I believe a lot of Arabs are like that. I'm Iraqi Norwegian and it was expected for me to marry an Iraqi, however I married a Pakistani man. Mashallah his deen is strong. The character of a spouse is more important than culture matching imo.
Me to ... I'm suffering about that because I liked Iranian man and they didn't agree just for nationalty ...make duaa for me please Can I aske how if your parents didn't agree and how you convinced them alhamdu lillah
I just Moe's mentality! The way he talks about Islam and has so much passion, just makes me so happy Omays shared someone amazing like that with us. May Allah bless you both! ❤️❤️
My mom is Russian and my dad is Egyptian and I actually had the opposite experience. My dad was really laid back and didn't care as long as the person was muslim and kind. My mom though was OBSESSED with the idea of me marrying an Egyptian. So I ditched all that and married a convert lol alhamduallah ❤️
This was definitely the first time I watched a how we met vid without getting bored from beginning till the end ♥️ such fun and nice people. May Allah swt bless your marriage Aameen
How lust/desires destroy a person/Muslim ummah and when you follow desires/lust Allah doesn't help or support you!. Astaghfiullah Chapter (4) sūrat l-nisāa (The Women) Allah wants to accept your repentance, but those who follow [their] passions want you to digress [into] a great deviation. Pickthall: And Allah would turn to you in mercy; but those who follow vain desires would have you go tremendously astray. Yusuf Ali: Allah doth wish to Turn to you, but the wish of those who follow their lusts is that ye should turn away (from Him),- far, far away. Shakir: And Allah desires that He should turn to you (mercifully), and those who follow (their) lusts desire that you should deviate (with) a great deviation. Muhammad Sarwar: God wants to be merciful to you but those who follow their evil desires seek to lead you astray. Mohsin Khan: Allah wishes to accept your repentance, but those who follow their lusts, wish that you (believers) should deviate tremendously away from the Right Path. Arberry: and God desires to turn towards you, but those who follow their lusts desire you to swerve away mightily. And who is more astray than him who follows his desires without any guidance from Allah (Sūratِ al-Qasas No.28, Āyat 50) In this verse following certain personal desires and whims is directly linked to being astray. In fact, it is the reason behind being astray. Desires can be a thick curtain over the eyes of the intelligence, refusing to let the light of wisdom in. It is interesting that this verse condemns those desires which are not in line with any guidance from Allah ‘azza wa-jall. This shows that there are some desires which incline towards good and virtue, that which Allah subhānahu wa-ta‘ālā has commanded. They lead a person towards truth and perfection. But it is the whims that are not based on any solid guidance which cause the downfall of the human being. Desires have been placed inside human beings so they may continue life on earth. Desires and emotions such as anger, love, attachment to the self, family, wealth, etc. all have a place and purpose in life. But sometimes these becomes excessive and transgress natural bounds. They take control of the mind and makes it submit. Men then loses the choice to act appropriately in line with his status as the khalīfa of Allah (swt). It is like the flood of desires, unstopped by any dam of guidance, sweeps him away. In another verse of the Quran, Almighty Allah talks about such people: Have you seen him who has taken his desire to be his god? (Q25:43). Desire, for these people, is worshiped, obeyed at all costs. Logic and reasoning have no effect on such people. It is not that there is something wrong in the logic presented to them. Rather it is because of the veils of personal desires which are a barrier. Certain desires can make a person so attached to something that he loses the ability to discern. He becomes subjective and is blind to the truth. That is because a clear perception of the truth cannot be derived when there are emotional attachments to wrong. Such a disease is a huge affliction to the soul. It is becoming common today in a world which glorifies and indulges in desires. Imam Ja‘far al-Sādiq ‘alayhis salām taught this Du‘ā to the believers for clarity of thought and to stay away from following desires: اللَّهُمَّ أَرِنِي الْحَق حَقًّا فَاَتِّبَعَهُ، وَأَرِنِي الْبَاطِلَ بَاطِلًا وفَاَجْتَنِبَهُ، وَلَا تَجْعَلْهُ عَلَيَّ مَتَشَابِهًا فَأَتَّبِعَ هَوَايَ بِغَيْرِ هُدىً مِنْكَ Allāhummā arinil-haqqa haqqan fa-attibi‘ahu, wa-arinil-bātila bātilan fa-ajtanibahu, walā taj‘alhu ‘alayya mutashābihan fa-attibi‘a hawāya bighayri hudan mink. O God! Show me the truth as the truth so I follow it, and falsehood as falsehood do I stay away from it; and let them not seem similar to me, for if this happens then I will follow my own desires without guidance from You. (Bihar al-Anwār, v.86, p.120).
The cutest!!!!! Im not Arabic or Muslim but I have a lot of Muslim and Arabic girlfriends and Her enthusiasms reminds me of my friends and it makes me so happy and jitty
I was feeling so depresses all day, because of not finding the right guy!! But watching your video made me so happy and i realised that if someone wants truly be withyou theyll make it happen especially in a halal way and seeking allahs validation which is so cute !!! Literally made my day thank you so much i love you guys i pray Allah blesses you with so many beautiful children who are the coolness of your eyes ameen
Wow wow wow Big Moe never ever change your love for Allah and your wife is absolutely beautiful. He’s grounded, he’s respectful and he’s so down to earth! Also the fact that you waited was absolutely beautiful
Do like what omaya and mohammed did....let his dad call your dad and go from there. 😉 Insha'Allah wish you the best and if it's meant to be it'll happen 😊
@@sundes2807 Allah blessed us that’s the only explanation. We met online. We both were there for marriage not playing. We talked about what we both wanted and expected and it worked. 5 weeks of online talking I already knew I wanted to marry him. I flew to where he was with my mother after a week got married.
Ugh I wish this video was up four years ago. I dated a Palestinian(non Muslim) and after four years his parents had enough. Nothing was wrong with our relationship I just wasn’t Palestinian. I didn’t know I was dating the most prideful of Arabs.
Smiling from ear to ear the whole way through. MashaAllah tabarakAllah MashaAllah tabarakAllah. May Allah always bless your union with those you love the most ❤
I´ve seen many a Muslim couple´s "How we met" stories and this one made me watch it through without feeling annoyed or, sorry, irked at how so many just imitate the vocabulary and the mannerisms of the bad parts of mainstream culture (not the good parts). First of all: MASH´ALLAH AND ALLAH HUMMA BAARIK. I don´t think people understand how extremely blessed they are if/when they meet their life-partner all on their own (AND you get married). No arranged marriage (and panicky parents who treat you terribly because they are stressed), no forced marriage with the closest cousin that your dad is forced to import to the West as a sign of loyalty to his brother, no hoping that someone will just discover you, no trying to think well of Allah swt while you´re going through year after year but hardly even coming across Muslims. Then when you do finally see a Muslim man, you see the brothers opting for and chasing non-Muslim women who give them everything without marriage. (And you are a virgin, wondering if there even are clean, pious men out there). Or you´re trying to find someone halaal online because the country you live in hardly has Muslims, let alone educated, on the Deen and serious Muslims, and you discover that it´s full of brothers looking for second/third/fourth wife without telling, entertaining several women at the same time, or just chatting for excitement while they have a wife and kids in their country (and they´re asking for questionable photos of these sisters that they´re fooling). People just don´t understand. It´s so easy for them to ask you whether you are married or not (hardly even before they remember your name), and to immediately put you into a category or say the annoying "Aaaw, it will happen sister" (while you think "Hold on, why aaaaw...I didn´t say that I´m desperate or that I have cancer"). Allah is everything in our lives, our pillar, our hope and GOAL...but the community makes you feel inadequate, unwelcome, deficient and the worst....weird or even sick. So I´m saying a big "Allah humma baarik" for all who are blessed by Allah to have a similar process as these two. The sister is so beautiful that if I was even a third as beautiful, I wouldn´t know how to behave. I don´t know what it´s like to feel pretty or attractive. I only know what it feels like to be respected by men, alhamdulillah for that though. I really really wish all the new generations this kind of ease in finding a life-partner. I make duaa for all of you to find it, because meeting someone the halaal way is such a big part of the life puzzle, and us Muslims growing up in several cultures and not having our parents on our side (cultural Islam), is such a jihaad in these Western societies. It´s like we have 2 enemies: The mainstream society hating us for being Muslim, and our parents constantly working against us and enforcing their cultural dreams on us. They are good with the sons, but with daughters...parents can behave terribly on a daily basis, giving badd-duaas and taking out faults in our looks and clothes, like you´re someone they´re ashamed of (despite having a flawless reputation all life....which isn´t expected of the sons, as they are always loved despite ANY haraam). It´s too late for my generation of women. We are the leftover women, the first gen that were born in the West (most got arranged marriage, forced marriage to cousins or settled with inadequate cultural men...while the rest of us are over 35 and still single). I don´t know any married sister of my gen who is genuinely happy. They all settled and are now just completely there for their children. They don´t have a life of their own, as a woman. You sit in their house and FEEL how they´re just surviving on autopilot mama mode. They´re like 2 business partners just running a household with the woman doing 85% of the hard work (some don´t even share a bedroom or the husband is addicted to online fitnah). We are the invisible women of the ummah. Our maqsad, I guess, is to support our ageing parents emotionally, practically and financially (because our brothers are mostly "busy" like men make themselves with the mainstream society) and perhaps be good aunties. And that is noble too, I guess. My deepest, most genuine duaas for the new gen. I really feel happy for anyone that finds love the halaal way. May you all find what we didn´t. May Allah swt bless you all abundantly. My greatest dream is to do something for my Aakhira before I die. I´d love to start a school in a poor country, so that when I die, at least someone will give me duaa and not speak of me as the weird woman, the badnaseeb, or the inadequate one. I hope they will connect my name with being dedicated to Allah. That would be the greatest honour.
Sister don't give up and always believe in Allah. There are plenty of righteous muslim men out there. There will be people who are on the truth until the day of judgement, so always make dua and ask Allah to bless you in this world and in the hereafter. Sister everyone in this world has a test, In Shaa Allah you will also pass your test. Pray to Allah because you will find peace through prayer. The prophet (SAW) married Khadija May Allah have mercy on her when she was 40 years old and he was 25 . Always ask Allah THE ALL MIGHTY for beneficial knowledge of islam so that In Shaa Allah you will attain happiness in this world and the hereafter.
Literally cried when reading it .. It’s so hurtful to see our so called an Islamic societies having cultural Islam rather then having true spirit of this beautiful Deen .. May Allah SWT make easy the things for our young generation and children 🤍🤍
May Allah Azzawajal bless you with a righteous and loving husband, sister 💗 May Allah Azzawajal make you happy in this life and on the day of Judgement💗
@@m3ow517 I really don't like to hear that term although I understand exactly what was meant. Its just culture fullstop not Islam. It's awful the picking and choosing. JazakAllah so much for your positivity
Same problem with my palestinian father😂 but the guy is not arab though. Even if the guy converts to Islam, my father preferes palestinians.. Please make duaa for my dad to aceept him and for the guy to convert to islam❤🙏🤲
How did you guys manage to stay friends for so long? I feel like I’m incapable of staying friends with a guy I like. The best relationships start to friendship as you said ❤️
I loved the story of how you two met mashallah! You two definitely handled it the right way and I’m so happy for you both! I’m actually also Palestinian and it hit me hard when u said how Palestinians are prideful when it comes to marrying their kids to the same culture and country it is so true 😅! I ended up marrying my cousin but my sister married someone from Yemen it was so hard for my parents to accept but they did at the end of the day but let’s just say it caused issues with relatives and sometimes my sister struggles because of the differences in culture but she’s happy and that’s all that matters. I wish that it could be more normal because at the end of the day we are all Muslims and all brothers and sisters and it’s not against our religion to marry outside your country. We all believe the same thing and so I only wish that it could be more normal.
SubhanAllah all of us Pali 🇵🇸 have families that just want to keep that connection for the kids but Alhumdillah in the end I feel like every Pali dad is a softy and wants kids to be happy
MA. Your guys are my favorite and your genuineness is wonderful. May Allah protect you and sheild you from any wrongdoing. Keep on being yourself and you will be a great example for others. Much love.
OOOOh people you are sooo adorable together may Allah bless you and protect you. 😍😍😍😍😍 P.S: 3 years of engagement is not a long time I know people that got married after 7, 8 years of engagement people just need something to talk about
May Allah SWT bless your relationship! It was amazing listening to your story! I admire your transparency and doing things for Allah's sake!!!! Amazing!!!!!!! MashAllah. I'm Palestinian and my husband is from Guyana alhamdulilah!!!!
My dad will accept whoever I want to get married to ethnicity wise, BUT he prefers someone from Bangladesh which is our ethnicity because he wants to keep a good rapport and communication with the in-laws. We'll see what happens, I haven't found anyone yet.
Masha'Allah, y'all are such a beautiful couple, I'm so grateful that I had the chance to meet y'all during ISNA years ago. I've been watching since the OG Husband Tag Video and it's so cute to get a more in depth story. May Allah continue to bless you both.
I’ve watched this video twice already. I just love your how you met story! I think bc it’s so real and relatable. And I love how it highlighted how certain cultures only want marriage within their culture but that Omaya’s father gave Mohammed’s family a chance and their first impressions changed his opinion ❤️ it’s a great lesson. MashAllah, you two were definitely meant for each other. May Allah continue to bless you and your marriage.
MashaAllah may Allah bless your family, Pls understand the Dad, easier to find out about people if they in your community. As soon as he heard from her brothers, things went forward.
May Allah bless your union! You can tell y’all are just the sweetest couple Masha Allah. May Allah give you all that is good in this life and the next. Thank you so much for reminding our youth that Barakah comes with keeping it halal!
Any tips on trying to convince families about marrying from different cultures? I am in a similar situation and do not know what to do. We are both muslim but I am Lebanese and he is Turkish.
Much love to you all , You guys are so genuine and cute mashallah ❤️ May Allah bless you both and your families 🤍🤍🤍 Ramadan Kareem by the way, May Allah forgive us all and shower us with His Mercy 🌙🤍☺️💫🙏🏻
Moe's a good person. You can easily tell. He's very humble, honest and nice. You two are made for each other mashallah
Masha'Allah
I believe a lot of Arabs are like that. I'm Iraqi Norwegian and it was expected for me to marry an Iraqi, however I married a Pakistani man. Mashallah his deen is strong. The character of a spouse is more important than culture matching imo.
#arabstruggle 🥲
Gratulerer. Måtte Allah velsigne deres ekteskap ❣️
I am an Indian brought up in a Khaleeji country married to an Omani who was brought up in East Africa.
Me to ... I'm suffering about that because I liked Iranian man and they didn't agree just for nationalty ...make duaa for me please
Can I aske how if your parents didn't agree and how you convinced them alhamdu lillah
@@humanity1927 they can't disagree about his nationality. It's your choice who you'll marry!
I just Moe's mentality! The way he talks about Islam and has so much passion, just makes me so happy Omays shared someone amazing like that with us. May Allah bless you both! ❤️❤️
My little boy just gets excited when he watches you guys he basically calls you big man and the princess 😍
Awwwww.... Really?? That's really sweet and that defines them nicely. 😊
😍😍😍
😂😍
Ma Shaa Allah so cute
My mom is Russian and my dad is Egyptian and I actually had the opposite experience. My dad was really laid back and didn't care as long as the person was muslim and kind. My mom though was OBSESSED with the idea of me marrying an Egyptian. So I ditched all that and married a convert lol alhamduallah ❤️
Imagine my Egyptian husband that married a Romanian that is Christian 😂😂
@@danakandel8256Men can marry Christians, Jews… I.e. people of the book…though not recommended as they influence the kids
God bless Moms that make convos with dads easier 🙌🏾
This was definitely the first time I watched a how we met vid without getting bored from beginning till the end ♥️ such fun and nice people. May Allah swt bless your marriage Aameen
Not saying the whole thing was halal tho . Although they had parents permission it still doesn’t make it halal . Halal is when they get married . 💞
@@miemie8368 they did it the best way possible and a lot better than how others do.
@@aneesaaaaaa hate to break this to you but that definitely is not the ✨best✨ way possible lol . Islamically a big no no .
First time to watch such videos from start to end
@@aneesaaaaaa yes
Your dad married a Venezuelan, he should expect his children to be as adventurous 😂
How lust/desires destroy a person/Muslim ummah and when you follow desires/lust Allah doesn't help or support you!. Astaghfiullah Chapter (4) sūrat l-nisāa (The Women)
Allah wants to accept your repentance, but those who follow [their] passions want you to digress [into] a great deviation.
Pickthall: And Allah would turn to you in mercy; but those who follow vain desires would have you go tremendously astray.
Yusuf Ali: Allah doth wish to Turn to you, but the wish of those who follow their lusts is that ye should turn away (from Him),- far, far away.
Shakir: And Allah desires that He should turn to you (mercifully), and those who follow (their) lusts desire that you should deviate (with) a great deviation.
Muhammad Sarwar: God wants to be merciful to you but those who follow their evil desires seek to lead you astray.
Mohsin Khan: Allah wishes to accept your repentance, but those who follow their lusts, wish that you (believers) should deviate tremendously away from the Right Path.
Arberry: and God desires to turn towards you, but those who follow their lusts desire you to swerve away mightily.
And who is more astray than him who follows his desires without any guidance from Allah
(Sūratِ al-Qasas No.28, Āyat 50)
In this verse following certain personal desires and whims is directly linked to being astray. In fact, it is the reason behind being astray. Desires can be a thick curtain over the eyes of the intelligence, refusing to let the light of wisdom in. It is interesting that this verse condemns those desires which are not in line with any guidance from Allah ‘azza wa-jall. This shows that there are some desires which incline towards good and virtue, that which Allah subhānahu wa-ta‘ālā has commanded. They lead a person towards truth and perfection. But it is the whims that are not based on any solid guidance which cause the downfall of the human being.
Desires have been placed inside human beings so they may continue life on earth. Desires and emotions such as anger, love, attachment to the self, family, wealth, etc. all have a place and purpose in life. But sometimes these becomes excessive and transgress natural bounds. They take control of the mind and makes it submit. Men then loses the choice to act appropriately in line with his status as the khalīfa of Allah (swt). It is like the flood of desires, unstopped by any dam of guidance, sweeps him away.
In another verse of the Quran, Almighty Allah talks about such people: Have you seen him who has taken his desire to be his god? (Q25:43). Desire, for these people, is worshiped, obeyed at all costs. Logic and reasoning have no effect on such people. It is not that there is something wrong in the logic presented to them. Rather it is because of the veils of personal desires which are a barrier.
Certain desires can make a person so attached to something that he loses the ability to discern. He becomes subjective and is blind to the truth. That is because a clear perception of the truth cannot be derived when there are emotional attachments to wrong. Such a disease is a huge affliction to the soul. It is becoming common today in a world which glorifies and indulges in desires. Imam Ja‘far al-Sādiq ‘alayhis salām taught this Du‘ā to the believers for clarity of thought and to stay away from following desires:
اللَّهُمَّ أَرِنِي الْحَق حَقًّا فَاَتِّبَعَهُ، وَأَرِنِي الْبَاطِلَ بَاطِلًا وفَاَجْتَنِبَهُ، وَلَا تَجْعَلْهُ عَلَيَّ مَتَشَابِهًا فَأَتَّبِعَ هَوَايَ بِغَيْرِ هُدىً مِنْكَ
Allāhummā arinil-haqqa haqqan fa-attibi‘ahu, wa-arinil-bātila bātilan fa-ajtanibahu, walā taj‘alhu ‘alayya mutashābihan fa-attibi‘a hawāya bighayri hudan mink.
O God! Show me the truth as the truth so I follow it, and falsehood as falsehood do I stay away from it; and let them not seem similar to me, for if this happens then I will follow my own desires without guidance from You.
(Bihar al-Anwār, v.86, p.120).
My favorite part was when he said “it was like Allah had set it up for us.” So sweet!!
The cutest!!!!! Im not Arabic or Muslim but I have a lot of Muslim and Arabic girlfriends and Her enthusiasms reminds me of my friends and it makes me so happy and jitty
I was feeling so depresses all day, because of not finding the right guy!! But watching your video made me so happy and i realised that if someone wants truly be withyou theyll make it happen especially in a halal way and seeking allahs validation which is so cute !!! Literally made my day thank you so much i love you guys i pray Allah blesses you with so many beautiful children who are the coolness of your eyes ameen
I will pray for Allah to ease your pain and and bless you with the right person soon, stay strong sister ♥️
@@samanthakhandaker464 thankyou so much, ❤❤🥰🥰 i pray allah gives you all the happiness in this world and the hereafter and grants jannatul firdous ❤
@Samantha i wish all the best, God have a plan for you 🤲🏿. I'm 37 years And i don't find either. Be patient. Much love from France ❤
May Allah make it easy to u sister, much love
Ameen. Prayers 🤍
Wow wow wow Big Moe never ever change your love for Allah and your wife is absolutely beautiful. He’s grounded, he’s respectful and he’s so down to earth! Also the fact that you waited was absolutely beautiful
So cute.Omaya's Dad was not so ethnocentric when he fell in love with her Mom. God makes all possible.
This is such a beautiful story, when my baby girl is old enough I am definitely going to show her this story, loved it.
“Let us write our own story” UGH I LOVE THIS
thats true
I have been having this problem with my dad lol for four years and he’s rejected him for the same reasons as yours. Still trying, make duaa 🤲🏻
Tell your dad its haram to reject a futur husband if he is muslim no matter what etnicity color or nationalit
Wish you the best
Do like what omaya and mohammed did....let his dad call your dad and go from there. 😉 Insha'Allah wish you the best and if it's meant to be it'll happen 😊
@Sana Malik how did you end up convincing him? Maybe I can get some insight InshAllah on different ways ☺️
@Sana Malik Ameen Ya Rab ❤️ May Allah swt bless your marriage and thank you for your kindness
You guys took like 4 years... my husband and I took 5 weeks from meeting to marriage. Alhumdulileh 13 years and 4 kids later best friends
Your blessed. Allah provided you this beautiful provision. Not everyone has it..treasure it. X
wow how did you do this? Could you tell me if you don't mind? .... im just curious.
@@sundes2807 Allah blessed us that’s the only explanation. We met online. We both were there for marriage not playing. We talked about what we both wanted and expected and it worked. 5 weeks of online talking I already knew I wanted to marry him. I flew to where he was with my mother after a week got married.
Ugh I wish this video was up four years ago. I dated a Palestinian(non Muslim) and after four years his parents had enough. Nothing was wrong with our relationship I just wasn’t Palestinian. I didn’t know I was dating the most prideful of Arabs.
One of my favorite couples. I think the next video should be about your wedding maybe with some pictures though out the video.
Yes plzzz
Even without pictures would be finee
Good idea. I would love to see their pics
If parents stopped focusing on where the person is from then their kids would be married by now because values and religion is what counts.
So nice, so caring, so warm.. Qualities that every woman wants in a man so maybe men need to hear this loud and clear.
True but compatibility and future things should know of each other is important aswell after that
Smiling from ear to ear the whole way through. MashaAllah tabarakAllah MashaAllah tabarakAllah. May Allah always bless your union with those you love the most ❤
OMG😂, You guys are the best. I totally can relate as I'm Malaysian, insyaAllah I'm marrying a Libyan this May. Pray for meeeee
Are you in Johor. It's loaded with Libyans. Best wishes they are amazing people. 😇
@@SiddiQaATaha huhu no, I'm from shah alam, he studied there.
@@madiimt7624 mashallah. Best wishes for you two. May Allah bless you and your marriage.
good luck! praying for u
May Allah bless your marriage ❣️
May Allah grant you guys healthy and righteous children. Ameen.
Watching this while smiling :) i can't wait to meet my future husband soonest :) praying for marriage. Allahumma barik lakum :)
MashAllah 🥰 how wonderful it is when you don’t rush things and Allah allows all to fall into place.
I´ve seen many a Muslim couple´s "How we met" stories and this one made me watch it through without feeling annoyed or, sorry, irked at how so many just imitate the vocabulary and the mannerisms of the bad parts of mainstream culture (not the good parts). First of all: MASH´ALLAH AND ALLAH HUMMA BAARIK. I don´t think people understand how extremely blessed they are if/when they meet their life-partner all on their own (AND you get married). No arranged marriage (and panicky parents who treat you terribly because they are stressed), no forced marriage with the closest cousin that your dad is forced to import to the West as a sign of loyalty to his brother, no hoping that someone will just discover you, no trying to think well of Allah swt while you´re going through year after year but hardly even coming across Muslims. Then when you do finally see a Muslim man, you see the brothers opting for and chasing non-Muslim women who give them everything without marriage. (And you are a virgin, wondering if there even are clean, pious men out there). Or you´re trying to find someone halaal online because the country you live in hardly has Muslims, let alone educated, on the Deen and serious Muslims, and you discover that it´s full of brothers looking for second/third/fourth wife without telling, entertaining several women at the same time, or just chatting for excitement while they have a wife and kids in their country (and they´re asking for questionable photos of these sisters that they´re fooling).
People just don´t understand. It´s so easy for them to ask you whether you are married or not (hardly even before they remember your name), and to immediately put you into a category or say the annoying "Aaaw, it will happen sister" (while you think "Hold on, why aaaaw...I didn´t say that I´m desperate or that I have cancer"). Allah is everything in our lives, our pillar, our hope and GOAL...but the community makes you feel inadequate, unwelcome, deficient and the worst....weird or even sick. So I´m saying a big "Allah humma baarik" for all who are blessed by Allah to have a similar process as these two. The sister is so beautiful that if I was even a third as beautiful, I wouldn´t know how to behave. I don´t know what it´s like to feel pretty or attractive. I only know what it feels like to be respected by men, alhamdulillah for that though.
I really really wish all the new generations this kind of ease in finding a life-partner. I make duaa for all of you to find it, because meeting someone the halaal way is such a big part of the life puzzle, and us Muslims growing up in several cultures and not having our parents on our side (cultural Islam), is such a jihaad in these Western societies. It´s like we have 2 enemies: The mainstream society hating us for being Muslim, and our parents constantly working against us and enforcing their cultural dreams on us. They are good with the sons, but with daughters...parents can behave terribly on a daily basis, giving badd-duaas and taking out faults in our looks and clothes, like you´re someone they´re ashamed of (despite having a flawless reputation all life....which isn´t expected of the sons, as they are always loved despite ANY haraam).
It´s too late for my generation of women. We are the leftover women, the first gen that were born in the West (most got arranged marriage, forced marriage to cousins or settled with inadequate cultural men...while the rest of us are over 35 and still single). I don´t know any married sister of my gen who is genuinely happy. They all settled and are now just completely there for their children. They don´t have a life of their own, as a woman. You sit in their house and FEEL how they´re just surviving on autopilot mama mode. They´re like 2 business partners just running a household with the woman doing 85% of the hard work (some don´t even share a bedroom or the husband is addicted to online fitnah).
We are the invisible women of the ummah. Our maqsad, I guess, is to support our ageing parents emotionally, practically and financially (because our brothers are mostly "busy" like men make themselves with the mainstream society) and perhaps be good aunties. And that is noble too, I guess. My deepest, most genuine duaas for the new gen. I really feel happy for anyone that finds love the halaal way. May you all find what we didn´t. May Allah swt bless you all abundantly. My greatest dream is to do something for my Aakhira before I die. I´d love to start a school in a poor country, so that when I die, at least someone will give me duaa and not speak of me as the weird woman, the badnaseeb, or the inadequate one. I hope they will connect my name with being dedicated to Allah. That would be the greatest honour.
Sister don't give up and always believe in Allah. There are plenty of righteous muslim men out there. There will be people who are on the truth until the day of judgement, so always make dua and ask Allah to bless you in this world and in the hereafter. Sister everyone in this world has a test, In Shaa Allah you will also pass your test. Pray to Allah because you will find peace through prayer. The prophet (SAW) married Khadija May Allah have mercy on her when she was 40 years old and he was 25 . Always ask Allah THE ALL MIGHTY for beneficial knowledge of islam so that In Shaa Allah you will attain happiness in this world and the hereafter.
Literally cried when reading it ..
It’s so hurtful to see our so called an Islamic societies having cultural Islam rather then having true spirit of this beautiful Deen ..
May Allah SWT make easy the things for our young generation and children 🤍🤍
May Allah Azzawajal bless you with a righteous and loving husband, sister 💗 May Allah Azzawajal make you happy in this life and on the day of Judgement💗
@@m3ow517 I really don't like to hear that term although I understand exactly what was meant. Its just culture fullstop not Islam. It's awful the picking and choosing. JazakAllah so much for your positivity
@@m3ow517 Aaaw dear sis, jazak´Allah khayr! Lots of love and duaa your way. Aameen to your duaa as well.
Today is shab e baraat May Allah give you both long beautiful life inshallah 🙏✨
Lool I like how parents forget their old version of themselves, Alhamdulillah we all Muslims
This story gives me hope!! Stay blessed guys!!💖💖
Same problem with my palestinian father😂 but the guy is not arab though. Even if the guy converts to Islam, my father preferes palestinians.. Please make duaa for my dad to aceept him and for the guy to convert to islam❤🙏🤲
We all need a friend like Tarwa!!! May Allah bless you and Mo forever
My favourite " he is large but i am in charge " couple . So cute Mashallah . May Allah bless you ♥️♥️
My husband and i met and then it took us 10 years to get married too long to detail but just to join you and say that leave it in Allahs will 🤲
10 years halal Mashallah.
How ironic, he wanted her to marry a Palestinian but he married a Venezuelan
what college did they go to
Like mine
She's half Palestinian
Great story honestly wish parents would stop with their preferences🤷♀️
How did you guys manage to stay friends for so long? I feel like I’m incapable of staying friends with a guy I like.
The best relationships start to friendship as you said ❤️
But isn't this friendship totally haram?
I loved the story of how you two met mashallah! You two definitely handled it the right way and I’m so happy for you both! I’m actually also Palestinian and it hit me hard when u said how Palestinians are prideful when it comes to marrying their kids to the same culture and country it is so true 😅! I ended up marrying my cousin but my sister married someone from Yemen it was so hard for my parents to accept but they did at the end of the day but let’s just say it caused issues with relatives and sometimes my sister struggles because of the differences in culture but she’s happy and that’s all that matters. I wish that it could be more normal because at the end of the day we are all Muslims and all brothers and sisters and it’s not against our religion to marry outside your country. We all believe the same thing and so I only wish that it could be more normal.
I love hearing about your story, so refreshing to hear
SubhanAllah all of us Pali 🇵🇸 have families that just want to keep that connection for the kids but Alhumdillah in the end I feel like every Pali dad is a softy and wants kids to be happy
The irony is her dad marries a Venezuelan
God bless you guys, such a beautiful couple! Omaya me encanta tu representación de mujer musulmana y latina, un abrazo muy grande!!!
Un abrazo á ti tambien hermana. It´s so beautiful to see how the Latino, Musulmana community is supportive of each other.
You guys gives us single people hope for love 💕 there need to be more moes in the world. Just go with the flow type
So wholesome. I think I'm too old to find love like this.
Nah man, pray and ask allah and as long as you make your life better , allah will inshallah grant you whatever you want🙏🏻
Mashallah this is such a cute story ❤️❤️ thank you for sharing. You’re story inspires many and I pray one day you have beautiful children. Inshallah!
I'm Turkic-russian, I married an Egyptian too 🌺🌼⚘😊💕🥰
I did not skip a second of this video🤍 This was beautifully explained mashallah, you guys are amazing! May Allah bless you both🥰💗
Your brothers’ reaction sounds so precious! You are a beautiful couple! MashaAllah 💓💓
I love you both, I watched most of your videos. I have one daughter and I wish one day she meets a good person like you Mohamed.
MA. Your guys are my favorite and your genuineness is wonderful. May Allah protect you and sheild you from any wrongdoing. Keep on being yourself and you will be a great example for others. Much love.
Masha’Allah a beautiful couple
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MashaAllah such a beautiful story may Allah reserve your marriage ❤️
i smiled the whole time through this
OOOOh people you are sooo adorable together may Allah bless you and protect you. 😍😍😍😍😍
P.S: 3 years of engagement is not a long time I know people that got married after 7, 8 years of engagement people just need something to talk about
Aw mashaAllah, your story is so beautiful. Much love to you and your supportive family.
Subhanallah so much barakah. Wish your marriage so much more barakah in the many years to come 🥺💕
That's just so cute and heartwarming ❤️ may Allah bless you both with forever love and happiness ❤️
I’ve been waiting for this one 🥰🥰
Love you guys you are a cute& cheerful couple ❤️
Me too I’m Egyptian🇪🇬 and my husband is American 🇺🇸
That's what I am waiting for, that's the kind of relationship that I want to be in, I love you guys , you're so sweet mashallah ♥️
May Allah SWT bless your relationship! It was amazing listening to your story! I admire your transparency and doing things for Allah's sake!!!! Amazing!!!!!!! MashAllah. I'm Palestinian and my husband is from Guyana alhamdulilah!!!!
My dad will accept whoever I want to get married to ethnicity wise, BUT he prefers someone from Bangladesh which is our ethnicity because he wants to keep a good rapport and communication with the in-laws. We'll see what happens, I haven't found anyone yet.
OMGGGGG this story is sooooo freaking nice that it gave me goosebumps may god bless you guys
I enjoyed every second of this vlog, you guys are such a great couple
The energy this whole video was so cute i loved it mashallah !
Masha'Allah, y'all are such a beautiful couple, I'm so grateful that I had the chance to meet y'all during ISNA years ago. I've been watching since the OG Husband Tag Video and it's so cute to get a more in depth story. May Allah continue to bless you both.
I’m so happy for you both Mashallah 🥰 I love how you kept it halal throughout the whole process!! May Allah bless you forever!!!! ❤️
Mashallah my Allah s.W.t give you guys even more happiness and love ameen
Such a beautiful story ! Love you both !
Masha Allah xx may Allah keep you both happy in your marriage
I had to laugh so hard how omaya told her father about moe! soo goood! mashallah, beautiful couple
Es increíble como se expresa ahora tu esposo!! Se siente súper cómodo en cámara. Hace unos años era muy diferente🥳🥳. Se ven hermosos!!
Your dad wanted you to marry a Palestinian but he married a Venezuelan ... lol
Y’all are cute Mashallah much love.
This is such a beautiful story guys wish dating could be the Islam way!!! Thank you for sharing ❤️
I’m gonna show this video to my dear Palestinian husband, and two daughters,…you are the sweetest couple 💕
You guys give me hope that the kind of relationship that I want exists and can be reale
Good bless u both ❤️
Awwh may Allah continue to bless your marriage and keep you both happy. ❤️
My favourite part about this video is how your brothers reacted!! that was so cute
I like that they really love vloging and enjoy it. They don’t just do it for the money..! Love you guys!
Same here, im Bosnian(Muslim) and my Parents wanted that I marry Bosnian man, but in the end I married Turkisch man. 😅
Mashallah! God bless you both :) Now I want to see Mo's mom ;)
I’ve watched this video twice already. I just love your how you met story! I think bc it’s so real and relatable. And I love how it highlighted how certain cultures only want marriage within their culture but that Omaya’s father gave Mohammed’s family a chance and their first impressions changed his opinion ❤️ it’s a great lesson. MashAllah, you two were definitely meant for each other. May Allah continue to bless you and your marriage.
MashaAllah may Allah bless your family,
Pls understand the Dad, easier to find out about people if they in your community. As soon as he heard from her brothers, things went forward.
May Allah bless your union! You can tell y’all are just the sweetest couple Masha Allah. May Allah give you all that is good in this life and the next. Thank you so much for reminding our youth that Barakah comes with keeping it halal!
Any tips on trying to convince families about marrying from different cultures? I am in a similar situation and do not know what to do. We are both muslim but I am Lebanese and he is Turkish.
In Islam you choose who you'll marry. I'm not even muslim but I know. They can't disagree just because he's Turkish.
@@i.8885 It's not a religion thing it's culture. especially Asian parents
Honestly, such a beautiful couple. They both have beautiful personalities.
MashaAllah May Allah bless you and keep you always safe 🤲🏻😍 I was smiling throughout the video, mashaAllah your story is adorable 💕
Ma sha Allah jazzakalkhairun beautiful story from beautiful ppl may you two grow old together in sha Allah amin
SubhanAllah.....so happy to hear them....Allahumma Barik ❤
Halal conscious coupling at its best❣️❣️❣️
Wish you both a long healthy happy life together. Ameen.
Allahuma barik
Vous êtes trop adorables je suis karimen de Belgique je vous aime beaucoup et j'aime beaucoup votre style de hijab
LOVEEEEE IT!!!! Such an inspirational story. Thank you guys for sharing.
Salem you are beautiful couple Masha Allah - may Allah give you beautiful kids and teach them please what is love :) have good ramadan - take care
Your room and clothing are so bright I like it!
Both of you guys are so cute together. Stay blessed
May Allah keep you guys together and happy always💕
So am watching this video in 2023 and am smiling from ear to ear…ur story is so beautiful mashallah..Allah bless you
you guys are so inspiring ! i love watching your videos
Much love to you all , You guys are so genuine and cute mashallah ❤️ May Allah bless you both and your families 🤍🤍🤍 Ramadan Kareem by the way, May Allah forgive us all and shower us with His Mercy 🌙🤍☺️💫🙏🏻
Beautiful couple mashAllah...
May Allah bless you both 🌼