My Mental Health Struggles.. My most vulnerable video I've ever made

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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2024

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  • @KylePalIo
    @KylePalIo  2 года назад +380

    Listen.. I didnt know if I wanted to make this public but I did some thinking and I feel it may help… idk if it’s good or has a good message but I do struggle sometimes and I’ve been working on myself a lot lately. There’s more to it and I just felt like y’all should know even I have my struggles and pressures daily.. I’ve learned how to work through them and grow as a person.. most importantly balance my vlog life with my personal life. ❤

    • @KylePalIo
      @KylePalIo  2 года назад +74

      It takes a lot to talk about this stuff and I’m normal upbeat, but I felt this would maybe relate to some of you. Idk. Todays a new day and I feel great for making this video. Just a different message from me I guess

    • @ChinaDollTravels
      @ChinaDollTravels 2 года назад +3

      👏👏

    • @KylePalIo
      @KylePalIo  2 года назад +71

      So thanks for accepting me and seeing me grow because I have a lot since last year

    • @andyl.8428
      @andyl.8428 2 года назад +2

      Much love Kyle 🤟🏻.

    • @divalayden8073
      @divalayden8073 2 года назад +4

      Bravo KP👏💕👏💕👏and sending u huge virtual hugs n Tons of ❤️ love. U are such a beautiful person inside and out and thank u for being so open, vulnerable, and super authentic.👍💗👍💗👍💗👍💗👍

  • @larrycox7889
    @larrycox7889 2 года назад +16

    Please consider a friendly suggestion. Take one day off each week. It is for yourself and only you. All your loyal fans will consider this as a gift to you. It is the gift of mental health. EVERYONE needs this gift. As a 30 year public school educator, I can assure you that this "hater" situation goes down to First grade and gets continually worse each year. Teachers' teach mitigation actions everyday. So your not alone . We followers do NOT come first, you do! But, we will be with you all the way.

  • @bmattern76
    @bmattern76 2 года назад +91

    My son committed suicide a few years back and I didn't have a clue he was having some mental struggles he kept them from me and his mom. So yes talk to people we're all here to help in any kinda way that we can don't hold them in and battle it yourself

    • @jodywait5659
      @jodywait5659 2 года назад +7

      So sorry for your loss….brave to share and help others

    • @divalayden8073
      @divalayden8073 2 года назад +2

      Omgoodness sooo very very very sorry for ur tremendous loss 💗🙏🏼💔😢💔😢💔😢

    • @bethkelly9206
      @bethkelly9206 2 года назад +3

      My heart sends out compassion and prayers for you and your family.

    • @ginad.7952
      @ginad.7952 2 года назад +4

      So sorry about your son. I work in mental health at a Children’s hospital in a huge city. We all need help at times a lot of parents don’t see the signs because we all hid them.

    • @amjoyful6057
      @amjoyful6057 2 года назад +2

      Heartbreaking. So very sorry you’ve suffered. What a love in you that you are speaking up so others may be strong.

  • @rachelguerrera2971
    @rachelguerrera2971 2 года назад +13

    A message I learned in church on Sunday… sometimes when you’re DEPRESSED a good solution is DEEP REST ❤️ lots of people go through it Kyle, you’re not alone!

  • @angeliquemclean8255
    @angeliquemclean8255 2 года назад +2

    I think the more we all share our struggles, the more we realize we're not alone. For instance, when I first became a mom, I felt so overwhelmed, like I couldn't do anything right, and WHY did it seem like my other friends with babies were thriving...until I shared how I was feeling with those same friends. Turned out, they were feeling the same way. If it's any consolation, Kyle, the thoughts and feelings you struggle with are very common, but it's awesome that you've figured out how to deal with them. I feel it's even more difficult now, with social media, to feel depressed. I'm positive you gave many people amazing tips on how to get over types of depression. Wonderful video!

  • @foolishmortalsasmr
    @foolishmortalsasmr 2 года назад +56

    Everyone struggles from time to time. Lately I’ve been getting overwhelmed with all the bad in the world. I cope by turning off the news, taking a break from Facebook/IG, and do things that bring me joy. Thanks for sharing and you’re right, asking for help is nothing to be ashamed of 🤝

  • @onesixwhiskey6514
    @onesixwhiskey6514 2 года назад +35

    Hey Bro, lean into your fans. Ignore the haters.
    Depression is real. Good job recognizing it and you have to face it head on AND keep yourself busy and occupied and keep tabs on your intrusive thoughts.
    Finally, don’t hunt for things to be sad about instead highlight all of the great things you have going for you.
    Sometimes I don’t even take my own advice. It will get better. It ALWAYS does.
    Hang in there Bud. You’ve got fans and friends.

  • @barbarac3879
    @barbarac3879 2 года назад +1

    It's comforting to you hear you speak so openly and honestly - my 17 yo son very recently came to me with his struggles so listening to you and how you deal with it is helping me find a way to help him. So thank you.

  • @ryancharlton7067
    @ryancharlton7067 2 года назад +7

    BEST advise I ever got: “When someone judged you or “hates” on you it says way more about THEM then it does about YOU.” It’s their insecurities projected into you and has nothing to do with you in reality. So LIVE YOU LIFE to the fullest and dance like no one is watching!
    Happy Summer Kyle and Everyone watching!

  • @suziebarton9457
    @suziebarton9457 2 года назад +34

    You have no idea how many other people you are helping - to talk and speak about your troubles . Kyle you are awesome 😎 I am glad you can speak keep talking …. You are loved 🥰 x

  • @margeauxmontest4837
    @margeauxmontest4837 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing. I’ve struggled with mental illness since I was an adolescent and I felt so isolated in my experience and guilty for struggling. Having heard something like this from a creator would have done a lot for me. There’s a quote I really like I’d like to share with you, “We recover in public so others don’t have to suffer in silence.”

  • @christianerussell3235
    @christianerussell3235 2 года назад +10

    Kyle, good job taking care of yourself. As a counselor, one of the major lessons we learn while in school is that self-care is vital for good mental health. You have to take care of yourself in order to be present for your clients and in your case, your followers. Thank you for sharing your journey, the good and the bad. Your videos are a part of my daily routine and I appreciate your content.

  • @brenthulst5413
    @brenthulst5413 2 года назад +1

    Seriously this is needed!! If you were to stay "on brand" then it would be a disservice to all of us out there in the social media world. So much of the internet is about making things look perfect and trouble-free. Well that adds to mental health issues, which is exactly what destroyed my daughter's health. We are in therapy now for eating issues, anxiety, and working on finding the right anti-depressant. So keep being honest because even in your low points you are brightening our days!

  • @katejones4036
    @katejones4036 2 года назад +49

    Do what you need to keep yourself happy. Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Always be kind, I think people forget to do that sometimes which is a shame

  • @tellaskennerson4233
    @tellaskennerson4233 2 года назад +1

    I found your channel bout a week ago I believe, I can truly say the few videos I have check out so far.. your videos are definitely helping me out in a very dark time in my life right now and I can can honestly say THANK YOU!! Trust me from the fans I seen that are so happy to see you in person even the fans that comments on your video.. you are love greatly!! Keep on pushing you are human, we all are humans we all have ups and downs in life. I promise you are saving more people like my self from Giving up on life.. keep it your positive spirit up and don’t feel bad for having a tough time in life just think how far you have came. Thank you Kyle I my self appreciate you.

    • @divalayden8073
      @divalayden8073 2 года назад

      Agree… and hang in there Tellas…. So very sorry to hear about ur struggles… don’t ever give up sir 💕❤️💗💕❤️💗💕💗💕sending u prayers, well wishes and positive thoughts for many brighter days ahead 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💗God bless

  • @mainstreetmurphysvlogs9691
    @mainstreetmurphysvlogs9691 2 года назад +3

    Put off my anxiety problems for a while -finally embraced getting help and talking about it and now every day is healing. Thank you for speaking on this.

  • @EJB2011
    @EJB2011 2 года назад +2

    My parents came to visit me this week and left on Saturday. I’ve been sad and cried a lot. I miss them a lot. Thank you for being honest. This has helped me.

  • @brianstevens802
    @brianstevens802 2 года назад +16

    Kyle, I'm glad you took some time for yourself. I truly appreciate the effort & creativity you put into your channel - it brightens my day but it's easy to forget the work it takes for you to put out that content. Really, from the bottom of my heart thank you - it's comforting & helpful to me when I hear that others face the same struggles I do. I need to learn to ask for help (my take away). On another note, massage is now on my list of things to do at Disney 👍

  • @tonyat2454
    @tonyat2454 2 года назад +4

    Hi Kyle, I’m proud of you for speaking up about your struggles. I’m a retired teacher who have seen things that you can’t imagine. I appreciate you opening up and sharing what you’re going through. Please know that you are not alone and that just maybe your vlog has helped someone more that you think. Thank you for being the special person you are and again for opening up and sharing your story. If you ever need an ear, I’m here for you. May God bless you.

    • @tonyat2454
      @tonyat2454 2 года назад

      I sent you an instant message on Instagram. My daughter kennedy had to show me. Lol. But please go see it to.

  • @christinabee1086
    @christinabee1086 2 года назад +1

    The more people speak openly about their mental health, the more that stigma shrinks. I look forward to the day when mental health is as easily discussed as diabetes and heart health. If something in your body isn’t working quite right, there’s no shame in going to the doctor or a therapist to get some help. Thank you for using your platform to share your struggles and assist with normalizing mental health.

  • @jjny83
    @jjny83 2 года назад +5

    I’ve been going through struggles myself (heartbreak, depression, loneliness, etc). I want to let you know how much you have inspired me.You're a breath of fresh air and a talented individual, Kyle. Keep up the great work man !

    • @divalayden8073
      @divalayden8073 2 года назад +1

      Sending positive thoughts and wishes ur way JJ 🌷💕🐶🙏🏼😘

  • @ErickMediatek
    @ErickMediatek 2 года назад +9

    DUDE! Just come out... You'll feel A LOT better...

    • @stylingwithlj2413
      @stylingwithlj2413 2 года назад +4

      Yes please it’s eating him alive 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @shannonillig3675
    @shannonillig3675 2 года назад +3

    Depression is no joke! And I am glad that you feel comfortable talking to all of use about your struggles, you not only helping others, but you are also helping yourself. Keep up the good work

  • @jo-annajacobs4573
    @jo-annajacobs4573 2 года назад +1

    I lost my mom 10 years ago and depression and anxiety hit hard. My favourite memories with her are our trips to Disney. Your videos help me so much, they bring joy, spark memories and help me plan for my trips with my boys (I’m now a mom of 2). They watch most your videos with me and we hope to see you in the parks one day! You are not alone, you are strong, always here if you need (I now work in psych, my stuggles led me to my profession). Much love!! ❤️

    • @divalayden8073
      @divalayden8073 2 года назад +1

      So very sorry for the loss of ur mom and ur struggles💗💔🙏🏼😢 sending u positive thoughts and well wishes to you and yours💕🌷🙏🏼🐶💐😘

  • @walidamurphy4223
    @walidamurphy4223 2 года назад +24

    Kyle, the haters are just projecting their insecurities onto you. They see you’re doing well. Maybe at this time, they’re not. Therapy is amazing. Once you find the right one for you, it will be extremely beneficial.

  • @AnT_603
    @AnT_603 2 года назад +5

    Not trying to troll you dude but, the happiest you seemed was around Taylor. I know she’s your friend and you might not want tot cross that boundary but there’s a chemistry there dude it’s obvious and the way she looks at you and the way she was with your family just shows she probably likes you. I struggle with mental health too but when I’m around my Julia I’m the happiest version of myself!! sometimes your best friend is can be more than just a friend it would be a shame to let her get away man!!

  • @nancee508
    @nancee508 2 года назад +1

    Brilliant vlog. You are a compassionate young man. You are a breath of fresh air as you are so genuine. I admire that about you. Take care of yourself and don’t apologize for taking time for yourself. I can tell how happy you are when your family or Taylor is visiting you. You get a spring in your step and are so happy. I will join one of these days when I figure all the tech stuff out. Thanks for being vulnerable. You are helping others in ways you don’t even know.

  • @marshamcdevitt3089
    @marshamcdevitt3089 2 года назад +2

    I'm very, very depressed and I cry a lot. Work is very stressful. I struggle with anxiety, depression and mental illness. Everyday is extremely difficult. You have no idea what people are going through unless you walk in there shoes. Keep up the good work Kyle.

    • @divalayden8073
      @divalayden8073 2 года назад +1

      Omgoodness soooo sorry to hear about ur struggles💔💕😢sending u prayers, well wishes and positive thoughts for brighter days ahead 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💗

    • @marshamcdevitt3089
      @marshamcdevitt3089 2 года назад

      @@divalayden8073 Thank you. That means a lot to me. I really need prayers right now.

  • @bethkelly9206
    @bethkelly9206 2 года назад +7

    So true about the “haters “ I would pray for them, your strength shines through Kyle.

  • @kl7143
    @kl7143 2 года назад

    Dude.. I watch many of your videos as they are informative and I'm heading back to Florida in Sept from the UK. for vacation. But as I'm currently going through some anxiety struggles and coming out the other side just wanted to say thanks for being so honest with yourself and others and showing people it's OK and normal to go through this stuff and even more so to seek help where its needed. Among all your many great vlogs this one is probably the most valuable to date. Keep doing what you do well and much respect to you.

  • @teslaed777
    @teslaed777 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for being open and honest Kyle. We all have bad moments in life and when we overcome it we become stronger for the next obstacles in life. Nevermind the haters. They need that to function in life and are suffering from something themselves. They do that to make them feel better about their situation. When I have bad days I watch your videos (and Jojo’s) and I fell like I am at the parks with you and it’s helps. It really does. We all support you on your good and bad days. Keep up the good work brother

  • @scottolson3639
    @scottolson3639 2 года назад

    Kyle, thank you for making this video and raising awareness to mental health. For the past couple of weeks, I hit the lowest of lows. I've never experienced this before. I felt like I was drowning. I reached out to a counselor, my doctor, and also have been talking to a therapist. Two things I always struggle with is I always try to put others first and to make my decisions evolve around others to make them happy. But ultimately I have to make myself come first and make me happy!

  • @tallerguy142
    @tallerguy142 2 года назад +1

    Ah Kyle thank you so much for posting this video. It’s so important for young men to have role models around mental health showing them that it’s ok to admit when they’re struggling, it’s ok to talk about it and it’s ok to ask for help. I’m so proud of you. I’ve watched you and your channel grow in size, scope, confidence and talent over the years and I’m loving your journey. It’s my hope to one day run in to you in the parks so I can share with you the personal way in which your videos have helped with my mental well-being. And I want to buy you a Starbucks to say thanks! Lol. Keep looking after yourself, keep doing what you do, because while this may be a daily dose of Disney, we’re all really here for a daily dose of you.

  • @lorismith6497
    @lorismith6497 2 года назад +1

    So proud of you Kyle...it is never easy becoming vulnerable, but know that you could have helped many others with talking about all of this. Keep doing you! You are amazing and have amazing family and friends around you! ❤️

  • @HeySherBear
    @HeySherBear 2 года назад

    Kyle, I look forward to your videos everyday, and as is the case I’m sure for many, you have become in a way part of our lives in that sense. Brave to show the areas of struggle, as we all have our own struggles, but most live them in private. To me this just means your human. I’m happy to know that your able to work through them and push on and continue to find ways to take care of yourself. It’s an important reminder for us all, to take some quiet time for ourselves and pause the hustle and bustle for down time and “me” time. Thanks 🙏 as always for sharing ☀️🌸💕

  • @lisasweeney2187
    @lisasweeney2187 2 года назад +1

    Kyle, your kindness on your videos is so real in real life! You were so nice when I ran into you…I said to my friend “wow he is as nice and real like he is in his videos”. With that said, haters are just jealous and mean spirited people. Don’t let them get to you! Your followers truly love and appreciate you! Keep up the fantastic work!

  • @morbeen4444
    @morbeen4444 2 года назад

    I’m glad too see that you’re vulnerable enough to open up about your mental health issues because it affects everyone and this will help somebody out one day. Being on the go for an entire month and then saying goodbye to the people that you love and care about can take a toll on a lot of people. Don’t let the haters get you down because then you are letting them win. Also, haters are just people who don’t want to see you succeed in life because they are throwing their own insecurities on to you. Please take as much time as you need to relax to focus on yourself. We are always here for you! ❤️

  • @leighwitty8715
    @leighwitty8715 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for sharing Kyle! I also struggle with anxiety and depression but others may not realize it. So many more people struggle than we might think. Talking about it is therapeutic for us and also let’s others know that they aren’t alone! Much love!

  • @VanessaGomez-pc9lv
    @VanessaGomez-pc9lv 2 года назад +5

    I’m glad to see you take some time to care for yourself. Thank you for letting your emotions out and being honest with us. We appreciate how transparent you are. We will always be here to support you and enjoy the daily dose you give us each and every day. ❤️

  • @leanne8265
    @leanne8265 2 года назад +1

    Hi Kyle, this is the first ever post for me on you tube and because of my anxiety and putting myself out there, I was always afraid to comment on anything. However, after seeing this video, I felt like I needed to for myself. You have been such an inspiration to myself and my family! I had my second child during lockdown and a baby in the NICU. Ever since, my anxiety and depression has gotten worse and so has my husband's. During the lockdown, like many, I was at low point. Watching your videos daily truly got me out of my depression and helped reduce my anxiety. Disney for my family has brought so much happiness over the years and watching your vlogs helped us feel like we were down there again creating memories. Many of us feel like we are alone, but there are so many of us dealing with the same mental health struggles. For a while, I always cared about how people would view me and that created a lot of anxiety and panic attacks. I have since learned that I have to let things to go and that the people who "judge" have to look at themselves because it's clearly a "them problem". I've also learned to let things go and to now worry about things that I can't control, like how people view me or what they might say. At the end of the day, we all have to do what makes us happy. Please know that you are bringing so much good to everyone by being you that you don't even realize it. Not only does my family (including my 4 year old and 2 year old) watch you everyday, but you have inspired us so much. My son calls you the "Disney Guy" and says "Mommy, can we watch the "Disney Guy" before we do to bed." He also has anxiety and watching your videos has truly helped calm my son and has given him something to look forward to before he goes to bed and "relax on the couch" as he calls it! We started a small business up here in Massachusetts and are launching this fall and I don't think it would be possible had we not watched your videos and pushed through my own mental health struggles.I am also a Special Education teacher and have seen so much struggle with many children and their mental health that I feel like at this day in age, everyone needs to come together and be good people who help one another and not break each other. Negativity breeds negativity. You are a wonderful, kind, genuine person and don't let anyone tear you down. I realized that asking for help is not something to be ashamed of and that venting or crying is okay. We are all here for you Kyle and truly love what you do for everyone. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for helping my family in ways you don't even realize. I apologize for such a long comment!
    Blessings from New England :)

    • @divalayden8073
      @divalayden8073 2 года назад

      Hi there Leanne🥰Totally agree with u about KP, haters, etc… and Omgoodness we are very similar. My hubby is a 5th grade virtual teacher and I’m a retired 2/3 teacher… retired to care for our special needs son with Tons of health issues… plus still kinda quarantined because of Covid and our son. I’ve sure dealt with my fair share of depression n anxiety too n more and am so thankful for God, Kyle n other RUclipsrs, of course family and friends for being there for us/“keeping us company”Anyways, So sorry to hear about ur struggles too💗💗💗… sending u prayers, well wishes and positive thoughts for many brighter days ahead 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💕 p.s. so cute about ur son… “let’s watch the Disney guy”🥰 God bless u guys😘

  • @lauriellewatson5852
    @lauriellewatson5852 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing and being so real all the time! We all know deep down that what you see on social media isn't all sunshine and rainbows, but it's another thing to see both sides. Love that you're being a responsible creator

  • @KarenGlowicki614
    @KarenGlowicki614 2 года назад

    I’m a newer subscriber to your channel and I love you and your vlogs. Videos like this can be powerful to those who need to hear it! Way to share your personal struggles and YES everyone needs self care!

  • @kimjones7174
    @kimjones7174 2 года назад +1

    Mental health awareness is huge and needs more focus in my opinion. No one’s life is upbeat and positive 24/7. Your no exception . You have the platform to make a difference so thank you for trying to do that for whoever might need it Kyle 🙏💙 I struggle with it and I try everyday to be a better person and navigate this crazy world . Enjoy everyday even the quiet ones. Stay humble and kind is your best bet . Thank you for being honest about your life it will help so many 💙

  • @emmicruz
    @emmicruz 2 года назад +16

    Kyle, I love the mindset you gave. I’m very proud of how far you’ve come, I know life has its ups and down but you always do your best to stay positive! We all have personal struggles, and with you opening up, it allows for other people to relate and not feel alone… so thank you❤️ We love you so much!

  • @karenjeter9402
    @karenjeter9402 2 года назад +1

    It's hard to imagine somebody that has a life as fun as yours struggles but soooo true. Everybody has something they struggle with and you never know what it going on with anybody behind the scenes. Love this video! Thanks for keeping it real!

  • @tararockrevivalbebe6427
    @tararockrevivalbebe6427 2 года назад +1

    Excellent video 🌻. When I went through my divorce which brought lots of heart ache and major stress lifestyle change. I treated myself to a full body glow up mud bath, facial, full body massage with complimentary champagne 🥂 it cost 325 it was 2 hours long. Totally worth it. But as a single mom now I can’t afford it so I do Epson Salt detox baths with candles as well as meditation music and dark bathroom. Sooo cozy especially during the winter when it’s snowing

  • @johnnyitalia418
    @johnnyitalia418 2 года назад

    Love u Kyle! I always enjoy ur videos ❤️ I suffered with depression and anxiety from 17-20 yrs old and now I’m suffering again. Life is definitely a journey, especially when you struggle with mental health issues.
    Keep up the amazing work and keep ur head up as well, because you are such a wonderful outlet for us all. I’m glad that we get to support you by watching your content 👊🏼

  • @tommcneil7669
    @tommcneil7669 2 года назад +1

    Talking about depression/anxiety should be normal. A LOT of people suffer from it and as you said, feel ashamed by how they feel that they don't want to talk about it. I live with anxiety/depression as well... and I stress I LIVE with it. I don't suffer. I talk about it when I am feeling down. I am honest with my friends/family/work about my mental state and am normalizing it in my own life. Often, people who have depression/anxiety are some of the strongest people out there, not the weakest. In a way, they battle their own brain on a daily basis just to function in the world and partake in social events etc. Glad to see that you reached out for help and are doing what you need to in order to feel better. Therapy is an amazing tool and should never be frowned upon.

    • @divalayden8073
      @divalayden8073 2 года назад

      💗🙏🏼💗🙏🏼💗🙏🏼💗🙏🏼💗

  • @carlosguvetis9347
    @carlosguvetis9347 2 года назад +2

    You have the right idea about turning off the news and do things that you enjoy. Take care of your own mental health first. You can't help others if you're in a bad state of mind yourself. I've been watching your videos for some time now. I look forward to my daily dose. But I'm aware that we only see a very small sliver of your day. There's a lot of your life that we never see. One thing I can tell you from the perspective of an older person is if you find a person that you consider your best friend, that you're happier with them than without them, a person who you love spending time with and doing things with, don't let go of that person. Life is too short to miss out on the time you can have with that person. Is Taylor that person? Only you know that. But if she is, don't let go of her. If she's not the one, then keep looking. Always make that the top priority in your life. You'll enjoy a lifelong relationship more than any career. It's like this... maybe you enjoy watching a Packers game, but you enjoy it even more when you're watching a Packers game with that best friend in the room with you. Take care of your mental health. Don't torture yourself unnecessarily. There you go. Find that special someone and hold on tight.

  • @beckyslunajubar3520
    @beckyslunajubar3520 2 года назад

    Many do not share with everyone the struggles they go through, it's hard to open up and especially in the medium that you do. Glad you are taking some time for you and working through this. Thank you for sharing!

  • @cocoacamille6631
    @cocoacamille6631 2 года назад +2

    Opening up about situations and venting is the best thing ever Kyle. Your videos are amazing btw and I struggled with bad anxiety and panic attacks and it sucks but I know to pray to God and he helps me out everytime. We will be stronger people in the end I promise. Just take one day at a time and breathe 🧘‍♀️

  • @nanettenguyen3426
    @nanettenguyen3426 2 года назад +1

    Kyle I can’t tell you how much I appreciate you for your creativity, the love of Disney and your bravery. I have struggled with anxiety, depression and PTSD since I was young. I’m in my 50’s now and I feel like finally in the last 15 or so years feel like it’s finally being brought into the main stream. Thank you thank you for you honesty and vulnerability to share your story. God bless you! 😊

    • @divalayden8073
      @divalayden8073 2 года назад +1

      Sending positive positive thoughts and well wishes ur way for brighter days ahead 💕🌷🐶🙏🏼💐😘

  • @Allisongayle01
    @Allisongayle01 2 года назад

    Right out of college I became obsessed with my career. I just really wanted to do well. When work was going well, I was up. When work was going not so well, I was down. On the outside I was calm cool and collected. On the inside, I was a total mess. The littlest of things would cause me to lose entire nights of sleep. A few years and several promotions later, I realized that my obsession with my career was unsustainable because I was just so unhappy. Luckily, I met a girl. All of a sudden those little things that would keep me up at night weren’t very important. My happiness was no longer solely dependent on the day by day or hour by hour successes or failures at work. Even though that relationship only lasted 18 months, it made me realize the importance of balance. It’s been my commitment to balance that has gotten me through some tough times that would have otherwise been devastating. It’s been my commitment to balance that has allowed me to let go of some of the most desirable, but unhealthy choices , and hang on to things that were initially less desirable but ultimately the most healthy and beneficial. Seek that balance, Kyle, and you will live that life that you were meant to live.

  • @eileenduffy4984
    @eileenduffy4984 2 года назад

    sharing your struggle will help so many people who think they are the only ones going thru difficult times. I used to work 2 full time jobs just to make ends meet when I moved down here in the '90s. I used to stress over not having enough to pay the mortgage and bills. Had days when I just didn't want to get out of bed. Trying to make content and staying relevant in your lifestyle is difficult. Good luck and may fortune shine on you

  • @dennishicks6382
    @dennishicks6382 2 года назад

    Wow. I would never have guessed your struggle with this because i love watching because you seem so child like in a good way. Meaning you get so excited about things like seeing things for the first time. I love cruising and you make them seem so awesome how you appreciate things. Keep your head up because you inspire so many you are genuine and that is a gift. Love your work. Peace

  • @lordsquidy133
    @lordsquidy133 2 года назад +13

    Whenever I'm feeling down or stressed it's most helpful for me to set up time for myself to do something small and simple that I enjoy. Even at busy times, giving myself time to boost my spirits and remind myself that the stress isn't everything goes a long way. Everyone is different though, lots of good apps now to find a great therapist for any individual

  • @Adrian008
    @Adrian008 2 года назад

    You work a lot so i could only imagine there is a lot of stress involved , but always love yourself .. remember some of the dsrkest times in our life we walk through alone cause no matter how many loves ones we have sometimes situations can only be taken care of is by ourselves ... take care of yourself kyle stay positive family , friends i can only imagine love you ... fans and viewers enjoy your stuff .. but most importantly love yourself and enjoy yourself ... find a vice like gym , reading etc ... Jiu Jitsu helped me become a better person grew up with a single mother i had lots of anger in me , started drinking at the age of 13 had a lot of dark times but jiu jitsu helped me pull through .. now im 34 and am way better to myself .. and a lot happier .. love your videos brings joy and ideas for our family vacations 💪💪🙏🙏

  • @michellebrill5328
    @michellebrill5328 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for inviting us to your Ted Talk. Mental health needs to be focused on more often.

  • @jackiefuentes8977
    @jackiefuentes8977 2 года назад

    Thanks for sharing your personal feeling and struggles. It’s always helpful for people to know they are not alone struggling. Glad you know what works for you. Enjoy the rest of your day!

  • @jennifertrombley1608
    @jennifertrombley1608 2 года назад

    First time watcher/listener, thank you for opening up and sharing! Therapy saved my life a few years ago, so I support you 1000%, and one step and one day at a time!! You got this!!💪

  • @cordariusniter5735
    @cordariusniter5735 2 года назад

    I think the secret is to live for your fun and laugh. That when your the happiest. That when the mind is clear . Don’t try to be prefect. Just go with the flow . Live in the moment. It very liberating when you live for your joy. Speaking from someone who is naturally happy

  • @BrewCityGillz
    @BrewCityGillz 2 года назад +2

    The world gives off the vibe that if you are not constantly moving or doing something you are being lazy. Taking time to relax and do nothing from time to time is essential to mental health. …and as a society we need to focus on mental health more.
    ☀️🏥

  • @leximarshall2988
    @leximarshall2988 2 года назад

    Kyle, I’ve been struggling a lot with my mental health too. I’m so glad you feel comfortable enough with us to share how you’ve really been feeling, it’s not an easy thing to share. Know you’re not alone and you have so much support. You make my dark days so much brighter.

  • @pdellcampcan
    @pdellcampcan 2 года назад

    Your work on your daily vlogs brings happiness to so many; your work is very much appreciated. You are helping so many daily.

  • @kimdavis454
    @kimdavis454 2 года назад

    I think that this was so brave and awesome for u to do. To be open and honest…. I know u have a lot of young kids, teens and young adults that watch u and for u to open up and talking about this is letting them ok to talk about it as well. Also hoping that they reach out for help with their depression. My nephew was 20 years old when shot him self this January because he was Embarrassed to talk to his parents or to anybody. Thank you for all that you do and I hope this helps a lot of other people.

  • @rinawalter5402
    @rinawalter5402 2 года назад +12

    As an full-grown adult, I struggle every day with being sad. Asking for help is soooo very hard for sure. This vlog, please know will help so very many other people today who watch! Bravo, sir!!

    • @divalayden8073
      @divalayden8073 2 года назад +1

      Sending positive thoughts ur way for brighter days Rina💕🙏🏼💐🐶🌷please take care of yourself

    • @rinawalter5402
      @rinawalter5402 2 года назад +1

      @@divalayden8073 xoxoxo thank you

    • @divalayden8073
      @divalayden8073 2 года назад

      👍❤️🙏🏼👍❤️🙏🏼👍

  • @karivale388
    @karivale388 2 года назад +3

    Kyle, I love all your videos. You bring Disney to me everyday when I need that pick me up from my day as a SPED teacher. I hope you know how much you help others with your videos. Always take days though and work on your mental health. That’s the most important thing- that and family.

  • @kat64470
    @kat64470 2 года назад

    Usually when I feel anxious and or depressed, I have not been spending time alone with my creator. Spending time with him reading his word, praying and listening to his will for me works miracles for me.

  • @kimberlytipton1227
    @kimberlytipton1227 2 года назад

    Hi Kyle. My husband and I love watching you and your channel. We're so glad we found you. We both agree that you expand on so much more than most of the vloggers we follow. It is refreshing to watch and get to know you. We're hoping to run into you in the parks one day and buy you a drink. We live in NC and don't get to travel to Disney as much as we'd like but hopefully, in the next few years when we retire, we will get to travel more often. Watching you with your family and Taylor was so refreshing. Wishing you a fantastic week and looking forward to more great adventures. Take care! - Kim

  • @bevflint9611
    @bevflint9611 2 года назад

    I think the important thing is recognising those down days, those not so fun days. My daughter has struggled with her mental health from the age of 10. She spent years in and out of hospital saying there was nothing wrong with her. She still has her struggles and always will but now she will say whe she needs the extra support or things aren't great. She hasn't been in hospital for five years. I am so proud of her each and every day. You do what helps you and never be ashamed of anything.

    • @divalayden8073
      @divalayden8073 2 года назад

      💗🙏🏼💗🙏🏼💗🙏🏼💗🙏🏼💗

  • @MJD123
    @MJD123 2 года назад +1

    Also want to add that its especially nice to have a guy talking about these things, since that doesn't usually happen. I have 2 almost teenage sons... my 11 year old watched the Taylor Goodbye vlog with me the other day ( I think pretty Taylor caught his attention first HAHA but then he was actually into what was going on LOL ) And when you started crying, he was like "Man!! I hope hes gonna be ok... thats really sad...." . Anyway- it was just good for him to be able to see a guy showing emotions and talking about feeling sad, and seeing that its normal. So... these kinds of things are bigger than I think you even realize. Keep it up :-)

  • @markodom8686
    @markodom8686 2 года назад

    Self care is very important. I struggle with anxiety and I am aware of the warning signs and know when I need to step back and take care of myself. Don't get too overwhelmed and learn what you need to keep your sanity

  • @Samkeepgoing
    @Samkeepgoing 2 года назад +1

    So important to share these things, people struggling will often hide it which then makes them feel like they are isolated. Sharing will not only make you feel better but can help others going through the same thing.

  • @donnarall966
    @donnarall966 2 года назад +2

    Hi Kyle, thank you for today's vlog. I loved your channel before but now have a whole new respect for you. Everyone struggles with something. Asking for help is necessary. Bless you and your family.

  • @stephaniepena1903
    @stephaniepena1903 2 года назад +1

    I literally watch you every day to decompress. Just seeing you travel and visit the parks and opening your PO box ...is somewhat thereuputic for me . I don't think there's a person on the planet who doesn't struggle with something. I just find my faith in God and remaining focused on one day at a time helps...sometimes it's that one hour at a time. Keep up the great work .

    • @divalayden8073
      @divalayden8073 2 года назад

      🙏🏼👍🙏🏼👍🙏🏼👍🙏🏼

  • @karendangelo5148
    @karendangelo5148 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for sharing Kyle! Normalizing "the struggle" is a very helpful and grounding reminder. Cheers to you!

  • @deniseporter1408
    @deniseporter1408 2 года назад

    I am so happy that I found you and your vlog! You are truly sweet, and I appreciate the vulnerability that you shared with your followers. Mental Health is truly part of the multi-dimentional health of a person, and our world needs more support of that! I have been a massage therapist for 25 years, and have been blessed to be able to support my clients - body, mind and spirit. Thank you for sharing

  • @noahhersey5359
    @noahhersey5359 2 года назад

    It takes a lot to share something like this man, that is such a huge step. I have anxiety with a lot of things in my life and I have a lot of self doubts(nursing school) , but something that gives me hope and gets me through it is my faith with God and Jesus. I’m praying and thinking about you to help you push through them. These videos are great man, I would rather you be vulnerable and have these videos than not doing them at all. Keep pushing man, always love watching your videos and living through you in Disney!!

  • @careyvo1982
    @careyvo1982 2 года назад

    Sometimes just getting it out and talking about it helps so much. Thank you for sharing too. More of us go through the exact same thing, so you're definitely not alone. We're all here for you and you have a lot of support. ❤

  • @JustASmallTownGirl85
    @JustASmallTownGirl85 2 года назад +2

    This was really brave of you to share, I think many of us are going through the same thing. Keep your head up ❤️

  • @louwittmer5624
    @louwittmer5624 2 года назад +3

    I have a whole new respect for you today. Thank you for your honesty on mental health.

  • @kristenvanhandel653
    @kristenvanhandel653 2 года назад +4

    Kyle I think this video is so important mental health is something that needs to be talked about I think you should be beyond proud of talking about it depression is hard mental health struggles are real and I applaud you for sharing and yes absolutely it is more than ok to ask for help

  • @Daboisaulitoo
    @Daboisaulitoo 2 года назад

    Yo bro I usually never comment on any YT videos but recently your videos have been helping me with my anxiety and just through the tough times right now. You are not alone bro

  • @emmicruz
    @emmicruz 2 года назад +3

    You are the best of the best, Kyle! Keep your head up, stay on the path you’re on. You’ve got good things coming!!❤️❤️

  • @allyburnett3315
    @allyburnett3315 2 года назад +13

    I'm sure every single human being struggles with something. You're definitely not alone ❤ also you look amazing shaved 😊

  • @tommycre4115
    @tommycre4115 2 года назад +1

    Keep doing what makes you happy! When I get down I try to do something for someone else to be of service gets me out of my own head and help others in need. Great Video Kyle stay strong . Love your videos

  • @lorib.6327
    @lorib.6327 2 года назад +13

    Kyle, you have such a good head on your shoulders. I am so incredibly happy and proud to be a patron and subscriber to your channel. THANK YOU for this vlog!!!

  • @shootingstarsphotography174
    @shootingstarsphotography174 2 года назад +5

    Thank you for sharing! It's really hard to be ON all the time and as a public figure now you have to deal with the haters - they have even come after some of us in the comments. Not sure how that makes someone feel better by trying to bring someone else down? I have a massage scheduled every month locally. I agree that it just hits different on a cruise ship! My problem is that I tend to fall asleep by the end! I just booked my next cruise out of NOLA in Jan! Having something to look forward to and focus on in important for me. Much love KP.... Wendy Lady

  • @heyitsnance
    @heyitsnance 2 года назад +9

    Thanks for sharing, Kyle. Don’t ever feel like you can’t discuss important mental health issues with us. We are happy to listen and help if we can. Chin up mate!

  • @Arielle.W.M.
    @Arielle.W.M. 2 года назад

    I have my share with mental illness. I have anxiety and moments of depression.
    When I was at my lowest, I found ways to deal with those emotions. You are not alone Kyle, and sometimes taking a break does help. Treating yourself is probably the best advice I can give along with always...always don't be afraid of asking for help.

  • @jamielester9984
    @jamielester9984 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for being open and honest!
    I love your videos and content, but I've never thought that you don't experience hard times or difficult emotions... you're human! Of course you share the highlights, that's part of what makes you successful on RUclips!
    I really appreciate your transparency, it makes you more relatable... not saying that's what this is all about, but I think showing some of your struggles is realistic and relatable ❤️
    Keep going!! You are definitely appreciated!

  • @husniyyahakhtab6464
    @husniyyahakhtab6464 2 года назад

    Sending you so much peace and love Kyle. It's not easy opening up to the world. Very brave on your part. Wishing you all the success in the world.🥰🥰

  • @maryh6641
    @maryh6641 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for all you do and your openess. I struggle with anxiety. Somedays feelings all alone in my struggles stink and its nice to hear their are others going through challenges and are able to cope and succeed.

    • @divalayden8073
      @divalayden8073 2 года назад

      Sending positive thoughts and wishes ur way Mary H 🐶🌷💕🙏🏼💐😘

  • @ilsevanrossum1195
    @ilsevanrossum1195 2 года назад +4

    I've been struggling myself with mental health for years. and the thing (wel here in The Netherlands) people don't take it serious if you aren't hurt than you're not sick. my boss at the time was like what do you want me to do about it, and I was like help me listen to me. and people are like you post all happy things on Facebook you're not sick. but they don't see the panic attacks. all I wanna say is, think about yourself it's okay to not be okay sometimes

    • @divalayden8073
      @divalayden8073 2 года назад

      Sending positive positive thoughts and well wishes ur way Ilse for brighter days ahead 💕🐶🌷🙏🏼💐😘

  • @Sayre_Bedinger
    @Sayre_Bedinger 2 года назад

    Being a content creator seems like a dream come true to pretty much everyone who doesn't do it.
    And like you acknowledged -- it mostly is.
    But just like with anything, there's pressure to provide -- for yourself or your family. Pressure to be the best. Pressure to constantly crank out new things that pretty much no one else is doing.
    Being your own boss in this kind of field is a dream come true but it is also unpredictable every day. I respect the hustle and grind, Kyle, and enjoy all the videos. Hope to meet you at Disney when my fam heads there in November!

  • @janderson2138
    @janderson2138 2 года назад

    I don't who originally said it, but it is something that I try to remember and live by...Everyday can't be a good day, but there can be good in every day!

  • @heluvsparko
    @heluvsparko 2 года назад

    kyle, i hope you are doing better now. please never stop making videos because they help me escape my pathetic reality. you are an inspiration to me how you do what makes you happy no matter what the haters say. all my friends laugh at me for watching your videos but they just don’t understand. i get bullied everyday and this helps distract me from my depressing life.

  • @juliettetheballetmomvivers8680
    @juliettetheballetmomvivers8680 2 года назад +1

    You are only human Kyle! You are not alone when it comes to taking care of your mental health. You must take a break to keep that mental health good and I love that you are open about it, it’s the best thing for you to do and I’m proud of you. There is no shame in getting help for yourself, enjoy your spa day💙 Blue is my favorite color also! 👍🏼

  • @rachaeldooley84
    @rachaeldooley84 2 года назад

    So proud of you for sharing with all of us! Sometimes we go through things simply to be able to relate and help others. Praying for you and our family uses your videos to get us through our hard days!!

  • @BenzSittidatgunlasin
    @BenzSittidatgunlasin 2 года назад

    You're not alone Kyle, Thank you for letting the viewers like us be part of your life, and the feeling you have shown that you are human talking about it and doing a journal definitely helps lift this feeling out of your chest too.