@@DawnMartinOfficial 100%. He brought a situation onto the show that was way too complex to be handled there. Where were the parents held accountable for f'ing their little girl up emotionally? Just the start.
I feel like with all the lies the young guy said it's fair to believe that it is just simply another lie. I don't believe the father abused her but we don't really know. What I do know is the young guy has no credibility so I think that's why they didn't address it.
That boyfriend is abusive, but something about that father makes me think he isn't all sweet either. But I want to hear what the has to say. Without all this he said she said stuff.
Nothing wrong with the father. Daughter though. Is a just a modern independent women with mental instability. Hence the obvious poor choice in partner.
So I wouldn't trust what the daughter is telling the BF during instance when the BF is literally abusing her and she'll say or do anything to get back into the honeymoon phase.....duuuhhh
@NiggaUBlack are you insane? That man doesn’t have a racist bone in his body! But what he actually is, he’s a father who had to listen to what the pos punk did to his daughter, including rape. He’s also a very controlled, lethal fighting soldier who will one day see that boy. Alone in an alley
Soft tone? He knows how to control his emotions thats different. Anyone else would be screaming at the guy that assaulted her. The father can end his life in a second.
He probably is. But the way you think. He’s a Father who’s facing the individual who is abusing his child. His discipline is amazing. Dr. Phil gave that young man some good advice. Literally, he should be careful and walk softly. He’s probably too immature to fully grasp that bit of advice.
@@AK-lg6ju You realise this man has been abusing his daughter for years? Maybe he should think about why his daughter believes that it’s a display of love if a man hurts you physically, and his role in that. She escaped one abuser only to run into the arms of another.
@@ScoobyDoozy well little scooby if you’re believing the pos who beat and raped her then sat on a stage with all of his intelligence and admitted it.....you two could be related
The father has ptsd & might have diciplined his spoiled idiot of daughter. But not to the lever that this scumbag stranger "BF" did. You can't compare a fathers dicipline to some stranger who isnt your blood assaulting your daughter.
The level of disrespect in this kid is out of this world, I wouldn’t talk to my girl’s parents like this idiot…. He wasn’t raised, be was planted 🤦🏽♂️
Lol 😂😂😂😂🤣I laughed too. Find it funny coz he said “sir” at the end. After saying what he said the “sir” is useless 😂🤣😂😂Don’t tell me that you don’t respect me, then call me sir 😂🤣😂
If Dr. Phil adresses you with a sentence that starts with "I would be very very carefull if I were you". You better start becoming carefull in a split second.
Shes addicted to this relationship. Its common with abusive relationships, he can be nice too and she chases that high. But then he abuses her again. She should get away from him
I've seen eyes like this kid when i was growing up. he was a best friend of mine. I moved about a year after knowing him. Hes been in prison 5 times and is now serving 20 years.
Woman who choose an abusive partner have low self esteem. It's possible that her father was abusive towards her or her mother. The mother did not deny it.
the father of this girl is one of the most amazing and honest people I´ve seen on this show, God bless him for his existence and example of a good father, caring and racional human being!
@@thisishiphop1990 yeah it does mean he can’t be racist. Why would he be friends with his so called brother who’s black if he’s racist? Why would he be sad that his brother died if hes racist?
She needs to leave him, the fact that she keeps going back says a lot about her too. She seems to have disliked her parents underneath a pretense and ran to someone she thought would save her but instead brings out the worst in her.
It says that she's addicted to the chase to fix him, that's what happens with narcissists, they make themselves the victim and so the real victim tries to help, this is one of the things that keeps women (and men) in abusive relationships.
I kinda believe him, that the father was abusive too. He gives me huuge psycho vibes. No excuse for the boyfriend for sure, but I think dr phil should have digged more into that too instead of completly ignore it
Is it just me or does the bf emit hardcore sociopath and/or narcissist vibes?! Can I also add that the dad's voice is so calming. I commend him for keeping his cool the whole time!
Yes, it’s just you. There’s two physical abusers in this video, and one of them is a narcissist. It’s not the boyfriend. Who gave the grand, self-serving speech about laying their life down for their country? Who actually told a black man that they have no right to complain to them, the white man, about racism because they are the ones who have (supposedly) a dead black best friend? Who pretended to start crying about their token dead black best friend on stage to deflect from the fact that they got called out for also being a physical abuser, without thinking for one minute 1. How the giddy Aunt it was even related and 2. If their friends loved ones would really love for this mans memory to be used on a reality TV show to tell a black man he, the white man, is actually the victim of racism? Who is the man who pretended to weep on command and put on a great theatrical performance? Who is the man who was posturing and filibustering, “I’m sorry Dr Phil, did he just use the race card? Yes, I thought so” before performing their Oscar monologue? Who successfully used everyone in the immediate vicinity- the audience (I fought for them!) Dr Phil (who was happy to oblige), his wife (my wife will tell you that…), black people and women, dead best friend, US army, to come out looking like the hero, deflect all blame, make it all about himself, and take the focus away from the person he claims to be there for- his daughter? Your comment is further proof that everyone using narcissist as a buzz word these days actually has no idea what it is.
"calming" literally only because hes placing his words extremely carefully. Why else would the girlfriend keep turning to the boyfriend? Father 100% abuses her at home, its pretty blatant
It's wonderful to observe how an agrument being breaking down to meaning from Dr.Phil. You see the individuals' motive and how they act to represent/control the others
Omg yes. These people in these younger generations use this accusation when they have nothing else to say. It's pathetic, and the words "racist" and "racism" now mean nothing.
He verbally abuses his daughter too. Guilty conscience… anyone in the military like law enforcement are sailors…. Profanity is all they know in front of their peers.
@@gabrielaserranorealtor3813 I was in the military for 7 1/2 years. I never swore while in uniform nor while at home! I was a line medic who deployed with Scouts to Iraq. I still don’t swear.
He probably is to a degree, but he has ptsd from war I can see it...its still not the same thing if your family fights with you, it doesnt give the random BF whos a stranger & not related a right to put his hands on her. If your father smacks u in the face it doesnt give a random guy the right to hit you 😆
Being in a relationship with someone that toxic it changes you changes your personality it turns you into the same monster you’ve been afraid of after being trapped with someone so horrible for so long it stunts you into someone you don’t even recognize and it makes you lose your mind
It doent really matter. Thats like saying if you get into a fight with your family member it gives me a complete stranger the right to assault your family member also 😆..it makes no sense.
@@dl5014 incorrect. It matters because the father is looking for a scapegoat. If he wasn't abusive in the first place, his daughter wouldn't be running into the arms of another abuser. Think.
What if the daughter tried to get his sympathy and said all of those lies about her father but didn't know that he has no sympathy in the first place, so it backfired lol
He could hire some friends to make that kid suffer for real if he really was a life long military vet. The BF is to cocky to understand what could happen to him, he better catch a plane out of the U.S. if hes smart lol
I mean both are to taken into case The bf is a jerk who acts cool Father is a serious guy who also pretends to be a dutiful father. I mean if i had a daughter and this would have been the case and i was the father and know that her bf has abused her first i wouldn't have taken it to international tv.
Wtf does it matter tbh?..he probably isnt racist, he probably didnt care his daughter was dating a black kid until he started assaulting her. Is that not understandable. I can't stand blk ppl constantly bullshiting about racism all the time Stfu already. Most white people in america genuinely arent racist. This isnt 150 years ago, the majority doesnt care about skin color..Honestly I believe the father I dont think he cares about race judging that his best friend was black 😆
well, I dont want to sound Im being smart, but this is exactly the kind of attention a person like this dude wants. he's enjoying the attention that's given to him, he's feeling like he's somebody here. you can a sense of triumph on his face the whole time he's talking to the victims parents. he thinks he's in control of this situation, and that's what feeds his ego. to drag down his ego, you gotta tell him how nothing and trifling he actually is, not how wrong his deeds were.
The problem is the BF is too young & naive to understand who hes dealing with in the father & what can actually happen to him as a result of his arrogance. The cops can't protect him or his family, if the father desides to hire some ex military or cia friends to low key snatch him up & torture him to death...and to be honest with narcissistic psychos like this they deserve that. Because if they dont get locked away for life or killed they never change & they live out theyre lives like cowardly predators targeting the few good natured ppl in this world,
Both trying to take the moral high ground - one playing the race card when it’s not about race and one justifying defending the constitution and rights of ppl by invading another country
Both are incredibly stupid. How awesome is it becoming a warmonger and why did audience start clapping at that story lol. Like the qualifies for him not being racist
The Father is so full of it, He's a Con, and very Racists, like He says ... He's Very Well Trained, He's Passive Agressive, the Ex may be who He is, but the Father isn't so innocent either! She's the way that She is because She learned it from Somewere! 🤷
I think the parents and the boyfriend both have issues. The mom seems to be her husbands slave and just listens to whatever he says, the husband seems ignorant and gives off trump supporter vibes, I’m surprised he didn’t jump and punch the boyfriend. And the boyfriend is an abuser and crazy and rude and doesn’t care
I could believe the father's racist. Watch his facial and body language when the boyfriend said the daughter claims he's racist and abusive. Usually the parent's are and Dr Phil knows that why he hurried up and moved on to saying something different.
Nothing is gonna happen on the set. There’s mad security around and way too much liability if anyone in the audience gets injured from a fight that breaks out
In other words, Dr. Phil was warning that idiot that you might want to tighten up around that father. He might be willing to snap, especially given his history. He's no joke.
God I know so many jerks like her boyfriend and the worst thing is this is exactly the type of guy all the women want. His level of narcissism will eventually get him killed or put in prison.
i train and study day and night to get in the forces, just to bring out the best in me. I totally understand what her father is going through but how she can't get that, no one can love and support you more than your parents.
I am 👨🏾, and fellas like this kid. I don’t know the truth but I do know this, when you play stupid games you win stupid prizes, and to play the race card in a situation where your words and actions have led you there is HURTING US! If this father wasn’t one now he probably is a racist and can I blame him? NO!
@@Bluebird-fd9rtHey weirdo, listen: The boyfriend CLAIMS the father is abusive because the boyfriend is trying to evade responsibility. I don’t care that you racially identify with the boyfriend, or that you hate women. There is no evidence that the father is abusive. Are you anti-white, is that it?
Well- just think about it, let's say that it's true that the father abused her, and she told her bf about it, why does he make her went trough all around it again? His further explanation about it is like- 'Since she's been abused by her father all the time, it seems like another day for her to be abused by me, so im not wrong.' The logic
Don't blame the boyfriend because your daughter has changed. She's an adult so stop babying her. She's responsible for her own actions. Probably doing dope honestly. Granted, the BF isn't a Saint, but you can't blame him for her change
Wait ! So you think a father should accept watching his daughter being physically and sexually abused and stay silent ! And not care about her and about taking her out of this toxic situation ?
The thing is that if the father would just recorded the calls where the daughter said : Omg now he pushed me the stairs down and now he slapped me and kicked me and he raped me on the end, and the father would make a report than the little boy would end up in prison for very long time. But I have to also say 2 things. 1. I have big respect for her father even I don’t know him. Bc one can see that he have a big heart full of love for everyone he knows. 2. I don’t feel bad for the daughter at all !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Bc I don’t like when women say : Yes he beat me and he also raped me and I was almost death once bc he choked me, But I LOVE HIM !!!!!!! So I STAY WITH HIM !!!! I mean there are women they were locked up and they couldn’t leave. And for those I feel very bad !!!! But I a woman stay with a guy like that, even she knows what he done to her ?? Than I don’t feel bad !!
And even with what the Father said, it still doesn’t take away from the fact that, he lays his hands on his own daughter. So he can get off of his high horse and shut his freakin mouth. The patents are criticizing their daughter did dating him but that has happened for the fact that her parents have placed their hands on her. PERIOD. FACT End of Story. .
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you know Phil’s serious when he says “I’ve been doing this for 45 years”
You'd be surprised..."expertise & experience" is worthless if not properly implemented!
@@DawnMartinOfficial exactly.
dr phil , who see through this ego guy ,
@@DawnMartinOfficial 100%. He brought a situation onto the show that was way too complex to be handled there. Where were the parents held accountable for f'ing their little girl up emotionally? Just the start.
I like how Dr. Phil was looking down when he said it 🤣😭🤣
But no one is even holding the father accountable
Probably because dr Phil knew it would go nowhere. And because the show is not about the father. But yes it would be nice to see him admit truth
Why would they. Hes correct.
I feel like with all the lies the young guy said it's fair to believe that it is just simply another lie. I don't believe the father abused her but we don't really know. What I do know is the young guy has no credibility so I think that's why they didn't address it.
Dr Phil can be shady and choose one side
Or the mom
He's like a cross breed of Austin Mcbroom an NLE choppa
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol
Yesss definitely 😭😭
frr
Lmao
The level of restraint that this father has is out of the world. I really can't imagine myself in this situation.
That boyfriend is abusive, but something about that father makes me think he isn't all sweet either. But I want to hear what the has to say. Without all this he said she said stuff.
Nothing wrong with the father.
Daughter though. Is a just a modern independent women with mental instability. Hence the obvious poor choice in partner.
So I wouldn't trust what the daughter is telling the BF during instance when the BF is literally abusing her and she'll say or do anything to get back into the honeymoon phase.....duuuhhh
Phil aint blind, he can see the father is no angel.
Yeah then threatens him to shut him up "I'd be very very careful "
l am father and love my family , anyone harm my family well tiger are hunter u down ,
Facts
@@misssyasmin4577 father is father , but he harm his daugther , well not law not bull heart can stop him , he is real man , take down bell of beast ,
dr phil is man , know how deal psacy person , the boyfriend play stupid game ,he pay high price ,
Nobody denied the allegations abuse by the father. Why is it a non factor.
Exactly its like they didnt even want to address it. Like its ok because he is her father
I believe it’s because it’s not about the father. Ultimately it’s about the boyfriend..
@ you’re not avoiding it but I believe when it comes time to talk about the fathers abuse, it’ll happen. But right now it’s about the boyfriend :/
@NiggaUBlack are you insane? That man doesn’t have a racist bone in his body! But what he actually is, he’s a father who had to listen to what the pos punk did to his daughter, including rape. He’s also a very controlled, lethal fighting soldier who will one day see that boy. Alone in an alley
@NiggaUBlack race and property? Wtf is wrong with you? I have a feeling you’re just like this punk
That soft tone aint fooling nobody, pops is a handful also.
Soft tone? He knows how to control his emotions thats different. Anyone else would be screaming at the guy that assaulted her. The father can end his life in a second.
What are you chatting about? The man has been through enough to learn how to control his anger and emotions, he’d end you in seconds kid
He probably is. But the way you think. He’s a Father who’s facing the individual who is abusing his child. His discipline is amazing. Dr. Phil gave that young man some good advice. Literally, he should be careful and walk softly. He’s probably too immature to fully grasp that bit of advice.
Idk, but there is something really spooky about the father.
Very manipulative and has the audience wrapped around his finger
You people have no clue , he listened to his daughters rapist and abuser describe what he did while smiling. That boy is lucky to be alive
@@AK-lg6ju You realise this man has been abusing his daughter for years? Maybe he should think about why his daughter believes that it’s a display of love if a man hurts you physically, and his role in that. She escaped one abuser only to run into the arms of another.
@@ScoobyDoozy well little scooby if you’re believing the pos who beat and raped her then sat on a stage with all of his intelligence and admitted it.....you two could be related
The father has ptsd & might have diciplined his spoiled idiot of daughter. But not to the lever that this scumbag stranger "BF" did. You can't compare a fathers dicipline to some stranger who isnt your blood assaulting your daughter.
The level of disrespect in this kid is out of this world, I wouldn’t talk to my girl’s parents like this idiot…. He wasn’t raised, be was planted 🤦🏽♂️
No doubt he doesn’t have a father
@@MajinBradPrime2 if the boy doesn't find the father in the home he will find the father in the streets.- Denzel Washington
@@pethrosuriahson6156 🤣🤣🤣
When he said I don’t respect you sir to the father some people in the background started laughing even me !😂🤚🏼
Lol 😂😂😂😂🤣I laughed too. Find it funny coz he said “sir” at the end. After saying what he said the “sir” is useless 😂🤣😂😂Don’t tell me that you don’t respect me, then call me sir 😂🤣😂
LOOOOOL
LOOOOOL
because he is used to addressing people that way, sir ma'am it doesn't mean he has loving feelings to the recipient
He probably wants to say you black bastard lol and i dont know why but home boy giving me DL vibes
If Dr. Phil adresses you with a sentence that starts with "I would be very very carefull if I were you". You better start becoming carefull in a split second.
I felt like their was a slight bit of racism in that sentence I’m ngl
Dr Phil is a joke
@@nonocost9517 right. certified goon.
Shes addicted to this relationship. Its common with abusive relationships, he can be nice too and she chases that high. But then he abuses her again. She should get away from him
No he should get away from her 🤣🤣🤦🏽♂️
@@torontoson6954 Why is this funny pal? This is serious.
@@abdullahabdilaahi3872 this whole situation is pretty funny
@@elmacuelmo6434 Why?
I've seen eyes like this kid when i was growing up. he was a best friend of mine. I moved about a year after knowing him. Hes been in prison 5 times and is now serving 20 years.
This guy is not in jail rn
Woman who choose an abusive partner have low self esteem. It's possible that her father was abusive towards her or her mother. The mother did not deny it.
How many children have you raised. Possibly!!??
Exactly
@@bryanpinto5819 I agree with xandra, and I have raised 2. Now 30 and 25
@@bryanpinto5819 I've been in that situation too, many people have. Don't question it.
@@bryanpinto5819 A person who grows up without self-esteem has not been raised.
the father of this girl is one of the most amazing and honest people I´ve seen on this show, God bless him for his existence and example of a good father, caring and racional human being!
Then you fall right into manipulation too. It's clear the father has his own set of issues as well. Don't be so quick to take sides.
@@sheepytimeb58 totally agree with you
@@sheepytimeb58 louder for the ppl in the back
@@ahmedkaryouti4266 What issues do you think his father may have then?
He seems like a phony
That Father Just ended his life with that speech story👑👑💯💯
Still doesn't mean he can't be racist 🤦🏾♂️
@@thisishiphop1990 yeah it does mean he can’t be racist. Why would he be friends with his so called brother who’s black if he’s racist? Why would he be sad that his brother died if hes racist?
@@thisishiphop1990 seriously dude?
This father is calculating...he's going to finish off this fool
Wow ! This father is no walkover
She needs to leave him, the fact that she keeps going back says a lot about her too. She seems to have disliked her parents underneath a pretense and ran to someone she thought would save her but instead brings out the worst in her.
It says that she's addicted to the chase to fix him, that's what happens with narcissists, they make themselves the victim and so the real victim tries to help, this is one of the things that keeps women (and men) in abusive relationships.
I kinda believe him, that the father was abusive too. He gives me huuge psycho vibes. No excuse for the boyfriend for sure, but I think dr phil should have digged more into that too instead of completly ignore it
lmao
No cap
@Candi Lease An act. Huge manipulator.
@@sheepytimeb58 agreed. Literally tryna look like the “good guy” lmao.
Agree with you 100%
Is it just me or does the bf emit hardcore sociopath and/or narcissist vibes?!
Can I also add that the dad's voice is so calming. I commend him for keeping his cool the whole time!
Yes, it’s just you. There’s two physical abusers in this video, and one of them is a narcissist. It’s not the boyfriend. Who gave the grand, self-serving speech about laying their life down for their country? Who actually told a black man that they have no right to complain to them, the white man, about racism because they are the ones who have (supposedly) a dead black best friend? Who pretended to start crying about their token dead black best friend on stage to deflect from the fact that they got called out for also being a physical abuser, without thinking for one minute 1. How the giddy Aunt it was even related and 2. If their friends loved ones would really love for this mans memory to be used on a reality TV show to tell a black man he, the white man, is actually the victim of racism?
Who is the man who pretended to weep on command and put on a great theatrical performance?
Who is the man who was posturing and filibustering, “I’m sorry Dr Phil, did he just use the race card? Yes, I thought so” before performing their Oscar monologue?
Who successfully used everyone in the immediate vicinity- the audience (I fought for them!) Dr Phil (who was happy to oblige), his wife (my wife will tell you that…), black people and women, dead best friend, US army, to come out looking like the hero, deflect all blame, make it all about himself, and take the focus away from the person he claims to be there for- his daughter?
Your comment is further proof that everyone using narcissist as a buzz word these days actually has no idea what it is.
@@ScoobyDoozy hit the nail on the head mate
"calming" literally only because hes placing his words extremely carefully. Why else would the girlfriend keep turning to the boyfriend? Father 100% abuses her at home, its pretty blatant
@@Bluebird-fd9rt anything is possible
serial killer
It's wonderful to observe how an agrument being breaking down to meaning from Dr.Phil.
You see the individuals' motive and how they act to represent/control the others
Dr phil isn't so fair idk wtf ur goin on about
Idk about that, I like the dr. Phil show but he's just as biased as the rest of us.
Milan Sidhu o
@@vvthetalentlessduo6976 shutdaPHUCKup
dude dr phil saw the dads aura and was like " i dont want him leveling this building"
Who would of thought that “racist” would become the new terminology for this generation of “witch” compared to hundreds of years ago.
Right
Omg yes. These people in these younger generations use this accusation when they have nothing else to say. It's pathetic, and the words "racist" and "racism" now mean nothing.
Because they know that word can operate people nowadays.
I don’t know how that father was able to control himself the way he did?! If my daughter was being abused by someone I would be livid!!!
His years in the military taught him patience and restraint.
He had Jesus Christ with him..
Patience is a virtue :)
He verbally abuses his daughter too. Guilty conscience… anyone in the military like law enforcement are sailors…. Profanity is all they know in front of their peers.
@@gabrielaserranorealtor3813 I was in the military for 7 1/2 years. I never swore while in uniform nor while at home! I was a line medic who deployed with Scouts to Iraq. I still don’t swear.
@@Cabledeluz1977 Good for you. Keep it that way. Clean and professional.
Old dude was like “this is my chance to win an Oscar” 🤣🤣🤣
The more I hear her father talk the more I'm convinced he's probably been abusive to the daughter too, maybe even his wife. They seem off
Fr dude is a little sketchy 😂
He probably is to a degree, but he has ptsd from war I can see it...its still not the same thing if your family fights with you, it doesnt give the random BF whos a stranger & not related a right to put his hands on her. If your father smacks u in the face it doesnt give a random guy the right to hit you 😆
Being in a relationship with someone that toxic it changes you changes your personality it turns you into the same monster you’ve been afraid of after being trapped with someone so horrible for so long it stunts you into someone you don’t even recognize and it makes you lose your mind
Bdsm exist
It brings out the worst in you or the weakest
"Well I'm just going by what your daughter tells me.....but it won't stop me from calling you a racist on national television."
Man holding in his emotions and furious within is a dangerous man
Love how they make her look like a victim and him violent when its both of them they need to leave each other alone.
Fr
🤦🏼♀️
THANK YOU
Facts
Gotta love the victim blaming from a man.
The father is so well spoken, he’s awesome 🙌🏻
Too well spoken. So we’ll spoken he looks like he would t heart a fly
Manipulative and abusive lmao yeah awesome
He’s very calculated and that’s not normal
hate the way he talks he’s a freak fr
The anger in the dad's voice 😱
God bless the father of girl, if dr Pil says be careful, I would just shut up.
Wait! The father is abusive: what does that have to do with anything. Wowwwwww they all know the father abuses her and his wife
It doent really matter. Thats like saying if you get into a fight with your family member it gives me a complete stranger the right to assault your family member also 😆..it makes no sense.
@@dl5014 incorrect. It matters because the father is looking for a scapegoat. If he wasn't abusive in the first place, his daughter wouldn't be running into the arms of another abuser. Think.
@@Bluebird-fd9rt I agree with that I guess..but it's still worse if a stranger does it.
@@dl5014 I can see what you mean by that, but as a family member, you should not be hurting your daughter
@@Bluebird-fd9rtnot correct, the kid who's abusing her is a narcissist that's why she was staying with him.
Father is a wonderful man. God. bless him. I hope the daughter is doing well now.
The father is just like the boyfriend, abusive and short tempered.
U wierd bye
I wouldn't mess with that Father ...He looks scary
Wow u could feel that man's pain there at the end. So true what he said....soooo true.
What if the daughter tried to get his sympathy and said all of those lies about her father but didn't know that he has no sympathy in the first place, so it backfired lol
Imagine family get togethers if this works out. Imagine Xmas.
Omg
@@darkmoon8400 I know it's best not to think about such things.
Hopefully they’ll BOTH (him and HER) go to jail for ignoring the protection order.
@@mandyjuelz Maybe. Kids these days, huh? So happy I don't have em.
LOVE that father!
This man is amazing, I wish the father of my girlfriend would be a person with such character and strong values.
That father is super strong
The father's words were powerful!
They both need to do better for themselves.
They are playing this whole toxic situation like a game, but nobody is winning.
Ditching college to hang out with some guy is just not a very bright idea. She had to learn the ramifications of sacrificing her education.
The father has seen alot in life!!! He wants to put his hands on that boy so badly
He could hire some friends to make that kid suffer for real if he really was a life long military vet. The BF is to cocky to understand what could happen to him, he better catch a plane out of the U.S. if hes smart lol
She made the willing decision to fall in love with the pretty bad boy live with it !!
Why are you dismissing the Dad's behaviour?
I like that father!
Then your the only one
I mean both are to taken into case
The bf is a jerk who acts cool
Father is a serious guy who also pretends to be a dutiful father. I mean if i had a daughter and this would have been the case and i was the father and know that her bf has abused her first i wouldn't have taken it to international tv.
The fact the wife asked "what does that have to do with anything" worries me
The father burnt him in the end......
i think she's under a genjutsu
Dude 😂😂😂
Lmao
😂😂😂🤣🤣
Dickjutsu
She be lying like crazy i can tell they need to gtfo that relationship
"whether he's black red blue green whatever" 😂😂😂😂
The boyfriend is a waste of oxygen
The father playing overly soft and innocent is sus🤣. Basically claiming he's not racist cos he had a black friend and he was sad when he died 🤣🤣.
Wtf does it matter tbh?..he probably isnt racist, he probably didnt care his daughter was dating a black kid until he started assaulting her. Is that not understandable. I can't stand blk ppl constantly bullshiting about racism all the time Stfu already. Most white people in america genuinely arent racist. This isnt 150 years ago, the majority doesnt care about skin color..Honestly I believe the father I dont think he cares about race judging that his best friend was black 😆
well, I dont want to sound Im being smart, but this is exactly the kind of attention a person like this dude wants. he's enjoying the attention that's given to him, he's feeling like he's somebody here. you can a sense of triumph on his face the whole time he's talking to the victims parents. he thinks he's in control of this situation, and that's what feeds his ego. to drag down his ego, you gotta tell him how nothing and trifling he actually is, not how wrong his deeds were.
The problem is the BF is too young & naive to understand who hes dealing with in the father & what can actually happen to him as a result of his arrogance. The cops can't protect him or his family, if the father desides to hire some ex military or cia friends to low key snatch him up & torture him to death...and to be honest with narcissistic psychos like this they deserve that. Because if they dont get locked away for life or killed they never change & they live out theyre lives like cowardly predators targeting the few good natured ppl in this world,
Both trying to take the moral high ground - one playing the race card when it’s not about race and one justifying defending the constitution and rights of ppl by invading another country
Both are incredibly stupid. How awesome is it becoming a warmonger and why did audience start clapping at that story lol. Like the qualifies for him not being racist
@@haruiox2368 & @pinkishpanther82 - thanks for your comments :)
It’s sad when people speak on things they have no clue about. Your ignorance is equivalent to the young mans.
@@haruiox2368 like he said you’re just as ignorant as the kid
Dr Phil that sounds like a threat
1:59 LOL 😂
Meme material 😂 😂 😂
The Father is so full of it, He's a Con, and very Racists, like He says ... He's Very Well Trained, He's Passive Agressive, the Ex may be who He is, but the Father isn't so innocent either! She's the way that She is because She learned it from Somewere! 🤷
He’s racist did you hear him deaf ears
exactly
I think the parents and the boyfriend both have issues. The mom seems to be her husbands slave and just listens to whatever he says, the husband seems ignorant and gives off trump supporter vibes, I’m surprised he didn’t jump and punch the boyfriend. And the boyfriend is an abuser and crazy and rude and doesn’t care
What a wonderful familky, and father.
Get her back get a restraining order ,if he breaks it use your gun to stop him!
I could believe the father's racist. Watch his facial and body language when the boyfriend said the daughter claims he's racist and abusive. Usually the parent's are and Dr Phil knows that why he hurried up and moved on to saying something different.
Nothing is gonna happen on the set. There’s mad security around and way too much liability if anyone in the audience gets injured from a fight that breaks out
Ladies never ever ever discloses to your boyfriend about how your family is dysfunctional..rule number one
2:57. That look is all you need to know.
In other words, Dr. Phil was warning that idiot that you might want to tighten up around that father. He might be willing to snap, especially given his history. He's no joke.
NLE Choppa has been a naughty boy
God I know so many jerks like her boyfriend and the worst thing is this is exactly the type of guy all the women want. His level of narcissism will eventually get him killed or put in prison.
i train and study day and night to get in the forces, just to bring out the best in me. I totally understand what her father is going through but how she can't get that, no one can love and support you more than your parents.
That username is a cry for help
One of these days that Coward is going to mess with the wrong person and he's going to FAFO
Told the boy plain and simple from the father
The Father reminds me of Steven Seagal a soft whisper calm dangerous voice 😁😬
I swear this guy just spawned out of nowhere no way he got raised right
I’d be willing to bet both the father and boyfriend are verbally and physically abusive.
I am 👨🏾, and fellas like this kid. I don’t know the truth but I do know this, when you play stupid games you win stupid prizes, and to play the race card in a situation where your words and actions have led you there is HURTING US! If this father wasn’t one now he probably is a racist and can I blame him? NO!
I don’t know much about father. but I know that I respect him a thousand times over
For abusing his daughter and wife?
@@Bluebird-fd9rtHey weirdo, listen: The boyfriend CLAIMS the father is abusive because the boyfriend is trying to evade responsibility. I don’t care that you racially identify with the boyfriend, or that you hate women. There is no evidence that the father is abusive. Are you anti-white, is that it?
2:00-2:11 "I would be very very careful"
The father was an abuser and she dates an abuser, if either guy is found missing it won’t be a loss to society.
Dr Phil should right then and there had police come in and have him arrested for violating the protection order.
The girl is the actual culprit even though the parents and the boyfriend are doomed already. The girl is evil and unfair!
The only valid “I have a black friend“ card
The daughter is toxic as well
You can’t be one sided because dude is young … and the father to use the military to defend himself is just as guilty
Well- just think about it, let's say that it's true that the father abused her, and she told her bf about it, why does he make her went trough all around it again? His further explanation about it is like- 'Since she's been abused by her father all the time, it seems like another day for her to be abused by me, so im not wrong.'
The logic
He shouldnt be on dr phil he should be in JAIL.
Dr. Phil ain’t playing around. Sean looks like a scary man.
Don't blame the boyfriend because your daughter has changed. She's an adult so stop babying her. She's responsible for her own actions. Probably doing dope honestly. Granted, the BF isn't a Saint, but you can't blame him for her change
Wait ! So you think a father should accept watching his daughter being physically and sexually abused and stay silent ! And not care about her and about taking her out of this toxic situation ?
the father is full of it and so is phil
I mean do they touch on how the father abuses her ? Cause i hear no denial
thats crazy how deandre rly said dat
This girl has 2 personality. She was possessed. You can tell her parents didn't know her other side. The crazy side of her
The girl is such a habitual liar
The thing is that if the father would just recorded the calls where the daughter said : Omg now he pushed me the stairs down and now he slapped me and kicked me and he raped me on the end, and the father would make a report than the little boy would end up in prison for very long time.
But I have to also say 2 things.
1. I have big respect for her father even I don’t know him.
Bc one can see that he have a big heart full of love for everyone he knows.
2. I don’t feel bad for the daughter at all !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Bc I don’t like when women say :
Yes he beat me and he also raped me and I was almost death once bc he choked me,
But I LOVE HIM !!!!!!!
So I STAY WITH HIM !!!!
I mean there are women they were locked up and they couldn’t leave.
And for those I feel very bad !!!!
But I a woman stay with a guy like that, even she knows what he done to her ?? Than I don’t feel bad !!
The Boyfriend did a text book Narcissiat tactic.
Phill you aren't even a licensed therapist!!!
@@pacermusicmaker7930 he doesnt have lisence anymore
License or not. Phd? 50+ years experience?
And even with what the Father said, it still doesn’t take away from the fact that, he lays his hands on his own daughter. So he can get off of his high horse and shut his freakin mouth. The patents are criticizing their daughter did dating him but that has happened for the fact that her parents have placed their hands on her. PERIOD. FACT End of Story. .