Sad Moment | Filipino Single Father in Japan |
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- Опубликовано: 13 окт 2024
- I don’t know if it’s right to upload this kind of drama..but I feel that I have to share to others what single parents are passing through in life like Me..sorry if this is boring or drama to others but just uploading the real life..thank you..
naiyak po ako sa katayuan nyo po sa ngayon. ako rin po ay Single Mother dito rin po sa Japan .ang pagkakaiba lang ay malalaki na ang mga anak ko. Hanga po ako sa inyo na isang haligi ng tahanan ay nakakayang buhayin at naitataguyod ang Tatlong anak, na mag isang nag sisikap para mabuhay. Sana po hwag nyong pababayaan at mahalin ang mga anak ninyo wala pong ibang tutulong kundi mga sarili lang natin. mahirap po dito sa Japan ang nagiisa. gustuhin man nating mag pahinga sa kaka hanap buhay, ay kinakailangan buhayin ang Pamilya lalo na mga anak natin. saka lang tayo luluwag kung sila ay mga stable na at kaya na nilang tumayo sa kanilang sariling mga paa. Maiintindihan din nila po kayo ng mga anak nyo sa sitwasyon ninyo kapag nag sipag asawa na lalo na si AIRA. GOODLUCK po and GOD BLESS your Family.
Totoo po lahat ng sinabi nyo.. Maraming salamat po🙏
Very sad if the children involved if the parents are goes in their way 🙏sad but they will understand when they get older 👍
Single mother ka at single father siya. Bakit hindi kayo magsama? Para magtulungan kayo.
@@mark72141puede rin , kaya lang, kung minsan mag-iisip ka pa rin, kung magkakasundo ang mga bata.
Gud day sa nu jan Papa vlog. Napanood ko ang vlog mo.. hanga ako at npalaki mo ng maayos ang mga anak mo..pero my mga sitwasyon na kailangan din nating intindihin kahit mahirap sa ating kalooban..tulad ng case ni Aira lumaki na hindi nakapiling ang kanyang ina..baka nmn kahit sa school programs nlng sir for respeto sa knyang nraramdamng pgkasabik sa kanyang ina. Isa rin akong ina at ramdam ko ang sakit na mraramdamn ng aking ng-iisang anak pag hindi kami mgkasundo ng aking asawa. Ayaw na daw nyang mg-aral pag umalis ako.. yan ang bagay na hindi pdeng idikta sa ating mga anak. May limitasyon tayo bilang mga magulang. Pde nmn na hindi kau mgsama sa iisang bubong ng iyong ex, pero my karapatan
pa rin sya bilang ina ng yong mga anak na hindi mo maaa
lis kahit kailan.. Dasal at tibay ng loob. God Bless sa nu.
It was heartbreaking to see this from my end. We faced the same situation about sixteen years ago when Mom left us. I'm the oldest, the youngest brother, and our Papa - we all suffered a lot. I remember one time in high school, I put my head on my dad's chest and cried out. I was very sad and heartbroken. Imagine how many years passed before I/we acknowledged our inner wounds. When my mother left us, I was eight years old and my brother was four or five. We woke up one day and our home was devastated by the news that she moved out of the house, and just like you Big Papa, my Papa was the best. He is God's gift to us his children. He suffered unimaginable pain, but he cared so much for his children that he couldn't even heal the wounds inside himself. In those years, we never saw our Papa cry; not once. He fills us with his love and utmost care and teaches us values and morals. This didn't happen overnight. We fought day and night just to get to where we are now, together, helping each other, cherishing our family, and loving each other. We never seek professional help, we just heal and learn to accept, forgive and move on with our lives without hurting anyone. I am 24 now and matatag at nagpapatuloy sa goals ko para sa dalawang importanteng lalake sa buhay ko.
As a daughter who is in the same position as your child, maybe you need this message from me. I just want to leave it here. Hang in there, Big Papa. Be patient as always, always pray, cry when you feel like crying, always be yourself, and live up to your kids and yourself. Never give up. Always remember that whatever you do for your child, you are doing it well, you are doing a great job. I'm not discouraging you from seeking professional help - it's actually a good way to go. I want you to continue what you do with your kids - the family bond. Don't stop doing it. In my experience, it has helped me replace bad memories with good ones. Now that I'm 24, I can't help but get excited whenever our family talks about the past. Because our past was filled with joy, treats, bonding, and I don't even know where to start. Honestly, I do miss those days, and I'm sure Akira, Aichan, and Aika will miss your family bond when they grow up. I am sure of that.
So kung mabasa man ito ni Akira, Aichan and Aira, from your Ate who went through the same thing and got over it, please make the most out of every bondings you make. Akira, Aichan, Aira, cherish all the moments with Big Papa. Kapag nasasaktan kayo at nalulungkot, it's ok. Ok lang ang umiyak. All you have to do is acknowledge the pain and feel free to communicate with Big Papa. Also, if you want to cry, cry. Pagkatapos, malakas na tayo ulit. I know it is too early to forgive, pero huwag ninyong sisisihin ang sarili ninyo. Darating din ang pagpapatawad sa tamang panahon nang walang pagpupumilit at walang sakit.
Big Papa, I hope that whenever your child is feeling sad, do as you did in the short video. In my experience, when I burst into tears, I realized my dad didn't know what to do, he just hugged me, comforted me, stroked my back, and didn't say anything. He just listens carefully to what I have to say. Through these simple things, my inner child was comforted and slowly I realized that I was healing and recovering. At 24, I admit we're still progressing - what's learned along with moral values, the utmost respect for our dad, unconditional love - are being gently preserved, out of our control. It's a unique and special feeling for someone who has dedicated half his life to his children. I am sure your kids will do the same for you.
P.S. I am a fan of this channel. The reason I subscribed is because I knew from the start that there was a connection I didn't recognize. Now I understand why this family is so close to my heart. All the power, prayers, love and support from the Philippines, Aira, Aichan, Akira and Big Papa. Always remember, this too shall pass. May God bless your family! ❤❤❤
God bless po, ang ganda po ng message niyo. Naiyak po ako.
Hugs ❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing to them your similar experience. They needed it for them. And I hope, Sir Erwin "Big Papa" will explain it to them. This is the best example of explanation. I have my tagalog comment above. But, this is the best story to be narrated to them.
it’s scary accurate how i’m exactly as u are . that’s the same thing that’s happened to me
wow ! this is real story of life i salute your father he kept his responsibilities and faced the struggles though your mom abandoned your
family and very painful to all how you guys suffer at the younger age… look at you now strong smart and healed by the experiences in life
you’ve gone through and of course a kind of father you have who worked hard loving and caring… God blessed you😇🥰❤️
I heart ko lang po muna ang mga comments nyong lahat..binabasa ko lang po isa isa para po may makuha akong payo na dapat kong gawin sa sitwasyon namin..salamat po sa magandang comments nyong lahat!
Kausapin nyo po lagi c Aira. Sana magkaroon din ng time ex wife nyo po sa mga bata lalo na po sa bunso.
Big Papa, alam mo mahirap talaga ang broken family i can attest to that because i am also part of a broken family. Masyado pa bata si Aira kaya hindi pa nya maiintindihan na may mga bagay na hindi mo maibibigay kahit gustuhin mo. Payo ko lang po na kung maaari ay dalasan naman sana ng Mom nila ang pakikipagkita sa mga bata lalo na kung may time at available sya. I know you are doing everything para hindi nila ma feel na may kulang but need pa rin nila ng aruga ng isang ina. Not sure kung anong sitwasyon ng ex nyo but time lang ang need ng mga bata from their mom kahit simple lang ang importante nakikita ng mga bata na nandyan sya parati. God bless po and always pray to keep you strong for your kids.
Perhaps removing the videoclip of Aira for her privacy would be best but if you insist, keeping in only the audio with a blacked out screen may be a good compromise.
Most forms of media we consume tend remove or deaden the harsh reality of situations like this that can distort the perceptions of what we think life should be like, either directly though our consumption, or indirectly though interaction of other's and their own perceptions that shaped it. It's perhaps the bombardment of unrealistic portrayals of what is life, normal, or the associations to happiness, has not only affected Aira, but those around her (i.e. friends, classmates) that has contributed to Aira's sadness.
If more videos like this existed and were more common and prevalent in media as they are in the true lives of people, I feel like Aira, and those like her, would have an easier time not just understanding but overcoming their personal hardships. But fighting to change how life in media is portrayed is not your fight to take..
Sadness, confusion, and helplessness as children AND adults are all a part of life and is perfectly encapsulated in this video by you-- with or without the her audio is present. She's still young, so likely removing the video clip and audio is the best choice, since she has not yet had the time to grow from this experience. Best.
Need nyo po kausapin ex-wife nyo na maglaan ng oras para makasama mga anak nya lalo na po kay Aira kasi po sya ang talagang di nakaramdam ng pag aalaga ng isang ina,baka po lumaki si Aira na magkaroon ng malaking sama ng loob sa mother nya.
@@dostoveskiee thank you so much!
Oh my this is so heartbreaking for a little girl. Her feelings are valid. Keep listening Lang po to her Papa. She just wants to air out her feelings and I am very happy she chose to. That’s the healthy thing to do and not to suppress. Keep on validating her saying , “I’m listening”. We can’t solve all or children’s problems but we can at least help them navigate their feelings. Let her feel her feelings. It’s not going to harm her. After acknowledging her feelings, I think just the fact that you listened will make her feel comforted . She will be secure that she is not alone. Most of the time, especially for Filipino children, their heartache come from going through something alone, without anyone holding their hand. Being alone in your pain is sad. It’s also good that you’re honest po about your status with the mother of your children. Most of the time , children just want to be comforted and listened to. I will pray for you and for your children!!
Isaiah 49:15-17 New International Version (NIV):
“Can a mother forget the baby at her breast and have no compassion on the child she has borne? Though she may forget, I will not forget you! See, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands; your walls are ever before me.“ Sabi yan ni God. God will never abandon you.
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it's breaking inside hearing a child begging for a complete family. Be strong and may God bless your family.
The fact that Aira is very open about her feelings to her father just means that they have good and strong social connection with each other. It must have been really hard for single parents like Big Papa. Seeing Aira cry makes me really sad. I know Big Papa is doing his very best💙💙
It is heartbreaking. I wish Aira peace in her heart although she misses her Mama so much. Do let her mother know. Is it possible for Aira and her Mama to have regular video calls? Pls. check with the school if they have a female guidance counselor who can talk to Aira to draw out her feelings. Kasi kung nagigising sya ng madaling araw na umiiyak ng ganyan, ibig sabihin sobrang lalim na ng lungkot at pighati nya. Baka kailangan po nya ng counselling para lang mailabas nya yung mga sakit ng loob nya.
BIG PAPA its ok to cry. Thats means you are a real man and a great Dad. Anyone can be a father but it is so rare to be a great loving Dad.
Aira, isang mahigpit na yakap para sa iyo. ❤ Big Papa, please wag nyo po syang sabihan na wag umiyak at matulog na kase po ma-suppress yun feelings nya. Alam ko na-aawa kayo sa kanya at siguro hindi nyo rin po alam sasabihin nyo pero kailangan nyang i-iyak at ilabas yan. Hayaan lang po nyo sya umiyak kahit tahimik lang po kayo. Mabuti po iyon na nailalabas nya yun feelings nya. Ito po rin po ginagawa ko sa mga batang kina-counsel ko.
Siguro po after few days pag-okay na si Aira i-date nyo po sya na kayo lang 2 and pag-usapan nyo po yun nangyari. Ask her how she is feeling and please reassure her na mahal ninyong 2 (ex-wife and you) si Aira.
maraming salamat po sa Payo..tama po kayo sobrang higpit ng yakap nya na parang ayaw nya ako paalisin sa tabi..parang ganon po..
Hayaan mo siyang ilabas ang saluobin. Kun naiiyak hayaan mo lang. Mas naglalabas ng kanyang nararamdaman mas maigi. I-assure mo na lahat kau maexpress sa kanya na mahal nyo siya, na hindi siya nag-iisa. Kausapin mo din an dalawang panganay mo na laging bantayan c bunso, ipaliwanag din sa kanila na meron pinagdadaanan c bunso para meron kang makatulong sa pagpaparamdam ng pagmamahal kay Aira. Ilabas mo lagi, ipasyal at dalhin sa mga kamag-anak kun maari. Huwag mong hahayaan na laging mag-isa. Salitan kau na mabantayan siya. God bless sa buong pamilya.
I totally agree, most cases of childhood drama it's because in a very young age we are told, wag ka umiyak, lalaki ka, tama na yan, it's like hndi valid emotions natin when we were young. I have a very close friend now very successful ng family nila they own a lot of hotels here in Mindanao she is married now, she would often call me and we will talk for hours and hours and she went to a lot of counseling and theraphy kasi na suppress nya pala emotions growing up ksi sobrang busy tlga ng both parents nya growing up, prang lumaki sya na wala silang dalawa, kaya na realize ko it's not all about money lng tlga. It takes a village to raise a child. So when my friends express and cry sa akin, I make sure I let them feel it's okay, palabas lang tlga and a lending ear. I am a silent viewer po my ate from Japan recommended your chanel to me, I admire your love, patience and unselfish love towards your family. Tonight, I will include Aira in my prayers, I also came from a broken family. All the best Sir!
@@BigPAPAVLOGSito rin po yung sumagi sa isip ko. though i agree po sa sinasabi nila na hayaan nyo lang po na ilabas nya lahat ng lungkot at bigat ng pakiramdam sa pananabik nya sa na kasama nya kayo pareho na mga magulang nya pero alam ko po na napakapure po ng inyong pagmamahal at intention at to comfort si aira.
very recent lang po na nadaanan ko ang isa sa mga video nyo pero since then tuloy tuloy ko na po pinapanuod mga videos nyo. nakakahanga at nakakainspire po talaga kayo. father din po ako ng dalawang anak na mga babae. 12 and 7yo. kaya kahit pano nakakarelate po ako sa inyo.
nakakdurog ng puso na makita si aira sa ganitong sitwasyon. naiintidihan ko po sya kahit pano, bilang naging isang maliit na bata rin na nakaranas din ng mga sobrang kalungkutan na malayo sa mga magulang dahil sa mga pagsubok sa buhay. 😞 alam ko po na hindi kayo papabayaan ng ating Ama sa langit, lalo na si aira na napakabata at tender pa ng puso at pakiramdam, sa mga pinagdadaanan nya. Godbless po sa inyo sir. malaki po ang respeto ko sa gaya nyo na isang responsable at mabuting ama.
😭😭😭 It's really sad when family breaks down always the childrens affected...❤
Am a single Mum for 48 yrs now w/4 adult kids. Aira is passing a stage of puberty where it can be hormonal, sensitive, emotional at times. Pag emotional siya about having a complete family, feeling wanting, wag mong sasabihin impossible na, leave the door open that it can be possible. Masakit kay Aira na marinig na sarado na ang pasya mo. When she gets a bit older, her outlook will change too, & be realistic. Prayer is the key. God bless.
Thank you so much sa advice 🙏
My only advise is bring her and siblings and you to a psychologist. For sure there’s a psychologist working in a hospital government. Children can’t understand much like adults and it’s a huge scar growing up. Psychologist can help heal. Don’t delay because the other siblings are also suffering but they kept. At least Akira expressed it. So they’ll grow up healthy.
don't think about it as drama. this will help you big papa , para mas maintindihan ka naming mga followers. We love you! hugs tight. Stay strong
Solo parent, mom ako. Bunso ko lalaki, ganyan din, minsan umiiyak. Naguguluhan . Impossible na rin na mabuo kami family. Sana maging ok na si Aira, sana maging masaya kayo palagi. Stay strong big Papa for your kids
Wag kang magisip ng mga negatibo sa buhay mo. Sa totoo lang napakaswerte mong tao. Ganyan lang talaga pagbata pa, madaling maiyak sa mga bagaybagay. Mawawala rin yan at masasanay rin yan. Yong mga magulang ko hindi naman nila naibigay lahat ng gusto ko pero ok pa rin sa akin yon dahil ganyan tlaga ang buhay. Hindi maganda maging laki sa layaw. Kami nga buo ang pamilya pero hindi naman ako masaya pag nandyan sila. Panay away pagnagsasalo sa kainan. Syempre iwas na lang ako. Napakswerte mong single father. May tatlo kang mga anak. Pangarap ko nga makarating ng japan pero walang pera. Darating ang panahon ang mga anak mo ay pasasalamatan ka dahil sa pagtayo mo bilang single parent. Hindi mo man maibigay ang lahat sa kanila pero hindi ka naman nagpabaya sa resposibilidad mo bilang magulang.
Opo🙏thank you so much🙏❤️
Trur kuya.. relate ako dyan .. single parent din ako..god bless sa ating lahat
It breaks my heart to see her crying. You've done an exceptional job raising your children. I believe that, in due time, you will find the right way to explain your situation to her. Consistent communication with her mother and a reunion may assist her in coping with her depression. Depression is a genuine struggle, particularly in families facing challenges. Stay strong, Aira. May God bless you and your family, Big Papa.
Just the way it is, I’m here in the States and that’s what happening here all the time too, I know how it goes when parents separates… it’s the children who gets into a tough situation. You have a lot of work to do with your children Bro. and as time goes by hopefully it will heals. Good luck…
I don't know kung may counseling dyan or sa school. Maybe kailangan nya ng ibang mag bibigay ng advice and guidance sa kanya. I am sure may mga bagay sya/sila na di nila masabi lahat. Hope you all grow up happy, loving, strong and resilient in life❤
Hug & kisses for you Aira..hirap sa part nya na lumaki na walang ina na nasa tabi nya,yung hindi nya naramdaman aruga ng isang ina..napaka hirap ng broken family..naiyak ako nung nakita kong umiiyak si Aira😢
OMG I Cried Over and Over… I’am a Mother of Two and I heard like this is so painful !I feel this little girl 😢😘😘😘
So heart breaking for a father to see and hear daughter cry
It's not your fault Papa, there's other people like you. Probably Aira just misses her mom. You guys can probably meet up all together and hang out.
I noticed 2 things in the brief portion showing Aira. She is really hugging you hard and is grabbing you over and over, almost fearfully, and the 2nd was almost no response when you asked her if she wanted to visit/see her mother. I think what may be troubling her is a fear of losing you, and what may happen to her and her siblings if that happens. Perhaps she heard a story at school, saw a TV show, or someone bullied her about it. An idea, hope this helps. Stay strong......
This is also my observation
Same thoughts. Kasi ang random, baka may nakita na nagpa trigger.
Those scenarios are really possible, maybe something happened at school that she just doesn't want to say if this is the first time she cried that hard
kids po they're very sensitive on their surroundings, and they're very curious as well. Ganito rin po ako nung bata pa ako, nasa malayo po dad ko and mama ko nasa tabi ko, minsan umiiyak nalang ako magisa kahit napapansin na ako ng mama ko and ate ko, kasi di ko matanggap na ang layo ni papa para suportahan kami. But as I grew up I begin to accept na kahit malabo na ang relasyon nina mama at papa, at malayo padin si papa, tanggap ko na yun.
Kaya as I observed on Aira, relate na relate ako kasi sobrang sakit talaga sa pakiramdam na broken family. I hope she can grow to be strong, because life is unfair, we need to accept the good and harsh things and begin to move forward.
Be strong, Big Papa!
Depression and anxiety....the best na gawin mo meet the mother kahit once a week, ma oover come nya yan...
God heal the pain she feels. May God bless your family and bring out the best ultimately.
I think kung may regular visit ang mother nila hindi magkakaganyan ang nararamdaman ni Aira. Nangungulila siya at hindi niya maramdaman ang presence, love, hug and so much more from her mother, especially na wala pa siya sa tamang age nuong iniwan sila. Iba kasi pag wala ka ng mother dahil patay na, talagang wala ka ng magagawa duon at iba din ang wala kang nanay pero alam mo na nandyan lang siya at hindi ka man lang binibisita, mas masakit yun. She’s kind of lost and walang idea of what a mother and daughter relationship is. Sana mag effort naman ang mother nila na makipagkita ng madalas sa mga anak niya. You’ll be included in my prayers Aira and your siblings too.
Di mo kelangan humingi ng pasensya sa amin. Kami dapat magpasalamat sau at isinasama mo kami kahit sa di magandang parte ng buhay nyo. Sa mga panahon na mabigat na ang dibdib mo at pakiramdam mo ay di mo na kaya, andito lang kami, handang makinig sayo.
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Sana lahat ng tao ganito umunawa ❤
I grew up in the Philippines and became a mother in the US. I see the differences in culture and child rearing between the two countries. Kung nandito ka sa USA what is happening with your child warrants a professional intervention, a therapist. I have to make a guess that she is being bullied in school. You may have to talk to her teacher and be honest about your family situation. The teacher should be able to give you advice on what to do next. Do not think you can do everything for your child's well being. Some things are better left to the professional. Observe her closely and if there's any therapist subscribers here hope they identify themselves and give you advice.
Thank you so much..
@@BigPAPAVLOGS You know why I thought she is being bullied at school? Aira was an infant when the mother left. She didn't have a bond with her mother. She was not crying because she missed her. Someone in school reminded her or made fun of her being motherless. Kids can be cruel at times. She is a sensitive girl you may have to think twice and remove her part in the video. There is huge outpouring of emotions but I doubt Aira's young mind would appreciate it.
I believe that she is just missing her mom, just like anybody else. I don't think she Is bullied. I think frequent visit to her mom will somewhat alleviate her yearnings! Way to go brother!
That's what I also thought. The child needs professional care. If you don't do anything, she may decide on taking her life later on. It's real. It's happening all over the world.
Damn man i grew up in a broken family too thats heart breaking to watch.
Aira makes me Cry & Big Papa 😭She is so Sweet Aira even Her Mother Left Her when She’s just 2 months Old 😭She wants Her to be w/ the Family😭And I Salute Big Papa for Being so Honest to His Children,Responsible ,& a Loving Father for Akira,Aichan & Aira You are a Carbon Copy of Bunso❤️It’s OK to Cry Big Papa😢And You are Doing Your Best as a Father ❤️🙌
Thank you so much for this beautiful comment❤️
It breaks my heart watching this video. She's too young to understand all sides of the situation, but in due time she will understand. I grew up with both parents, but they were fighting all the time and I always wished they would separate so I did not have to see and hear the fighting all the time. When I got older, I had to accept that it is up to us to make the best of our lives and if we learn from the past we can create a better future. Your child will understand the situation eventually, but she is also lucky to have a father who stays by her side.
You are being transparent Sir Erwin! And no one has any right to judge you dahil wala silang alam sa buhay nyo at pinagdaanan at mga sakripisyo nyo. Bahala sila mag judge! Mahirap naman kasi na ipilit na mabuo kayo kung ayaw naman ng isa ang ending nyan mag aaway lang kayo lage at baka maging toxic lang ang bahay nyo baka mapabayaan pa ang mga bata.
Bata pa kasi si Aira chan kaya ganyan siya normal lang sa kanya yan pero pag medyo malaki laki nayan maiisip nya nadin yan at siya mismo magtatanong sa mama nya.
Wag ka mag alala BP support kita whatever happens sabe ko sayo kasangga mo ako. You are doing a wonderful job alam ng mga single parents ang ganyang situation.
My poor Aira. She's grieving in a way and that is completely understandable. I'm glad you still keep in contact with her mum, and the kids still get to see her. Thank you for sharing the tough parts of single parenthood so that less people feel alone. Praying for your kids that they will grow up emotionally healthy, and praying for you to have peace and wisdom. You're doing your best as a dad, and that's more than enough!
I just cried...Salute to you Big Papa for raising your three children...In time everything will be okey..My hugs to Aira...
My heart cry for Aira 😢I think she miss her mom and having a complete family it's sad what she's going through maybe she'll need to spend time with her mom sometimes
This video is breaking my heart.are you gonna tell her mom about this? In the U S theres mommy day or daddy day if parents are divorced. Dnt they have that in Japan? Maybe that will help. Just a suggestion. I hope Aira is feeling better. Hindi ba nakikipag communicate yung ina nila sa mga anak mo?
@@lermamyers9494very seldom my time nanay nila… kayod kalabaw din yun minsan nga binibigyan pa yan. Nya nang pera… inaabutan nya kahit kunti….ayaw din nang family nung ex nya kay kuya even the kids.
@@mavis6277 Bago ako sa channel ni Kuya, pero ano ba ang nangyarin sa kanila? Bakit nag hiwalay sila? Pati, bakit bawal sila mag reunite?
Naiiyak ako as in.. but you are proud papa for your family and care and love together with your children .
Thank you so much ❤️
Sir, let her talk and try to listen to her please do not go against what she is saying. And please do not put yourself or what you feel to her, she is a different individual who is trying to understand her situation and finding ways how to deal with it. I understand your position but pls understand what your daughter position is into right now. The girl just need a hug and a shoulder to pour out what she feels and a lot of understansding.
Continue of being a better parent to your son and 2 daugthers, God bless you sir...
Grabe naiyak ako sa nangyari kay Aira, nagmamakaawa talaga siya na makumpleto kayo. Nakakadurog ng puso to! Sending hugs to the kids and to you also kuya erwin saludo ako sayo sobrang strong mo! 🙌🙏
@ Big PAPA VLOGS, cast all your cares and worries to God. Faith in God keeps us from losing hope and helps us resist fear. I completely understand you and your situation, its tough. Praying for you and your children. My heart is with Aira, she's emotionally hurt❤
Na-observe ko kuya si Aira ay napaka-sensitive na bata. Mahirap talagang lumaki nang walang nanay dahil naranasan ko din yan, i grew up with my grandparents. Bebe Aira, okay lang yan anak! Swerte parin kayo dahil may tatay kayo na supportive at loving. Study hard mga anak. Someday, you will look back at these painful moments in your life and smile kasi bc of it lumaki kayong matatag ❤
Hindi naman tinatanong eh.
@@DPS002KSP ka din eh 😂 Mag-aral ka din ng mabuti para magkaroon ka ng mabuting trabaho di yung edgy ka lang sa social media
@@DPS002Kung ikaw to, Big Papa. Nakaka-disappoint ka naman. Di naman negative yung comment ko. Masama pala ugali mo
@@annaja6343 tanga mo ang tanda mo na ganyan ka pa din mag isip nasaan ang utak mo?
It breaks my heart how she sobbed😭
That's so much to take im 60 years old but i can't find an answer to your situation I feel her pain I'm sure even aichan and specially akira ,he just doesn't show the real feelings well alam niya you're doing your best kailangan siguro ask their mom to find more time for them and also with you baka may magbago for good diba ,well you know better so act quickly so it won't build depression to anyone god bless always pray
Hello po Big Papa, i am sorry for what your family are going through, I can feel Aira’s pain in her heart, she’s hurting too much to the point of waking up in middle of the night requesting for Mama and Papa to live together again, God bless po Big Papa and Fam, take care po lagi!🙏❤️..sending my hugs to you all!!🤗
Ganyan din po dinanas ng ama ko single father sya since 2 months pa kapatid at ako ay apat na taon palang, habang lumalaki mahahagip sa isipan mong bat di kayo kompleto at tinatanong mo ang ama mo, umiiyak sya kasi wala din syang magawa, unawain sana natin ang hirap ng ating mga ama kasi nag sasakripesyo sila sa lahat ng bagay para mapunan ang pag kukulang ng ina.
Please keep telling her how much you love her and you are always there for her no matter what. It’s good na nakakapag open up siya sa inyo. Pag nag-oopen up siya sa inyo gaya nito just don’t dismiss her feelings, and tell her how much you love her. I think po if may access po kayo to psychological help mas better din po. Mahirap po yung depression.
Cguro nanaginip c aira .na masaya na kasama ang ina at kumpleto kayo..kaya biglang nagising ng madaling araw at umiiyak..God bless sa inyo big papa..🙏
Hello Aira, nak. I just want to say that I am proud of you for being such a strong girl. I am sure your papa and siblings are proud of you too. Just keep praying. Say anything you want to the Lord. Alam mo nak, nakikinig si Lord sa mga prayers. Malay mo yung sayo na yung matupad Niya❤. Just keep praying nak. To Big Papa, saludo po ako sa inyo. Stay strong po. Kayo po ang matibay na sandigan ng mga bata. Yung tibay ng loob at tapang sa hamon ng buhay ay sa inyo po nakuha ng mga bata. Wishing you all the best. God loves your family. ❤
Bata pa po Aira and normal stage lang po ang pinagdadaanan niya considering na broken family po kayo.
Time will heal that scar po, in due time maiintindihan niya rin na victim lang po kayo life circumstances and hindi niyo rin po naman ginusto maging broken family.
What’s important po is nandiyan ka palagi at ang kanyang onii-san at onee-san para walang sawang gabayan siya.
Broken fam din po kami, my parents we’re not married and may iba family na si Papa. Ganyan din po case nung bata ako lagi wala parents pag important events graduation and etc.
Initial reaction ko po noon as a child is inggit, pero maaga sakin naexplain ang situation. Kaya today here I am today no excess baggage na dinadala.
Stay strong po. God Bless.
Thank you for sharing po! I think she knows the fact that you and your ex wife cannot be together anymore but her longing for a complete family gets triggered sometimes. I think need mo po i open up yan sa anak mo in a different time yung kayo lang dalawa, alamin mo yung pain nya and reason why she feels that way, you dont need to say anything, just listen, I dont think she has any friends to share this with so ikaw lang po pwedeng gumawa nito. Its crucial for you to always be emotionally available for your kids, I know napaka busy mo pong tao especially since nagtatrabaho ka, tas vlog, tas single father pa, pero these situation are critical for their needs. Salamat po sa pag share I hope makita mo po to at ma alalayan mo si Aira. I salute you!
Sana mabisita uli ng nanay Nila. O di kaya kayo naman ang bumisita sa kanyang tirahan ng mas maintindihan nila ang sitwasyon. Kawawa naman si bunso.😢💔😔🙏. God bless.
omg nakakaiyak kawawa naman baby mo huhu sana magkaayos pa kayo ng mama nila para happy lahat
Salamat po para kay Aira🙏
Ngayon ko lang ipagtatapat sa iyo Big Papa, single father din ako pero my son grew up sa mother niya. He's 9 years old noong mag-divorce kami and from that age ay I made it a point na nagkikita, magkasama kami on weekends. Dumalang na lang ang weekend bondings naming noong College na siya dahil busy sa pag-aaral at sa mga school projects. We're very close though hanggang ngayon kahit 35 years old na siya at living independently. Tama ang ginagawa mo, kinakausap mo sila ng straight and you're not giving them false hopes na puede pa kayong mabuo. Ang pinakamabuti naman ay may communication pa kayo ng ex-wife mo at puede mo pa siyang tawagan for your children to meet their mother and her, to see and bond with them even for very short time.
Thank you sir sa tiwala! Ganon talaga kapag nag dumalaga na kasi busy narin sila sa buhay nila. At gama kayo ang importante ay may communication. Maraming salamat sa story nyo🙏
Depression is a very serious topic po lalo na para sa age ni Aira, I hope you overcome this Bigpapa.
opo..thank you po.
Yes. They soon will become teen-agers. The teen-age suicide rate is very high today.
Kwento ko lng sana d nman mgaya sa iba..ung pnsan ko 20yrs old hiwalay na mga magulang nanay nya asa ibang bansa..nadepres dn cguro sa gnung buhay ,ngpakamatay po sxa..😢😢😢
@@gabrickescano5418 Marami ngayon mga kabataan o teenagers ang may depression. Marami din ang nagpapakamatay. Dapat subay-bayan niya ang mental health ng mga anak. Hindi porke mababait, magagalang at masayahin ay walang problema. Maaaring nasa loob nila ang sama ng loob at may depression. Sa huli ang pagsisisi. Hindi sapat ang masipag sa trabaho at asikaso sa mga anak. Dapat alamin kung ano ang nasa loobin nila. Kausapin ng one on one.
My heart goes with Sir kasi pareho tayo ng naranasan pati ang pag iyak ng anak mo at pagsasalita ganyan ganyan rin ang sinabi sa akin mahaba story ang kaibahan lang natin nasa pilipinas ako.
Salamat sir! Goodluck po dyan..
Natatanong siguro yan sa school nila, syempre ayaw lang siguro umamin..lilipas din yang phase na yan sa life ni Aira, ang importante andyan kayo lagi para sa isat isa......stay strong big papa family
sobrang na touch ako sa bata😌mama mitai yan dahil ang iyak nya is alam mo talaga na aitai nya na oka san nya.
I truly understand your predicament Big Papa. It's heartbreaking to know Aira’s feeling of "loss of love" and “abandonment” by her mother. It’s really tough when a child like Aira “yearns” and “longs” for a mother’s [or father’s] love and could not get it.
You know, a marriage (or friendship) is an institution intended to be "TILL DEATH DO US PART"; it's like a treasured object of possession such as an antique vase, a vintage lamp; a cup, glass or plate, etc. When a “marriage” or an “object” is broken and/or has many “crack(s)” on it, do you still want to keep the marriage/object though it doesn’t serve the purpose for it was intended/made for? I don't think so!
Some people are successful in keeping a broken marriage to work for a couple more years, but in the end the marriage was NOT SALVAGEABLE! Such is true when couples try to "save" a broken marriage but in doing so they “ruin” their lives as well as their children’s lives! You know, you cannot make something (marriage, relationship, objects) that is broken to be WHOLE AGAIN! And if anyone has ever made a broken marriage whole again, IT IS THE EXCEPTION TO THE RULE, not the RULE!
Aira was only 2 months old (and still nursing from her mother) when your ex-wife left and that tells a lot what kind of a woman and mother she is! And after your separation, your ex-wife maintained a total disregard of her children and did not even bother to call or visit them for years! Does she even send them birthday cards or write them letters to see how they are doing? They are her children, too, after all! I, for one, would NEVER abandon my children if my marriage fell apart. I can’t imagine what kind of a woman and a mother would ABANDON her children like that!
When I watched the video of the children’s “reunion” with their mother, I find it “odd” (if not “disturbing”) that your ex-wife did not even try to HUG all her children but Aichan. And inside the restaurant, again your ex-wife was “fussing” all over Aichan who sat next to her. But she kind of “ignored” Aira and Akira sitting across her from the table, when she should have taken “Aira” to sit next to her since that was the “baby” she left behind and deprived of a mother’s love!
I’m sure Aira was deeply hurt by this woman’s (her mother) behavior of “ignoring” her, but I guess Aira kept that hurt feelings “bottled up inside” and now it’s all coming out! You know, I don’t care what the reason(s) are why couples separate, but children should not be used as Pawns, least of all ABANDONED, by one parent because the marriage fell apart!
I know it will be very hard for Aira [Aichan and Akira] to understand why their mother left them, “abandoned” them to say the least, and barely had any contacts with them. You have to be honest with your children by explaining all the FACTS that led to you and your wife separating - DO NOT SUGARCOAT IT and you MUST TELL IT THE WAY IT IS. Explain all the "circumstances" surrounding your failed marriage and that it will NEVER BE THE SAME AS IT WAS BEFORE with your ex-wife. I know there is that "VOID" in their life that they want to fill but could NOT BE FILLED by you.
Maybe this is why Aira was so upset without her mother around because of that "VOID" in her heart and in her life that other children don't have that "VOID" because they have a family - with a mother and father living with them. Maybe, and if it will help and make Aira happy, ask her (or suggest) if she wants to live with her mother for at least a year to "bond" with her mother and to get to know her, IF (and that’s a big “IF”) her mother would agree to it. Knowing what I learned from that "REUNION" video, I think there is a BIG chance of your ex-wife saying “NO” to Aira living with her. And if that happens, is Aira able to face and accept the REJECTION by her own mother whom she wanted desperately to be in her life?
I know one day, when they are all grown man and women, they would want to “reconnect” with their mother and fill that "VOID" in their hears. As huma beings, we all want to do that in order to "heal" the wound and scars of ABANDONMENT/NEGLECT by a parent.
Be strong, Big Papa, you have done an “exceptional” and great job raising your 3 children, and your children should be so grateful for it! God Bless!
Thats what i noticed too hindi man lang pinapansin si aira
ang sakit sa puso big papa! sana po kahit papaano, makita itong video na ito ng nanay nila at sakaling mas mapadalas naman sana ang pagdalaw. stay strong big papa family 🥺🙏
Hindi ko alam kung bakit sila naghiwalay o sinong may kasalanan. Hindi pa nga nasusubukan eh sabi agad sa anak na hindi na sila magkakabalikan. Mali iyan . Dapat bigyan mo sila ng kaunting pag-asa. Hindi natin masabi ang mangyayari sa susunod.
@@mark72141hindi naman natin alam kung bakit ganun lang ka straight forward ang pagkakasabi ng papa nila eh tingin mo ba bilang ama masasabi mo yun sa anak mo ng ganun ka straight forward kng alam mong pwede pa sila ulut magkabalikan ng ex wife niya? mas minabuti nlng cguro na sabihin ang totoo kaysa sa paasahin mga bata sa bagay na alam niyan d na mangyayari.. alam ba natin ginagawa ng papa nila behind the camera diba? cguro ang masasabi ko nlng eh send this video sa nanay nila
@@mark72141it's easy to say coz' ur not in his shoe..u and big papa are two different mammals
Because maybe they tried but failed , so siguro kaya nya nasabi na di na kaya pra di na din umasa Yung Bata. Mas masakit sa knila paniwalaing Meron pa kahit Wala na talaga.
@@J.S-o7e May kasabihan "It takes two to tango". Pareho silang may kasalanan. Maaaring mas may kasalanan ang isa. Kadalasan ang mga bata ay iniiwan sa nanay. Nakapagtatakang sa tatay silang lahat sumama. Kahit isa walang napunta sa nanay. Hindi kaya dahil ang mas may kasalan ang nanay? Walang magulang o ina ang matitiis ang mga anak. Kaya napakalaking sakripisyo ang nanay. Ewan ko kung sinubukan nilang makpagbati at magbalikan. Kung hindi dapat lang na bigyan pa nila ng isa pang pagkakataon na magsama uli.
I think she's looking for a care sa Mother nya since hindi sya lumaki sa kanya. I think you need to talk to their mother and explain the situation and let her talk to her. It's good that your explaining it to her that their are things that can't be fix anymore. Kid's will always push what they want but as they grow older they will actually realized it to themselves na hindi na talaga pwede. Just let her process it. She will heal and understand things. It's also nice for her to talk to a guidance counselor or a psychologist. Sometimes meron talagang stuff na hindi natin nailalabas pero na ilalabas natin sa hindi ka kilala. Just continue to talk to her and explain things to her. She will get through it hopefully. Just be there for her
nakakaawa nman c aira,, ramdam ko pangungulila nya sa mother nya...stay strong papa erwin...god loves you... remember,,, LIFE IS HARD,, BUT HARDER WHEN YOU GIVE UP..
True.. thank you so much ❤️
Be strong Aira! Your big papa loves you and your ate and kuya too. Bless your heart baby.
Yes po thank you🙏
Napaka bait mong father sinced 2 mos.. mo magisa inalagaan c Aira... Naiyak din ako...
i was deeply touched of Aira’s crying my heart melts… she’s longing for a family that are together happy and im glad she expressed herself
ventillating all the heartache’s🥰 i wonder if the mother misses her kids☹️ and for you big papa… i admire your big ❤️ very loving caring and
understanding father 👍one day your kids will realized and be thankful to God that they are blessed to have you and nothing in this world
could ever replaced you and all your sacrifices will be paid off… im holding my tears i feel what your family is going through but remember
as the saying goes the rainbow is at the end waiting ❤️❤️❤️
I'm also a single parent and understand where you are coming from, sometimes there are really things which are out of our hand and can't do.... You did well in explaining the situation for her to get stronger....she and her siblings can always visit the mom
Aira is a brave kid and her emotions are valid. Aira, I hope you will overcome this phase of your life. Praying for your whole family po. ❤
Thank you so much
My heart hurts for her. Hope your family finds peace and happiness
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Be positive nln po sa pagsagot sa knya about mommy. All says even if mommy is not thete , mams n papa loves you so much.
Thank you🙏
Stay strong for your kids, I salute you how good parent you are. Di ko mapigilan maiyak kay Aira, we will include your family to my prayers, nakakalungkot lang na ang mga anak talaga ang nagsusuffer kapag ang parents ay naghiwalay, they can't do anything, it is better siguro to seek an expert for Aira on how a child can handle your situation, para maguide kasama ang kayong magasawa, iba na ang generation ngayon , Hindi natin alam kung ano ang nasa damdamin Ng bata, iba ang kilos Ng bata sa bahay at kapag nasa school or kasama ang mga kaibigan . For now mas bigyan mo Ng time mga anak mo, mag usap kayo mag asawa siguro dapat dumadalaw ang nanay sa mga bata or dapat may schedule ang mga bata na sa nanay nila pag bibisita. Need niyo mag co parenting.
Baka nanaginip ng about sa family or may napanuod..malayo pati kayo sa mga kamag anak..but just make extra effort na maramdaman nila na even without their mother..they will grow to be a good person with you..talk to her siblings to make aira happy always..together as a family so that she will not look for her mother anymore..be strong big papa for the children
She is very lucky to have you. I remember as a kid I used to cry everyday on my own alone all alone while I watch everyone close to me leave. Keep being there for her and tell her it's okay to cry and tell you how she feels because she needs that. I wish I had someone like you growing up. Now I'm older and I'm not close with family because I'm still angry and hurt with how they left. I have lots of pent up anger inside me and I hope your children won't have that. Yes they will have some sort of abandonment issues but I know you all can work on it.
Thank you for the advice..With your story I understand that you have anger to them..but I hope you can forgive them someday for your own good.just be positive in life..take care always🙏
Just a new subscriber here.
As a mother of 4 (3 growups & 1 student) and 32 yrs married, i would hardly suggest upon watching this video..Aira is longing for her mother and to see her parents together.Since they are still minors.Maybe an arrangement to meet their mom occassionally over lunch or something will help. Co-parenting agreement later.
Happy to meet you & your kids.
God bless!❤😊
Thank you so much sa advice 🙏❤️
Nakakadurog ng puso
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I’ll be praying for this Baby girl. 😢❤🙏🏽 Just be supportive and understanding. You can only be who you are and your the stable ☝🏽 one for her foundation. I raised my two daughters alone after their father passed. Just be there for them…it’s enough. God bless and stay strong 💪🏽 Pappa.
As a single Father myself, I know it's very hard for your children to grow up without the presence of their mother... but as I can see from your videos, you are giving your best and doing a great job of raising your children... trust me, it may be difficult now, but time spent with them when they are at this age are the best times spent together... my kids are both adults now, so I do treasure the memories of the time spent with them when they were younger... Kudos to you, Big Papa, to be able to raise 3 kids on your own.
Thank you so much for this comment sir🙏have a great day
ang lungkot nga ng episode na to, naalaala ko tuloy yung araw na pumanaw yung nanay ko. May gabi talaga na bigla nalang ako umiyak hindi ko ma control yung emotions. Sana si Aira mag spend more with her mommy kahit sa weekend lang. Iba kasi yakap ng nanay. LIGAWAN MO ULIT SI MOMMY SIR, BAKA NAG ANTAY LANG SIYA SA LIGAW MO.
Maraming salamat po..
Sorry po ngayon ko lang to nakita 😭 naiyak po ako . Magpakatatag po kayo . Wala talaga perfect family . Ramdam ko po ang lungkot niyo . I pray that God will bless your family more. Sana makauwi po kayo Pinas at nang makapag bakasyon po kayong lahat ❤❤❤❤❤
Opo makakauwi din kami balang araw..maraming salamat🙏
Durog naman po ang dibdib ko😥...
God bless you and your children.. let them know that they are loved by us..🥰🥰
Very strong po kayo at napakabuting ama. Mabuti naman bagaman nasabi niyo ang inyong sitwasyon napaka maunawain ng mga bata❤.
This is so heartbreaking. Shes longing for a Mother’s physical touch and care. Sometimes as much as you are filling the emptiness, there is still lacking in your children’s heart. Praying for your family. Aira, you have lots of virtual Moms here. We love you and your siblings already. ❤
Thank you po for sharing sir. This is so raw and honest. Very heartbreaking pero d talaga nyo po control ang lahat. Hopefully, mag bonding kayo mgpamilya kasama mama nila.
Opo maraming salamat po
Dapat po anjan nlang si BIG LOLA for sure d sila mangungulila sa mother nya kasi mabait lola nila❤ sna po makabalik na si lola jan
Sana nga po..iba po kapag may Lola ang mga bata..
Nakakasad naman yung pagluha ni Aira. Lalo na yung pagsabi niya ng please.
Parang nadurog yung puso ko.
Sa mga bagay na wala tayong kontrol, .just let the emotions to flow and feel it and then pray.
Stay strong to the whole family especially to Big Papa.
Send hugs to Aira ❤. Miss nya yong mama nya..gusto nya mama n papa together daw 😢 naiyak tuloy ako. God bless po sa inyo.
I cried when i saw Aira crying. Being a single mom myself, ramdam ko Big Papa ang pinagdadaanan mo. I was also in that situation before. Ngayon college na anak ko, and she understands everything, thanks God. Praying for you Aira. May God bless this beautiful family.
kaya nga bata pa kasi siguro may nag trigger nyang emotions nya ng araw na yan.. yung 2 panganay nya mukhang naiintindihan na ang sitwasyon nilang apat
@@blueevergarden7548 Aira is still young, its just normal na maghanap sya ng conventional family o normal na pamilya na may tatay at nanay. Hindi pa niya gaano naiintindihan ang sitwasyon. Darating din ang time na maiintindihan din nya ang lahat. Lagi lang i-remind sa kanya na mahal sya ng nanay at tatay niya kahit hindi sila magkasama.
Most kids growing up in a situation like yours long for a mother's embrace. Maybe she envy friends who live with both parents. Be on the lookout with her attitude- make sure she don't experience depression. Seeking counseling would definitely help not only her but the whole family. You're doing a good job raising your kids but you're right, something is missing - and she can feel it. May God guide you and bless you more. Be strong.
yes I will..thank you so much po..
God bless you and your kids big papa...
Sobrang nakakaiyak..kc me pagkakapareho tao ng sitwasyon SA mga anak natin
Salamat sa panonood🙏
@@BigPAPAVLOGS hanga ako sayo kung paano mo aalagaan mga anak mo..sobrang iyak ko kay aira..tulad ni aira me anak din ako tulad nya lumaki ng Wala ako hangang ngayon SA tabi nya..pero pinipilit ko..kahit malayo ako..ipinararamdam ko at lagi Kong sinasabi na. Mahal na mahal ko sila...at sobra akong humanga sayo..at sobra akong lalong nabwisit SA ama ng mga anak ko..SA panonood ko SA inyo..minsan nasabi ko sana ikaw na lang naging ama ng mga anak ko..god bless you Big papa
Its heartbreaking to see a child that longs for a complete family. Malalagpasan nyo din ano mang pagsubok. Keep fighting & have faith 🙏
Maybe they miss their mother d nila masabi sa iyo.Syempre pa feel mo they still have mother .Miss din sila ng mother nila.Hope things be alight. ❤❤❤
Tears just rolled down on my cheeks upon seeing this video. Hugs to Aira, we and all your subscribers even if we don’t see in person love this whole family…. Time will come that you will understand everything. You take care of yourself Aira, be strong young lady! Cheers!
Same here😢
ay grabe naiyak aq dto,mahirap lumaki na walang isang magulang but i hope your kids will grow up na malakas sila at maintindihan ang sitwasyon..God bless ur family bro.
Cguro po..needs din nila magbakasyon sa mama nila...or mag stay with their mom...stay strong po❤
I hope and pray that Aira will become a strong and confident girl. I cried too 😢 sana contact mo mama nya baka namimiss nya. Tama ka nga maybe deep in your kid's heart they want your family to be complete. You're a good father and doing a hardwork raising them alone. Kudos to you Big Papa👏👏 Just stay strong, healthy and safe for your 3 amazing children ❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏
I grew up without my dad since i was 12. So I can relate a little bit. I indeed think something triggered her fear of losing you as well. Just keep on loving your kids. I know in most Asian culture we are not open & talkative abt our feelings. Tell them you love them, you are not abt to leave soon wt the grace of God, they can come to you to talk abt everything. They shouldnt be worried you getting angry or disappointed. Communication as a single parent is extremely important. Stay strong. We love you guys. ❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏💝💝💝💝
Thank you so much❤️
im sure na one day..maiintindihan din nya lahat kapag nag mature na sya. God Bless!
sobra naman akong naiyak kay aira 😢 nalulungkot ako para sa mga bata
Salamat po🙏
Nalulungkot ko sa pinagdadaanan ni Aira marahil nakikita nga nya sa ibang katulad nya n buo ang pamilya.Darating din ang panahon maintindihan din nya.Mabuti at open kyo sa mga anak nyo.Mabuti din at nasa tabi kayo nya na nakikinig at mahinahon sa kanya.Sa mga ganyang edad ay sensitibo din.Sikapin mo n ipaliwanag ang lahat unti2x kayong maintindihan ng bata.Malalagpasan ninyo ang lahat.Keep going as a good father.Always supporting your kids & be patien as i knew.More power dad &god bless to all 🙏❤️🤗
Much respect to all those single parents like you raising there children alone. Parenting is never perfect, doing your Best is enough especially if you are doing it alone.
Thank you so much
Strangely enough, I used to cry for the exact opposite reason! My parents were in a very bad relationship, and my greatest wish was that they would get a divorce! Sadly they never did.... 😪 You`re a great dad thoug. Saying and doing the right things, in this situation. And letting her grieve, when she needs to. I love the fact that, you make sure they get to see the mum as well. That`s all you can do for now. They will understand it all, when they get older. And they will definitely appreciate what a good dad you are always. ❤
im a minor and actually im in ur situation right now its very hard
@@alasyia9511 That`s painful to hear! I hope you have some other adult person, that you can trust and talk to, and get help from, about this! Lots of love to you! x
Same with me, but they won't get separated (even in my current age and all of us are already an adults. So Idk what to say hahaha)
It breaks my heart to see this. But you are not alone. Some of my family members go through the same thing. Feeling incomplete. You are all doing your best to go through life with your situation.
Of course we don’t know the pain Aira is feeling. But do your best and you will all be okay. God will watch over you and the children.. ♥️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I’m so sorry Aira. Such a loving daughter. I wish I could take her heartache away. Sending lots of love to all the kids🤍🤍🤍
dami ko iyak dto😭😭ang sakit sa puso ung anak u umiiyak at nakikiusap na bouin ule pamilya nya😭
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it really breaks my heart..naghahanap xa ng nanay na alam nya na mahirap na maibalik at mabuo?be strong lang sa ganyang situation godbless