SCHOOL & DATING UPDATE, TAKING A BREAK, BEING LOVE BOMBED, & LETTING GOD HANDLE IT

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Комментарии • 77

  • @Breonaleonard
    @Breonaleonard 3 года назад +11

    Jenny! You remind me so much of myself as far as your love for luxury and the standards, expectations that you hold YOURSELF to and the ppl/relationships you desire💗
    I was grieving an 8 year relationship and finally after sometime, God re-assured me that (1) he will always provide (2) He goes beyond OUR beyond! I actually dated a few people (even a man who was great) and realized I actually didn’t want to be in a relationship as soon as I thought I did😂 God will always replace the things we THINK we lost with more of himself. Girlll, you are the bomb and I have no doubt that the man you desire will find you🥰

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад +1

      Lol! I felt I wanted a relationship but at the end of the day, all men annoyed me! 🥱

  • @alexis-zf1je
    @alexis-zf1je 3 года назад +14

    From my experience like this closure is overrated- trust your instincts and yourself. You gotta just let it go and not look back ❤️best of luck you got this sending love

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад +1

      Yes, most definitely! Never looking back!

  • @pachachaslide
    @pachachaslide 3 года назад +2

    love yourself enough to walk away from something that is not serving you. when it doesn't work out 5/5 times, god is sending you a sign girl.

  • @loriruthford8215
    @loriruthford8215 3 года назад +7

    When you are busy loving yourself the love of your life will appear when you least expect it. I know because it happened to me almost 20yrs. ago. I was living my BEST life when I was 25yrs old so much so that my friends worried that I would never meet the one or get married. My husband and I met when I was 29yrs. old when we were both out with friends. It's true what they say " when you least expect it you will meet the one." We have been together since then. ❤ Enjoy life, this is your time to enjoy every bit of YOU.....God's timing..... Best of Luck, Jenny.

  • @serenaucsc
    @serenaucsc 3 года назад +3

    Don't chase someone who won't chase you. You want to find someone who loves you more than you love them. Trust your instincts and let God lead you in the right direction.

  • @lorenadelarosa1415
    @lorenadelarosa1415 3 года назад +1

    That's the best decision, love yourself and don't let men disrespect you...you're such a good make up artist, you have a talent..pls vlog more about makeup tutorial Jenny..

  • @jennifergalvis4207
    @jennifergalvis4207 2 года назад +2

    Hi! What product did you use under your eye, like a very bright eyeliner? 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  2 года назад

      Hi babe! Here's a link! go.magik.ly/ml/1a25o/

  • @luxindia
    @luxindia 3 года назад +4

    When you upload my day automatically gets 3x betterrrrrr❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад +1

      Aww, makes me so happy that you enjoy watching my videos!

  • @margaretnguyen2681
    @margaretnguyen2681 3 года назад +4

    Love how transparent you are!!

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад

      Thank you! Sometimes it’s hard but I always hope that it can help others.

  • @joyvillavicencio3501
    @joyvillavicencio3501 3 года назад +2

    You deserve to find a man that’s worthy of you for sure! Stay happy and content with your living your best life 🥰

  • @queenhoneya2910
    @queenhoneya2910 3 года назад +5

    Omg I watched your nyc vlog and girl you were glowing and thriving. Every look was 🔥💯🔥💯. I’m seriously happy for you! 🥰

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад

      Thank you so much for watching babe! I was so happy!

  • @shandisfancher8766
    @shandisfancher8766 3 года назад +4

    I'm glad you choose to do the trip solo. You obviously weren't looking forward to connecting with this person and they don't make you feel special. If you feel that they aren't respecting you, you have no obligation to be with them.

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад +2

      Thank you! I had a gut feeling about it and it was only for his advantage. I'm so happy it's finally over and there's no more going back and forth.

  • @Angel_xoxo973
    @Angel_xoxo973 3 года назад +1

    Hi Jenny! I've had that experience. I was so in love with this dude & he thought that we could go back to "just be friends" and I just do not function that way. He was also manipulative in the lies that he would feed me and the amount of disrespect that he showed me. It's hard to know if the decisions that we make in the moment are the right ones. Everything is easier to understand in hindsight. We do the best that we can with the knowledge that we have in that moment. You know who you are and you will find what you are looking for. You've got this girl!

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад +1

      Aww thanks a ton! It was super difficult for me bc I pictured everything with this person but I’m so happy I can move forward and learn wrong from right and how I want to be treated.

  • @bmt703
    @bmt703 3 года назад +14

    You will find your soulmate. Yes, put it in the hands of God. Build your faith, concentrate on your school studies. Celebrate with your friends and enjoy birthday. When you do start dating again. Enjoy the person, get to know the person and vice versa. I think relationship goals should not happen right away. That way both parties won’t get hurt and be misunderstood.

  • @emilymos23
    @emilymos23 3 года назад +4

    the luna picture 🥺🥺🥺

  • @y.spence
    @y.spence 3 года назад +1

    We all understand the spark ⚡️!! Boy does that feel amazing. Just make sure the feelings are mutual. Be honest about being in a relationship from the beginning and you’ll be fine. Good luck with everything.

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад +2

      Of course! I stopped looking for a provider and started seeing the guys for who they were and how they treated me. I had these standards and I wouldn’t say I completely forgot about them but I definitely look at the potential people have.

  • @jeanetteoxo
    @jeanetteoxo 3 года назад +10

    You need to find a Capricorn or a Taurus. But they say a Virgo soul mate is a Pisces. Best of luck Jenny. Just don't give your ex another try. He don't deserve you. The right one will come when you least expect it. ✨💫

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад

      Lol! You wouldn’t even believe another Leo walked into my life and I was so bummed. But I met a Virgo male and he’s incredible!

  • @serynaho
    @serynaho 3 года назад

    You deserve better 🥺 im sorry you had to go through this, I just got out of a two year relationship so I can relate to how you feel

  • @bazor6883
    @bazor6883 3 года назад +2

    You are young and pretty do not worry about anything what now just focused on yourself ,continue with your studies and travel enjoy life..

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад

      Yes, focusing on enjoying life!

  • @ExtraordinaryDanielle
    @ExtraordinaryDanielle 3 года назад +2

    I’m so happy to hear that you are praying and trusting God. That will really provide you everything you truly desire long term, You are way to good and too CLASSY to be a FWB to ANY man!!! I never would do that with any man either because I’m way to good for that too! You should let this situation go because this man hurt you way too much to be trusted again. You can hear the hurt in your voice when you talk about it. He has a lot to prove to you before he would be worthy of your time and your love again. Much love!💖

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад +1

      I definitely have! I had to put myself first again. I would never let anyone treat me that way and I don’t know why I stayed for so long. Horrible!

  • @apple_chhetri
    @apple_chhetri 3 года назад +1

    I'm also in same situation after separation from nearly 4 years relationship 💔 thank you for the video. You're so relatable ❤ hope u n i both get through this and come out getting exactly what/who we deserve.

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад +1

      You're welcome! I hope you're feeling better and moving on with life!

    • @apple_chhetri
      @apple_chhetri 3 года назад

      @@xojennydey oh my god.... reply from you 😯❤ i can't believe this, you actually red my comment. I love you so much ❤ and thanks a lot for your reply and wishes ❤❤❤

  • @srey_p
    @srey_p 3 года назад +2

    Just focus on yourself and truly love yourself first before getting back into the dating world cause guys can be shady af. They will say and do whatever to gain your trust but whenever they get bored or whatever just flips in their brain they can totally flip up on you and change up on you. Trust your gut and get your closure and believe in their actions/behavior and not what they just say. It speaks volumes. Stay positive!!

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад

      Yes! They say anything and everything once you open up and it’s manipulating honestly.

  • @DynastyZWarrior
    @DynastyZWarrior 3 года назад +1

    I do not know how I found this channel but was interesting keep up your good work and life in the future

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад

      Aww thank you so much for sticking around! ☺️

  • @lexbeauty5433
    @lexbeauty5433 3 года назад +1

    The way i feel you. Going through it too 💕 sooo many things you do I do too so thank you

  • @bronwynabbas546
    @bronwynabbas546 3 года назад +1

    I have also read up on all things bad for my cat. So happy for responsible cat parents💖💖💖💖

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад

      Yessss, my subbies helped me so much! I’m super grateful!

  • @queenhoneya2910
    @queenhoneya2910 3 года назад +2

    I wish you the best in school ♥️👍🏻💯

  • @livyap99
    @livyap99 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for the update!! Men ain’t shit, something will come along for you, it’s happened to me before too, and i’m glad you didn’t meet up with that idiot in nyc!! Love all your uploads🤍

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад +1

      Hahahaha absolutely! I would never go back to that now that I’ve moved on!

  • @queenhoneya2910
    @queenhoneya2910 3 года назад +3

    Girl you literally need to film a dating 101 video. Your a pro 💯🔥. I’m sorry that you have not met “the one” yet. Girl your flawless, it’s their loss.

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад

      Hahahahah, everyone’s favorite bachelorette 😌

  • @queenhoneya2910
    @queenhoneya2910 3 года назад +2

    Omg yes ♥️🥰

  • @mrs.duran8149
    @mrs.duran8149 3 года назад +1

    Jenny don’t waste your time with people that don’t reserve your attention. You should just cold turkey block that person and don’t talk to that person. It seems like a done deal. Give yourself the opportunity to meet the right person. Yes just focus on yourself..

  • @fikaboojohn5713
    @fikaboojohn5713 3 года назад +2

    He has made you an option, it will be hard but walk away.. much too good of a person for that person

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад +1

      It’s not as hard when you start over 5 times lol! I’m so over it!

  • @tashahartman38
    @tashahartman38 3 года назад

    Honestly Jenny he doesn’t deserve you and sounds like he doesn’t know why he wants nor does he want a serious relationship. Clearly you guys were already dating and discussing a future so after that how do you step back and go to being friend. That’s ass backwards. If that’s the case you should have been friends first before starting a relationship. You will find your soulmate don’t worry. 💕💕

  • @ayannamarie123
    @ayannamarie123 3 года назад +7

    I don’t even think you should visit him when you go to NY :/

    • @ayannamarie123
      @ayannamarie123 3 года назад +4

      He’s giving you rules and stipulations to be with him. It puts him in the position of being the “prize”

    • @Its_JenT
      @Its_JenT 3 года назад +2

      Totally agree with you, @ayanna stewart

    • @parrish1908
      @parrish1908 3 года назад +1

      And for him to always want to “start over” it’s giving fk boy. Jenny you shouldn’t ever communicate with him again

    • @ExtraordinaryDanielle
      @ExtraordinaryDanielle 3 года назад +1

      I totally agree!

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад +5

      Hi babe! I’m back from NY and no, I didn’t meet up with him! I’m so happy I didn’t. It made my experience so much better ☺️

  • @andrearamirez1030
    @andrearamirez1030 3 года назад +1

    💗💗💗

  • @Its_JenT
    @Its_JenT 3 года назад +2

    He is not worth any of your time! He's taking attention and energy away from you meeting someone that is actually right for you as long as he is in your life.

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад +1

      Yes, I felt I was losing so much precious time! 😭

    • @Its_JenT
      @Its_JenT 3 года назад

      It's good that you've figured it out, tho! I know one girl that didn't give up for 8 years and only because he got married😳

  • @chichibabee
    @chichibabee 3 года назад +8

    maybe he already has a main chick and hes just playing you

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад +3

      That’s what I was thinking too! He never FaceTimed me when he was home and never showed his home. Trust me, we had that theory too.

    • @chichibabee
      @chichibabee 3 года назад

      @@xojennydey it was very sketchy when you flew all the way to the East coast to visit him and he had you stayed in a hotel…wtf…that was hella weird. Wondering what his excuse was.😒

  • @anatorres3572
    @anatorres3572 3 года назад +1

    The one will come and you won’t have to work so hard to keep him. What is meant to be will be.

  • @mynamesnotjenna
    @mynamesnotjenna 3 года назад +1

    Maybe he lives with his mom, jk! But you deserve so much better girl! Don’t put up with that treatment / BS

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад

      LMAO we thought about that theory!

  • @TheSign0
    @TheSign0 3 года назад +1

    Love bombing, he did sound manipulative. Sorry some guys their momma didn’t raise right

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад

      I just feel so bad for the next one! 😫

  • @harajukuloversbaby11
    @harajukuloversbaby11 3 года назад

    I think hes your twinflame... I'd really look it up Jenny

    • @xojennydey
      @xojennydey  3 года назад +2

      Lol! You gotta be joking!