15 Persuasion Tricks You Should Watch Out For
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- Опубликовано: 26 июн 2024
- Some people want to know how to persuade anyone in the world - yet this is a dangerous thing. The persuasion techniques they want to learn are readily available, so what are you going to do to defend yourself? If someone tries one of these psychology tricks on you, be sure to know the signs.
Sources:
The 6 Principles of Persuasion
www.psychologytoday.com/intl/...
Solomon Asch - Conformity Experiment
www.simplypsychology.org/asch...
Persuasive Speech: The way we, um, talk sways our listeners
news.umich.edu/persuasive-spe...
Tapping Our Powers of Persuasion
www.apa.org/monitor/2011/02/p...
Persuasion
www.britannica.com/science/pe...
Ways to Win Any Argument
www.psychologytoday.com/intl/...
Music: “cute” and “ukulele” from Bensound.com
Thanks to Tristan Reed (writing), Troy W. Hudson (VO), HowlingCreations for helping to create this video! 
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When someone says " We need to do something" most of the time it really means you have to do something that is not required of you.
It often means, you have to do something to convenience me. It will be a bother to you but a benefit to me.
Don't let anyone persuade you to go down any path but your own !
Ain't that the truth.
@The Creator yep, I either immediately or gradually allow those people to disappear from my life lol
Do not let anyone persuade you to get their help to go down your path, either. You will inevitably be taken off your path and onto their's. Never accept anyone's help. They will make you pay for it. Should you want help, or need help, still avoid it. Never receive help.
I'll add 2. 1)Watch out for people that will try to manipulate you with flattery. Since even normally skeptical people can be duped by flattery, even temporarily. 2) Using your words against you. "You said that you wanted x y & z, right?". Some people will appeal to your ego by asking you about yourself to find out what you want or goals that you have, simply in order to use those things to manipulate you. (managers)
Good additions!!
“The opposite of courage is conformity.” -Rickson Gracie
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Take it from somebody who’s been through the ringer and back, never trust anybody. If you want to keep something a secret, then keep it to yourself, because people are not worthy of trust, and I’m not saying that in a bad way, that’s just human nature, and you cannot stop human nature, but instead learn to adapt to it, and that way you keep yourself safe.
1) preceived friendship
2) false limitations
3) misleading opinions
4) calculated concessions
5) persuasive language
6) imaginary competition
7) ridiculous hypotheticals
8) illusion of education
9) manipulative mirror
10) loaded favours
11) fast-talking
12) behavioral consistency
13) claiming experties
14) turning the tables
15) the kind command
Thank you!
MVP
Looks like a list of used car salesman techniques.
I never trust people that talk fast
My impression on fast talking people are stressed.
Listening to the video at 125% 🙄
A lot of BPO interviewer does this...and definitely they are hiding something, for not to be noticed.
you probably don't like Eminem right? :P
I never trust people. Trust is a fools game.
In my opinion, attraction is an advantage in the beginning, and kindness is it in the final! People seem to get attention of what others are doing in the beginning, but since people are busy just in their own things, so they are easy to forget. But, what they receive is easier to remember in the long term:)
This is why i don't allow people to get close to me because most of the time they are trying to persuade you to do what they want. I'm usually the person that persuade others and i like it that way...
If it sounds to good to be true, don't listen...you will be deceived
Actually, even if it sounds sincere, helpful, even mundane and boring, you will be deceived. Modern humans are incapable of being helpful to one another without a hefty price. They are also incapable of friendship and amorous relationships. Avoid them at all costs. They are not your friends.
Whenever someone says, “That’s not fair”, it really means they want something and feel entitled to it. Ever notice that someone who says “That’s not fair” is never sacrificing anything?
99% of what you watch is propagation.
A kind voice with cartoons disguises the Programming. You're being taught how to think. It's called Re-education.
You're welcome.
Most of the Comments on ALL videos are paid profiles. Even arguments are actors.
This is a sinking ship.
You'll remember my words very soon.
Ask what's really going on in the world.
These moving pictures, Netflix and TV will never stop. It's the illusion that things are _happening_ and it's _fine._
This is chaos to confuse you and push you to a desired _Exit._
You don't always have to be comfortable. We often mistake contentment for boredom or disinterest.
Take another look at your friend, partner or family member. Ask yourself if you're appreciating the moment.
Practice "Delayed Gratification".
Dopamine detox is essential to see the _dots_ and connect them.
Taper down these easy-click baby shows and high drama fiction garbage. It's rewiring your nervous system.
None of this is opinion.
Pull that cord man. Just pull it.
Take care of yourself.
Tin foil hat wearer detected.
thersten He might be wrong but where did you pull the "tinfoil hat" from, your butt?
@@doomhead1619 he meant "ALIENNNSS" THERE IN OUR BRAINS. Hes that type of guy.is what he is ssayin
DeadShXot 420 Unless OP actually talks about aliens, he has no right to say that.
@@doomhead1619 To each there own sir...To each There own
Fantastic. Language is vital in our perception of the value we place on something. Emotionally engaging language can be the difference between success and failure when trying to persuade someone
I experienced almost all of these yesterday dealing with a female that tried to scam me and then use that information as leverage to verbally abuse me in hopes of lowering my self esteem, self worth, and self image, as well as for her own entertainment and monetary gain. $4 later and a huge NO to her ultimate quest of profiting for being a covert narcissistic C to me, she finally left without incident and frustrated. I was on to her from the jump but had to entertain the con to ensure her story was accurate. Unfortunately, she wasn't consistent enough to pull it off and continuously would do and say things that would contradict the story in which I was supposed to believe and do things that I normally wouldn't simply bc I believed her story to be true. I didn't call her out on every little lie or misstep of her attempts at manipulating me I simply let her play herself as I continued to be me and kept inquiring more and more about the story. She finally couldn't keep up the verbal facade so she took action by leaving and most likely a retreat to think on the story and how to expand it rather than making it up as she went bc she knows that I would remember what was said as she would not be able to keep all the lies straight and at that point there would be no denying and her game would be over. Lol. She's truly not the type of female a man would want to invest time with so she can run the smear campaign and stalk me all she wants but I'm never going to conform to her insecurities and manipulative behavior and personality defects. Beanie Baby is not my lover she just a girl who claims that I am the one... hahahaha
Dear young empaths, if you didn’t already know these, don’t worry, you’ll learn em 👍
It's in our best interest if they remain oblivious
I don't trust people who use my name in their sentences.
I had people do that before it just weird.
Trust nobody that approaches you in a friendly manner, whether you are familiar with the person or not. Humans are incapable of true friendship. Keep humans at a well defined distance from you. If they try to befriend you, that is the one to especially keep away from you in a more urgent manner.
It’s an old saying that people like to hear their name -but I agree- it’s usually people who are trying to charm me that say my name while talking to me...and I find it to be creepy. Lol
@@Vaccinevirgin I dislike my name. I do not like to hear it. "Indrid," is not a name for a male. It is not a name for a female. It is some strange nothing name. At least my surname is ordinary. Though, is there any surname that is not ordinary? Just about anything goes for a surname. I have been thinking of changing my given name. Chester Cold or Rusty Cold, how about Fred Cold? Maybe not. They sound too much like Chest Cold, Frosty Cold, and Dead Cold. I really am thinking of changing my given name but with the examples I gave, I know I can always do worse than, "Indrid Cold."
Indrid Cold -i like your name....it sounds a bit androgynous-but I like that. How bout you change your name to Frigid Cold instead of Indrid Cold. (Ha Ha) similar -yet more masculine....and a cool name if you’re in an emo/punk/goth band.
Yeh! Persuasion tricks takes courage. People have a wall in their own world. So the best thing is to insist.
As a sales person sometimes speaking quickly isn't always the best way to go. In my experience speaking slower and deliberately placing emphasis on certain words works better. This is mostly the case if you're selling something technically complicated or to the elderly. Speaking at a more relaxed pace also works if you are showing different products but want the customer to buy the one you want.
You should watch
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1. Underhanded friendship
2. Falls limitations
3. Misleading opinion
4. Calculated concessions
5. Persuasive language
6. Imaginary competition
7. Ridiculous hypotheticals
8. Illusion of education
9.
10. Loaded favours
11. Fast talking
12. Behavioral consistency
13. Claiming expertise
14. Turning the tables
15. The kind command
I talk fast in general because of anxiety, but I have the worst confidence, self esteem etc. I think that is one is debatable!
"Be SURE to subscribe because INCREDIBLE content IS on the way!" 😂😂😂😂
Thanks for pointing it out... I need to go unsubscribe from every channel I was persuaded subscribed to....
Jean Grey 😄😄
is that an order? lol and why do i have a picture of the incredibles in my head?
Very very useful. Subtle,and manipulative techniques well exposed!
Yes!
Alternate title; 15 ways to persuade someone 🤣😂😅
Very nice video. Thanks so much!
People can't get in my head to fast it takes time to earn my trust
Now you persuaded me to watch this video just by reading its title.
Very good. Thanks for keeping it real!
All knowledge about human nature is just tools and it's up too us to use it for the great good.
Your grammar needs improvement.
And be more then what meets the eye
Facts
you trying to be persuasive?
I have learned to keep others at a very well defined distance, personally and physically. Never trust humans. They will betray you.
Thanx Top Think!! U r the best!!
Thank you for sharing.
this is the best educational channel
very helpful and concise
REALTORS!!!! I witnessed to many of these deceptive “tricks” first hand and got away. Glad I found this list, now I understand what game they were playing!! Thanks!!!
I had a car dealer call me as if the house was on fire. He says we need cars like yours we can get you in a new one...
Dang it! This video got me with #1, #5, and #12!!! You sneaky knowing I don't want to be pursuaded!
This video is the antithesis of all the charisma channels on RUclips.
I watched this only so I can identify these kind of peoples
yeah man that's what the title says.
I know what you mean. The dark side must be studied as well as the light side of human beings.
Me too 😂
But what if "these" kinds of people don,t exist and in reality the video is trying to shape your perception of the world?
And i to indentify, and use this tricks against other
The 48 Laws of Power comes to mind. Persuasion seemed to be the more ethical version of The 48 Laws of Power. Both are really eye opening.
Love that author.
Thx Bro awesome vid
Insightful! Thank u
Im naturally a skeptic. I like to think I’m not easily persuaded
I back away from friends, so they won't get a sale from me.
Joe Tao yeah lol what’s the point I asking this question
I would agree with you 100% and persuade you soon after.
Abortion Survivor 😂
Never let anybody approach you to enforce their opinion on you.
In conclusion: Dont talk to anyboby.
😁 Not even yourself
Nick And if you do, don’t trust them.
And if you trust them don't talk to them
Pretty much😐
😂
Thank you 🙇
thanks for the help on the homework 5stars ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️
Interesting and Good advices,now that I know!....
You have made some great videos. I'm surprised you don't have way more likes with all of the views you've collected.
What a wonderful content i enjoyed my meal over this video. Thank you
These persuasion tricks might readjust once they've become obvious, or too exposed.
Persuasion is different from manipulation. Manipulation is controlling to benefit oneself & persuasion is influencing to benefit the person's best interests.
Manocyte Sotomi Both are the same thing. I worked in Advertising for years and I could see first hand the result of my “persuasion” on society.
Manocyte Sotomi this made me laugh.
To me, manipulation is the basis of witchcraft, which is used to herd the intended prey into a desired outcome. Daren on "Bewitched" worked on Wall Street and Samantha would help him with his career.
"We live in our imaginations desiring to fulfill our phantasies" me
I disagree you can persuade people to do what you want, for your benefit and that is a form of manipulation.
Powerful :D Greetings from romania!
waterloo iowa u.s.a greeting to romania, thanks takecare gooddays
Reciprocity is my favorite!
Greetings Troy and Tristan, thank you for putting your very hard earned time into this viedeo, just for us to get more information about persustion. In my opinion those persuation tricks you listed are to simple and something almost every buissnes man know and uses this but for people who dont have any idea about persuation this was a good viedeo
It would be splendid if more viedeos on youtube would focus making more guys more masculine and help them get out of that blue pilled belives and turning them into a real men, they relly need it
Describe a real man. I guess men have to "conform" to what a "real man" is...ha? Societal definitions for many things change from time periods/centuries to another.
heey finally a new subscriber 😁✋🏿
Repricosity doesn't work in fact can have the opposite effect. Therefore the opposite approach would be adopted in that the influencer should be the one to ask a favour rather than offer a favour
If the couch is soooooo comfy, why are you selling it??
He has one exactly like it at home! , assuming he's pitching sales for a furniture store
It's ugly!
😆
His mother died on it and it holds sad memories.
@@indridcold8433 I like that it got dark pretty fast lol I like ya
people who talk louder too can have more control over a crowd rather your own sensible voice of reason
Good stuff keep it up
These are Great 👍🏾 tips
Alternate title; 15 ways to persuade someone 🤣😂😅
Always talk with a non caring look
Can i know the software and voice over used to produce this amazing video?
it's now August 2020. Reviewing this video and can help to notice a lot these when watching political news today. Some are nuanced, but a lot are blatant.
Great video....I clicked because of the picture at first because I was a door 2 door salesman and my boss said if u can let a guy on his back for something its easier to get into their wallet
Trusting is a hard thing , you can be a friend of wolf but always put your axe on your shoulder
Love this saying - I'll be sure to use on some self promoting ass!
@@terrybyrd5105 it is best to not trust anybody and keep everyone at a distance. As for making friends with a human, I would advise against that. Humans have not been capable of friendship since around 2000. It is an ability gradually lost from antiquity to about 2000. After 2000, some humans will go through the motions of being a friend. However, the ability os lost. One will inevitably victimise the other in the false friendship very soon. It is best to interact with others in a manner that a client would interact with a service provider or a merchant. This assures the shortest possible interaction and a minimal possibility of the person becoming familiarised with you. Never try to be someone's friend. Never let anybody approach you for amicable nor amorous reasons. They are not your friend nor are they looking to make a friend. You have been warned.
@@indridcold8433 this is correct.#48lawsofpower
I find I get people's trust by pointing out how much I can't stand most people. They usually agree and instantly we are good friends. Who wouldn't buy a used car off of one of their good friends?
I watched the first point they made about making friends and concluded from that the whole thing is probably about adopting some phony attitude towards other people to get what you want. That is a sure way to create a cynical society in which no one can trust anybody else.
This hits different after an emotional abusive relationship
Persuasive language is my mother tongue since I learn language indifferently
Brilliant
Reminds me of workplace environments in a nutshell.
You can’t PERSUAAADE me to believe the things you said in this video. Teehee!
Most people are out to get what they want and only think about themselves. People are following the ways of satan tbh.
Respect to all the good people out there though ✌
@AJ Ghali fuck him if he exists but I dont think he does
That is wide since in BIBLE is eritem that"CURSED IS THE GUY WHO TRUST IN OTHER HUMAN" no exception, including pastors who abbuse their status to have sex with weak teenage females. Haha, trust a human, never, it's God's advise since all humans have basically the same sexual needs, food needs all needs are the same and all seek Those, only a fool would fall for lesser things.
@@divinefoo5555 Satan is uncool, baby
@AJ Ghali Satan sucks
@@divinefoo5555 He is right behind you!
Turning the tables is answering a question with a question...I hate it😂
It's funny because I've realized I've used a couple of those and it's also funny because I've noticed other people trying to use some of those all in all sound facts..
Number 8 made me wonder if this video intents to manipulate me instead
11. That's why I played this video x 2 speed!
7:55 Reciprocity - this ended up working in reverse for me from a boss I had who used to manipulate people this way. I worked on the weekends and would take any extra work and often 8 hours turned into 12. I was always there, which made his life easier but in truth I was making a lot of money, which was my goal. One day he was so happy he brought me into his office and closed the door and told me anytime I need a favor just ask him because (he) works like that. I knew better lol but played it cool. It worked out later on when getting vacation was hard - he gave me 3 weeks so I could travel abroad! + I saved a lot from working so much extra.
#3....wear a mask,even when they don't work.
man its frightening to think this isnt just common sense for most people.
Good shit
#8...pay attention to that one the most
I won’t watch out for these tricks, but use them
Alternate title; 15 ways to persuade someone 🤣😂😅
#14 is the best argument point peridot
I'm pretty sure a couple of those are better detailed and Robert greens 48 Laws of Power. Great book.
For that last one I’m a helper anyways so I wouldn’t really care unless it was something that made a fool of me
As they saying goes......believe half of what you see and none of what you hear
A fast talker also does not give the listener time to digest the contents. Also, a fast talker does not give anyone else a chance to speak.
Way before the coronavirus social distancing protocols, anybody that came within two meters of me was instantly scrutinised and I did all I could to keep the person away from me. Nobody is going to approach someone they do not know just to talk. That person wants something you have. I would become instantly defensive when someone came within two meters of me. I have no friends so someone trying to be friendly to me is highly suspect.
That' s not true, I am a very friendly and social person I talk to people all the time when i' m out, maybe someone just wants to get to know you.
Yes I talk really fast by nature. This makes some people skeptical of me.
Damn. He must have sold timeshare.
Why does this guy sound like the guy from bright side
Bruhhh😂😂😂
Exactly
AntlerAndyy yeah he does
Ever heard of voiceover actors?
AntlerAndyy it’s called paid voice overs
Hypotheticals are usefull, just calling them "crazy" doesn't make them wrong or somehow not apply.
Yep. Just like all those "not sold in stores" infomercials then a couple months later... there it is on the shelf claiming "as seen on TV" 😂😂😂😂
Hello I have a question in the number 12 tip.. How will they take advantage of your consistency? if you yourself knows and masterize it, so maybe you can immediately know that a certain person has a plan for you. Thank you Top Think
I only listen to people who speak slower, because to me it seems like a fast talking person is trying to speed through the conversation as if they would rather be doing something else than to take the time to talk with you.
I mean you can seek these as persuasive traits but then you could also use them to become more attractive or in control. Works both ways
Alternate title; 15 ways to persuade someone 🤣😂😅
5:45 I heard that "community" eventually figured out this was a MASSIVE invasion of privacy and tied him to an ant hill.
Good solution.
Network Marketing Agents have ALL these characteristics. Literally all of them
Im on the other side learning the ways
I had a hard time getting any information from this video. The narrator speaks with exaggerated incredulity and I started skipping ahead before giving up.
It just sounds like he's extremely happy. I wish you would sound more mature.
Should have given examples for each
Wait...is this channel doing #8!?
Big fax