Another story I just remembered. There was a home visit for these 2 daycare sisters. They smelt like cat piss and they always came to school together dirty and sometimes wearing the same clothes. The teacher aid felt sorry for them and clean them with baby wipes. Teacher went to the girls house, stepped in and smelt nothing but cat piss and the house environment was a nightmare. She didn't continued the house visit and left. Once she got back to the center, she called CPS on the parents. Let me tell you why it got to the way it was. Father lost his job so mom had to take another job to keep food on the table. The father didn't know how to cook, clean, or bath his girls. Plus, the house cats... lots of cats, fleas, rats, roaches, dirty clothes everywhere on the floor, dishes wasn't being done. He sat on his ass and watch tv. The mother was too tired and stressed to be aware of the environment. After CPS and was nice enough to give them a warning and told them to get the place cleaned and get rid most of the cats. Week later, the girls came back clean and wear clean clothes. Once the mom finally realizes the environment of the house, she tore the father a new one and had to educate him how to take care of the house. Yes, he wasn't happy that he had to do a "woman's job". But he started to understand what the mother had to go through on a daily bases plus a job.
It really sucks that so many parents don’t raise their sons on how to do chores or basic self maintenance cause this shit happens. I’m mad he’s not even working yet had the audacity to complain . Ugh but ya at least he changed .
There's no way that you come home from work and not notice that your entire house is a filthy shit box. Both of those parents were neglectful and ignorant.
I hope a lot of these parents got a taste of what their kids are really like while distance learning during this quarantine. I’m sure for some of them if the kids are still bad it’s “not their fault/not my kid” in some way... Disgusting.
Actually, normal school desks are surprisingly lightweight. Trust me, I've seen them thrown more than you'll see green in the entire toy story franchise.
Lady of Darkness I have a friend, he’s skinny af but when we were in 3rd-4th grade, he picked up a desk (with the stuff still inside the little cubby built in) and threw it at the teacher. It was horrible.
I respect teachers. I'm mature for my age so middle school is just a million cringy pre-teens trying to be cool while I am just thinking about how embarrassing they are. These teachers deal with this crap and feel how I do, and I wouldn't put my worst enemy into my place. Huge respect to teachers.
I worked for a daycare program for 6 years. I have mad respect if they can last for 20 years or plus. I love workin with children but it's the parents that make the job harder.
This is all about shit parents and defending the teachers. Go find the one about the shit teachers. Case in point. When I started high school I was offered to be placed in AP Math. I got to sit in on the teacher as a trial. Teacher was threatening/hitting people with a yardstick, threw a desk, and was screaming the entire class. Guess who decided not to do AP Math. The teacher was very well known for this I soon learned. There are great teachers just as there are great parents. However, the flip side exists too.
I remember we had a special ed student in our class, elementary school. He was 5'6" even in fourth grade, always mumbled with random shouts or grunts in between, and was generally slow at learning. Sweet guy though. Was really shy and apologetic when he caught on he could make other people uncomfortable. Living next door to him, I was one of the few students(teachers were in the know, so maybe it helped I was a teacher-friendly child too) who knew about his family. To put it short... Mom ran away, dad and older brother committed suicide in the two following years, and his grandparents with health issues did not know what to do with him. It was really sad, and to top it off he was getting picked on by the mean kids. Kid was really just a sweet boy. I moved away in middle school but still visit that town... last I saw, he's apparently got the help he needed and is doing better now.
Special ED: You cannot legally put a child into special ed without the permission of the parents. HOWEVER, what I've seen a lot for schools doing in the area I live in is tell parents that they do not have the means to properly care for or their children and that they will not be allowed to go to that school.
In my school you can.... well atleast kinda... There were 2 special ed Rooms.... One for severe cases and one for less severe cases... you could put a kid into the less severe version without parent permission because it is not technically its own program it was considered a class that some students had along with their regular level Classes, so was tecnically just a normal class.
Also about that story's mother, she insists her child is fine when her child has an obvious to the instructor Developmental Disability that requires a SPED class for proper attention of and on the child, since that child couldn't even care for themselves. That mom just treated their kid like they were neurotypical rather than what the reality everyone else was experiencing was. I don't know how to describe that story's mother, probably delusional thinking a child with no speech skills can be in classes that probably have something that requires actual speech. In my "Voluntary Super Senior" year I was a student TA for a SPED class being a mainstreamed SPED student myself. (The story behind that was that I did Project Graduation for the year I originally was supposed to walk with, but walk with the following year) The class I TA'd for was a combination of severe and less severe cases.
I wish there was a whole school specifically for higher functioning people just so I wouldn’t have gotten punished for behaviors I have no control over. The thing teachers should’ve done was just remove me from class just until I calmed down before being put back. I was removed often for most of the day if not for the whole day. Most of my behaviors were triggered by bullies or the sudden change in routine without warning. At least I had a reason unlike some who act up with no reason
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i remember talking to one of my elementary teachers years later while i was working at a craft store. turns out, after having to buy all her school supplies herself, some months she was basically losing money (ending up in the negatives after paying her rent and bills). my boss scolded me, but anything she came through i'd put my employee discount on her order.
You know what angers me more? Every time someone wants to have kids they almost never do or struggle to, but anybody who’s not even looking to have kids and just doesn’t even bother to think about it end up popping out triplets.
see it would be kinda hard to regulate laws prohibiting people from having kids because some idiots might try to introduce eugenics into the laws. but yeah some parents don't deserve children
What sucks is that I have actually had a teacher that has lied to my parents, causing me more trouble than I ever caused. Than my parents finally realized I guess because a few years later we were discussing it and they admitted that she was a piece of shit.
7:57 I love the last line. “We go back to class.” Child absolutely goes mental and then dad threatens teacher. “Well then, children, back to revision, ignore the broken window, please.”
Stop allowing every single person to breed. Not every single person deserves to have a child. Except for the dad who made his son return the stolen laptop. He is worthy of fatherhood.
@James You need a license for driving a car. Why not one for being a parent as well? Why not prove that you have everything is takes to be a good parent? Oh? What was that? Too difficult? Too much work? You have a right to be a parent? How come you don't have a right to drive a car without a license then?
@@Kreschavier I would prefer something low key. Just hide in the shadows with foot steps, silent as death until it's time to strike then...give them a firm talking to before sending them to a time out where they can reflect on their poor decisions. Sorry drunk rn🤣🤣🤣🤣
A previous teacher of mine went to teach in Saudi Arabia, I believe. If not there, it was somewhere similar and the equally nerve-wracking. I wish I knew what happened to him. Hope he's back home by now. I heard his wife divorced him before he left, separating him from her son, who he loved like his own. He's a chill, if odd guy, and I can't help but imagine him in the place of the teacher who was tortured in that answer. Thanks for the nightmares I'll have tonight, Reddit.
i remembered that when i was in elementary school there was this girl who lived in very poor conditions. her parents wouldn't give her food for lunch. they also refused to give her money so that she could at least buy herself something to eat. one time i asked her why she didn't eat anything. she looked down to the floor embarassed and told me she don't have any food. i offered her a part of my lunch. she accepted it with a bright smile. at the time i didn't even realize that what i was doing was some kind of good act. i just wanted her to have something to eat as well. and i wanted her to have some food just like every other kid everyday. i even told my mother everyday that i needed more for lunch. not for me but for her. we ended up being friends and i was really sad when i went to high school but she wouldn't come with me. the last day on elementary also was the last day i saw her. and i somehow miss her and i wonder how she's doing right now. i hope she's fine.
You Know, You've got to have a license to drive car, own a dog, run a business, a certificate to practice medicine, be a lawyer, or teach a class. But anybody can be a parent, aint that some stuff. WTHF. There really is more than one meaning to the verse "Suffer not the little children to come unto me."
In my country you even need a certificate and permission in order to host a party for more than 20 people. Permission to have more than 4 dogs, but anyone can have as many kids as they want without a care.
@@aricarly It's to me, not a question as to how many, but it's one of the few(and I mean very few) areas where the gov./ngo should step in and require a skill evaluation test, though I can also see the potential for abuse by the entity. You don't say you can't, just help where knowledge is lacking.
@@montieluckett7036 Exactly that! I see so many unfit parents, and even if it's one child, those kids suffer a lot at the end. Yeah, I know most of us don't know how we will behave as parents, most parents make mistakes raising kids, but many people are clearly unfit to parent anyone and yet the government does nothing until the child end s up abused or worse.
I used to work for a headstart daycare program for 6 years in a scary part of town. The children was sweet (most od them). I will never forget this poor boy. His mother would dress him up nicely and he was a really sweet child. One day he did a complete 360. Not 180. We all thought he was just having an off day and brushed it aside. As the week passes he started to get violent. For no reason he took a wooden block and threw it across the room hitting a little girl. We tried to talk to his mother and she would denied and say her son was an angel. Than the day came where he started to get physical violence with everyone. I had to held him down while the director called his mother to come get him. I had to hold him for 2 hrs and the mother yelled at me for holding her son. She took her took and called my boss accusing that I was harming her child and to fired me. But she was there when she saw him become violent to the child and I did it to protect him and the child. My boss told her she had a video on the event and will be happy to show her proof. He never came back.
A 360 is to turn a full circle to end facing where you started, a 180 is to turn around and face directly the opposite way. I wonder what happened to him, I'm so sure that something happened, kids don't normally turn into monsters overnight. I suspect abuse of any kind, or a death in the family that stressed him badly. Poor little guy, if his mom wouldn't believe it, he probably didn't get help.
Another story. I would watch what children is left at the end of the day and would have 3 bunders with the child's information and contact information. We are not allowed to give the child to anyone that is not in their contracts information file. Lol alot of the parents will send their friends to pick them up and they will not be on the binder. Plus I need proof of ID. I got cussed at, spit at, and threat at and I will still refused to let them take the child. One dad I never met came to pick up his child. I asked him for his ID. He didn't have it on him. He asked his child who he is and the child will reply Daddy. "That is all the proof I needed." He told me. "Sorry sir. No ID, no child. My director will be more happy to explain." "I been coming here to pick up my child and this fucking bitch is telling me I can't leave-" My director heard him yelling at me and came into the room and told him the same thing. He left quietly and the child's mother came in. I remember her being part of the list and seen her id before. She apologize for his behavior and will take to him. Reason why we have this system is because random strangers will walk in. Pick a child and try to leave with them, claiming that they are their uncle or aunt. Please don't give your child's caretaker a hard time because they want to protect your child.
My brother is a physicist and was contracted to go to Saudi to teach. He left after just a few weeks because no one in his class spoke English. One of his stories that I remember was on the way to class he passed a construction site where it was easier to bash holes in the concrete block for footholds than getting a ladder. Don't marry your cousins, people.
I loved a good portion of my charter school teachers but the local public school I went to had a lot of horrible teachers and one even bragged about having tenure (and she was one of the worst!)
15:28 could easily have just blocked that number or even contacted the phone service provider to block the number. If necessary changing her phone number is an option too. Easy solution or even mute the text measages
I genuinely started crying at the plain macaroni story.. The phrase “It’s not like that’ll notice.” is used very often when it comes to neglecting children with special needs.
We need to return to the teaching methods of the 80s. Parents are granted far too much power over teachers. If a teacher grades a child's work and you can't prove them wrong with cold logic then shut up, sit down and let the actual adults do their job. Yes, there have been problem teachers in the past. But there's gonna be about 100 times more problem parents.
Teachers have a ton of power. The limit on teachers causes them to have very little chance of being fired. The reason parents have power is that the teachers pretend they do. I have had teachers that have given about 5 grades for one quarter, didn't explain grading, think 3/4 was about 80, and so much more and they have never been reprimanded.
@@Lola-yu3nl yes teachers are overpowered (isthatevenaword). Parents nowadays can do nothing against them. But they pretend that the parents are the bad ones.
I think it's a case to case thing. When my gf was going to school for ECE and Social Work, most of her peers were driven and interested and had some sort of personal connection to spur the decision to go into social work. A few just "loved kids" not having a clue what they have gotten themselves into, it's not just playing with kids on their recess, it's diaper changing and interacting with parents, on the social work side you are gonna see and hear some things most people don't want to, you may be forced to make some really difficult decisions in your day to day. So yeah there were a few peers who just "loved kids" until they realized the workload and dropped out, or they stayed and grinded their way through to a diploma because "I can get a job with the school board and I'll be set for life" and it's kind of true, it's hard to get fired from the school board. So it's mostly passionate, driven people who become teachers but there are definitely lazy fuckin jobbers in the industry
I used to work for Starbucks kiosk in a supermarket. My manager ordered too many cake pops (more than we could sell before they went bad) so we had a free sample day. Kids love the cake pops. We'd specifically offer it to parents with kids passing by (think like Costco or Sam's Club sample offers lol) and ask what flavor the kid wanted. One mom with a kid came by and we offered for him to pick which cake pop he wanted. He reached for the chocolate one but his mom batted his hand aside and said "you want the birthday cake one." I handed the birthday cake one to him and he said softly "thank you." I watched them walk away and not even a dozen yards away the mom snatched it from his hands and ate it in 2 bites. I would have given him the chocolate and her the birthday cake I'd she just asked 😕 but I guess she would have taken both, seeing as she scarfed down the one so quickly.
Obligatory not me but my aunt used to be an art teacher at a local high school from the mid 80's until 2012. She said there were multiple students over the years who she would pick up and take home from school (rural area, so long walks) because the parents were drug addicts/alcoholics and didn't care if they made it to school or not. She also took in a kid because his mom picked up and moved away while he was at school... He was homeless for about a month when she found out. He wasn't eating or cleaning himself and when she asked why that's what he told her.
At first I was like how dare you judge this kid and his parents for having macaroni and cheese everyday then I realized macaroni with nothing on it doesn't mean macaroni and cheese without pepper or macaroni and cheese without ketchup then I felt sad
When I hear macaroni I just assumed macaroni and cheese so when they say macaroni with nothing on it I think macaroni and cheese without seasoning and then I realized they actually just meant plane ass macaroni you know plane little elbow noodles
I can’t stand parents who jump their children from school to school to school for whatever reason, it screws with the kid so bad and later on the brain dead parent can’t figure out why their kid is a loner struggling with depression and poor grades (it’s because they’re expecting to be transferred at some point, so no point in investments of energy in schoolwork or making friends).
Parenting: possibly the most important job in the human race No qualifications or previous experience required, no training needed, little accountability or oversight, no limit to positions available
I had once gone to the bathroom during lunch time in middle school. In come my two friends, coincidentally we all had on black sweaters that day, we began to chat while we are all pissing. We get done wash our hands and in comes someone. We got scared so I got into a stall, there were three, I thought my friends were going to run to the other two but decided to join me in the handicap one. Well the person that came in was a teacher, and he heard us breathing in there, finished his business and told us "you boys come out now, I caught you red handed." We all get serious and walk out and say " we got scared and we ran into there we were doing--" he cuts us off and says: drugs? Oh I can tell you boys look suspicious wearing all the black, and well your faces don't really help. We looked at each other and my friend said "what do you mean, we all are honor roll students, why would we do drugs?" He replied quickly with: you guys are always suspicious walking around in a large group. I got pissed and said "oh so you're saying cuz we are mexicans, wearing black, with tired faces, you think we were doing drugs in here? Well look" and I pulled my pockets inside out and my friends followed they both had only pencils anda pen in their pockets. The teacher now sitting there about to shit himself in the bathroom mustards up the most audacious claim: oh so you guys flushed it before coming in here? We all laughed in his faced called him a dirty pathetic man in spanish and walked out, he told the principal that we smoked weed in there so the principal goes in to the bathroom and doesn't even find the tiniest smell and believed the teacher was lying, we were about to get off the hook with no fouls on any sides of the field but I couldn't get past his bullshit so I told her in the middle of the hall full of kids: ya mister holmes thought we three mexicans, los tres amigos were doing drugs because we had black on. Teacher got into big problems and proceeded to ignore us until graduation when he said: nice job guys you made it. We flipped him off and went about our graduation and never saw that teacher again
Who gets scared because someone else walks in the bathroom? Scared enough to HIDE? What am I missing or not understanding about this? Bullied kid possibly if alone, but three guys not random classmates but sweater-matched like cheerleaders goung to the men’s room together (also like cheerleaders) seems unlikely for the purpose of just urinating, but even with benefit of doubt in keeping with the cheerleader theme becoming spooked when the door opens isn’t the normal individual reaction of someone just urinating... so to be a unanimous reaction LOL bitch please - - and not just spooked enough to hide, but in the SAME STALL? High school BOYS? Mija tú y tús cholas son mentirosas han fumando la mota o el meco.
2:22 It's always heartbreaking to see a parent use their child's disability as an excuse to be negligent. The kids aren't brain dead, they just need some extra help that the parents refuse to give.
My Mum was an elementary school math specialist and taught 1st -5th graders throughout the day. One day, a 4th grade kid with some emotional issues just loses her shit for seemingly no reason. Violently flipping over desks, destroying the contents, hurling thermoses, books, whatever around the classroom. It took three adults to restrain her. The eerie thing was, the kid was dead-silent the entire time. No screams, no words, just this focused, silent destruction.
There was one 1st grade boy, D--, who was dyslexic (among other things), and it was an IEP classroom. We helped him as much as we could, but it was clear he needed more help. His mom was actually a Special Ed teacher, and she insisted that he doesn't need to be in a Special Ed classroom; we just aren't doing everything we can. Besides, she doesn't want him to have the stigma of being Special Ed. Dumbest thing ever 😤 I'm not a parent, but if my kid needs help and may not be capable of the same things other kids can do, you bet your butt I will make sure they get the help they need and I'll be happy with what they ARE capable of doing.
When my mom was a new teacher she taught middle school math. One of her students who was smart enough to have almost no problems in her class was getting low grades. My mom asked him why he wasn't doing his work and he said that there was no point because his family was in gangs and he would probably be dead before 18.
that one about the goth kid being withdrawn by his own mother because apparantly she didn't like him enjoying it? that one was the worst. oh, and the last one was just icing on the cake (for all the wrong reasons)
13:00 my mom is a preschool teacher and she gets kids from ages 3-4. She's even got some 2 year olds if there was an older sibling attending. Trust me, that's not a 3 year old brain, they can talk and walk and do whatever.
my classmate lived in poverty. they had one room in the house and there there was only 4 beds on each side. after my teacher found out, she started buying him food with her money and gave it to him to take home. the teacher told me that the kid barely got anything of the food because his mom would eat it all and him and his brother would be left to starve. after the teacher asked the mother about it, she replies "well i work harder. i have to plant carrots and he just needs to sit in school and remember things so i deserve it". then the teacher came up with a plan. the kid already had to walk home by himself so she brought more food and she told him to eat it on the way home so his mom doesnt eat it. him and his brother shared the food on the way home. well mom never found out
I had a mother once that accused me of flunking her son because he refused to sleep with me. He was failing because he never showed up and/or did any assignments. If he did turn anything in, it never matched the assignment for his class. (I change assignments for each class to prevent cheating.). He stole them from kids in my other classes, and one report that he turned in was the straw that broke the camel's back. I gave him a zero and his mom kicked the door to my classroom open and stomped inside, yelling at me. "He couldn't have cheated on any of his assignments or homework. I know because I do it for him!" she screamed. I just facepalmed. We had been recording some notes on the final with a cassette recorder, and it caught the whole confession. Did I mention that it was Junior year biology and because of his grades in my class, he was in danger of losing a number of scholarships?
Alot of these stories of how parents responded to teachers are just crazy. The only thing though that is more disturbing is some of the comment/s read in this RUclips video, where commenter/s overlooked the neglect-abuse the child's enduring day in and day out and focused on "poor teacher." Or the person complaining about the mentally handicapped student and then the the comments read after that were in agreement. It was disturbing. As a whole, from listening to this, I think it must be very frustrating and sad for the teachers that pickup on the abuse and neglect the children are subject to by their own parents, and even if reports are made to social services for the child's wellfair, there are technicalities that prevent the intervention the children need, such removal from those unhealthy homes and parents.
I also think that children with Ipads since toddler age usually become the worst kids. They will throw a fit if they are without their Ipad and literally kick and punch other people, including their own parents. Then the parents just give it to them to shut them up and the little brat will play a toy opening video or Baby Shark on max volume in public transportation while the parents just ignore them. Yeah, I think I can understand why these children rely more on their gadgets than their parents since they just do the bare minimum of just taking care of them but not raising them. Even if they grow out of being too reliant on gadgets, I highly doubt they would have a strong bond with their parents, like since the beginning, just the bare minimum.
I've had a teacher get fired for no credentials, most of us were glad, she tried to turn some of the kids against me and others. Another in Junior High everyday said she hated this job and would quit if someone gave her $5000, someone must she didn't show up one day and we substitutes for quite awhile.
if it makes anyone feel any better (sorta) there was this kid in my high school class who berated the math teacher so much she would cry at her desk. Everyone loved her for being down to earth and tough loving. From what I heard from others, the teacher went through a conference with the kids dad that left her in tears and some seniors were finding out. In high school, if you had enough credits, you could have a free period, so some students would come in during their free period for the kid and would sit in the very back row staring at him. And no, they weren't average seniors either, they were these big bulky dudes who looked like they were in a gang. The kid tried to berate the teacher again but those guys got up so fast their chairs slammed against the wall and their desks would scoot. That kid remained quiet in his seat during class and those guys would even stay after class for a bit until the kid left to make sure he didn't try anything. It was scary to say the least, but watching these big dudes defend their rather small teacher like bodyguards was something good to see.
My gf is a preschool teacher, and special needs parents are either unsung heroes and amazing human beings, or they are fucking monsters. There doesn't seem to be a middle ground, and most special needs parents fall into that first category, but there are some terrible people out there
Omg way too many. Think the worst is either the mum of a boy who was my worst behaved student so far, who got really bitchy with me when I wanted to talk to her about her son; or the alcoholic who showed up to a teacher/parent meeting at lunchtime stinking of alcohol then almost pushed his kid down the stairs, we had to call social services on him because the kid admitted his dad had beat him before.
My mom works as a secretary at a public school in my city, so I know a lot of bad parenting stories. Always the goal of this parents are receiving something, almost always money (normally from government), so when they achieve it, the child become a way of having income. They don't want to be bothered bc they aren't important, "school has the obligation to raise them" in this parents minds. And when it fails, usually when the child is an attempt of keeping a partner, they become a burden.
In my situation I'm one of the onlooking students, I'm in 7th grade and this story takes place during math. We where litsening to the teacher when suddenly another screen flashed but my teacher was still talking so it went back to her. I remember my teacher asking who's screen just flashed and I was the only one to pipe up, "mrs.w it was jj." She then proceeded to kick him out. He's in every single one of my classes so I recognized his behavior and the picture on his screen. For clarification he called her a wrinkly old peach.
Not a teacher, but I remember being that kid who would correct my teachers when they were wrong, 9/10 that meant I was going to get in trouble. 1/10 The teacher was surprised and happy, those teachers who teach for the joy of seeing kids learn are rare. I miss going to classes and being around others with a love for learning and teachers who lived to teach.
I think some people should not be able to have kids. Some people have kids just because they get extra money every year And others just can't afford it as well as people who have kids to leach off them.
My sister once tried to have her daughter have some X-rays on her right hand, because she pricked a finger with a splinter at school. I’m not making this up it really happened.
10:43 Honestly the parents are the ones that have to influence their child. This may not always be the case because sometimes parents try their best and the kid still doesnt listen. However parents have to teach and influence their child, and the way the child ends up is because of their parents. The parents affect the child. Not vise versa
I have to assume that there was a comment in this thread about some parent claiming the wind made their child hit the teacher? I have to assume because you just gave us the reply about math and not the actual incident. For some reason.
The first story is so f*cked up man. I can't even wrap my mind around it. I just, I couldn't imagine being so selfish. Thrift and second hand stores exist, but you're so much of a lazy and awful excuse of a human being that you let your kid walk to school cold? Leaving them susceptible to pneumonia and all kinds of other related conditions?? Something about this first story made me snap
because of course the teachers have undeniable evidence of all problems with the world coming from parents who aren`t strict enough and not from anything else that might be happening
Why does the 7:01 thread sound like my class? Like seriously, I had a teacher in my freshman year that used to play jeopardy in preparation for a test and gave candy to the winner. I also knew a really unstable kid in my fifth grade. I realized he was unstable and I realized after fifth grade that I might have put myself in danger by making friends with him because he literally threw chairs around the room and bit someone. I go on through the years avoiding him, but now hearing this thread makes me think about if this actually happened in my school and it very well might have.
Lol I was in marching band in high school and after 3 years this dude only had 6 credits all from band (you get 1 credit every semester and there was 2 semesters a school year)
I’m going to be honest. I feel so bad for my high school vice principle and principle. They had to deal with my mom who overreacted to everything. Good luck to my old school.
My story wasn’t with a parent but the student. Over the course of my elementary school years this kid tried to break my best friends arm, tried to break my knee (kicked my kneecap), attacked my 4th grade teacher by throwing a recycling bin at him (best teacher I’ve ever had), told his grade six teacher to kill herself and threw a desk at her and then flipped the trash can and walked himself to the principals office, he also had a history of using running shoes and boots as weapons
22:09 I was scared that this was my own mother, because I was, and still am, extremely picky when it comes to food, to the point where my mom had to make me different dinner, though she made an effort to still keep me healthy. I’ve never eaten cup noodles, so I’m cool then, mom isn’t a villain in an r/askreddit thread, as far as I know.
Another story I just remembered. There was a home visit for these 2 daycare sisters. They smelt like cat piss and they always came to school together dirty and sometimes wearing the same clothes. The teacher aid felt sorry for them and clean them with baby wipes.
Teacher went to the girls house, stepped in and smelt nothing but cat piss and the house environment was a nightmare. She didn't continued the house visit and left. Once she got back to the center, she called CPS on the parents.
Let me tell you why it got to the way it was. Father lost his job so mom had to take another job to keep food on the table. The father didn't know how to cook, clean, or bath his girls. Plus, the house cats... lots of cats, fleas, rats, roaches, dirty clothes everywhere on the floor, dishes wasn't being done. He sat on his ass and watch tv.
The mother was too tired and stressed to be aware of the environment.
After CPS and was nice enough to give them a warning and told them to get the place cleaned and get rid most of the cats.
Week later, the girls came back clean and wear clean clothes.
Once the mom finally realizes the environment of the house, she tore the father a new one and had to educate him how to take care of the house. Yes, he wasn't happy that he had to do a "woman's job". But he started to understand what the mother had to go through on a daily bases plus a job.
At least this story had a happy ending.
@@aricarly yeah it does
It really sucks that so many parents don’t raise their sons on how to do chores or basic self maintenance cause this shit happens. I’m mad he’s not even working yet had the audacity to complain . Ugh but ya at least he changed .
There's no way that you come home from work and not notice that your entire house is a filthy shit box. Both of those parents were neglectful and ignorant.
Good on the mother
I hope a lot of these parents got a taste of what their kids are really like while distance learning during this quarantine. I’m sure for some of them if the kids are still bad it’s “not their fault/not my kid” in some way...
Disgusting.
"This kid grabs the nearest desk and throws it" holy shit did he go full hulk?
Actually, normal school desks are surprisingly lightweight. Trust me, I've seen them thrown more than you'll see green in the entire toy story franchise.
Same
JeffMcJeffYT, so you’ve seen that video too.
Lady of Darkness
I have a friend, he’s skinny af but when we were in 3rd-4th grade, he picked up a desk (with the stuff still inside the little cubby built in) and threw it at the teacher. It was horrible.
HULK SMASSHHH!!!!
i have so much more respect for teachers
I respect teachers. I'm mature for my age so middle school is just a million cringy pre-teens trying to be cool while I am just thinking about how embarrassing they are. These teachers deal with this crap and feel how I do, and I wouldn't put my worst enemy into my place. Huge respect to teachers.
I worked for a daycare program for 6 years. I have mad respect if they can last for 20 years or plus. I love workin with children but it's the parents that make the job harder.
This is all about shit parents and defending the teachers. Go find the one about the shit teachers.
Case in point. When I started high school I was offered to be placed in AP Math. I got to sit in on the teacher as a trial. Teacher was threatening/hitting people with a yardstick, threw a desk, and was screaming the entire class. Guess who decided not to do AP Math. The teacher was very well known for this I soon learned.
There are great teachers just as there are great parents. However, the flip side exists too.
I don't
Coco heart Well okay
I remember we had a special ed student in our class, elementary school. He was 5'6" even in fourth grade, always mumbled with random shouts or grunts in between, and was generally slow at learning. Sweet guy though. Was really shy and apologetic when he caught on he could make other people uncomfortable. Living next door to him, I was one of the few students(teachers were in the know, so maybe it helped I was a teacher-friendly child too) who knew about his family.
To put it short... Mom ran away, dad and older brother committed suicide in the two following years, and his grandparents with health issues did not know what to do with him. It was really sad, and to top it off he was getting picked on by the mean kids. Kid was really just a sweet boy. I moved away in middle school but still visit that town... last I saw, he's apparently got the help he needed and is doing better now.
Special ED: You cannot legally put a child into special ed without the permission of the parents. HOWEVER, what I've seen a lot for schools doing in the area I live in is tell parents that they do not have the means to properly care for or their children and that they will not be allowed to go to that school.
In my school you can.... well atleast kinda... There were 2 special ed Rooms.... One for severe cases and one for less severe cases... you could put a kid into the less severe version without parent permission because it is not technically its own program it was considered a class that some students had along with their regular level Classes, so was tecnically just a normal class.
Also about that story's mother, she insists her child is fine when her child has an obvious to the instructor Developmental Disability that requires a SPED class for proper attention of and on the child, since that child couldn't even care for themselves. That mom just treated their kid like they were neurotypical rather than what the reality everyone else was experiencing was. I don't know how to describe that story's mother, probably delusional thinking a child with no speech skills can be in classes that probably have something that requires actual speech.
In my "Voluntary Super Senior" year I was a student TA for a SPED class being a mainstreamed SPED student myself. (The story behind that was that I did Project Graduation for the year I originally was supposed to walk with, but walk with the following year) The class I TA'd for was a combination of severe and less severe cases.
I wish there was a whole school specifically for higher functioning people just so I wouldn’t have gotten punished for behaviors I have no control over. The thing teachers should’ve done was just remove me from class just until I calmed down before being put back. I was removed often for most of the day if not for the whole day. Most of my behaviors were triggered by bullies or the sudden change in routine without warning. At least I had a reason unlike some who act up with no reason
Whatever teachers are getting paid, it isn't enough.
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Yeah not a lot
In WV they get paid next to nothing
Edit: actually next to nothing is better than what they’re paid
i remember talking to one of my elementary teachers years later while i was working at a craft store. turns out, after having to buy all her school supplies herself, some months she was basically losing money (ending up in the negatives after paying her rent and bills). my boss scolded me, but anything she came through i'd put my employee discount on her order.
You know what angers me more? Every time someone wants to have kids they almost never do or struggle to, but anybody who’s not even looking to have kids and just doesn’t even bother to think about it end up popping out triplets.
You need a licence to drive a car but yet people like this are allowed to have children?
see it would be kinda hard to regulate laws prohibiting people from having kids because some idiots might try to introduce eugenics into the laws. but yeah some parents don't deserve children
I would legit call the police, thats child abuse.
Which one?
@@ZombiBlender All of them....
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not the dad making his son return the stolen laptop
I’m a former choir girl. All we had to do was show up and make an effort. Also attend the concerts.
lucky
we always had to do work packets at the start of class but this is pretty accurate after that
What sucks is that I have actually had a teacher that has lied to my parents, causing me more trouble than I ever caused. Than my parents finally realized I guess because a few years later we were discussing it and they admitted that she was a piece of shit.
7:57 I love the last line. “We go back to class.”
Child absolutely goes mental and then dad threatens teacher. “Well then, children, back to revision, ignore the broken window, please.”
Stop allowing every single person to breed. Not every single person deserves to have a child. Except for the dad who made his son return the stolen laptop. He is worthy of fatherhood.
YES, THIS.
wow your so edgy
@James Big difference between restricting procreation and genocide.
Yessssssss
@James You need a license for driving a car. Why not one for being a parent as well? Why not prove that you have everything is takes to be a good parent? Oh? What was that? Too difficult? Too much work? You have a right to be a parent? How come you don't have a right to drive a car without a license then?
why would you leave your child cold
in that situation, you don't fully regard them as a being you should care for, protect or in general appreciate
These parents should thank their lucky stars that I'm not a teacher. Unfortunate accidents happen all the time, yeah?
We should assemble a army of people armed in medieval array and meet these bs parents
@@Kreschavier I would prefer something low key. Just hide in the shadows with foot steps, silent as death until it's time to strike then...give them a firm talking to before sending them to a time out where they can reflect on their poor decisions.
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ummmmmmmmmm who are you and WHAT? LOL (You are joking though, right?)
Sometimes you just get clumsy and fall down 3 flights of stairs.....
A previous teacher of mine went to teach in Saudi Arabia, I believe. If not there, it was somewhere similar and the equally nerve-wracking. I wish I knew what happened to him. Hope he's back home by now. I heard his wife divorced him before he left, separating him from her son, who he loved like his own. He's a chill, if odd guy, and I can't help but imagine him in the place of the teacher who was tortured in that answer.
Thanks for the nightmares I'll have tonight, Reddit.
i remembered that when i was in elementary school there was this girl who lived in very poor conditions. her parents wouldn't give her food for lunch. they also refused to give her money so that she could at least buy herself something to eat. one time i asked her why she didn't eat anything. she looked down to the floor embarassed and told me she don't have any food. i offered her a part of my lunch. she accepted it with a bright smile. at the time i didn't even realize that what i was doing was some kind of good act. i just wanted her to have something to eat as well. and i wanted her to have some food just like every other kid everyday. i even told my mother everyday that i needed more for lunch. not for me but for her. we ended up being friends and i was really sad when i went to high school but she wouldn't come with me. the last day on elementary also was the last day i saw her. and i somehow miss her and i wonder how she's doing right now. i hope she's fine.
so kind of you... I also hope she is doing well
I actually liked that goth kid in the story. Hope he's doing alright now.
Hey Sonia how’s gundham?
Hi Sonia!
I liked the kid but I don't like the mom
@@zedeadbug9995 I bet he's somewhere *pushing Nekomaru's buttons*
Sorry I had to say that
Hello Sonia I didn’t realize you were into this kind of stuff
You Know, You've got to have a license to drive car, own a dog, run a business, a certificate to practice medicine, be a lawyer, or teach a class. But anybody can be a parent, aint that some stuff. WTHF. There really is more than one meaning to the verse "Suffer not the little children to come unto me."
In my country you even need a certificate and permission in order to host a party for more than 20 people. Permission to have more than 4 dogs, but anyone can have as many kids as they want without a care.
@@aricarly It's to me, not a question as to how many, but it's one of the few(and I mean very few) areas where the gov./ngo should step in and require a skill evaluation test, though I can also see the potential for abuse by the entity. You don't say you can't, just help where knowledge is lacking.
@@montieluckett7036 Exactly that! I see so many unfit parents, and even if it's one child, those kids suffer a lot at the end. Yeah, I know most of us don't know how we will behave as parents, most parents make mistakes raising kids, but many people are clearly unfit to parent anyone and yet the government does nothing until the child end s up abused or worse.
You don't need a license to own a dog.
@@panzerkrieg3509 depends on the country.
I used to work for a headstart daycare program for 6 years in a scary part of town. The children was sweet (most od them). I will never forget this poor boy. His mother would dress him up nicely and he was a really sweet child. One day he did a complete 360. Not 180. We all thought he was just having an off day and brushed it aside. As the week passes he started to get violent. For no reason he took a wooden block and threw it across the room hitting a little girl. We tried to talk to his mother and she would denied and say her son was an angel.
Than the day came where he started to get physical violence with everyone. I had to held him down while the director called his mother to come get him. I had to hold him for 2 hrs and the mother yelled at me for holding her son. She took her took and called my boss accusing that I was harming her child and to fired me. But she was there when she saw him become violent to the child and I did it to protect him and the child. My boss told her she had a video on the event and will be happy to show her proof.
He never came back.
Full 360? You mean 180 because that doesn't make sense.
A 360 is to turn a full circle to end facing where you started, a 180 is to turn around and face directly the opposite way. I wonder what happened to him, I'm so sure that something happened, kids don't normally turn into monsters overnight. I suspect abuse of any kind, or a death in the family that stressed him badly. Poor little guy, if his mom wouldn't believe it, he probably didn't get help.
I know this is old, but did you find out what happened to him that caused him to turn violent?
Another story. I would watch what children is left at the end of the day and would have 3 bunders with the child's information and contact information. We are not allowed to give the child to anyone that is not in their contracts information file. Lol alot of the parents will send their friends to pick them up and they will not be on the binder. Plus I need proof of ID. I got cussed at, spit at, and threat at and I will still refused to let them take the child.
One dad I never met came to pick up his child. I asked him for his ID. He didn't have it on him. He asked his child who he is and the child will reply Daddy. "That is all the proof I needed." He told me. "Sorry sir. No ID, no child. My director will be more happy to explain."
"I been coming here to pick up my child and this fucking bitch is telling me I can't leave-" My director heard him yelling at me and came into the room and told him the same thing. He left quietly and the child's mother came in. I remember her being part of the list and seen her id before. She apologize for his behavior and will take to him.
Reason why we have this system is because random strangers will walk in. Pick a child and try to leave with them, claiming that they are their uncle or aunt.
Please don't give your child's caretaker a hard time because they want to protect your child.
My brother is a physicist and was contracted to go to Saudi to teach. He left after just a few weeks because no one in his class spoke English. One of his stories that I remember was on the way to class he passed a construction site where it was easier to bash holes in the concrete block for footholds than getting a ladder. Don't marry your cousins, people.
I loved a good portion of my charter school teachers but the local public school I went to had a lot of horrible teachers and one even bragged about having tenure (and she was one of the worst!)
I read the title as “I saw a monster steal a jacket from her kid in a blizzard” tbh it’s more fitting
15:28 could easily have just blocked that number or even contacted the phone service provider to block the number. If necessary changing her phone number is an option too. Easy solution or even mute the text measages
I genuinely started crying at the plain macaroni story.. The phrase “It’s not like that’ll notice.” is used very often when it comes to neglecting children with special needs.
We need to return to the teaching methods of the 80s. Parents are granted far too much power over teachers. If a teacher grades a child's work and you can't prove them wrong with cold logic then shut up, sit down and let the actual adults do their job. Yes, there have been problem teachers in the past. But there's gonna be about 100 times more problem parents.
Teachers have a ton of power. The limit on teachers causes them to have very little chance of being fired. The reason parents have power is that the teachers pretend they do. I have had teachers that have given about 5 grades for one quarter, didn't explain grading, think 3/4 was about 80, and so much more and they have never been reprimanded.
@@Lola-yu3nl yes teachers are overpowered (isthatevenaword). Parents nowadays can do nothing against them. But they pretend that the parents are the bad ones.
I think it's a case to case thing.
When my gf was going to school for ECE and Social Work, most of her peers were driven and interested and had some sort of personal connection to spur the decision to go into social work.
A few just "loved kids" not having a clue what they have gotten themselves into, it's not just playing with kids on their recess, it's diaper changing and interacting with parents, on the social work side you are gonna see and hear some things most people don't want to, you may be forced to make some really difficult decisions in your day to day.
So yeah there were a few peers who just "loved kids" until they realized the workload and dropped out, or they stayed and grinded their way through to a diploma because "I can get a job with the school board and I'll be set for life" and it's kind of true, it's hard to get fired from the school board. So it's mostly passionate, driven people who become teachers but there are definitely lazy fuckin jobbers in the industry
Yes, we do need to break out the yardstick again (or ruler, i don’t give a frick)
Don't agree with that, teachers can take advantage of that too. One shouldn't have too much power over the other. It's too dangerous.
I’m fearing for the futures of a lot of these kids.
The dad who made his kid get the stolen school laptop back, that's parenting done right!
Except for the part where he made him confront probably criminals
Kinda but not really
@@JaelinBezel he probably confronted him when he sold it
@@JaelinBezel Yeah, it's the only story in this compilation that I question whether it's true or not.
My little sister is studying to be a preschool/kindergarden (idk which atm) teacher. Pray for her.
are you guys in the USA?
I hope she's in Pennsylvania because they have pretty good pay their.
Lola Aronvitz tho PA’s a pretty shitty place either way I’ve been there a lot of times 🤷🏾♀️
Prayers!
not many ppl will appreciate her enough so i’m here to say that i will appreciate her and all other kindergarten teachers
I used to work for Starbucks kiosk in a supermarket. My manager ordered too many cake pops (more than we could sell before they went bad) so we had a free sample day. Kids love the cake pops. We'd specifically offer it to parents with kids passing by (think like Costco or Sam's Club sample offers lol) and ask what flavor the kid wanted.
One mom with a kid came by and we offered for him to pick which cake pop he wanted. He reached for the chocolate one but his mom batted his hand aside and said "you want the birthday cake one." I handed the birthday cake one to him and he said softly "thank you." I watched them walk away and not even a dozen yards away the mom snatched it from his hands and ate it in 2 bites.
I would have given him the chocolate and her the birthday cake I'd she just asked 😕 but I guess she would have taken both, seeing as she scarfed down the one so quickly.
The only reason ignorance is not a crime is that there are not enough prisons to hold all those people...
Obligatory not me but my aunt used to be an art teacher at a local high school from the mid 80's until 2012. She said there were multiple students over the years who she would pick up and take home from school (rural area, so long walks) because the parents were drug addicts/alcoholics and didn't care if they made it to school or not. She also took in a kid because his mom picked up and moved away while he was at school... He was homeless for about a month when she found out. He wasn't eating or cleaning himself and when she asked why that's what he told her.
At first I was like how dare you judge this kid and his parents for having macaroni and cheese everyday then I realized macaroni with nothing on it doesn't mean macaroni and cheese without pepper or macaroni and cheese without ketchup then I felt sad
what?
So did I 😓😢
So it was just cooked macaroni? With nothing else but that?
When I hear macaroni I just assumed macaroni and cheese so when they say macaroni with nothing on it I think macaroni and cheese without seasoning and then I realized they actually just meant plane ass macaroni you know plane little elbow noodles
@@lolster239 yeah that's what I eventually took from that
I can’t stand parents who jump their children from school to school to school for whatever reason, it screws with the kid so bad and later on the brain dead parent can’t figure out why their kid is a loner struggling with depression and poor grades (it’s because they’re expecting to be transferred at some point, so no point in investments of energy in schoolwork or making friends).
Parenting: possibly the most important job in the human race
No qualifications or previous experience required, no training needed, little accountability or oversight, no limit to positions available
That first story was sad. I hope that teacher was able to help that kid out more.
I had once gone to the bathroom during lunch time in middle school. In come my two friends, coincidentally we all had on black sweaters that day, we began to chat while we are all pissing. We get done wash our hands and in comes someone. We got scared so I got into a stall, there were three, I thought my friends were going to run to the other two but decided to join me in the handicap one. Well the person that came in was a teacher, and he heard us breathing in there, finished his business and told us "you boys come out now, I caught you red handed." We all get serious and walk out and say " we got scared and we ran into there we were doing--" he cuts us off and says: drugs? Oh I can tell you boys look suspicious wearing all the black, and well your faces don't really help. We looked at each other and my friend said "what do you mean, we all are honor roll students, why would we do drugs?" He replied quickly with: you guys are always suspicious walking around in a large group. I got pissed and said "oh so you're saying cuz we are mexicans, wearing black, with tired faces, you think we were doing drugs in here? Well look" and I pulled my pockets inside out and my friends followed they both had only pencils anda pen in their pockets. The teacher now sitting there about to shit himself in the bathroom mustards up the most audacious claim: oh so you guys flushed it before coming in here? We all laughed in his faced called him a dirty pathetic man in spanish and walked out, he told the principal that we smoked weed in there so the principal goes in to the bathroom and doesn't even find the tiniest smell and believed the teacher was lying, we were about to get off the hook with no fouls on any sides of the field but I couldn't get past his bullshit so I told her in the middle of the hall full of kids: ya mister holmes thought we three mexicans, los tres amigos were doing drugs because we had black on. Teacher got into big problems and proceeded to ignore us until graduation when he said: nice job guys you made it. We flipped him off and went about our graduation and never saw that teacher again
teachers who stalk the bathrooms trying to catch kids smoking or doing drugs or whatever are so fucking annoying
Who gets scared because someone else walks in the bathroom? Scared enough to HIDE? What am I missing or not understanding about this? Bullied kid possibly if alone, but three guys not random classmates but sweater-matched like cheerleaders goung to the men’s room together (also like cheerleaders) seems unlikely for the purpose of just urinating, but even with benefit of doubt in keeping with the cheerleader theme becoming spooked when the door opens isn’t the normal individual reaction of someone just urinating... so to be a unanimous reaction LOL bitch please - - and not just spooked enough to hide, but in the SAME STALL? High school BOYS? Mija tú y tús cholas son mentirosas han fumando la mota o el meco.
2:22 It's always heartbreaking to see a parent use their child's disability as an excuse to be negligent. The kids aren't brain dead, they just need some extra help that the parents refuse to give.
You would think that a child with disabilities would motivate the parents to work harder, not less
My Mum was an elementary school math specialist and taught 1st -5th graders throughout the day. One day, a 4th grade kid with some emotional issues just loses her shit for seemingly no reason. Violently flipping over desks, destroying the contents, hurling thermoses, books, whatever around the classroom. It took three adults to restrain her. The eerie thing was, the kid was dead-silent the entire time. No screams, no words, just this focused, silent destruction.
There was one 1st grade boy, D--, who was dyslexic (among other things), and it was an IEP classroom. We helped him as much as we could, but it was clear he needed more help. His mom was actually a Special Ed teacher, and she insisted that he doesn't need to be in a Special Ed classroom; we just aren't doing everything we can. Besides, she doesn't want him to have the stigma of being Special Ed.
Dumbest thing ever 😤 I'm not a parent, but if my kid needs help and may not be capable of the same things other kids can do, you bet your butt I will make sure they get the help they need and I'll be happy with what they ARE capable of doing.
There are glasses designed to help some dyslexics. Not sure if they help everyone, but worth a shot
I really hope the little goth boy is ok. I’m a goth girl myself, and it would be amazing to meet him and maybe be friends
When my mom was a new teacher she taught middle school math. One of her students who was smart enough to have almost no problems in her class was getting low grades. My mom asked him why he wasn't doing his work and he said that there was no point because his family was in gangs and he would probably be dead before 18.
We are Never ever ever, going to Saudi Arabia
Now I know why my mom never went for Hajj lol
that one about the goth kid being withdrawn by his own mother because apparantly she didn't like him enjoying it? that one was the worst. oh, and the last one was just icing on the cake (for all the wrong reasons)
13:00 my mom is a preschool teacher and she gets kids from ages 3-4. She's even got some 2 year olds if there was an older sibling attending. Trust me, that's not a 3 year old brain, they can talk and walk and do whatever.
I'm a childcare preschool teacher. I can relate. The parents of demon spawn are ALWAYS the last to realize it.
15:37 This teacher should have sued the parent for harassment.
my classmate lived in poverty. they had one room in the house and there there was only 4 beds on each side. after my teacher found out, she started buying him food with her money and gave it to him to take home. the teacher told me that the kid barely got anything of the food because his mom would eat it all and him and his brother would be left to starve. after the teacher asked the mother about it, she replies "well i work harder. i have to plant carrots and he just needs to sit in school and remember things so i deserve it". then the teacher came up with a plan. the kid already had to walk home by himself so she brought more food and she told him to eat it on the way home so his mom doesnt eat it. him and his brother shared the food on the way home. well mom never found out
I had a mother once that accused me of flunking her son because he refused to sleep with me. He was failing because he never showed up and/or did any assignments. If he did turn anything in, it never matched the assignment for his class. (I change assignments for each class to prevent cheating.). He stole them from kids in my other classes, and one report that he turned in was the straw that broke the camel's back. I gave him a zero and his mom kicked the door to my classroom open and stomped inside, yelling at me. "He couldn't have cheated on any of his assignments or homework. I know because I do it for him!" she screamed. I just facepalmed. We had been recording some notes on the final with a cassette recorder, and it caught the whole confession. Did I mention that it was Junior year biology and because of his grades in my class, he was in danger of losing a number of scholarships?
Public school is the only thing some kids have to get a fair shake in American society.
Alot of these stories of how parents responded to teachers are just crazy. The only thing though that is more disturbing is some of the comment/s read in this RUclips video, where commenter/s overlooked the neglect-abuse the child's enduring day in and day out and focused on "poor teacher." Or the person complaining about the mentally handicapped student and then the the comments read after that were in agreement. It was disturbing.
As a whole, from listening to this, I think it must be very frustrating and sad for the teachers that pickup on the abuse and neglect the children are subject to by their own parents, and even if reports are made to social services for the child's wellfair, there are technicalities that prevent the intervention the children need, such removal from those unhealthy homes and parents.
I also think that children with Ipads since toddler age usually become the worst kids. They will throw a fit if they are without their Ipad and literally kick and punch other people, including their own parents. Then the parents just give it to them to shut them up and the little brat will play a toy opening video or Baby Shark on max volume in public transportation while the parents just ignore them. Yeah, I think I can understand why these children rely more on their gadgets than their parents since they just do the bare minimum of just taking care of them but not raising them. Even if they grow out of being too reliant on gadgets, I highly doubt they would have a strong bond with their parents, like since the beginning, just the bare minimum.
26:55 sadly 1.5 billion people have to go some time.
I'm pretty sure that mom is harassing that one teacher and its very possible to have harassment charges pressed on her.
They should do one in reverse with nightmare teachers. Lazy, abusive, who don't give a damn about kids and are only in it for a paycheck.
I've had a teacher get fired for no credentials, most of us were glad, she tried to turn some of the kids against me and others. Another in Junior High everyday said she hated this job and would quit if someone gave her $5000, someone must she didn't show up one day and we substitutes for quite awhile.
10:05 I genuinely don't know what I would do. How the hell do you prepare a teacher for someone that vehemently awful to be parents?
If you are teaching in The Mos Eisley of SA -- then YOUR job is to go to class everyday as Boba Fett and hand it right back.
poor kids don't stand a chance with parents like that. Poor teachers should get treated with respect and backed up by their superiors!
if it makes anyone feel any better (sorta) there was this kid in my high school class who berated the math teacher so much she would cry at her desk. Everyone loved her for being down to earth and tough loving. From what I heard from others, the teacher went through a conference with the kids dad that left her in tears and some seniors were finding out. In high school, if you had enough credits, you could have a free period, so some students would come in during their free period for the kid and would sit in the very back row staring at him. And no, they weren't average seniors either, they were these big bulky dudes who looked like they were in a gang. The kid tried to berate the teacher again but those guys got up so fast their chairs slammed against the wall and their desks would scoot. That kid remained quiet in his seat during class and those guys would even stay after class for a bit until the kid left to make sure he didn't try anything. It was scary to say the least, but watching these big dudes defend their rather small teacher like bodyguards was something good to see.
I do not know why someone would subject themselves to parents and their demon children. They don't get paid enough for what they do.
Brandi H you act like things that stop people
Now I feel bad that I somewhat disliked school
Well i disliked school cuz i was bullied for 11 years and i just hatet my Classmates.
32:10 Being in AA is nothing to be ashamed of, but I don't think it's anything to be PROUD of, either! 😂
On that unstable kid story I would have immediately try to stop the kid. These teachers need to be paid more
My gf is a preschool teacher, and special needs parents are either unsung heroes and amazing human beings, or they are fucking monsters. There doesn't seem to be a middle ground, and most special needs parents fall into that first category, but there are some terrible people out there
I wonder if any of these teachers ever just looked at each other and asked, “Should we call CPS?”
2:32 i feel so bad for that child, his parents are probably treating him like a pet
Omg way too many. Think the worst is either the mum of a boy who was my worst behaved student so far, who got really bitchy with me when I wanted to talk to her about her son; or the alcoholic who showed up to a teacher/parent meeting at lunchtime stinking of alcohol then almost pushed his kid down the stairs, we had to call social services on him because the kid admitted his dad had beat him before.
My mom works as a secretary at a public school in my city, so I know a lot of bad parenting stories. Always the goal of this parents are receiving something, almost always money (normally from government), so when they achieve it, the child become a way of having income. They don't want to be bothered bc they aren't important, "school has the obligation to raise them" in this parents minds.
And when it fails, usually when the child is an attempt of keeping a partner, they become a burden.
In my situation I'm one of the onlooking students, I'm in 7th grade and this story takes place during math. We where litsening to the teacher when suddenly another screen flashed but my teacher was still talking so it went back to her. I remember my teacher asking who's screen just flashed and I was the only one to pipe up, "mrs.w it was jj." She then proceeded to kick him out. He's in every single one of my classes so I recognized his behavior and the picture on his screen. For clarification he called her a wrinkly old peach.
I wanna be a teacher when I get out of school. I know I'm gonna have to deal with this BS. I'm preparing physically and mentally for that day to come.
Marry or live with a rich person unless u live in a mobile style home
Not a teacher, but I remember being that kid who would correct my teachers when they were wrong, 9/10 that meant I was going to get in trouble.
1/10 The teacher was surprised and happy, those teachers who teach for the joy of seeing kids learn are rare. I miss going to classes and being around others with a love for learning and teachers who lived to teach.
And people wonder why there are fewer people wanting to be teachers.
I wish breeding licenses wouldn’t be so hard to enforce.
The one towards the end with the lawyers ... that was a quote from Criminal Minds - Hotch, specifically - and that was a pretty funny scene.
Has anyone considered that malnutrition is a major contributor to developmental delay?
Honestly, I'm concerned with how some of the school administration just doesn't protect or take care of their teachers...
Some parents seem to expect the school to raise their children.
I think some people should not be able to have kids. Some people have kids just because they get extra money every year And others just can't afford it as well as people who have kids to leach off them.
I went through band being completly lost most of the time and got a 100% all year because I could pull it all of alone it is really easy to pass.
My sister once tried to have her daughter have some X-rays on her right hand, because she pricked a finger with a splinter at school.
I’m not making this up it really happened.
Hearing these stories, glad my mom is normal
10:43 Honestly the parents are the ones that have to influence their child. This may not always be the case because sometimes parents try their best and the kid still doesnt listen. However parents have to teach and influence their child, and the way the child ends up is because of their parents. The parents affect the child. Not vise versa
I have to assume that there was a comment in this thread about some parent claiming the wind made their child hit the teacher? I have to assume because you just gave us the reply about math and not the actual incident.
For some reason.
The first story is so f*cked up man. I can't even wrap my mind around it. I just, I couldn't imagine being so selfish. Thrift and second hand stores exist, but you're so much of a lazy and awful excuse of a human being that you let your kid walk to school cold? Leaving them susceptible to pneumonia and all kinds of other related conditions?? Something about this first story made me snap
because of course the teachers have undeniable evidence of all problems with the world coming from parents who aren`t strict enough and not from anything else that might be happening
Why does the 7:01 thread sound like my class? Like seriously, I had a teacher in my freshman year that used to play jeopardy in preparation for a test and gave candy to the winner. I also knew a really unstable kid in my fifth grade. I realized he was unstable and I realized after fifth grade that I might have put myself in danger by making friends with him because he literally threw chairs around the room and bit someone. I go on through the years avoiding him, but now hearing this thread makes me think about if this actually happened in my school and it very well might have.
Imagine not believing 2 major wars that changed the world forever
Lol I was in marching band in high school and after 3 years this dude only had 6 credits all from band (you get 1 credit every semester and there was 2 semesters a school year)
9:56 tf?! THE CIVIL WAR HAPPENED 🤣🤣🤣🤣
32:27,I agree,unless if the boy was specifically like a bully to the bday kid,I don't really get the reasoning
I’m going to be honest. I feel so bad for my high school vice principle and principle. They had to deal with my mom who overreacted to everything. Good luck to my old school.
My story wasn’t with a parent but the student. Over the course of my elementary school years this kid tried to break my best friends arm, tried to break my knee (kicked my kneecap), attacked my 4th grade teacher by throwing a recycling bin at him (best teacher I’ve ever had), told his grade six teacher to kill herself and threw a desk at her and then flipped the trash can and walked himself to the principals office, he also had a history of using running shoes and boots as weapons
I don't know who this "Geezus" fellow is, but someone should tell him to stop making patents think he turns kids perfect.
7:01 Nothing says great parenting like the little boy acting like his father when he doesn't get what he wants. -_-
4:40 - 5:05 Mr. Mattson, is that you? 🥵😳😟
Teachers are treated quite well here In India! not saying its the best but not this bad I hope teachers live the best lives possible X
I would like to take a moment to say thanks for not putting adds on these videos.
22:09 I was scared that this was my own mother, because I was, and still am, extremely picky when it comes to food, to the point where my mom had to make me different dinner, though she made an effort to still keep me healthy. I’ve never eaten cup noodles, so I’m cool then, mom isn’t a villain in an r/askreddit thread, as far as I know.