lol

    • @joshspiker
      @joshspiker Год назад

      Some people are better talkers than writers. I would imagine Casey doesn't write as well as he speaks. It's rare to find someone who can do both well.

  • @walterdadon3706
    @walterdadon3706 4 года назад +999

    This video is godlike.

    • @aakash950
      @aakash950 4 года назад +8

      i bet you are single

    • @dustinlynne2697
      @dustinlynne2697 4 года назад +20

      Aakash Mash which is better... lol

    • @thefakeserenity_3247
      @thefakeserenity_3247 4 года назад +4

      69 likes ;)

    • @cyrizzle25
      @cyrizzle25 4 года назад +5

      On God.

    • @dustinlynne2697
      @dustinlynne2697 4 года назад +16

      yugen dran because this guy gives some really good advice. I already do really well with the ladies. It’s not a bad idea to sharpen a pencil if you want to write.

  • @warriorspikes51
    @warriorspikes51 3 года назад +29

    This should be mandatory for all men growing up. What a gift

  • @finboy818
    @finboy818 4 года назад +52

    100% agree that women feel no remorse along the other things you said (from lots of personal experience). I want to give my love to someone but this day and age its close to impossible. I'm tired of games I have to play to get and keep them. I honestly don't feel like living on this earth anymore.

    • @gelatoruntz4200
      @gelatoruntz4200 4 года назад +1

      simp

    • @finboy818
      @finboy818 4 года назад +7

      ​@@gelatoruntz4200 I'm sorry do you consider yourself enjoying playing those games women have set out. No one said I didn't play those games too, point is Im just tired to play. And I get it you got this attitude, its helpful, but don't lie to yourself like you wouldn't like to show women some weaknesses and insecurities and still feel loved.

    • @gelatoruntz4200
      @gelatoruntz4200 4 года назад

      finboy818 can u explain how a conversation is going great between u & this girl u have shit in common but apparently she hasn’t asked u what u look like what does that mean

    • @howardroark3670
      @howardroark3670 4 месяца назад

      You want to kill yourself because of women? You got some serious issues my man. Sad.

  • @basbym
    @basbym 2 года назад +17

    I hope one day you realise you can show your emotions to women. That you can be your true self, not some deadbeat emotionally unavailable version of yourself to get people to like you. Become cool by living a cool life... then people just find themselves attracted to you naturally... Give love, be kind and don't expect anything in return. We as men have this incredible gift to give. Dont withold your true self from the world. Do what you want to do, say what you want to say, feel what you want to feel and share that sicerely. The people that will like you for who you are, are the only people you should want in your life anyways. Don't even try to get people to like you, don't even try not to try. Be yourself, be kind to the people around you, be honest and loving to the people close to you that deserve your love. Stop playing games... Thats how you grow up to be a real man.
    Goodluck to anyone who took the time to to read this, you'll be ok ✌🏼

  • @Jacob-ww7km
    @Jacob-ww7km 4 года назад +49

    Pretty accurate, I was doing this all subconsciously without knowing and wondering why this girl was so attracted to me lol. Thanks for the advice my man 💯

  • @elbakara
    @elbakara 4 года назад +33

    This video is beautiful! Everything that Casey said is 1000% correct. I know because I do everything that is spoken about in the video. I was fortunate enough to get all of these lessons from my dad early in my life starting at about 7 years of age.

  • @1shot4life
    @1shot4life 7 месяцев назад +1

    Compared to your present videos we can say Its unbelievable how much you changed positively in 3 years. Dude what the fuck. You became a whole different man. Respect

  • @Encourageable
    @Encourageable 4 года назад +11

    Ultimately this entire video boils down to two things 1) self confidence 2) take it or leave it attitude. I would add one thing - every now and again you have to blow a girl off. You have to make plans to do something and then at the last minute tell her you have to cancel. Don’t be overly apologetic - just say something came up with a buddy and you ARE going to have to cancel. Don’t make it a “work” issue - it has to be that you are giving priority to another person - not work. You have to do this infrequently and not maliciously. Don’t feel bad when you do it - what you are doing is forcing her to understand that not everything is going to go her way.

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery 20 дней назад +1

    *The idea of being genuine while also creating an air of allure is key to building that obsession.*

  • @Fjerid
    @Fjerid 4 года назад +26

    So basically, be emotionally dull and keep at it while being busy all the time. She will try new things and keep her wondering what will bring down your emotional competence.

    • @travis6694
      @travis6694 3 года назад +1

      The ones you want to keep around are the ones that stop the shit test after a little while. If they continue it non stop them they are a lost cause, because they embrace masculine energy and they won’t change that.

    • @robbieakroman2448
      @robbieakroman2448 2 года назад

      You can be emotional but you can't be feminine.

  • @angstvision7108
    @angstvision7108 4 года назад +27

    I like the "women feel no remorse" part lol. Spot on.

    • @reflectioninthesnow7953
      @reflectioninthesnow7953 Год назад

      I have always said and this is a direct quote from me, not something I read or heard somewhere " women are not MAGNANIMOUS, when you are in the hole they shove you deeper down". Their response is that you are weak and needy and it creates insecurity inside of them

  • @tiffanyw2557
    @tiffanyw2557 4 года назад +7

    Perfect video for my son, no jealousy player games. Just focus on his career, keep busy & social, then be a rock & present for her during HER time given. No begging her, no falling for her phone blowing up, BS. JUST BE MASCULINE AND CHILL.

  • @Arribalasierra
    @Arribalasierra Год назад +18

    0:42 You lack of emotional competence will win her heart. Masculine drive and ambition are key. Men get sucked into love narrative and match relationship vibe.
    2:40 what you feel is irrelevant, choose this to win.
    3:07 She can't hurt you, this is key. Have the mindset that women are smaller and cannot hurt you physically or mentally.
    4:00 The more vulnerable you are, the less in love she will be. Men become vulnerable to match womens' to then display intimacy. Loves you less because she can hurt you. Sees you as weak.
    4:39 Being almost emotionally dull can be helpful so that you can screen her. Tests don't phase you and you can think more rationally. Consider what she brings to the table. Don't throw yourself willy nilly.
    5:12 Tests and games have to go over your head. It's almost like when she tries to move you off center when she tries to screw with you. You're not even in the mindset to use any sort of emotional competence to care. Letting your buttons get pushed is not an attractive trait.
    - Don't care if other dudes hit her up on any social media platform. It's her job to figure out if YOU have other people. Just don't care bro. You're a G.
    6:45 As a man you have to remain, you have to remain rational and dominant 24/7, attraction goes down when you go into opposite frame.
    Women feel no remorse for your pain. Women give no sympathy to weak men ever.
    8:13 when she starts to realize you can flirt you can tease without wondering who else is doing it with her to her at that time, you guys will start to build some sort of bond. She may think that this guy just gets me, super not needy to lock her down because he's not in a scarcity mindset, or maybe he has other things going for him. Keep your calendars booked. Pursue passions so you don't even realize til later because your busy. Makes you look more higher value.
    9:10 Your job is to build this bond and continue it without necessarily desiring or fishing for commitment. If you can do this, this is going to put you in probably the top 5% of all men. If you fall in love and show vulnerability, she will amp up pushing your buttons and cause you pain.
    9:58 As her emotions heighten you stay neutral. When she asks about advancing the relationship, stay neutral. Say you want to take things slow or that you're not going anywhere. Remain indifferent. You like her, but you're not in a rush. Being present will set you up for the win, because your next move will always keep her guessing. She will invest more to get your emotional competence up. The next move that keeps her guessing will heighten her emotions.
    11:13 As you bond, your job is to stay present in the interaction at all times regardless of the outcome. Most men get dependent on outcome the more time they spend with women. Your job is to say that you should chill now and take it slow. Do you plan on dying any time soon Kayla? In that relaxed mode, you are remaining masculine. When she sees that you're not focused on locking her down, this is going to heighten her attraction even more.
    12:28 Stay focused on your iron purpose. Women will try to make you stray, but when you have an interesting life in all aspects, women can accompany your life so much easier.
    13:02 You're never moved all balance. Don't be anxious if she goes out with her friends. You da man baby. Her job is to lock down the big bad wolf (you)
    13:27 You have to be that one that she's trying to lock down, the big bad wolf, in order for her to want to be the soft, sweet girl to you. It's polarity and energy, it's masculine versus feminine. She's also fighting for your time at this point, and why wouldn't she? You have to remember, it's biologically hardwired in a woman to be more relationship committed or relationship focused than a man. And the reason for that is because as she peaks in age, she's going to want to lock somebody down. Women naturally want security and safety. Through all this she will be wondering where things are going.
    14:25 by looking beyond a woman's physical beauty and qualifying her based on other qualities that she brings to the table, she will work harder to maintain your interest, resulting in successful seduction. This approach is described as "absolute stealth seduction."
    if men embrace their true masculinity and live their lives with purpose and abundance, women will naturally fall into the category of being sweet, soft, and submissive. Solid video man!

    • @yeshva
      @yeshva Год назад +1

      these notes >>>

    • @BEATmyguest31
      @BEATmyguest31 11 месяцев назад

      So basically: lie your way to locking a girl down? Got it

  • @Tnave14
    @Tnave14 4 года назад +27

    In layman's terms, playing hard to get is a lethal tool in seduction.

    • @wuhu0
      @wuhu0 4 года назад +8

      More like being hard to get. Playing hard to get doesn't work if you're hard to want. If you're hard to get it has to be for a reason. Because you're valuable. You know those people that act like they're important but are just annoying, that's playing hard to get. Be valuable so that you are hard to get anyway.

    • @katekelly8528
      @katekelly8528 3 года назад

      Wow hackermartin60 just got my account that has been hacked and I logged in with only 😁😁😁

  • @thomasthegreat2186
    @thomasthegreat2186 4 года назад +39

    Or just focus on your purpose and GOALS and you will simply “link up” with the girl who is right for you.

    • @aydave2887
      @aydave2887 4 года назад +4

      Tell that to the bad boys that girls die for
      The good girls are right for the bad boy right?
      Naah man
      The world doesn't work the way you want it

    • @aquafit5361
      @aquafit5361 3 года назад +4

      @@aydave2887 lol thats not whats he meant bad boys attract girls that have low self isteem

  • @orionp.9476
    @orionp.9476 4 года назад +14

    This video is godlike? No that's an understatement. This video, (and I'm saying this as someone with more than a decade of experience coaching and being with some insanely expert coaches of marketing & dating I will tell you): THIS MAN has dropped some of the most quintessential-insanely valuable pieces of information, particularly the emphasis in the black text pauses he did.
    This alone changes the game to unimaginable if you start practicing what he's preaching. As harsh as it sounded, do NOT take it if women test you or kick you when you're down it's NOT personal. Women aren't trying to fuck you up, it's just some phenomenon that women are also victims of doing that can't be explained but see it robotically, it's okay. Just learn the game, play around it. Like Casey is showing, and so many from Owen Cook to Jason Capital (back when he did coaching) and many more.

  • @coreyamerson2926
    @coreyamerson2926 Год назад +3

    This man is so beyond his years. HES GOD SENT.

  • @LiGHTProductions
    @LiGHTProductions 2 года назад +39

    Pro tip: don't bother. It's not worth it. Just focus on you and your goals. Strive to be better everyday and trust me that you will feel better and better. Don't make your lives revolving around women, because you will be digging your own tomb.

  • @oliverbiss2747
    @oliverbiss2747 3 года назад +25

    I'm almost crying 😭 how on point this video is I did everything wrong for two years

    • @garyjames628
      @garyjames628 3 года назад +2

      Let's hold each other's beer.
      👊

    • @Edward-xd1td
      @Edward-xd1td 8 месяцев назад

      Yeah I did everything wrong for about a month but no more

  • @JeffreyGillespie
    @JeffreyGillespie 4 года назад +25

    VERY compelling approach and unlike anything I have come across in years of studying relationship strategy.

  • @lordmatthewanunnahybrid1356
    @lordmatthewanunnahybrid1356 4 года назад +5

    Bro you are a beast. Zero hesitation zero hiccups. You live it and own it.

  • @Findingheavenonearth
    @Findingheavenonearth 4 года назад +7

    The other option is to just do all the self work and healing necessary to be okay being alone and you will naturally do everything mentioned in this video. If you are self aware, are conscious, and have done the work to heal personal traumas you will not be desperate for a women to "fill the void" because you wont have one. You will be spending your time with her asking "is she what I want". That strength will attract healthy people. Healthy people can make long term work with other healthy people.
    Or you can just be manipulative and pretend you don't care and be completely inauthentic only to win the girl and begin relationship with a trauma bond and have it explode somewhere down the line :)
    Authenticity is key. All the things mentioned in this video will work, but if it isn't happening authentically its because you are not okay being alone and the relationship will never work long term.

  • @Jacob-ww7km
    @Jacob-ww7km 4 года назад +60

    MEN ARE EVOLVING!! Good luck to my other males in this world! Remember you are KINGS 👑

    • @dgbd9030
      @dgbd9030 4 года назад

      thx. never was called king haha

    • @victoriagoldnfoundvictoria9289
      @victoriagoldnfoundvictoria9289 4 года назад

      Hahahahhaa evolving?????? Latinos already evolved to this my friends. They’re the creators of these so call “new tactics” you all talk about. It didn’t work well for them. Latinas are rebelling and trust me it’s not a sight to see. Observe their machismo mistakes and don’t make the same mistakes.

    • @wc3362
      @wc3362 4 года назад

      @@victoriagoldnfoundvictoria9289 That's a pretty big assumption. How many men have to dated and learned this from? You just generalized millions...Lol.

    • @victoriagoldnfoundvictoria9289
      @victoriagoldnfoundvictoria9289 4 года назад

      Shin Dynamo X hahaha if you must know, I grew up with 9 tios, 50 male cousins and my whole family has been challenging this concept. My dad use to be machismo and changed. He even admits all the machismo culture. It’s the culture of it that I’m challenging. Lastly, I’m a date coach and 99% of my clients are men.

    • @victoriagoldnfoundvictoria9289
      @victoriagoldnfoundvictoria9289 4 года назад

      Shin Dynamo X thank you for your curiosity tho

  • @parkerjr7205
    @parkerjr7205 4 года назад +81

    6:00 I met up with the girl that I currently like and she asked me to drive her car where we were going that day ,while driving and talking in her car I noticed her phone was blowing up . I never said anything about it I let it blow right over me and never mentioned it think I did good . After that day she started to text me way more often and even texts me first about random shit lol

    • @RiZeLegiT
      @RiZeLegiT 4 года назад +24

      She belong to the streets rn dawg, maybe you can change her

    • @elfenomeno320
      @elfenomeno320 4 года назад +5

      LegiT lmao redpilled

    • @elfenomeno320
      @elfenomeno320 4 года назад +2

      R Cruz when u think like that, then u are chasing. Don’t chase them. It’s not worth it

    • @Growext
      @Growext 2 года назад

      If she asked you to drive her car that means she most likely already views you as a leader. When I’m with a girl, whether it’s a first date, or a long term gf, I always ALWAYS drive the car. Hers, mine or other, I always drive

  • @waldoisdead3507
    @waldoisdead3507 4 года назад +96

    She can't hurt me, unless she puts physicall hands on me.

  • @ehiggins360
    @ehiggins360 4 года назад +25

    I caught your text message at about 9:35 and I agree - it sucks that romantic relationships have gotten to this point, but that’s how it is. Can’t complain or cry. We can only understand and do what it takes to succeed. I recently lost “the one” because I didn’t know this shít. Thanks Uncle C, for dropping science on all of us that weren’t knowing. Love your work, great job brother.

    • @venom5610
      @venom5610 4 года назад +2

      The one lol gtfo

  • @milanvujcich
    @milanvujcich 4 года назад +7

    Good video man. I like it how you lay everything out on the whiteboard before explaining it all. Makes it so much easier to stay focussed

  • @bobsebring3377
    @bobsebring3377 2 года назад +2

    Your an amazing young man. Such a mature understanding on male female relationships. Thank you for giving your insight into this. We men have lost our way over time and we need to get back our true masculine selves again.

  • @danielpaine6714
    @danielpaine6714 2 года назад +3

    this guy is so on point.. these are the things that go thought my head good to hear it from someone else.. keep up the good work

  • @dhawals502
    @dhawals502 3 года назад +3

    Your No remorse point in mid of video gave me so much clarity and again the beauty and the beast analogy. Awesome. Thanks!

  • @jessicabutterfly8598
    @jessicabutterfly8598 3 года назад +20

    Just a woman who enjoys learning, and I just wanna say you are so right on soooo much of this. Getting married early in life stubbed up a lot of my thoughts and emotions and i never evolved. Then dating after was crazy. Seems as I was already in my 30s already knew what I wanted and yet felt the crazy yoyo of the dating life. it only concreated when I was ok no this is my life and I run it. then with out realizing it my life had become so much more meaningful. Being told a hard female is unattractive trait is disheartening but real men see why she's hard and lets her heal with his steady non emotional company. eventually her heart will cave just because you took a little time you had and gave it to her.

  • @christophertaylor6082
    @christophertaylor6082 4 года назад +5

    This guy’s presentation is Weapons Grade ! & he’s stacked like a G! , quality.

  • @taterater1052
    @taterater1052 4 года назад +3

    Very good video. I became very powerful when I realized I can become powerful and went on a path to college and work

  • @CertifiedAmen
    @CertifiedAmen 4 года назад +3

    Amazing this video changed my entire perspective, i hope more men especially broken and lost men in the dating world find this video because they forget THEY ARE MEN, its a shame, thank you its amazing how you can come up with these tactics and ideas

  • @VooDooMaGicMan81
    @VooDooMaGicMan81 4 года назад +25

    All of the hierarchical 'game' only works on women if you're good looking or physically imposing. They know an average guy is just that, no matter what mind games you try to pull.
    What you forget is that girls are most influenced by their friends opinions and how they are doing in terms of relationships.
    This stuff will work for the initial stage, no doubt.

    • @ianbanares7386
      @ianbanares7386 3 года назад +2

      It's easy to become above average tho, especially now.
      But I get your point

    • @kirillpavlovskii8342
      @kirillpavlovskii8342 3 года назад

      @@ianbanares7386 what would be your strategy tho?

  • @darks1de.
    @darks1de. 3 года назад +5

    I learned more in this one video than I did in the entirety of school

  • @eugene5987
    @eugene5987 4 года назад +5

    in this quarantine, you’re one of the first people to have me hyped to live life again, I might change everything around because you’re just an inspiration to me, thanks my guy

    • @bigsexii4999
      @bigsexii4999 4 года назад

      If you want to get more hyped, Alpha Male Strategies and Stephiscold are your path

  • @antheusmain
    @antheusmain 4 года назад +6

    I confessed to a girl in my class that I liked about a year now. She was dropping hints in me so I would finally tell her. I acted liked I didn't saw or understood those hints and when I told her I liked her she thought I wouldn't like her back. So be stealth boyz. That's a life lesson

    • @katekelly8528
      @katekelly8528 3 года назад

      Wow hackermartin60 just got my account that has been hacked and I logged in with only 😁😁😁

  • @dong5097
    @dong5097 4 года назад +31

    Brother you convinced me with your videos. I'll start again with NoFap and semen retention : 16th april 2020 last day of relapse. I Am gonna change i promise 🙏

    • @salarabdollahi5247
      @salarabdollahi5247 4 года назад +3

      Giulio Anselmi so how it went?

    • @raihn5252
      @raihn5252 4 года назад +1

      Giulio Anselmi hey bro!! relapsed a ton of times!!! i'm starting again today!!! how's your streak going?!

    • @dong5097
      @dong5097 4 года назад +2

      Hey guys ! Keeping pushing. It is Hard but we can't quit👌

    • @pavelberov2593
      @pavelberov2593 4 года назад +4

      yeah man im 14 days into semen retention and its really easy for now but i dont even know how long i want to do this for

    • @V4ultr3mTV
      @V4ultr3mTV 4 года назад +5

      @@pavelberov2593 don't put a date on it, keep going day by day!! Putting a date on how long you're going or when you'll stop will likely make you want to relapse.
      Just keep your mind on day to day tasks, and stay busy.

  • @sebastian3112
    @sebastian3112 3 года назад +1

    I think this is the best vid of Uncle C to keep you on track; he breaks down how to be your best self n’ happy and get her to like you at the same time and live a fulfilling life

  • @benjaminhernes
    @benjaminhernes 2 года назад +3

    Straight. Damn. Facts. I have had the best results ever taking your advice ahahah. Couldn’t have been more helpful. Thank you.

  • @jibrilkateregga5408
    @jibrilkateregga5408 2 года назад

    I have no idea how I found this channel. It is all worth it.

  • @derek9465
    @derek9465 4 года назад +18

    Casey- normally I have a great amount of respect for your message because you consistently advise men to achieve their own deserving, through various ways.
    This video is not of the same quality. It is about manipulating subconscious insecurities. It sounds like it’s dipping a toe into all of the game/trick bullshit that most people spit. What’s the prize for manipulating subconscious insecurities? An unconscious woman.

    • @payple2222
      @payple2222 4 года назад +1

      I don't understand. From what I understand is that he tells how to act more masculine and stop "simping" by telling us how. It's true that this is game/trick but in an other video he said that you'll also need to know a little bit of game and female nature to truly become an alpha male. I think this video is also only a puzzle piece to the whole thing. Focus mainly on yourself but also learn a bit of game and female nature. Otherwise you are just acting as some who you not are. Am I right?

  • @macmillanmuswerakuenda342
    @macmillanmuswerakuenda342 4 года назад +15

    he sounds like a modern Rocky Balboa..Dude too chilled

  • @AlbertoLopez-il9ff
    @AlbertoLopez-il9ff 4 года назад +34

    My dudes I agree with all this it is amazing advice; But, regardless of how alpha you act if this girl does not have a well structured upbringing from her father and a good relationship with God then she will act according to her nature every day all day. This isnt me preaching it is science based. Psychology shows that beliefs are the main driving force in people's actions and character . This forms a double bond. As you carry yourself out as a man (As shown in this video) she will bind to you (Bond 1), but if she also has a bond with God (Bond 2) then whenever you are not around, whenever a more alpha male approches her or whenever she starts getting validation from simps, then her spiritual obligation to God will keep her from following her instinctive nature.

    • @22burst2020ddsspec
      @22burst2020ddsspec 4 года назад +7

      Really interesting point. Because I'm a christian and at a point in my life where I'm trying to navigate my direction and I've learned first hand that this 1% man stuff is true but have been wondering how this fits in with christian girls. I think what you just said correlates with my thoughts being that the christian girl learns to overcome her hard wiring or carnal behaviour in the same way that a christian guy overrides his lust or sexual desires to truely assess a girl outside of her physical appearance.

  • @antonreyneke6191
    @antonreyneke6191 3 года назад +1

    This dude is wise beyond his years,there are however woman out there who are balanced and functional enough,that you don't need the above advice,but they are far and few between

  • @chebz1136
    @chebz1136 4 года назад +3

    Basically have an attitude of '' I'm on my grind, come along if you want ''

  • @kevincampos1919
    @kevincampos1919 3 года назад

    Respect for laying the truth out there that women have no remorse.

  • @abderwahed
    @abderwahed 4 года назад +3

    Daaaaaayum bruuuh you resumed all what I've been learning since months in JUST ONE VIDEO wtf dude what have I been missing it's awesome!!!! 💯

  • @alessiogera6642
    @alessiogera6642 4 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for giving this information for free and not like the other scammers in the internet asking for money and giving crap information

  • @drleo6409
    @drleo6409 3 года назад +3

    My wife does not care. I allowed her to hurt me. Now knowing that, I do not care enough to be hurt by her. It is next to impossible to love a woman or anyone that hurts you when they have the opportunity . Now I give less to her and more to myself . We both seem happier.

  • @StevenAcunaBG05
    @StevenAcunaBG05 4 года назад +1

    This is probably the single best video I've seen in the subject. I have been worrying too much about how/when to escalate, frame control, shit tests. All those topics are important. At the end of the day, If I can convey I am a high value man and I can have her obsessed with me. She will be the one escalating on me. She will throw really easy shit tests to pass, and she will make all the moves.

  • @tiklyspade5065
    @tiklyspade5065 4 года назад +13

    Once I messed up with this girl I really liked and I am certain it happened because I showed her how she can hurt me

  • @patrickmaguire9784
    @patrickmaguire9784 2 года назад +1

    Most Women have no remorse ......Solid Gold Content

  • @aftab_chandio
    @aftab_chandio 4 года назад +10

    You've activated my beast mode.

    • @katekelly8528
      @katekelly8528 3 года назад

      Wow hackermartin60 just got my account that has been hacked and I logged in with only 😁😁😁

  • @JL-tn1kv
    @JL-tn1kv 3 года назад +1

    Hands down one of my favorite videos on this channel.

  • @sthoughtsarchive2791
    @sthoughtsarchive2791 4 года назад +3

    I fucking love this dude lmao. Exactly my thoughts
    IDGAF FRAME = low emotional investment/low energy investment + high congruency

  • @zachmerrill807
    @zachmerrill807 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for this, i can see why people see this as a negative out look. But this is just reality and im glad you can help people like me.

  • @berzerkfury1459
    @berzerkfury1459 4 года назад +6

    Most people these days are Narcassists due to abuse at a young age, Narcassists despise weakness and the moment you show it they believe they are greater then you. So either weed out the narcs or just be an emotionless robot.
    I think about 10% of girls are still genuine these days btw they are not online either.

  • @alliseeisW
    @alliseeisW 3 года назад +1

    Be bold, focus on your purpose, and you'll become the magnet.

  • @stellarguymk
    @stellarguymk 3 года назад +3

    Imma have to watch this video every other day for the foreseeable future to keep myself on the right mindwave

  • @ytsur549
    @ytsur549 4 года назад +2

    Wow. Going through a divorce with a woman that knows my buttons.
    I really needed this video. Thanks bud

  • @Aspire_KD
    @Aspire_KD 4 года назад +6

    my emotional competence was here throughtout the video even thought i got knocked out within 1 second of clicking play

  • @delaware12pwner
    @delaware12pwner 2 года назад +1

    You got a lifetime subscriber and a video follower for the rest of life. Dont stop making videos sir!! God bless

  • @palicso98
    @palicso98 4 года назад +6

    Short and straight to the point as usual. Great work

  • @kevdeboss1
    @kevdeboss1 2 года назад +1

    I truly appreciate the real conversation examples in your videos. i.e “youre not going anywhere im not going anywhere lets have fun rn”

  • @leoito7228
    @leoito7228 4 года назад +9

    Daamn!! That’s so much true man!! You just said the real thing!! That’s exactly how women mind goes!! Your videos are amazing man!!!

  • @alexandrodisla6285
    @alexandrodisla6285 3 года назад +1

    Imagine Being everyone Uncle at that age. My man, you are helping me a lot.

  • @DannyPluto.
    @DannyPluto. 4 года назад +3

    This is art at a masterful level

  • @Queen-rz1hu
    @Queen-rz1hu 3 года назад +2

    as a woman I use this all the time when it comes to men before i even watch this video trust me it works.

  • @GibranEscobell
    @GibranEscobell 2 года назад +11

    As a guy who can pull the hot chick I can say this, he is totally right, the less emotional you get the more they will chase and stick around. I meditate 4 hours a day so my emotions are in check, I even put these girls to meditate with me no joke. If they leave I am happy regardless , meditation gives me much more stable happiness than anything else so it is easy to stay chill. Maybe for you it is your purposes the keeps you relaxed for me it is meditation.

  • @noisyether9211
    @noisyether9211 3 года назад

    One of the baddest video bro.Super needed. Ive been trying to get my girl back. I cant wait to go out with her again Whole new Beast.

  • @damionryancollins9010
    @damionryancollins9010 4 года назад +24

    Casey,
    Your video is well intended but completely off base as to how we should be educating men to find relationships. As someone who has studied social psychology, developed Social and Emotional learning curriculum and have many deep connections with women, I find your stereotyping, gender roles and box thinking counterproductive.
    Guys, if you really want to win a women's heart, be autonomous, have boundaries, set your standards high, be fun, be mysterious, yes - but don't think that a women can't be stronger than you or value your emotional competency. We need more men who are emotionally competent so we don't keep making the same mistakes that we have in the future. It is hyper masculinity that builds cities but also that drives wars.
    Find a middle ground that feels comfortable for you and know that YOU ARE MAN ENOUGH. Empower women to be whoever they want to be in this world and love them fully without holding back. If you have to do all of these "techniques" to win a women's heart, it will eventually take up too much energy and your relationship will fail. Just work on yourself and the right women will come into your life.
    Damion

    • @notaprogrammer7970
      @notaprogrammer7970 4 года назад +4

      BETA!

    • @notaprogrammer7970
      @notaprogrammer7970 4 года назад

      I CAN'T WAIT UNTIL SHTF SO I CAN TAKE ALL YOUR STUFF!

    • @Alex-yz8gm
      @Alex-yz8gm 4 года назад +4

      No such thing as hyper-masculinity. Only masculinity and femininity and in between, depending on how you want to act. Sounds like youre just expecting men to be more feminine than it is built into their nature and by saying that you want men to express more feminine traits is like asking women to show more masculine traits like show less emotion and be more dominant. I guarantee you if any woman was to act more masculine, she would feel out of place as it is against her nature. If men and women start acting like their opposites, then they will have very little luck with dating, as most people just arent into that.

    • @Alex-yz8gm
      @Alex-yz8gm 4 года назад +4

      Also when u said "empower women to be whoever they want to be in this world and love them fully" im thinking you'd just get manipulated the fuck out of in a relationship as you assume everyone has nothing but good intentions. Women want someone who will protect them from a threat, not try to love the threat

    • @rogacz5966
      @rogacz5966 4 года назад

      @@Alex-yz8gm there is something about that. 've been in that kind of situation

  • @teamchang4894
    @teamchang4894 3 года назад +1

    Your lack of emotional competence will win her heart

  • @sinchan2650
    @sinchan2650 4 года назад +10

    That is a being cool book for many guys, love from India.

    • @aakash950
      @aakash950 4 года назад

      only if you are single commited people knows thats its shitt

  • @shinigami117s8
    @shinigami117s8 4 года назад +2

    Believing that they are crazy about you also brings results

  • @PianoSama
    @PianoSama 4 года назад +55

    Man this video just made me realized how stupid this is lmao, guy's let just keep making money and live our lifes for the best geez

  • @Frederick0220
    @Frederick0220 2 года назад +1

    This is amazing. This reminds me of Deida’s The Way of the Superior Man

  • @marudelel
    @marudelel 4 года назад +11

    "it makes you look so much higher value, when you are actually higher value" haha powerful

  • @ntandoyenkosimoyo2071
    @ntandoyenkosimoyo2071 4 года назад +1

    Your channel deserves more credit

  • @shiekah6345
    @shiekah6345 4 года назад +8

    The old brother i needed.

  • @ramm8196
    @ramm8196 4 года назад

    Bro... I got to hand it to you... You know what your talking about. When I've operated with some of these basic principals you mention here I experience the success your taking about. And most of the time it just came naturally. It's when I feel like I have to start working at it and thinking about it that I fail.... And fail miserably.

  • @dylanexplores18
    @dylanexplores18 4 года назад +7

    youre still killing the game man! what a insightful speech

  • @Zellymackintosh
    @Zellymackintosh 2 года назад +1

    You on point brother! I come here for reaffirmation , im deep in the game but iron sharpens iron

  • @JakeArmyRetired
    @JakeArmyRetired 3 года назад +4

    Yep... I have always kept girlfriend's because they can't hurt you, but a wife can. All women want to be married but not all women want to be wives... I use a different approach I woo all of them, never mix my finances and romancees and I keep my feelings wherever the Army put them...😂🤣😂🤣 No child support, no alimony, no worries...my retirement is mine, no taking a saw to it, save that for the simps...

  • @maftoumiali4412
    @maftoumiali4412 Год назад

    The best part of this video is when you said:
    "Men have always said: "But I feel like; my belief system feels like this". okay, I don't care what you feel. Because what you feel is irrelevant. There's a way that works. There's a way that doesn't work. There's a way to win and there's a way to lose. Once you can make that rational, decisive behavior. This is what I'm doing in order to win. Notice that you made a logical commitment that right there in and of itself is masculine drive."