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  • An ancestor’s ill-fated journey on the Titanic reveals a touching love story, along with the surprising truth of how the family’s legacy lived on in America. Start searching now on Ancestry® today: www.ancestry.com/s120767/t466...
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  • @AncestryUS
    @AncestryUS  2 года назад +26

    Every family has a story, and we’re ready to uncover yours! Get started with your family tree NOW: www.ancestry.com/s120767/t46638/rd.ashx?ancid=lwynr6n8c9

    • @SassyCat2222
      @SassyCat2222 2 года назад

      I have my tree and I'm maki g connections but I could use some assistance with the professionals to verify some lines.

    • @troymurrell2509
      @troymurrell2509 2 года назад +1

      would have been great if u flew them out to reunite them, or flew her out to meet them.

    • @lynnevanvorce7727
      @lynnevanvorce7727 Год назад

      I’ve been researching then found connection to Henry the IV the Good King of France it was traced back through an ancestor o My Grandmother’s side, but had a few issues with His son Gaston’s children, and the link I think I’ve found the issue but still unsure.

  • @kjw79
    @kjw79 2 года назад +272

    I’m glad he explained why it was so dire for them to retrieve the bag. They would have been impoverished if they lost their life Savings.

    • @AncestryUS
      @AncestryUS  2 года назад +49

      It seems like a minor decision, but that bag may have had everything!

    • @jcortese3300
      @jcortese3300 2 года назад +20

      Yes -- it wasn't a trivial or foolish decision by any means.

    • @rolandocastaneda4429
      @rolandocastaneda4429 2 года назад +10

      They missed their one chance at life here in US. But they probably thought they could make it back.

    • @andreajewkes5724
      @andreajewkes5724 Год назад +1

      How do they know that they went back for her handbag .Where would you be able to find out something like that.

    • @kwannasmith
      @kwannasmith Год назад +1

      @@andreajewkes5724 Other survivors most likely.

  • @KSUgrad79
    @KSUgrad79 2 года назад +141

    I saw the name “Daniel Buckley” on that ship’s manifest of passengers from Ireland. Buckley survived and wrote a wrenching song on board the Titanic called “Sweet King Williamstown” that brought me to tears the first time I heard it sung by Irish folklorist Mick Moloney. Look it up, he and that song survived the Titanic. It’s extraordinary to know a song written on board that ill fated ship and to hear it sung now.

    • @KSUgrad79
      @KSUgrad79 2 года назад +8

      Here is the late, great Andy M. Stewart singing this beautiful heartbreaking song that Daniel Buckley wrote on board the Titanic, “Sweet King Williamstown”:
      ruclips.net/video/idKlFmKxnjY/видео.html

  • @marydonohoe8200
    @marydonohoe8200 2 года назад +20

    She looks like her great aunt Bridget. Amazing.

  • @cleverusername9369
    @cleverusername9369 Год назад +5

    There is no more enchanting and beguiling voice on earth than that of an Irish woman.

  • @lowellirish
    @lowellirish 2 года назад +54

    I have been an avid Genealogist long before it became a fad... 40 years now.
    I've done SO much research, that all my lines are traced back to the early 1700s...many lines to the 1500s, with portraits, photos, diary, gravestones and cemeteries found, clothing, letters, postcards...far too much for a scrapbook. I have boxes!
    This week, I made contact with my 2nd cousin, once removed. My G. Uncle had a daughter, who in turn produced this woman's father.
    I found my G. Uncles and wife's burial plot and tombstones, in addition to all their children and kinfolk.
    Here's the most unbelievable thing! This part of our family left England in 1840..went to Ontario Canada...and settled there- all but my Gr.Uncle...HE decided to go West, across the plains- in the 1850s...to chase gold during the gold rush (it just so happens MY name is the same as the one person who discovered gold at Sutters Mill, starting the gold rush!)
    I DIGRESS.. HERE'S THE UNBELIEVABLE PART!!
    For YEARS, I visited this same cemetary to enjoy my lunch...it had the only greenery in the commercial development area where I worked...And I would SIT in the bench only 30 feet from his grave!!
    AND I NEVER KNEW!! Until last year, 7 years after I moved back across the country...😳😳😳😳😳
    His house address was on the census..and I searched Zillow. I would pass by this house weekly, and often admired it...many beautiful homes on the street, but this one, I really liked for some reason? 😀
    Yeah...Genealogy!!

    • @lisafowler3606
      @lisafowler3606 2 года назад

      My grandparents are passed same with my dad and my mom is uninterested in learning more. Who would I ask? I have ancestry but it’s not clear cut when I don’t have the dates for birth or even my great grandparents names and birthdates. I have tracked a few things but I get uncertain quickly and abandon it. Any tips?

    • @jeanettecolomba
      @jeanettecolomba 2 года назад +1

      Any tips on how to get started looking into our own family history?

    • @lowellirish
      @lowellirish 2 года назад

      @@jeanettecolomba sure! Did you read my follow up post? Noooo...🤣

    • @MsPinkwolf
      @MsPinkwolf 2 года назад +2

      @@lowellirish you sound a bit rude

    • @georgielancaster1356
      @georgielancaster1356 Год назад +1

      @@lisafowler3606 Any aunts/uncles or children of them, who might have been given info, you can ask?
      You could look on your birth certificate for your parents' official names and then apply for an extract or birth certificate for them, which will give names of THEIR parents. Often their age, maybe profession, maybe address at time. I am not American, so don't know what you do get. If you get any for their parents birth certificates, you might get back to a birth date of pre 1925, for the male. If he was born pre 1925, he may have served in the military, in WW2, so you could apply for military records. You might get some good description of him, there.
      Often height, hair and eye colour, physical health. education, tattoos...
      Google their names in newspaper records. Might find them mentioned in court, etc.

  • @sherrillwhately7586
    @sherrillwhately7586 2 года назад +13

    My great-uncle went down on the Titanic. He was accompanied by a newlywed couple of the same last name who decided to stay together and go down together.

    • @AncestryUS
      @AncestryUS  2 года назад +2

      What a remarkable story. Thank you for sharing, Sherrill!

  • @LAtheYoung61
    @LAtheYoung61 2 года назад +16

    This deserves a follow up: please have her back with family meeting each other, if possible...

  • @janesawyer1342
    @janesawyer1342 2 года назад +17

    What a strong family resemblance.

  • @mattsapero1896
    @mattsapero1896 2 года назад +6

    Damn it. I’m getting so addicted to these…

  • @jeanoliver3784
    @jeanoliver3784 2 года назад +70

    What a nice ending to the story. Sad how the two didn’t survive the Titanic, just because they forgot her handbag.

    • @AncestryUS
      @AncestryUS  2 года назад +19

      One decision can truly change the course for many.

    • @ltpetro
      @ltpetro 2 года назад +12

      It's quite possible that it had all their money, heirlooms or important documents in it and that it was things they just couldn't lose. And some people thought that the ship's sinking wasn't as serious as it was because they had been told it was an unsinkable, safe ship

  • @pattywilliams788
    @pattywilliams788 2 года назад +49

    What an amazing story. I’m so happy for that young woman, finally finding out about her aunt who died on the Titanic and her other aunt as well. To learn about relatives you never knew existed must be so thrilling for her. Thanks for sharing her story, Ancestry!

    • @AncestryUS
      @AncestryUS  2 года назад +2

      Thank you for watching, Patty! We're so happy she could learn more about her family, and find a surprising connection in the process!

    • @AncestryUS
      @AncestryUS  2 года назад +2

      We're really glad you enjoyed the clip, Patty! Thanks so much for watching. 😊

  • @debbieflaherty1975
    @debbieflaherty1975 2 года назад +4

    What a lovely young lady! She is absolutely breathtaking.

  • @patriciajrs46
    @patriciajrs46 2 года назад +14

    That's just wonderful to find relatives she can connect to. It's sad of course about the news she found.

  • @KimberlyGreen
    @KimberlyGreen 2 года назад +27

    I wonder what the hopes, dreams and plans were that Bridget & Joseph had. Wouldn't it be lovely to discover a letter sent to those two sisters, and read Bridget's own thoughts?

  • @owla2237
    @owla2237 2 года назад +10

    Omg these people are Soo blessed and lucky to know their ancestors 🖤🔥

  • @cheekycupcake5524
    @cheekycupcake5524 2 года назад +4

    I always cry along with the persons story

  • @sabinawickforsen6923
    @sabinawickforsen6923 2 года назад +39

    She looks alot like her relative!

    • @wannabesomethingmore
      @wannabesomethingmore 2 года назад +7

      When she smiles I see a resemblance with Shannon Daugherty who also makes me think she might have a connection with Loretta Lynn. It's those cheek bones!!!

  • @khanhkhanh1060
    @khanhkhanh1060 7 месяцев назад +1

    3:07 This is heartbreaking!! 💔💔😢

  • @enriquemireles8947
    @enriquemireles8947 Год назад +2

    The young lady looked so much like her grand aunt.

  • @dldove22
    @dldove22 2 года назад +6

    My great-uncle lived in Deer Lodge about the same time as the Godsells.

  • @angelamaria2239
    @angelamaria2239 Год назад +1

    Such a great story !!!!

  • @yvettekinchking8838
    @yvettekinchking8838 2 года назад +3

    Too be able to see the strong r likeness is amazing 👏

  • @SassyCat2222
    @SassyCat2222 2 года назад +1

    Super interesting. What a connection! I could use Ancestry's help with some of my lines. Fascinating!

    • @AncestryUS
      @AncestryUS  2 года назад

      Uncovering the lines in your family tree can bring such wonderful surprises! Follow this link to get started! www.ancestry.com/s120767/t46638/rd.ashx?ancid=lwynr6n8c9

  • @Sarah99007
    @Sarah99007 2 года назад +5

    I love how they connect the dots and somehow rewrite a forgotten history.
    My grandfather was so secretive he died in the 80s and to this day my father have no idea where his father grew up and honestly he didn't care.
    Me in the other hand I love history i want to know especially after i found out he was a WWII veteran and he was taken by force by the colonisation army, i recently found out he was newly married at the time to his second wife, so i wonder how was it like to go to a war he didn't want to be a part of and on top of that his kids know him as a peaceful introverted man who didn't like conflicts, he had one friend who remind alive until recently but he suffered from dementia.
    I don't believe I could trace my family history because most of the records were destroyed in the 60s but I really wish for a miracle.

    • @georgielancaster1356
      @georgielancaster1356 Год назад +2

      Have you tracked the 1st marriage info of 1st wife? Even if you aren't related to her, he may have put true early details of his early life in 1st marriage, that he kept secret in his 2nd marriage.

    • @Sarah99007
      @Sarah99007 Год назад

      @@georgielancaster1356 She was born in the 1900s and apparently she didn't have any kids, the second wife is still alive but it was arranged marriage and didn't last long I did find out lately that he was an orphan by the age of 9 and sadly he lived basically by himself from house to house all of the people he lived with were family but none of them kept him or made themselves home. It's a sad story because he passed away leaving his kids in the same situation except this time they were lucky enough to have an older brother who was 24 at the time and he took care of them he worked hard and got a home two years later and raised them to successful men. The origin story is sad but his kids and grandkids lived good enough to make him proud.

  • @fredhannum4015
    @fredhannum4015 Год назад +3

    My great uncle (David Smith) was a Captain for the White Star Steamship Line in the 1920s and 1930s. His wife Bessie, was my great aunt her sister Lucille was in the silent movie Cleopatra with Theda Barra. I inherited three things from Bessie; they were all from her husband David a dressing table (oak with beveled glass mirror, a collection of 3 small water color paintings of her husbands ship in Havana harbor, and a precious item that had been presented to David by a Head of state I can't go into here. The item was mounted in a 9K gold ring that he wore for the rest of his life.

  • @rezaanallie4525
    @rezaanallie4525 2 года назад +5

    I love watching this videos because I'm also looking for my late grandma Roselyn Isaacs family she was raised by other people.when I heard her story I wanted to more

  • @sandyfields678
    @sandyfields678 2 года назад +5

    Love the stories, watch finding your roots on pbs...we can learn ,not only about our ancestries,,but our history,from old countries,to new countries..would that be taught in high schools,to bring all of our people together and not about race.. we hav so much to learn about each other,from childhood on...I was so blessed. ,my dad was a career soldier,so I lived in many states,many schools,plus with relatives..aunt and uncle, maternal grparents..well grounded,with many kids from all over the world,brought here by parents,military and not.......wouldn't change my growing up days for ,anything, had to make new friends all over again....even got to see them in different states..wonders of the military....

  • @christinarangel4811
    @christinarangel4811 Год назад

    Amazing story again 😊

    • @AncestryUS
      @AncestryUS  Год назад

      Hi Christina, we are glad to see that you enjoyed this video!

  • @JohnDoe-tm9wz
    @JohnDoe-tm9wz Год назад +1

    You jump, I jump

  • @martinesquivel5857
    @martinesquivel5857 2 года назад +2

    This is the Real historia of Titanic tnks for your share god bles the world

  • @shahjehan
    @shahjehan 2 года назад +1

    Amazing story

    • @AncestryUS
      @AncestryUS  2 года назад +1

      Thank you so much for watching, Ali! We're glad you enjoyed it!

  • @KDParkes
    @KDParkes Год назад

    I wish I could go on the show, but I am Canadian. My Great Grandmother and Grandfather on my Maternal Grandfather's side were passengers on the Carpathian, when they rescued the survivors. (They were supposed to be on the Titanic, but G-Gran was pregnant with my grandpa, so they took a later boat instead) She was a Walcott, one of the 5 Pedigreed families in England. We have a private family book on the history of the family, the lineage going back to 910AD and our deep connections to the Royal Houses. In 1982, my grandfather was 47th in line for the throne when he passed. Its a fascinating family that I am very proud of.

  • @Barbara-jq2se
    @Barbara-jq2se 5 месяцев назад

    I can’t off the top of my head remember precisely when but I certainly do remember being in a museum in my city where they literally had a # of the official items that were found on the bottom of the ocean floor & were brought up to be seen, I also heard some of the actual tapings of the voices that were on the Titanic before it sunk. In this museum there were absolutely no pictures allowed! You could just look at the items that were found & think about what they might have been thinking of. Dishes from the “dining room hall” were also on display; those that for whatever reason weren’t broken. It was pretty close to beyond belief what your eyes were actually looking at! Also a while back I was on a virtual tour of the titanic & man that was something else! I was literally getting dizzy 😵‍💫 and yet I was sitting in my LVRM just watching this video! I might be able to pull it up again & get dizzy again too. Who knows. There sure seems to be an immense amount of people connected to someone who was on the Titanic or Carpathia ship 🚢meant to have saved them all! What a tragic tragic loss of life! Ugh 😩

  • @BeachButterfly22
    @BeachButterfly22 2 года назад +1

    This is very interesting. My family are Foley's from Limerick

  • @gwendolyn7462
    @gwendolyn7462 Год назад +1

    OMG--this is soooooo sad

  • @lynnevanvorce7727
    @lynnevanvorce7727 Год назад +1

    How absolutely heartbreaking 💔

    • @AncestryUS
      @AncestryUS  Год назад

      We hope you enjoyed the video.

  • @KailaluvsBruce
    @KailaluvsBruce 2 года назад +8

    I would love to know about my family and where I came from but it costs more than I can afford maybe if I have any family alive they will find me.

  • @bovinoubrazilino78
    @bovinoubrazilino78 2 года назад +1

    0:30 On the Tutanic.

  • @MiRae67
    @MiRae67 2 года назад +7

    Wowww what a story. How did they know she went back for her handbag? Did everyone one the ship know eachother by name? Probably someone who knew her survived and told the story

    • @lisachaput2952
      @lisachaput2952 2 года назад +6

      There is a book where they gathered every person's accounts. It might of been in there.

  • @KeriNicole46
    @KeriNicole46 2 года назад

    I’ve been trying to trace my Scottish Boyd ancestors for years now. It’s a very complicated process.

  • @questionmark9819
    @questionmark9819 2 года назад +2

    Even though we have Titanic the film about the ship sinking but it would be interesting to see what happened while the ship was being built and after and the various people giving court testimonies.

    • @roberthudson1959
      @roberthudson1959 Год назад

      Videos of the Titanic's construction are fairly common. The hearings on both sides of the Atlantic are a different story.

  • @Barbara-jq2se
    @Barbara-jq2se 5 месяцев назад

    This is incredibly interesting info! Whoa! 😳oh, how sad. 😧really too bad they went back for that handbag but we too would have done the same thing if it was us. But this series is absolutely amazing & beautiful! Keep up this awesome work/series. I’m totally impressed by it! 👍

    • @AncestryUS
      @AncestryUS  5 месяцев назад

      Hi Barbara! We are delighted you are enjoying the episode. Thanks for sharing!

  • @susansilvey1614
    @susansilvey1614 2 года назад +2

    there is quite a resemblence

  • @Isinforblood
    @Isinforblood 2 года назад

    LMFAOOO I’m watching titanic rn on tv 🤣🤣😭😭

  • @ke0001
    @ke0001 2 года назад

    Everybody very important to know ancestry...it might end up sad, happy, emotional etc etc.. but if not craziest thing might be end up marrying your own family...

  • @pwatson5766
    @pwatson5766 Год назад +1

    They are Rose and Jack from the movie Titanic!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @dreamcatcher5502
    @dreamcatcher5502 Год назад

    Like the movie Far and Away...but they didn't make it. 😥❤ But her sister Nellie made it !!! 🥰

  • @gaiadaughter168
    @gaiadaughter168 2 года назад

    My husband family is dependents of Violet Jessop ....we want to get more info on that!!!!

  • @hembafantilley-gyado9168
    @hembafantilley-gyado9168 2 года назад +2

    She looks like her late aunt

  • @Canopus68
    @Canopus68 Год назад +2

    I've been working on my tree on Ancestry for 10yrs. It's become very difficult to move forward so I explored hiring a professional Genealogist, but the cost is way beyond what my social security will support. The odd thing is that the problem starts with my father. I can't even prove he's biological father. All but one of my half siblings are dead. Only my half sister by a different father is still alive.

  • @lanilexander651
    @lanilexander651 2 года назад +3

    So Rose and Jack are real but their names are completely different

  • @-LivingProof
    @-LivingProof 2 года назад +1

    Why did John keep referring to Joseph Foley as her granddad? 2:00 & 2:07

    • @Isabella428
      @Isabella428 2 года назад +4

      he's saying "grand aunt" it's just his accent lol

  • @Sparkle824
    @Sparkle824 2 года назад +2

    It’s a Leo and rose love story

  • @jameswentzkershawn001
    @jameswentzkershawn001 2 года назад +5

    She's British and Beautiful.

    • @writeatease3689
      @writeatease3689 2 года назад +5

      She’s from Limerick, Ireland.

    • @jameswentzkershawn001
      @jameswentzkershawn001 2 года назад

      I was wrong. As soon as wrote it

    • @jameswentzkershawn001
      @jameswentzkershawn001 2 года назад

      @@writeatease3689 I am from California

    • @writeatease3689
      @writeatease3689 2 года назад +2

      @@jameswentzkershawn001 There’s a difference between being British, Welsh, Irish and Scottish.

    • @mmhthree
      @mmhthree 2 года назад +1

      @@writeatease3689 We can even go further with the French-Normans who built all the castles, or the Anglo-Saxons. Robert the Bruce was even a French Norman descendant, and not truly Scottish. I had always heard my family was from England, but I didn't know that it meant all kinds of things until I researched my family and the area's history to about William the Conqueror's time. So, ya we can get real picky, if we like =)

  • @tlo42058
    @tlo42058 2 года назад +1

    Shes a cousin Darby Sullivan from ireland and my patawomeck lines

  • @davidthompson4489
    @davidthompson4489 2 года назад +3

    This woman looks like she could be Jennifer Lawrence's sister.

  • @one-seventeen.rev310
    @one-seventeen.rev310 Год назад

    Reminds me of Lot's wife. I pray to never do something like that.

  • @NailahRoberts
    @NailahRoberts 2 года назад

    I wonder if she's related to Colleen Nolan?

  • @oilinmylamp
    @oilinmylamp Год назад

    She favors her ancestor.

  • @TzunSu
    @TzunSu 2 года назад +1

    The show is great, but the interruption every 20s of some random saying how nice it is to connect people over and over again is useless.

  • @Emy53
    @Emy53 2 года назад +2

    How does anyone truly know that really happened?

    • @Shieldmaiden600
      @Shieldmaiden600 2 года назад +1

      survivors shared their stories..good grief..you see something or experienced something . don't you share it?

  • @highbrass7563
    @highbrass7563 Год назад

    Definitely irish. Bad overbite

  • @DragonflyenAmber
    @DragonflyenAmber 2 года назад

    How about a brick wall show for Canadians? Regular non-celebrities

  • @terrynstasha
    @terrynstasha Год назад

    Do they do this type of thing in the states? I can't get past my great grandparents, Mikolaj Pawleczko(Nicholas Pavlechko) and Paraska Wolkowitz(Priscilla), that is now modern day Ukraine in the early 1900s. I have his brothers name, Roman Stachun, that doesn't match in the least and I have her sisters, Anastasia Teodorivna Olckiovich, information from when she came over about 10yrs after her sister, my great grandmother. Even the information I have for there parents is suspect. I don't know were to look. My cousin that passed recently had been searching for over 50 years trying to put there information together didn't get past them. We can't even trace my great grandmother after she came to America until she married my great grandfather. It's really hard being a genealogy nerd and not being able to get past this brickwall!

    • @AncestryUS
      @AncestryUS  Год назад

      Hi Terry and thank you for reaching out to us. We do indeed offer our subscription service and DNA test in the United States and are anxious to assist you. We've linked an article below which offers some tips for breaking down brick walls in your research. Please get back to us if you have any questions. 🙂
      support.ancestry.com/s/article/Overcoming-Roadblocks-in-Your-Research?language=en_US

  • @Honest000w
    @Honest000w Год назад

    She was owned by another family. Wow I thought slavery was just in the history of the AAs.

  • @pattistuber8018
    @pattistuber8018 2 года назад +7

    I'm skeptical. How would they know these details of what the two decided to do if they died ?

    • @emilylewis5373
      @emilylewis5373 2 года назад +6

      It would have been unlikely for them to travel alone. They might have had a friend with them that survived or made friends with some of the other Irish passengers on board that did survive.

    • @Shieldmaiden600
      @Shieldmaiden600 2 года назад +4

      the guys said that they was seen by someone ..that someone obviously shared the story with someone who wrote something about the Titanic..

  • @amycondle3725
    @amycondle3725 2 года назад +1

    Love only happens in a film

  • @stephanielewis8481
    @stephanielewis8481 Год назад

    Didn't like the first man's dismissive comments about her bag

  • @bethbartlett5692
    @bethbartlett5692 Год назад

    🇮🇪🇺🇸 Message to You in Ireland and wherever you are:
    There are countless emotional stories of lives of the Irish, *"each individual and their story Matter", however, it 8s important to focus on the Positive, the desires in our life, because "We are absolutely literally creating reality."*
    *8t is Now, and we can and are creating our now, creating the desire 9f 9ur Passions is the key we truly seek, it is found in the "Universal Law of Attraction", learn and practice the necessary thought from Higher Mind, and *"Emerge the You your Soul intends for this Journey."*
    Do it with all the power of your Irish Spirit and know you are worthy and know you are Loved.
    Beth, ah Mary Beth Bartlett
    Irish American
    Lineage, County Kerry Ireland
    born Chicago, sending love to my People! from Tennessee USA 🇮🇪🇺🇸
    Basque lineage Irish, who we are pre Anglo invasions.

  • @cynthiabaidoo1446
    @cynthiabaidoo1446 2 года назад

    Hello mother is watching you and I want to give you an invite to Ghana Accra Kotoka International Airport 🇬🇭 Africa for vacation and holidays. Thanks Cynthia

  • @Wowwwzaaa
    @Wowwwzaaa Год назад

    Why can’t Irish people pronounce “th” they say “T” instead like she did..Tirteen instead of THirteen. It also explains the Irish jokes! Her aunt went back for her bag? Friggin leave it there, your life is more important!

  • @Nicolas-zk1vw
    @Nicolas-zk1vw 2 года назад

    This kind of s*** is one the twist everything the other ways of people get busy with up with the s*** that has nothing to do with life no more