This is fascinating because my ex was a narcissist and I was very codependent and we agreed on most things.. when I didn’t and challenged him he got angry and defensive. Gonna listen to this 2 or 3 times. Thanks 🌸
You move on from the men who aren't looking for a relationship because many men out are. If you want a real relationship you invest your time and attention only with men who want that too!
Thanks! Looking forward to connecting or re-connecting to the one ☝️ in ‘21. I am open to a new love or an old love 💕. Getting prepared by doing the work.
So my last guy felt insecure about every difference we had. But his eyes also looked iike deer in headlights. Yes he wanted me to take his meds as a paramedic and I am natural health many years. Wrong match...he was a cubic zirconia. 😆 I guess the answer is not attached to the outcome. It all comes down to what Dr dispensary, jack butler and others say become the one to find the one. We attract what we are not what we want. I understnd why 95% of relationships are dysfunctional.
My experience trying that is I go out with them have wonderful time but they always want more can’t wait for me to have sex. And the problem most of the time I don’t have the attraction and I keep trying to see if the attraction will Come but With fews week Guys don’t want to wait and I said let’s go slow 🙇♀️
I don't think he is saying give your ex another chance. I think he is saying look for the good in men you date and interact with. thanks for watching Nancy!
There's something wrong with me for sure. I even asked past men I've liked why they didn't choose to have anything with me and they basically said the same thing which is that I'm complicated. I feel like I'm the most simple brutally honest accepting person, which they agree I'm very easy to get along with, but complicated 😅 non of them could help me be not complicated because they couldn't express exactly how they felt I'm complicated. Like what the hell is wrong with me 🤣
Hmmm...I have been told the same thing and I’m easygoing. I concluded that it could be my picker. Meaning that the men I picked, may not be healthy men...so they may need a different type of woman...i’m fine with vetting those in addition to working on my communication skills for the right man that does come along. He will be able to dance. ✨
I've been told the same. When I've asked what that means, I get answers ranging from a guy saying he'd have to work too hard to be with me because I have my shit together (I've never asked any man to change for me) or that he'd have to "grow up" if he wanted to be with me (I have never understood why guys want to remain overgrown teenagers). I know I'm an introvert and that we dislike superficial things and prefer being deep and reflective. When I've asked my female friends what they think a guy has meant by such a comment they tell me that in order to attract/keep a man I must appear more "needy" or that I must be more flirtatious, mysterious, sexual and play games. I've also been told to dumb it down because my intelligence is too intimidating and thus makes me appear more "complicated." Basically, the message I get is that in order to get a man I can't be my authentic self, that as I am, it's not good enough. I'm expected to play games and put on a mask to appease their insecurities. It's very depressing and I refuse to do it. Coming from a home filled with trauma and PTSD, I've had to do a lot of work on myself over the years and I'm not about to sacrifice my mental and emotional health to cater to a man's fragile ego, especially when he's not willing to put any work into fixing his issues.
Overall,I'm v grateful for this man who rrscued me from an terrible ordeal. True,women spend much time thinking men shd change which put the men off.Love without conditions is my new attitude. If women or men are too rigid things will never work out. Just appreciate the goodness.
Great Advice! However someone who voted for Trump who represents so many terrible things in a person would be a HUGE DEALBREAKER for me... I might argue with him but I would never date him :)
Trump had good policy’s for the people. Don’t look at it personally. We are in a political/medical terrorism. You wouldn’t understand if you don’t follow politics and understand it.
The Universe is going to bring you the right person, once you become the right person. Love it! ❤️
You are right Marian! Thanks for watching and for your comment too!
Yes!!!
Amazing! Never heard such practical relationship advice like this before
Thanks so much for watching and for your comments too Lily!
This is fascinating because my ex was a narcissist and I was very codependent and we agreed on most things.. when I didn’t and challenged him he got angry and defensive. Gonna listen to this 2 or 3 times. Thanks 🌸
Thanks for sharing! Thanks for watching and for your comments too!
Can't be happier im out of dating circle
Thanks for watching and for your comment too Belovera!
What about the fact there are many men in the dating pool that aren't looking for a relationship? It's not always about what you're doing
You move on from the men who aren't looking for a relationship because many men out are. If you want a real relationship you invest your time and attention only with men who want that too!
Thanks! Looking forward to connecting or re-connecting to the one ☝️ in ‘21. I am open to a new love or an old love 💕. Getting prepared by doing the work.
Wonderful! Thanks so much for watching and for your comments too Jami!
Never forget there is no such thing as a stoopid question.
That's right! Thanks for watching and for your comment too Yahn!
Great insight and advice thanks Michelle and Gary🤗🤗
Thanks for watching and for your comment too LaKiesha!
@@MichelleMarchantJohnson Your welcome Michelle it's my Pleasure 🤗
I like how you talk about Bonnie. I enjoy you telling us about your experiences with her.
that’s exactly how I am. yes! why get mad at someone. we all make mistakes
yea! but doesn’t everyone want a diamond! ???
because the man worthy of me was not born?
Well that is one way to look at it.
This is so good!! Thank you so much for sharing, it truly helps
Is a redo possible with someone if you see that you’ve done the wrong things subconsciously but he truly is a great person?
The men I meet,talk about themselves most of the time....
So my last guy felt insecure about every difference we had. But his eyes also looked iike deer in headlights. Yes he wanted me to take his meds as a paramedic and I am natural health many years. Wrong match...he was a cubic zirconia. 😆 I guess the answer is not attached to the outcome. It all comes down to what Dr dispensary, jack butler and others say become the one to find the one. We attract what we are not what we want. I understnd why 95% of relationships are dysfunctional.
Thanks for watching and for your comments too Valentina! We hope you find the right man for you!
I would steer clear of discussing politics on a date early on if not avoiding this topic entirely
I think that is a good idea Mona! Thanks for watching too!
My experience trying that is I go out with them have wonderful time but they always want more can’t wait for me to have sex. And the problem most of the time I don’t have the attraction and I keep trying to see if the attraction will
Come but With fews week
Guys don’t want to wait and I said let’s go slow 🙇♀️
such men just went sex if they don't want wait,move on
I’ve heard John talk about Soulmates, does he believe in Twin Flames as well? 🧐❤️❤️
I don't know. Thanks for watching and for your comments too!
When he says, "love the one you've got" as " "practice" even though he may or may not be the one. Does that mean give your ex another chance? 👀
I don't think he is saying give your ex another chance. I think he is saying look for the good in men you date and interact with. thanks for watching Nancy!
There's something wrong with me for sure. I even asked past men I've liked why they didn't choose to have anything with me and they basically said the same thing which is that I'm complicated. I feel like I'm the most simple brutally honest accepting person, which they agree I'm very easy to get along with, but complicated 😅 non of them could help me be not complicated because they couldn't express exactly how they felt I'm complicated.
Like what the hell is wrong with me 🤣
Hmmm...I have been told the same thing and I’m easygoing. I concluded that it could be my picker. Meaning that the men I picked, may not be healthy men...so they may need a different type of woman...i’m fine with vetting those in addition to working on my communication skills for the right man that does come along. He will be able to dance. ✨
I've been told the same. When I've asked what that means, I get answers ranging from a guy saying he'd have to work too hard to be with me because I have my shit together (I've never asked any man to change for me) or that he'd have to "grow up" if he wanted to be with me (I have never understood why guys want to remain overgrown teenagers). I know I'm an introvert and that we dislike superficial things and prefer being deep and reflective. When I've asked my female friends what they think a guy has meant by such a comment they tell me that in order to attract/keep a man I must appear more "needy" or that I must be more flirtatious, mysterious, sexual and play games. I've also been told to dumb it down because my intelligence is too intimidating and thus makes me appear more "complicated." Basically, the message I get is that in order to get a man I can't be my authentic self, that as I am, it's not good enough. I'm expected to play games and put on a mask to appease their insecurities. It's very depressing and I refuse to do it. Coming from a home filled with trauma and PTSD, I've had to do a lot of work on myself over the years and I'm not about to sacrifice my mental and emotional health to cater to a man's fragile ego, especially when he's not willing to put any work into fixing his issues.
Thanks John.
Thanks for watching Sandra!
Overall,I'm v grateful for this man who rrscued me from an terrible ordeal. True,women spend much time thinking men shd change which put the men off.Love without conditions is my new attitude. If women or men are too rigid things will never work out. Just appreciate the goodness.
Thanks for watching and for your comments too!
Great Advice! However someone who voted for Trump who represents so many terrible things in a person would be a HUGE DEALBREAKER for me... I might argue with him but I would never date him :)
Thanks for watching Christina! Much appreciated!
Trump had good policy’s for the people. Don’t look at it personally. We are in a political/medical terrorism. You wouldn’t understand if you don’t follow politics and understand it.
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