how to never be anxious / nervous around girls (or anyone else) again

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  • Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024

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  • @oscargonza2748
    @oscargonza2748 Год назад +114

    For those who suffer from anxiety, this is what the Lord God of the universe says, have i not commanded you? Be strong and courageous, do not fear, do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go. Joshua 1-9

  • @MatthewRumble
    @MatthewRumble Год назад +53

    This generation sucks in terms of social skills. I'm graduating college at 20 years old with no friends and a lot of acquaintances, no girlfriend, just the gym.

    • @bigrat8402
      @bigrat8402 Год назад +4

      no friends and a lot of acquaintances hit me hard asf

  • @dr.derplols8312
    @dr.derplols8312 Год назад +19

    Just in the first few minutes with you talkin about anxiety just made me feel so much better knowin that other people go through the same shit. That feeling you get in your chest n shit perfectly described what I feel a lot of times and really made me relate to you. Thanks for putting out this banger of a video, it really helped me out

  • @Vul_eniamrej
    @Vul_eniamrej Год назад +34

    Trauma puts most people in a negative feedback loop especially if they were right about a certain outcome thus reaffirming their anxiety and fears. These are your demons. Most people are unaware of how their trauma effects their day-to-day life.

    • @nickgrigoriou1643
      @nickgrigoriou1643 Год назад

      So how's one getting out of his head and stopping that negative loop?

    • @Vul_eniamrej
      @Vul_eniamrej Год назад +4

      @@nickgrigoriou1643 through introspection and just thugging it out in life. Learn to push through the pain and understand that there could always be a better outcome.

  • @tjgotbands
    @tjgotbands Год назад +14

    i needed this bro the past week my social anxiety has been bad

  • @jashuaplayhouse2279
    @jashuaplayhouse2279 Год назад +77

    as soon as I was thinking I’m nervous or anxious with her kam video pop up he comin clutch

  • @Imagiknowledge
    @Imagiknowledge 4 месяца назад

    My anxiety does show up every once in a while and the fact that 99% of the time is caused by not being able to deal with the fact you don't now how something is going to turn out. Putting in gods hands would definitely be a way to release that uncertainty and just let it be. Focus on what you can control and let go of the things you cant and put that on god. Great videos man, Thank you.

  • @Anonymous-fg8vo
    @Anonymous-fg8vo Год назад +5

    Good evangelism for this generation is needed

  • @editsfor8113
    @editsfor8113 Год назад

    all I can say what helped me was telling good morning to strangers or telling workers goodluck on your work also talking with chasiers like saying thank you and goodbye after ur done

  • @TheJAM116
    @TheJAM116 Год назад +11

    Doing God’s work ❤️‍🔥

  • @gametimerockets8478
    @gametimerockets8478 Год назад +3

    your like the big brother i always needed. thanks 🙏

  • @xihvk3110
    @xihvk3110 Год назад +2

    everything matters but nothing matters u should be worried about ur future cause it does matter but also it doesn't matter you shouldn't favor one or the other constantly know that everything matters and nothing matters be 50/50

  • @pandaslayerxx102
    @pandaslayerxx102 Год назад +2

    Yk I really thought I had gotten rid of my anxiety cuz my voice didn’t waver or I didn’t shiver anymore but now that I realized it my hands were sweaty when a hot girl was talking to me or when I’m on stage

  • @Bdspawn
    @Bdspawn 7 месяцев назад

    6:22 that part hit me deep man, thank you so much for this vid

  • @tonydavis460
    @tonydavis460 4 месяца назад

    I'm not even half way through this video but props to you man you are spot on I'm 41 and have a 17 year old and a 13 year old boys by the way and what you are saying is spot on with the way they act and what you are saying is exactly what I want to tell them! This is definitely a different generation for kids with social media and phones and streaming and gaming that it is easy to distance yourself from everyone and kids don't see that but as a parent it's so obvious

  • @Thereall_Jeff
    @Thereall_Jeff Год назад +1

    Kam, when I watch your videos, I just look at you in your eyes and see that you've been through a lot of bad things because your eyes say that, and that's why you're so strong mentally I've been through a lot too and that's why I identify with you, I'll watch your videos for life, and I don't even want to know about womens

  • @charmsly9506
    @charmsly9506 Год назад +3

    Amazing advice man, been working on myself and improving 👍🏾I got the confidence to talk to girls but.i fumble my words a bit.and don't always know what to say next, I need to work on my social skills but I've gotten better

    • @geminisneverlie
      @geminisneverlie Год назад +1

      You never need to know what to say next. Just speak if the words come if they don’t then maybe there’s nothing to be said.

  • @visualities
    @visualities Год назад +4

    1:18 bro I had to leave hs because of that

  • @FerrOfficial
    @FerrOfficial Год назад +4

    Chocolate man explains how not be anxious around girls (or anyone else )

    • @TrulyE3x
      @TrulyE3x Год назад +2

      O no it’s patbev

  • @larrycollins4558
    @larrycollins4558 Год назад +2

    I Sometimes struggle with eye contact Sum weird creepers out here! I don't take staring too kindly! Especially from strangers

  • @connorholmes8786
    @connorholmes8786 Год назад +11

    Yo Kam thank you for sharing and organizing everything for us, this really helped me

  • @bxnjpg
    @bxnjpg Год назад +2

    Amen for preaching sbout demons and spirituality 🙏 Praise God!

  • @the.average.students
    @the.average.students Год назад +3

    Hair looking like hot cheetos 🤣

  • @drelanevans
    @drelanevans Год назад +2

    Needed this!!! 🙏🏾✊🏾

  • @shrim9488
    @shrim9488 Год назад

    you're my savior bro

  • @lem3579
    @lem3579 11 месяцев назад

    I be feeling like I need to take a massive dump when I'm around girls I seriously like, lmaooo

  • @Newreal445
    @Newreal445 Год назад

    Yo kam been watching ur vids since around 25k subs, you’ve realy helped me and i would have gone through significantly more pain if i didn’t find you

  • @themasculineduty
    @themasculineduty Год назад +3

    Practice makes progress

    • @Subfightr
      @Subfightr Год назад

      I dig that. Thanks for sharing

  • @reubensingh1430
    @reubensingh1430 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks for this bro 💯💯

  • @jjthehybrid
    @jjthehybrid Год назад

    Kam for president

  • @contrast140
    @contrast140 Год назад +2

    Let’s go kampatty

  • @who_we_are______5926
    @who_we_are______5926 Год назад +2

    Some foos are just stuck in that samsara bro

  • @jakenott2
    @jakenott2 Год назад

    I have trouble with expressing myself with others I don’t know what facial expression to make and when I talk my voice is not heard clearly pls like so ppl can reply

  • @YokoX45
    @YokoX45 Год назад

    LETS GO MY DUDE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @adamthemulch
    @adamthemulch Год назад

    Hey kam can you make a video on those ashwagandha gummies you take

  • @cheezythegod419
    @cheezythegod419 Год назад

    Keep making good content

  • @ricoparadiso
    @ricoparadiso Год назад

    This whole vid 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @PsycheVFX
    @PsycheVFX Год назад +1

    #FreePatbat

  • @MysticBlue-hy3tb
    @MysticBlue-hy3tb Год назад

    Ayo Koldheart how long should I ghost her till
    I run game again?

  • @axciline
    @axciline Год назад

    why did u delete ur new video??????

  • @lilturtle
    @lilturtle Год назад

    where’s patbat 😢

  • @jacobbrent9839
    @jacobbrent9839 Год назад

    Can you do a video on what to do if she blocks you bc you were toxic to her the whole time y'all were talking?

    • @JohnDoe-nf6hv
      @JohnDoe-nf6hv Год назад +4

      😮

    • @Twanbankz_IG
      @Twanbankz_IG Год назад +2

      if a female leaves you u lost already, a female is never supposed to leave thus leaving a females makes them chase u more and vise versa

    • @gavinm1347
      @gavinm1347 Год назад

      Move on, level up, abundance mindset.

  • @RedRumble14
    @RedRumble14 Год назад +1

    Impossible for me cause o have cheeks acne

    • @cloutbear9887
      @cloutbear9887 Год назад

      Excuse

    • @RedRumble14
      @RedRumble14 Год назад +1

      @@cloutbear9887 yeah but I do care about it especially when girl is sitting next to me, anyways I’m going on roacutaine since June and it all will be alright

  • @diegoalvarez4983
    @diegoalvarez4983 Год назад

    whatt upkam

  • @iags6580
    @iags6580 Год назад

    👍🙏

  • @JackWells-e9z
    @JackWells-e9z Год назад +1

    First

  • @Entjdrums
    @Entjdrums Год назад

    E

  • @1mmortalbandit_452
    @1mmortalbandit_452 Год назад

    Best vid I seen you make thanks for the faith and enlightenment keep working hard everyone🫡

  • @Boogiehog
    @Boogiehog Год назад +1

    Told her to wait then watched this video

  • @DoxicV1
    @DoxicV1 Год назад +15

    You uploaded this vid too late, I already fumbled the bag at school today 😂

  • @CollinsHD0
    @CollinsHD0 Год назад +20

    Lowkey was down and depressed and shit this week, this vid got me back up fasho 💯💪🏾

    • @who_we_are______5926
      @who_we_are______5926 Год назад

      How come you were feeling that way?

    • @electric3420
      @electric3420 Год назад +6

      @@who_we_are______5926 some of the reasons are : low self esteem, anxiety, responsibilities, future events, failures, etc

    • @6riannn
      @6riannn Год назад

      @@electric3420this

  • @dr.woozie7500
    @dr.woozie7500 Год назад +8

    Kam put a stop to patbat lmao

  • @cadenbeutel5516
    @cadenbeutel5516 Год назад +2

    Aye man do a video on why women at work always talk shit about their mans, even when their man treats them right. Idk if its a psychological thing or what. Im a taken man and have decent looks. Countless times women will come to me talking about problems with their BF/husband. I catch a vibe off it but not sure.

  • @Thereall_Jeff
    @Thereall_Jeff Год назад +2

    Kam, when I watch your videos, I just look at you in your eyes and see that you've been through a lot of bad things because your eyes say that, and that's why you're so strong mentally I've been through a lot too and that's why I identify with you, I'll watch your videos for life, and I don't even want to know about womens

  • @blueeyednick
    @blueeyednick Год назад +1

    Homie has found the youtube formula - include "girls" or "women" in the title and talk about anything you want in the video ;)

  • @mronewallahbinmeer1567
    @mronewallahbinmeer1567 Год назад +1

    This guy made 4 videos like this😊

  • @tonelo7207
    @tonelo7207 Год назад +1

    this mf helped me so much in so many ways, thank you so so much brother

  • @onlyrike5436
    @onlyrike5436 Год назад +1

    Bro is wisdom

  • @Subfightr
    @Subfightr Год назад +1

    I get anxiety waiting for the next "bruh" like the ticking of a clock, awaiting for the next tick/bruh.

  • @smookyonthebeat
    @smookyonthebeat Год назад +1

    that all sounds great on paper but its way deeper, exposure therapy works but its only temporary… most people who have dysfunctioning anxiety (anxiety disorder) got it from childhood trauma. Anxiety is just the brains way of protecting you from what it perceives as danger, its a survival mechanism everyone has it. You need to do serious introspective work and understand what your triggers are so you can find the root cause of why your anxiety is dysfunctioning, once you work on the root cause going out into the world is less daunting.

    • @Drod11z
      @Drod11z Год назад

      And how do you work on the root?

  • @exxclusive2889
    @exxclusive2889 4 месяца назад

    16:01

  • @king_vlad
    @king_vlad Год назад +5

    Who else happy patbat is gone?

  • @lukemckinney8796
    @lukemckinney8796 4 месяца назад

    I love this man fr, so helpful. That last part about temporary uncomfortable feelings really makes sense. I’m gonna read the Bible again tomorrow. Thanks bro.

  • @quuebeqid911
    @quuebeqid911 Год назад

    Amazing vid, God bless

  • @sluppy2130
    @sluppy2130 Год назад

    6:02

  • @jjonnyboy613
    @jjonnyboy613 Год назад

    Great video Kam

  • @user-yw7yr9og3z
    @user-yw7yr9og3z Год назад

    Yessir w hair

  • @WallStreet-ou3ub
    @WallStreet-ou3ub Год назад

    I needed this cam fr

  • @nerdneck9366
    @nerdneck9366 Год назад

    kam coming in clutch

  • @drakedelinger2055
    @drakedelinger2055 Год назад

    Too kam

  • @psychosteroid
    @psychosteroid Год назад +1

    Can you make a video on when to say I love you?