@@kennethxu1789 ALSO a rebound is such an easy thing to spot happening from a mile away "oh you just got out of a relationship less than a month ago, ok yeah lets maybe not"
Watching Crash come cuddle up to Toast after being yelled at by him was so wholesome. He was like: "You yelled at me? Now you gotta make it up by giving me ton of love"
That's actually good advice - the thing is sometimes it takes a slap in the face to gain some awareness, and you can't be too nice and refuse to wake people up if you see warning signs
Yeah, he was right every time, I think Syd was just worried about him being too brutally honest cause all of these were her viewers, people who might have watched her for a long time. Probably didn't wanna scare long-time viewers from submitting in such events.
Toast was just being honest, if people can't take honesty just because its brutally true, maybe they shouldn't submit their dating profiles to begin with and those who watch and then get offended maybe shouldn't be on the Internet at all because they're too soft.
It is hard to hear harsh words from someone you know for years, and it can be even harder when someone you respect says that. I can understand Sydneys worries, but yeah if are submitting your profile just be ready to hear something that can hurt you ʅ（◞‿◟）ʃ
The inherent problem with the whole profile is that he's being unnecessarily pessimistic. It's such a turn off to read a dating profile that is negative right off the bat. If he wants to avoid the red flags then he should look for the warning signs when he's talking to these girls. Trying to deter certain women he doesn't want by demonizing them in his profile doesn't make other women feel any better about his attitude. Toast is definitely right. His entire personality is based on being a nice, wholesome guy. His subtle use of self-deprecation to try uplifting his personality just screams the need for validation, despite what his "needs" say.
And the bad cop is speaking truth, and doesn't want to reward someone by covering up their toxicity. With this profile, dude doesn't need to find an S/O, he needs to get a pet, and talk to someone about his previous hangups. Maybe I'm wrong and looking too hard into this, and it's just a joke someone made. I'm just getting unresolved issues that have left scars.
@@mirroughs7729 Yeah I do feel like it's easy to generalize a person's character and the possible red flags or toxic traits they may have based on a dating profile. Ultimately everyone has flaws and shitty things they may do or say. Unhealthy coping mechanisms, ways of communicating, or unresolved issues from their childhood or from past relationships. Some people are just better at hiding them than others. It's all about self-awareness, humility, and a willingness to look inward and communicate your feelings openly. Toast is 100% telling the truth, but often times with people who have these difficult unresolved issues, it is easier for them to get defensive because they may perceive it to be an attack on their character. It's always a question of good or bad rather than "how can I be more conscious of my flaws and weaknesses?" Which is easier said than done obviously. Sometimes it also requires forgiving yourself for something you may have personally done that may have hurt someone else. Everyone thinks they are the "protagonist" in their mind. So yeah you do need your Toast who tells you the harsh truth sometimes. But you also need your Syds who support you and don't just alienate you and call you a straight villain who doesn't deserve to love or be loved. That's why I called it a "good cop bad cop routine." Because you need both for it to work.
Go you Toast. Honestly, some people are just better not seeing any advice and showing who they are and just find the person who's right for them. However Silver Linings Playbook it is.
@@lila9349 yes but she was actively like trying to downplay what toast was saying and seemed nervous about his honesty, which I understand, you don't want to shit on your viewers but they gotta know what's okay and what's not
@@O.Garcia37 I wouldn't say downplay but more of cushioning the blow. If you really care if someone accepts your advice. Shoving it down their throat will only turn them away. SO I feel they played it very well and their roles complemented each other smoothly to get their points across without seeming condescending.
situations like this is where toast shines. his personality suits being on the side interjecting his opinions. he's much less bearable when he's on his own streams though
That guy to the side was being more rude simply by the way he treated toast lmao he’s right, those things can be red flags. Either way toast wasn’t being toxic or aggressive, he said it with just enough respect, lightness and truth
If your gonna teach ppl dating profile stuff you should use a real person for the fact you don't know them and they can be a serious creep and could be helping them lure women. They should have to do all the work so your hands are stained. Js
lmao toast looks like he's straight up in a little desk from school Wait he's so right on that first comment Lol edit: man toast has grown so much edit2: nvrmind LOL SHE CUTE
nah he's not wrong, its just that most of these people are her subs and she doesn't want to make them feel bad 😭 she's too sweet to her viewers even when they're asking to be roasted
They act like toast is being an asshole or something, but he's just saying what syd and sean were thinking, but didn't want to say out loud. Even then he didn't phrase anything he said in an aggressive or harsh way. He even started a lot of his statements with empathetic phrases such as "i understand" " I realize" and so forth. I can think of way way worse ways he could of phrased everything he said.
I mean he's not wrong and I like how chat Is agreeing with the dude these 2 think he's annoying. When I see people act like this the person who is talking the most knows what's up in this situation. As it tells me she wants the bad guys but slowly wants to find the good guy but she doesn't know how to im guessing
@@Sup123-d2t you really are desperate and delusional aren't you? Are you going to post a cringe shipping comment on every video they're in? Holy, get help dude
@Captain SuckButt Are you just gonna ignore the "woman beater" part? Or do you also think "there is no harm" assuming someone is a physical abuser a crime punishable by law? I understand you don't like em, but lets still be reasonable here.
Am I the only one that thinks the guys expectation for a girl isn’t that unreasonable. He’s clearly had past situations that have caused him to set these expectations so I don’t think there’s anything wrong with him saying “she should have this and she should have that.” It’s his type and who he would be interested in dating. I also don’t think he would be pushing certain expectations on people because if he meets someone that already matches his preference, I don’t think the person he’s interested in would have to worry about meeting expectations because those expectations already align with their personality, characteristics, etc.
There’s a difference between command/rule and want/desire. He’s saying “she should” be this and that like it’s a list of rules. It’s okay for him to desire these things but commanding them like he’s owed anything is the wrong approach. He can have that list in his head and check it off when he meets someone. But if that’s his focus (which fair enough, it’s important to make sure your partner is with you for the right reasons) above common interests and lifestyles, he’s too emotionally damaged to be putting himself out there so publicly and needs to work on his own trust issues before he projects them onto others. Most likely with a profile like this, he’ll attract other people with the same trust issues and it’ll be toxic. His expectations are realistic to an extent but his approach is unhealthy.
@@yazplatt based on this clip alone, it looks like he only said "should" once and it was that both party's personalities "should" complement each other, which is... the fundamental requirement for all relationships, romantic or platonic?
@@guiishow2 Are you blind? He wrote a whole paragraph under the subtitle "my partner SHOULD BE:" Edit: AND it's under the broader subtitle of "NEED" and not "Preference" Syd said it best...the prompt is weird and should just not be used.
I don't think a dating profile shoud be a list of expectations. I get that the website made him have to put them but I think one or two would have been enough. The bigger problem that Toast was not happy about was the whole rebound/ex thing he had going on. That's just a red flag.
What did he say? Everything this guy said in his bio seems to be valid? Yall are soft as fuck or maybe this went over my head. He doesn't seem like a "nice guy" at all. Seems like a dude who knows what he wants in a relationship. Maybe a bit awkward/cringe? that attempted joke was pretty bad not gonna lie but overall its not that bad. Idk please tell me this is a joke. Context would probably help too
Anything that feels like a subtweet should absolutely not go in a dating profile. First impressions should always positive, because it's much easier to empathize with someone's problems or forgive their flaws if you already have a positive connection. If you start off with negativity, like subtle bitching about how bad your previous relationships were, the other person's baseline impression of you is someone who likes to complain, has been bad with relationships, and a laundry list of vague positive traits that didn't get nearly as much elaboration. There's nothing wrong with not wanting to be a rebound or wanting a relationship without needing one another's validation, but writing it out like this just screams unresolved emotional baggage. The things this guy listed are also all very common and normal things to want-so normal that it becomes weird to list them specifically. Imagine someone writing "Looking for a non-sexist, non-racist person who doesn't have terrible hygiene and doesn't need me to pay their bills"-yeah, so is everyone else, I've learned nothing except that their ex fucking sucked and they're still pissed about it. If you really must list requirements, stick to things that are actually specific. In this case, something like "Hoping to make a serious connection while maintaining a healthy sense of self" or "Looking for something serious without being joined at the hip" sends the same message without all the negative baggage.
Honestly disdain all three of the measley bird abusers. Who can't even do that because they're plagiarists. Michaels Reeves calling out toast for killing birds while under contract is badass.
@DR.IRISPLAYS this is a video that depicts all three of these plagiarists as shite people. If you'd be willing to read the comments you'd recognize that. Why are you bothering me with such a waste of time comment?
Toast is just being Syd and Sean, but brutally honest lol
That's why I like him. Yes he's being the bad cop but he's spitting facts .
Doesn't mean it's effective
@@mbc777 no his case is pretty true
@@mbc777for the girls, it’s very effective…
@@mbc777 so youre him huh
toast is so right, that whole paragraph screams "unresolved issues with relationships that i'm going to make YOUR problem"
And the hypocrisy to say “don’t bring your problems, im not your rebound”
And I’m surprised they didn’t mention the “people say I’m funny” thing. Funny people don’t need to say that. :/
@@kennethxu1789 ALSO a rebound is such an easy thing to spot happening from a mile away "oh you just got out of a relationship less than a month ago, ok yeah lets maybe not"
my fav part of this stream is when he gets mad at crash for messing up syds outro and then syd gets mad at toast instead bc he yelled at her dog😭
Scrubbed the vod, 3:33:55 you're welcome
@@riptear Thanks a ton!
Watching Crash come cuddle up to Toast after being yelled at by him was so wholesome. He was like: "You yelled at me? Now you gotta make it up by giving me ton of love"
@@riptear where's it? not linking to anything.....
@@nsw.5sun1 Lol. Go to the stream vod on twitch, and then go to the time he posted.
That's actually good advice - the thing is sometimes it takes a slap in the face to gain some awareness, and you can't be too nice and refuse to wake people up if you see warning signs
Sean is the nice angel and Toast is the blunt angel. Both are right lol
both are right, neither are angels tho
I love this whole interaction
toast is right tho
Yeah, he was right every time, I think Syd was just worried about him being too brutally honest cause all of these were her viewers, people who might have watched her for a long time. Probably didn't wanna scare long-time viewers from submitting in such events.
toast is the unfiltered voice of the masses
Toast was just being honest, if people can't take honesty just because its brutally true, maybe they shouldn't submit their dating profiles to begin with and those who watch and then get offended maybe shouldn't be on the Internet at all because they're too soft.
It is hard to hear harsh words from someone you know for years, and it can be even harder when someone you respect says that. I can understand Sydneys worries, but yeah if are submitting your profile just be ready to hear something that can hurt you ʅ（◞‿◟）ʃ
@@Tennosoul that's why Toast is there to say the things Syd can't say
LET👏TOST👏COOK👏
Let Toast cook!
toast is so fucking real LOL
This stream was so funny I hope this becomes a series XD
The inherent problem with the whole profile is that he's being unnecessarily pessimistic. It's such a turn off to read a dating profile that is negative right off the bat. If he wants to avoid the red flags then he should look for the warning signs when he's talking to these girls. Trying to deter certain women he doesn't want by demonizing them in his profile doesn't make other women feel any better about his attitude. Toast is definitely right. His entire personality is based on being a nice, wholesome guy. His subtle use of self-deprecation to try uplifting his personality just screams the need for validation, despite what his "needs" say.
It is true what Toast said tho. I’ve dated guys like that and they were not nice.
Vicious cycles in life. “Nice guy” gets hurt, hurts other girls. Those girls take it and treat other guys. Then it repeats
Ayo! That's such a cool Jujutsu Kaisen T-Shirt Sydney is wearing.
Toast be like: why are you guys booing im right 🤣🤌🏻
Toast is right, girls need to see that and run 😂😂😂
Thank you for your service Toast
Toast looks like a Japanese newscaster.
Toast is so funny lmao. Straight facts
Honestly though anyone who puts so many "shoulds" in their profiles is a huge red flag. I would not even like a girls profile as a guy who did that.
i love how blunt he is😭😭
this really is a good cop bad cop routine lmao
And the bad cop is speaking truth, and doesn't want to reward someone by covering up their toxicity. With this profile, dude doesn't need to find an S/O, he needs to get a pet, and talk to someone about his previous hangups. Maybe I'm wrong and looking too hard into this, and it's just a joke someone made. I'm just getting unresolved issues that have left scars.
@@mirroughs7729 Yeah I do feel like it's easy to generalize a person's character and the possible red flags or toxic traits they may have based on a dating profile. Ultimately everyone has flaws and shitty things they may do or say. Unhealthy coping mechanisms, ways of communicating, or unresolved issues from their childhood or from past relationships. Some people are just better at hiding them than others.
It's all about self-awareness, humility, and a willingness to look inward and communicate your feelings openly. Toast is 100% telling the truth, but often times with people who have these difficult unresolved issues, it is easier for them to get defensive because they may perceive it to be an attack on their character.
It's always a question of good or bad rather than "how can I be more conscious of my flaws and weaknesses?" Which is easier said than done obviously. Sometimes it also requires forgiving yourself for something you may have personally done that may have hurt someone else. Everyone thinks they are the "protagonist" in their mind. So yeah you do need your Toast who tells you the harsh truth sometimes. But you also need your Syds who support you and don't just alienate you and call you a straight villain who doesn't deserve to love or be loved. That's why I called it a "good cop bad cop routine." Because you need both for it to work.
@@angelbob77 Those are some very good points, and I agree.
But he is being absolute on point here. 💯
Toast made it great content and he rights
I love toast.
All I see is Grandpa Toast tryna support his kids 😂
Toast has sense.
Definitely fixed demonslayer's dating profile.. got them a date with toast 😂
That’s Toast biggest Forte and why we follow him. Fact spitter.
Go you Toast. Honestly, some people are just better not seeing any advice and showing who they are and just find the person who's right for them. However Silver Linings Playbook it is.
Preferences is alright but when it become a "should/need to be this or that" situation, that's a huge red flag
Toast a real one
Omg yes toast 👏👏👏
WOAH, I have that same collapsible tray Toast is using just 3 feet away
tbh i think he just sent it in for a chance to be seen and that hes using his bio as a filter.
Syd is being too soft, Toast is right, her viewers need to know what they're doing wrong, she shouldn't sugar coat it and make them feel okay about it
Imo since Toast is already playing that role, it's actually good that she played nice cop
@@lila9349 yes but she was actively like trying to downplay what toast was saying and seemed nervous about his honesty, which I understand, you don't want to shit on your viewers but they gotta know what's okay and what's not
@@O.Garcia37 I wouldn't say downplay but more of cushioning the blow. If you really care if someone accepts your advice. Shoving it down their throat will only turn them away. SO I feel they played it very well and their roles complemented each other smoothly to get their points across without seeming condescending.
@@lila9349 to each their own
She said herself she
Didn’t like it. She just wasn’t as harsh as toast
We must protect her at all costs because at least someone’s not delusional
Good cop, normal cop, nice cop... well that's new lol
But he's so right
Toast is the Goat
Toast is absolutely right though
The guy needed that from toast not some soft shit lol
Straight facts , that man is a red flag
I mean he's spitting facts
team toast on this one tbh
Aaaah the good olde Jeremy going the extra mile for prick 😂
I gotta go with Toast on these one.
I mean..... he's not WRONG...... 🤷
situations like this is where toast shines. his personality suits being on the side interjecting his opinions.
he's much less bearable when he's on his own streams though
That guy to the side was being more rude simply by the way he treated toast lmao he’s right, those things can be red flags. Either way toast wasn’t being toxic or aggressive, he said it with just enough respect, lightness and truth
BASED TAKE TOAST
I AGREE WITH TOAST!
If your gonna teach ppl dating profile stuff you should use a real person for the fact you don't know them and they can be a serious creep and could be helping them lure women. They should have to do all the work so your hands are stained. Js
Toast knows the signs after his incel phase
Toast the ChadGPT giving TRUTH
To be honest. He's spitting facts. But at the same time, that's every guy in a para-social relationship with offline TV girls
2:21 Toast is literally just minding his own business and she snaps on him
Coc blocking 101
He might be playing 4d chess. Cuz someone of these women like broken men bro. I've seen with my eyes.
lmao toast looks like he's straight up in a little desk from school
Wait he's so right on that first comment Lol
edit: man toast has grown so much
edit2: nvrmind LOL SHE CUTE
Ok but is wrong though?
nah he's not wrong, its just that most of these people are her subs and she doesn't want to make them feel bad 😭 she's too sweet to her viewers even when they're asking to be roasted
Ayo! Is she cute though? -Toast
I think I wouldn’t even edited 😂 let him be that red flag. You can’t make a red flag green unless he wants to be a green flag . Lol😂
They act like toast is being an asshole or something, but he's just saying what syd and sean were thinking, but didn't want to say out loud. Even then he didn't phrase anything he said in an aggressive or harsh way. He even started a lot of his statements with empathetic phrases such as "i understand" " I realize" and so forth. I can think of way way worse ways he could of phrased everything he said.
I mean he's not wrong and I like how chat Is agreeing with the dude these 2 think he's annoying. When I see people act like this the person who is talking the most knows what's up in this situation. As it tells me she wants the bad guys but slowly wants to find the good guy but she doesn't know how to im guessing
That can't be tinder right? 🤔🤔🤔
But is he wrong ? 👀
He’s out of line, but he’s right.
Is toast wrong tho damn
Nope he's spitting facts
What do you mean he's not allowed to do that? 🤔 @3:30
You mean Syd and Sean are dating. Also it's weird showing romantic interest with your fans. Spawns parasocials
Wtf are you telling , Sydney is not dating toast nor Sean....
these replies are so unhinged. is a streamer dating EVERY person who walks into their room?
@@Sup123-d2t ... Sydney is already in couple with a non streamer person.... stop inventing flirt every where
@@Sup123-d2t you really are desperate and delusional aren't you? Are you going to post a cringe shipping comment on every video they're in? Holy, get help dude
That sounds like every damn female in the west 🤣
wait so women can have expectations of men but not the other way around?
Isn’t Toast dating Miyoung?
allegedly broke up in mid 2022
@@miskeenamina oh damn :/
I mean he could be a stalker and women beater and your helping a guy lurer women
Kinda weird for you to assume all that...u ok?
edit: these ppl are literally putting their face out there for thousands to see and analyze and judge
@Captain SuckButt Are you just gonna ignore the "woman beater" part? Or do you also think "there is no harm" assuming someone is a physical abuser a crime punishable by law? I understand you don't like em, but lets still be reasonable here.
bro look like fedmyster 2.0
Am I the only one that thinks the guys expectation for a girl isn’t that unreasonable. He’s clearly had past situations that have caused him to set these expectations so I don’t think there’s anything wrong with him saying “she should have this and she should have that.” It’s his type and who he would be interested in dating.
I also don’t think he would be pushing certain expectations on people because if he meets someone that already matches his preference, I don’t think the person he’s interested in would have to worry about meeting expectations because those expectations already align with their personality, characteristics, etc.
There’s a difference between command/rule and want/desire. He’s saying “she should” be this and that like it’s a list of rules. It’s okay for him to desire these things but commanding them like he’s owed anything is the wrong approach. He can have that list in his head and check it off when he meets someone. But if that’s his focus (which fair enough, it’s important to make sure your partner is with you for the right reasons) above common interests and lifestyles, he’s too emotionally damaged to be putting himself out there so publicly and needs to work on his own trust issues before he projects them onto others. Most likely with a profile like this, he’ll attract other people with the same trust issues and it’ll be toxic. His expectations are realistic to an extent but his approach is unhealthy.
@@yazplatt based on this clip alone, it looks like he only said "should" once and it was that both party's personalities "should" complement each other, which is... the fundamental requirement for all relationships, romantic or platonic?
@@guiishow2 Are you blind? He wrote a whole paragraph under the subtitle "my partner SHOULD BE:"
Edit: AND it's under the broader subtitle of "NEED" and not "Preference"
Syd said it best...the prompt is weird and should just not be used.
I don't think a dating profile shoud be a list of expectations. I get that the website made him have to put them but I think one or two would have been enough.
The bigger problem that Toast was not happy about was the whole rebound/ex thing he had going on. That's just a red flag.
I think it’s fine if you think it’s fine. That way you warn off the sane girls like Toast was saying in the video.
What did he say? Everything this guy said in his bio seems to be valid? Yall are soft as fuck or maybe this went over my head. He doesn't seem like a "nice guy" at all. Seems like a dude who knows what he wants in a relationship. Maybe a bit awkward/cringe? that attempted joke was pretty bad not gonna lie but overall its not that bad. Idk please tell me this is a joke. Context would probably help too
Anything that feels like a subtweet should absolutely not go in a dating profile. First impressions should always positive, because it's much easier to empathize with someone's problems or forgive their flaws if you already have a positive connection. If you start off with negativity, like subtle bitching about how bad your previous relationships were, the other person's baseline impression of you is someone who likes to complain, has been bad with relationships, and a laundry list of vague positive traits that didn't get nearly as much elaboration.
There's nothing wrong with not wanting to be a rebound or wanting a relationship without needing one another's validation, but writing it out like this just screams unresolved emotional baggage. The things this guy listed are also all very common and normal things to want-so normal that it becomes weird to list them specifically. Imagine someone writing "Looking for a non-sexist, non-racist person who doesn't have terrible hygiene and doesn't need me to pay their bills"-yeah, so is everyone else, I've learned nothing except that their ex fucking sucked and they're still pissed about it.
If you really must list requirements, stick to things that are actually specific. In this case, something like "Hoping to make a serious connection while maintaining a healthy sense of self" or "Looking for something serious without being joined at the hip" sends the same message without all the negative baggage.
Honestly disdain all three of the measley bird abusers. Who can't even do that because they're plagiarists. Michaels Reeves calling out toast for killing birds while under contract is badass.
@DR.IRISPLAYS this is a video that depicts all three of these plagiarists as shite people. If you'd be willing to read the comments you'd recognize that. Why are you bothering me with such a waste of time comment?
Wha??
wtf are you even talking about weirdo LOL?
Birds?