@@Peekaboo5819 Hi, I think they meant others art as well as Mo’s. Then writing their would be plural, hence more than just this lady’s. But LADbible meant just one person then they are wrong in writing their.
her anger about the disgraceful police failure is palpable, her disgust towards politicians response like Margaret thatcher is invigorating, the pride in her face and voice as she talked about women marching the streets in protest speaks volumes...her passion and strength of character has obviously been vital in her survival ...she s a woman of incredible character
I think Thatchers response calling women out for walking alone smacked of victim blaming a bit - it’s sound advice to tell women to be safe and vigilant but through a method of telling them to remove most freedoms of movement and that they should be fearful mobilising around out on their own around the country ? The problem isn’t with women being out after 5pm, trying to meet friends or catch a bus home … the problem was the lack of policing any suspicious behaviour of men on the streets - lack of bobbys on the beat - failure to arrest or effectively penalise & monitor sex pests - police blaming sex workers for sexual assaults - not to mention Britain’s piss poor support of mental health at the time - people like Peter sutcliffe could act as he saw fit with utter freedom (and no obvious Avenue to pursue mental health therapy support because let’s face it, he must’ve known he had dark intrusive thoughts for a very long time and there’s no way people close to him couldn’t have been alarmed at certain things he said or did) - thatchers comments weren’t about fixing the problem, they were utterly ridiculous, telling women to basically stay at home and fear the world
@@catau8000 @cat Au It's also a disgusting fact that the term 'mental health issues' is used to sweet talk the crimes of psychopaths, narcissists, sociopaths, paranoid schizophrenics.... These are no disorders, such people have had their ENTIRE personality hacked by a very dangerous predatory survival 'mechanism'.... robots.... They should be destroyed or locked up for life or monitored as much as possible depending on the severity of the damage they cause onto others. They ALWAYS have AT LEAST one victim of which they partially or totally ruin their lives or their finances, or their social circle... and being a victim of them demands years of effort to recover... if one remains alive. And we let these motherfuckers perform in any capacity... that's a double whammy of pure, uncut insanity !!!!
Our town had a series of murders where women's bodies were dumped in the orange groves. The police file was marked N.O.H.I. 'not of human interest'. The shunned and marginalized don't receive justice easily.
I was a nurse living in a nursing home at Withington Hospital during this time. He murdered one poor lady across the road from the hospital and actually returned to the body as it wasn't found straight away. It was terrifying walking the hospital corridors when on night duty as the canteen was away from the main wards. I used to clutch surgical scissors under my cape to use as a weapon. Very frightening time to be a woman.
I am a woman who survived a horrific crime. Back then I didn’t trust the police, it took my nearly 20 years to get the courage to report my attack, in the end it was the fact that he was still out there and probably attacking other women that made me report the crime. It changed my life completely. I live with ptsd. Not long after the attack a friend of mine took me on a Reclaim the Night March that ended in a ballroom full of wonderful women. I believe it probably prevented me from taking my life. They never caught him, he’s probably still out there. Your strength in doing this video is overwhelming. 35 years later you have helped me so much by coming forward and telling your truth. I love you. Thank you.
Thank you so much for sharing, and you should be so proud of yourself for living through it and even going on to report it. You’re clearly here for a reason. Keep going! 💛
She tells her story so calmly, but she still conveys the details of the event and the aftermath so well that I could picture myself experiencing it as well. I felt her terror, trauma, anger, fear, and determination. I’m glad she found it in herself to continue with her studies and career.
I can't believe after EVERYTHING she went through ..... On the case for the ripper to start , then what happened on her birthday...then police ignored it AFTER SPENDING A MILLION IN THE 70S.... she died of COVID in 2019 💔💔💔
@@SirenaSpades I think everyone in the cold light of day can say you should definitely go and help, but unfortunately self-preservation is a very powerful mechanism and many people might just as easily run and call the police, which in this instance would probably have left this incredibly courageous woman to die.
I really appreciate these 23 minutes with videos. You hear about crazy stories everyday in the news or online, but when you get a real insight into the life of someone who’s actually lived through an insane experience like this, it really gives you a unique perspective
I hope they do one about narcissistic abuse. I went through this, while not having the faintest clue to what the term narcissism really meant. I thought it was about grandiose people....😂 I never knew they were mental serial killers with the exact same sadistic streaks. It's weird how no program never shows this.
Trump is a money narc.... He became president just to show everyone he could and had people storm the capitol where a few died.... He manipulated the shit out of everyone who's up for a good conspiracy. Not that all conspiracy is untrue but there you go... he wasn't afraid of the consequences in terms of people dying.
The fact that this serial killer was caught accidentally is just stunning... If he'd not been pulled over he could have killed even more. It's disgraceful.
He hasn't been caught by accident though, has he? A Bobby on the beat, doing his job, spotted something wrong with his car and acted accordingly. Afterwards with his gut instinct checking a suspicious action of a person he stopped, yielded results he wasn't exactly expecting but even better. How is doing his job as a policeman and acting upon something suspicious considered accident? Are you joking?
@@embisch sutcliffe actually staged his arrest. The WY police knew him so well and were certain he was not the ripper. That's why he went to Sheffield and tied stolen plates to his cars plates. He practically told them he was the ripper. But the WY cops knew he was a copycat killer.
@@lena-Ramone he was a copycat killer. He did all the assaults and four of the thirteen murders. He actually set up his arrest in Sheffield because the WY police were certain he was not the ripper. They did a deal for his confessions to everything with the mental hospital and no trial.
My mums from Wakefield & she told me how terrifying it was being a young woman living through all of this, I cannot imagine the fear they all felt, my heart goes out to all the victims & their families.
My mum talked to me about it only few years back now about the girl who was murdered in Huddersfield and what it was like living here, his number plate being found in a scrapyard that we've driven past god knows how many times. So bizarre
@@captainkenzie6873 I’m pretty sure after being struck on the head and having sharpened screw drivers driven into your skull you wouldn’t exactly be dancing around singing happy days either…have a but of cop on and empathy please
@@captainkenzie6873 well you may watch the video again so, besides the OG comment was about her carrying on with her life and not letting what happened to her hold her back
I Love Her. I'm a recovered Addict, that was severly abused by both parents, then Ex boyfriends, one of whom cracked my head open with a dumbell & other abuses. This is something I always tell others with trauma "Use that anger, that trauma & let it motivate u. Let it fuel that desire to become whatever u dream of bc u are NOT a victim...Ur a Victor"
A friend of mine was a student in Newcastle (North East England) in the early 80s. She was walking across the town moor one night and came across a distressed looking woman coming the other way. The woman passed her by without a word. A minute later a man started following her. She ran and he gave chase. Fortunately she escaped but when she went to the police they said it was her fault and that in future she should carry a bucket of water with her to throw over any assailant. The police did not give a shit about women. Things have changed, but how much I can't say.
I didn’t know water would save a person from attack. That’s the stupidest thing I think I’ve ever heard. How awful for your friend and shame on the police.
When I was 11 in 1990, my dad took me to the police station because 4 Bangladeshi men tried to get me in their car, the woman officer said "well it happens...just walk away"
I can't wrap my head around the fact that the police got more interested with the case when it became clear that the killer targeted also "innocent" women, not "just prostitutes". One of the "not innocent" women was an 18 years old girl!
He lived on the same street as me when I was a kid; I can still remember him coming and going, getting in and out of a van going to work I assume, crazy to think a serial killer lived a cross the street, literally 50ft away.
Omg I can't imagine him being a Neighbour, maybe even being in Neighbourhood watch. I don't really mix with my neighbours and I think that is a good thing
Yes, I lived on the same floor of a sick pedo. At the time, I shared an apartment with my sister and we both knew there was something wrong with him. He was a tennis teacher for wealthy kids in NYC, Gary Wollinsky. He had made some rude calls to our apartment late at night and I grabbed the phone from my sister and said, “I know who this is, you’re the freak at the end of the hallway” and he hung up. We knew he was afraid of us because he’d take the stairs, 29 floors, instead of being caught in the elevator with us. He was caught trying to kidnap one of his students and there was a car chase that ended in Long Island. He shot himself before being arrested. They found he owned a cabin upstate NY which was filled with torture devices etc. You can about it on google. (He was popular roller skating playing tennis etc)
Oh my god, how can she function as a normal human being after what she went through? I admire her strength of character to overcome such a traumatic experience ❤
The fact my city is mostly known for the Yorkshire ripper saddens me. My mother was actually friends with one of the victims. I live round the corner from where her murder took place. Peter Sutcliffe was pure evil! Edit to add: Wilma Mccan was her friend. Also, the first victim sadly. Her son came to speak at my school and told his mother's story and how his life was affected after her murder. What i loved about Richard (her son) is that he has a slogan which is a play on words for his last name 'I can' from what i remember from his visit, he says he used this as a mantra to keep going. I think thats an awesome thing. Will forever play on my heart strings to this day.
I'm from Bingley and live in Leeds now (i use the same bus stop where one of the attacks happened) I went to school next to the cemetery that he used to go & my grandparents knew his wife. Always seemed to be a topic of conversation around me growing up
She's right they didn't care when it was prostitutes it only became a problem when he started on 'decent' women. Point is these women wouldn't be doing that without the men who fund it
Agree. All prostitution needs to be decriminalised in every country. It demonises women especially. Here in New Zealand prostitution is legal. Sex workers pay taxes & have employment rights just like every worker. They even have a union. The country has not collapsed & we are not over run by crime just because sex workers suddenly get rights.
she is so brave and lucky to be alive, I remember this time when women were warned in Leeds not to go out alone in the dark, I was a small child and used to cry if my mum had to go anywhere if it was dark, that POS ruined a lot of lives
Thank you, Mo Lea, for telling your story. It's the most traumatic moments of her life and she speaks with truth and eloquence. She's been through hell and come out the other side. I think it's awesome she's bringing attention to the terrible way it was handled after her attack. It's shameful to see the way serial killers are now given this strange celebrity status. It's disgusting. Anyone that is supporting these movies and shows that have come out, that glorifying these horrors and those committing them, is like a slap in the face to survivors and their families as well as those victims that passed and their families. Uplift and speak out about the survivors and victims, NOT the perpetrators!
She deserves a proper apology from the police force, even if the people working at the time are no longer working there, it's still the least they could do to her to give her some kind of official closure & acceptance.
I suffer cptd (complex post traumatic stress disorder) due to prolonged, mental abuse that is not remotely as severe. I've been trying to recover for 5yrs. I don't want to begin to imagine what she is going through. Further more when being further abused by officials..... Hope she can recover from this and enjoy her life.
Ex male Ambulance Service, a man tried to viciously attack me from behind it was horrific how aggressively he tried bash me, I just remember three punches coming at me I blocked them and hit him very hard on the jaw which stunned him, I tried to hit him again and he backed right off. Police didn’t charge him I will never forget the incident, this lady is so brave.
My Grandad was an inpatient in Broadmoor. One day in the nineteen eighties, Mum went to visit him. He introduced her proudly to his new friend Peter, it was Peter Sutcliffe. Mum didn't shake his hand....
It’s so insane that internal politicking within law enforcement prevented that psycho from getting caught earlier. There should be accountability for things like that.
@@dickfitswell3437 what do you have against this woman? You’ve not experienced what she has, none of us have, so stop trying to disprove her experience. You just sound like you can’t handle the very basic TRUTH that the police have a lot of issues
@@NeilMalthus police choose to be police. Women don’t. You can’t excuse their flaws - they literally CHOOSE the position they’re in. If they’re flawed then they shouldn’t be in their jobs.
@@NeilMalthus the murderer was "a mere human", too, but you don't see anyone sympathizing with him. The police are just as responsible as he is, just out of pride and cowardice.
Because Sutcliffe DIDN’T attack her. Her original statement to the police was that it was a young man who attacked her.. Sutcliffe was 34 at the time and she’d have been around 20.. in her description she never once mentioned her attacker had a beard and moustache,I wonder why?
@@darrenfield8546 You don't know anything. You cannot make a statement like that based off a video. Men can shave and grow a beard and moustache whenever they want... 35 year old people still looked like young people when I was 20....
@@iSheree don’t know anything😂😂 I’ve forgotten more about this case than you know.. ps Sutcliffe never shaved his beard off from when he grew before 1975 until the day he died.Mo Lea when ever interviewed plugs her books or paintings. Sutcliffe 100% didn’t attack her.
@@darrenfield8546 Yeah, keep trying to make it sound as though you know what you're talking about when you know fuck all. Well done for using emojis too, that definitely gives you some credibility.
Wow, you are the brave and powerful one for taking such a bold public stand like that. Y'know what.. now that you've taken the lead I'm going to step and agree in unity: NOBODY should ever go through such horrible things!. Anyone else brave enough to take this stand?
Thank you for sharing your story. Both your survival and the sharing of this horrific experience is extremely brave. I hope you continue with your recovery and thriving. ❤
So many times in my life I’ve almost been in this woman’s shoes. Any woman who takes public transport is at risk for this, and/or SA, etc. She was just out in public for God’s sake. She’s very strong for speaking about this, despite all the horrible people victim blaming her, here and in other places I’m sure.
Absolutely. And how many women are out there driving old beater cars and getting stranded? My late baby sister recounted breaking down and walking back toward a service station. Some guy in a truck offered her a ride. She said real friendly "oh, no thanks, I've got it, just gonna call a friend..." He insisted. She again refused. He switched. Just like that. Stopped the truck. Jumped out. Started chasing her all the while cussing and telling her all the horrible stuff he was gonna do to her. She RAN. Toward that service station. She said she'd never run so fast in her life. The guy stopped & ran back to his truck only because someone at the gas station saw her running and came toward her to help. He asked if he should he should call the sheriff, and she said no. 🤦 I know in hindsight she knew she should've, but I think the adrenaline and shock just wasn't letting her think clearly.
Such a Very brave Lass.... Back then when the Yorkshire Ripper was about it was ever so scary to walk about at night.... Thanks for sharing this Story Mo😘
Thank you for the bravery in sharing your story with us Mo 💖 It helps other survivors to not feel so alone ... you do loose a peice of yourself when someone violates your being, however, the community of survivors you find along the way helps us to heal. Sending love and light your way ✨️
Thank God you got through it. Your poor parents to have to see you in hospital. Thank God, once again, that you survived. Let’s pray for those poor women who died and their families.
Thank you for sharing this horrific trauma, your story. You give so much in putting word around not letting trauma define you as a person. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.
The most frustrating thing about this case is that the Yorkshire police made EXACTLY the same mistakes as H Division during the JTR investigation. Never learn their lessons. Honestly
Wow. Amazing woman. Have recently watched the sorry tale of the police trying to catch the Yorkshire ripper. How fixated they were on this Geordie to the exclusion of all else. It's part of UK folklore now. I love the message coming from this brave female about harnessing your anger and fear. Only tonight I witnessed a man threatening his female partner in the street. I asked him to leave her alone which of course he wouldn't and so contacted Sussex police. When will women be safe? Moreover when will they receive justice from the judiciary? We have come along but there is still far to go. People want to pretend its not happening. The patriarchy is still alive and well. Thank you for sharing your story. I feel inspired. Best wishes Kate
When she described him hitting her....and how others who saw, "ran toward here", 4:48 or so, I thought to myself.... that's the problem with people nowadays.... they don't want to get involved. Take note everyone: that is what saved this brave woman!!
@Cian MacGana murderers arent gonna risk killing and holding 3 people. they are gonna run. yelling, making noise, and going towards them etc will save that person 99% of the time. you dont have to get up close and personal just make noise and walk towards them. ur not gonna get stabbed they really arent that stupid, theyre pussies thats why they murder
Well done for being so brave to tell your truth , it's ashamed police still do that today with attacks but think your so very brave , stat safe and stay sane and stay wise xx
I remember seeing news reports on the tv at the time, and live reasonably close to the area, I was 5 years old , it’s was very scary but I remember it vividly, thanks for giving this lady a voice
Not everyone can get to a place where they can acknowledged that something bad happened that shouldn't have, but can also see a change like wanting to live more vibrantly. I'm glad that Mo was able to get to that point.
Wishing this woman and the other assault victims the best this life has to offer and and the ones who lost their lives to rest in peace. These monsters are cowards, they only attack women because they know they could never over power men🙄
So sorry for what you went through both from Sutcliffe and the attitude of the police. You must have reserves of strength you never knew you had to survive and then talk about it as you have now.
What an amazingly strong lady is Mo. Fascinating to see her strength. I’m sure the scars will run deep, she’s sharing her trauma and terrible affliction. Bless her, brave lady ❤️
@@darrenfield8546 how could you know better than her? Perhaps because it reveals sutcliffe as the deranged copycat killer. You need to delude people to keep him as the ripper. So that's your game plan Darren. You're a police nark. 😂😂😂😂
What a queen, absolute warrior, I can't even imagine almost becoming prey to a serial killer like that wouldn't traumatised me for life, I'd struggle to even leave the house....she's unreal x
I brushed passed the Camden Ripper who lived 1 minute from my main door to my home, he was walking through Oakley Gardens, Mornington Crescent and he stared right at me not breaking eye contact, he was with a younger woman. I didn't know him but I remembered him because the space invader t-shirt he was wearing on the day he was wearing it on the photos in the newspapers that were released when he was apprehended. When you make the connection, your heart jumps and skips a beat. I checked out his 3 victims and the woman I saw him with was not one of the victims as far as I know, however, I heard that police now believe that there may have been more victims of the Camden Ripper. I've put out a description of the woman in Camden Ripper videos all over RUclips just in case, someone knows her to be missing. The woman I saw was early 30s, pale whiite skin, dress sense was 80s like say the two young girls from movie 'Rita Bob and Sue Too', I believe she wore a pearl necklace, she had short blonde hair - she was probably a prostitute. The woman in the video above suffered at the hands of this maniac. They should have executed Sutcliffe and executed the Camden Ripper, - yes the system failed the Camden Ripper with his meds etc, I've researhed the case reasonably deep but he was a nasty and violent man since he was a young man apparently.. Shockingly bad policing with this Mo Lea from the Yorkshire police.
@@heatherreadsreddit8579 yeah I should do. I'm actually in a foreign country right now but I will get around to it. I should hunt for a photo of a woman who looks like her and maybe some 80s style clothes she was wearing (seemed out of place that fashion for the early 00's that's another reason I remember her). Dunno which police branch is best to contact though. I just never, ever have dealings with the police so if anyone could give me pointers that would be good. I think I may have described her further up the thread or on a different YT video of the Camden Ripper (i.e. looking like an early 30s Lady Diana but with a blonde shorter haircut similar to Natasha Yar in Star Trek) etc etc etc
Yes. One imagines that justice always prevails, and it's the injustice of it all that has in fact caused the most hurt. I love this woman's eloquence. I love this woman's strength. I love this woman's dignity. I love this woman's courage. I love this woman's resilience. Thank you for putting out this video and may she find peace and true happiness in what is left in this lifetime. Bless you Mo.
She states if at around 12.20 in that if they took her seriously then Jaqueline Hill possibly wouldn’t be attacked.. nonsense as Uphaya Bandara was attacked just around the corner around the same time where Mo Lea’s fairytale happened a couple of miles away.If you know about this case then you know what Mo Lea says is nonsense,even in her description she states her attacker was a young man,Lea was 20 and Sutcliffe was 34 but the biggest hint that Sutcliffe wasn’t her attacker is she failed to mention his beard and moustache in her description
I would love to listen to a lecture from her about her art. I'm an art student, doing advanced diploma now and I would really enjoy listening to her art journey
What an amazing & strong woman to have survived such a terrifying, life changing attack & go on with such resilience and determination. Wow! Just incredible. ❤
I was assaulted by my abusive spouse, and when I turned to the police they half-heartedly offered me a non-molestation order, but when I called to ask for it I was laughed at and the officer hung up. My ex took most everything and I can't afford representation in the divorce, and even though I qualify for legal aid I've been begging for more than half a year for help and can't get anyone to help me. Its been hugely dehumanizing. It feels like the legal system is saying 'Its fine that you were raped, that you lived in fear of your ex partner who wanted to cut you, who expressed violent antisocial sentiments, and that you were left destitute when your ex took all of the money and forced an alimony agreement you had no say in on you. You deserve it.' There have been many days where if it wasn't for my cats, my tarantulas, my handful of friends that I would have ended myself and still I had to fight those feelings. Alone. If anyone knows of a solicitor in England willing to accept legal aid for a divorce please tell me. I've been trying to contact the law society at this point and am having little success. And I need help.
Have you reached out to Women's Aid? They might be able to help or give you more info about the best course of action. I hope everything gets better for you.
womens aid- hang up. no contest divorce of £600- no good when the spouse recieves the money. shelters require benifits to house you are no good either, since you are unfortunaly married, To quote my responses, 'you are your mans problem'. and 'stop wasting our time'. Thats all the help Ive found. Your options are to put up with it, or potentionly recieve worse begging on street. I hope you have more success in finding a 3rd more appealing, practical choice.
I lived in England during that time going to college. This was all over the news. My mother was freaked out because I hitched on my own. Which was very common back then. They told people to go out in pairs or more. We walked to the local pub and back.
It was common back then but there were a lot of stories about lone hitchhikers being attacked even then and the information helped me not ever hitchhike, although I did cadge a lift from a lone policeman, and looking back he could have been a Wayne Couzens. At the time you avoid men in cars and lorries and one would have thought lone policeman with a responsible job would be ok but we know know that a good job with the police doesn't make a blind bit of difference to a predator with sexual violent fantasies.
It's sad that we have to be afraid of the night. I personally have a habit of carrying around pepper spray if I must go out alone. I don't really go out alone though. I only go out with a small group or with my boyfriend. Even then, when I was drunk one night, but my bf was sober so he could drive us home. He noticed a man following us and getting closer to me. He literally had to pull me close to his side and drag me with him. If he weren't there, I wouldn't have noticed the man and probably would have been attacked.
It’s so tragic to see all the pictures of those women who’s deaths the police saw as “cleaning up the streets”. Stopping this one killer was all that was needed to clean up the streets. The sentiments of the cops are too close to a serial killers for comfort.
She is an incredible person. I survived a parental abuser and an assault when I was in college. Watching her I felt every tendril of discomfort, the creeping disgust and dissatisfaction. She is doing a huge service for survivors of any kind of crime with her story. I truly hope she is able to be at peace and find comfort in her life. Thank you ❤
Everyone should listen to her point about being young and confident. It doesn't matter if you're male/female. Wrong place, wrong time can spell disaster. Just be mindful people. You're not invincible. Even if you feel you are.
You have missed the entire point: did you not hear what she said about the Reclaim the Night rally? Do not victim blame. The only person with any culpability in this case was Sutcliffe.
@@mariaaguadoball3407 I'm not. That is your interpretation of my paragraph. What I took from her words were the fact she thought it would never happen to her. She was young, strong and confident. She knew the risks of the area at the time, and decided to go against the general consensus.
Agree, it's not just wrong place. There will always be bad people, women and men, it doesn't mean that you should ignore safety. That night rally was just irresponsible.
Thanks to Mo for taking part! You can find their art here: www.artistmolea.com/
Mo is awesome.
Her. She's a female. She's not plural. Their is one of her.
@@Peekaboo5819 Hi, I think they meant others art as well as Mo’s. Then writing their would be plural, hence more than just this lady’s. But LADbible meant just one person then they are wrong in writing their.
@@Peekaboo5819 *there is one of her
@@Peekaboo5819 singular they is proper english, get over it. Gender is and always has been a spectrum/fluid/not binary. Get. Over. It.
her anger about the disgraceful police failure is palpable, her disgust towards politicians response like Margaret thatcher is invigorating, the pride in her face and voice as she talked about women marching the streets in protest speaks volumes...her passion and strength of character has obviously been vital in her survival ...she s a woman of incredible character
Blimey, what do think Thatcher could have done? Toured the country with a shotgun in case she met a serial killer?
I think Thatchers response calling women out for walking alone smacked of victim blaming a bit - it’s sound advice to tell women to be safe and vigilant but through a method of telling them to remove most freedoms of movement and that they should be fearful mobilising around out on their own around the country ? The problem isn’t with women being out after 5pm, trying to meet friends or catch a bus home … the problem was the lack of policing any suspicious behaviour of men on the streets - lack of bobbys on the beat - failure to arrest or effectively penalise & monitor sex pests - police blaming sex workers for sexual assaults - not to mention Britain’s piss poor support of mental health at the time - people like Peter sutcliffe could act as he saw fit with utter freedom (and no obvious Avenue to pursue mental health therapy support because let’s face it, he must’ve known he had dark intrusive thoughts for a very long time and there’s no way people close to him couldn’t have been alarmed at certain things he said or did) - thatchers comments weren’t about fixing the problem, they were utterly ridiculous, telling women to basically stay at home and fear the world
Well said
@@catau8000 @cat Au It's also a disgusting fact that the term 'mental health issues' is used to sweet talk the crimes of psychopaths, narcissists, sociopaths, paranoid schizophrenics.... These are no disorders, such people have had their ENTIRE personality hacked by a very dangerous predatory survival 'mechanism'.... robots.... They should be destroyed or locked up for life or monitored as much as possible depending on the severity of the damage they cause onto others. They ALWAYS have AT LEAST one victim of which they partially or totally ruin their lives or their finances, or their social circle... and being a victim of them demands years of effort to recover... if one remains alive. And we let these motherfuckers perform in any capacity... that's a double whammy of pure, uncut insanity !!!!
Our town had a series of murders where women's bodies were dumped in the orange groves. The police file was marked N.O.H.I. 'not of human interest'. The shunned and marginalized don't receive justice easily.
I was a nurse living in a nursing home at Withington Hospital during this time. He murdered one poor lady across the road from the hospital and actually returned to the body as it wasn't found straight away. It was terrifying walking the hospital corridors when on night duty as the canteen was away from the main wards. I used to clutch surgical scissors under my cape to use as a weapon. Very frightening time to be a woman.
They always return to the sites. Psychos are evil demons
So sad, she was meters from safety and medical care. So close but at the same time so far
I'm glad Ladbible gave this woman a voice because I watched the docu on Netflix and her side of the story wasn't covered as much. What a strong woman!
This woman is awesome. I hope she is enjoying a great life right now.
She didn't sound like she was enjoying her life sadly.
I am a woman who survived a horrific crime.
Back then I didn’t trust the police, it took my nearly 20 years to get the courage to report my attack, in the end it was the fact that he was still out there and probably attacking other women that made me report the crime.
It changed my life completely. I live with ptsd.
Not long after the attack a friend of mine took me on a Reclaim the Night March that ended in a ballroom full of wonderful women.
I believe it probably prevented me from taking my life.
They never caught him, he’s probably still out there.
Your strength in doing this video is overwhelming. 35 years later you have helped me so much by coming forward and telling your truth.
I love you. Thank you.
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@scy1038 It's called trauma. It takes a long time for some to come to terms with events. Why comment if you're going to be so negative.
@@binkyonyx4050 Don't give it oxygen.
@@binkyonyx4050 it's also called unfortunately facts reporting something 20yrs later won't in anyway change or help your trauma far to late
Thank you so much for sharing, and you should be so proud of yourself for living through it and even going on to report it. You’re clearly here for a reason. Keep going! 💛
She tells her story so calmly, but she still conveys the details of the event and the aftermath so well that I could picture myself experiencing it as well. I felt her terror, trauma, anger, fear, and determination. I’m glad she found it in herself to continue with her studies and career.
I can't believe after EVERYTHING she went through ..... On the case for the ripper to start , then what happened on her birthday...then police ignored it AFTER SPENDING A MILLION IN THE 70S.... she died of COVID in 2019 💔💔💔
@@helennaylor8498 huh? This episode was recorded about 2 months ago, so how did she die in 2019?
Most of the time, you can remember trauma vividly to the last detail.
The ripper died of covid!
@@shreshthraj7095Yeah they are clearly is thinking of the wrong person as she is definitely still alive. Updated her Facebook last week.
Oh my god that couple had balls of STEEL. Armed guy beating up on a lady? Run at him!
you get a burst of adrenaline when you see something like that... fight or flight
That’s Leeds for you. People look out for each other there.
This is a typical response from people today, not caring about others. Of course you should go help!! Isn't it OBVIOUS!!!
@@SirenaSpades I think everyone in the cold light of day can say you should definitely go and help, but unfortunately self-preservation is a very powerful mechanism and many people might just as easily run and call the police, which in this instance would probably have left this incredibly courageous woman to die.
@@vonbongen9363 can confirm
I really appreciate these 23 minutes with videos. You hear about crazy stories everyday in the news or online, but when you get a real insight into the life of someone who’s actually lived through an insane experience like this, it really gives you a unique perspective
I hope they do one about narcissistic abuse. I went through this, while not having the faintest clue to what the term narcissism really meant. I thought it was about grandiose people....😂 I never knew they were mental serial killers with the exact same sadistic streaks. It's weird how no program never shows this.
it does. im so much more empathic now.
@@alainvosselman9960 Trump is a serial killer?
Trump is a money narc.... He became president just to show everyone he could and had people storm the capitol where a few died.... He manipulated the shit out of everyone who's up for a good conspiracy.
Not that all conspiracy is untrue but there you go... he wasn't afraid of the consequences in terms of people dying.
There's no proof that this ladies story is real. He has never been arrested for it and we only have her word.
The fact that this serial killer was caught accidentally is just stunning... If he'd not been pulled over he could have killed even more. It's disgraceful.
What would you have dome better, Sherlock?
He hasn't been caught by accident though, has he? A Bobby on the beat, doing his job, spotted something wrong with his car and acted accordingly. Afterwards with his gut instinct checking a suspicious action of a person he stopped, yielded results he wasn't exactly expecting but even better. How is doing his job as a policeman and acting upon something suspicious considered accident? Are you joking?
@@embisch sutcliffe actually staged his arrest. The WY police knew him so well and were certain he was not the ripper. That's why he went to Sheffield and tied stolen plates to his cars plates. He practically told them he was the ripper. But the WY cops knew he was a copycat killer.
I heard that lots of spiritual people got together to make him slip up they had enough of the psycho evading capture
@@lena-Ramone he was a copycat killer. He did all the assaults and four of the thirteen murders. He actually set up his arrest in Sheffield because the WY police were certain he was not the ripper. They did a deal for his confessions to everything with the mental hospital and no trial.
My mums from Wakefield & she told me how terrifying it was being a young woman living through all of this, I cannot imagine the fear they all felt, my heart goes out to all the victims & their families.
My mum talked to me about it only few years back now about the girl who was murdered in Huddersfield and what it was like living here, his number plate being found in a scrapyard that we've driven past god knows how many times. So bizarre
The treatment of women at this time was appalling.
It was terrifying, I live in Huddersfield
Much respect to this well-spoken, brave, strong, inspiring woman. Thank you for sharing your experience with us.
She tells her story with such bravery
She might be brave and well-spoken but i don't think she's strong based on what she said she went down after being hit once.
@@captainkenzie6873 I’m pretty sure after being struck on the head and having sharpened screw drivers driven into your skull you wouldn’t exactly be dancing around singing happy days either…have a but of cop on and empathy please
@@gagalover2k10 I don't remember anything about screwdrivers she just said she was hit and she went down.
@@captainkenzie6873 well you may watch the video again so, besides the OG comment was about her carrying on with her life and not letting what happened to her hold her back
I Love Her. I'm a recovered Addict, that was severly abused by both parents, then Ex boyfriends, one of whom cracked my head open with a dumbell & other abuses. This is something I always tell others with trauma "Use that anger, that trauma & let it motivate u. Let it fuel that desire to become whatever u dream of bc u are NOT a victim...Ur a Victor"
You’re an amazing person 💕 keep shining
❤❤
💙 💜 💖
I'm sorry for all of that, good you feel capable and have the energy to channel all that negativity
Hope the dumbell dumb bell end psychopath is behind bars??
A friend of mine was a student in Newcastle (North East England) in the early 80s. She was walking across the town moor one night and came across a distressed looking woman coming the other way. The woman passed her by without a word. A minute later a man started following her. She ran and he gave chase. Fortunately she escaped but when she went to the police they said it was her fault and that in future she should carry a bucket of water with her to throw over any assailant. The police did not give a shit about women. Things have changed, but how much I can't say.
I didn’t know water would save a person from attack. That’s the stupidest thing I think I’ve ever heard. How awful for your friend and shame on the police.
"Bucket of water"! 🙄🙄 You'd be better off carrying a Jif lemon. Least you could squirt that in his eyes!! 😏
"Things have changed, but how much I can't say."
Now the police are doing the killing themselves..
The absolute f*ckery of that advice... We've come a long way, hopefully.
When I was 11 in 1990, my dad took me to the police station because 4 Bangladeshi men tried to get me in their car, the woman officer said "well it happens...just walk away"
I can't wrap my head around the fact that the police got more interested with the case when it became clear that the killer targeted also "innocent" women, not "just prostitutes". One of the "not innocent" women was an 18 years old girl!
Cops here in America are often the same towards victims who have done or currently are doing drugs.
Right like them (men) aren’t the one supporting the seggs work (paying for prostitution)
It’s always fascinating to watch people share their own survival stories. It proves the fact that they inherit so much endurance and bravery.
He lived on the same street as me when I was a kid; I can still remember him coming and going, getting in and out of a van going to work I assume, crazy to think a serial killer lived a cross the street, literally 50ft away.
Omg I can't imagine him being a Neighbour, maybe even being in Neighbourhood watch. I don't really mix with my neighbours and I think that is a good thing
Yes, I lived on the same floor of a sick pedo. At the time, I shared an apartment with my sister and we both knew there was something wrong with him. He was a tennis teacher for wealthy kids in NYC, Gary Wollinsky. He had made some rude calls to our apartment late at night and I grabbed the phone from my sister and said, “I know who this is, you’re the freak at the end of the hallway” and he hung up. We knew he was afraid of us because he’d take the stairs, 29 floors, instead of being caught in the elevator with us. He was caught trying to kidnap one of his students and there was a car chase that ended in Long Island. He shot himself before being arrested. They found he owned a cabin upstate NY which was filled with torture devices etc. You can about it on google. (He was popular roller skating playing tennis etc)
Oh my god, how can she function as a normal human being after what she went through? I admire her strength of character to overcome such a traumatic experience ❤
What a strong and articulate woman.
What a incredibly strong woman. Thank you for sharing your story.
The fact my city is mostly known for the Yorkshire ripper saddens me. My mother was actually friends with one of the victims. I live round the corner from where her murder took place. Peter Sutcliffe was pure evil!
Edit to add: Wilma Mccan was her friend. Also, the first victim sadly. Her son came to speak at my school and told his mother's story and how his life was affected after her murder. What i loved about Richard (her son) is that he has a slogan which is a play on words for his last name 'I can' from what i remember from his visit, he says he used this as a mantra to keep going. I think thats an awesome thing. Will forever play on my heart strings to this day.
I'm from Bingley and live in Leeds now (i use the same bus stop where one of the attacks happened) I went to school next to the cemetery that he used to go & my grandparents knew his wife.
Always seemed to be a topic of conversation around me growing up
Wishing peace to the victims and their families, alongside giving thanks to this person for sharing their story.
She's right they didn't care when it was prostitutes it only became a problem when he started on 'decent' women. Point is these women wouldn't be doing that without the men who fund it
Very true. Men enable it
Agree. All prostitution needs to be decriminalised in every country. It demonises women especially. Here in New Zealand prostitution is legal. Sex workers pay taxes & have employment rights just like every worker. They even have a union. The country has not collapsed & we are not over run by crime just because sex workers suddenly get rights.
I love her message at the end. So eloquently put and true. Fear can be an obstacle but it can also be a motivator to be bigger and bolder in life
she is so brave and lucky to be alive, I remember this time when women were warned in Leeds not to go out alone in the dark, I was a small child and used to cry if my mum had to go anywhere if it was dark, that POS ruined a lot of lives
What a strong person. It's obvious she is still dealing with ptsd.
Thank you, Mo Lea, for telling your story. It's the most traumatic moments of her life and she speaks with truth and eloquence. She's been through hell and come out the other side. I think it's awesome she's bringing attention to the terrible way it was handled after her attack. It's shameful to see the way serial killers are now given this strange celebrity status. It's disgusting. Anyone that is supporting these movies and shows that have come out, that glorifying these horrors and those committing them, is like a slap in the face to survivors and their families as well as those victims that passed and their families. Uplift and speak out about the survivors and victims, NOT the perpetrators!
She deserves a proper apology from the police force, even if the people working at the time are no longer working there, it's still the least they could do to her to give her some kind of official closure & acceptance.
Been watching LADbible for ages, I very rarely do this but y'all deserve it. Keep bring us the best content on youtube!
I suffer cptd (complex post traumatic stress disorder) due to prolonged, mental abuse that is not remotely as severe. I've been trying to recover for 5yrs. I don't want to begin to imagine what she is going through. Further more when being further abused by officials..... Hope she can recover from this and enjoy her life.
Ex male Ambulance Service, a man tried to viciously attack me from behind it was horrific how aggressively he tried bash me, I just remember three punches coming at me I blocked them and hit him very hard on the jaw which stunned him, I tried to hit him again and he backed right off. Police didn’t charge him I will never forget the incident, this lady is so brave.
I am so sorry Graham, God bless you man
What an amazing lady. So much respect for her.
Truly inspiring how someone can survive and live through this.
My Grandad was an inpatient in Broadmoor. One day in the nineteen eighties, Mum went to visit him. He introduced her proudly to his new friend Peter, it was Peter Sutcliffe. Mum didn't shake his hand....
wow.. thats chilling
This is my new best mate Pete. 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Imagine
i gotta know what your grandad was in for
His grandads Charles bronson 👀💪🤣
I smell bullshit.
It’s so insane that internal politicking within law enforcement prevented that psycho from getting caught earlier. There should be accountability for things like that.
Don't believe her lies about the police letting him kill the bad people. It's a bold-faced lie 100% untrue
@@dickfitswell3437 what do you have against this woman? You’ve not experienced what she has, none of us have, so stop trying to disprove her experience. You just sound like you can’t handle the very basic TRUTH that the police have a lot of issues
Hindsight is 20/20, Steven. And @Ella, police are mere humans, too. With all the flaws that can come with being human.
@@NeilMalthus police choose to be police. Women don’t. You can’t excuse their flaws - they literally CHOOSE the position they’re in. If they’re flawed then they shouldn’t be in their jobs.
@@NeilMalthus the murderer was "a mere human", too, but you don't see anyone sympathizing with him. The police are just as responsible as he is, just out of pride and cowardice.
I saw a documentary about this and I remember this march she is mentioning. Such a strong woman and all the survivors too!
What an incredibly strong woman.
Mo Lea is one of the "forgotten" victims of Sutcliffe, she never seems to get much exposure, so this was really enlightening.
Because Sutcliffe DIDN’T attack her. Her original statement to the police was that it was a young man who attacked her.. Sutcliffe was 34 at the time and she’d have been around 20.. in her description she never once mentioned her attacker had a beard and moustache,I wonder why?
@@darrenfield8546 You don't know anything. You cannot make a statement like that based off a video. Men can shave and grow a beard and moustache whenever they want... 35 year old people still looked like young people when I was 20....
@@iSheree don’t know anything😂😂 I’ve forgotten more about this case than you know.. ps Sutcliffe never shaved his beard off from when he grew before 1975 until the day he died.Mo Lea when ever interviewed plugs her books or paintings. Sutcliffe 100% didn’t attack her.
Never seems to get much exposure 😂😂😂 she’s on every documentary about the Yorkshire Ripper when she WASN’T even attacked by him..
@@darrenfield8546 Yeah, keep trying to make it sound as though you know what you're talking about when you know fuck all. Well done for using emojis too, that definitely gives you some credibility.
No one should ever go through these horrible things… you are so brave to share with us😢❤
@Johannes what’s hilarious you prat?
@Johannes She said no one should... correct... are you dim?
Wow, you are the brave and powerful one for taking such a bold public stand like that. Y'know what.. now that you've taken the lead I'm going to step and agree in unity: NOBODY should ever go through such horrible things!. Anyone else brave enough to take this stand?
Thank you for sharing your story. Both your survival and the sharing of this horrific experience is extremely brave. I hope you continue with your recovery and thriving. ❤
That last part about using your anger to fuel you... this is exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you for telling your story
Thank you for having the strength to speak up! Love from Wales
So many times in my life I’ve almost been in this woman’s shoes. Any woman who takes public transport is at risk for this, and/or SA, etc. She was just out in public for God’s sake. She’s very strong for speaking about this, despite all the horrible people victim blaming her, here and in other places I’m sure.
Absolutely. And how many women are out there driving old beater cars and getting stranded?
My late baby sister recounted breaking down and walking back toward a service station. Some guy in a truck offered her a ride. She said real friendly "oh, no thanks, I've got it, just gonna call a friend..."
He insisted. She again refused.
He switched. Just like that. Stopped the truck. Jumped out. Started chasing her all the while cussing and telling her all the horrible stuff he was gonna do to her.
She RAN. Toward that service station. She said she'd never run so fast in her life.
The guy stopped & ran back to his truck only because someone at the gas station saw her running and came toward her to help.
He asked if he should he should call the sheriff, and she said no. 🤦 I know in hindsight she knew she should've, but I think the adrenaline and shock just wasn't letting her think clearly.
This one hits so hard. Amazing person to talk in a composed way about what this is like. Much love to her
Shout out to you Mo!
You are such a strong person.
I'm proud of you, even if I don't even know you.
Hearing local areas makes everything hit home very hard! SO brave!
Hearing local areas?
Amazing woman and amazing couple who ran toward the danger to help.
Such a Very brave Lass....
Back then when the Yorkshire Ripper was about it was ever so scary to walk about at night....
Thanks for sharing this Story Mo😘
Thank you for the bravery in sharing your story with us Mo 💖 It helps other survivors to not feel so alone ... you do loose a peice of yourself when someone violates your being, however, the community of survivors you find along the way helps us to heal. Sending love and light your way ✨️
Thank God you got through it. Your poor parents to have to see you in hospital. Thank God, once again, that you survived. Let’s pray for those poor women who died and their families.
What an absolutely incredible woman.
Thank you for sharing this horrific trauma, your story. You give so much in putting word around not letting trauma define you as a person. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.
The survivours are so strong. These poor women must of gone through utter hell and PTSD. They so inspirational by being determined to carry on ❤
The most frustrating thing about this case is that the Yorkshire police made EXACTLY the same mistakes as H Division during the JTR investigation. Never learn their lessons. Honestly
Wow. Amazing woman. Have recently watched the sorry tale of the police trying to catch the Yorkshire ripper. How fixated they were on this Geordie to the exclusion of all else. It's part of UK folklore now. I love the message coming from this brave female about harnessing your anger and fear. Only tonight I witnessed a man threatening his female partner in the street. I asked him to leave her alone which of course he wouldn't and so contacted Sussex police.
When will women be safe? Moreover when will they receive justice from the judiciary? We have come along but there is still far to go. People want to pretend its not happening. The patriarchy is still alive and well. Thank you for sharing your story. I feel inspired. Best wishes
Kate
When she described him hitting her....and how others who saw, "ran toward here", 4:48 or so, I thought to myself.... that's the problem with people nowadays.... they don't want to get involved. Take note everyone: that is what saved this brave woman!!
What happens if the attacker is black? He'll play the race card
@Cian MacGana murderers arent gonna risk killing and holding 3 people. they are gonna run. yelling, making noise, and going towards them etc will save that person 99% of the time. you dont have to get up close and personal just make noise and walk towards them. ur not gonna get stabbed they really arent that stupid, theyre pussies thats why they murder
@Cian MacGana Good for you
Exactly. 👍 These killers are cowards at heart and they run at the drop of a hat. They're way more concerned about getting caught.
You are very brave to talk about this. Well done.
Well done for being so brave to tell your truth , it's ashamed police still do that today with attacks but think your so very brave , stat safe and stay sane and stay wise xx
It’s a mercy that she doesn’t have much of a memory of the attack. Can’t imagine living a normal life after that. God bless her.
I remember seeing news reports on the tv at the time, and live reasonably close to the area, I was 5 years old , it’s was very scary but I remember it vividly, thanks for giving this lady a voice
Thank you for what must have been an extremely difficult conversation, that’s to both of you and all involved.
Not everyone can get to a place where they can acknowledged that something bad happened that shouldn't have, but can also see a change like wanting to live more vibrantly.
I'm glad that Mo was able to get to that point.
what a incredibly strong woman
Wishing this woman and the other assault victims the best this life has to offer and and the ones who lost their lives to rest in peace. These monsters are cowards, they only attack women because they know they could never over power men🙄
yeah Jeffrey Dahmer on top
So sorry for what you went through both from Sutcliffe and the attitude of the police. You must have reserves of strength you never knew you had to survive and then talk about it as you have now.
What a brave women ♥️
What an amazing person and she makes feel proud to be a women, he broke part of her body but not her her true self.
Another excellent episode. She is a magical woman, and really brave for telling her story.
Thank you for standing up for all women
I know, right? She is standing up for all women. Simple and true. ❤️
What an amazingly strong lady is Mo. Fascinating to see her strength. I’m sure the scars will run deep, she’s sharing her trauma and terrible affliction. Bless her, brave lady ❤️
She wasn’t attacked by Sutcliffe.. not a single shred of evidence to support her lies.
@@darrenfield8546 how could you know better than her? Perhaps because it reveals sutcliffe as the deranged copycat killer. You need to delude people to keep him as the ripper. So that's your game plan Darren. You're a police nark. 😂😂😂😂
She is a truly amazing woman. ❤
What a queen, absolute warrior, I can't even imagine almost becoming prey to a serial killer like that wouldn't traumatised me for life, I'd struggle to even leave the house....she's unreal x
I'm glad you escaped and are ok 👍 despite the very scary memory!
Thank you for being so brave Ms Lea .❤
What an incredible person. Thank you for sharing your story here.
I brushed passed the Camden Ripper who lived 1 minute from my main door to my home, he was walking through Oakley Gardens, Mornington Crescent and he stared right at me not breaking eye contact, he was with a younger woman. I didn't know him but I remembered him because the space invader t-shirt he was wearing on the day he was wearing it on the photos in the newspapers that were released when he was apprehended. When you make the connection, your heart jumps and skips a beat.
I checked out his 3 victims and the woman I saw him with was not one of the victims as far as I know, however, I heard that police now believe that there may have been more victims of the Camden Ripper. I've put out a description of the woman in Camden Ripper videos all over RUclips just in case, someone knows her to be missing. The woman I saw was early 30s, pale whiite skin, dress sense was 80s like say the two young girls from movie 'Rita Bob and Sue Too', I believe she wore a pearl necklace, she had short blonde hair - she was probably a prostitute.
The woman in the video above suffered at the hands of this maniac. They should have executed Sutcliffe and executed the Camden Ripper, - yes the system failed the Camden Ripper with his meds etc, I've researhed the case reasonably deep but he was a nasty and violent man since he was a young man apparently..
Shockingly bad policing with this Mo Lea from the Yorkshire police.
Omg thanks for sharing your experience and story. Predators can be our neighbours.
@@jacwindsor5552 he died in jail during Covid so he's gone for good but it just goes to show.
@@davedogge2280 that's good to know thanks.
Let the police know about her as well. She may have relatives who are still looking for her.
@@heatherreadsreddit8579 yeah I should do. I'm actually in a foreign country right now but I will get around to it. I should hunt for a photo of a woman who looks like her and maybe some 80s style clothes she was wearing (seemed out of place that fashion for the early 00's that's another reason I remember her). Dunno which police branch is best to contact though. I just never, ever have dealings with the police so if anyone could give me pointers that would be good. I think I may have described her further up the thread or on a different YT video of the Camden Ripper (i.e. looking like an early 30s Lady Diana but with a blonde shorter haircut similar to Natasha Yar in Star Trek) etc etc etc
Yes.
One imagines that justice always prevails, and it's the injustice of it all that has in fact caused the most hurt.
I love this woman's eloquence.
I love this woman's strength.
I love this woman's dignity.
I love this woman's courage.
I love this woman's resilience.
Thank you for putting out this video and may she find peace and true happiness in what is left in this lifetime.
Bless you Mo.
She states if at around 12.20 in that if they took her seriously then Jaqueline Hill possibly wouldn’t be attacked.. nonsense as Uphaya Bandara was attacked just around the corner around the same time where Mo Lea’s fairytale happened a couple of miles away.If you know about this case then you know what Mo Lea says is nonsense,even in her description she states her attacker was a young man,Lea was 20 and Sutcliffe was 34 but the biggest hint that Sutcliffe wasn’t her attacker is she failed to mention his beard and moustache in her description
What an amazing strong lady.
I love this lady so much. The strength in her…
God Bless this Woman.
With respect to this amazing woman, there was detective work involved in the form of a very observant policeman.
Thank you for sharing this story; what a courageous and remarkable woman!
I would love to listen to a lecture from her about her art. I'm an art student, doing advanced diploma now and I would really enjoy listening to her art journey
Thanks for sharing, you are truly amazing ❤️
What an amazing & strong woman to have survived such a terrifying, life changing attack & go on with such resilience and determination. Wow! Just incredible. ❤
Bless this women
I love the advice she gives us at the end.
I was assaulted by my abusive spouse, and when I turned to the police they half-heartedly offered me a non-molestation order, but when I called to ask for it I was laughed at and the officer hung up. My ex took most everything and I can't afford representation in the divorce, and even though I qualify for legal aid I've been begging for more than half a year for help and can't get anyone to help me.
Its been hugely dehumanizing. It feels like the legal system is saying 'Its fine that you were raped, that you lived in fear of your ex partner who wanted to cut you, who expressed violent antisocial sentiments, and that you were left destitute when your ex took all of the money and forced an alimony agreement you had no say in on you. You deserve it.' There have been many days where if it wasn't for my cats, my tarantulas, my handful of friends that I would have ended myself and still I had to fight those feelings. Alone.
If anyone knows of a solicitor in England willing to accept legal aid for a divorce please tell me. I've been trying to contact the law society at this point and am having little success. And I need help.
Have you reached out to Women's Aid? They might be able to help or give you more info about the best course of action. I hope everything gets better for you.
No contest divorces in UK cost bout 600 quid n can be done online
womens aid- hang up.
no contest divorce of £600- no good when the spouse recieves the money.
shelters require benifits to house you are no good either, since you are unfortunaly married,
To quote my responses,
'you are your mans problem'.
and 'stop wasting our time'.
Thats all the help Ive found.
Your options are to put up with it, or potentionly recieve worse begging on street.
I hope you have more success in finding a 3rd more appealing, practical choice.
@@martynraveybracey7202 if she’s being abused, she shouldn’t have to put up with it. That’s never a good suggestion to an abuse victim.
I’m not from England so I can’t give any advice, but I wish you the best of luck and hope you can find help.
I can hear the pain in her voice, for so many reasons, her attack, her rightful disgust with the Ripper Squad. Crazy times which i remember.
Harness your anger
Hope you're doing well these days.
Wtf u on about this has nowt to do with you bloody lemon 🤣
She was my academic support when i was doing my master, She is very friendly and helpful
I lived in England during that time going to college. This was all over the news. My mother was freaked out because I hitched on my own. Which was very common back then.
They told people to go out in pairs or more. We walked to the local pub and back.
It was common back then but there were a lot of stories about lone hitchhikers being attacked even then and the information helped me not ever hitchhike, although I did cadge a lift from a lone policeman, and looking back he could have been a Wayne Couzens. At the time you avoid men in cars and lorries and one would have thought lone policeman with a responsible job would be ok but we know know that a good job with the police doesn't make a blind bit of difference to a predator with sexual violent fantasies.
What an unbelievably inspiring woman ❤
It's sad that we have to be afraid of the night. I personally have a habit of carrying around pepper spray if I must go out alone. I don't really go out alone though.
I only go out with a small group or with my boyfriend. Even then, when I was drunk one night, but my bf was sober so he could drive us home. He noticed a man following us and getting closer to me. He literally had to pull me close to his side and drag me with him. If he weren't there, I wouldn't have noticed the man and probably would have been attacked.
Thanks so much for sharing.. such a brilliant woman god bless
What an amazing woman👏❤️
I love the elegance, yet spit and grit this lady has
It’s so tragic to see all the pictures of those women who’s deaths the police saw as “cleaning up the streets”.
Stopping this one killer was all that was needed to clean up the streets. The sentiments of the cops are too close to a serial killers for comfort.
She is an incredible person. I survived a parental abuser and an assault when I was in college. Watching her I felt every tendril of discomfort, the creeping disgust and dissatisfaction. She is doing a huge service for survivors of any kind of crime with her story. I truly hope she is able to be at peace and find comfort in her life. Thank you ❤
So happy that this woman survived her encounter with that maniac
Everyone should listen to her point about being young and confident.
It doesn't matter if you're male/female.
Wrong place, wrong time can spell disaster.
Just be mindful people. You're not invincible. Even if you feel you are.
You have missed the entire point: did you not hear what she said about the Reclaim the Night rally? Do not victim blame. The only person with any culpability in this case was Sutcliffe.
@@mariaaguadoball3407 Huh? Are you referring to my message?
@@TheCurrykiev Yes. When you say "wrong place, wrong time" you're implying that victims were behaving irresponsibly.
@@mariaaguadoball3407 I'm not. That is your interpretation of my paragraph.
What I took from her words were the fact she thought it would never happen to her. She was young, strong and confident. She knew the risks of the area at the time, and decided to go against the general consensus.
Agree, it's not just wrong place. There will always be bad people, women and men, it doesn't mean that you should ignore safety. That night rally was just irresponsible.