I Never Wanted to Leave | I Had to Resign

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  • Опубликовано: 22 ноя 2024

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  • @erinmcgonigal3423
    @erinmcgonigal3423 2 года назад +313

    My mentor teacher said, "Go where you are appreciated." It is still good advice almost 20 years later. I hope young teachers learn it earlier in their career than I did.

    • @happybeethree
      @happybeethree 2 года назад +4

      That is great advice!

    • @jillsalkin7389
      @jillsalkin7389 2 года назад +8

      Go where you are appreciated applies to all work and all relationships.

    • @thomasjorge4734
      @thomasjorge4734 2 года назад +3

      Go where you are Allowed to Teach.
      If you do, you will not be Appreciated.

    • @Jay-uq5bf
      @Jay-uq5bf Год назад

      That's why I never settled. In 2020 I was in a school that not only micromanaged me but tried to force me to double mask. I resigned online and left the keys on the desk.
      I never settled.

    • @TeachersTVAfrica
      @TeachersTVAfrica 21 час назад

      Teachers are called professionals but we are not treated like professionals.

  • @PocketfulofPrimary
    @PocketfulofPrimary 2 года назад +717

    It's so infuriating when districts put protocol before people, especially when the person has given so much to them. My heart still hurts for you having to go through this situation but I'm happy you made a video about it because this could happen to anyone. I'm so excited for this new season of life for you! 🖤

    • @StephanieRace17
      @StephanieRace17 2 года назад +9

      Such a great video, for sharing her heart with us. Truly sad like you said when a district does not support its teachers especially during current times.

    • @avianaendress4705
      @avianaendress4705 2 года назад +2

      I am so happy to.

    •  2 года назад +3

      I am still waiting and hoping that you will make the great announcement about returning to teach.

    • @Lexduden
      @Lexduden 2 года назад +4

      How could you be in violation if it wasn't stated anywhere? Or, was it in the handbook/ code of conduct?

    • @pamela.imagines.p10
      @pamela.imagines.p10 2 года назад +4

      Will you be teaching at a new district or just a new campus? I had to move to a totally new district. I know the feeling of leaving when you really didn't want to, a little bit of betrayal or lack of support, and sadness.
      I hope your new campus admin. is supportive and everyone will realize what a treasure you are. Take care of yourself and I wish you the best.

  • @ithilwyn3551
    @ithilwyn3551 2 года назад +43

    It isn't the pay, it isn't the schools...even the kids! It is the constant micromanaging of things that in the long run don't make a difference in children's lives but pushes us further and further from them. Protocols like this and others I could mention, do NOT help education! Keep strong, sister!

  • @leighjohn6968
    @leighjohn6968 2 года назад +97

    Congratulations!!!! One teacher to another, do not go back EVEN if they want you back! The way they treated you was ABOMINABLE and indicative of why teachers are leaving in DROVES! Glad you had a happy ending!!!

  • @jazzie_wolf
    @jazzie_wolf 2 года назад +267

    I’ve had to console new teachers so many times, reminding them that we work for a corporation. We shouldn’t let this business of education pull at our heartstrings to “be there for the kids”. We deserve to be treated professionally and with dignity. I’m glad that you stood up for yourself, and I’m frustrated for you to have to deal with this nonsense.

    • @christinawhitmer8446
      @christinawhitmer8446 2 года назад +17

      We work for the government-pure & simple. “There are no well adjusted slaves.”
      I wish the very best for you!!!!!

    • @raereybae
      @raereybae 2 года назад +2

      Corporation?

    • @brightonchou1393
      @brightonchou1393 2 года назад +2

      @@raereybae yes. you dont show up, they just find a new one.

    • @cc1k435
      @cc1k435 2 года назад +2

      Sad to know how corporate education has become, but here we are. We are supposed to produce a "product" (test scores) and that's that. 😕

    • @cc1k435
      @cc1k435 2 года назад +1

      @@raereybae Very corporate. Lots of people making decisions in the field are better suited to business than people. It's become very one size fits all, and people (kids, especially) just don't work that way.

  • @catheryncrawford5214
    @catheryncrawford5214 2 года назад +194

    I left my school of 16 years last year because I felt unheard, unappreciated, and disrespected. BEST. DECISION. EVER!!! I pray this is the case for you. You are amazing and I am so glad you know your worth and that you deserved better!

    • @BridgingLiteracy
      @BridgingLiteracy  2 года назад +7

      Thank you very much! I am so happy about my choice and am looking forward to this school year.

    • @randaray24
      @randaray24 2 года назад +1

      Did you find a different teaching position or leave Ed entirely?

    • @maryjflanagan1922
      @maryjflanagan1922 2 года назад

      What do you do now?

  • @dehartaz
    @dehartaz 2 года назад +320

    I’m not done watching but I’m fuming! I’m a homeschool mom. I have watched you for years. Your school is crazy for doing this . Public schools are killing themselves doing this to teachers. You’re amazing and your students were so lucky to have you. Keep up the good work. I’m so sorry this happened. I wish you all the best.

    • @reginaturner2284
      @reginaturner2284 2 года назад +39

      You are so right, we do not have a teacher shortage as much as a lack of respect for teachers. Thanks.

    • @BridgingLiteracy
      @BridgingLiteracy  2 года назад +35

      Thank you so much for the sweet words. I too was so mad for months. Now, I’m just tired and ready to move on. Thank you so much… I’m looking forward to next year!

    • @dehartaz
      @dehartaz 2 года назад +10

      @@BridgingLiteracy I would have been mad too. To many good teachers getting chased out of classroom. You should have been treaded better. Hope your new school year is amazing and lucky kids to have you.

    • @terrisa26
      @terrisa26 2 года назад +8

      I'm a homeschool mom too, and I totally agree!!!!!

    • @amandab.6815
      @amandab.6815 2 года назад +10

      Homeschool mom here as well, I have enjoyed your content and it has given me ideas when teaching my own children. My heart breaks for you, being treated like you did something wrong.

  • @johnnyboyvan
    @johnnyboyvan Год назад +5

    Retiring after 32 years of teaching in high school and loved it for the most part. Enjoy! Change is good...never allow yourself to devolve but to only evolve. 🎉 Congrats!

  • @rachelharvey739
    @rachelharvey739 2 года назад +52

    Something extremely similar happened to me this past school year. The district having no policy for the transfer situation I was in meant that by default, I had “violated policies and procedures”. I asked them which policies I violated and they said the policies were being created. It doesn’t matter how good you are. It’s all politics and business. I got a job outside of my district and am already happier.

  • @josephpearson7164
    @josephpearson7164 2 года назад +8

    HR is there to protect the organization not the employees.

  • @Natalie.D
    @Natalie.D 2 года назад +110

    Coming from the admin perspective: the reason why schools have teachers fill out this form is for budget planning. When a teacher gets a masters and or certifications they bump up significantly on the pay scale which then affects budget. So regardless of if it is paid for, they want to know.
    From the teacher perspective: wow bring your union rep or another trusted co-worker in to that meeting with you. Have a paper trail if what was said and you did the right thing by asking if they had a final response. Then move on. Never go in alone. They can twist their words and your words after the fact from a private meeting. Not ok.

    • @elizabeth277
      @elizabeth277 2 года назад +31

      While it’s nice to know about the pay bump that’s coming up, her replacement could have a masters and then they would have to pay it anyways. With all the turnover in education right now there is no way they could know exact salaries ahead of time. This woman was on a power trip.

    • @BridgingLiteracy
      @BridgingLiteracy  2 года назад +42

      Such great insight! I completely understand that… I had multiple admin who knew I was getting this scholarship and still no one knew this was something that needed to be done.
      On the other side: I did and still didn’t feel supported. I got the.. “you’re going to be fine”… me stressing about whether I’m going to be approved in September doesn’t seem to be worth staying. I would not have been able to relax over the summer.
      I know I made a mistake but if we teach our students that mistakes happen and we help them through it, then why can’t our schools do the same for us?
      Thank you for your comment and support! 🥰

    • @tyb1147
      @tyb1147 2 года назад +11

      @@elizabeth277 i was just thinking the same thing. The response to Bridgette’s valid concern, was completely uncalled for. It’s no one’s fault that she had “other more important” things to do, that’s her job. If we’re being honest, I don’t even think they had just cause to give her a problem, that HR woman probably blew this out of proportion and Bridgette’s union rep should’ve fought back.

    • @conniefletcher6884
      @conniefletcher6884 2 года назад +11

      It’s fine for the admin to have concerns about budget, but it’s how they communicated in this situation that was the problem.
      Always create a paper trail or an email trail. Follow up every conversation with admin with an email confirming your understanding of the main points. Always take someone with you if there is any hint of conflict.
      In this case, it sounds like the HR person needs training in the basics of workplace communications.
      PS: love your videos!

    • @karenlynningalls5851
      @karenlynningalls5851 2 года назад +4

      Yes, my thought too was: where was your union rep in all this? You should never have had to go through this alone. Your new district is lucky to have you - this sounds like a much better situation.

  • @vondrabejot9851
    @vondrabejot9851 2 года назад +169

    As a retired teacher of 28 years, I will tell you that her stalling is what she is told to do. She is actually saving the district money. The other side of that is that it might be harder to find a new job because you will be more expensive to hire. Education is the only business that I know of that the less you teach the more you are paid. The ones who are making these policies are actually in the business of saving money not teaching. Public education is in jeopardy due to law makers and administrators who detached from the process of learning. I wish you the best.

    • @TheEvie202
      @TheEvie202 2 года назад +4

      Here here! Well said:)

    • @donnabullock8364
      @donnabullock8364 2 года назад +7

      So true. And districts are not good to their older workers because of the same reason.

    • @adrianagarza7114
      @adrianagarza7114 2 года назад +18

      Yes,, I am now a private tutor, work only 3 hours a day, in my home, no planning, no stress and I earn 3 times more than I did at an elementary school.

    • @sirenna3416
      @sirenna3416 2 года назад +3

      Agreed! They could hire a new, beginning-of-the-pay-scale teacher to replace you. =(

    • @melaniephelps1590
      @melaniephelps1590 2 года назад +4

      Exactly right!!! I left my teaching job in 2011 after traumatic circumstances, I feel like I was on the leading edge of teachers beginning to leave the profession , fed up and not taking it anymore

  • @susantownsend8397
    @susantownsend8397 2 года назад +69

    How many times in my last teaching job did I say, “and I was supposed to know this…. how?” Constantly berated for not doing something that I had never been told to do, because “everyone knows this is how we do it here.” Early retirement for me.

    • @yarigarcia7628
      @yarigarcia7628 2 года назад +1

      I’ve never related to a comment more 🥲

    • @TheFoxisintheHouse
      @TheFoxisintheHouse 2 года назад +4

      Early retirement
      hooray

    • @ea42455
      @ea42455 2 года назад +3

      You too? Loved teaching, but a huge number of administrators left the classroom for the bigger bucks or because they couldn't teach. The ones that were supportive of classroom teachers deserved gold stars, but they were in the minority.

    • @mindyknows311
      @mindyknows311 2 года назад

      My full retirement was at 28 years, I could have waited til 30 years (May 2023), but after the pandemic sh3t show...I was done May 2021!

  • @musicalparkinglots
    @musicalparkinglots 2 года назад +24

    This is the first video I’ve seen that so closely resembles how I felt after leaving my 8-year teaching position. The amount of work, paid and unpaid, loyalty and care we put into our schools/districts, only to be overlooked and taken advantage of in the end. Cheers to you for recognizing it for what it is and taking for passions elsewhere.

  • @conniebryant197
    @conniebryant197 2 года назад +171

    I’m a school secretary who is changing positions also. Sometimes God kicks us out of our comfort zone to put us in place for bigger things! 🥰

    • @Steffi.EchoGraphix
      @Steffi.EchoGraphix 2 года назад +7

      Wow!! Someone said this to me today about something else. Guessing God wanted me to take that message to heart. #Confirmation

    • @egrace3738
      @egrace3738 2 года назад +2

      You just invalidated her experience with your glib 'god comment' . She LOST HER JOB. casually cruel. :0[

    • @conniebryant197
      @conniebryant197 2 года назад +6

      @@egrace3738 All I can say is wow. God Bless You and your 2 subscribers.

    • @karenbonilla802
      @karenbonilla802 2 года назад +2

      I needed to hear this thank you, I’m currently in college and I’m debating whether to become a teacher or change my career.

    • @carriehooper32
      @carriehooper32 2 года назад +7

      I agree, I feel like God is pushing me out of my comfort zone this year. I'm leaving a teaching position I was happy and comfortable at to something that sounds harder on paper at least but is closer to home and with my children. I feel like I am making the right choice but it is really scary still!

  • @katedebarber3677
    @katedebarber3677 2 года назад +121

    You did the exact right thing! My district has the same process about class/credit approval but it's a formality and they'll approve it if you forget to do initial form. Our HR is also good about reminding people to fill out the form. They lost a great teacher in you. How silly on their part. Great for you to have fresh start!

    • @BridgingLiteracy
      @BridgingLiteracy  2 года назад +33

      You know, if she was kind to me then maybe I would have stayed. It’s the fact that she treated me as if my character or ethics were in question as a teacher that really hurt me. Either way, I’m very happy with my choice.

  • @stacywilloughby5431
    @stacywilloughby5431 2 года назад +7

    We teach our students how to advocate for themselves all throughout their learning experience. This is a real life example of how to go about it. You did your very best to stay, and at the end of the day, they didn’t reciprocate. Being brave enough to stand up for yourself is half the battle. You drew a line in the sand and stepped over it instead of allowing yourself to be a punching bag. Thank you for your bravery, thank you for sharing it, and thank you for the integrity in which you shared it.
    I can’t fathom the idea of losing a teacher like you. I hope they realize now that putting people before policy is in their best interest. It’s simply basic humanity. I’m going to say it…your Human Resource person who spoke to you like that needs a clue. If they spoke to you like that, then I can’t imagine how they treat their own family. Character flaw to say the least. Sad!!!

  • @Jay-uq5bf
    @Jay-uq5bf Год назад

    It took me over 15 years but I found a place where I am appreciated. Admin always smiles and does right by me, co teachers are always friendly and encouraging and students always hug me.
    I still may quit for other reasons. My salary kept me from closing on a home last month. I won't leave this group of kids but when the school year is over all bets are off

  • @queenofdo-over
    @queenofdo-over 2 года назад +34

    Sadly, in the business of education, teachers are merely pawns in a “business model”. You did the right thing by resigning and moving on. I left a school several years ago when I lost respect for my administrator. I couldn’t imagine continuing to “work for not, with” an admin I had lost respect for. I admire you for doing the only thing you could’ve done in that situation. Hold your head up and keep moving forward. You ARE an amazing educator and person. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @luiscolon9449
    @luiscolon9449 2 года назад +4

    What in the world?! This is crazy. We, as educators, are treated like crap. You are amazing. You’re the first teacher on RUclips that I followed. You busted your butt all year long. This will be a blessing for you. If that old district didn’t appreciate you….someone else will treasure the amazing teacher you are! Thanks for this video. The old district can kick rocks with no shoes on! #preach!

  • @BlerdrevolutionBRGpls
    @BlerdrevolutionBRGpls 2 года назад +41

    “They were more worried about the people who were leaving than the people who wanted to stay.” This right here is the problem . Happening in my district as well.

  • @mr.kylecohen
    @mr.kylecohen 2 года назад +138

    Wow wow wow. Your mindset, outlook, and positivity inspire me to say the least. It has been an honor following your journey -- you are going to rock this new chapter!

    • @BridgingLiteracy
      @BridgingLiteracy  2 года назад +10

      Thank you so much! I definitely wasn’t like this for a good three months 😅 I’m happy that I’ve gotten past the hard part and am ready to take a new path.

  • @homebody246
    @homebody246 2 года назад +4

    Any School, in any state, in any country - in the world - would be lucky to hire a teacher like you. I am so sorry for their lack of understanding, flexibility and ambition. You are such an amazing teacher and person. I wish you all the best and think being hurt is a natural reaction ♥️🤝I’m glad though you’re not letting such a rigid system get the best of you♥️What an unbelievable loss for them…..

  • @genevieveprovencio262
    @genevieveprovencio262 2 года назад +26

    I am a retired teacher and I totally understand how you feel… in the 30 yrs I taught I had an experience similar to yours..However, change is good ..

  • @beccaisabella3771
    @beccaisabella3771 2 года назад +47

    I feel like this is a year of new beginnings for so many educators who have felt unseen, unheard, and undervalued - including me! From someone who began watching you even before having my own classroom, I wish you the best and hope you end up loving your new beginning. ❤️

  • @Altenbam82
    @Altenbam82 2 года назад +52

    Goodness. It’s one thing to have a possibility for “them” to not approve your masters pay. It’s a whole other thing to talk to and treat you that way. It’s their job to facilitate our needs. I think you hit the nail on the head when you talked about giving yourself. I’ve definitely felt that way myself. Glad you are moving on to other things. I changed schools and grade levels after 14 years and was heartbroken to leave my home. It was a tough year but I wouldn’t change it and I’ve grown so much in just one year. Best wishes to you!

    • @BridgingLiteracy
      @BridgingLiteracy  2 года назад +5

      Yes! Thank you so much! If she would have been a little nicer I may not have ever left! Thank you for your comment! 🥰

  • @theoryoferin
    @theoryoferin 2 года назад +29

    it's so sad that this is how so many teachers end up leaving the field. not necessarily this specific situation, but the way that the best, hardest-working teachers are taken complete advantage of. i'm so sorry this happened to you, but i'm glad you've been able to be successful and find somewhere else that will hopefully respect you and everything you do so much more! the new district and those students are lucky to have you!

  • @ketolakay
    @ketolakay 2 года назад +1

    I am so sorry. You deserved better. I’m glad you know your worth and demanded nothing less. I can tell you’re a very enthusiastic teacher. So it’s their lost. I feel like your administration didn’t pull all the cards for you. Maybe I missed that part.

  • @victoriakaplan2651
    @victoriakaplan2651 2 года назад +4

    I am a seasoned teacher so I totally get it. It is definitely the schools loss. They obviously didn’t want to pay you what you are worth. So sad. Especially now when schools are short of teachers. I wish you the very best in your next school. They are lucky to have you!

  • @1983jcheat
    @1983jcheat Год назад

    I have friends that are teachers. You said nothing I haven't heard about. Here in NJ, there's nothing but drama. All the best.

  • @wheresyourhousekey
    @wheresyourhousekey 2 года назад +53

    I went from absolutely livid to happy for you 😂 what a roller coaster!
    I am SO sorry no one fought for you. that you were misinformed and put off like you didn't matter.
    But I was SO happy to hear you speaking up for yourself because literally - almost NO ONE will when it comes to our career. you are so valuable and deserve the absolute best.
    I truly think God was leading you to a new chapter. So happy for you and your new job!You will be such an asset everywhere you go. ❤️

    • @BridgingLiteracy
      @BridgingLiteracy  2 года назад +6

      I think He was too! It most absolutely was a roller coaster and you are so right…. I felt like no one was fighting for me. I was always open and honest with my admin and I would only get a “you need to do what is best for you”… it’s okay. I will be okay, and I know with my whole heart that my family will be better for it as well.

    • @beyondbrunch
      @beyondbrunch 2 года назад +3

      Right. I can’t believe no one went to bat for her.

    • @krissy35
      @krissy35 2 года назад +2

      Yep. Sometimes God will do these things to push you on to bigger and better things. This happened to me and changing districts after being mistreated was a blessing. Both monetarily and with the job itself.

  • @maddiecutler7174
    @maddiecutler7174 2 года назад +2

    At least you didn’t quit teaching all together. You love teaching, but you also know your worth. I’m getting my 2nd MASTERS DEGREE in Connecticut to try and make a decent amount since our increase is only an additional 2,000 a year. As long as I’m teaching though, I’m happy. I stay because I truly love what I do. Glad you’re the same way!!

  • @jenniferrichardson550
    @jenniferrichardson550 2 года назад +34

    Girl they just pushed you out of the nest! I’m so sorry you had to endure the ridiculousness of “notocol”, because it makes absolutely no sense! You are a PHENOMENAL teacher, and that’s coming from a teacher. God has greater for you, and you were going to stay there forever…nah…you grow girl. I can’t wait to see your next, it’s going to be epic! Congratulations for now and in advance of what’s to come. 🤩😁

  • @DarinNakakihara
    @DarinNakakihara 2 года назад +1

    Wow! That’s messed up! I’m glad it worked out for you🥰

  • @nicolewatson9758
    @nicolewatson9758 2 года назад +73

    It sounds like you did the right thing! I’m sorry that you weren’t given the kindness and respect you deserve. I admire your positive attitude and mindset. Best of luck!

    • @BridgingLiteracy
      @BridgingLiteracy  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much! I sincerely appreciate your kind words.

  • @Mz90Juicy
    @Mz90Juicy 2 года назад +33

    I recently took a step out on faith too. I was an assistant teacher for 7yrs. I recently graduated with my B.S in Elementary education. I interviewed at my school got the position just to find out there was a hiring hold. I waited 3weeks for a contract just to end up being told I can stay in my position and wait for point and a position. I took a leap on faith and started interviewing at a different district. Got multiple job offers. I was so happy but I cried because I made a bond with my coworkers and parents. You hot this honey, I am happy for you. Cheers to New beginnings! I will be teaching 5th grade all subjects.

  • @sashabarker109
    @sashabarker109 2 года назад +29

    I agree! Everything happens for a reason. I've taught at three schools and both moves were due to violation of contract (1st one was the school's violation and the second one was my violation - short story: I didn't sign the contract bc it required me to have my son in the same school and it was a bad fit for him -we gave it 2 years - then I said I could only stay and sign if he could go, and they said "no," so I left. Best move EVER!) God is good. He only moves me forward, never backward. I can see His hand and praise Him for the heartaches that move us forward.
    So I say congratulations and their loss, girl! I'm sure your admin and parents/students are the one who will hurt the most at the end of such a bureaucratic decision-making process. Can't wait to see your class set up vlog. Happy summer and thank God for AMAZING mother-in-loves!

    • @BridgingLiteracy
      @BridgingLiteracy  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much! Looks like this is something that many people resonate with… thank you for your kind words! ☺️

    • @mimicupcakeable
      @mimicupcakeable 2 года назад +1

      Woahhh I’ve never heard of the child HAVING to go to the same school

    • @sashabarker109
      @sashabarker109 2 года назад +1

      @@mimicupcakeable It was a private school contract. (A small Christian school in Florida - both Christian schools I worked at had that in the contract) I'm in the public school now. Doubled my salary in one day and did what was best for my kids. God is good.

  • @susansmith1322
    @susansmith1322 2 года назад +1

    🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻. God bless you!

  • @mathstitch
    @mathstitch 2 года назад +130

    Can’t believe you had to go through this! At a time where teachers are leaving the classroom you would think they’d try a little harder to keep teachers happy… I’d definitely be interested in a video about demo lessons!

    • @BridgingLiteracy
      @BridgingLiteracy  2 года назад +5

      I completely agree! Thank you and I’ll be sure to record that video 😜

    • @RM-lv6mu
      @RM-lv6mu 2 года назад +1

      l

    • @munimathbypeterfelton6251
      @munimathbypeterfelton6251 2 года назад

      Admin. and school districts are blind as bats and love shooting themselves in the foot year after year after year. Teaching is the only profession in which you can both succeed and fail at the same time because the people above you are aware of your success and then set you up to fail immediately. Let them dig their own graves. It’s what they want to do anyway.

  • @James-dx2vs
    @James-dx2vs 2 года назад

    Keep doing what your doing for the time being, but with a Masters I'd shoot for college professor as a long term goal. I sincerely wish you the best. You deserve it. You earned it.

  • @nikkiobrien2227
    @nikkiobrien2227 2 года назад +5

    I teach 4th grade ELA and SS in Tenn. This past year I started the Modern Classroom approach (blended, self-paced, mastery based) and I love it so much. I've been watching your channel since you taught K. I have been in 4th grade for a very long time and was so excited when you came to my neck of the woods because I knew you were going to give me fresh ideas and make me feel excited again whenever I felt overwhelmed. And you did! So, again, I am so excited to hear that you are doing 4th ELA and SS! I am very sorry to hear why you had to leave though. That should NOT have happened like that. I wish you the best on your new journey!

  • @MattWellmanWriter
    @MattWellmanWriter 2 года назад

    after your HR director told you you didn't know the gravity of the situation I would have gone to the union and lawyered up, hard. You were 100% intimidated. Good on you for finding a new place but this was clearly a vendetta and the fact that they got away with it is disgusting. So sorry you had to deal with this! It's so awful. You're sounding really positive and I hope this new district appreciates you!

  • @pennycaporale1535
    @pennycaporale1535 2 года назад +10

    I’m so glad you are out of there! That district lost a really valuable teacher. I am a teacher of 30 years. So happy for you. And excited. Things do happen for a reason. Trust me. I’m 55 and can see that looking back on life. You will do great! I’m moving to 4th after teaching 1st 2nd for 24 years. I’m so glad and happy for you though. I can’t wait to see your new room. And, yes! I would love to see your demo lessons!

  • @evamn4999
    @evamn4999 2 года назад

    Life is unpredictable we really don't know. What is ahead in the future for us. Hope everything works out for you.

  • @arualstarr
    @arualstarr 2 года назад +8

    I've never watched your videos before, but I am so proud of you for expressing and enforcing your boundaries! 👏

  • @amaziingaileen
    @amaziingaileen 2 года назад

    I just resigned from the DOE. NYC has a union and they don’t help at all! While many schools have no teachers I cannot go to a different school until next year. It’s so frustrating because my rights as a teacher were taken away and I’m the one who is being punished. So sorry you went through this.

  • @Bella-ek5bx
    @Bella-ek5bx 2 года назад +10

    Oh my goodness, I can’t imagine going through this like that. I had an issue with my Masters transcripts and the way they went through to my district and reached out to my union rep and they helped me figure it out. I’m sorry this didn’t go as well for you! I agree with you that all things happen for a reason and that’s a great outlook to have. Good for you to put yourself first and not wait around in agony. Here’s to a great 2022-2023 school year. I often feel like these people sitting in administration building play such a big hand in our careers yet have no idea how much we pour ourselves into our classrooms/community. I wish this lady would have had a different attitude, I’m sure if she was more positive she’d be more efficient and positively impactful.

  • @DREDIVA2010
    @DREDIVA2010 2 года назад +2

    You go girl!!!! Go where you are wanted and appreciated. So proud of you!

  • @alexlopez8922
    @alexlopez8922 2 года назад +24

    You’re so right, everything happens for a reason, sometimes we cannot identify the reason right away however the reason comes clear when we least expected but is most needed , so be patient now you’re there to make it magical for the new place and it is possible that in your last school they need to learn to appreciate who was there through thin and thick and appreciate them more, I foresee a great school year coming for you, best of luck 😘

    • @BridgingLiteracy
      @BridgingLiteracy  2 года назад +6

      Yes! You are so right! At the beginning of this entire thing I would cry to my husband saying that I had to stay for my students. He would tell me that I would love the kids at another school. I know I can make it magical for other students at this new school. Thank you for your kind words. 😊

    • @jennifersmith4295
      @jennifersmith4295 2 года назад +5

      @@BridgingLiteracy I resigned from my public school and accepted a position on a private school. I wish I could say it was a difficult decision, but after waiting several years, when the right opportunity came along, I was ready. I also stayed because I though my at risk students needed stability. In the end, I chose my health over the school’s need.

  • @bettyspaghetti4803
    @bettyspaghetti4803 2 года назад +2

    There are no words. I would have been a puddle. HR shouldn’t treat their people this way. I am so glad you found a new place! I enjoy listening to your podcast and have had anxiety just hearing that you had problems. Now I am excited for you! Long distance high five.

  • @lisamayne9505
    @lisamayne9505 2 года назад +11

    I'm sorry to hear of the difficult time you've been through, but selfishly excited for new classroom content.

    • @BridgingLiteracy
      @BridgingLiteracy  2 года назад +4

      😂 the truth comes out!!! I adore you.. and I’m selfishly excited about a newer space! No more salmon colored cabinets 🤣

  • @toyshiajohnson8604
    @toyshiajohnson8604 2 года назад +2

    These districts are awful 😢 after being yanked around in my previous district I resigned this year and moved to a district closer to my house with higher pay…..when a window closes a door opens….wish you the best

  • @melissakinsey2925
    @melissakinsey2925 2 года назад +4

    I'm so sorry this happened to you. I've never heard of a school district having to approve a teacher furthering their education. Teachers are the greatest resource any district has. Continue striving for excellence. God will bless you wherever you are.

  • @professorben1080
    @professorben1080 2 года назад +2

    I had to leave the traditional classroom structure and start teaching homeschoolers this past year.
    All of this protocol nightmare has been very overwhelming for me since I am ADHD and having to put up with it for a decade is too much.
    I am still teaching, but I'm making the same amount and feel validated more regularly for my work.
    Glad you found somewhere new I hope you love it and I will be praying for you. And I mean it.🙏

    • @fruitloopz311
      @fruitloopz311 Год назад

      How did you find a gig teaching home school kids? Is it through a coop or do you tutor directly in the household?

  • @ResetEDU
    @ResetEDU 2 года назад +5

    Thank you for sharing your full story and not just glossing over it like “oh I’m switching schools” because the more we stay silent about this mis-treatment, the worse it gets. I resigned last year and shared my story on my channel, too. I also loved my building, coworkers, students, and building admin… but the district level and school board treatment of teachers was horrifying. We can’t continue to be dehumanized as a profession. Sending love and support to you. ❤️

  • @Barcelona_Spain7
    @Barcelona_Spain7 2 года назад

    A fresh start will be a blessing! One door closed and now a new door/journey is open for you! YOU WILL BE AMAZING!

  • @elimaylugo2474
    @elimaylugo2474 2 года назад +7

    I'm so sad and happy for you. We all know how awesome you are and how above and beyond you go for your students and school. Enjoy the change 🥰

  • @Jay-uq5bf
    @Jay-uq5bf Год назад

    I posted somewhere a quote from the first Bourne movie.
    "Look at us. look at what they make us give."

  • @lilmarsh1
    @lilmarsh1 2 года назад +13

    I have been watching you for a long time and I just want to say how proud I am of you!! Taking care of yourself first is so hard, especially with such a kind heart as yours. Stay strong and enjoy the ride!

  • @charissesnipe1381
    @charissesnipe1381 2 года назад +2

    How you were treated was truly uncalled for. I am happy to know that you have found another position and congratulations on your Masters Degree in Education...Proud of YOU! institutions that operate like what you explained will never really understand their loses. But now look how you were blessed through it all. Thanks for sharing and I would like to see an example of a teaching demo if you are considering making one. I really enjoyed your Vid😊

  • @vwilliams1009
    @vwilliams1009 2 года назад +6

    I'm a teacher too & I definitely feel your pain ❤️ good luck to you! You will be amazing at your new school district!

  • @mrspalomares9075
    @mrspalomares9075 2 года назад +2

    I am saddened yet elated for you at the same time. I have been watching you for YEARS. I've gained so much knowledge, passion, many resources and classroom ideas from you. I went through a similar situation this year and decided to make a temporary career change. I am so happy you found a new beginning. You deserve it. Hugs, from California.

  • @SernaAhlen
    @SernaAhlen 2 года назад +8

    I'm so happy to hear that you were able to find your silver lining. I'm going through a situation at my school and feel your disappointment and frustration. Good luck with your new assignment and have lots of fun!

  • @yolandacollazo8352
    @yolandacollazo8352 2 года назад

    It is their loss...you are so talented dedicated such a hard we Orting teacher..Maybe it's going to be good a new start new place new people you'll meet...Iam happy for your future new school beginning...getting your classroom ready ect...good luck...God be with you....Yoly from Puerto Rico 🇵🇷

  • @hypothesizewithmrs.h3588
    @hypothesizewithmrs.h3588 2 года назад +10

    I can't even imagine your frustration with your situation and still having to teach while going through it all. Everything definitely happens for a reason and your previous school did not know what a phenomenal educator they had. I wish you the best in your new adventure and that your current school will see what an asset they have in you and that you will be given opportunities to grow and to lead and share your gifts with your new school community. 🤗💕

  • @mariansegal7209
    @mariansegal7209 2 года назад +2

    Good for you for standing up for yourself and not letting your fate be determined by the actions of others. I retired after 39 years of teaching in 2020 and know first hand how teachers are not always given the respect that they need. I agree that you should be commended and rewarded for the years of service you gave your school district and for furthering your degree. I taught at my school for 35 years. I have a Master's Degree and was a "Leader" at my school. I mentored student teachers, presented at state conferences, wrote Kindergarten reading curriculum for the district, served as Grade Level Chair, and other school committees and was a team player. Most importantly, I loved teaching K-2. We got a new principal before going remote for COVID and she decided to move me into a Special Needs Pre-K class upon returning to school face to face. I had had special needs students mainstreamed in my classes before.I love all kids and was not bothered by their special needs. But, I am not certified in Special Education and the Pre-K class had all types of exceptionalities and the children were 3 years old, not potty trained and I knew it would be impossible for me to teach with a mask and other forms of PPE equipment on. It would have also have been very difficult to socially distance from them. I also had some health concerns that made me vulnerable and I mentioned my concerns to the principal, in hope that she would just keep me where I previously was. Her response was giving me the phone number of The Office of Human Resources for employee assistance or other accommodations for myself. I, as you, felt as if all my years of serving that school made no difference. It didn't matter that my heart was teaching little children to read and I felt like I didn't get my Masters' Degree to change diapers. It wasn't taking advantage of my strengths. It was eating me up inside and I was a wreck. So, I taught them remotely until school returned in person. It was liberating to be able to tell the principal that I would not return when school was reopened face to face. She asked me to put it in "writing " and I told her that when my paperwork was finalized, I would, only as a courtesy because according to the retirement office I was under no obligation to give any kind of notice. For the first time, in almost 40 years of teaching, I felt like I was calling the shots. I know it was the right decision for me. I initially felt sad, as if my 35 years of serving the students, staff and community there had meant nothing. But, I know that I had made a difference in the lives of the children I was so blessed to have taught over the years. I know this is the right decision for you,too. You will touch the lives of many more children in your career, which will impact the world At the end of the day you have to respect yourself enough to know you are better than being disrespected. Know your worth and continue to stand up for yourself. Shame on your school district. Such a loss for them. Wishing you a wonderful new school year and much happiness and success in your new school.

  • @conniepalmer2956
    @conniepalmer2956 2 года назад +6

    I know this had to be extremely frustrating process for you. I'm proud of you for being proactive, looking for another job, and packing up your classroom. Not to mention contacting your families. God was definitely looking out for you and had other plans. I can't wait to see what he has in store for you. Your old district has no idea that they just lost one of the BEST teachers ever. I'm praying your new school is all you ever dreamed of! Enjoy your summer and blessings on your new adventure!

  • @jacquelinetouchie9218
    @jacquelinetouchie9218 2 года назад +1

    Just found your channel. I’m a former school teacher so understand a lot of what you’ve had to go through. Wishing you a rejuvenating summer break and such a wonderful fresh start this September.

  • @mrs.j.skidvids295
    @mrs.j.skidvids295 2 года назад +13

    You will thrive in this new adventure. Can’t wait to see how God showers blessings on you and your new kiddos through this. The Lord has led me into a new adventure for next year as well so I get your mix of nerves and excitement. We can do this.

    • @BridgingLiteracy
      @BridgingLiteracy  2 года назад +1

      Thank you very much for your kind words. I am excited about this upcoming year.

  • @tarateachingmiddleschool2118
    @tarateachingmiddleschool2118 2 года назад +1

    So glad you didn’t leave teaching!!! It breaks my heart that so many great teachers are leaving and feeling like they have no other choices! The kids need you and now at your new school they will benefit from your love for them and your love and passion for teaching! Congrats!!!

  • @rinawalter5402
    @rinawalter5402 2 года назад +11

    I am sooo excited for you. I, too believe that things happen for a reason. I, too will be teaching fourth grade, self-contained gifted and talented. I am looping with my kiddos. They want to fill positions with cheaper staff. I can’t wait to go on this journey with you! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. This new school and your students are the winners because of this!

    • @BridgingLiteracy
      @BridgingLiteracy  2 года назад +2

      Awww…. Thank you so much for your kind words! In some ways, this new adventure is reenergizing me to go back this upcoming year 🤍

  • @pw4075
    @pw4075 2 года назад +2

    Best of luck in your new school. Your former district's loss is a direct result of how shortsighted they are. You need to be in an environment that celebrates your devotion, creativity, and passion for teaching. Go forth and stay positive!

  • @tasha8102
    @tasha8102 2 года назад +3

    Glad to hear you are staying in the classroom. God sometimes pushes us in a new direction because he has something better in store for us. The stagnation can stifle your abilities, God saw before you did so take it as a true blessing. Enjoy the new journey!!

  • @nanettewilliamshuntes2027
    @nanettewilliamshuntes2027 2 года назад +2

    I am happy that you were hired at a new school. I am glad that you are having a new chapter in your teaching career! Yay!

  • @DangItWoman
    @DangItWoman 2 года назад +6

    I can't wait to follow along with you over the course of this next year. I switched districts right before the beginning of the school year last year. New district, first time teaching public school (was previously in a charter), new grade level, new subject...all the things. It was definitely a year of painful growth but I LOVE my new district and school.
    This next year I will be in the same grade level but will be self contained, which I have never done before...I've always been departmentalized. So this is the first year I'll be teaching ELAR and Social Studies (and, get this, I'm fourth grade as well!!) I feel like I just identify with you on so many levels as you go through this transition! I hope it is smooth and that they appreciate you as much as you deserve!
    Love you and Michelle so much, and I'm so grateful for all the things you do to help other teachers! The Mount of work y'all put in to the podcast, your videos, the live events, the planners, and I could keep going...rooting for you as y'all finish up your books and make amazing things happen!! ❤️

  • @sgjzkz2139
    @sgjzkz2139 2 года назад +2

    My heart dropped when I saw the title of your video thinking you were leaving education. It would have been such a loss. I am happy you know your worth and that you are moving on, now I'm exited for you! I've been teaching for 17 years and YOU are the one that every year gets me excited about starting the new year setting up my classroom planning new lessons. Your positivity, energy and love for your profession is contagious. Thank you.

  • @daniellemitchell3118
    @daniellemitchell3118 2 года назад +3

    I taught 4th grade ELA/SS in Maryland for 5 years. Reading standards are pretty much spiraled. The assessment limits just extend as they get older.
    I don't know about PA, but in MD and in NY where I teach now, a lot of Reading standards are embedded in SS standards. One thing that worked for me was I taught RI standards used appropriate graphic organizers for the skills one week. Then maybe the next week, I used the same graphic organizer in the SS lesson. The students got to apply skill they had learned in informational text, thereby increasing their retention of the standard. Ex. Working main idea and details in the chapter about how Maryland was founded by Lord Baltimore in 1634. Or finding the causes and effects of why Maryland decided not to be Union or Confederate during the Civil War. Plus, I assigned culminating writing pieces; like explain having them explain what the motto of Maryland means using the history they learned to support their claim.
    This year I will be teaching 5th grade ELA and SS. It’s the one grade I have never taught in my 26 years of teaching (intentionally). I'm using what I know about end of the year 4th graders and beginning of the year 6th graders. I'm spending this summer researching to get ready.
    I'm a woman of faith. The Bible says not to cast your pearls before swine. If you had stayed at your old school, that's what would have happened. You were right to go to someplace that appreciates your talents. I am a big believer in "Your gifts will make room for you" and "You will bloom where you're planted". Congratulations and Godspeed to you this next chapter. 🙂

    • @starralleyne5335
      @starralleyne5335 2 года назад +2

      Thank you for your response and input. What great examples of teaching practices. I find teaching 4th grade (all subjects) a great challenge, but very rewarding. I agree, we should “bloom where we are planted.” Perhaps, this crazy incident is an opportunity for growth and gaining even more expertise. If you are faithful in the few things God will make you master over many. Bridget’s range of influence will expand exponentially. Way to go! I pray the healing will lend itself to new adventures and an even wider spectrum of colleagues and friends.😊

  • @TeachersMakingTheBasicsFun
    @TeachersMakingTheBasicsFun 2 года назад

    You are so wise to leave. Now you have a district that wants you. I can tell you are sad about the past but super excited about your new adventure. Hopefully your old district realizes that they messed up big time. You definitely deserve a district that will take the time to support you, not reprimand and demean you. Enjoy your new school and teaching assignment.

  • @amber4653
    @amber4653 2 года назад +26

    It sounds like you made the best decision for YOU! I also teach in PA so I totally get the certification process (and the cost associated with it 👎).
    You are right, everything happens for a reason and I wish you all the best in your new school. I think we all appreciate you explaining your situation even though you didn't have to. 🙂 Love your channel and podcast. You got this!!

    • @BridgingLiteracy
      @BridgingLiteracy  2 года назад +2

      Thank you so much! It was such a rough experience but I do believe that these tough times is what makes us stronger and smarter. ☺️ doing my best to learn from the experience.

  • @heatherknudson1448
    @heatherknudson1448 2 года назад +1

    I’m sorry that this happened to you. Policies and procedures can be ridiculous. I am so glad that you stuck up for yourself and moved on. Preserving your happy spirit and not becoming bitter is so important! Best wishes! I can not wait for new classroom setup videos 😊

  • @leticiaangel3127
    @leticiaangel3127 2 года назад +15

    Bridget, thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your story. The way you were treated is absolutely unacceptable. I'm glad that you know your value and are taking it to another place. Your next school is so lucky to have you!
    I would love to see a video about your demo lessons and your tips for them!

    • @BridgingLiteracy
      @BridgingLiteracy  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much! I sincerely appreciate your support. I’m very excited about my change and looking forward to share it all!

  • @jenniferdimaggio1239
    @jenniferdimaggio1239 2 года назад +2

    I'm glad you made a decision that was best for you! Hopefully your new district appreciates what an amazing teacher they just gained. Best of luck in your new teaching job! 💖

  • @kimstegner
    @kimstegner 2 года назад +9

    I'm in Southeastern PA and we have the exact same process that you're describing. It's dreadful but it's part of my job as a union rep to explain it to people in my department and support them as they go through it. I'm also getting my Master's so I'm going through it as well. It's so frustrating, and I'm sorry you went through that. You are on to bigger and better things!

    • @BridgingLiteracy
      @BridgingLiteracy  2 года назад

      Yes! Bigger and better is exactly what’s in my future 😅 the challenging times only make us stronger and wiser. I got through it with family by my side and I know that everything will be okay.

  • @CandaceTravismusic
    @CandaceTravismusic 2 года назад +1

    So sorry, but hopefully it will be a blessing in disguise.

  • @kayladelvalley5236
    @kayladelvalley5236 2 года назад +4

    I am so sorry for what you experienced. I have watched you for years and feel you are so well rounded in your teaching and knowledge. Praying for your next adventure and you know you will be such a good teacher at your new school!

  • @mrs.fletchersclass4684
    @mrs.fletchersclass4684 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing. It is very sad that your district treated you this way. But, I’m so happy to hear that you are still teaching. Like others have said, you are an inspiration 😊.

  • @debbipaiz4951
    @debbipaiz4951 2 года назад +3

    Congratulations!!! Good on you for knowing your worth! Have an amazing school year!🤩🎉🍎

  • @jjc6530
    @jjc6530 2 года назад +1

    The honest truth is everything, I mean everything with the education system is messed up. People are overtasked to the breaking point. People are grumpy and irritated with working with the DOE. The morale of almost all teachers and staff in the system is low. People don’t care because they are just on the breaking point.

  • @timetoteach6226
    @timetoteach6226 2 года назад +4

    I am so excited for your new journey and adventure!! As you know you have been an inspiration to me for years, and I strongly believe this new school, staff, and students needed your wonderful mind!! Everything happens for a reason, and this is going to be great! Love you to pieces, I am so sorry it happened this way!!!! You are a blessing to all that get to work with you!!!! Wishing you the best upcoming year!!!

  • @lisafunkyhairedteacher6574
    @lisafunkyhairedteacher6574 2 года назад +13

    I’m so happy for you! (My district in Florida doesn’t pay more for a masters! ) I teach 4th grade Math/Science, so I’m excited to see your new videos in 4th grade!❤️

  • @mom2boysteacher27
    @mom2boysteacher27 2 года назад +1

    I am sorry you had to go through the struggle but I am proud of you for standing up for what you are worth, and taking care of yourself and your family. I am excited for your new adventures! Can't wait to hear more about the new school!!

  • @marthamercer215
    @marthamercer215 2 года назад +10

    I get it girl! I was in a similar situation last year and made the change as well. Best decision ever made. God has plans fir us that we don’t always know or understand until we are looking at them in hindsight. Congratulations on your exciting new chapter.

    • @BridgingLiteracy
      @BridgingLiteracy  2 года назад

      Yes!!!! Go us for making hard decision that benefit us!!! Thank you so much for the supportive words. I’m looking forward to it all.

  • @Eduscafflearn
    @Eduscafflearn 2 года назад

    Usually when you set towards your goals you have to face challenges, but keep moving you will overcome the challenges. Every cloud has a silver lining.

  • @sefwright6286
    @sefwright6286 2 года назад +4

    Have also experienced the heartbreaking upper administrative cold shoulder exhibiting no understanding and self serving decision making. Ended up resigning as well after 23 years of teaching, masters degree, and multiple performance awards. My family and I will never look at education the same way. Good luck in your new endeavors

  • @kathleenveltsos7973
    @kathleenveltsos7973 2 года назад

    You are such an inspiration. Trusting the Lord is so hard but boy the outcome is always so much better than we could do!

  • @earlychildhoodteacher6716
    @earlychildhoodteacher6716 2 года назад +7

    Congratulations on your new position, I am sure those kids are going to have the best teacher. Yes, I would love to see a Demo lesson.

    • @BridgingLiteracy
      @BridgingLiteracy  2 года назад

      Fantastic!!! I’ll get a video together! Thank you for the kind words. I’m very excited about this upcoming year.

  • @kathrynmacgown6575
    @kathrynmacgown6575 2 года назад +1

    God bless you in your new adventure!

  • @leahbalgaroo4900
    @leahbalgaroo4900 2 года назад +4

    You are so right, everything happens for a reason and I look forward to continuing to follow you on your journey!! I am currently a virtual 5th grade ELA teacher but last year, I taught both ELA and Social Stuides for my 1st year with 5th grade!!

  • @lovesjourney5683
    @lovesjourney5683 2 года назад

    I've watched your videos for years. You are an amazing teacher! Any school district would be thrilled to have you. You're such an inspiration to fellow teachers and your students. Keep up the GREAT WORK!!!

  • @meme9467
    @meme9467 2 года назад +3

    Babe I have been watching you forever! I’m so sorry you are going through this. I hope that you read this, I learned that you should only work your contract hours. Unless it’s detrimental you need to see this profession as a job. You can be a great teacher without sacrificing it all for your employer. Life is too short and as you can see we are just employees in a large system where we are replaceable. Good luck on your new adventure! I had to start over too.