I’m a therapist and I would have handled this COMPLETELY DIFFERENT ‼️ There was no warmth coming from the therapist AT ALL. I guess I’m a different kind of therapist ⭐️
I'm gay and my mom and I used to argue alot and I acted out, she eventually sent me away at 15 and I definitely flourished....and Angela is so right, once he has to get out there and do for his self he will definitely realize the sacrifices you have made to raise him...Today at 33 my mom and I have a Great relationship and I cry sometimes thinking about how much she did for my sister and I...just recently I told her she is a great mom and I wouldn't except another mother besides. I told her if god allowed me to do this life over but had a choice of a mother, I would still choose her...she's my ride or die...and she DID kick me out. But she never left my side.
You sound like a great person. So many people refuse to accept any responsibility for their own actions. Being accountable and reflective will take you far in life. I know your mom is very proud of you.
I pray you truly come to know Jesus as your Lord and savior. Jesus is the son of God and died a brutal death on a cross for you. Repent give Jesus your life. Tme is running out my friend. Heaven and hell are real both for eternity
@@deagoemporess sweetheart, did you even proofread that foolishness BEFORE POSTING? When you learn to respond COHERENTLY, minus all the grammatical errors as tho you have AT LEAST a 3rd grade education, then we can chat. Until then, go crack open a BOOK & practice your vocabulary, K? Lmao. Don't bother replying (since it's obvious you don't know how). You're muted in advance....toodles😘
As a teenage girl I was very disrespectful… when I got in my early 20s I apologized so much to my mom and also did much to make amends. Parents aren’t perfect. They have their on journey. Experience teaches you and the one lesson I’ve learned is compassion.
Ok the room thing is whatever. But just because your mother/ father says something you don’t have to agree with them. You are aloud to have an opinion on things and it’s a freedom of speech thing to speak your mind.
@@idek7318 Okay have your opinion and get your a** out the house. If I ask you to do something in MY house and you want to talk back like you pay bills, get out and go be grown🤷🏾♀️ Excluding his sexuality, because I would love my child regardless and would give them that motherly love. But there should be no “opinion” if I ask you to come in at a certain time. If I say take out the garbage or clean the dishes. Nah. I have disagreements with my mother due to my informed education on certain topics….but I still respect my mother. This new generation wild and have no respect at all
@@creativemind2562 not letting your child have a opinion will make they a follower or secretly resent you because they had no clue of what they believe in or have any thoughts of their own that doesn’t agree with yours. So please get that my way or the highway out your mind.
It’s deeper than that. It seems that the mother literally despises her child because she’s transgender, and will do anything to gaslight how she feels even when not related to the situation. It’s like her own child’s existence bothers her because of their lifestyle. That is the problem.
The moment you referred to her as 'white girl' when she studied and is a qualified therapist your ignorance just shined bright like the sun ... and that goes for you and whoever supports you .... your argument is stumped ...
@@nitapita8744 I agree but honestly a degree will not help you understand the trauma different people go thru in order to give the right advice. Yes race matters because a White House hold is very much different from a black house hold same goes for Asians or Hispanics.
My mom is like Angela and I was always raised to respect my mother. When she tell me to do something right then I’ll get up and do it. No talk back or anything and I’ll be going on 24 this year! It’s called respect! But folks who think Angela is wrong is usually the ones who let their kids beat tf out of them and wake up fixing their kids breakfast the next day with a black eye and busted lip 😒🙄
@@TheRedScareIsAlive no I feel like both should respect each other but you have kids who feel like they are older than their parents when they know nothing in life and yes I do know the difference and once again you got kids(aka teenagers )who feel like they are grown then they need to get out and pay their own bills! Simple 🤷🏽♀️
Thanks so much for talking about the respect you give to your mom.Every mom wants the best for her kids so when they go off board, that what makes Angela gets hard on things.
Thank you. Tons of use in the Blk Community were raised on survival, trauma, and oppressiveness delivery and thought it was love if maintenance like food and shelter being provided. Scripture says “Honor thy parents” and we hear that all the time but it also says “parents to not provoke kids to anger.” “Your child” is still a human and you don’t own them to the point you can talk to them anyway at anytime then back with “well you can leave”...because of the responsibilities you have as a parent based off your decision to have a child. That’s tyranny.
you realize the thing she didn’t “listen to” was denying her gender identity. she’s since come out and has been on dr. phil and her family has come to call her out as a bigot.
Nah his mom is whack. Watch them on the Dr Phil episodes. It's not about respect. She doesn't want Jay to identify as a woman. She's the disrespectful one.
@@ayyboii8108 this is then not now what happened on Dr Phil has NOTHING to do with the issues that’s going on in this video … if he doesn’t want to follow her rules he needs to get out her house period. Which is why is jaybies is out living the life she wants
I'm only here because of the recent Dr. Phil episode. Jaybies is a transgender woman and an adult now. I can understand now why he would talk to her that way. She's transphobic and toxic, y'all go watch the new Dr. Phil episode with them
I did too. He’s too big for his britches! In my opinion, the problem is Both of Them! He wants respect for his Lifestyle. Mom wants respect for the life she gave you. Not for what you think you are! I don’t like Jay! He is disrespectful and mouthy. No man should ever be so Angry and hostile to a female on a regular basis idgaf What you want to be. As a parent. She has ever right under her roof. As a person Jay needs his Own and to Provide for himself so he can be himself in his own space 🤷🏾♀️
@@keeshmason466 No Jaybies said she just wanted respect as a person. She said she didn't want or need her mom's acceptance but she deserves to be respected
@@keeshmason466 dam right . I agree . Their both the problem really tho . But I truly think it’s more so him. I don’t give a dam what it is RESPECT YOUR MOTHER !!! Who had to raise boys by herself after losing your father . If u can’t respect her . Separate yourself . Move out her house. Period
Disagree... He started off talking as if he has the right to disagree with his parents rules. Yall sound weird. That's why this generation is so easily influenced and controlled. Stand for what will benefit you in your future not to in a household where you pay nothing and still being taught to be successful.
I don’t trust parents who put blame solely on the child, 9/10 it’s the parents fault and my mom was the same way with me and she can’t apologize. In her eyes she thought she did what was best 🤷🏾♀️ some parents aren’t as easy to see through tho and their perfect in the eyes of the world when really they’re not
Its sad because even though they did the best they could they NEVER acknowledge the mess THEY made. Smh. Generational narcissistic abuse. Even making their kids feel bad for not wanting to be disrespected.
He should move out then. 95% of parents just want it over when the child turns 18. As long as you under her roof, you live by her rules. You don't like it move.
@@renatajohns6802 She been moved out and Angela still has an issue with her and disrespects her and her community countlessly and Jaybz has actually defended her in the past. He’s been loyal but you can only be loyal for so long, enough is enough.
I feel entitled kids think that way. Why is it so hard for kids to listen to their parents? It's not like she telling him to do bad things. She shouldn't have to ask him over and over to clean his room. Then had the nerve to say I don't have to listen to you🤦🏽♀️ what be wrong with these kids.
He's disrespectful however, he got to that point for a reason. There's no respect for his mother. There's no acceptance from his mom. There's underlying issues here. That therapist knew it but didn't want to resolve it at that time. I seen right through that chick!! She said some general statements that applied, but nothing of value was shown coming from her mouth.
Exactly….He’s very disrespectful. Not only that I feel like his mother is on to something. Cause I saw how she went on the Dr.Phil show and addressed “his” behavior. Like if your going to become a woman, act like a lady that doesn’t have to twerk like a prostitute and a whore. I feel the shame that the Mother is talking about.
I see no problem with her. Respect your mother and father no matter what. Back in the day you get you butt knocked out for anything. It's a new generation.
@@blkhistorydecoded l agree. But he's definitely dissecting her, which is why she's talking in that manner. I would never talk to my mother like that at all. Honour thy father and thy mother, as the LORD thy God hath commanded thee; that thy days may be prolonged, and that it may go well with thee, in the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee." Deuteronomy 5:16 I've always gone by this and God has definitely blessed me.
@@burdrchitect1680 He is probably dissecting her because of her attitude towards him. We really don't know their history. I've seen many times when parents are completely out of line. Just because you're a parent doesn't mean that you could say or do whatever you want. Eventually the child will fight back. Respect one another and then there should be no problems.
She's angry because he's gay. He has feelings about his feelings and she doesn't want to address them, so she deflects and make it about him being disrespectful. Now she wants him to be emacipated so she doesn't have to deal with a gay son. "Out of sight out of mind".
Y'all talking about he disrespectful but imagine being gay in a household with a homophobic mother, not an excuse but he feels as if she doesn't care about him
The word homophobe is the biggest misnomer out there. The suffix phobe denotes a fear of something who's afraid of homosexuality? Please find a better word
Mr. Jackson that’s exactly what they are. afraid of something they don’t know. they know nothing about being lgbt therefore are afraid of it and use that in a hateful and spiteful way.
There's nothing wrong with Ms. Angela Stanton! This is the PERFECT example of Old School Values VS New Skool Standard American/Western Programming. Y'all being Played! As of 07/22/2021 - I will no longer be replying to this post, Authentic Reality has hit Our Planet! ✌️❤️💡
She’s a felon . What old school values are you speaking of ? She missed years out of her child’s life to be a thief , she would still be in there if it wasn’t for her being pardon .
By your logic anyone convicted of a crime should never be seen as one with values@@habituallinestepper3927? Angela does not want her 19-yr-old baby to cut-off his penis before he's had the realization that he may want to father his own children [making her a beloved Grandmother] one day in lieu of adoption...those Family Values.
We know you're use to drag queen make-up. I am what a naturally beautiful melanated Goddess looks like@Shawn Mendes Bussy Sounds like more #CisWomanEnvy
@@GamerJustPlay u seem like ur the child that tells ur mom to get out the room while ur building something to destroy ppl...tf u mean ....u have to respect ur parents especially if ur living in their house tf u mean....its children like u that ends up killing their parents cause u dont get ur fkn way🤡
stop looking at the outcome, and look at the events that led up to it.... Clearly she has done something to trigger him, so the only thing he can do now is rebel. THINK!! for once. damn.
@@e.6322 Cool. I have a son. I really don't know the backstory or the dynamics of their relationship. It really doesn't even matter. What I do know is as a parent if I tell my son to clean his room I expect it to be done no questions asked. I guess I'm old school in that way. I know I trigger my son but what parents doesn't trigger their child. Lol!
@@shericebsperspective correct, but as a mother and I know it's different with girls, I am in tune with my daughter and I can feel when something is bothering her and I have to recognize her feelings. I have to talk to her like she matters.... I can't just boss her around because I'm her parent. Because one day she'll get bigger and give it back to me. When I ask her to clean her room, she can be slow to follow instructions, because she wants to play which is normal. But if she were to say to me, "I am not your slave" then I would have to take a look at myself and say HEY, why does my child FEEL like a slave in their own home. That's my point.
Angela you are absolutely correct. Your son is grown because he won't hear your voice by choice. Until he is willing, it's emancipation time. You don't have to live your life with a child living his life to make yours miserable disrespecting you no matter what your journey has been. You are still his mother.
No boy disrepects there mom for no reason. Angela didn't teach this boy how to own being a black gay man. She probably was not supportive of him being gay when a child now that he is grown he is rebelling. She should apologize to him and gain his trust so that he doesn't have to be so defensive with her
@@diseljames2817 thats bullshit. She spoiled him into a brat. Plain and simple. He not only lacks disrespect with her he's on bigo being a hot disrespectful mess! HORRIBLE!!!
You can see angela is having a hard time excepting her son is gay, she mentioned her two other boys are hard core and he plays with dolls, this is a clear example of how now in our generation these situations are up-front and straight, back in the day it would be ignored and not excepted, this why we should love our children no matter what.
Yes girl im doing my research on her because I really like what I heard from her and I want to be sure shes exactly like I imagine her to be so I can wholeheartedly support her! So far I love what I see from her!!
Oh Wow, me and my teenage boys just had this exact conversation they were saying the same thing that Angela's son is saying about them having an opinion and questioning things and I responded the same as Angela and telling them when I was a child we didn't do that and even now I'm still careful 🤣 it's a respect factor and this generation doesn't understand that
That's the issue tho. Why are y'all so heavy on respect from children when you can't simple respect and acknowledge the fact they have a mind and opinions. The fact that their opinion doesn't align to yours, doesn't mean it's invalid or disrespect. Some adults/parents aren't understanding that if you act like a adult/parent, you will be treated and respected as such. Dehumanizing children when they have an opinion different from yours is toxic.
@@shanece722 look if you have children then you raise them the way you want to instead of judging others telling me my relationship with my children is toxic and I'm dehumanizing them. You know nothing of me or my relationship with my children but I bet you this, when they have an issue or need advice they always come to me first and they know who has their back 10 toes down ALWAYS! They also know to come to me correct if they want said respect. I also have gotten numerous compliments on my children throughout their life of how mannerable and respectful they are. They are 17, 16 and 14 and have never been in trouble outside of this house so I know I am doing a damn good job!
@@shaunb.4882 I apologize that I offended you but you literally said you responded the same way as her, which led me to believe you probably shared the same mindset as her when it comes to parenting(which is the 'my way and what I say goes and what everyone else has to say doesn't mean anything and is invalid'). My comment also wasn't specifically about you either, but a general mindset that alot parents have and enforce. Look her up on Dr Phil and you'll see how toxic she is.
My daughter said the exact same thing to me, even the part of when I ask her to do something, she feels that she's putting my happiness above her own. And that she should have an option and not just abide by my parenting. Chile, where are these new age kids getting this stupidity from??
Unpopular opinion: Just because you birthed someone, "laid down and had sex" as Angela puts it, and say "I'm the one that pay the bills", doesn't give you the right to talk to someone recklessly. It was her wording and the feeling of entitlement just because she gave birth to him. And he is disrespectful. It's an equal problem.
True, both should respect eachother, however, as a parent, I definitely wouldn't ask , plead, beg nor negotiate rules, etc with a child....when it gets to that point , they're official in the lane of an "adult" so they need to be on their own, in their own space that they pay for and are the head of their own etc and etc.
Angela being who she is. And the fact she reminds me of my mom. I’m shocked she hasn’t or don’t kick him out her house if he thinks he’s grown and don’t want to listen.
This attitude of 'I'm the parent so you have no right to express an opinion, defend your feelings, exert any kind of agency or I'm calling it disrespect' - it's toxic. If your solution is for your kid to get their own house, you can bet you're not going to be seeing them once they do. It's completely ego-driven. And it amazes me that full grown, ostensibly intelligent adults see their child act out or even speak with frustration in their voice and they don't think to look at themselves and wonder if they might have something to do with it.
Her son called cleaning his own room when he is told “slavery”. Telling you I don’t want bugs, filth in my house where you don’t pay bills and it’s yours is not negotiable. How you live for free and mad someone said clean up your crap? Not her crap but his own!!!
Wanting respect does not mean you can't have an opinion. You can have an opinion about whatever the heck you want but at the end of the day there are some things that have to be done a certain way whether you like it or not.
He speaks to his Mother with such disrespect and disdain. It’s ok to ask questions and have your own opinion. However following rules and doing as your told is not being a slave it’s being cooperative. Rules keep order and peace. A child needs guidance. Even adults need leadership. If he doesn’t agree with his Mother’s way of parenting and he doesn’t want to be lead by his Mother then he needs to live on his own.
@@Dom_om_nom His Mother didn’t display any homophobic behavior in this video. This video is about the dysfunctional relationship between a parent and a child. Yes respect does go both ways, however a child is to respect their parents first because they’re not equal to their parents. It’s a hierarchy system and that is divine law. It’s about order and cooperation as I stated in my first comment. If the child comes to an age where they disagree then they need to leave from their parents. Since the son thinks following his Mother’s rules and ways is a form of slavery then he needs to free himself. As the Mother respectfully suggested emancipation is the best solution for her son.
He is still a child. That's exactly what Angela is talking about in the video. Anything to DEFLECT from their own poor behavior, a child will use including comparing themselves to the parent &putting themselves on the parents level in an effort do so. HE IS A CHILD. Furthermore, whether Angela is "unteachable" or not, the issue is about HER SON who fails to do what he's told and abide by rules IN HER HOUSE. If she's so unteachable IN HER OWN HOUSE, *THEN JAY NEEDS TO LEAVE* . She's grown & IT'S HER HOUSE. When are y'all younger folks gonna realize the place of an ADULT AND A CHILD???? Somebody like YOU would've gotten fuqd up by our elders back in the day talking about what the PARENT can and can't be taught. Girl.... you woulda been signing your own death certificate letting that kinda foolishness come outta your mouth. Y'all got these new generation parents who are probably not that much older than you, still twerking, taking selfies and thinks it's "cool" to be friends with you (their children). The fact that you are defending and condoning this let's me know that you are about to raise the same kinda brats & releasing them into the world for the rest of us to have to put up with. And lemme tell you something sweetie, raise em like that NOW if you want to the way it's OPEN SEASON on those OF COLOR...US. You gonna be attending your child's funeral very SOON when they are killed at the hands of one of these Klan members disguised as cops bcuz they felt like they could be mouthy and question authority. Yall young folks don't understand the domino affect of condoning such behavior. . You think you're being wise and outspoken when you're really being ignorant asf.
I hate parents who think they kids literally speaking to them as a human instead of someone below them is disrespectful. It’s heartbreaking and that is not helpful when kids growing up but still treated and told to be in a child place. Glad to see jay flourishing now
If she shelters you, feed you, provide a place for you to sh*it, clothes you and take care of you, then you need to comply. These disrespectful nasty little teens make me sick
First, I'm just going to say this. I don't care what your lifestyle is. As long as you are under my roof, you're going to respect me! I agree with this mother wholeheartedly! He is a little boy who she is taking care of! He needs to respect his mother! Point blank! I have yet seen any comments from anyone stating that he needs to respect his mother
He do need to respect his mother but respect doesn’t mean your right and yes he is 19 which means he’s legal and he’s a young adult now still a baby but a young adult....Respect goes both ways💯I’m a teacher a child has to respect their parent and so does a parent need to respect their child as well💯There’s different levels of respect parent to child child to parent but none the less it goes both ways.....As a mom IMO there is nothing nurturing about her where is the nurturing side to start from ground level and work through the hostility....Me and my mom went through a lot but we always know how to have a conversation come back and say where we BOTH were wrong or what we didn’t like.....The problem with Angela that I have is she thinks she’s above the conversation her and her son need to have.....2 words for Angela Humble Yourself💯As we can see on Jason Lee show she’s Deff out of line💯
I'm the same way I guess it's true I talk to much so much for trying to stand for right..these clowns and celebrities can have the up hands start with Rickey smiley and his back again co workers. I'm done with this circus and copying and keys and folks stealing folks dreams
Angela thank you for being a grown adult. Keep speaking your truth. Your son will thank you one day. You are a beautiful strong and loving mom. I commend you. 🙏🏾
In it's eseence this is a clearly judgemental homophobic and illogical response. You know it's young black straight boys that dont listen to their mother or father and dont clean their room when asked. Its called being a teen or however young he is.
Chile I resonate with this so much .. I'm going through this disconnect with my son... Who also has this same attitude... But no matter what, I'm old school.. You respect your parent and if you feel otherwise than take care of yourself but ALWAYS respect your parents ... Nobody was given a guide book on parenting.. We're not perfect and we make mistakes as well...
Just US Girlz you said/.. “he probably got molested when she was incarcerated” AND I SAID .. MOLESTATION ISNT A FACTOR for someone being gay ... we all said different things hun; what’s the problem.
Shaylahh Khaliese my household was just fine and as a result, I’m just fine. I’m living well and I have my own family now and we are thriving. You teach children to respect you. I OBVIOUSLY 🙄 was being facetious when I said my momma would have knocked my teeth out. The point is, she and my dad did not tolerate disrespect. Period.
@@butterflyygyrlsworld5106 dont even waste your time with this younger generation of idiots. The fact that half of them are even on here defending that CHILD as tho "he's owed respect" only shows me that those same individuals are equally disrespectful. Only someone who can identify with such ugly behavior like Jay's would defend it.
@@KAMALAISHERNAME they defending him because him and his mom are cool now and jaybz is like jaybz he's grown now with its own platform that he didn't have get of his momma
Shes just like my mom, wanna downplay the actual problem or dont talk about it at all. It definitely wasnt about her just “cleaning her room” My mom once blamed me in public for one of my traumas related to my brother and then tried to say that wasnt what she was talking about
His mom is a great mother. She going through therapy just to help their relationship. You’re supposed to always respect your mom no matter what. She gave birth to you so when she say do something, you do it (.)
If anyone watched her on Dr.Phil,her daughter who said that she is always caught in between her mother and her brother. She said that her mother is a mental and emotional bully.She said that her mother slapped her just because she had a difference of opinion on the topic of abortion.At the end of the day all children and teens mock and mimic what they see their parents do.
These kids will learn when they have to be out on their own how good they had it and how hard us parents have to struggle to take care of them. And they want to be disrespectful? Smdh
Poor kid prison bird for a “mother”. Ángela herself looks VERY strong in the face and is probably struggle with her own sexuality. She been to prison you can’t till me she hasn’t screwed a woman.
Here afterthe dr phil episode. This comment section is so annoying. Yall talk like your own child that you selfishly brought into this world is your slave/property. ‘You cant have opinions if you still live under my roof’ ‘... then move out’ ‘who pays the bills’ I also hate my mom when she orders me to clean my room disrespectfully. Act like i owe her my life for living under her roof. sometimes children don't do things right because they have problems of their own. They are children y’all.. they dont know what’s going on. If you know your child well you can definitely tell the difference between a child being disrespectful to you or if they are not feeling well. For example, every time I delay locking the fence of my house, my parents scold me loudly. But when they are the one who delay to locking the fence, I have no right to reprimand them. why? Why do parents act like they are the authoritarian rulers of their child’s life? Family is a place where you can be your raw self. a place where you grow and learn to be a better human being. not a place where whoever pays the bills is the authorized one. where is unconditional love? every child is different, and every parent must know and understand their child so that a good relationship can be established. cookie cutter approach to children is useless. Maybe angela kind of parenting style works for you, but not for others. Also, parents and children can deal with each other equally. I am a strong believer that children are a reflection of their parents. Children do not belong to their parents. Of course, children should respect and love their parents who raise and nurture them. Of course we understand how parents have sacrificed so much for their children's well being. Of course there are boundaries that must exist between parents and children. but that doesn't mean you are the boss of your kids. if your parents shutting down your spirit, making you feel miserable, then you have the right to stand up for yourself. This is my pov as a child who also grew up with parents similar to angela and you have the right to feel the opposite way. But before you judge how someone behave, all you have to do is to respect other’s opinion and don't try to teach others/tell others what to do without knowing their circumstances.
Im a mother who most definitely feels were his mom is coming from. She is doing every step possible as a mother to try to fix the relationship but He is making it more worse then things are!
What a piece of work that mother is. "Emancipation." So what works is not having my child around. Truly unbelievable. It's like she's trying to get rid of him. Breaks my heart.
You people need to research this women ..... She a damn piece of work...If I had a stupid mom like her... I wouldn't walk to get a divorce from her ..I would run...
@@idragfornicki7612 what tf does that have to do with her son doing what he's supposed to do including staying in a child's place???? I swear, some of y'all don't think b4 posting.
@@KAMALAISHERNAME He's gay and his mom is homophobic, are you fucking stupid enough that you can't put the pieces together? His mom verbally abused him for being gay he has said it many times and you think he's suppose to respect her? You black parents are toxic and it's showing.
@@KAMALAISHERNAME He is gay and she's homophobic. Is he suppose to sit there and let her verbally abuse him for living his truth? You said he needs to stay in a child's place but he's 18 now do that doesn't matter.
@@KAMALAISHERNAME You want to say I don't think before posting but you're the one in the wrong. Your basically saying he needs to allow the abuse because he isn't grown. Okay idiot.
For anyone wanting an update, Jaybies (going by his stage name) and his mom’s relationship has gotten better, he has gotten his own apartment and is his own boss making around 60-80k a month on a live streaming service called Bigo, on there he does hair, makeup, hang out with his friends and does other things, if you’re interested his Bigo ID is jaybz and if you want to follow him on Instagram his @ is jaybiez.
It’s a spiritual warfare going aka poor behavior and disrespect being pushed to normalize, I believe Angela has his best interest at heart, he would do himself more justice to respect his mother and listen.
I agree the son will loose the battle it doesn't matter what the son is going through I think it's about look at me mom just me. The devil got a strong hold on that young man and neither one of them can discern that
@@sungexpression9093 the biggest trick that the devil ever pulled was to convince the world that he don't exist. He's tricked you not me I know he exists look around you foolish one you're being fooled not me. There is a reason he was thrown out of heaven.
First of all, the mother has narcissistic tendencies. Secondly, any "seasoned" therapist would tell a parent NOT to compare their children as it disrupts the family system and creates detrimental roles (i.e. scapegoat, golden child, etc). The mother has issues with her son's sexuality and this is evident out of the gate.
All she said was he was different. I don’t think any parentwith multiple children would denounce each child’s individuality. It’s not to say you love one more than the other. It just means you love each one enough to know they have different personalities and you have to raise them accordingly.
Her energy is vile, she wants power over him, but she clearly sees that he is his own individual person, he can't change just to fit her exact standards and the more he refuses, she just wants nothing to do with him.
Until he get out!!? Shiiiiid!!,... With a snap back attitude, and mouth like his,... He would definitely have to get out of my house right now!! 🤣 4real tho!! It's ways of working that out asap!!
Who else here from dr Phil? When you watch that and this, you can kind of understand where the disrespect comes from because she doesn’t know how to give it. However there is a way to get your point across without stopping to that level bc if both parties act that way, no one will get anywhere
So a lot of people are quick to jump on Angela but let’s not forget she is the mom. A child should never disrespect their mother. Also if she was homophobic and didn’t care for him why would she even try therapy? She could of been kicked him out the house. He has zero respect for her. Plus we don’t know the whole story.
excuse miss ... i hate when ppl state the whole “child and mother” scenario on the BEHALF OF A DISRESPECTFUL MOTHER. Angela is disrespectful in general and seems to be very disrespectful to her son. Respect is earned and if someone is disrespectful him .. he has the right to disrespect them back; it doesn’t matter about the roles. She clearly took him to “therapy” to get back up or for a tv storyline .. plz know what you’re talking about before passing judgment on the boy ... he has “zero respect” for her because SHE HAS NO RESPECT FOR HIM. Tysm ❤️
a lot of times what parents view as talking back and being disrespectful is really children sharing their oppinions and standing up for theirselves when parents lash out. she says they get into physical fights, thats not healthy at all
I can tell by the moms attitude she should never have had children. She has no respect for her child and what she has put out has come right back to her. It is so clear.
@OnikaTanyaMaraj👑 after watching the Dr. Phil show, this lady has no respect for her children AND herself… if I were her kids, I would be ASHAMED to have a mother like this.
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Literally I’m here NOW
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I just saw them on Dr Phil today
I’m a therapist and I would have handled this COMPLETELY DIFFERENT ‼️ There was no warmth coming from the therapist AT ALL. I guess I’m a different kind of therapist ⭐️
EXACTLY SHE WAS NOT GIVING WHAT NEEDED TO BE GIVEN AT ALL
What would you done differently?
Peace
Black people going to a white therapist to handle Black people problem?.........
Crap is asinine to me
Itzy zaza that’s why we need you out here sis!!
@@thaabitshabazz4117 how is that a black ppl problem when it happens with every race 🙄🤦🏽♂️
Respect goes both ways. I can’t stand parents who treat their their kids a certain way and then demand respect.
Huh??? He needs to get his own house then
@@jimynutron87For what?
Clearly they’re talking about issues far deeper than cleaning his room 🙄
Lmao
I'm gay and my mom and I used to argue alot and I acted out, she eventually sent me away at 15 and I definitely flourished....and Angela is so right, once he has to get out there and do for his self he will definitely realize the sacrifices you have made to raise him...Today at 33 my mom and I have a Great relationship and I cry sometimes thinking about how much she did for my sister and I...just recently I told her she is a great mom and I wouldn't except another mother besides. I told her if god allowed me to do this life over but had a choice of a mother, I would still choose her...she's my ride or die...and she DID kick me out. But she never left my side.
You sound like a great person. So many people refuse to accept any responsibility for their own actions. Being accountable and reflective will take you far in life. I know your mom is very proud of you.
I pray you truly come to know Jesus as your Lord and savior. Jesus is the son of God and died a brutal death on a cross for you. Repent give Jesus your life. Tme is running out my friend. Heaven and hell are real both for eternity
Wow enjoyed your comment. Glad things turned around with you and your mom.
@@MuscularDUDE 16 w3wa
I eat veggie mate why?
I think something traumatic happened to him as a child while she was locked up and he blames her4 it
Cali Babii this sounds about right,I feel a slight level of resentment,I’ve been through something like this
Agreed!!
Maybe the fact that she got locked up
Nice you saw deeper into this, because all I saw was disrespect.
As he should blame her no one told her to be out here doing criminal activity
Bruh when he said “there she go” I felt that in my soul
HEAVY
Felt WHAT in his soul, being DISRESPECTFUL to his mother? I swear, I don't know what these things are walking around raising y'all these days.
@@KAMALAISHERNAME your opinion was cute, obviously you would never put any shoes to understand so go about your day please 🖤
@@deagoemporess sweetheart, did you even proofread that foolishness BEFORE POSTING? When you learn to respond COHERENTLY, minus all the grammatical errors as tho you have AT LEAST a 3rd grade education, then we can chat. Until then, go crack open a BOOK & practice your vocabulary, K? Lmao. Don't bother replying (since it's obvious you don't know how). You're muted in advance....toodles😘
@@KAMALAISHERNAME aww good for u😘👍🏿
I'm glad that she's making an effort to mend her relationships with her children. I wish my Mom would.
Mine too
Nah, she trying to be controlling, and wants to save face
Mine too
Mom is DEFINITELY right about cleaning the room, or chores without lip from a child
Did you not hear the part where her child said "that isnt the main problem"
Anddddd he moved out got into college and is living on his own.. his mom can have a blessed one
great!!
She did not go to college tho...............
@@saintg.165 yes She did but she dropped out
Lmaooooo
Awesome 👏🏾
This is a job for Iyanla Vanzat.
Really but who's life has she fixed?
@@miystiqueskillz2233 she may not fix but she dam would understand the dynamics. Sometimes you need someone that has the same skin to intervene.
@@DC45193 FACTS, Iyanla would have set him and her straight. This lady really just sighed and said keep doing the same things.
Hunni she a great value she can’t even get it together her and que
Not on my watch!!!
As a teenage girl I was very disrespectful… when I got in my early 20s I apologized so much to my mom and also did much to make amends. Parents aren’t perfect. They have their on journey. Experience teaches you and the one lesson I’ve learned is compassion.
“...lay down then push me out his ass” 😂😂😂😂
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🤣🤣🤣 I love her
that was some offensive and not productive thing to say to your child
She’s right though. When she says clean your room clean dat damn room period. Respect your mother or move out She’s just raw and I’m here for it
Ok the room thing is whatever. But just because your mother/ father says something you don’t have to agree with them. You are aloud to have an opinion on things and it’s a freedom of speech thing to speak your mind.
@@idek7318 Okay have your opinion and get your a** out the house. If I ask you to do something in MY house and you want to talk back like you pay bills, get out and go be grown🤷🏾♀️ Excluding his sexuality, because I would love my child regardless and would give them that motherly love. But there should be no “opinion” if I ask you to come in at a certain time. If I say take out the garbage or clean the dishes. Nah. I have disagreements with my mother due to my informed education on certain topics….but I still respect my mother. This new generation wild and have no respect at all
@@creativemind2562 not letting your child have a opinion will make they a follower or secretly resent you because they had no clue of what they believe in or have any thoughts of their own that doesn’t agree with yours. So please get that my way or the highway out your mind.
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It’s deeper than that. It seems that the mother literally despises her child because she’s transgender, and will do anything to gaslight how she feels even when not related to the situation. It’s like her own child’s existence bothers her because of their lifestyle. That is the problem.
White gurl gave the absolute WORST advice 😂😂😂😂😭😭
They usually do when it comes to us
The moment you referred to her as 'white girl' when she studied and is a qualified therapist your ignorance just shined bright like the sun ... and that goes for you and whoever supports you .... your argument is stumped ...
@@nitapita8744 oh shut up
@@Diorkinkz is that all you got huh? You're limited so I can't take you seriously 😂
@@nitapita8744 I agree but honestly a degree will not help you understand the trauma different people go thru in order to give the right advice. Yes race matters because a White House hold is very much different from a black house hold same goes for Asians or Hispanics.
She don’t like him. Period. & he feels that. PERIODT
You sound ignorant how you know what she likes?
Exactly
The fact that she said she sees him as an enemy. Wow
He is disrespectful - period!
look at that video
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I HAD to find wth they were talkin about 😭
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chileeee i was boogled when i heard about it
That’s her twin an she can’t take it💀💀 yessssss I love them💀
I hope they can mend their relationship. I would love that
Crazy kookoo bird
That part
No, that her child and he needs to respect his mother. GTFOH! He’s rude and disrespectful to the woman that gave him life.
@@mikelee428 they both look lost
Y’all calling Jaybies rude but she barley said anything the whole video💀💀 but ntm on her in these comments👛
They saying this rude they wouldn’t last on bigo😂😂
@@varis8696 Ns
At the end of the day it’s obvious he is disrespectful.. quit justifying his mess lol both of them need help
@@montellhall5781 nigga, stfu
Catch this he said parenting is slavery 🤨🤔
I’m a proud gay male. But I don’t understand how he’s able to talk to his mother in that type of way? I’d have no teeth whatsoever ✌🏽🤣
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she a homophobic trump supporter and calls him an animal for being gay
She didn't mother him..she was in and out of jail. Respect is earned
TaRon Thomas she is a nasty bigot
@@notthefather3919 if you respect yourself respecting others comes naturally.
My mom is like Angela and I was always raised to respect my mother. When she tell me to do something right then I’ll get up and do it. No talk back or anything and I’ll be going on 24 this year! It’s called respect! But folks who think Angela is wrong is usually the ones who let their kids beat tf out of them and wake up fixing their kids breakfast the next day with a black eye and busted lip 😒🙄
I love how you think there's no middle ground between a kid being disrespectful and a kid beating up their parents 😂
@@TheRedScareIsAlive no I feel like both should respect each other but you have kids who feel like they are older than their parents when they know nothing in life and yes I do know the difference and once again you got kids(aka teenagers )who feel like they are grown then they need to get out and pay their own bills! Simple 🤷🏽♀️
Girl please watch they dr Phil episode she is horrible and disrespectful
Thanks so much for talking about the respect you give to your mom.Every mom wants the best for her kids so when they go off board, that what makes Angela gets hard on things.
@@shanikajackson481 I don’t care what anyone else does I know not to try my parents just how the way I was raised some folks was raised different
Respect is a two way street period you as a parent should never be a bully or authoritarian like that doesn’t work it just breeds rebellion
Thank you. Tons of use in the Blk Community were raised on survival, trauma, and oppressiveness delivery and thought it was love if maintenance like food and shelter being provided. Scripture says “Honor thy parents” and we hear that all the time but it also says “parents to not provoke kids to anger.” “Your child” is still a human and you don’t own them to the point you can talk to them anyway at anytime then back with “well you can leave”...because of the responsibilities you have as a parent based off your decision to have a child.
That’s tyranny.
Just to give you guys a update ,Jaybz back home living with Angela and they get along great. All under one roof!❤
Get out of her house if you don't want to listen...PERIOD!!!!
you realize the thing she didn’t “listen to” was denying her gender identity. she’s since come out and has been on dr. phil and her family has come to call her out as a bigot.
Respect comes from both sides he’s not the problem they both are
That’s what I did. Hard lesson to learn.
He has a female spirit
No parents need to respect their children
THAY ACT JUST ALIKE....
@Daisy right
@@loisgriffin8100 no..
@@ctrlgrande7906 well they just both stubborn 💯
Where is a black therapist for this black family???? 🙄
His mom is right. He need to get his own house if he think he makes the rules
Nah his mom is whack. Watch them on the Dr Phil episodes. It's not about respect. She doesn't want Jay to identify as a woman. She's the disrespectful one.
That's a great justification for abuse.
@@ayyboii8108 this is then not now what happened on Dr Phil has NOTHING to do with the issues that’s going on in this video … if he doesn’t want to follow her rules he needs to get out her house period. Which is why is jaybies is out living the life she wants
@@kiambrasays2469 ownership of the house and respect are not mutually exclusive love.
I'm only here because of the recent Dr. Phil episode. Jaybies is a transgender woman and an adult now. I can understand now why he would talk to her that way. She's transphobic and toxic, y'all go watch the new Dr. Phil episode with them
Same. I pray one day she will be able to support him. I have a friend and his mom was very similar but she came around and now everything is great
I did too. He’s too big for his britches! In my opinion, the problem is Both of Them! He wants respect for his Lifestyle. Mom wants respect for the life she gave you. Not for what you think you are! I don’t like Jay! He is disrespectful and mouthy. No man should ever be so Angry and hostile to a female on a regular basis idgaf What you want to be. As a parent. She has ever right under her roof. As a person Jay needs his Own and to Provide for himself so he can be himself in his own space 🤷🏾♀️
@@keeshmason466 No Jaybies said she just wanted respect as a person. She said she didn't want or need her mom's acceptance but she deserves to be respected
@@keeshmason466 dam right . I agree . Their both the problem really tho . But I truly think it’s more so him. I don’t give a dam what it is RESPECT YOUR MOTHER !!! Who had to raise boys by herself after losing your father . If u can’t respect her . Separate yourself . Move out her house. Period
Disagree... He started off talking as if he has the right to disagree with his parents rules. Yall sound weird. That's why this generation is so easily influenced and controlled. Stand for what will benefit you in your future not to in a household where you pay nothing and still being taught to be successful.
I’m so happy my mother respected my maturity as I became an adult. We wouldn’t have the relationship that we have now if she didn’t. This is horrible.
A mature person wouldn't have to be checked because you check yourself. "Clean your room" means you're messy and doing it under another's roof.
@@ightbih5944 a mature person, you mean as I was maturing and not yet a mature adult? I pray for your children
Hey jaybies 🤣
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I don’t trust parents who put blame solely on the child, 9/10 it’s the parents fault and my mom was the same way with me and she can’t apologize. In her eyes she thought she did what was best 🤷🏾♀️ some parents aren’t as easy to see through tho and their perfect in the eyes of the world when really they’re not
I feel like both of them have 0 ability to see the others perspective
Its sad because even though they did the best they could they NEVER acknowledge the mess THEY made. Smh. Generational narcissistic abuse. Even making their kids feel bad for not wanting to be disrespected.
He should move out then. 95% of parents just want it over when the child turns 18. As long as you under her roof, you live by her rules. You don't like it move.
@@renatajohns6802 She been moved out and Angela still has an issue with her and disrespects her and her community countlessly and Jaybz has actually defended her in the past. He’s been loyal but you can only be loyal for so long, enough is enough.
I feel entitled kids think that way. Why is it so hard for kids to listen to their parents? It's not like she telling him to do bad things. She shouldn't have to ask him over and over to clean his room. Then had the nerve to say I don't have to listen to you🤦🏽♀️ what be wrong with these kids.
He's disrespectful however, he got to that point for a reason. There's no respect for his mother. There's no acceptance from his mom. There's underlying issues here. That therapist knew it but didn't want to resolve it at that time. I seen right through that chick!! She said some general statements that applied, but nothing of value was shown coming from her mouth.
Exactly….He’s very disrespectful. Not only that I feel like his mother is on to something. Cause I saw how she went on the Dr.Phil show and addressed “his” behavior. Like if your going to become a woman, act like a lady that doesn’t have to twerk like a prostitute and a whore. I feel the shame that the Mother is talking about.
I've seen her interviews. I understand why he has a problem with her.
You should see the one she did with Kwame Brown last night.
I see no problem with her. Respect your mother and father no matter what. Back in the day you get you butt knocked out for anything. It's a new generation.
@@burdrchitect1680 I agree but respect goes both ways. Nobody's perfect, even parents.
@@blkhistorydecoded l agree. But he's definitely dissecting her, which is why she's talking in that manner. I would never talk to my mother like that at all.
Honour thy father and thy mother, as the LORD thy God hath commanded thee; that thy days may be prolonged, and that it may go well with thee, in the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee."
Deuteronomy 5:16
I've always gone by this and God has definitely blessed me.
@@burdrchitect1680 He is probably dissecting her because of her attitude towards him. We really don't know their history. I've seen many times when parents are completely out of line. Just because you're a parent doesn't mean that you could say or do whatever you want. Eventually the child will fight back. Respect one another and then there should be no problems.
She's angry because he's gay. He has feelings about his feelings and she doesn't want to address them, so she deflects and make it about him being disrespectful. Now she wants him to be emacipated so she doesn't have to deal with a gay son. "Out of sight out of mind".
You hit the nail on the head.
Y'all talking about he disrespectful but imagine being gay in a household with a homophobic mother, not an excuse but he feels as if she doesn't care about him
The word homophobe is the biggest misnomer out there. The suffix phobe denotes a fear of something who's afraid of homosexuality? Please find a better word
Mr. Jackson that’s exactly what they are. afraid of something they don’t know. they know nothing about being lgbt therefore are afraid of it and use that in a hateful and spiteful way.
Bobbi BobKat a belief system based upon prejudice and discrimination?
You don’t have to bash and be “straightphobic” to listen to their problem, that’s why she took him there.
No Regardz Ent. Then why do you care? Since it’s so “weird.”
There's nothing wrong with Ms. Angela Stanton! This is the PERFECT example of Old School Values VS New Skool Standard American/Western Programming. Y'all being Played! As of 07/22/2021 - I will no longer be replying to this post, Authentic Reality has hit Our Planet! ✌️❤️💡
She’s a felon . What old school values are you speaking of ? She missed years out of her child’s life to be a thief , she would still be in there if it wasn’t for her being pardon .
By your logic anyone convicted of a crime should never be seen as one with values@@habituallinestepper3927? Angela does not want her 19-yr-old baby to cut-off his penis before he's had the realization that he may want to father his own children [making her a beloved Grandmother] one day in lieu of adoption...those Family Values.
She is nuts word
@@TH4TSR4VEN Our World is mental.
We know you're use to drag queen make-up. I am what a naturally beautiful melanated Goddess looks like@Shawn Mendes Bussy Sounds like more #CisWomanEnvy
This therapist was so unequipped for this situation
Parents never understand that you child will grow up and you have to show them respect also
Yea when you get out THEY HOUSE FOOL
@@CadiKane that’s the problem right there 🌝
But until then u need to respect ur parent until there the hell out of the house🤡
@@GamerJustPlay u seem like ur the child that tells ur mom to get out the room while ur building something to destroy ppl...tf u mean ....u have to respect ur parents especially if ur living in their house tf u mean....its children like u that ends up killing their parents cause u dont get ur fkn way🤡
@@sorayaleblanc588 exactly
Her: Clean your room...
Him: I'm not a slave...
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He lost his damn mind!!!
stop looking at the outcome, and look at the events that led up to it.... Clearly she has done something to trigger him, so the only thing he can do now is rebel. THINK!! for once. damn.
@@e.6322
Lol! Calm down B. Are you a parent?
@@shericebsperspective Yes, I have a daughter
@@e.6322
Cool. I have a son. I really don't know the backstory or the dynamics of their relationship. It really doesn't even matter. What I do know is as a parent if I tell my son to clean his room I expect it to be done no questions asked. I guess I'm old school in that way. I know I trigger my son but what parents doesn't trigger their child. Lol!
@@shericebsperspective correct, but as a mother and I know it's different with girls, I am in tune with my daughter and I can feel when something is bothering her and I have to recognize her feelings. I have to talk to her like she matters.... I can't just boss her around because I'm her parent. Because one day she'll get bigger and give it back to me.
When I ask her to clean her room, she can be slow to follow instructions, because she wants to play which is normal. But if she were to say to me, "I am not your slave" then I would have to take a look at myself and say HEY, why does my child FEEL like a slave in their own home. That's my point.
Angela you are absolutely correct. Your son is grown because he won't hear your voice by choice. Until he is willing, it's emancipation time. You don't have to live your life with a child living his life to make yours miserable disrespecting you no matter what your journey has been. You are still his mother.
No boy disrepects there mom for no reason. Angela didn't teach this boy how to own being a black gay man. She probably was not supportive of him being gay when a child now that he is grown he is rebelling. She should apologize to him and gain his trust so that he doesn't have to be so defensive with her
@@diseljames2817 thats bullshit. She spoiled him into a brat. Plain and simple. He not only lacks disrespect with her he's on bigo being a hot disrespectful mess! HORRIBLE!!!
@@areyoulookingbitch7065 so if she spoiled him into a brat that's her fault not his. She created him now deal with him
@@diseljames2817 where is a ksam accountability video when you need it ?
@@diseljames2817 .. first off a woman can't teach a boy to be a man
You can see angela is having a hard time excepting her son is gay, she mentioned her two other boys are hard core and he plays with dolls, this is a clear example of how now in our generation these situations are up-front and straight, back in the day it would be ignored and not excepted, this why we should love our children no matter what.
Exactly thank you
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Hello My dear, right here
Yes girl im doing my research on her because I really like what I heard from her and I want to be sure shes exactly like I imagine her to be so I can wholeheartedly support her! So far I love what I see from her!!
Victoria Hunt Yass beauty brains and compassion
@@victoriac1139 compassion???!! bitch you're crazy LMAO
Oh Wow, me and my teenage boys just had this exact conversation they were saying the same thing that Angela's son is saying about them having an opinion and questioning things and I responded the same as Angela and telling them when I was a child we didn't do that and even now I'm still careful 🤣 it's a respect factor and this generation doesn't understand that
Thank you.
That's the issue tho. Why are y'all so heavy on respect from children when you can't simple respect and acknowledge the fact they have a mind and opinions. The fact that their opinion doesn't align to yours, doesn't mean it's invalid or disrespect. Some adults/parents aren't understanding that if you act like a adult/parent, you will be treated and respected as such. Dehumanizing children when they have an opinion different from yours is toxic.
@@shanece722 look if you have children then you raise them the way you want to instead of judging others telling me my relationship with my children is toxic and I'm dehumanizing them. You know nothing of me or my relationship with my children but I bet you this, when they have an issue or need advice they always come to me first and they know who has their back 10 toes down ALWAYS! They also know to come to me correct if they want said respect. I also have gotten numerous compliments on my children throughout their life of how mannerable and respectful they are. They are 17, 16 and 14 and have never been in trouble outside of this house so I know I am doing a damn good job!
@@shaunb.4882 I apologize that I offended you but you literally said you responded the same way as her, which led me to believe you probably shared the same mindset as her when it comes to parenting(which is the 'my way and what I say goes and what everyone else has to say doesn't mean anything and is invalid'). My comment also wasn't specifically about you either, but a general mindset that alot parents have and enforce. Look her up on Dr Phil and you'll see how toxic she is.
My daughter said the exact same thing to me, even the part of when I ask her to do something, she feels that she's putting my happiness above her own. And that she should have an option and not just abide by my parenting. Chile, where are these new age kids getting this stupidity from??
Unpopular opinion: Just because you birthed someone, "laid down and had sex" as Angela puts it, and say "I'm the one that pay the bills", doesn't give you the right to talk to someone recklessly. It was her wording and the feeling of entitlement just because she gave birth to him. And he is disrespectful. It's an equal problem.
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True, both should respect eachother, however, as a parent, I definitely wouldn't ask , plead, beg nor negotiate rules, etc with a child....when it gets to that point , they're official in the lane of an "adult" so they need to be on their own, in their own space that they pay for and are the head of their own etc and etc.
@@lvshidd4429 he became a transgender & she became a trump supporter and bashed him LMAO
@@Kaiser1924 Smh Lol!
The ONLY place that you can do what you want is where you pay bills. He needs to get out asap.
The car ride home must have been awkward 😂
Angela being who she is. And the fact she reminds me of my mom. I’m shocked she hasn’t or don’t kick him out her house if he thinks he’s grown and don’t want to listen.
This attitude of 'I'm the parent so you have no right to express an opinion, defend your feelings, exert any kind of agency or I'm calling it disrespect' - it's toxic. If your solution is for your kid to get their own house, you can bet you're not going to be seeing them once they do. It's completely ego-driven. And it amazes me that full grown, ostensibly intelligent adults see their child act out or even speak with frustration in their voice and they don't think to look at themselves and wonder if they might have something to do with it.
This is the perfect comment! 🙏🏽
Absolutely!!!! Toxic!!!
Her son called cleaning his own room when he is told “slavery”. Telling you I don’t want bugs, filth in my house where you don’t pay bills and it’s yours is not negotiable. How you live for free and mad someone said clean up your crap? Not her crap but his own!!!
Wanting respect does not mean you can't have an opinion. You can have an opinion about whatever the heck you want but at the end of the day there are some things that have to be done a certain way whether you like it or not.
Cleaning a room?
He speaks to his Mother with such disrespect and disdain. It’s ok to ask questions and have your own opinion. However following rules and doing as your told is not being a slave it’s being cooperative. Rules keep order and peace. A child needs guidance. Even adults need leadership. If he doesn’t agree with his Mother’s way of parenting and he doesn’t want to be lead by his Mother then he needs to live on his own.
Her mother is transphobic and has no respect for her, respect goes both ways!
@@Dom_om_nom His Mother didn’t display any homophobic behavior in this video. This video is about the dysfunctional relationship between a parent and a child. Yes respect does go both ways, however a child is to respect their parents first because they’re not equal to their parents. It’s a hierarchy system and that is divine law. It’s about order and cooperation as I stated in my first comment. If the child comes to an age where they disagree then they need to leave from their parents. Since the son thinks following his Mother’s rules and ways is a form of slavery then he needs to free himself. As the Mother respectfully suggested emancipation is the best solution for her son.
@@QuianaMonique Just watch the Dr. Phil episode with them, she's extremely rude and homophobic.
Go look at Dr.Phill
You need to go watch doctor Phil
Ummm....that therapist didn't help with anything. Lol. Try again! Lol
Like mother, like son. The same complaints she has about him is the same complaints about her. She seems unteachable.
He is still a child. That's exactly what Angela is talking about in the video. Anything to DEFLECT from their own poor behavior, a child will use including comparing themselves to the parent &putting themselves on the parents level in an effort do so. HE IS A CHILD. Furthermore, whether Angela is "unteachable" or not, the issue is about HER SON who fails to do what he's told and abide by rules IN HER HOUSE. If she's so unteachable IN HER OWN HOUSE, *THEN JAY NEEDS TO LEAVE* . She's grown & IT'S HER HOUSE. When are y'all younger folks gonna realize the place of an ADULT AND A CHILD???? Somebody like YOU would've gotten fuqd up by our elders back in the day talking about what the PARENT can and can't be taught. Girl.... you woulda been signing your own death certificate letting that kinda foolishness come outta your mouth. Y'all got these new generation parents who are probably not that much older than you, still twerking, taking selfies and thinks it's "cool" to be friends with you (their children). The fact that you are defending and condoning this let's me know that you are about to raise the same kinda brats & releasing them into the world for the rest of us to have to put up with. And lemme tell you something sweetie, raise em like that NOW if you want to the way it's OPEN SEASON on those OF COLOR...US. You gonna be attending your child's funeral very SOON when they are killed at the hands of one of these Klan members disguised as cops bcuz they felt like they could be mouthy and question authority. Yall young folks don't understand the domino affect of condoning such behavior. . You think you're being wise and outspoken when you're really being ignorant asf.
LMFAOAOAO RIGHT
ADJUSTING HER CROWN girl you always typing paragraphs .. learn brevity mamas
I hate parents who think they kids literally speaking to them as a human instead of someone below them is disrespectful. It’s heartbreaking and that is not helpful when kids growing up but still treated and told to be in a child place. Glad to see jay flourishing now
He thinks he's a woman. Stop the bull
If she shelters you, feed you, provide a place for you to sh*it, clothes you and take care of you, then you need to comply. These disrespectful nasty little teens make me sick
@@teeslo6665 LOLL. PARENTS ARE REQUIRED TO DO THAT. THATS NOT OPTIONAL. STOP USING THIS DUMBASS ARGUMENT. CAN’T WAIT TILL YOUR GENERATION DIES OFF.
@@teeslo6665 AND THE FACT THAT YOU TALK ABOUT CHILDREN THIS WAY IS PATHETIC. JUST SAY YOURE MISERABLE AND GO.
@@Janiyahh don't worry we all die. It's where we go afterwards is the kicker. Hell is waiting on you. Enjoy
He's a disrespectful queen! Mom needs to continue to set her boundaries!
He's a boy no queen there
Exactly
Damn you hit it right on the nail. Very disrespectful.
@@god563616 it's. Need to be a two way respect. You don't know what the fuck is happening in the household
@Shawn Mendes Bussy that dude ain't no women. Whole dude
First, I'm just going to say this. I don't care what your lifestyle is. As long as you are under my roof, you're going to respect me! I agree with this mother wholeheartedly! He is a little boy who she is taking care of! He needs to respect his mother! Point blank! I have yet seen any comments from anyone stating that he needs to respect his mother
I feel you...all the way!! Some of these comments...I SWEAR!!🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
He do need to respect his mother but respect doesn’t mean your right and yes he is 19 which means he’s legal and he’s a young adult now still a baby but a young adult....Respect goes both ways💯I’m a teacher a child has to respect their parent and so does a parent need to respect their child as well💯There’s different levels of respect parent to child child to parent but none the less it goes both ways.....As a mom IMO there is nothing nurturing about her where is the nurturing side to start from ground level and work through the hostility....Me and my mom went through a lot but we always know how to have a conversation come back and say where we BOTH were wrong or what we didn’t like.....The problem with Angela that I have is she thinks she’s above the conversation her and her son need to have.....2 words for Angela Humble Yourself💯As we can see on Jason Lee show she’s Deff out of line💯
So once he leaves then he can be disrespectful? I believe he should be respectful regardless. Saying that only pushes the child away.
@@TH4TSR4VEN Again, he can leave her house.
@@nakitapalmer656 I agree with you guys
I see now, he wants to be a friend rather than a child..
& that’s the exact type of relationship they have now
Number 1, they in the wrong office....like that women can identify....with anything, that goes in that household....
Angela is her own worse enemy. She destroys everything around her. She didn't even see that she lost her child this very moment.
I'm the same way I guess it's true I talk to much so much for trying to stand for right..these clowns and celebrities can have the up hands start with Rickey smiley and his back again co workers. I'm done with this circus and copying and keys and folks stealing folks dreams
Angela thank you for being a grown adult. Keep speaking your truth. Your son will thank you one day. You are a beautiful strong and loving mom. I commend you. 🙏🏾
Jaybez is a mood “I don’t why I am here” 😭😭😭
He wants to be the “Woman” of the house. Yet, he needs to wait to get his OWN House. Simple!
😂😂😂
☠😂😂😂
teachus13 yup
In it's eseence this is a clearly judgemental homophobic and illogical response. You know it's young black straight boys that dont listen to their mother or father and dont clean their room when asked. Its called being a teen or however young he is.
This is so ugly and homophobic but had this been a white a woman saying ignorant stuff to about a black person , y’all would’ve been mad
Chile I resonate with this so much .. I'm going through this disconnect with my son... Who also has this same attitude... But no matter what, I'm old school.. You respect your parent and if you feel otherwise than take care of yourself but ALWAYS respect your parents ... Nobody was given a guide book on parenting.. We're not perfect and we make mistakes as well...
Did she ever think that he probably got molested when she was incarcerated?!
That doesn’t mean he should be disrespectful to her tf
trapp Tv TF you talking to where in my post did I state that he had a right to! Read ignoramus🙄
Molestation doesn’t make someone gay hun...
Steven Jones where in my post did I say that hun🙄?!
Just US Girlz you said/.. “he probably got molested when she was incarcerated” AND I SAID .. MOLESTATION ISNT A FACTOR for someone being gay ... we all said different things hun; what’s the problem.
Holy hell. This the same people from the Dr. Phil episode!!! Its crazy seeing Jayvies before the transformation
I love Angie she’s come UP from the bottom, most people do not have the fortitude to do so.
IS HE CRAZY??? Lol 😂 my monma would have knocked all my teeth out!!!
Shaylahh Khaliese my household was just fine and as a result, I’m just fine. I’m living well and I have my own family now and we are thriving. You teach children to respect you. I OBVIOUSLY 🙄 was being facetious when I said my momma would have knocked my teeth out. The point is, she and my dad did not tolerate disrespect. Period.
@@butterflyygyrlsworld5106 dont even waste your time with this younger generation of idiots. The fact that half of them are even on here defending that CHILD as tho "he's owed respect" only shows me that those same individuals are equally disrespectful. Only someone who can identify with such ugly behavior like Jay's would defend it.
okay that’s great for your teeth ❤️
ADJUSTING HER CROWN exactly! 💯
@@KAMALAISHERNAME they defending him because him and his mom are cool now and jaybz is like jaybz he's grown now with its own platform that he didn't have get of his momma
Shes just like my mom, wanna downplay the actual problem or dont talk about it at all.
It definitely wasnt about her just “cleaning her room”
My mom once blamed me in public for one of my traumas related to my brother and then tried to say that wasnt what she was talking about
His mom is a great mother. She going through therapy just to help their relationship. You’re supposed to always respect your mom no matter what. She gave birth to you so when she say do something, you do it (.)
'No matter what'? No, fuck off with that. That's the problem.
If anyone watched her on Dr.Phil,her daughter who said that she is always caught in between her mother and her brother. She said that her mother is a mental and emotional bully.She said that her mother slapped her just because she had a difference of opinion on the topic of abortion.At the end of the day all children and teens mock and mimic what they see their parents do.
You mean HE
No her biologically female daughter Armani is what they meant...dumbass
Seeing jaybies with this appearance is crazy idk
Even with the changes made since this, I still see this person when I see jaybiez 😭
These kids will learn when they have to be out on their own how good they had it and how hard us parents have to struggle to take care of them. And they want to be disrespectful? Smdh
This is now how a nurtured and loved child acts.
That was probably because mom wasn't there. No excuse to disrespect your mom.
It is when SHE IS LITERALLY HOMOPHOBIC AND CALLS YOU AN ANIMAL
He disrespects her because she is a homophobe
@Point Blankx2 You call that, making something of yourself?!?! She's a disgrace.
I am late to the party but where's the Dad?
@@Butterfly-sp4hr He died a few years ago, but him and Angela were never together
The fact we went to school together and he has always been funny ❤️❤️
the most goofy and funny people go through the most stuff behind closed doors ... it’s crazy
Poor Angela- she had her hands full with that unhappy kid.
NO, that poor baby with a felon, thief, and homophobe for a birth giver. I'm so glad "She" made it out safely away from her!
Poor kid prison bird for a “mother”. Ángela herself looks VERY strong in the face and is probably struggle with her own sexuality. She been to prison you can’t till me she hasn’t screwed a woman.
Here afterthe dr phil episode. This comment section is so annoying. Yall talk like your own child that you selfishly brought into this world is your slave/property.
‘You cant have opinions if you still live under my roof’
‘... then move out’
‘who pays the bills’
I also hate my mom when she orders me to clean my room disrespectfully. Act like i owe her my life for living under her roof. sometimes children don't do things right because they have problems of their own. They are children y’all.. they dont know what’s going on. If you know your child well you can definitely tell the difference between a child being disrespectful to you or if they are not feeling well. For example, every time I delay locking the fence of my house, my parents scold me loudly. But when they are the one who delay to locking the fence, I have no right to reprimand them. why? Why do parents act like they are the authoritarian rulers of their child’s life?
Family is a place where you can be your raw self. a place where you grow and learn to be a better human being. not a place where whoever pays the bills is the authorized one. where is unconditional love? every child is different, and every parent must know and understand their child so that a good relationship can be established. cookie cutter approach to children is useless. Maybe angela kind of parenting style works for you, but not for others.
Also, parents and children can deal with each other equally. I am a strong believer that children are a reflection of their parents. Children do not belong to their parents. Of course, children should respect and love their parents who raise and nurture them. Of course we understand how parents have sacrificed so much for their children's well being. Of course there are boundaries that must exist between parents and children. but that doesn't mean you are the boss of your kids. if your parents shutting down your spirit, making you feel miserable, then you have the right to stand up for yourself. This is my pov as a child who also grew up with parents similar to angela and you have the right to feel the opposite way.
But before you judge how someone behave, all you have to do is to respect other’s opinion and don't try to teach others/tell others what to do without knowing their circumstances.
Im a mother who most definitely feels were his mom is coming from. She is doing every step possible as a mother to try to fix the relationship but He is making it more worse then things are!
Jaybiessssss came a longggg way
What a piece of work that mother is. "Emancipation." So what works is not having my child around. Truly unbelievable. It's like she's trying to get rid of him. Breaks my heart.
You people need to research this women ..... She a damn piece of work...If I had a stupid mom like her... I wouldn't walk to get a divorce from her ..I would run...
They was on doctor phil too..
Nawww... I’m here from Hollywood Unlocked interview... whooo chile 🥴
Yes he has no the respect going back and forth with his mother like that. These kids today Have no respect. I understand exactly how she feels.
She's a homophobic Trump supporter...
@@idragfornicki7612 what tf does that have to do with her son doing what he's supposed to do including staying in a child's place???? I swear, some of y'all don't think b4 posting.
@@KAMALAISHERNAME He's gay and his mom is homophobic, are you fucking stupid enough that you can't put the pieces together? His mom verbally abused him for being gay he has said it many times and you think he's suppose to respect her? You black parents are toxic and it's showing.
@@KAMALAISHERNAME He is gay and she's homophobic. Is he suppose to sit there and let her verbally abuse him for living his truth? You said he needs to stay in a child's place but he's 18 now do that doesn't matter.
@@KAMALAISHERNAME You want to say I don't think before posting but you're the one in the wrong. Your basically saying he needs to allow the abuse because he isn't grown. Okay idiot.
The way y’all are on the moms side look how she treats her now 🤦🏾♀️
For anyone wanting an update, Jaybies (going by his stage name) and his mom’s relationship has gotten better, he has gotten his own apartment and is his own boss making around 60-80k a month on a live streaming service called Bigo, on there he does hair, makeup, hang out with his friends and does other things, if you’re interested his Bigo ID is jaybz and if you want to follow him on Instagram his @ is jaybiez.
Saw them on dr Phill show yday. I can't believe she clearly knows her son is different and is still forcing him to be who she wants him to be.
It’s a spiritual warfare going aka poor behavior and disrespect being pushed to normalize, I believe Angela has his best interest at heart, he would do himself more justice to respect his mother and listen.
I agree the son will loose the battle it doesn't matter what the son is going through I think it's about look at me mom just me. The devil got a strong hold on that young man and neither one of them can discern that
Stop pushing hatred
@@williamhudson2815 Devil is fake
@@sungexpression9093 the biggest trick that the devil ever pulled was to convince the world that he don't exist. He's tricked you not me I know he exists look around you foolish one you're being fooled not me. There is a reason he was thrown out of heaven.
@@williamhudson2815 heaven isn’t real either lol I can go all day
First of all, the mother has narcissistic tendencies. Secondly, any "seasoned" therapist would tell a parent NOT to compare their children as it disrupts the family system and creates detrimental roles (i.e. scapegoat, golden child, etc). The mother has issues with her son's sexuality and this is evident out of the gate.
All she said was he was different. I don’t think any parentwith multiple children would denounce each child’s individuality. It’s not to say you love one more than the other. It just means you love each one enough to know they have different personalities and you have to raise them accordingly.
Her energy is vile, she wants power over him, but she clearly sees that he is his own individual person, he can't change just to fit her exact standards and the more he refuses, she just wants nothing to do with him.
Until he get out!!? Shiiiiid!!,... With a snap back attitude, and mouth like his,... He would definitely have to get out of my house right now!! 🤣 4real tho!! It's ways of working that out asap!!
SHE CAUSED THIS!..... She is literally looking at HER reflection
This whole comment section did not pass the vibe check
Girl she better back out my girl jaybies mug for I TIP ANNDDD CHE STOMP
why do she have a problem wit all her children 😂
Who else here from dr Phil? When you watch that and this, you can kind of understand where the disrespect comes from because she doesn’t know how to give it. However there is a way to get your point across without stopping to that level bc if both parties act that way, no one will get anywhere
He's full of anger. Maybe one day he'll grow up. Way to go mom!
Wow I feel the same way about my son...this the new generation...I feel you mom
So a lot of people are quick to jump on Angela but let’s not forget she is the mom. A child should never disrespect their mother. Also if she was homophobic and didn’t care for him why would she even try therapy? She could of been kicked him out the house. He has zero respect for her. Plus we don’t know the whole story.
excuse miss ... i hate when ppl state the whole “child and mother” scenario on the BEHALF OF A DISRESPECTFUL MOTHER. Angela is disrespectful in general and seems to be very disrespectful to her son. Respect is earned and if someone is disrespectful him .. he has the right to disrespect them back; it doesn’t matter about the roles. She clearly took him to “therapy” to get back up or for a tv storyline .. plz know what you’re talking about before passing judgment on the boy ... he has “zero respect” for her because SHE HAS NO RESPECT FOR HIM. Tysm ❤️
As a mother I totally understand her point of view. HE is extremely disrespectful and selfish.
no mom’s most def da selfish one .
@@c00l8id yeah you don’t have kids and if you do I already know they get away with bs.
parents can be emotionally abusive too and it isnt always obvious
a lot of times what parents view as talking back and being disrespectful is really children sharing their oppinions and standing up for theirselves when parents lash out. she says they get into physical fights, thats not healthy at all
It's a thin line between expressing yourself and being disrespectful! PERIOD
I can tell by the moms attitude she should never have had children. She has no respect for her child and what she has put out has come right back to her. It is so clear.
@OnikaTanyaMaraj👑 after watching the Dr. Phil show, this lady has no respect for her children AND herself… if I were her kids, I would be ASHAMED to have a mother like this.