I Was Scammed Out Of My House, Car, Boat, and Bank Account!
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- Опубликовано: 1 авг 2021
- I Was Scammed Out Of My House, Car, Boat, and Bank Account!
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The proper rephrasing is "I LET HIM take over my finances." That's how he robbed her.
There is the slim chance he forged her signature to get the boat title in his name, and added himself to her account without her knowledge
yawn .... this happens all the time to men... its called divorce
@@rod1147 poor little victim boy.
@@Elizabeth-yg2mg -- ROD never said he was divorced. Hopefully, he had the wisdom never to marry a woman like you.
@@johnnastrom9400 Amen brother
Her fiends and family warned her and she didn’t listen. Now that she needs them it’s too late; she basically chose a man over those who truly loved her. Now, to start over.
That is what I was thinking. We cannot say for sure that happen but it definitely sounds that way.
I guess the perception of love is blind...my thing is ...there are red flags that you should see before hand ..the little things that counts and makes you think 🤔...wait a minute this looks shady , but she was blinded , w/e that dude did to her ..pleasure wise, emotional wise..worked on her and unfortunately he conned her
Women need to stop focusing and putting all their energy into a man
Exactly 💯
This guy targeted her from the beginning and most likely started isolating her from her friends and family from the start, that is what con people do. I have seen it happen more than once, both female and male. Ultimately it IS her fault for allowing it to happen. I hope that her friends and family will understand what happened and take her back. Trust no one, check your statements. If the person won't allow you to see any of that, they are most likely stealing from you.
"It's very difficult to con people unless they are greedy, & want something for nothing," that's how a lot of people get got on internet
A person that has a paid off home, boat and car doesn’t need someone to take anything over.
If I was a widow and have a mate he has to have his finances together. If he was alway asking for money that’s a red flag.
Letting someone take over something you should be personally responsible for is your fault.
Loneliness causes a lot of people to be incredibly vulnerable, not just with money.
The first step to change is taking responsibility.
I really don't understand how anyone let's anyone else control their finances. This is your independence. under no circumstances let anyone do this.
As soon as I read the title, I knew what happened. When people will not listen to the warnings of their friends and family, they should question themselves.
How about starting with listening to the internal Cues?
@@5thdimension625 Apparently she had none.
Sometimes people get conned not due to greed but ignorance and stupidity
This is why we don't remarry after losing a spouse. I have one wife. If she leaves before me I'll get a hobby. Lol
Unless you are young when your spouse dies or leaves; most people couldn't go the rest of their lives without partnering up again. The trick is to keep one's eyes open and feet on the ground.
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Smart
The key is leaning on God and not a man.
prenup... unless you don't have any children to leave an inheritance
Ladies, never ever give away your assets to anyone. Keep your own bank accounts, your own car title, your own house title, etc. etc.
She lost the support of family and friends probably because they all told her long before she lost all her material possessions that this guy was only after that.
Exactly
100%
Yep
He even took the rice and beans out of the pantry.
lololol
Lordt!
This made me laugh too hard 🤣
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That's funny but it is also kinda cold.
If I were widowed and met someone new I would keep my assets completely secret and off the table until or IF marriage was on the table. I would be very, very vague. It can also lead to someone marrying you for the wrong reasons. It's so different when you marry young and build your wealth together.
I don't think I would even remarry. Just date and go back to my own house and finances.
@@happytrails699 same!
@@happytrails699 yup 👍🏾
There are insidious ways these crooks use to get your money and assets.
If he actually stole from her, she needs to go to the police, not write into a talk show.
Police won't do anything because she WILLINGLY gave him access to all her assets. Yes, she was a victim of a con and he was a crook conning her, but she LEGALLY allowed it to happen. This was a terrible & costly way for her to learn a lesson. Hopefully, listeners will learn from her mistakes. She definitely will have to mend the bridges that she burned; there is no easy way around it.
I saw this one on Lifetime. I think it was called " _Your Extended Car Warranty is About to Expire: a Love Story_ "
Losing support from family and friends mean she didn’t listen to their warnings and probably burned her bridges.
and not the first time she found herself a loser
Unfortunately narcissist will isolate you from people.
@@lauradelregno99 Rephrase... You let the narcissist isolate you.
@@teenyverse7707 you clearly have never been in this situation
Con artists are extremely nice and extremely friendly.....How else could they get what they want?
People forget there are professional Con-artists out there just living off your suffering.
The same thing is happening to my aunt right now. She's still in denial while losing everything.
so her dead husband left her millions of dollars (she had a boat!) and some dude came along and took it all from this lady. I bet the husband never thought his money would be given to some con man after he died. how do you think the dead husband's family felt when she gave all her money to this con man????
I cannot even imagine how his family felt, this lady was beyond stupid. Single life is better for me
It could also be a case of the husband being the one who took care of all the finances. After his death, she was merely just falling back into the old habit of letting the guy handle the finances. This is dangerous, because it makes it so easy for a con-artist to steal everything, which is what happened in this case. She made her situation worse by not listening to the warnings of loved ones and burning those bridges in the process.
Woah, let's not make wild assumptions like "millions of dollars". A house can be as cheap as $100k, a car can be as cheap as $20k, a boat can also under $100k depending on size and the type of boat. Obviously it's cringeworthy either way but let's not exaggerate the magnitude of this con.
I admire Dave Ramsey for bouncing back from bankruptcy and rebuilding a new successful financial plan. He not only put his life in order but he put out programs that helped others improve their finances. I don’t agree with some of his advice from FPU but most everything is very informative. Godspeed Dave Ramsey…good work!
"You don't get a pass on the law of gravity just because you don't understand it. Jump off a building it kicks in either way." - DR
I bet she’s never actually met him and he’s not in “Canada”.
My thoughts exactly
More like Nigeria
Apparently she’s never heard Les Brown’s story about buying his mother a house and not doing a title search. He got played big time and he learned from it, and bounced back. Hopefully this naive widow will do likewise.
This is why I don't date. The majority are looking for a nurse or a purse.
Lol, that was a good one 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Exactly
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Alt take- you don’t date b/c no one wants to date you.
I LIKE HOW YOU PHRASE THAT.
We have to learn to love with are heads and not just our hearts. There are always red flags. Always listen to the warnings of those who love you. Stories like this is why I started making RUclips videos to help women.
Sorry to hear that! Never let anyone take over your finances unless you’re not mentally capable of doing so.
The title made me think of…
a) the YT comments section
b) a bad divorce
😂
Absolutely no one:
Dave Ramsey: The banks called our notes!
It happens on occasion.
I love how they read these letters...and come to a conclusion with half the story 🤣
There is nothing more unattractive then a man who ask about your finances unless he’s just making sure you’re not in debt before marrying you.
Exactly...I had a guy ask me for money once...he instantly became unattractive...needless to say...he definitely wasn't the one
That’s a two way street dating a female that’s overly interested in your finances is a red flag
@@mokshavortice I agree.
@@mokshavortice definitely agreed with this as well...
I don't understand Lucy, how is that an unattractive quality before getting married? Why would you enter a marriage without knowing their debt?
Well Cindy welcome to how it feels to be a ex husband.
Love is so blind, it feels right when it’s wrong
I would disagree, it feels wrong but we ignore it. I been there and ignored all the red flags
@@AC-ly6tg do true
Love is for the weak and poor...
Love is blind, so there goes your wealth - Slick Rick
time for her to take some agency on her own life and stop being the victim.
Because she didn't listen to her friends and families. Dave was spot on without hearing her telling!
She gave all her power to some con man.
I talk to people like this daily where I work. When I catch it before it happens they refuse to believe us.
Where do you work??
@@AnnaBella510 Probably at the Nigerian embassy.
@@GrislyAtoms12 🤣🤣🤣
Prayers for healing and full recovery for Cindy. My loved one was partially delusional and bad people conned him by being fast talkers - they weren’t even trying to hide they were con artists bc they were stupid, my loved one couldn’t see it and got angry w me for saying these people are bad.
This is the best wisdom ever from this guys
The Nigerian prince strikes again
It could be a fellow American man for all you know. Get lost with that disgusting racial stereotype!!
Dave is a great rationalizer.
From a victim of narcissistic and domestic abuse this is not it guys. It doesn’t work like this at all and making her feel bad for falling for a manipulator is not it. If you haven’t been in this situation it shouldn’t be judged. Getting out is when it will never happen to her again. Not during.
How refreshing to hear "taking responsibility"...Allows the "victim" to have some power in order not to get into that position again.
Scammers keep calling me…stop answering the phone….but what if they want to talk to me…they will leave a message.
She was desperate for love and fell for a guy who proceeded to rob her-not blind because she had her eyes wide open. Family probably tried to warn her, but she was deep in the love fog and wouldn’t listen and was probably nasty about it. Family then threw up their hands and walked away. Now she’s wiped out and turns to the family that tried to warn and they aren’t having it.
I'm guessing she was so desperate to have a man in her life that when he encountered her, she agreed to anything he wanted.
This is why I don’t think it is a good idea to join accounts ever
Exactly!!!!
I’m glad he addressed accountability because hopefully that will prevent anything like this from happening to her again. A lot of people struggle with facing the reality that they allowed certain things to happen in their lives.
Ever think that she may have gotten money from her family, only to turn around and give it to her crooked lover? Two sides to the story here.
That you Jim Browning 😂🤣
I learned from this segment. Accountability and Responsibility.
I don't think you can call a yourself a kid at 26.
A lot of people don't know much even in their 30's. A few are in that position in their 40's. Age does not mean people are not kids and everyone does not grow up!!!! Your quote: (I don't think you can call a yourself a kid at 26.)
those people can be hard to leave because some part of you thinks you might be able to get something back, you wont they will just keep taking.
I love the lyrics of the hymn 'Dear Lord and Father'. They apply to so many situations in life when emotions can take over. Love in this case.
Dear Lord and Father of mankind,
forgive our foolish ways:
reclothe us in our rightful mind etc
It is why Dave's often given advice to get good people in our corner is so wise. When we are not in our rightful minds cos a feeling has taken over, then those people that are in our corner can be objective. But we have to listen to them though and to do that when we are not in our rightful mind can often take a lot of courage and strength. Spiritual strength. That's why I love the words/plea of that hymn.
Take those lemonades and make some lemons. I died laughing.
Excellence response!!!
Therapy seems not to be working.
Separate finance from relationships. When love involves finance, it is not love.
"He's from Canada"..didn't expect that.
@@jeremyjackson7429 I question, if this was only an online relationship that she never personally met & was communicating with a "foreign Prince".
He may have told her that when he was actually lives in Nigeria.
Remember, challenges are what make life interesting. Overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.
Well i don't want meaningful. Just the rest of the good package. Wanting and needing the meaning makes it an almost contradiction.
Just work hard and overcome all the challenges and get good at it.
Challenges? Interesting? The guy stole everything from her.
I've warned several women over the years and they NEVER LISTEN TO ME. I don't bother trying any more. I heard one gal get into it and the next week a friend started to take an obviously fake money order to the bank and she almost got arrested but the 2nd one did not listen to me about the first gal and what happened to her.
And this is why I stay single!!
At 0:54 "If you continue to cast yourself at sea, with no boat, no life raft...."
Mmm, but she DOESN'T have a boat! He took it.
"cast yourself at sea with no boat" LOL he did not just say that
Take those lemonades, and make some lemon!!
I am not married, but as many human beings I have fallen in love. I have never been even close to letting them handle my finances. Someone please explain.
Count ya self blessed. It’s easier than you think
Accountability is important
Some women make horrible decisions in regards to relationships. Makes sense as to why marriages were arranged for so long. She lost friends and family b/c they warned her multiple times and she didn’t listen.
This is one of the problems with Dave's insistence that couples combine finances. If she had kept her accounts separate, she probably would have been better off.
DR says to combine finances when couples are married (& he's right), I don't think she married the con man, she just surrendered control to him
@@AulaniMaria He's not right in all cases. There are several benefits of keeping accounts separate. This lady is a prime example.
Agree I have separate accounts 💰
This is a sick world we're living in! Sick people!
Breaks my heart
Oh please don’t feel bad for her… she did it to herself!!!
Unfortunately, she played a role in this and was partially responsible. Hopefully she can heal and find support to get through this.
I see her as fully responsible, because he wasn't her husband and she let him. One of Dave's no-no's!
How did the conversation go? "Honey i love you... But for me to be the best man that i can be im gonna need your bank account info...And im gonna need you to TRUST me"
The best way to forget about that crook from Canada is to find a new guy from Nigeria. 😉
Lol 😂
These people can suss out a needy person.
She didn't just lose her money, she lost her family/friends who tried to help her.
She knew what was happening to her but love 💕 make people blind and when you do wake up it’s to late everything gone
Family and friends I'm sure did try to warn her and were hurt when she likely got mad at THEM.
Con men/women can be pretty slick, and a needy widow/widower is easy pickings. But biggest this caller's biggest mistake was ever giving him any opportunity to cash in her assets.
I have had a few men try to get me to sign over an asset to them. They just toss out the idea to see if it sticks.
*The correct way to redress the question and ascertain responsibility is "I fell for a con artist with halo effect who saw through my shallowness and made it with my endowments." Don't organise a pity party for this heifer.*
You did it to yourself at that point
She is totally at blame for this.
Yea she is
*Reads title
"So he got divorced?"
People are always trying to get something for nothing
It always takes two to tango.
7:55 *Take those lemon aids baby and make some lemons*
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Sounds like my strong and independent ex wife divorced me due to my disability and stole everything from me, save yourself and stay away from Canada.
Lol 😆
She did not listen to her family and friends, so they are like too late now
You can only trust yourself.
Person A: I Was Scammed Out Of My House, Car, Boat, and Bank Account.
Person B: Awe, that's too bad. Give me your name, DOB and SSN and I can fix it.
Person A: SWEET!! Here you go!
Sounds like what happened to Victor Kershaw, by the Sun Gym Gang!
Family advised and she didn’t listen
anyone can be had, you had a hole in your personality that allowed someone to tell you things to fill that gap. its the lord you don't need to forget it you need to deal with it by faith, that gap in you needs to be filled by that faith just like this hurt you feel needs to be dealt with the same way. know youre wrong but know why it happened was good its the lord. best quote ever is, they meant it for evil but god meant it for good.
Every time Dave goes on his rant about when he lost everything and went bankrupt, I’ve always thought he blamed others heavily! He always says the “26-year-old kid, never late on a payment, who got the notes called on.” I just get the feeling he always blames others for it. It’s strange hearing him say otherwise in this video.
Listen to this vid again. Dave DOES still blame the big, bad banks for his financial debacle.
He's quite the hypocrite telling others to never take bankruptcy, though he DID, to be excused from having to repay big loans that he asked for & signed repayment notes.
People with a ‘victim mindset‘ never prosper and never change.
This is a prime example as to why you never combine finances, married or not.
Nooooo 😭😭😭😭😭
Yikes, if it sounds too good to be true it just might be.
Casey, why do you like Spamming?
Yikes, it's a non-millionaire trying to give investment advice.
90 days fiance?