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Комментарии • 556

  • @OceansASMR
    @OceansASMR  2 месяца назад +370

    My seashells all your comments are just so sweet and thoughtful and omg im tearing up reading these get the tissues 🥹💞 I love you all so much and appreciate it more than you'll ever know truly thank you so much for your support💞 i am sending you all so much love and big hugs and also tingles for a very well deserved restful sleep with the sweetest of dreams!! xo

    • @Maryhadalittlelamb-iw3sd
      @Maryhadalittlelamb-iw3sd 2 месяца назад +8

      You’re a precious soul

    • @cxnangrxy
      @cxnangrxy 2 месяца назад +3

      you deserve it ocean!! you do sm for us seashells you literally relieve us of stress and also just make us laugh almost every day 💗 (and even more on ur second channel we truly are spoiled am i right 🤭) you truly deserve all the kind comments as they’re all true 💗💗💗

    • @tpwkclaire
      @tpwkclaire 2 месяца назад +2

      you are so loved

    • @juliaromero5998
      @juliaromero5998 2 месяца назад +1

      whether you feel like you’re drowning in 2 feet of water or 20 feet, it still feels like drowning. Your feelings are valid and you are truly a blessing on this earth, you help so many of us with what you do and you are so loved and appreciated💗💗💗

  • @JuliasAcc
    @JuliasAcc 2 месяца назад +1076

    Hey Ocean! I am a nurse and I am here to tell you that even though your job might not be as physically demanding as other jobs (e.g nursing, service workers and whatever you have compared yourself to in this video) your work is still very important to a lot of people. These kind of professions are so different from each other, it’s almost impossible to compare them. You have every right to feel exhausted and burned out as you have a lot on your plate yourself with filming, editing, your clothing line and personal life. Of course you are not directly saving anyone’s life, but you are there to help people sleep & relax and you should not feel sorry for being overwhelmed. You have such a positive impact on so many lives. Entertainment is just as important and you are providing a safe place for so many people here on RUclips. We will always be here to support you, even if you need to take a break for a while. I have been watching you since 2018 and I’m so proud of how far you have come. Please take care of yourself! 💛

    • @justjilly4384
      @justjilly4384 2 месяца назад +76

      What a fab comment. Written so well ! I am a nurse too and I totally agree with you x

    • @MelanieMaxwell-me6jz
      @MelanieMaxwell-me6jz 2 месяца назад +21

      This must have taken you so long to write Ocean should see this ❤

    • @2bbbcc
      @2bbbcc 2 месяца назад +10

      This !!!!

    • @OceansASMR
      @OceansASMR  2 месяца назад +145

      aweee thank you so so much for your kindness and empathy and also your work as a nurse!! 💞this is very sweet and comforting xx

    • @smcco67
      @smcco67 2 месяца назад +7

      Fellow nurse here and I wholeheartedly agree!!!

  • @EvieFowler210
    @EvieFowler210 2 месяца назад

    ocean! you are so so amazing at what you do, i always smile when i get the notification for a new video and i am (like so many others) always watching your videos over and over becuase your content is so comforting. ive been watching for almost 2 years now and going through these past couple years has been awful and your videos have never failed to make me smile, relax, and have a good time watching. from me and all the other seashells, we love you so much and all that you do is so appreciated by us and all of your family/friends. love you dear!❤🌊

  • @Alexandrias-2031
    @Alexandrias-2031 2 месяца назад

    Hey oceannn! im really sorry for what your going through it must be really hard, but I hope you know that your seashells are always there!! And I want you to know if things are getting to stressful you can always take a break to get your life back together and start feeling youu! I hope that your ED gets better, I don’t have one but it sounds sad and I’ve been watching your videos for a while and hearing you talk about it I kinda understand! 🩵 I love when you talk about self love, and I loveddd the video you made last week “showering you in compliments” so I hope you can start making more of those type of videos!! Feel better 💐

  • @МаринаСахарова-ф4о
    @МаринаСахарова-ф4о 2 месяца назад

    Hello, Ocean. Thank you for such honesty. What you share helps me manage my own emotional issues. You give out soothing vibes even when you are shating something that's heavy on you. You've been my favourite asmartist, I watch your vids like every day❤ so, thank you for everything❤ please, try to take care of yourself, maybe deligate some of chores... or take a pause with filming. Everyone will understand❤
    Watching you from Russia, by the way ♡
    Love you♡♡♡

  •  2 месяца назад +1

    yesss i suggested these kind of videos last time ad you actually did it!!! i love it thank you so much!!!🩷

  • @groovydakota
    @groovydakota 2 месяца назад

    Hey ocean love your videos and I can relate a lot to your struggle! Just something that’s been super helpful for me with my mindset and stress levels ( it sounds crazy but) sauna and Ice/cold plunge ❄️
    It’s become a big hobby and needed mental health practice of mine most weeks ( it’s the only place my brain is ever fully clear and I’m not stressing about something !)

  • @lindydavidson4901
    @lindydavidson4901 2 месяца назад +2

    It seems like you should be taking a break girl you seem overwhelmed. Its okay to take breaks its healthy for you. Maybe try reading or writing. Maybe even. Community theater its fun!

  • @keibe028
    @keibe028 2 месяца назад +1

    Your feelings are valid. Don’t compare yourself to others when it comes to stress. Everyone is important. What about yoga or Pilates as a hobby?

  • @fr.2061
    @fr.2061 2 месяца назад +1

    You should reach out to some brands like Pink Palm Puff, Or Bridey Drake, she has a pajama brand, (Night sweet thing, i believe), You should ask smaller but still successful brands how they became successful and known and take some tips, even ask for a shoutout maybe!! 🩵🩵

  • @lowkeymulti1577
    @lowkeymulti1577 2 месяца назад

    do not downplay how ur feeling, you have the right to complain everyone has

  • @lindseygrace5211
    @lindseygrace5211 2 месяца назад +362

    “it’s not like i’m saving lives” but Ocean, you make people’s lives better and more meaningful every single day. You help people with mental health issues with your calming videos. You are so important!

    • @cxnangrxy
      @cxnangrxy 2 месяца назад +4

      exactly!! 💞 as someone with adhd my brain genuinely atleast quiets down a bit with her videos and that is a MIRACLE lol

  • @AlexandraCarlson
    @AlexandraCarlson 2 месяца назад +308

    Okay as a literal MD who gets stressed at the clinic and the hospital, I close the door to my office & put your channel on and listen to you as I chart and you seriously help me relax & get ready to be there for my patients - what you do MATTERS.

    • @OceansASMR
      @OceansASMR  2 месяца назад +62

      omg ugh thank you thank you 🥹🥹🥹

  • @alyssahill4817
    @alyssahill4817 2 месяца назад +294

    17:23 I’ve recently been told “don’t downplay your value to the world”. You add so much value to us seashell’s world. Just because you don’t see the actual effects, such as a service worker, you put out so much value in this world. 😊

    • @OceansASMR
      @OceansASMR  2 месяца назад +44

      i think i need to write this quote on my mirror 🥹

    • @alyssahill4817
      @alyssahill4817 2 месяца назад +2

      @@OceansASMR just want you to know how much you are loved and appreciated 😍

  • @xgothicxgirlx94
    @xgothicxgirlx94 2 месяца назад +235

    Hi, fellow person in ED treatment here! Some things that really resonated with me is 1. A job/career is not more or less impactful on a person than a different one. Every job has its drawbacks and its positive parts, they're just different for every job. 2. It sounds like you hold yourself to a really high standard, and I would consider talking to your therapist about perfectionism. My psychiatrist told me the other day that I need to lower my expectations for myself. I hold others to low standards, but the standards for myself are unachievable. 3. You don't owe anyone anything. You don't owe perfection, an explanation, or a story. You deserve peace and love and comfort. You don't have to EARN those things. You deserve them simply by existing. 4. I've been struggling to relax or find joy, but lately I've been picking wildflowers, coloring, and reading books (mostly fiction, but some books on herbs and crystals as well). I've been cleared to return to the gym again, so I'm allowing myself to find my peace there as well.
    I hope that the world is kinder to you than you are to yourself. May the sun shine on your face on your brain treat you with the love you deserve🖤

    • @OceansASMR
      @OceansASMR  2 месяца назад +34

      awe angel im proud of you on your ED treatment journey!! and thank you so much for this heartfelt comment - the perfectionism bit hit HARD lol 😅 i love the idea of picking wildflowers or planting them could be fun too great ideas!!

  • @noraaaaa
    @noraaaaa 2 месяца назад +301

    ocean please do not feel guilty for being stressed!! you do so much and have made such an impact on all of our lives. we appreciate you so much and you deserve to be so happy ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Quinn856
    @Quinn856 2 месяца назад +100

    Hi Ocean! Thank you for opening up to us about your struggles. I know how difficult it can be to talk about your life to such a large audience so i really appreciate your bravery and your willingness to connect with us. ❤

  • @cloeaustin4869
    @cloeaustin4869 2 месяца назад +90

    Ocean! we love you! one thing that's helped me is, "the car can only go so fast, so don't put to much pressure on the pedal" you are kicking butt! if you need to take a breather here and there we will still be here!

    • @OceansASMR
      @OceansASMR  2 месяца назад +18

      aweee 💞'car' is in for service getting an oil change and new blinker fluid hahaha

  • @User_.0317
    @User_.0317 2 месяца назад +53

    Good and cheap hobbies are drawing, painting, sewing, crocheting, reading (at libraries, books are unfortunately expensive 😭), journaling/scrapbooking/calligraphy, writing, little dates with your boyfriend (nothing too fancy), origami, baking/cooking, or even just going for walks!

    • @OceansASMR
      @OceansASMR  2 месяца назад +12

      calligraphy omg love that!!

  • @ag.bh2609
    @ag.bh2609 2 месяца назад +201

    OCEAN'S AVENGERS HERE! (under 24 hours)

  • @alaynalovelace
    @alaynalovelace 2 месяца назад +82

    I’ve found that just coloring books have brought me a lot of peace and I become so focused after a few minutes and nothing else takes energy and thoughts

    • @OceansASMR
      @OceansASMR  2 месяца назад +7

      ouuu yes!!

    • @ivanvargas2719
      @ivanvargas2719 2 месяца назад +1

      ​​​​@@OceansASMR your hair looks nice ocean ❤ love your videos your whispers are so relaxing 6:20 ❤ sending hugs sweetie I'm so happy for you take care of yourself it's okay to take breaks were the same age BTW I was born April 2001

    • @Camillegina
      @Camillegina 4 дня назад

      You just gave me a great idea for how I can calm my anxiety and distract myself from certain triggers 😭🌸 idk why I never thought of this but THANK you

  • @kozykasmr
    @kozykasmr 2 месяца назад +75

    Yayyy I LOVE your roleplays and all Ocean but it’s so nice to hear you just talk to us and ramble about life💕

    • @Ella-op6eb
      @Ella-op6eb 2 месяца назад +3

      I was just about to say that! I’m so happy she posted this kind of video :) I’m also obsesseddddd with your videos Kozy!❤️

  • @lana-yf8uz
    @lana-yf8uz 2 месяца назад +67

    i got so emotional when you were talking about how much we help you at your lows cause you have no idea how much you help so many of us with your videos. i love and appreciate you more than you’ll ever know ❤

  • @Sm57204west
    @Sm57204west 2 месяца назад +46

    Girlfriend!!! Stress is stress; mental health is mental health. Nobody, not even your mind, has the right to tell you that you're undeserving of being sad or scared or stressed because someone *could* have it worse. I treat my inner self as a separate person when they are negative, like "girl, don't talk to me unless you're being productive. We don't need all that right now."
    New hobbies that don't cost much: roller blading, hiking, learning a new language, painting fun paint by number paintings from a cheaper place like 5 Below/Walmart/Target style places (I know you're in Canada lol).

    • @OceansASMR
      @OceansASMR  2 месяца назад +5

      wait omg thats so smart to think of it like that !! 💖

  • @LeahJuliett
    @LeahJuliett 2 месяца назад +52

    You ARE saving lives. Your work helps my mental health so much. Thank you.

  • @Emily-dt2ss
    @Emily-dt2ss 2 месяца назад +34

    As a nurse, I can tell you that there are other jobs out there that are stressful. Stress is stress. Pain is pain. Struggles are struggles. Some people want to turn others' situations into the pain Olympics but it shouldn't be like that. You clearly are putting a tremendous amount of stress on yourself even if it's with stuff you love or enjoy. Try not to feel guilty or let anyone else make you feel guilty for having feelings. I don't think many other people are doing as much as you are. Don't like your ambition burn you out though. You're young and you have plenty of time. I'm 24 and have always been an overachiever so I feel you with feeling like you need to do all of these things all at once. One of my favorite songs when I'm feeling like that is the song Vienna by Billy Joel. You're doing great; just take a breath for yourself 😊

    • @OceansASMR
      @OceansASMR  2 месяца назад +4

      ahhh i love that song i should actually apply the lyrics haha! 💖 but thank you so much and you're right its not about making it a pain olympics i shouldn't compare as much as i do!

  • @LelahWeldon-vv2hb
    @LelahWeldon-vv2hb 2 месяца назад +56

    Hi ocean, i’m a little fifteen year old girl and you are the absolute sweetest role model in my life! you’re he channel i turn to when i feel stressed or grumpy and down on myself and your whole entire demeanor is so magical and warm. don’t worry at all about feeling stressed; you absolutely have the right. your seashells will always understand. 🐚😘

    • @Emma_lifestyle211
      @Emma_lifestyle211 2 месяца назад +1

      I’m about the same age, and I honestly feel the same way because ocean, you really have helped people of all ages and backgrounds so i really thank you for that, what you do is really important!

    • @anne_margaret7
      @anne_margaret7 26 дней назад

      yes same!

  • @AshColes-dm8zf
    @AshColes-dm8zf 2 месяца назад +33

    All us Seashells are so proud of you ocean , and we love hearing about your life 🤍

  • @aliviadawn6031
    @aliviadawn6031 2 месяца назад +20

    hi, silent viewer here!! I’ve been a seashell since I was a sophomore in high school, now I am a sophomore in university. Ocean, you have gotten me through some of my darkest days and watching this video made me realize how much I have looked up to you over the years as well. You are the big sister I never had. Sending so much love and light your way💗💗 You do so much for us and I have no doubt will achieve all your dreams. Also so so happy to see you so happy with Thomas- you deserve that LOML type love.
    LOVE YOU😘😘

    • @OceansASMR
      @OceansASMR  2 месяца назад +4

      AWEEE im happy i could be your big sister when you needed it 🥹

  • @sweetxdreamerx
    @sweetxdreamerx 2 месяца назад +17

    Ocean, you are actual sunshine. When I was in the thick of postpartum with my newborn, being up in the middle of the night feeding her all alone, I would watch your videos to keep me company. You were an anchor for me during one of the craziest transitions of my life and I will forever be grateful for that. What you do matters so much and we all love and appreciate you! 🩷

  • @terror0poet
    @terror0poet 2 месяца назад +22

    you might not know this, but ocean you truly help my mental health. you're genuinely one of the main reasons I'm able to deal with my insomnia at night.. one of the reasons I'm able to distract myself from my overwhelming thoughts. i listen to you when I've had a bad day, when I'm bored, when I'm happy, when i just feel like it. so please don't ever feel and think that way about yourself and never feel bad for being stressed or burnt out

  • @missmoss6581
    @missmoss6581 2 месяца назад +21

    Aw Ocean, as someone who just got their master's degree in the healthcare field and has dabbled in quite a bit of RUclips (including ASMR), the two professions are two totally different beasts! (Not to mention everything else you have going on, my goodness!) Hearing you speak about your struggles is honestly pretty relaxing, knowing that each job has its own unique challenges to conquer. We appreciate you keeping it real ❤️❤️

  • @user-ku8rs5tr9w
    @user-ku8rs5tr9w 2 месяца назад +20

    no matter what you are going through ocean, we are here for you. love from america 🫶😘

  • @sydneybyers8612
    @sydneybyers8612 2 месяца назад +12

    Oh my gosh, Ocean, when you started tearing up I, too, started tearing up with you 🥺 You have such a BIG HEART. You are so humble and truly do not give yourself enough credit for all your hard work. You, girl, deserve peace and comfort and I truly hope that you can find some time to do things for yourself that bring you peace and comfort. Your vulnerability is admirable and absolutely beautiful. You did not owe a life update or explanation to anyone, but thank you for sharing and being so honest and raw with us 🫶🏻

  • @shirshein4518
    @shirshein4518 2 месяца назад +15

    Hey Ocean, first of all it is so brave of you to open up to us this way, I feel like it connects us to you better.
    I can really relate to the whole brain not stopping to think and stress and I can tell you from what I’ve learned sometimes we keep on acting a certain way or feeling a certain way because it’s just what we’re used to, a comfortable hell then an unknown future if you will but it’s mostly because it’s a self defence mechanism of ourselves. I’m working on it with my therapist and what I’ve learned is that when we act a certain way even if it’s hard for us it’s because A we’re used to it and B because it’s something that we benefit of, for example the stress you feel encourages you to work harder and get your tasks done but you do it while feeling bad and that’s what I think you could look into, how can you still accomplish your dreams and do the tasks you gotta do and love to do while also having time for your self and setting boundaries with your self so you could actually enjoy it all and have it both - doing everything you gotta do and yet doing things Ocean wants to do because Ocean likes to do it and not because you have to do it
    Also you should look into Bach flowers, specifically white chestnut essence it’s great for overthinking, Bach flowers over all is a great way to help you feel better and get to your emotional goals easier
    Wishing you the best and once again thank you for sharing your journey with us ❤

    • @OceansASMR
      @OceansASMR  2 месяца назад +1

      omg yes boundaries are a big thing i am working on in therapy haha 💖 ouu i haven't heard of the bach flowers product I'll look into it thank you!!

  • @ellacoleman5441
    @ellacoleman5441 2 месяца назад +11

    ocean this video meant a lot to me, hearing you talk about struggles and stresses that I also feel makes me feel seen and heard- I have loved your videos for years and am so grateful I found your channel

  • @alayahmurphy2600
    @alayahmurphy2600 2 месяца назад +10

    Ocean you do soooo much for your videos. The props, planning, the time, etc. Thank you sooooooo much I can’t express how grateful I am for you and your videos 💗

  • @brooki3_cookie
    @brooki3_cookie 2 месяца назад +13

    I love that you are willing to share your struggles with us ❤

    • @OceansASMR
      @OceansASMR  2 месяца назад +4

      we are a team hehe

  • @AtlasASMR
    @AtlasASMR 2 месяца назад +1

    Excited to welcome you to the UK ASMR family 🫡

  • @Charlotte-bp8ju
    @Charlotte-bp8ju 2 месяца назад +8

    ocean I think me and so many other people would really appreciate a separate video on you mental health and ed recovery to show that so many people struggle with and that they aren’t alone. ❤

  • @Anica_123
    @Anica_123 2 месяца назад +2

    Does this girl even know she keeps my mental health stable🤌🩷

  • @mindingpeople
    @mindingpeople 2 месяца назад +2

    Honey, have you ever thought about hiring an assistent. Not directly for fulltime, but for like one or a few days a week. They can even work remotely and do just some email-stuff or something. You need to get something off of your plate, because this job never stops and if you break, everything stops. Please take care of yourself, this sounds like a very heavy load to carry on your own ❤.

  • @doodlebob1898
    @doodlebob1898 2 месяца назад +12

    Aww ocean seeing you cry is so heartbreaking. I want to thank you personally for always being there for us. You are an amazing women. 🥹❤️

    • @OceansASMR
      @OceansASMR  2 месяца назад +6

      if it makes you feel any better i cry on the daily at any dog tiktoks LOL

    • @doodlebob1898
      @doodlebob1898 2 месяца назад +4

      @@OceansASMR I always cry on TikTok aswell 😂

  • @augustvirgo26
    @augustvirgo26 2 месяца назад +4

    Ocean take a break, everyone needs a break. Social media is a job, there's so much that goes into it. Don't over work yourself because of other people. We'll be here when you come back ❤

  • @lmaolmao3878
    @lmaolmao3878 2 месяца назад +2

    try crocheting or baking as a hobby!!!

  • @char7607
    @char7607 2 месяца назад +5

    i want to give you the biggest hug ever ocean. so virtual hugs 🩷

  • @angelina2360
    @angelina2360 2 месяца назад +5

    Some hobbies that are easy to pick up: knitting/crocheting , jewelry making, pickle ball, cooking classes, dance (as u mentioned), journaling (this is amazing for mindfulness and stress relief), and just simple coloring is always great as well!

  • @kelly21147
    @kelly21147 2 месяца назад +3

    You need to realise how incredible you are. Im only 30 so i dont wanna patronise you as if you're a child but my god you have your head screwed on girly. Hard working, ambitious and driven - you should be so proud of yourself. You have your own business and ideas and that is truly brilliant. Time for yourself to take stock of what you're ahieveing is so important, you cant enjoy the journey if you're speeding through it ❤ i just took up crochet and highly recommended for a chill hobby to focus your mind! Love you vids as always!!

  • @francesca227
    @francesca227 2 месяца назад +5

    A hobby idea could be something like paint by numbers and colouring books since you could always go and sit on a bench somewhere and just relax while doing it and there accessible ❤

  • @Cdimarco1000
    @Cdimarco1000 2 месяца назад +2

    I think you need to consider hiring an assistant, it might help with some of the basic tasks. As long as you can afford it, of course. But thank you for all the great content.

  • @greenbean1620
    @greenbean1620 2 месяца назад +4

    Ocean! A hobbie I love is knitting or crocheting :) it’s very relaxing to just mindlessly knit something like a scarf or get into making more intricate things too

  • @thenomadsyouknow
    @thenomadsyouknow 2 месяца назад +6

    Hi Ocean! Fellow Content Creator here 👋🏼 just want to say that I hear you on feeling stressed & conflicted when it comes to talking about it online. Our jobs have been portrayed to be easy, but being self employed & a business owner, is anything but easy. It takes a certain type of person, you are so determined I can hear it in the things you say. You’re doing so well, sending you a hug & some love. Also thank you for helping me with my sleep anxiety, I’ve watched you for years 🥰

  • @kportz19
    @kportz19 2 месяца назад +4

    17:04 “its not like I’m saving lives” But you are, watching asmr is one of the few things that help me with MY mental health so hearing you talk about how you don’t feel it’s a “real job” or that what you do here isn’t as valuable as other jobs makes me sad. You do so much for people you don’t even realize it. I want you to know how much you matter. You have helped so many people with just making your videos, which is why I think it is important you also put yourself first. You said that when you aren’t doing anything you feel guilty, but try to think about it like giving your body and voice a rest so that you can continue to make content. When you’re stressed it’s okay to take a break or take a step back, the beauty of RUclips is that we can always rewatch videos while you are away. You don’t have to constantly make new content if it is too overwhelming, yes new content is nice but we would much rather you be taken care of then have new videos. Regarding your ED, I understand completely when you said your ED has been your constant in life and that it can be hard to separate yourself from it. One thing that has helped me with my dermatillamania (skin picking disorder) is finding other things that do the same thing (let my brain turn off). For me it’s coloring or reading. It’s simple but it works. I’ve also learned to find things that give me the similar feeling I get when I pick, so instead of picking at my skin I try and pick at slime or something else I can tear away. Maybe find something like that to get your mind off of it. To anyone reading this please know that you are loved and that you matter, no matter what you are doing or who you are you matter. There is light in this world, I promise you will get through it.

  • @teresalilja6096
    @teresalilja6096 2 месяца назад +1

    hey ocean! haven’t started watching yet, but did you go on the trip with your «fans» yet? to greece i think? or have i missed out on some info, ❤

  • @rudainagad6329
    @rudainagad6329 2 месяца назад +1

    I don’t know if I missed it but whatever happened to the trip to Greece? Was looking forward to the content that was going to come out of it, so just wondering!

  • @emilienna6965
    @emilienna6965 2 месяца назад +2

    Get a personal assistant 📢😫

  • @carachialtas
    @carachialtas 2 месяца назад +6

    your work is just as necessary, ocean! i’m a preschool teacher and sometimes your voice is the only comforting one to hear after an overstimulating day. treat yourself with the kindness and love that you show us ❤

  • @BlackpinkSedits
    @BlackpinkSedits 2 месяца назад +3

    Ocean's Avengers Assemble!! 🌊
    (24 hours only!!)
    👇

  • @gree.04
    @gree.04 2 месяца назад +5

    Oceans this is probably one of the most beautiful and spontaneous videos I’ve ever seen. I can’t express how much I admire you as a person, how bright and gorgeous you are, you are literally a ray of sunshine. I admire so much your work, your dedication and passion, you are so incredibly humble and such a good person. Listening to you talking melts my heart. You are such an hard worker and you absolutely deserve to take time for yourself to recover from all the stress. From the bottom of my heart I wish you all the happiness in the world. I wish you well with acting, modeling, your clothing line, youtube, your ed and mental health, your life projects and every new adventure that will came into your life. Thank you so much❤️

    • @OceansASMR
      @OceansASMR  2 месяца назад +3

      no angel thank YOU so much what a sweet comment!! 🥹🥹🥹

  • @caitlinmuller3291
    @caitlinmuller3291 2 месяца назад +5

    Ocean you are truly such an angel and I wish there was more us seashells could do to be there for you but I wanted to thank you for being there for me for the 5 years that I have been watching your videos, since I was 13 and I'm now 18, you have been such a constant guiding light and peace in my life and helped me through more than I could even begin to think of but thank you so much and I hope everything is falling into place for you.

  • @amoolia0
    @amoolia0 2 месяца назад +17

    Ocean all your struggles are so incredibly valid. Other people struggling doesn’t devalue your own struggles. You are such a light in this world, I can definitely say you’re my favourite asmrtist, helping me relax and letting my brain know I can be okay. Us seashells feel that love and throw it right back at you so hard!

  • @ellissiawedge7644
    @ellissiawedge7644 2 месяца назад +4

    Honestly you are absolutely amazing, I'm so glad you are able to open up about your struggles. We are always here for you and we love you so much. I'm so happy for you and Thomas you two seem so sweet and perfect for each other. Also you should never feel guilty over feeling stressed because you have so much to do. RUclipsr are so underseen because people think their jobs are so easy, but when you're dealing with that as well as an entire business and modelling and acting and trying to make time for your boyfriend it must be so difficult. Anyway I'll stop rambling. Love you loads xx

  • @brookecherrix9624
    @brookecherrix9624 2 месяца назад +1

    Sending so much love your way girl... You may want to look into possibly hiring an assistant! They can be a lot more affordable than you think, and would allow you to be focused on the things that matter most to you. The book "Buy Back Your Time" is incredible for hustlers like you, so insightful. I hope this helps, please feel free to ask me any questions! 💞🌻

  • @lunatic7291
    @lunatic7291 2 месяца назад +3

    Ocean i loved this video !! You’re such an inspiration and even though you tend to downgrade yourself and your work YOU ARE DOING REALLY GREAT !! 🤍 You’re an angel and you definitely deserve to make some time for yourself 🌊
    You are important !!
    You are amazing !!
    You are worthy !!
    We love u so much 🫶

  • @breighbell7542
    @breighbell7542 2 месяца назад +1

    You’re the most beautiful stunning person alive. Also love yhe separating yourself from your ED bit. I do that with my OCD, I named him Randall and he’s an unhelpful friend. Sometimes when the ocd thoughts hit I have to tell him to be quiet and take a seat because he’s not being very helpful.

  • @TlivinglifewithCMT
    @TlivinglifewithCMT 2 месяца назад +1

    PLEASE STOP ADDING THINGS!!!! YOU HAVE ACCOMPLISHED SO MUCH!!!! JUST BREATHE AND ENJOY WHAT YOU HAVE!!!! I LOVE YOU AND I AM DISABLED AND YOUR VIDEOS HELP ME!!!!

  • @maddier.7325
    @maddier.7325 2 месяца назад +13

    Ocean, oh how we appreciate you for being vulnerable and opening up. We wouldn’t be anything without you either… to feel a bond and friendship with someone you truly don’t actually know in person is crazy and such a blessing. But, in regards to hobbies I absolutely love going on walks and painting by numbers to be honest!! I’m on my last year of nursing school in university so it can be extremely stressful and painting is such a big destressor for me :) WE LOVE YOU!

  • @Who.is.milaaaa
    @Who.is.milaaaa 2 месяца назад +1

    Blank space
    Love you ocean

  • @liaxx16
    @liaxx16 2 месяца назад +4

    Ocean u inspire me so, so, beyond much, not just because of what you're doing, but mostly because of the person you are. The gratitude that you radiate and yet the modesty you have is so incredible for all that you're accomplishing. No matter the views, the money, the jobs; you are a very successful RUclipsr, you've created a safe, online community, you have a very creatively challenging job and a very busy schedule that you somehow still manage with a smile, you are a SUCCESSFUL designer (you're pieces are off the paper and being created and sold) and you may just turn out to model and act at such a young age. Please take time to appreciate all you've done already and congratulate yourself for it. There are so few people (especially at your age) who face as many hardships as you have already faced, but that's only because you are doing so much more in your life already! Take breaks when you need them, sometimes that's just what you need to come back even stronger.
    You are truly the type of person that is just good, just angelic. There is not an ounce of negativity you show to the world which is so incredible. It's people like you that make me believe that pure goodness still exists - when I think of kind, I think of Ocean - and I hope more than I will ever hope for anyone else that no misfortune ever crosses your way again

  • @anne_margaret7
    @anne_margaret7 2 месяца назад +3

    take care of yourself ocean! ❤ for an inexpensive hobby I’d agree and recommend your idea of painting!

  • @L3vefilms
    @L3vefilms 2 месяца назад +3

    You can always take a break it doesn’t hurt anyone. We love you and we wish the best for for.

  • @dellah6841
    @dellah6841 2 месяца назад +2

    Ive watched you for years and through that time ive had a baby and grown in my career. Im a high school teacher and your videos are so relaxing. You matter. You do have a purpose and you are valued. Phillipians 4:13 💓 sending you love and prayers. Ps you will absolutely make so many friends in the uk. The best is yet to come.

  • @jasmoid
    @jasmoid 2 месяца назад +2

    i think you should know, that you probably have saved a lot of peoples lives

  • @julianewcorn7071
    @julianewcorn7071 2 месяца назад +4

    Painting or drawing and listening to an audiobook is an amazing thing to do! Also audiobook/podcast/music walks are the best… and free!

  • @phaskell
    @phaskell 2 месяца назад +3

    Oh sweet Ocean…please try not to be so hard on yourself. You deserve rest, love, and compassion every single day. 🐚 🖤 🐚

  • @ellieeeeeweee
    @ellieeeeeweee 2 месяца назад +2

    ocean, have you ever looked into reading as a hobby? i know you’ve said in the past that you’re not a big reader but i think some escapism would be good for you. i know for me personally reading is an amazing way to spend some me-time and has helped my mental health a lot. we could always give you some recommendations if you needed somewhere to start. just an idea!

  • @orangemc9358
    @orangemc9358 2 месяца назад +4

    Does anyone else like making the ASMR super quiet? Like, to the point where everything is still easy to hear, but one more tick and nothing would be discernible? It's SO nice for background sound when writing or reading.

  • @marleyaddsomemoore
    @marleyaddsomemoore 2 месяца назад +3

    Ocean's yap sessions are always top-tier i love it 🤗❤‍🩹

  • @dancingheart6224
    @dancingheart6224 Месяц назад +1

    I love Zumba and rock climbing! I really like rock climbing (with a harness) because it teaches resilience, builds physical and mental strength, and it's really relaxing to be up in the air. And actually, with your fear, it might help you feel more comfortable being in elevators, etc. because it's a safe exposure to heights with the harness 🙂. When I was depressed, this was one of my fave activities because it literally and figuratively taught me that I can climb mountains (overcome any struggle) no matter how tall if I keep my faith and hope.

  • @bellaxholly
    @bellaxholly 2 месяца назад +4

    whenever you talk about your ed recovery i’m always so proud of you, food is such a daily struggle it’s not fun at all and you saying it’s like a “friend” makes so much sense you’re doing so well ocean 💓

  • @laraengelmann8204
    @laraengelmann8204 2 месяца назад +1

    hey i was wondering if you ever went on the trip you posted about earlier this year with trova trip? because i realized there was never any other info or content about it :)
    hope you are doing well

  • @tiara3881
    @tiara3881 2 месяца назад +4

    Hi Ocean! As a therapist, I just want to tell you that what you’re doing really does make such a difference in people’s lives. You provide comfort, peace and a safe space. You help people to not feel alone. You add so much value to the world with what you do. I have my own mental health struggles and I love to watch you to calm my mind and relax. I even recommend you to my clients who have a hard time relaxing and falling asleep lol. Thank you for everything you do!

  • @Its_yourfav242
    @Its_yourfav242 2 месяца назад +3

    Don’t be ashamed for being stressed it’s ok to be stressed we’re all her for u girl dw ocean❤❤❤❤

  • @stargurl__211
    @stargurl__211 2 месяца назад +2

    i never usually comment but i just want to say how much your videos help me and how much i adore you and your channel, you actually have helped me through so much and i

  • @Passportpulse2
    @Passportpulse2 2 месяца назад +2

    Hey ocean, I recently started crocheting and is something that takes my mind off stuff and it’s really cool. I bought like a kit for beginner that was like 10 bucks. Also some others hobbies their is puzzles,doing your nails, photography, embroidery, calygraphy. Their is also air dry clay is something similar to pottery but less expensive and also if you like painting their is paint by numbers that you can buy of amazon and the canvas comes with the numbers and the colors for each number, and their is also diamond art with also some beginner kits on amazon. Another cool hobby that would be just for you is self care have you considered like having a day of just self caring so like doing your nails or hair or just having a girls day with your friends, or getting out and try to meet new people.I also like to say that even though you think you job is not as hard as someone because it doesn’t affect your body but if you stop a little you can see it affect you mind, and also you do help people, you just can’t see it but I know you helped a lot of people by just looking at the first comments of your videos and seeing people comment on how you helped they. Not to be rude but have you considered hiring a. Assistant to help you with your brand and RUclips channel. Love not so recent seashell ❤❤

  • @SoftLightASMR
    @SoftLightASMR 2 месяца назад +2

    Okay, I too have the dream career. I'm a professional artist. I work with museums, have a TED talk and have the extreme privileged of expressing myself for a living and you know what? Sometimes i still want to pull my hair out from the stress. You have nothing to apologize for in feeling exactly as you feel. Passionate pursuits will still kick your butt and acknowledging that does not make you ungrateful. ❤

  • @PreslieLawless
    @PreslieLawless 2 месяца назад +1

    Candle making! (For a hobby) I can see you being really creative with it

  • @mirandafuller9325
    @mirandafuller9325 2 месяца назад +1

    I love you Ocean! WE LOVE YOU OCEAN!

  • @irenebiganzoli4111
    @irenebiganzoli4111 2 месяца назад +3

    Hi Ocean! When I was really stressed and down I started coloring again. It’s something we always do when we’re kids and we often forget how peaceful it can be. Maybe you like it too!! Light a candle, listen to some music, and just … color. I hope you can feel better, we love your videos 💌💌

  • @cuteswiftie13
    @cuteswiftie13 2 месяца назад +1

    Maybe take the doggy with you when you'll move? Also, you could try making beaded jewellery! It's really fun and creative! I myself make tons of bracelets!

  • @jeffdrazin5514
    @jeffdrazin5514 2 месяца назад +2

    “Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and heavy laden, and I will give you rest." Mathew 11:28

  • @irenericart
    @irenericart 2 месяца назад +4

    hi ocean, i doubt that you'll read this, but i just had to comment cause this video got me feeling really emotional! i started bawling when you started crying, you are such a beautiful soul. i've been watching you since summer of 2018, you have helped me through three breakups, my grandpa's death, and basically any night where i have felt sad or anxious. i know it's weird but i consider you part of my life and i'm glad you can consider us (your viewers) part of yours as well. thank you for your honesty and the comfort you bring me everyday 💗

  • @sof.01
    @sof.01 2 месяца назад +7

    Ocean in her active era and I’m here for it ! 💕

  • @jennyjames4
    @jennyjames4 2 месяца назад +2

    You should see if there are any local improv groups that you can join as a hobby!!

  • @midwestokiemama
    @midwestokiemama 2 месяца назад +3

    OCEAN!!!! This video changed my life! You’re the best, you’re so sweet! I’m so grateful for you, I’m grateful you got up, out of bed and kept living and kept going! I’m so grateful you talk about your goals and aspirations and what you’re working toward, it inspires me endlessly! Your videos have helped my mental health in ways I can’t put into words! You’re an amazing woman! Keep blossoming sweet flower fairy 🩷 we need you 🫶🏼

  • @rameyza_elya
    @rameyza_elya 2 месяца назад +2

    Besides I love your roleplay asmr content🥰💖 I also love this type of asmr content whisper about your life update like this Ocean💗🩷. The vibes of this asmr video feels like just having a close connection

  • @mia8166
    @mia8166 2 месяца назад +3

    Love you Ocean 🩷 I have been watching you for 5 years and your videos have helped me through SO much. I’m so grateful you are here. You’re a beautiful soul ⭐️

  • @amibell1848
    @amibell1848 2 месяца назад +1

    Ocean what part of England are you going to be moving to? That's so exciting! You and Thomas and me and my gf have a very similar relationship timeline (meeting, long distance, plans on moving/living in London etc) and I love hearing about those updated

  • @codytheking2689
    @codytheking2689 2 месяца назад +1

    Could you please do a camp lice check or camp counselor role-play? I feel like you would be so good for this role.

  • @rileyeditsxx
    @rileyeditsxx 2 месяца назад +3

    Ocean I love your ASMR’s and when I saw this was 4 minutes ago I was like OMG AHHHH!!! 😱