Who Am I to Stand in Your Way (W/ Lyrics) @chestersee

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  • Опубликовано: 20 дек 2024

Комментарии • 21 тыс.

  • @merwanna
    @merwanna 5 лет назад +4666

    You don't know heartache, until you beg God to remove all the pain, and just let you forget everything.

    • @evelynemwanduka6754
      @evelynemwanduka6754 5 лет назад +20

      True😞

    • @merwanna
      @merwanna 5 лет назад +58

      @@evelynemwanduka6754 it'll pass. Trust me ☺️ it will always gets better.. hang on :)

    • @kysamiam3377
      @kysamiam3377 5 лет назад +5

    • @PICMIDO
      @PICMIDO 5 лет назад +5

      Oo pre :(

    • @merwanna
      @merwanna 5 лет назад +5

      @@PICMIDO time heals pre.

  • @pratikarora4080
    @pratikarora4080 5 лет назад +1830

    For all the broken hearts listening to this, don't get carried away. You'll move on, someday or other.
    Remember this for life that, MISSING THEM IS A PART OF MOVING ON!
    Sending a lot of positivity your way.

    • @floppy2430
      @floppy2430 4 года назад +9

      Pratik Arora thanks for motivation and positivity 🙏

    • @cherrytree2828
      @cherrytree2828 4 года назад +6

      Thank you.. 😢

    • @gilangapriana4186
      @gilangapriana4186 4 года назад +9

      I don't know how.... 😔

    • @theryanplant
      @theryanplant 4 года назад +12

      Easier said than buddy when she's the mother of your child

    • @pratikarora4080
      @pratikarora4080 4 года назад +18

      @@gilangapriana4186
      There's no hard and fast way. Even though the problem is same, the intensity of pain is different for every person.
      You don't worry dear, trust the process, you will find your way.
      Nextly, you can find a lot of helpful content on youtube and google.
      And I'd like to tell you and other people reading this a few things too:
      1) You remember how our tooth used to fall while we were growing(in 4th grade or something) and tongue used to go to the same place again and again? Similarly, when u got separated, there's a void created in your life. And that is what messes with your mind. Your mind keep on going to that void neglecting the things you still have, just like you neglected the other teeth u had.
      So in order to tackle this, try keeping yourself busy and engaged in something for sometime.
      2) Seek a HEALTHY company. Spend time with your friends and family with whom you'll feel happy and reserved.
      3) Working on your passion is the best thing you can do.
      4)Have patience. It'll take time. Dont expect it to happen fast.
      5) Understand it's okay to cry. It's okay to feel the pain.
      6) Moving on is important coz on the other side of this pain you will find a an entirely different and a better version of yourself.
      7) Sometimes storm come in your life, not to destroy you but to clear your path.
      8) Spend time enjoying your hobbies.
      9) DON'T GET INTO A NEW RELATIONSHIP. U will end up ruining someone else's life just coz you faced breakup with your one.
      That's all what I'd suggest. I hope it'd be helpful to you and everyone reading this.
      Sending a lot of positivity your way! Everything's gonna be okay. Its okay. IT'S OKAY!!!!

  • @518Baby-V
    @518Baby-V 5 лет назад +936

    The most painful feeling is loving someone who does not love you back.

    • @shoji5321
      @shoji5321 5 лет назад +33

      Victoria Loomis nah that aint the only thing, the most painful is caring for someone who hurted you already.

    • @MrJollyJedi
      @MrJollyJedi 5 лет назад +9

      I broke up with a girl and I regretted it since day one, but I feel joy everyday that she if finally happy again two years after I left even though it is without me.

    • @bharatunreal8095
      @bharatunreal8095 5 лет назад +18

      Nope. The saddest thing is he loves you back but you both can't be together.

    • @grant5214
      @grant5214 5 лет назад +3

      @Victoria Loomis i am going through that rn

    • @kaylalitzau4221
      @kaylalitzau4221 5 лет назад +8

      No, its when she broke you twice already and you'll let her do it again

  • @BalaritySawkmie
    @BalaritySawkmie 11 месяцев назад +72

    This song is beyond... I can't describe it , it's 2024 and I'm still not over this song.❤.

    • @claudiuskeat8336
      @claudiuskeat8336 11 месяцев назад +3

      Same here. Found this song 6 years ago and I'm still listening to it.

    • @musicwith9lives
      @musicwith9lives 2 месяца назад +1

      I'm hearing it for the first time 10/26/24. I'm blown away! So beautiful 😍

  • @glennfreecss6301
    @glennfreecss6301 4 года назад +1162

    To everyone who’s not felling well, I’m sending you a virtual hug🥺🤗

  • @srirahayuningsih1555
    @srirahayuningsih1555 4 года назад +1691

    the highest level of love is when we are willing to let our loved ones be happy with other people and we still love them...so sad 😔

    • @asawanikulongotv
      @asawanikulongotv 4 года назад +15

      So true🥺

    • @lanzaier7843
      @lanzaier7843 4 года назад +73

      If you love someone, set them free, if they truly love you, they will come back. NEVER GIVE UP ON LOVE

    • @oLdSaggyHaG
      @oLdSaggyHaG 3 года назад +13

      True story, right now 😭

    • @solomonokonkwo782
      @solomonokonkwo782 3 года назад +4

      This is so true

    • @solomonokonkwo782
      @solomonokonkwo782 3 года назад +5

      @@asawanikulongotv well said

  • @nintendoandps4gaming444
    @nintendoandps4gaming444 3 года назад +790

    I once about 2 years ago, cried myself to sleep almost every night to this song. But I’m back and listening to this song and I feel better. It gets better guys. Giving out virtual hugs 🤗

    • @rebeccahersel9537
      @rebeccahersel9537 3 года назад +2

      Thanks 😊

    • @donnamarie1986
      @donnamarie1986 3 года назад +1

      ❤❤

    • @tamjangong23
      @tamjangong23 3 года назад +4

      Time Heals ❤️

    • @lalnunpuii200
      @lalnunpuii200 3 года назад +7

      Thank you.. I need this.. I got my heart broken a few months ago. The hardest part was, the only way to move forward was letting each other go even if we still love each other. He was my first love..

    • @peggygarmon0010
      @peggygarmon0010 3 года назад

      I want stand in your way darling

  • @KennyNagi-nl4nt
    @KennyNagi-nl4nt 8 месяцев назад +248

    This song never dies
    Who's with me 2024💪

    • @Jamie-kj9ky
      @Jamie-kj9ky 6 месяцев назад

      P

    • @panida3844
      @panida3844 6 месяцев назад

      🫶♥️♥️

    • @王怡靜-s5u
      @王怡靜-s5u 5 месяцев назад

      I am still not sure if I want to be with you I don’t know your personality you’re life style I need time to be alone and I must go to work soon I know you are rich but it is none of my fucking business. I don’t like your smart must change 4:51

    • @trashpanda679
      @trashpanda679 3 месяца назад

      Here with ya

    • @shellylavigne5913
      @shellylavigne5913 3 месяца назад

      Tears

  • @pnoyotaku8456
    @pnoyotaku8456 4 года назад +2931

    The saddest part of life is when the person who give's you the best memories becomes a memory 😭

    • @アモンマー
      @アモンマー 4 года назад +133

      Nope. It's when you picked her up, built her from the pieces she turned to. Then in the end, she still choose someone who is not you. Leaving you into broken pieces. And since you loved her too much already, you'd just leave her to her happiness and escape to the darkness where she won't see you suffer as she became happy with someone else

    • @pnoyotaku8456
      @pnoyotaku8456 4 года назад +36

      @@アモンマー I feel you bro I really feel your pain

    • @luckybug3726
      @luckybug3726 4 года назад +6

      @@アモンマー ...♡

    • @yashwardhansingh1171
      @yashwardhansingh1171 4 года назад +11

      No worries bro....Hakuna Matata.....

    • @yashwardhansingh1171
      @yashwardhansingh1171 4 года назад +7

      Bt if you wanna talk... I definitely will.... Jst ask 😘

  • @jessicafelix265
    @jessicafelix265 4 года назад +638

    As someone who cried her whole heart out to this song many times almost 2 years ago, I’m here now to say it gets better. You will move on one day. As big of a spot that that person holds in your heart rn, I promise your heart will grow to love another. It took me 10 months. But i let them go, and I’ve now been in a new relationship for about a year with an amazing man who adores me. It wasn’t easy but I prayed like crazy during those 10 months, just praying for the heart ache to go away. Praying for happiness. And I promise you the man I’m with today was worth every prayer. Life goes on 🙏🏼💛

    • @swathiyayavaram1588
      @swathiyayavaram1588 4 года назад +8

      Thank you for the hope!

    • @07juicyfruit1
      @07juicyfruit1 4 года назад +13

      I hope so I've been in love with this guy since high school and we have so much history and we been broken up for 2 months now have a child together and everything. He is now involved with someone and had to lie to me about her being a friend. But imma stay strong and let him live his life without me. It sucks but I'll found that guy for me as well. When it's all said and done he will know what he had. But I wish him the best

    • @stephaniecao645
      @stephaniecao645 4 года назад +10

      5 kids and 24yrs later,I'm broken.

    • @stevenorr7556
      @stevenorr7556 4 года назад +1

      I hope so ...

    • @majesticdreams240
      @majesticdreams240 4 года назад +9

      It does get better indeed.. But the feelings remain. They’re just not as strong. Time does that to you

  • @BrendaNorthway
    @BrendaNorthway 3 года назад +324

    It's hard when you love someone madly and they don't feel the same. You can't make someone love you but damn it hurts to walk away.

  • @Belle_Ame03
    @Belle_Ame03 11 месяцев назад +34

    This is what u called Love .letting go someone u loved most just to make him/her happy even it hurts like hell rather than forcing him or her to stay and u both get hurt .. unconditional love this song means for me .😭😢

  • @trasheaters1548
    @trasheaters1548 Год назад +695

    If you can let somebody go because you love them, you are one of the strongest people

    • @alltimehits5668
      @alltimehits5668 Год назад +22

      Behind every strong person there is a story that gave them no choice, I have to be so strong I don’t have choice i found out there he happened to have other gf, he left me for her.

    • @AngieCasali
      @AngieCasali Год назад +3

      So very true.

    • @manuelorozco113
      @manuelorozco113 Год назад +8

      I don’t really think that is true. I’ve been letting go on most of the girls I have loved because there always has been somebody else better than me . Maybe we are just stupid

    • @shairaespiritu9154
      @shairaespiritu9154 Год назад +13

      ​@@manuelorozco113 still, you are carrying broken pieces for so many times and for so long. Those are heavy. Everyone's been stupid jn their life but not everyone has been strong.

    • @trashcollector999
      @trashcollector999 Год назад +1

      it's not that hard

  • @kiennmoore3787
    @kiennmoore3787 Год назад +332

    I found this song last week. To someone I really loved with all my heart. I hope you're doing fine and happy. This song will reminds me of you I no longer stands on your way. Always remember that even though we're not together anymore. I'm so proud of u. I'm always here supporting and clapping from a far. Cheering of your small wins.😢 I will be back to this box if I healed again.

    • @elizabethernest5438
      @elizabethernest5438 10 месяцев назад +9

      u are strong i believe in u and one day i know and God knows it too that u will heal and when u look back u gonna say wow i came out from that pain keep it up my dear

    • @kinombura99
      @kinombura99 9 месяцев назад +5

      You're strong and kind ❤

    • @shadiyabegum6491
      @shadiyabegum6491 9 месяцев назад +2

      I wish the same

    • @GhostLoreYT
      @GhostLoreYT 8 месяцев назад +3

      6 min ago...Just checking to see if the poster returned..Not that I See .. @kiennmoore3787
      Come Back! Let Us Know How You Are Doing!!

    • @anurupanag1375
      @anurupanag1375 7 месяцев назад +2

      I can totally understand your words cause I'm also suffering from this.

  • @Blub_berries
    @Blub_berries 5 лет назад +5077

    I'm in love with my best friend. I told her I loved her, that I loved her 15 months ago. She told me she didn't see me like that. In this past year, I've had to watch her date, and find happiness with others. It breaks my heart, and honestly I get a little jealous. But I sit quietly and listen as she talks and smiles about some other guy. I told her how much I loved her, not how much I was hurting, because who am I to stand in her way?
    Anyone coming across this 4 years later... She found the person that made her feel happy and got married. And I faded away, because who am I to stand in her way?

    • @huytranminh6075
      @huytranminh6075 5 лет назад +68

      Banana time will tell if she love you back but you gotta find yourself a love its not have a good consequence if you are intolerant

    • @Blub_berries
      @Blub_berries 5 лет назад +66

      @@huytranminh6075 Im trying to pick myself and my life out of a rut. I doubt I'll love anyone but her, but Im trying to become the type of man that can make her happy.

    • @ksrs22ks
      @ksrs22ks 5 лет назад +166

      @@Blub_berries, please don't try to 'become' someone you're not.. If anything she'd love you for being you! I've tried to pretend to be someone I'm not, thinking that would save my relationship.. Guess what? Today my lifepartner of 11 years left me.. 'You're not the same anymore like in the beginning of our relationship and I missed that woman' was his explination.. You're good as you are! And sure you'll find someone that will love you and appriciate you and all the love you got to give..

    • @Blub_berries
      @Blub_berries 5 лет назад +88

      @@ksrs22ks wow I'm so sorry. That's amazing that you were so dedicated to your relationship, and I'm sorry for you, and if you want to talk I'm here. But the girl I love, I'm not going to change the fundamentals of myself, she already loves those things and that's why she is my best friend, it's just right now, I'm barely half a man. I can't give her all of myself. And while I do love her with all of my heart, I could not love her enough until I learn to love myself. I'm becoming a better man, trying to live a better life, because of her. She challenges me to be better, and I'm not backing down from that challenge.

    • @mwimarose5799
      @mwimarose5799 5 лет назад +14

      I wish u told her earlier u cudnt be hurt like now despite her response

  • @ridiptamuli8708
    @ridiptamuli8708 10 месяцев назад +468

    Anyone in 2024 ???

  • @ayuria7281
    @ayuria7281 8 лет назад +353

    When you know that someone's heart doesn't belong to you anymore, you had better to let him go, than to keep him stay beside you. If someone loves you, he will always find way to be with you.

  • @Venus-kb7ws
    @Venus-kb7ws 5 лет назад +1730

    What is pain?
    answer: " Down the road someone will ask me if I know you
    , I'll pause for a moment, I'll smile and say that I used to "

    • @dariiangimarwein9427
      @dariiangimarwein9427 5 лет назад +4

      Exactly

    • @yujinarukunnn7222
      @yujinarukunnn7222 5 лет назад +35

      Sad how those moments are now just fragments of our memories.. Life is short and you wont know whats coming so we better cherish those moments with the ones we still have.. Because there will always be that day where we need to part with them..
      So man up and tell them what they need to know before its too late.

    • @zackzz2105
      @zackzz2105 5 лет назад +1

      Yes i use to...

    • @_mxxnlight4840
      @_mxxnlight4840 5 лет назад +4

      I read this as soon as the same words were going on wow

    • @cornmeat1002
      @cornmeat1002 5 лет назад +6

      That line hurts

  • @charliekobs8446
    @charliekobs8446 Год назад +313

    4 years ago I found this song with maybe a few hundred thousand views and seeing it now at 53 million tells me I wasn't the only one that needed healing

    • @MultiKelvin1994
      @MultiKelvin1994 Год назад +1

      02/02/2019 for me... Almost worst heartbreak...only it wasn't😂😂😂

    • @janeaugust3991
      @janeaugust3991 Год назад +1

      Same it was 02/19/2019

    • @ThilanNana
      @ThilanNana Год назад

      no shot this had a few 100,000 views 4 years ago but yeah

    • @wildwoodajs
      @wildwoodajs Год назад

      Amen, I second that!!❤

    • @tariedelweiss3013
      @tariedelweiss3013 Год назад

      Yes 😔

  • @nel6578
    @nel6578 7 месяцев назад +111

    It's May 2024, still in love with this masterpiece...

    • @Vignesh-my6pz
      @Vignesh-my6pz 6 месяцев назад +3

      I made a mistake and asked for forgiveness, but she didn't respond. We were together for five years, and now she constantly occupies my thoughts. I feel sad, guilty, and helpless, while she seems happy. Is this really love? Is walking away the only solution in a relationship? Aren't we humans with feelings? Aren't we all imperfect in some ways? When we recognize our flaws, shouldn't we be able to fix them? Isn't there a second chance? Isn't that how it should be? Am I cursed?

    • @tammylongley2738
      @tammylongley2738 2 месяца назад +1

      October still listening 😊

    • @tammylongley2738
      @tammylongley2738 2 месяца назад

      @@Vignesh-my6pznobody deserves a second chance especially when you have to beg for it….. let her lose you…… your days will get better ….. 10 years with a narcissist teaches us a lot, I was broken in every way possible…… getting better every day

  • @SeeBeautyThroughMyEyes
    @SeeBeautyThroughMyEyes 4 года назад +997

    Why do we fall in love with the person we can’t have? Love hurts. I still think of him and miss him every day.

    • @sureshsharma6224
      @sureshsharma6224 4 года назад +9

      It happens in ur country too

    • @yasirkhan9921
      @yasirkhan9921 4 года назад +20

      Love really hurts really deep inside our souls. May godbless you n everyone out there who is hurt. Stay blessed

    • @sierraanderson1184
      @sierraanderson1184 4 года назад +3

      Strong and Beyond Ssme i feel it😭

    • @sierraanderson1184
      @sierraanderson1184 4 года назад +3

      Same

    • @konthoujamlola1971
      @konthoujamlola1971 4 года назад +11

      For me her happiness is mine so i think for her and i decided to stay farm from her!

  • @hannahpratt5910
    @hannahpratt5910 5 лет назад +627

    The worst thing in the world is loving someone who used to love you and everyday you can feel them growing farther apart. It’s killing me inside

    • @everleevang6721
      @everleevang6721 5 лет назад +1

      Same...

    • @cherylnorton8616
      @cherylnorton8616 5 лет назад +5

      I agree;( worse part was never getting an answer. Or conversation. From my experience.... I wasn't even with this person.... They were ....but I never said a word....how would u feel??😌

    • @zidorataylor8171
      @zidorataylor8171 5 лет назад +8

      If you lose someone you lose yourself but if you lose yourself you'll lose everything stand strong and be the one to fix things not break them

    • @moonlights5464
      @moonlights5464 5 лет назад +1

      Me too

    • @emjay1016
      @emjay1016 5 лет назад

      Hannah Pratt don't say that

  • @chorizoconpappas4403
    @chorizoconpappas4403 11 месяцев назад +34

    Hugging yourself is one of the best things you can do. No one should love you more than yourself. I know it hurts. Just know every day is one more day away from wrong person, and one more day closer to the to the right person.

  • @MrTimbo512
    @MrTimbo512 4 года назад +2916

    If you found this in 2020, you must be heart broken and deeply hurt inside.
    Don't worry you will heal.

  • @amberneely5186
    @amberneely5186 Год назад +278

    2023 and I am still here listening to this song ..God please let me heal !!! I just wanna be happy!!!

    • @rinaaltura
      @rinaaltura Год назад +6

      Please God heal her, And make her happy 🙏

    • @JhonKir
      @JhonKir Год назад +5

      Time heals. And Prayer Helps you to be better one. 😊☝️❤

    • @jurjagirlsbisayaparody8876
      @jurjagirlsbisayaparody8876 Год назад +2

      🙏🙏🌸🥺 Everythings gonna be okay Maam

    • @jessicaturner8864
      @jessicaturner8864 Год назад

      I pray that u find someone who makes you happy.

    • @jhariette
      @jhariette Год назад

      You will be strong..keep moving forward...

  • @tribomalaya2446
    @tribomalaya2446 5 лет назад +553

    "I don't blame you for not choosing me"
    The feeling when you realize you were so attached to somebody and when they leave you are like someone gasping for air. Can't breath, no will to live.

    • @hafizharmaya1686
      @hafizharmaya1686 5 лет назад +3

      Trust me its just a memory we have with them that makes you graspin for air. Keep having hope one day you will find someone who love you as much as yours

    • @tribomalaya2446
      @tribomalaya2446 5 лет назад +2

      Memories are so good to let go.

    • @benjiefilaro8178
      @benjiefilaro8178 5 лет назад +3

      Subrang sakit... Itong na Ito Ang nakapagpaalala sa 6years na panliligaw ko sa taong pinangarap ko

    • @SNI1304
      @SNI1304 5 лет назад +1

      Just went through that about 2-3 weeks ago 😢😞

    • @zaido545
      @zaido545 5 лет назад +1

      Ok lang sana pati memories mawala din pag maalala mo bumabalik lang

  • @Susan-t2j
    @Susan-t2j 11 месяцев назад +12

    Yes Lord, Thank you for your blessings on me!! Thanks for providing... I love, trust and believe in you with all my heart!! Amen 🙏💜🙏💚

  • @wantersoul2729
    @wantersoul2729 5 лет назад +318

    A song like this makes me realise that I am not only one who got hurt in love. This song give both pleasure and pain.

    • @rrbaggett7
      @rrbaggett7 5 лет назад +3

      You may be 14 or 64 but your comment tells me you understand. This song speaks to your soul... and so, I sincerely hope you're 64.

    • @wantersoul2729
      @wantersoul2729 5 лет назад +4

      @@rrbaggett7 I am 28, yet alone with memories. Age is just a number it may double but our heart is just one so do love.

  • @biancasilva4232
    @biancasilva4232 2 года назад +73

    I agree 💯 the hardest part is to watch the one you love with someone else and smile to pretend it's ok, because you want their happiness above all else. Yes it hurts so bad that you beg God to take away the hurt and pain every night

    • @billv2559
      @billv2559 7 месяцев назад

      Going through this right now. The woman of my dreams chose another man. She left me broken hearted and completed crushed. I pray every night for god to take away this pain, it’s unbearable at times

    • @jovitarich7078
      @jovitarich7078 3 месяца назад

      @@billv2559. Will pray for you to find someone who appreciates you….it will get better…she does not deserve you.

    • @elitomlyn5552
      @elitomlyn5552 2 месяца назад

      I guess the world is full of broken hearts😢😔

  • @DizizAL
    @DizizAL 3 года назад +502

    Ah I'm back listening to this song but this time it hits different.
    Never give everything even to the person you love because one day if that person leaves you, you wont have anything for yourself. Don't become like one of us who loves too much. Love but don't forget to love yourself.

    • @Amberdmccray
      @Amberdmccray 3 года назад +9

      Perfect. I'm just not sure how I get back me.

    • @DarkHeart_X
      @DarkHeart_X 3 года назад +9

      I lost myself. I cant find me again because I planned a whole future with her and now i cant see a future without her in it😞💔

    • @ayuloraine
      @ayuloraine 3 года назад +1

      😭😭😭 so hurt

    • @jimpulupheng622
      @jimpulupheng622 2 года назад +1

      Victim 😭

    • @nhengyecla9474
      @nhengyecla9474 2 года назад +1

      Exactly

  • @lollilolli73
    @lollilolli73 10 месяцев назад +6

    The only man I ever loved with everything in me, finally managed to douse that flame after 11 years. When you accept that you were never loved back, and you don’t cry at every song you hear and then look at that person face to face and feel absolutely nothing, you’ve moved on.

  • @enderslot467
    @enderslot467 5 лет назад +404

    when you accept the fact she is happier with someone else
    when you accept the fact that if its a must then youd gladly stay away
    then you my man is a great man worthy of respect

    • @matthewriggins5351
      @matthewriggins5351 5 лет назад +18

      I miss my first love, but I see that she’s happier now and I’m so happy for her. Don’t get me wrong, it hurts a little that it’s not with me, but all I’ve ever wanted was for her to be happy and seeing her happy feels good

    • @miguelgmail8605
      @miguelgmail8605 5 лет назад +4

      @@matthewriggins5351 i respect you for that, that is a really hard thing to do...im currently in a similar situation with the woman i love...i hope you are doing ok man!

    • @davesabana8402
      @davesabana8402 5 лет назад +4

      Agree. It even took me a year to accept that fact.

    • @Amitkumar-dv1kk
      @Amitkumar-dv1kk 4 года назад +6

      I don't wanna come between she and her boyfriend, I can't just go back to be friends, it's better to just fade away from her life, instead of being a burden on her, who am I to stand in her way.

    • @SL-my4fg
      @SL-my4fg 4 года назад

      Not a great man..but a proper man and a human being. Like this is the basic thing you should do.
      I know it hurts but you don't need to massage their ego

  • @pitohoshohe2230
    @pitohoshohe2230 5 лет назад +1834

    "WHEN YOU ARE HAPPY YOU ENJOY THE MUSIC :) WHEN YO ARE SAD U UNDERSTAND THE LYRICS :(

  • @kosavyy
    @kosavyy 2 года назад +296

    LYRICS:
    Forgive me
    I may have said things
    That aren't exactly
    The way that I feel
    I told you I'd be strong
    I said that I moved on
    But it doesn't take long
    To realize
    That I'm not over you
    But if there is somebody that makes you feel happy
    Tends to your heart in the ways I'd been lacking
    Then who am I, who am I to stand in your way
    To stand in your way
    To stand in your way
    I won't stand in your way
    I know it sounds crazy
    But I need you to trust me
    If it's how it must be
    Then I'll fade away
    When it finally feels true
    Then do what you have to
    Cause I'd never blame you
    For not choosing me
    But I'm not over you
    But if there is somebody that makes you feel happy
    Tends to your heart in the ways I've been lacking
    Then who am I, who am I to stand in your way
    That I feel is no longer your burden
    If there is someone that can make you feel perfect
    Then who am I who am I to stand in your way
    To stand in your way
    To stand in your way
    I won't Stand in your way
    Down the road someone will ask me if I know you
    I'll pause for a moment, I'll smile and say that I used to
    If there is somebody that makes you feel happy
    Tends to your heart
    The ways I've been lacking
    Then who am, I who am I to stand in your way
    That I feel is no longer your burden
    If there is someone that can make you feel perfect
    Then who am I who am I to stand in your way
    To stand in your way
    To stand in your way
    I won't Stand in your way
    I won't Stand in your way
    I won't Stand in your way

    • @michaelfowler2244
      @michaelfowler2244 Год назад +9

      The lyrics are so very much true and touches the heart in everyway

    • @ritaflatt6425
      @ritaflatt6425 Год назад +1

      ​@@michaelfowler2244yes, after all this time passed, I still care deeply, but I want stand in your way! A part of me will always you love! 🩷🤍🩷🛟🧭⚓😘

    • @myrtleshawnsabido5627
      @myrtleshawnsabido5627 Год назад +2

      I'm not over him yet, but im not gonna stop you love.

    • @assumptacherobon8575
      @assumptacherobon8575 Год назад

      😢

    • @jameskircksuclatan6360
      @jameskircksuclatan6360 Год назад +4

      It's hard to say things that we can't control our feelings towards our lover.
      It was very hard for me to let go of someone I used to know and tend to care for the rest of my life. But here I am right now thinking about how I should continue my life knowing that the person I was with was now stranger to me.

  • @tamarahess4944
    @tamarahess4944 Год назад +9

    Love this so much, even almost 10 years later. After I told my crush how I felt about her and she said she didn't feel the same, this was my song. She is now my wife. Together for 9 years and married for 3. Love you, Chester.

  • @bellejour559
    @bellejour559 5 лет назад +310

    Some people leave your life, but they never leave your heart...💜

  • @cutieee230
    @cutieee230 4 года назад +59

    To someone who is struggling mentally, this is for you.
    All the bad things happening in your life, all the heartbreak, all the judgment, and all the misery, are not a proof that you're weak. It proves how strong you are. You know, not many people can overcome the pain you have. Honestly, if you went through hell and back but still didn't gave up, I salute you. Just please remember, that all the things happening in your life, aren't the end. Because, those are only stepping stones towards a greater life. Trust me, at a young age, I was bullied and made fun of, real hard. Now, I'm okay, through the pain that bullying affected me, I am now a stronger person. So, if you're struggling with any mental condition, remember that you are loved and will always be. People may seem to not care about you, but they do, I promise. Things will definitely get better, just trust yourself. And if you don't, then try to appreciate the simplest things in your body, then you will start to realize how lucky and beautiful you are

    • @bellapork3412
      @bellapork3412 4 года назад

      Thank you for the meaningful msge

    • @Lavena17
      @Lavena17 4 года назад

      Thankyou, I really needed this. Thankyou for taking the time outta your day to write this. You have good words.

    • @cyregidor3757
      @cyregidor3757 4 года назад

      Thank you for this...

    • @galactichorizons511
      @galactichorizons511 2 года назад

      @@cyregidor3757 welcome

  • @MrJRW1
    @MrJRW1 5 лет назад +236

    If you find yourself lucky enough to have found true love, appreciate it. One wrong choice can cost you a lifetime of pain and regret.

    • @yujinarukunnn7222
      @yujinarukunnn7222 5 лет назад +6

      Jim is Wright

    • @jainiamin8807
      @jainiamin8807 5 лет назад +1

      i love ones...but she does not

    • @henrimikael5230
      @henrimikael5230 5 лет назад

      This happened to me. I fucked it up really good.

    • @careme6210
      @careme6210 5 лет назад

      Your right Jim Wright
      Love is selfless ready to sacrifice even given everything best and right things that whom you love for them to see and feel how you value your baby like what God given as He leave His throne of gold to redeem as not because He ask something for as but to feel Him and see Him how infinite His Love to as,
      The point there is
      If we love given it all without minful what is return is the best love ever we render to our loveones call AGAPE love

    • @mjkert1527
      @mjkert1527 5 лет назад

      😔😔😔😔

  • @KritiSapkota-f2j
    @KritiSapkota-f2j 11 месяцев назад +3

    This song hits my heart . The pure form of love is letting he/she to go freely to the person they love and trying to be happy with yourself no matter how hard it will be to move on this song provide the perfect way to be strong

  • @mayasatsuki3345
    @mayasatsuki3345 6 лет назад +615

    This song makes me cry every time . it really strikes home to me because I know the feeling that you want to be there for someone you really love but you know deep inside that your feelings will only burden them and just like the line "If there is somebody who makes you feel happy , tends to your heart in the ways that I'm Lacking" really tears me up, it doesn't tear me up because you're with someone else but it tears me up to think that I couldn't be the one to make you happy even if I love you so much because it keeps raising questions in my head like
    " What did I not do to make you happy? "
    " Is there something missing or wrong with me ? "
    " Why can't I be the one who makes you happy?"
    "I thought loving someone was happy thing ? Why does it only bring me to tears ?"
    "What am I to you ? "
    But every time the title of this song answers those questions "Who am I to stand in your way ?"
    Which is true what right do I have to stand in the way of your happiness , What's the point of loving someone but they can't be truly happy
    So I'll stick to my place and let someone else make you happy in the ways I couldn't
    Even if it kills me every time to think that I couldn't be the one to make you feel happy and perfect about yourself.
    Ps. To the person I love, if by some miracle you're reading this I just want you to know I Love You So Much and SORRY I couldn't be the one who makes you happy.
    EDIT : To all the people reading this that relate
    I just want to let you know "I Love You " even if they don't love you back atleast know that someone is always out there that loves you back ❤️

    • @kaytow4849
      @kaytow4849 6 лет назад +11

      I know EXACTLY how you feel. Going through this now. Same thoughts. Emotions. But in all honesty, it's all in my head now a days. He lives in Illinois and I'm in Arizona, big gap! But, no matter what.... no matter where we end up, we will always be something. And that gives my HEART some relief.

    • @okolobieluifeanyi9500
      @okolobieluifeanyi9500 6 лет назад +2

      "deep" relatable.

    • @Raulong0
      @Raulong0 6 лет назад +3

      Same here.... it hurts a lot :(

    • @rafidahazahari8533
      @rafidahazahari8533 6 лет назад +1

      😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @mayasatsuki3345
      @mayasatsuki3345 6 лет назад +8

      It really hurts especially when you see them with someone else

  • @grimreaper437
    @grimreaper437 7 лет назад +2310

    When a song makes you cry you know it's a good song..

  • @robertoadalla2909
    @robertoadalla2909 3 года назад +218

    To anyone who's reading this in 2021, remember to always move forward. You have suffered so much from your past experience. Forgive those who have done you wrong, and forgive yourself as well. Healing happens. It really does. I'm here to testify that nothing lasts forever.
    Way back 2018 when I heard this song for the first time. I burst to tears upon hearing the lyrics, but still played it on repeat. I was soooo broken and vulnerable that time, actually had suicidal thoughts too. This song helped me get through one of my darkest moments so far. Who would've thought that I would still be alive now? Thanks for this awesome piece of art, Chester! 💙

    • @theharshtruthoutthere
      @theharshtruthoutthere 2 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/xHo1G-LU7KM/видео.html
      ruclips.net/video/c7EuGQfYF6c/видео.html
      ruclips.net/video/HMQdxWIWgms/видео.html
      ruclips.net/video/cvtV7TfTBGY/видео.html
      a wise soul turns to bible and GOD, never to religions - a man made opinions. We have too many fools and not enough wise.
      ruclips.net/video/TyyYcfSyu0Q/видео.html
      (Hospitals have Alien Facility underground. The Tares :
      The hospitals are filled with them , nurses , doctors , therapists, technicians, housekeeping, kitchen help etc. They are all on the same page and their numbers are more than pure humans. They do not have to worry if they are hospitalized. Its us who need to worry. Seriously !
      Think about, the passage in the bible about, the off spring of Cain having a distinctive mark,,
      Expose the evil ones (freemasons) too: The Unlisted (2019), The Arrival (1996), The Twilight Zone (1959,1985, 2002, 2019) They Live (1988), Captain Fantastic (2016), Matrix (1999), Get Out (2017), Left Behind (2000/2002/2014), Soylent Green (1973), Logan`s Run (1976) The Truman Show (1998), SON OF GOD (2014), Carnival Row (2019), Abigail (2019), The x Flies (1993), Grimm (2011) - , I AM A Legend (2005), The swarm (1978), THE V (2009), The Strain (2014), (The Invasion (2007) of the body Snatchers (1978), “Daybreakers” (2009). Do not take the mark of the beast!!!! But the choice is yours………. Satan or God? What side do you choose? "See, your murderers come with smiles, they come as your friends, the people who've cared for you all of your life. And they always seem to come at a time that you're at your weakest and most in need of their help." - Goodfellas, 1990 MK-Ultra Mind Control/Brain Hacking/Torture Program, Television-- Tell a lie vision, Freemason, 5G+Project Blue Beam, Fake Space, NASA, Flat Earth, A.I, Transhumanism, Mark Of The Beast, Nr. 666, Fake moon landing, Fake news, New World Order, 201 Agenda, 911, Reptiles, Demons, Fallen Angels, Matrix, Kabbalah, Alien Invasion, Transgender Agenda, Cains offspring, Strong Delusion, Days Of Noah, DNA, Spirit - Soul - Body, Humans offspring, They Live- We Sleep, Spiritual Death, Transvestigation/investigation, The Illuminati, Illuminati Checkrboard, nr. 33, magic, Satanic Holidays, nr. 322 skull and bones, The great reset (agenda), MSM brainwashing propaganda, Tesla free energy, FEMA Camps, Baphomet, Cern, Depopulation (of mankind), Sleeper Agents, Beta Programming, Black Mirror, Black sun, Eye of Horus, Chemtrails, Inverted Pentagram, Obelisk, Black Cube, Dobule-Headed Eagle, Knights Templar, Imperial Eagle, Solar Barque, Sun/Solar Worship, Winged Sun Disk, Fake Pregnant Belly, Human Brain Project, Targeted Individuals, Bio-Coded Energy Voice To Skull, Organic Robotoid, Human Clones, Cloaking Device, Population Control, whistleblowers, Mud flood(s), The Manipulation Of Time, GMA - genetically modified humans, Nanotechnology, Social Media = Mass Psycho Cybernetics, Black eyed babies - The Plandemic Babies, Killed by ventilators, Operation Mockingbird, Project Looking Glass, Satellites = Ground Cell Towers, Vaccines = Bioweapons, Lipid Nanoparticles, Nanotechnology mRNA Vaccines, Graphene Hydroxide, (MtFtM and FtMtF) Detransitioning, Spirit cooking, Dupers delight, Music concerts = harvesting human energy, Holographic technology. DO YOUR OWN STUDY!!!!!!! Wake Up! (Spiritual Awakening Is Not Yoga). Both must be done: PREACH THE GOSPEL AND EXPOSE THE EVIL AND KEEP THE 10 COMMANDMENTS.

    • @tingpakhoi2889
      @tingpakhoi2889 2 года назад +1

      I think like that too

    • @robertoadalla2909
      @robertoadalla2909 2 года назад +1

      @@tingpakhoi2889 you'll get through it! You got this! 💪🏽

    • @tingpakhoi2889
      @tingpakhoi2889 2 года назад +1

      @@robertoadalla2909 yeah.. I'll get through it

    • @pinkyyyyyy05
      @pinkyyyyyy05 2 года назад +2

      I needed to hear this. Thank you 🥺

  • @ronaalvarina5847
    @ronaalvarina5847 11 месяцев назад +7

    I never knew until now i'd stumble back to the same music all over again after all these years that's passed by.

  • @jasminethao5751
    @jasminethao5751 5 лет назад +929

    RUclips recommended this to me in 2020, thank you for giving the nostalgia of listening to this for the first time

    • @givenchysoo
      @givenchysoo 5 лет назад +4

      Same

    • @kevinwalsh4
      @kevinwalsh4 5 лет назад

      Same. And Damn, its relatable

    • @kevinwalsh4
      @kevinwalsh4 5 лет назад +1

      Hi 🙂 all is well. Just got a lot on my mind. I made my own comment on why it's relevant. Hope all is well with you.

    • @dharmeshraj6093
      @dharmeshraj6093 5 лет назад

      Same here dear

    • @aakankshasoni._
      @aakankshasoni._ 4 года назад +1

      Same

  • @jaxsup
    @jaxsup 3 года назад +528

    You know you’re hurt when you stare at yourself in the mirror while crying and just telling yourself over and over that it will be ok and hoping eventually you’ll believe yourself.

    • @sarahpadero460
      @sarahpadero460 3 года назад +5

      I feel the same way ... But as the quote said .. everything happen for a reason...

    • @fluffybunny0124
      @fluffybunny0124 3 года назад +2

      True

    • @rengmungrongpharpi2997
      @rengmungrongpharpi2997 3 года назад +2

      I can feel you ....

    • @markanthonyjerrom5987
      @markanthonyjerrom5987 3 года назад +4

      But the mirror answers me with the sadest Truth of all l it never will . 💔🙏

    • @lalnunpuii200
      @lalnunpuii200 3 года назад +10

      Yeah.. Why is healing so hard.. Sometimes i wish i don't feel emotions.

  • @bikrambhowal1408
    @bikrambhowal1408 5 лет назад +169

    A sad lonely heart can only found this beautiful song😖

  • @GIFTYSLIFE16
    @GIFTYSLIFE16 5 месяцев назад +37

    It's July 2024, who is here listening to this heartfelt song 🎵

  • @pesgorkha
    @pesgorkha 2 года назад +41

    The moment you love someone unconditionally... All the world to one side and that person to another..you give everything all you have.. all of these but you are treated like nothing...still you love again again forgetting all those hurtness and ignorance ❣️

  • @caelpajarillobernus8920
    @caelpajarillobernus8920 5 лет назад +104

    Letting go is hard to do especially knowing you really love that person but your choosing the happiness even it is not your own.
    Love you've sacrifice shows how big your love is...
    Anyways... I love the song..... Hope there's someone out there who'll accept and love me whoever I am and for what I am

    • @boblyfordthangkhiew6673
      @boblyfordthangkhiew6673 5 лет назад

      caelpajarillo bernus I feel you mate...

    • @bjpacio7546
      @bjpacio7546 5 лет назад

      same here

    • @denevieve8078
      @denevieve8078 5 лет назад

      caelpajarillo bernus for sure

    • @elsfiyra
      @elsfiyra 5 лет назад

      I will

    • @shawnfilan8674
      @shawnfilan8674 5 лет назад

      i love this song ...this song is for u my bestfriend...kahit na iniwan moko ng biglaan nagmahalan tau pinaglaban pa kita sa magulang mo...pero wala akong magagawa dahil ikaw na ang sumuko...natandaan mo ung sinabe mo nun sabi mo sa huli ipaglalaban kita...pero anong nangyare wala as in nawasak ang puso ko ng dahil sau tapos sorry lang ang masasabi mo..na depressed ako na dumating na sa puntong gusto kong ng magpakamatay ...dahil wala man lng akong masavhan ng problema ko....nasira ko pa sarili ko ng dahil sau nabaliw ako sau.. its been a year now and i feel better now...natatawa n lng ako pag naaalala ko yun ngaun...hahahaha ganun pala pag nagmahal k tlga...
      2019 whos this listening this i love this song

  • @claytutt3616
    @claytutt3616 5 лет назад +508

    26 years ago I met someone. My high school sweetheart. We dated one year till she graduated. I loved her. She left I went threw school thinking about her, wondering where and what she was doing. Years later I ran into her again. It was love at first sight again. This went on for a few months and she once again left. Few years later I found myself still thinking and in love with her. Always wondering what she was doing. Then once again I found her again. They say things happen for a reason. Well it does. Now 26 years later I still find myself thinking about her, what she is doing. I have never stood in her way and I won't stand in her way. If she wants to be happy then that what I want. No matter the sacrifice I make not to have her.

    • @sugarrush9933
      @sugarrush9933 5 лет назад +27

      She's so lucky to be loved by you. I hope you'll both find your way back to each other.

    • @vernonkoekemoer5428
      @vernonkoekemoer5428 5 лет назад +8

      I'm sorry but I also lost someone I love and I also wonder what she is doing what she looks like what she thinks and how she feel I also wonder where she are what she is going true

    • @vernonkoekemoer5428
      @vernonkoekemoer5428 5 лет назад +5

      I must tell you it is hard

    • @zerotheunintended7513
      @zerotheunintended7513 5 лет назад +6

      Clay Tutt move on bud. Forget her.

    • @akash0219
      @akash0219 5 лет назад +1

      U sound like a garbage bag man. Why did you let her come in and go out whenever she decided to???

  • @lorimiller9122
    @lorimiller9122 Год назад +8

    Now this is Love when u can let the person that u are madly in Love go off to someone else that they obviously Love without trying to stop it or get in the way!!! U definitely know how to Truly Love ❤

  • @secretsymphony8361
    @secretsymphony8361 5 лет назад +225

    2020 guys?
    Love this song!!
    Its 2021... still in love and still broken...
    Love the song!!

  • @JC-pp5qz
    @JC-pp5qz 4 года назад +60

    As my friend told me yesterday, maybe the reason the universe didn't give us the person we badly wanted is because it knows that we deserve better and it's on its way. We just have to be patient and wait and just live in the moment. ❤️

  • @Magatopu21
    @Magatopu21 4 года назад +95

    *it hurts when u watch her moving on but u still love her as u do before*

    • @fallen346
      @fallen346 3 года назад

      And i have to push it down inside even though sometimes it hurts...and I try not to show anyone how I feel..my family isn’t together and it’s hard having to visit and it hurts me and I can’t stop blaming myself for not being better

  • @kylerdurr838
    @kylerdurr838 Год назад +14

    Found this song almost a decade ago and I still come back on occasion. But, I no longer cry.

  • @78.BANDIT
    @78.BANDIT 5 лет назад +170

    Im a STRAIGHT MALE. I can only speak for myself and my own experiences.
    No man ever truly gets over a woman he loved that broke his heart. He just learns to live with the hurt an moves on. Till it's deep down and he tries not to remember.

  • @podtester9900
    @podtester9900 4 года назад +72

    "If its how it must be, then Ill fade away..."
    Only a man with the purest intetions can say this just to see her happy

    • @stephaniecao645
      @stephaniecao645 4 года назад +2

      That's the part that hits me the most.

  • @stephanieruthbombita4213
    @stephanieruthbombita4213 Год назад +58

    i can see the pain, i can also feel the pain, in every word of the song he sings. may all of us heals from this kind of pain. God bless your heart everyone.♥️

  • @Dark_Angel2600
    @Dark_Angel2600 10 месяцев назад +4

    This is the song I listen to when I know I need to let someone go. I need to give someone the freedom and to give myself peace and love.

  • @bilalyousufi
    @bilalyousufi 4 года назад +284

    i see here people expressing their feelings over these lyrics, telling their stories and showing their broken hearts to the people they barely know. why does it feels right to tell everyone here your everything you ever felt regarding your relationships. because you know that the reader who is reading these stories has suffered the same, you feel like they know your pain because they have gone through the same. right? a community of strangers who came on platform over one feeling.. supporting each other.. giving hope to each other while some of you don't even know the name of the person you are talking to.
    this is the level of loneliness we feel in this world. this is how lonely we are. that we expect strangers to be more understanding than the person who we grew up with or who gave us birth.. and moreover, we depend on songs to intensify our feelings, their music let us enter in the world of our imaginations where everything feels so much.. and then over that, the lyrics are their to relate your feelings and your pain with.
    yet we forget our basics, we forget who created us, these feelings this pain this life this universe that is so huge that we haven't even discovered it yet completely, we live a life in which nobody tells us there is someone who loves you more than your parents your partner your BFF.. someone who has all the power, someone who is giving you signs after signs to recognize him and return to him in this world and express your pains to him while he wont ever judge you, show him your gratitude for the blessings you have been given by him.
    every single person is shown a sign of Allah at least once his life which is rear.. it happens more than a lot, just need to see it. while you read this. whether you follow Islam or any other religion. i request you that this is the time when you should stand up and acknowledge your lord. find his love his kindness and i promise you, tell him everything people have done to you. tell him how painful it is for you that you had to let go a person you never thought of. tell him how mean this world is and how you want in life something real. something that will last you till your last breath. tell him how people have betray you or devalued you for whatever reason.
    my dearest, love the one back who awaits for your love all of your life. he created so much beautiful stuff for you to recognize him and his love for you. he gave you parents, people who love you.
    i promise you, you will find the peace in your heart that you are seeking. do your research and find your lord (Allah), he will make you find him if you have the intention, you will heal so quickly if and only if you are on the right track. and don't worry, whatever you chose, you will have the feeling in your heart whether its right or not. thanks for reading. i hope i helped you somehow.
    stay blessed.
    salam u alikum.

    • @romaisawisal4559
      @romaisawisal4559 4 года назад +1

      And if I don't believe in a God? Who do I turn to?

    • @bilalyousufi
      @bilalyousufi 4 года назад +3

      @@romaisawisal4559
      well i think you need to sit and think what makes you not believe in god.. its like your saying steve jobs didnt make iphone.. it made it self...
      believe me.. thats the job of satan.. i would suggest you, even if you dont believe in god.. start studying islam. i think it might change your thinking.. if need any help i will be there for u. as long ad you r up for it.. just give it a try once in your life.. just once.. it will be worth it. trust me..

    • @romaisawisal4559
      @romaisawisal4559 4 года назад +2

      @@bilalyousufi I did, didn't work for me. Although your faith might help you, you can't subject other people to it. Even the concept of religion does not work with everyone

    • @bilalyousufi
      @bilalyousufi 4 года назад +10

      @@romaisawisal4559 i am not subjecting other people to it.. i told you what worked for me and for most of the people around the world.. so i thought it might work for you..
      for you though all i can say is that look around yourself and value your life. i know you might say that its easier for me to say. believe me its not.. it has not been easy for me..
      but this is life.. we have to move on..this is the one time we are in this world.. we need to make it count.. and we cant let it all go over a person or an incident. yeah it hurts.. it takes time as well.. some take a year some take more than that.. but never stop trying to move forward..
      love yourself.. respect your feelings.. let them make u feel down.. but dont let them stay in you like this.. try to do things which u love to do.. tell yourself that you are beautiful u deserve to be happy.. the world owes u happiness.. figure out a good way of life that has all the colours to fill you up with joy.. even then u might feel down for few days.. there will be episodes on you when u dont even want to get out of bed.. and thats ok... that life.. u are not ur 100% everyday.. tell urslef ok i am down thats fine.. accept the way u feel. and tell urself that this is not how u want to stay.. yeah its fine for a while but not for always.
      my dearest one.. the world around works.. earn money has every kind of entertainement.. every single thing you see there.. is for you to get happy.. people work hard to earn money so that they can get happy.. people pay for stuff in order to get happy.. happiness is the reason people around you work and spend.. u need to work for it.. put effort it in it.. being sad and depress is easy.. there are alot of reasons for being sad.. but there is only one reason to get happy.. and that is that u want to get happy.. and that is the only reason this world around you is there.

    • @romaisawisal4559
      @romaisawisal4559 4 года назад +4

      @@bilalyousufi thanks, man. Means a lot 🖤

  • @kevin41568
    @kevin41568 Год назад +66

    My wife died January of this year. She had cancer for half our marriage over two decades. The last night before she passed looking over the Pacific Ocean I played this song to her in front of some close family. I still don’t know exactly why it was picked because it was spur of the moment. It’s so sad to hear this and to love someone who lost the ability to love and was beat and broken. Her family let her down in her final days and she died with a broken heart. I hope she is happy in heaven and I know she watches over us still.

    • @MissLeebi23
      @MissLeebi23 Год назад +1

      😭😭💔

    • @noneofyourbusiness6309
      @noneofyourbusiness6309 6 месяцев назад +1

      😢😢

    • @MakeAdifference-fi5jr
      @MakeAdifference-fi5jr 6 месяцев назад +2

      That's beautiful and extremely sad, but it happens. Thank God she had you ,I'm sorry for your loss, she's in a better place, may she rest in peace, and may God bless you and comfort you, hold on to the memories and keep her in your heart 💙 the memories will help you through your sorrow. 💕🙏

  • @cheyneegayle3134
    @cheyneegayle3134 4 года назад +443

    i love him so much, i chose to let him go because he wants to walk away.
    Its been 5 months now, with this pandemic, mental breakdowns, heartbreaks but im still fighting. thank You Lord ❤
    Edit: it hurts more knowing he has someone new now who makes him happy. 💔

    • @allyzaflores2806
      @allyzaflores2806 4 года назад +6

      Same here 😞

    • @alamansari3570
      @alamansari3570 4 года назад +5

      It will get less harder:) keep fighting💜

    • @lekeviamitchell731
      @lekeviamitchell731 4 года назад +8

      This is literally how mine is going....whenever he posts his new girl i just breakdown and cry knowing how that useto be me

    • @jdgmorales1017
      @jdgmorales1017 4 года назад +5

      You'll eventually heal someday.It may took a year or more like me but you'll eventually find your healing.Keep fighting !

    • @lekeviamitchell731
      @lekeviamitchell731 4 года назад +1

      @@jdgmorales1017 thank you

  • @Baroness73
    @Baroness73 9 месяцев назад +2

    Beautiful lyrics...and song. 🎶🙏 It's hard to gracefully bow out, but I will never chase, force, hold on to, or prevent someone I love from being with someone they love. I'm not a plan B or 2nd choice. The pain created holding on is futile. 💯🙏🥰 True love is unconditional and I can love them from afar. If they are happy, it is worth it. It only blocked me from meeting someone who chooses me, first the first time. 🙏💯🥰💎💃

  • @sadafsadat3438
    @sadafsadat3438 5 лет назад +118

    When you truly love someone you just want them to be happy...you want to take all their tears and give them your smile...

  • @cerenu.7565
    @cerenu.7565 7 лет назад +440

    He's not singing, he is feeling the song.

  • @nkaujsuevaj8034
    @nkaujsuevaj8034 6 лет назад +54

    My husband used to listen to this song before we became a couple 3 years ago. This was during the time when I told him I was still in love with someone else who I was learning to let go and if he was alright with waiting for me if he really saw something in me and us. Of course my husband waited while I was recovering from all the heart aches I had then. He told me last year that this song was the song he listened to a lot before we started dating and said that all of your (Chestersee's) lyrics hit every point he had felt then and still does. This song is beautiful and true to every love that people couldn't have or felt. Thank you for such amazing music you sing and compose.

    • @nikki3018
      @nikki3018 6 лет назад +2

      Nkauj Sue Vaj Beautiful story. I know what it is like to slowly try to let go of someone. Your husband sounds like a really good man for waiting for you.

  • @earthangell1
    @earthangell1 9 месяцев назад +1

    Beautiful song! I’ve listened countless times just to try to heal…I was given no choice but to let him go, I pretend I’m happy alone…I beg God everyday to take away the pain & heartache so I could move on and forget him…it’s been 9 years and it hurts just the same, perhaps even more!❤😢

  • @arshilemir
    @arshilemir 5 лет назад +65

    "Down the road someone will ask me if I know you...
    I will pause for a moment smile and say...I used to"......that really broke my heart🖤

  • @sarahlovingood8160
    @sarahlovingood8160 5 лет назад +117

    “When your happy you enjoy the music, when your sad you understand the lyrics” 😔

  • @jasperyong3258
    @jasperyong3258 5 лет назад +2097

    who else is listening to this with someone in mind

  • @LordINeedYou-cx8qh
    @LordINeedYou-cx8qh Год назад +82

    IAM Indian,I belong to Sikh family but I believe Jesus is only one who is our saviour and our creator .. amen🙏🙏🙏

    • @Lucie-m4t
      @Lucie-m4t Год назад +4

      Amen, God bless You 🙏

  • @birmithsubba8055
    @birmithsubba8055 5 лет назад +150

    I'd never blame you for not choosing me.....the best line😘😘😘

  • @zyrillsiano9952
    @zyrillsiano9952 4 года назад +70

    You're loving a person you wish you could have. And with this song, I'm not mad. I'm in pain.

  • @angelaquique5896
    @angelaquique5896 2 года назад +69

    The pain of loving someone who doesn’t feel the same about you is greater than having someone hammering nails into your body while being alive

    • @Sophy-t1z
      @Sophy-t1z 11 месяцев назад +1

    • @NoahOD_22
      @NoahOD_22 10 месяцев назад +1

      Jesus went through both. Follow Him

    • @philotheasbliss
      @philotheasbliss 8 месяцев назад

      JESUS CHRIST FELT BOTH ❤

  • @divyabhashini
    @divyabhashini 10 месяцев назад +1

    Hits in deep of my heart..Lyrics are so beautiful.luv this song.

  • @ab_mochi
    @ab_mochi 7 лет назад +606

    For the ppl who r heart broken, torn, who know they messed up (sadly including myself), yeah it does hurt, but nothing good nor bad lasts forever. Some day you will meet the person who makes u feel perfect and makes you smile. Until then smile at the good memories (if ya want), and do things you enjoy. Think of the good things u learned and the mistakes u will never make again (or possibly will because we are human😂).
    And so I say this with my broken, emotional self, good luck to you, and smile today❤
    Edit: And I'm back a year later wow. Happy that this comment caused positivity❤

  • @charlottenewman5831
    @charlottenewman5831 2 года назад +31

    Loving someone sometimes means loving them from a distance with everything you have xxxx

    • @markhill4136
      @markhill4136 2 года назад

      Hello Charlotte, how are you and things there ?

    • @mynsong1972
      @mynsong1972 2 года назад

      I completely agree

  • @clydensbb3803
    @clydensbb3803 4 года назад +2699

    IF YOU FOUND IT YEAR 2021 , IT'S TIME TO MOVE ON , LET'S MOVE FORWARD TO FEEL BETTER.

    • @bobyshi9132
      @bobyshi9132 3 года назад +14

      👍

    • @nadliwsabilu4668
      @nadliwsabilu4668 3 года назад +65

      How to move on to the memories you cherish the most....

    • @CRYSTAL-jq4yz
      @CRYSTAL-jq4yz 3 года назад +11

      💜
      Have great love 💜

    • @e.d972
      @e.d972 3 года назад +58

      @@nadliwsabilu4668 Forgive and you'll be able to let go. You can still keep your memories though for they will be forever a part of you and no one else can take their spot in your heart. We are capable of loving xyz # of people and we love them for different reasons. Some makes us smile like no one else. .some makes us feel safe ...I hope you understand what I mean. Good luck to all of us. Yeah, me included. Hugsss 🤗

    • @lucydavid7345
      @lucydavid7345 3 года назад +30

      I'm trying... But I can't...I just love him so much❤🙂

  • @iczman_yang
    @iczman_yang Год назад +1

    Letting her go actually hurts more than anything But seeing her happier now with someone else…Chester took the words right out of my mouth.

  • @parafan4ever
    @parafan4ever 10 лет назад +2367

    this song describes what i'm going through right now. and i dont think i am the only one who have felt like that.
    i most say this is one of the best songs you have wrote

    • @SamaraRae
      @SamaraRae 10 лет назад +20

      i am going through the same deal. hands down, one of the best songs he's written.

    • @jebbanks4743
      @jebbanks4743 10 лет назад +6

      I'm right there with you.

    • @Hannahbug523
      @Hannahbug523 10 лет назад +5

      Right there with you all

    • @youknowhoiam123
      @youknowhoiam123 10 лет назад

      Shut up weird white dude. No one gives a shit

    • @Gr00t
      @Gr00t 10 лет назад +6

      I feel you man, i love chester but he always make me think about her much i miss "her" :(

  • @embracemuan1990
    @embracemuan1990 4 года назад +93

    To all those broken heart 💔 who r listening,, know that the perfect ones await you..

    • @tonimurray5592
      @tonimurray5592 4 года назад +5

      I don't believe that anymore. Been too long and I'm not wanted

    • @samuelkatalau5718
      @samuelkatalau5718 4 года назад +1

      Yea me too I jst dont know😓🤷‍♂️💔

    • @jefferywilson2280
      @jefferywilson2280 4 года назад +1

      Yea probably not

    • @charlescabognason6380
      @charlescabognason6380 4 года назад +1

      @@tonimurray5592 i feel the same way nothing about me is likeable 😁

    • @kuro_007
      @kuro_007 4 года назад +1

      I found someone whom I thought was the perfect one for me but she left me 😢

  • @WendyPerkins-d2u
    @WendyPerkins-d2u 10 месяцев назад +1

    What an amazing song may everyone that has and will go through this may this help and heal your soul.

  • @samridhisubedi5690
    @samridhisubedi5690 4 года назад +60

    Saddest part of life is missing someone who already became stranger with many memories 💔

  • @suncutie12
    @suncutie12 9 лет назад +249

    "I'll smile and say that I used to"
    oh god here comes the tears

  • @laurenf1478
    @laurenf1478 5 лет назад +62

    The people who hit the dislike simply were so touched by this song, they couln't stand to listen to it without crying again.

  • @justastranger9470
    @justastranger9470 9 месяцев назад +2

    Just found this song when my best friend sent me a message that she'll need space from every part of her past, and that means me too. I don't know if I'll ever see her again, but I love her and want her best, so I'll keep my distance, and this song is just what I needed right now.

  • @pandeilmonium
    @pandeilmonium 5 лет назад +221

    " I'll smile and say that I used to.. " 💔

  • @sakeenahkhan6784
    @sakeenahkhan6784 5 лет назад +418

    Whose crying while listening to it😞 👇he says it all💔

  • @taylormadison6696
    @taylormadison6696 Год назад +30

    It’s a certain kind of pain when you don’t get sad anymore but find comfort in what used to make you sad

  • @judeinventor7042
    @judeinventor7042 11 месяцев назад +6

    I just knew this song 2days ago... then I kept repeating. I just felt that this was so me!!! Amazingly wonderful, this is an absolute masterpiece!!!

    • @claudiuskeat8336
      @claudiuskeat8336 11 месяцев назад

      First heard this 6 years ago, and I'm still listening to it.

    • @johnnytawon780
      @johnnytawon780 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@claudiuskeat8336hey what's ur ASL!? 😁

  • @DIPKALABLE
    @DIPKALABLE 3 года назад +265

    "When it finally feels true
    Then do what you have to
    'Cause I'll never blame you
    For not choosing me
    But I'm not over you"

  • @lbluebird342
    @lbluebird342 6 лет назад +253

    December 4, 2018....Just found this FANTASTIC song...again, by accident. Liked the title thought I'd take a listen. Wow! Where did he come from? How long has he been around. He reminds me of Calum Scott and Ed Sheeran a bit. I'm 67, female, been deeply in love twice in my life, but peacefully in love only once. I'm a hopeless romantic and have always loved good music. Thanks for sharing this. It's a THUMBS UP for me!!! Will be listening to this alot! Perfect words. To those who are so young, wait till u know without a shadow of a doubt, that person is ur soul mate. You'll fit together like a mold and I'm not talking sexually, but it will be great too. The best part is... They'll be your best friend forever. They will listen, care about your interests, maybe even share them or encourage you to grow. They will care for you when sick, help with the little things by not putting all the daily responsibilities on you. They will love you when ur grouchy, but most of all be forgiving, when u fussed so much about something that was trivial and fixable. It's not always about the hot passion. You need that, but also the fun times, date times after kids, silly times, slow down times, quiet or ur own space times, alot of compromises, letting the little things go while focusing on the big picture. But what really lights up the love is the tenderness shown when it's least expected, the little compliments (from & for both parties), the kiss as u leave for work might be just a little longer or more tender, filed with the love u have for that person but haven't shown it much lately, remembering we all work hard and not all days are good. Some are even hard to talk about. Have some empathy, and be a good listener, think before u speak in anger, say you're sorry when u know it's the right thing to do... It will humble u and make u a better person, have respect most of all for reach other and don't forget to keep the bedroom interesting and alive.... It's not just a place to sleep. Don't know why I said all this, just felt like I needed to say it for someone struggling. Don't take abuse EVER... No matter what... Walk away, even if it means sleeping in ur car or riding all night on a light rail or going into a police station (not jail) or hospital pretending ur waiting for someone til u can get help... Just go somewhere safe. Then get on your feet and get help to start down a better path of life. There are many good ones!!! Don't ever let someone beat you down or hurt a child. Respect yourself enough to know you're worth something to someone and that someone is God and YOU! Blessing to all, Merry Christmas 2018 and Happy New Year too! L. :).

    • @princesola9397
      @princesola9397 6 лет назад +2

      Amen God bless.

    • @JNKev
      @JNKev 6 лет назад

      literal me ha ayudado al leer esto, muchas gracias donde quiera que este un gran abrazo! y Feliz Navidad para ud y su Familia.

    • @angenymphadora6576
      @angenymphadora6576 6 лет назад +3

      That was so vulnerable and beautiful. Thank you ❤

    • @sarahward1080
      @sarahward1080 6 лет назад

      Well spoken, and this song hits me hard

    • @sabiemarz8549
      @sabiemarz8549 6 лет назад +3

      Am speechless i must say, but These are the bestest words of wisdom iv heard this year, trust me, i want to be your friend, and i would want to have more of your conciling if you dont mind, am still 22 but Suffering heavily in my heart

  • @sanjhsolanki2419
    @sanjhsolanki2419 6 лет назад +1200

    Who else can feel this without loving someone or without having breakup...
    I can feel this bcoz the guy who is singing ..I can feel emotions in his voice...that's why a big thumbs up👍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @yoonah-sshi2230
    @yoonah-sshi2230 10 месяцев назад +1

    Recommended by RUclips and now I'm wondering where this song has been all my life?? What a beautiful encounter.. Thank god I clicked on this video 🥹🫶

  • @anthonyamado2332
    @anthonyamado2332 4 года назад +67

    My first love broke my heart a year and a half ago, I wont lie to you It still hurts. So if you are reading this and you feel sad for still not being over them, you aren't crazy and you aren't alone. Keep moving forward. Much love!

    • @rebeccadaniels9922
      @rebeccadaniels9922 4 года назад +1

      Even In A Thousand years I Will Stll Miss You x

    • @majesticdreams240
      @majesticdreams240 4 года назад +1

      My first love was 3 years ago and it still hurts me too

    • @aichaabouzid3754
      @aichaabouzid3754 4 года назад +1

      I just know that the first love will never be forgotten. That's why it called first love .

    • @epicguineapig6983
      @epicguineapig6983 3 года назад +1

      You're staying strong my friend. The first years are the hardest. They're 6 years gone now and it still hurts. If it means something, I believe in you. Stay strong

  • @lifeorliberty3086
    @lifeorliberty3086 5 лет назад +110

    I fell in love with a lady years ago. 4 years later she had a life changing event. She didn't want to see me anymore. I had nothing to do with it but she needed her space. Over time I lost touch with her. 20years later I find her again. Years have passed. We both have families,careers. The first time I heard her voice it melted my heart. She is such an amazing person and I wish her the best life possible.

    • @stedits2237
      @stedits2237 4 года назад +1

      Oh man that hurt
      But yeah this ending is good too :-) :-

    • @laurenf1478
      @laurenf1478 4 года назад +1

      OOF my heart...

    • @lilychris1453
      @lilychris1453 4 года назад

      Touching

  • @AkashShinde27
    @AkashShinde27 7 лет назад +32

    this song can touch any heart who has felt love...great song

  • @kimeya483
    @kimeya483 Месяц назад +1

    Wow this song is completely beautiful. Can't stop listenin' to it. ❤

  • @Polar_3rikk
    @Polar_3rikk 4 года назад +34

    Heartbreak makes you feel so empty and you feel so alone, these comments remind me I'm not the only one going through heartbreak, I don't know any of you but I feel connected to you all

  • @unlabeledpain.1631
    @unlabeledpain.1631 5 лет назад +74

    Fell inlove with my bestfriend 3 years ago. When I felt it, I told him right away. At first he was ok with it and treated me the same way, until a girl transfered to our school. He started getting farther and farther away. That time i don't even care if he likes me back, i just wanted the same old us back. But here I am, backreading our old chats, crying and regretting ever telling him i love him.