When a woman says she’s sleeping with a man strictly for sex but he and she doesn’t want a relationship…9 times outta 10 it’s the guy who doesn’t want the relationship but she’s making it look like it’s a mutual thing. The fact that that man gets your body is all that the next man hears. And another thing, a mistake is unintentional and you try your very best not to repeat it. But you’re sleeping with that man numerous times but on the other hand want a God fearing man.
10 times out of 10. One of the reasons I stoped having “situationships” which actually worked well for me at the time was because the women kept getting attached and falling in love.
Tessa was talking a lot of shit. As a woman, I’m glad that Kendra is holding women accountable. We all aren’t crazy with unrealistic expectations. This lady is a HARD 40, that presents more like 60. She’s 13 years younger than me and could damn near pass for my mother. She’s overweight and has 6 kids with 3 fathers. Just look for a nice man who treats you well and don’t worry about the money. And a 35 year old man making $75K isn’t going anywhere near her. That’s a TOP TIER young man and he’ll be looking for his match to start his own family.
Can you tell these older women that again? None of the men I know are looking for older women at all and I'm 35. All my friends are 34 to 36 and make close to 6 or well over 6 figures. Not looking for older washed women. 😂
@@takinganewapproachpodcast2994I’m 40 with 3 kids and I totally understand this. Our time has passed 😂 More women my age need to understand this before they end up single and dying alone.
Qualina perfect example of the BS men have to deal with today. Letting some random Pookie take her joy riding for free while requiring other guys to pay new car prices. Then got the nerve to say she's god-fearing? As Kevin Samuels used to say you can't make this s*** up.
I just had to explain to my wife why that wasn’t ok in man logic she had a face of frustration the whole time,she still didn’t like the logic of letting a man hit for nothing no work versus letting the man you want to be with forever have to jump to the moon to get the same prize it frustrated me almost why my wife couldn’t get this through her head 🤦🏿♂️
I'm so sick of everyone wanting God-fearing and then justify sexual promiscuity. The Bible is extremely clear on this. Those who practice sexual immortality WILL NOT INHERIT THE KINGDOM OF GOD.
Casual sex is disgusting for whom?. For the girl to have needs, and finding her designated itch scratcher to hit it for her; I find that quite interesting.
Qualina: I don't want no freaky man Kendra: when was the last time you were intimate with someone Qualina: two days ago Kendra: why you can't be with him And why are you sleeping with someone you’re not going to be in a relationship with Qualina: for sex unbelievable smh
I thought she said that she didn't want a man acting freaky when they just met. I may have missed the part where she said she did not want a freaky man.
@@kymob803 right now at this moment she's sleeping with a man just for sex with no commitment that's freaky 😂😂 but know you wanna act like mother Teresa on here 😂
And she kept saying 3 times the rent. That’s 3 times YOUR rent. He may have a 1 bed 1 bath apartment and pays 1200 a month. That’s 43,200 a year. So what is she expecting him to come in and take over her rent payment? But she also said “a lot of women are looking for someone to help financially” 🙄 that’s exactly what she is asking for. She is no different.
I like that KG is giving push back to the first caller.... for the 100th time ladies Sleeping with a dude that you view isn't "good enough" to be in a relationship WHILE looking for a man is one of the biggest issues in modern dating. Thinking the "perfect" guy getting "all of you" is a reward just isn't how guys view it.... "All of you" is typically paying for dates, listening to you, dealing with your issues, your families issues, paying for all the bills, you feeling "comfortable" around him(aka not dressing sexy), hearing you're too "tried for sex" or "you don't like that".... THIS ISN'T A REWARD The guy that gets to pop up for only the fun times = actually getting the reward.... while not dealing with any of the negatives.
Another thing I have been married for over 20 years and trust me listening to your mate and dealing with issues is a every single day thing and it takes patience 😂women really have no idea how much mental energy those 2 things take 🤷🏿♂️
Oh I couldn’t agree more. Same exact reasoning and words goes for men with women. Why are you having a spiritual energy exchange with someone you don’t even consider worthy of commitment and consistency? It’s disgusting!
@melaninandaura9713 yeah it really works both ways It's really sad that this is what modern dating is now Have sex with people you won't commit to whole waiting for this perfect unicorn to appear AND be so great you cut everyone else off
I think people lie about it being there first time seeing/hearing about the show. They often say that when Kendra says it's camera time. The church lasy said that it's her first time yet she already had her profile up! I feel like it's a bit of a defense mechanism.
"Because I'm human" I repeatedly and intentionally sin -Qualina. The human excuse is the #1 lack of accountability go-to. There are levels to humanity. You can be a horrible human or a human who exercises discipline and sticks to your values-we have free will.
Ladies no man walking the earth is "intimidated" by a women with multiply kids.... please please please stop using that word when men decide there are better options. Men just don't want to deal with it.... once it past 1 or 2, its not worth it.
Some men may in fact be intimidated and there's no shame in that. It's a lot to take on, multiple kids, multiple baby daddies, increased financial burden, less time with the mom, etc. May God bless and strengthen the men who do. And thanks to the ones who know themselves well enough to know it would be too much for them. It's all good.
@@M.T.-qm4rt That is not intimidation The juice isn't worth the squeeze A men not wanting to deal with all the "extra" is a smart men, not a scared one.
@@M.T.-qm4rt I'm saying using the term "intimidated" is not correct. No reasonable men worth anything would be willing to deal with 6 kids that aren't his.... this is some hot take or some crazy take A men didn't work his butt off, to take care of another men kids
1:04:32 “I feel for my black sisters”…..hmmm….Let’s be very honest, on this show, you’re mostly talking about women that made horrible life choices. Tessa made horrible life choices and is now dealing with the ramifications of them. This isn’t a “lack of quality black men” thing, this is a marry before you carry thing.
The man have it worst, all thats left in the wake are single baby mothers, most overweight, and normally sleeping around frequently while waiting on the next man to save em
Exactly! I had never expected a man that I was dating to pay my bills! The nerve of these low hanging fruit women, actually they are all rotten fruit at this point!
Ky-Asia was the only good pick until she said she expects a man who was not married to pay for her bills. #disqualified But your SPOUSE is supposed to help/take care of the bills and if y'all want to do 50-50,100-0, etc. that's your business . I said it once I said it twice whether I make $50K or $500K it doesn't matter because if we are not married my only job is to respect you and take you out on the dates I can comfortably afford. If you are NOT married, my child, or my parent nobody should be paying your bills. Men please don't pay anybody bills you are not married to and if you do make sure they have a very strong history of ALWAYS paying you back.
I agree Men shouldn’t pay a woman’s bills he’s not married too. And a woman should not have sex til marriage either. Ppl need to get back to the way God made it to be.
@@Rashaadthegr8 I totally agree, and I just had the same conversation with my significant other. We are not married yet, and we have separate households. We can sustain each household individually, and it is not expected from either of us to support each other‘s bills. Once the marriage is official we will delegate expenses,but until then we keep everything separate.
I’m divorced and make $200K, 2 kids from my divorce. I am with a man who asked me to pay 10%, I agreed😂😂😂. He makes more than me, but honey I was doing it alone before😂😂😂.
I don’t understand how people don’t want to help at all when they are able. Whesther it’s 10% 30% or 50% why not help the person you claim to love. I personally don’t need 50/50 but make some kind of real contribution so that I know it’s real. 🤷🏽♂️
If your kids live with you most of the time and his don’t, you should be paying most of the bills because you and your family will create most of the bills PLUS you s/b getting child support. But hey, there’s a simp/step dummy born everyday 😂😂 My integrity wouldn’t allow me to be unfair to someone I claimed to love. SMH
She should be paying exactly the 10% that he has asked. Its apparent in yall comments it shows your average earners & he is not. You are with a good man, very happy to hear ❤🎉
One love to the Kendra fans watching at 7:30 AM, the morning after, on the treadmill. You know you need to increase that step goal to 12,000 daily, but you keep thinking you can level up staying at the same level. That’s not how this works. Tighten up.
It’s 5am on the west coast and yes indeed I am walking around the park working on my steps. I guess I’ll do 12,000 today since you said something 😅 lol
11:23 Qualina: It’s simple, the man she’s sleeping with doesn’t want to be with her. She probably wants him, but the feeling isn’t mutual. They’re fck buddies.
I also get the feeling she did this so he would see it and that’s why she didn’t want to say too much about him…. Hoping he might want to lock her down🙄😂
The sad part is, renita is in the acceptable range physically. Put her mindset is so completely off. I find myself thinking when I meet people in public that I wish I saw them on this show so I could hear their answers to these questions. It's not like the questions are perfect and I wouldn't switch out the questions if given an opportunity. But you learned so much about the mindset of the person answering by not just what they say but also how they say it.
How is my mind set off? I was just speaking from MY experience and I keep encountering men that seem to always need some type of help. Which is why I am still single. I answered her questions to the best of my ability. She asked what type of man I want but I made it clear that the money part is NOT a deal breaker.
@@renitajohnson8524 when you're speaking about men that operate in lack. For instance I believe you mentioned about living in your mother's home. That tells us the level of man you're used to dealing with. And you may not be ready or prepared for dealing with a man who does not operate in lack.
@@TruthFLA Not true. I always give men a fair chance. I have run into men that still live at home and it didn’t work out for me. That was just me not judging, doing something that I don’t usually do and giving it a chance. So I only stated my desire. If that makes sense.
PSA: KOUSINS! Do not drink AND go LIVE🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️ Yo, Nicole Harrell takes care of her kids and they're dope. Liquor talking but she is a good mom😂😂😂 she may be embarrassed after watching this back.
Miss G, I am only listening to John without seeing him but I knew immediately that he is looking for a man! 🙈 Perhaps you should start asking what kind of partner are you looking for because that will eliminate the confusion of whether your callers want a man or a woman. Bye! ❤ from Sweden
When you know it’s a sin and you continue to do it there is no grace and mercy from God for that sin. That’s the only way you can show God that you love him, to be obedient to him.
That’s what I love about your god, all you have to do is “really mean it” the next time. 😂😂😂😂 You can’t judge her, there is no state apparatus to judge her, so it is free for all.
Kendra loves this “I feel bad for Black women because there’s not enough of the men you want out there” routine when in reality there are tons. Women get the men they want when they qualify. Enough of this “woe is the Black woman” nonsense..
Qualina wants a Provider, but just slept with a guy "A few days ago" SMH. Ky-Asia's attitude is HORRIBLE. She is definitely argumentative and combative.
i wouldn’t date Ky-asia if she was the last woman in the galaxy, also she on here talking mad crazy, girl u not that goid looking and you in chicago, for every 1 of you there are 5-6 better options
A woman (or man) can want what he/she wants. A man can choose to date her or not. It’s not necessary for a woman to be grilled and questioned to death over her desires. She’s a grown woman and is asking for what she wants. A man can approach her and they can discuss it, or he can skip her and move on. Good grief.
To all my high value men NEVER let a woman tell you that you have to do something to be with them! You are the prize and Kendra G show proves why every time it comes on! They up at 3am looking for you! Also never pay Nothing for a woman you not married too! BF/GF isn’t honored by GOD!
You hv a deep problem. You are not in position to tell men what not to do. Another ting, you up late on kG, too, where is your concubine? Keep your opinión to yourself..
Seems like you're routinely up at 3am following these women since you can vouch for what the show "proves every time it comes on." Why are you over here, Mr. Prize? And why would all the "high value men" you're calling out to on this page be here in the first place? You're desperate for men to think the way you do. You know you don't speak for all of them and that triggers you. Men aren't stupid and they can see red flags just like you can. And since you're quoting what's honored by God, where does it say, "Never pay Nothing for a woman you not married too!" Further, boyfriends and girlfriends didn't exist in biblical days so for you to say that they're not honored by God doesn't even make sense. . . 😩
Disclaimer! Any woman with multiple kids (when asked) what does she bring to the table, and her reply is “I am the table” is the biggest red flag ever, run away from these women, with the quickness, you will thank me later.
I swear if I hear another women say that they are the table!!! That ain't worth NOTHING, then ur table comes with a load or plates and it wobbles 🤦🏾♂️
Question: Why do people say liars are a dealbreaker? Liars are gonna lie and not say, "Hi, I'm John, I'm a liar" That's just something you will find out as you get to know them. Then you'll know, don't get serious and give of yourself too much before you gather if the person is a person of integrity.
Yep, this is true in general, too. Pay attention to what people say and ask questions. It's part of vetting people for any relationship, really. And you're right, if it's their nature to lie, asking for an honest person up front won't help! 😂
A lot of women get on this show and expect and demand a man pay their bills, but don't have a problem paying their own right currently. These people are delusional.
Every time I watch this show, im enlighten on the ignorance so many people here around dating. What I've learned can only be explained in a BOOK! But to get to the point of this episode... ladies ladies ladies clean-up the narrative. If yoir single seeking a relationship that doesn't resembles your past. You need to present yourself better. 6 kids 3 men never married, sexing someone young but seeking a relationship where the man has no relationship or interaction with your kids sounds like a SITUATIONSHIP. Is he rolling in after 10pm and rolling out by 7am? How do you intentionally choose to date and the person NOT be socially involved with your children. This is senseless. "I take care of my kids" a partner may not financially support your kids but wouldn't you want someone that can provide guidance, leadership, structure, consistency, etc...
Qualina is a whole preschool teacher. She teaching the kids yall! 😭 If my child was in her class I'd pull them immediately. Something wrong wit her. Slooooow 🚌 Not sure why you came on Kendra at 2am. You should have just went to sleep sis.
I used to work in Education after college and you’d be surprised how many bad early education teachers their are. I was in a teacher credential program with a Latino brother who literally struggled on 100% of the assignments. I remember speaking with someone after hours from the class where they told me the following saying, “those who can’t, Teach.” Supposedly that is a common saying in education. 🤷🏽♂️
@@12_door_tycoon I guarantee you that the people who say those who can't, teach, have no idea who coined that phrase and where it's from. It's meant as an insult to teachers. Anybody who believes that is a fool. Without teachers there would be no progress because everyone would have to learn everything by experience.
@@Coolsnacker Superbly said! That whole insult exists because of people not being in jobs/careers suitable to their gifts and because of company protocols that allow you a position you don't fit/qualify for simply because you have a degree in something (even if it's unrelated). Also, when people get laid off or if there's a recession, etc. they use those unrelated degrees to get jobs teaching (which is always in demand) so they'll have an income. Never mind the fact that they hate kids, don't know HOW to teach, don't want to be there and don't necessarily understand what they're teaching. And when they inevitably do a bad job, it reflects poorly on and is counted against actual teachers! Ugh.
I disagree. First, it's kind of entertaining. Then, when they sober up, all the live comments and the RUclips comments might give them a serious wake up call. Cheaper than therapy. Fingers crossed!😄
Renita said she was the "table"🙄🙄. The "table" represents the relationship. So " what do you bring to the relationship?" I am the relationship 🙄 Narcissism at its finest
Faith, 1. Claims to by God fearing, 2. Has children out of wedlock, 3. Has recently had sex although she is "waiting for marriage to have sex." 4. Has fake (filtered) photos but wants honesty, and 5. Is a pastor, but picks and chooses which parts of the Bible she will practice.
It seems like a lot of people who call in want people who come without any flaws or room for growth. Not everyone makes 6 figures,but that doesn’t mean they won’t one day. I wonder if some of these people watch their interviews over to see how bad they come off. I mean if I were a man I would not reach out to any of the women from tonight. Some of them were really rude. Keep thinking money is more important and end up with some scammers or a man who presents themselves like they got a lot of money. I mean I know some men who do that. Sadly I’m related to them and surprisingly it’s not hard for them to pull women or girls I should say. SMH
I think a lot of the women come with a list of ideals that they know deep down they won't get, but they're shooting for the stars anyway. As time passes and no one quite measures up, they'll realize men's potential for growth that you mentioned and will also probably see more of their own flaws. Hopefully that understanding will bring balance and they'll end up equally yoked with their mate.
@@M.T.-qm4rt I think men and women tend to do this. It’s just human nature I guess. Everyone wants perfection,but that’s just isn’t how the world works. People are meant to grow and change.
Why does Kendra cut people off if they don’t do Zodiac signs and NOT ALLOW them just say their damn birthday? I rather know someone’s ACTUAL BIRTHDAY OVER THEIR SIGN. She only asks their ACTUAL BIRTHDAY if they are a Taurus.
I think even if they don’t believe in zodiac signs . I do so I want to hear it. she could say, although you don’t believe in zodiac signs what is your sign because some people may wanna know.
Ya'll stop being so petty. Ya'll can't even have a decent conversation with one person, and Kendra is talking to 100's of people every week. She's good at what she does. Let her do her thing.. Yall petty as hell.
All that talking to Nicole is she don’t even have the app hell no we need to change that up. They gotta show Kendra the app first then they can get on the show.
Perhaps that should be apart of the intro... show the room and the app... but the problem you dont want to make the show to hard for ppl to come on... adding to many barriers means alot less ppl in the queue
Are you aware that the more money he makes the more child support takes. So the man making 60k and the man making 100K might be taking home the same amount after child support takes what it takes
This is why if possible, leave the government out your shyt. Sit down like adults and come to an agreement. But I get it, everybody didn’t choose the other parent of their children wisely and ended up fkd. A big booty and a smile will do that to ya. Men and women need to learn how to use discernment.
The income of the men were you were younger and prettier doesn't really matter because you're older and a lesser version than the person you were when you were younger. No man with sense making six figures is going to take his hard-earned money and invest it in another man's children. That man will all the sudden go from living comfortably to living paycheck to paycheck because he's an investing in children that are not his
Ky-Asia, any adult would expect that you can afford your own light bill and other utilities, because how were you paying them before he showed up? Ma'ma make it make sense, the question is "IN DATING " this is a totally unrealistic exception for anyone. What if he only takes you out on 3 dates? Does he paid your electric bill that month? Is it prorated? 😂😂😂 Now I see why men ask what do you bring to the table? Women are out here leading with FINANCE. Paying bills is definitely a conversation to have when you both are committing to be exclusive.
Women with poverty mindsets are the main ones that do this. I would be embarrassed as hellz if my daughter said this to a man. It basically shows that she had a TERRIBLE upbringing.
Call in have good light great sound and make sure your background for the Kendra can is clean. It’s so embarrassing seeing these messy houses and bedrooms. Yet you all want a relationship you need to clean up. Cleanliness is next to godliness.
It’s the god concept, that’s the whole point of it. If you have enough votes, money, or ammo, your god can be, do, or say anything you want him to say.
Kendra, why do you think that a person has multiple kids? They have to be with someone who makes a low per year 70K is $191 a day. What is a person with six kids supposed to date somebo that makes 30 K a year what are two broke people gonna do together nothing so why can’t a man or woman want somebody that makes more them so they could grow together stop tricking these people like 70 K is not reasonable
This mother of six, in the very beginning, said she does want a man to take care of his own household. He needs his own place and she made that clear@ coffee killer. I respect a woman dating, getting to know a nice man and not looking for a father for her children. She stated this from the very beginning. She also said, one of her reasons for not dating a lot is because she has so many children. She said the 30 year old man was too young for a long time relationship. We have to listen !!!!!!
The man you describe already has a table. And a good one at that. So if you call yourself the table then we don't need you. We already have the table. why do we need another one?
What I meant by my comment is that I come with my own everything and a well prepared table. I just answered her question. The dating pool is crazy and everyone is looking for help. I was just making it clear that that was not what I needed a man for. I’m sorry if it came off the wrong way.
@@renitajohnson8524 understandable. what that question is seeking to ascertain is what are you offering that we don't already have. This question is hardly ever about finances.
I think the last girl needs clarification of what dating is and a relationship. When you’re dating somebody they could be dating someone else and that’s crazy expectation🤷🏽♀️ but when you commit to someone and say OK, we’re in a relationship , You’re the only person I’m seeing that’s different.
exactly, she talking all around because she seems like she jus out to have her life financed. imagine being a behavior therapist with poor behavior and financial traits, she even start being rude to Kendra
1:24:21 Contrary to popular belief, it is still very much looked down upon to have kids outside of wedlock. The difference is that there is “pressure” to be politically correct and not say the quiet part out loud. But men have been “saying” it with their actions - generally, by being willing to have sex with, but not marry women with children. Don’t get me wrong, there are certainly exceptions to the rule (no one is saying that 0% of single mothers have gotten married.) But those are the exceptions and not the rule. There is a direct correlation between the increase of single mothers and the decrease of marriage within our community.
Ky-Asia would have a problem with a man living with his mother because she’s been out and independent since the age of 19 but wants a bf to pay her bills? lol the independence she touts has caveats
I feel bad for Nicole. She thinks she is strong and ok but you’re not hun. You might can beat somebody up or curse they azz out but that never showed strength to me, it showed insecurities and issues. As a grown woman, you should be able to communicate like one and realize that you have something to lose. The hoodboogers don’t know nothing about what I’m saying but a WOMAN does. Stop self destructing thinking it’s for the moment before it becomes an issue you can’t handle. Being an alcoholic ain’t it. It’s evident that you need love/companionship. And I know you say you don’t drink all the time, I hope that’s the case. Sometimes that liquid courage makes you do things that you wouldn’t have done sober. But we don’t know you. All we know is what we saw. And trust me, there’s a world out there that doesn’t include Pookies and Ray-rays, you just have to be wise about who choose. Good luck to you mamas and God bless.
It's giving "sponsor" or escort 😬 like this is not a normal arrangement. Covering someone else's expense is a nice gesture but when it's a requirement, it turns into another dynamic.
What is it with all these women with kids. Geesh. I felt bad for Nicole. Seems like she’s drinking away her sorrows. Really sad these women think they are worthy of so much but I guess we can all dream.
Asking a friend, do Kendra contestants exist in real life cos in years since the pandemic, I have yet to run into these folks or am I living a sheltered life‼️
I have never had either of my two ex husbands to pay all the bills, hell they didn't pay some of the bills, and when they did pay a bill or two they were no more than 50 dollars. The first ex husband didn't pay any bills. That is why I say that marriage is not for everyone.
Whew child I guess I am very weak then. I never wanted to be a single mother. I mean you have the kids, take care of them alone, and all that drama. I still wish you the best sista Tessa.
Everyone is taller than 5'4'' or 5' 5" the shallow stuff is something else. As long as he is not ABUSIVE in any way, unemployed, or not legally employed and NOT a criminal or former criminal, or is NOT who he says he is; and is mentally mature, Single Single, and a decent human being that is all that should be important.
6 kids by 3 men living in NC and needs a man to make 3x the rent. The average rent in NC for a 1 bedroom is about $1500. 3x would be significantly less than $75k
What I don't get is why do so many people go up in arms when someone says something about God. Last time I check none of you were perfect. At least they acknowledge a higher authority to some degree. Let the seed grow
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If Kendra says, “Ooh, we see you!” That means you don’t have an attractive body. 🤷🏿♀️
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U peeped it too 😂😂😂😂
Big Facts🤯‼️
To her....
I’d rather hear her say that then blatantly lie to the lady which has happened before.
When a woman says she’s sleeping with a man strictly for sex but he and she doesn’t want a relationship…9 times outta 10 it’s the guy who doesn’t want the relationship but she’s making it look like it’s a mutual thing. The fact that that man gets your body is all that the next man hears.
And another thing, a mistake is unintentional and you try your very best not to repeat it. But you’re sleeping with that man numerous times but on the other hand want a God fearing man.
And she is not fixing to cut it off cold turkey for the new guy.
She will still be creeping
10 times out of 10. One of the reasons I stoped having “situationships” which actually worked well for me at the time was because the women kept getting attached and falling in love.
Qualina most def for the game 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I said the same thing she a liar he don't want a relationship with her she just a jump off but don't want to say it 😂
@@12_door_tycoonthey will get attached that is Mother Nature
Tessa was talking a lot of shit. As a woman, I’m glad that Kendra is holding women accountable. We all aren’t crazy with unrealistic expectations. This lady is a HARD 40, that presents more like 60. She’s 13 years younger than me and could damn near pass for my mother. She’s overweight and has 6 kids with 3 fathers. Just look for a nice man who treats you well and don’t worry about the money. And a 35 year old man making $75K isn’t going anywhere near her. That’s a TOP TIER young man and he’ll be looking for his match to start his own family.
@jimmydean5663 You’d think I’d know better.
Can you tell these older women that again? None of the men I know are looking for older women at all and I'm 35. All my friends are 34 to 36 and make close to 6 or well over 6 figures. Not looking for older washed women. 😂
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@@EricaBunker😂
@@takinganewapproachpodcast2994I’m 40 with 3 kids and I totally understand this. Our time has passed 😂 More women my age need to understand this before they end up single and dying alone.
Kendra just disregarded Jerisas body and complimented her on the room. Shes cold😂
😂😂 I peeped that as well
Y’all get on my nerves lol
😂 l thought that as well.
It looks like you got a lotta space in there 😂😂
I feel like she got distracted. She acknowledged her standing up, shady ass Diana kousin😂
Qualina perfect example of the BS men have to deal with today. Letting some random Pookie take her joy riding for free while requiring other guys to pay new car prices. Then got the nerve to say she's god-fearing? As Kevin Samuels used to say you can't make this s*** up.
I don't think he want a relationship with her but don't to say it I can tell she a lair
The funny part is most of you all were never checking for her in the 1st place. Quit acting like her bedroom activities took her out of the race.
I just had to explain to my wife why that wasn’t ok in man logic she had a face of frustration the whole time,she still didn’t like the logic of letting a man hit for nothing no work versus letting the man you want to be with forever have to jump to the moon to get the same prize it frustrated me almost why my wife couldn’t get this through her head 🤦🏿♂️
She was also on Judge Lynn Toler Divorce Court. She still act the same.
Yea and then said don't text her freaky stuff too quick like huhhhh I was wondering was she hearing herself
I'm so sick of everyone wanting God-fearing and then justify sexual promiscuity. The Bible is extremely clear on this. Those who practice sexual immortality WILL NOT INHERIT THE KINGDOM OF GOD.
They only say gawd fearing because that’s what everybody say. Not a one believe in that ish
You’re a virgin?
Casual Seccx is absolutely disgusting
A video I saw a while back put it best, “Saying you have casual sex is like saying you have casual surgery, there is no such thing.”
Great point @@Roccofan
True.
Casual sex is disgusting for whom?. For the girl to have needs, and finding her designated itch scratcher to hit it for her; I find that quite interesting.
😂😂
This is a SN but I love when someone says something and Kendra repeats the last sentence. It’s so funny like she’s trying to take it in lol
She repeats the last part sometimes when she is not giving full attention. 😊
She is looking at the comments,etc.
Kendra be like "ok so you want a man over 6 ft no kids and making six figures practicing monogamy in nyc" okay 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@dhqbrandi😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤ Heavy on the Practicing 😅🎉❤
I think that's an interviewing technique honestly. You know cuz she's a journalist but idk
It’s part of being a journalist. Taking it all in lol
Qualina: I don't want no freaky man
Kendra: when was the last time you were intimate with someone
Qualina: two days ago
Kendra: why you can't be with him
And why are you sleeping with someone you’re not going to be in a relationship with
Qualina: for sex
unbelievable smh
🤣🤣
The worst part is that their dysfunction makes sense to these women.
I thought she said that she didn't want a man acting freaky when they just met. I may have missed the part where she said she did not want a freaky man.
@@kymob803 right now at this moment she's sleeping with a man just for sex with no commitment that's freaky 😂😂 but know you wanna act like mother Teresa on here 😂
@@kymob803 We can strike that first part from record and she's still nasty...
Tessa changed her tune with every question. Bringing up someone else’s partner as an example of someone you would date is a big No
You know these people are SLOW
And she kept saying 3 times the rent. That’s 3 times YOUR rent. He may have a 1 bed 1 bath apartment and pays 1200 a month. That’s 43,200 a year. So what is she expecting him to come in and take over her rent payment? But she also said “a lot of women are looking for someone to help financially” 🙄 that’s exactly what she is asking for. She is no different.
I like that KG is giving push back to the first caller.... for the 100th time ladies
Sleeping with a dude that you view isn't "good enough" to be in a relationship WHILE looking for a man is one of the biggest issues in modern dating.
Thinking the "perfect" guy getting "all of you" is a reward just isn't how guys view it....
"All of you" is typically paying for dates, listening to you, dealing with your issues, your families issues, paying for all the bills, you feeling "comfortable" around him(aka not dressing sexy), hearing you're too "tried for sex" or "you don't like that".... THIS ISN'T A REWARD
The guy that gets to pop up for only the fun times = actually getting the reward.... while not dealing with any of the negatives.
My wife struggled with me explaining this to her I’m going to let her read your comment you explained it perfectly for me thank you
Another thing I have been married for over 20 years and trust me listening to your mate and dealing with issues is a every single day thing and it takes patience 😂women really have no idea how much mental energy those 2 things take 🤷🏿♂️
Oh I couldn’t agree more. Same exact reasoning and words goes for men with women. Why are you having a spiritual energy exchange with someone you don’t even consider worthy of commitment and consistency? It’s disgusting!
@melaninandaura9713 yeah it really works both ways
It's really sad that this is what modern dating is now
Have sex with people you won't commit to whole waiting for this perfect unicorn to appear AND be so great you cut everyone else off
Faith is so lovely, seems like a good woman. And she looks like a Clark sister! Hope she finds a good man who treats her well ❤
She is a lovely woman with great values, cultured, well spoken. Conversations with her would be pretty dope.
But she's a false teacher. She completely ignores the Bible and dismisses the truth based on her own understanding. Read Proverbs 3:5,6
Her values are in the dumpster!
Yessss! Wishing her the best!❤
Tessa tried to ignore her two oldest kids like they don't matter🤣🤣 you could have chose protection instead of life🤦🏽♀️
👀😏 Tessa said the twins are a result of a broken condom.
😢
Can you black women stop using the word God fearing PLEASE! FYI I’m a black woman!!!
What should we use?
@@wyteriawilson4007A follower of God's principles
@@projectleroy920 She might even be referring to "don't say it at all" if you're out here dancing with the devil....
I think its a way to weed out men
And men too. Not even presenting to be it themselves.
No one is intimidated or afraid or by a woman with kids. We just don't want to invest in someone else's children. Children are an investment
I think people lie about it being there first time seeing/hearing about the show. They often say that when Kendra says it's camera time. The church lasy said that it's her first time yet she already had her profile up! I feel like it's a bit of a defense mechanism.
She said she put up the profile that day. That make sense.
Seems like they are saying it’s their first time on the show.
"Because I'm human" I repeatedly and intentionally sin -Qualina. The human excuse is the #1 lack of accountability go-to. There are levels to humanity. You can be a horrible human or a human who exercises discipline and sticks to your values-we have free will.
Exactly! I absolutely agree with you 💯
True💯
WELL SAID 💯
I wonder whether she'd allow that same excuse if the guy committed one of her deal breakers. . .
Ladies no man walking the earth is "intimidated" by a women with multiply kids.... please please please stop using that word when men decide there are better options.
Men just don't want to deal with it.... once it past 1 or 2, its not worth it.
@@spythe they just haven’t learned yet that the correct word is “exhausted” by me
Some men may in fact be intimidated and there's no shame in that. It's a lot to take on, multiple kids, multiple baby daddies, increased financial burden, less time with the mom, etc. May God bless and strengthen the men who do. And thanks to the ones who know themselves well enough to know it would be too much for them. It's all good.
@@M.T.-qm4rt That is not intimidation
The juice isn't worth the squeeze
A men not wanting to deal with all the "extra" is a smart men, not a scared one.
@@spythe Are you saying then, that ANY man could handle 6 children not their own and multiple baby daddies, but that they just don't care to?
@@M.T.-qm4rt I'm saying using the term "intimidated" is not correct.
No reasonable men worth anything would be willing to deal with 6 kids that aren't his.... this is some hot take or some crazy take
A men didn't work his butt off, to take care of another men kids
1:31:42 Nicole is sipping on loneliness, regret, and bad life choices.
1:04:32 “I feel for my black sisters”…..hmmm….Let’s be very honest, on this show, you’re mostly talking about women that made horrible life choices. Tessa made horrible life choices and is now dealing with the ramifications of them. This isn’t a “lack of quality black men” thing, this is a marry before you carry thing.
The man have it worst, all thats left in the wake are single baby mothers, most overweight, and normally sleeping around frequently while waiting on the next man to save em
And also a "These women don't qualify for what they ask" and especially a "The man you want doesn't want you" thing!!!
some of y'all got some nerve trying to "date" given your circumstances
And looking the way they look
😂😂
@@tw4943you have to
Look a certain way?
🤭
I don't understand why these women expect men to help them with their bills when they're just dating. He's not married to you! Smdh
Exactly! I had never expected a man that I was dating to pay my bills! The nerve of these low hanging fruit women, actually they are all rotten fruit at this point!
The freaks come out at night .the realest ish ever.
KG keep doing the late nights they be up trust me.
Ky-Asia was the only good pick until she said she expects a man who was not married to pay for her bills. #disqualified
But your SPOUSE is supposed to help/take care of the bills and if y'all want to do 50-50,100-0, etc. that's your business . I said it once I said it twice whether I make $50K or $500K it doesn't matter because if we are not married my only job is to respect you and take you out on the dates I can comfortably afford. If you are NOT married, my child, or my parent nobody should be paying your bills. Men please don't pay anybody bills you are not married to and if you do make sure they have a very strong history of ALWAYS paying you back.
I agree Men shouldn’t pay a woman’s bills he’s not married too. And a woman should not have sex til marriage either. Ppl need to get back to the way God made it to be.
@@HypothyroidismWeightLoss Facts. Nobody should have any kind of sex to people who they are not married to or pay bills.
@@Rashaadthegr8 I totally agree, and I just had the same conversation with my significant other. We are not married yet, and we have separate households. We can sustain each household individually, and it is not expected from either of us to support each other‘s bills. Once the marriage is official we will delegate expenses,but until then we keep everything separate.
@@RipplesnWaves Preach. Tell all the men in your life. We got to stop the simps.
Flag on the play. She is disqualified from the contest. 😂
“I’m not compromising my standards, I just sometimes lowered them”
Tessa….girl 😂
😆🤣I caught that, too! Just like 'borrowing instead of stealing' or 'a little pregnant.' It's either or, but not both.
I’m divorced and make $200K, 2 kids from my divorce. I am with a man who asked me to pay 10%, I agreed😂😂😂. He makes more than me, but honey I was doing it alone before😂😂😂.
Pay 30% of the household bills and stop being silly... if you truly respect that man, that is the less you can do.
@@spythe This would make sense if he actually needed it but I can assure you that men with money aren’t arguing over this like those without it.
I don’t understand how people don’t want to help at all when they are able. Whesther it’s 10% 30% or 50% why not help the person you claim to love. I personally don’t need 50/50 but make some kind of real contribution so that I know it’s real. 🤷🏽♂️
If your kids live with you most of the time and his don’t, you should be paying most of the bills because you and your family will create most of the bills PLUS you s/b getting child support. But hey, there’s a simp/step dummy born everyday 😂😂 My integrity wouldn’t allow me to be unfair to someone I claimed to love. SMH
She should be paying exactly the 10% that he has asked. Its apparent in yall comments it shows your average earners & he is not. You are with a good man, very happy to hear ❤🎉
Kendra needs to keep people at a two drink minimum. It’s just too difficult to follow these incoherent people…
We need a LA late night show monthly. Because the crazy do come out a night and everyone needs a stand on business 100k man
😂
One love to the Kendra fans watching at 7:30 AM, the morning after, on the treadmill. You know you need to increase that step goal to 12,000 daily, but you keep thinking you can level up staying at the same level. That’s not how this works. Tighten up.
It’s 5am on the west coast and yes indeed I am walking around the park working on my steps. I guess I’ll do 12,000 today since you said something 😅 lol
Im about to hit the trails now . Thank you
That was a word for me.. increasing my goal now😊
@@tdstyles71 Nice. I increased mine after I posted this comment. 😂
I'm watching her show now..
11:23 Qualina: It’s simple, the man she’s sleeping with doesn’t want to be with her. She probably wants him, but the feeling isn’t mutual. They’re fck buddies.
I also get the feeling she did this so he would see it and that’s why she didn’t want to say too much about him…. Hoping he might want to lock her down🙄😂
you hit the nail on the head she just a jump off 😂
John was about to say Selenite is his drag name. A lot to work with there 😮💨
The sad part is, renita is in the acceptable range physically. Put her mindset is so completely off. I find myself thinking when I meet people in public that I wish I saw them on this show so I could hear their answers to these questions. It's not like the questions are perfect and I wouldn't switch out the questions if given an opportunity. But you learned so much about the mindset of the person answering by not just what they say but also how they say it.
How is my mind set off? I was just speaking from MY experience and I keep encountering men that seem to always need some type of help. Which is why I am still single. I answered her questions to the best of my ability. She asked what type of man I want but I made it clear that the money part is NOT a deal breaker.
@@renitajohnson8524 when you're speaking about men that operate in lack. For instance I believe you mentioned about living in your mother's home. That tells us the level of man you're used to dealing with. And you may not be ready or prepared for dealing with a man who does not operate in lack.
@@TruthFLA Not true. I always give men a fair chance. I have run into men that still live at home and it didn’t work out for me. That was just me not judging, doing something that I don’t usually do and giving it a chance. So I only stated my desire. If that makes sense.
PSA: KOUSINS! Do not drink AND go LIVE🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️
Yo, Nicole Harrell takes care of her kids and they're dope.
Liquor talking but she is a good mom😂😂😂 she may be embarrassed after watching this back.
Miss G, I am only listening to John without seeing him but I knew immediately that he is looking for a man! 🙈
Perhaps you should start asking what kind of partner are you looking for because that will eliminate the confusion of whether your callers want a man or a woman.
Bye! ❤ from Sweden
When you know it’s a sin and you continue to do it there is no grace and mercy from God for that sin. That’s the only way you can show God that you love him, to be obedient to him.
That’s what I love about your god, all you have to do is “really mean it” the next time. 😂😂😂😂 You can’t judge her, there is no state apparatus to judge her, so it is free for all.
Why do so many of y'all sin and have so many kids outta wedlock. That's all y'all know how y'all do
Ephesians 4:32
I truly agree 💯 percent
That lady needs help. You can't cope with alcohol
If you broke just say that... Dating for Dollars. Coming to a TV near you.
Dating for dollars sound like Zeus 😂😂
Up at 2 am looking for man🤣🤣🤣. Even the man was looking for a man
Lol!
Kendra loves this “I feel bad for Black women because there’s not enough of the men you want out there” routine when in reality there are tons. Women get the men they want when they qualify. Enough of this “woe is the Black woman” nonsense..
It's been going on for decades so I don't see it stopping now; except for the fact that now a lot of good men seem to be walking completely away!
Qualina wants a Provider, but just slept with a guy "A few days ago" SMH. Ky-Asia's attitude is HORRIBLE. She is definitely argumentative and combative.
i wouldn’t date Ky-asia if she was the last woman in the galaxy, also she on here talking mad crazy, girl u not that goid looking and you in chicago, for every 1 of you there are 5-6 better options
A woman (or man) can want what he/she wants. A man can choose to date her or not. It’s not necessary for a woman to be grilled and questioned to death over her desires. She’s a grown woman and is asking for what she wants. A man can approach her and they can discuss it, or he can skip her and move on. Good grief.
🎯 Exactly. It's annoying to see that, knowing these men won't choose said woman anyway.
@@Ambitiousgirl22just that damn simple,alotta comments coming frm narrow minds that barely lived life
I guess you don't know how the internet works, because what you just wrote isn't it.
@@Ambitiousgirl22 🤣😂 yes
I would say Kendra needs to do a late night Saturday show every week.
To all my high value men NEVER let a woman tell you that you have to do something to be with them! You are the prize and Kendra G show proves why every time it comes on! They up at 3am looking for you! Also never pay Nothing for a woman you not married too! BF/GF isn’t honored by GOD!
Facts!!!! Only a Simp would go for these types of demands from women who obviously have poverty mindsets.
BOTH should be the prize
You hv a deep problem.
You are not in position to tell men what not to do.
Another ting, you up late on kG, too, where is your concubine?
Keep your opinión to yourself..
Seems like you're routinely up at 3am following these women since you can vouch for what the show "proves every time it comes on." Why are you over here, Mr. Prize? And why would all the "high value men" you're calling out to on this page be here in the first place? You're desperate for men to think the way you do. You know you don't speak for all of them and that triggers you. Men aren't stupid and they can see red flags just like you can. And since you're quoting what's honored by God, where does it say, "Never pay Nothing for a woman you not married too!" Further, boyfriends and girlfriends didn't exist in biblical days so for you to say that they're not honored by God doesn't even make sense. . . 😩
Disclaimer! Any woman with multiple kids (when asked) what does she bring to the table, and her reply is “I am the table” is the biggest red flag ever, run away from these women, with the quickness, you will thank me later.
Oh my heart hurts for Nicole.
Yeah, it was hard to watch Nicole. I feel sorry for her children.
She needs therapy. It's like she's trying to convince herself. She was all over the place. Praying she finds peace.
I swear if I hear another women say that they are the table!!! That ain't worth NOTHING, then ur table comes with a load or plates and it wobbles 🤦🏾♂️
I set those tables out by the curb for bulk trash pickup. 😎
@@bernardtalbert6729💯
😂😂😂🤦🏽♀️
I’m a woman and this made me laugh😆 anybody can make a table and be the table they decorated. But what do you give outside of surface level things?
I got second hand embarrassment from Tessa’s segment. 🥴
I learned watching Montel Williams, being late is a sign of arrogance. Shows no respect for other people’s time. I hate when people are proud of that.
Question: Why do people say liars are a dealbreaker? Liars are gonna lie and not say, "Hi, I'm John, I'm a liar" That's just something you will find out as you get to know them. Then you'll know, don't get serious and give of yourself too much before you gather if the person is a person of integrity.
Yep, this is true in general, too. Pay attention to what people say and ask questions. It's part of vetting people for any relationship, really. And you're right, if it's their nature to lie, asking for an honest person up front won't help! 😂
Nicole speaking in hieroglyphics
😂😂
😂😂 I can't believe she's 38. No way we're the same age.
@@BeautyNBrains86 if it makes you feel any better her liver probably 68
A lot of women get on this show and expect and demand a man pay their bills, but don't have a problem paying their own right currently. These people are delusional.
Every time I watch this show, im enlighten on the ignorance so many people here around dating.
What I've learned can only be explained in a BOOK! But to get to the point of this episode... ladies ladies ladies clean-up the narrative. If yoir single seeking a relationship that doesn't resembles your past. You need to present yourself better. 6 kids 3 men never married, sexing someone young but seeking a relationship where the man has no relationship or interaction with your kids sounds like a SITUATIONSHIP. Is he rolling in after 10pm and rolling out by 7am? How do you intentionally choose to date and the person NOT be socially involved with your children. This is senseless. "I take care of my kids" a partner may not financially support your kids but wouldn't you want someone that can provide guidance, leadership, structure, consistency, etc...
Qualina is a whole preschool teacher. She teaching the kids yall! 😭 If my child was in her class I'd pull them immediately. Something wrong wit her. Slooooow 🚌 Not sure why you came on Kendra at 2am. You should have just went to sleep sis.
I used to work in Education after college and you’d be surprised how many bad early education teachers their are. I was in a teacher credential program with a Latino brother who literally struggled on 100% of the assignments. I remember speaking with someone after hours from the class where they told me the following saying, “those who can’t, Teach.” Supposedly that is a common saying in education. 🤷🏽♂️
@@12_door_tycoon I guarantee you that the people who say those who can't, teach, have no idea who coined that phrase and where it's from. It's meant as an insult to teachers. Anybody who believes that is a fool. Without teachers there would be no progress because everyone would have to learn everything by experience.
She was on an episode of divorce court years ago
@@Coolsnacker Superbly said! That whole insult exists because of people not being in jobs/careers suitable to their gifts and because of company protocols that allow you a position you don't fit/qualify for simply because you have a degree in something (even if it's unrelated). Also, when people get laid off or if there's a recession, etc. they use those unrelated degrees to get jobs teaching (which is always in demand) so they'll have an income. Never mind the fact that they hate kids, don't know HOW to teach, don't want to be there and don't necessarily understand what they're teaching. And when they inevitably do a bad job, it reflects poorly on and is counted against actual teachers! Ugh.
Stop allowing drunk ppl to get on🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️!!!!!
It’s a waste of time for real ppl!!!!
I disagree. First, it's kind of entertaining. Then, when they sober up, all the live comments and the RUclips comments might give them a serious wake up call. Cheaper than therapy. Fingers crossed!😄
Renita said she was the "table"🙄🙄. The "table" represents the relationship. So " what do you bring to the relationship?" I am the relationship 🙄 Narcissism at its finest
Faith,
1. Claims to by God fearing,
2. Has children out of wedlock,
3. Has recently had sex although she is "waiting for marriage to have sex."
4. Has fake (filtered) photos but wants honesty, and
5. Is a pastor, but picks and chooses which parts of the Bible she will practice.
🥺🥺🥺
Replay Kousin here.... Now I fast forward through if i see a question from the comments. This is my hesitation for downloading the app. SMH
I get the "replay Kousin"! 😂😂😂 I'm right here with ya. 🤩
@@KLABICKHAMhey kousin
Heyyy 👋🏾
It seems like a lot of people who call in want people who come without any flaws or room for growth. Not everyone makes 6 figures,but that doesn’t mean they won’t one day. I wonder if some of these people watch their interviews over to see how bad they come off. I mean if I were a man I would not reach out to any of the women from tonight. Some of them were really rude. Keep thinking money is more important and end up with some scammers or a man who presents themselves like they got a lot of money. I mean I know some men who do that. Sadly I’m related to them and surprisingly it’s not hard for them to pull women or girls I should say. SMH
I think a lot of the women come with a list of ideals that they know deep down they won't get, but they're shooting for the stars anyway. As time passes and no one quite measures up, they'll realize men's potential for growth that you mentioned and will also probably see more of their own flaws. Hopefully that understanding will bring balance and they'll end up equally yoked with their mate.
@@M.T.-qm4rt I think men and women tend to do this. It’s just human nature I guess. Everyone wants perfection,but that’s just isn’t how the world works. People are meant to grow and change.
@@jessmackiedo6717 Agreed. Enjoy your day.
Good luck Jerisa in your dating journey. All the best sista.
why do kendra look like the judge off of paternity court😂😂
Why does Kendra cut people off if they don’t do Zodiac signs and NOT ALLOW them just say their damn birthday? I rather know someone’s ACTUAL BIRTHDAY OVER THEIR SIGN. She only asks their ACTUAL BIRTHDAY if they are a Taurus.
Most people don’t want to give their full names and birthday on the internet! I learned that 4 yrs ago when I asked that question
@@KendraGMediabut you ASK when they are Tauruses though? Also, if they are WILLING give it why cut them off?
Yes cut them off & get to the next question because they will go into why they dont believe lol.
I think even if they don’t believe in zodiac signs . I do so I want to hear it. she could say, although you don’t believe in zodiac signs what is your sign because some people may wanna know.
Ya'll stop being so petty. Ya'll can't even have a decent conversation with one person, and Kendra is talking to 100's of people every week. She's good at what she does. Let her do her thing.. Yall petty as hell.
People do say women don't willingly intimate with men they can't be with... This show has proven that assertion false again and time again
Kendra was giving Tessa the business 😂.
All that talking to Nicole is she don’t even have the app hell no we need to change that up. They gotta show Kendra the app first then they can get on the show.
Perhaps that should be apart of the intro... show the room and the app... but the problem you dont want to make the show to hard for ppl to come on... adding to many barriers means alot less ppl in the queue
@@And1one757 people also use their phones to join the show. they won’t be able to show the app
Are you aware that the more money he makes the more child support takes. So the man making 60k and the man making 100K might be taking home the same amount after child support takes what it takes
Truth
This is why if possible, leave the government out your shyt. Sit down like adults and come to an agreement. But I get it, everybody didn’t choose the other parent of their children wisely and ended up fkd. A big booty and a smile will do that to ya. Men and women need to learn how to use discernment.
First girl has the voice of a cartoon villain’s weasley little sidekick thats always getting pushed around
🤣🤣😂😂😂😅😅
I had to listen to hear again and she really do😂😂😂😂😂
No wonder i missed this show. I was knocked out 😂
The income of the men were you were younger and prettier doesn't really matter because you're older and a lesser version than the person you were when you were younger. No man with sense making six figures is going to take his hard-earned money and invest it in another man's children. That man will all the sudden go from living comfortably to living paycheck to paycheck because he's an investing in children that are not his
Ky-Asia, any adult would expect that you can afford your own light bill and other utilities, because how were you paying them before he showed up?
Ma'ma make it make sense, the question is "IN DATING " this is a totally unrealistic exception for anyone. What if he only takes you out on 3 dates? Does he paid your electric bill that month? Is it prorated? 😂😂😂
Now I see why men ask what do you bring to the table? Women are out here leading with FINANCE. Paying bills is definitely a conversation to have when you both are committing to be exclusive.
Kya-asia is a pros-fessional
Women with poverty mindsets are the main ones that do this. I would be embarrassed as hellz if my daughter said this to a man. It basically shows that she had a TERRIBLE upbringing.
Woman lead with finances and ambition every time, yet they dont want to pay a single bill .. literally useless
These no good women make the good women look bad!
EXACTLY!!
Call in have good light great sound and make sure your background for the Kendra can is clean. It’s so embarrassing seeing these messy houses and bedrooms. Yet you all want a relationship you need to clean up. Cleanliness is next to godliness.
Totally get what you're saying but why do you feel embarrassed? I cannot be embarrassed by a stranger's trifling ways.
I dont get it. How do you pick and choose the parts of the bible and when they apply?
It’s the god concept, that’s the whole point of it. If you have enough votes, money, or ammo, your god can be, do, or say anything you want him to say.
Because humans are imperfect. Do you get that?
@@Somanybeats that has zero to do with what was asked,lol. Come on...comprehension!
OMG I just commented the same thing
@@jb3702 that answers your question
Faith just said she wasn’t into situationships and then said she doesn’t like bad breath with people in situationships
Tessa looking for a simp at this point in her life cause aint no decent dude coming her way with all those kids
Kendra, why do you think that a person has multiple kids? They have to be with someone who makes a low per year 70K is $191 a day. What is a person with six kids supposed to date somebo that makes 30 K a year what are two broke people gonna do together nothing so why can’t a man or woman want somebody that makes more them so they could grow together stop tricking these people like 70 K is not reasonable
There are some slim pickings out here for men. Nicole is a prime example. Smh. I pray that she gets some help for her drinking problem.
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This mother of six, in the very beginning, said she does want a man to take care of his own household. He needs his own place and she made that clear@ coffee killer. I respect a woman dating, getting to know a nice man and not looking for a father for her children. She stated this from the very beginning. She also said, one of her reasons for not dating a lot is because she has so many children. She said the 30 year old man was too young for a long time relationship. We have to listen !!!!!!
Kendra “you look different.” Aka, Catfish alert!!! 🐈 🎣 😂😂😂
Filtered photos filled with makeup.
The man you describe already has a table. And a good one at that. So if you call yourself the table then we don't need you. We already have the table. why do we need another one?
What I meant by my comment is that I come with my own everything and a well prepared table. I just answered her question. The dating pool is crazy and everyone is looking for help. I was just making it clear that that was not what I needed a man for. I’m sorry if it came off the wrong way.
@@renitajohnson8524 understandable. what that question is seeking to ascertain is what are you offering that we don't already have. This question is hardly ever about finances.
@@TruthFLA I receive that. The next time I am asked that question I will definitely be better prepared. I appreciate you.
No shit say less facts
Renita had 4 kids from the same man but never married after 16 yrs of dating. WTF?????? Btw... saying you are the table sounds stupid.
She said she was too young to get married too, but not to have children🙄🙄
1:07:44 Kendra: So you want him, but he doesn’t want you?
Tessa: blah blah blah blah……2 minutes later…. Yes. 😂
I think the last girl needs clarification of what dating is and a relationship. When you’re dating somebody they could be dating someone else and that’s crazy expectation🤷🏽♀️ but when you commit to someone and say OK, we’re in a relationship , You’re the only person I’m seeing that’s different.
exactly, she talking all around because she seems like she jus out to have her life financed. imagine being a behavior therapist with poor behavior and financial traits, she even start being rude to Kendra
1:24:21 Contrary to popular belief, it is still very much looked down upon to have kids outside of wedlock. The difference is that there is “pressure” to be politically correct and not say the quiet part out loud. But men have been “saying” it with their actions - generally, by being willing to have sex with, but not marry women with children. Don’t get me wrong, there are certainly exceptions to the rule (no one is saying that 0% of single mothers have gotten married.) But those are the exceptions and not the rule. There is a direct correlation between the increase of single mothers and the decrease of marriage within our community.
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@@KLABICKHAMwhat’s up about the mark 5:02
Ky-Asia would have a problem with a man living with his mother because she’s been out and independent since the age of 19 but wants a bf to pay her bills? lol the independence she touts has caveats
“Don’t ever ask me for a dime!”
That train driver, is a greedy woman and she must always hv money in her pocket..
She dont love to share..
I feel bad for Nicole. She thinks she is strong and ok but you’re not hun. You might can beat somebody up or curse they azz out but that never showed strength to me, it showed insecurities and issues. As a grown woman, you should be able to communicate like one and realize that you have something to lose. The hoodboogers don’t know nothing about what I’m saying but a WOMAN does. Stop self destructing thinking it’s for the moment before it becomes an issue you can’t handle. Being an alcoholic ain’t it. It’s evident that you need love/companionship. And I know you say you don’t drink all the time, I hope that’s the case. Sometimes that liquid courage makes you do things that you wouldn’t have done sober. But we don’t know you. All we know is what we saw. And trust me, there’s a world out there that doesn’t include Pookies and Ray-rays, you just have to be wise about who choose. Good luck to you mamas and God bless.
Nicole is the hoodbooger you're speaking of.
Ky-Asia why the hell would someone dating you pay your bills? Do you not have a dad? Or two hands? ...
It's giving "sponsor" or escort 😬 like this is not a normal arrangement. Covering someone else's expense is a nice gesture but when it's a requirement, it turns into another dynamic.
But she won't do it for the man. She's CRAZY!! Expecting someone's son to pay YOUR bills when you're dating. No. No. No.
If men only had these types of women to choose from, then Kendra needs to stop having late night shows frfr!!
If your not married to your so call man , he aint your man his everybodies man. he aint put a ring on it!! you not the only one....
What is it with all these women with kids. Geesh. I felt bad for Nicole. Seems like she’s drinking away her sorrows. Really sad these women think they are worthy of so much but I guess we can all dream.
Asking a friend, do Kendra contestants exist in real life cos in years since the pandemic, I have yet to run into these folks or am I living a sheltered life‼️
I have never had either of my two ex husbands to pay all the bills, hell they didn't pay some of the bills, and when they did pay a bill or two they were no more than 50 dollars. The first ex husband didn't pay any bills. That is why I say that marriage is not for everyone.
Qualina beautiful name and you seem beautiful inside and out, good luck in your dating journey young lady.
Whew child I guess I am very weak then. I never wanted to be a single mother. I mean you have the kids, take care of them alone, and all that drama. I still wish you the best sista Tessa.
John better pictures will land you better selections. If you’re looking for a mature partner. You might want to have poses in a more mature manner.
Everyone is taller than 5'4'' or 5' 5" the shallow stuff is something else. As long as he is not ABUSIVE in any way, unemployed, or not legally employed and NOT a criminal or former criminal, or is NOT who he says he is; and is mentally mature, Single Single, and a decent human being that is all that should be important.
6 kids by 3 men living in NC and needs a man to make 3x the rent. The average rent in NC for a 1 bedroom is about $1500. 3x would be significantly less than $75k
That actually is roughly what you would have left post tax and other contributions.
@10_door_tycoon $1500 x 36 months is $54k... so shes $21k off. The way that yall will cape for women is crazy.
@@SherrieBumbray it would be the same thing monthly income is the same as annual income when you multiply it by 12
@lt6986 Thank you for not being rude. I realized that after I made my comment. 🤦🏾♀️
@Kendra sync your old phone to the new or your laptop and all of your vidz and photos should transfer. Android is even easier.
When it comes to God, women make their own rules as they go.
What I don't get is why do so many people go up in arms when someone says something about God. Last time I check none of you were perfect. At least they acknowledge a higher authority to some degree. Let the seed grow
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God is a buzzword for seeking hope. Hope he's nice, hope he prays, hope he's considered. Basically any rule they create applies.
yes but don't fellow the rules of the Bible
Some of y’all just hate for no reason
Good luck Faith and hopefully your Faith will get you the "husband" that you deserve.