Find one outfit that makes you feel gorgeous and like you can take on the world. Then figure out what about it makes you feel amazing, is it the color, the cut the material. Then try adding small aspects of that to your wardrobe. If it is the color then try to pick up that color in other clothing choices. If it is the style or cut of the outfit then try playing around with similar cut or styled outfits, If it is the fabric what about that fabric attracts you? Is it super comfortable, is it the texture of it. Finding that one outfit that makes you feel amazing is a real eye opener. I purchased a red sweater and black suede skirt on a whim. I wore it for a job interview. The woman who interviewed me said I was the most confident person she had interviewed so far and I got the job. It wasn't me. I looked in the mirror and the outfit made me look and feel beautiful. That shines through in your wardrobe choices. If something doesn't make you feel fabulous then don't buy it or wear it regardless of what is on trend or in style. That is my one tip from someone who is currently completely revamping her style and creating a wardrobe filled with items that make me feel and look amazing. Love your videos and have listened and watched them to help me find my own path in fashion. As an older woman I know there are many rules regarding what you can and cannot wear. I wear what makes me feel amazing. If someone doesn't like it or feels it is to young then I may pair it with opaque stockings or tights or wear it paired with something else that may cover a bit more flesh. Or I may be having a fuck you day and say its my body its my choice and as long as nothing is hanging out or being obscene I am going to wear it. Looking forward to future videos and still working my way through your older ones.
Very well said. I spent most of my life in the "good enough" mentality of clothes shopping. I hating shopping, due to body issues (and other factors) and found it to be the most anxiety provoking chore. Because of that, I got into the habit of buying whatever I didn't hate, whatever fit, whatever was "good enough", instead of things that I loved. Learning to shop wisely has taken quite some time, a lot of self care, and a massive shift in my philosophy on clothes.
I love this idea. It's Sunday so I will do it tonight. Thanks the inspiration Lauren. I'm already thinking about which hero pieces I'll choose and which pieces I've been ignoring.
I'm so glad I found your channel! One of my personal goals for 2018 is to step up my style game and since I've started binge watching your channel, I've learned so much! Yay!
I LOVE OUTFIT PLANNING😍😍. I literally keep a notebook. It’s more organized and plus, I have so many clothes so when I just look at my closet, I get overwhelmed.
Hi Lauren! Love your channel, what styling tips do you have for a 5'4, 140 pd, mid thirties woman who is changing careers? I am going from social work to a creative/beauty industry. I used to do quite well styling my wardrobe, but now that I am older I find it more difficult.
Dear Lauren, I'm going to start my flight attendant training very soon. What do you think a flight attendant must have due to lots of travels to many countries? In training we have to be 'business casual' and I want to be stylish but still comfortable on my layover. I would love to hear your thoughts about it. Thank you so much!!! Love your vids x
Hey Lauren! I have never been a huge fan of the romper (due to bathroom technique here) and now they have a romphim. From a fashion perspective, what do you think of this new fashion trend?
Love your videos! I'm hooked! Trying to download your ebooks but it keeps sending me back to the same page (page that has me input my email address ) Also tried to sign up for your newsletter and it wouldn't let me. I don't think it's me, I've tried it on my iPad, cell and computer. Please help, thanks girl!
I need your opinion....I want a jumpsuit for this all white party. So the issue....should the crouch be a little loose, not exactly fitting but not the camel toe. Im not sure what looks best. Help!!
Yawn....seven minutes into the video and all she has to say is to make a drink and plan your outfit ahead of time. No actual real usable information. I saw her course online for like $1000 bucks and I am glad I saw this youtube video cause now I know that would have been a grand totally down the drain. Who doesn't know they should plan ahead and why does it take you so long to spit that out? You want me to drop a grand? Tell me something I don't know. Time wasted.
I luv this format!!!! I usually pick out 2 outfits at night and pick 1 in the morning🤔
My hubby laughs but it has worked since middle school 😆
JCLuvs Lux That's a great idea.
Find one outfit that makes you feel gorgeous and like you can take on the world. Then figure out what about it makes you feel amazing, is it the color, the cut the material. Then try adding small aspects of that to your wardrobe. If it is the color then try to pick up that color in other clothing choices. If it is the style or cut of the outfit then try playing around with similar cut or styled outfits, If it is the fabric what about that fabric attracts you? Is it super comfortable, is it the texture of it. Finding that one outfit that makes you feel amazing is a real eye opener. I purchased a red sweater and black suede skirt on a whim. I wore it for a job interview. The woman who interviewed me said I was the most confident person she had interviewed so far and I got the job. It wasn't me. I looked in the mirror and the outfit made me look and feel beautiful. That shines through in your wardrobe choices. If something doesn't make you feel fabulous then don't buy it or wear it regardless of what is on trend or in style. That is my one tip from someone who is currently completely revamping her style and creating a wardrobe filled with items that make me feel and look amazing.
Love your videos and have listened and watched them to help me find my own path in fashion. As an older woman I know there are many rules regarding what you can and cannot wear. I wear what makes me feel amazing. If someone doesn't like it or feels it is to young then I may pair it with opaque stockings or tights or wear it paired with something else that may cover a bit more flesh. Or I may be having a fuck you day and say its my body its my choice and as long as nothing is hanging out or being obscene I am going to wear it. Looking forward to future videos and still working my way through your older ones.
risingphoenix ooooh I love this
This what I'm also currently going through in my early 30s. Love the way you expressed it.
Very well said. I spent most of my life in the "good enough" mentality of clothes shopping. I hating shopping, due to body issues (and other factors) and found it to be the most anxiety provoking chore. Because of that, I got into the habit of buying whatever I didn't hate, whatever fit, whatever was "good enough", instead of things that I loved. Learning to shop wisely has taken quite some time, a lot of self care, and a massive shift in my philosophy on clothes.
This couldn't have come at a better time. Such an amazing concept. I have such great clothes but struggle coming up with combinations. Thanks Lauren x
Precious tips!
I love this idea. It's Sunday so I will do it tonight. Thanks the inspiration Lauren. I'm already thinking about which hero pieces I'll choose and which pieces I've been ignoring.
Excellent and much needed advice - thanks
I'm loving ur personality in this vid, u appear more humble lay back and sweet. ..I've been hooked to u channel for almost a year now
O I needed this lauren!! I couldn't find anything to.wear to.church !! I'm going to.try your suggestions. Thanks again!
I love this video Lauren! Such essential info 👌🏾
I'm so glad I found your channel! One of my personal goals for 2018 is to step up my style game and since I've started binge watching your channel, I've learned so much! Yay!
Can you share your pinterest board or a board for matching outfits? I have a lot of great pieces but suck at outfit creationd and clothing matching.
I LOVE OUTFIT PLANNING😍😍. I literally keep a notebook. It’s more organized and plus, I have so many clothes so when I just look at my closet, I get overwhelmed.
Lauren I would love to see the applications you use on your ipad
Hi Lauren! Love your channel, what styling tips do you have for a 5'4, 140 pd, mid thirties woman who is changing careers? I am going from social work to a creative/beauty industry. I used to do quite well styling my wardrobe, but now that I am older I find it more difficult.
Stay tuned for a future video :)
Lyndsey Wetterberg @ Lauren can't wait for that video. Keep looking beautiful as always ✌️
Dear Lauren,
I'm going to start my flight attendant training very soon. What do you think a flight attendant must have due to lots of travels to many countries? In training we have to be 'business casual' and I want to be stylish but still comfortable on my layover. I would love to hear your thoughts about it. Thank you so much!!! Love your vids x
Love your Chanel Lauren!! You look lovely always. I leant a lot from you. Thank you. 🙏🏽🌺💕
That means so much, thank you for watching!! :)
Hey Lauren! I have never been a huge fan of the romper (due to bathroom technique here) and now they have a romphim. From a fashion perspective, what do you think of this new fashion trend?
Love your videos! I'm hooked! Trying to download your ebooks but it keeps sending me back to the same page (page that has me input my email address ) Also tried to sign up for your newsletter and it wouldn't let me. I don't think it's me, I've tried it on my iPad, cell and computer. Please help, thanks girl!
Hi Denise, apologies for the delay. Please contact me here for help-- laurenmessiah.com/contact/
It is Friday again 👏🏻🎼
I would like to create outfits one night before too cuz if created for seven days, the weather would change.
Can you do a video on pulling clothes as a stylist?
For more stylist focused info/tips visit RUclips.com/SchoolofStyleTV if you haven't already :-)
please do a video on sunglasses
Lauren you look super beautiful today.
So kind, thank you!
Amish hat? LOL Your brows look great!!!!
I love your Faye Dunaway 70s chic #OOTD
Your lookbook on the phone... is it made of outfits or all the items by piece??
Outfits!
Finally you look totally yourself
isavella tzika-delliou I think she has several selves,this is just one of them.
I need your opinion....I want a jumpsuit for this all white party. So the issue....should the crouch be a little loose, not exactly fitting but not the camel toe. Im not sure what looks best. Help!!
TheYamayah I'd try sitting in it to see how it fits and if it fits fine while sitting it fits you well & won't be too loose or too tight. Good luck.
Too cute for RUclips looking ass,comfy,and stylish
Yawn....seven minutes into the video and all she has to say is to make a drink and plan your outfit ahead of time. No actual real usable information. I saw her course online for like $1000 bucks and I am glad I saw this youtube video cause now I know that would have been a grand totally down the drain. Who doesn't know they should plan ahead and why does it take you so long to spit that out? You want me to drop a grand? Tell me something I don't know. Time wasted.
Wh,the hell feels awkward taking a selfie?
Is she saying crayon or cream pants? That can’t be right. I can’t tell what kind of pants she said she’s wearing.