This is not abnormal. A cop told me that he's seen fatal car crashes where everyone in the car died minus an infant in a bucket seat. I think it's the lower profile of the child plus extra protection from the seat construction.
I can’t imagine the relief she felt when the car landed and the kids were okay. I’m so happy Neha and her children are safe and I hope their attempted murderer stays behind bars ♥️
@@asmrtpop2676 GTSY, I hope you’re doing well. Yes, I agree with you, I thought of the poor mother and I can’t imagine how she felt when she realised her husband wanted them all dead.
@@alzychoze6591 exactly if someone tried to kill my kids I would be pushing for the death penalty. Makes ya wonder if she was in on it. 🤔 He doesn't deserve any sympathy from her.
The fact that Dharmesh's parents have custody is what makes me the most mad. How is the no contact order supposed to work? I hope Neha is getting the support she needs and will be able to get her children back. I know how some families can be unsupportive so my inbox is always open x
The mom, Neha, was my old math teacher in high school. I was shocked to see what happened to her and her family. This is just so tragic, glad she and her kids are okay.
@@origamikami3486 It means like fat but in an endearing way. Like “ooo girl you’re so thicc”. Not sure why THE ABSOLUTE FUCKK he would comment it here though.
I have the utmost admiration for those unsung men and women that risk their own lives to repel down cliffs to save people from wrecks and more…that footage is intense.
Man... can you imagine trying to off your family driving off a 200ft cliff and you're all fine so now you gotta chill with the person while waiting to be rescued. Awkward.
Being Indian and knowing how family and community works, I feel like another thing could be that she was pressured by either her family or her in-laws to not press charges and made to feel guilty if she did… definitely have seen things like this first hand in the community/extended family.
I don’t even think culture has much of a role here. There’s no evidence of a history of domestic abuse either, even though people like that theory. I think she just recognises that at the centre of this all is a very ill man and a serious suicide attempt. And he probably thought it was easier to take them all in that moment than force his wife and kids to have the rest of their lives destroyed by tragedy. It would be sad but it would be over in an instant and the rest of the world would move on. This is how minds work with mental illness, so with all the world’s hatred on top, it has probably softened her heart towards him unfortunately. He should still do life while getting psychiatric support.
The kids are in the custody of his parents. Probably part of the reason why she doesn't want to pursue charges against him. Such a sad story but I'm glad to hear that she and the kids survived such an act of cruelty and I hope he spends the rest of his life locked up like the monster he is. 😢
@@Karen-mi3yz Seriously. Distance youself from those demon seeds and the grandparents need supervision visits and that demon needs to go to the electric chair!!!!!!!
This one hits close to home for me. My Dad intentionally drove me and my family off a cliff in Brazil when I was 3 and my brother was 6. My mom was also 8 months pregnant with my brother. We all survived but my Mom broke her back and pelvis went into labor and almost died (she still has back problems and is lucky to be walking) She wasn’t wearing a seatbelt because she was so big and landed at the bottom of the cliff. My Dad was never charged my Mom never pursued anything and no one got in trouble. My dad would go on to drive us into a tree and also try to put us on fire. He wasn’t a great guy but we are safe now. I really feel for those kids and pray they get counseling and are kept safe. ❤
Oh my! I’m so so sorry you, your mom and brother had to go through all that you did! I’m so glad all of y’all are safe and I hope everyone is doing okay! ❤️
@@kaycguide after a lot of therapy we’re all doing really well. Feels like he took a lot of our 20’s away too even after my Mom finally left because of all the trauma and PTSD but we’re thriving now! I just wish we had gone into therapy sooner. Mental health and recovery wasn’t really a thing back then.
I really really really hope the wife is able to testify and say exactly what happened in that car. That poor woman AND her children deserve protection from that man.
@@wugira76what a weird question for this story. So am I understanding you correctly? You think he should not go to prison because he needs to provide for his family?
So glad to hear the charges will still be pursued! If I was his wife I'd move far away and tell the kids their father is dead, the scumbag doesn't deserve a family.
Kendall is at a new level of cussing freely and I cannot tell you how much I love it 😂 literally makes me feel like I’m talking to a friend about a case bc that’s 100% how I speak when talking about these crazy, evil ass people and the shit they do
I almost wonder if the police were called 9x to their home because of domestic violence, but then the wife claimed there was a "suspicious person" in the area because she didn't want to press charges against her husband (just like now), but still wanted police protection. 🤷🏾♀️ Heartbreaking story. 💔 Glad everyone survived.
I was thinking the exact same thing. Police on the premises would provide temporary protection. She probably couldn't report him knowing the police would just remove him from the home for 24hrs then he'd be released to go right back home and the consequences of having reported him would be a nightmare.
Facts! No one truly knows what goes on behind closed doors. Just because he seemed nice in the public, doesn't necessarily mean there wasn't something nefarious going on in private
I wouldn't be at all surprised if those police calls weren't actually about a suspicious person but panic calls from Neha regarding her husbands actions. If she told him that she wanted to leave with the kids or he got that impression then it's also entirely possible that this turned into a "if I can't have you" scenario with the added cultural or societal "shame" of divorce/separation.
I thought this too, maybe she wanted police presence to feel safe but didn't want to say the real reason, or maybe she thought the call to the police would put a stop to whatever behaviour her husband was displaying at the time. Some of them were for the alarm going off, maybe she would purposely set the alarm off
Exactly who was the one who said it was a suspicious person? Did anyone else see them? Is there footage of them on camera like there is of the fam in the front of the house? You better make up an excuse or you are gonna get it again or worse kind of thing. Wish the kids were of age to testify.
This entire case SCREAMS narcissistic abuse. The Good Guy doctor, cute little family, charming to all the neighbors... all the manipulation in place. Not to mention, with them being from a culture with very traditional, strict expectations and a strong gender-based power differential, it can very much provide an environment in which a narcissist can thrive. It's heartbreaking but not surprising that the wife is not wanting to press charges. It's entirely possible that she's getting NO support from the family, and that everyone is an enabler to her abusive husband. I am glad they don't need her cooperation to go forward with prosecuting this guy. Above all else, I hope those kids are okay and STAY okay.
Yes. I’m from the small town this occurred in and it’s a small but very rich area. Silicon Valley is one of those places that’s growing rapidly, booming with money, but isnt in the public eye too much. All I’m saying is I had a lot of friends with rich weird as fuck families
I feel there is also a cultural aspect of Neha not wanting to press charges. In a lot of Indian families it’s usually the woman/wife who is usually blamed for everything, so she is probably not getting any support whatsoever. Sons/husbands are held at a pedestal and therefore a lot of behaviours are overlooked
my thoughts exactly. i'm not indian, i'm SE asian, but patriarchy is ridiculously strong in asian families, even in asian american households. women/girls will always get blamed no matter what. older relatives might even tell her to forgive him and not divorce. ofc, we can't ignore how the kids are also with HIS parents. there are just so many factors that would have affected her decision, besides the abuse
Especially considering he's a doctor,a respected in his neighborhood and has a 'perfect person' image, it would be 10x more difficult for Neha to come out and press charges because you know for a fact both of their families would stop her. Also there's a huge stigma regarding divorce esp when you're a woman you will be forced to live w your abuser forever. I just hope the victims are safe
I can’t help but relate this to the Chris Watts murders and how he seemed like the “perfect dad” and one day snapped. I feel so horrible for the family, I’m glad they were okay 💗
Chris didn’t one day snap. Tf are you talking about?? He had been engaging in behaviors and activities up to the murders that would show something like that could happen.. he was never okay, he was never right in the head. He didn’t snap, he knew what he was doing and didn’t think he’d get caught
I don’t know, I didn’t know anything about the Watts case until recently. You can definitely start to see cracks appearing in the marriage (all by Chris) if you just look. I think it’s so extremely rare for a murder like that, people tended to ignore the signs. Both are absolutely devastating.
They live not far from me… this is insane! Thanks, Kendall for always being so respectful, truthful and complete in your cases. What a crazy case! Can’t wait for your eventual follow up
I hope the judge sees through Neha not wanting to press charges against her attempted murder. The wife not wanting to press charges against this guy who tried to kill her and her kids is so unusually common. I know it's to avoid prosecution, these victims have dealt with enough but it's for their own good and for the sake of others. I hope she can recover. Let the judge ignore that and go through with the case. Prosecutors, however, intend to proceed with charges, despite those wishes. I'm glad. 6/12/2023 is his next court date
It has been hinted in the news that she does not want to press charges because it would negatively effect her financially to have him not be able to be a doctor anymore. I mean, I get it. But come on! He tried to kill the wife and children!
The fact they survived is a miracle. I hope the mother takes this as a “second chance” and relocates far far away with her children. I am super claustrophobic & just thinking about being in this situation would cause an extreme panic attack!
@@anniem.670 she said in the video she didn’t wanna press charges, that doesn’t mean she took him back. the also doesn’t mean he won’t get charged, they’re still going to charge him he did attempt murder
this has always been one of my random fears in the car especially if the person driving is in a bad mood. I can’t imagine it actually happening, that’s so scary
Same. My dad has always had an awful temper and I remember being so afraid anytime I rode in the car with him when I was younger. He would speed and swerve through traffic sometimes, wether because we’d “make him mad” or because of road rage that had nothing to do with us. I thank the universe that my family and I were kept safe and he never did this, but he was definitely more than capable on several occasions throughout my childhood. I feel so bad for those kids and the wife because that kind of trauma is hard to live with.
I think the fact that the children are staying with his family is an interesting choice and part of the reason she won't press charges. Relationships can be so complex and some people offer a lot of grace in situations that they should not. Hopefully she can cut ties one day.
I don't think that's an issue. I believe he is inicent till proven guilty. The parents have as much right as her do. They have money maybe hers do not. Sad fact just cause she said he did it doesn't make it true does it?
Many news articles hinted that she doesn't want him charged because it would negatively effect her financially for him to not be able to work anymore. If that is true, it makes me feel all sorts of ways. If my husband did this, how could I ever forgive him for trying to kill our children? Those kids lives are more important than the husband's earning potential.
@@jcmjcm1945 why the weird conspiracy theory people SAW HIM drive that car off the cliff without trying to break and he was definitely the ones driving it, I could literally say an alien push that car off a cliff with special invisible power rays anything obviously can be true or not true but there's literal proof he did it it's not up for debate if he did its for debate the why he did it
I also wondered why the children were with his family and not her or her family. There has to be more to that. I wonder if that was a consideration in denying bail - would his parents really keep him away from the children if he was out on bail.
Thank goodness for those car seats; it's a miracle those babies are safe. Hopefully the fact that her babies survived will help in their mom's healing. I can't imagine what was going through all their heads. Sending her and her babies all the love.
SO thankful that Neha and the children are okay 🥺, I can’t imagine what she must be going through to not want to press charges. I wonder if that’s the rest of the family telling her not to 😔. It’s so sad either way
@@kheventplanner I don't agree with her especially since children are involved.I didn't want to press charges on 2 occasions and eventually the state took it into their own hands which now I am greatful for but I remember being angry back then. In the time and situation it's hard to see.
one thing i really love about kendall is that when i dont understand why a victim does certain things (i.e. neha not filing charges) she always explains things from the victims perspective and it’s honestly opened my mind up a lot.
Not a conversation most likely Probably shock, lots of groaning and grumbling, crying, screaming to check if the children were alive. The parents suffered broken bones and other bruised , critical injuries.
When its either 1) a severe case like this or 2) a repeat offender, meaning one spouse keeps calling 911 for domestic violence and there is evidence, The state should 100% step in and press charges if the victim refuses to. Just so insane this case and what a miracle they survived thank the lord.
im glad they do step in and press charges bc minor kids lives were put in danger and he could’ve continued to hurt them or kill them if he’d been let go.
In some states the victim does not have a choice. The offender is prosecuted no matter what. Colorado being one of those states. My sister was a victim of DV, living in CO at the time. I was able to talk very briefly with her young daughter and only asked yes and no questions. I notified authorities out there and child protective services as well. I let my niece know that she was going to be safe very soon and that her mommy would be ok. By the grace of God my sister survived and we brought and her children back home. He was only a stepdad to them. He was arrested and spent time in jail out there and we never saw him again.
I’m so glad you covered this case. When it first happened I was absolutely bamboozled. But with the evidence and history you discussed, I think I’m seeing a clearer picture. I’m glad the wife and kids are safe. They deserve justice
As a survivor of domestic abuse it’s been 10 years since I left, the thought of pressing charges against my abuser causes my fight, flight, freeze and appease to flare up like crazy. My chest runs cold. I wouldn’t do it even after 10 years. Even with all the problems my body has now. Thank you for being so kind to this women as a victim. It’s so important that these things are said.
Considering they were in a Tesla I’m not surprised they have evidence to prove without a doubt he did it on purpose. Tesla’s record every little thing. So thankful they survived. Hope the “father” gets what he deserves. Sending all the peace and love to the mother and two children.
The kids being in the custody of the grandparents doesn’t sit well with me. A lot of times abuse like this, especially in foreign households, is caused by generational trauma. I’m worried those kids still aren’t safe
I wouldn’t say it’s specifically a foreign family issue abuse tends to run in all kinds of families. But I also don’t understand either, I even thought that might be part of the reason why she has decided not to press charges.
Being a South Asian myself, I worry about the kids as well. I don't have kids yet but if I have them one day, I don't want the grandparents around my kids because they're abusive asf.
What a relief they’re still charging him regardless of his wife’s opinion because he would likely try again if given the chance! & those kids need to be protected from that monster.
I was surprised he pleaded not guilty until I heard their children are staying with his parents …he knows he has back up how sad, I hope his wife heals and receives some clarity for her children’s sake -domestic violence is so psychologically damaging 💔
Kendall you are seriously the only crime person I watch. Your voice is so soothing and youre so good at making us feel emotions and things. You're an awesome creator!
Yes!!!! I listen to Kendall on my way to work almost everyday because her voice and approach soothes my soul and mental. Thank you Kendall stay blessed 😊
Most of the time in Indian household, we’re taught (especially women) to “just deal with it” or “this happens in very marriage” or “what will people say” that could very well be the reason why Neha didn’t press charges for domestic abuse.
That is just horrible. In this case specifically the whole world already knows about it. So what harm would pressing charges really do for the reputation? He should be more embarrassed than her.
one of the best people in the true crime community on youtube :( a literal heart of gold that shines through the on screen persona. i hope you never doubt just how important your presence in this community is. everyone who creates content of this genre has a lesson to learn from you, and how you seamlessly convey an important message with the utmost respect for the victims involved. you deserve all the success in the world ❤️
100%. She is my favorite. She tells the stories and speaks about the cases with so much studying research beforehand, knowledge, and accuracy but she also doesn’t lose the humanity. The way she honors victims and their families and what not
thank you kendall for covering this Indian American case. when this was first heard in our country everybody trash talked the family :( ty for being so kind
I was wondering if it’s accepted in your culture to seek mental health treatment. (Please forgive me if that sounds awkward but, it sounds to me to be a mental health problem, not a domestic one. Maybe his wife has dealt with his delusions and that’s why she won’t press charges?)
My hubs only threatened to drive himself off a bridge during his ptsd episodes. I eventually called the crisis line once I learned of it and they helped him get a therapist at no cost. Sertraline and adhd meds have helped him so so much after finding the right med mix. His true personality shined again.
Andddd that’s how you know he’s not a sociopath. He was struggling HARD with mental health issues. He wanted HIS life gone, not yours. I’m so so so so so happy to hear it going to well for you❤️ I don’t know what his ptsd is from, but from a medically retired marine, please let him know he stands as a reminder that life CAN ABSOLUTELY GET BETTER. I hope you know how amazing you are for doing what you did to save his life. Bless your family, and may nothing but happiness and peace follow you for the rest of your days hun❤️
I just want to say thank you to Kendall rae for spreading the Skylar neese petition. Rachel Shoaf doesn't deserve to be out on the streets again since skylar never got to come home.
I remember this case over 10 years ago I was in southern West Virginia at the time I just some podcasts on it within the last week my point is whoever has the ability to sign this petition do it Skylar didn't deserve to lose her life the way she did the monsters who did this should never be out on the streets again thanks this case has really affected me personally I am from North East Ohio living in Pennsylvania at the time I remember this case when it broke and the aftermath of it is my point
Thank you for researching this! My bf and I actually watched the rescue from the next beach south on our route north , that cliff is insanely steep and it is unbelievable that they survived. What a story I’m glad mom and kids are safe
I’ve been in a DV marriage and I understand her not wanting to press charges. I didn’t press charges against my ex husband, but I wish I had. She and her children deserve justice.
That's not what this is... If she was a victim to the extent that this video is trying to portray .... There is no need to protect him any further he's behind bars facing life... We shouldn't jump to the conclusion that this is an incredibly weak and stupid woman .. she's not
@@juttamedina4183 Thats how Indian marriages work. Google maybe on how girls parents become absent from their life once they get married and guys parents think they are slave owners.
I watched my poor mom go through an abusive relationship for 14 years with my step dad, and it’s a cycle, they are afraid of retaliation and afraid that they will be alone and none will ever believe them. I hope he gets charged too the max! And I hope his wife speaks out for the sake of her kids, she is protecting him, but at what cost?
Hi Kendall Rae. As being a past victim of CDV, no one should be a victim of domestic violence. Hopefully for her kid's sake, she'll find a safe permanent escape plan. I did & I'm safe & can actually sleep at night without being afraid of losing my life to a creepy psycho. See you on the next video, peace, love, Janine Smiley🤗😇😎😀😍🏡🚗🚘⌚🛋🌟🌠🌚
@@benice2998 He tried to murder his entire family. It's not much of a stretch to say he was likely abusing them too. He clearly wanted to kill them all and himself, as is the case with many family annihilators.
@@benice2998 because he drove them off the cliff! Also it’s been hinted at by police that there was domestic violence involved before this incident. Did you even watch the whole video? If you did, didn’t your heat what his charges r and what the detectives said?
To me, the saddest thing is that mum won't press charges to protect her children. The children deserve to know what happened in the future. I realise that abuse is complex and I totally get why it would be easier and less traumatic to move past this event, but she owes it to the kids, who don't have a voice, to prosecute. He needs to be accountable for what he did to the kids, as well as his wife. I hope he gets all he deserves.
Because pressing charges does nothing. Restraining orders do nothing. Imagine she presses charges and he gets off. Then what? She has absolutely signed off the lives of herself and her children. Next time he won’t let the survive. Her pressing charges means NOTHING. The state doing so AND PUTTING HIM AWAY is the only way they will be safe.
You have to understand domestic abuse to really get anything. If you don’t, then you don’t. That’s like saying I would never have done this or that. Put up with this or that. She is not to blame.. ONLY he is ! Period.
I remember hearing about this case when this transpired. It is a miracle that the entire family survived the husband driving them over a cliff! I really hope that his wife and children receive the justice that they deserve.
The amount of relief I felt when I saw that it was attempted murder in the thumbnail instead of murder is immense. I’m so glad the family is okay and I hope the husband gets the maximum sentence possible.
As a survivor, I can't tell you how much I appreciate hearing you say that it isn't appropriate to tell a victim what we should or shouldn't do. When your perpetrator is someone who was such a huge part of your life, it is far more complicated than anyone on the outside can ever imagine.
True, but that’s why it’s very important to prosecute this case. What he did was insane and horrific, and her fear of retaliation if she pressed charges might keep her from wanting him to face justice. But that’s where the law should take over, with or without her consent.
I can't imagine being trapped in the car with someone who just tried to kill me and my kids waiting on rescue to come. She must have been so scared. I wonder what he did/said after they realized they survived.
@@Xesxs omggg I wonder what happened leading up to/ DURING the crash..!!? what was said 🥺😳 poor kids and Neha were def terrified, confused, thinking they were gonna die fs!! awful):
i’ve been wanting to know more about this story as my family has been talking about it for a while since it’s in our area. This story has reassured us that we could possibly go through something horrible like this and still survive (we have the same exact car, color model ect) Can’t believe someone would do something like this and why! i’m only 12 and am still interested in these stories.
I think it’s great how Kendall is so great at seeing things from the perspective of the victim. I think she is a very beautiful, strong woman inside and out. I’m sure the wife was 100% a victim of domestic abuse and that’s why she doesn’t want to press charges against her husband because she doesn’t want him to be upset with her or whatever else. Sending her and her children prayers ❤
It's possible there was domestic abuse. It's also possible the husband was severely depressed and held onto some cultural beliefs about honor and families being better off dead than living with dishonor. If the wife is familiar with such beliefs, and recognizes that her husband was so severely depressed that he tried to end his life and the lives of his wife and children, she may simply want him to get treatment rather than be punished. We don't know.
I work for a major radiology company, we picked up the site this radiologist worked for around the time this happened. It was so weird coming into a place that something so dark happened around.
Yoooo. I live in Pacifica, and I remember when this happened. All of us were in total shock. I did not think it would be this big to hit Kendall. Thank you for bringing it to our channel.
@@terrigaines1812 no person in their right mind will try to kill their beautiful family. So anyone who wants to kill themselves and their family is mentally sick. And I'm not saying he doesn't deserve to be punished.
Hearing at the end that they are all with Dharmesh’s family says something about why she is not pressing charges. He is allowed contact yet she’s with his family, poor woman.
I'm watching from 🇳🇦 Namibia. You are so respectful even towards everyone. Your voice is really soothing. You are a blessing to the true crime community. Thank you for the work you do to help every single person you can. Your Merch is beautiful, and you are too❤
I have seen a lot of stories lately coming out on the abuse Indian and southern Asian women face. It’s kept quiet and often the spouse family and even their own family hides it and tell the women they can speak on it. It saddens me to know they will be disowned or shunned in their families and communities if they try to leave or get help 😢
Yes it is true. Our culture expects you to just deal with the abuse and not leave the person. However, times are changing now and more cases are becoming brought to light.
So you think people outside of community are immune to abuse ? It's a cycle it's the same for everyone no matter your race or colour or whatever you identify as
Absolutely heartbreaking. A miracle they are still alive. Living with the fact that your dad/husband tried to kill you is so incredibly traumatic. Pray they are able to heal and get helpful therapy and support. As a side note, this makes me think the Teslas are built really well.
@@benice2998 Right. People are ready to lock him up and throw away the key with very minimal evidence, much less before he's even been tried. I absolutely can see a big company doing whatever they can to avoid tarnishing their reputation.
This says a lot about not only carseat safety but about how well that Tesla was built. My heart goes out to his wife, kids, & even the grandparents. Hopefully in the years to come Neha & the kids will get professional help so that they can process and heal.
I’m from Pasadena. This story was so heartbreaking, but I’m so happy everyone survived. And that he can sit and rot in prison for the rest of his life.
The woman is the winner, Neha is the winner, i am 99% sure she abused him mentally so much and brought him to this point, now she and all the woman will be happy that he will rot in jail.
Thank you for keeping us informed on these cases. I am happy (also) to see your kitties finally figured out their tree stand... God bless you and your sweet family.
I would absolutely love it if you could cover what happened to Lisa Edwards. She was treated horribly by the cops and died in the back seat of the cop car I think from a stroke. What crazy is the whole thing is filmed! Thanks for you and your family’s awesome podcast, youtube, and charity work. This is such a fabulous platform to help victims and their family.
I think it would be awesome if she covered a lot of police murders! Maybe do one like once a month or something? Just so she can keep doing it regularly but not do it all at once over and over and over again. I hope that made any sense ha I actually haven’t even heard of the Lisa Edwards case 😭😭
Yes! OMG that was horrific to watch her literal suffering & subsequent death as they mocked her & stripped her of her dignity in the last hours of her life!!!!!
Normally, as a DV survivor myself, I would say no one should tell a victim what they should do, BUT this woman has an OBLIGATION to protect her kids. Period. I think she has a moral obligation as a mother to testify against her husband and hold him accountable, and ensure he never has access to those children again. If a woman doesn't want to hold her abuser accountable, that's their choice, but once the kids are involved, that changes everything. I'd testify and then take my kids far far away from that monster and anyone associated with him.
Why are the kids in his parents custody and not the moms? That may be why she doesn’t want to press charges. If those parents have any type of control. This is so terrifying. I am going to pray for her and the kids. Poor kids talk about a traumatic event.
I hope he thinks about this every minute of every day of his life. I’m so happy Neha and the children survived. They were meant to live beautiful lives. Thank you Kendall for sharing this.
Thanks for always being so caring and thoughtful. I've notice frame dropping in your video, I don't know if it's a recording or editing problem but make sure your frame rates match for both. It's only since you've been on the new setup, so maybe consult with your editor? It may also be an uploading issue. (I'm a film maker and I have encountered this before but I work with editors and more experienced people to help me troubleshoot so sorry I can't offer a better solution myself.)
I noticed this also. The frame rates in the video file and the editing Sequence could definitely be mismatched, or also if the shutter speed of the camera is less than 60 fps (which is possible if the camera settings have been adjusted to the new setup and lighting) it could cause that stuttering as well. I'm totally loving the new setup Kendall! You rock.
Happy early birthday 30th birthday!!🎉 thank you for doing gods work by sharing these real life stories with the public. I’m so glad there were no deaths from that car accident and that both of those children still have their mom.
So crazy! Mrs. Patel was my highschool human anatomy teacher. She was one of my favorite teachers! So sad this all happened but what a miracle. Kendall I'm so glad you covered this story. I absolutely love your videos!
@@Dino-in5sg not at the same time, during different years. These separate people who commented never said they were taught in the same year. And my mother was a teacher in both Primary and High school and taught both Physical Ed and Family Life simultaneously.
The fact that the children and wife survived has got to be one of the most credible stories of divine intervention. God bless that mama and her babies❤
Love the videos and how much passion you have. You truly show how good of a heart and soul you have. In addition to how much you care for the victims and their families.
Hey Kendall, I turned 18 yesterday & now that you dropped this video, it floods back so many memories. I have been watching your videos for years now. You are the absolute best & your videos give me peace. I’m glad it’s you giving me the information i’m interested about. Im not one to comment under videos at all so I hope you see this and smile. ❤️
I am slightly familiar with Devils slide & per a Google result it has taken 30 lives in as many years. When I was growing up in the East Bay (I am 65 now) Devils slide was seasonally on the news as Hwy 1 is prone to land slides especially right there. The land is very unstable taking out sections of Hwy 1, a breathtakingly beautiful sceanic drive. I zoomed in on the shot @ 4:11 and it has changed dramatically. I couldnt figure out how going Northbound he went off at that spot, really as marked impossibe until I arrived @ 10:46. He had to have traveled that a lot perhaps when going to school or just recently to know that weak spot. I hope they had the Tesla 360 cameras but they may have been switched off. BTW great presentation! Love the clips.
The fact that the children were near perfectly fine is an absolute miracle. I hope more people see this as a sign to use carseats.
This is not abnormal. A cop told me that he's seen fatal car crashes where everyone in the car died minus an infant in a bucket seat. I think it's the lower profile of the child plus extra protection from the seat construction.
I think I saw some people say it's because they were in a Tesla too. But idk much about them myself.
Are careseats optional in the US?
@@lauralvw8445 nope
Not true. One of the kids had an overbite
I can’t imagine the relief she felt when the car landed and the kids were okay. I’m so happy Neha and her children are safe and I hope their attempted murderer stays behind bars ♥️
i thought the same thing 😭😭 that poor mother.
@@asmrtpop2676 GTSY, I hope you’re doing well. Yes, I agree with you, I thought of the poor mother and I can’t imagine how she felt when she realised her husband wanted them all dead.
Then why isn’t she pressing charges?
@@alzychoze6591 exactly if someone tried to kill my kids I would be pushing for the death penalty. Makes ya wonder if she was in on it. 🤔 He doesn't deserve any sympathy from her.
@@alzychoze6591 Exactly, she didn't want to press charges
The fact that Dharmesh's parents have custody is what makes me the most mad. How is the no contact order supposed to work? I hope Neha is getting the support she needs and will be able to get her children back. I know how some families can be unsupportive so my inbox is always open x
My thoughts exactly!!! Why are those children not with their mother? Instead with parents of the man who tried to kill them? Crazy.
@@stephanievaughn5597, probably money.
@@stephanievaughn5597 Is she still in the hospital ?
right? it makes the no contact order completely useless
Those families are the worst. Those children have no hope
The mom, Neha, was my old math teacher in high school. I was shocked to see what happened to her and her family. This is just so tragic, glad she and her kids are okay.
@@999JWforever The ❤
@@999JWforever What does thicc mean?
@@origamikami3486 Double-cheeked up...On a Thursday afternoon...Hella ass
@@origamikami3486 It means like fat but in an endearing way. Like “ooo girl you’re so thicc”.
Not sure why THE ABSOLUTE FUCKK he would comment it here though.
@@origamikami3486 big ass and big tits
I have the utmost admiration for those unsung men and women that risk their own lives to repel down cliffs to save people from wrecks and more…that footage is intense.
So true I was just thinking the same. Risking there lives to save others everyday.
They are heroes to say the least.... It's amazing what they do to help people they don't even know... 🙏👏👏👏
Man... can you imagine trying to off your family driving off a 200ft cliff and you're all fine so now you gotta chill with the person while waiting to be rescued. Awkward.
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💀 this is funny but bit funny 😭
lmaooooo go away 😭
Being Indian and knowing how family and community works, I feel like another thing could be that she was pressured by either her family or her in-laws to not press charges and made to feel guilty if she did… definitely have seen things like this first hand in the community/extended family.
this is horrible. 💔
I don’t even think culture has much of a role here. There’s no evidence of a history of domestic abuse either, even though people like that theory. I think she just recognises that at the centre of this all is a very ill man and a serious suicide attempt. And he probably thought it was easier to take them all in that moment than force his wife and kids to have the rest of their lives destroyed by tragedy. It would be sad but it would be over in an instant and the rest of the world would move on. This is how minds work with mental illness, so with all the world’s hatred on top, it has probably softened her heart towards him unfortunately. He should still do life while getting psychiatric support.
@@msmiami212 Totally agree with you
Thanks for highlighting this important lens. I think sometimes people forget class, race/caste and gender are often at play in these cases.
It's really a moot point whether she wants to press charges or not. He allegedly tried to murder his kids and that alone would bring charges.
I could never recover as a kid knowing my father tried to do that. This is so sad & sickening 😢
A ride like that I would never see that man😢
would change the whole trajectory of my entire life
Unfortunately they have no choice about the matter
Thankfully they are still young. Children tend to be very resilient. Hopefully they will get into therapy to deal with any issues.
This is normal in their culture
The kids are in the custody of his parents. Probably part of the reason why she doesn't want to pursue charges against him. Such a sad story but I'm glad to hear that she and the kids survived such an act of cruelty and I hope he spends the rest of his life locked up like the monster he is. 😢
If that’s true then absolutely.
Why are kids in custody of dad's parents?
Is this normal in California. Where I live the kids could not be with him or anybody from his family for this same reason.
They're probably pressuring Neha to not press charges. Indian culture will ignore abuse by the man.
@@Karen-mi3yz Seriously. Distance youself from those demon seeds and the grandparents need supervision visits and that demon needs to go to the electric chair!!!!!!!
This one hits close to home for me. My Dad intentionally drove me and my family off a cliff in Brazil when I was 3 and my brother was 6. My mom was also 8 months pregnant with my brother. We all survived but my Mom broke her back and pelvis went into labor and almost died (she still has back problems and is lucky to be walking) She wasn’t wearing a seatbelt because she was so big and landed at the bottom of the cliff. My Dad was never charged my Mom never pursued anything and no one got in trouble. My dad would go on to drive us into a tree and also try to put us on fire. He wasn’t a great guy but we are safe now. I really feel for those kids and pray they get counseling and are kept safe. ❤
Terrifying. I'm so sorry you went through that.
Oh my! I’m so so sorry you, your mom and brother had to go through all that you did! I’m so glad all of y’all are safe and I hope everyone is doing okay! ❤️
@@kaycguide after a lot of therapy we’re all doing really well. Feels like he took a lot of our 20’s away too even after my Mom finally left because of all the trauma and PTSD but we’re thriving now! I just wish we had gone into therapy sooner. Mental health and recovery wasn’t really a thing back then.
Good Lord 😢I am so sorry you went through such trauma. Happy you are all doing well ❤
@@A358M thank you. ❤️
I really really really hope the wife is able to testify and say exactly what happened in that car. That poor woman AND her children deserve protection from that man.
And then what? Are you gonna be the one providing for the kids after he goes to prison?
@@wugira76 seriously? Are you suggesting it would be better if he doesn’t go to prison? You good bro?
@@wugira76 oh I’m sure the mother will provide enough for her babies. And if she remarries, another man will be 10x better than that piece of sh!t
@@wugira76 are you okay in the head??
@@wugira76what a weird question for this story. So am I understanding you correctly? You think he should not go to prison because he needs to provide for his family?
So glad to hear the charges will still be pursued! If I was his wife I'd move far away and tell the kids their father is dead, the scumbag doesn't deserve a family.
Yes , because he could but another attempt on their lives😢😢😢😢😢😢💔💔💔💔🙏🏽😔
Apparently his parents took the kids from the mom. She can't take them anywhere because she doesn't have the kids
Can she though? Before he's charged some idiots will say neither n take kids n leave. Scary
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Kendall is at a new level of cussing freely and I cannot tell you how much I love it 😂 literally makes me feel like I’m talking to a friend about a case bc that’s 100% how I speak when talking about these crazy, evil ass people and the shit they do
Same! Fuck politeness, sometimes cuss words just have to happen lol
same especially talking about these pieces of shit
Sameee lol i had to rewind it to make sure I heard right . I’m here for it tho 🙌🏼
Cussing just shows people how low they are. No respect for themselves. No respect for other people.
@@JesusismyRock773 you sound like you have a stick up your ass
I almost wonder if the police were called 9x to their home because of domestic violence, but then the wife claimed there was a "suspicious person" in the area because she didn't want to press charges against her husband (just like now), but still wanted police protection. 🤷🏾♀️ Heartbreaking story. 💔 Glad everyone survived.
I was thinking the exact same thing. Police on the premises would provide temporary protection. She probably couldn't report him knowing the police would just remove him from the home for 24hrs then he'd be released to go right back home and the consequences of having reported him would be a nightmare.
Yes, calling 9 times seems like a lot to report a "suspicious person"!
True, speaking from experience. I did this before.
Good insight
Facts! No one truly knows what goes on behind closed doors. Just because he seemed nice in the public, doesn't necessarily mean there wasn't something nefarious going on in private
The fact that they survived is a miracle! I truly hope this family gets the help they need after this terrible event. All the prayers to them❤
I wouldn't be at all surprised if those police calls weren't actually about a suspicious person but panic calls from Neha regarding her husbands actions. If she told him that she wanted to leave with the kids or he got that impression then it's also entirely possible that this turned into a "if I can't have you" scenario with the added cultural or societal "shame" of divorce/separation.
Nailed it 🎯
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I thought this too, maybe she wanted police presence to feel safe but didn't want to say the real reason, or maybe she thought the call to the police would put a stop to whatever behaviour her husband was displaying at the time. Some of them were for the alarm going off, maybe she would purposely set the alarm off
My thought too
Exactly who was the one who said it was a suspicious person? Did anyone else see them? Is there footage of them on camera like there is of the fam in the front of the house? You better make up an excuse or you are gonna get it again or worse kind of thing. Wish the kids were of age to testify.
As an Indian woman thank you for covering cases from my ethnicity. So much gets swept under the rug and Must be brought to light .🙏🏽
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I agree it's sad and completely unfair it's not right and it's baffling as to why it's like that
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I absolutely agree
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The mother is probably having repetitive nightmares of that tragedy. I hope she’s receiving the help she need.
This entire case SCREAMS narcissistic abuse. The Good Guy doctor, cute little family, charming to all the neighbors... all the manipulation in place. Not to mention, with them being from a culture with very traditional, strict expectations and a strong gender-based power differential, it can very much provide an environment in which a narcissist can thrive. It's heartbreaking but not surprising that the wife is not wanting to press charges. It's entirely possible that she's getting NO support from the family, and that everyone is an enabler to her abusive husband. I am glad they don't need her cooperation to go forward with prosecuting this guy.
Above all else, I hope those kids are okay and STAY okay.
Yes. I’m from the small town this occurred in and it’s a small but very rich area. Silicon Valley is one of those places that’s growing rapidly, booming with money, but isnt in the public eye too much. All I’m saying is I had a lot of friends with rich weird as fuck families
I forgot the cultural implications quite right.
I was thinking the same thing. My ex would lavish others but when it came to me and the kids...o no. It was his way or no way.
100000%
I absolutely agree. He was acting like a great guy, but probably horrible to his family behind doors. Narcs can be highly impulsive.
I feel there is also a cultural aspect of Neha not wanting to press charges. In a lot of Indian families it’s usually the woman/wife who is usually blamed for everything, so she is probably not getting any support whatsoever. Sons/husbands are held at a pedestal and therefore a lot of behaviours are overlooked
That is absolutely true.
my thoughts exactly. i'm not indian, i'm SE asian, but patriarchy is ridiculously strong in asian families, even in asian american households. women/girls will always get blamed no matter what. older relatives might even tell her to forgive him and not divorce. ofc, we can't ignore how the kids are also with HIS parents. there are just so many factors that would have affected her decision, besides the abuse
I agree completely, whatever is bad in the West, it's ten times worse in the East. So sad.
@@orange-ranger7089 what?? The kids are with his parents?? Is her parents not there
Especially considering he's a doctor,a respected in his neighborhood and has a 'perfect person' image, it would be 10x more difficult for Neha to come out and press charges because you know for a fact both of their families would stop her. Also there's a huge stigma regarding divorce esp when you're a woman you will be forced to live w your abuser forever. I just hope the victims are safe
the fact that all 4 of them survived is truly a miracle.
Elon knows his shit
@@DeerDeer777 he absolutely does NOT
@@obbinss calm down
I can’t help but relate this to the Chris Watts murders and how he seemed like the “perfect dad” and one day snapped. I feel so horrible for the family, I’m glad they were okay 💗
Chris didn’t one day snap. Tf are you talking about?? He had been engaging in behaviors and activities up to the murders that would show something like that could happen.. he was never okay, he was never right in the head. He didn’t snap, he knew what he was doing and didn’t think he’d get caught
@@Zzz2x to the general public he seemed like the perfect and happy dad, that’s what they mean
I don’t know, I didn’t know anything about the Watts case until recently. You can definitely start to see cracks appearing in the marriage (all by Chris) if you just look. I think it’s so extremely rare for a murder like that, people tended to ignore the signs. Both are absolutely devastating.
The “perfect dad” image was the facade. He couldn’t keep it up.
He didn’t snap. He was a narcissist, who masked himself as the perfect guy in public.
The fact that the kids had minimal injuries really goes to show how important car seat safety is!!
for real! and what brand?!!!
@@kellyannshuman Tesla 250ft Collision proof car seats!!
That was definitely God's hands wrapped around that vehicle.
@@jessicayingling9511 Amen😔♥️🙏🏽
Absolutely! But I'd say 200+ foot drop and viewing the vehicle it's mainly car design. The photos show the cavity nearly fully intact.
They live not far from me… this is insane! Thanks, Kendall for always being so respectful, truthful and complete in your cases. What a crazy case! Can’t wait for your eventual follow up
Have you ever interacted with them ?
I hope the judge sees through Neha not wanting to press charges against her attempted murder. The wife not wanting to press charges against this guy who tried to kill her and her kids is so unusually common. I know it's to avoid prosecution, these victims have dealt with enough but it's for their own good and for the sake of others. I hope she can recover. Let the judge ignore that and go through with the case. Prosecutors, however, intend to proceed with charges, despite those wishes. I'm glad.
6/12/2023 is his next court date
do you mean june 12th or december 6th?
I agree. Domestic violence victims often are often are afraid to press charges.
It has been hinted in the news that she does not want to press charges because it would negatively effect her financially to have him not be able to be a doctor anymore. I mean, I get it. But come on! He tried to kill the wife and children!
@@tildajonsson6157 in the US the date is written month-day-year, so it’s June 12th ☺️ (I’ve lived here for a decade and still find it confusing!)
@@No-sv6mu I mean, I guess but she'll just have to sue him before he spends everything on a lawyer.
The fact they survived is a miracle. I hope the mother takes this as a “second chance” and relocates far far away with her children.
I am super claustrophobic & just thinking about being in this situation would cause an extreme panic attack!
i’m not claustrophobic but of course same
Me too!
I heard she took him back right after the fact and didn't wanna press charges
@@anniem.670 she said in the video she didn’t wanna press charges, that doesn’t mean she took him back. the also doesn’t mean he won’t get charged, they’re still going to charge him he did attempt murder
this has always been one of my random fears in the car especially if the person driving is in a bad mood. I can’t imagine it actually happening, that’s so scary
Same. My dad has always had an awful temper and I remember being so afraid anytime I rode in the car with him when I was younger. He would speed and swerve through traffic sometimes, wether because we’d “make him mad” or because of road rage that had nothing to do with us. I thank the universe that my family and I were kept safe and he never did this, but he was definitely more than capable on several occasions throughout my childhood. I feel so bad for those kids and the wife because that kind of trauma is hard to live with.
Usually they just take a left into oncoming traffic.
I think the fact that the children are staying with his family is an interesting choice and part of the reason she won't press charges. Relationships can be so complex and some people offer a lot of grace in situations that they should not. Hopefully she can cut ties one day.
I don't think that's an issue. I believe he is inicent till proven guilty. The parents have as much right as her do. They have money maybe hers do not. Sad fact just cause she said he did it doesn't make it true does it?
Many news articles hinted that she doesn't want him charged because it would negatively effect her financially for him to not be able to work anymore. If that is true, it makes me feel all sorts of ways. If my husband did this, how could I ever forgive him for trying to kill our children? Those kids lives are more important than the husband's earning potential.
@@jcmjcm1945 why the weird conspiracy theory people SAW HIM drive that car off the cliff without trying to break and he was definitely the ones driving it, I could literally say an alien push that car off a cliff with special invisible power rays anything obviously can be true or not true but there's literal proof he did it it's not up for debate if he did its for debate the why he did it
I also wondered why the children were with his family and not her or her family. There has to be more to that. I wonder if that was a consideration in denying bail - would his parents really keep him away from the children if he was out on bail.
Did the authorities talk to the children? They usually know more than adults give them credit for.
Thank goodness for those car seats; it's a miracle those babies are safe. Hopefully the fact that her babies survived will help in their mom's healing. I can't imagine what was going through all their heads. Sending her and her babies all the love.
SO thankful that Neha and the children are okay 🥺, I can’t imagine what she must be going through to not want to press charges. I wonder if that’s the rest of the family telling her not to 😔. It’s so sad either way
As a DV survivor I understand Neha not wanting to press charges. I hope she finds strength and for her and those babies to leave the situation 😊❤
Agreed Im a DV survior too, i hope she gets the help n courage she needs to leave
Well,he’s in jail now. So hopefully he won’t be getting out and she won’t be able to take him back.
DV survivor here and I'm sorry but I disagree. It made me wanna vomit hearing that part honestly.
@@kheventplanner I don't agree with her especially since children are involved.I didn't want to press charges on 2 occasions and eventually the state took it into their own hands which now I am greatful for but I remember being angry back then. In the time and situation it's hard to see.
@@kheventplanner i understand but it makes me sick too. it’s all messed up 😕
one thing i really love about kendall is that when i dont understand why a victim does certain things (i.e. neha not filing charges) she always explains things from the victims perspective and it’s honestly opened my mind up a lot.
That is confusing me as well... because i think she was getting out of the car while simultaneously saying her husband did this on purpose
Ive been in nehas shoes and it didnt surprise me thst she didnt press charges
Can you imagine the situation and conversation in the car after the crash but before they were rescued… those poor kids. Glad everyone was safe❤
Not a conversation most likely Probably shock, lots of groaning and grumbling, crying, screaming to check if the children were alive. The parents suffered broken bones and other bruised , critical injuries.
When its either 1) a severe case like this or 2) a repeat offender, meaning one spouse keeps calling 911 for domestic violence and there is evidence, The state should 100% step in and press charges if the victim refuses to. Just so insane this case and what a miracle they survived thank the lord.
im glad they do step in and press charges bc minor kids lives were put in danger and he could’ve continued to hurt them or kill them if he’d been let go.
In some states the victim does not have a choice. The offender is prosecuted no matter what. Colorado being one of those states. My sister was a victim of DV, living in CO at the time. I was able to talk very briefly with her young daughter and only asked yes and no questions. I notified authorities out there and child protective services as well. I let my niece know that she was going to be safe very soon and that her mommy would be ok. By the grace of God my sister survived and we brought and her children back home. He was only a stepdad to them. He was arrested and spent time in jail out there and we never saw him again.
In my country DV is a public crime, meaning any person could press charges.
I’m so glad you covered this case. When it first happened I was absolutely bamboozled. But with the evidence and history you discussed, I think I’m seeing a clearer picture. I’m glad the wife and kids are safe. They deserve justice
As a survivor of domestic abuse it’s been 10 years since I left, the thought of pressing charges against my abuser causes my fight, flight, freeze and appease to flare up like crazy. My chest runs cold. I wouldn’t do it even after 10 years. Even with all the problems my body has now.
Thank you for being so kind to this women as a victim. It’s so important that these things are said.
Just glad she doesn't have to n he'll still be put away most likely... Esp if the kids r with his family.
Considering they were in a Tesla I’m not surprised they have evidence to prove without a doubt he did it on purpose. Tesla’s record every little thing. So thankful they survived. Hope the “father” gets what he deserves. Sending all the peace and love to the mother and two children.
And tesla doesn’t exactly have a stellar history when it comes to its “assisted drive” function.
The kids being in the custody of the grandparents doesn’t sit well with me. A lot of times abuse like this, especially in foreign households, is caused by generational trauma. I’m worried those kids still aren’t safe
I wouldn’t say it’s specifically a foreign family issue abuse tends to run in all kinds of families. But I also don’t understand either, I even thought that might be part of the reason why she has decided not to press charges.
Exactly what I thought too. Why can’t the kids go to Neha’s parents? I feel for all of them. I hope Neha gets the help she needs to see the light.
I just mean the shame and cultural pressure of not speaking out is what fuels it to be more commonly hidden in our communities, but yeah I agree
"Foreign household" meaning what?
Being a South Asian myself, I worry about the kids as well. I don't have kids yet but if I have them one day, I don't want the grandparents around my kids because they're abusive asf.
What a relief they’re still charging him regardless of his wife’s opinion because he would likely try again if given the chance! & those kids need to be protected from that monster.
I was surprised he pleaded not guilty until I heard their children are staying with his parents …he knows he has back up how sad, I hope his wife heals and receives some clarity for her children’s sake -domestic violence is so psychologically damaging 💔
Kendall you are seriously the only crime person I watch. Your voice is so soothing and youre so good at making us feel emotions and things. You're an awesome creator!
Yes!!!! I listen to Kendall on my way to work almost everyday because her voice and approach soothes my soul and mental. Thank you Kendall stay blessed 😊
I haven't heard of Cristina randall! I'll have to check her out!
What about Mr. Ballen though? He's also amazing 😊
@@michellestella7477 never heard of a man true crimwr
Yes her voice is so soothing. I adore her. Also check out mike from That Chapter. He’s amazing as well
Most of the time in Indian household, we’re taught (especially women) to “just deal with it” or “this happens in very marriage” or “what will people say” that could very well be the reason why Neha didn’t press charges for domestic abuse.
That is just horrible. In this case specifically the whole world already knows about it. So what harm would pressing charges really do for the reputation? He should be more embarrassed than her.
one of the best people in the true crime community on youtube :( a literal heart of gold that shines through the on screen persona. i hope you never doubt just how important your presence in this community is. everyone who creates content of this genre has a lesson to learn from you, and how you seamlessly convey an important message with the utmost respect for the victims involved. you deserve all the success in the world ❤️
I agree 100 percent
100%. She is my favorite. She tells the stories and speaks about the cases with so much studying research beforehand, knowledge, and accuracy but she also doesn’t lose the humanity. The way she honors victims and their families and what not
thank you kendall for covering this Indian American case. when this was first heard in our country everybody trash talked the family :( ty for being so kind
Same!
Same! ❤
Our own people are the first to attack us when something horrible happens. Sad to say
@@dejuhvu1793 That's normal. People are afraid to be judged by associations.
I was wondering if it’s accepted in your culture to seek mental health treatment. (Please forgive me if that sounds awkward but, it sounds to me to be a mental health problem, not a domestic one. Maybe his wife has dealt with his delusions and that’s why she won’t press charges?)
As an South Asian I can say our community is very good at being hypocritical to avoid tarnishing the “ perfect “ image!!
I agree.
No matter what happens with the case, I pray that those sweet kids recover physically and mentally.
Not with that mom
@@lubdid You seem lovely
@@lubdid Why do you feel the need to say something like that?
@@lubdid you mean dad*
@@selinkorkmaz1019 I mean both
Kendall always catches me with her videos while I'm doing laundry, like yes, thankyou!
yessss
Lol same....
Same but with me it's the dishes 😂😂
My hubs only threatened to drive himself off a bridge during his ptsd episodes. I eventually called the crisis line once I learned of it and they helped him get a therapist at no cost. Sertraline and adhd meds have helped him so so much after finding the right med mix. His true personality shined again.
Andddd that’s how you know he’s not a sociopath. He was struggling HARD with mental health issues. He wanted HIS life gone, not yours. I’m so so so so so happy to hear it going to well for you❤️ I don’t know what his ptsd is from, but from a medically retired marine, please let him know he stands as a reminder that life CAN ABSOLUTELY GET BETTER. I hope you know how amazing you are for doing what you did to save his life. Bless your family, and may nothing but happiness and peace follow you for the rest of your days hun❤️
I think it's concerning and strange that Dharmesh's parents have custody of the kids when it was their son that tried to kill them.
Right? Why the hell aren't they with their mother or mother's parents?
Please don’t hate on the family ❤
It could be a cultural ‘understanding’
I’d be interested in the reasoning behind that.
I was wondering that myself...why doesn’t the children’s mother have custody of them?
I just want to say thank you to Kendall rae for spreading the Skylar neese petition. Rachel Shoaf doesn't deserve to be out on the streets again since skylar never got to come home.
I remember this case over 10 years ago I was in southern West Virginia at the time I just some podcasts on it within the last week my point is whoever has the ability to sign this petition do it Skylar didn't deserve to lose her life the way she did the monsters who did this should never be out on the streets again thanks this case has really affected me personally I am from North East Ohio living in Pennsylvania at the time I remember this case when it broke and the aftermath of it is my point
@@markbenson-ly6le everyone better sign.
Where’s the petition so I can sign as well
Could you please link the petition? I want to sign it, everyone in my family will. She doesn't deserve to see the light of day.
@@marinakhalil7775 where is the petition?
Thank you for researching this! My bf and I actually watched the rescue from the next beach south on our route north , that cliff is insanely steep and it is unbelievable that they survived. What a story I’m glad mom and kids are safe
I’ve been in a DV marriage and I understand her not wanting to press charges. I didn’t press charges against my ex husband, but I wish I had. She and her children deserve justice.
That's not what this is... If she was a victim to the extent that this video is trying to portray .... There is no need to protect him any further he's behind bars facing life... We shouldn't jump to the conclusion that this is an incredibly weak and stupid woman .. she's not
I dont understand why the choice is on her. The state needs to lock him away.
few things I do not understand. first of all, why are the children not with their mother, and why are they with HIS parents
and not hers.
@@juttamedina4183 Thats how Indian marriages work. Google maybe on how girls parents become absent from their life once they get married and guys parents think they are slave owners.
I watched my poor mom go through an abusive relationship for 14 years with my step dad, and it’s a cycle, they are afraid of retaliation and afraid that they will be alone and none will ever believe them. I hope he gets charged too the max! And I hope his wife speaks out for the sake of her kids, she is protecting him, but at what cost?
Hi Kendall Rae. As being a past victim of CDV, no one should be a victim of domestic violence. Hopefully for her kid's sake, she'll find a safe permanent escape plan. I did & I'm safe & can actually sleep at night without being afraid of losing my life to a creepy psycho. See you on the next video, peace, love, Janine Smiley🤗😇😎😀😍🏡🚗🚘⌚🛋🌟🌠🌚
What makes you think that he is abuser? He was in that car!
@@benice2998 He tried to murder his entire family. It's not much of a stretch to say he was likely abusing them too. He clearly wanted to kill them all and himself, as is the case with many family annihilators.
@@benice2998 please shut your mouth, your stupidity is showing
@@benice2998 because he drove them off the cliff! Also it’s been hinted at by police that there was domestic violence involved before this incident. Did you even watch the whole video? If you did, didn’t your heat what his charges r and what the detectives said?
To me, the saddest thing is that mum won't press charges to protect her children. The children deserve to know what happened in the future. I realise that abuse is complex and I totally get why it would be easier and less traumatic to move past this event, but she owes it to the kids, who don't have a voice, to prosecute. He needs to be accountable for what he did to the kids, as well as his wife. I hope he gets all he deserves.
Because pressing charges does nothing. Restraining orders do nothing. Imagine she presses charges and he gets off. Then what? She has absolutely signed off the lives of herself and her children. Next time he won’t let the survive. Her pressing charges means NOTHING. The state doing so AND PUTTING HIM AWAY is the only way they will be safe.
couldn't said it better I agree
You have to understand domestic abuse to really get anything. If you don’t, then you don’t. That’s like saying I would never have done this or that. Put up with this or that. She is not to blame.. ONLY he is ! Period.
I remember hearing about this case when this transpired. It is a miracle that the entire family survived the husband driving them over a cliff! I really hope that his wife and children receive the justice that they deserve.
This should be in a Tesla safety commercial wow - thanks for this Kendall I needed this today ❤
So glad the children were okay, and their mother. God was with them!
The amount of relief I felt when I saw that it was attempted murder in the thumbnail instead of murder is immense. I’m so glad the family is okay and I hope the husband gets the maximum sentence possible.
As a survivor, I can't tell you how much I appreciate hearing you say that it isn't appropriate to tell a victim what we should or shouldn't do. When your perpetrator is someone who was such a huge part of your life, it is far more complicated than anyone on the outside can ever imagine.
True, but that’s why it’s very important to prosecute this case. What he did was insane and horrific, and her fear of retaliation if she pressed charges might keep her from wanting him to face justice. But that’s where the law should take over, with or without her consent.
@@denisebenedict6102 I fully agree and am grateful that the law is there to step in when we find ourselves in a situation like that.
except he tried to murder two children.
@@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim congrats on missing the point entirely lol
@@lemonrolls the point is this mother failed to protect her little babies. what’s next- he’s gonna SA the kids and she’ll turn a blind eye then, too.
I can't imagine being trapped in the car with someone who just tried to kill me and my kids waiting on rescue to come. She must have been so scared. I wonder what he did/said after they realized they survived.
In the movie version, she made sure he's not breathing.
The wife reported that he did it intentionally to the EMTs.
@@Xesxs omggg I wonder what happened leading up to/ DURING the crash..!!? what was said 🥺😳 poor kids and Neha were def terrified, confused, thinking they were gonna die fs!! awful):
Imagine the conversation in the car after they all woke up from the impact..I hope these kids and Naha are able to recover ❤😢
I’m not a Tesla Stan, but what an amazing testament to the engineers who developed the vehicle safety mechanisms.
I was thinking the same thing, surprised no one else has pointed this out...
They’re super bottom heavy due to the battery so they don’t tend to flip as easily.
Can i get the manufacturer of those kids car seats too.
As a MY owner I now feel even more protected. Not saying Tesla saved the day but it did play a part In this miracle story
Plenty of people have been killed in tesla crashes . They got lucky
i’ve been wanting to know more about this story as my family has been talking about it for a while since it’s in our area. This story has reassured us that we could possibly go through something horrible like this and still survive (we have the same exact car, color model ect) Can’t believe someone would do something like this and why! i’m only 12 and am still interested in these stories.
I think it’s great how Kendall is so great at seeing things from the perspective of the victim. I think she is a very beautiful, strong woman inside and out. I’m sure the wife was 100% a victim of domestic abuse and that’s why she doesn’t want to press charges against her husband because she doesn’t want him to be upset with her or whatever else. Sending her and her children prayers ❤
i agree, i’m so grateful that she shares this perspective with her viewers!!! ❤
It's possible there was domestic abuse. It's also possible the husband was severely depressed and held onto some cultural beliefs about honor and families being better off dead than living with dishonor. If the wife is familiar with such beliefs, and recognizes that her husband was so severely depressed that he tried to end his life and the lives of his wife and children, she may simply want him to get treatment rather than be punished.
We don't know.
I work for a major radiology company, we picked up the site this radiologist worked for around the time this happened. It was so weird coming into a place that something so dark happened around.
Thanks for covering this case and please give updates. Just so crazy
Yoooo. I live in Pacifica, and I remember when this happened. All of us were in total shock. I did not think it would be this big to hit Kendall. Thank you for bringing it to our channel.
He has to have a major mental health problem because no normal person would do this to their family. So sad but so glad they are all alive. ❤️
I hope you're not saying that's an excuse....
@@terrigaines1812 no person in their right mind will try to kill their beautiful family. So anyone who wants to kill themselves and their family is mentally sick. And I'm not saying he doesn't deserve to be punished.
Hearing at the end that they are all with Dharmesh’s family says something about why she is not pressing charges. He is allowed contact yet she’s with his family, poor woman.
I'm watching from 🇳🇦 Namibia. You are so respectful even towards everyone. Your voice is really soothing. You are a blessing to the true crime community. Thank you for the work you do to help every single person you can. Your Merch is beautiful, and you are too❤
Cool, I don't think I've ever seen the Namibian flag before. It's neat. Have a lovely day.
Just want to say I think this is the most beautiful and serene set up you’ve ever had. Thank you so much !
I have seen a lot of stories lately coming out on the abuse Indian and southern Asian women face. It’s kept quiet and often the spouse family and even their own family hides it and tell the women they can speak on it. It saddens me to know they will be disowned or shunned in their families and communities if they try to leave or get help 😢
Yes it is true. Our culture expects you to just deal with the abuse and not leave the person. However, times are changing now and more cases are becoming brought to light.
I’m not at all surprised she didn’t want to press charges; this happens too much in our community💔
I was about to say the same, that from a cultural aspect she will be under a lot of family and community pressure not to co-operate with the case.
@@byst8729 exactly what I thought
Sad but thats reality. Could be cultural background or/and psychological.
So you think people outside of community are immune to abuse ? It's a cycle it's the same for everyone no matter your race or colour or whatever you identify as
@@notyourbae19 that’s not what they’re saying at all. Fyi you were given two ears and one mouth for a reason
Absolutely heartbreaking. A miracle they are still alive. Living with the fact that your dad/husband tried to kill you is so incredibly traumatic. Pray they are able to heal and get helpful therapy and support. As a side note, this makes me think the Teslas are built really well.
May be this is all about Tesla reputation?
@@benice2998 Right. People are ready to lock him up and throw away the key with very minimal evidence, much less before he's even been tried. I absolutely can see a big company doing whatever they can to avoid tarnishing their reputation.
A story is never told until it’s told by Kendall ❤
I love that you do some stories that have survivors. I love all of your videos, and these are a nice reminder that miracles happen!
I’m just starting to watch. But I teared up at the rescue workers. They were very brave and saved their lives.
Going to stay tuned. But… wow!!
This says a lot about not only carseat safety but about how well that Tesla was built. My heart goes out to his wife, kids, & even the grandparents. Hopefully in the years to come Neha & the kids will get professional help so that they can process and heal.
Was NOT expecting them to be alive, I was so happy to hear that. You look great girl, I love you! ❤️
Kendall, you are such a blessing to soooo many people who are going through unthinkable situations ♥️ thank you for all that you do!
I’m from Pasadena. This story was so heartbreaking, but I’m so happy everyone survived. And that he can sit and rot in prison for the rest of his life.
same
The woman is the winner, Neha is the winner, i am 99% sure she abused him mentally so much and brought him to this point, now she and all the woman will be happy that he will rot in jail.
Thank you for keeping us informed on these cases. I am happy (also) to see your kitties finally figured out their tree stand... God bless you and your sweet family.
I would absolutely love it if you could cover what happened to Lisa Edwards. She was treated horribly by the cops and died in the back seat of the cop car I think from a stroke. What crazy is the whole thing is filmed! Thanks for you and your family’s awesome podcast, youtube, and charity work. This is such a fabulous platform to help victims and their family.
I think it would be awesome if she covered a lot of police murders! Maybe do one like once a month or something? Just so she can keep doing it regularly but not do it all at once over and over and over again. I hope that made any sense ha
I actually haven’t even heard of the Lisa Edwards case 😭😭
Do her request form in the description so she can see it
Yes! OMG that was horrific to watch her literal suffering & subsequent death as they mocked her & stripped her of her dignity in the last hours of her life!!!!!
@@mygirlwendy1850 that was the older lady they were laughing at here recently right?
I appreciate how much respect you show when speaking about such sensitive topics ❤
Normally, as a DV survivor myself, I would say no one should tell a victim what they should do, BUT this woman has an OBLIGATION to protect her kids. Period. I think she has a moral obligation as a mother to testify against her husband and hold him accountable, and ensure he never has access to those children again. If a woman doesn't want to hold her abuser accountable, that's their choice, but once the kids are involved, that changes everything. I'd testify and then take my kids far far away from that monster and anyone associated with him.
💯💯👏👏
Why are the kids in his parents custody and not the moms? That may be why she doesn’t want to press charges. If those parents have any type of control. This is so terrifying. I am going to pray for her and the kids. Poor kids talk about a traumatic event.
I was wondering this exact thing.
Wow! It is a real puzzle!!! Can’t wait to hear the conclusion!!
I hope he thinks about this every minute of every day of his life. I’m so happy Neha and the children survived. They were meant to live beautiful lives. Thank you Kendall for sharing this.
Thanks for always being so caring and thoughtful. I've notice frame dropping in your video, I don't know if it's a recording or editing problem but make sure your frame rates match for both. It's only since you've been on the new setup, so maybe consult with your editor? It may also be an uploading issue. (I'm a film maker and I have encountered this before but I work with editors and more experienced people to help me troubleshoot so sorry I can't offer a better solution myself.)
I noticed this also. The frame rates in the video file and the editing Sequence could definitely be mismatched, or also if the shutter speed of the camera is less than 60 fps (which is possible if the camera settings have been adjusted to the new setup and lighting) it could cause that stuttering as well. I'm totally loving the new setup Kendall! You rock.
I love when people give helpful feedback with kindness 🙌❤️
Happy early birthday 30th birthday!!🎉 thank you for doing gods work by sharing these real life stories with the public. I’m so glad there were no deaths from that car accident and that both of those children still have their mom.
So crazy! Mrs. Patel was my highschool human anatomy teacher. She was one of my favorite teachers! So sad this all happened but what a miracle.
Kendall I'm so glad you covered this story. I absolutely love your videos!
Seriously?
someone else is saying she was a math teacher 🙄
@@Dino-in5sg teachers teach multiple things. A teacher taught me English one year and Math the next year
@@mysteriouscookiemoustache5839 teaching 2 subjects at the same time? that's unheard of for high school
@@Dino-in5sg not at the same time, during different years. These separate people who commented never said they were taught in the same year. And my mother was a teacher in both Primary and High school and taught both Physical Ed and Family Life simultaneously.
Thanks Kendal. You always know how to explain the details- I love how you keep the children protected.
Your voice is fantastic. It’s perfect for this type of narration. 🙂
The fact that the children and wife survived has got to be one of the most credible stories of divine intervention. God bless that mama and her babies❤
Love the videos and how much passion you have. You truly show how good of a heart and soul you have. In addition to how much you care for the victims and their families.
Kendall, your hair looks AMAZING this color. Seriously the most perfect color for you! You are absolutely GLOWING!!! 💖💖💖
I love the new set-up Kendall! So mellow and peaceful
Hey Kendall, I turned 18 yesterday & now that you dropped this video, it floods back so many memories. I have been watching your videos for years now. You are the absolute best & your videos give me peace. I’m glad it’s you giving me the information i’m interested about. Im not one to comment under videos at all so I hope you see this and smile. ❤️
Happy birthday 🎉❤
I am slightly familiar with Devils slide & per a Google result it has taken 30 lives in as many years. When I was growing up in the East Bay (I am 65 now) Devils slide was seasonally on the news as Hwy 1 is prone to land slides especially right there. The land is very unstable taking out sections of Hwy 1, a breathtakingly beautiful sceanic drive. I zoomed in on the shot @ 4:11 and it has changed dramatically. I couldnt figure out how going Northbound he went off at that spot, really as marked impossibe until I arrived @ 10:46. He had to have traveled that a lot perhaps when going to school or just recently to know that weak spot.
I hope they had the Tesla 360 cameras but they may have been switched off.
BTW great presentation! Love the clips.
Never heard of this case, thank you for covering it. Very interested in seeing how this all plays out. So happy the mom and children are okay!