You are not alone, Tana. I'm one of your more recent subscribers because I didn't find you until maybe 5-6 mos. ago. Anxiety disorder and depression are hereditary in my family and while we may not suffer from the exact same thing, I can identify wholeheartedly with what you are going through. I hope your doctor can give you a diagnosis that reveals the right treatment for you--you deserve to be a happy, thriving individual. It's obvious you work hard and are committed to high standards within your craft, whatever it may be! I love your aesthetic, I'm cheering you on to finding the creative work that really resonates within you, leading to joy and fulfillment, rather than dread, anxiety and depression. Take good care, and know that there are so many wishing you all the best in your journey. ❤️
Tana I hope you never stop creating!!!! You've literally inspired me to start the small business I currently have now!! Thank you for being so raw about how mentally draining it is to have your own small business and actually dissecting what us creatives go through DAILY. I'm so misunderstood by the people around me, it's refreshing to finally know I'm not alone. Please continue sharing
I'm so happy you could relate. I know many of us struggle with similar things and I'm glad I decided to talk about it so we could feel less alone and learn how to do and feel better. I'm definitely never going to stop creating! 🥰💜
You are so incredibly brave for sharing this video. It’s so relatable and so many small business owners struggle with similar things. I am also a grade A procrastinator and I stress myself out so much. I drive myself crazy but it’s so so hard to change old habits. It’s especially hard when you are making things you no longer want to make. But it sounds like you’re headed in the right direction and I’m so excited to see where this mental health journey takes you and how you find healing. And congratulations to you and Nick on your new home!!! A fresh space is always a great way to feel inspired and motivated!
Thank you so much, Yelisse! 💜 It really is tough. I've been since way for as long as I can remember. I always thought I just "worked well under pressure" but turns out it's much more serious than that. I've had to learn so much about myself, my habits and tendencies to finally realize that I am definitely not a neurotypical person lol. Excited for my appointment and to continue learning so I can hopefully share tips for other small business owners going through the same thing 🥰. And yes, I'm hoping having a fresh space that I'll be at for more than a year since it's finally ours will be really helpful 😍
Hi Tana. i am a 50 ( something) yr old creative mum in the UK running my 1 woman business. I just wanted to reach through the screen and give you a hug. I have watched and enjoyed so many of your videos but this one moved me so much, a lot of what you said resonated with me so it touched my heart, I wish you so much luck for your appointment and will be interested to see what your results are, I am pleased you are looking after your mental health and hope you realise how special you are. big crafty hugs Denise x
Yes, this. I actually recently closed all three of my shops after being a small business owner for years. I took a mental health break and very quickly realized that being a small business owner is not what I want to be.
This hit right in the feels - it felt like you were describing me to a point where it almost got scary. I have been suspecting for some time now, that I might have the same mental condition that I assume you suspect as well, with yourself. I also have my own creative business, and since day one I´ve been struggeling. Not with sales, things have been going great and I´ve been able to step down from another full-time job to a part-time job. But the running of it all, the planning (or lack of) and constantly bouncing from one task to another, always wanting to try new things instead of improving the current workflow. I have listened to so many podcasts and other youtubers about this, but your video and the description of how you struggle with these particular situations in a creative small business, was new to me. And it reminded me, that I have to pick up the thread towards seeing a psychiatrist myself, and get to the bottom of this. Thank you for that.I wish you all the well in the world
Oh, man this is so relatable. I have anxiety, depression, and ADHD. It’s rough but getting therapy and medication changed my life. Wishing you the best!
I am new to your channel and you are sitting here describing my life for the last 49 years. I have tried to sell the things I make and all of the sudden what used to be fun now became a chore and I would lose any desire to do it. I don’t have a dedicated studio space and the thought getting everything out and putting it all away when I’m finished is just overwhelming to think about. I’m exhausted by the time I’m done running around the house getting all the materials that I have tucked away out and ready to use. I’m a neat freak so leaving the stuff out and sitting on our dining room table until I’m finished just stresses me out, I’m a huge procrastinator as well…so if I have a deadline I will literally wait until the last minute to start it. I also move around from one project/craft/art piece that I ended up with so much stuff. So I got rid of everything except of the few hobbies I absolutely enjoy. You are not alone with how you are feeling.
Be at peace knowing that everyone who is passionate about what they do feel the same. And also, it is way too much for one person to handle everything within the business and all this drains your energy specially if you are a perfectionist and wants to give the best of you ❤️
No worries. If you need to take a break. Take a break. Your mental health is more important. I just found your channel and I love it. If anything it’s important to know that it’s not always easy even if you have done it many years of selling online. On the long .It can feel tiring. Thanks for sharing. Like it has it’s ups and downs like any other job. A lot of people need to watch this video. Very informative. Currently I do get tired of the same job and I am very interested in making a small business. I was very stress and saw this video and I thought it was very important for me to watch. Thank you very much.💕
Thank you so much for being vulnerable in this way and sharing your story, because I am feeling a lot of similar things and struggling with similar problems in the process of trying to create my own little business. It's hard and we hate the idea of people seeing the real us and not the perfect person we present, but I can genuinely say that I feel so appreciative and thankful that you shared this because I don't feel as alone in my struggles now. Good luck with your diagnosis and I hope you find the tools and help you need to improve your life in the way you want.
I believe for most we all have a lot of "little issues" we deal with on a daily, so you're being so forthcoming is even more relatable and makes who you are to me even more attractive to watch! Keep up the hard work, and I wish you the best with your mental health. It's a long road for sure and a constant battle and can be a lot of work.
Can totally relate so I send you the most love and positivity to get you through these tough times. Do what's good for you and we'll be here for you and your journey 🧡🧡🧡
Tana I related so much to you after this video. Just did my first show yesterday and although it wasn’t as fruitful as I wanted it to be I learned so much of what I want and don’t want to do. I had two injuries last year working a regular non stimulating job. So a year ago I vowed to never work for someone again. Thanks for sharing your struggles and your successes with us…mental health is so important! Glad your doing YOU! Congratulations on your new house! Looking forward to seeing what the mini lazer can do. Sending BIG BIG HUGS from PA. - Christiner
I think it’s wonderful that you’re sharing your struggle as my daughter is struggling with anxiety and mental health and I think it’s great that she can see others that struggle and that it’s OK! I am so glad that you are moving forward to get help to learn how to learn and get better with your mental health…so awesome! Congratulations on your new house!!!
Thank you! This is definitely what I was hoping for when I decided to share this. I want to be able to help others and be someone they can relate to so they don't feel alone 💕
You are not alone with small business problems. I had to close mine because I was having a hard time promoting it. Doing all the labor work for my shop after a labor intensive full time job, I just couldn't find the energy to promote it, so I had to close it for now. I want to start it back up again. Haven't gave up on it yet. You have something going on. Just stay focused ❤
Holy cow. She literally spoke directly from MY brain. Word for word! I thought I was alone in my thoughts. Especially being a first generation entrepreneur. I have no one truly to ask for guidance. I often find myself sinking into hours of YT tutorials and I end up overwhelming myself and procrastinate. Wow! I honestly hope your doctor visit helps you! Thank you so much for sharing. Your work has always been one of my absolute favorite! I often have so much anxiety but the whole time watching your videos, I felt calm. You actually expressed what I can’t explain myself. Thank you again!
Thank you for sharing your story, many people do not take mental health serious. I'm so appreciative of your story, I realized that as a small business we all have mental blocks, procrastinating, and anxiety but we will get through it. I wish you much success in your business.
I feel like you were literally talking about me. Pretty much everything. I feel this all so deeply. I am so glad you are talking about it! I’m a relatively new follower who has watched all your videos…so happy to see you back here.
Thank you for making this video …. I felt like you were talking about what I have been going through for years … also had several shops over the past years and ventures and get bored. I now have finally found something that is going well and I’m not getting bored. You must always remember it’s not a bad reflection if you change direction. Like you I have so many crafting equipment and always want the next thing … now it’s a glowforge lol! Just keep on going! You will eventually find the thing that will hook you and that you won’t get bored with or want to give up 🤩 Strongs lovely! Hang in there! Close the doors that don’t work for you and open the next xxx Much Love Dee ❤️❤️❤️
Wishing you well. I believe in taking time. I also feel that I come to view you create absolutely anything, feel free to also just discover more in this journey. Always here to support
As you described yourself you also described me. I think it is very admirable that you chose to close your shops for now while you focus on your health. You are putting your health above money. I hope you get the answers you need to help improve your quality of life!
I am not a doctor, but what you says about your feelings and how you handle things, looks like you have adhd, and I think it is worth to check up, because there are a lot of strategies that makes our life easier. I just founded your channel, you are very talented, keep up!
This sounds like my 🧠 is talking back to me.🙃 I think small business owners that are creatives struggle with the same things almost. And Etsy makes my anxiety go crazy…… thank you for sharing your experiences it’s really helps us.
I’ve been going through the same thing. I’ve struggled with depression throughout my life. Trying to find a good therapist. I’ve called a few and they’re not taking any more patients. That should tell you something. So many people need help right now.I also do hand stamping and now use my crcuit machine. Most days lately I have no motivation to do any of it. I also get bored and then start something new. 😬 It’s a struggle. I think finding balance in life helps. Go out and do new things, try new things to put a spark in your life. Your channel is what first inspired me to start my business. I hope you feel happier soon. ❤️ 🤗
Oh Tana. This just touches my soul. This was me at the beginning of the pandemic. I shut down my shop and just stopped working. In some ways i felt really good. No stress, but I'm a creative person. So I struggled with that. I deal with severe anxiety, depression, and am going to be talking to a psychologist about possible adhd. I didn't see it until recently. Because I grew up with brothers with adhd. Their symptoms was so different them mine. But my older sister also just got an adhd diagnosis, and we pretty much show the same signs. I really hope you get the answers you need to help make your life a better quality. 🥰
I'm glad you could relate! Oh my goodness, symptoms manifest themselves SO differently is men and women - it's insane! I wouldn't be surprised if you had it too because it's so highly hereditary. Excited that you'll be talking to a psychologist too! 💕
@@TanaMakes I won't even be surprised. 😂 I have a huge family history of adhd and autism. Like out of 7 adults in my immediate family only 2 have no symptoms. Everyone else but me has been diagnosed. 😂
I’ve been wondering how you were doing. Thought of messaging you on IG but didn’t want to be nosy. I totally relate to everything you said. At the end of December I’m walking away from my successful business that I have run for the past 18 years and moving to a new province. I’m ready for the next chapter…a bit sacred but I know in my heart its the right decision. Thank you for sharing…sending hugs
Aw, thank you, Stephen! Wowee, I am so proud and excited for what's next for you! I'd be scared too but amazing things can happen when we listen to our intuition and chase after the things we know will make us happy.
Sending hugs!! I was wondering when you would post. I started watching you right the after quarantine and have encouraged me to pursue and make a small business of my own! Thank you for being so authentic and showing us your struggles. I have learned so much from you!!
Sending you hugs Tana. I embarked on this small business last year and it’s draining me. I feel all the things you mentioned here. It’s great that you took some time off and take pottery classes. It’s good to take breaks and whatever you decide to do as long as it makes you feel better is what counts. Don’t be too hard on yourself. I am learning that now and because Etsy isn’t my only income I don’t have to be so hard on myself.
Your video popped up as I was scrolling and you described me exactly! I know I need to get back into counseling. I definitely know I struggle with PTSD, anxiety and depression. But I'm starting to suspect its something else too. I look forward to hear your update. I feel it will give you a sense of relief knowing what "it" is and then starting the process of figuring out what will help you manage it for a better quality of life. Thank you for sharing 💛
Tana, this generation coming up is such a group of entitled people. My daughter is one of them. It is all about me me me. This COVID mess has really upped the ugliness of people. Tana, there is absolutely nothing wrong with taking a step back to focus on yourself. You are such an amazing person that was blessed with a real talent. My heart and prayers go out to you. I had kinda picked up on something struggling with you so I have already been praying for you. I personally know how prayers can change things. Follow your heart. I don't want to be one of those people but I actually read a scripture last night that hit hard with me. 1 Peter 5:8. "Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, like a roaring lion, walketh about seeking whom he may devour." Tana, your following loves you and we want the absolute best for you! Congrats on the new house!!
This is such a honest video of your feelings and you should be proud of yourself for being so brave. No one should do the things they no longer love doing because that would be like living a life of misery. I also have gotten to the point where I might stop making certain things for my shop as it no longer brings me the same joy and it's time consuming.
Real talk: my parents both passed away at the end of 2020 - about 6 weeks apart. I was also struggling at work - and ended up quitting about a week before my Mom died. I ended up having to stick around at their house for 3 months...and had to surrendering their dog...and sadly euthanizing their cat. SO - to say that stuff have been rough - is a huge understatement...I promise that I have a point...at the end of July I was offered an amazing job with a raise. But...I just wasn't ready. I was panicked about working again - and decided to take off another 6 months and get my personal life together. Thankfully, I had the means to do that - and I know not everyone does. I have gone into therapy and am starting to take better care of my body. Therapy is doing a lot to help validate my feelings - and my therapist is pretty sure I have developed PTSD (thanks, former bosses). Sometimes...you just have to take care of yourself the best way you can. I wish I had done it a lot sooner - but who knows if it would have been as effective. LONG story short...you're not alone and I'm sure I'm not the only person here is proud of you for being open about the struggle.
I can't even begin imagine how difficult that must have been. You are so strong and I'm so proud of you for taking the initiative to take get of yourself 💕. Just admitting to ourselves that we need help can be the hardest part. Sending much love and strength to you. Thank you for watching and sharing your story with me 💜
I've got a a pretty successful business at the moment with getting around 20 orders every day however I feel as if I have no time, with doing my A levels at the same time it is a real struggle at the moment
Hi, this is the first time that I watch your video, you are not alone. You remind me of myself. I am in my fifties and think to myself if I capable of starting my own RUclips channel but I don't have the mental strength to hold myself accountable to make it happen. I too start different projects and spend so much money. My family is so supportive. Congratulations on your new home. Keep going and reaching for dreams.
I hope you get the help you need. I also struggle with procrastination and dealing with problems that arrive that make me stop in my tracks. What about getting together with another small business owner and you can both help each other with marketing and admin. issues. Both of you could plan your week, develop goals and encourage one another. By the way, my daughter has ADHD and has had struggles similar to yours all her life. It’s not easy but with medication and routines keep her on track. Best luck with your investigation into your health issues.
Bless your heart hun. It sounds like you might have adhd. I found out I had it in January and it has been a really long but interesting road. I always thought I just had terrible depression and anxiety but adhd exasperates those symptoms. I’m looking for a psychiatrist to help me with medication now but it’s like I’ve been battling a monster my whole life and I finally know why and what the monster is. I had a custom t shirt shop and I closed it because I just couldn’t keep up with it. From having a lot of orders to none it was really bad for my mental health. Now I have an adult toy shop with my hubby and I have been enjoying it but I do get overwhelmed easily still but at least my husband helps. Listen…you’re doing great. I know exactly how you feel, you’re not alone. I hope you are able to get the help you need to do and feel better. I’m with you and I pray for you.💕
Wow,this is me some days hard to just get dressed and leave home. I have made so many things too get bored look for something new just started pottery too like two months ago seems like the easiest thing to do right now. Got a glowflorge now looking at it like what do I do now. Got a embroidery machine save boat again. Some days I get depressed yet I don’t stop and creating helps me. Just got back into shirts but no custom because that was not fun thevdarn vinyl and rude customers it was no longer fun. Now I create what I love on shirts. Yes I get distracted too haha twins almost girl you’re not alone!!! Do what you need to do you can always come back later or move on to what brings you joy!
I literally struggle with the same thing, I’ve changed my shop so much that I think it ended up hurting my brand because I was constantly changing what I was selling because I would get so bored making the same thing over and over again🙈😂 I am almost to the point where I just want to close my current shop down and start all over doing something different, ugh😅
Take your time, make and create what you like , because your health is the most important thing. I am sure you will find YOUR way to go on with everything. Sending love from italy
I definitely relate. I’ve always been interested in starting a business on Etsy or something somewhere because I love to create, but I get bored easily, hobby hop, have to be in a certain mood to do something specific, & it pisses me off so I give up. I’m consistent everywhere except with my self, & I get multiple projects & chores going that can automate, while I do something else. It’s mentally tiring. Love your videos & honesty. Take care of your self first gorgeous.
This video is incredible, I thought how is she so perfect and organized and put together. Ty for being you. I'm struggling to with my job and how it is sucking the life out of me and don't know what to do to fix bc I carry the insurance and majority of income. So it is hard to find a job that pays decent and something that I can handle for years. Ahh it sucks. Good luck I hope all goes your way.
Thank you so much! That is so tough and I'm so sorry you are going through that. I hope you're able to manifest and find a better working environment soon. Days where it's tough, I know it can help immensely to practice gratitude and positive affirmations, even if it's hard to be grateful. I've started doing more yoga, reading, meditation, taking walks outside during my "lunch break," listening to relaxing ambience music while working, etc. and that has helped a lot. I'm hoping to make a video about that soon 💕
Loved this video! I related to this sooooo much! Thanks for making this video because now I don't feel so alone in my own feelings and habits. Running a small business is hard! Really hard! Take a break and take care of yourself ❤❤
Heart breaking to see you cry, I hope you get the answers you need! I really related to the part about procrastination. I have an Etsy shop which is successful, it's my full time job and I work from home. I always beat myself up because a lot of people would do anything to be in my position and I feel like I waste it by staring into space. I just can't get the focus or motivation to improve things. I know it could be so much better but I just plod along doing the minimum to get by. Also, when you said that you need deadlines... same! I will make and ship all of my orders because I know I have to but when it comes to adding new listings or improving SEO or social media I am so slow and barely get anything done. We have to take a step back sometimes. I have turned my shop off a couple of times just to have a break and it really helps my mindset. Take care Tana. Just know that you have inspired a lot of people, you are doing great and you deserve to step back and re-evaluate whenever you see fit x
im so greatful, to have come across this video, im at a start of a small business & i have never felt a more genuine person & thank you for sharing, this and all your videos i watched will help so much, so thank you for sharing and these video will help a lot 😍🙏 do take care and appericate your videos 😍👋
This is so incredibly familiar. You are not alone. I have almost every symptom you described and it can be a struggle for sure. I wish you all the best and congrats on your new house! Things will get better I promise, keep at it girl you got this! And I love the “real” you it’s very refreshing and honest. Thank you for sharing!
Thank you so much 💜. Even though I don't wish feeling like this upon anyone, I'm glad you can relate and it's nice not to feel alone. Really glad so many people liked seeing this side of me 🥲
Aww!! I almost thought I was listening to myself. I get bored so easily. I jump from craft to craft and I'm so bored doing the same things again and again. You can always take a break and come back to it if you want. Sending you lots of love. ❤❤ Congrats on the House. 🥰🥰
I have been wondering about the videos. I love your shops and videos and what you do and you really have inspired me as well. I hand stamp and crochet. Not much of a etsy business if nobody buys any of it. I've gotten 2 sales and getting discouraged. Please take care of yourself and I pray you feel better and find something that works for you. Hugs
I hear ya sister... totally can relate to your struggles. For me I always try to remind myself to be grateful for all the options I have... to be creative and be my own boss and do what I love. not everyone has that. I have adhd and medication can help with that. Good luck to you dear... ❣
As so many others have said already, I can truly relate to your situation! I have recently been diagnosed with high levels of general and social anxiety, as well as depression and O.C.D. Thankfully I am now being treated with a combination of medication and therapy but I am still struggling to find the slightest motivation to keep my business up and running. After investing so much money into my stock and equipment, I feel an overwhelming sense of guilt even considering giving it up. Hopefully my passion will return but for now I am taking some much needed time out to work on myself. Wishing you all the best…. just remember you are not alone. Love your videos. Sending hugs 💕
I feel like I'll probably be diagnosed with several things as well but at least I'll be happy to officially know what I have and the next steps to take to start bettering my life too. I'll definitely start making videos on things that will help for small businesses owners going through the same struggle. I've done so much research, have started readings book that help what I'm struggling with, and have started applying some of the practices, so I'm excited to share tips. Thank you for your love and support 💕
Hey there, I just want to say that we are on the same boat and I totally understand how you feel. I've been there and still there that's why I am taking a long break from RUclips and business. We have 4 kids and will have another baby in 2 weeks and we are still waiting to move into a new house, packing and unpacking, cleaning both houses and buying and selling house, struggling with my are business, tough pregnancy, taking care of teen kids who's struggling with depression ( because of the pandemic...) etc. I had to see a doctor and it worked out okay for a while but I had to stop to see my counselor because of the pandemic. I am fighting hard here myself too. But one thing that helped me was to slowing down and just do my best. Anyways I always enjoy yours and I sometimes wonder how you are doing and check on your channel when I don't see you new uploads. There must be someone like me wonder and care about you even though we don't really know each other. I already feel like you are my friend. I always wish you the best. Also I am so glad that you started making pottery that's what I am going to try with my teen girls when things get better (delivering baby, moving and organizing the house and studio...) Take good care of yourself. You are such a wonderful lady. ^^ Big hugs and love to you from Alaska.
You're so freakin' strong to be able to keep fighting hard with all of those things going on! Sometimes that's how life is - everything just happens all at once, stressing us the heck out, but hopefully you'll be able to enjoy the sunshine and rainbow after the big storm 💕. Sending much love and strength to you and your whole family, and a big congratulations on your next baby and house. Hope your teen girls love the pottery as much as I do. Thank you so much for being here and commenting 🤗
You sound like me. I actually watched your videos when I was first getting into Etsy a year and a half ago. I started a shop and it was so successful but it was made to order. It made be over six figures but it was exactly what you were saying repetition. I ended up starting 5 Etsy shops all to help stimulate my creative mind. I ended that shop in December because I wanted to make everything passive and I was so worn out. Now I’m making double what I was all on passive income. For example I haven’t worked all week but still I’m making 600 a day on Etsy. I work on it and create more when I want to. You could absolutely just sell your designs or png files, printable planners etc. I know you probably know all of that. But it has literally saved my sanity to just move everything passive. I still get to create which I love but no more mean customers or getting stressed about orders.
And what I couldn’t stand about Etsy is taking a two day holiday literally ruined my sales for weeks. So now I never have to shut down my shops. I’m a single mom to two toddlers too so I get to actually spend more quality time with them vs stressing about all the orders coming in.
That's amazing 👏. More passive income is definitely what I'm working on this year 🥲. Especially since I have an audience and have not used that to it's fullest potential. I know so much, especially having worked professionally in graphic design, e-commerce and marketing, but have always let fear hold me back thinking I'm not good enough to make items that others can download and find useful.. Even though I've purchased all of these things before and know how to make them myself 🤦♀️. Tired of wasting so much time and energy on soul sucking work when it's become so easy to make money when you have access to a computer and internet.
Thank you Tana for sharing all of this with us! I have just finished CBT sessions for severe anxiety, and even if your own mental health struggle may be different, I am sure that the psychiatrist will help you so much like it helped me. I would love to hear more about what you are going to do to improve your situation once you get a diagnosis, but of course only if you feel like sharing it. And I just want to tell you that no matter what your business is about, I'll still be watching your videos because it's not the items that interest me, it's you and your journey and your authenticity! October seems to be a very stressful but exciting (congrats on the house 🤭) month for you and my thoughts will be with you! Wishing all the best to you! 💕
Tana, everything thing you said is what I feel. I’m glad to see that you are realizing that you need to change for your mental health. Take care of you honey and congratulations on the new house.
I'm glad you could relate and hope we can both make the changes we need to make our lives better. Thank you so much! I really appreciate you watching and spreading your kind words 😊💕
Tana, thank you for your openness and speaking truth regarding the business aspect. I can relate to everything you said. Sistah I will keep you in my prayers🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 You do you and take care of yourself. Congratulations on your new house!!!🙏🏼🥰🙏🏼
I think another of us can identify with what you are dealing with. We being creative always wants to do more and by ourselves and with myself I am also feeling other people won't do it as I am doing it. I pray that you do get to the point of knowing what's happening to you and I pray that God heals you in a supernatural way and that you feel satisfied within yourself.❤
Thank you for sharing your experience, it seems like you were talking about me, you are so brave to talk about it, you always have to do what is best for you. Best of luck to you.
Perhaps you should consider print on demand companies such as Printful or Printed Mint where they take of everything and you just focus on designing. My sister does that and she can travel an run her business from anywhere.
I do but by the time it sells out, I get even more people wanting it and it's hard to pass up the opportunity to make more income by providing what people really want 😅. I do try to do this with the seasonal earrings though.
Thank you! So much Tana.. I can't begin to tell you, how wonderfully helpful and insightful your sharing in this video is for me..I appreciate it so much...Thank you! ❤
I feel this too…I’m a crocheter, and always get new ideas. But everything takes a lot of work to make and doesn’t sell for enough. I’m not creative enough to make my own patterns to sell, and I’m not camera good enough to make RUclips videos. I also have a 30 hour/week job and 2 kids. So I feel like giving up my maker business every day…but then i get another idea and can’t walk away 🤪
Oh man I’m sending you lots of love 💖 and light through your journey being an entrepreneur is not easy. Etsy it’s like a freaking nightmare now I feel your pain I had a customer that lied on me and left a bad review and that was detrimental to my business on Etsy and Etsy refused to remove the review they refuse to do anything for the seller they don’t really care about you as a creative. So now I have my own shop. I’m sorry I hope you feel better soon honey. 💖⭐️
Thank you! I know - it sucks how often they side with the customers. They really need to support the shop owners more and this new star seller thing is affecting the mental health of even more sellers. 95% or more for each category is ridiculous and I'm now having to respond to messages that really don't deserve responding to, stressing even more than someone is going to leave a bad review... It's so unhealthy. I wish you much success with your own shop. I know it can be hard to walk away from Etsy especially when it can bring in so many sales on its own. Thank you so much for the support 💕
I love your videos and content but I completely understand the need to take care of yourself and your mental health. Anyone that truly supports you will understand your need to work on your mental health and improve your life overall. Self care is super important especially for small business owners that have to do it all.
OMG...I am you. I'm thinking abt getting help too. I'm just so overwhelmed abt everything and self reflecting and self diagnosing is not working or any good.
It's tough being so unsure, that's why I finally decided to get a real diagnosis lol. Hopefully I'll be able to learn a lot and share some tips for those who can relate 💕
@@TanaMakes Of course! Keep doing what’s best for you and your mental health! Thanks for sharing too, it helped me make a move to also reduce some of my small business stress! 🖤🖤🖤
I started my business in November of last year. And how do you say slow.i haven't sold much on there either. But I refuse to give up. You hang in there.
Sending love and light your way. I'm going through something similar except I don't do anything I'm lazy I have a million ideas and want to try them all but I know I can only do one at a time I quit things alot never see things through but I can't make money that way so I'm hoping I get better I'm seeking help and.i know you will too
This was the most relatable entrepreneur video I’ve ever seen. It was like watching me talk to myself
Same 😩😩
You are not alone, Tana. I'm one of your more recent subscribers because I didn't find you until maybe 5-6 mos. ago. Anxiety disorder and depression are hereditary in my family and while we may not suffer from the exact same thing, I can identify wholeheartedly with what you are going through. I hope your doctor can give you a diagnosis that reveals the right treatment for you--you deserve to be a happy, thriving individual. It's obvious you work hard and are committed to high standards within your craft, whatever it may be! I love your aesthetic, I'm cheering you on to finding the creative work that really resonates within you, leading to joy and fulfillment, rather than dread, anxiety and depression. Take good care, and know that there are so many wishing you all the best in your journey. ❤️
Tana I hope you never stop creating!!!! You've literally inspired me to start the small business I currently have now!! Thank you for being so raw about how mentally draining it is to have your own small business and actually dissecting what us creatives go through DAILY. I'm so misunderstood by the people around me, it's refreshing to finally know I'm not alone. Please continue sharing
I'm so happy you could relate. I know many of us struggle with similar things and I'm glad I decided to talk about it so we could feel less alone and learn how to do and feel better. I'm definitely never going to stop creating! 🥰💜
You are so incredibly brave for sharing this video. It’s so relatable and so many small business owners struggle with similar things. I am also a grade A procrastinator and I stress myself out so much. I drive myself crazy but it’s so so hard to change old habits. It’s especially hard when you are making things you no longer want to make. But it sounds like you’re headed in the right direction and I’m so excited to see where this mental health journey takes you and how you find healing. And congratulations to you and Nick on your new home!!! A fresh space is always a great way to feel inspired and motivated!
Thank you so much, Yelisse! 💜 It really is tough. I've been since way for as long as I can remember. I always thought I just "worked well under pressure" but turns out it's much more serious than that. I've had to learn so much about myself, my habits and tendencies to finally realize that I am definitely not a neurotypical person lol. Excited for my appointment and to continue learning so I can hopefully share tips for other small business owners going through the same thing 🥰. And yes, I'm hoping having a fresh space that I'll be at for more than a year since it's finally ours will be really helpful 😍
Hi Tana.
i am a 50 ( something) yr old creative mum in the UK running my 1 woman business.
I just wanted to reach through the screen and give you a hug. I have watched and enjoyed so many of your videos but this one moved me so much, a lot of what you said resonated with me so it touched my heart, I wish you so much luck for your appointment and will be interested to see what your results are, I am pleased you are looking after your mental health and hope you realise how special you are. big crafty hugs Denise x
Yes, this. I actually recently closed all three of my shops after being a small business owner for years. I took a mental health break and very quickly realized that being a small business owner is not what I want to be.
This hit right in the feels - it felt like you were describing me to a point where it almost got scary. I have been suspecting for some time now, that I might have the same mental condition that I assume you suspect as well, with yourself. I also have my own creative business, and since day one I´ve been struggeling. Not with sales, things have been going great and I´ve been able to step down from another full-time job to a part-time job. But the running of it all, the planning (or lack of) and constantly bouncing from one task to another, always wanting to try new things instead of improving the current workflow. I have listened to so many podcasts and other youtubers about this, but your video and the description of how you struggle with these particular situations in a creative small business, was new to me. And it reminded me, that I have to pick up the thread towards seeing a psychiatrist myself, and get to the bottom of this. Thank you for that.I wish you all the well in the world
Oh, man this is so relatable. I have anxiety, depression, and ADHD. It’s rough but getting therapy and medication changed my life. Wishing you the best!
So glad you could relate! That's so good to hear - I can't wait to get help and hopefully feel a lot better 🥺💕
I am new to your channel and you are sitting here describing my life for the last 49 years. I have tried to sell the things I make and all of the sudden what used to be fun now became a chore and I would lose any desire to do it. I don’t have a dedicated studio space and the thought getting everything out and putting it all away when I’m finished is just overwhelming to think about. I’m exhausted by the time I’m done running around the house getting all the materials that I have tucked away out and ready to use. I’m a neat freak so leaving the stuff out and sitting on our dining room table until I’m finished just stresses me out, I’m a huge procrastinator as well…so if I have a deadline I will literally wait until the last minute to start it. I also move around from one project/craft/art piece that I ended up with so much stuff. So I got rid of everything except of the few hobbies I absolutely enjoy. You are not alone with how you are feeling.
Be at peace knowing that everyone who is passionate about what they do feel the same. And also, it is way too much for one person to handle everything within the business and all this drains your energy specially if you are a perfectionist and wants to give the best of you ❤️
No worries. If you need to take a break. Take a break. Your mental health is more important. I just found your channel and I love it. If anything it’s important to know that it’s not always easy even if you have done it many years of selling online. On the long .It can feel tiring. Thanks for sharing. Like it has it’s ups and downs like any other job. A lot of people need to watch this video. Very informative. Currently I do get tired of the same job and I am very interested in making a small business. I was very stress and saw this video and I thought it was very important for me to watch. Thank you very much.💕
It's ok to struggle. What matters is you've recognized it and are getting what you need and setting boundaries for yourself. Good luck. 🍀🍀🍀
Thank you so much for being vulnerable in this way and sharing your story, because I am feeling a lot of similar things and struggling with similar problems in the process of trying to create my own little business. It's hard and we hate the idea of people seeing the real us and not the perfect person we present, but I can genuinely say that I feel so appreciative and thankful that you shared this because I don't feel as alone in my struggles now. Good luck with your diagnosis and I hope you find the tools and help you need to improve your life in the way you want.
I believe for most we all have a lot of "little issues" we deal with on a daily, so you're being so forthcoming is even more relatable and makes who you are to me even more attractive to watch! Keep up the hard work, and I wish you the best with your mental health. It's a long road for sure and a constant battle and can be a lot of work.
Despite what you are going through. You still manage to inspire so many small business owners. So proud of you! 🥰
Thank you 🥺💜💜
Can totally relate so I send you the most love and positivity to get you through these tough times. Do what's good for you and we'll be here for you and your journey 🧡🧡🧡
We like you because you're REAL !! ❤💜💚🇨🇦
Aw, thank you! 💜💜
Tana I related so much to you after this video. Just did my first show yesterday and although it wasn’t as fruitful as I wanted it to be I learned so much of what I want and don’t want to do. I had two injuries last year working a regular non stimulating job. So a year ago I vowed to never work for someone again. Thanks for sharing your struggles and your successes with us…mental health is so important! Glad your doing YOU! Congratulations on your new house! Looking forward to seeing what the mini lazer can do. Sending BIG BIG HUGS from PA. - Christiner
I think it’s wonderful that you’re sharing your struggle as my daughter is struggling with anxiety and mental health and I think it’s great that she can see others that struggle and that it’s OK! I am so glad that you are moving forward to get help to learn how to learn and get better with your mental health…so awesome! Congratulations on your new house!!!
Thank you! This is definitely what I was hoping for when I decided to share this. I want to be able to help others and be someone they can relate to so they don't feel alone 💕
You are not alone with small business problems. I had to close mine because I was having a hard time promoting it. Doing all the labor work for my shop after a labor intensive full time job, I just couldn't find the energy to promote it, so I had to close it for now. I want to start it back up again. Haven't gave up on it yet. You have something going on. Just stay focused ❤
Holy cow. She literally spoke directly from MY brain. Word for word! I thought I was alone in my thoughts. Especially being a first generation entrepreneur. I have no one truly to ask for guidance. I often find myself sinking into hours of YT tutorials and I end up overwhelming myself and procrastinate. Wow! I honestly hope your doctor visit helps you! Thank you so much for sharing. Your work has always been one of my absolute favorite! I often have so much anxiety but the whole time watching your videos, I felt calm. You actually expressed what I can’t explain myself. Thank you again!
Thank you for sharing your story, many people do not take mental health serious. I'm so appreciative of your story, I realized that as a small business we all have mental blocks, procrastinating, and anxiety but we will get through it. I wish you much success in your business.
I'm praying for you Tana!! You're amazing and you'll get through this! Thank you for sharing, being transparent and open. You're a gem.
I feel like you were literally talking about me. Pretty much everything. I feel this all so deeply. I am so glad you are talking about it! I’m a relatively new follower who has watched all your videos…so happy to see you back here.
Thank you for making this video …. I felt like you were talking about what I have been going through for years … also had several shops over the past years and ventures and get bored. I now have finally found something that is going well and I’m not getting bored.
You must always remember it’s not a bad reflection if you change direction. Like you I have so many crafting equipment and always want the next thing … now it’s a glowforge lol! Just keep on going! You will eventually find the thing that will hook you and that you won’t get bored with or want to give up 🤩 Strongs lovely! Hang in there! Close the doors that don’t work for you and open the next xxx Much Love Dee ❤️❤️❤️
Wishing you well. I believe in taking time. I also feel that I come to view you create absolutely anything, feel free to also just discover more in this journey. Always here to support
Thank you so much for sharing. Hearing your story makes me feel so less alone with my mental health struggles❤️
You're welcome! So happy I could do that 🥺💜
Also yes, I would a studio tour before you move! 😊
I feel you!!! The burnout is rough.
As you described yourself you also described me.
I think it is very admirable that you chose to close your shops for now while you focus on your health. You are putting your health above money. I hope you get the answers you need to help improve your quality of life!
I'm new here but I feel you girl. Do what makes you happy sis!
I am not a doctor, but what you says about your feelings and how you handle things, looks like you have adhd, and I think it is worth to check up, because there are a lot of strategies that makes our life easier. I just founded your channel, you are very talented, keep up!
This sounds like my 🧠 is talking back to me.🙃 I think small business owners that are creatives struggle with the same things almost. And Etsy makes my anxiety go crazy…… thank you for sharing your experiences it’s really helps us.
God bless ❣️I struggle as well. I am 62 and I have depression/ADD/ Anxiety. This is not a bad thing, It is what makes me crafty.
I’ve been going through the same thing. I’ve struggled with depression throughout my life. Trying to find a good therapist. I’ve called a few and they’re not taking any more patients. That should tell you something. So many people need help right now.I also do hand stamping and now use my crcuit machine. Most days lately I have no motivation to do any of it. I also get bored and then start something new. 😬
It’s a struggle. I think finding balance in life helps. Go out and do new things, try new things to put a spark in your life. Your channel is what first inspired me to start my business. I hope you feel happier soon. ❤️ 🤗
Oh Tana. This just touches my soul. This was me at the beginning of the pandemic. I shut down my shop and just stopped working. In some ways i felt really good. No stress, but I'm a creative person. So I struggled with that. I deal with severe anxiety, depression, and am going to be talking to a psychologist about possible adhd.
I didn't see it until recently. Because I grew up with brothers with adhd. Their symptoms was so different them mine. But my older sister also just got an adhd diagnosis, and we pretty much show the same signs.
I really hope you get the answers you need to help make your life a better quality. 🥰
I'm glad you could relate! Oh my goodness, symptoms manifest themselves SO differently is men and women - it's insane! I wouldn't be surprised if you had it too because it's so highly hereditary. Excited that you'll be talking to a psychologist too! 💕
@@TanaMakes I won't even be surprised. 😂 I have a huge family history of adhd and autism. Like out of 7 adults in my immediate family only 2 have no symptoms. Everyone else but me has been diagnosed. 😂
Love watching your videos please come back ❤
Thank you for your honesty. Wishing you all the best and sending you virtual sparkles ✨✨
I’ve been wondering how you were doing. Thought of messaging you on IG but didn’t want to be nosy.
I totally relate to everything you said. At the end of December I’m walking away from my successful business that I have run for the past 18 years and moving to a new province. I’m ready for the next chapter…a bit sacred but I know in my heart its the right decision.
Thank you for sharing…sending hugs
Aw, thank you, Stephen! Wowee, I am so proud and excited for what's next for you! I'd be scared too but amazing things can happen when we listen to our intuition and chase after the things we know will make us happy.
Sending hugs!! I was wondering when you would post. I started watching you right the after quarantine and have encouraged me to pursue and make a small business of my own! Thank you for being so authentic and showing us your struggles. I have learned so much from you!!
Thank you so much! I appreciate you following along and glad you're able to take away stuff from the videos for your own business 🥰
Sending you hugs Tana. I embarked on this small business last year and it’s draining me. I feel all the things you mentioned here. It’s great that you took some time off and take pottery classes. It’s good to take breaks and whatever you decide to do as long as it makes you feel better is what counts. Don’t be too hard on yourself. I am learning that now and because Etsy isn’t my only income I don’t have to be so hard on myself.
I can identify with this so much Tana ❤ Especially chronic procrastinating, anxiety, mild depression...
Me too x
I'm glad you can relate and hope it helped to share my experiences 💕
Omg same !
Be you...you are perfectly imperfect like the rest of us....i enjoy your videos. Positive healing energy your way!
Thank you so much 💕
Your video popped up as I was scrolling and you described me exactly! I know I need to get back into counseling. I definitely know I struggle with PTSD, anxiety and depression. But I'm starting to suspect its something else too. I look forward to hear your update. I feel it will give you a sense of relief knowing what "it" is and then starting the process of figuring out what will help you manage it for a better quality of life. Thank you for sharing 💛
Tana, this generation coming up is such a group of entitled people. My daughter is one of them. It is all about me me me. This COVID mess has really upped the ugliness of people. Tana, there is absolutely nothing wrong with taking a step back to focus on yourself. You are such an amazing person that was blessed with a real talent. My heart and prayers go out to you. I had kinda picked up on something struggling with you so I have already been praying for you. I personally know how prayers can change things. Follow your heart. I don't want to be one of those people but I actually read a scripture last night that hit hard with me. 1 Peter 5:8. "Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, like a roaring lion, walketh about seeking whom he may devour."
Tana, your following loves you and we want the absolute best for you! Congrats on the new house!!
This is such a honest video of your feelings and you should be proud of yourself for being so brave. No one should do the things they no longer love doing because that would be like living a life of misery. I also have gotten to the point where I might stop making certain things for my shop as it no longer brings me the same joy and it's time consuming.
Real talk: my parents both passed away at the end of 2020 - about 6 weeks apart. I was also struggling at work - and ended up quitting about a week before my Mom died. I ended up having to stick around at their house for 3 months...and had to surrendering their dog...and sadly euthanizing their cat. SO - to say that stuff have been rough - is a huge understatement...I promise that I have a point...at the end of July I was offered an amazing job with a raise. But...I just wasn't ready. I was panicked about working again - and decided to take off another 6 months and get my personal life together. Thankfully, I had the means to do that - and I know not everyone does. I have gone into therapy and am starting to take better care of my body. Therapy is doing a lot to help validate my feelings - and my therapist is pretty sure I have developed PTSD (thanks, former bosses). Sometimes...you just have to take care of yourself the best way you can. I wish I had done it a lot sooner - but who knows if it would have been as effective. LONG story short...you're not alone and I'm sure I'm not the only person here is proud of you for being open about the struggle.
I can't even begin imagine how difficult that must have been. You are so strong and I'm so proud of you for taking the initiative to take get of yourself 💕. Just admitting to ourselves that we need help can be the hardest part. Sending much love and strength to you. Thank you for watching and sharing your story with me 💜
I've got a a pretty successful business at the moment with getting around 20 orders every day however I feel as if I have no time, with doing my A levels at the same time it is a real struggle at the moment
Hi, this is the first time that I watch your video, you are not alone. You remind me of myself. I am in my fifties and think to myself if I capable of starting my own RUclips channel but I don't have the mental strength to hold myself accountable to make it happen. I too start different projects and spend so much money. My family is so supportive. Congratulations on your new home. Keep going and reaching for dreams.
I hope you get the help you need. I also struggle with procrastination and dealing with problems that arrive that make me stop in my tracks. What about getting together with another small business owner and you can both help each other with marketing and admin. issues. Both of you could plan your week, develop goals and encourage one another. By the way, my daughter has ADHD and has had struggles similar to yours all her life. It’s not easy but with medication and routines keep her on track. Best luck with your investigation into your health issues.
Bless your heart hun. It sounds like you might have adhd. I found out I had it in January and it has been a really long but interesting road. I always thought I just had terrible depression and anxiety but adhd exasperates those symptoms. I’m looking for a psychiatrist to help me with medication now but it’s like I’ve been battling a monster my whole life and I finally know why and what the monster is. I had a custom t shirt shop and I closed it because I just couldn’t keep up with it. From having a lot of orders to none it was really bad for my mental health. Now I have an adult toy shop with my hubby and I have been enjoying it but I do get overwhelmed easily still but at least my husband helps. Listen…you’re doing great. I know exactly how you feel, you’re not alone. I hope you are able to get the help you need to do and feel better. I’m with you and I pray for you.💕
Wow,this is me some days hard to just get dressed and leave home. I have made so many things too get bored look for something new just started pottery too like two months ago seems like the easiest thing to do right now. Got a glowflorge now looking at it like what do I do now. Got a embroidery machine save boat again. Some days I get depressed yet I don’t stop and creating helps me. Just got back into shirts but no custom because that was not fun thevdarn vinyl and rude customers it was no longer fun. Now I create what I love on shirts. Yes I get distracted too haha twins almost girl you’re not alone!!! Do what you need to do you can always come back later or move on to what brings you joy!
I literally struggle with the same thing, I’ve changed my shop so much that I think it ended up hurting my brand because I was constantly changing what I was selling because I would get so bored making the same thing over and over again🙈😂 I am almost to the point where I just want to close my current shop down and start all over doing something different, ugh😅
Me too !!! I'm ready to give up, already
@@bozomahoney Right there with ya!
I cane across your video. I'm sorry about what you are going through.
. Praying for you.
Thank you. I really appreciate it 💕
I have never related to anything more ❤️ Thank you for sharing!
So happy you could. Of course! 💜💜
Take your time, make and create what you like , because your health is the most important thing. I am sure you will find YOUR way to go on with everything. Sending love from italy
I definitely relate. I’ve always been interested in starting a business on Etsy or something somewhere because I love to create, but I get bored easily, hobby hop, have to be in a certain mood to do something specific, & it pisses me off so I give up. I’m consistent everywhere except with my self, & I get multiple projects & chores going that can automate, while I do something else. It’s mentally tiring. Love your videos & honesty. Take care of your self first gorgeous.
This video is incredible, I thought how is she so perfect and organized and put together. Ty for being you. I'm struggling to with my job and how it is sucking the life out of me and don't know what to do to fix bc I carry the insurance and majority of income. So it is hard to find a job that pays decent and something that I can handle for years. Ahh it sucks. Good luck I hope all goes your way.
Thank you so much! That is so tough and I'm so sorry you are going through that. I hope you're able to manifest and find a better working environment soon. Days where it's tough, I know it can help immensely to practice gratitude and positive affirmations, even if it's hard to be grateful. I've started doing more yoga, reading, meditation, taking walks outside during my "lunch break," listening to relaxing ambience music while working, etc. and that has helped a lot. I'm hoping to make a video about that soon 💕
Totally feel you. I have the same mentality and struggles toward my creative work and business. Hope you find your way to breathe🧡
Awww Tana 😢 I will watch anything you put out and cheer you on no matter what you do or create. I am sending you all the virtual hugs!!!
Thank you so much 🥺🤗💜
Loved this video! I related to this sooooo much! Thanks for making this video because now I don't feel so alone in my own feelings and habits. Running a small business is hard! Really hard! Take a break and take care of yourself ❤❤
Heart breaking to see you cry, I hope you get the answers you need!
I really related to the part about procrastination. I have an Etsy shop which is successful, it's my full time job and I work from home. I always beat myself up because a lot of people would do anything to be in my position and I feel like I waste it by staring into space. I just can't get the focus or motivation to improve things. I know it could be so much better but I just plod along doing the minimum to get by. Also, when you said that you need deadlines... same! I will make and ship all of my orders because I know I have to but when it comes to adding new listings or improving SEO or social media I am so slow and barely get anything done.
We have to take a step back sometimes. I have turned my shop off a couple of times just to have a break and it really helps my mindset.
Take care Tana. Just know that you have inspired a lot of people, you are doing great and you deserve to step back and re-evaluate whenever you see fit x
im so greatful, to have come across this video, im at a start of a small business & i have never felt a more genuine person & thank you for sharing, this and all your videos i watched will help so much, so thank you for sharing and these video will help a lot 😍🙏 do take care and appericate your videos 😍👋
This is so incredibly familiar. You are not alone. I have almost every symptom you described and it can be a struggle for sure. I wish you all the best and congrats on your new house! Things will get better I promise, keep at it girl you got this! And I love the “real” you it’s very refreshing and honest. Thank you for sharing!
Thank you so much 💜. Even though I don't wish feeling like this upon anyone, I'm glad you can relate and it's nice not to feel alone. Really glad so many people liked seeing this side of me 🥲
We all have issues. God Bless You.
Wishing you the best and thank you for sharing prayers and good vibes that everything goes good! Congrats on your new house!!!
Aww!! I almost thought I was listening to myself. I get bored so easily.
I jump from craft to craft and I'm so bored doing the same things again and again.
You can always take a break and come back to it if you want.
Sending you lots of love. ❤❤
Congrats on the House. 🥰🥰
I have been wondering about the videos. I love your shops and videos and what you do and you really have inspired me as well. I hand stamp and crochet. Not much of a etsy business if nobody buys any of it. I've gotten 2 sales and getting discouraged. Please take care of yourself and I pray you feel better and find something that works for you. Hugs
I hear ya sister... totally can relate to your struggles. For me I always try to remind myself to be grateful for all the options I have... to be creative and be my own boss and do what I love. not everyone has that. I have adhd and medication can help with that.
Good luck to you dear... ❣
Well done for putting yourself first! 💖 take care!
As so many others have said already, I can truly relate to your situation! I have recently been diagnosed with high levels of general and social anxiety, as well as depression and O.C.D. Thankfully I am now being treated with a combination of medication and therapy but I am still struggling to find the slightest motivation to keep my business up and running. After investing so much money into my stock and equipment, I feel an overwhelming sense of guilt even considering giving it up. Hopefully my passion will return but for now I am taking some much needed time out to work on myself. Wishing you all the best…. just remember you are not alone. Love your videos. Sending hugs 💕
I feel like I'll probably be diagnosed with several things as well but at least I'll be happy to officially know what I have and the next steps to take to start bettering my life too. I'll definitely start making videos on things that will help for small businesses owners going through the same struggle. I've done so much research, have started readings book that help what I'm struggling with, and have started applying some of the practices, so I'm excited to share tips. Thank you for your love and support 💕
Most of the things you said in the video could have been me saying them. This resonated so much with me.
I'm happy you could relate 💕
Hey there, I just want to say that we are on the same boat and I totally understand how you feel. I've been there and still there that's why I am taking a long break from RUclips and business. We have 4 kids and will have another baby in 2 weeks and we are still waiting to move into a new house, packing and unpacking, cleaning both houses and buying and selling house, struggling with my are business, tough pregnancy, taking care of teen kids who's struggling with depression ( because of the pandemic...) etc. I had to see a doctor and it worked out okay for a while but I had to stop to see my counselor because of the pandemic. I am fighting hard here myself too. But one thing that helped me was to slowing down and just do my best. Anyways I always enjoy yours and I sometimes wonder how you are doing and check on your channel when I don't see you new uploads. There must be someone like me wonder and care about you even though we don't really know each other. I already feel like you are my friend. I always wish you the best. Also I am so glad that you started making pottery that's what I am going to try with my teen girls when things get better (delivering baby, moving and organizing the house and studio...) Take good care of yourself. You are such a wonderful lady. ^^ Big hugs and love to you from Alaska.
You're so freakin' strong to be able to keep fighting hard with all of those things going on! Sometimes that's how life is - everything just happens all at once, stressing us the heck out, but hopefully you'll be able to enjoy the sunshine and rainbow after the big storm 💕. Sending much love and strength to you and your whole family, and a big congratulations on your next baby and house. Hope your teen girls love the pottery as much as I do. Thank you so much for being here and commenting 🤗
You sound like me. I actually watched your videos when I was first getting into Etsy a year and a half ago. I started a shop and it was so successful but it was made to order. It made be over six figures but it was exactly what you were saying repetition. I ended up starting 5 Etsy shops all to help stimulate my creative mind. I ended that shop in December because I wanted to make everything passive and I was so worn out. Now I’m making double what I was all on passive income. For example I haven’t worked all week but still I’m making 600 a day on Etsy. I work on it and create more when I want to. You could absolutely just sell your designs or png files, printable planners etc. I know you probably know all of that. But it has literally saved my sanity to just move everything passive. I still get to create which I love but no more mean customers or getting stressed about orders.
And what I couldn’t stand about Etsy is taking a two day holiday literally ruined my sales for weeks. So now I never have to shut down my shops. I’m a single mom to two toddlers too so I get to actually spend more quality time with them vs stressing about all the orders coming in.
That's amazing 👏. More passive income is definitely what I'm working on this year 🥲. Especially since I have an audience and have not used that to it's fullest potential. I know so much, especially having worked professionally in graphic design, e-commerce and marketing, but have always let fear hold me back thinking I'm not good enough to make items that others can download and find useful.. Even though I've purchased all of these things before and know how to make them myself 🤦♀️. Tired of wasting so much time and energy on soul sucking work when it's become so easy to make money when you have access to a computer and internet.
Thank you Tana for sharing all of this with us! I have just finished CBT sessions for severe anxiety, and even if your own mental health struggle may be different, I am sure that the psychiatrist will help you so much like it helped me. I would love to hear more about what you are going to do to improve your situation once you get a diagnosis, but of course only if you feel like sharing it. And I just want to tell you that no matter what your business is about, I'll still be watching your videos because it's not the items that interest me, it's you and your journey and your authenticity! October seems to be a very stressful but exciting (congrats on the house 🤭) month for you and my thoughts will be with you! Wishing all the best to you! 💕
Glad I came across this video. I'm struggling as well.
Thank you for sharing! I appreciate you being open and honest. Please take care of yourself.
Thank you so much! I appreciate you watching and commenting 💕
You are a wonderful woman. You need to do what makes you happy. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you so much! I really appreciate your support 🥺💜💜
Thank you for being real with us, you are doing an amazing thing for yourself x 💕
Tana, everything thing you said is what I feel. I’m glad to see that you are realizing that you need to change for your mental health. Take care of you honey and congratulations on the new house.
I'm glad you could relate and hope we can both make the changes we need to make our lives better. Thank you so much! I really appreciate you watching and spreading your kind words 😊💕
I think you are so brave! And can relate to a lot. Glad to hear you are taking good care at yourself ❤️
Thank you 🥺💜. Trying my best to!
Tana, thank you for your openness and speaking truth regarding the business aspect. I can relate to everything you said. Sistah I will keep you in my prayers🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
You do you and take care of yourself. Congratulations on your new house!!!🙏🏼🥰🙏🏼
Thank you so much, Nancy! Happy you could relate and I really appreciate the prayers 💕
girl, u so strong and amazing!!!!! hope u doing better 💖
Thank you so much 🥺💕
Praying for you I love watching your videos they are so relaxing
Thank you so much 💕
I think another of us can identify with what you are dealing with. We being creative always wants to do more and by ourselves and with myself I am also feeling other people won't do it as I am doing it. I pray that you do get to the point of knowing what's happening to you and I pray that God heals you in a supernatural way and that you feel satisfied within yourself.❤
Thank you for sharing your experience, it seems like you were talking about me, you are so brave to talk about it, you always have to do what is best for you. Best of luck to you.
You're welcome! I'm glad you can relate. I was nervous to post but decided to because I knew I would be able to help others 💕. Thank you!
Perhaps you should consider print on demand companies such as Printful or Printed Mint where they take of everything and you just focus on designing. My sister does that and she can travel an run her business from anywhere.
thank you for this!! nice to feel I’m not alone! hang in there girlfriend!! you got this!!!
Thank you so much! Definitely not alone 💕
I believe we are all this way right now! I suffer off n on with anxiety. I am now trying to deal with it day by day!
It's tough but we can get help and learn ways to get through it 💕
Have you ever thought about doing limited edition items?
I do but by the time it sells out, I get even more people wanting it and it's hard to pass up the opportunity to make more income by providing what people really want 😅. I do try to do this with the seasonal earrings though.
Sending you a hug ❤️
Thank you 💜
Thank you! So much Tana.. I can't begin to tell you, how wonderfully helpful and insightful your sharing in this video is for me..I appreciate it so much...Thank you! ❤
You're welcome! Thank you so much for watching! I'm happy it could help - that was my hope when I decided to post it 💕
You are amazing!! I can identify with a lot of this too ❤ hugs!!
Thank you so much 🥺💜💜
I feel this too…I’m a crocheter, and always get new ideas. But everything takes a lot of work to make and doesn’t sell for enough. I’m not creative enough to make my own patterns to sell, and I’m not camera good enough to make RUclips videos. I also have a 30 hour/week job and 2 kids. So I feel like giving up my maker business every day…but then i get another idea and can’t walk away 🤪
Oh man I’m sending you lots of love 💖 and light through your journey being an entrepreneur is not easy. Etsy it’s like a freaking nightmare now I feel your pain I had a customer that lied on me and left a bad review and that was detrimental to my business on Etsy and Etsy refused to remove the review they refuse to do anything for the seller they don’t really care about you as a creative. So now I have my own shop. I’m sorry I hope you feel better soon honey. 💖⭐️
Thank you! I know - it sucks how often they side with the customers. They really need to support the shop owners more and this new star seller thing is affecting the mental health of even more sellers. 95% or more for each category is ridiculous and I'm now having to respond to messages that really don't deserve responding to, stressing even more than someone is going to leave a bad review... It's so unhealthy. I wish you much success with your own shop. I know it can be hard to walk away from Etsy especially when it can bring in so many sales on its own. Thank you so much for the support 💕
I love your videos and content but I completely understand the need to take care of yourself and your mental health. Anyone that truly supports you will understand your need to work on your mental health and improve your life overall. Self care is super important especially for small business owners that have to do it all.
OMG...I am you. I'm thinking abt getting help too. I'm just so overwhelmed abt everything and self reflecting and self diagnosing is not working or any good.
It's tough being so unsure, that's why I finally decided to get a real diagnosis lol. Hopefully I'll be able to learn a lot and share some tips for those who can relate 💕
Haven't finished the video yet, but I already wanna say I LOVE YOU, your videos and all your crafti-ness
Thank you so much 🥺💕
@@TanaMakes Of course! Keep doing what’s best for you and your mental health! Thanks for sharing too, it helped me make a move to also reduce some of my small business stress! 🖤🖤🖤
@@vennesaford229 Aw, yay! That makes me so happy! Gotta take care of ourselves 💕
I started my business in November of last year. And how do you say slow.i haven't sold much on there either. But I refuse to give up. You hang in there.
Thank you! In the beginning especially you definitely have to put in a lot of work and be patient until it finally begins to build momentum 😊
@@TanaMakes thank you for the encouragement 🙏
Sending love and light your way. I'm going through something similar except I don't do anything I'm lazy I have a million ideas and want to try them all but I know I can only do one at a time I quit things alot never see things through but I can't make money that way so I'm hoping I get better I'm seeking help and.i know you will too